1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:01,810 Speaker 1: Hi Hazel zero and I'm 2 00:00:01,810 --> 00:00:05,010 Speaker 2: Jermaine and welcome to a special episode of cleverley's 3 00:00:07,830 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 1: it's a christmas jingle 4 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 2: bells, jingle bells jingle all the way, 5 00:00:18,050 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 1: you know, we really, really have to give a big 6 00:00:20,210 --> 00:00:22,570 Speaker 1: shout out to the team, look at that tree, oh 7 00:00:22,579 --> 00:00:27,100 Speaker 1: my goodness, look at that little elves here, this is me, 8 00:00:27,110 --> 00:00:32,070 Speaker 1: this is me and I'm on the bus journey presents 9 00:00:32,700 --> 00:00:33,900 Speaker 1: can't open 10 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:38,830 Speaker 1: and we also have this that we are going to 11 00:00:38,830 --> 00:00:41,250 Speaker 1: be destroying today, the harsh christmas tree 12 00:00:41,260 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 2: they put in a lot of time and hard work 13 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,240 Speaker 2: in today's. Okay, so shout out to our clarity, 14 00:00:45,820 --> 00:00:48,269 Speaker 1: That's right. I also found out that there are questions 15 00:00:48,270 --> 00:00:50,659 Speaker 1: in there that you have submitted, that we will be 16 00:00:50,659 --> 00:00:53,470 Speaker 1: answering today. They're anonymous questions so we don't know who 17 00:00:53,470 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: submitted them. 18 00:00:54,130 --> 00:00:56,380 Speaker 2: Yes, but there are also present in that thing. 19 00:00:56,380 --> 00:00:59,130 Speaker 1: So to kickstart the festive spirit first. Okay, let's have 20 00:00:59,130 --> 00:01:01,660 Speaker 1: a little little warm up to christmas, Okay, what's your 21 00:01:01,660 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: most memorable christmas memory? 22 00:01:03,450 --> 00:01:07,300 Speaker 2: Okay, for me it's not an event per se, but 23 00:01:07,300 --> 00:01:10,390 Speaker 2: something that we do every christmas, I really, really love 24 00:01:10,390 --> 00:01:12,130 Speaker 2: to give exchange parts oh, 25 00:01:12,150 --> 00:01:14,500 Speaker 2: You know the moment when someone presents you with a 26 00:01:14,510 --> 00:01:17,199 Speaker 2: gift and then you start to unbox it. That feeling 27 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:19,820 Speaker 2: you get just brings you back to um you know 28 00:01:19,819 --> 00:01:22,140 Speaker 2: when you were a little kid, I really love this 29 00:01:22,140 --> 00:01:25,070 Speaker 2: and for me, my radio station 93 every year, the 30 00:01:25,069 --> 00:01:29,179 Speaker 2: jobs exchange Christmas presents and that's always such a nice feeling. 31 00:01:29,190 --> 00:01:31,759 Speaker 1: Oh I love it. So what about you? I don't 32 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 1: think I have like a specific memory, but for me 33 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:38,420 Speaker 1: it's always like gathering and like eating food is life 34 00:01:38,660 --> 00:01:42,110 Speaker 2: especially during christmas calories don't count right? 35 00:01:42,110 --> 00:01:44,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. And you know like people you don't get to 36 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:49,410 Speaker 1: see very often sit down, Everything is zero calories. You 37 00:01:49,410 --> 00:01:50,630 Speaker 1: went right? 38 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:51,420 Speaker 2: Exactly. 39 00:01:51,430 --> 00:01:55,100 Speaker 1: You guys for me, my favorite memory of christmas is 40 00:01:55,100 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 1: when I bought this, you guys know I have this 41 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:57,820 Speaker 1: fat christmas suit, 42 00:01:58,070 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 1: get this very big santa suit. So one year I 43 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:03,940 Speaker 1: brought it out for christmas and all my family took 44 00:02:03,940 --> 00:02:07,930 Speaker 1: turns wearing it and walking around and also my favorite 45 00:02:07,930 --> 00:02:10,579 Speaker 1: memory watching my dad to go like yeah, I've seen 46 00:02:10,580 --> 00:02:10,829 Speaker 1: you do 47 00:02:10,830 --> 00:02:13,119 Speaker 2: a Tiktok handstand in that 48 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:14,980 Speaker 1: suit. Yeah, I was doing a wall to work in 49 00:02:14,980 --> 00:02:17,590 Speaker 1: the santa suit every year. I bring it out. This 50 00:02:17,590 --> 00:02:21,079 Speaker 1: christmas is no different. So this is actually an advent calendar. 51 00:02:21,090 --> 00:02:22,930 Speaker 1: You guys know what that is. It's like you open 52 00:02:22,930 --> 00:02:24,140 Speaker 1: one every day 53 00:02:24,610 --> 00:02:25,110 Speaker 2: christmas. 54 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:26,550 Speaker 1: Yeah, but we're gonna open them all today. 55 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 2: Okay. Always have no patience to open one every day. 56 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:30,130 Speaker 2: I just want to see 57 00:02:30,139 --> 00:02:34,700 Speaker 1: everything all together to receive gifts. So the questions here 58 00:02:34,700 --> 00:02:38,630 Speaker 1: have been categorized 1 to 8 is podcast questions 9 59 00:02:38,630 --> 00:02:43,070 Speaker 1: to 15 personal questions 16 to 24 questions seeking advice. Okay, 60 00:02:43,070 --> 00:02:45,550 Speaker 1: so here's how we're going to determine who's gonna go first. 61 00:02:45,550 --> 00:02:48,419 Speaker 1: So you know like lifeline helpline call a friend, this 62 00:02:48,419 --> 00:02:50,670 Speaker 1: is not who wants to be a millionaire. Okay 63 00:02:51,100 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 1: countdown. So how are we going to decide? So the 64 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,210 Speaker 1: winner of scissors paper stone will decide which order we're 65 00:02:57,210 --> 00:03:02,790 Speaker 1: going to go in 123456789. Okay. So or maybe 66 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 2: I Okay. 67 00:03:06,250 --> 00:03:08,310 Speaker 1: Oh yeah. So 68 00:03:08,740 --> 00:03:10,639 Speaker 2: okay goes first. 69 00:03:10,650 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 1: Okay, so you got to choose the right to choose 70 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:15,239 Speaker 1: the order. Like who goes number one, number two, number 71 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: three and then so on and so 72 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:17,730 Speaker 2: forth. You can be yourself. 73 00:03:17,740 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 1: You can face working. I can't. one. 74 00:03:20,889 --> 00:03:22,029 Speaker 2: Okay. 75 00:03:22,150 --> 00:03:27,010 Speaker 1: I'm going to say I'm going to say you won one. Okay. 76 00:03:27,020 --> 00:03:29,620 Speaker 1: I think middle is good. Okay. 77 00:03:29,630 --> 00:03:29,829 Speaker 2: One 78 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:30,790 Speaker 1: 23. 79 00:03:31,300 --> 00:03:32,550 Speaker 1: Alright, so 80 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:34,370 Speaker 2: I have to open the 1st 1. Is it 81 00:03:34,380 --> 00:03:36,820 Speaker 1: will help you open? Okay, are you ready? This is 82 00:03:36,820 --> 00:03:39,100 Speaker 1: a podcast question. Okay. Okay. 83 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:43,700 Speaker 1: Okay. This is yours. Here you go. Okay, merry christmas, 84 00:03:43,710 --> 00:03:44,950 Speaker 1: thank you. 85 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:48,490 Speaker 2: What topics do you wish to talk about on air? 86 00:03:48,500 --> 00:03:51,100 Speaker 2: But can't due to censorship. 87 00:03:51,110 --> 00:03:56,570 Speaker 1: What kind of question? How to respond on airs in radio? Yes. 88 00:03:56,770 --> 00:03:57,580 Speaker 1: Actually, 89 00:03:57,580 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 2: I feel like all the topics that we speak on 90 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:00,300 Speaker 2: harsh podcasts. 