1 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:05,289 Speaker 1: My girlfriend of a year and a half now doesn't 2 00:00:05,300 --> 00:00:08,510 Speaker 1: like to shower after work and I can feel the 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:11,260 Speaker 1: sweat that's on her body that gets all tacky after 4 00:00:11,270 --> 00:00:12,010 Speaker 1: it dries. 5 00:00:13,829 --> 00:00:16,899 Speaker 2: Nobody asking you to like, like LA, right? 6 00:00:18,069 --> 00:00:18,860 Speaker 1: Disgusting. 7 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:19,299 Speaker 2: Like 8 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:23,110 Speaker 2: and then I think Joe, you don't need to read 9 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:26,700 Speaker 2: the story. You know why? Because we got the actual 10 00:00:26,709 --> 00:00:28,940 Speaker 2: team 0 to 9. 11 00:00:35,930 --> 00:00:38,630 Speaker 2: Everyone. Welcome back to another episode of the Hot Pot 12 00:00:38,639 --> 00:00:41,598 Speaker 2: where we hop into different transitions in life. I'm Nick, 13 00:00:41,610 --> 00:00:45,270 Speaker 2: I'm Joey. I'm Q and welcome back to our Cozy 14 00:00:45,279 --> 00:00:48,489 Speaker 2: Little podcast. If you're not subscribed yet, please subscribe. Ok. 15 00:00:48,500 --> 00:00:48,639 Speaker 1: So 16 00:00:48,650 --> 00:00:51,259 Speaker 1: before we hop into today's episode, guys, how are you 17 00:00:51,270 --> 00:00:51,790 Speaker 1: all doing? 18 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:52,848 Speaker 2: I'm OK. 19 00:00:53,060 --> 00:00:54,139 Speaker 1: That side was a bit 20 00:00:54,150 --> 00:00:54,509 Speaker 1: deep. 21 00:00:54,529 --> 00:00:56,729 Speaker 2: No, no, no. OK. I just recovered from my Bali 22 00:00:56,740 --> 00:01:00,180 Speaker 2: belly which she shamed me publicly. He did. Yes. On 23 00:01:00,189 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 1: the podcast. He also 24 00:01:01,209 --> 00:01:01,409 Speaker 2: called 25 00:01:01,419 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 1: me 26 00:01:01,569 --> 00:01:01,950 Speaker 2: a Pick me. 27 00:01:02,750 --> 00:01:05,150 Speaker 1: It was a joke. It was for the content. 28 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:08,529 Speaker 2: Very main character energy a bit. I cannot film today. 29 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:11,540 Speaker 1: Basically, she was just trying to tell us she go 30 00:01:11,550 --> 00:01:11,669 Speaker 1: ba 31 00:01:12,910 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 2: yeah, 32 00:01:13,110 --> 00:01:15,949 Speaker 2: I'm not, you know, 33 00:01:17,519 --> 00:01:20,550 Speaker 2: I got Bali Belly because I just come back from Bali. 34 00:01:20,599 --> 00:01:22,059 Speaker 2: Can I just see what I have to do that? 35 00:01:26,180 --> 00:01:28,238 Speaker 2: Ok. So anyway, it's been a while but we are 36 00:01:28,250 --> 00:01:35,430 Speaker 2: back with our favorite episode format. It's another Reddit episode. Ok. 37 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:37,660 Speaker 2: So today we're going to be reacting to, am I 38 00:01:37,669 --> 00:01:41,089 Speaker 2: the asshole stories? Relationship edition? 39 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,259 Speaker 1: So if you guys aren't already familiar, there are some 40 00:01:43,269 --> 00:01:47,300 Speaker 1: terms frequently used on threats like that. So yt means 41 00:01:47,309 --> 00:01:51,180 Speaker 1: you are the asshole, nt means not the asshole. Esh 42 00:01:51,519 --> 00:01:53,150 Speaker 1: means everybody sucks here 43 00:01:54,250 --> 00:01:58,959 Speaker 1: and a means no assholes here and info means not 44 00:01:58,970 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 1: enough info. So you need to give more context. 45 00:02:01,449 --> 00:02:01,620 Speaker 2: My 46 00:02:01,629 --> 00:02:04,199 Speaker 2: favorite is when it's so obvious that you are the asshole. 47 00:02:04,209 --> 00:02:07,589 Speaker 2: But then the person like don't realize they like self awareness, 48 00:02:07,599 --> 00:02:09,399 Speaker 2: not that ready were like side with 49 00:02:09,410 --> 00:02:10,070 Speaker 2: them. 50 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 1: Oh my God, I love this, 51 00:02:11,279 --> 00:02:14,179 Speaker 1: especially the people who like bitch about their partners or 52 00:02:14,190 --> 00:02:16,899 Speaker 1: spouses and then everyone's like no do you? 53 00:02:17,029 --> 00:02:20,138 Speaker 2: It's like those Tik Tok videos they expect the audience 54 00:02:20,149 --> 00:02:23,559 Speaker 2: to decide them, but then the whole comment section is 55 00:02:23,570 --> 00:02:27,449 Speaker 2: hating on them. Yeah. OK. So by user nose dive 56 00:02:27,460 --> 00:02:28,740 Speaker 2: 8173 57 00:02:29,690 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 2: happened a few months ago, but she still brings it 58 00:02:32,449 --> 00:02:36,839 Speaker 2: up in anger. So I travel internationally for business semi regularly. 59 00:02:36,850 --> 00:02:39,350 Speaker 2: And in October, I was sent on a trip to Singapore. 60 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:40,839 Speaker 1: Is I breaking 61 00:02:40,850 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 1: the fourth wall? 62 00:02:41,538 --> 00:02:44,429 Speaker 2: My girlfriend has always wanted to go but lack the funds. 63 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:47,380 Speaker 2: So she asked if she could tag along this trip 64 00:02:47,389 --> 00:02:49,729 Speaker 2: and stay with me in my hotel where my firm 65 00:02:49,740 --> 00:02:52,508 Speaker 2: sent me business and my girlfriend paid for her own 66 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:54,228 Speaker 2: economy ticket out of pocket. 67 00:02:54,758 --> 00:02:57,130 Speaker 2: I didn't think much of it at the time since 68 00:02:57,139 --> 00:03:00,100 Speaker 2: I've been working literally right after I landed while she 69 00:03:00,110 --> 00:03:02,619 Speaker 2: would have the entire week hanging by the hotel and 70 00:03:02,630 --> 00:03:06,300 Speaker 2: exploring herself. She said I was a selfish idiot for 71 00:03:06,309 --> 00:03:09,580 Speaker 2: sleeping the whole flight while she sat in tight economy seats. 