1 00:00:00,060 --> 00:00:02,340 S1: Hazel, it's a zero, and it's to me 2 00:00:02,340 --> 00:00:04,710 S2: and welcome back to another episode of Clematis 3 00:00:05,580 --> 00:00:09,950 S1: podcast. Today we have a special guest in the house. 4 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:15,190 S1: Welcome Visa. Thank you, girls, I'll be there soon. What 5 00:00:15,190 --> 00:00:16,300 S1: have you been up to lately? 6 00:00:16,390 --> 00:00:20,800 S3: Well, I have launched my own digital talk show online 7 00:00:21,070 --> 00:00:23,919 S3: on YouTube and Facebook, so I've been really busy with 8 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:27,670 S3: that production listing and of course, hosting it as well. 9 00:00:27,730 --> 00:00:30,380 S2: So how is life outside of the media call? 10 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:33,490 S1: Oh my goodness, I can't see it. I can't, I guess. 11 00:00:33,670 --> 00:00:34,000 S1: You know 12 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:37,570 S3: what? Like right now, it is an explosive thought. So 13 00:00:37,570 --> 00:00:40,419 S3: like I would have never imagined just five months ago 14 00:00:40,420 --> 00:00:42,729 S3: that this interview would have been have been like I 15 00:00:42,729 --> 00:00:45,010 S3: would have never imagined being out of a job that 16 00:00:45,010 --> 00:00:47,830 S3: I've been in for eight years. This has been, I mean, 17 00:00:47,860 --> 00:00:51,129 S3: mediocre has been my first and only job, and I 18 00:00:51,130 --> 00:00:53,500 S3: still love it. It's it's a part of me, but 19 00:00:53,500 --> 00:00:54,940 S3: no doubt. Oh my 20 00:00:54,940 --> 00:00:57,670 S4: god. So today we're actually going to touch on embarrassing 21 00:00:57,670 --> 00:01:00,100 S4: health conditions, and you actually went on body and soul 22 00:01:00,100 --> 00:01:03,550 S4: recently to talk about hyperhidrosis. So tell us more about it. 23 00:01:03,730 --> 00:01:04,680 S2: What is that? 24 00:01:04,810 --> 00:01:07,690 S3: So it's actually a situation or condition that you actually 25 00:01:07,900 --> 00:01:11,350 S3: have excessive sweats. So some of us, some of those 26 00:01:11,350 --> 00:01:15,820 S3: with hyperhidrosis, have excessive sweats on the armpits. OK. Right? 27 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:19,840 S3: Which thankfully, I don't. Some of this sort of defeats, 28 00:01:20,020 --> 00:01:21,580 S3: which I don't, but I do have it on my 29 00:01:21,580 --> 00:01:23,740 S3: hands and I don't have it right now. It could 30 00:01:23,740 --> 00:01:27,069 S3: be triggered by nothing, actually. So when I was growing up, 31 00:01:27,220 --> 00:01:30,009 S3: I think I had like little bits of it when 32 00:01:30,010 --> 00:01:33,789 S3: I was in lower sac. But I think it really 33 00:01:33,790 --> 00:01:37,500 S3: blew up in my when I was in my Abersoch 34 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:41,350 S3: as I'm my my schoolwork. I would have really not 35 00:01:41,350 --> 00:01:43,360 S3: just like moist palms, but 36 00:01:43,370 --> 00:01:45,550 S1: wet and dripping wet. 37 00:01:46,310 --> 00:01:48,820 S2: Squeeze your palm together. Maybe get want to 38 00:01:48,850 --> 00:01:52,930 S3: hold maybe water. And so I thought, Oh, is it 39 00:01:52,930 --> 00:01:55,540 S3: to get by something that I'm nervous about? OK. It 40 00:01:55,540 --> 00:01:59,320 S3: could be right. It happened when I was doing my 41 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:01,420 S3: schoolwork or I'm stressed out of the exam, so I 42 00:02:01,420 --> 00:02:03,430 S3: thought that was it. And so it took me years 43 00:02:03,430 --> 00:02:06,850 S3: to understand myself to understand a situation, and I think 44 00:02:06,850 --> 00:02:10,650 S3: I got very upset about this situation when I hit 18. 45 00:02:11,169 --> 00:02:13,660 S3: I will always remember when I was in my exam 46 00:02:13,660 --> 00:02:16,480 S3: hall and there was a couple of beepers and I 47 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:19,609 S3: had my green people right. I actually asked for extra 48 00:02:19,750 --> 00:02:23,260 S3: weight of beepers just so that it can bring you 49 00:02:23,260 --> 00:02:24,780 S3: in exactly in case you know. 50 00:02:26,020 --> 00:02:26,690 S1: Right? Yeah. 51 00:02:26,710 --> 00:02:29,760 S3: So that to get my anxiety that I really wanted 52 00:02:29,810 --> 00:02:32,500 S3: to just do my exams. 53 00:02:32,630 --> 00:02:34,270 S4: What if you said, do you ever feel like this 54 00:02:34,270 --> 00:02:37,300 S4: was something embarrassing to talk about when you were growing up? 55 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:41,230 S3: Of course, because you see certain friends giving you looks 56 00:02:42,100 --> 00:02:44,290 S4: like when you're when you used to date or something 57 00:02:44,290 --> 00:02:46,720 S4: before you got married, right? And then hold hands and 58 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:48,540 S4: all that. Did you ever feel that sense? 59 00:02:48,850 --> 00:02:52,030 S3: This is I. It's really hard to believe, but as 60 00:02:52,060 --> 00:02:55,600 S3: I was getting older my early 20s, that was kind 61 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:57,460 S3: of what was playing on my mind, like Homer ever 62 00:02:57,460 --> 00:03:00,850 S3: going to anyone's hands. Oh, right. And I never had 63 00:03:00,850 --> 00:03:05,290 S3: a boyfriend growing up. And then I I married the first, 64 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:08,709 S3: my first boyfriend, which is my husband right now. One 65 00:03:08,710 --> 00:03:12,310 S3: of the things that made me feel like he is 66 00:03:12,310 --> 00:03:15,280 S3: the one was so I told him, Oh, it was 67 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:17,200 S3: a casual thing was for work. I was, Oh, I 68 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,299 S3: can't hold a people because I've got really wet hands. 69 00:03:19,389 --> 00:03:23,590 S1: OK. And he was like, Oh, OK. And he never flinched. Oh, OK, 70 00:03:23,830 --> 00:03:26,980 S3: that was normal. It's not like it's really wet. 71 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:27,670 S4: This one for 72 00:03:27,669 --> 00:03:30,150 S1: keeps. Yeah, yeah, yeah. For keeps. Yeah. 73 00:03:30,460 --> 00:03:33,160 S3: Before we got serious, I said, I really wet hands 74 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:36,280 S3: and be quite disgusting to hold my hands. And he 75 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:39,940 S3: said this. I've never seen this, actually. And he 76 00:03:39,940 --> 00:03:40,920 S1: said, it's OK 77 00:03:41,380 --> 00:03:46,830 S3: holding your hand in the rain. Oh yeah, I, I've 78 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:49,000 S3: never seen it. These are because I kind of forgot 79 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:49,220 S3: about 80 00:03:49,450 --> 00:03:52,450 S1: where to find this kind of a man can call you. Yeah. 81 00:03:52,810 --> 00:03:55,990 S1: Thanks for telling me this. I I hope you listen 82 00:03:55,990 --> 00:03:59,070 S1: to this. Exactly. I love him very much to get 83 00:03:59,110 --> 00:03:59,260 S1: what 84 00:03:59,260 --> 00:04:01,840 S2: I want to know is, So what's the situation with 85 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:02,740 S2: the palms now, 86 00:04:02,950 --> 00:04:06,250 S3: OK? I have these very dry old looking heads because 87 00:04:06,250 --> 00:04:10,540 S3: I really do not like moisturizers or moisturiser. Anything that's 88 00:04:10,540 --> 00:04:11,650 S3: all you do. 89 00:04:12,220 --> 00:04:15,220 S1: No, no. Because I said, if all I do, I 90 00:04:15,220 --> 00:04:19,240 S1: live with this anymore. Yeah, but mine is not like dripping. OK, 91 00:04:19,270 --> 00:04:23,229 S1: mine is very surface and is more correct. But when 92 00:04:23,230 --> 00:04:25,510 S1: I was younger, it was worth it was wet, wet 93 00:04:25,540 --> 00:04:30,419 S1: and not wet. Weather like was more moist Koran correct. 94 00:04:30,430 --> 00:04:33,219 S1: And they know that as kids primary school, you pay 95 00:04:33,220 --> 00:04:38,790 S1: like head games, right? No, don't blame me. Then one 96 00:04:38,790 --> 00:04:41,130 S1: day I said to my father as and when he 97 00:04:41,130 --> 00:04:44,339 S1: was still around that, you know, the way you say 98 00:04:44,790 --> 00:04:48,810 S1: they send me love like cute cartoon ones. Oh my 99 00:04:48,810 --> 00:04:51,510 S3: God. I remember telling him my my dad this when 100 00:04:51,510 --> 00:04:53,690 S3: I was, so I think mine's irreversible as you were. 101 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:57,529 S3: She was very young and it got drier. Michael Winters 102 00:04:57,540 --> 00:04:59,750 S3: is getting older, so I didn't have that as a 103 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:03,060 S3: as a, as a teenager. So in all those games, 104 00:05:03,060 --> 00:05:05,729 S3: like I remember now, the college games that you have this, 105 00:05:06,690 --> 00:05:08,390 S3: you have to get like kind of like as big 106 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:08,799 S3: a kid 107 00:05:09,060 --> 00:05:11,700 S1: who you are, why must be all 108 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:14,339 S4: this crazy that something like that could cause so much 109 00:05:14,339 --> 00:05:17,190 S4: social anxiety? Because we have never experienced this right where 110 00:05:17,190 --> 00:05:19,289 S4: we are afraid to be in a social setting ourselves? 