1 00:00:01,320 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 1: The world is becoming increasingly propicient at telling stories that 2 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 1: deny God. As such, we need Thinking Christian to become 3 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 1: as natural as breathing. Welcome to the Thinking Christian podcast. 4 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: I'm doctor James Spencer, and through calm, thoughtful theological discussions, 5 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 1: Thinking Christian highlights the ways God is working in the 6 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:23,120 Speaker 1: world and questions the underlying social, cultural, and political assumptions 7 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 1: that hinder Christians from becoming more like Christ. Now onto 8 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: today's episode of Thinking Christian. Hey, everybody, welcome to this 9 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:33,959 Speaker 1: episode of Thinking Christian. I'm doctor James Spencer and I'm 10 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: joined by doctor Ashish Pharma, and today we're going to 11 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: do a follow up episode to a conversation we had 12 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 1: with David Van Dyke from Wheaton College. He runs the 13 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 1: Marriage and Family Therapy or marriage and family counseling program 14 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: there at Wheaton, and one of the things he talked 15 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 1: about in the episode was this notion of systems. So 16 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: when we think about marriage and family counseling, his argument 17 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 1: was it's best to think about systems is about their 18 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:04,400 Speaker 1: relationships that are involved in a family and are involved 19 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:08,399 Speaker 1: in a marriage, and how one responds to the various 20 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 1: relationships or other people within that system, the other factors 21 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 1: within that system. I find it interesting just having done 22 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 1: a lot of consulting over the years, you know, higher 23 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 1: education consulting is largely about managing multiple different stakeholders, multiple 24 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 1: different factors, and trying to help an institution understand how 25 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: they should respond to all those different factors. I also 26 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: find it interesting just from when we think through when 27 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: we've had conversations about this before on the podcast Systemic Sin. 28 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 1: How is it that we relate to the world differently 29 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: depending on how we're embodied in the world, our socioeconomic status, 30 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:54,559 Speaker 1: various other issues. And so this system's thinking is actually 31 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 1: a pretty crucial thing that we need to get our 32 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: heads around. And I think that what we want to 33 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 1: try to you today is think about what does systems 34 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 1: thinking add to our understanding about what it means to 35 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: be the Body of Christ. How does this manifest not 36 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 1: only in a local congregation, although that's sort of a 37 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 1: primary space for it, but also as the Body of 38 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: Christ as a whole. And so we're going to start 39 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: off a little bit and in one of Ashisha's wheelhouses virtue, 40 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 1: and there's an interesting book equating virtue and addiction that 41 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 1: we kind of want to summarize here, and so unless 42 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 1: you have anything else to add I'll turn it over 43 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:37,399 Speaker 1: to you and we can kind of dive into that. 44 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 2: No, that's good. Before I mentioned that what Kent Dunnington 45 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 2: is doing in his book Virtue and Addiction, it's worth 46 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 2: setting up what this is coming out of. From David 47 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 2: Van Dyke's articulation. One of the things he said that 48 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:58,239 Speaker 2: that especially intrigued me. I think it intrigued you as well. 49 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 2: And Dave Vandyck spent some time I'm responding or explaining, 50 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 2: but he made a comment about how when he has 51 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 2: a family in the room, he might have a child 52 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 2: and parents that are coming at things from different perspectives, 53 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 2: and what he's less concerned about is what the story 54 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 2: is that they're telling, And that one struck me as interesting, 55 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 2: not least because I thought, well, stories often help explain 56 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:29,080 Speaker 2: what's going on. But his point was not that the 57 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:32,519 Speaker 2: story is unimportant so much as he was trying to 58 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 2: gauge how people are responding to those stories. So, in 59 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 2: his example, there was a teenage kid who saw himself 60 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 2: as disrupting the environment, and the parent's reaction to that 61 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 2: analysis was to sort of grimace as I recall to 62 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 2: sort of show exasperation, and the son's response was to smirk. 63 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 2: And that was especially interesting because what it showed was 64 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 2: not that the stories are different, but the stories that 65 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 2: the two groups were inhabiting were coming out of different 66 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 2: places with different sorts of reactions. Yeah, that do speak 67 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 2: to as you're getting out systems, and I think that 68 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:24,119 Speaker 2: that system is something that's hard at times to grab 69 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 2: a hold of. Systems can be scary to us because 70 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 2: they're often invisible to us, invisible to the point where 71 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:35,239 Speaker 2: we react within them and can get defensive if someone 72 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 2: tries to call it out. We, especially in Christian circles, 73 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 2: I find, have trouble wrestling with that reality of systems. 74 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 2: It's much easier to talk about individual right. I can 75 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:50,720 Speaker 2: take responsibility ostensibly for something that I'm doing that I'm 76 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 2: aware that I'm doing, that I'm choosing to do. But 77 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 2: how do I take responsibility for being in something that 78 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 2: have less control over? And so we grab towards probably 79 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 2: two extremes, and this is where Dunnington comes in, and 80 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 2: the two extremes can often be on one side. Everything's 81 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 2: wilful choice, right I choose to eat ice cream or 82 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 2: I don't I choose to play basketball or don't. And 83 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:22,159 Speaker 2: on the other side there's the concept of disease, something 84 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 2: like cancer or something like heart disease. I don't choose this. 85 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 2: It's just something that happens to me, and it happens 86 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 2: to me, perhaps for genetic reasons, perhaps from environmental reasons, 87 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:38,599 Speaker 2: but it's something that I'm in some sense a victim of. 88 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 2: And so what he wants to say is that often 89 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 2: the way that we tend to think of something like 90 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:49,359 Speaker 2: addiction is in one of these two ways. And it 91 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 2: can be contentious, right those who want to say, well, 92 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 2: it's your choice. The alcoholic has chosen to drink, and 93 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 2: the alcoholic has chosen to be subjected to those forms 94 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:03,720 Speaker 2: of life patterns that just keep going back to it destructively. 95 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 2: And the other side says, no, this person is a 96 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:13,719 Speaker 2: victim of a disease and can't help help him or herself. Right, 97 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 2: And Dunton wants to say, it's not quite either. While 98 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 2: he understands both extremes, and what he wants to do 99 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,479 Speaker 2: is he con compares it to virtue. So not to 100 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:25,039 Speaker 2: rehash what we've talked about in the past in terms 101 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 2: of virtue, just quickly. Virtue has to do with character formation. 102 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 2: It's less concerned about the precise response or action that 103 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:38,359 Speaker 2: one takes. It tries not to give moral content to 104 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 2: particular actions, but rather tend to give ethical content to 105 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 2: the dispositions that are formed. Why am I doing? 106 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:49,279 Speaker 1: What am I doing? Right? 107 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:52,040 Speaker 2: So that what I'm doing might be different. If I'm 108 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 2: throwing a surprise party for my kid, not telling the 109 00:06:56,279 --> 00:07:00,919 Speaker 2: truth about what's coming is very different then if I'm 110 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 2: I'm hiding some sort of sin that I'm involved in, right, 111 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 2: some sort of misadventure that I'm undertaking. If I'm hiding 112 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 2: a person in my basement who's being searched for by 113 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 2: the state in order to arrest and to persecute in 114 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 2: some ways think Nazi Germany and comparable actions that might 115 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 2: speak on the present. My choice to hide the truth 116 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 2: is very different than if I'm stealing something and I 117 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 2: want to protect my own autonomy in that sense, right, 118 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 2: And the virtuous is concerned about what is it that, 119 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 2: what is the disposition within myself for why I'm doing 120 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 2: what I'm doing, And we often then tend to think 121 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 2: of the opposite of that virtuous behavior as vice. But 122 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 2: Dunnington wants to say, that's probably not the most helpful 123 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 2: way to think about it, right, because the virtue is 124 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 2: fundamentally about dispositions, the forming of habits, the character that forms, 125 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 2: and acting out of that character in a way that tends. 