1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:00,860 Speaker 1: Hi, it's hazel 2 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:01,800 Speaker 2: zero and I'm 3 00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:04,620 Speaker 1: Jermaine and welcome back to another episode of cavities. 4 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:09,370 Speaker 2: So as you can see we're decked out in black today. 5 00:00:09,380 --> 00:00:10,430 Speaker 2: It's our clubbing 6 00:00:10,430 --> 00:00:14,290 Speaker 1: outfit. Do night life. Yes, 7 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:18,850 Speaker 2: they've officially opened everything, bars, clubs, K TVs and we've 8 00:00:18,850 --> 00:00:22,010 Speaker 2: seen crazy stories of people like fighting outside the club. 9 00:00:22,020 --> 00:00:22,210 Speaker 2: I'll 10 00:00:22,210 --> 00:00:24,820 Speaker 1: tell you Cherry right, every time I walked past there, 11 00:00:24,829 --> 00:00:29,900 Speaker 1: all these tell you know, they really are perspiring buckets 12 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:31,780 Speaker 1: queuing to go into the club and the 13 00:00:31,910 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 2: very old man, 14 00:00:33,140 --> 00:00:36,520 Speaker 1: Okay, they look maybe just two years younger than me 15 00:00:36,530 --> 00:00:38,810 Speaker 1: and they're like joining the super-long Q2 going because my 16 00:00:38,810 --> 00:00:40,589 Speaker 1: dance studio is right beside right and I was just 17 00:00:40,590 --> 00:00:42,460 Speaker 1: thinking why would they do that to themselves? 18 00:00:42,540 --> 00:00:43,250 Speaker 1: They've been 19 00:00:43,250 --> 00:00:44,519 Speaker 2: misbehaving there. 20 00:00:44,530 --> 00:00:46,050 Speaker 1: They have been, 21 00:00:46,060 --> 00:00:48,860 Speaker 2: it's been a lot. I think we've heard many, many 22 00:00:48,860 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 2: stories and long queues, you know our long waits to 23 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:54,260 Speaker 2: get into clubs and all that. 24 00:00:54,340 --> 00:00:57,130 Speaker 2: But I want to ask you girls now that nightlife 25 00:00:57,130 --> 00:00:59,690 Speaker 2: activities are back, does it affect your life in any way? 26 00:00:59,700 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 2: Are you happy? Well 27 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:02,150 Speaker 1: you definitely 28 00:01:02,150 --> 00:01:06,490 Speaker 2: are smiling. Jermaine has been wild. I just went out 29 00:01:06,490 --> 00:01:07,569 Speaker 2: last night. Oh 30 00:01:07,580 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 1: my gosh, but to me, I feel like 31 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:12,010 Speaker 1: that also in me hopes that there still can be 32 00:01:12,010 --> 00:01:14,460 Speaker 1: a cut off timing for alcohol. Oh my God, he's 33 00:01:14,459 --> 00:01:15,260 Speaker 1: gonna kill me. Look at that. 34 00:01:15,340 --> 00:01:19,270 Speaker 1: Okay, so it used to be 10:30 PM right? I 35 00:01:19,270 --> 00:01:22,010 Speaker 1: thought that was great. After dinner, after some drinks you 36 00:01:22,010 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 1: go home, you get ready to go to bed and 37 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:27,530 Speaker 1: but now, right, you can be a party until like 38 00:01:27,530 --> 00:01:28,270 Speaker 1: 23 a. 39 00:01:28,270 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 2: M. one club closes at six by the way, 40 00:01:30,569 --> 00:01:33,890 Speaker 1: my goodness, I tell you the last time I went 41 00:01:33,890 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 1: out with jeremy, I ended up 42 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:38,170 Speaker 1: Reaching home at about two plus. 43 00:01:38,180 --> 00:01:39,040 Speaker 2: I 44 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:40,980 Speaker 1: Know where I know, I have to wake up at 45 00:01:40,980 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 1: six for work 46 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:42,509 Speaker 2: by the way, I 47 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,150 Speaker 1: reached him at two plus I threw up, I slept, 48 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:47,350 Speaker 1: I woke up, I threw up, I went to work 49 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:50,270 Speaker 1: and then I threw up again, I'm 50 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:52,890 Speaker 2: so sorry, but as in like you have been out, 51 00:01:52,890 --> 00:01:55,690 Speaker 2: you know at like live events as well with drinks 52 00:01:55,690 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 2: and all that, right? 53 00:01:56,650 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: Which is fun. I like it. I like it actually 54 00:01:59,210 --> 00:02:01,260 Speaker 1: a little drinks. Yeah. What 55 00:02:01,260 --> 00:02:02,250 Speaker 2: about you? Zura? 56 00:02:02,540 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 2: I feel like I've aged over two years so I'm 57 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:12,570 Speaker 2: not as happening anymore. I can still go out, but 58 00:02:12,570 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 2: maybe just not as much because I need time to 59 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:17,790 Speaker 2: recover retired. You know that they um I heard the 60 00:02:17,790 --> 00:02:20,940 Speaker 2: story of one of our colleagues drinking an anti hangover 61 00:02:20,940 --> 00:02:24,180 Speaker 2: drink and one of our young interns, 19 years old 62 00:02:24,190 --> 00:02:25,549 Speaker 2: asked why do you need that? 63 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 2: Very, No, it's because you don't know, you don't know 64 00:02:30,290 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 2: we were there once, you know, we were there once. 65 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:35,139 Speaker 2: But yeah, so anti hangover drinks really work. 66 00:02:35,150 --> 00:02:37,870 Speaker 1: You know my anti hangover cure is like a hot 67 00:02:37,870 --> 00:02:42,890 Speaker 1: bowl of ramen soothing for the next, the next morning 68 00:02:42,889 --> 00:02:45,049 Speaker 1: when I'm throwing buckets, but 69 00:02:45,340 --> 00:02:47,580 Speaker 1: that's another story for another day, but tell us about 70 00:02:47,590 --> 00:02:49,190 Speaker 1: your stories to me. I feel like you have a 71 00:02:49,190 --> 00:02:49,630 Speaker 1: lot to 72 00:02:49,630 --> 00:02:51,470 Speaker 2: share. I was like so you know I didn't really 73 00:02:51,470 --> 00:02:53,980 Speaker 2: have social interaction for so many years and now like 74 00:02:53,980 --> 00:02:56,750 Speaker 2: going out meeting people and seeing friends I haven't seen 75 00:02:56,750 --> 00:02:59,660 Speaker 2: in years. It's just it's just amazing. But we actually 76 00:02:59,669 --> 00:03:03,459 Speaker 2: asked our listeners right on instagram, what do they think? 