111 00:05:19,940 --> 00:05:21,950 S1: Thank you both so much. 112 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:25,200 S3: Oh yeah, because I didn't want to. You just want 113 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:30,140 S3: to explain anything you write about Waya or is it 114 00:05:30,150 --> 00:05:31,650 S3: because wire? I'm just 115 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:35,070 S2: so exhausted. When you try every single day to them this, 116 00:05:35,070 --> 00:05:37,440 S2: they see it as a very minor issue. They'll be there. 117 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:37,920 S2: Never mind. 118 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:40,610 S4: I don't know, sweaty palms you don't understand. Yeah, yeah. 119 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:43,410 S4: And I think hyperhidrosis is just one of the many, many, 120 00:05:43,410 --> 00:05:45,060 S4: you know, issues that women face 121 00:05:45,390 --> 00:05:48,450 S1: and they are considered Pisi to talk about. But we 122 00:05:48,450 --> 00:05:50,490 S1: should talk about them. It's not us who 123 00:05:50,850 --> 00:05:53,240 S4: write, is not you who would have known about hyperhidrosis. 124 00:05:53,250 --> 00:05:56,039 S3: I've never spoken about it. It's something that it's not 125 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:58,950 S3: very nice a book about, about sweating. But do you 126 00:05:59,010 --> 00:06:00,480 S1: sweat anywhere else? 127 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:02,740 S3: Well, fortunately, it's just my hands. 128 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:05,790 S1: Yeah, because for me right now, I don't sweat at 129 00:06:05,790 --> 00:06:10,490 S1: all on your face. Like, Yeah, so makeup stays forever, forever. 130 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:12,479 S1: I can shoot under the hot sun and I won't 131 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:17,790 S1: sit here. And I think it's because I said, you know, 132 00:06:18,210 --> 00:06:21,330 S1: you know, over the face for 133 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:23,430 S2: all to sit on my hands and my palms down 134 00:06:23,430 --> 00:06:26,790 S2: on my face. But also in general, hustle is very, 135 00:06:26,790 --> 00:06:30,150 S2: very bad, very hosting for some reason. And people are 136 00:06:30,779 --> 00:06:31,190 S2: loving it. 137 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:32,430 S3: Normal, right, guys, he right? 138 00:06:32,790 --> 00:06:34,890 S1: I mean, maybe it's like when you got the bicycle 139 00:06:34,890 --> 00:06:36,089 S1: and I got the vaccine. 140 00:06:36,089 --> 00:06:38,550 S4: Oh, stop it dripping sweat from my armpits and it 141 00:06:38,550 --> 00:06:39,680 S4: was dripping. I don't 142 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:42,870 S1: know. I don't know. I do know sometimes when I'm 143 00:06:42,870 --> 00:06:44,880 S1: driving right, then it will be them 144 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:46,170 S4: with like, my seat would have 145 00:06:46,650 --> 00:06:48,120 S2: seen something like, Oh 146 00:06:48,270 --> 00:06:50,159 S1: no, no. I use a lot of 147 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:52,950 S4: deodorant because of this. I don't know why, but it 148 00:06:52,950 --> 00:06:53,640 S4: could be a mile. 149 00:06:53,830 --> 00:06:56,970 S3: You see the sweating pot, the pot. I think the 150 00:06:56,970 --> 00:06:59,640 S3: men are more open to debate talking about it because 151 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:00,380 S3: men do sweat. 152 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:03,210 S1: Girls, listen. We are scared, right? We are scared. We 153 00:07:03,210 --> 00:07:03,789 S1: associate 154 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:04,920 S3: something we like all 155 00:07:05,470 --> 00:07:06,150 S1: girls you don't 156 00:07:06,150 --> 00:07:08,730 S3: have. You can't sweat. Look, we sweat. 157 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:09,660 S2: You sweat glands. 158 00:07:09,930 --> 00:07:13,320 S3: And so we take responsibility about it by putting on deodorant. 159 00:07:13,350 --> 00:07:16,420 S1: Exactly. Can you guys doing a bowl? And you guys 160 00:07:16,530 --> 00:07:18,120 S1: do the same for us? 161 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:19,890 S4: So apart from that, I think we want to discuss 162 00:07:19,890 --> 00:07:22,950 S4: some other like common awkward or embarrassing health problems. I'm 163 00:07:22,950 --> 00:07:25,170 S4: not sure if Hazy and Asura, you guys have ever 164 00:07:25,170 --> 00:07:27,330 S4: experienced anything like that that you've kept a secret. 165 00:07:27,540 --> 00:07:29,840 S1: Honestly, we've spoken about so many things. 166 00:07:30,230 --> 00:07:33,989 S2: Oh yeah, when I Hosmer beat sweat. LOL, that's about it. 167 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:35,940 S2: I'll go with you then and raise up my arms. 168 00:07:36,580 --> 00:07:38,060 S1: Yeah, that's right. 169 00:07:38,390 --> 00:07:42,090 S2: Like, especially for wearing a black top. So apart from 170 00:07:42,090 --> 00:07:44,220 S2: my initial stance on Station T, I try not to 171 00:07:44,220 --> 00:07:46,260 S2: wear black when I'm posting waxing 172 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:47,760 S1: like worsened, but 173 00:07:47,790 --> 00:07:50,250 S2: I try to go like color of sleeveless if I can, 174 00:07:50,250 --> 00:07:52,380 S2: because I know, you know, I will sweat. But that 175 00:07:52,380 --> 00:07:55,980 S2: was one time I got, Oh, I hate this yeast infection. 176 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:57,090 S1: Oh, I 177 00:07:57,090 --> 00:08:00,420 S2: hate these infections. And you know, what does up three 178 00:08:00,420 --> 00:08:02,730 S2: out of all women get it at least once in 179 00:08:02,730 --> 00:08:03,210 S2: a lifetime? 180 00:08:03,210 --> 00:08:06,300 S4: You guys got an entire me with yeast infection 181 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:08,520 S2: or your sister down there, sister 182 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:09,640 S1: vagina pins. 183 00:08:09,690 --> 00:08:14,010 S2: So is an infection. Basically, you, you feel the itch. 184 00:08:14,010 --> 00:08:16,420 S1: You feel it's still fresh thrush. Yeah. 185 00:08:16,470 --> 00:08:19,410 S2: And like, Oh, it's just so, so raw. 186 00:08:19,710 --> 00:08:21,570 S3: You just wouldn't dream about like 187 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:24,840 S2: wearing jeans at all. Like jeans like this? No, no, no. 188 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:28,070 S2: You just wear something like that. Yeah. And then cotton undies, 189 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:29,400 S2: not even the what 190 00:08:29,910 --> 00:08:32,490 S1: is to be breathable, readable. It's so embarrassing 191 00:08:32,620 --> 00:08:35,360 S4: to tell someone in my vagina. Is them itchy? Yeah. Like, 192 00:08:35,370 --> 00:08:37,790 S4: I can't be you today because I can't be. 193 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:38,819 S1: The most awkward 194 00:08:38,820 --> 00:08:41,850 S2: part is if you are walking like a crap because 195 00:08:41,850 --> 00:08:42,720 S2: you know when you're 196 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:45,870 S1: undies is just too tight or not breathable, 197 00:08:46,290 --> 00:08:48,270 S2: somehow, later to the day, you start to feel the 198 00:08:48,330 --> 00:08:50,880 S2: heat again. Oh yes, is a terrible 199 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:52,439 S3: thing for is. I'm sure. 200 00:08:52,450 --> 00:08:54,970 S2: I'm sure your eyeballs are having these infections. 201 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:57,300 S1: Yeah, I don't know what they go to Doctor. 202 00:08:57,440 --> 00:08:59,790 S2: Yeah, I'm sure that's possible for you to just rest 203 00:08:59,790 --> 00:09:02,070 S2: at home. But in all honesty, it doesn't affect the 204 00:09:02,070 --> 00:09:03,900 S2: rest of your work. It's just that you feeling very 205 00:09:03,900 --> 00:09:08,760 S2: uncomfortable and sitting down in shorts really isn't the best option. 206 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:12,520 S2: And so have we ever gotten. Is infection in our lives? 207 00:09:13,350 --> 00:09:17,100 S1: Well, I have multiple times, two times within me. One 208 00:09:17,100 --> 00:09:18,690 S1: was quite recent. Yeah, yeah, one of them 209 00:09:18,690 --> 00:09:19,650 S2: was close in just this year and 210 00:09:19,650 --> 00:09:20,770 S4: we're very hygienic people. 211 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:25,199 S1: This is a case. Yeah, it just happens. It just happens. 212 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:26,490 S1: It's about the imbalance 213 00:09:26,490 --> 00:09:28,350 S4: of the as well. It's just like 214 00:09:28,350 --> 00:09:30,330 S2: that. But I highly suspect because I think both of 215 00:09:30,330 --> 00:09:32,880 S2: us have this habit. We wear panty liners on a 216 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:36,060 S2: daily basis. We do. Yeah, so that's what you see. Yeah, 217 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:37,960 S2: cause it to be not. So, Greta, 218 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:39,319 S1: very skilled at me. You know 219 00:09:39,530 --> 00:09:41,220 S4: why Whip Eddie Linus, every day and I say, 220 00:09:41,250 --> 00:09:44,600 S1: Oh, you know, clean what she's supposed to do that. Exactly. 221 00:09:44,780 --> 00:09:45,319 S1: But today I'm 222 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:48,230 S4: wearing a period panty, but it's a thong, so it 223 00:09:48,230 --> 00:09:51,200 S4: absorbs everything and it still feels nice and clean. So 224 00:09:51,210 --> 00:09:54,979 S4: that's like my new thing instead of zero about you. 225 00:09:54,980 --> 00:09:56,689 S4: Any embarrassing health problems? 