Speaker 1: Hello Sazel
Speaker 2: and I'm
Speaker 1: Jermaine and welcome back to another episode of Cities.
Speaker 1: You know what, I want to say thank you for
Speaker 1: tuning in to every of our episodes. And the past
Speaker 1: episode on solo traveling was one that I really enjoyed
Speaker 1: as well. So in that spirit, today, we're going to
Speaker 1: do another episode on solo, but not solo traveling anymore,
Speaker 1: on the theme of solo dating.
Speaker 2: What is so dating?
Speaker 1: Like
Speaker 1: you take yourself out on a date. Bingo.
Speaker 2: How is that a date?
Speaker 1: Exactly. So you are on a date with yourself. So
Speaker 1: it's like you plan something intentionally as you would for
Speaker 1: a partner, but it's just you like self-care
Speaker 1: day. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so, so for example if I go.
Speaker 2: For like my hair appointment, my nail appointment, that's solo dating.
Speaker 2: Then you take
Speaker 2: yourself
Speaker 1: out to a nice meal. And today I'm actually dressed
Speaker 1: in how I would dress if I were out for
Speaker 1: a solo dating. I would take myself hiking. I would
Speaker 1: want to hit the gym and then go and eat
Speaker 1: some very good steak.
Speaker 2: Interesting. Yeah, so here's the thing about solo dating, right?
Speaker 2: Things like hair appointments, self-care, nail appointment. I always thought
Speaker 2: that those were errands to me. They were errands I
Speaker 2: had to run. So I never saw it as like
Speaker 2: solo dating.
Speaker 1: That's very good insight. I think the usual busy average
Speaker 1: Singaporean woman would probably think that way, but now that
Speaker 1: you said that, maybe it's time to change our mindset
Speaker 1: a bit. Just enjoy soak in the moment.
Speaker 1: I usually as well it's not like errands that you
Speaker 1: schedule in between things, but it has to be like intentional. Like, OK,
Speaker 1: this weekend I'm going to take myself out for brunch
Speaker 1: and then I'll go do my nails. It's like intentionally. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you have to remember that solo dating is about treating yourself.
Speaker 1: It's not just checking off something on your to do list.
Speaker 1: So
Speaker 2: do you girls do solo dates?
Speaker 1: We don't even do dates with people.
Speaker 1: I think all the time, but last time I would
Speaker 1: be very afraid to embark on a solo date. I
Speaker 1: would be afraid of what people would say. There was
Speaker 1: one time in secondary school, this friend told me, Ha ha,
Speaker 1: you know, friend, fine friend, and I was so hurt. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's very mean, right? I mean, back then we didn't
Speaker 1: know better, but then now that I've grown up, I
Speaker 1: actually embrace my me.
Speaker 1: Time allotted. I understand. Do you enjoy having a meal
Speaker 1: by yourself?
Speaker 2: I
Speaker 1: used
Speaker 2: to hate it. I thought everyone was judging me for
Speaker 2: eating by myself and I would have literal like social
Speaker 2: anxiety going out to eat by myself, but now I
Speaker 2: love it. I just ate by myself before this episode
Speaker 2: and I had a great time. I was watching Sings Inferno.
Speaker 2: So engrossed with that show a muffin.
Speaker 1: At this age,
Speaker 1: it almost feels luxurious, you know, like, um, I have
Speaker 1: time to spare. I'm going to sit with
Speaker 1: myself. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Here's the strength of solo dating, right?
Speaker 2: You wouldn't go on a date with someone you don't like.
Speaker 2: Is that correct? Sure. So if you're going to date yourself,
Speaker 2: you have to love yourself. If you don't like yourself,
Speaker 2: you wouldn't want to spend time alone by yourself. What
Speaker 1: if someone is now saying, but I don't like myself? OK,
Speaker 1: you know, a psychologist based in London, her name is Dr.
Speaker 1: Natalie Bailey. She says that spending quality time alone can
Speaker 1: be a very valuable tool, and she says solo dating
Speaker 1: is all about self-love, self-discovery, growth, and empowerment, and it's
Speaker 1: an
Speaker 1: meditation, a time to discover more about yourself without the
Speaker 1: noise and the influence of others. So if you are
Speaker 1: someone who doesn't like yourself, maybe you can use this
Speaker 1: chance to find out what you don't like about yourself
Speaker 1: and work on it.