77 00:03:03,540 --> 00:03:06,370 Speaker 2: 79% of them said they'd rather stay at home. 78 00:03:06,380 --> 00:03:08,790 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. I feel like I belong in this 79%. 79 00:03:08,790 --> 00:03:11,690 Speaker 1: But actually the majority 80 00:03:11,700 --> 00:03:14,990 Speaker 2: is that our listeners very wholesome. Yeah. I 81 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:18,010 Speaker 1: think listeners of harsh podcast are usually more wholesome 82 00:03:18,020 --> 00:03:20,350 Speaker 2: than the host of the podcast 83 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:24,790 Speaker 2: life of the party. But you know what's the most 84 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:27,490 Speaker 2: annoying thing. Our producer actually put a note here about it. 85 00:03:27,500 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 2: It's to book a grab home at the end of 86 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:30,230 Speaker 2: the night, 87 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:30,980 Speaker 1: right? 88 00:03:30,990 --> 00:03:34,410 Speaker 2: Yes it was crazy. I think from Clark key to 89 00:03:34,410 --> 00:03:36,620 Speaker 2: my house, I paid like $30 for a cab and 90 00:03:36,620 --> 00:03:38,030 Speaker 2: it's only 10 minutes away. Why 91 00:03:38,030 --> 00:03:39,060 Speaker 1: don't you walk home? 92 00:03:39,940 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 2: No, she my humble home. If I walked home I 93 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:46,350 Speaker 2: wouldn't have made it here for this podcast. No but 94 00:03:46,350 --> 00:03:48,170 Speaker 2: it's really really crazy. Everyone's trying to get home at 95 00:03:48,170 --> 00:03:48,820 Speaker 2: the same time. 96 00:03:48,830 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 1: You know the other times L. A. And I went 97 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:52,950 Speaker 1: for supper with a bunch of friends and um try 98 00:03:52,950 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: to get a cab home. So from like CBD area 99 00:03:55,450 --> 00:03:57,420 Speaker 1: he stays in the east and then he was like 100 00:03:57,420 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: trying to get a cab all of our friends, 101 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: Each of us open one different like grab app or 102 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 1: like go jack and just try to book a cab 103 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:06,650 Speaker 1: for him, you know and none of us got it. 104 00:04:06,660 --> 00:04:10,410 Speaker 1: He only got one like 40 minutes later. That's insane. 105 00:04:10,420 --> 00:04:11,970 Speaker 1: And the prices sky high, you know? 106 00:04:11,980 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 2: It's crazy, it's crazy. So okay. I assume that 107 00:04:15,940 --> 00:04:18,660 Speaker 2: y'all have not really been to the clubs since reopening 108 00:04:18,670 --> 00:04:21,660 Speaker 1: once more to bars. Less of clubs. 109 00:04:21,670 --> 00:04:25,040 Speaker 2: Same. I'm more of a like just be my friend. 110 00:04:25,050 --> 00:04:29,020 Speaker 2: Like I like chili so I enjoy that. What about 111 00:04:29,020 --> 00:04:29,950 Speaker 2: pre pandemic? 112 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:31,810 Speaker 2: Like when you turn 18 where you're like Oh my 113 00:04:31,810 --> 00:04:33,940 Speaker 2: gosh let's go to the club and celebrate 114 00:04:33,950 --> 00:04:37,430 Speaker 1: that was me. You know? Remember the old Zuck you 115 00:04:37,430 --> 00:04:38,650 Speaker 1: sit outside, Yes, 116 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:41,429 Speaker 1: outside bridge, you know, and a lot of people will 117 00:04:41,430 --> 00:04:44,460 Speaker 1: be there just drinking those good old days. But I 118 00:04:44,460 --> 00:04:45,160 Speaker 1: find that 119 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:48,930 Speaker 1: that's not for me I feel and I find I 120 00:04:48,930 --> 00:04:52,280 Speaker 1: found myself asking how come I don't like clubbing, like 121 00:04:52,290 --> 00:04:54,670 Speaker 1: everyone loves it. Like the young people love it and 122 00:04:54,670 --> 00:04:57,159 Speaker 1: I'm young, I should be able to enjoy it, but 123 00:04:57,160 --> 00:04:59,430 Speaker 1: I just find that I don't enjoy it as much. 124 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:02,150 Speaker 2: I think it's not for everyone, you know people really 125 00:05:02,150 --> 00:05:03,589 Speaker 2: just want to have a chill night because when you 126 00:05:03,589 --> 00:05:05,049 Speaker 2: go to a club, you can't really 127 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:05,990 Speaker 2: connect with 128 00:05:05,990 --> 00:05:07,210 Speaker 1: people, 129 00:05:07,330 --> 00:05:10,070 Speaker 2: you can shout at them, but you can't really have 130 00:05:10,070 --> 00:05:11,070 Speaker 2: a conversation 131 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:13,540 Speaker 1: but it's fun to dance together. My friends will do 132 00:05:13,540 --> 00:05:15,730 Speaker 1: the cipher, everyone will get in the circle and then 133 00:05:15,730 --> 00:05:17,380 Speaker 1: one person will go to the center and just dance 134 00:05:17,380 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 2: it serious one. 135 00:05:18,370 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, so fun. I love 136 00:05:20,770 --> 00:05:22,659 Speaker 2: that. I 137 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:25,539 Speaker 2: I think for me, I was part of the gang 138 00:05:25,540 --> 00:05:27,720 Speaker 2: that like 18 years old. Let me go out and 139 00:05:27,730 --> 00:05:32,060 Speaker 2: party like it. Yes, so I had that phase when 140 00:05:32,060 --> 00:05:34,500 Speaker 2: I was younger right where I partied like crazy for 141 00:05:34,500 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 2: about three years and then I burned out 142 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:41,700 Speaker 2: for the next like three years. I was so lazy 143 00:05:41,700 --> 00:05:43,349 Speaker 2: to go out. People would chill me out and I'll 144 00:05:43,350 --> 00:05:44,550 Speaker 2: be like I just want to stay at home so 145 00:05:44,550 --> 00:05:47,460 Speaker 2: I understand your stamina is 146 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:48,679 Speaker 2: amazing, 147 00:05:49,490 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 1: solid, solid, 148 00:05:51,450 --> 00:05:54,610 Speaker 2: but not for running, but for clubbing can. Yeah, so 149 00:05:54,610 --> 00:05:57,990 Speaker 2: now that they're opening up again, I feel like