1 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: Life Audio. Welcome to the Crosswalk devotional. We are so 2 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: glad to have you listening with us here today. Today's 3 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: topic is God's Wonderful Plans. We will return after a 4 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: brief message from our sponsor. God has wonderful plans in 5 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:41,919 Speaker 1: store for you. Written by Vivian Bricker, read by Rochelle 6 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 1: Alberti Bible Reading. However, as it is written, what no 7 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 1: eye has seen, what no ear has heard, and what 8 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:54,319 Speaker 1: no human mind has conceived, the things of God has 9 00:00:54,360 --> 00:01:00,040 Speaker 1: prepared for those who love Him First Corinthians two nine. 10 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 1: Over the past year, I have come across many social 11 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 1: media posts noting that twenty sixteen was ten years ago. 12 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: My friends have shared posts reflecting upon their lives a 13 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: decade ago, how much they have changed, what they have accomplished, 14 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: how much happier they are now. While it is great 15 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: to see my friends flourishing in life, my heart breaks 16 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:26,119 Speaker 1: every time I am reminded of twenty sixteen. Twenty sixteen 17 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: was the year my mom passed away. Every time I 18 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 1: see the Decade Challenge or Decade Glow up, I am 19 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: once again crushed with the reality that my mom has 20 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 1: been gone for ten years. Some days it feels like 21 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 1: she has been gone for only a few weeks, and 22 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 1: other days it feels like she's been gone for a century. 23 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: The pain of her absence has only increased over the years. 24 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 1: Upon restarting therapy, I discovered I have complex grief. Complex 25 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 1: grief is different from regular grief because the latter does 26 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: not endure for year. Instead, there is an ending point 27 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: and you are able to make peace with the death 28 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: of your loved one. However, with complex grief, it is 29 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 1: impossible for you to move forward. You are paralyzed by 30 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 1: their death and you feel like your life has ended. 31 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 1: Complex grief is remarkably common if you were dependent on 32 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 1: the person who passed away. Perhaps you are walking through 33 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: a similar season. A loved one passed away and you 34 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 1: are overcome with dread, grief, and pain. Rest at the 35 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: foot of the cross and find solace in the Lord. 36 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: Matthew eleven twenty eight through thirty. He will never make 37 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,679 Speaker 1: you feel guilty for mourning the loss of your loved one, 38 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:42,920 Speaker 1: whether the it's been a few days or a few decades. 39 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:49,360 Speaker 1: God understands the pain you are experiencing today. Intersecting faith 40 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 1: in life during these times, it is important to reflect 41 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:57,639 Speaker 1: upon our future with Christ. Paul tells us, however, as 42 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: it is written, what no eye has seen, what no 43 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 1: ear has hurt at, what no human mind has conceived, 44 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:07,399 Speaker 1: the things that God has prepared for those who love 45 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 1: Him First Corinthians two Night. Although we may be struggling now, 46 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 1: this darkness will not endure forever. God has wonderful plans 47 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: for our lives, plans that we may not even know 48 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 1: about yet. Rather than fearing the worst, trust God. No 49 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 1: mind in all history has articulated the plans God has 50 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 1: for those who love him. As his followers, we can 51 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: surrender our pain, grief, and agony to him. God will 52 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 1: bring light back into our lives, surround us with his love, 53 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: and show us the plans He has for our lives. 54 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: Lean into God's amazing work to day, and trust him 55 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:50,320 Speaker 1: with the process Proverbs three, five and six. Your grief 56 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 1: may continue for the rest of your life, but this 57 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: does not mean you cannot enjoy the wonderful plans God 58 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: has for you. He may even use this present pain 59 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 1: to encourage you to help others, such as supporting those 60 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: who have lost loved ones, building up the family of God, 61 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 1: or praying for those who are in the end of 62 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: life care. The plans He has for you are amazing. 63 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 1: Do not give up now your life has just begun. 64 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:19,479 Speaker 1: Are you ready to take hold of the wonderful plans 65 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 1: God has for your life? What do you think God 66 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: has in store for you? Further reading Jeremiah twenty nine 67 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 1: to eleven, Proverbs sixteen nine, Romans eight twenty eight. Thanks 68 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 1: for listening to today's devotional. 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