Speaker 2: I think solo dating takes a lot of guts as well. So,
Speaker 2: so I'm dressed today in a very nice dinner dress
Speaker 2: because I'm aspiring to take myself out on a nice
Speaker 2: solo date dinner, right? Not like a little lunch or cafe,
Speaker 2: but a full on dinner.
Speaker 2: So this happened and this inspiration came when I was
Speaker 2: in LA for work and I was taking my friend
Speaker 2: out to dinner at like a really nice restaurant in
Speaker 2: LA and there was a girl sitting next to us
Speaker 2: and she was in this red booty dress with feathers, gorgeous,
Speaker 2: gorgeous girl. And then she was alone for the whole meal.
Speaker 2: So me and my friend were like, oh, I think
Speaker 2: she came alone like just to have a nice meal
Speaker 2: by herself. And at the end of the meal, a
Speaker 2: birthday cake came out for her. So on our way out, right,
Speaker 2: we were waiting for a car.
Speaker 2: And she was there at the drop off point and
Speaker 2: we asked her like, where are you from? Like, you
Speaker 2: know what's going on? And she's actually from, I believe, Barbados. Oh,
Speaker 2: she's on holiday,
Speaker 1: is that where you want to hold your wedding next
Speaker 1: time came from? She's on
Speaker 1: holiday
Speaker 2: in the US alone. It happened to be her birthday,
Speaker 2: so she took herself out to dinner and dressed in
Speaker 2: the nicest. She was stunning.
Speaker 1: Oh my God
Speaker 2: I want to be her.
Speaker 1: Wait, she arranged the cake for herself.
Speaker 2: So that's my inspiration.
Speaker 1: You know, prior to this episode, I never ever thought
Speaker 1: about the idea of taking myself out to dinner. Like, OK,
Speaker 1: maybe like Taian sure, you know, just get it done
Speaker 1: and over with, right? But planning a dinner date for myself,
Speaker 1: you know, going to my favorite steak restaurant, sitting down,
Speaker 1: having a glass of red wine, it never occurred to
Speaker 1: me that, hey, I can do that for myself, but
Speaker 1: this episode actually inspires me to do so, and it's
Speaker 1: such a good thing to do to yourself, to just
Speaker 1: treat yourself, right? I think whether it's solo dating or
Speaker 1: solo traveling or even just, you know, have you heard
Speaker 1: of people who
Speaker 1: Can or almost cannot be home by themselves. Like they'll
Speaker 1: pack their schedules. They always have to go and see
Speaker 1: a friend. Sounds like me. I go home just to sleep,
Speaker 1: clock in my eight hours of rest, and after that
Speaker 1: I just want to get out of the house,
Speaker 1: do things.
Speaker 2: For Hazy, it's not that you can't be by yourself,
Speaker 2: it's just that you like to do things. You always
Speaker 2: like to be doing something,
Speaker 1: yeah. But I think in cases like that, sometimes people
Speaker 1: are afraid of being with themselves because they're afraid of
Speaker 1: their thoughts.
Speaker 2: I
Speaker 1: understand that,
Speaker 2: but I take the time like when I mean I
Speaker 2: don't know if solo dates count if you're just at home,
Speaker 2: like I'm taking a nice bath, I put on a mask,
Speaker 2: I do my shower. I think that's a solo date.
Speaker 1: OK, so what are some examples of solo dates? Here's
Speaker 1: one story from online that I really, really love, OK,
Speaker 1: by this girl called Kimberly, she's only 23, and she
Speaker 1: really embraces solo dating.
Speaker 1: She loves to indulge in concerts. Like she's the kind
Speaker 1: of person, she says, I find the most random artists
Speaker 1: in the middle of the night when I'm listening to
Speaker 1: Spotify and I become hyper fixated, like this person is amazing.
Speaker 1: I must see him or her life. And she started
Speaker 1: going to gigs, concerts alone. This has allowed her to
Speaker 1: tap into her interest further and just connect with herself.
Speaker 1: She's the kind of person when she's out of the concert,
Speaker 1: she posts a story, tell everybody she's at this concert,
Speaker 1: she's watching this act.
Speaker 1: But now she says she doesn't feel the need to
Speaker 1: share it anymore. She just go out to the concert herself,
Speaker 1: enjoy it, go home, that's it. So that's a way
Speaker 1: of like solo dating and indulging in the interest, and
Speaker 1: I think that's so nice.
