1 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: Life Audio. 2 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:23,440 Speaker 2: Hi friend, welcome to Breathe the stress Less Podcast. I'm 3 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 2: Bonnie Gray, your soul care guide for this time, designed 4 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 2: just for you to rest and refresh your soul. This 5 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:35,480 Speaker 2: is a place of soul care where you can pick 6 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:39,919 Speaker 2: up a practical soul care tip based on science so 7 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 2: you can restore calm to your emotions and your body, 8 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,880 Speaker 2: and you'll also receive a loving word of affirmation from 9 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 2: God's word, scripture and science. Well, I'm the best selling 10 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 2: author of Breathe twenty one days to stress Us and 11 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 2: Transform Chaos to Calm, as well as three other books, 12 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 2: a WI First of Rest forty day devotional, a memoir 13 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 2: about your true worth and mine when I tried to 14 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 2: find my father he had left when I was seven. 15 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 2: It's called Sweet Like Jasmine. And I have another book 16 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:21,320 Speaker 2: called Finding Spiritual White Space. If you're looking for a 17 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 2: book to snuggle up with in the winter, I just 18 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:29,320 Speaker 2: suggest that you welcome me into your day on soul 19 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:33,040 Speaker 2: care through one of these books. Well, let me ask 20 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:38,040 Speaker 2: you today's question. Have you been feeling worn down but 21 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:42,759 Speaker 2: telling yourself you shouldn't be. Maybe you feel like you're 22 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 2: doing everything right, but something still feels off because your 23 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 2: heart feels heavy, your energy just seems to drag, and 24 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 2: your mind can't quite feel at rest. If that's you, 25 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 2: you're not alone. Today we're going to talk about something 26 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 2: so common that it often goes unnoticed, and how it 27 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 2: quietly affects our wellness more than we realize. In today's episode, 28 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 2: I'm sharing a story that helped me realize is just 29 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 2: this past week. Sometimes our minds are aren't tired because 30 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 2: we need to do less, they're tired because we haven't 31 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 2: been encouraged. Does that interest you, Well, We're going to 32 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 2: talk about a few things. One, why a worried mind 33 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:38,640 Speaker 2: doesn't quiet through effort. I know because I've tried. Second, 34 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 2: how encouragement gives the mind a place to rest. Third, 35 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 2: what scripture and science both tell us about kind words. 36 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 2: And of course I'm always going to give you a 37 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 2: gentle soul care practice, something you can do, simple action 38 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 2: you can take to help your mind breathe again and 39 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 2: help your emotions and your body feel better. Well, friend, 40 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 2: if your heart has been wanting that pickup, you're in 41 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 2: the right place. This episode is for you. Well. Next week, 42 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:18,240 Speaker 2: it's so exciting. Two things are happening on the same 43 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 2: day on Wednesday, February eighteenth. It's both the Chinese New 44 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 2: Year the Lunar New Year, and it's also drum roll Lent. 45 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 2: Lent begins next Wednesday as well, and I mean so exciting. 46 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 2: Spring is coming, and both of these special holidays celebrate 47 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 2: that spring in our spirit through Jesus's Walk to the 48 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 2: Cross with Easter and the Chinese Lunar New Year. I 49 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 2: love because it's our second chance to start the new year, 50 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 2: and I want to invite you to a special kind 51 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 2: of rest and renewal. You know, in Lent, traditionally people 52 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 2: fast food, right, but instead of fasting food, what if 53 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 2: we fasted from worry and busyness. Hello, we're raising our hands, right. 54 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 2: So that's why I created the Lent Wellness Study. I 55 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 2: created it during the season when I was overwhelmed with 56 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 2: worry and I just wanted to meet with Jesus in 57 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 2: a quiet way through rest and renewal through the six 58 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 2: weeks of Lent. So I created this resource. If your 59 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 2: heart is longing for that kind of peaceful reset during 60 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 2: Lent walking with Jesus to the Cross, you're gonna love 61 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 2: this Lent Wellness Study. It'll have those scripture walking with 62 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 2: Jesus to the Cross, to Easter new life, as well 63 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 2: as something you can do during those six weeks to 64 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 2: help your wellness in four different areas. That's emotional wellness, 65 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 2: physical wellness, spiritual wellness, and social wellness. So please stop 66 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 2: by look at the link that's in our show notes 67 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:57,159 Speaker 2: and you'll be able to check out the Lent Wellness Study. 