1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,300 Speaker 1: Hi hazel and 2 00:00:02,300 --> 00:00:04,350 Speaker 2: welcome back to another episode of calamities. 3 00:00:06,700 --> 00:00:09,540 Speaker 2: You know, girls with the travel restrictions are easing up. 4 00:00:09,550 --> 00:00:13,190 Speaker 2: So many people are traveling. Including yourself. Yeah. And I 5 00:00:13,190 --> 00:00:14,570 Speaker 2: think this is a very, very good time for us 6 00:00:14,570 --> 00:00:16,870 Speaker 2: to talk about this topic. Do you girls think that 7 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:19,690 Speaker 2: traveling together with friends ruined friendships? 8 00:00:19,700 --> 00:00:24,029 Speaker 1: Not necessarily. But I can see how it might because 9 00:00:24,030 --> 00:00:27,330 Speaker 1: traveling is stressful. Right? Yes. I think it's the same 10 00:00:27,330 --> 00:00:29,790 Speaker 1: concept as you don't really know someone until you live 11 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:30,430 Speaker 1: with them, right? 12 00:00:30,455 --> 00:00:33,275 Speaker 1: So when you travel then you discover things that you know, 13 00:00:33,275 --> 00:00:35,485 Speaker 1: maybe good, maybe bad, maybe ugly. 14 00:00:35,495 --> 00:00:38,215 Speaker 2: I feel like it makes a very good travel companion. 15 00:00:38,225 --> 00:00:40,595 Speaker 2: I feel like she's very easygoing. Actually, both of you 16 00:00:40,595 --> 00:00:42,935 Speaker 1: are very easy going and get what you mean about 17 00:00:42,935 --> 00:00:47,365 Speaker 1: zero because we've traveled once together and Azura is just 18 00:00:47,375 --> 00:00:51,025 Speaker 1: very easy going. The only thing, the only thing is 19 00:00:51,025 --> 00:00:53,085 Speaker 1: she takes too long to get ready. 20 00:00:53,095 --> 00:00:54,210 Speaker 2: That's the only thing. 21 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 2: So did it cause any like conflict. No, 22 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:00,940 Speaker 1: because when I nag at her, I'm like hurry up, 23 00:01:00,940 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 1: I'm going to leave without you. She doesn't get mad. 24 00:01:03,210 --> 00:01:08,370 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's why she's so easygoing. Okay and 25 00:01:08,370 --> 00:01:09,010 Speaker 2: they still take her own, 26 00:01:10,350 --> 00:01:11,619 Speaker 2: I'm there to get mad at. 27 00:01:12,100 --> 00:01:15,759 Speaker 1: But I've also seen online, right? I've also seen online 28 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:19,569 Speaker 1: that if you're still friends after the end of a trip, 29 00:01:19,580 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: that means your real 30 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:23,190 Speaker 2: friends. 31 00:01:23,550 --> 00:01:26,850 Speaker 2: So we went to l. a late 2021 for like 32 00:01:26,850 --> 00:01:28,830 Speaker 2: a week together and then they continued the trip and 33 00:01:28,830 --> 00:01:31,530 Speaker 2: I came back home to work. But anyways like after 34 00:01:31,530 --> 00:01:36,119 Speaker 2: that trip I felt like I really understood another aspect 35 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:38,030 Speaker 2: of my girls, like another side of them 36 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 1: understand, I think I saw a different side of you 37 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:40,869 Speaker 1: guys on the trip. 38 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 2: It's so crazy because it's so different from how we 39 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:45,580 Speaker 2: used to hang out in Singapore. Like I totally went 40 00:01:45,580 --> 00:01:47,510 Speaker 2: on the trip thinking that this would be like an 41 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:49,639 Speaker 2: extended version of us like in Singapore, just that we 42 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 2: have more fun. 43 00:01:50,540 --> 00:01:53,220 Speaker 2: But to my surprise it was completely different. Remember there 44 00:01:53,220 --> 00:01:56,570 Speaker 2: was one night in our Airbnb, that little nicotine, 45 00:01:56,580 --> 00:01:59,110 Speaker 1: you know where I slept many times, right, right, right, 46 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:02,790 Speaker 1: right outside in the dirt by the way, in the cold. Yes, 47 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:05,350 Speaker 2: my goodness. So I remember there was one night actually 48 00:02:05,350 --> 00:02:08,650 Speaker 2: put aside and said, I feel like the dynamics are 49 00:02:08,650 --> 00:02:11,820 Speaker 2: a bit weird, it's not bad, dynamics is just something 50 00:02:11,820 --> 00:02:14,700 Speaker 2: so different from like how we used to hang out 51 00:02:14,700 --> 00:02:17,540 Speaker 2: in Singapore and I just felt like I needed some 52 00:02:17,540 --> 00:02:18,260 Speaker 2: time away 53 00:02:18,419 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 2: and you know when I told my girls about this, 54 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,340 Speaker 2: they were like go go whatever you want to do, go. 55 00:02:22,340 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 2: So I went for my dance classes, I went cafe 56 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:28,740 Speaker 2: hopping and I feel like the key to being still 57 00:02:28,740 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 2: friends when you're away overseas is to have your own 58 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:32,649 Speaker 2: personal space. 59 00:02:32,660 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 1: I actually really agree because each of us took our 60 00:02:35,250 --> 00:02:37,150 Speaker 1: own time to go do our own things and then 61 00:02:37,150 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: come back to 62 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:39,730 Speaker 1: as a group and we're hanging out with other people 63 00:02:39,730 --> 00:02:42,360 Speaker 1: as well. So I think when you really want to 64 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: strictly follow an itinerary and everybody has to be like 65 00:02:45,490 --> 00:02:47,940 Speaker 1: oh 9 10, wake up 10 o'clock leave. That's when 66 00:02:47,940 --> 00:02:50,139 Speaker 1: a lot of friction happens for me right? When I 67 00:02:50,139 --> 00:02:52,329 Speaker 1: think of L. A. I always think of it as 68 00:02:52,340 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 1: the house is completely dysfunctional but it functioned perfectly. 69 00:02:57,300 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 1: It was dysfunctional. But we worked so well because I 70 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,180 Speaker 1: think what I remember of it right and what I 71 00:03:02,180 --> 00:03:04,850 Speaker 1: loved about it the most was that we were so 72 00:03:04,860 --> 00:03:06,910 Speaker 1: okay with doing our own things like you want to 73 00:03:06,910 --> 00:03:08,740 Speaker 1: do this okay. Oh I want to go out you 74 00:03:08,740 --> 00:03:12,010 Speaker 1: want to sleep? Okay? Yeah I'll see you later at 75 00:03:12,010 --> 00:03:13,910 Speaker 1: six and then zero will be heading out to the 76 00:03:13,910 --> 00:03:15,570 Speaker 1: outlets and then six am 77 00:03:15,570 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 2: I by the 78 00:03:15,970 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: way will be going to a cafe. 79 00:03:19,770 --> 00:03:21,940 Speaker 2: Good morning. 