126 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 1: To be wise. 127 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 2: Vice is not the opposite of that. Vice tends to 128 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 2: be doing things out of love, just like virtue is, 129 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 2: but just out of a misplaced love. Right, So, if 130 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 2: someone has a love of money, they do things based 131 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 2: upon a love of having that money, compounding that money, 132 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 2: and if that means screwing over other people as a result, 133 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 2: that's okay, because I got my money right, and may 134 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 2: the best person win. Doesn't even want to say more. 135 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 2: The more the more that you look at that, the 136 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 2: less it seems like an opposite, and the more it 137 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 2: seems like a foil. Right. 138 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 1: But the true. 139 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 2: Opposite, he wants to say, is to put addiction into 140 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 2: this category, because addiction runs on systems, systems that can 141 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 2: be invisible to us. And so he especially analyzes alcoholism, 142 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 2: and he especially out and analyzes the people and the 143 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 2: work the people involved in and the work of alcoholics 144 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:07,679 Speaker 2: anonymous a and what he notices after looking over you know, 145 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 2: numerous many hundreds, as I can understand interviews and data 146 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 2: points from within this is that there's a commonality that 147 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 2: flares up and that people who find themselves in Alcoholics 148 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 2: Anonymous find themselves there because they've started to come to 149 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 2: the realization that they have a problem, and that problem 150 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:31,680 Speaker 2: is not something that they have any choice to overcome, 151 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 2: not because their willfulness is not entailed in their choice, 152 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 2: but because the addiction that they're now in is something 153 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 2: that they do despite the fact that they don't love it. 154 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 2: So he recounts that these alcoholics don't actually want to 155 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 2: be drinking. It's an automatic response that's habituated in them 156 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 2: based upon some other trigger. Right. That other trigger was 157 00:09:56,760 --> 00:10:01,200 Speaker 2: often things like a rough work environment, rough family situation, 158 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:08,319 Speaker 2: something happens at work. They spiral and the well well 159 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:12,599 Speaker 2: made path, that groove that is formed by their actions 160 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:16,199 Speaker 2: that we tend to think of as habits, directs them 161 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:21,560 Speaker 2: to now I'm going to go to the bar. Yeah, 162 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 2: they get to that fight with their spouse, and now 163 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 2: they're going to go to the bar, or they're going 164 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 2: to go pick up that drink, right, and just despite 165 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 2: the fact that they hate it, because they hate what 166 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 2: it does to them. They hate their dependence upon it. 167 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 2: Their body is now dependent upon it, and they have 168 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 2: to be they have to go to it. And so 169 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 2: the work that makes alcoholics anonymous so so influential, so 170 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 2: helpful to people. What don need to notice was the 171 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 2: fact that they treat alcoholics as sort of that inverse 172 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 2: a virtue, that habit formed addictive reality that they have 173 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:03,840 Speaker 2: to recreate pathways, They have to avoid those sorts of 174 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 2: pathways in the first place. If the groove is there 175 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 2: based on habit, then how do we avoid getting to 176 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 2: that groove? If the trigger is my boss at work, 177 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 2: how do I sit in that particular situation at work 178 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 2: and not find myself slipping down into that groove? Perhaps 179 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 2: it's the path that I take home. Perhaps it's the 180 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 2: options that I now close. 181 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:24,319 Speaker 1: Off to myself. 182 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:29,439 Speaker 2: Because what he's doing there is he's recognizing that while 183 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 2: willful choice is certainly involved and was involved in the 184 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 2: formation of the practice, WillFull choice doesn't simply get one 185 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 2: out of it because it's a system. It's a structure 186 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:42,479 Speaker 2: that has pulled us in. And I think the parallel 187 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:44,719 Speaker 2: here that we're talking about, or that we want to 188 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 2: talk about, is that these systems, these structures that pull 189 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 2: us in, that have us often unconsciously begin to form 190 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 2: the way that we think about situations. They form the 191 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 2: way that we identify ourselves within those situations. Right, Perhaps 192 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 2: I have a tendency to consider myself a victim. I 193 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 2: fall into that groove where it's now an automatic response 194 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 2: something bad happens to me, I'm a victim, and I 195 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 2: begin to dwell on those processes and there's no reflection 196 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 2: on my own part within it. Right, Yeah, thoughts on that. 197 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:27,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I think it's a really interesting concept. 198 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 1: So as we think about virtue and we think about 199 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:32,200 Speaker 1: virtue formation, I think part of what we have to 200 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 1: recognize is that oftentimes when we're trying to form virtue, 201 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 1: there's a fake it till you make it sort of 202 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 1: moment that you do right, And that is part of 203 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: that habit forming aspect. You don't wake up one morning 204 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:50,720 Speaker 1: and have virtue. Virtue tends to be, at least in 205 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:53,439 Speaker 1: my understanding of it's something that is a desired state 206 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 1: that's down the road, and you begin to live into 207 00:12:56,840 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 1: that desired state. On the addiction side, what you're really 208 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 1: I think, if I'm understanding his argument and the way 209 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:10,319 Speaker 1: you're articulating it correctly. What's really happening is there may 210 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 1: very well be a desired state, but the path you're 211 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 1: taking is always going to short circuit you getting there, 212 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 1: And so there's you know, I think of it like 213 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:24,680 Speaker 1: one of the things I was thinking. You know, my 214 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 1: wife and I used to have to go to Vegas 215 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 1: on business fair amount. I had conferences out there or whatever, 216 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 1: She had conferences out there, And if I ever went 217 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 1: through the casino, I just know I really like playing cards. 218 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 1: I like doing that kind of stuff, and so I 219 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 1: never took cash or a debit card. Now, I didn't 220 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 1: feel like I was ever going to be in danger 221 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:48,120 Speaker 1: of like sitting down at a table and blowing through 222 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:52,079 Speaker 1: our bank account. But I also didn't even really want 223 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:54,839 Speaker 1: to waste my time on it, and so I just 224 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:57,080 Speaker 1: wouldn't carry cash and I wouldn't carry a debit card, 225 00:13:57,520 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 1: and so I effectively have no way that I can 226 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:03,679 Speaker 1: anything in a casino other than walk through it. Like 227 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 1: that's the sort of behavioral change that it sounds like. 228 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 1: Alcohol economis is trying to get people to do right. 229 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:14,080 Speaker 1: If you eliminate some of these factors that are going 230 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 1: to enable a bad choice then you can't make that 231 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:20,880 Speaker 1: bad choice, or at least it's much more difficult to 232 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 1: make that bad choice. Conversely, if you're pursuing virtue, there 233 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 1: may be certain practices that you put in to say, no, 234 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:30,920 Speaker 1: I'm just going to do this. I'm going to do 235 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 1: this on a daily basis, right, and I'm going to 236 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:35,920 Speaker 1: structure my life so that I do this on a 237 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 1: daily basis. And in doing this on a daily basis, 238 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 1: eventually it's going to form in me this sort of habit. 239 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 1: Not habit in a sense of, you know, sort of 240 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 1: an unthinking reaction necessarily, but habit in terms of a 241 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 1: component of myself that now just begins to make sense, right, Like, 242 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 1: this is now part of who I am. And I 243 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 1: think that individually we can get we get a good 244 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 1: understanding of that. I think where I would push in 245 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 1: is say, I feel like it works very similar for 246 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 1: organizations groups. When I've worked with colleges in the past, 247 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 1: what I tend to see are a series of interactions 248 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 1: that tend to lead to the same place, right and so, 249 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 1: and then there are there are points where bad behavior 250 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 1: is being enabled that keeps the whole institution from moving forward. 