72 00:03:10,258 --> 00:03:12,479 Speaker 2: She said I should have offered to either buy her 73 00:03:12,490 --> 00:03:13,509 Speaker 2: business myself 74 00:03:13,929 --> 00:03:16,529 Speaker 2: or chose to fly economy. So I would sit next 75 00:03:16,538 --> 00:03:19,070 Speaker 2: to her. I offered to give her my business ticket 76 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,089 Speaker 2: on the way back and sit in economy myself. But 77 00:03:22,100 --> 00:03:26,250 Speaker 2: she refused saying it's too little, too late. She actually 78 00:03:26,258 --> 00:03:29,169 Speaker 2: ended up booking an earlier flight and going home without 79 00:03:29,179 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 2: me because she said the flight ruined her trip. I 80 00:03:32,250 --> 00:03:36,250 Speaker 2: was pretty flabbergasted but returned home later to a massive 81 00:03:36,259 --> 00:03:39,789 Speaker 2: fight where she called me stingy and a poor partner 82 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:40,229 Speaker 2: to her. 83 00:03:40,949 --> 00:03:43,970 Speaker 2: Am I the asshole? I just wonder how he communicated 84 00:03:43,979 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 2: this to her? I'm just imagining, right? Maybe she suggested, 85 00:03:46,889 --> 00:03:49,199 Speaker 2: can I come along then if you come, you come on, 86 00:03:49,220 --> 00:03:52,779 Speaker 2: then it snowball into this? Maybe. Maybe. But this is 87 00:03:52,789 --> 00:03:53,759 Speaker 2: just my assumption. 88 00:03:54,380 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 2: The other thing also is like, should he have given 89 00:03:57,369 --> 00:03:59,850 Speaker 2: up his seat in business class for her? I don't 90 00:03:59,860 --> 00:04:04,279 Speaker 2: need ok, as someone who travels for work quite regularly. 91 00:04:04,289 --> 00:04:06,100 Speaker 2: A lot of times when I land right, then you 92 00:04:06,110 --> 00:04:10,149 Speaker 2: go straight into a meeting. So the difference between sitting 93 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:13,270 Speaker 2: and flying in business and the economy in that situation, 94 00:04:13,869 --> 00:04:17,399 Speaker 2: a huge difference because then like my company is paying 95 00:04:17,410 --> 00:04:19,799 Speaker 2: for me to be there, then they expect me to 96 00:04:19,809 --> 00:04:22,540 Speaker 2: be able to like bring my a game into like 97 00:04:22,549 --> 00:04:24,049 Speaker 2: that client meeting or whatever. 98 00:04:24,859 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 2: Where's this girl? Right? Holiday, 99 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 1: the disdain this girl, 100 00:04:29,980 --> 00:04:30,540 Speaker 1: right? 101 00:04:30,549 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 2: That's why. So to me it's a case of like 102 00:04:32,649 --> 00:04:35,670 Speaker 2: if she's not happy flying economy, then you say from 103 00:04:35,678 --> 00:04:38,549 Speaker 2: the start when you're booking a ticket, then then I 104 00:04:38,559 --> 00:04:40,820 Speaker 2: pay but she never communicated. I think the solution is 105 00:04:40,829 --> 00:04:41,369 Speaker 2: break up 106 00:04:42,869 --> 00:04:45,609 Speaker 2: 0 to 100 in your life. Actually, if I cannot 107 00:04:45,619 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 2: like that right? Then the whole week I like them 108 00:04:47,329 --> 00:04:49,179 Speaker 2: stress about what then I still got to do with this, right? 109 00:04:49,190 --> 00:04:51,768 Speaker 2: I think it's quite a big red flag. I think 110 00:04:51,779 --> 00:04:53,690 Speaker 2: the right thing to do is for them to cut 111 00:04:53,700 --> 00:04:56,238 Speaker 2: their money, right? And pay for the extra business class 112 00:04:56,250 --> 00:04:57,529 Speaker 2: ticket for her for 113 00:04:57,540 --> 00:04:57,959 Speaker 2: her 114 00:04:57,970 --> 00:04:59,410 Speaker 1: since she's saving on 115 00:05:00,010 --> 00:05:02,928 Speaker 1: com already. Right. Yeah, I mean fair 116 00:05:02,940 --> 00:05:05,179 Speaker 2: actually. True. You already got free of coms 117 00:05:05,190 --> 00:05:08,029 Speaker 1: and he is not paying for coms technically. 118 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,130 Speaker 2: Oh my God. Can you imagine if she thought about 119 00:05:10,140 --> 00:05:15,839 Speaker 2: a flight? That was three hours long? Yeah, like from 120 00:05:15,850 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 2: Malaysia to Singapore 121 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 2: by the 122 00:05:19,010 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 1: time you relax, right? It really need to wear it again. 123 00:05:22,859 --> 00:05:29,089 Speaker 2: Ok. So consensus. She is the asshole I think quite 124 00:05:29,149 --> 00:05:29,238 Speaker 2: As 125 00:05:29,579 --> 00:05:33,779 Speaker 1: All right. Next story by Maxine Lo 7 L I 126 00:05:33,790 --> 00:05:38,029 Speaker 1: 26 f have been dating Max 25 M for four 127 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:40,928 Speaker 1: months when I was 22. I had a nose job 128 00:05:40,940 --> 00:05:43,190 Speaker 1: as I broke my nose twice as a kid and 129 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:44,910 Speaker 1: it left with a large lump. 130 00:05:45,529 --> 00:05:48,899 Speaker 1: Then at 23 I had a breast augmentation that bumped 131 00:05:48,910 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 1: me up two cup sizes. These were lifelong insecurities that 132 00:05:52,329 --> 00:05:54,768 Speaker 1: I was bullied over and it was really relieving to 133 00:05:54,779 --> 00:05:55,410 Speaker 1: get them done. 134 00:05:56,178 --> 00:05:58,670 Speaker 1: Last night. I was scrolling through my social media while 135 00:05:58,678 --> 00:06:01,109 Speaker 1: on the sofa with him. I stopped on an old 136 00:06:01,119 --> 00:06:05,019 Speaker 1: classmates vacation photo where she wore a bikini and frankly 137 00:06:05,029 --> 00:06:09,029 Speaker 1: had very obvious implants. Max glanced over at that moment 138 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:11,839 Speaker 1: and said, gross. He said, women who get implants or 139 00:06:11,850 --> 00:06:14,579 Speaker 1: other surgeries are a huge turn off to most guys 140 00:06:14,820 --> 00:06:18,119 Speaker 1: and how men prefer natural over two balloons and how 141 00:06:18,130 --> 00:06:19,469 Speaker 1: insecure she looks. 