once 150 00:05:57,990 --> 00:06:02,450 Speaker 2: you start, you cannot stop. I understand, but on my side, 151 00:06:02,450 --> 00:06:04,390 Speaker 2: but I feel like sometimes it can be very tiring 152 00:06:04,390 --> 00:06:07,370 Speaker 2: because it's not just the physical aspect of it, but 153 00:06:07,370 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 2: sometimes it also feels like it's very surface level, you 154 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,140 Speaker 2: know the friends, you make a very surface level. The 155 00:06:12,140 --> 00:06:14,700 Speaker 2: conversations you have a very surface level and then it 156 00:06:14,700 --> 00:06:18,450 Speaker 2: just drains you out that way. Usually I'm just in 157 00:06:18,450 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 2: my own bubble and I will just, I go to 158 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,100 Speaker 2: the club to dance, that's what I really love to 159 00:06:24,100 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 2: do is to dance. Yeah and everyone around me becomes invisible. 160 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:31,659 Speaker 2: Sorry guys, but okay, what are some of your most like, 161 00:06:31,670 --> 00:06:34,310 Speaker 2: memorable clubbing experiences? 162 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:36,160 Speaker 1: Okay, this is a bit embarrassing 163 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:39,420 Speaker 1: and a bit happy at the same time. Oh my goodness, 164 00:06:39,430 --> 00:06:40,589 Speaker 2: no, I want to know. 165 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:44,550 Speaker 1: So back when I was working after, I didn't know 166 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:46,770 Speaker 1: it was after my old, after my age, so I 167 00:06:46,770 --> 00:06:49,260 Speaker 1: went to a club with my colleagues, right? 168 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 1: And I ended up 169 00:06:51,140 --> 00:06:53,650 Speaker 1: french kissing a female colleague. 170 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:58,409 Speaker 1: I totally don't remember until the next day she came 171 00:06:58,410 --> 00:07:00,420 Speaker 1: up to me and said remember your french kiss? I 172 00:07:00,420 --> 00:07:01,490 Speaker 1: was like, what 173 00:07:01,540 --> 00:07:03,010 Speaker 2: your wild 174 00:07:03,010 --> 00:07:06,260 Speaker 1: snippets of like last night flashed back in my mind. 175 00:07:06,260 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, I think we did, 176 00:07:08,570 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 1: but she's fully straight and so am I, So it's 177 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 1: just for the fun of it, but it was so 178 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:15,910 Speaker 1: funny and I don't remember it. So this is what 179 00:07:15,910 --> 00:07:17,230 Speaker 1: the influence of alcohol can do to 180 00:07:17,230 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 2: you, wow, it's dangerous. No, I'm 181 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:21,820 Speaker 1: social. At least someone I 182 00:07:21,820 --> 00:07:25,330 Speaker 2: know. Yeah, it's true, it's true, it's true. I know 183 00:07:25,340 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 1: she's looking at me 184 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:28,750 Speaker 2: with such like, 185 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 2: is there any from you that you remember? 186 00:07:32,340 --> 00:07:35,330 Speaker 2: Okay, so many many years ago when I was a 187 00:07:35,330 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 2: lot younger and you know, just a lot more energy 188 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:40,030 Speaker 2: and everything, right? So I did a trip with a 189 00:07:40,030 --> 00:07:44,350 Speaker 2: friend and um it was like we wake up at 190 00:07:44,350 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 2: six PM every day 191 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:49,500 Speaker 2: and then we come home at six a.m. Every day 192 00:07:49,510 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 2: every day. It's just like that. And then um there 193 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:55,670 Speaker 2: was one night that we were out and we had 194 00:07:55,670 --> 00:07:58,270 Speaker 2: gone on this like, you know one of those like 195 00:07:58,270 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 2: bar hop trails or whatever it is, be a bunch 196 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 2: of people had a lot of fun 197 00:08:03,340 --> 00:08:07,290 Speaker 2: and then this fellow was drunk out of her mind. 198 00:08:07,290 --> 00:08:09,540 Speaker 2: So I I usually take care of people right? So 199 00:08:09,540 --> 00:08:10,860 Speaker 2: we had met this um 200 00:08:11,340 --> 00:08:12,060 Speaker 2: couple, 201 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:16,530 Speaker 2: they were from God knows where and they were like, 202 00:08:16,540 --> 00:08:18,550 Speaker 2: oh come come, like how about y'all just stay over 203 00:08:18,550 --> 00:08:22,980 Speaker 2: at our place. Oh and she was insisting to go 204 00:08:22,990 --> 00:08:25,900 Speaker 2: means what is them while I can understand what's going on. 205 00:08:25,910 --> 00:08:28,020 Speaker 2: So because she was like just you know under the 206 00:08:28,020 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 2: influence of alcohol and everything and she was just like 207 00:08:29,690 --> 00:08:33,079 Speaker 2: let's go, but this was strangers that we just met 208 00:08:33,090 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 2: and it's not like they lived there, it's a hotel room. 209 00:08:36,340 --> 00:08:39,459 Speaker 2: So I was very like what does this mean? I 210 00:08:39,460 --> 00:08:41,770 Speaker 2: was very scared. So basically I had to drag her 211 00:08:41,770 --> 00:08:44,230 Speaker 2: as there because she insisted she was not going anywhere. 