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Speaker 1: I say so. And I'm Jermaine and welcome to the

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Speaker 1: 100th episode of Cities Hush hush.

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Speaker 1: I like it. I like whispered and shouted it. 100 episode. It.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the 100th episode of clarity.

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Speaker 1: I,

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Speaker 1: how do you say 100 episode in Mandarin? That's basically it.

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Speaker 1: Malays yummy for some reason

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Speaker 1: to 100 is just wild. It's insane. I know. How

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Speaker 1: doesn't feel like a

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Speaker 2: 100. Our first episode done in 20

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Speaker 1: 2020 2020 20 October. Yes, that's correct. So it's been

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Speaker 1: more than three years since we've started and I've seen

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Speaker 1: You don't want to see. I will leave. Now, my goodness.

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Speaker 1: When we recorded our first episode, I never imagined we

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Speaker 1: would be sitting here doing 1/100 episode and today we

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Speaker 1: are in a completely new set altogether. Now, one thing

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Speaker 1: you might not know about Harsh Podcast is that we

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Speaker 1: are very mobile. We have had like different sets. No,

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Speaker 1: We've had pixel studios. That was all of us location.

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Speaker 1: And we had to sit like separately because the sofa

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Speaker 1: We're still nobody's. And then we moved to media media

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Speaker 1: with an entire audience behind. Hi, you guys. Hi guys.

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Speaker 1: What's up? Some of them are sleeping, wake up, wake up, boring. So,

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Speaker 1: your life. Oh, that is true. That is true. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: As I was walking down the hallway. I was like,

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And you know what? I think it's great because

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Speaker 1: 99 episodes that we've done in the past three years

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Speaker 1: I it's wild to think you've done 99 episodes. I

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Speaker 1: Ok. Overreacting. Remember that? Overreacting,

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Speaker 1: baby? A real baby. Yes. Yes. The one Rachel, right?

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Speaker 1: time to myself. I usually plan a calendar invite to

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Speaker 1: myself saying me time I do rest time, me time

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Speaker 1: block anything else in it. But then 90% of the

443
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Speaker 1: time it's always taken over by work, like my manager

444
00:21:30,192 --> 00:21:33,122
Speaker 1: will text me at this day. Are you free for this? Ok.

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Speaker 1: But then there's, you think that's a me problem. So

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Speaker 1: I've recently heard someone over the radio say a study

447
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Speaker 1: that was conducted showed that people who took one rest

448
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Speaker 1: day a week

449
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Speaker 1: generally are happier and more productive I believe, does sound

450
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Speaker 1: crazy to ask off with yourself one rest day a week.

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Speaker 1: Just a bit. Like, honestly, how about half a day

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Speaker 1: a week? At least? How about like a Sunday? Yeah.

453
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Speaker 1: Like a Sunday off. No work just time with your

454
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Speaker 1: loved ones or even just with yourself? Yeah. I think

455
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Speaker 1: everyone should do that. I believe that it can really

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Speaker 1: make you happy and more productive. In fact, I think

457
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Speaker 1: Joakim said that on radio. Oh, really? Yeah. Yeah, I

458
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Speaker 1: just think he run, he runs,

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Speaker 2: I guess he runs to.

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Speaker 1: So what does success mean to you? Go? Success to me.

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Speaker 1: Definitely monetarily. I'm trying to drop the idea, but it's

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Speaker 1: very hard. Like, I know you guys know, I can't

463
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Speaker 1: say no to money even if it eats into your

464
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Speaker 1: rest time. Of course, you just say yes, because there's

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Speaker 1: money involved, right? But I'm trying

466
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Speaker 1: to see that there's more to life than just money,

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Speaker 1: but also happiness. Yeah. I've been chasing happiness for like

468
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Speaker 1: so many years I can tell from my IG stories.

469
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Speaker 1: Suddenly she's in Bali, she's in L A.

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Speaker 1: So anyway, moving on anyway. Yeah. So I've been chasing

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Speaker 1: happiness for many years. And one of the things that

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Speaker 1: I think Zora said on Harsh podcast is that you

473
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Speaker 1: don't always have to be chasing for happiness. You can

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Speaker 1: be happy today. Right? So I'm trying to do that

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Speaker 1: and also

476
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Speaker 1: so maybe try to say no to something so that

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Speaker 1: I have time to myself to be happy, maybe keep

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Speaker 1: it at me time in the calendar. OK. I try

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Speaker 1: draw

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Speaker 2: boundaries for yourself.

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Speaker 1: Wow. I'm just trying to figure out what success means

482
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Speaker 1: to do because she's always so happy. Go lucky. I

483
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:23,569
Speaker 1: don't think money defines her.

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Speaker 1: She cares about money, she cares about life experiences. I do. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she does, the more she experiences of life and new

486
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Speaker 1: situations that she's never been in. I think that is

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Speaker 1: a successful life to her.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I think I'm at this place where,

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Speaker 1: see what I mean?