251 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:40,400 Speaker 1: There are points where the institution is trying to do 252 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 1: good practices, but then those things may get short circuited 253 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 1: by various other you know, whether it's financial resources or 254 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 1: technological system problems, or just you know, sort of loud 255 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 1: mouse within the organization who don't want something to go 256 00:15:56,880 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 1: a certain way. And so you kind of see these 257 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 1: dynamics within an organization. And part of the diagnosis that 258 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 1: you do as a consultant as you walk in and 259 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 1: you say, well, what's hindering you from heading to your 260 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 1: desired state? Right? Where do you want to be and 261 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:13,360 Speaker 1: how how do you get there? Now you have to 262 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 1: look at what would help you get there and what's 263 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 1: hindering you from getting there, and how do we maximize 264 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:21,200 Speaker 1: what's going to help you getting there and minimize what's 265 00:16:21,240 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 1: hindering you from getting there. And so I think my 266 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:31,120 Speaker 1: intuition is that this concept, this system's concept, this virtue concept, 267 00:16:31,200 --> 00:16:35,239 Speaker 1: the addiction loops, that these can be applied within organizations 268 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 1: and that they might be interesting to think through in 269 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 1: terms of what happens at the church. 270 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:48,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. Anecdotally. One can look to sports cultures, right, 271 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 2: we see certain organizations and sports that every other year, 272 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:58,600 Speaker 2: every third year, their general manager and their coaches are fired. 273 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:01,360 Speaker 2: How do they blow the team? And they bring someone 274 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 2: new in who has this great pitch, and things start 275 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 2: over and we end up in the same loop three 276 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 2: years later. And what you start to realize is that 277 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:12,880 Speaker 2: you do have organizational cultures. Right, they're coming in and 278 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 2: perhaps these people, these new people come in and they 279 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 2: find themselves slowly slipping into and adapting to the organizational 280 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:24,639 Speaker 2: culture that is itself. You know, in sports terms, toxic, right, 281 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 2: may not have moral detriment, but can't seem to get 282 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 2: to the point where they move to new ways of 283 00:17:30,600 --> 00:17:38,360 Speaker 2: thinking and build contender teams, or they themselves find themselves 284 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 2: unable to push past certain barriers. Right, Maybe they notice 285 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 2: these things, but they can't push past certain barriers that 286 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:49,639 Speaker 2: just exist organizationally. And what you end up finding is 287 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 2: that these teams just get stuck there. They can't get 288 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 2: out of it. And after the third or the fourth 289 00:17:55,119 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 2: court coach change and the general manager change and the 290 00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 2: player overturn, you start to allies, oh, this is an 291 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:07,639 Speaker 2: organizational problem. Yeah, and sometimes you overcome that by the 292 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:10,920 Speaker 2: organizational heads realizing it. You know, it takes a lot 293 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 2: of humility and firing someone and hiring someone else that 294 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:17,680 Speaker 2: is able to break through that barrier and create a 295 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:20,920 Speaker 2: new culture. And sometimes it's just you know, I think 296 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 2: about my beloved Chicago Blackhawks, where it took there, you know, 297 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 2: the previous owner passing away in the early two thousands 298 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:33,719 Speaker 2: to now allow a new culture to seep in that 299 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:37,160 Speaker 2: built what ended up being a Stanley Cup, you know. Culture. 300 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think a Goo Bears too, that revolving 301 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:42,679 Speaker 1: door of quarterbacks that the Chicago Bears have. 302 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 2: In Chicago Bears. Can't we get this unfortunately, you know, right, 303 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 2: Chicago Bulls unfortunately. 304 00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 1: And I think it is. 305 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 2: Owner, top down sort of dynamics. 306 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. 307 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:55,960 Speaker 2: And you see same owner with the White Sox and 308 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 2: using the same problems right right, Not to make this 309 00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 2: about Chicago sports, but you see those dynamics, and I 310 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:05,240 Speaker 2: think those transfer to church dynamics right where there's certain 311 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 2: structural hindrances that are in place that keep us from 312 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:10,880 Speaker 2: being able to see other sorts of things. Perhaps those 313 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 2: things are We've had centuries maybe not centuries that's too long, 314 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 2: maybe decades long of social social issues that we elevate. 315 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 2: It's above anything else that prevent us from being able 316 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 2: to look at other issues or to look at those 317 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:32,359 Speaker 2: issues that we have from other angles. Right, maybe the 318 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:35,800 Speaker 2: problem isn't so much that our position is wrong, but 319 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:37,359 Speaker 2: the way that we look at it, the way that 320 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:40,240 Speaker 2: we should seek to engage it, are problematic. If I 321 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:44,840 Speaker 2: could be so bold, One of the major issues that 322 00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 2: have dominated conservative churches since the late seventies early eighties 323 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:51,800 Speaker 2: has been the abortion issue. In fact, it's been the 324 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:56,640 Speaker 2: issue now it's I think it's a more complicated issue 325 00:19:56,720 --> 00:20:01,639 Speaker 2: than we've often allowed it to become. But if what 326 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 2: we want to say here at the baseline is is 327 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:09,639 Speaker 2: that God values life, specifically the life of his creatures, 328 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:12,679 Speaker 2: human life that He's made in his image, and that 329 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:15,840 Speaker 2: we need to value it as well, that's a fair position, 330 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:19,440 Speaker 2: and I think that's at its heart what has driven 331 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:24,160 Speaker 2: the desire to uphold, you know, single issue voting sorts 332 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:26,120 Speaker 2: of things. But the thing that gets in the way 333 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:29,919 Speaker 2: is that it has resulted in such a deep embedded 334 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:33,119 Speaker 2: structural way of thinking that there's a failure to be 335 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 2: able to understand what the other sides are trying to say. 336 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:36,919 Speaker 1: And it is sides. 337 00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 2: It's not one side or trying to say what might 338 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:44,200 Speaker 2: animate what they have to do and what they want 339 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:49,920 Speaker 2: to advocate also to see the complexity of the issue, right, 340 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 2: which is now is not the time to get to do. 341 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 2: But then finally a simple reality that often simple partisan 342 00:20:57,160 --> 00:21:01,879 Speaker 2: politics has not yielded the sort of results that the 343 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 2: common sense thinking within that structure has wanted to say, 344 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:09,359 Speaker 2: you know, and to be blunt with it, the common 345 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 2: sense thinking is is if you have a particular position 346 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 2: on abortion and that's tied to a particular party that 347 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:17,200 Speaker 2: says it champions that that you would therefore find that 348 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 2: fewer abortions happen when that group is in power. But 349 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 2: the numbers actually don't back up that stats. Ironically, the 350 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 2: numbers work in the opposite direction, and so that's prevented 351 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 2: thinking through more thoroughly. Maybe there's other ways to address 352 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:36,919 Speaker 2: this conviction that might otherwise be a good conviction. 