91 00:04:00,310 --> 00:04:01,270 Speaker 1: So like sex. 92 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:04,370 Speaker 2: Yes. And also women's health. I mean it's not like 93 00:04:04,370 --> 00:04:06,460 Speaker 2: we cannot talk about that on air, but sometimes it's 94 00:04:06,460 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 2: a bit sensitive and some listeners may not prefer to 95 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:11,050 Speaker 2: know about that 96 00:04:11,250 --> 00:04:15,330 Speaker 2: unless they tune in specifically into like a women's health program. Right? 97 00:04:15,610 --> 00:04:18,779 Speaker 1: Okay, basically anything we talk about on the podcast. Yes. 98 00:04:18,790 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 1: That's why you have harsh. Yes. 99 00:04:20,330 --> 00:04:23,230 Speaker 2: Honestly the topics to talk about harsh podcast would be 100 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:26,110 Speaker 2: a bit weird to talk about on air. Don't you think? Right? 101 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,580 Speaker 1: But I also think because it's F. D. A. 102 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:30,830 Speaker 1: So sometimes like people can always say like, you know, 103 00:04:30,830 --> 00:04:32,930 Speaker 1: I didn't set up for this. I don't want this 104 00:04:32,940 --> 00:04:35,380 Speaker 1: idea to be shoved down my throat is free to 105 00:04:35,380 --> 00:04:37,620 Speaker 1: air broadcast understand, 106 00:04:37,630 --> 00:04:41,150 Speaker 2: but we'll tune into a podcast about anything under the sun. 107 00:04:41,170 --> 00:04:41,990 Speaker 1: That's why we are here. 108 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:43,539 Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay. Number 109 00:04:43,540 --> 00:04:50,630 Speaker 1: two. Okay, that's me. Alright, Okay. Would you change your 110 00:04:50,630 --> 00:04:53,370 Speaker 1: radio station? If you could 111 00:04:53,690 --> 00:04:57,260 Speaker 1: if yes. Which one would it be? 112 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:01,739 Speaker 1: Come say something for you? Samson? 113 00:05:02,540 --> 00:05:03,270 Speaker 1: What the hell? 114 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:05,539 Speaker 1: Okay. That's all. 115 00:05:06,529 --> 00:05:07,140 Speaker 1: You cannot. 116 00:05:07,150 --> 00:05:07,970 Speaker 2: You cannot come 117 00:05:07,970 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 1: later. But then right. I learned to be in real. 118 00:05:12,140 --> 00:05:14,710 Speaker 1: So if you give it three years, maybe I can 119 00:05:14,710 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 1: join you there. 120 00:05:15,450 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 2: She picks up languages really super fast. 121 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:20,630 Speaker 1: Very true. But I also think you really suit symphony. 122 00:05:22,380 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: No, because she plays the violin so she would understand 123 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 1: classical music 124 00:05:25,770 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 2: but symphony the talks. That is not a lot of 125 00:05:28,450 --> 00:05:31,910 Speaker 1: three hours like maybe three minutes or maybe Sienna that 126 00:05:31,910 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: news then you can talk all the time. So that's 127 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:38,620 Speaker 1: a problem. Symphony three hours, three minutes. Sienna three hours 128 00:05:38,620 --> 00:05:40,469 Speaker 1: to talk for hours. Both are the ones. 129 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:45,030 Speaker 1: Okay. Actually right. I've had a couple of people asked 130 00:05:45,029 --> 00:05:48,380 Speaker 1: me this question like oh english is your first language. 131 00:05:48,380 --> 00:05:51,870 Speaker 1: So why not? Right. But I think I'm very happy 132 00:05:51,870 --> 00:05:53,779 Speaker 1: here shout out to 133 00:05:55,730 --> 00:05:59,180 Speaker 1: Morada died. The one I scream at every day. The 134 00:05:59,190 --> 00:06:00,380 Speaker 1: one I went every day. 135 00:06:00,390 --> 00:06:01,580 Speaker 2: Are you poor family? 136 00:06:01,589 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 1: I'm scared. 137 00:06:02,250 --> 00:06:04,490 Speaker 2: All right. Moving on. 138 00:06:04,500 --> 00:06:07,670 Speaker 1: Moving on. Question three. Will you guys consider having a 139 00:06:07,670 --> 00:06:13,430 Speaker 1: spinoff about hush podcast with other DJs? A different combination, honest. 140 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:14,979 Speaker 1: It could have been a very different combination. I think 141 00:06:14,980 --> 00:06:18,740 Speaker 1: you guys know this. It wasn't supposed to be me. Really? Yes. 142 00:06:18,740 --> 00:06:20,840 Speaker 1: So it wasn't supposed to be me. But then I 143 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 1: don't know how I ended up here, but 144 00:06:23,710 --> 00:06:25,810 Speaker 1: its 145 00:06:25,810 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 2: fate, 146 00:06:26,050 --> 00:06:29,580 Speaker 1: its fate. Yeah. I mean with any male DJ, it 147 00:06:29,580 --> 00:06:31,370 Speaker 1: would kind of defeat the purpose of hashtag. 148 00:06:31,370 --> 00:06:32,099 Speaker 2: I agree. 149 00:06:32,110 --> 00:06:41,290 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe. Probably not. I love my girls. Yeah. Okay, 150 00:06:41,650 --> 00:06:42,469 Speaker 1: chris 151 00:06:42,580 --> 00:06:43,599 Speaker 2: hazy, 152 00:06:44,130 --> 00:06:48,420 Speaker 2: tell us something about harsh podcast that listeners don't know about. Oh, 153 00:06:48,430 --> 00:06:50,100 Speaker 2: initially it wasn't meant to be asked 154 00:06:50,100 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 1: to 155 00:06:51,890 --> 00:06:58,409 Speaker 1: for more information, talked about producer. Okay. 156 00:06:58,420 --> 00:07:02,460 Speaker 2: Tell us something about harsh podcast that listeners don't know about. Okay, 157 00:07:02,470 --> 00:07:06,510 Speaker 2: every time we record harsh podcasts, we actually do two 158 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:07,730 Speaker 2: episodes in one day. 159 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:11,250 Speaker 1: Oh, that's true. That's a good one. Yeah. So sometimes 160 00:07:11,250 --> 00:07:13,100 Speaker 1: if you see our hair is the same or make 161 00:07:13,100 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: up the same, then you know which to be shot 162 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:16,110 Speaker 1: in the same thing. Why 163 00:07:16,110 --> 00:07:18,140 Speaker 2: do we shoot two episodes in one day because first 164 00:07:18,140 --> 00:07:19,830 Speaker 2: of all it's more efficient. It's actually very hard to 165 00:07:19,830 --> 00:07:23,090 Speaker 2: plan like everyone's schedule. And secondly, do you know that 166 00:07:23,090 --> 00:07:26,060 Speaker 2: our clever team takes so long to set up this 167 00:07:26,070 --> 00:07:28,750 Speaker 2: entire set here in the studio that you see every 168 00:07:28,750 --> 00:07:31,660 Speaker 2: time you set it up and tear it down. Hours. Okay, 169 00:07:31,660 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 2: So another shout out to all of them. Thank you 170 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:33,910 Speaker 2: so much. 171 00:07:35,140 --> 00:07:37,300 Speaker 1: Chrysler number five 172 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:42,910 Speaker 1: Oh, a present. Oh, I 173 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:43,450 Speaker 2: missed it by 174 00:07:43,460 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: one Question. Oh, chocolate. 175 00:07:48,180 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: I can't eat one. Can 176 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:51,260 Speaker 2: I have one too? 177 00:07:52,430 --> 00:07:55,570 Speaker 1: Kisses boy. You don't ask me whether I want to 178 00:07:55,580 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: change those. 179 00:07:58,610 --> 00:08:03,500 Speaker 1: No six. Let's see. Oh, present, present, present. But what 180 00:08:03,500 --> 00:08:05,060 Speaker 1: is it? What's this? 181 00:08:05,450 --> 00:08:05,930 Speaker 2: Oh 182 00:08:05,930 --> 00:08:06,210 Speaker 1: my God, 183 00:08:08,500 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 1: it is a damn good price. 