212 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 2: So I had to go with her, I can't just 213 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:47,630 Speaker 2: leave her, right? And I was just like, oh my God, 214 00:08:47,630 --> 00:08:49,750 Speaker 2: this is how I die, honestly, this is how I die. 215 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:53,449 Speaker 2: So what happened, nothing happened. So literally like they just 216 00:08:53,450 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 2: wanted to have us over. 217 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:56,630 Speaker 2: I don't know why I was going to be like a, 218 00:08:57,340 --> 00:08:59,490 Speaker 2: I don't know you 219 00:08:59,490 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: did nothing in the hotel room, like drink more, check 220 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:03,260 Speaker 2: They drank and then 221 00:09:03,540 --> 00:09:04,260 Speaker 2: chat 222 00:09:04,740 --> 00:09:07,070 Speaker 2: and then I don't understand why they were interesting on 223 00:09:07,070 --> 00:09:11,540 Speaker 2: us to sleep there. Like I've just gone back, you know? Okay. 224 00:09:11,550 --> 00:09:14,690 Speaker 2: So I barely slept because because you're stressed, 225 00:09:14,700 --> 00:09:19,070 Speaker 1: it's for the better. You do something while you sleep, 226 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:22,449 Speaker 2: you have to protect yourself. Like even in Singapore, when 227 00:09:22,450 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 2: you go out, like, I'm sorry. I didn't establish that 228 00:09:25,690 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 2: the couple is a female couple. Okay. Okay. If that 229 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:33,780 Speaker 2: changes anything, but still a little bit weird both your 230 00:09:33,780 --> 00:09:35,890 Speaker 2: stories while tell 231 00:09:35,890 --> 00:09:37,819 Speaker 1: us about your most memorable experience. 232 00:09:37,830 --> 00:09:41,300 Speaker 2: Okay. I'll tell what I can do many, but I 233 00:09:41,300 --> 00:09:43,730 Speaker 2: cannot say most of them. Okay. That's what I can say. 234 00:09:43,730 --> 00:09:46,530 Speaker 2: So when I was younger, I went to this beach club, 235 00:09:46,540 --> 00:09:47,510 Speaker 2: I think it's called, 236 00:09:48,370 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 2: Yes. It's called Azura Beach Club 237 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:55,949 Speaker 2: at Sentosa. Right? And it's a pool party. Okay. So 238 00:09:55,960 --> 00:10:02,439 Speaker 2: I was obviously inebriated, intoxicated and I pushed my friend 239 00:10:02,440 --> 00:10:04,809 Speaker 2: into the pool, turns out it was not my friend. 240 00:10:04,820 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 2: It was a random stranger who had his phone in 241 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:10,090 Speaker 2: his pocket. Why would you put your phone in your 242 00:10:10,090 --> 00:10:10,650 Speaker 2: pocket 243 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:14,090 Speaker 2: next to the pool and a pool party? Pool party 244 00:10:14,100 --> 00:10:16,900 Speaker 2: And I don't remember this, but he was very mad 245 00:10:16,910 --> 00:10:21,840 Speaker 2: and he held my friends, I see hostage until, you know, 246 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:24,470 Speaker 2: until they were able to solve it. So can you 247 00:10:24,470 --> 00:10:27,729 Speaker 2: imagine the next day I'm hungover as sh it, I 248 00:10:27,730 --> 00:10:30,550 Speaker 2: had to meet, this guy at startup in Plaza Singapore 249 00:10:30,550 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 2: a to pay for his new phone, it was me, 250 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:34,890 Speaker 2: my boyfriend, him and his girlfriend, it was so awkward 251 00:10:34,890 --> 00:10:35,650 Speaker 2: is the worst, 252 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:41,950 Speaker 2: it's the worst experience ever. I don't know what to say, 253 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:44,179 Speaker 1: Very sad story, 254 00:10:44,390 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 2: sad, but that's the ugly side of clubbing, you know, 255 00:10:47,929 --> 00:10:50,530 Speaker 2: that's what can happen sometimes. But I think there are 256 00:10:50,530 --> 00:10:52,540 Speaker 2: a lot of reasons why people go to the club. 257 00:10:52,550 --> 00:10:53,750 Speaker 2: Like for me it's for 258 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:56,390 Speaker 2: to dance and listen to music. What about you guys? 259 00:10:56,390 --> 00:10:58,679 Speaker 1: For the fun of it to be my friends, even 260 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:00,939 Speaker 1: though we cannot communicate because the music's too loud. But 261 00:11:00,950 --> 00:11:03,030 Speaker 1: at least you spend some time together. I think that's nice. 262 00:11:03,030 --> 00:11:03,660 Speaker 2: That's true. 263 00:11:03,740 --> 00:11:06,010 Speaker 2: And you know like how some people have this impression 264 00:11:06,020 --> 00:11:08,700 Speaker 2: or maybe some people really do it right like to 265 00:11:08,710 --> 00:11:13,540 Speaker 2: go to clubs to meet someone to pick someone up, someone, someone, 266 00:11:13,550 --> 00:11:16,309 Speaker 2: that kind of thing, but it's never been there for me. 267 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:18,710 Speaker 2: So I always just if I go, it's because like, 268 00:11:18,710 --> 00:11:20,569 Speaker 2: I just want to have fun with my friends. Like 269 00:11:20,570 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 2: it's really just my friends 270 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 2: when I was younger, right? For a long time, I 271 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:26,620 Speaker 2: was very proud. I will always say like, I've never 272 00:11:26,620 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 2: given my number up in the club. The answer is 273 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:30,750 Speaker 2: always no, 274 00:11:31,140 --> 00:11:32,090 Speaker 2: because until 275 00:11:32,090 --> 00:11:32,950 Speaker 1: now 276 00:11:33,010 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 2: I think some people go to escape their lives. I 277 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:42,190 Speaker 2: think I might have had that at one point as 278 00:11:42,190 --> 00:11:44,170 Speaker 2: well where you know, a lot of things was going 279 00:11:44,170 --> 00:11:45,980 Speaker 2: on in life and you just go there and you 280 00:11:45,980 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 2: can forget about all that, 281 00:11:47,290 --> 00:11:48,470 Speaker 1: even if it's just for one night, 282 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 2: Just for one night, you know? But 283 00:11:50,540 --> 00:11:52,690 Speaker 2: Here's the question, have you all been tapped out home 284 00:11:52,690 --> 00:11:56,960 Speaker 2: before or tap out someone home before? I mean it's 20, 285 00:11:57,470 --> 00:12:00,530 Speaker 1: Well I haven't been home before and I have not 286 00:12:00,530 --> 00:12:01,850 Speaker 1: about anyone home before. 287 00:12:01,860 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 2: Same. Okay. I don't think I've been home before, 288 00:12:04,690 --> 00:12:05,790 Speaker 1: but you have brought someone home 289 00:12:05,790 --> 00:12:09,130 Speaker 2: before. Oh no, have have have sorry, sorry have like half, 290 00:12:09,130 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 2: like when I was younger, when I was younger and single, 291 00:12:11,410 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 1: was that a memorable night? 