Speaker 2: I've never been to a concert alone. I know a
Speaker 2: lot of people do.
Speaker 1: I have.
Speaker 2: How was
Speaker 1: it? I have one, so basically I was still in
Speaker 1: school and then John Mayer was playing in London and
Speaker 1: there was no way I was giving up on that,
Speaker 1: but I couldn't get tickets.
Speaker 1: Scalpers are like really wild they're like wild. So eventually, right,
Speaker 1: it was like 2 weeks before the concert and I
Speaker 1: still didn't have tickets. And then one day in like
Speaker 1: the Singaporean group chat, this person I didn't even know
Speaker 1: who was from Singapore basically said like I had gone
Speaker 1: home to Singapore and I decided to stay a little
Speaker 1: bit longer, so I am not able to make it. Like,
Speaker 1: does anyone want my ticket for free? No la la.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my God, but there was only one.
Speaker 1: So I was like I don't care.
Speaker 1: I am going to go. Did you enjoy that? I did.
Speaker 1: I was crying.
Speaker 2: I mean of course you crying.
Speaker 1: It's because you went alone that you could allow yourself
Speaker 1: to cry like that.
Speaker 2: That's not true. I went to play with her, Billie Eilish,
Speaker 2: both concerts, she was a puddle of tears. Yeah, but
Speaker 2: that takes a lot of, I feel like it takes guts.
Speaker 2: I may not be there yet, but I hope to
Speaker 2: get there one day. On the flip side of it,
Speaker 2: I think solo dating is still quite a
Speaker 2: Um, I would say not widely or fully accepted. For example,
Speaker 2: this person on Reddit said, I'm about to turn 27
Speaker 2: and I grew up as an only child and I
Speaker 2: live in a college town, so I have no friends here.
Speaker 2: So I always take myself out to dinner by myself,
Speaker 2: do solo dates.
Speaker 2: there's and stuff, but a few weeks ago, I went
Speaker 2: to a football game by myself and there was a
Speaker 2: group of girls next to me. I offered to switch
Speaker 2: seats with one of the girls so that she can
Speaker 2: be with her group because I was in the middle
Speaker 2: and the girl said, Oh, you're alone, like alone alone
Speaker 2: by yourself, and this made her feel very discouraged. She
Speaker 2: was like,
Speaker 1: oh.
Speaker 1: See, this is where I think the intentions came out wrongly.
Speaker 1: The girl could have asked that because she was thinking,
Speaker 1: would you like to join
Speaker 1: us?
Speaker 2: Yeah, but maybe it came out the wrong way. I
Speaker 2: don't think she meant anything bad.
Speaker 1: I think maybe sometimes it's quite subconscious because it's not,
Speaker 1: it's not as widely known yet, right? You know what
Speaker 1: I mean. I think sometimes it comes off quite subconscious
Speaker 1: when you see someone like for example, the girl that
Speaker 1: you saw in LA. It's very easy for someone to
Speaker 1: have an immediate thought.
Speaker 1: Oh, did she get stood up like, oh, does she
Speaker 1: not have anyone that's why she has to eat alone,
Speaker 2: you know that would be the worst if people thought
Speaker 2: I got stood up because I took myself out to
Speaker 2: like a really nice restaurant. It's like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: she probably got stood up for a date and show up.
Speaker 1: But yeah, people are probably going to think that if
Speaker 1: you look hot as, you know, that girl and then
Speaker 1: you're alone,
Speaker 2: society is still a ways away from from that. I
Speaker 2: love Pey Murray's story. She said, I love solo dating.
Speaker 2: And I do it all the time. There was, there
Speaker 2: was a Beyonce themed clubbing event and she was supposed
Speaker 2: to go with her friend, but her friend couldn't make
Speaker 2: it at the last minute. So I decided to go anyways.
Speaker 2: I had my outfit, my makeup, everything was ready. I
Speaker 2: went by myself. It turned out amazing. I enjoyed myself
Speaker 2: so much. I even made friends with a guy trying
Speaker 2: to set me up with his girl best friend, LOL.
Speaker 2: That's so funny.
Speaker 2: But she says, I think everyone should go on solo
Speaker 2: dates whether or not you have a partner.
Speaker 1: Oh, on that note, actually, if you have a partner,
Speaker 1: can you still go on a solo date?