184 00:08:10,500 --> 00:08:11,970 Speaker 2: And of all people jimmy got 185 00:08:11,970 --> 00:08:15,170 Speaker 1: it because I use them. There's a question here. Okay, 186 00:08:15,180 --> 00:08:20,850 Speaker 1: can y'all do more period content. Period, ken what you 187 00:08:20,850 --> 00:08:21,460 Speaker 1: all know 188 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:22,630 Speaker 2: what kind 189 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:24,450 Speaker 1: of period content? Yeah, 190 00:08:24,670 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 2: I mean, we've done like, we've done this cycle has 191 00:08:27,930 --> 00:08:28,990 Speaker 1: done a test of 192 00:08:29,830 --> 00:08:32,770 Speaker 2: and we also have done something related to, like, pap 193 00:08:32,770 --> 00:08:33,260 Speaker 2: smears 194 00:08:33,260 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 1: and stuff, like 195 00:08:34,210 --> 00:08:35,439 Speaker 2: intimate topic. 196 00:08:35,650 --> 00:08:37,469 Speaker 1: Pep smear on camera for you guys. 197 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:39,630 Speaker 2: Yeah. What else do you want to know about? Tell 198 00:08:39,630 --> 00:08:44,809 Speaker 1: us? Period sex, period. Okay, so apparently I read, right, 199 00:08:44,809 --> 00:08:47,219 Speaker 1: when you have sex on your period, right? You form 200 00:08:47,230 --> 00:08:50,010 Speaker 1: a soul bond blood. 201 00:08:50,750 --> 00:08:52,630 Speaker 1: What? I don't know, I just saw it. I picked out. 202 00:08:52,630 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's true, I'm just saying 203 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:56,699 Speaker 1: we 204 00:08:56,700 --> 00:08:57,630 Speaker 2: need an episode on this, 205 00:08:57,630 --> 00:09:00,730 Speaker 1: but I think that if moses could part the red 206 00:09:00,730 --> 00:09:01,310 Speaker 1: sea 207 00:09:04,010 --> 00:09:05,689 Speaker 1: you. 208 00:09:07,910 --> 00:09:08,650 Speaker 1: Okay, 209 00:09:11,130 --> 00:09:14,069 Speaker 1: just do it in the shower. Next. 210 00:09:15,190 --> 00:09:16,290 Speaker 1: Who 211 00:09:16,290 --> 00:09:17,980 Speaker 2: might 12 212 00:09:17,990 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 1: 77 213 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 1: here, 214 00:09:22,610 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 1: Are you all so cute? What is it? 215 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 2: T? 216 00:09:26,300 --> 00:09:29,270 Speaker 1: There's a question there. Maybe there's a question, 217 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:32,770 Speaker 2: Congratulations. You made it through the first segment. The next 218 00:09:32,770 --> 00:09:34,570 Speaker 2: one is brutal. So bracelet. 219 00:09:34,580 --> 00:09:38,130 Speaker 1: No way. And I wanted to give you tea, spill 220 00:09:38,130 --> 00:09:39,530 Speaker 1: the tea. Oh, 221 00:09:40,210 --> 00:09:41,230 Speaker 1: come 222 00:09:41,230 --> 00:09:43,740 Speaker 2: one for each of us. Okay, 223 00:09:44,309 --> 00:09:45,870 Speaker 2: next up o ship 224 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 1: o ship. Tell us, tell us who amongst the three 225 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:52,140 Speaker 1: of you has the highest body count. 226 00:09:56,400 --> 00:10:01,079 Speaker 1: No question. It's not a question. 227 00:10:02,270 --> 00:10:03,460 Speaker 1: A 228 00:10:04,170 --> 00:10:06,429 Speaker 1: your 229 00:10:06,429 --> 00:10:08,079 Speaker 2: question, 230 00:10:08,090 --> 00:10:09,650 Speaker 1: Your concern. 231 00:10:11,260 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 1: Mm I think it starts with a jer and mean 232 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:19,710 Speaker 2: move on. 233 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:24,100 Speaker 1: Yeah, question, question 234 00:10:25,010 --> 00:10:29,470 Speaker 1: shoot, shock mary germaine hazel is era. Huh? Now you 235 00:10:29,470 --> 00:10:32,200 Speaker 1: play with your friends. You ask for what 236 00:10:32,210 --> 00:10:34,240 Speaker 2: You answer that question. Yeah. 237 00:10:34,250 --> 00:10:39,559 Speaker 1: Okay, so firstly I'll shoot myself shooting these girls. Okay, Bang. Okay, 238 00:10:40,700 --> 00:10:43,550 Speaker 1: secondly, who do I want to marry? Let me think, 239 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:44,870 Speaker 1: who don't want to share. 240 00:10:47,130 --> 00:10:50,070 Speaker 1: Okay, make your cases. 241 00:10:51,100 --> 00:10:53,820 Speaker 1: No, that would be a good wife. I don't think 242 00:10:53,820 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 1: I will be Okay. Cool. 243 00:10:54,770 --> 00:10:59,140 Speaker 2: Because I can plan your time for you, Your photos 244 00:10:59,140 --> 00:10:59,270 Speaker 2: for 245 00:10:59,270 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 1: you. Okay, Okay, I can cook for you. So I 246 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:05,020 Speaker 1: will marry Hazy and I would check because she has 247 00:11:05,020 --> 00:11:06,150 Speaker 1: a fat mass. 248 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:12,140 Speaker 1: Okay, favorite 249 00:11:12,140 --> 00:11:15,820 Speaker 2: person in the industry. I think I'm gonna go with, 250 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 1: I miss her. 251 00:11:19,250 --> 00:11:23,689 Speaker 2: She used to be a DJ and she really taught 252 00:11:23,690 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 2: me a lot, showed me the ropes when I just 253 00:11:26,130 --> 00:11:29,090 Speaker 2: entered the industry, I knew nothing, but she was there 254 00:11:29,090 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 2: to guide me, hold my hand through everything. So, I 255 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 2: think this question goes out to her favorite person in 256 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:37,140 Speaker 2: the industry. That's gotta be her. Oh, so 257 00:11:37,140 --> 00:11:38,530 Speaker 1: sweet. All 258 00:11:38,530 --> 00:11:40,309 Speaker 2: right. Next up, 259 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:43,209 Speaker 1: What's this? Oh my gosh, 260 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:45,470 Speaker 1: gosh! 261 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 1: So freaking cute. That's really cute. That's a question. Also, 262 00:11:51,650 --> 00:11:53,620 Speaker 1: how did the girls meet? 263 00:11:53,630 --> 00:11:56,020 Speaker 2: Tell us, Let's see about memories aligned. 264 00:11:56,030 --> 00:12:00,650 Speaker 1: Um we all work on level seven last time, Covid 265 00:12:00,660 --> 00:12:04,270 Speaker 1: KZ one level four. Then Covid Hazy move up, then 266 00:12:04,270 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 1: we next to each other. 267 00:12:05,830 --> 00:12:10,860 Speaker 1: But it was Covid Hazy and Germs Tiktok first and 268 00:12:10,860 --> 00:12:12,959 Speaker 1: then that's how they met. And then we got a 269 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:15,729 Speaker 1: call to do this. But how did you guys meet? 270 00:12:15,740 --> 00:12:18,859 Speaker 1: We missed each other. They took over symphony. That 271 00:12:18,860 --> 00:12:22,309 Speaker 2: was how we met a year ago. That was not 272 00:12:22,309 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 2: how we met. Remember 273 00:12:24,809 --> 00:12:26,130 Speaker 1: dancer. Yeah, 274 00:12:27,090 --> 00:12:30,620 Speaker 1: Yeah. I only remember this because you mentioned it the 275 00:12:30,620 --> 00:12:33,510 Speaker 1: other day. I got absolutely no memory of it. 276 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:36,080 Speaker 2: She showed up for this like media called fitness show 277 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:38,780 Speaker 2: thing where I was like the instructor teaching like the 278 00:12:38,790 --> 00:12:42,010 Speaker 2: elderly how to do some like home fitness workout and 279 00:12:42,010 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 2: meet the pandemic. Right? And then she was like doing 280 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:44,870 Speaker 2: all the most with me. 281 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:46,810 Speaker 1: No, honestly, I tell you that the best way to 282 00:12:46,809 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 1: build a friendship is to show your weakness at the 283 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 1: first meet up. 284 00:12:51,050 --> 00:12:57,099 Speaker 1: Alright, alright. I don't think that goes for relationships to 285 00:12:57,110 --> 00:13:00,870 Speaker 1: two and one good advice there. Okay. And I met 286 00:13:00,870 --> 00:13:03,900 Speaker 1: you was literally when we got the call correct you 287 00:13:03,910 --> 00:13:05,569 Speaker 1: at all Before that we 288 00:13:05,570 --> 00:13:08,330 Speaker 2: Met up to speak about harsh podcast with all the 289 00:13:08,330 --> 00:13:10,890 Speaker 2: way to season one. Yes. Just three of us. I 290 00:13:10,890 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 2: mean producers. 