1 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 1: Life Audio today's episode of Timeless Wisdom. 2 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 2: Hi Dennis. 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:08,880 Speaker 1: Hi. 4 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:15,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a sex addict, and I know that when 5 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:18,959 Speaker 2: I go to meetings of the bulk of the attendees 6 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 2: are men, and there are a few women here and there. 7 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 2: But I can't remember any of the women saying, oh, 8 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 2: you know, I'm addicted to pornography or I'm addicted to 9 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:33,480 Speaker 2: you know, something visual. Maybe they may be out there. 10 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 3: But they're not out there. They're not out there. 11 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 2: They're not out there. 12 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 4: If you've gone to sexual addiction meetings and met women 13 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:48,520 Speaker 4: and not one has had this issue, yeah, this may 14 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 4: well be one of the only times in life one 15 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 4: can say it applies to no one. 16 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I can't remember any any woman saying anything. 17 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 4: Yes, I can't stop looking it male and naked males. 18 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's like in summertime. It's also very, very 19 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 2: difficult because the women are more scanily, that's right. And 20 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 2: you know, I myself, you know, I mean, I'm thirteen 21 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 2: or so years sober, and which is like ancient in 22 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:20,040 Speaker 2: that program, it must be. And I'll tell you I 23 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:24,680 Speaker 2: still have to give up the old habit every time 24 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 2: it's head to have what they would say X ray vision. 25 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 2: You know. 26 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, and well, if you have attained that status, you 27 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 4: are in a rarefied high realm among men because it's 28 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 4: so it's so common, Yeah, and so natural, it's so natural. Well, listen, 29 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 4: thank you. That was a very important call in all 30 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 4: of his experience thirteen years sexual addict groups, sex addict groups. 31 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 4: On the occasion that there have been women, not one 32 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 4: has had this issue. It's not it's not. I can't 33 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 4: even conceive of it being an issue for a woman. 34 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 4: And yet it is an issue for every male, every 35 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 4: normal male. And if a male doesn't have it, then 36 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 4: he's not normal in this area. Doesn't make him a 37 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 4: bad guy. May be wonderful, but I've certainly I've not 38 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 4: met that male yet. 39 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 3: I have not. 40 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: That's coming up on Timeless Wisdom with Dennis Prager. Welcome 41 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: to Timeless Wisdom with Dennis Prager. Here thousands of hours 42 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 1: of Dennis's lectures courses in classic radio programs. Had to 43 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:57,519 Speaker 1: purchase Dennis Brager's Rational Bibles, go to Dennisprager dot com. 44 00:02:57,760 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 4: I'm old fashioned. 45 00:02:58,680 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 2: I like two sexes. 46 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 4: I don't know, I think all of a sudden, I 47 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 4: don't like being married to one is known as a 48 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 4: new woman. I want a wife, not a competitor, complanator, competitor. 49 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 5: Talk about a bit, this crying in the morning thing. 50 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 1: It is depression, you know, let's get that fixed. 51 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 6: That's what men think, isn't it. 52 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:17,639 Speaker 1: What Unless you've got the answer, unless you can say, oh, 53 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: I know this bloke in the essex radical, fix that, 54 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: and there's no point bothering. 55 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 3: How do you write women so well? 56 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 2: I think of a man and I take away reason 57 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 2: and accountability. 58 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 3: I love him, I love him and I don't care 59 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 3: what you think. 60 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 6: I love him for the for the man he wants 61 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 6: to be, and I love him for the man that 62 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 6: he almost is. 63 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 2: What do people have rows about him? 64 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 3: Money? It's sex sex money he wants, she doesn't want, 65 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 3: she wants, he doesn't want women. 66 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 7: I've always been a big problem to me, Doctor fusspend. 67 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 3: Are listening, doctor, Yes, yes, yes, go on, but. 68 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 4: Go on as exactly well, we'll do hi, everybody, Dennis Prager. 