353 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:44,480 Speaker 1: Right right, And I would say part of the challenge here, 354 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 1: and I think what that issue particularly helps us to 355 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:51,879 Speaker 1: understand is that the how over the last since the 356 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:55,280 Speaker 1: seventies or eighties, you know, like whenever this really got going, 357 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:59,400 Speaker 1: the how has always been a more politically oriented how 358 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:03,399 Speaker 1: that's been the dominant how. How do we address the 359 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 1: abortion issue? Will we address it through legislation, appointment of 360 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:11,880 Speaker 1: Supreme Court judges, and you know, political lobbying groups. That's 361 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:15,440 Speaker 1: how we do it. There's obviously other ways. There are more. 362 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:21,280 Speaker 1: You know, my wife and I are part of a 363 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: because we out involved with foster care. Same group also 364 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 1: helps single moms, right, gives them shelter and homes and 365 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:32,919 Speaker 1: those kind of things. And so those activities also go on. 366 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 1: But what we often hear about what seems to be 367 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 1: better funded, right, are these bigger political movements. And so 368 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:45,760 Speaker 1: we have to then ask ourselves a couple of different questions, 369 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:50,440 Speaker 1: which are, like, what is continually participating in politics in 370 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:54,360 Speaker 1: this way and really only focusing on politics in this 371 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 1: way or focusing on it to such a dominant in 372 00:22:57,800 --> 00:22:59,919 Speaker 1: such a dominant manner that the other things sort of 373 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 1: diminished in comparison. How is that forming us? In other words, 374 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 1: if we're talking about this in terms of virtue, formation 375 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 1: and habit, do we really become political animals as opposed 376 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 1: to people conformed to the image of Christ? Now the 377 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 1: two aren't in my mind, the two are not isolated 378 00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:27,200 Speaker 1: from one another. The difficulty is in the way I 379 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 1: would sort of think about it is it's a primary 380 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 1: aspect sort of problem. If I become primarily a political 381 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:39,960 Speaker 1: animal and also a Christian, I'm missing something somewhere. This 382 00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,719 Speaker 1: is not the road to conformity to Christ. This is 383 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:48,159 Speaker 1: being a politically effective within a given nation. If, on 384 00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:51,200 Speaker 1: the other hand, I'm pursuing Christ and conforming to his image, 385 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,399 Speaker 1: I think there's ample room for us to participate politically, 386 00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:57,359 Speaker 1: but that will then be shaped to the degree that 387 00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:00,720 Speaker 1: we are also conformed to the image of Christ. And 388 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 1: so it's a difference in pursuits and how we go 389 00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:06,880 Speaker 1: about practicing these things. But I think part of the mistake, 390 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 1: and part of what we see in systems theory is 391 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 1: that participating in a particular system usually is not a 392 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:19,919 Speaker 1: neutral activity. These things that we do, the practices that 393 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 1: we engage in, they have a formative effect on us. 394 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 1: They shape us in very particular ways and in ways 395 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:30,720 Speaker 1: to your point, that we often just don't notice, right, 396 00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:34,600 Speaker 1: And so there's a sense in which I think that 397 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:39,399 Speaker 1: that's really part of that whole conversation that needs to happen, 398 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 1: is not, Hey, is life important? Right? To a degree 399 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:48,080 Speaker 1: of view, yes, life is important? So now what do 400 00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 1: we do about that? How does the church respond to 401 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:58,200 Speaker 1: life being important, and how do we allow our desire 402 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:03,439 Speaker 1: to be like Christ shape those responses as opposed to 403 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 1: allowing the mechanisms that we have around us in the 404 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 1: United States and in our democracy to shape the way 405 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,119 Speaker 1: we respond to those things. Again, they may not be 406 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 1: mutually exclusive, but I think the one has to come 407 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:21,679 Speaker 1: before the other. Otherwise we're inverting an authority structure, and 408 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:26,080 Speaker 1: we're changing our desired end really or desired end state 409 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 1: to something other than conformity to Christ. I don't know 410 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,560 Speaker 1: whether that made sense, but I'll leave it there and 411 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:34,760 Speaker 1: let you respond. 412 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, it does make sense. It signals me to something 413 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,159 Speaker 2: else that David Van Dyke was talking about. 414 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:44,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, he was. 415 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:47,080 Speaker 2: I can't remember the exact terminology he used, but the 416 00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,959 Speaker 2: idea that he was trying to put forth was trying 417 00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:54,520 Speaker 2: to show when he's in that family family therapy setting, 418 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:58,199 Speaker 2: trying to show people on all sides the sort of 419 00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:03,040 Speaker 2: the boundaries of themselves, which included the boundaries of their agency, 420 00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 2: included the boundaries of what they can know, what they 421 00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 2: can understand, in order to then to begin to appreciate 422 00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 2: that the other people in the room also have boundaries 423 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 2: that are not identical to mine that include ways of thinking, 424 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 2: ways of being that are not identical to mine, to 425 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 2: then be able to pull back from what can be 426 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 2: too easily habituated in us, which is someone thinks or believes, 427 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,240 Speaker 2: or acts differently than me. It is therefore an affront 428 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:39,840 Speaker 2: or an attack upon myself because my personhood is under 429 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 2: assault from difference. He wanted to help pull back from 430 00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 2: that right now. Part of his intention was to be 431 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:51,440 Speaker 2: able to help people recognize their own boundaries in order 432 00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:55,720 Speaker 2: to let go of certain things right in order to 433 00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 2: be able to say I can't control that. I'm not 434 00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 2: going to let that make me anxious. 435 00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:01,120 Speaker 1: That's right. 436 00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 2: I want to extend that a little bit to say 437 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:10,480 Speaker 2: yes that and recognition of those boundaries hopefully helps me 438 00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:14,639 Speaker 2: understand my finitude and the ways that I think, the 439 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 2: ways that I understand the things that I'm aware of, 440 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:21,439 Speaker 2: so that maybe I can begin to think in terms 441 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,760 Speaker 2: of what is it that I can learn from you? 442 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 2: How can I begin to understand you? How can there 443 00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:32,280 Speaker 2: be you know? The German hermeneutical theologian or sorry philosopher 444 00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:36,440 Speaker 2: Gottamer would say the fusing of horizons. It's the recognizing 445 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:39,320 Speaker 2: of the boundaries of my horizon, recognizing that there is 446 00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:44,720 Speaker 2: stuff outside of it, to begin to expand the expanse 447 00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:48,120 Speaker 2: of my horizons so that I can begin to understand 448 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:49,399 Speaker 2: things in a new way. Now, the way that I 449 00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:52,200 Speaker 2: understand it when I'm talking to you inevitably is filtered 450 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:56,639 Speaker 2: through some of these both conscious and unconscious categories of mine, 451 00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:00,200 Speaker 2: these structures. But hopefully in that process that makes me 452 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:07,000 Speaker 2: aware enough to begin to understand my structures at least 453 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:11,480 Speaker 2: a little bit more, which will enable me, hopefully to 454 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 2: begin to, in the most generous sense, question them right, 455 00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:18,879 Speaker 2: not to chop off the limb that I'm sitting on 456 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 2: or the branch that I'm sitting on, but to recognize 457 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 2: the limitedness with which I'm approaching things. 458 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:25,480 Speaker 1: Right. 459 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:28,760 Speaker 2: I think of someone I once worked with who would 460 00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:32,520 Speaker 2: amusingly say every time he learned something and say, well, 461 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 2: I learned something new. I guess I can go to bed, 462 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 2: And he would say it jovially, and the thought process 463 00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 2: behind it was, you know, every day I should learn 464 00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:44,840 Speaker 2: something new. And I appreciated that about him, and I've 465 00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:47,480 Speaker 2: sort of adopted that both in its jovialness and and 466 00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 2: I think the practical life lesson than that of yeah, 467 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,320 Speaker 2: I should be. If I think I can approach a 468 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:56,280 Speaker 2: day without learning something, then that's a me problem and 469 00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 2: probably more specifically, a structure problem that's invisible to me. 470 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,280 Speaker 2: What can I say about that? Am I taking? Am 471 00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:05,440 Speaker 2: I taking it too? Personally? When these young people think 472 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 2: Lebron James is the best basketball boy that's ever played, 473 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:11,800 Speaker 2: Maybe I should But yeah, maybe I should back off 474 00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 2: a little bit. 475 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:16,840 Speaker 1: You know, it seems like a personal affront. No, I 476 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:22,640 Speaker 1: resonate what you're saying. I think, I mean, these examples 477 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:26,360 Speaker 1: are going to be individual, but I'll try to couch 478 00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 1: them back into a collective understanding. So there was a 479 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:37,640 Speaker 1: point where I was I had resigned as a dean, 480 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,040 Speaker 1: and the faculty members were kind of coming into my 481 00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:45,320 Speaker 1: office and somewhere saying goodbye. Cordially, others were a little 482 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:48,000 Speaker 1: less happy with me, and so they were pleased to 483 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,720 Speaker 1: see me go. And one of the I was trying 484 00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:54,480 Speaker 1: to practice this I had gotten into Edwin Friedman. He 485 00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,480 Speaker 1: wrote a book called The Failure of Nerve and Nity, 486 00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 1: talks about being a non anxious present, having this self 487 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,680 