292 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:13,860 Speaker 1: Yes, 293 00:12:14,140 --> 00:12:19,460 Speaker 2: but like legit legit knows everything, like I told him 294 00:12:19,460 --> 00:12:21,370 Speaker 2: he knows everything, he knows all that I got up 295 00:12:21,370 --> 00:12:24,140 Speaker 2: to like, so in once when I was in new 296 00:12:24,140 --> 00:12:27,380 Speaker 2: york and I was single at that time and it 297 00:12:27,380 --> 00:12:29,510 Speaker 2: was me, my friend and we went out and we 298 00:12:29,510 --> 00:12:31,429 Speaker 2: were at the bar and somehow I don't know, they're 299 00:12:31,429 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 2: very friendly so they come over to you and they 300 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:34,150 Speaker 2: talk to you and stuff. 301 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:36,530 Speaker 2: So we all decided to go to this one guy's place. 302 00:12:36,580 --> 00:12:37,740 Speaker 2: So I was with 303 00:12:38,540 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 2: one guy and my friend was with another guy upstairs. 304 00:12:41,370 --> 00:12:45,260 Speaker 2: They called me up at some point right? And this 305 00:12:45,260 --> 00:12:46,980 Speaker 2: guy locked me in the room and my friend is 306 00:12:46,980 --> 00:12:49,069 Speaker 2: like get out of here, Jermaine, get out of here. 307 00:12:49,070 --> 00:12:50,900 Speaker 2: I was like what? Okay, I don't know like why 308 00:12:50,900 --> 00:12:52,809 Speaker 2: you locked me in this room. He wanted to have 309 00:12:52,809 --> 00:12:55,010 Speaker 2: a threesome and my friend was trying to get me 310 00:12:55,010 --> 00:12:58,330 Speaker 2: out okay but my friend had to leave because he 311 00:12:58,330 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 2: bit her on the lip and she had an allergic 312 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:02,950 Speaker 2: reaction and her lips swelled up to three times the 313 00:13:02,950 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 2: size it was so he had to leave. 314 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:12,370 Speaker 2: Okay. But for the best I wouldn't have done it anyway. 315 00:13:12,380 --> 00:13:14,030 Speaker 2: It's just that this guy was a bit aggressive and 316 00:13:14,030 --> 00:13:15,660 Speaker 2: he like literally locked me in the room. And how 317 00:13:15,660 --> 00:13:19,130 Speaker 2: do you get out? How do we get out? Just 318 00:13:19,130 --> 00:13:19,960 Speaker 2: force your way out 319 00:13:20,340 --> 00:13:21,750 Speaker 2: so you really have to protect yourself. 320 00:13:22,140 --> 00:13:23,790 Speaker 2: Yeah, when you go out 321 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 1: very interesting. I feel like I need to sit down 322 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:27,310 Speaker 1: for coffee with you and listen to all your 323 00:13:27,309 --> 00:13:30,589 Speaker 2: Stories. Okay? Okay. But you know in Singapore, it's like 324 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:32,939 Speaker 2: when you turn 18 you got to go to a club, 325 00:13:32,940 --> 00:13:36,410 Speaker 2: it's like right off passage, right? I don't know if 326 00:13:36,410 --> 00:13:37,980 Speaker 2: that's for everyone, 327 00:13:37,990 --> 00:13:42,710 Speaker 1: but you know what? Um So according to this dance psychologist, 328 00:13:42,710 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: his name is Peter LaVette. 329 00:13:44,340 --> 00:13:46,250 Speaker 1: He did mention that humans are born to dance. It 330 00:13:46,250 --> 00:13:49,150 Speaker 1: is something within us, right? Because the feeling we get 331 00:13:49,150 --> 00:13:52,030 Speaker 1: when we go clubbing is like a natural high and 332 00:13:52,030 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: the bus we get from dancing is an amazing emotional 333 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:56,810 Speaker 1: release and I agree with that. Actually 334 00:13:56,820 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 2: I completely agree and it's something that you don't find 335 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:02,660 Speaker 2: anywhere else right? The music is so loud, 336 00:14:02,740 --> 00:14:05,650 Speaker 2: like you can't even hear yourself. It's just 337 00:14:05,740 --> 00:14:09,449 Speaker 2: a unique experience. Yeah, but I feel like in Singapore, 338 00:14:09,460 --> 00:14:14,449 Speaker 2: I worry about the kids sometimes because I was there once, 339 00:14:14,460 --> 00:14:16,700 Speaker 2: I used to be that girl vomiting all over clarky. 340 00:14:16,700 --> 00:14:20,340 Speaker 2: Like there's not one spot I have not vomited, right? Yeah. 341 00:14:20,350 --> 00:14:23,100 Speaker 2: And at one point I think there was one night 342 00:14:23,100 --> 00:14:25,060 Speaker 2: when I was young, I was blacked out, 343 00:14:25,740 --> 00:14:28,760 Speaker 2: so my then boyfriend as well had to carry me, 344 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:31,070 Speaker 2: but because I was dead weight, he couldn't carry me. 345 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:33,730 Speaker 2: So he carried my head and my ex boyfriend who 346 00:14:33,730 --> 00:14:35,970 Speaker 2: happened to be there had to carry my legs and 347 00:14:35,970 --> 00:14:38,770 Speaker 2: then throw me in a cab. Yeah, it was that bad. 348 00:14:38,770 --> 00:14:40,260 Speaker 2: So I worry about the kids because 349 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:42,050 Speaker 2: it can, it can get quick. 350 00:14:42,540 --> 00:14:45,340 Speaker 1: Well to be fair, I've witnessed a girl rolling around 351 00:14:45,340 --> 00:14:49,190 Speaker 1: in her own puke right outside the club. Like literally 352 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:52,420 Speaker 1: she threw up and then she said ah and she 353 00:14:52,430 --> 00:14:55,620 Speaker 1: just like down on their own puke, it was so gross, 354 00:14:55,740 --> 00:14:58,590 Speaker 1: helped her, I think her friends were there, but it 355 00:14:58,590 --> 00:15:00,860 Speaker 1: was too fast for them to react because one minute 356 00:15:00,860 --> 00:15:02,460 Speaker 1: she was throwing up in the next second, 357 00:15:02,540 --> 00:15:04,890 Speaker 1: her head is on the ground already. My God, that's 358 00:15:04,890 --> 00:15:07,380 Speaker 1: gross there, That's gross. That cannot imagine how she's going 359 00:15:07,380 --> 00:15:08,610 Speaker 1: to shower before she gets to be 360 00:15:08,620 --> 00:15:11,230 Speaker 2: Have you guys ever gotten home and then not taken 361 00:15:11,230 --> 00:15:13,180 Speaker 2: off your makeup before you went to sleep 362 00:15:13,190 --> 00:15:14,150 Speaker 1: over this. 363 00:15:14,940 --> 00:15:18,820 Speaker 1: I'm very disciplined no matter how bad I get, I 364 00:15:18,820 --> 00:15:23,340 Speaker 1: must remove my makeup because my skin is pirate. 