142 00:06:20,079 --> 00:06:21,868 Speaker 1: I couldn't help but laugh and I said, so you 143 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:23,940 Speaker 1: are turned off by me. He got very confused and 144 00:06:23,950 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 1: asked what I meant and I informed him I had 145 00:06:26,010 --> 00:06:30,160 Speaker 1: procedures done before he got quiet and left shortly after 146 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:32,700 Speaker 1: I got a text saying I should have disclosed this 147 00:06:32,709 --> 00:06:35,230 Speaker 1: on the first date and how I let him on 148 00:06:35,238 --> 00:06:38,350 Speaker 1: and that he needs to reconsider things. Am I the asshole? 149 00:06:38,410 --> 00:06:39,100 Speaker 2: Can you imagine 150 00:06:39,750 --> 00:06:41,600 Speaker 2: going on a date? And then like by the way 151 00:06:43,769 --> 00:06:44,399 Speaker 2: before we start 152 00:06:44,410 --> 00:06:46,109 Speaker 1: fake, fake, fake, continue, 153 00:06:46,119 --> 00:06:46,369 Speaker 2: you 154 00:06:46,380 --> 00:06:46,570 Speaker 1: like or 155 00:06:46,579 --> 00:06:51,190 Speaker 2: not? Ok. Ok. I don't know. Is that ok? But 156 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:53,070 Speaker 2: do you think that it's something that you need to 157 00:06:53,079 --> 00:06:55,229 Speaker 2: disclose to someone that you're dating? I feel I should 158 00:06:55,238 --> 00:06:57,459 Speaker 2: disclose at some point, but four months I think is 159 00:06:57,470 --> 00:07:00,260 Speaker 2: still quite fair to have not disclosed yet. Wait, why 160 00:07:00,269 --> 00:07:02,459 Speaker 2: do you think you need to disclose? No, I think 161 00:07:02,470 --> 00:07:03,029 Speaker 2: it's just general 162 00:07:03,140 --> 00:07:07,250 Speaker 2: like openness and transparency like fo so randomly on a 163 00:07:07,260 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 2: dinner date, by the way, my verse fix. 164 00:07:10,170 --> 00:07:12,049 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it's the way you say if he's 165 00:07:12,059 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 2: like, no, I think you position it as like what 166 00:07:13,929 --> 00:07:16,359 Speaker 2: are some insecurities that you have? Then you like share 167 00:07:16,579 --> 00:07:16,730 Speaker 2: or 168 00:07:16,750 --> 00:07:17,309 Speaker 1: if 169 00:07:17,329 --> 00:07:20,750 Speaker 1: he compliments your boobs? Like thanks. I bought them. Ok. Funny. 170 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:22,579 Speaker 1: I mean, and he was like, what do you mean? 171 00:07:22,589 --> 00:07:24,559 Speaker 1: And then if he that way, then you are not 172 00:07:24,570 --> 00:07:26,559 Speaker 1: a fit. You also don't want someone who 173 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:29,799 Speaker 2: you don't want to be feeling like you have to 174 00:07:29,809 --> 00:07:32,459 Speaker 2: hide the secret forever. OK. Oh My God. Can I 175 00:07:32,470 --> 00:07:34,959 Speaker 2: tell you something? I don't feel very comfortable when my 176 00:07:34,970 --> 00:07:37,790 Speaker 2: female friends show me their body. Ok. The na I 177 00:07:37,809 --> 00:07:38,269 Speaker 2: like 178 00:07:38,850 --> 00:07:41,429 Speaker 2: you. I don't want to see your nipples. I don't 179 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:46,450 Speaker 2: want my friend who altered her breast who did something 180 00:07:46,459 --> 00:07:47,140 Speaker 2: to her breast or 181 00:07:47,222 --> 00:07:49,502 Speaker 2: right? I was open to it and suddenly it felt 182 00:07:49,513 --> 00:07:52,493 Speaker 2: like signs or you just like it's OK. Just show me, 183 00:07:52,502 --> 00:07:54,592 Speaker 2: just show me like you want to touch. Ok? I 184 00:07:54,703 --> 00:07:55,143 Speaker 2: thought you touch 185 00:07:55,153 --> 00:07:56,463 Speaker 1: the implant. No, 186 00:07:56,472 --> 00:08:01,322 Speaker 2: I never squeeze. But just like on the side. Oh, interesting. Interesting. 187 00:08:01,483 --> 00:08:04,893 Speaker 2: Suddenly I'm not uncomfortable. I don't know why. What do 188 00:08:04,903 --> 00:08:05,923 Speaker 2: you think? So? 189 00:08:06,173 --> 00:08:06,243 Speaker 1: I 190 00:08:06,252 --> 00:08:07,092 Speaker 1: think because you, 191 00:08:07,555 --> 00:08:09,466 Speaker 1: the silicone and not her soul. 192 00:08:09,656 --> 00:08:11,665 Speaker 2: No, I don't. So, 193 00:08:11,675 --> 00:08:15,075 Speaker 1: like, if you touch real life, like you're touching her. But, 194 00:08:15,085 --> 00:08:16,946 Speaker 1: you know, I mean, like this is you, it's now 195 00:08:16,955 --> 00:08:20,506 Speaker 1: a product and not part. Correct. See, would it matter 196 00:08:20,515 --> 00:08:22,946 Speaker 1: if you need to say like, oh by the way, my, 197 00:08:22,955 --> 00:08:24,946 Speaker 1: I broke my nose when I was young. So I got, 198 00:08:24,955 --> 00:08:26,585 Speaker 1: I had to get a new job. The 199 00:08:26,596 --> 00:08:31,906 Speaker 2: accident scenario, understandable is like, and you don't have a choice. 200 00:08:31,915 --> 00:08:32,466 Speaker 2: But then 201 00:08:32,890 --> 00:08:35,750 Speaker 2: the other one, maybe some people will see as vanity 202 00:08:36,010 --> 00:08:39,700 Speaker 2: or insecurity, insecurity that you need to condense it by 203 00:08:39,849 --> 00:08:43,189 Speaker 2: doing something to your face to make yourself feel better. 