Speaker 2: Why not? When you have a partner, all the more
Speaker 2: you should dedicate time to solo dating. Yes. But if
Speaker 2: your boyfriend can go for a game of golf, that's
Speaker 2: a solo date. Oh, that's
Speaker 1: a
Speaker 2: solo
Speaker 1: dating session for him,
Speaker 1: right? Did they not play golf in packs?
Speaker 2: I don't know, man. I don't
Speaker 1: know about golf.
Speaker 1: OK, PDN story. She says she loves going on solo
Speaker 1: dates and she has days where she just goes out alone,
Speaker 1: be it to a shop on self-care day, like a
Speaker 1: hair and nails kind of thing, and she just really
Speaker 1: loves having some time on her own, and she would
Speaker 1: highly recommend eating Yankee sushi if you are new to
Speaker 1: dining alone. This is because it's a very single diner
Speaker 1: friendly restaurant.
Speaker 1: And this is one thing I realized about Japanese restaurants.
Speaker 1: Remember the previous episode we're talking about how PDM, she
Speaker 1: went to Korea and there were a lot of restaurants
Speaker 1: that didn't accept single diners, right? This is exactly the
Speaker 1: opposite in Japan. In Japan they have a lot of
Speaker 1: like small little seats just for single diners
Speaker 2: ramen. You don't even have to talk to anyone. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they just
Speaker 1: appear out of the little curtain and then pass you
Speaker 1: a ramen and then that's it. I love
Speaker 2: that. I love that. OK, so if you're listening to
Speaker 2: this and you're like, oh, I'm
Speaker 2: Inspired actually. I want to go on a solo date.
Speaker 2: What are some ideas, girls that we can give whoever
Speaker 2: is listening? Maybe
Speaker 1: if
Speaker 1: you're not daring enough yet for like a dinner. OK
Speaker 1: Cafe in the afternoon, I think that's quite normal to
Speaker 1: people by themselves or lunch. You start there first. Some
Speaker 1: of our fellow SG girlies actually recommended plain vanilla, Apollo coffee.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, under the linden. I actually
Speaker 1: Have their coffee with me right now. Yes, it's very
Speaker 1: near Mediacorp and I will recommend that cafe because most
Speaker 1: of the time it's not very packed. So if you're
Speaker 1: looking for that quiet environment, I think that's a good
Speaker 1: place to go
Speaker 1: to.
Speaker 2: Another idea is obviously to do an activity, right? Like
Speaker 2: let's say you sign up for a class, like a
Speaker 2: craft class or you go shopping or thrifting, not so
Speaker 2: advisable for me because whenever I go shopping alone.
Speaker 2: I end up buying I end up buying way too
Speaker 2: many things. I treat it like retail therapy, like when
Speaker 2: I'm in a bad mood, right, I just go and
Speaker 2: shop then I end up with too many things.
Speaker 1: But if you have someone with you, does that stop you?
Speaker 2: It depends who the
Speaker 1: person is. If it's us, then no girls,
Speaker 2: I will be. But yes, that's an idea like going thrifting,
Speaker 2: maybe finding specialties.
Speaker 2: Stores, you know, digging out good finds. I feel like
Speaker 2: that could be quite a cute.
Speaker 1: I like
Speaker 1: what you mentioned about signing up for classes. I think
Speaker 1: Claas is a good way for you to experience a
Speaker 1: lot of different things alone, but if you're looking for
Speaker 1: something that's free, hiking is something I would really recommend
Speaker 1: like East Coast Park, West Coast Park, Bukit Timah railway.
Speaker 1: These are some places that you can go to absolutely
Speaker 2: FOC, and I love that you.
Speaker 2: You can almost like ground yourself in nature like really
Speaker 2: touch grass. They say go out and touch grass, really
Speaker 2: go and touch the grass because it's very healing for
Speaker 2: you as a person and even better is if you
Speaker 2: can go on these walks and not listen to music
Speaker 2: but just listen to the sound of nature, let the
Speaker 2: thoughts come in your head and let them go. That's
Speaker 2: so like tranquil.
Speaker 1: Another very therapeutic place that I used to go very,
Speaker 1: very often, but not anymore, and it's one of my
Speaker 1: regrets is the library. I love going to the library.
