1 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Life Audio. 2 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:08,960 Speaker 2: Hi from the Salvation Army. You're listening to Words of 3 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:20,280 Speaker 2: Life the Words of the Life. 4 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:29,480 Speaker 3: Hey, welcome back to Words of Life. This is our 5 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 3: second week in our back to school series with our 6 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 3: panel of parents and teachers, and today we continue the 7 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 3: conversation by asking if academic success is something beyond just 8 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 3: good grades. Again, check out the show notes for links 9 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 3: to resources mentioned throughout the series, and follow us on 10 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 3: social media. You can find us at Words of Life 11 00:00:49,760 --> 00:01:20,119 Speaker 3: Podcast Beyond just Academic Success Being straight A's what does 12 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 3: success look like to you? 13 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 4: Guys? 14 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 5: I think every kid is different, you know, as far 15 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 5: as how they approach academics. And my kids couldn't be 16 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 5: more different. One of them struggled every single day to 17 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 5: get any kind of passing grade, and then the other 18 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 5: came more naturally for they both worked equally hard at 19 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 5: every grade they got. But I think the first thing 20 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 5: as parents is we have to set them up for success, 21 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 5: and so they have to care about their own academic 22 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 5: They have to care about it too, and so we 23 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 5: have to help them understand why the why of everything, 24 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 5: why it's important to pass, and then place a certain 25 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 5: amount of respectibility on them. Obviously age appropriate to do 26 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 5: at least their very best to get those grades and 27 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 5: just remind them that they can do this. And I 28 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 5: think it's really important too that we remind them that 29 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 5: they're not alone. Like they might be struggling in certain things. 30 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 5: They might think they're the only one, you know, or 31 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 5: maybe they're the only one in their family who can't 32 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 5: do math, you know, or the new math lord with 33 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 5: the new math, So I didn't learn the new math 34 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 5: I had. I had to learn the new math. But 35 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 5: I think they're not the only one who's struggling here, 36 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 5: and I think if they remember that that they're not alone. 37 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 5: But setting clear expectations, you know, like we want our 38 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 5: kids to go through the struggle to do the things 39 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:47,080 Speaker 5: right because they're going to come out better on the 40 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 5: other side of that if they go through the struggle. 41 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 5: But they also need to take initiative to ask for help. 42 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 5: My son, who is an introvert, that was really hard 43 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 5: for him to admit when he was struggling and when 44 00:02:57,240 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 5: he needed help with something. So I think as parents, 45 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 5: like we also just need to stay involved and recognize 46 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 5: when you need to step in and get the help. 47 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 5: So sometimes a win is a c it's not an a, 48 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 5: you know, or just that they completed their project on 49 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 5: time and turned it in, you know, like that's a 50 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 5: big thing. That's a big deal. But I think academic 51 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 5: success for a kid is just growing in knowledge and 52 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 5: responsibility and working with the gifts that God has given them. 53 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 5: And each kid is unique and so it's going to 54 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:31,639 Speaker 5: look different for everyone. 55 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 4: But I want to jump in just before I forget 56 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 4: my train of thought, because I agree with everything you 57 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:40,839 Speaker 4: just said, Heather, and I think the sense of belonging, right, 58 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 4: and how important that is and how that impacts success, right, because. 59 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 1: What does that do? 60 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 4: Like a sense of belonging speaks to the sense of self, 61 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 4: speaks to one just hey, am I okay? Is my 62 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 4: nervous system okay in this space? Is my emotional being 63 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 4: okay in this place? Once those needs are tended to, 64 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 4: then that's when you can kind of work through those 65 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 4: sort of questions and you can engage in the classroom, 66 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 4: you can take on those things. 67 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 5: Right. 68 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:17,280 Speaker 4: I have lots of clients they bring their kids to 69 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 4: me and say, wow, they did great, Like in second grade, 70 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 4: they really loved it. And then they started third grade, 71 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:27,480 Speaker 4: and then all these things started to happen and when 72 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 4: we would kind of get to the bottom of it, 73 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 4: I'd ask, well, how's the relationship with their teacher, how 74 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 4: is their relationship with the other students. Well, there is 75 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:39,359 Speaker 4: a little bit of bullying, or they're really scared of 76 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:41,599 Speaker 4: their teacher because of their teacher in second grade was 77 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 4: really like warm and welcome, and this one has a 78 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 4: bit more of a different style. And so those are 79 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 4: questions that really speak to that, Oh, they probably just 80 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,720 Speaker 4: don't feel as safe, and so when that part of 81 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:59,039 Speaker 4: your emotional brain is shut down, it's really hard to 82 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 4: then for form academically. So I'm really glad that you 83 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 4: kind of touched on that. 84 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 3: Hey, you're listening to the Salvation Armies words of life. 85 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 3: We're going to take a quick, bad break and we'll 86 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 3: be right back. 87 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 6: I really have to emphasize with my students that you're 88 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 6: grade in the classroom isn't really what high school or 89 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:30,920 Speaker 6: any level of school is about. It is about who 90 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:34,359 Speaker 6: you're connected to, and that's your classmates and that's your teachers. 