226 00:09:56,730 --> 00:10:00,290 S1: No, my thing is just painful. Yeah. You all you 227 00:10:00,290 --> 00:10:01,599 S1: die 228 00:10:01,670 --> 00:10:02,870 S2: hard is you win every trip 229 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:06,080 S1: you can be. No, you don't like what it feels like. 230 00:10:06,110 --> 00:10:09,650 S1: It feels like a burning sensation. Oh yeah. And you 231 00:10:09,650 --> 00:10:11,540 S1: just feel like peeing every once in a while. Have 232 00:10:11,540 --> 00:10:12,050 S1: you ever had that? 233 00:10:12,170 --> 00:10:15,380 S3: No, I didn't love them enough. I felt that was 234 00:10:15,380 --> 00:10:17,689 S3: when I was really young because I was holding my pee. 235 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:20,120 S1: Oh, that causes it to when you put your pills 236 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:22,850 S3: on my play could impact you. So my auntie made 237 00:10:22,850 --> 00:10:25,490 S3: me doing this like a white, white radish kind of like, 238 00:10:25,850 --> 00:10:28,250 S3: OK to kind of ease the pain. But there was 239 00:10:28,250 --> 00:10:29,870 S3: the only time I had it because I was holding 240 00:10:29,870 --> 00:10:30,309 S3: my butt. 241 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:32,059 S4: That feeling like, you know, I mean, it's like, 242 00:10:32,590 --> 00:10:34,470 S2: This is not nice, but 243 00:10:34,700 --> 00:10:34,939 S1: I just 244 00:10:34,940 --> 00:10:35,810 S3: like pee through it, 245 00:10:35,809 --> 00:10:39,480 S1: right? OK. So usually it happens to me quite often. Yeah, 246 00:10:39,500 --> 00:10:41,310 S1: I don't know whether it's because I hold my pee 247 00:10:41,330 --> 00:10:43,630 S1: old what, but because I drink a lot of water 248 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:46,449 S1: a day. So I visit very often. And sometimes it's 249 00:10:46,460 --> 00:10:50,360 S1: Dempsey and Darla. So I think maybe because of that. 250 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:52,520 S1: And then you will start feeling like, Oh, you need 251 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:54,350 S1: to pee. But then like, very little comes out and 252 00:10:54,350 --> 00:10:56,780 S1: then the. But it's very 253 00:10:57,010 --> 00:10:59,059 S3: light when you when you're doing it, you feel like 254 00:10:59,059 --> 00:10:59,540 S3: it's done 255 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:02,030 S1: it. So once you put the end of it, it's 256 00:11:02,030 --> 00:11:03,740 S4: like your vagina is being twisted 257 00:11:03,770 --> 00:11:06,110 S1: is a little, but healing 258 00:11:06,260 --> 00:11:07,640 S4: is absolutely terrible. 259 00:11:07,670 --> 00:11:08,170 S1: Yeah. 260 00:11:08,210 --> 00:11:10,700 S2: So earlier this year, there was a survey conducted by 261 00:11:10,700 --> 00:11:15,170 S2: an Australian pharmacy which asked over 1000 women aged 18 262 00:11:15,170 --> 00:11:18,230 S2: and older which health issues were just too awkward to 263 00:11:18,230 --> 00:11:21,559 S2: talk about. And I wouldn't believe what the list. It 264 00:11:21,570 --> 00:11:26,150 S2: seems like something's also common gas, bloating or constipation. Oh, 265 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:28,410 S2: the two acquittals, really? 266 00:11:28,429 --> 00:11:28,939 S1: He's always 267 00:11:28,940 --> 00:11:30,110 S4: tells us she has constipation 268 00:11:30,650 --> 00:11:30,819 S1: other. 269 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:35,209 S3: I even like my male colleague and I have a 270 00:11:35,210 --> 00:11:35,890 S3: bit of what we see. 271 00:11:35,900 --> 00:11:37,340 S1: So be it right now. 272 00:11:37,730 --> 00:11:40,340 S3: Yeah, because I I've had other problems, so that is 273 00:11:40,340 --> 00:11:41,060 S3: the least of my problems. 274 00:11:41,270 --> 00:11:46,069 S2: Yeah. And I actually fought beside my horse that led me. 275 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:48,170 S2: And I think you said that you do what 276 00:11:49,070 --> 00:11:52,400 S1: you can you and then usually, oh my god, how 277 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:53,990 S1: does the land deal versus the 278 00:11:55,460 --> 00:11:58,980 S4: gas bloating, constipation, kitty hazel? That's not suffer from the embarrassment, 279 00:11:59,090 --> 00:12:01,810 S4: which is the way it should be. OK, we're all human. 280 00:12:02,150 --> 00:12:06,680 S2: But the other one is excessive sweating the past and 281 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:08,900 S2: facial acne. OK, I don't have so much of the 282 00:12:08,900 --> 00:12:11,270 S2: facial any problem, but I do feel a bit pacey 283 00:12:11,270 --> 00:12:13,520 S2: when eliciting from armpits when it hosted and, you know, 284 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:16,970 S2: the whole eased infection issue. So this is affecting more 285 00:12:16,970 --> 00:12:19,069 S2: than 18 percent of women and 286 00:12:19,309 --> 00:12:21,740 S4: 18 percent of them said that this is very awkward 287 00:12:21,740 --> 00:12:25,130 S4: to talk about LA. Yeah, I think following that incontinence 288 00:12:25,580 --> 00:12:27,470 S4: where you hold your pee. 289 00:12:27,860 --> 00:12:29,870 S1: So some actually some some adults 290 00:12:29,870 --> 00:12:32,570 S4: have to wear diapers because of incontinence. Yeah, I think 291 00:12:32,570 --> 00:12:33,830 S4: especially if you're older in age, 292 00:12:34,490 --> 00:12:37,220 S1: which understandable rate can be 293 00:12:37,220 --> 00:12:39,410 S4: embarrassing to talk about because you would think only kids 294 00:12:39,530 --> 00:12:40,760 S1: pee the bit and stuff like that. 295 00:12:41,500 --> 00:12:45,440 S3: You can hold your your pee, right? Correct. Yeah, it happens. Yeah. 296 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:46,880 S2: If you think the last one, has this happened to 297 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:49,520 S2: any of you heavy periods, all 298 00:12:49,550 --> 00:12:50,880 S1: that we're awkward to talk about. 299 00:12:50,910 --> 00:12:53,750 S2: Yeah, apparently 15 percent of women say that this is 300 00:12:53,990 --> 00:12:54,620 S2: too awkward 301 00:12:54,620 --> 00:12:56,870 S4: to talk about. I've had friends who have let through 302 00:12:56,870 --> 00:13:00,620 S4: their uniform onto onto our male classmates chair and then 303 00:13:00,620 --> 00:13:02,179 S4: been too embarrassed as she carried the whole chat in 304 00:13:02,179 --> 00:13:02,600 S4: the toilet. 305 00:13:03,350 --> 00:13:04,709 S1: Yeah, she could 306 00:13:05,179 --> 00:13:05,690 S2: not get 307 00:13:06,260 --> 00:13:08,990 S4: this good. She was, she was. So we formed a 308 00:13:08,990 --> 00:13:09,979 S4: barricade around her 309 00:13:10,130 --> 00:13:13,400 S1: and brought her to the toilet with the chair so that, yeah, 310 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:16,040 S1: people wouldn't find out. It's so nice. Yeah, well, Czeisler, 311 00:13:16,100 --> 00:13:18,830 S1: because guys said they eat lunch today, you're bleeding, bleeding, 312 00:13:18,830 --> 00:13:20,179 S1: that kind of thing, and 313 00:13:20,210 --> 00:13:23,150 S3: you are the only secondary school age or even your 314 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:26,000 S3: college days. And then something like that happens to you. 315 00:13:26,179 --> 00:13:27,380 S3: It's a mug for life. 316 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:30,349 S1: Yeah, it's true. You're very conscious of your image, 317 00:13:30,350 --> 00:13:33,610 S3: you know, for example, what you mean with the men's problem? 318 00:13:33,620 --> 00:13:34,969 S1: Yeah, with the heavy period. Yeah. 319 00:13:36,090 --> 00:13:40,120 S3: Well, the one that made up very kind of sticks 320 00:13:40,130 --> 00:13:44,120 S3: through for life, and it's it's something that you don't 321 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:47,120 S3: want to be associated with. For Lavery, you know, it's 322 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:48,620 S3: like seeing it all and then you do and then 323 00:13:48,620 --> 00:13:51,050 S3: be like, Oh, she's so successful out. Yeah, but he 324 00:13:51,059 --> 00:13:53,570 S3: remembers you. But again, I say that 325 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:57,510 S1: you want to be defined by your medical condition. Yeah, yes. 326 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:01,319 S1: That incident for a mate and one should be a condition. 327 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:02,160 S3: Exactly. 328 00:14:02,210 --> 00:14:05,180 S4: But the scary part comes when women refuse to seek 329 00:14:05,179 --> 00:14:07,960 S4: treatment because they're embarrassed to even talk about it. Like 330 00:14:07,970 --> 00:14:10,309 S4: when I hit yeast infection for the first time, I 331 00:14:10,309 --> 00:14:11,689 S4: didn't tell anyone about it. 332 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:13,450 S1: I didn't have to as well. No, I didn't. 333 00:14:14,030 --> 00:14:16,250 S4: I didn't think she would understand. I don't know why 334 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:18,860 S4: she should. What, right? Yeah, but I just felt embarrassed. 335 00:14:18,860 --> 00:14:20,240 S4: But then when I finally told her, she was like, OK, 336 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:22,580 S4: let's go to the Guinea, get you some medication. And 337 00:14:22,580 --> 00:14:25,260 S4: that was it, right? So I think as a young teen, right, 338 00:14:25,340 --> 00:14:27,950 S4: you got to get over that. Have someone trust that 339 00:14:27,950 --> 00:14:30,200 S4: you can talk to an aunt, an older friend or 340 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:31,370 S4: a sister. Anyone. 