80 00:03:25,500 --> 00:03:28,139 Speaker 2: Well I think we can all agree that our travel 81 00:03:28,139 --> 00:03:30,010 Speaker 2: companion can make or break a 82 00:03:30,010 --> 00:03:31,370 Speaker 1: trip. Are there 83 00:03:31,370 --> 00:03:34,570 Speaker 2: any other like experiences that you've had where you felt 84 00:03:34,570 --> 00:03:36,990 Speaker 2: like that trip was really really rude for you? 85 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:40,230 Speaker 1: Oh I mean I've had trips before where you go 86 00:03:40,230 --> 00:03:42,660 Speaker 1: in a big group of like what 10 people right? 87 00:03:42,670 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 1: And everybody wants to stick together at all times and 88 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: that's very difficult but some people have different expectations of 89 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 1: the trip and then 90 00:03:49,450 --> 00:03:51,230 Speaker 1: that makes it very stressful and I think at the 91 00:03:51,230 --> 00:03:53,270 Speaker 1: end of the day I was so tired from just 92 00:03:53,270 --> 00:03:56,070 Speaker 1: trying to organize everyone and stay with everyone during the 93 00:03:56,070 --> 00:03:56,550 Speaker 1: whole trip. 94 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:59,230 Speaker 2: Oh man that's so tiring. You know I think trips 95 00:03:59,230 --> 00:04:01,790 Speaker 2: are meant for you to relax and have fun recharge 96 00:04:01,790 --> 00:04:03,260 Speaker 2: but sometimes it just doesn't happen that 97 00:04:03,260 --> 00:04:04,190 Speaker 1: way. What 98 00:04:04,190 --> 00:04:05,350 Speaker 2: about for you? I used 99 00:04:05,350 --> 00:04:09,070 Speaker 1: to feel like I'm a little bit difficult to travel with. 100 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:10,550 Speaker 1: I used to think that 101 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:11,810 Speaker 2: you're totally not big. 102 00:04:11,820 --> 00:04:13,380 Speaker 1: Yeah 103 00:04:14,370 --> 00:04:17,870 Speaker 1: And then there was one time I remember it was 104 00:04:17,870 --> 00:04:21,910 Speaker 1: like maybe I was 1718 or something like that. I 105 00:04:21,910 --> 00:04:24,850 Speaker 1: had gone on a trip to perform overseas basically. So 106 00:04:24,850 --> 00:04:25,100 Speaker 1: I was in 107 00:04:25,100 --> 00:04:26,190 Speaker 2: Thailand for two weeks and 108 00:04:26,190 --> 00:04:29,169 Speaker 1: then I had a roomy for two weeks and I 109 00:04:29,170 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 1: was like what's called a 110 00:04:30,455 --> 00:04:33,665 Speaker 1: it's like we cannot our friendship will not survive this 111 00:04:34,005 --> 00:04:36,815 Speaker 1: already because like two weeks you know? But I came 112 00:04:36,815 --> 00:04:41,835 Speaker 1: out of that with nothing as in we were no fights, 113 00:04:41,835 --> 00:04:46,535 Speaker 1: no nothing. Like it went perfect. I'm not so bad 114 00:04:47,930 --> 00:04:50,770 Speaker 2: because you were accommodating because she also 115 00:04:50,770 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 1: took a step back. I like 116 00:04:51,930 --> 00:04:53,210 Speaker 2: to take 117 00:04:53,210 --> 00:04:55,540 Speaker 1: my own time and then I like to you know 118 00:04:55,540 --> 00:04:57,070 Speaker 1: sometimes I just get in the room and I just 119 00:04:57,070 --> 00:05:00,220 Speaker 1: shut off right? But then I think some people might 120 00:05:00,220 --> 00:05:02,450 Speaker 1: think that it's like why like that you know that 121 00:05:02,450 --> 00:05:04,630 Speaker 1: kind of thing. But that was when I realized that 122 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:07,910 Speaker 1: oh it's normal and that people can work with that 123 00:05:07,910 --> 00:05:09,910 Speaker 1: and that they're okay with that because when we're together 124 00:05:09,910 --> 00:05:11,750 Speaker 1: we're together we're not we're not right. 125 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:14,790 Speaker 2: Yes but if you find the right people or the 126 00:05:14,790 --> 00:05:17,219 Speaker 2: right person to travel with or be roomies with love, 127 00:05:17,220 --> 00:05:20,810 Speaker 1: correct, correct, correct. But I feel like eventually now I 128 00:05:20,810 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: used to be very picky like I used to be 129 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:24,150 Speaker 1: very scared like wow can travel or not that kind 130 00:05:24,150 --> 00:05:27,390 Speaker 1: of thing you know? But then because I am so 131 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:31,490 Speaker 1: now right I'm like whatever goes I really don't mind. 132 00:05:31,500 --> 00:05:34,919 Speaker 1: So I feel like most people I would be okay. 133 00:05:34,930 --> 00:05:35,580 Speaker 1: I think the key 134 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 1: to go in without expectations because when you have super 135 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:42,630 Speaker 1: high expectations of your friends of the trip then that's 136 00:05:42,630 --> 00:05:43,540 Speaker 1: when you get let down. 137 00:05:43,550 --> 00:05:46,219 Speaker 2: But a lot of times these expectations come before the 138 00:05:46,220 --> 00:05:48,510 Speaker 2: trip even happened. So there was one time I went 139 00:05:48,510 --> 00:05:50,700 Speaker 2: to shanghai with my J. C. Friends and there are 140 00:05:50,700 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 2: people who wake up very early. I'm talking like 67 A. M. 141 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:56,929 Speaker 2: Isn't that you know I don't wake up that early. 142 00:05:56,940 --> 00:05:58,529 Speaker 1: She's not imagine they 143 00:05:58,529 --> 00:05:59,409 Speaker 2: are like like 144 00:05:59,420 --> 00:06:02,150 Speaker 2: they work in the education like industry. That's why they 145 00:06:02,150 --> 00:06:04,489 Speaker 2: have to wake up illegal for their classes. So when 146 00:06:04,490 --> 00:06:06,990 Speaker 2: we went to shanghai they told us previously like private 147 00:06:06,990 --> 00:06:08,580 Speaker 2: to the trip that they would like to make the 148 00:06:08,580 --> 00:06:10,280 Speaker 2: most out of the day. They want to wake up 149 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:14,469 Speaker 2: at seven a.m. Go to Disneyland, whatever whatever whatever everything 150 00:06:14,470 --> 00:06:17,589 Speaker 2: and maybe sleep by like nine p.m. So this is 151 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:21,100 Speaker 2: communicated that's why I said okay no problem, let's go 152 00:06:21,100 --> 00:06:24,180 Speaker 2: ahead with it. But remember there was one day all 153 00:06:24,180 --> 00:06:27,040 Speaker 2: of us were running a little late and we had 154 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:28,099 Speaker 2: to catch this train 155 00:06:28,420 --> 00:06:31,630 Speaker 2: that was leaving at 6 43 am my goodness, it 156 00:06:31,630 --> 00:06:34,700 