68 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:00,719 Speaker 2: Thousands of women have already taken it and been blessed 69 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 2: through this sacred holy journey, and I know. 70 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 1: You will too, and we'll be right back. 71 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 2: Well friend. This week. Our scripture, which has been a 72 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 2: quiet anchor for my soul, is from Proverbs twelve twenty five. 73 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 2: Anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers 74 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 2: it up. Let's turn this into a breath prayer. What 75 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 2: that means is you're just going to breathe in as 76 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 2: I recite our loving word of affirmation. Breathe in. Anxiety 77 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:56,039 Speaker 2: weighs down the heart, breathe out, but a kind word 78 00:05:56,120 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 2: cheers it up. Just continue to gently breathe in and 79 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:06,479 Speaker 2: breathe out. Relax your shoulders, relax those hands, and as 80 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 2: you breathe, notice what word or phrase feels like an 81 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 2: encouragement to you right now. Anxiety weighs down the heart, 82 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 2: but a kind word cheers it up. 83 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 1: Well. 84 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 2: Last week I entered into week three of my sabbatical year, 85 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 2: and I went to have lunch with a mentor who's 86 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 2: been a part of my life since I was in 87 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 2: sixth grade. Her name is mary Anne, and if you've 88 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:39,599 Speaker 2: read my memoir Sweet Like Jasmine, you know who I'm 89 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 2: talking about. Mary Anne was the first and only woman 90 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 2: at church who offered to come to my house and 91 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 2: meet with me one on one. I don't remember the 92 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 2: books we read together, but you know what I do 93 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 2: remembered how mary Anne listened. She asked how I was doing. 94 00:06:56,480 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 2: We laughed together, and she was concerned when ever I 95 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 2: would share my worries. She never really told me what 96 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 2: to do, but at the end of our hour together, 97 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 2: Marianne would simply say, well, why don't we pray? How 98 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 2: can I pray for you? And in her prayers for me, 99 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 2: I knew she'd been listening. And even now I still 100 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 2: love to say I'd love to pray with you. I 101 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 2: don't say i'd love to pray for you, because for me, 102 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 2: prayer has always felt most healing when it's shoulder to shoulder, 103 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 2: heart to heart, coming alongside each other. Well, I met 104 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 2: up with mary Anne for lunch last week, and I 105 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 2: shared how even though I've paused teaching and writing in 106 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 2: Soul Care school, my mind still scans for worries and 107 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 2: how it's been hard to turn off the thinking mode. 108 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 2: And I was pretty surprised, you know, because if I've 109 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 2: you know, paused the work and I'm on my sabbatical time, 110 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 2: you'd think, you know, my mind would be free. Bit 111 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 2: I've noticed that it doesn't seem to turn off. So 112 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 2: I've been telling her. I've been learning that quieting a 113 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 2: worried mind isn't about stopping thoughts, but about giving the 114 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 2: mind something encouraging to rest on. So I asked Marianne 115 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 2: what retirement has been like for her. She just recently retired, 116 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 2: and she shared that one practice she returned to was 117 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 2: reading the Bible in one year. Now. That surprised me 118 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 2: because I've never been drawn to that kind of project. 119 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 2: I've always felt previously when the idea came out, I 120 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 2: felt was kind of mechanical. But this side, something different happened, 121 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 2: something sparked inside me. You know, I've been recently reading 122 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 2: books at night to help my mind slow down. I 123 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:54,200 Speaker 2: just finished Screwtape Letters by C. S. Lewis, and now 124 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:57,960 Speaker 2: I'm starting Chronicles of Narnia. And I thought, hey, what 125 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 2: if I read the Bible as literature, as a work 126 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:04,439 Speaker 2: of art, just one time through, like it's a big book, 127 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 2: you know, because Chronicles of Narnia is really thick. And 128 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 2: I was like, the Bible's not even that thick. So 129 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 2: I said, what if I read the Bible once straight 130 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 2: through within this year, simply to enjoy God's story? And 131 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 2: so I started friends This past week, each