291 00:13:11,530 --> 00:13:14,890 Speaker 1: Yes. Here we are. Today 292 00:13:14,900 --> 00:13:16,430 Speaker 2: a movie. 293 00:13:16,510 --> 00:13:17,290 Speaker 1: It's your turn 294 00:13:18,059 --> 00:13:18,750 Speaker 1: 12. 295 00:13:25,250 --> 00:13:28,050 Speaker 1: Okay. Alright. Hazy. 296 00:13:32,170 --> 00:13:32,929 Speaker 1: Okay. 297 00:13:34,050 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: You know what this acute question, the weirdest thing you've 298 00:13:38,170 --> 00:13:41,730 Speaker 1: eaten and what you're currently craving haven't eaten many weird things. 299 00:13:41,730 --> 00:13:42,980 Speaker 1: I don't really like 300 00:13:42,990 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 2: you're such an adventurous person. Yeah. But 301 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 1: with food like I'm very scared. Generally correct, correct, correct, correct. 302 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:54,350 Speaker 1: I couldn't convince her to have the life live octopus. Yeah. Okay. 303 00:13:54,350 --> 00:13:57,230 Speaker 2: How do I change this bit? The weirdest thing you've drank? 304 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:59,089 Speaker 1: The weirdest thing I've drank. I'm 305 00:13:59,090 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 2: sure you have like 306 00:13:59,970 --> 00:14:02,890 Speaker 2: I had many interesting cocktails. 307 00:14:02,900 --> 00:14:04,449 Speaker 1: Oh a chili party 308 00:14:04,450 --> 00:14:06,860 Speaker 2: shot. That sounds absolutely nasty. It's 309 00:14:06,870 --> 00:14:10,460 Speaker 1: damn spicy but so good. Yeah, it's a chilly shot 310 00:14:10,470 --> 00:14:12,910 Speaker 1: is from this bar that like I always go to 311 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:14,850 Speaker 2: what? So just cut the chile party and I 312 00:14:14,860 --> 00:14:16,670 Speaker 1: don't know. I think they grind it and then they 313 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:20,690 Speaker 1: put in a blender and then making sure just what 314 00:14:20,690 --> 00:14:24,820 Speaker 1: am I currently craving spicy for you after this? Thank 315 00:14:24,820 --> 00:14:25,590 Speaker 2: you for the 316 00:14:25,750 --> 00:14:26,370 Speaker 1: question. Okay. 317 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:28,340 Speaker 2: Okay, moving on. 318 00:14:28,350 --> 00:14:28,950 Speaker 1: Okay. 319 00:14:30,570 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 1: I think this was a bit scary. I see I've 320 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:33,570 Speaker 1: been along with it. The 321 00:14:33,580 --> 00:14:35,010 Speaker 2: president, Is that 322 00:14:35,110 --> 00:14:35,740 Speaker 1: sorry? 323 00:14:38,010 --> 00:14:38,310 Speaker 2: It 324 00:14:38,310 --> 00:14:45,340 Speaker 1: says oh my God. Oh my gosh girls from 325 00:14:45,340 --> 00:14:50,270 Speaker 2: clarity, the note says here's something for you to enjoy, 326 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:52,350 Speaker 2: you might need it after the next question. 327 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:54,520 Speaker 1: It's me 328 00:14:55,060 --> 00:14:57,990 Speaker 2: after the next question is you know, 329 00:14:57,990 --> 00:14:59,140 Speaker 1: after the next 330 00:15:00,570 --> 00:15:06,330 Speaker 1: oh wait yeah, it's okay. Let's see 331 00:15:06,330 --> 00:15:07,620 Speaker 2: what's inside. So can 332 00:15:07,620 --> 00:15:09,740 Speaker 1: I have the first because they say I need it. 333 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:13,500 Speaker 1: Oh God present. Oh 334 00:15:14,300 --> 00:15:15,660 Speaker 1: guys, 335 00:15:15,670 --> 00:15:18,650 Speaker 2: there's a story behind this. Okay, literally recommended this to, 336 00:15:18,950 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 1: she got three. This is my favorite. 337 00:15:22,530 --> 00:15:25,109 Speaker 2: This is now my favorite is this one the apple. 338 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:29,500 Speaker 1: Thank you. Okay 339 00:15:30,380 --> 00:15:35,050 Speaker 1: what? You should be scared relationship status at the moment, 340 00:15:35,060 --> 00:15:40,380 Speaker 1: question mark Are those single open to dating wink wink 341 00:15:40,390 --> 00:15:43,650 Speaker 1: bracket asking for a friend, question mark, question mark. Can 342 00:15:43,650 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 1: I ask, what does your friend like 343 00:15:47,300 --> 00:15:52,030 Speaker 1: open to dating? No unavailable. Um, asking for a friend. 344 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:54,070 Speaker 1: I see really what does your friend look like? 345 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:55,510 Speaker 2: I am unavailable. 346 00:15:56,630 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 2: I am all about self love focusing my career, you know. Yeah, 347 00:16:02,250 --> 00:16:03,550 Speaker 2: tell me what about you, 348 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:05,590 Speaker 1: depends on what your friend looks like. 349 00:16:07,550 --> 00:16:09,430 Speaker 2: Okay, 350 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:11,540 Speaker 1: so everything right comes in like white papers but then 351 00:16:11,540 --> 00:16:15,470 Speaker 1: this was a dangerous one comes in green green. Okay, 352 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:17,000 Speaker 1: this one's green. I'll run you 353 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 2: run. 354 00:16:20,970 --> 00:16:22,700 Speaker 2: Oh no, that's not a good 355 00:16:22,700 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 1: sign. I'm sweating. I got it. I have to answer this. 356 00:16:25,130 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 1: Can I answer to? What's that? We decide after you read? 357 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 1: Do you stop your access? No. 358 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:37,050 Speaker 1: You 359 00:16:37,050 --> 00:16:38,210 Speaker 2: know, are you answering for 360 00:16:38,210 --> 00:16:38,910 Speaker 1: yourself? 361 00:16:41,060 --> 00:16:45,300 Speaker 1: They told me I don't so I blocked my ex 362 00:16:45,310 --> 00:16:49,850 Speaker 1: on my own instagram. But I have a finster that 363 00:16:49,850 --> 00:16:53,870 Speaker 1: apparently still follows him because his account is private from 364 00:16:53,870 --> 00:16:54,830 Speaker 1: time to time. 365 00:16:55,540 --> 00:17:00,550 Speaker 1: Okay. Usually he's just playing soccer. 366 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:01,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, 367 00:17:01,750 --> 00:17:03,470 Speaker 2: you can 368 00:17:03,470 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 1: tell. 369 00:17:07,420 --> 00:17:13,030 Speaker 1: Okay, next. Hey, present 370 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:18,050 Speaker 1: milk. Hand cream y, wow. Here you go. Thank you 371 00:17:18,050 --> 00:17:18,260 Speaker 1: from 372 00:17:18,260 --> 00:17:20,230 Speaker 2: fresh. Thank you so much. No 373 00:17:20,230 --> 00:17:21,360 Speaker 1: questionnaire, 374 00:17:23,030 --> 00:17:25,230 Speaker 1: Thank you. She wanted All 375 00:17:25,230 --> 00:17:27,919 Speaker 2: right, here we go. Okay, moving 376 00:17:27,920 --> 00:17:31,150 Speaker 1: on. Okay. Any advice for small talk? 377 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,990 Speaker 2: Finally, a question where we can answer, What do you 378 00:17:33,990 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 1: mean? How to chat someone up and make 379 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:38,790 Speaker 2: small talk? Like maybe 380 00:17:39,109 --> 00:17:39,859 Speaker 1: boring 381 00:17:39,869 --> 00:17:42,970 Speaker 2: amongst colleagues. Feel like journey is someone who can really, 382 00:17:42,970 --> 00:17:47,109 Speaker 2: really make small talk. Really hate small talk. Sh it 383 00:17:47,810 --> 00:17:50,020 Speaker 2: very natural, you know, 384 00:17:50,030 --> 00:17:51,300 Speaker 1: she's really good 385 00:17:51,310 --> 00:17:53,140 Speaker 2: the first time I met her, I remember she made 386 00:17:53,140 --> 00:17:56,340 Speaker 2: the whole situation so much less awkward because she's so 387 00:17:56,340 --> 00:17:57,230 Speaker 2: good at making small talk. 388 00:17:57,230 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 1: That's why I'm marrying you, shagging you. 389 00:18:02,890 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 1: But 390 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:05,859 Speaker 2: I feel like as a radio DJ, right, my advice 391 00:18:05,859 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 2: would be 392 00:18:07,570 --> 00:18:09,719 Speaker 2: three things la weather 393 00:18:09,730 --> 00:18:11,350 Speaker 1: traffic, 394 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:13,270 Speaker 1: okay, 395 00:18:13,970 --> 00:18:15,950 Speaker 2: climate change 396 00:18:15,970 --> 00:18:17,959 Speaker 1: food, okay, 397 00:18:17,970 --> 00:18:21,810 Speaker 2: weather, climate change food. Okay, bound to work. 398 00:18:21,820 --> 00:18:23,930 Speaker 1: The thing about small talk is you got to listen 399 00:18:23,930 --> 00:18:24,800 Speaker 1: a lot, right, 400 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:26,470 Speaker 2: wow, 401 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:29,540 Speaker 1: I've been doing this long, trying not to interrupt them. 402 00:18:29,550 --> 00:18:33,979 Speaker 1: So take an interest in what the person does their job. 403 00:18:33,990 --> 00:18:36,619 Speaker 1: You know, if they have family, they have kids, what 404 00:18:36,619 --> 00:18:39,060 Speaker 1: do they do? Take a look at what they're wearing 405 00:18:39,060 --> 00:18:41,790 Speaker 1: or you know, just just anything like that 406 00:18:41,810 --> 00:18:45,050 Speaker 1: gives you a semblance of what they are interested in, Right? 407 00:18:45,060 --> 00:18:47,870 Speaker 2: And compliments. Oh yeah, good starter. 408 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:50,530 Speaker 1: You can talk about yourself but don't just go on 409 00:18:50,530 --> 00:18:52,619 Speaker 1: and on and on about yourself and don't be a 410 00:18:52,619 --> 00:18:54,969 Speaker 1: kiss as nobody likes likes you 411 00:18:54,980 --> 00:18:56,230 Speaker 2: fully agree with jimmy 412 00:18:56,240 --> 00:19:00,760 Speaker 1: jimmy jimmy. Oh okay, okay, this is not green. So 413 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:04,430 Speaker 1: I think it's all right. Ah This is a good question. 414 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:11,200 Speaker 1: How can couples communicate effectively? Well, first and foremost I 415 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:14,140 Speaker 1: think honesty should be at the forefront of anything. Um 416 00:19:14,150 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 1: I think that's something that you know, 417 00:19:16,330 --> 00:19:19,740 Speaker 1: it helps you build a foundation of trust and when 418 00:19:19,740 --> 00:19:21,670 Speaker 1: you feel like you have been honest with each other, 419 00:19:21,670 --> 00:19:24,990 Speaker 1: I think that really helps the relationship and I'm very 420 00:19:24,990 --> 00:19:27,100 Speaker 1: prone to when people ask me right or like when 421 00:19:27,109 --> 00:19:28,850 Speaker 1: in the past when a partner has asked me like 422 00:19:28,859 --> 00:19:31,270 Speaker 1: what's wrong with you, I'll just be like no I'm fine, 423 00:19:31,550 --> 00:19:34,050 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like nothing's wrong, but obviously 424 00:19:34,050 --> 00:19:36,300 Speaker 1: something's wrong but I don't know why I just have 425 00:19:36,300 --> 00:19:39,200 Speaker 1: that petty spirit in me to say nothing's wrong. But 426 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:41,090 Speaker 1: recently someone actually called me out on it and said 427 00:19:41,090 --> 00:19:43,430 Speaker 1: that you know if you don't tell me what's wrong 428 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:47,380 Speaker 1: um can't communicate yeah and we don't communicate then this 429 00:19:47,380 --> 00:19:49,160 Speaker 1: is going nowhere and I was like oh sh it 430 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:51,750 Speaker 1: actually it's true. So then I had to find the 431 00:19:51,750 --> 00:19:56,210 Speaker 1: words within myself to kind of explain how I was 432 00:19:56,210 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 1: feeling and verbalize that which is difficult but it's necessary. 433 00:19:59,930 --> 00:20:00,310 Speaker 2: She's 434 00:20:00,310 --> 00:20:03,030 Speaker 1: right about honesty. I think that's the forefront of everything 435 00:20:03,030 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 1: but you know like if you think about it right, 436 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:09,060 Speaker 1: like why do people lie because you know what kind 437 00:20:09,060 --> 00:20:11,870 Speaker 1: of response you're going to get, you know how they're 438 00:20:11,869 --> 00:20:12,070 Speaker 1: gonna 439 00:20:12,070 --> 00:20:13,150 Speaker 2: react and you don't want 440 00:20:13,150 --> 00:20:15,109 Speaker 1: that and you already know what you want, you know 441 00:20:15,109 --> 00:20:17,230 Speaker 1: what I mean? So to get honesty, I think from 442 00:20:17,230 --> 00:20:20,359 Speaker 1: both parties you got to be open to each other. 443 00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:22,780 Speaker 1: Like I cannot be coming to you already 444 00:20:22,790 --> 00:20:25,220 Speaker 1: knowing that I'm going to get out of this, then 445 00:20:25,230 --> 00:20:27,250 Speaker 1: just lie. Right? 446 00:20:27,260 --> 00:20:30,230 Speaker 2: And I think jimmy mentioned something about building a strong foundation. 447 00:20:30,230 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 2: I think that's very important. Recently I came across this, 448 00:20:32,850 --> 00:20:35,690 Speaker 2: I give you that taught couples how to build a 449 00:20:35,690 --> 00:20:38,620 Speaker 2: strong foundation so you can try this. It just takes 450 00:20:38,630 --> 00:20:41,719 Speaker 2: seven seconds of your time. So every morning before you 451 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 2: part for work, give your partner seven seconds. Just a 452 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:45,639 Speaker 2: since 453 00:20:45,650 --> 00:20:48,369 Speaker 2: hold it there for seven seconds and you can really 454 00:20:48,369 --> 00:20:52,370 Speaker 2: feel how much it changes your relationship instead of every 455 00:20:52,369 --> 00:20:54,869 Speaker 2: morning you leave house in a hurry, you don't even 456 00:20:54,869 --> 00:20:56,880 Speaker 2: say like good morning or have a nice day to 457 00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:59,260 Speaker 2: each other. Why not? Just spare that seven seconds, it 458 00:20:59,260 --> 00:21:01,369 Speaker 2: will make you late for work for sure. But you 459 00:21:01,369 --> 00:21:03,379 Speaker 2: get that strong connection and you feel like you're starting 460 00:21:03,380 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 2: your day on a very good note. I really love 461 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:08,510 Speaker 1: That. Let's hold hands for seven seconds 462 00:21:10,100 --> 00:21:17,540 Speaker 1: dreaming of a white christmas 463 00:21:17,609 --> 00:21:17,669 Speaker 2: the 464 00:21:17,830 --> 00:21:18,750 Speaker 1: way 465 00:21:18,750 --> 00:21:21,810 Speaker 2: We did a cover of our Christmas songs, you can 466 00:21:21,820 --> 00:21:23,830 Speaker 2: listen to it, we have a 9, 20 467 00:21:23,830 --> 00:21:29,970 Speaker 1: 21, it's called Hush Christmas Christmas, it's Christmas 468 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:30,920 Speaker 2: medley 469 00:21:31,310 --> 00:21:34,109 Speaker 1: Medley. And then if you get us to a billion streams, 470 00:21:34,109 --> 00:21:38,939 Speaker 1: we get the plate from 45 ft out of it. Alright, 471 00:21:38,950 --> 00:21:39,580 Speaker 1: let's do it. 472 00:21:40,190 --> 00:21:43,240 Speaker 1: Um, is 473 00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:44,010 Speaker 2: it my turn? Yes, 474 00:21:44,020 --> 00:21:44,850 Speaker 1: Okay, 475 00:21:44,859 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 2: We are in question 19 already. 