365 00:15:23,350 --> 00:15:25,220 Speaker 2: Okay. 366 00:15:25,220 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 1: Maybe skincare. I maybe like too hungover or whatever to, 367 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:31,300 Speaker 1: to put on, but at least make up must remove must, 368 00:15:31,310 --> 00:15:34,030 Speaker 1: even the night I was out of domain. I reached home, 369 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:36,060 Speaker 1: I puke. I 370 00:15:36,140 --> 00:15:39,610 Speaker 1: remove your makeup. I cannot, I cannot go to bed 371 00:15:39,610 --> 00:15:40,540 Speaker 1: without removing my makeup. 372 00:15:40,550 --> 00:15:43,070 Speaker 2: It's a cardinal sin. It's really bad for your skin. 373 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:46,980 Speaker 2: So yes, please remove your makeup. I will. I'm very 374 00:15:46,980 --> 00:15:50,460 Speaker 2: good most days. Yeah, I've seen those like boyfriends on Tiktok, right? 375 00:15:50,460 --> 00:15:54,210 Speaker 2: Like when their girlfriend's, they remove the makeup for the girlfriend. 376 00:15:54,220 --> 00:15:54,780 Speaker 1: Sweet. 377 00:15:55,700 --> 00:15:55,990 Speaker 2: Right? 378 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: But do you always 379 00:15:57,310 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 2: always, even if I like, I don't remember how I 380 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:01,540 Speaker 2: remove my makeup last night. I had a bit of 381 00:16:01,540 --> 00:16:04,060 Speaker 2: eyeliner on this morning still. So I just added on, 382 00:16:04,070 --> 00:16:08,170 Speaker 2: I clean everything up. But I always managed to, even 383 00:16:08,170 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 2: if I don't remember how that's good. It's like a habit. 384 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:12,260 Speaker 2: You know, it's instilled in me. 385 00:16:12,270 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 1: I think 18 year old girls listening to us must 386 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 1: be like, why you remove your makeup? You know, 18 387 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:19,780 Speaker 2: year old girls remove your makeup? 388 00:16:19,790 --> 00:16:21,050 Speaker 1: Yes. Please remove your makeup 389 00:16:21,050 --> 00:16:24,470 Speaker 2: goes a long way. So some singaporeans actually said, you 390 00:16:24,470 --> 00:16:27,100 Speaker 2: know why they enjoy going to the clubs? This guy 391 00:16:27,100 --> 00:16:30,480 Speaker 2: says that it's very addictive. He likes being surrounded by strangers. 392 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:34,250 Speaker 2: He'll never meet again in Singapore. Hello. It's not possible. Actually, 393 00:16:34,250 --> 00:16:36,690 Speaker 2: that's the issue with clubbing in Singapore. You know, 394 00:16:36,700 --> 00:16:37,400 Speaker 1: it's too small. 395 00:16:37,410 --> 00:16:38,450 Speaker 2: Yes 396 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 2: I see the same people every 397 00:16:40,450 --> 00:16:42,090 Speaker 1: every 398 00:16:42,090 --> 00:16:44,970 Speaker 2: week it's like they live there or something. Yeah you 399 00:16:44,970 --> 00:16:52,110 Speaker 2: do ship. They know they do you know what I mean? 400 00:16:52,110 --> 00:16:54,990 Speaker 2: What travels last? Don't do stupid sh it um in 401 00:16:54,990 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 2: Singapore if you go overseas it's different when you club 402 00:16:57,720 --> 00:16:58,210 Speaker 2: overseas 403 00:16:58,220 --> 00:17:00,290 Speaker 1: because you just take a plane back and then you 404 00:17:00,290 --> 00:17:01,590 Speaker 1: never meet the person ever again. 405 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:02,370 Speaker 2: You 406 00:17:02,490 --> 00:17:05,090 Speaker 1: you hope for freedom. Yeah 407 00:17:05,100 --> 00:17:06,330 Speaker 2: you can always hope so. 408 00:17:06,340 --> 00:17:08,780 Speaker 1: This other girl says that she enjoys the loud music, 409 00:17:08,780 --> 00:17:11,479 Speaker 1: the large crowds and spending time with her friends until 410 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:14,700 Speaker 1: the next morning morning. Have you girls ever clubbed to 411 00:17:14,700 --> 00:17:16,880 Speaker 1: the morning where you just get breakfast with friends before 412 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:19,960 Speaker 1: you head home. Right? I have to and that's very 413 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:22,950 Speaker 1: comforting you know super comforting because at four a.m. Mcdonald's 414 00:17:23,310 --> 00:17:24,490 Speaker 1: breakfast or 415 00:17:24,540 --> 00:17:25,340 Speaker 2: porridge. 416 00:17:25,350 --> 00:17:28,070 Speaker 1: I know just go form a griddles or like whatever 417 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 1: warm porridge. So nice. 418 00:17:30,050 --> 00:17:31,520 Speaker 2: You're still, I mean if you can still walk in 419 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 2: a straight line 420 00:17:32,500 --> 00:17:33,290 Speaker 1: that's great 421 00:17:33,290 --> 00:17:35,080 Speaker 2: like that you can go and eat breakfast and all that. 422 00:17:35,090 --> 00:17:36,990 Speaker 1: Yeah a lot of time. The wildest period is like 423 00:17:36,990 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 1: maybe 12:01 a.m. And by 23. Okay is and for 424 00:17:41,490 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 1: you guys are fine my friends club to five a.m. 425 00:17:45,730 --> 00:17:47,709 Speaker 1: Or like just hang out to five a.m. So they 426 00:17:47,710 --> 00:17:52,490 Speaker 1: can catch the first train home. So I yeah 427 00:17:52,590 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 2: I think. 428 00:17:54,270 --> 00:17:55,670 Speaker 1: Yeah but 429 00:17:55,670 --> 00:17:58,420 Speaker 2: you know actually I've seen like I'm not sure about 430 00:17:58,430 --> 00:17:59,960 Speaker 2: other places or things like that 431 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:02,490 Speaker 2: but I saw that because you know when Singapore reopened 432 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:04,970 Speaker 2: I think um Korea that we were there like quite 433 00:18:04,970 --> 00:18:07,070 Speaker 2: recently as well because they reopened at about the same 434 00:18:07,070 --> 00:18:10,500 Speaker 2: time as us. And I saw that you know while 435 00:18:10,510 --> 00:18:12,360 Speaker 2: clubs are closing in like three now 436 00:18:12,940 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 2: they go on til like seven a.m. Our friend was 437 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:20,530 Speaker 2: telling us they party from five AM to two PM 438 00:18:20,540 --> 00:18:22,940 Speaker 2: then they go and sleep then they continue again at night. 