morning, after 132 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 2: having my coffee and my son Caleb's off to school, 133 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 2: I began reading scripture slowly as literature a story. And 134 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 2: I've been jotting down words or phrases that catch my 135 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 2: attention or touch my heart. So it's like no pressure, 136 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 2: no like intensive studying, just reading for pleasure as a story, 137 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:49,320 Speaker 2: a narrative. So I even bought a new journal, and 138 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:52,559 Speaker 2: I bought colored pens, which is a really big deal 139 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 2: for someone like me who usually only writes in black 140 00:09:56,080 --> 00:10:00,040 Speaker 2: ink in my journals. And so Friend, something shifted inside me. 141 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:00,120 Speaker 1: Me. 142 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 2: My day didn't change because my problems or worries disappeared. 143 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 2: It changed because my mind has been encouraged. So, friend, 144 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:16,080 Speaker 2: what might it look like for you for your mind 145 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 2: to receive encouragement this week instead of more pressure. What 146 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 2: would that look like for you? What are some ideas 147 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 2: that might have sparked as I was telling you this story. Well, 148 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:30,319 Speaker 2: one passage that really spoke to me deeply this week 149 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 2: was in Genesis one, as God creates, I noticed that 150 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 2: God brings order out of chaos through two gentle movements. 151 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 2: Two God separates and God gathers. Okay, separates and gathers. 152 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 2: God separates the light from the darkness, and God gathers 153 00:10:54,840 --> 00:11:00,679 Speaker 2: the waters to bring life. And I realize those two movements, 154 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 2: those are the two movements that help quiet a worried mind. Okay, 155 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 2: So we want to separate, create distance from our worries. 156 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 2: We want to separate from what drains us. And second, 157 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 2: we want to gather closer to us what gives us life. 158 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 2: So in the Genesis one narrative, God gathers the water 159 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 2: so that he creates land and different oceans. And so 160 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 2: this is important bringing order to our mind. We need 161 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 2: us do two things. One separate what drains us, create 162 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:40,200 Speaker 2: more distance, and second gather closer to us what gives 163 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 2: us life? So what would bring you life? What would 164 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 2: bring you encouragement, beauty, scripture, connection, relational wellness. You know, 165 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 2: those are the things we want to draw closer to 166 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:58,959 Speaker 2: gather them close to us. Now, how about you, friend, 167 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 2: how might God be inviting you today to separate from 168 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 2: what weighs you down? To create distance from what weighs 169 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:11,559 Speaker 2: you down? And what would God be inviting you today 170 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 2: to gather closer what brings you life? Gather closer to 171 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:21,440 Speaker 2: you during the day, what brings you joy or peace 172 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:25,679 Speaker 2: or beauty? Want you to keep those two words on 173 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:28,840 Speaker 2: your heart for your soul care for this week? What 174 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 2: would God be separating wants to separate from within your 175 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 2: day and gather closer to you. God's work is creative 176 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:44,320 Speaker 2: and we're invited to do it together with him. And 177 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 2: when we come back, I'm going to talk about the 178 00:12:45,960 --> 00:13:00,440 Speaker 2: science behind this. So this is so exciting, this science 179 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 2: behind this, This really helps us solidify the importance of 180 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 2: soul care. Research shows that anxiety narrows our attention. It 181 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:13,960 Speaker 2: keeps the mind focus on potential problems. Are what could 182 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:17,800 Speaker 2: go wrong next? Or what else you need to do? Okay, 183 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 2: that's just how the brain works, so it can help us. 184 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:26,319 Speaker 2: But encouraging words and meaningful voices, on the other hand, 185 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:30,600 Speaker 2: give the mind a different place to rest. So we 186 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 2: want to create more opportunity to help our mind rest. 187 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 2: How does that work? One way is through encouraging words 188 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 2: and meaningful voices. Studies show that when we spend time 189 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 2: with meaningful language, whether through reading, prayer, or having conversation 190 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 2: with somebody that we enjoy being with, the brain will 191 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:56,680 Speaker 2: naturally shift away from rumination. So, friend, you know, often 192 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 2: when we worry, we just like we're really hard on ourselves. 193 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 1: We're like worrying. 