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Speaker 2: I'm at a place in life where I just really

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Speaker 2: want a life well lived like when I think about

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Speaker 2: it at any point, you see right. Here's the thing.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to be only thinking about this at 60.

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Speaker 2: I want it such that at any given point at

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Speaker 2: any time I'm stopped at any day. If someone asked,

496
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Speaker 2: I can say I've lived a life well,

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Speaker 1: so well, she was a ball of sunshine. Amen.

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Speaker 1: Is this like if I die to borrow, you know,

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Speaker 1: I lived a good life kind of thing. Yes.

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Speaker 2: Yes. And I think a lot of it also is

501
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Speaker 2: just wanting to be a better person every day, a

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Speaker 2: better person in every aspect, you know, like, just like that.

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Speaker 1: That's good. You know, funny. You mentioned that because on

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Speaker 1: the topic of, if we died tomorrow, would you girls

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Speaker 1: have any regrets right now?

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Speaker 1: Actually, I don't think I have. Yeah, I would not

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Speaker 1: having a kid. I want to at least experience being a,

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Speaker 1: being a mom. Wow. Yeah, I think there's nothing else

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Speaker 1: in my life that I need. I'm so excited.

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Speaker 2: I'm fun on

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Speaker 1: the everybody. God, I'm moving away.

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Speaker 2: I'll follow you. I,

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Speaker 1: I'm scared. Call the police. No, but I, you know,

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Speaker 1: I've done all the jobs I've wanted to, I've had

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00:25:04,339 --> 00:25:06,099
Speaker 1: all the love in my life that I've wanted to.

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Speaker 1: I've traveled, I've not been a mom,

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Speaker 1: I've been a pet mom but not an actual human mom.

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Speaker 1: What about you? Any regrets? I

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Speaker 2: don't think so. Actually, like, as much as there's a

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Speaker 2: lot more that I would like to do and that

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Speaker 2: I can do and would like to do. But

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Speaker 2: at this point, as much as I can afford to

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Speaker 2: do at this point in my life, I don't think

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Speaker 1: so. That's good. That's so nice to hear. Ok, what

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Speaker 1: if you could revisit an old episode that we did ok,

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Speaker 1: back in the past and did something differently, which would

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Speaker 1: it be?

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't do anything different because at that point in time,

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Speaker 1: that's how it felt like we said. Now, if we

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00:25:50,410 --> 00:25:52,989
Speaker 1: revisit every topic, we will have different things to say

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Speaker 1: about every topic. Actually, I have a challenge for us

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Speaker 1: in 2024 is to go even bolder, break more boundaries.

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Speaker 1: Is it possible? Yes, it's possible. PD is like, she's

534
00:26:05,010 --> 00:26:08,589
Speaker 1: like we're pushing it else. Can we do? I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure there's many, many more things we can do.

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Speaker 1: But you know what if I were to revisit an

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Speaker 1: old episode?

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Speaker 1: I think you guys remember the one we did about

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Speaker 1: the ticking biological clock. And then we ask ourselves, are

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Speaker 1: we worried? I think my answer there was like a

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Speaker 1: na let me leave life. I'm not worried, but I

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Speaker 1: think that might have changed. I mean, with the recent

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Speaker 1: breakup and me

544
00:26:31,484 --> 00:26:35,405
Speaker 1: continuing to work harder in life sometimes, right? Call me insecure.

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Speaker 1: But sometimes I look at myself in the mirror and

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Speaker 1: then I really just think to myself. Wow. I really aged.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like what's all the collagen in my face?

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Speaker 1: Am I working too hard? Like should I be doing

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Speaker 1: something else in my life? So,

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Speaker 1: so maybe now if we were to revisit the episode,

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Speaker 1: maybe I would have considered things from a different point

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Speaker 1: of view maybe back then when we did that I

553
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Speaker 1: was happy. So I was like, no, I'm not worried

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00:26:58,579 --> 00:27:02,189
Speaker 1: things will come. But actually, conversely, I think I was

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00:27:02,199 --> 00:27:06,030
Speaker 1: more worried about my biological clock then than I am now.

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Speaker 1: I think now it's just like because now you're happy. Yeah. Ok.

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00:27:09,189 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 1: So

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00:27:10,020 --> 00:27:14,310
Speaker 1: the state of mind that you are actually I hear you. Yeah. Ok.

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Speaker 1: Let's wrap it up with some milestones you want to

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Speaker 1: achieve and then final words, some milestones that we want

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Speaker 1: to achieve for hush, for harsh and for yourself. Do

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Speaker 1: you think we can reach 200

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Speaker 2: episodes? 1000%? I'll be actually if we didn't, you

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Speaker 1: know, you think I'll have a kid by the 2/100

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Speaker 1: episode

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Speaker 2: you would have given birth on Can you,

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00:27:36,890 --> 00:27:39,770
Speaker 1: we talked about the hush, there's a visual side of

568
00:27:39,780 --> 00:27:42,599
Speaker 1: Harsh podcast, right? And then we said we're gonna document

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Speaker 1: whoever gives birth first. Dude. I got, it's gotta be

570
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Speaker 1: a pap smear on hush.

