1 00:00:08,257 --> 00:00:09,177 Speaker 1: Life Audio. 2 00:00:11,137 --> 00:00:14,377 Speaker 2: Join us in celebrating an incredible milestone as the beloved 3 00:00:14,457 --> 00:00:18,457 Speaker 2: Jesus Calling brand reaches fifty million lives impacted. As we 4 00:00:18,497 --> 00:00:21,576 Speaker 2: honor the legacy of author Sarah Young, we reflect on 5 00:00:21,616 --> 00:00:26,816 Speaker 2: the stories from celebrities, pastors, authors, actors, singers, athletes, scholars, 6 00:00:26,857 --> 00:00:30,417 Speaker 2: and everyday people who have been inspired by her devotional writings. 7 00:00:30,657 --> 00:00:32,857 Speaker 2: To join in the celebration and to hear some of 8 00:00:32,897 --> 00:00:35,336 Speaker 2: the stories of people whose faith journeys have been impacted 9 00:00:35,377 --> 00:00:37,816 Speaker 2: by all the writings of Sarah Young, head over to 10 00:00:37,897 --> 00:00:41,937 Speaker 2: Jesus Calling dot com. 11 00:00:42,417 --> 00:00:47,377 Speaker 3: It's through our surrendering that God does his establishing, whether 12 00:00:47,417 --> 00:00:50,297 Speaker 3: it's in our career, our finances, our marriage, or you know, 13 00:00:50,336 --> 00:00:54,097 Speaker 3: our sense of control. And I think that obedience is 14 00:00:54,137 --> 00:00:56,257 Speaker 3: what ultimately land me to the White House. 15 00:00:57,337 --> 00:01:00,337 Speaker 2: Welcome to the Jesus Calling Podcast. This week, we'll hear 16 00:01:00,377 --> 00:01:03,417 Speaker 2: from Michael Leach, who went from the high pressure, competitive 17 00:01:03,457 --> 00:01:06,777 Speaker 2: world of the NFL to navigating the intense landscape of 18 00:01:06,897 --> 00:01:11,417 Speaker 2: national politics, ultimately becoming the first ever Chief Diversity officer 19 00:01:11,457 --> 00:01:14,417 Speaker 2: in the White House. Leech reveals the defining moments from 20 00:01:14,497 --> 00:01:17,617 Speaker 2: simple childhood boundaries on the South Side of Chicago to 21 00:01:17,697 --> 00:01:20,977 Speaker 2: faith led decisions that cost him his seemingly secure career 22 00:01:21,177 --> 00:01:24,497 Speaker 2: that prepared him for roles he never planned. Later in 23 00:01:24,497 --> 00:01:28,417 Speaker 2: the episode, we'll hear from entrepreneur and business leader David Meltzer. 24 00:01:28,657 --> 00:01:31,937 Speaker 2: David opens up about growing up with intense financial insecurity, 25 00:01:32,217 --> 00:01:35,977 Speaker 2: reaching extraordinary success, amassing over one hundred million dollars by 26 00:01:36,017 --> 00:01:38,897 Speaker 2: the age of thirty, and the catastrophic moment he lost 27 00:01:38,977 --> 00:01:42,137 Speaker 2: absolutely everything. Let's begin with Michael's story. 28 00:01:48,337 --> 00:01:52,017 Speaker 3: My name is Michael Leech, a proud father of twin 29 00:01:52,137 --> 00:01:54,977 Speaker 3: daughters who are three years old Pray for me, a 30 00:01:55,097 --> 00:01:58,297 Speaker 3: husband to my incredible wife of nearly fourteen years, and 31 00:01:58,377 --> 00:02:01,737 Speaker 3: the founder and CEO of Bridge Trust Partners, which is 32 00:02:01,777 --> 00:02:06,337 Speaker 3: a purpose driven advisory firm where we help leaders organization's 33 00:02:06,377 --> 00:02:15,897 Speaker 3: clarify vision, built trust, and fund what matters. I'm originally 34 00:02:15,897 --> 00:02:19,097 Speaker 3: from the South Side of Chicago, and growing up I 35 00:02:19,097 --> 00:02:21,577 Speaker 3: had big dreams. For a while, I had imagined myself 36 00:02:21,617 --> 00:02:25,257 Speaker 3: as an actor or maybe a professional athlete, and you know, 37 00:02:25,577 --> 00:02:28,656 Speaker 3: I love sports deeply, but early on I realized that 38 00:02:28,777 --> 00:02:31,817 Speaker 3: my athletic ability had its limits, but the business of 39 00:02:31,897 --> 00:02:35,017 Speaker 3: sports didn't, and so my dream then centered on becoming 40 00:02:35,017 --> 00:02:38,297 Speaker 3: the NFL commissioner or an NFL team president one. 41 00:02:38,217 --> 00:02:41,057 Speaker 1: Day, and that realization really changed everything for me. 42 00:02:41,097 --> 00:02:41,257 Speaker 4: You know. 43 00:02:41,617 --> 00:02:43,617 Speaker 1: I combined my love for. 44 00:02:43,777 --> 00:02:47,497 Speaker 3: Sports and business and pursued sports management in college, which 45 00:02:48,097 --> 00:02:50,897 Speaker 3: ultimately opened doors that I could have never imagined. And 46 00:02:50,977 --> 00:02:53,657 Speaker 3: I had two loving parents who were very much, deeply 47 00:02:53,737 --> 00:02:56,577 Speaker 3: rooted in faith and just demonstrated what it meant for 48 00:02:56,697 --> 00:02:58,617 Speaker 3: me and my two brothers. I was the middle child 49 00:02:58,897 --> 00:03:00,857 Speaker 3: on what it looked like to walk by