Speaker 1: differentiate character. And one of the things that I noted 488 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 1: noticed is I started to execute that like tried to 489 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:09,280 Speaker 1: really live into that was that it was easy for me, 490 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:12,160 Speaker 1: just my personality, to become fairly callous to what other 491 00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:15,440 Speaker 1: people were feeling. And so by that point, I'd started 492 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:18,840 Speaker 1: thinking to myself, this can't become an excuse for me 493 00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 1: not to care about other people, right, because that's not 494 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,880 Speaker 1: really what I wanted to do. What I wanted to 495 00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 1: do was was to and I decided on this was 496 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:35,760 Speaker 1: to be recognize my own boundaries but also exhibit a 497 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:38,160 Speaker 1: care and a curiosity for the person talking to me. 498 00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 1: And so when I was sitting with this particular faculty member, 499 00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:46,680 Speaker 1: he said something like, I think your resignation was a 500 00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:50,880 Speaker 1: gift from God, and I'm so grateful that you're leaving, right, 501 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:53,640 Speaker 1: And I think it's the sort of comment, right that 502 00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:58,320 Speaker 1: would elicit an angry reaction, But in the moment, I 503 00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:00,840 Speaker 1: just thought, to myself, I wonder what's going on in 504 00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:08,600 Speaker 1: his mind and like his emotions, his perspective that he 505 00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:12,000 Speaker 1: feels like A he needs to convey that to me, 506 00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:17,120 Speaker 1: and B that he's feeling that deep sense of angst 507 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:21,280 Speaker 1: about it, right, Like, what is it What's going on 508 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:26,560 Speaker 1: in him that this is such a crucial issue for him? Right? 509 00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:31,760 Speaker 1: And I think that not being defensive in the moment 510 00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:37,160 Speaker 1: helped that conversation go better than it would have otherwise, right, 511 00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:41,000 Speaker 1: because my response then was conditioned on, hey, why don't 512 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,720 Speaker 1: you why don't you voice that a little differently, why 513 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:49,240 Speaker 1: don't you help me understand why that is? Like, what 514 00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 1: is it about something that I did, you know, or whatever, 515 00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:54,480 Speaker 1: you know who I am, that you feel like it's 516 00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:57,960 Speaker 1: great that I'm leaving. Help me understand it. And so 517 00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:02,200 Speaker 1: we had a really ten conversation, fairly awkward, where he 518 00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:07,680 Speaker 1: voiced some of his opinions, but I wasn't concerned about 519 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,320 Speaker 1: it because I knew he didn't really want to know 520 00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 1: the context in which some of the decisions I'd made 521 00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:16,719 Speaker 1: had been made. And so it was like I had 522 00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 1: a job and I exercised my responsibilities with integrity, and 523 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,800 Speaker 1: I felt okay about it, and so I just really 524 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:26,400 Speaker 1: wanted to understand his perspective and see if I could 525 00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 1: learn anything from it. I say that it's sort of 526 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:37,680 Speaker 1: like when we're looking out at the world right as 527 00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:40,760 Speaker 1: the church, sometimes I think what we want to do 528 00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 1: is we want to insulate ourselves from the world or 529 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:48,680 Speaker 1: say all the things that the world is doing are bad. Right. 530 00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 1: I had a gentleman asked me the other day while 531 00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:54,720 Speaker 1: I was on Stand in the Gap, and the host 532 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,880 Speaker 1: asked me why I thought that so many political candidates 533 00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:04,000 Speaker 1: have change oriented messages that they use during their campaigns. 534 00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:09,240 Speaker 1: And my response was, is this, Like, it's because people 535 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 1: are feeling a degree of pain and are looking for 536 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:17,720 Speaker 1: a change that will alleviate it. Like, we need to 537 00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:22,480 Speaker 1: recognize that not everything is pernicious in politics. A lot 538 00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:26,920 Speaker 1: of it is limited human leaders trying to figure out 539 00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:31,840 Speaker 1: how to alleviate the pain that society is feeling, and 540 00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:35,680 Speaker 1: doing so largely apart from God, apart from God's resources, 541 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:40,040 Speaker 1: without really factoring God in the equation. And so the 542 00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:46,560 Speaker 1: decisions they make are reasonable from the perspective that they 543 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,680 Speaker 1: don't have any other framework other than I have these 544 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:52,680 Speaker 1: limited resources and I'm going to try to shuffle them 545 00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 1: around to solve certain societal problems. I always use the 546 00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:03,600 Speaker 1: example of Pharaoh, and while I don't agree with his methods, right, 547 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:05,840 Speaker 1: if you just look at the logic he's using when 548 00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:11,040 Speaker 1: he sees the multiplication of the Israelites, you can't fault 549 00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 1: him for exercising his responsibility. He's basically saying that the 550 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:18,239 Speaker 1: Israelites are multiplying, they're going to become more numerous than 551 00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:20,680 Speaker 1: we are, and if an enemy comes, they're going to 552 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:24,040 Speaker 1: join with the enemy and defeat us. Well as a 553 00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:28,480 Speaker 1: ruler of a nation, that's sort of important to notice, right, 554 00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:31,160 Speaker 1: And so the way he responds to it, the things 555 00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:33,640 Speaker 1: that he does, we don't have to agree with, but 556 00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:37,120 Speaker 1: we can understand why he would do it. We can 557 00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:40,800 Speaker 1: understand why he recognizes this as a problem as opposed 558 00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:44,160 Speaker 1: to recognizing it as the blessing of God that he 559 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:48,880 Speaker 1: should really work with, as opposed to work against. And 560 00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:52,840 Speaker 1: I think that there's a as we refuse to be 561 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:57,239 Speaker 1: defensive about some of these things, I think we can 562 00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:02,560 Speaker 1: have more productive conversations, both within the Church and with 563 00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:07,040 Speaker 1: with non Christians about some of these more contentious issues 564 00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:09,400 Speaker 1: that tend to divide us as opposed to unitus. 565 00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:19,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, a couple of examples there, we're really helpful to 566 00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 2: think through this. I want to take the last one, 567 00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:26,239 Speaker 2: just in the interest of time, Yeah, and have a 568 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,239 Speaker 2: bit of a thought experiment as to what could have 569 00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:31,319 Speaker 2: been the way that you describe Pharaoh. I think that's 570 00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:34,520 Speaker 2: a really helpful way to take a character in the Bible, 571 00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:39,040 Speaker 2: who might often be considered that other one whose boundaries 572 00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:42,200 Speaker 2: outside of mind that it's very easy to dismiss right 573 00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:50,080 Speaker 2: and just flatten out as the bad guy. But you've 574 00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:53,600 Speaker 2: helped us look at him and say, well, from the 575 00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:57,400 Speaker 2: framework of him being the ruler of a nation, his 576 00:35:57,480 --> 00:35:59,799 Speaker 2: interest has to be in the good of that nation. 577 00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:03,400 Speaker 2: I want to take that and think about that for 578 00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:06,680 Speaker 2: a moment and think, so, where exactly was the problem? 579 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:10,800 Speaker 2: Right on one macro level, we could say the problem 580 00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:16,120 Speaker 2: with his response was it was a failure to accept 581 00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:19,160 Speaker 2: the God of gods right as the Old Testament would 582 00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:22,200 Speaker 2: refer to Yahweh, Yeah, the God of Israel. But on 583 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:25,000 Speaker 2: a micro level, he's not even necessarily thinking in that sense. 584 00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 2: He certainly recognizes that that recognizes that these people, these Hebrews, 585 00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:37,319 Speaker 2: were worshipers of another god. But he looks around and 586 00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:41,720 Speaker 2: he sees a lot of different people worshiping different gods, 587 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:43,880 Speaker 2: and he doesn't have the same reaction to them that 588 00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:46,759 Speaker 2: he has to the Hebrews. The fear of his and 589 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:48,680 Speaker 2: I think it's important to describe in terms of fear 590 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,880 Speaker 2: is that this is a group of people with the 591 00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:55,719 Speaker 2: different God and therefore a different set of understanding the 592 00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:59,080 Speaker 2: nature of the land that he was in, that was 593 00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:03,000 Speaker 2: inside his lane and right, so he's operating on the 594 00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,839 Speaker 2: basis of fear. That's a great thing to recognize there, 595 00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:08,839 Speaker 2: and should he hopefully help us to stop and say, 596 00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:11,680 Speaker 2: how much of my reaction is on the basis of fear? 597 00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:15,800 Speaker 2: What am I losing? What do I think I'm losing 598 00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:20,960 Speaker 2: when I draw these hard lines or when I react 599 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:26,560 Speaker 2: emotionally to these structural attacks. Am I losing anything at all? 600 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:28,879 Speaker 2: Am I on the non important level? Am I losing 601 