204 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:46,070 Speaker 2: So fundamentally like this guy, if he, if one of 205 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 2: his deal breakers is that I need a woman or 206 00:08:49,010 --> 00:08:52,239 Speaker 2: a partner that is super secure in herself, then that's 207 00:08:52,250 --> 00:08:54,460 Speaker 2: quite fair. Also, then you're just not a good fit. 208 00:08:54,469 --> 00:08:57,719 Speaker 2: So is she the asshole or is he the asshole? 209 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:01,090 Speaker 1: I think nobody is the asshole here. It was not 210 00:09:01,099 --> 00:09:02,939 Speaker 1: wrong for her to get procedures done. 211 00:09:02,950 --> 00:09:05,090 Speaker 2: I agree. I don't think anybody's as although the guy 212 00:09:05,099 --> 00:09:07,919 Speaker 2: is a little bit more asshole than as he walked 213 00:09:07,929 --> 00:09:10,819 Speaker 2: away without seeing anything. But this is from her perspective also. 214 00:09:10,900 --> 00:09:16,859 Speaker 2: So need to true So it's a na no assholes here. 215 00:09:17,030 --> 00:09:22,449 Speaker 2: Next story as I mentioned nipples just now, but user nipples. 216 00:09:22,460 --> 00:09:25,659 Speaker 2: So a few minutes ago, my what? He so urgent 217 00:09:27,900 --> 00:09:35,090 Speaker 2: wait till ready at this moment like arguing or something 218 00:09:35,099 --> 00:09:37,859 Speaker 2: then like he like r OK. So a few minutes ago, 219 00:09:37,869 --> 00:09:39,909 Speaker 2: my wife and I jumped into bed to sleep and 220 00:09:39,919 --> 00:09:42,569 Speaker 2: when she reached over for kiss, good night, I declined. 221 00:09:42,820 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 2: It wasn't super rude in any way, but I did 222 00:09:45,010 --> 00:09:46,479 Speaker 2: try to play it off as a bit of a 223 00:09:46,489 --> 00:09:49,969 Speaker 2: joke with. Oh no, no, thank you. You ate Durian? 224 00:09:50,130 --> 00:09:50,179 Speaker 2: Ha ha. 225 00:09:51,380 --> 00:09:53,359 Speaker 2: She got quite angry at me and won't speak to 226 00:09:53,369 --> 00:09:55,839 Speaker 2: me after saying that I always act like she is 227 00:09:55,849 --> 00:09:59,330 Speaker 2: some disgusting thing when she eats Durian. Where is his wife? 228 00:09:59,340 --> 00:10:03,609 Speaker 2: At this point? I'm really very curious, brushing teeth. She's drinking, 229 00:10:03,940 --> 00:10:07,309 Speaker 2: she's wearing this spray. I have no problems with her 230 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:11,080 Speaker 2: eating Durian, but I hate the smell of Durian. It 231 00:10:11,090 --> 00:10:14,390 Speaker 2: nearly makes me puke. It's one of the most vile 232 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:16,669 Speaker 2: and genuinely disgusting smells. I know 233 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:20,500 Speaker 2: I prefer the smell of my own fermented dick cheese 234 00:10:20,969 --> 00:10:21,630 Speaker 2: to it. A 235 00:10:22,549 --> 00:10:22,949 Speaker 1: smack 236 00:10:23,020 --> 00:10:24,949 Speaker 2: my. How dare you compare to dick 237 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:28,219 Speaker 1: cheese during a snack or them? Different one? Got crust. 238 00:10:28,229 --> 00:10:29,359 Speaker 1: One got no crust. OK. 239 00:10:29,919 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 2: So it angers me that she can't seem to understand 240 00:10:31,890 --> 00:10:32,739 Speaker 2: that it grosses me out. 241 00:10:33,070 --> 00:10:35,140 Speaker 2: No, I don't want to kiss you and have my 242 00:10:35,150 --> 00:10:37,598 Speaker 2: most hated taste stuck to my lips right below my 243 00:10:37,609 --> 00:10:40,020 Speaker 2: nose but she insists that I'm a jerk because it's 244 00:10:40,030 --> 00:10:42,608 Speaker 2: only a quick good night kiss. Am I the asshole 245 00:10:42,619 --> 00:10:44,750 Speaker 2: for not wanting to kiss her? I think he, as 246 00:10:45,909 --> 00:10:49,468 Speaker 2: first the fact that argue straight away, go already 247 00:10:49,969 --> 00:10:53,479 Speaker 2: and post this, they argued, they really argued or it's 248 00:10:53,489 --> 00:10:56,390 Speaker 2: just like a few minutes ago as it might just 249 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:58,770 Speaker 2: be a passing remark. And she didn't think like, it's 250 00:10:58,780 --> 00:11:00,770 Speaker 2: an argument. What? No, but he said a few minutes 251 00:11:00,780 --> 00:11:04,599 Speaker 2: ago they had this but instead of like resolving it 252 00:11:04,609 --> 00:11:08,468 Speaker 2: with his wife, he's like dear diary. Yeah, for the 253 00:11:08,479 --> 00:11:08,710 Speaker 2: world to 254 00:11:08,955 --> 00:11:11,944 Speaker 2: then the second part is that I also agree there. 255 00:11:11,955 --> 00:11:14,585 Speaker 2: I feel like just like quick 256 00:11:14,594 --> 00:11:16,875 Speaker 1: pack or you don't inhale when you kiss on, we 257 00:11:16,885 --> 00:11:17,983 Speaker 1: ask you to inhale, right? 258 00:11:17,994 --> 00:11:20,044 Speaker 2: Nobody asking you to like like last, 259 00:11:20,744 --> 00:11:29,603 Speaker 1: right? OK. But why disgusting? Like I understand like if 260 00:11:29,614 --> 00:11:33,104 Speaker 1: it's a smell that literally will send you to vomit, right? 261 00:11:33,265 --> 00:11:34,325 Speaker 1: I do know. 262 00:11:34,914 --> 00:11:37,265 Speaker 2: I mean, I think maybe he need to vomit one time. 263 00:11:38,090 --> 00:11:38,820 Speaker 2: Oh, yes, 264 00:11:38,830 --> 00:11:39,859 Speaker 1: no, no. Show her right 265 00:11:40,030 --> 00:11:40,549 Speaker 1: in her. 266 00:11:40,599 --> 00:11:42,770 Speaker 2: I think she don't understand. Yeah. So you need to 267 00:11:42,780 --> 00:11:46,659 Speaker 2: help her understand the extreme and just kiss then just 268 00:11:46,669 --> 00:11:48,689 Speaker 2: for me. Correct on the bit into her mouth. 