faith and 50 00:03:00,937 --> 00:03:03,376 Speaker 3: not by sight, as they always said, and they kept 51 00:03:03,417 --> 00:03:05,697 Speaker 3: us involved in sports, you know. And I think what 52 00:03:05,777 --> 00:03:09,297 Speaker 3: I loved most about sports wasn't just the competition. It 53 00:03:09,457 --> 00:03:12,017 Speaker 3: was the way it brought people together, right, whether for 54 00:03:12,137 --> 00:03:16,776 Speaker 3: four quarters or whatever the game was, People from different neighborhoods, backgrounds, 55 00:03:16,817 --> 00:03:21,737 Speaker 3: beliefs could share common identity around the team. A vivid 56 00:03:21,817 --> 00:03:23,577 Speaker 3: early memory of fear, I would say for me, comes 57 00:03:23,577 --> 00:03:26,137 Speaker 3: when I was between five or seven years old riding 58 00:03:26,177 --> 00:03:29,017 Speaker 3: my bike on the South side of Chicago. My parents 59 00:03:29,017 --> 00:03:32,497 Speaker 3: had very clear boundaries, as many parents do. I could 60 00:03:32,617 --> 00:03:36,057 Speaker 3: ride my bike on the sidewalk only, but only to 61 00:03:36,137 --> 00:03:38,377 Speaker 3: the second to last house on the block, never to 62 00:03:38,457 --> 00:03:40,697 Speaker 3: the corner, and so I would ride. I would stop, 63 00:03:41,177 --> 00:03:43,577 Speaker 3: turn the bike around and go back the other way 64 00:03:44,297 --> 00:03:46,737 Speaker 3: over and over again, and at the time, you know, 65 00:03:46,777 --> 00:03:50,297 Speaker 3: it felt restrictive, but looking back, they learned something deeper 66 00:03:50,537 --> 00:03:54,457 Speaker 3: that gang activity potential other activity happening down there. I 67 00:03:54,497 --> 00:03:57,097 Speaker 3: had to trust my parents' judgment and trusting that they 68 00:03:57,137 --> 00:03:59,857 Speaker 3: could see farther than I could. And I think that 69 00:04:00,017 --> 00:04:02,857 Speaker 3: same sense of trust was shaped inside our home, especially 70 00:04:02,857 --> 00:04:05,897 Speaker 3: on New Year's Eve, while other families are celebrating, nights 71 00:04:05,897 --> 00:04:08,817 Speaker 3: looked different. We would have to turn all the lights off, 72 00:04:09,217 --> 00:04:11,617 Speaker 3: never forget, get down on our knees and pray together 73 00:04:11,657 --> 00:04:14,617 Speaker 3: as a family because in our neighborhood people would often 74 00:04:14,737 --> 00:04:17,617 Speaker 3: shoot their firearms into the air at midnight, and if 75 00:04:17,617 --> 00:04:20,057 Speaker 3: the house was lit, it could become a target. 76 00:04:20,097 --> 00:04:21,817 Speaker 1: And so instead of fireworks, we prayed. 77 00:04:22,257 --> 00:04:25,097 Speaker 3: And I remember, as a young child, to somebody's whispering, 78 00:04:25,137 --> 00:04:27,537 Speaker 3: simple prayers to God, asking them to bless our family 79 00:04:27,616 --> 00:04:30,537 Speaker 3: with a new house one day, a big backyard, and 80 00:04:30,616 --> 00:04:33,656 Speaker 3: maybe even a swimming pool. And I remember praying something 81 00:04:33,697 --> 00:04:35,937 Speaker 3: I didn't fully understand yet, but that God would give 82 00:04:35,976 --> 00:04:37,257 Speaker 3: me a life and a job. 83 00:04:37,017 --> 00:04:39,097 Speaker 1: That would help me change the world in my environment. 84 00:04:39,657 --> 00:04:41,416 Speaker 3: And so I didn't realize it at the time, but 85 00:04:41,457 --> 00:04:43,897 Speaker 3: those moments were teaching me how to trust under authority. 86 00:04:44,537 --> 00:04:46,496 Speaker 3: And I think even through as we're talking out through 87 00:04:46,537 --> 00:04:49,416 Speaker 3: Jesus Calling, we used to read those daily devotionals together 88 00:04:49,616 --> 00:04:52,697 Speaker 3: after dinner with to me my two brothers. I had 89 00:04:52,697 --> 00:04:55,537 Speaker 3: to give a shout out to my mom, Maria Leech, 90 00:04:55,657 --> 00:04:58,696 Speaker 3: who gifted me my first copy in college, and I 91 00:04:58,777 --> 00:05:01,137 Speaker 3: carried it with me through every season, rereading it year 92 00:05:01,176 --> 00:05:01,817 Speaker 3: after years. 93 00:05:01,856 --> 00:05:02,897 Speaker 1: My life changed. 94 00:05:03,296 --> 00:05:06,337 Speaker 3: Even while we're working with the Chicago Bears, I would 95 00:05:06,416 --> 00:05:08,777 Speaker 3: read Jesus Calling Me for anything else. Even before the 96 00:05:08,816 --> 00:05:12,777 Speaker 3: head coach's calendar I was reading that book. Faith wasn't abstract, 97 00:05:12,816 --> 00:05:15,056 Speaker 3: it was really practiced, and I think that early trust 98 00:05:15,056 --> 00:05:17,696 Speaker 3: helped me to later trust my heavenly Father, not just 99 00:05:17,697 --> 00:05:20,097 Speaker 3: my earthly father. And that's kind of why I came 100 00:05:20,097 --> 00:05:23,497 Speaker 3: to believe that God does set boundaries not to limit us, but. 101 00:05:23,496 --> 00:05:25,537 Speaker 1: To protect us and prepare us. And I think, just 102 00:05:25,616 --> 00:05:27,696 Speaker 1: like my parents, he could see farther than I could. 