1 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 1: Life Audio. This is Donna Jones and you are listening 2 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: to That's just what I needed. Hey, friend, if you've 3 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: ever been in a conversation where you've walked away thinking, Wow, 4 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,919 Speaker 1: that was just what I needed, you know how life 5 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:26,439 Speaker 1: giving that can be, Well, that's what this podcast is 6 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: all about. We're women who want to know, love, and 7 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: follow God in our real lives, but sometimes wonder just 8 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:35,160 Speaker 1: how to do it. So each week we'll talk about 9 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,480 Speaker 1: what following God looks like in the midst of daily 10 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 1: demands and crazy cultural chaos. 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And if you're 29 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:45,479 Speaker 1: not listening to this episode on the day it airs, 30 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 1: if you are a mom, or a grandmother, or an aunt, 31 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: or a caregiver, or a teacher, or anyone who loves children, 32 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 1: you're going to be blessed by this episode. Now, I'm 33 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 1: aware that Mother's Day can bring up a lot of emotions. 34 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 1: For some, it's joyful and it's a great day. But 35 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: for others it can feel complicated, maybe even painful. Maybe 36 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: you're a mom who's exhausted and you're wondering, gosh, is 37 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 1: anything i'm doing even matter? Maybe you've lost your mom, 38 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 1: Maybe you long to be a mother and this day's 39 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: really hard for you. Or maybe you have adult children 40 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 1: who have their own children and you're wondering, am I 41 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 1: going to get celebrated this year? Wherever you are today, 42 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: I want you to know this, You are seen, you 43 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 1: are loved, and what you do matters more than you 44 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: can even imagine. So today I want to give every 45 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 1: mom and every woman who nurtures, or mentors or porson 46 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 1: to others a message that I hope feels like a 47 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: deep breath for your soul, because sometimes that's just what 48 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 1: we need when it comes to motherhood. I think that 49 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: perhaps there is nothing that brings us more joy yet 50 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: more insecurity than motherhood. And I suspect that this is 51 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: the case because there is nothing we want to do 52 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: a better job at than being a mom, and so 53 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: because it's so important to us, we put tons of 54 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 1: pressure on ourselves to be the perfect mom. But let's 55 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: just settle something right now. Perfect moms do not exist. 56 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 1: That means I'm not a perfect mom. You're not a 57 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,359 Speaker 1: perfect mom. Your mom's not a perfect mom. Your mother 58 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: in law's not a perfect mom. The gal who lives 59 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: next door to you who seems like she's Mary Poppins, 60 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: she's not a perfect mom. Perfect moms do not exist. 61 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 1: I know social media can make it seem like everyone 62 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: else's crushing motherhood while you're barely holding it together with 63 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 1: dry shampoo. Reeded coffee and a prayer. But the fact is, 64 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: motherhood was never meant to be performed. It was meant 65 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 1: to be lived, like really lived, and lived means messy. 66 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: It means forgotten permission slips. It means dinner from a 67 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: drive through. It means losing your patience and then apologizing. 68 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 1: It means growing up even as you are helping your 69 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 1: children grow up. Do you know what your kids actually need. 70 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 1: They don't need perfection, because perfection equals performance, and a family, 71 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 1: a human, a child cannot be built on performance. What 72 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 1: children really need is presence and love. They need a 73 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 1: mom who keeps showing up, a mom who says, oh 74 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 1: I blew it today, I'm so sorry. A mom that 75 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:43,479 Speaker 1: hugs them after a hard day. A mom who keeps 76 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:48,279 Speaker 1: loving even when she feels inadequate. That kind of love 77 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: leaves a legacy. So let's make this even more real 78 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 1: and practical. Here's some of the things that good moms do. 79 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 1: They listen, and I mean really listen, not just with 80 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 1: their ears but their heart. They share their own heart, 81 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:05,679 Speaker 1: letting their kids see who they are and what they value. 82 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: They encourage. They speak life into their kids even when 83 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 1: they're correcting them. They're consistent. Their kids know what to 84 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:18,720 Speaker 1: expect because love and boundaries don't change day to day. 85 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 1: They discipline not to punish, but to guide, teach, and 86 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:28,160 Speaker 1: shape character. They know when to speak up and when 87 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 1: to remain silent. Good moms are cheerleaders, not competitors. They 88 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 1: celebrate their kids instead of comparing or competing with them. 89 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 1: And yes, they show up even when they're tired. They 90 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:43,839 Speaker 1: apologize when they mess up. They create a safe place 91 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: for their kids to land. They pray for their kids, 92 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 1: especially when they don't know what else to do. They 93 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 1: keep going even when no one says thank you. Good 94 00:05:54,360 --> 00:06:00,799 Speaker 1: moms aren't perfect. Good moms are faithful. Now gently clear 95 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 1: something up, because sometimes we learn just as much from 96 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 1: what not to do as we do from what to do. 97 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:12,159 Speaker 1: Good moms don't ignore their kids or brush off their feelings. 