269 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:49,219 Speaker 1: You 270 00:11:49,260 --> 00:11:49,390 Speaker 2: are 271 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:52,099 Speaker 1: correct into her mouth. I think for her it's the 272 00:11:52,109 --> 00:11:53,140 Speaker 1: act of rejection. 273 00:11:53,484 --> 00:11:56,494 Speaker 1: She keeps saying that like he's always rejecting her. So 274 00:11:56,505 --> 00:12:00,005 Speaker 1: she really has this insecurity of not being wanted, right? 275 00:12:00,015 --> 00:12:02,344 Speaker 1: I mean, if he's only rejecting her when she is 276 00:12:02,354 --> 00:12:04,414 Speaker 1: D and then she needs to like, read the room. Right. 277 00:12:04,424 --> 00:12:09,044 Speaker 2: Why does it sound like she always, I mean, every night, 278 00:12:09,530 --> 00:12:11,299 Speaker 2: well, then there will be a deal breaker. Right. So 279 00:12:11,309 --> 00:12:13,609 Speaker 2: it depends on how often she cannot, it boils down 280 00:12:13,619 --> 00:12:15,909 Speaker 2: to hygiene or D is like you eat at home. Right? 281 00:12:15,919 --> 00:12:18,340 Speaker 2: Then the whole house smell like it. So then not 282 00:12:18,349 --> 00:12:22,598 Speaker 2: just her breath, he, every day, but I think he 283 00:12:22,609 --> 00:12:24,669 Speaker 2: just need to for me one time for her and 284 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 2: don't compare the DD is awesome. I love Durian. This 285 00:12:29,650 --> 00:12:30,989 Speaker 2: kind of like vocab 286 00:12:32,570 --> 00:12:35,580 Speaker 2: make me like we were on your side actually. Ok. 287 00:12:35,590 --> 00:12:38,380 Speaker 2: So who is the asshole here? The guy? You are 288 00:12:38,390 --> 00:12:39,109 Speaker 2: the asshole. 289 00:12:39,299 --> 00:12:41,890 Speaker 1: Actually. I think they are both as say about that. 290 00:12:41,900 --> 00:12:42,189 Speaker 2: How 291 00:12:43,119 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 2: about 292 00:12:43,580 --> 00:12:45,489 Speaker 1: this one is a bit tough. What do you think? 293 00:12:45,500 --> 00:12:47,330 Speaker 1: Comment down below. This is from 294 00:12:47,965 --> 00:12:51,315 Speaker 1: underscore chance 785. I love it. I love all the 295 00:12:51,325 --> 00:12:54,343 Speaker 1: user names. Where's team name? My girlfriend of a year 296 00:12:54,354 --> 00:12:57,294 Speaker 1: and a half now doesn't like to shower after work 297 00:12:57,544 --> 00:12:59,994 Speaker 1: and I can feel the sweat that's on her body 298 00:13:00,005 --> 00:13:02,135 Speaker 1: that gets all tacky after it dries 299 00:13:04,119 --> 00:13:07,210 Speaker 1: the sheets get dirtier faster and smelly and I don't 300 00:13:07,219 --> 00:13:10,250 Speaker 1: feel comfortable really cuddling and touching her as much because 301 00:13:10,260 --> 00:13:13,169 Speaker 1: I know she isn't really clean after a 10 hour 302 00:13:13,179 --> 00:13:16,179 Speaker 1: shift on her feet, making food from scratch all day. 303 00:13:16,190 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: She gets sad and quiet or she gets angry and 304 00:13:18,770 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 1: says she doesn't want me telling her what to do 305 00:13:20,890 --> 00:13:21,780 Speaker 1: when she's tired. 306 00:13:22,989 --> 00:13:24,090 Speaker 1: I have a solution 307 00:13:24,969 --> 00:13:25,549 Speaker 1: gets B 308 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:26,199 Speaker 1: wipes. 309 00:13:26,219 --> 00:13:30,469 Speaker 2: Ok? Yes, that's a good solution. But at the same time, 310 00:13:30,479 --> 00:13:33,119 Speaker 2: I do need to say I really am a firm 311 00:13:33,130 --> 00:13:37,020 Speaker 2: believer that everyone in Singapore need to shower twice. It's 312 00:13:37,450 --> 00:13:39,829 Speaker 2: hot and after a long day at work 313 00:13:40,789 --> 00:13:44,780 Speaker 2: it's gross. Our guys to me like bare minimum, right? 314 00:13:44,789 --> 00:13:48,010 Speaker 2: I also am a shower twice club but I draw 315 00:13:48,020 --> 00:13:50,200 Speaker 2: the line and like if you don't want to shower 316 00:13:50,210 --> 00:13:53,199 Speaker 2: in the morning, shower at night, ok, fine. Shower at 317 00:13:53,210 --> 00:13:55,770 Speaker 2: night important because like the one you like line in 318 00:13:55,780 --> 00:13:58,968 Speaker 2: bed like cuddle in bed with your partner and your 319 00:13:58,979 --> 00:14:02,890 Speaker 2: bed is supposed to be the cleanest place because then 320 00:14:02,900 --> 00:14:03,069 Speaker 2: if you 321 00:14:03,150 --> 00:14:04,858 Speaker 2: wake up the next morning and you had showered the 322 00:14:04,869 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 2: night before, then you don't shower, then. Ok, especially if 323 00:14:08,289 --> 00:14:10,228 Speaker 2: we sleep in an air conditioned room. Yes. 324 00:14:10,239 --> 00:14:12,959 Speaker 1: Ok. But really the solution here is get the Gatsby 325 00:14:12,969 --> 00:14:13,169 Speaker 1: White 326 00:14:13,289 --> 00:14:14,929 Speaker 2: no solution here to just shower 327 00:14:15,059 --> 00:14:18,109 Speaker 1: if she's really tired and she doesn't want to just 328 00:14:18,119 --> 00:14:21,169 Speaker 1: wipe down. There's the ones that it really removes, the 329 00:14:21,179 --> 00:14:25,270 Speaker 1: sweat is alcohol based and there's a fresh smell if 330 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:25,419 Speaker 1: you 331 00:14:25,429 --> 00:14:25,489 Speaker 2: are, 332 00:14:25,570 --> 00:14:28,650 Speaker 2: I already putting in the effort to do this, do this, right? 333 00:14:29,609 --> 00:14:32,719 Speaker 2: This is the same as when you're showering because to 334 00:14:32,729 --> 00:14:36,950 Speaker 2: white properly, you need to shower white properly. You need 335 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:38,900 Speaker 2: take all your clothes A K A the first step 336 00:14:38,909 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 2: of showering, which they will probably change. Then after that, 337 00:14:42,650 --> 00:14:44,479 Speaker 2: you need to run your hands around the surface of 338 00:14:44,489 --> 00:14:47,869 Speaker 2: your skin to we. Correct. OK. The second step of showering, 339 00:14:48,469 --> 00:14:53,679 Speaker 2: you are already like 40% there because the wi you 340 00:14:53,849 --> 00:14:57,119 Speaker 2: wi your hair, you don't wash your hair. Ok? OK. 341 00:14:57,770 --> 00:15:01,090 Speaker 2: But the same is the same motion. Yeah, same actions. 