103 00:05:28,217 --> 00:05:30,657 Speaker 3: And I think that was really the formative years that 104 00:05:30,777 --> 00:05:33,057 Speaker 3: got me sort of working in my prayer life, even 105 00:05:33,056 --> 00:05:35,217 Speaker 3: though I didn't fully know how to articulate it. Then 106 00:05:41,376 --> 00:05:44,657 Speaker 3: during my time with Chicago Bears, especially as assistant to 107 00:05:44,697 --> 00:05:48,857 Speaker 3: the head coach. I represented the head coach and meetings, 108 00:05:49,137 --> 00:05:54,016 Speaker 3: managed logistics, worked the sidelines, and really was that bridge 109 00:05:54,416 --> 00:05:59,456 Speaker 3: between all players, executives, media, fans and communities in the 110 00:05:59,496 --> 00:06:02,137 Speaker 3: head coach. And one lesson that stayed with me in 111 00:06:02,137 --> 00:06:04,417 Speaker 3: that space because I was amazed I got that role 112 00:06:04,416 --> 00:06:07,217 Speaker 3: when I just turned twenty five for was this lesson. 113 00:06:07,416 --> 00:06:11,496 Speaker 3: And it was this that everyone communicates, but few connect 114 00:06:12,056 --> 00:06:14,657 Speaker 3: and when you're interacting with hundreds of people in high 115 00:06:14,657 --> 00:06:18,056 Speaker 3: pressure environments, communication alone isn't enough. 116 00:06:18,337 --> 00:06:21,816 Speaker 1: Like connection was what for me built trust. 117 00:06:22,457 --> 00:06:27,296 Speaker 3: And I think trust is what allowed teams, organizations, even 118 00:06:27,376 --> 00:06:29,817 Speaker 3: families or people to go farther. And I think that 119 00:06:29,897 --> 00:06:32,337 Speaker 3: lesson shape not just my career in the NFL, but 120 00:06:32,337 --> 00:06:38,176 Speaker 3: but everything I lead today. Sports teaches you collaboration, consistency, humility, 121 00:06:38,416 --> 00:06:40,776 Speaker 3: and service. You know, and you don't get to skip 122 00:06:40,856 --> 00:06:43,377 Speaker 3: steps in the NFL. You always have to work your 123 00:06:43,376 --> 00:06:45,457 Speaker 3: way up from the bottom. And I would say one 124 00:06:45,457 --> 00:06:47,736 Speaker 3: of the leadership principles I still live by is this, 125 00:06:47,816 --> 00:06:50,456 Speaker 3: you know, one of the best ways to find yourself 126 00:06:51,176 --> 00:06:53,817 Speaker 3: is to lose yourself in the service of others. Right, 127 00:06:53,856 --> 00:06:57,017 Speaker 3: That's where my commitment to servant leadership was formed. I 128 00:06:57,137 --> 00:06:59,976 Speaker 3: left the NFL only because I believe God called me 129 00:07:00,017 --> 00:07:02,656 Speaker 3: to do so, and I trusted that if he called 130 00:07:02,657 --> 00:07:03,976 Speaker 3: me to unfamiliar. 131 00:07:03,577 --> 00:07:06,537 Speaker 1: Territory that he will sustain me there also, and he did. 132 00:07:07,056 --> 00:07:10,016 Speaker 3: And I think that obedience is what ultimately led me 133 00:07:10,057 --> 00:07:11,657 Speaker 3: to the White House, you know, in a role that 134 00:07:11,857 --> 00:07:15,057 Speaker 3: was specifically created for me by the President of the 135 00:07:15,177 --> 00:07:18,097 Speaker 3: United States. Stepping into the White House as the first 136 00:07:18,137 --> 00:07:22,017 Speaker 3: ever Chief Diversity Officer meant walking into a role no blueprint, 137 00:07:22,697 --> 00:07:26,537 Speaker 3: immense complexity, national visibility, and a host of other things. 138 00:07:26,697 --> 00:07:28,696 Speaker 3: And the day to day work it really centered on 139 00:07:28,816 --> 00:07:31,696 Speaker 3: organizational culture because people don't care how much. 140 00:07:31,537 --> 00:07:33,337 Speaker 1: You know until they know how much you care. 141 00:07:33,937 --> 00:07:38,417 Speaker 3: And so learning and development, staff policy, stakeholder engagement. 142 00:07:38,897 --> 00:07:42,177 Speaker 1: And I often distilled my role into three pillars. 143 00:07:42,217 --> 00:07:45,537 Speaker 3: Learning and development, connection and community because I think we 144 00:07:45,537 --> 00:07:48,456 Speaker 3: should never stop learning, because life never stops teaching. 145 00:07:48,816 --> 00:07:51,977 Speaker 1: And yes, there were fears, of course, but it was 146 00:07:52,057 --> 00:07:54,097 Speaker 1: my faith that anchored me. You know. I viewed the 147 00:07:54,177 --> 00:07:57,417 Speaker 1: role through stewardship, right, not ideology. 