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Speaker 2: It's true. The camera

572
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Speaker 1: was outside the curtain getting p So

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Speaker 2: we took three years. Is it to get here? So

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Speaker 2: another

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Speaker 1: three, no, because in between the seasons, we took a break.

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Speaker 1: But now we are on season four, I would say

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Speaker 1: like another 2.5 3,

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Speaker 2: 6, 2027

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Speaker 1: 200 episodes. My

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Speaker 2: God, where am I gonna be?

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Speaker 1: Life, man? We don't know, we actually don't know. Let's

582
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Speaker 1: just make every episode count and just celebrate the time

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Speaker 1: that we have, by the way, if you're watching us

584
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Speaker 1: on youtube throughout this whole episode, Hazy and Aza have

585
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Speaker 1: not let go of their hands.

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Speaker 1: Ok,

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Speaker 2: guys, my goal in 2024 is to work on my

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Speaker 2: entrance attachment

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Speaker 1: style,

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Speaker 1: you know, as well as one person who I feel

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00:28:29,839 --> 00:28:33,530
Speaker 1: like very comfortable holding hands with, oh, I don't need

592
00:28:33,540 --> 00:28:35,619
Speaker 1: to let go on sometimes I'll be like, I'll be

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00:28:35,630 --> 00:28:39,469
Speaker 1: worried whether she feels uncomfortable. Award, but she clearly doesn't

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Speaker 1: like holding on to do it. I think I'm as

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Speaker 1: you can tell I'm very avoided. There's a big gap. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm just not, I'm not touching your physical touch. You

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Speaker 1: with my boyfriend. Not A

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Speaker 2: I is with everybody. I'm not kidding you. I know.

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Speaker 1: OK. Your hands have been everywhere. OK. OK. Yes. To

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Speaker 1: wrap up this 100th episode. Any final words for harsh

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Speaker 1: listeners like thank you without you listening. We wouldn't be

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Speaker 1: able to do this. We wouldn't have a job, we

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Speaker 1: would still have jobs, but we wouldn't have this right.

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Speaker 1: And

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Speaker 1: I just, I really love it when people come up

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Speaker 1: to us and they don't talk about being a radio

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Speaker 1: DJ or whatever Tik Tok, social media. They're like, I

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00:29:23,689 --> 00:29:27,229
Speaker 1: love hush. They let you come. I love hush. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Like that, it just makes my heart melt. And sometimes

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Speaker 1: it's guys, I listen to her

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Speaker 1: podcast to me. I'm very grateful when people take time

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Speaker 1: out of your busy schedules to send us a text message.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes we receive IG dms on our individual accounts where

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Speaker 1: we screenshot and we send it in the hash chat.

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Speaker 1: So everybody gets to read it.

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Speaker 1: I think it's really, really nice and heartwarming whenever we

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Speaker 1: get text like that because we all know it's not

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Speaker 1: easy to put up just one episode, the amount of

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Speaker 1: It takes a lot of time and effort from a

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Speaker 1: lot of people. So thank you for contributing to

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Speaker 1: community and thank you for loving us. We

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Speaker 2: love you too. I think at whichever point you had

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Speaker 2: found us. Thank you for sticking around. Thank you for

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Speaker 2: listening to us. Thank you for finding comfort in the

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Speaker 2: things that we say, whether you agree or you don't

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Speaker 2: agree

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Speaker 2: and you know, just thank you for making it such

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Speaker 2: a safe space for us as well because we're really not,

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Speaker 2: you know, educating you. We're actually sharing learning at the

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Speaker 2: same time

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Speaker 1: as well. We're not perfect. We're just human as well. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and yeah, share with us more of your stories in

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Speaker 1: 2024 right? You can stay completely anonymous. We just want

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Speaker 1: to know the peak, let us let us know.

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Speaker 1: So today on our 100th episode, it would be really,

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Speaker 1: really nice if you could follow us on Instagram if

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Speaker 1: you haven't already at its clarity.co.

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Speaker 2: That's right. And if you want to learn more about us.

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Speaker 2: You can spend um maybe the next couple of months

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Speaker 2: catching up on every single of the

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Speaker 2: past 100 episodes on me. Listen on Spotify on Apple

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Speaker 2: Podcast and turn on your notifications

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Speaker 1: and check out our what must be our fifth or

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Speaker 1: sixth set of Hush podcast on youtube. Here's to the

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Speaker 1: next 100 episode girls. I'm scared. I love it. Of

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Speaker 1: what

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Speaker 2: I'm scared. I mean, as it is, right? Every week

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Speaker 2: we come in on Hush and every week I'm like,

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Speaker 2: oh my God, guys, I got a new story.

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Speaker 2: Really? I have to go on for another three years

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Speaker 2: to have a new story. Every

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Speaker 1: 100 stories. Once again, I'm Hazel Iaz and I'm Happy

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Speaker 1: and Happy New Year.

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Speaker 1: Make good decisions. Don't do anything you want to do.

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Speaker 1: We would do a lot. No, no, no, don't.