00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,000 Speaker 2: anything at all? When my brother in law tries to 602 00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,439 Speaker 2: convince me that Lebron James is the greatest basketball player 603 00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:36,960 Speaker 2: of all time? No, I'm not really losing anything, right, 604 00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:43,920 Speaker 2: he doesn't convince me. But okay, yea, what so what 605 00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:44,640 Speaker 2: what then. 606 00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:46,439 Speaker 1: Is then? 607 00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:48,080 Speaker 2: The is the counter to this that I want to 608 00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:50,080 Speaker 2: say everything he said was garbage? Of course not. Of 609 00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,680 Speaker 2: course Lebron James is one of the greatest of all time. 610 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:59,800 Speaker 2: Perhaps I had the greatest career, right, cool, Let's move forward. Yeah, 611 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,160 Speaker 2: So that that that dynamic of fear is something to 612 00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:04,480 Speaker 2: recognize that I think transfers immediately. But then I think 613 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:07,040 Speaker 2: we can take that to another level and say, what 614 00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:11,840 Speaker 2: did that fear cause him to miss? He failed to 615 00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:15,920 Speaker 2: recognize that these Hebrew people actually had a stakes in 616 00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:20,919 Speaker 2: his land as well, Right, so perhaps they would join 617 00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:22,799 Speaker 2: with the outsiders. But why would they join with the 618 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:25,200 Speaker 2: outsiders when they've been with these Egyptian people at that 619 00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:26,560 Speaker 2: point for generations? 620 00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:29,160 Speaker 1: Yeah? 621 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:31,600 Speaker 2: Is there perhaps a way that they've been in that land, 622 00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,440 Speaker 2: treated in that land that would cause them to side 623 00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:38,600 Speaker 2: with foreign invaders that they don't know? What would what 624 00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:41,239 Speaker 2: would create that alliance? And so one might think that 625 00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:43,799 Speaker 2: rather than act out of fear, he could he could 626 00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,400 Speaker 2: respond by saying, what is it that we can do 627 00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:51,960 Speaker 2: in this land so that these people don't think that 628 00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:55,680 Speaker 2: they have to join with other people against us? Perhaps 629 00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:58,160 Speaker 2: the answer is that they have to then worship the 630 00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:02,440 Speaker 2: gods of the Egypt. And if that's the case, Okay, 631 00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:06,480 Speaker 2: I understand his response that, well, that's not going to 632 00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:08,759 Speaker 2: ever happen. But it's not clear to me that he 633 00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:11,160 Speaker 2: had to have that response because he's had generations of 634 00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:17,000 Speaker 2: evidence that they could worship a different god and be there, Right, 635 00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:19,160 Speaker 2: So what is it that he could do to help 636 00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:21,000 Speaker 2: them feel like they belonged in that place? 637 00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:22,000 Speaker 1: Now? 638 00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:24,920 Speaker 2: If that seems like overly touchy of a reading of 639 00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:27,560 Speaker 2: the passage. I think just the implication here is to 640 00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:29,879 Speaker 2: think now about the Church of I think we tend 641 00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:33,880 Speaker 2: to have these fears that if I allow someone to 642 00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:37,239 Speaker 2: question this point of mine, that's going to result in 643 00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:41,400 Speaker 2: some slippery slope that will eventually lead me into The 644 00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:45,640 Speaker 2: words we've used off air are liberalism, or the words 645 00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:49,160 Speaker 2: that I've heard are you'll be a postmodern or you'll 646 00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:53,839 Speaker 2: be a heretic, which those three terms, in my understanding 647 00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:57,719 Speaker 2: or my hearing, tend to be used a poorly and 648 00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:03,040 Speaker 2: b synonymously. They're all the same thing. But the basic 649 00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:05,680 Speaker 2: idea is they will reject what makes us who we are. 650 00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:09,360 Speaker 2: But if that's the case, and we're talking about people 651 00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:13,400 Speaker 2: who ostensibly love Jesus, we have to ask ourselves then 652 00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 2: to turn it back to our own question of what 653 00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:18,919 Speaker 2: we can control. What is it that we think makes 654 00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:24,480 Speaker 2: us who we are. Is it a confession about Jesus, 655 00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:30,600 Speaker 2: Is it a confession about the nature of divine revelation 656 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:32,799 Speaker 2: that comes forth in the text, or is it a 657 00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:36,640 Speaker 2: set of interpretations that we've decided must and can only 658 00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:40,920 Speaker 2: be those interpretations? And I think, unfortunately it's often that 659 00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:46,200 Speaker 2: last thing rather than the first two things. And to 660 00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:49,000 Speaker 2: me that signals sort of what might be behind those 661 00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,920 Speaker 2: invisible elements that cause us to be afraid. 662 00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:57,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's good. I think I actually don't 663 00:40:57,480 --> 00:41:00,719 Speaker 1: think this way of understanding the Exodus narrative is out 664 00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:04,360 Speaker 1: of bounds. And so when we read the Exodus narrative, 665 00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:06,640 Speaker 1: what we find is that this is the Pharaoh who knew, 666 00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:11,359 Speaker 1: not Joseph, and so he has no context for understanding 667 00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:14,320 Speaker 1: why this multiplication is happening. He has no context for 668 00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:19,560 Speaker 1: understanding how the Hebrews and the Israelites, and particularly Joseph 669 00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:24,880 Speaker 1: ended up blessing Egypt. And instead of asking a few questions, 670 00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:29,240 Speaker 1: he lets his fear wall him off from these other people, 671 00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:33,759 Speaker 1: and he takes on a protectionist stance. And I do 672 00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:37,319 Speaker 1: think that there's a real lesson there, even then when 673 00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:44,080 Speaker 1: he's confronted, right, So, I think people sort of sometimes 674 00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:46,720 Speaker 1: mishear me when I say this, but I would say 675 00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:49,840 Speaker 1: his first acts against the Hebrews are done out of ignorance. 676 00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:56,160 Speaker 1: This is Pharaoh accidentally being against God. He's not opting 677 00:41:56,239 --> 00:42:00,239 Speaker 1: to go against Yahweh at this point. He just doesn't 678 00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:04,920 Speaker 1: know what he's doing. He misrecognizes the situation, doesn't investigate 679 00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:08,120 Speaker 1: it enough, and ends up going against the grain of 680 00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:12,040 Speaker 1: God's blessing. Then as we fast forward into the narrative 681 00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:15,319 Speaker 1: and we see that, you know, even when Moses is 682 00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:17,960 Speaker 1: telling him, Hey, this is what's going to happen, this 683 00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:21,000 Speaker 1: is how things are going to go down, he decides, no, 684 00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:24,480 Speaker 1: I'm going to oppose this. This isn't actually going to happen. 685 00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:28,319 Speaker 1: That's when it starts to get more willful. But you know, 686 00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:31,000 Speaker 1: based on the conversation we're having right now, there is 687 00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:34,239 Speaker 1: a systemic sort of practice that Pharaoh was doing here 688 00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:38,160 Speaker 1: that ultimately he is He's doing the same thing over 689 00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,360 Speaker 1: and over and over and over and over, and even 690 00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:42,799 Speaker 1: after the Plague of the Firstborn, when he lets the 691 00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:47,480 Speaker 1: Israelites go, he quickly changes his mind and goes after him, 692 00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:52,760 Speaker 1: and so he is sort of stuck in this interesting cycle. 693 00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:56,320 Speaker 1: But I think to your point, when we're as the church, 694 00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:59,600 Speaker 1: when we're sitting back, we're afraid that we are going 695 00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:04,000 Speaker 1: to dilute ourselves somehow, and so we have to pull 696 00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:11,520 Speaker 1: back in and create like a hard boundary. I think 697 00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:14,080 Speaker 1: that is problematic in a number of ways. I actually 698 00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:17,560 Speaker 1: think this is the sin that we see God hold 699 00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:21,560 Speaker 1: against the church in Ephesis and Revelation, that they've abandoned 700 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:25,080 Speaker 1: their first love. There are many commentators, myself included, who 701 00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:28,239 Speaker 1: would argue that their first love. What's really happening there 702 00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:32,120 Speaker 1: is that Ephesis is pulled back from the world, isolated themselves, 703 00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:36,040 Speaker 1: and instead of compromising in the way that let's say, 704 00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:39,520 Speaker 1: like the Laodicean Church does right by, you know, sort 705 00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:42,359 Speaker 1: of participating in all these different economic practices and really 706 00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:45,000 Speaker 1: becoming part of the Groco Roman world and all those 707 00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:49,360 Speaker 1: kind of things, Ephesis is pulled back and refused to witness. 