Speaker 2: was so, so stressful. We left and then they said 157 00:06:34,710 --> 00:06:37,090 Speaker 2: hey you're the most party of us. You run, you 158 00:06:37,089 --> 00:06:38,690 Speaker 2: run and catch the train and holding back for a bit. 159 00:06:38,700 --> 00:06:42,020 Speaker 2: And I ran and I was in this very beautiful 160 00:06:42,029 --> 00:06:45,010 Speaker 2: long dress and I tripped, 161 00:06:45,035 --> 00:06:47,214 Speaker 2: I stepped on the hem of my dress and I 162 00:06:47,214 --> 00:06:50,114 Speaker 2: tripped and I fell in the middle of the shanghai 163 00:06:50,125 --> 00:06:55,505 Speaker 2: train station. It wasn't painful, it wasn't very embarrassing because 164 00:06:55,505 --> 00:06:57,964 Speaker 2: nobody knew me but at that moment I just felt 165 00:06:57,975 --> 00:07:00,915 Speaker 2: so bad like my day started off on such a 166 00:07:00,925 --> 00:07:04,275 Speaker 2: bad note and I just felt like crying, I mean 167 00:07:04,275 --> 00:07:06,805 Speaker 2: we caught the train in the end. Yeah we all 168 00:07:06,805 --> 00:07:08,114 Speaker 2: ran for it but in the 169 00:07:08,115 --> 00:07:10,725 Speaker 1: end she would just missed the train and the next 170 00:07:10,725 --> 00:07:13,835 Speaker 1: one but I've got some more. 171 00:07:14,090 --> 00:07:15,730 Speaker 2: There we go. 172 00:07:15,740 --> 00:07:18,430 Speaker 1: I can understand in that moment like there's so much 173 00:07:18,430 --> 00:07:20,820 Speaker 1: pressure everyone is on you to catch the train like 174 00:07:20,830 --> 00:07:23,780 Speaker 1: you look like you're about to cry right now. 175 00:07:24,990 --> 00:07:27,780 Speaker 2: It's very funny on hindsight like we are still very 176 00:07:27,780 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 2: good friends, you know they say like sorry sorry, you 177 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:32,650 Speaker 2: know the kind of like we get up earlier like 178 00:07:32,650 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 2: next time but on the other hand I also want 179 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:38,230 Speaker 2: to mention about my summer school experience in Korea. So 180 00:07:38,230 --> 00:07:40,900 Speaker 2: I went to summer school with one of my friends, 181 00:07:40,910 --> 00:07:42,210 Speaker 2: her name is India, 182 00:07:42,230 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 2: I've mentioned to you girls as well, we didn't begin 183 00:07:46,330 --> 00:07:49,110 Speaker 2: off as very close friends initially. So when I knew 184 00:07:49,110 --> 00:07:50,970 Speaker 2: that we were going to Korea for summer school together 185 00:07:50,970 --> 00:07:53,550 Speaker 2: and placed in the same dorm as like roomies, I 186 00:07:53,550 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 2: was legit scared about that treat for the entire month. 187 00:07:56,970 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 2: I'll be like, oh my gosh, I'm dreading it. I'm 188 00:07:58,920 --> 00:07:59,470 Speaker 2: dreading it. 189 00:07:59,620 --> 00:08:02,650 Speaker 2: But when that tree actually came and we spent like 190 00:08:02,660 --> 00:08:06,170 Speaker 2: a good six weeks together, we emerge like even closer 191 00:08:06,170 --> 00:08:08,650 Speaker 2: than before and now she's one of the bestest friends 192 00:08:08,650 --> 00:08:11,260 Speaker 2: in my life. I feel like sometimes in the trip, right, 193 00:08:11,260 --> 00:08:13,900 Speaker 2: we can really see how this person cares for you. 194 00:08:13,910 --> 00:08:16,670 Speaker 2: Like for her, she really sets aside her own agenda 195 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:19,210 Speaker 2: to like take care of me and make sure that 196 00:08:19,210 --> 00:08:20,770 Speaker 2: I'm okay. I was sick one time 197 00:08:20,786 --> 00:08:23,546 Speaker 2: time and she had some pills with her and she 198 00:08:23,556 --> 00:08:26,596 Speaker 2: offered them to me like, so generous, so nice. So 199 00:08:26,596 --> 00:08:28,526 Speaker 2: I feel like this can really go both ways. 200 00:08:28,536 --> 00:08:31,006 Speaker 1: It really can, it's a make or break really traveling 201 00:08:31,006 --> 00:08:32,276 Speaker 1: when it comes to friendships. 202 00:08:32,285 --> 00:08:34,336 Speaker 2: Okay, so enough of our own experiences, we want to 203 00:08:34,336 --> 00:08:36,996 Speaker 2: share some experience that our producers here 204 00:08:36,996 --> 00:08:38,195 Speaker 1: have told 205 00:08:38,196 --> 00:08:41,236 Speaker 2: us. Okay. So one of our producers once went to 206 00:08:41,236 --> 00:08:41,936 Speaker 2: bali with 207 00:08:41,952 --> 00:08:44,122 Speaker 2: one of her best friends who hates the sun, but 208 00:08:44,122 --> 00:08:47,242 Speaker 2: they're going to bali so they spend the friends spend 209 00:08:47,242 --> 00:08:50,032 Speaker 2: the entire tree trying to crawl under every shade that 210 00:08:50,032 --> 00:08:50,452 Speaker 2: she can 211 00:08:50,462 --> 00:08:51,641 Speaker 1: find. So 212 00:08:51,642 --> 00:08:54,292 Speaker 2: the other friends, they're all very accommodating. People also try 213 00:08:54,292 --> 00:08:56,661 Speaker 2: to like, you know, ask her if she's okay and everything, 214 00:08:56,662 --> 00:09:00,732 Speaker 2: but her behavior really made them feel very uncomfortable because 215 00:09:00,732 --> 00:09:02,642 Speaker 2: they knew that she wasn't enjoying the trip because of 216 00:09:02,642 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 2: the sun. 217 00:09:03,340 --> 00:09:06,010 Speaker 2: But there's still BFFs now and there's still plenty of 218 00:09:06,010 --> 00:09:08,860 Speaker 2: places they can go without the sun. So all school, 219 00:09:08,870 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 1: that's right. So even the location that you go to, 220 00:09:11,370 --> 00:09:13,860 Speaker 1: you have to see the dynamic of the group and 221 00:09:13,860 --> 00:09:16,059 Speaker 1: like where you guys are best suited for like if 222 00:09:16,059 --> 00:09:18,230 Speaker 1: you guys hate the cold, like one person really hates 223 00:09:18,230 --> 00:09:19,970 Speaker 1: the cold and you go to a super cool country 224 00:09:19,980 --> 00:09:20,679 Speaker 2: like Iceland 225 00:09:20,710 --> 00:09:25,709 Speaker 1: like mad. Right? Right, Okay. So next one she says 226 00:09:25,710 --> 00:09:28,630 Speaker 1: self confession. Oh this one like same, same. 227 00:09:29,309 --> 00:09:32,200 Speaker 1: She says I'm very vain and I love to dress up, 228 00:09:32,210 --> 00:09:35,250 Speaker 1: especially when I go overseas. This hasn't been an issue 229 00:09:35,250 --> 00:09:37,580 Speaker 1: when I traveled with friends who are more flexible and 230 00:09:37,580 --> 00:09:39,819 Speaker 1: who are similar, right? But there was this one time 231 00:09:39,820 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 1: she said she travel with her girlfriends who are very different. 232 00:09:43,290 --> 00:09:45,870 Speaker 1: They can leave the hotel with no makeup, they can 233 00:09:45,870 --> 00:09:47,900 Speaker 1: point t shirt and jeans and leave and she obviously 234 00:09:47,900 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 1: doesn't want to go out like that, right? And every 235 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,220 Speaker 1: day of the trip she was made to feel like 236 00:09:52,220 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 1: she was a burden for taking longer 237 00:09:56,020 --> 00:09:59,309 Speaker 1: and then they never went on another trip together again. 