Speaker 1: I can sit there for hours just like, you know,
Speaker 1: combing through a book. I think hitting the library or
Speaker 1: the bookstores is a very good way to just spend
Speaker 1: time with yourself, and the book that you pick up definitely,
Speaker 1: you know, is aligned with your interest as well, so
Speaker 1: why not? A very good place that I can recommend
Speaker 1: is the Brass Basar bookstore. They have a lot of
Speaker 1: very special and unique books.
Speaker 1: If you don't want to buy books, then just go
Speaker 1: to the library free of charge. Yeah,
Speaker 2: the other day I was having lunch with a friend
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, you know, it's your birthday.
Speaker 2: What are you going to do after this lunch? He said, Oh,
Speaker 2: I'm going to go to the library. Yeah, he literally
Speaker 2: went there and like read about Singapore history for like
Speaker 2: 3 hours on his birthday.
Speaker 1: This
Speaker 1: person happen to be Avery or what? No,
Speaker 1: it will never be never be.
Speaker 2: I don't think Avery you know what,
Speaker 1: because I just want to share that Avery has this like.
Speaker 1: e-reader thing, yeah, it's like a Kindle, but it's a
Speaker 1: Singapore version of the Kindle that's actually connected to your
Speaker 1: national library board account so you can borrow books from
Speaker 1: the NLB and it's connected to the COO and then
Speaker 1: just take yourself out to a cafe, sit down and
Speaker 1: read the book. That's so
Speaker 2: nice, right?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think one way to make yourself feel comfortable
Speaker 2: when you're on a solo date is bring like
Speaker 2: Like they call it a comfort item, something that makes
Speaker 2: you feel safe.
Speaker 1: It will
Speaker 1: be the camera for me. Like every time I feel insecure,
Speaker 1: maybe I want to just stand up and snap something.
Speaker 2: For me it's earphones like it's my AirPods like once
Speaker 2: I put
Speaker 2: I'm like, you know, in my own world doing my
Speaker 2: own thing.
Speaker 1: For some people it could be the journal just sit down,
Speaker 1: like pencil all their
Speaker 2: thoughts. Oh yours can be wooden one. Yeah yeah
Speaker 1: yeah that's so relaxing. I love that. I love that.
Speaker 1: And I think picking the right environment that speaks to
Speaker 1: you is also something that's very important. If you are
Speaker 1: someone who is a lover of nature, then of course
Speaker 1: get out to the wild, but if you are like
Speaker 1: a city girl, then maybe cafes would be a good
Speaker 1: start for you. And if you can't deal with anything
Speaker 1: too quiet, then maybe if you need a little bit
Speaker 1: of buzz, then you pick somewhere a little bit more
Speaker 1: like busy
Speaker 1: maybe.
Speaker 2: I think the biggest hurdle to get over is.
Speaker 2: caring what people think. Yeah, for most people, solo dating,
Speaker 2: solo eating, solo traveling, whatever it is, right, you always
Speaker 2: worry about like, oh people judge me if I do
Speaker 2: this alone, and the fact of the matter is you're
Speaker 2: not going to convince yourself that people don't judge you, right?
Speaker 2: But you can convince yourself that you don't care. Don't
Speaker 2: try to change people, you change yourself.
Speaker 1: And what can you do to achieve that? I think
Speaker 1: having a plan is very important.
Speaker 1: Tell yourself, OK, 8 a.m., you want to be here.
Speaker 1: By 12 p.m. you want to be there, and by
Speaker 1: 3 p.m. here and then go home. So if you
Speaker 1: have a plan, it distracts you from what other people think.
Speaker 1: You just go with your own flow and you call
Speaker 1: the shots. Then maybe you don't feel lost as well
Speaker 1: if you know, you're done with something, then you don't
Speaker 1: really know what to do. Maybe at that point you
Speaker 1: can feel like a little bit lost. So the plan,
Speaker 1: I think that helps. And I think the most important
Speaker 1: thing like what Jimmy mentioned is shifting your mindset. Just
Speaker 1: tell yourself that you know solo dating doesn't mean that
Speaker 1: you are lonely.
Speaker 1: You're alone, yes, but that doesn't mean that you're lonely.
Speaker 1: You can tell yourself that at least you've reached a
Speaker 1: point where you're really comfortable to be with yourself because
Speaker 1: a lot of people can't do that.
Speaker 2: Oh, I love that. We hope you take yourself out
Speaker 2: on a solo date.
Speaker 1: But apart from solo dating girls, what are some of
Speaker 1: the self-care tips that you guys think can appeal to
Speaker 1: our listeners?