98 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 1: Good moms don't shame their kids for mistakes or struggles. 99 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 1: Good moms don't manipulate or control to get the outcomes 100 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 1: they want. Good moms don't neglect their family or give 101 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 1: them only the leftovers of their time and energy. Good 102 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:33,279 Speaker 1: moms don't set expectations so high that they feel like 103 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:37,119 Speaker 1: their kids can never measure up, but they also don't 104 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 1: set the expectations so low that their kids never grow. 105 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:45,719 Speaker 1: Good moms are not hypocrites. They don't tell their kids 106 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 1: to do one thing while doing something else themselves. And 107 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 1: just to say this again, good moms don't have it 108 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: all together. They don't get it right every time, they 109 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:02,160 Speaker 1: don't always stay patient. But they also don't give up 110 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 1: even on the hard days, even after the mistakes, and 111 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 1: we all make them even when they feel like they're 112 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 1: feeling they just keep showing up. That's what a good 113 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 1: mom does. That's what a good mentor does. That's what 114 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 1: a good mother in law does. That's what a good 115 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 1: grandmother does. She's not perfect, she's faithful. As I reflect 116 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 1: on my own life as a mom and now as 117 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 1: a gig or a grandmother, I realized that one of 118 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: the hardest parts of motherhood is that so much of 119 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 1: what moms do is invisible. And it's funny because you 120 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 1: really feel this as you're raising your children. But oftentimes, 121 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 1: even when you're the grandmother or the mother in law, 122 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 1: you can still feel these feelings of being somewhat invisible. 123 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 1: What do I mean by this, Well, you know, when 124 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 1: your kids are little, you clean something and it's dirty 125 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 1: again in ten minutes. Or you give advice and no 126 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: one seems to hear, or worse, no one seems to care. 127 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 1: You make meals, You man schedules, You solve conflicts, You 128 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 1: remember birthdays, you make Christmas all come together. You coordinate appointments, 129 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 1: and carry the emotional temperature for the whole family. It's 130 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 1: a lot, and because so much of motherhood is repetitive, 131 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 1: it can start to feel insignificant. But here's what I 132 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 1: want you to hear today. Repetition is often where love lives. 133 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 1: I remember hearing something about childhood memories years ago. Essentially, 134 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 1: what studies found was that people remember one of three things, 135 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 1: things that were done repetitively, something that was a trauma, 136 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 1: or something that was a surprise. Now think back to 137 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:47,560 Speaker 1: your own childhood. If you had something traumatic happen in 138 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: your childhood, you remember it, don't you. But you might 139 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:54,959 Speaker 1: also remember a special surprise, like a vacation that your 140 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 1: family went on that it was just so out of 141 00:08:57,400 --> 00:09:00,200 Speaker 1: the box for your family that you still remember that 142 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 1: special surprise. But you also might remember things that were 143 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 1: done over and over and over again, like every day 144 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 1: you came home and your mom had cheese and crackers 145 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 1: for you or something like that. I mean things that 146 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 1: were done repetitively, things that were surprise, or things that 147 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 1: were trauma. Well, as we are mothers and grandmothers, as 148 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 1: we're thinking about all the repetitive things that we do, 149 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 1: it gives significance to those repetitive things when we realize 150 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 1: that we are creating childhood memories. Remember, repetition is where 151 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:35,119 Speaker 1: love lies. Love is packed lunches, love is late night talks. 152 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 1: Love is asking how the test went. Love is praying 153 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 1: over your child when they don't even know it. These small, ordinary, 154 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 1: repetitive tasks are shaping lives. Never underestimate what God can 155 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 1: do through your faithfulness. Now here's something I want every 156 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:58,479 Speaker 1: mom listening to hear. You are not just a resource 157 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 1: for everyone else. You are a person. You are a 158 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 1: beloved daughter of God, and you need care too. Not 159 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:10,680 Speaker 1: just after the burnout, not just after the meltdown, not 160 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 1: just when everyone else is okay. You need it now. 161 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 1: So maybe this Mother's Day, instead of only asking what 162 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 1: everyone else needs, ask yourself what do I need? Maybe 163 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:28,199 Speaker 1: you need rest, maybe you need boundaries, Maybe you need 164 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 1: to call a friend, Maybe you need five minutes alone 165 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 1: with your Bible and no one touching you. Whatever it is, 166 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 1: pay attention. Taking care of yourself isn't selfish, it's actually stewardship. 