708 00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:53,640 Speaker 1: They've refused to be that testimony that God calls us 709 00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:56,479 Speaker 1: to be in the world. And so there's a there's 710 00:43:56,480 --> 00:44:01,080 Speaker 1: a polarity there that we should recognize that it is 711 00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:05,280 Speaker 1: possible on that reading of Ephesus to be too closed 712 00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:09,400 Speaker 1: off in the world right to be absolutely right doctrinally, 713 00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:15,640 Speaker 1: to be holy, to be uncompromised in sort of a 714 00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:25,319 Speaker 1: purity sense, but still deny ourselves the basic functions of 715 00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:28,120 Speaker 1: what the church is to do, proclaiming the Gospel out 716 00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:32,359 Speaker 1: to the nations, making disciples. On the whole other end 717 00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:36,640 Speaker 1: of that spectrum, there's a possibility of being so assimilated 718 00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:40,759 Speaker 1: into the surrounding culture that no one can tell the 719 00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:45,880 Speaker 1: difference between the church and the culture. Also a problem 720 00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:49,680 Speaker 1: in the middle. There's this interesting negotiation that has to happen, 721 00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:54,799 Speaker 1: and I think we're constantly sort of finding our way 722 00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:57,919 Speaker 1: in understanding when are we closing ourselves off too much? 723 00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:02,040 Speaker 1: When are we opening ourselves up too much? And that 724 00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:04,520 Speaker 1: isn't going to be just a straight line down the road. 725 00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:07,040 Speaker 1: It's going to sort of waver back and forth a 726 00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:11,840 Speaker 1: little bit. It's going to oscillate. I think our trouble 727 00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:15,560 Speaker 1: and the danger I see is that we pick a side. 728 00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:21,279 Speaker 1: It's either the side of isolation and closure or the 729 00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:26,560 Speaker 1: side of radical openness, neither of which does us any 730 00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:31,439 Speaker 1: particular favors. One I think dissolves the boundaries. The other 731 00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:36,360 Speaker 1: makes the boundaries far too narrow and rigid and divides 732 00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:40,600 Speaker 1: the church. Either way, we're losing aspects of our identity 733 00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:43,239 Speaker 1: on either one of those sides of the spectrum, when 734 00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:46,240 Speaker 1: where we need to be is together, united in Christ 735 00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:51,080 Speaker 1: managing our disagreements. One of my favorite passages, Roma's twelve 736 00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:54,000 Speaker 1: to ten out do one another in showing honor right 737 00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:56,759 Speaker 1: like this is the space we need to be in 738 00:45:56,880 --> 00:46:00,280 Speaker 1: because that's really who we are. It's not that dine 739 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:02,520 Speaker 1: doesn't matter. It's not that the content of our faith 740 00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:05,840 Speaker 1: doesn't matter, but it's not the only thing that matters. 741 00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:08,960 Speaker 1: The way we execute that content, the way we think 742 00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:13,960 Speaker 1: about it, the way we dialogue with one another, actually matters. 743 00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:18,319 Speaker 1: It's constitutive of who we are. And I think that 744 00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:24,319 Speaker 1: is that system's issue that we very seldom really deal with. 745 00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:29,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. The only thing I'd want to add is that 746 00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:34,440 Speaker 2: the degree to which doctrine matters is always as a 747 00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:40,080 Speaker 2: pointing tool, right. It is what hermeneuticians would call second order, 748 00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:41,759 Speaker 2: which is different than the way that David van Dyke 749 00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:43,560 Speaker 2: would use it. But it's second order in the sense 750 00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:46,759 Speaker 2: that it isn't. It's an interpretive grid, and so its 751 00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:49,880 Speaker 2: role is always to direct us. And the question is 752 00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:54,040 Speaker 2: to what well it's to direct us to life in 753 00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:58,520 Speaker 2: and with God in Christ. Yeah, heart stop. And if 754 00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:01,440 Speaker 2: the doctrine itself becomes the stopping point, then the doctrine 755 00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:06,000 Speaker 2: actually is doing something as if it is first order, 756 00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:09,120 Speaker 2: as if it is the thing itself. Yeah, And I 757 00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:13,040 Speaker 2: fear that that's the rut the mind, the habit of 758 00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:17,719 Speaker 2: the mind that we've allowed ourselves to fall into. Maybe 759 00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:21,879 Speaker 2: that's a conversation for another time, but the historical theologian 760 00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:25,440 Speaker 2: Hans Fry actually makes this point that in some ways 761 00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:30,480 Speaker 2: the conservative and liberal trajectory as we think of twentieth century, 762 00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:34,080 Speaker 2: nineteenth and twentieth and twenty first century Christian theology and 763 00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:38,320 Speaker 2: the Americas are two sides of the same coin. They've 764 00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:42,120 Speaker 2: both released the thrust of biblical narrative and replaced it 765 00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:45,760 Speaker 2: with the second order things of On the conservative side, 766 00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,880 Speaker 2: the doctrine as the thing itself, which is now no 767 00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:52,719 Speaker 2: longer open for revision because the thing behind it, the 768 00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:58,239 Speaker 2: biblical narrative, has lost its place as the primary reality. 769 00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:03,120 Speaker 2: And on the liberal side things it's the ethical mandates, 770 00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:06,800 Speaker 2: and now the ethical not surprisingly, also becomes lost and 771 00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:12,160 Speaker 2: very easily codified rights and wrongs that itself doesn't fit 772 00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:15,520 Speaker 2: the sort of dynamic that we see in virtue, which 773 00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:19,040 Speaker 2: is the dispositional behavior, the drawing close to the right 774 00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:22,600 Speaker 2: things to shape us dispositionally, and that's right. Thing that 775 00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:24,200 Speaker 2: we want to draw close to is the narrative. And 776 00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:27,400 Speaker 2: instead we draw close then to our structures, and the 777 00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,120 Speaker 2: structures become violent, even to the point where virtue has 778 00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:33,799 Speaker 2: become violent historically because of the structures drawn near to 779 00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:35,960 Speaker 2: So I think that's where we want to make s. 780 00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:43,080 Speaker 2: You know, the rigidity happens partly because we we misinterpret 781 00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:48,120 Speaker 2: or mismanage these proximal goods, as folks like a Coitus 782 00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:51,640 Speaker 2: would say, these things that are good as secondary things 783 00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:54,759 Speaker 2: pointing to something else, and we make those proximal goods 784 00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:55,839 Speaker 2: the ultimate good. 785 00:48:56,600 --> 00:49:02,920 Speaker 1: What you're saying reminds me, Jeremiah said, Jeremiah seven is 786 00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:05,960 Speaker 1: one of my favorite prophetic passages, and it's the one 787 00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,359 Speaker 1: where you have the threefold repetition of the temple by 788 00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:12,960 Speaker 1: the false prophets. And basically what we have in Jeremiah 789 00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:16,000 Speaker 1: seven is this condemnation of a group of people who 790 00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:19,000 Speaker 1: are are looking at the temple and saying, if the 791 00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:22,120 Speaker 1: temple is still standing, God is still with us. If 792 00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:26,000 Speaker 1: the temple is still standing, no calamity will befall us. Right, 793 00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:29,920 Speaker 1: God is in some ways captive to the temple, and 794 00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:32,680 Speaker 1: so as long as the temple is still here, we 795 00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:36,279 Speaker 1: don't have to worry about anything. And Jeremiah steps in 796 00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:41,560 Speaker 1: and says, no, that's not true. Second order, right, the 797 00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:44,719 Speaker 1: temple is second order, And so I think that as 798 00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:48,439 Speaker 1: we fetishize some of these things, right, as we look 799 00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:51,120 Speaker 1: at the temple and say, oh my gosh, there's the temple, 800 00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:56,120 Speaker 1: or as we do this with doctrine right a particular position, 801 00:49:56,960 --> 00:50:00,200 Speaker 1: what that can start to do is to distort our 802 00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:04,320 Speaker 1: understanding of our relationship with God, our relationship with others, 803 00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:08,080 Speaker 1: and our relationship to creation. And that's what we really 804 00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:13,160 Speaker 1: see in Jeremiah seven. It's Thomas Overholt wrote a little 805 00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:15,200 Speaker 1: book called The Threat of Falsehood where he deals with 806 00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:18,800 Speaker 1: Jeremiah seven a good bit, and essentially what he's arguing 807 00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:23,840 Speaker 1: is that these false prophets are creating a false narrative 808 00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:29,359 Speaker 1: and enticing the people to attune their lives to that 809 00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:33,120 Speaker 1: false narrative, which ends up putting them at odds with 810 00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:38,799 Speaker 1: God as opposed to cultivating allegiance to God. And I think, 811 00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:42,600 Speaker 1: honestly we see this in Act seven as well. Another 812 00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:47,000 Speaker 1: chapter seven that I like. But in Act seven we 813 00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:49,640 Speaker 1: look at Steven's speech. So this is before Stephen is 814 00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:51,920 Speaker 1: going to be stoned. He's been condemned of speaking out 815 00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:55,040 Speaker 1: against the law and the Temple, and what he does 816 00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:58,680 Speaker 1: throughout this whole speech in Act seven is he highlights 817 00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:02,279 Speaker 1: all the different ways that God has been with his 818 00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:06,440 Speaker 1: people outside of the land and outside of the temple. 