69 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 4: The Male Female Hour every week, this hour on this 70 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 4: day is devoted to the subject of men and women. 71 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:14,119 Speaker 4: I call it Male Female Hour though not Man woman 72 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 4: Hour for a whole host of reasons, because it goes 73 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 4: even beyond just men and women, to the very natures 74 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 4: of the male and the female. Hi, everybody, again, this 75 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:28,280 Speaker 4: is Dennis Prager, and the feedback that I get is 76 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:34,479 Speaker 4: so positive is of the variety of are you've turned 77 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 4: around our marriage? I get that so often. I'd like 78 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:42,280 Speaker 4: to just make those letters available for people to see, 79 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:44,719 Speaker 4: and if I had the time and staff, I would. 80 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 4: This is very important for me to share with your 81 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 4: other's reactions. Here Now I have to give a slight warning. 82 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 4: Sometimes it's a complete warning. Sometimes I tell you just 83 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 4: the following is not for little kids. Here, I would 84 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 4: have you make the judgment. But I think I think 85 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 4: kids could hear it. And what I mean kid, I 86 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 4: mean under ten. Beyond that, I think fact that teenagers 87 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 4: should hear these things to have an idea of what 88 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:20,119 Speaker 4: men and women are like, and especially especially men, because 89 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 4: I know men very well, partially because I am one, 90 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 4: but that's not the only reason. The other reason is 91 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 4: I'm honest, and therefore I don't have an agenda other 92 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 4: than trying to tell you what, at least this one 93 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:38,719 Speaker 4: sex is like. And I think I have a fair 94 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 4: take on parts of women's nature, which is more complex 95 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:44,799 Speaker 4: fully acknowledged. 96 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:46,479 Speaker 3: Today. 97 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 4: Today's topic is the power of the visual for men, 98 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 4: something that has virtually no counterpart in women's reaction to men. 99 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 4: The power of the visual is something that a woman 100 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 4: can know and know well, and it is to her 101 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:13,719 Speaker 4: credit if she knows. But my half of my audience, 102 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 4: who are female, I want you to know, in your 103 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 4: most profound and sensitive and aware moments, you can't really understand. 104 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:25,599 Speaker 3: It's not possible. It's not your fault. 105 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 4: It's like it's like asking me to understand what giving 106 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:32,280 Speaker 4: birth is. Like I can appreciate the fact, but I 107 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 4: can't imagine something in me beyond food. I just can't 108 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 4: you know giving birth. I mean, there are many things 109 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:48,840 Speaker 4: I can't imagine that women experience, but this is even more. 110 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 3: I must say. 111 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 4: It's I might be able. I think men might be 112 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 4: able to even relate to giving birth better then a 113 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 4: woman can relate to the power of the vis visual 114 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:07,159 Speaker 4: in in stimulating men. Because there's no analog to women 115 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 4: and women and you're free to call in and argue 116 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 4: with me. I have gone through this my entire note. 117 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 4: What are you talking about, Dennis? You have no idea, 118 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 4: We just hide it. You have no idea how good 119 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 4: looking men turn us on. I have an idea and 120 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 4: it is incomparable, and I'll prove it to you. And 121 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 4: if I don't prove it to you by the end 122 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 4: of this hour. 123 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 3: You let me know. 124 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 4: You will send me an email and tell me why 125 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 4: I didn't prove. And I don't mean, I don't mean 126 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 4: make a good case. I mean prove because the data, 127 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 4: the common sense on this are so obvious that it's 128 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 4: that I believe it's proof. And I'll begin with a 129 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 4: news item, Playgirl has Got out of Business. Magazine founded 130 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 4: in the seventies, in the heyday of ignorance, since the 131 00:07:57,120 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 4: Dark Age. It was the second Dark Ages, the late 132 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 4: sixties and seventies in terms of human ignorance. Except in 133 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 4: the Dark Ages they had an excuse. They were, after all, 134 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 4: the Dark