148 00:07:57,457 --> 00:08:00,657 Speaker 3: If God called me to steward it, my responsibility was 149 00:08:00,697 --> 00:08:04,576 Speaker 3: to steward it well. And that season taught me the 150 00:08:04,617 --> 00:08:09,057 Speaker 3: power of surrender. I think it's through our surrendering that 151 00:08:09,137 --> 00:08:13,256 Speaker 3: God does his establishing, whether it's in our career, our finances, 152 00:08:13,297 --> 00:08:16,576 Speaker 3: our marriage, or you know, our sense of control. Fast 153 00:08:16,657 --> 00:08:20,497 Speaker 3: forward to my work today, whether building culture, falsehood, inclusion, 154 00:08:20,577 --> 00:08:23,457 Speaker 3: or leading the firm alongside my wife now, the same 155 00:08:23,497 --> 00:08:29,297 Speaker 3: principle still driving. The season that carried the most uncertainty 156 00:08:29,977 --> 00:08:34,377 Speaker 3: that required daily grounding was when I was living in Philadelphia, 157 00:08:34,417 --> 00:08:38,136 Speaker 3: That's where presidential campaign headquarters were located, and I was 158 00:08:38,217 --> 00:08:41,657 Speaker 3: leading it as chief people officer, and it was just 159 00:08:42,537 --> 00:08:45,057 Speaker 3: incredibly taxing, working eighteen hour days. 160 00:08:45,257 --> 00:08:46,857 Speaker 1: You're on call twenty four to seven. 161 00:08:47,097 --> 00:08:50,017 Speaker 3: Everything is a priority and urgent and felt like a 162 00:08:50,057 --> 00:08:52,537 Speaker 3: fire that needed to be put out, and you never 163 00:08:52,617 --> 00:08:54,737 Speaker 3: knew how big the fire would be and how long 164 00:08:54,737 --> 00:08:58,017 Speaker 3: it would burn for. And so each morning, whether it 165 00:08:58,057 --> 00:09:00,737 Speaker 3: be on my walks to the office, train rides to 166 00:09:00,777 --> 00:09:03,737 Speaker 3: the office, or whatever may be, I began with prayer 167 00:09:04,417 --> 00:09:08,297 Speaker 3: and for this Jesus Calling or Jesus Listens book that 168 00:09:08,377 --> 00:09:11,817 Speaker 3: I carried with me since twenty eleven, or something in 169 00:09:11,857 --> 00:09:13,537 Speaker 3: the Bible app a plan that I was on. 170 00:09:14,097 --> 00:09:17,137 Speaker 1: I would do that and then listen to praise and worship. 171 00:09:16,857 --> 00:09:20,377 Speaker 3: Music, and I would do that, whether be elevation worship 172 00:09:20,577 --> 00:09:22,697 Speaker 3: or torn well as you name it, just the kind 173 00:09:22,737 --> 00:09:25,897 Speaker 3: of center and make sure I wasn't confusing my resources 174 00:09:26,057 --> 00:09:28,897 Speaker 3: with who the source was, because I believe that everything 175 00:09:29,017 --> 00:09:32,697 Speaker 3: you consume will eventually come out of you, for better 176 00:09:32,737 --> 00:09:33,257 Speaker 3: or for worse. 177 00:09:33,817 --> 00:09:36,297 Speaker 1: What you listen to, what you eat, what you view, 178 00:09:36,417 --> 00:09:37,057 Speaker 1: what you watch. 179 00:09:37,577 --> 00:09:40,017 Speaker 3: And I learned that, you know, when I did that, 180 00:09:40,137 --> 00:09:42,417 Speaker 3: when I just surrendered the day at the top of 181 00:09:42,457 --> 00:09:43,657 Speaker 3: the day, that it. 182 00:09:43,577 --> 00:09:46,657 Speaker 1: Didn't matter what came at me during the day. 183 00:09:46,737 --> 00:09:48,857 Speaker 3: It didn't matter whose hand it started from, Like even 184 00:09:48,897 --> 00:09:51,937 Speaker 3: if it started by the hand of my enemy, it 185 00:09:51,977 --> 00:09:53,977 Speaker 3: had to pass through the hand of my God before 186 00:09:54,017 --> 00:09:56,457 Speaker 3: it got to me. And I think that helped me 187 00:09:56,657 --> 00:10:00,177 Speaker 3: sort of have this deep belief that again God is 188 00:10:00,217 --> 00:10:04,097 Speaker 3: able to intervene and dispatch angels to work on your 189 00:10:04,097 --> 00:10:06,177 Speaker 3: behalf when you don't know you need someone speaking for 190 00:10:06,217 --> 00:10:09,377 Speaker 3: you in the next room or in that organization or 191 00:10:09,377 --> 00:10:11,737 Speaker 3: on that email threat. And so for me, that really 192 00:10:11,817 --> 00:10:15,697 Speaker 3: gave me a sense of peace and understanding that even 193 00:10:15,697 --> 00:10:17,937 Speaker 3: though things are going to come up, He's always going 194 00:10:18,017 --> 00:10:21,136 Speaker 3: to stay up and above what's coming your way. I 195 00:10:21,177 --> 00:10:25,657 Speaker 3: would say that to everyone listening, I really believe someone 196 00:10:26,137 --> 00:10:28,617 Speaker 3: is like on the brink of something significant under the 197 00:10:28,657 --> 00:10:31,817 Speaker 3: sound of my voice. And God doesn't waste moments like this, 198 00:10:32,137 --> 00:10:34,737 Speaker 3: even though it feels serendipitous. And I'm just humbled and 199 00:10:34,737 --> 00:10:37,337 Speaker 3: grateful to be a vessel and offer what God first 200 00:10:37,417 --> 00:10:39,777 Speaker 3: gave to me so others can live with greater faith. 