341 00:14:32,030 --> 00:14:33,830 S2: The first time I got yeast infection, I went to 342 00:14:33,830 --> 00:14:36,530 S2: see a doctor. It was a lady, a female. The 343 00:14:36,530 --> 00:14:38,910 S2: next time I got. I knew I had to see 344 00:14:38,910 --> 00:14:41,070 S2: a doctor because it wouldn't just heal on his own. 345 00:14:41,220 --> 00:14:43,530 S2: You need medication for that, for sure. And then they 346 00:14:43,530 --> 00:14:46,410 S2: only had a male doctor there at the clinic and 347 00:14:46,410 --> 00:14:49,050 S2: I was so desperate to just get it treated. I 348 00:14:49,050 --> 00:14:53,240 S2: was like, Whatever. Let's just get on with it. So really, 349 00:14:53,250 --> 00:14:55,590 S2: you can just get over. The awkward is all in 350 00:14:55,590 --> 00:14:56,610 S2: your mind. I feel 351 00:14:56,710 --> 00:14:58,979 S1: correct. I think you feel like, you know this negative 352 00:14:58,980 --> 00:15:01,739 S1: connotations that come with these things or you feel like 353 00:15:01,740 --> 00:15:03,600 S1: you might be judged for it and things like that. 354 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:05,790 S1: But honestly, when you see the doctor, I think they 355 00:15:05,790 --> 00:15:09,780 S1: see way too many people do, even though I remember, yeah, 356 00:15:09,900 --> 00:15:10,110 S1: they 357 00:15:10,110 --> 00:15:11,970 S4: see way too many vaginas. They don't 358 00:15:11,970 --> 00:15:13,410 S1: care. They don't care. I don't 359 00:15:13,410 --> 00:15:15,750 S3: care. It happens when you get pregnant also, and you 360 00:15:15,750 --> 00:15:17,130 S3: have to spin. They have to check 361 00:15:17,130 --> 00:15:18,720 S1: because you're going to die. 362 00:15:18,750 --> 00:15:21,240 S3: My first one was, Yeah, so I had to get 363 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:21,690 S3: over that. 364 00:15:21,810 --> 00:15:23,700 S4: Oh, you felt a bit off like I did. 365 00:15:23,730 --> 00:15:28,440 S3: I didn't. And I knew that. Yes, it his job. Jason, 366 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:31,710 S3: a million. Yeah, but my second was also a meal. 367 00:15:31,710 --> 00:15:34,380 S3: And then, yeah, yeah. But then you got it. 368 00:15:34,380 --> 00:15:35,680 S1: Yeah, you get over it. OK? 369 00:15:36,110 --> 00:15:38,760 S4: Yeah. So let's talk a bit more about some women 370 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:42,270 S4: specific health issues that we shouldn't ignore. I think this 371 00:15:42,270 --> 00:15:45,900 S4: is very, very important. Actually, a 2015 study from UK 372 00:15:45,900 --> 00:15:49,410 S4: Foundation Ovarian Cancer Action found that almost half of women 373 00:15:49,420 --> 00:15:53,370 S4: 18 to 24 are scared of having intimate examinations, and 374 00:15:53,370 --> 00:15:56,130 S4: two thirds of women were too embarrassed to even say 375 00:15:56,130 --> 00:15:57,300 S4: the vagina. 376 00:15:57,330 --> 00:16:01,380 S2: Hey, there's me before harsh podcast administré vagina. But after 377 00:16:01,380 --> 00:16:03,330 S2: three seasons of Hot Spot Guys, I've lost count of 378 00:16:03,330 --> 00:16:03,750 S2: the number of 379 00:16:03,750 --> 00:16:05,670 S1: times like nobody's business 380 00:16:05,700 --> 00:16:07,380 S4: actually season one. We called it 381 00:16:07,380 --> 00:16:12,120 S1: vigor, data privacy, vagina. I see now, sister. 382 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:14,880 S3: Yeah, I feel inside the vagina. I feel like it's 383 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:18,660 S3: more like a medical term, right? Yeah. Rather than making 384 00:16:18,660 --> 00:16:18,960 S3: it look 385 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:20,450 S1: like he he he's 386 00:16:21,030 --> 00:16:23,880 S3: like, Yeah, so I would be more comfortable calling it 387 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:27,810 S3: like literally the vagina problem. But then because like he 388 00:16:27,810 --> 00:16:28,770 S3: he yeah. 389 00:16:28,770 --> 00:16:30,660 S4: But now you have kids. Do you actually tell them 390 00:16:30,660 --> 00:16:33,960 S4: the name of genitalia or because they say that you should, 391 00:16:33,990 --> 00:16:36,000 S4: you shouldn't call it like a nickname, right? 392 00:16:36,390 --> 00:16:39,210 S3: I have a mix of it. Yeah, like so I 393 00:16:39,210 --> 00:16:43,380 S3: would say this is this is the buttocks. I think 394 00:16:43,560 --> 00:16:46,020 S3: it's cool. They have like better names for it, 395 00:16:46,530 --> 00:16:48,150 S1: like they're like, 396 00:16:48,150 --> 00:16:49,530 S3: Oh, look, my butt is 397 00:16:50,410 --> 00:16:50,900 S1: all going 398 00:16:50,930 --> 00:16:54,170 S3: on this. But I will use this like virginity terms 399 00:16:54,210 --> 00:16:58,740 S3: as basically what I'm educating them about the the body rates. Yeah. 400 00:16:58,980 --> 00:17:02,010 S3: Not let anyone. But yeah, yeah. So I started really 401 00:17:02,010 --> 00:17:04,850 S3: early in all these cases, so I started really early 402 00:17:04,850 --> 00:17:07,050 S3: and no one can touch it. No one can see it. 403 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:09,510 S3: No one going to get to see. No, yeah. So 404 00:17:09,570 --> 00:17:12,300 S3: I give you a list of people who can see it. 405 00:17:12,460 --> 00:17:16,520 S3: Anyone else out of the list cannot OK because they 406 00:17:16,570 --> 00:17:17,760 S3: got to be specific, right? 407 00:17:17,790 --> 00:17:19,410 S4: This is very important, actually. Yeah, read 408 00:17:19,410 --> 00:17:22,620 S1: the thing where they said like, you should teach kids 409 00:17:22,619 --> 00:17:24,690 S1: like the actual name of it, because if anybody wants 410 00:17:24,690 --> 00:17:27,450 S1: to do anything to them, they know it's cool and 411 00:17:27,450 --> 00:17:30,300 S1: they can tell you and that person would be scared 412 00:17:30,300 --> 00:17:30,840 S1: as well. 413 00:17:30,859 --> 00:17:34,500 S3: Yeah, yeah. As you know, they're all online, right? I 414 00:17:34,500 --> 00:17:36,600 S3: don't know what they do right now. They have like 415 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:40,139 S3: your roadblocks online, you know, my calling class? 416 00:17:40,140 --> 00:17:40,980 S1: Exactly. 417 00:17:41,250 --> 00:17:43,020 S4: So there are some conditions. I think we spoke about 418 00:17:43,020 --> 00:17:46,139 S4: yeast infection that affects three or four women. There's also 419 00:17:46,140 --> 00:17:48,689 S4: excessive hair growth, which some people don't talk about, but 420 00:17:48,690 --> 00:17:51,750 S4: could be a sign of something called polycystic ovarian syndrome 421 00:17:51,750 --> 00:17:55,379 S4: because PCOS. Yeah. So it could be it could signal 422 00:17:55,380 --> 00:17:57,150 S4: a bigger problem as well. Yeah. 423 00:17:57,390 --> 00:18:00,240 S2: Do you have friends who have had excessive hair growth? 424 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:02,429 S1: What would be considered excess? 425 00:18:02,430 --> 00:18:04,230 S2: Exactly right? This objective, right? 426 00:18:04,410 --> 00:18:09,270 S3: I probably it's more reflected on your face like facial 427 00:18:09,270 --> 00:18:09,650 S3: hair is right. 428 00:18:09,750 --> 00:18:11,439 S1: Oh, especially for a lady. 429 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:14,370 S3: Yeah, I'm just thinking about like because on other parts 430 00:18:14,369 --> 00:18:15,960 S3: of your body, you give a shave or you can 431 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:19,409 S3: hide it. Yeah. But what really cause embarrassment would be 432 00:18:19,410 --> 00:18:22,740 S3: things that people can see on your hands on your face. 433 00:18:22,750 --> 00:18:24,440 S3: I have. I said, I have a friend. We have like, 434 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:27,220 S3: we have hairy heads and I go like, Oh, it's nothing. 435 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:27,510 S3: I can't 436 00:18:27,510 --> 00:18:29,430 S2: see it, but today is that it's 437 00:18:29,430 --> 00:18:32,220 S1: so do you. It's so thick and 438 00:18:32,460 --> 00:18:35,970 S3: every single time. And then the more it grows out like, Oh, 439 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:38,100 S3: I cannot, I cannot wear my short sleeve. I have 440 00:18:38,100 --> 00:18:40,650 S3: to cover it up. So did you say stuff or 441 00:18:40,650 --> 00:18:45,440 S3: did you do waxing? I think again, what media has portrayed, 442 00:18:45,460 --> 00:18:48,689 S3: what women should look like? Yeah, what attractive women has, 443 00:18:48,690 --> 00:18:53,280 S3: which is clean skin, no hair, nothing. Not even a 444 00:18:53,340 --> 00:18:56,940 S3: little bit fuzzy as these. Yeah, it's going to be clean, 445 00:18:57,060 --> 00:19:01,939 S3: like really clean, like hairless, hairless body all over. 446 00:19:02,070 --> 00:19:04,590 S4: Yeah. Sometimes when I think Instagram Stories, I'm very conscious 447 00:19:04,590 --> 00:19:07,199 S4: about the hair on my knuckles because I feel like 448 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:08,879 S4: people can see like, I never thought of it when 449 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:11,700 S4: I was young. But then suddenly I noticed in every 450 00:19:11,700 --> 00:19:13,560 S4: IG as I post. So I try to. 451 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:16,830 S1: I mean, you know, you see, 452 00:19:16,890 --> 00:19:19,560 S4: yeah, I like sometimes if it's an important shoot or whatever, 453 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:20,790 S4: or it's going to be a close up of my 454 00:19:20,790 --> 00:19:23,550 S4: head at the No. I just feel a bit embarrassed 455 00:19:23,550 --> 00:19:23,950 S4: about it. 456 00:19:24,020 --> 00:19:26,190 S3: You know, we were never thought it's a big deal. 457 00:19:26,690 --> 00:19:28,560 S3: If I see your hands and you get how it goes. 458 00:19:28,830 --> 00:19:31,080 S3: I would have no thought is a big deal. I only, 459 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:32,850 S3: I think, is your only thing is a big deal 460 00:19:32,850 --> 00:19:34,310 S3: when you have it. Yeah. Yes. 461 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:36,929 S4: And when you see on it, yeah, that's it. 462 00:19:37,490 --> 00:19:41,419 S2: Exactly. Well, this next one is interesting, though low sex 463 00:19:41,420 --> 00:19:44,120 S2: drive or no interest in sex. This may be caused 464 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:49,520 S2: by hypoactive sexual desire disorder as, according to Healthline. Women 465 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:52,280 S2: with this often have partners that they love to enjoy, 466 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:56,390 S2: but they often report feeling nothing or feeling like numb. 467 00:19:56,690 --> 00:19:59,160 S2: There is treatment for this, actually, but they can vary, 468 00:19:59,180 --> 00:20:03,530 S2: since it could arise from a number of factors, including psychological, physical, 469 00:20:03,530 --> 00:20:04,940 S2: hormonal and stuff. 