342 00:15:01,429 --> 00:15:02,570 Speaker 1: This one very tough. 343 00:15:02,679 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 2: It's not tough. I think Joey likes to shower once. 344 00:15:06,869 --> 00:15:09,059 Speaker 1: No, I shower before I sleep on. I want to 345 00:15:09,070 --> 00:15:11,820 Speaker 1: shower in the morning. But recently it's been so hot, right? 346 00:15:11,830 --> 00:15:13,599 Speaker 1: I have to take two showers a day. Verdict. 347 00:15:13,974 --> 00:15:16,715 Speaker 2: Not the asshole geography. I think no one is an 348 00:15:16,724 --> 00:15:19,965 Speaker 2: asshole here. I think the extreme of calling someone and 349 00:15:20,015 --> 00:15:22,775 Speaker 2: no one is an asshole here. Just that one of 350 00:15:22,784 --> 00:15:28,184 Speaker 2: the two of your smells like an asshole shot shot 351 00:15:28,775 --> 00:15:29,315 Speaker 2: shot. 352 00:15:30,830 --> 00:15:34,549 Speaker 2: Wait, wait, wait before we read the most important story 353 00:15:34,559 --> 00:15:38,719 Speaker 2: of them all, Tim, you're subscribing. 354 00:15:39,039 --> 00:15:40,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, I have or not. Please subscribe 355 00:15:42,539 --> 00:15:47,229 Speaker 2: now like a bit squeezy. Why suddenly you right beside me? Wait, 356 00:15:47,239 --> 00:15:47,460 Speaker 1: why 357 00:15:47,469 --> 00:15:48,539 Speaker 1: is Nick so far away? 358 00:15:48,609 --> 00:15:50,380 Speaker 2: And then I think Joey, you don't need to read 359 00:15:50,390 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 2: the story. You know why? Because we got the actual 360 00:15:53,969 --> 00:15:54,309 Speaker 2: team 361 00:15:54,799 --> 00:15:58,270 Speaker 2: 029 to read his story. Oh 362 00:15:58,280 --> 00:15:59,330 Speaker 2: my God. 363 00:15:59,340 --> 00:16:00,409 Speaker 1: Welcome to the couch. 364 00:16:01,239 --> 00:16:04,710 Speaker 2: Thank you. Thank you. Ok, so fun fact, Tim Lim 029. 365 00:16:04,719 --> 00:16:06,530 Speaker 2: Real name is not Tim Lim. No, it's not 366 00:16:06,539 --> 00:16:08,289 Speaker 1: as you can tell he's not a Chinese boy. 367 00:16:08,299 --> 00:16:10,900 Speaker 2: What is your real name? My real name is Imran. 368 00:16:10,909 --> 00:16:12,530 Speaker 2: Tim is not short for Timothy but 369 00:16:12,909 --> 00:16:17,179 Speaker 2: for the run. Tell us more about you. I'm a 370 00:16:17,190 --> 00:16:21,929 Speaker 2: motion graphics designer. I started a team name account just 371 00:16:21,940 --> 00:16:25,340 Speaker 2: for fun. I wanted like an account that like just 372 00:16:25,349 --> 00:16:27,890 Speaker 2: like to post random stuff on. And I thought like, 373 00:16:27,960 --> 00:16:30,210 Speaker 2: what's the most generic sounding name? I can come up 374 00:16:30,219 --> 00:16:30,500 Speaker 2: with 375 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:32,799 Speaker 2: generic starting Reddit user 376 00:16:33,549 --> 00:16:33,820 Speaker 2: name? 377 00:16:33,830 --> 00:16:35,090 Speaker 1: 029. What is a two 378 00:16:35,099 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 1: nine? 379 00:16:35,450 --> 00:16:36,950 Speaker 2: I don't know. I just pressed the number on my, 380 00:16:37,739 --> 00:16:40,539 Speaker 2: oh my God. But we need to set some context 381 00:16:40,549 --> 00:16:44,770 Speaker 2: for our audience. Why is he here? How did this happen? Ok. 382 00:16:44,780 --> 00:16:48,239 Speaker 2: So basically we had our one year anniversary event. 383 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:50,619 Speaker 2: So there were a bunch of people who showed up, 384 00:16:50,630 --> 00:16:51,900 Speaker 2: love you all. Thanks for showing 385 00:16:51,909 --> 00:16:52,020 Speaker 2: up. 386 00:16:52,030 --> 00:16:55,010 Speaker 1: We had a Q and A segment and one of 387 00:16:55,020 --> 00:16:57,650 Speaker 1: the questions were, who is this Tim Lim? And why 388 00:16:57,659 --> 00:16:59,830 Speaker 1: do you all like keep talking about him? How come 389 00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:02,580 Speaker 1: he's in all the episodes? And then suddenly right in 390 00:17:02,590 --> 00:17:04,699 Speaker 1: front of us at the couch, you see this? Like 391 00:17:05,430 --> 00:17:08,609 Speaker 1: I am Tim Lim. And then it's really like, like 392 00:17:08,619 --> 00:17:09,530 Speaker 1: what the heck? 393 00:17:09,939 --> 00:17:14,020 Speaker 2: My favorite episodes are the rabbit episodes. How do you 394 00:17:14,030 --> 00:17:17,020 Speaker 2: choose the comments and how come? Always Tim Lim. 0 395 00:17:17,170 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 2: 22 9. Where are you? Where are you? Which is 396 00:17:21,770 --> 00:17:22,160 Speaker 2: my Reddit? 397 00:17:25,910 --> 00:17:25,930 Speaker 2: Yeah, 398 00:17:27,328 --> 00:17:28,988 Speaker 2: I'm a Chinese guy named Timothy. 399 00:17:35,079 --> 00:17:38,188 Speaker 2: Oh my God. 400 00:17:44,339 --> 00:17:44,359 Speaker 2: No, 401 00:17:46,930 --> 00:17:49,739 Speaker 2: we all scream that it was mind blowing. Yeah, he 402 00:17:49,750 --> 00:17:53,180 Speaker 2: really like made an entrance. So he like sign up 403 00:17:53,189 --> 00:17:56,369 Speaker 2: for the event. Got picked for the event. Did not 404 00:17:56,380 --> 00:17:59,430 Speaker 2: reveal that he was team Lim all the way until 405 00:17:59,439 --> 00:18:01,060 Speaker 2: the Q and A. Then you were the one who 406 00:18:01,069 --> 00:18:03,419 Speaker 2: asked the questions. I sent the question. So he planted 407 00:18:03,430 --> 00:18:06,630 Speaker 2: the question. Yeah. So smart strategy, I remember he said 408 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:10,930 Speaker 1: he was like, I'm and get this OK. At the end, 409 00:18:10,939 --> 00:18:13,500 Speaker 1: we had another giveaway and this giveaway is so like 410 00:18:13,510 --> 00:18:14,410 Speaker 1: for someone to win 411 00:18:14,540 --> 00:18:17,319 Speaker 1: a chance to watch our life taping and then Nick 412 00:18:17,329 --> 00:18:19,550 Speaker 1: draws this number and then this number is Tim Li 413 00:18:20,209 --> 00:18:20,420 Speaker 2: Yeah. 414 00:18:20,430 --> 00:18:23,760 Speaker 2: So he's watching a live recording A K A this episode. 