819 00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:10,480 Speaker 1: And what he's trying to get the Jews to understand 820 00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:14,400 Speaker 1: is the category mistake they're making is that God always 821 00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:19,040 Speaker 1: works here in this little box. And what Stephen is 822 00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:21,560 Speaker 1: saying is, no, he doesn't just work inside that that 823 00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:25,319 Speaker 1: little box, and he never has. You're ignoring pieces of 824 00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:28,560 Speaker 1: the story to make it fit this this box that 825 00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:32,399 Speaker 1: you've put God in, But he's not actually there. He's 826 00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:35,040 Speaker 1: all over the place. He's doing these things outside of 827 00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:37,600 Speaker 1: the land. He's you know, he's doing these things apart 828 00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:40,799 Speaker 1: from the temple, apart from the tabernacle, like this is 829 00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:44,479 Speaker 1: the God we serve. And so I think in both 830 00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:47,439 Speaker 1: instances they illustrate the point we're trying to make, which 831 00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:55,399 Speaker 1: is we can't pretend that we can close God in right, 832 00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:57,839 Speaker 1: put God in a box and say this is what 833 00:51:58,040 --> 00:52:00,279 Speaker 1: This is what God is, this is how God op rates, 834 00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:03,759 Speaker 1: and this is the only way God operates. What we 835 00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:09,080 Speaker 1: have are we have some guardrails, some soft guard rails 836 00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:12,560 Speaker 1: to keep us within a certain span of Yeah, we 837 00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:17,000 Speaker 1: know these things about God now as we live within 838 00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:20,080 Speaker 1: those guardrails, whether guardrails is the right analogy or not, 839 00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:23,560 Speaker 1: But we live within those guardrails. But that's all they 840 00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:27,560 Speaker 1: really are. They're guardrails, right, They're the bumpers and bumper 841 00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:33,120 Speaker 1: bowling right like that. We like they're just keeping us honest, 842 00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:37,520 Speaker 1: but they aren't the thing that we're shooting for. And 843 00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:42,120 Speaker 1: I think that's sort of those two passages I think 844 00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:44,480 Speaker 1: highlight a good bit of what we've been talking about. 845 00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:51,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, that reminds me of Augustine who speaks of the 846 00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:54,200 Speaker 2: path and in his work on Christian teaching, he says 847 00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:57,920 Speaker 2: the path is is there not because it is the 848 00:52:58,000 --> 00:52:59,960 Speaker 2: end and of itself, but because of where it's leading. 849 00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:01,080 Speaker 1: So it is to work. 850 00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:03,200 Speaker 2: Lass, Can you leave that path and still get where 851 00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:08,439 Speaker 2: you're going? It said, yeah, actually sure, but how would 852 00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:09,319 Speaker 2: you know where to go? 853 00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:09,600 Speaker 1: Right? 854 00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:11,680 Speaker 2: If you get there? It sort of becomes an accident. 855 00:53:12,719 --> 00:53:14,239 Speaker 2: The goal of the path is to make sure you 856 00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:16,440 Speaker 2: get there. But the corollary to that that I think 857 00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:19,120 Speaker 2: we're trying to get out here is it's also entirely 858 00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:21,280 Speaker 2: possible the one walks the path and then they stop 859 00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:27,279 Speaker 2: and just start to adore the path, you know, and 860 00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:30,719 Speaker 2: they stop walking, they stop moving and become fixated with 861 00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:35,719 Speaker 2: singing the praises of that path, being dedicated to that path, 862 00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,920 Speaker 2: defending that path, right when that was never really the 863 00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:39,600 Speaker 2: point of the path. 864 00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:45,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was out. Maybe i'll close with this. We 865 00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:48,520 Speaker 1: can keep talking. But I was at a coffee shop 866 00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:52,480 Speaker 1: this morning and these gentlemen were sitting at a table 867 00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:54,840 Speaker 1: over next to me, and they were doing a Bible study, 868 00:53:55,320 --> 00:53:56,920 Speaker 1: and so I got up to use the restroom and 869 00:53:56,920 --> 00:53:59,040 Speaker 1: I asked him to watch my stuff for me. And 870 00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:01,359 Speaker 1: when I came back, they most of them had left 871 00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:02,719 Speaker 1: and there were just a couple of guys there. And 872 00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:04,640 Speaker 1: that's this one gentleman. I just said, Hey, where you 873 00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:07,799 Speaker 1: guys go to church at? And he his comment was, 874 00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:10,480 Speaker 1: he's like, oh, we all go to different churches. And 875 00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:12,640 Speaker 1: so he's like, I went, I go to this Lutheran 876 00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:15,279 Speaker 1: church just down the road. But you know, Bob's a 877 00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:18,480 Speaker 1: Southern Baptist, and you know Joe goes to the Presbyterian 878 00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:21,160 Speaker 1: church or whatever. And he said, we've been talking to 879 00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:24,280 Speaker 1: him for such a long time, many years of getting 880 00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:26,560 Speaker 1: a Bible study together, and it doesn't matter what church 881 00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:28,680 Speaker 1: you go to. It doesn't matter, you know, what your 882 00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:30,839 Speaker 1: doctrinal statement is. He didn't say it like that. But 883 00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:33,600 Speaker 1: that's basically what he was saying. He's like, we just 884 00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:36,200 Speaker 1: all get together and we try to understand what gods 885 00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:42,200 Speaker 1: were to say. I was like, that's that's pretty cool, Like, 886 00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:47,400 Speaker 1: you know, that's that's odd in a way and awesome 887 00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:51,719 Speaker 1: in another right. And so I think it's good because obviously, 888 00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:53,680 Speaker 1: and I listened in a little bit. It was hard 889 00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:55,399 Speaker 1: not to listen to him. I mean, they're there are 890 00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:57,319 Speaker 1: like six guys at a table right next to me, 891 00:54:57,360 --> 00:55:00,680 Speaker 1: and so you know, you hear things, right, but they're discussing, 892 00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:02,399 Speaker 1: you know, one of them's got the King James open, 893 00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:05,680 Speaker 1: another one's got the NIV open. They're like actually discussing 894 00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:08,759 Speaker 1: the passages and trying to figure stuff out and just 895 00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:11,400 Speaker 1: having a good time together. They're not like there's no 896 00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:14,200 Speaker 1: there was no animosity at the table. There's no yelling 897 00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:17,120 Speaker 1: back and forth. It was just like, oh, you know, 898 00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:18,960 Speaker 1: well I wonder what that is, and I wonder how 899 00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:21,040 Speaker 1: that would work, and I want, you know, like it 900 00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:23,560 Speaker 1: was just a lot of deliberation at the table. It 901 00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:26,200 Speaker 1: was kind of fun to listen to. And I think 902 00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:29,600 Speaker 1: that that in that I would didn't really think about 903 00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:32,560 Speaker 1: it at the time, but it's sort of like, that's 904 00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:35,040 Speaker 1: a great picture of what I think the church is 905 00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:39,200 Speaker 1: supposed to be. Right, there are obvious disagreements at that 906 00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:42,560 Speaker 1: table to guarantee, the Southern Baptist doctoral statement looks different 907 00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:46,560 Speaker 1: than the Lutheran Churches doctoral statement one hundred percent right, 908 00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:51,640 Speaker 1: like for sure, But it didn't matter. It didn't matter, 909 00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:53,799 Speaker 1: And you could argue, all maybe they didn't understand it 910 00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:56,399 Speaker 1: well enough or they don't you know, and it's like, well, no, 911 00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:59,520 Speaker 1: I think they understand it well enough. I think they 912 00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:03,799 Speaker 1: actually get what they're doing right, Like they have a 913 00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:07,839 Speaker 1: vision for a unified church that transcends denominations and they're 914 00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:15,000 Speaker 1: getting together to do something about it. Great, right, So yeah, 915 00:56:15,080 --> 00:56:19,279 Speaker 1: just an interesting picture that you don't always see, right, 916 00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:23,120 Speaker 1: You just don't always see it. We've gotten so fractured 917 00:56:23,160 --> 00:56:25,839 Speaker 1: that sometimes I think we forget that we are all 918 00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:32,120 Speaker 1: part of the same body. Indeed, any novel thought, novel 919 00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:37,719 Speaker 1: thought right. Well, anyway, I found that conversation with Dave, 920 00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:43,719 Speaker 1: Dave and Dyke really compelling. I've always been interested in 921 00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:46,000 Speaker 1: the systems theory, and so I appreciate it. I'm this 922 00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:50,080 Speaker 1: conversation about it with us or with me, and we'll 923 00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:53,200 Speaker 1: close it out there. We'll probably revisit this some other time. 924 00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:55,440 Speaker 1: We're hoping to have some of the marriage and family 925 00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:58,840 Speaker 1: systems folks from Weeting on and and do a little 926 00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:02,440 Speaker 1: bit more with them. I think it's really a fascinating field, 927 00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:06,680 Speaker 1: especially as we think about ecclesiology. I've tended to approach 928 00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:09,840 Speaker 1: that through sociology, but I do think marriage and family 929 00:57:09,920 --> 00:57:14,160 Speaker 1: systems cuts a little different than sociology usually does, and 930 00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:19,360 Speaker 1: so I find their stuff pretty fascinating. But anyway, thanks 931 00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:22,720 Speaker 1: for the conversation, and thanks everybody for listening. We'll catch 932 00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:24,840 Speaker 1: you on the next episode of Thinking Christian Take Care. 933 00:57:25,600 --> 00:57:27,040 Speaker 1: I just want to take a second to thank the 934 00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:29,520 Speaker 1: team at Life Audio for their partnership with us on 935 00:57:29,600 --> 00:57:32,919 Speaker 1: the Thinking Christian podcast. If you go to lifeaudio dot com, 936 00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:36,160 Speaker 1: you'll find dozens of other faith centered podcasts in their network. 937 00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:39,720 Speaker 1: They've got shows about prayer, Bible study, parenting, and more.