470 00:20:05,130 --> 00:20:06,760 S4: Oh, this has happened to me before 471 00:20:07,030 --> 00:20:10,580 S1: we have this. No, but if you have something like this, 472 00:20:10,609 --> 00:20:13,340 S1: is it like a perpetual thing or is it can like, 473 00:20:13,340 --> 00:20:14,119 S1: come and go like this 474 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:15,410 S4: one I think can come and go. 475 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:18,619 S1: Yeah. What is it called in couples active 476 00:20:18,619 --> 00:20:22,040 S4: sexual desire disorder where you love your partner, but sometimes 477 00:20:22,100 --> 00:20:23,270 S4: you just don't feel anything. 478 00:20:23,310 --> 00:20:24,050 S1: No, but I feel 479 00:20:24,050 --> 00:20:26,330 S2: like it could be because you have been together for 480 00:20:26,330 --> 00:20:26,959 S2: a long time. 481 00:20:27,190 --> 00:20:29,180 S4: Well, I think it comes from a psychological thing because 482 00:20:29,180 --> 00:20:33,380 S4: I had depression last time and anxiety, right? You mean 483 00:20:33,380 --> 00:20:35,649 S4: the depression or the stigma, depression, depression to me about 484 00:20:35,710 --> 00:20:36,410 S4: a few years? 485 00:20:36,770 --> 00:20:38,149 S1: Is it on and off? Yeah. 486 00:20:38,270 --> 00:20:40,250 S4: Correct. Correct. I think it's going to be a lifelong 487 00:20:40,250 --> 00:20:43,310 S4: journey to face, but that could have that because I 488 00:20:43,310 --> 00:20:45,230 S4: was on anti-depressants for a while as well. 489 00:20:45,530 --> 00:20:48,500 S1: I am so proud of me for it to sit out. Know, 490 00:20:48,500 --> 00:20:49,700 S1: thank you for because I feel like 491 00:20:49,700 --> 00:20:51,560 S4: a lot of people face it, but they might not 492 00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:54,530 S4: know that, you know, they might not understand, OK, depression 493 00:20:54,530 --> 00:20:57,650 S4: could actually be a very long lasting thing, and 494 00:20:57,650 --> 00:21:01,130 S2: it can involve so many things. But this hypoactive sexual 495 00:21:01,130 --> 00:21:04,489 S2: desire disorder is only consider it a disorder if it 496 00:21:04,490 --> 00:21:06,080 S2: happens for more than six months. 497 00:21:06,109 --> 00:21:07,970 S1: Oh, OK, OK, that took so long. 498 00:21:08,100 --> 00:21:10,909 S2: Yeah, I think we know it did because we are 499 00:21:10,910 --> 00:21:13,280 S2: so used to other half. It's OK to view like 500 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:15,080 S2: nothing on every once in a while. 501 00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:15,620 S1: OK. 502 00:21:16,109 --> 00:21:16,960 S2: There's what I feel 503 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:20,030 S1: that let me play spice things up exactly clarity as 504 00:21:20,030 --> 00:21:25,520 S1: a new series of a sexologist. Oh, that's where we're going. OK. Actually, 505 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:30,680 S1: they gave us something from the episodes. Yeah, usually you're not. 506 00:21:30,730 --> 00:21:35,300 S2: Hey, OK, what about this spotting between periods? Oh, have 507 00:21:35,300 --> 00:21:36,560 S2: you girls have experienced it? 508 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:38,660 S1: I don't think so. 509 00:21:39,020 --> 00:21:41,300 S2: No, right? I think we are pretty lucky in this sense. 510 00:21:41,330 --> 00:21:41,630 S2: What about 511 00:21:41,630 --> 00:21:43,580 S4: you? I have one thing. When I was coming here 512 00:21:43,580 --> 00:21:47,110 S4: for a recording, I started spotting out of nowhere. Yeah, 513 00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:49,280 S4: I thought I was pregnant or something. 514 00:21:49,340 --> 00:21:52,250 S1: Yeah, but not a biscuit, right? Yeah, I scared. Because 515 00:21:52,250 --> 00:21:54,080 S1: why would you be the reason for 516 00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:57,260 S2: the occasional small thing can be harmless, but that happens 517 00:21:57,260 --> 00:21:59,600 S2: too often. Then you definitely want to get that checked out. 518 00:22:00,050 --> 00:22:01,040 S2: But it's only one off, right? 519 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:03,070 S1: Why not feel it was a I? 520 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:05,480 S3: Yeah, I think it's more scary if you're pregnant. 521 00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:08,310 S1: No. Unfortunately, the function of 522 00:22:08,990 --> 00:22:12,350 S3: anyone's pregnant and in they have spotting is like, OK, 523 00:22:12,350 --> 00:22:15,290 S3: I'm good regarding right now. Just go ahead and check. 524 00:22:15,290 --> 00:22:17,840 S1: Just to be sure, that's true, because actually, if you're 525 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:20,300 S1: spotting without a reason, you don't know what it is. 526 00:22:20,300 --> 00:22:23,850 S1: They say it could actually be sky. It could be pregnancy. 527 00:22:23,850 --> 00:22:29,010 S1: It could be ovarian cancer. It could be PCOS as well. Yeah, yeah. Well, 528 00:22:29,100 --> 00:22:31,670 S1: not to scare you or anything, but just say, get it. 529 00:22:31,670 --> 00:22:33,860 S4: Yeah, get it checked. It's always better to be safe. 530 00:22:34,340 --> 00:22:36,710 S4: There's also, you know, when it comes to our nipples, 531 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:39,920 S4: have you guys ever experienced nipple discharge? 532 00:22:40,260 --> 00:22:40,379 S1: I mean, 533 00:22:40,430 --> 00:22:43,790 S3: is it for women that has ever, given birth or 534 00:22:43,790 --> 00:22:45,560 S2: never? I think in general, 535 00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:48,440 S1: maybe I've never heard of it. Yeah, and bodies charge 536 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:51,710 S2: another term inverted nipples. What a hell does that mean? 537 00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:54,620 S3: Like, if it was, I heard about it. I heard 538 00:22:54,619 --> 00:22:58,189 S3: about it. Women with inverted nipples find it very difficult 539 00:22:58,190 --> 00:23:01,370 S3: to breastfeed a child, and so they blame themselves like, Oh, 540 00:23:01,369 --> 00:23:03,620 S3: why isn't he, you know, was he let you on 541 00:23:03,619 --> 00:23:04,340 S3: as well? 542 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,700 S1: I don't know how he looks like he looks 543 00:23:07,700 --> 00:23:12,590 S3: like it, but I think it's more of not being. 544 00:23:12,740 --> 00:23:15,560 S3: Is it protruding? Yeah, it's not protruding. I think it's 545 00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:16,250 S3: more flat. You need 546 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:17,720 S1: that to breastfeed, but I 547 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:20,210 S3: did it to latch on, right? Yeah. Oh, that's 548 00:23:20,210 --> 00:23:21,379 S4: a lot of nipple pictures. 549 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:27,110 S1: OK, it's more like it doesn't pop up. Oh, yeah. 550 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:31,220 S1: So it's more like a flat is flat is. Yes, OK, 551 00:23:31,380 --> 00:23:32,780 S1: he said. But as a woman, you 552 00:23:32,780 --> 00:23:34,720 S4: would feel like if you woke up, do they look like, 553 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:36,020 S4: get this a do to 554 00:23:37,109 --> 00:23:38,450 S3: I provide, you 555 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:40,580 S4: know, about all this could be a sign of breast cancer, 556 00:23:40,580 --> 00:23:41,600 S4: inverted nipples, 557 00:23:41,869 --> 00:23:42,800 S1: nipple discharge, 558 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:46,230 S4: nipple rashes? Yeah, according to the National Cancer Institute. 559 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:48,460 S1: Oh wow. So you never know. I don't know 560 00:23:48,460 --> 00:23:52,040 S3: what you let that nipple, whether it's like you could 561 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:54,320 S3: be born like that or could it happen half way 562 00:23:54,650 --> 00:23:56,720 S3: because our bodies do change all of a sudden, like 563 00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:59,350 S3: allergies happen right away? I mean, I would have thought 564 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,900 S3: it's more of a cosmetic problem rather than a sign 565 00:24:02,900 --> 00:24:05,600 S3: of the deep, deep seated problems. 