201 00:10:40,217 --> 00:10:42,257 Speaker 3: And I would say the reason it's so important is 202 00:10:42,297 --> 00:10:44,897 Speaker 3: that you never get a second chance to make a 203 00:10:44,937 --> 00:10:48,377 Speaker 3: first impression. And when you have something like this to start, 204 00:10:48,897 --> 00:10:51,817 Speaker 3: you'd be surprised at how your first impressions and what 205 00:10:51,857 --> 00:10:54,297 Speaker 3: you lead with, and how you respond with and what 206 00:10:54,337 --> 00:10:56,897 Speaker 3: you think with the first thoughts that come in your 207 00:10:56,897 --> 00:10:58,457 Speaker 3: mind as you engage with other people. 208 00:10:58,897 --> 00:11:00,577 Speaker 1: It's just more centered and more grounded. 209 00:11:02,777 --> 00:11:06,217 Speaker 2: To learn more about Michael Leech, visit my Faith Overfear 210 00:11:06,377 --> 00:11:08,857 Speaker 2: dot com and be sure to check out his new book, 211 00:11:09,057 --> 00:11:12,577 Speaker 2: Faith Over Fear Harnessing Resilience in the Face of Uncertainty 212 00:11:12,777 --> 00:11:16,457 Speaker 2: at your favorite retailer. Stay tuned to David Meltzer's story 213 00:11:16,497 --> 00:11:25,537 Speaker 2: after brief message, celebrate the mothers, grandmothers, and mom figures 214 00:11:25,537 --> 00:11:28,017 Speaker 2: in your life with the Jesus. Listens for Mom's Prayer 215 00:11:28,017 --> 00:11:32,257 Speaker 2: devotional by beloved author Sarah Young. Inside you'll find fifty 216 00:11:32,297 --> 00:11:34,577 Speaker 2: prayers that speak to the power of love, the gift 217 00:11:34,577 --> 00:11:38,337 Speaker 2: of strength, trusting God during challenging times, have encourage and 218 00:11:38,417 --> 00:11:43,137 Speaker 2: so much more. Accompanying the prayers are beautiful illustrations, scripture, verses, 219 00:11:43,337 --> 00:11:45,937 Speaker 2: and quotes that will uplift women of every age and 220 00:11:46,017 --> 00:11:49,257 Speaker 2: help them talk and walk more closely with Jesus, making 221 00:11:49,337 --> 00:11:52,297 Speaker 2: it the perfect gift for Mother's days, birthdays and more. 222 00:11:52,697 --> 00:11:59,857 Speaker 2: Find it today at your favorite retailer. Our next guest 223 00:11:59,897 --> 00:12:03,777 Speaker 2: is David Meltzer, an entrepreneur and business leader. David shares 224 00:12:03,777 --> 00:12:07,457 Speaker 2: how growing up with financial insecurity shaped his understanding of success, 225 00:12:07,697 --> 00:12:10,217 Speaker 2: and even after he reached the highest levels of achievement, 226 00:12:10,417 --> 00:12:12,817 Speaker 2: he still was left to search for something more. 227 00:12:13,777 --> 00:12:14,977 Speaker 5: My name is David Meltzer. 228 00:12:15,257 --> 00:12:19,577 Speaker 6: I am a speaker, author, entrepreneur, investor on a mission 229 00:12:19,737 --> 00:12:22,737 Speaker 6: to empower over a billion people to be happy by 230 00:12:22,817 --> 00:12:26,177 Speaker 6: teaching them the three things I'm good at, making a 231 00:12:26,217 --> 00:12:28,697 Speaker 6: lot of money for the sake of helping a lot 232 00:12:28,737 --> 00:12:35,457 Speaker 6: of people, and having a lot of fun. I grew 233 00:12:35,537 --> 00:12:38,777 Speaker 6: up with a single mom and six kids in Akron, Ohio, 234 00:12:39,497 --> 00:12:43,537 Speaker 6: with one thing in my mind to resolve the only 235 00:12:43,657 --> 00:12:47,337 Speaker 6: problem or struggle in my life, which was financial insecurity. 236 00:12:47,937 --> 00:12:50,457 Speaker 6: My mom worked two jobs, one as a second grade teacher, 237 00:12:50,937 --> 00:12:53,776 Speaker 6: packed our dinners in a paper bag so we could eat, 238 00:12:53,897 --> 00:13:00,016 Speaker 6: and then drove around Akron, Ohio, filling turnstiles at convenience 239 00:13:00,057 --> 00:13:02,657 Speaker 6: stores with greeting cards, just so we could have enough 240 00:13:02,697 --> 00:13:06,457 Speaker 6: money to survive. The only time I wasn't happy was 241 00:13:06,497 --> 00:13:10,857 Speaker 6: when there was a financial struggle or difficulty. So from 242 00:13:10,897 --> 00:13:14,337 Speaker 6: a very young age, all I wanted to do was 243 00:13:14,377 --> 00:13:16,777 Speaker 6: to make a lot of money for the sake of 244 00:13:16,817 --> 00:13:19,257 Speaker 6: helping my mom, buying her a house and a car, 245 00:13:19,657 --> 00:13:24,937 Speaker 6: creating financial security for my family, and of course continuing 246 00:13:25,617 --> 00:13:27,497 Speaker 6: the fun and the love that I grew up with 247 00:13:28,337 --> 00:13:33,417 Speaker 6: my family. Unfortunately, I was misguided when I reached my 248 00:13:33,617 --> 00:13:37,777 Speaker 6: early days of success in my twenties because I attributed 249 00:13:37,897 --> 00:13:41,537 Speaker 6: and identified all my success to how much money I made. 250 00:13:41,657 --> 00:13:43,977 Speaker 6: I was worth over one hundred million dollars by the 251 00:13:44,017 --> 00:13:47,297 Speaker 6: time I was thirty, and if my bank account went 252 00:13:47,377 --> 00:13:49,857 Speaker 6: up even as little as one hundred dollars, I was happy. 