476 00:21:46,810 --> 00:21:47,929 Speaker 1: Almost, 477 00:21:47,930 --> 00:21:48,859 Speaker 2: there is almost no 478 00:21:48,869 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 1: way producers, if 479 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:57,379 Speaker 2: you were the one who is hanging onto a status 480 00:21:57,380 --> 00:21:59,950 Speaker 2: quo in a relationship yet, not sure if the opposite 481 00:21:59,950 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 2: gender is interested to get together, we feel comfortable as 482 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:06,490 Speaker 2: we spend time together. Is this relationship considered toxic? Would 483 00:22:06,490 --> 00:22:06,850 Speaker 2: you reckon 484 00:22:06,859 --> 00:22:09,490 Speaker 2: meant to continue pursuing or let go? 485 00:22:09,510 --> 00:22:12,140 Speaker 1: That sounds like something that we have discussed before. You 486 00:22:12,140 --> 00:22:13,980 Speaker 1: mean like a situation ship? Exactly! 487 00:22:14,090 --> 00:22:14,790 Speaker 2: Situation. 488 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:16,540 Speaker 1: This is a situation ship. Exactly 489 00:22:16,540 --> 00:22:17,110 Speaker 2: the situation 490 00:22:17,180 --> 00:22:18,550 Speaker 1: Yes, referred 491 00:22:18,550 --> 00:22:20,780 Speaker 2: to our previous episodes on situation ship. 492 00:22:20,790 --> 00:22:23,950 Speaker 1: It's like that Tiktok sound, you know, I just love 493 00:22:23,950 --> 00:22:26,400 Speaker 1: the taste of nothing. Have you seen that? 494 00:22:27,660 --> 00:22:31,540 Speaker 2: But I think in this situation yes, there's a phase 495 00:22:31,540 --> 00:22:34,869 Speaker 2: for everything. Like we mentioned in previous episodes, I really 496 00:22:34,869 --> 00:22:37,220 Speaker 2: like the episode where we talked about glass balls and 497 00:22:37,220 --> 00:22:40,180 Speaker 2: rubber balls. Yes, so maybe in a certain light phase 498 00:22:40,180 --> 00:22:42,609 Speaker 2: of your life, you feel like you know this relationship 499 00:22:42,609 --> 00:22:44,690 Speaker 2: with a rubber ball, Like if you're comfortable, but if 500 00:22:44,700 --> 00:22:47,520 Speaker 2: you let go of it, you're fine, then I think 501 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,510 Speaker 2: it works for you. But if this is a glass 502 00:22:49,510 --> 00:22:50,820 Speaker 2: ball to you the moment you let it go, it 503 00:22:50,820 --> 00:22:53,520 Speaker 2: shatters and it breaks you and it hurts you, 504 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:56,810 Speaker 2: then I really recommend you walk out of it. But 505 00:22:56,810 --> 00:22:58,100 Speaker 2: if your goals are not aligned, it 506 00:22:58,100 --> 00:22:59,679 Speaker 1: sounds like she wants more, but the 507 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:03,070 Speaker 2: other party is not Exactly exactly. So this is what 508 00:23:03,070 --> 00:23:05,530 Speaker 2: is unclear about this entire context. Do you want more 509 00:23:05,540 --> 00:23:07,980 Speaker 2: or are you comfortable just like that? 510 00:23:07,990 --> 00:23:10,399 Speaker 1: I think it's very scary to have that conversation. I 511 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:12,960 Speaker 1: think a lot of people hold it off for an 512 00:23:12,970 --> 00:23:14,119 Speaker 1: extended period of time 513 00:23:14,130 --> 00:23:16,640 Speaker 1: because I mean you don't want to get your heart 514 00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:19,850 Speaker 1: broken right if the other person doesn't reciprocate, but at 515 00:23:19,850 --> 00:23:21,639 Speaker 1: the end of the day, do you want to drag 516 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:24,679 Speaker 1: it on just for just to be happy in the 517 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:27,630 Speaker 1: moment and then get your heart broken even worse later 518 00:23:27,630 --> 00:23:31,010 Speaker 1: when you've invested more emotionally. So I would say bite 519 00:23:31,010 --> 00:23:33,619 Speaker 1: the bullet and just have the conversation. What does this 520 00:23:33,619 --> 00:23:35,630 Speaker 1: sound like? Uh 521 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:38,149 Speaker 1: what do you mean? 522 00:23:39,450 --> 00:23:41,650 Speaker 1: Okay, so like okay, so we've been seeing each other 523 00:23:41,650 --> 00:23:44,500 Speaker 1: for a while. Should we discuss whether we are seeing 524 00:23:44,510 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 1: each other only or are we also seeing other people also? 525 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:50,669 Speaker 1: Where is this heading? Something like that? 526 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 2: Right? Like what are your goals? What 527 00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:56,070 Speaker 1: do you want out of this situation? You don't even 528 00:23:56,070 --> 00:23:58,530 Speaker 1: have to say like we are in a relationship, You know, 529 00:23:58,540 --> 00:24:01,370 Speaker 1: you can just say I'm happy where we're at but 530 00:24:01,369 --> 00:24:03,680 Speaker 1: let's not see other people for example, right? 531 00:24:03,930 --> 00:24:05,170 Speaker 2: Actually exclusive, 532 00:24:05,180 --> 00:24:06,430 Speaker 1: something like that, we'll 533 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,340 Speaker 2: take it one step at a time. Like, if you 534 00:24:09,340 --> 00:24:12,190 Speaker 2: both agree that this is mutually exclusive, then eventually you 535 00:24:12,190 --> 00:24:14,390 Speaker 2: can go into the more in depth question. It slow, 536 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:15,580 Speaker 1: take it slow, take it. 537 00:24:15,730 --> 00:24:17,220 Speaker 2: Okay, 538 00:24:17,230 --> 00:24:18,240 Speaker 1: all the best, 539 00:24:18,250 --> 00:24:20,879 Speaker 2: Thank you for your question, Who's next? Okay, 540 00:24:21,109 --> 00:24:22,080 Speaker 1: this one 541 00:24:22,950 --> 00:24:27,690 Speaker 1: while converting into your partner's religion affect the marriage in 542 00:24:27,690 --> 00:24:30,000 Speaker 1: the future, does it even matter? 543 00:24:30,010 --> 00:24:32,990 Speaker 2: I think it definitely matters, it definitely affects the marriage 544 00:24:32,990 --> 00:24:35,070 Speaker 2: in the future. I have a friend who is a 545 00:24:35,070 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 2: free thinker and his wife is a christian, right? So 546 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:42,150 Speaker 2: he converted to a being christian out of love. But 547 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,530 Speaker 2: the good thing is he fell in love with the religion, 548 00:24:44,540 --> 00:24:46,139 Speaker 2: he found that he can really 549 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,340 Speaker 2: relate with it. They held their wedding in the church. 550 00:24:49,350 --> 00:24:52,790 Speaker 2: And I think everything from there will really change because 551 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:54,970 Speaker 2: after you have kids, you would want them to be 552 00:24:54,970 --> 00:24:59,460 Speaker 2: like christians as well, like the community where all your 553 00:24:59,460 --> 00:25:03,090 Speaker 2: mindsets and you're thinking is aligned. 554 00:25:03,100 --> 00:25:06,880 Speaker 1: What do you think? I think your question, you're right, 555 00:25:06,890 --> 00:25:09,360 Speaker 1: that's right, I think thank you easy. 556 00:25:10,250 --> 00:25:13,609 Speaker 1: I think first of all, there are many varying factors 557 00:25:13,609 --> 00:25:16,870 Speaker 1: and varying degrees to this. It starts off with what 558 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:22,540 Speaker 1: is your partner's relationship with the religion first, are they practicing? 