238 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:02,610 Speaker 1: Oh no I understand that. Like if my friend asked 239 00:10:02,610 --> 00:10:04,230 Speaker 1: me like let's go hiking 240 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 2: actually 241 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:08,530 Speaker 1: we did that one should we all just just said 242 00:10:08,530 --> 00:10:11,429 Speaker 1: that we did not go and hike really. 243 00:10:12,290 --> 00:10:14,680 Speaker 1: But I understand that because I mean when you're on 244 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:16,140 Speaker 1: a holiday you want to go out and take nice 245 00:10:16,140 --> 00:10:18,590 Speaker 1: pictures but if your friends are not inclined to do 246 00:10:18,590 --> 00:10:21,309 Speaker 1: so naturally you feel like you're dragging everyone 247 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:23,929 Speaker 2: down a bit. I feel like it's okay for our 248 00:10:23,929 --> 00:10:25,429 Speaker 2: friends to feel like they want to go out there 249 00:10:25,429 --> 00:10:28,440 Speaker 2: make up you know because finally overseas nobody knows them 250 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:31,370 Speaker 2: go out however they want but then you will just 251 00:10:31,370 --> 00:10:32,470 Speaker 2: have to wake up early a lot. 252 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:34,710 Speaker 1: If it makes you uncomfortable then just don't choose to 253 00:10:34,710 --> 00:10:36,570 Speaker 1: go on trips with. You know these people that you 254 00:10:36,570 --> 00:10:38,010 Speaker 1: can hang out with them, you can still be friends 255 00:10:38,020 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 1: in Singapore, Singapore, choose who you travel with carefully. 256 00:10:42,040 --> 00:10:44,610 Speaker 1: Okay we have the next story. So this one I 257 00:10:44,610 --> 00:10:46,980 Speaker 1: can really relate to because something similar happened to me. 258 00:10:46,990 --> 00:10:48,910 Speaker 1: So one of our producers says I traveled with a 259 00:10:48,910 --> 00:10:51,070 Speaker 1: group of very very close friends and during the trip 260 00:10:51,070 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 1: one of them got an infection. It was an urgent 261 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:56,610 Speaker 1: situation and she clearly needed to get it checked but 262 00:10:56,610 --> 00:10:59,630 Speaker 1: everyone seemed very nonchalant about it. Like everyone didn't really 263 00:10:59,630 --> 00:11:02,090 Speaker 1: care or was too busy with their own things and 264 00:11:02,090 --> 00:11:04,449 Speaker 1: didn't want to help her and that made our producer 265 00:11:04,470 --> 00:11:06,860 Speaker 1: very angry. So I ended up taking their friend to 266 00:11:06,860 --> 00:11:09,780 Speaker 1: the hospital while the rest of them carried on with 267 00:11:09,780 --> 00:11:10,790 Speaker 1: their plans. 268 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:11,599 Speaker 2: Yeah. 269 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:14,100 Speaker 1: How can you do that? And you know she was 270 00:11:14,100 --> 00:11:16,310 Speaker 1: very stressed out because missing a day of the trip, 271 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:18,670 Speaker 1: the language barrier looking for a clinic all in a 272 00:11:18,670 --> 00:11:21,790 Speaker 1: foreign country. That's so frustrating, right? So much so that 273 00:11:21,790 --> 00:11:23,829 Speaker 1: she was so mad. She gave her friends the silent 274 00:11:23,830 --> 00:11:26,900 Speaker 1: treatment the next day. Hands up please 275 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:28,670 Speaker 2: you 276 00:11:28,670 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: have a heart of gold. Which country career? Yeah, I 277 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:34,329 Speaker 1: mean it's tough with the language barrier in Korea and 278 00:11:34,330 --> 00:11:36,969 Speaker 1: I can imagine that you're so worried about friends. No 279 00:11:36,970 --> 00:11:39,380 Speaker 1: one's trying to help you out and at the end 280 00:11:39,380 --> 00:11:41,170 Speaker 1: of the day yeah. I mean I would have given 281 00:11:41,170 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 1: them the silent treatment. 282 00:11:42,130 --> 00:11:45,390 Speaker 2: Okay. Another story in Korea. Okay, this happened to another 283 00:11:45,390 --> 00:11:47,900 Speaker 2: producer is very interesting. So a friend who has never 284 00:11:47,900 --> 00:11:51,260 Speaker 2: been to south Korea joined her on her supposedly solo trip. 285 00:11:51,270 --> 00:11:54,110 Speaker 2: So expectations different already. Okay so they were quite close. 286 00:11:54,110 --> 00:11:54,410 Speaker 2: So 287 00:11:54,420 --> 00:11:56,560 Speaker 2: the producers thought that would be fun between the two 288 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:58,929 Speaker 2: of them. She was the more organized one. So flights 289 00:11:58,940 --> 00:12:03,090 Speaker 2: com itinerary all on her and when they reached she 290 00:12:03,090 --> 00:12:06,059 Speaker 2: insisted the friend insisted that the producer and her shed 291 00:12:06,070 --> 00:12:06,910 Speaker 2: a sim card 292 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:07,839 Speaker 1: that you 293 00:12:07,890 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 2: know, would 294 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:12,719 Speaker 1: you do that, sharing a sim card is a flag 295 00:12:12,730 --> 00:12:14,329 Speaker 1: on a travel trailer really. 296 00:12:14,340 --> 00:12:17,110 Speaker 2: So when the friend needed to use the internet she 297 00:12:17,110 --> 00:12:19,569 Speaker 2: had to tap on our producers hotspot. So that's how 298 00:12:19,570 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 2: they can share the data. 299 00:12:21,450 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 2: But throughout the entire trip the friend used the data 300 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:27,310 Speaker 2: most of the time and she didn't bother checking for 301 00:12:27,309 --> 00:12:29,579 Speaker 2: directions on her phone when she was using data most 302 00:12:29,580 --> 00:12:31,590 Speaker 2: of the time she was just like on her own 303 00:12:31,590 --> 00:12:34,060 Speaker 2: phone doing her own things. And sometimes even at muse 304 00:12:34,059 --> 00:12:37,350 Speaker 2: she's watching shows listening to music when I 305 00:12:37,350 --> 00:12:38,079 Speaker 1: call it. For what 306 00:12:38,090 --> 00:12:40,340 Speaker 2: exactly When our 307 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:42,830 Speaker 1: when our 308 00:12:42,830 --> 00:12:46,429 Speaker 2: Producer had the manners to set her phone aside during 309 00:12:46,429 --> 00:12:50,130 Speaker 2: new times to just focus on the conversation 1-1. But 310 00:12:50,140 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 2: her friend was using her data. Her sim card watching shows. 