253 00:13:50,377 --> 00:13:52,817 Speaker 6: But went down as little as one hundred dollars, I 254 00:13:52,897 --> 00:13:54,177 Speaker 6: was disappointed or sad. 255 00:13:54,897 --> 00:13:57,817 Speaker 5: So although success. 256 00:13:57,377 --> 00:14:02,617 Speaker 6: Came early, I gave it a meaning that was trying 257 00:14:02,657 --> 00:14:06,537 Speaker 6: to fill a god size hole with everything, but God 258 00:14:07,537 --> 00:14:11,057 Speaker 6: and money doesn't fill the God size hole that we 259 00:14:11,097 --> 00:14:14,097 Speaker 6: are given. And I bought into other people telling me 260 00:14:14,577 --> 00:14:18,777 Speaker 6: that that was true success. In two thousand and eight, 261 00:14:18,817 --> 00:14:21,857 Speaker 6: I lost over one hundred million dollars. I went bankrupt. 262 00:14:22,857 --> 00:14:24,857 Speaker 6: But even worse, I had to tell my mom that 263 00:14:24,937 --> 00:14:26,817 Speaker 6: I went bankrupt, but even tell her that. 264 00:14:26,817 --> 00:14:29,377 Speaker 5: I'd lost her home, that she had to move. 265 00:14:30,257 --> 00:14:32,777 Speaker 6: And when I walked up to her house in tears, 266 00:14:32,897 --> 00:14:37,177 Speaker 6: barely able to communicate to her, she looked at me 267 00:14:37,217 --> 00:14:38,537 Speaker 6: and asked me, are you okay? 268 00:14:39,697 --> 00:14:42,817 Speaker 5: And I barely could say yes. He said, is Julie 269 00:14:42,817 --> 00:14:46,577 Speaker 5: your wife okay? I said yes? Are the kids okay? Yes? 270 00:14:47,577 --> 00:14:51,457 Speaker 6: What's the matter? How can I help? I said, Mom, 271 00:14:51,857 --> 00:14:55,177 Speaker 6: I lost everything. I lost over one hundred million dollars. 272 00:14:55,217 --> 00:14:58,337 Speaker 6: I went bankrupt, and unfortunately I didn't take my name 273 00:14:58,377 --> 00:14:59,297 Speaker 6: off of your title. 274 00:14:59,937 --> 00:15:01,817 Speaker 5: I lost your home. You're going to have to move. 275 00:15:03,377 --> 00:15:06,257 Speaker 6: My mom looked at me and said, oh, do you 276 00:15:06,297 --> 00:15:08,097 Speaker 6: need some money? 277 00:15:08,217 --> 00:15:10,697 Speaker 5: I said, Mom, I don't think you heard me. I 278 00:15:10,737 --> 00:15:14,897 Speaker 5: lost everything. You need to move. She said, oh, no, no, 279 00:15:15,497 --> 00:15:16,657 Speaker 5: I heard you. Are you okay? 280 00:15:16,697 --> 00:15:20,257 Speaker 6: What can I do for you? In tears, I blurted, Mom, 281 00:15:20,817 --> 00:15:24,897 Speaker 6: why am I being punished? I've tried so hard to provide. 282 00:15:25,137 --> 00:15:28,497 Speaker 5: Everyone around me everything that they desired or needed. 283 00:15:29,697 --> 00:15:30,537 Speaker 1: She said, punished. 284 00:15:30,577 --> 00:15:33,897 Speaker 6: I said, yeah, why is God punishing me? She said, Oh, 285 00:15:34,537 --> 00:15:39,137 Speaker 6: God doesn't punish. You're being protected and promoted, loved and 286 00:15:39,177 --> 00:15:42,057 Speaker 6: perfected by God. You just don't realize it. I said, well, Mom, 287 00:15:42,617 --> 00:15:47,857 Speaker 6: I don't believe in God. She smirked at me. I'll 288 00:15:47,857 --> 00:15:51,457 Speaker 6: never forget her face. She just smirked at me and said, oh, son, 289 00:15:51,937 --> 00:15:55,497 Speaker 6: you believe in God, You just believe in the wrong God. 290 00:15:56,377 --> 00:16:00,617 Speaker 6: And it hit me, It still hits me today that 291 00:16:00,657 --> 00:16:02,897 Speaker 6: I was trying to fill a god's size hole with 292 00:16:02,977 --> 00:16:08,017 Speaker 6: everything but God. Time, I took stock and who I 293 00:16:08,217 --> 00:16:11,137 Speaker 6: was and what I wanted to become and realized not 294 00:16:11,257 --> 00:16:14,297 Speaker 6: only did I have to seek the wisdom, but I 295 00:16:14,337 --> 00:16:17,377 Speaker 6: had to have the faith that I was regardless of 296 00:16:17,377 --> 00:16:20,977 Speaker 6: the evidence. There was no evidence that day i'd ever 297 00:16:21,017 --> 00:16:24,057 Speaker 6: get back. There was evidence was contrary that I would 298 00:16:24,057 --> 00:16:27,537 Speaker 6: ever get back to where I was with financial success. 