559 00:25:22,550 --> 00:25:25,670 Speaker 1: Are they by name? You know what I mean? Are 560 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:31,179 Speaker 1: they devoted and what are their expectations of you when 561 00:25:31,180 --> 00:25:34,590 Speaker 1: it comes to religion, you know what I mean? Some people, 562 00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:37,910 Speaker 1: let's say this person is of this religion by 563 00:25:37,910 --> 00:25:38,690 Speaker 2: name 564 00:25:38,950 --> 00:25:42,730 Speaker 1: and the religion requires you to convert or the partner 565 00:25:42,730 --> 00:25:45,639 Speaker 1: to convert. There are people who convert for the marriage 566 00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:47,810 Speaker 1: by name as well and if that's what your partner 567 00:25:47,810 --> 00:25:49,740 Speaker 1: that expects out of you and your okay that sure. 568 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 1: But you also must be very like, what if further 569 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 1: down the road, your partner starts to get acquainted with 570 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,530 Speaker 1: the religion, would they expect that out of you 571 00:25:57,530 --> 00:25:58,480 Speaker 2: too? Right, 572 00:25:58,490 --> 00:26:01,100 Speaker 1: that's true. It's a very good point. Yeah, I think 573 00:26:01,109 --> 00:26:04,590 Speaker 1: it's at the point of converting, you should have already 574 00:26:04,590 --> 00:26:07,659 Speaker 1: discussed all of that and you should have already 575 00:26:08,150 --> 00:26:08,690 Speaker 2: kind 576 00:26:08,690 --> 00:26:11,800 Speaker 1: of have had a plan for after the marriage, right? 577 00:26:11,810 --> 00:26:13,450 Speaker 1: Especially when you have kids and all that 578 00:26:13,460 --> 00:26:16,300 Speaker 2: in some I think it definitely affects marriage in the future, 579 00:26:16,300 --> 00:26:19,340 Speaker 2: but hopefully that's a good change for yourself and your 580 00:26:19,340 --> 00:26:20,189 Speaker 2: partner 581 00:26:20,300 --> 00:26:21,500 Speaker 1: and communication 582 00:26:21,730 --> 00:26:24,490 Speaker 2: is key. All right, moving on. 583 00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:26,610 Speaker 1: Oh, 584 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:30,380 Speaker 1: I gotta say I stink 585 00:26:30,900 --> 00:26:31,780 Speaker 2: it's perfume 586 00:26:31,790 --> 00:26:35,659 Speaker 1: and thinking very good to throw in your bag. I 587 00:26:35,660 --> 00:26:40,670 Speaker 1: love these, I think that's all. Oh no, Oh no question. 588 00:26:41,180 --> 00:26:44,510 Speaker 1: Okay, how to feel better about myself because I feel 589 00:26:44,510 --> 00:26:48,960 Speaker 1: very lost in terms of career and relationships. Well the 590 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,370 Speaker 1: thing is that like I always love to say, write 591 00:26:51,369 --> 00:26:53,560 Speaker 1: a bad day is not a bad life and it's 592 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 1: something that I try to remind myself of every day. 593 00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,419 Speaker 1: Some days you wake up feeling like absolute 594 00:26:58,420 --> 00:26:59,369 Speaker 2: shit. We've 595 00:26:59,380 --> 00:27:02,260 Speaker 1: all felt there, we've all been there where you wake 596 00:27:02,260 --> 00:27:04,530 Speaker 1: up feeling like absolute ship, but at the end of 597 00:27:04,530 --> 00:27:06,940 Speaker 1: the day, you know, I think we've mentioned this before 598 00:27:06,940 --> 00:27:10,770 Speaker 1: as well. Self love should be unconditional. So you love 599 00:27:10,770 --> 00:27:11,060 Speaker 1: yourself 600 00:27:11,070 --> 00:27:14,530 Speaker 1: not based on your merits, not based on what you've achieved, 601 00:27:14,530 --> 00:27:17,260 Speaker 1: not based on your career, your relationship status or anything 602 00:27:17,260 --> 00:27:20,860 Speaker 1: like that. You love yourself based on things that you know, 603 00:27:20,859 --> 00:27:23,640 Speaker 1: don't change within yourself for, for you, you love yourself 604 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:28,000 Speaker 1: for you, right? For unconditional traits that you have. Maybe 605 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:31,330 Speaker 1: you love your smile, I love my beautiful smile, beautiful eyes, 606 00:27:31,340 --> 00:27:33,920 Speaker 1: I love the fact I'm short or whatever, like, okay, 607 00:27:33,930 --> 00:27:34,090 Speaker 1: well 608 00:27:34,090 --> 00:27:35,090 Speaker 2: I love the fact that you're short, 609 00:27:35,100 --> 00:27:38,180 Speaker 1: thank you. This is why I'm marrying you. So yes, 610 00:27:38,190 --> 00:27:40,950 Speaker 1: love yourself unconditionally. Not based on you 611 00:27:41,390 --> 00:27:42,940 Speaker 1: and that will never change Daniel. 612 00:27:42,950 --> 00:27:45,070 Speaker 2: Can you take a look at the question because I'm 613 00:27:45,070 --> 00:27:49,170 Speaker 2: gonna answer this question from a more practical standpoint. Sure. 614 00:27:49,180 --> 00:27:52,590 Speaker 2: Um I feel very lost career relationship etcetera. I think 615 00:27:52,590 --> 00:27:55,820 Speaker 2: you need to have a proper conversation with yourself. What 616 00:27:55,820 --> 00:27:57,920 Speaker 2: is it about your career and your relationship that you 617 00:27:57,930 --> 00:28:01,630 Speaker 2: don't like, that's making you feel less than happy. I 618 00:28:01,630 --> 00:28:03,820 Speaker 2: think you really need to address that from the roots 619 00:28:03,830 --> 00:28:07,850 Speaker 2: of this entire situation, take baby steps, you can take 620 00:28:07,850 --> 00:28:10,050 Speaker 2: your time, sure, but you have to make steps to 621 00:28:10,060 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 2: improve your really 622 00:28:11,330 --> 00:28:14,490 Speaker 2: and your career and trust me eventually, if you're taking 623 00:28:14,490 --> 00:28:16,879 Speaker 2: steps for yourself, you'll start to feel better. 624 00:28:16,890 --> 00:28:20,420 Speaker 1: You know, I find as well that when you have 625 00:28:20,420 --> 00:28:23,340 Speaker 1: problems like this, right? Sometimes that you think you think 626 00:28:23,340 --> 00:28:25,920 Speaker 1: it's one thing you think that having this will solve 627 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,510 Speaker 1: the problem, oh, this is what I want. But that 628 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:32,170 Speaker 1: actually maybe like an escape from the root problem, 629 00:28:32,180 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 2: correct? It will 630 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 1: show over time. Give it some 631 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:35,720 Speaker 2: time. Okay, 632 00:28:35,730 --> 00:28:36,450 Speaker 1: cool. 633 00:28:36,460 --> 00:28:39,370 Speaker 2: We are the last question. All 634 00:28:39,370 --> 00:28:40,739 Speaker 1: right, 635 00:28:41,700 --> 00:28:42,640 Speaker 1: take a look. 636 00:28:42,650 --> 00:28:43,950 Speaker 2: I have a bad feeling 637 00:28:43,950 --> 00:28:44,610 Speaker 1: About 23 years. 638 00:28:45,900 --> 00:28:48,470 Speaker 2: How did you get over your version of the quarter 639 00:28:48,470 --> 00:28:50,450 Speaker 2: life crisis still 640 00:28:50,450 --> 00:28:50,880 Speaker 1: in it? 641 00:28:51,460 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 1: Are you ready? 642 00:28:53,410 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 2: I feel like um maybe it's a good thing that 643 00:28:57,050 --> 00:28:59,120 Speaker 2: I got this question because I don't think I ever 644 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:02,230 Speaker 2: experienced a quarter life crisis. I'm someone who doesn't really 645 00:29:02,230 --> 00:29:04,530 Speaker 2: believe in Murphy's Law. I hate Murphy's law. I don't 646 00:29:04,530 --> 00:29:06,670 Speaker 2: think that anything can go back. We'll go back because 647 00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,560 Speaker 2: I take decisions to take charge of my own life. 648 00:29:09,570 --> 00:29:13,420 Speaker 2: I make decisions that will make me happy. Quarter life crisis. 649 00:29:13,430 --> 00:29:17,010 Speaker 2: If I say it doesn't exist, then it bloody doesn't exist. 