1 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: Life Audio. Welcome to the Crosswalk devotional. We're glad to 2 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: have you listening with us. Today's topic is on how 3 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 1: to grow spiritually with God and three questions that you 4 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: can use to grow. We'll return with the devotional after 5 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 1: a brief message from our sponsors. Three questions that cause 6 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 1: spiritual growth written and read by Kelly Blari. Or how 7 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 1: can you say to your brother, let me take the 8 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 1: speck out of your eye when there is a log 9 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: in your own eye? You hypocrite, First take the log 10 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 1: out of your own eye, and then you will see 11 00:00:57,320 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 1: clearly to take the spec out of your brother's. Matthew 12 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 1: seven three to five. I clenched my hands, clear as day. 13 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:09,759 Speaker 1: The issue is him. He was being stubborn, He wasn't listening, 14 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: He wasn't being open to a different perspective. But was 15 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: I being open listening, hearing what he was saying? Not really. 16 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: Jesus addressed this sort of situation when he said, or 17 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 1: how can you say to your brother, let me take 18 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:28,320 Speaker 1: the speck out of your eye when there is a 19 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 1: log in your own eye, You hypocrite, First take the 20 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 1: log out of your own eye, and then you will 21 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 1: see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye. 22 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 1: My husband and I have a phrase for this sort 23 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:44,960 Speaker 1: of finger pointing. It's called you spot it, you got it, 24 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 1: Meaning if I spot my husband being stubborn, I likely 25 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: have stubbornness going on too. If I spot that he 26 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 1: isn't listening, I should wonder whether I've got earphones all 27 00:01:57,040 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: my ears. Also, if I spot an inn ability to 28 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 1: understand another perspective, I am wise to ask myself if 29 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 1: I've got that same inability to listen. We spot it, 30 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 1: we got it. When we consider that what we judge 31 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: in others may be what is lurking inside of us, 32 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 1: true spiritual growth happens, pride is healed, humility comes a 33 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 1: deeper need for God's surfaces. Blind spots are seen for 34 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 1: what they are. God's grace is absolutely required. What blind 35 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 1: spots may exist within you? Let's dive deeper. Three exploratory 36 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 1: questions to grow closer to God. Ask yourself, Number one, 37 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: what patterns follow me from relationship to relationship, job to job, 38 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: or situation to situation? How might I blame on people, 39 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 1: predicaments or pressures? Something God may want to heal within me? 40 00:02:57,600 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 1: Take a moment and reflect, Do not allow shame to 41 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 1: convict you. Instead, allow the hard reality of truth to 42 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 1: set you free to the life giving power of God 43 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 1: to help you pray, ask, seek the Lord, repent if needed? 44 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:18,560 Speaker 1: Number two? How do I demand sympathy or grace from 45 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 1: others to justify where I am? Do I give others 46 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 1: the same sympathy and in grace that I expect from them? 47 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: Sometimes we have stories to keep us safe. We have 48 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 1: a long list of reasons why we do what we do. 49 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 1: We expect others to coddle us instead of realizing God 50 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 1: has more for us. Seeing the truth is what helps 51 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: us to better see relationships in the future. Number three, 52 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 1: who do I keep needed to forgive? How do I 53 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: gain personal sympathy by not forgiving them? If I have forgiven? 54 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: Have I asked God to forgive me for my bitterness 55 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 1: or resentment? And most of all, have I forgiven myself? 56 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 1: Often we forgive people but fail to ask God to 57 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 1: forgive us for anger, for bitterness, for thinking bad thoughts 58 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:16,279 Speaker 1: of others? Have we done this? Also, the hardest person 59 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 1: to forgive is ourselves. Additionally, when we have forgiven but 60 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 1: it doesn't feel like we have, the issue is often 61 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 1: not that we haven't forgiven then because we are still angry. 62 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 1: The issue is often that we are still angry at ourselves. 63 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 1: Take a second and forgive yourself too. The bottom line, 64 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: to see the truth of what we haven't seen often 65 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 1: sets us free, and in this we grow intersecting faith 66 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 1: in life. What did these questions stir up in you? 67 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 1: How will you change as a result? What will it 68 00:04:53,800 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 1: look like to walk a new path? Thanks for listening 69 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 1: to today's devotional. 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