415 00:18:23,770 --> 00:18:25,880 Speaker 2: Maybe you can tell us. How do you find out 416 00:18:25,890 --> 00:18:29,010 Speaker 2: about us? One of my friends Isaac is on a 417 00:18:29,020 --> 00:18:32,448 Speaker 2: code and when he premiered on code, I watch this 418 00:18:32,459 --> 00:18:34,079 Speaker 2: episode and then 419 00:18:34,619 --> 00:18:37,639 Speaker 2: the hot pot just auto played after that. Normally people 420 00:18:37,650 --> 00:18:41,800 Speaker 2: is watch hot pot first, then it's OK. It's OK. 421 00:18:42,930 --> 00:18:47,989 Speaker 2: We are equals on. And then while I was watching 422 00:18:48,020 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 2: the red episode came up, suddenly I hear my own 423 00:18:51,069 --> 00:18:53,020 Speaker 2: user name being read out. And then I think at 424 00:18:53,030 --> 00:18:54,430 Speaker 2: the time two episodes were already 425 00:18:54,729 --> 00:18:55,579 Speaker 1: by Tim Li. 426 00:18:56,839 --> 00:18:59,958 Speaker 2: Tim Lim again, Tim Lim. Tim, remember 427 00:18:59,969 --> 00:19:02,929 Speaker 2: Tim Lim? Tim Lim was in the worst, right? First 428 00:19:02,939 --> 00:19:07,439 Speaker 2: story is by a user called Tim Lim 029 OK, 429 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:10,770 Speaker 2: so shout out Tim Lim 029. The next story is 430 00:19:10,780 --> 00:19:16,479 Speaker 2: by Tim Lim 0290 my God. I feel like one 431 00:19:16,489 --> 00:19:18,930 Speaker 2: day if it's possible, right? Tim Lim make yourself known 432 00:19:18,939 --> 00:19:19,010 Speaker 2: to 433 00:19:19,180 --> 00:19:21,430 Speaker 2: us. You will be a guest. So I was like, 434 00:19:21,439 --> 00:19:23,859 Speaker 2: this is like becoming a thing and I sent to 435 00:19:23,869 --> 00:19:26,880 Speaker 2: my friends and they like all like this is so interesting. 436 00:19:26,890 --> 00:19:29,649 Speaker 2: It's crazy and now you're here and now I'm here. Ok. 437 00:19:29,660 --> 00:19:32,159 Speaker 2: So Iran, you have a story for us, right? I do, 438 00:19:32,170 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 2: I do have a sense. We've all read episodes except 439 00:19:34,770 --> 00:19:36,719 Speaker 2: this time you can read it yourself. I feel like 440 00:19:36,729 --> 00:19:39,750 Speaker 2: it's like, you know, those author reading sessions. Oh my God, 441 00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:40,180 Speaker 1: you sign 442 00:19:40,189 --> 00:19:41,079 Speaker 1: up at popular. 443 00:19:44,719 --> 00:19:46,389 Speaker 2: So this story is from a friend of mine. It's 444 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:49,750 Speaker 2: not my own personal story by user Tim Lim. 029, 445 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:54,629 Speaker 2: I 23 f have been dating my boyfriend 25 M 446 00:19:54,790 --> 00:19:57,859 Speaker 2: for six months recently. We took things to the next 447 00:19:57,869 --> 00:20:00,310 Speaker 2: level and introduce each other to our respective parents. 448 00:20:00,739 --> 00:20:03,010 Speaker 2: Because of that. We've started staying over at each other's 449 00:20:03,020 --> 00:20:06,819 Speaker 2: houses except I hate staying at his house because of 450 00:20:06,829 --> 00:20:13,500 Speaker 2: his gross chow chow pillow. Oh my gosh. We call 451 00:20:13,510 --> 00:20:18,719 Speaker 2: it B which is a smelly. It's an old bolster 452 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:21,359 Speaker 2: from his childhood with a Donald Duck pillowcase. 453 00:20:21,869 --> 00:20:24,270 Speaker 2: He's never washed, it only puts it in the sun 454 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:26,790 Speaker 2: on hot days. It smells bad and I hate sleeping 455 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:28,739 Speaker 2: in his bed. With it because I swear it makes 456 00:20:28,750 --> 00:20:31,469 Speaker 2: my skin break out. So of course, this is a 457 00:20:31,479 --> 00:20:33,170 Speaker 2: hugely sentimental item for him. 458 00:20:33,689 --> 00:20:36,050 Speaker 2: He's had it forever and can't sleep without it and 459 00:20:36,060 --> 00:20:38,260 Speaker 2: has even brought it on trips overseas in the past. 460 00:20:38,530 --> 00:20:40,390 Speaker 2: Am I the asshole for asking him to get rid 461 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:43,780 Speaker 2: of his gross childhood pillow? Why cannot wash when you 462 00:20:43,849 --> 00:20:49,780 Speaker 2: wash the smell? I will wash. Can I also add, 463 00:20:49,790 --> 00:20:51,880 Speaker 2: I don't think putting anything in the sun helps because 464 00:20:51,890 --> 00:20:53,639 Speaker 2: you go in the sun doesn't mean you don't need 465 00:20:53,650 --> 00:20:56,500 Speaker 2: to shower. Hey, no, no, no, but he was different. 466 00:20:57,739 --> 00:20:59,660 Speaker 2: But yeah, I think she's not the ass. So he 467 00:20:59,670 --> 00:21:00,229 Speaker 2: needs to like 468 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:02,060 Speaker 2: grow up a bit. 469 00:21:02,479 --> 00:21:03,619 Speaker 1: You bring the total 470 00:21:03,630 --> 00:21:05,199 Speaker 2: bring a holiday. Holiday 471 00:21:05,209 --> 00:21:07,020 Speaker 1: is like, you know, they tell you you cannot bring 472 00:21:07,030 --> 00:21:07,869 Speaker 1: toxic things on. 473 00:21:08,829 --> 00:21:09,930 Speaker 2: I think it's toxic 474 00:21:10,550 --> 00:21:12,050 Speaker 2: like go through the scanner, they will 475 00:21:13,479 --> 00:21:14,339 Speaker 1: come out like the 476 00:21:14,369 --> 00:21:16,609 Speaker 2: dogs will come. If I go here from people like 477 00:21:16,619 --> 00:21:20,698 Speaker 2: my friends, parents are got to. So they like 60 478 00:21:20,709 --> 00:21:23,209 Speaker 2: years already then they still got I think quite do 479 00:21:23,219 --> 00:21:25,140 Speaker 2: you think there's an age limit? I think age limit 480 00:21:25,150 --> 00:21:26,810 Speaker 2: like what? 21? No, 12. 