650 00:29:17,020 --> 00:29:18,370 Speaker 2: And for me it doesn't. 651 00:29:19,900 --> 00:29:20,640 Speaker 1: I love that. 652 00:29:22,010 --> 00:29:22,720 Speaker 2: Moving on. 653 00:29:22,730 --> 00:29:26,739 Speaker 1: All right, okay, you wanna come come. You answer this 654 00:29:26,740 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 1: a little bit because I think why people talk about 655 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,459 Speaker 1: quarter life midlife crisis crisis. I think it's just at 656 00:29:33,460 --> 00:29:36,040 Speaker 1: a point in your life where things are changing. You know, 657 00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:37,550 Speaker 1: when you're like 2025 years 658 00:29:37,570 --> 00:29:39,380 Speaker 1: figuring things out for yourself. So it's not exactly a 659 00:29:39,380 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 1: quarter life crisis. Just figuring things out for yourself. When 660 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,370 Speaker 1: you're 50 you're like empty nester, you know, that kind 661 00:29:44,370 --> 00:29:46,750 Speaker 1: of thing or whatever that's going on, right? So you're 662 00:29:46,750 --> 00:29:49,050 Speaker 1: a bit lost again. There are things changing around you. 663 00:29:49,060 --> 00:29:52,000 Speaker 1: So it's not like a quarter life or midlife crisis thing, 664 00:29:52,010 --> 00:29:53,130 Speaker 1: it's just like a 665 00:29:53,420 --> 00:29:54,050 Speaker 1: I think you're at a 666 00:29:54,050 --> 00:29:55,710 Speaker 2: crossroads, correct, 667 00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 1: correct. And I think when you think of it as like, crossroads, 668 00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:59,450 Speaker 1: you can better figure out like which we're going to 669 00:29:59,450 --> 00:30:01,460 Speaker 2: Go and to be exact, it doesn't happen when you're 670 00:30:01,460 --> 00:30:04,130 Speaker 2: like 25 or 50, it happens every single day. Don't 671 00:30:04,130 --> 00:30:06,810 Speaker 2: you think so? So it's just taking steps to maneuver 672 00:30:06,810 --> 00:30:09,280 Speaker 2: yourself and get yourself into the right direction. 673 00:30:09,290 --> 00:30:10,580 Speaker 1: I love that. 674 00:30:11,410 --> 00:30:13,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. Alright, moving on, 675 00:30:13,890 --> 00:30:17,530 Speaker 1: I'm scared for you. I'm using a pass card. No. 676 00:30:20,230 --> 00:30:20,470 Speaker 1: Okay. 677 00:30:21,100 --> 00:30:25,420 Speaker 1: Oh, good question. It better be a damn hard question 678 00:30:25,430 --> 00:30:27,190 Speaker 1: for the damn Sephora gift card. 679 00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:29,730 Speaker 2: She's getting that. It better be a hard question. 680 00:30:29,740 --> 00:30:30,540 Speaker 1: Your 681 00:30:33,670 --> 00:30:34,500 Speaker 1: Okay, 682 00:30:34,510 --> 00:30:37,690 Speaker 2: Okay, last question. Alright, Germany, 683 00:30:38,790 --> 00:30:39,470 Speaker 2: The grand 684 00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:40,420 Speaker 1: finale, 685 00:30:42,700 --> 00:30:45,680 Speaker 1: how come our producers on his podcast? Don't show their 686 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:50,490 Speaker 1: face or name you sh I actually want to see 687 00:30:50,500 --> 00:30:50,940 Speaker 1: actually 688 00:30:50,950 --> 00:30:52,950 Speaker 2: why why not? 689 00:30:52,950 --> 00:30:57,340 Speaker 1: Actually, why not? They have a couple of vlogs up. Exactly. 690 00:30:57,350 --> 00:30:59,810 Speaker 2: And if you've been following us, like for a long 691 00:30:59,810 --> 00:31:01,950 Speaker 2: time when we tell you some of our stories from 692 00:31:01,950 --> 00:31:04,950 Speaker 2: the producers, you will know right away which story belong 693 00:31:04,950 --> 00:31:05,780 Speaker 2: to which producer? 694 00:31:05,790 --> 00:31:08,700 Speaker 1: Okay, we'll do is we'll post a group picture and 695 00:31:08,700 --> 00:31:10,640 Speaker 1: pack all of them and you guys can stop them 696 00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:11,420 Speaker 1: on instagram. 697 00:31:12,530 --> 00:31:17,130 Speaker 1: Are they available? Yeah, we got a few that Yes, yes, yes. 698 00:31:17,140 --> 00:31:19,200 Speaker 1: But again depends on what you look like a friend. 699 00:31:19,210 --> 00:31:23,050 Speaker 1: It depends on what your friends like. Okay, well that 700 00:31:23,060 --> 00:31:28,020 Speaker 1: wraps up our advent calendar, wow now to wrap up 701 00:31:28,030 --> 00:31:32,920 Speaker 1: this very, very special christmas episode. Yes. Any festive wishes? No, 702 00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:34,840 Speaker 1: I think before we do that, we need to say 703 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:38,720 Speaker 1: as well that our dear journey is hosting the countdown 704 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:39,620 Speaker 1: show this year. 705 00:31:41,650 --> 00:31:46,390 Speaker 1: What is that? 2023? How you feeling excited? 706 00:31:47,530 --> 00:31:51,020 Speaker 1: Yes, it's gonna be at the Marina Bay and some 707 00:31:51,020 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 1: amazing performance and I'll be counting down, I've been practicing 708 00:31:54,210 --> 00:31:58,060 Speaker 1: 10 9 every day. Every account once just to make 709 00:31:58,060 --> 00:31:59,080 Speaker 1: sure I don't forget. 710 00:31:59,930 --> 00:32:02,100 Speaker 1: So don't forget it. You know, go down to the 711 00:32:02,100 --> 00:32:05,239 Speaker 1: premonitory or if you are celebrating at home for your 712 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:08,910 Speaker 1: loved ones turn on the tv and you can see germs, 713 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:10,780 Speaker 2: I'm so proud of you to me, I feel like 714 00:32:10,780 --> 00:32:14,020 Speaker 2: 2022 has like seen all of us and our group 715 00:32:14,020 --> 00:32:17,760 Speaker 2: in our careers respectively. So happy for that. Now wrapping 716 00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:18,010 Speaker 2: up this 717 00:32:18,020 --> 00:32:20,830 Speaker 2: episode. Any festive wishes for our harsh listeners. 718 00:32:20,830 --> 00:32:24,600 Speaker 1: I think kindness goes a long way. Yeah. So this 719 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:27,270 Speaker 1: festive season. Anything that you can do to spread a 720 00:32:27,270 --> 00:32:30,080 Speaker 1: little bit more festive joy and share and just be 721 00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:32,450 Speaker 1: kind to anyone that you meet in your life. I'm 722 00:32:32,450 --> 00:32:38,640 Speaker 1: sure it will pay forward I think 2022 felt like 723 00:32:38,650 --> 00:32:40,300 Speaker 1: 50 years 724 00:32:40,610 --> 00:32:44,100 Speaker 1: And if you felt that way too honestly like to 725 00:32:44,100 --> 00:32:47,580 Speaker 1: Jeremy and hazy and the entire Claritin and all of 726 00:32:47,580 --> 00:32:50,840 Speaker 1: you who listen, who watch, who follow, who love us, 727 00:32:50,850 --> 00:32:53,360 Speaker 1: who this on us to share the nurse and take 728 00:32:53,660 --> 00:32:59,450 Speaker 1: all of you. 2023 treat you with kindness and I 729 00:32:59,450 --> 00:33:03,110 Speaker 1: hope you treat me with kindness as well. They 730 00:33:03,140 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 1: um you never know what people are going through like 731 00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 1: you know, you really never know so as much 732 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:10,060 Speaker 2: as you can, I 733 00:33:10,060 --> 00:33:11,360 Speaker 1: think it's just nice to do 734 00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:12,560 Speaker 2: something nice or just 735 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:15,220 Speaker 1: to be nice because it may go a really long 736 00:33:15,220 --> 00:33:16,540 Speaker 1: way and I hope 737 00:33:16,540 --> 00:33:17,460 Speaker 2: you 738 00:33:17,470 --> 00:33:20,200 Speaker 1: get everything that you want. I hope you know yourself 739 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,350 Speaker 1: a little bit better this year as well and I 740 00:33:22,350 --> 00:33:25,240 Speaker 1: hope you just have fun namaste namaste 741 00:33:26,340 --> 00:33:29,480 Speaker 2: Whatever happened in 2022 I say let's leave it in 742 00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:32,260 Speaker 2: 2020 to be the good or the bad. Let's move 743 00:33:32,270 --> 00:33:36,140 Speaker 2: forward to 2023 on an even better note. I mean 744 00:33:36,150 --> 00:33:39,090 Speaker 2: I'm sure the regulations have like loosened up so so 745 00:33:39,090 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 2: much in 2023, a lot of us feel like we're 746 00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:46,700 Speaker 2: getting our finally regular lives back and just embrace everything 747 00:33:46,700 --> 00:33:49,950 Speaker 2: with an open mind, open heart merry Christmas and a 748 00:33:49,950 --> 00:33:51,110 Speaker 2: happy new year. 749 00:33:52,370 --> 00:33:56,420 Speaker 1: Remember if all else fails, Catch flights not feelings