91 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 6: Because I don't remember what I got on my high 92 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 6: school you know, grades, but I do remember my high 93 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,479 Speaker 6: school friends, I remember my middle school friends, I remember 94 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 6: middle school teachers. And things that they said to me 95 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 6: and the impact that they had. So I think that 96 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 6: if we want our kids to be academically successful, Dinasas 97 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 6: said it, well, we have to help them understand that emotionally, 98 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 6: they need to be engaged, which is going back to 99 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 6: one of the things that I mentioned in the first 100 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 6: episode was that there's a lack of engagement in our 101 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 6: classrooms right now, and some of that is because that 102 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 6: they are overstimulated in so many different ways through social 103 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 6: media technology. And so I think that if we really 104 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 6: want them to be academically successful, we need to help 105 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:25,839 Speaker 6: them know as humans that you need to connect with 106 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 6: your teacher, you need to connect with the people sitting 107 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 6: next to you. And I see this on both ends 108 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:33,600 Speaker 6: of the spectrum. I have students who are very academically 109 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:37,559 Speaker 6: checked out, don't care whatsoever, and then I have students 110 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 6: who are very academically motivated and are going to try 111 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 6: and get every single point that they can possibly get, 112 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 6: but neither of them are actually engaged with the people 113 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 6: around them. It's a battle life fight every day to say, 114 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 6: what did your teammates say? My students sit in groups 115 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 6: every single day of the year, pretty much, and so 116 00:06:57,720 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 6: I said, what did your teammates say? What are you 117 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 6: learning from them? And they're like, well, I don't care, 118 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:03,839 Speaker 6: it's what I wrote down. It's like, no, it's it's 119 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:06,279 Speaker 6: not just about what you wrote down, right, And so 120 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 6: it really is a challenge in the classroom to create that. 121 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 6: But if our students are and our children are going 122 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 6: into it with the mentality of Okay, I'm safe to 123 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 6: contribute here. Who I am, my teacher values, who I am, 124 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 6: I'm actually curious about my teacher. Some of us have 125 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 6: high school students. Get to know your teachers. I know 126 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 6: that not all teachers are are that personable, but they 127 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 6: want to actually get to know you. I'm believe it 128 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 6: or not, I'm not a math teacher for the math. 129 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 6: The math I can I can do that, and the 130 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 6: math teacher because I enjoy knowing who my students are 131 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 6: and students from lots of different backgrounds. My first day 132 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 6: of school, I always have this conversation with my students, Hey, 133 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 6: if you don't get to know the people in this room, 134 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 6: then we're failings as a class. You have to connect 135 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 6: and that that gets back to belonging. You have If 136 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 6: you feel like you belong, well, guess what you're going 137 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 6: to actually work harder, you're going to actually be more successful. 138 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 6: But it takes effort. Unfortunately, it is a bit counter cultural. 139 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 4: Which is what Heather was saying. I think that starts 140 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 4: in the home. I think those are things, the engagement, 141 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 4: those discussions like care about your teacher, those are things 142 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 4: that as parents we have to instill in our kids. 143 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 4: So I'm glad you're kind of on that journey with 144 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 4: your family. Heather. 145 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think what's pretty wild is more than any 146 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 3: other generation coming up. And there's so many things that 147 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 3: my daughter says, Oh, it's not like it when when 148 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 3: you're everything's the same as far as career trajectory goes. 149 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 3: As they enter the workforce in a lot of fields, 150 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:48,959 Speaker 3: they're not competing against other humans. They're competing against AI 151 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 3: and so grades are important. But you know, my phone's 152 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 3: actually really good at math, and that's not necessarily what 153 00:08:57,600 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 3: someone's going to hire you for. 154 00:08:59,160 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 4: And so. 155 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:03,440 Speaker 3: Ring to employer surveys conducted by the National Association of 156 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:08,440 Speaker 3: Colleges and Employers NEC, the top qualities employers consistently value 157 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:13,400 Speaker 3: include communication, teamwork, problem solving, reliability, and adaptability, often ahead 158 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 3: of a GPA, and so like if, but those grades 159 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 3: still have to open the door often. But what you're 160 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 3: really really learning while you're in school is conflict resolution, 161 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 3: is how to like just be a good person. It's 162 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 3: about getting them in the right order, because a lot 163 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:33,080 Speaker 3: of times we say okay, grades, but then okay, you 164 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 3: get those grade grades and they open the door. But 165 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:36,959 Speaker 3: then you get into the workforce and like you've said, 166 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:39,320 Speaker 3: you don't know how to resolve conflict, You don't know 167 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 3: how to talk to people. So then were what was 168 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:45,199 Speaker 3: the point in the grades? So if you can connect first, 169 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:48,439 Speaker 3: so if you can belong, the grades will follow enough 170 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 3: to open the door that needs to open for you. 171 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:56,079 Speaker 3: So it's about putting them in the correct order. We 172 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 3: pray that you're enjoying and being blessed by this conversation. 