481 00:21:27,859 --> 00:21:30,369 Speaker 2: Ok. I think my solution here right is really just 482 00:21:30,910 --> 00:21:34,170 Speaker 2: to keep it in a little bag whenever she comes. 483 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:36,479 Speaker 2: Whenever she comes over, you just like keep it in 484 00:21:36,489 --> 00:21:39,869 Speaker 2: a bag and don't bring it overseas. Then everyone happy. 485 00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:41,670 Speaker 2: But then at the end of day, you're gonna marry 486 00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:45,119 Speaker 2: this guy. Shit. I think it's like potentially breaker. Can 487 00:21:45,130 --> 00:21:47,780 Speaker 2: you sleep with this thing on the same bed as you? 488 00:21:47,790 --> 00:21:49,849 Speaker 2: Because next time your matrimonial bit 489 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:51,349 Speaker 2: there will be this CC. 490 00:21:51,729 --> 00:21:53,839 Speaker 1: Can you imagine you make baby then you're breaking up. 491 00:21:53,959 --> 00:21:56,099 Speaker 1: I don't think it's a deal breaker to have a cho, cho. 492 00:21:56,199 --> 00:22:00,030 Speaker 1: But I think having that kind of unhealthy like dependency 493 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:05,000 Speaker 1: on this one stuffed like germ ball, right? Is, is 494 00:22:05,010 --> 00:22:05,439 Speaker 1: a bit 495 00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:06,050 Speaker 2: oh 496 00:22:06,589 --> 00:22:08,939 Speaker 2: my God. Can I just say, right? Imagine being intimate 497 00:22:08,949 --> 00:22:11,910 Speaker 2: with this person? Then at the side you see this 498 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:13,989 Speaker 2: Donald duck, the spiderman turn on. 499 00:22:17,170 --> 00:22:19,209 Speaker 2: You are not the asshole. I think not the asshole. Yeah. 500 00:22:19,410 --> 00:22:22,390 Speaker 2: So the conclusion is he actually did was the church 501 00:22:22,819 --> 00:22:27,640 Speaker 2: but it fell apart in the washing machine and she 502 00:22:27,650 --> 00:22:30,900 Speaker 2: got him a Donald duck. Oh my God. Love this 503 00:22:30,910 --> 00:22:37,520 Speaker 2: couple friends, my friends. Oh my God. That I know. Sorry, sorry. 504 00:22:38,829 --> 00:22:42,030 Speaker 1: Ok. So I think in general seeking advice online is normal. 505 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:46,030 Speaker 1: It's quite normalized now on Instagram, Tik Tok the stories. 506 00:22:46,150 --> 00:22:50,169 Speaker 1: But I think if you have a pressing issue within 507 00:22:50,180 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 1: your relationship, then maybe seek professional advice because you honestly 508 00:22:54,530 --> 00:22:57,750 Speaker 1: cannot trust people online. Sometimes they don't always want the 509 00:22:57,760 --> 00:22:58,819 Speaker 1: best for you but sometimes 510 00:22:58,829 --> 00:23:01,770 Speaker 2: quite good because like they quite unhinged, then they will 511 00:23:01,780 --> 00:23:04,780 Speaker 2: just be like brutally honest rather than like sometimes you 512 00:23:04,790 --> 00:23:06,660 Speaker 2: go to like someone that's too politically correct. Am I 513 00:23:06,859 --> 00:23:07,179 Speaker 2: as with it? 514 00:23:07,910 --> 00:23:12,229 Speaker 2: You know, how do we define it. I don't need 515 00:23:12,239 --> 00:23:14,329 Speaker 2: that man. Just tell me, can I also say if 516 00:23:14,339 --> 00:23:15,869 Speaker 2: you're in a fight with your partner and you come 517 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:19,239 Speaker 2: up with the, but Reddit said you lost, you lost 518 00:23:19,250 --> 00:23:19,958 Speaker 2: the fight. Sorry, 519 00:23:20,300 --> 00:23:21,790 Speaker 1: please don't do that. That one is real 520 00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:23,050 Speaker 2: chronic minutes after then 521 00:23:23,459 --> 00:23:24,359 Speaker 1: like a 522 00:23:25,500 --> 00:23:27,489 Speaker 1: few minutes ago, I had a fight with my wife. 523 00:23:27,859 --> 00:23:28,930 Speaker 1: Don't do that. 524 00:23:30,589 --> 00:23:32,469 Speaker 2: Thanks for watching this episode of the Hot Pot. You 525 00:23:32,479 --> 00:23:35,260 Speaker 2: can listen to us on Spotify Apple podcast and me listen. 526 00:23:35,270 --> 00:23:35,449 Speaker 1: And 527 00:23:35,459 --> 00:23:37,619 Speaker 1: please subscribe to us if you haven't already. 528 00:23:37,670 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 2: And of course, a huge thanks as well to our 529 00:23:40,050 --> 00:23:45,889 Speaker 2: Reddit legend, Tim Lim, supplier of many juicy stories, Imran. 530 00:23:45,949 --> 00:23:48,899 Speaker 2: Thank you. I thanks, thanks for having me on in 531 00:23:48,910 --> 00:23:50,599 Speaker 2: the future. Now, when you see T Lim 0 to 532 00:23:50,609 --> 00:23:51,099 Speaker 2: 9 in 533 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 2: face, 534 00:23:51,770 --> 00:23:53,380 Speaker 1: you can put a face to the name 535 00:23:53,959 --> 00:23:56,930 Speaker 2: and we will see you on the next episode. Bye. 536 00:23:57,790 --> 00:24:01,270 Speaker 2: Can we try the, wait, wait, wait. Ok. So you 537 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 2: say that I go first? I go first but we 538 00:24:03,530 --> 00:24:07,439 Speaker 2: try to like, do you then wait, but wait, wait, 539 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,550 Speaker 2: after I say, I mean, after we all say that 540 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 2: you say the subscribe. Ok. 541 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:17,260 Speaker 2: Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.