439 00:18:22,950 --> 00:18:27,180 Speaker 2: It's while I think I saw the first weekend that 440 00:18:27,180 --> 00:18:31,400 Speaker 2: they fully reopened they were going from like night till 441 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:34,160 Speaker 2: like one p.m. Was always crazy and it's crazy and 442 00:18:34,170 --> 00:18:36,459 Speaker 2: different DJ every hour sorry 443 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 2: that's wilder how to hard, I don't know how but 444 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:43,030 Speaker 2: you really have to be careful especially when you go 445 00:18:43,030 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 2: clubbing overseas because you've got to be responsible for yourself. 446 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:48,160 Speaker 2: Like one time I went home from a party and 447 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:50,090 Speaker 2: I was so drunk. I don't know if I told 448 00:18:50,090 --> 00:18:52,320 Speaker 2: you guys my Uber driver assaulted me. I think I 449 00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 2: talked about this in an earlier episode. 450 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:57,940 Speaker 2: No. Yeah like he was already at my apartment, I 451 00:18:57,940 --> 00:19:00,120 Speaker 2: was in the US and then he helped me down 452 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:02,160 Speaker 2: and they want to let me go and then like 453 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:04,540 Speaker 2: yeah try to do funny things 454 00:19:04,550 --> 00:19:05,889 Speaker 1: so in the end did you manage to get out 455 00:19:05,890 --> 00:19:06,500 Speaker 1: safely 456 00:19:06,530 --> 00:19:09,210 Speaker 2: and the lesson I learned was don't have an Uber 457 00:19:09,210 --> 00:19:12,830 Speaker 2: back alone because I was a target for him and 458 00:19:12,830 --> 00:19:14,390 Speaker 2: I don't even want to report him because I was 459 00:19:14,390 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 2: afraid that he knows where I live and he would 460 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:16,950 Speaker 2: come and kill me. 461 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:20,050 Speaker 2: No, but it's true as a female, you really got 462 00:19:20,050 --> 00:19:22,590 Speaker 2: to take care of yourself, especially overseas. I think you 463 00:19:22,590 --> 00:19:24,640 Speaker 2: know when you talk about like clubbing like going out 464 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:26,960 Speaker 2: and things like that, maybe people have sort of like 465 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:29,050 Speaker 2: some of them are scared, you know, they have like 466 00:19:29,050 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 2: negative views of it, right? Especially parents or whatever. But 467 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:36,889 Speaker 2: I think it's because things actually do happen. But also, 468 00:19:36,900 --> 00:19:38,540 Speaker 2: I mean as people who go and stuff like that, 469 00:19:38,540 --> 00:19:40,490 Speaker 2: I think it's completely fine but you have to reach 470 00:19:40,490 --> 00:19:42,780 Speaker 2: a level where you really know how to take care 471 00:19:42,780 --> 00:19:45,060 Speaker 2: of yourself. It's a different kind of fend for yourself 472 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:47,159 Speaker 2: and if you are able to do that and you're 473 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:49,530 Speaker 2: very aware of that, right? I think it's okay. 474 00:19:49,540 --> 00:19:51,680 Speaker 1: So what are some tips that we can share? I 475 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:54,030 Speaker 1: think always trust your gut feeling. If you find that 476 00:19:54,030 --> 00:19:56,270 Speaker 1: something is fishy if this person or this place or 477 00:19:56,270 --> 00:19:58,530 Speaker 1: your drink even then don't consume it. 478 00:19:58,540 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 2: That's true. Oh yes, that's true signals with your friends. Yeah. 479 00:20:02,330 --> 00:20:04,709 Speaker 2: Like if you are in an uncomfortable situation you want 480 00:20:04,710 --> 00:20:06,980 Speaker 2: to be pulled out of there or if you have 481 00:20:06,990 --> 00:20:08,270 Speaker 2: actually been assaulted, 482 00:20:08,540 --> 00:20:10,369 Speaker 2: call the police seriously 483 00:20:10,380 --> 00:20:12,429 Speaker 1: and I think what jimmy mentioned just now is very true. 484 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:15,190 Speaker 1: Always got a group of friends because if you're alone 485 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:17,750 Speaker 1: you are more vulnerable target for 486 00:20:17,750 --> 00:20:20,440 Speaker 2: people. Okay I know this is rich coming from me 487 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:23,780 Speaker 2: but don't take a drink that someone offers you like randomly. 488 00:20:23,780 --> 00:20:25,709 Speaker 2: I think in Singapore it's still not so bad. But 489 00:20:25,710 --> 00:20:28,070 Speaker 2: if you were to go overseas I would never accept 490 00:20:28,070 --> 00:20:30,680 Speaker 2: a drink from a stranger unless I see the bartender 491 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:33,780 Speaker 2: making it themselves and handing it to me. I don't 492 00:20:33,780 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 2: think you should accept a drink. You never know what's 493 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:36,670 Speaker 2: in it. 494 00:20:36,740 --> 00:20:39,390 Speaker 1: Alright so now that we've all shared our experiences and 495 00:20:39,390 --> 00:20:42,950 Speaker 1: now that we are a bit older than we were 496 00:20:42,950 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 1: 10 years ago, let's talk a bit more about how 497 00:20:44,810 --> 00:20:49,230 Speaker 1: our lifestyle and habits may have changed. So now are 498 00:20:49,230 --> 00:20:51,460 Speaker 1: we more of a partygoer or home body? 499 00:20:51,940 --> 00:20:54,810 Speaker 1: Well for jermaine I can safely say is a former 500 00:20:54,820 --> 00:20:56,800 Speaker 2: correct. I might burn out though. You never 501 00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:57,960 Speaker 1: know right? But 502 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:00,190 Speaker 2: one thing I'm proud of is I stopped throwing up 503 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,879 Speaker 1: still. Do you need the anti hangover drink? Yes. 504 00:21:02,890 --> 00:21:07,700 Speaker 2: Some people think of pills also got like drink it 505 00:21:07,700 --> 00:21:10,109 Speaker 2: or Yeah, sponsored. What about you? 506 00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:10,770 Speaker 1: Zura 507 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:12,360 Speaker 1: party go home buddy. 