173 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:02,559 Speaker 3: We're going to take one more ad break and we'll 174 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 3: be right back. How can parents support homework without doing 175 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 3: it for their kids? 176 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:16,319 Speaker 1: Like, it's hard, I feel like to do that because 177 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 1: at least for me, because everything in me is just 178 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: like I could do this easier than you or faster 179 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 1: than you, and we'll be done with it and then 180 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 1: you can go do whatever else you want to do 181 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 1: for the night, but that, I mean doesn't help them learn, 182 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: and I don't think that really sets that good relationship 183 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 1: between me and my kid either. My kids teachers actually, 184 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 1: they have a word that they say for this over 185 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: and over again. They call it productive struggle, like they 186 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 1: want our kids to have a productive struggle, and that's 187 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 1: hard to watch them not know how to do things 188 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:42,839 Speaker 1: and only kind of give them clues as they go, 189 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 1: like did you think about it this way? Or what 190 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: if you move the decimal over? Then what happened? You know, 191 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 1: I say math. I'm not a math person. So the 192 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 1: fact that I'm telling my kids to move ironic, But 193 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 1: I think it's it's being able to sit in that 194 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 1: productive struggle with them and say just simply ask those 195 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 1: guiding questions like what if you did this or what 196 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 1: if you thought about it a different way. 197 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 4: I remember when our kids were, you know, in fourth 198 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:15,080 Speaker 4: fifth grade, the teachers would tell us, if your child 199 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 4: is not doing their homework on their own, they need 200 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 4: to be like, be available, be present in case they 201 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 4: need support. But at this point they should be the 202 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 4: ones doing that. And I just remember that stuck with 203 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 4: me because I just felt this pressure to be like, 204 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 4: you know, on top of it. Again, sometimes my help 205 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 4: actually interfered with some of the things that teachers would 206 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 4: want to do right and be like, well, that's you know, 207 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:47,320 Speaker 4: and so the teachers like, don't we're gonna learn this 208 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 4: in class, but they're practicing it at home. So I 209 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 4: just remember, like be available to them. Set the parameters. Hey, 210 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 4: designate a time where homework is gonna happen. Right, those 211 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:00,200 Speaker 4: are things where you can guide them in that, but 212 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 4: the actual work of it, like let them be in that. 213 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:08,360 Speaker 4: I like that objective productive struggle. Yeah. Yeah. 214 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 3: Do you think is there is there an age or 215 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:13,200 Speaker 3: like when does this like kind of shift start to 216 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 3: happen where at some point when they're younger, it's no 217 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 3: homework has to be done before you do X, Y 218 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 3: and z, and as like you were saying, Melissa, like 219 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 3: you start to kind of like release this responsibility to them. 220 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:28,560 Speaker 3: I mean again, I'm sure it's different for every kid, 221 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 3: but you know, for the most part, my daughter is 222 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:33,319 Speaker 3: kind of like on our own, we'll ask about it, 223 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:37,559 Speaker 3: but I see you're working, so yeah, you know, assuming 224 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:40,439 Speaker 3: it's done and her grades continue to show that she's 225 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 3: probably doing it. But yeah, that's that's a tough balance. 226 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 5: Yeah. We always told our kids, we'll we trust you 227 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 5: that you're doing this X y Z whatever. It is, 228 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 5: not just in school but in life in general until 229 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 5: you give us a reason not too and then you know, 230 00:12:56,200 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 5: when that happens, then you know things might have to change. Yeah, yeah, 231 00:13:01,480 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 5: so yeah. 232 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:04,679 Speaker 3: I had one funny anecdote that I thought of when 233 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 3: Melissa was talking. But I can remember when she was younger. 234 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 3: I'm trying not to say her name because I feel 235 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:11,719 Speaker 3: like an ass to say his name, but first name 236 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 3: is probably Okay, when Jayley was younger and her project 237 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 3: for that day, because you know she was much younger, 238 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:22,320 Speaker 3: she had to make a like a mailbox for Valentine's cards. 239 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 4: Project I know. 240 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 1: I help with them is when you're. 241 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:32,440 Speaker 3: Having so much fun that I then turn around and 242 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,920 Speaker 3: she's nowhere to be found. 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