311 00:12:54,730 --> 00:12:59,929 Speaker 2: So eventually they started to quarrel. They were just screaming 312 00:12:59,929 --> 00:13:02,569 Speaker 2: in melee in the streets of South Korea screaming each 313 00:13:02,570 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 2: other so nobody knew what the hell they were saying. 314 00:13:05,135 --> 00:13:10,095 Speaker 2: And our producer threatened to cancel her friend's flight back 315 00:13:10,095 --> 00:13:13,495 Speaker 2: to Singapore if she got on her nerves one more time. 316 00:13:13,505 --> 00:13:16,955 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness! Oh my gosh, ruthless 317 00:13:16,955 --> 00:13:19,245 Speaker 2: and ruthless and they barely talk for the rest of 318 00:13:19,245 --> 00:13:22,574 Speaker 2: the trip even until they reached Singapore they didn't keep 319 00:13:22,575 --> 00:13:24,925 Speaker 2: in touch after the trip. But after a few years 320 00:13:24,934 --> 00:13:27,525 Speaker 2: this friend actually tried to reach out to apologize to 321 00:13:27,525 --> 00:13:28,295 Speaker 2: our producer. 322 00:13:28,530 --> 00:13:31,689 Speaker 2: So police being the bigger person told her that she's 323 00:13:31,690 --> 00:13:33,959 Speaker 2: put it behind her but she's not sure about being 324 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:35,750 Speaker 2: friends with this person again. 325 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:37,679 Speaker 1: Actually why you never just buy her another sim card 326 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:40,030 Speaker 1: and just like, right because 327 00:13:40,030 --> 00:13:41,679 Speaker 2: the thing about it is you have to really be 328 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:43,540 Speaker 2: very close to each other and use it. 329 00:13:43,550 --> 00:13:45,490 Speaker 1: Yeah. That's annoying. Like if you go on a trip 330 00:13:45,500 --> 00:13:47,270 Speaker 1: and you share a sim card that means that you 331 00:13:47,270 --> 00:13:50,170 Speaker 1: have to be together every single minute of that trip. 332 00:13:50,170 --> 00:13:52,510 Speaker 1: Go toilets must go together. Why would you do that 333 00:13:52,510 --> 00:13:53,590 Speaker 1: to yourself? 334 00:13:53,610 --> 00:13:57,180 Speaker 2: Please never do that. How much does the sim card cost? Only? 335 00:13:57,190 --> 00:14:00,590 Speaker 1: Not. Super, 336 00:14:00,590 --> 00:14:03,970 Speaker 2: super true. Okay. So have you girls ever travel alone? 337 00:14:03,980 --> 00:14:05,050 Speaker 2: We all have right. 338 00:14:05,059 --> 00:14:08,540 Speaker 1: Yes. Actually I have traveled alone. Yes. It's very different 339 00:14:08,540 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 1: from traveling with friends. I think traveling alone. You feel 340 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:12,969 Speaker 1: like you have more hours in a day because you 341 00:14:12,970 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 1: don't have to wait for anyone. You set your own tone. 342 00:14:15,290 --> 00:14:17,930 Speaker 1: But it also does get lonely. Like I feel very 343 00:14:17,929 --> 00:14:20,940 Speaker 1: melancholic on a solo trip. I'll just walk with my 344 00:14:20,950 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 1: airports in in like the park and then look at 345 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 1: the smell the roses. 346 00:14:26,290 --> 00:14:26,540 Speaker 2: I don't 347 00:14:26,540 --> 00:14:28,870 Speaker 1: know and shipped. Right but you would not do that 348 00:14:28,870 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 1: at any other time you see. So sometimes it's necessary. 349 00:14:31,610 --> 00:14:33,820 Speaker 1: That's true. But you feel lonely. It's like sometimes you 350 00:14:33,820 --> 00:14:35,830 Speaker 1: have a good meal and you're like, I wish I 351 00:14:35,830 --> 00:14:38,790 Speaker 1: could share this with friends. Okay. 352 00:14:38,790 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 2: What about you? I 353 00:14:40,610 --> 00:14:44,580 Speaker 1: am in that face now that actually is it 354 00:14:45,630 --> 00:14:48,730 Speaker 1: where you want to go alone? Okay I'm in that 355 00:14:48,730 --> 00:14:52,090 Speaker 1: face at the moment and I'm doing like two trips 356 00:14:52,090 --> 00:14:55,630 Speaker 1: soon but I have people in both countries 357 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:59,170 Speaker 2: meeting your friends. Okay. So question, would you girls prefer 358 00:14:59,170 --> 00:15:02,700 Speaker 2: traveling solo or traveling with your friends? You can only 359 00:15:02,700 --> 00:15:05,700 Speaker 2: pick one answer. 123. Okay. 360 00:15:05,710 --> 00:15:08,350 Speaker 1: 1 2, 3 Friends. 361 00:15:09,530 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 1: I actually don't know. Hazy looks like she really would 362 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:14,100 Speaker 1: love traveling solo because you've done that before 363 00:15:15,730 --> 00:15:19,740 Speaker 2: two in Hong kong places that I would go. I 364 00:15:19,750 --> 00:15:21,930 Speaker 2: feel like I'm the kind of girl who would either 365 00:15:21,930 --> 00:15:25,590 Speaker 2: travel with my partner or travel alone because I feel 366 00:15:25,590 --> 00:15:27,850 Speaker 2: like my partner is one person is the person who 367 00:15:27,850 --> 00:15:30,990 Speaker 2: can give me a lot of attention and that's great 368 00:15:30,990 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 2: because everything works out in my favor. You always give 369 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:33,979 Speaker 2: it to me. 370 00:15:34,340 --> 00:15:36,510 Speaker 2: Either that or I travel solo and I can really 371 00:15:36,510 --> 00:15:38,770 Speaker 2: go according to my own plans. Take my time, go 372 00:15:38,770 --> 00:15:41,150 Speaker 2: for my dad's lessons and get a tattoo then. Okay. 373 00:15:41,150 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 2: Why with friends? 374 00:15:41,970 --> 00:15:44,670 Speaker 1: Why with friends? I mean because you can share memories. 375 00:15:44,670 --> 00:15:46,580 Speaker 1: You know like we did a whole video of our 376 00:15:46,580 --> 00:15:48,300 Speaker 1: time together in L. A. It's so nice to look 377 00:15:48,300 --> 00:15:50,979 Speaker 1: back on. You also have safety and support. Let's say 378 00:15:50,980 --> 00:15:53,310 Speaker 1: if your girls right? You go out drinking at night, 379 00:15:53,320 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 1: if you are with a group of friends, you naturally 380 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:58,450 Speaker 1: feel a bit safer. You're never alone. You have someone 381 00:15:58,450 --> 00:16:02,790 Speaker 1: to take photos of you. Yes. Everything is more affordable 382 00:16:02,790 --> 00:16:03,229 Speaker 1: because you 383 00:16:03,255 --> 00:16:04,535 Speaker 1: split it multiple ways, 384 00:16:04,545 --> 00:16:07,815 Speaker 2: right? Like Uber's your meals, 385 00:16:07,825 --> 00:16:09,975 Speaker 1: you got to share the memory with someone, you know, 386 00:16:09,975 --> 00:16:13,375 Speaker 1: you just gotta like, you gotta have conversations, you know 387 00:16:13,375 --> 00:16:16,115 Speaker 1: sometimes like the conversations that you have maybe in Singapore 388 00:16:16,125 --> 00:16:18,085 Speaker 1: and like when you're overseas is different because you see 