Speaker 2: I think,
Speaker 1: right, for me the biggest self-care tip that works for me,
Speaker 1: it makes me happy is my skincare routine.
Speaker 1: I think that's very small, you know, doesn't take up
Speaker 1: too much time, but it's something that I do on
Speaker 1: a very regular basis. I like to apply a mask
Speaker 1: every two nights and then make sure my routine is
Speaker 1: in place before I go to sleep. Like there's like
Speaker 1: a little thing that grounds me.
Speaker 2: There are a few things that scientifically proven, you need
Speaker 2: to achieve happiness. Number 1 is enough sleep. Number 2
Speaker 2: is enough water. Number 3 is to eat well, right?
Speaker 2: Don't just eat junk food. Number 4 is daily exercise.
Speaker 2: So it can just be a walk. It doesn't have
Speaker 2: to be like you hit the gym or you know
Speaker 2: you go for a run, but just a walk, right?
Speaker 2: Number 5 is actually daily sunlight. So getting sunlight in
Speaker 2: your eyes before 10 a.m. is very, very helpful for
Speaker 2: your circadian rhythm and helps you sleep better at night.
Speaker 2: You'll get at least 10 minutes. If it's overcast, try
Speaker 2: to stay for at least 20 minutes. Obviously don't look
Speaker 2: at the sun directly, but yes, the last thing, the
Speaker 2: number 6 thing is actually social connection, and this doesn't
Speaker 2: mean like
Speaker 2: Applying to people in the DMs, this means actually meeting someone. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so even though we're talking about solo stuff, like, you know,
Speaker 2: a lot of stuff is solo, but you do still
Speaker 2: need social connection for the introverts out there. I'm talking
Speaker 2: to you. Those 6 things will guarantee you happiness in
Speaker 2: your life.
Speaker 1: There's a whole
Speaker 1: IG like snippet on its own, you know, it's so helpful. Yeah,
Speaker 1: last night I slept for 8 hours and today I
Speaker 1: feel different, completely different. What's your self-care routine? Mine is
Speaker 1: not so much self-care, but if you're going to be
Speaker 1: by yourself and
Speaker 1: Comfortable being by yourself, I think don't afraid to say
Speaker 1: no because, OK, so I'll give you an example, right?
Speaker 1: Recently I had some time to myself while waiting for
Speaker 1: a friend. So I was sitting there happily by myself
Speaker 1: and I really just want to be alone. I was
Speaker 1: having a drink and then there was this table next
Speaker 1: to me and they were like, Oh, come and join us.
Speaker 1: And I was like, actually, no, I want to be
Speaker 1: by myself. But is it because they recognize who you were?
Speaker 1: Like they knew like, OK, you're Azura, you're a radio DJ,
Speaker 1: you want to join us.
Speaker 1: But if you feel like you want to, you know,
Speaker 1: have some social interactions, go ahead. But if you feel
Speaker 1: like I've blocked this time out for myself and I
Speaker 1: really just want to be alone, then be alone.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fair.
Speaker 2: I love that.
Speaker 2: So we've got a little quote to end off today's episode.
Speaker 2: Someone on Reddit said, to me, solo dating is just living. Yes,
Speaker 2: I go to cafes, dinners, museums, galleries, walks along the
Speaker 2: waterfront by myself, but you don't need other people to
Speaker 2: exist in public. You are not an NPC non-playing character,
Speaker 2: but also I'm in a
Speaker 2: Relationship and it still doesn't change what I'm capable of
Speaker 2: doing by myself. At the end of the day, your
Speaker 2: world should not be dictated by someone else. Live it
Speaker 2: on your own terms.
Speaker 1: I
Speaker 1: love that. We hope that gives you some strength if
Speaker 1: you are thinking of taking yourself out solo dating for
Speaker 1: the first time ever. All the best of that, let
Speaker 1: us know how it goes on Instagram.
Speaker 1: It's clarity.co. Drop us a DM anytime. That's right. You
Speaker 1: can listen to us on Spotify, listen, Apple Podcast. If
Speaker 1: you're out alone and you start to get a little
Speaker 1: bit lonely, you listen to
Speaker 2: us. Or you can watch us on YouTube as well
Speaker 2: if you want to see familiar faces. We're there also
Speaker 2: Clarity Cove and yeah, we'll catch you on the next episode.
Speaker 2: see you. Happy solo dating.