299 00:16:28,297 --> 00:16:31,537 Speaker 6: But it was faith that told me I was being protected, promoted, loved, 300 00:16:31,537 --> 00:16:36,257 Speaker 6: and perfected by this struggle, this setback that created a 301 00:16:36,377 --> 00:16:40,417 Speaker 6: set up here nineteen years later, more than I ever 302 00:16:40,497 --> 00:16:50,817 Speaker 6: dreamed of. Two years before, I lost everything. I was 303 00:16:50,817 --> 00:16:54,057 Speaker 6: a liar, a cheater, manipulator, overseller and back end seller. 304 00:16:54,777 --> 00:16:57,097 Speaker 6: I hated my mom, I hated my dad, I hated 305 00:16:57,177 --> 00:17:00,017 Speaker 6: my best friend. And now my wife was leaving me, 306 00:17:00,817 --> 00:17:04,057 Speaker 6: and I told her I hated her. It was that 307 00:17:04,257 --> 00:17:07,377 Speaker 6: day when I got caught lying about going to the 308 00:17:07,377 --> 00:17:10,337 Speaker 6: Grammy Awards with the rapper, when I was using drugs 309 00:17:10,337 --> 00:17:15,137 Speaker 6: and alcohol to numb the pain of my own integrity 310 00:17:15,337 --> 00:17:19,417 Speaker 6: and lack thereof that I was told by my wife 311 00:17:19,537 --> 00:17:22,897 Speaker 6: that I needed to save myself, that I needed to 312 00:17:22,937 --> 00:17:25,617 Speaker 6: take stock and who I was and find my faith 313 00:17:25,697 --> 00:17:27,817 Speaker 6: once again to get to where I wanted to be 314 00:17:27,857 --> 00:17:29,657 Speaker 6: here better, or I was going to die. 315 00:17:31,097 --> 00:17:33,696 Speaker 5: Initially my response was I hate you. 316 00:17:34,697 --> 00:17:38,177 Speaker 6: But the next day, when I looked at a jacket 317 00:17:38,177 --> 00:17:40,377 Speaker 6: my father had given me for my thirtieth birthday that 318 00:17:40,457 --> 00:17:43,617 Speaker 6: had no pockets, the time that I told him again 319 00:17:43,697 --> 00:17:45,936 Speaker 6: I hated him, and he told me I was just 320 00:17:46,097 --> 00:17:49,257 Speaker 6: like him, that money would not buy me love. Money 321 00:17:49,337 --> 00:17:50,897 Speaker 6: was not my God, and so he gave me a 322 00:17:50,977 --> 00:17:53,696 Speaker 6: jacket with no pockets to hang in my closet to 323 00:17:53,777 --> 00:17:54,257 Speaker 6: remind me. 324 00:17:55,217 --> 00:17:57,417 Speaker 5: After six years, while I was. 325 00:17:57,457 --> 00:18:00,337 Speaker 6: Running the most notable sports agency in the world, while 326 00:18:00,377 --> 00:18:02,857 Speaker 6: I was worth more than one hundred million dollars, while 327 00:18:02,897 --> 00:18:06,337 Speaker 6: I had access to what even billionaires couldn't afford to. 328 00:18:06,257 --> 00:18:11,417 Speaker 5: Have access to. I looked over at that jacket and realized. 329 00:18:11,497 --> 00:18:13,737 Speaker 6: I don't hate my mom, my dad, my best friend, 330 00:18:13,817 --> 00:18:16,217 Speaker 6: and I certainly didn't hate my wife. 331 00:18:16,777 --> 00:18:21,537 Speaker 5: I hated myself. And so I sat there that day. 332 00:18:22,857 --> 00:18:27,297 Speaker 6: And found my calling, taking stock and the values that 333 00:18:27,337 --> 00:18:31,057 Speaker 6: my mom had taught me that are faith based values 334 00:18:31,617 --> 00:18:37,377 Speaker 6: of gratitude, forgiveness, accountability, and inspiration. 335 00:18:38,537 --> 00:18:41,537 Speaker 5: I was going to live my life buy these values. 336 00:18:41,137 --> 00:18:45,097 Speaker 6: And practice them every day in a faithful, devotional way, 337 00:18:45,697 --> 00:18:49,897 Speaker 6: understanding that although I was very disciplined, there's a difference 338 00:18:49,937 --> 00:18:53,537 Speaker 6: between discipline and devotion, and I was going to live 339 00:18:53,577 --> 00:18:58,497 Speaker 6: with discipline as a subset of my devotion, my divine direction, 340 00:18:58,697 --> 00:19:02,497 Speaker 6: my calling each and every day, and live by the 341 00:19:02,617 --> 00:19:08,297 Speaker 6: foundational values that I had learned and lost now to 342 00:19:08,537 --> 00:19:14,697 Speaker 6: execute and to learn again. I think it's a non 343 00:19:14,697 --> 00:19:18,417 Speaker 6: negotiable to connect with God daily and as I receive 344 00:19:18,457 --> 00:19:21,696 Speaker 6: my calling to empower others to be happy, to change 345 00:19:21,737 --> 00:19:24,736 Speaker 6: the world by empowering a thousand people, to make a 346 00:19:24,737 --> 00:19:27,137 Speaker 6: lot of money, help a lot of people, and have 347 00:19:27,177 --> 00:19:30,377 Speaker 6: a lot of fun. That calling came to me, and 348 00:19:30,857 --> 00:19:35,577 Speaker 6: it is only faith that has fulfilled that promise and 349 00:19:35,937 --> 00:19:40,497 Speaker 6: understanding that I need to give time and space to 350 00:19:40,577 --> 00:19:45,217 Speaker 6: God every day. It's a non negotiable practice. And it's 351 00:19:45,217 --> 00:19:49,417 Speaker 6: not just prayer. It's my non negotiable practice of having 352 00:19:49,737 --> 00:19:52,657 Speaker 6: minimum amount of sleep, a minimum amount of time on 353 00:19:52,697 --> 00:19:56,577 Speaker 6: my health, a minimum of time with my family and my. 354 00:19:56,657 --> 00:19:59,137 Speaker 5: Faith every day seven days away. 355 00:19:59,377 --> 00:20:01,537 Speaker 6: Two minutes a day of faith is worth two hours 356 00:20:01,537 --> 00:20:02,337 Speaker 6: on a Saturday. 