389 00:16:18,085 --> 00:16:21,185 Speaker 1: different things to experience different things. Right? So I think 390 00:16:21,185 --> 00:16:21,445 Speaker 1: it's very 391 00:16:21,445 --> 00:16:24,085 Speaker 2: Nice. Okay, so fun question before we move on to 392 00:16:24,085 --> 00:16:28,475 Speaker 2: the next segment, he's a 10. But you are both 393 00:16:28,485 --> 00:16:32,170 Speaker 2: very different types of travelers too. 394 00:16:33,050 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 1: I think travel very important 395 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:37,489 Speaker 2: for me. So the way that you travel says a 396 00:16:37,490 --> 00:16:38,940 Speaker 2: lot about your personality is that it? 397 00:16:38,950 --> 00:16:39,860 Speaker 1: Yeah. 398 00:16:39,870 --> 00:16:41,260 Speaker 2: Have 399 00:16:41,260 --> 00:16:45,490 Speaker 1: you heard people saying like you should always travel with 400 00:16:45,490 --> 00:16:47,989 Speaker 1: someone first before like you decide to marry them whatever 401 00:16:47,990 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 1: they have. You heard this? Okay. Okay. 402 00:16:50,610 --> 00:16:53,220 Speaker 2: Okay. Because you can get a taste of what it's 403 00:16:53,220 --> 00:16:54,890 Speaker 2: like to stay together, live together. 404 00:16:54,900 --> 00:16:54,930 Speaker 2: I 405 00:16:54,930 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 1: think it's not just live together, but when you take 406 00:16:57,040 --> 00:16:59,940 Speaker 1: them out of there like comfort zone, you also get 407 00:16:59,940 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 1: to see how they behave, how they react, how they 408 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:05,980 Speaker 1: adapt to things, how they take care of you. I 409 00:17:05,980 --> 00:17:08,699 Speaker 1: think that's very important. I've had partners where I've traveled 410 00:17:08,700 --> 00:17:10,980 Speaker 1: with and they were a bit more laid back. Didn't 411 00:17:10,980 --> 00:17:13,370 Speaker 1: really like, you know, take the initiative to take care 412 00:17:13,369 --> 00:17:16,060 Speaker 1: of me then I've had partners that would just drive 413 00:17:16,060 --> 00:17:16,740 Speaker 1: us everywhere. 414 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:20,830 Speaker 1: Yeah, so it really differs. Right? Yeah, but 415 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:22,119 Speaker 2: what about you? 416 00:17:22,130 --> 00:17:25,050 Speaker 1: He's a 10 but you're very different types of travelers. 417 00:17:25,060 --> 00:17:28,530 Speaker 1: I think it's okay. He's a 66. It's not that bad. 418 00:17:28,530 --> 00:17:29,170 Speaker 1: It's not that bad. 419 00:17:29,180 --> 00:17:30,420 Speaker 2: Okay. But 420 00:17:30,430 --> 00:17:32,149 Speaker 1: what kind of different? Like 421 00:17:32,340 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 2: maybe you want to go hiking? Oh 422 00:17:35,050 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 1: not so bad. Okay. What about you? 423 00:17:38,830 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 2: I feel like it doesn't change my perception of this person. 424 00:17:42,730 --> 00:17:44,810 Speaker 2: He's still attend. He used to be a 10. Like 425 00:17:44,810 --> 00:17:46,880 Speaker 2: if there are different types of traveler, I feel like 426 00:17:46,890 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 2: I would want to explore his type of traveling 427 00:17:51,350 --> 00:17:53,750 Speaker 1: traveling. How 428 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:55,780 Speaker 2: a 429 00:17:57,140 --> 00:18:00,390 Speaker 2: I would change that. I will change that and if 430 00:18:00,390 --> 00:18:03,010 Speaker 2: he wants to share sink, I will break up with him. 431 00:18:04,850 --> 00:18:08,169 Speaker 2: Well, well I feel like you know if he wants 432 00:18:08,170 --> 00:18:11,340 Speaker 2: to go to go hiking or whatever, I'd be happy 433 00:18:11,340 --> 00:18:15,300 Speaker 2: to join and explore anyway, trips are usually what? 1, 434 00:18:15,300 --> 00:18:16,939 Speaker 2: 2 weeks? I think I can live with that. 435 00:18:16,950 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 1: That's true. But I guess whether it's traveling with friends 436 00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:23,060 Speaker 1: or partner or anything like that before the trip, right? 437 00:18:23,070 --> 00:18:26,300 Speaker 1: You need to understand like where the conflicts might arise 438 00:18:26,310 --> 00:18:28,850 Speaker 1: and try to like avoid it right? Like understanding your 439 00:18:28,850 --> 00:18:31,790 Speaker 1: own weaknesses. For example, if you know, let's say you 440 00:18:31,790 --> 00:18:34,810 Speaker 1: know you have like severe allergies and you do 441 00:18:34,820 --> 00:18:38,230 Speaker 1: don't bring your own medication then that's just a recipe 442 00:18:38,230 --> 00:18:41,770 Speaker 1: for disaster being irresponsible. Exactly. You 443 00:18:41,770 --> 00:18:44,260 Speaker 2: know my group of friends, we have one person that 444 00:18:44,260 --> 00:18:47,060 Speaker 2: we always love to travel with. She's this person who 445 00:18:47,060 --> 00:18:50,530 Speaker 2: always packs like this box of medication in her suitcase. 446 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:56,369 Speaker 2: So whatever. Pharmacy. Yes, like diarrhea, runny nose allergies. She 447 00:18:56,380 --> 00:18:57,440 Speaker 2: always has the medicine. 448 00:18:57,460 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 2: So you know like we are very happy when we 449 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:02,290 Speaker 2: travel this girl, like we always feel very safe and 450 00:19:02,290 --> 00:19:03,119 Speaker 2: very secure 451 00:19:03,130 --> 00:19:06,650 Speaker 1: actually. That's me. I'll have everything inside. What's about to say, 452 00:19:07,330 --> 00:19:08,470 Speaker 2: blaster 453 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:12,050 Speaker 1: like Claritin la you know, diarrhea like you said because 454 00:19:12,050 --> 00:19:14,030 Speaker 1: you never know what will happen when you're overseas and 455 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:16,920 Speaker 1: you can't go to the pharmacies then expect to find 456 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:19,200 Speaker 1: the same types of medication that you're used to here 457 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:19,930 Speaker 1: in Singapore 458 00:19:19,940 --> 00:19:20,100 Speaker 2: and 459 00:19:20,109 --> 00:19:22,580 Speaker 2: also being in a foreign environment or like a change 460 00:19:22,580 --> 00:19:25,340 Speaker 2: in season can expose us to things that we never knew. 461 00:19:25,340 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 2: We could be exposed to. 462 00:19:26,810 --> 00:19:29,890 Speaker 1: The weather is a big issue, right? Especially in spring 463 00:19:29,890 --> 00:19:32,350 Speaker 1: when all the Poland is around sometimes it makes my 464 00:19:32,350 --> 00:19:35,209 Speaker 1: nose very, very runny and then I'm like crying the 465 00:19:35,210 --> 00:19:35,700 Speaker 1: whole day, 466 00:19:35,710 --> 00:19:37,669 Speaker 2: right? And it's itchy and uncomfortable. 