194 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:03,720 Speaker 2: Where are you worrying? No, the way to dial down 195 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:09,200 Speaker 2: the worry quiet that worried mind is to introduce and 196 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 2: spend time with meaningful language. So this will help reduce 197 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 2: the mental noise and give your mind a break from 198 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 2: constantly self monitoring. It will help you to stop that quiet, 199 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 2: that non stop inner checking and second guessing. In simple terms, 200 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 2: worry keeps the mind looping, but kind words give the 201 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 2: mind a new track to run on. That new track 202 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 2: gives the mind a chance to brief. You know how, 203 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 2: Sometimes you're listening to a playlist and they have like 204 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 2: recommended songs for you if you listen to like Apple 205 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 2: Music or Spotify. But sometimes you get a song you 206 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 2: don't like, right, you could just skip it, right, you 207 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 2: skip it by going to the next song. So that's 208 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 2: kind of what we're doing. When we read here and 209 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 2: dwell on words that are meaningful and encouragement for wellness, 210 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 2: it will s shape which voice becomes louder in our 211 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:07,960 Speaker 2: inner world. So now you know the science. Of course, 212 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 2: I want to give you a challenge, something practical I'd 213 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 2: like you to do this week. I'm doing it too. 214 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 2: There are two silka practices, all right. The first is 215 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 2: to reach out. I want you to schedule coffee or 216 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 2: lunch with someone who encourages your heart. Research shows that 217 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 2: supportive conversation it reduces rumination and helps regulate stress. Our 218 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 2: nervous system calms more easily when we feel emotionally connected 219 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 2: and accompanied. You've felt this way before, Right before you 220 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 2: go meet with somebody, maybe you don't even want to go, 221 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 2: but then after you have a good time connecting with 222 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:48,800 Speaker 2: somebody that you enjoy being with, you come back you're like, whew, 223 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 2: I'm glad I did that right. So first action, I 224 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 2: want you to do schedule. I want you to reach 225 00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 2: out to somebody you can schedule it, even if you 226 00:15:57,320 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 2: can't meet this week. I want you to schedule itcond 227 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 2: I want you to receive a kind word, write down 228 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 2: a favorite scripture, or read a story in the Bible 229 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 2: that you already love. Now, I want you to do 230 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 2: it first thing in the morning, before you read the 231 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 2: news emails. You first receive that kind word from God. 232 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 2: And studies show that the first input our minds take 233 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 2: in helps set our emotional tone for the day. And 234 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 2: the interesting is like a thermist dot. You're setting the 235 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 2: thermist dot for your emotions and your mind. Starting out 236 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:38,800 Speaker 2: with meaningful, encouraging words can shape how our minds respond 237 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 2: to stress and reduce the mental noise later on in 238 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 2: the day. Now, if it helps, you can use the 239 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 2: free Bible app. That's what I'm using to do my 240 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:54,720 Speaker 2: Bible in a year three sixty five day reading plan. 241 00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 2: And there are many and the one that I found that's, 242 00:16:57,920 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 2: you know, I think is really good. I recommend it. 243 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 2: It's Biblica, has no commentary, lets you soak in the scripture. 244 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:10,600 Speaker 2: I'll share the link to that Bible reading plan in 245 00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 2: the show notes. Well, let's pray Jesus, thank you for 246 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:21,000 Speaker 2: meeting us with tenderness and care. Where our hearts feel heavy, 247 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:27,360 Speaker 2: you draw us closer and lift us up a men. Well. 248 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:30,400 Speaker 2: As Lent begins next week, I want to invite you 249 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:34,360 Speaker 2: to think about fasting a little differently. Instead of fascinating 250 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 2: from food alone, what if this lent you fasted from 251 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:43,520 Speaker 2: wory and busyness. That's why I created the Lent Wellness Study. 252 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:47,399 Speaker 2: You'll find rest renewal walking with Jesus to the Cross 253 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:50,920 Speaker 2: to new life on Easter, and I know you will 254 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 2: love it. Just check out those show notes. There'll be 255 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:56,960 Speaker 2: a link for that Lent Wellness Study and friend, if 256 00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 2: this has encouraged you, I encourage you to share this 257 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:04,800 Speaker 2: with a friend and allow her to also be encouraged. 258 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:10,439 Speaker 2: Remember that you're loved and you're cherished. 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