566 00:24:05,750 --> 00:24:07,550 S4: This crazy there. There's so many things you know, we 567 00:24:07,550 --> 00:24:09,290 S4: don't even know. Even for Chiesa, who has gone through 568 00:24:09,290 --> 00:24:10,500 S4: childbirth and all of 569 00:24:10,500 --> 00:24:12,409 S3: the icky, I thought that was just something that the 570 00:24:12,410 --> 00:24:18,200 S3: mothers face when they are about to breast feed their children. Oh, 571 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,030 S3: there's a problem, but I think you have a really 572 00:24:20,030 --> 00:24:23,900 S3: a good doula or a good person that helps to 573 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:24,530 S3: massage 574 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:25,040 S1: you 575 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:29,080 S3: like this. You, you know you can do it. I 576 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:31,880 S3: oh my god, these are the I think we all 577 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:35,720 S3: should take more initiative. Like I didn't read about it 578 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:39,420 S3: because it didn't bother me. Right. And as long as 579 00:24:39,420 --> 00:24:42,870 S3: people bother you, it doesn't. So I'd read about it 580 00:24:42,869 --> 00:24:44,790 S3: on the so if only I had read it about 581 00:24:44,940 --> 00:24:48,300 S3: to be more compassionate about, Oh, she's going through a 582 00:24:48,300 --> 00:24:49,460 S3: very tough fight. 583 00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:50,350 S1: That's true as well. 584 00:24:50,369 --> 00:24:53,310 S2: Yeah, right? OK. But they're also actually a few conditions 585 00:24:53,310 --> 00:24:56,790 S2: that affect men, not just women. Like we mentioned, use infection. 586 00:24:56,790 --> 00:24:59,010 S2: You just know, right? So for men, I think some 587 00:24:59,010 --> 00:25:02,070 S2: of the embarrassing topics that they don't want to talk 588 00:25:02,070 --> 00:25:07,260 S2: about can involve the receding hairline, the very high for 589 00:25:07,260 --> 00:25:07,560 S2: here 590 00:25:07,710 --> 00:25:11,010 S4: women, too, like young women after childbirth actually get 591 00:25:11,670 --> 00:25:12,689 S1: along fine, right? 592 00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,820 S4: We get a transplant because of the hair loss. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 593 00:25:15,820 --> 00:25:17,189 S2: Yeah, you can get that. You can get that. You 594 00:25:17,190 --> 00:25:19,860 S2: can get your hair pulled from the rest of the 595 00:25:19,859 --> 00:25:22,379 S2: other parts of your scalp. With heat, you can transplant 596 00:25:22,380 --> 00:25:24,360 S2: them over to the front so that the hair can 597 00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:24,840 S2: grow up from the. 598 00:25:25,470 --> 00:25:27,000 S1: But if that's all right, 599 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:28,170 S2: I think it hurts it. 600 00:25:28,530 --> 00:25:31,940 S3: And, you know, both of my hands. It would be like, Yeah, 601 00:25:32,070 --> 00:25:32,340 S3: and you 602 00:25:32,340 --> 00:25:34,350 S2: have to be bought for, like, what, six months because 603 00:25:34,350 --> 00:25:36,149 S2: they have to shave off all your hair before they 604 00:25:36,150 --> 00:25:38,860 S2: can do the transplant, right? So, yeah, so the whole 605 00:25:38,859 --> 00:25:40,310 S2: world will be able to see that you have gotten 606 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:42,420 S2: it unless you stay at home or you work. You know, 607 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:44,310 S1: it's a good time now. Yeah, yeah. I'll go to 608 00:25:44,310 --> 00:25:47,030 S1: that now. OK, give me the Sheba bye bye for 609 00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:49,920 S1: six months. Is it possible for the hair to grow back? 610 00:25:50,220 --> 00:25:52,490 S2: But however long you have to go back out long, 611 00:25:52,500 --> 00:25:52,770 S2: I 612 00:25:52,770 --> 00:25:55,859 S3: see, I guess, all women we can hide behind the 613 00:25:55,859 --> 00:25:58,890 S3: fact that, oh, I give birth always postpartum hair loss. Yeah, 614 00:25:59,220 --> 00:26:02,219 S3: but for men, they don't have much reasons. Why is 615 00:26:02,220 --> 00:26:02,730 S3: it happening? 616 00:26:03,930 --> 00:26:06,510 S4: I think another thing that is something really embarrassing that 617 00:26:06,510 --> 00:26:08,280 S4: men tend to not want to talk about 618 00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:12,959 S1: is fatal erections. They know when sometimes you know your 619 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:16,859 S1: little soldier just can't get it. Go in. I mean, 620 00:26:17,020 --> 00:26:19,250 S1: like now you're still feeling a bit awkward, right? Talking 621 00:26:19,260 --> 00:26:20,369 S1: about it, right? 622 00:26:20,430 --> 00:26:22,590 S2: I don't know how you imagine going on like a 623 00:26:22,590 --> 00:26:25,530 S2: date with someone. And then, you know, things progress. And 624 00:26:25,830 --> 00:26:28,950 S2: when you are finally in beaten, you find it. I 625 00:26:28,950 --> 00:26:29,850 S2: think ain't 626 00:26:29,850 --> 00:26:32,310 S1: happening because it happened to you. No, no, no, no, no, no. 627 00:26:32,670 --> 00:26:36,000 S1: I think honestly, yeah, is not a big deal. And 628 00:26:36,210 --> 00:26:40,080 S1: I think the other person won't mind either. Like, Yeah, OK, 629 00:26:40,170 --> 00:26:43,560 S1: not happening. Not happening. But I guess guys full of 630 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:49,919 S1: pride in their performance. Yes. Or their little friend, they're horsepower. Yes, 631 00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:50,940 S1: that's right. 632 00:26:51,270 --> 00:26:54,360 S2: Then how do you engage in like sexual activity and 633 00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:57,090 S2: how do you like, have a kid in the future? 634 00:26:57,210 --> 00:26:58,110 S1: I think this is. 635 00:26:58,470 --> 00:27:01,860 S4: Yeah. Erectile dysfunction is probably sometimes like it could be 636 00:27:01,859 --> 00:27:06,899 S4: a cause of your diet, your cholesterol, smoking, diabetes, drug consumption. 637 00:27:06,900 --> 00:27:08,040 S4: It could be many different 638 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:11,430 S1: reasons only sometime. Yeah, no. 639 00:27:11,430 --> 00:27:14,250 S4: The diet that drug that people take to get an 640 00:27:14,250 --> 00:27:18,390 S4: erection starts with a v Viagra, Viagra, and then some 641 00:27:18,390 --> 00:27:19,620 S4: people take too much Viagra. 642 00:27:19,619 --> 00:27:22,050 S1: Then it doesn't go down. Oh yeah. On the other hand, 643 00:27:22,690 --> 00:27:23,580 S1: you could die. 644 00:27:23,940 --> 00:27:25,960 S3: You could do it with other blood as you seriously. 645 00:27:26,369 --> 00:27:30,000 S2: Oh yeah, an erection lasting too long. It can actually 646 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:34,020 S2: cause pain, you know, and it can require surgery and 647 00:27:34,020 --> 00:27:36,990 S2: even lead to permanent impotence if not treated in time. Well, 648 00:27:36,990 --> 00:27:37,410 S2: I 649 00:27:37,410 --> 00:27:41,790 S3: guess the stuff composition was very embarrassing because it's your privates, right? Yeah, 650 00:27:42,060 --> 00:27:44,640 S3: but I think it's whoever is facing it really has 651 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,950 S3: got to go to the doctor by himself because it 652 00:27:46,950 --> 00:27:48,900 S3: could be a bigger problem. And also to be fat 653 00:27:48,900 --> 00:27:51,840 S3: is funny as well. Because really, right now you think 654 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,480 S3: it's a no, it's no big deal. But like you see, 655 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:58,560 S3: what are your expectations like? What are you guys discussing about? Like, 656 00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:01,080 S3: if both of you own a scene of not having babies, 657 00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:04,169 S3: then that's been fine. But if she wants a baby 658 00:28:04,170 --> 00:28:06,840 S3: and you say yes and she doesn't know that, probably 659 00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,240 S3: that you kind of. I think there has to be 660 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:12,179 S3: thrashed out in the beginning of the relationship. And so. 661 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:15,060 S3: So then issues, no matter how embarrassing it is and 662 00:28:15,060 --> 00:28:18,390 S3: you have to because it's to save each other's lives 663 00:28:18,450 --> 00:28:18,890 S3: is true 664 00:28:18,910 --> 00:28:21,540 S1: by the other party as well. What would be the 665 00:28:21,540 --> 00:28:22,889 S1: best policy? If you have an 666 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,260 S4: STD, you need to be open with your partner about 667 00:28:25,260 --> 00:28:26,250 S4: this is the same thing. 668 00:28:26,670 --> 00:28:28,560 S3: I'm not sure what I mean right now, the trend 669 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,379 S3: between you and your friends, whether they do health checks 670 00:28:31,980 --> 00:28:34,950 S3: together together. What do you mean as a couple? As 671 00:28:34,950 --> 00:28:36,510 S3: a couple like, OK, we're going to get married, we're 672 00:28:36,510 --> 00:28:38,760 S3: going to go to a different level of our lives, like, 673 00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:39,300 S3: let's do a health 674 00:28:39,300 --> 00:28:40,860 S2: check, but we must be together 675 00:28:40,890 --> 00:28:43,050 S3: like this has to be together. But separately, do health 676 00:28:43,050 --> 00:28:43,800 S3: checks school? 