508 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:16,119 Speaker 2: I don't think I'm a partygoer but neither am I 509 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:20,070 Speaker 2: a home body. I just like to be out but 510 00:21:20,070 --> 00:21:23,730 Speaker 2: not necessarily partying. Right? Just hanging with friends. 511 00:21:23,730 --> 00:21:24,380 Speaker 1: Yeah. 512 00:21:24,780 --> 00:21:27,460 Speaker 2: Hazy, hazy is a home body. 513 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:30,399 Speaker 1: I enjoy spending my time at home with my friends 514 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:32,500 Speaker 1: as well. I have a very good bunch of friends 515 00:21:32,500 --> 00:21:35,550 Speaker 1: that I always hang out with taking and friends always 516 00:21:35,550 --> 00:21:40,390 Speaker 1: just chill, you know over simple dreams like no hard liquor, 517 00:21:40,390 --> 00:21:43,359 Speaker 1: nothing like that. And we just talked to like 12 a.m. 518 00:21:43,369 --> 00:21:46,060 Speaker 1: To me this is simple bleeds and it makes me very, 519 00:21:46,060 --> 00:21:46,710 Speaker 1: very happy. 520 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:50,450 Speaker 2: So not not quite a home body per se, but 521 00:21:50,460 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 2: between partying. Like if I ask you you and party tonight, 522 00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:54,060 Speaker 2: I'll go home home. 523 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:56,950 Speaker 2: No, that's a legit question, do y'all want to party tonight? 524 00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:58,790 Speaker 2: Do 525 00:21:58,790 --> 00:21:58,930 Speaker 1: you 526 00:21:58,930 --> 00:22:02,169 Speaker 2: think that we like grow out of this like clubbing face? 527 00:22:02,180 --> 00:22:05,740 Speaker 2: I think it could be faces throughout life, correct. I 528 00:22:05,750 --> 00:22:08,320 Speaker 2: don't think you grow out of it because maybe you 529 00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:11,350 Speaker 2: might just want to go again. You know our personal trainer, 530 00:22:11,350 --> 00:22:14,179 Speaker 2: like he has a kid, he's married but him and 531 00:22:14,180 --> 00:22:15,609 Speaker 2: his wife to go out and party. 532 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:19,530 Speaker 1: So I would have thought that after having a kid, 533 00:22:19,540 --> 00:22:23,850 Speaker 1: you would definitely grow out of this parting face for good. Actually. 534 00:22:23,859 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 2: You know a lot of people who have kids and 535 00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:29,860 Speaker 2: they will still, I know a lot of young parents, 536 00:22:29,869 --> 00:22:32,439 Speaker 2: the mom will go clubbing with the sun. Like I've 537 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:36,050 Speaker 2: been clubbing with my friends mom before, so cool, very cool. 538 00:22:36,060 --> 00:22:37,979 Speaker 2: I want to be that mom. Okay, 539 00:22:37,990 --> 00:22:39,650 Speaker 1: but anti jogo. 540 00:22:39,660 --> 00:22:45,619 Speaker 2: I get drunk after one glass of wine I think quite, 541 00:22:45,630 --> 00:22:48,780 Speaker 2: but we, you know talk to our listeners and majority 542 00:22:48,780 --> 00:22:50,899 Speaker 2: of them said they are not party goers. So hopefully 543 00:22:50,910 --> 00:22:53,620 Speaker 2: you listen to this and don't judge us and maybe 544 00:22:53,619 --> 00:22:55,730 Speaker 2: you'll feel like this is why I stay at home. 545 00:22:55,740 --> 00:22:59,330 Speaker 1: Yes. No. Well to each his own, if you don't 546 00:22:59,330 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 1: feel good, clubbing, don't feel pressurized to 547 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:03,930 Speaker 1: say no to your friends just because you know, they 548 00:23:03,930 --> 00:23:06,030 Speaker 1: think it's cool to go clubbing and you don't, it's fine. 549 00:23:06,030 --> 00:23:09,149 Speaker 1: You know, we have our own preferences and our own options. 550 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:12,190 Speaker 2: Exactly. Don't, don't have to like feel that formal, whatever 551 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:16,370 Speaker 2: everyone enjoys different things. And just because you don't go 552 00:23:16,369 --> 00:23:17,830 Speaker 2: out of them doesn't mean you don't want to be 553 00:23:17,830 --> 00:23:18,630 Speaker 2: friends with them. Right? 554 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,660 Speaker 1: Right. Exactly. And another point 555 00:23:20,940 --> 00:23:23,270 Speaker 1: clubbing frequently can also cause quite a bit. 556 00:23:23,540 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 1: Is this true? This 557 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:28,050 Speaker 2: is true. I checked my bills last month. It's quite bad. 558 00:23:28,060 --> 00:23:30,230 Speaker 2: It's not just the club, it's the grab home or so. 559 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:34,380 Speaker 2: So if you want to save money to stay at home, right, 560 00:23:34,390 --> 00:23:36,330 Speaker 1: or you can use this money on other experiences that 561 00:23:36,330 --> 00:23:37,430 Speaker 1: matter more to you. 562 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 2: That's true. Very 563 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:39,260 Speaker 1: wholesome. 564 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:44,310 Speaker 2: No, she's gonna use the money and buy a bag. Oh, 565 00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:47,439 Speaker 2: so thank you very much for tuning in. I hope that, 566 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:49,669 Speaker 2: you know, you were able to hear some of our 567 00:23:49,670 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 2: stories and make your own decisions about whether you're going 568 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:52,930 Speaker 2: to go to a club 569 00:23:52,940 --> 00:23:54,630 Speaker 1: and thank you to all listeners who pitched in for 570 00:23:54,630 --> 00:23:57,540 Speaker 1: this episode. All your comments on our polls, we appreciate 571 00:23:57,540 --> 00:24:00,090 Speaker 1: them a lot. Follow us on instagram at its clarity 572 00:24:00,090 --> 00:24:02,489 Speaker 1: dot co for more content updates and more polls that 573 00:24:02,490 --> 00:24:03,409 Speaker 1: we may have in the future. 574 00:24:03,420 --> 00:24:06,030 Speaker 2: Don't forget to stay safe and also listen to us 575 00:24:06,030 --> 00:24:09,460 Speaker 2: and Spotify me. 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