167 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 1: And for the moms who are celebrating multiple Mothers Day, 168 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 1: and by that, I mean you're a mom, you have 169 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 1: your mom, you have your mother in law, you're a 170 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 1: mother in law, you have your daughter in law, she 171 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 1: has her mother, you have a son, you have a 172 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 1: step mother, you you have you know whatever. You have 173 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 1: multiple mothers that you're trying to celebrate on this one 174 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 1: special day, and you're thinking, how in the world can 175 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 1: I take care of myself when there's so many women 176 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 1: to celebrate. Well, let me offer you what might be 177 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: a good solution. Oftentimes, when we celebrate things that we 178 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 1: have to share with other people, like for example, Mother's Day, 179 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 1: we can end up becoming bitter because somehow we feel 180 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 1: like we're losing our day. And let me flip the 181 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 1: script kind of coming through the side door with what 182 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 1: I'm about to tell you. When we first found out 183 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 1: that our son was having our first grandchild, the very 184 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 1: first thing out of my husband's mouth were these words, 185 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 1: one more person to love. I thought that was so 186 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:53,840 Speaker 1: incredibly beautiful. And with every grandchild and with every spouse 187 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 1: that our children have married, we have said the same thing, 188 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 1: one more person to love, one more person to love, 189 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 1: one more person to love, one more person to love. So, 190 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:08,839 Speaker 1: if you have a mother a mother in law, don't 191 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 1: think of it as a divided holiday. Think of it 192 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:15,200 Speaker 1: as one more person to love, and see if you 193 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 1: can maybe work it out so that the celebration just 194 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 1: gets extended. Maybe you celebrate mothers stay on three separate days, 195 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 1: one for you, one for your mother in law, one 196 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:29,199 Speaker 1: for your mom. And make it fun, make it celebratory, 197 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:33,080 Speaker 1: don't make it obligatory or a drag. Think about it 198 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:36,960 Speaker 1: as one more person to celebrate, one more person to love. 199 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: This is really important if you have young kids too, 200 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 1: because you're modeling for them how a younger generation honors 201 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: an older generation. And remember, as your kids are watching 202 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 1: that they're going to do for you what you have 203 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:55,080 Speaker 1: done for your mother and your mother in law. Now, 204 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:59,560 Speaker 1: admittedly this won't work for everyone, but you might just 205 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 1: be my listening friend that this is the solution you've 206 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 1: been looking for. Before we close, though, I want to pause, 207 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 1: and I want to speak directly to the woman for 208 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 1: whom Mother's Day is painful. Maybe you've experienced a miscarriage. 209 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:21,319 Speaker 1: Maybe it's infertility, Maybe it's estrangement or loss. Maybe your 210 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 1: relationship with your mom is broken or complicated. Maybe this 211 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 1: day feels like a reminder of not what you have, 212 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: but what's missing. I want you to know I see you, 213 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 1: and more importantly, God sees you. Your worth, my worth. 214 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 1: Our worth is not defined by a title, a relationship status, 215 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:49,199 Speaker 1: or an unmet longing. You are deeply loved, and even 216 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:52,440 Speaker 1: if Mother's Day feels heavy, you do not carry that 217 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 1: heaviness alone. So be gentle with yourself, honor what you're feeling, 218 00:13:58,040 --> 00:14:02,840 Speaker 1: and know that grief and grade can coexist. So on 219 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 1: this Mother's Day and this Mother's Day Week, I hope 220 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 1: you remember that you don't have to be perfect, that 221 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:13,960 Speaker 1: what you do matters, that you are allowed to need 222 00:14:14,040 --> 00:14:18,680 Speaker 1: care too, and that you are deeply loved. So Happy 223 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 1: Mother's Day to every mom, spiritual mom, mentor grandmother, aunt, 224 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 1: caregiver and woman who helps make this world softer, wiser, 225 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: and stronger. Well, I hope you enjoyed today's episode. I 226 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 1: hope it encouraged you, and would you share this episode 227 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 1: with a woman who could use some encouragement, and don't 228 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 1: forget to subscribe to this podcast so you don't miss 229 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 1: a single episode. And I'd love to connect with you 230 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 1: on Instagram at Donna A. Jones, on Facebook Donna Jones, 231 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 1: Speaker and Author, or on my website Donna Jones dot org, 232 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 1: where you will find lots of free resources and as always, 233 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 1: my friend, I can't wait to see you next time, 234 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 1: for that's just what I needed.