677 00:28:44,580 --> 00:28:46,560 S2: So the same view of time, you mean? 678 00:28:46,570 --> 00:28:47,780 S1: Yeah, OK, 679 00:28:47,940 --> 00:28:50,280 S4: I should actually allow my friends don't do health checkups, 680 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:51,160 S1: but I should 681 00:28:51,180 --> 00:28:53,440 S2: like, I do it for myself, you know, like not 682 00:28:53,470 --> 00:28:55,940 S2: not to prove it to anyone that I'm OK or whatever. 683 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:57,150 S2: It's for my own health. 684 00:28:57,570 --> 00:28:59,520 S4: I finally got the first perhaps meal of my life 685 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,220 S4: thanks to hash pop. I never would have gone. I'm 686 00:29:02,220 --> 00:29:04,410 S4: 26 years old. I've never been for a pap smear. 687 00:29:05,130 --> 00:29:08,010 S4: I still haven't. Yeah, you still haven't Hazel when really? 688 00:29:08,340 --> 00:29:09,700 S4: But should go. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 689 00:29:09,700 --> 00:29:12,180 S3: Yeah, I went only because of a work already. You 690 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:15,180 S3: say to all of us because I had a program 691 00:29:15,180 --> 00:29:17,220 S3: and they were like, I'm going to offer you this 692 00:29:17,220 --> 00:29:21,600 S3: vaccination for cancer HPV. So I did it twice or 693 00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:24,550 S3: three times, right? And then go for a pap smear. Yeah, yeah, 694 00:29:24,550 --> 00:29:27,479 S3: I got it. I did it because of what reason, exactly. Yeah. 695 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:31,020 S3: And I think, like sometimes we it's it's us. We 696 00:29:31,020 --> 00:29:34,620 S3: go like, we have no time or any pain. So yeah, 697 00:29:35,130 --> 00:29:36,610 S3: we're clear, right? 698 00:29:36,630 --> 00:29:38,920 S2: But. You should really take more care of ourselves, you know, 699 00:29:39,390 --> 00:29:41,790 S2: make the time to go for a health checkup. You 700 00:29:41,790 --> 00:29:43,340 S2: never know you could save your life, you know? 701 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:48,960 S4: Definitely. Yeah. There's also premature ejaculation. OK, that you know, 702 00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:50,820 S4: a lot of guys experience that they feel like it's 703 00:29:50,820 --> 00:29:53,969 S4: a sign that they can't perform. You know, I mean, 704 00:29:53,970 --> 00:29:56,010 S4: and I think it happens to a lot of teen 705 00:29:56,010 --> 00:29:59,310 S4: boys as well because they're going through puberty right after 706 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,250 S4: experiencing these things for the first time. So that could 707 00:30:02,250 --> 00:30:05,940 S4: be dangerous as well. You could have impregnated someone with 708 00:30:05,940 --> 00:30:07,680 S4: premature ejaculation. 709 00:30:07,770 --> 00:30:10,950 S2: Another thing blood in your urine or your semen. This 710 00:30:11,190 --> 00:30:14,310 S2: can be tough to talk about, but definitely needs to 711 00:30:14,310 --> 00:30:17,450 S2: be checked out with a doctor if you're experiencing it. 712 00:30:17,460 --> 00:30:20,130 S1: That sounds worrying already. Actually, our producer, 713 00:30:20,460 --> 00:30:22,050 S4: our producer talked about this. I don't know what it's 714 00:30:22,050 --> 00:30:23,790 S4: for deciding over the name. I wish I was a 715 00:30:24,150 --> 00:30:27,810 S2: producer and producer and she mentioned this before. This is 716 00:30:27,810 --> 00:30:29,670 S2: a very interesting story that you need to hear this. 717 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,260 S3: OK? OK, I'm all. Yes. 718 00:30:31,290 --> 00:30:33,480 S4: OK, so when she was younger, dating, right? Like she 719 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:35,640 S4: would tell, this guy is like she met this guy, 720 00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:37,140 S4: as you say, like, Oh, you know, women, we bleed 721 00:30:37,140 --> 00:30:38,850 S4: every month. We have our periods and stuff like that. 722 00:30:39,060 --> 00:30:40,560 S4: And this guy was like, Oh, but men 723 00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:44,450 S1: bleep do it. So what do you what do you mean, 724 00:30:44,450 --> 00:30:46,790 S1: men lead? And he said there 725 00:30:46,790 --> 00:30:50,360 S4: were a when you know, with my semen, there's blood inside. 726 00:30:50,430 --> 00:30:53,850 S1: Oh yeah. And you thought it was normal or he didn't. 727 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:57,710 S1: You didn't know who the men are not supposed to there, 728 00:30:58,070 --> 00:31:00,350 S1: then producer. I was like, Please go see a doctor. 729 00:31:00,500 --> 00:31:02,960 S4: What else did you tell me that you believe? Month 730 00:31:03,020 --> 00:31:05,180 S4: that she knew what happened next? I think she and 731 00:31:05,180 --> 00:31:05,990 S4: I with him to break up. 732 00:31:06,150 --> 00:31:07,250 S3: We finally got the results. 733 00:31:07,460 --> 00:31:11,180 S2: You get attached. Here is a note from producer and 734 00:31:11,750 --> 00:31:14,540 S2: he didn't know it's been years. I hope he's OK now. 735 00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:16,910 S1: Oh yeah, OK, now you're OK 736 00:31:16,940 --> 00:31:19,130 S4: if you are listening to this. Let us know that 737 00:31:19,130 --> 00:31:19,890 S4: you are OK. 738 00:31:20,070 --> 00:31:23,420 S2: Yeah, OK. Last but not least, this is embarrassing for 739 00:31:23,420 --> 00:31:26,780 S2: you girls. Men boobs when a men's chest resembles a 740 00:31:26,780 --> 00:31:28,880 S2: woman's breast. Do you think that's embarrassing? 741 00:31:30,110 --> 00:31:31,430 S3: Then boobs? How big 742 00:31:31,430 --> 00:31:34,790 S1: are they? I think bigger in my bigger than Tom. 743 00:31:34,790 --> 00:31:35,780 S1: Goals last true. 744 00:31:36,050 --> 00:31:39,110 S2: It's unconventional. That's what make it a bit awkward to 745 00:31:39,110 --> 00:31:40,000 S2: look at LA. 746 00:31:40,010 --> 00:31:42,590 S3: I guess if you keep it out of sight, like 747 00:31:42,590 --> 00:31:44,180 S3: if you were to shoot over it, there's no reason 748 00:31:44,180 --> 00:31:46,550 S3: why I should be looking at your boobs right to 749 00:31:46,570 --> 00:31:49,730 S3: seem weird. Like this thing we as do right now. 750 00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:53,140 S3: Why should you be looking in my boobs up to me? 751 00:31:53,180 --> 00:31:53,810 S3: Look at my eyes. 752 00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:55,480 S1: Objectification, you know, right? 753 00:31:55,580 --> 00:31:57,380 S3: Yeah. So the same thing. I guess if they have 754 00:31:57,380 --> 00:32:00,260 S3: a shit over it, there's no problem at all. I 755 00:32:00,260 --> 00:32:01,580 S3: don't really care much about it. 756 00:32:01,670 --> 00:32:03,950 S2: Yeah, but don't you find it funny? A men has 757 00:32:03,950 --> 00:32:07,130 S2: like books resembling a woman's breasts. That's not OK, but 758 00:32:07,310 --> 00:32:10,250 S2: for some select yes, that women. Yeah, if we are 759 00:32:10,250 --> 00:32:13,510 S2: so just like we basically have nothing at all. Yeah, 760 00:32:13,580 --> 00:32:16,520 S2: it's OK. You know, it's considered sexy these days. 761 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:18,430 S4: It's like, it's like a new. 762 00:32:19,700 --> 00:32:23,510 S1: Oh, like the like, you know, like this androgynous kind 763 00:32:23,510 --> 00:32:24,500 S1: of vibe. 764 00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:28,760 S2: Stick thin this skinny butt full of attitude and says 765 00:32:29,090 --> 00:32:29,870 S2: that kind of vibe. 766 00:32:30,110 --> 00:32:31,430 S4: Oh, no wonder I have so much attitude. 767 00:32:31,460 --> 00:32:35,130 S1: We got it. You got your boobs, OK? You know, 768 00:32:35,150 --> 00:32:38,930 S1: when you don't have, you need to assess this like that. 769 00:32:39,270 --> 00:32:41,450 S3: I guess the men want things that Christina is very. 770 00:32:42,050 --> 00:32:44,600 S4: Yes, it's like excessive headgear for women. 771 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:47,300 S1: Oh, it has parallels between it. 772 00:32:47,420 --> 00:32:49,310 S3: I think it. But right now, I insist that surgery 773 00:32:49,310 --> 00:32:51,950 S3: right to kind of like the new gray hair color. 774 00:32:52,010 --> 00:32:55,100 S1: Yeah, I think have. But after that, the battle of 775 00:32:55,100 --> 00:32:59,930 S1: the saggy skin because of excess skin. After that? Yeah. Understand. Yeah. 776 00:32:59,930 --> 00:33:01,520 S1: I've seen something that really depends, 777 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,250 S2: which is the lesser of two evils for you. 778 00:33:03,740 --> 00:33:05,360 S4: Well, to all the men out there, actually, you guys 779 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,580 S4: have to go through some shit as well. Yeah, really. 780 00:33:07,580 --> 00:33:08,930 S4: We empathize with our hearts. 781 00:33:08,930 --> 00:33:09,820 S2: Go out to you, really? 782 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:11,990 S4: But did you guys know that men can also get 783 00:33:11,990 --> 00:33:15,290 S4: breast cancer? Breast cancer? Yes, right? Does that hurt? Because 784 00:33:15,290 --> 00:33:17,780 S4: this month is actually Breast Cancer Awareness Month, so we 785 00:33:17,780 --> 00:33:19,190 S4: thought that, you know, it would be important to touch 786 00:33:19,190 --> 00:33:21,950 S4: on this. Nearly 400 men are diagnosed with breast cancer 787 00:33:21,950 --> 00:33:25,610 S4: in the UK every year, and men wouldn't think like, Oh, 788 00:33:25,610 --> 00:33:27,380 S4: let me feel my breasts received as a lump. 789 00:33:27,380 --> 00:33:28,700 S1: Yeah, right, right? 