467 00:19:37,670 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 1: Sorry, I look ugly in photos. That's the key point here. 468 00:19:40,850 --> 00:19:42,030 Speaker 1: I don't think that's possible. 469 00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:44,340 Speaker 2: I'll 470 00:19:44,340 --> 00:19:45,100 Speaker 1: show you, 471 00:19:45,510 --> 00:19:48,800 Speaker 2: please don't please bring your medication. Nobody wants to have 472 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:51,380 Speaker 2: like red stuffy nose and then cooped up in the hotel. 473 00:19:51,390 --> 00:19:55,600 Speaker 2: Unfortunately that happened to Zora in europe when you start 474 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:56,290 Speaker 2: at home. 475 00:19:56,300 --> 00:19:58,960 Speaker 1: I know I wasn't, I was sick like that but 476 00:19:58,960 --> 00:19:59,300 Speaker 1: I was still 477 00:19:59,300 --> 00:20:00,600 Speaker 2: out. Oh my God 478 00:20:00,609 --> 00:20:05,189 Speaker 1: God, I'm like I'm going on a boat. But you 479 00:20:05,190 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 1: need something that is going to be very fast acting 480 00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:08,640 Speaker 1: so that it will work 481 00:20:08,650 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 1: before your makeup is done. You can get out of 482 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:12,639 Speaker 1: the door and go about your day 483 00:20:12,650 --> 00:20:15,050 Speaker 2: and non drowsy. This is very, very important because you 484 00:20:15,050 --> 00:20:18,210 Speaker 2: don't want to waste precious time on our trip. Just 485 00:20:18,210 --> 00:20:19,260 Speaker 2: sleeping The illness. 486 00:20:19,270 --> 00:20:21,210 Speaker 1: Actually, I remember in L. A. Like there was some 487 00:20:21,210 --> 00:20:24,879 Speaker 1: days that jermaine was like breaking out in. Yes, I 488 00:20:24,890 --> 00:20:27,980 Speaker 1: wish I had Claritin then I didn't, I didn't bring, 489 00:20:27,990 --> 00:20:30,619 Speaker 1: I think it was the air and the dust. I 490 00:20:30,619 --> 00:20:31,770 Speaker 1: wasn't used to it and 491 00:20:31,780 --> 00:20:34,580 Speaker 1: air is very dry there. So I don't know why 492 00:20:34,580 --> 00:20:37,490 Speaker 1: I did maybe just slight makeup on. Just like makeup 493 00:20:37,490 --> 00:20:39,300 Speaker 1: on my face. Damn you 494 00:20:39,300 --> 00:20:41,490 Speaker 2: Really should have Claritin with you because in fact, you 495 00:20:41,490 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 2: can relieve symptoms from more than 200 elegance, elegance such 496 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:48,650 Speaker 2: as dust Poland, pet for. 497 00:20:48,660 --> 00:20:50,910 Speaker 1: What if I'm allergic to men, will that 498 00:20:50,910 --> 00:20:52,270 Speaker 2: help? I think clarity 499 00:20:52,660 --> 00:20:54,459 Speaker 1: through a box of Claritin. And then 500 00:20:55,230 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 2: I think it's 501 00:20:56,690 --> 00:20:57,960 Speaker 1: a, 502 00:20:57,970 --> 00:21:01,360 Speaker 2: you know, one of our producers, one of those people, 503 00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:05,810 Speaker 2: she always had like this pouch filled with medication, you know, 504 00:21:05,820 --> 00:21:07,260 Speaker 2: ready to bring it anywhere. That's 505 00:21:07,260 --> 00:21:09,520 Speaker 1: why she's a mother. She's got her ship together. She's 506 00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:10,609 Speaker 1: a walking pharmacy. 507 00:21:10,609 --> 00:21:12,590 Speaker 2: She really is. And she knows that we'll be talking 508 00:21:12,590 --> 00:21:15,450 Speaker 2: about this today. So she actually prepared the pouch for us. 509 00:21:15,460 --> 00:21:18,720 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. Ouch. 510 00:21:19,460 --> 00:21:21,149 Speaker 2: Okay, let's have a look. Actually quite heavy. 511 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:22,930 Speaker 1: It was in her bag. 512 00:21:24,210 --> 00:21:26,830 Speaker 2: Sounds like a lot of things. Oh, the first thing 513 00:21:26,830 --> 00:21:28,340 Speaker 2: I see clarity. 514 00:21:28,350 --> 00:21:29,469 Speaker 1: 20 515 00:21:29,470 --> 00:21:34,110 Speaker 2: four hour fast release within one hour for sneezing, runny nose, 516 00:21:34,109 --> 00:21:37,690 Speaker 2: watery itchy eyes and itchy skin rash suitable for 517 00:21:37,690 --> 00:21:40,379 Speaker 1: you have prepared through 518 00:21:40,380 --> 00:21:40,980 Speaker 2: it at some man, 519 00:21:40,990 --> 00:21:41,850 Speaker 1: this is my 520 00:21:42,780 --> 00:21:46,300 Speaker 2: we also have vitamin C. We have P. Park out 521 00:21:46,300 --> 00:21:49,189 Speaker 2: for like sore throats. We have, what is this thing? 522 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:50,390 Speaker 2: What 523 00:21:50,740 --> 00:21:53,420 Speaker 1: A Strange one for baby for 524 00:21:53,420 --> 00:21:56,379 Speaker 2: baby is it for maybe so well prepared. This is 525 00:21:56,380 --> 00:21:59,720 Speaker 2: for fever and we have like other panel, I 526 00:21:59,730 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 1: want to be your baby, my goodness, adopt 527 00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:04,280 Speaker 2: me. We need to travel with, we 528 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:07,090 Speaker 1: really, really need to. And I think one important thing 529 00:22:07,090 --> 00:22:10,410 Speaker 1: to plan for is also like a communal budget. 530 00:22:10,430 --> 00:22:11,990 Speaker 1: If you guys are all going to eat out and 531 00:22:11,990 --> 00:22:14,370 Speaker 1: spend money on a lot of different things and trying 532 00:22:14,369 --> 00:22:17,780 Speaker 1: to please. We've been through this after L. A trip, 533 00:22:17,790 --> 00:22:20,710 Speaker 1: we tried to split the bill on everything. I don't 534 00:22:20,710 --> 00:22:22,350 Speaker 1: think we've done it till this day very 535 00:22:22,350 --> 00:22:25,420 Speaker 2: hard because for some meals three of us went together 536 00:22:25,630 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 2: with maybe me and just 537 00:22:27,290 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 1: four of us. So 538 00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 2: it's so hard to split the bill. 539 00:22:31,250 --> 00:22:33,190 Speaker 1: So have a communal budget when you go out and 540 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:36,150 Speaker 1: you can pay from that fund. Right. Yes, yes. I 541 00:22:36,150 --> 00:22:37,959 Speaker 1: think money is a very big thing. Like if you 542 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:38,060 Speaker 1: all 543 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:41,510 Speaker 1: Okay, it's fine. You know, if you're chill like 1% 544 00:22:41,510 --> 00:22:43,790 Speaker 1: pay this one person pay that then like, Okay. You know, 545 00:22:43,790 --> 00:22:46,380 Speaker 1: you're quite like, right, it's fine, but some people are 546 00:22:46,380 --> 00:22:48,620 Speaker 1: a bit more like down to the sense, you know, 547 00:22:48,630 --> 00:22:52,210 Speaker 1: maybe just a big ticket items, like big meals and 548 00:22:52,210 --> 00:22:54,930 Speaker 1: also like the accommodation. Right. 