357 00:20:03,017 --> 00:20:03,657 Speaker 5: If I could. 358 00:20:03,537 --> 00:20:06,617 Speaker 6: Encourage anyone to make God and to make their faith 359 00:20:06,697 --> 00:20:11,537 Speaker 6: non negotiable, whether it's meditation or prayer or just living 360 00:20:11,657 --> 00:20:15,257 Speaker 6: in the divine direction of taking care of your sleep, 361 00:20:15,417 --> 00:20:20,057 Speaker 6: your health, your family, and your faith every day, knowing 362 00:20:20,097 --> 00:20:22,696 Speaker 6: that two minutes a day is worth two hours on 363 00:20:22,737 --> 00:20:31,457 Speaker 6: a Saturday. I'm reading from Jesus Listens, January two. Beloved Jesus, 364 00:20:32,297 --> 00:20:36,257 Speaker 6: I want to be all yours. I invite you to 365 00:20:37,257 --> 00:20:41,337 Speaker 6: wean me from other dependencies. You have shown me that 366 00:20:41,577 --> 00:20:46,417 Speaker 6: my security rests in you alone, not in other people, 367 00:20:47,257 --> 00:20:51,337 Speaker 6: not in my circumstances. Trying to depend only on you 368 00:20:51,457 --> 00:20:55,417 Speaker 6: sometimes feels like walking on a tight rope. Yet I 369 00:20:55,457 --> 00:20:59,337 Speaker 6: don't need to be afraid of falling because your ever 370 00:20:59,497 --> 00:21:04,297 Speaker 6: lasting arms are a safety net underneath me. Please help 371 00:21:04,337 --> 00:21:08,976 Speaker 6: me to keep looking ahead to you, Jesus, I know 372 00:21:09,137 --> 00:21:14,057 Speaker 6: that you're always before me, becketing me on one step 373 00:21:14,097 --> 00:21:17,497 Speaker 6: at a time. As I spend quiet time with you, 374 00:21:18,137 --> 00:21:24,696 Speaker 6: I can almost hear you whispering follow me, loved Lord. 375 00:21:25,257 --> 00:21:30,177 Speaker 6: I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels 376 00:21:30,377 --> 00:21:35,337 Speaker 6: nor demons, neither the present nor the future nor any powers, 377 00:21:35,417 --> 00:21:39,017 Speaker 6: neither height nor death nor anything else in all creation 378 00:21:40,137 --> 00:21:44,257 Speaker 6: will be able to separate me from your loving presence 379 00:21:45,177 --> 00:21:46,537 Speaker 6: in your precious name. 380 00:21:47,697 --> 00:21:48,057 Speaker 5: Amen. 381 00:21:51,177 --> 00:21:55,017 Speaker 2: To learn more about David Meltzer, visit dmeltzer dot com. 382 00:21:55,457 --> 00:21:57,337 Speaker 2: If you'd like to hear more stories about the true 383 00:21:57,377 --> 00:22:00,537 Speaker 2: meaning of success, check out our interview with Cindy Thompson. 384 00:22:10,097 --> 00:22:12,657 Speaker 2: Next time on the Jesus Calling podcast, we'll hear from 385 00:22:12,737 --> 00:22:16,497 Speaker 2: John Acuff, a best selling author, speaker, and former corporate 386 00:22:16,537 --> 00:22:19,777 Speaker 2: marketer who turned a satirical blog into a platform that 387 00:22:19,897 --> 00:22:23,777 Speaker 2: now helps millions rethink their mindset and pursue meaningful goals. 388 00:22:25,497 --> 00:22:27,617 Speaker 4: One of the soundtracks I use in my own life 389 00:22:27,657 --> 00:22:31,377 Speaker 4: is that fear comes free, hope takes work. You'll never 390 00:22:31,417 --> 00:22:33,937 Speaker 4: have to look for fear, it will find you. You'll 391 00:22:33,977 --> 00:22:36,497 Speaker 4: never have to look for stress or anxiety. It will 392 00:22:36,497 --> 00:22:39,417 Speaker 4: find you often in the grocery store, not even connected 393 00:22:39,417 --> 00:22:50,777 Speaker 4: to anything you're doing. But hope takes effort, Positivity takes effort. 394 00:22:52,457 --> 00:22:54,977 Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to the Jesus Calling Stories of Faith 395 00:22:55,057 --> 00:22:58,897 Speaker 2: podcast on the Life Audio Network. Every week, we'll bring 396 00:22:58,937 --> 00:23:01,497 Speaker 2: you stories from people who share their journeys of faith 397 00:23:01,857 --> 00:23:05,497 Speaker 2: and how prayer and a relationship with God transformed their lives. 398 00:23:06,337 --> 00:23:09,696 Speaker 2: Be sure to follow us on Apple, Spotify, iHeart, or 399 00:23:09,737 --> 00:23:13,017 Speaker 2: wherever you listen to podcasts, and leave us a review 400 00:23:13,137 --> 00:23:17,337 Speaker 2: so others can be inspired weekly by these stories of faith. Finally, 401 00:23:17,617 --> 00:23:21,137 Speaker 2: you can find encouragement resources and more on the Jesus 402 00:23:21,137 --> 00:23:24,377 Speaker 2: Calling website at Jesus Calling dot com