790 00:33:28,970 --> 00:33:31,250 S4: They barely even feel that. Do they feel the risk? Guys, 791 00:33:31,250 --> 00:33:33,200 S4: do you guys hold your breath? 792 00:33:33,620 --> 00:33:36,020 S3: I don't. They need to do around checked out right there. 793 00:33:36,020 --> 00:33:37,100 S1: So we do. 794 00:33:37,100 --> 00:33:40,100 S3: We will not resolve this issue. 795 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:42,979 S1: Yeah, exactly. Exactly. I wouldn't even know. I wouldn't know. 796 00:33:43,010 --> 00:33:43,550 S1: I wouldn't know. 797 00:33:43,850 --> 00:33:45,800 S4: I don't know. This is why checkups are important. 798 00:33:45,930 --> 00:33:46,160 S1: Yeah. 799 00:33:46,790 --> 00:33:49,670 S2: OK, so before we end of this episode, what are 800 00:33:49,670 --> 00:33:52,370 S2: some of your thoughts to people or what are some 801 00:33:52,370 --> 00:33:53,870 S2: of the words you want to say to people who 802 00:33:53,870 --> 00:33:56,090 S2: don't want to see a doctor because they've you embarrassed 803 00:33:56,090 --> 00:33:57,650 S2: about some of the health conditions? 804 00:33:57,860 --> 00:34:01,340 S3: I think today, if anything, so as the doctor really 805 00:34:01,340 --> 00:34:03,770 S3: has no issue with you, it's just you and you, 806 00:34:03,770 --> 00:34:07,130 S3: you and you like right there. There's so much more bodies, 807 00:34:07,550 --> 00:34:10,230 S3: so much more naked bodies or whatever and at the knees, 808 00:34:10,250 --> 00:34:13,069 S3: and they just really want to help you out. And 809 00:34:13,340 --> 00:34:16,430 S3: for me, my issue is to just stop making excuses 810 00:34:16,430 --> 00:34:18,890 S3: that they have no time. Yeah, it was. My excuse 811 00:34:18,890 --> 00:34:21,920 S3: is always, I have no time. I'm too busy with 812 00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:24,020 S3: the kids and too busy with my work. I'm too 813 00:34:24,020 --> 00:34:27,440 S3: busy with stuff is actually just one day, two hours 814 00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,620 S3: of a time to get to the clinic. And then 815 00:34:30,620 --> 00:34:33,350 S3: they were just, you know, email use results. Is that fast. 816 00:34:33,650 --> 00:34:36,230 S3: So I just got to set a date my calendar 817 00:34:36,230 --> 00:34:37,939 S3: and just go for it again. 818 00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:40,040 S4: It's been a good year. I think all the wealth, 819 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,020 S4: you know, all the family, all the love in the world, 820 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:44,540 S4: your health is still the most important. You need to 821 00:34:44,540 --> 00:34:46,220 S4: take care of yourself before you can take care of 822 00:34:46,219 --> 00:34:49,040 S4: your whole family. You're right, you know? Yeah, so definitely. 823 00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:51,410 S4: I mean, if you're listening in guys or girls alike, 824 00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:53,960 S4: please go and check it out. Whatever that you're feeling, 825 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:56,629 S4: I mean, you can google it first just to understand 826 00:34:56,630 --> 00:34:57,620 S4: what it could be. 827 00:34:57,650 --> 00:35:00,230 S1: Honestly, Google is scary. The minute you Google it, they 828 00:35:00,230 --> 00:35:02,510 S1: tell you that you're dying and you're not dying next week, 829 00:35:02,510 --> 00:35:04,509 S1: you're dying tomorrow. Mind you, yeah, 830 00:35:04,820 --> 00:35:06,709 S3: if I know is better, because when you Google right, 831 00:35:06,860 --> 00:35:09,230 S3: I try to look at Google. All the answers that 832 00:35:09,230 --> 00:35:10,710 S3: come from southern hospitals 833 00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:12,130 S1: are legit websites, 834 00:35:12,140 --> 00:35:14,660 S3: right? Other than your, you know, some 835 00:35:14,690 --> 00:35:17,940 S1: hotel room or whatever? Yeah, I do. 836 00:35:17,989 --> 00:35:21,000 S3: Yeah, because actually, it sounds like you are both right? Yeah. 837 00:35:21,469 --> 00:35:24,739 S2: No. But I want to say, don't be embarrassed. Be 838 00:35:24,739 --> 00:35:27,820 S2: curious instead. You know, just keep looking up reading up 839 00:35:27,830 --> 00:35:31,340 S2: more information. Talk to your doctors, talk to your Guyanese 840 00:35:31,340 --> 00:35:34,219 S2: wherever and just find out what you're experiencing. Exactly. 841 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:36,920 S4: And if you're a bit embarrassed to see a male doctor, 842 00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:38,570 S4: I mean, there are plenty of female doctors. 843 00:35:39,140 --> 00:35:42,160 S3: Exactly. And I think that to be really transparent. The 844 00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:44,270 S3: doctor will well that if you're going to see him 845 00:35:44,270 --> 00:35:47,630 S3: for a problem and then this the frequency that you 846 00:35:47,630 --> 00:35:50,089 S3: want you want to share just have to be real 847 00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:53,720 S3: friends with the frequency of your problems so they can 848 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,540 S3: be really arrested. That problem, then then definitely. 849 00:35:56,930 --> 00:35:58,520 S1: I think if you have any sort of problem, it 850 00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:01,310 S1: could lead to a bigger thing. So like, get it checked, 851 00:36:01,310 --> 00:36:03,650 S1: you know, just don't brush it off. And if you 852 00:36:03,650 --> 00:36:05,660 S1: are embarrassed to talk about it for your friends, for example, 853 00:36:05,660 --> 00:36:07,700 S1: although we don't see a reason why you should be. 854 00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:10,340 S1: But if you are, at least you shouldn't be embarrassed 855 00:36:10,340 --> 00:36:13,010 S1: if your doctor, because honestly, I feel like they're too tired. 856 00:36:13,130 --> 00:36:15,560 S1: They have no time to make judgments on you. They've 857 00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:17,120 S1: seen it all. Yeah, they've seen it. 858 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:18,400 S3: Everything, definitely. 859 00:36:18,460 --> 00:36:21,200 S4: David was so don't wait on your health if you 860 00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:23,330 S4: let it go. You know, the longer that it goes 861 00:36:23,330 --> 00:36:25,610 S4: on for your medical costs, go up the because it 862 00:36:25,610 --> 00:36:28,570 S4: gets serious, right? And also, I want to appeal to everyone. 863 00:36:28,580 --> 00:36:30,229 S4: On the flip side of it, if you are not 864 00:36:30,230 --> 00:36:33,170 S4: facing these problems, have empathy, you know, have kindness and 865 00:36:33,170 --> 00:36:34,730 S4: understanding for the people that 866 00:36:34,730 --> 00:36:35,630 S2: are fully 867 00:36:35,630 --> 00:36:38,960 S3: agree and don't pass on like unkind remarks or judgmental remarks. 868 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:41,480 S3: Or you are facing this because probably you are like 869 00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:44,120 S3: eating too much of these or like you're doing too 870 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:46,940 S3: much of these, you just have no idea they're not 871 00:36:46,940 --> 00:36:50,540 S3: doing anything against. You get everybody's body is different. Like 872 00:36:50,540 --> 00:36:52,210 S3: you were saying earlier on, you mean that you had that. 873 00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:55,160 S3: What do you think? And you're very hygienic. So who's 874 00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:58,040 S3: to say, I'm not having it because you're more hygienic? 875 00:36:58,370 --> 00:37:02,779 S3: I am right. So don't pass judgment to to show 876 00:37:02,780 --> 00:37:03,860 S3: that you're the better person. 877 00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:07,310 S2: With that, I hope that all listeners have learned something 878 00:37:07,310 --> 00:37:12,200 S2: from this episode of Clarity. OK, so once again, my 879 00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:13,739 S2: name is Hazel a zero. 880 00:37:13,790 --> 00:37:16,790 S1: I'm Jimmy. Thank you so much, visa for joining us today. 881 00:37:16,820 --> 00:37:19,520 S1: Thank you. And make sure you catch body 882 00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:22,700 S4: and soul as well on hyperhidrosis. Very important to know 883 00:37:22,700 --> 00:37:22,969 S4: about 884 00:37:23,210 --> 00:37:27,380 S3: it is on my watch. It's actually released last 27 September, 885 00:37:27,380 --> 00:37:29,270 S3: so just call it up and you will see that 886 00:37:29,390 --> 00:37:32,069 S3: episode of Happy Hour addresses Abby with Joshua and Leahy. 887 00:37:32,180 --> 00:37:33,460 S1: All right. 888 00:37:33,469 --> 00:37:37,550 S2: And also, don't forget to follow us on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, listen, 889 00:37:37,550 --> 00:37:39,589 S2: and 10 on your push notification. 890 00:37:39,620 --> 00:37:42,320 S1: That's right, if you prefer to watch individuals on YouTube 891 00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:44,870 S1: as well, it's practical. You can call them in with 892 00:37:44,870 --> 00:37:46,700 S1: what you think you want to see us talk about 893 00:37:46,700 --> 00:37:47,509 S1: and things like that. 894 00:37:47,540 --> 00:37:49,370 S2: All right, we'll catch you next episode by.