549 00:22:54,940 --> 00:22:58,340 Speaker 2: Right, right. Like a shared funds. So summing up today's discussion, 550 00:22:58,340 --> 00:23:00,489 Speaker 2: Do we feel like it's better to travel with friends 551 00:23:00,500 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 2: or alone? I still feel like communication is key. If 552 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:05,710 Speaker 2: things are properly communicated, then 553 00:23:05,730 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 2: you know, traveling with friends is always a better option. 554 00:23:07,850 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess it's not about should I travel with friends, 555 00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:13,980 Speaker 1: but it's more about which friends should I travel? Which 556 00:23:13,990 --> 00:23:17,250 Speaker 1: or which friends can I travel with? And I think, 557 00:23:17,250 --> 00:23:20,060 Speaker 1: you know, if given the opportunity you can do both. 558 00:23:20,070 --> 00:23:22,619 Speaker 1: Like sometimes you do this, sometimes you do that. So 559 00:23:22,619 --> 00:23:24,109 Speaker 1: it's you know, you get a little bit of both 560 00:23:24,109 --> 00:23:26,429 Speaker 1: as well and then see which one you like more, 561 00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,810 Speaker 1: see which friends you are very suited to traveling with 562 00:23:29,810 --> 00:23:31,540 Speaker 1: as well and then maybe you can do more trips 563 00:23:31,540 --> 00:23:32,500 Speaker 1: in future. 564 00:23:32,510 --> 00:23:33,359 Speaker 2: I want 565 00:23:33,380 --> 00:23:35,490 Speaker 2: going on the trip where the first part is solo 566 00:23:35,490 --> 00:23:37,860 Speaker 2: and the second half, I had friends flying from Singapore 567 00:23:37,859 --> 00:23:39,760 Speaker 2: to be with me. So this is a very good 568 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:41,980 Speaker 2: suggestion as well. If you want to have a taste 569 00:23:41,980 --> 00:23:45,070 Speaker 2: of like how traveling alone and traveling friends feel like 570 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:48,959 Speaker 2: I also saw this advice online in general, big group 571 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:52,510 Speaker 2: trips are not a good idea. Their breeding ground for 572 00:23:52,510 --> 00:23:56,170 Speaker 2: resentment because the way one person chooses to spend his 573 00:23:56,240 --> 00:24:00,010 Speaker 2: money and time really aligns with the other person. Don't 574 00:24:00,010 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 2: even mention that with 575 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:01,860 Speaker 2: for five people, 576 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:03,580 Speaker 1: You know, when we were young, we used to go 577 00:24:03,580 --> 00:24:06,220 Speaker 1: on a lot of those like tour groups where your 578 00:24:06,220 --> 00:24:08,400 Speaker 1: whole family because my family is huge, right? So 40 579 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:11,120 Speaker 1: of us packed into a bus like 40. Yeah, we 580 00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:13,470 Speaker 1: booked out the whole bus, go onto the bus together 581 00:24:13,470 --> 00:24:15,700 Speaker 1: and we travel everywhere together and I tell you the 582 00:24:15,700 --> 00:24:19,940 Speaker 1: amount of fights that happen every single trip is just ridiculous. 583 00:24:19,940 --> 00:24:22,790 Speaker 1: So traveling with family in a big group is also 584 00:24:22,790 --> 00:24:24,220 Speaker 1: another headache. When 585 00:24:24,220 --> 00:24:25,719 Speaker 2: you reach a restaurant, you have to wait for the 586 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:28,230 Speaker 2: other family members to come before all of you can 587 00:24:28,230 --> 00:24:28,540 Speaker 2: start 588 00:24:28,690 --> 00:24:30,790 Speaker 2: start to eat and then like, you know, people are 589 00:24:30,790 --> 00:24:34,149 Speaker 2: just upset grumpy or hungry for that matter. 590 00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:37,709 Speaker 1: So maybe smaller groups would work. Someone else says my 591 00:24:37,710 --> 00:24:40,710 Speaker 1: philosophy is simple. I vacation with the group, but I 592 00:24:40,710 --> 00:24:44,649 Speaker 1: travel by myself, vacation being lazy trips like by the 593 00:24:44,650 --> 00:24:49,129 Speaker 1: beach bali you know, just shale stuff, travel being like europe, 594 00:24:49,130 --> 00:24:52,170 Speaker 1: we're going from Amsterdam to, you know what else is 595 00:24:52,170 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 1: in europe paris spain. 596 00:24:56,340 --> 00:24:59,060 Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's, that's a lot in one trip. So 597 00:24:59,070 --> 00:25:02,060 Speaker 1: that one I think this person prefers to do alone. 598 00:25:02,070 --> 00:25:02,780 Speaker 2: Not 599 00:25:02,780 --> 00:25:03,830 Speaker 1: a bad idea, right? It's 600 00:25:03,830 --> 00:25:06,320 Speaker 2: actually a note from our producer, one of our crew 601 00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:09,500 Speaker 2: who's traveling soon with her friends actually planned a free 602 00:25:09,500 --> 00:25:12,520 Speaker 2: day in the itinerary. I feel like this is important 603 00:25:12,530 --> 00:25:15,040 Speaker 2: in this three day everyone, the group, you can choose 604 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,949 Speaker 2: to travel and explore the city by themselves or you know, 605 00:25:17,950 --> 00:25:20,740 Speaker 2: if you want to like still be together, you can 606 00:25:20,740 --> 00:25:21,960 Speaker 2: have the option as well. 607 00:25:21,970 --> 00:25:23,970 Speaker 1: I love that actually. It's very smart. 608 00:25:23,990 --> 00:25:27,010 Speaker 1: Who says that you have to spend 24/7 together on 609 00:25:27,010 --> 00:25:28,930 Speaker 1: a trip. You don't even do that in Singapore. 610 00:25:28,940 --> 00:25:31,820 Speaker 2: So after listening to this episode, we hope that your 611 00:25:31,820 --> 00:25:34,990 Speaker 2: future trips, if your friends will only be good vibes, 612 00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:37,869 Speaker 2: positive vibes. Don't forget to plan ahead of time and 613 00:25:37,869 --> 00:25:38,689 Speaker 2: bring your medication. 614 00:25:38,700 --> 00:25:41,390 Speaker 1: That's right. I mean if you're someone like me and 615 00:25:41,390 --> 00:25:43,550 Speaker 1: is allergic to a lot of things, I mean I've 616 00:25:43,550 --> 00:25:45,530 Speaker 1: got this, I've got producers pouch right now. 617 00:25:45,540 --> 00:25:46,340 Speaker 2: You're just stealing it 618 00:25:46,350 --> 00:25:50,730 Speaker 1: by the way, I'm stealing it for sure. The Claritin no, 619 00:25:50,740 --> 00:25:51,640 Speaker 1: by your own, 620 00:25:53,500 --> 00:25:53,909 Speaker 1: thank you 621 00:25:53,910 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 2: so much for tuning into this episode of cavities. 622 00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 2: Don't forget to follow us on instagram at its clarity 623 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:01,320 Speaker 2: dot com. 624 00:26:01,330 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 1: That's right. 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