Ages. There was no excuse of the seventies 135 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 4: for the amount of self imposed ignorance that the baby 136 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 4: boomer generation and fellow travelers induced upon themselves and upon 137 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 4: the country. One of them was, women want to look 138 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 4: at men's bodies as much as men want to look 139 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:35,959 Speaker 4: at women's bodies. So we will make a magazine and 140 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 4: we will have scantily clad men in the pages of playgirl, 141 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 4: obviously a takeoff on the word playboy. Playboy had already 142 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 4: become somewhat of a national institution with its semi naked 143 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:56,600 Speaker 4: at the time fully naked at this time women in 144 00:08:56,640 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 4: the magazine. And so the genie who came up with 145 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 4: this idea said, Huh, we're going to make a killing 146 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 4: now that women are liberated to act on their natures. 147 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:12,680 Speaker 4: If men have always felt liberated to act on their natures, 148 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:17,719 Speaker 4: we will produce a magazine where women can look at 149 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 4: men unclothed. Well, what happened was the first issue and 150 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 4: second issue. Out of curiosity, people bought, and I mean people. 151 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 4: I didn't even say women. Women bought, men bought, gays bought, 152 00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 4: everybody bought. They were curious. Then very gradually it became 153 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:42,839 Speaker 4: a non issue. And I remember I was brought I've 154 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 4: been broadcasting since the eighties, and I remember announcing on 155 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 4: the radio that I would interview newsstand proprietors and I 156 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:55,559 Speaker 4: would just ask. I would even say, you know, I'm 157 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 4: a reporter or whatever, I'm in journalism, whatever I would say, 158 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 4: reduced myself is not just another customer, but someone doing 159 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:08,960 Speaker 4: a survey. So, sir, could you tell me who buy Playgirl, 160 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 4: And the answer was always the same, mostly gay men. 161 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 4: Playgirl has been one of my proofs. There are so 162 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 4: many proofs. I mean, for those of you who need proof, 163 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 4: it's so sad. I can only say you probably went 164 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 4: to graduate school. There is no other possible explanation for 165 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 4: why anybody would need proof. That men are stimulated by 166 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 4: the visual infinitely more than women are. There is no comparison, 167 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:46,600 Speaker 4: none whatsoever. And I will give you proof after proof, 168 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 4: but I begin with the news item of Playgirl that 169 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 4: women didn't buy. Now I get the excuse, Well, women 170 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:56,319 Speaker 4: are self conscious. Women are self conscience cracks me up. 171 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 4: You know, they don't want to be seen. Well, they 172 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 4: don't have to be seen. You could buy it in 173 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 4: a new stand any you know, and just stick it 174 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 4: in a brown wrapper the way guys do. Guys don't 175 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 4: walk around with with you know, penthouse hanging out of 176 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 4: their attash shay case. Or you could subscribe under some 177 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 4: any you know, some pseudonym. I mean, please, come on, folks. 178 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 4: If women or or women could look at the men 179 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 4: on the internet the way men look at females on 180 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:27,560 Speaker 4: the internet, but they don't. The billion or I don't 181 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:32,240 Speaker 4: know what number there is on pornography. The billions of 182 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:35,679 Speaker 4: dollars that are spent around the world are spent by men. 183 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 4: And here is proof number two, in case the first 184 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:47,199 Speaker 4: one didn't work for you, Proof number two. Gays homosexuals 185 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:50,720 Speaker 4: are the proof of this better than anything that I 186 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 4: can conjure up. Gay men are as turned on by 187 00:11:56,840 --> 00:12:01,560 Speaker 4: male bodies as heterosexual men are by looking. I'm talking 188 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 4: just looking, not touching, not any just looking at looking 189 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 4: at female bodies. 190 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 3: That's my proof. 191 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:13,880 Speaker 4: For those who say, well, it's societally induced, playboy induced 192 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 4: making women sex objects to men, it's unbelievable. Again, you 193 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:21,960 Speaker 4: had to go to college to say something so foolish. 194 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:27,679 Speaker 4: I mean, prior to playboy, men didn't look at women 195 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 4: that way. 196 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 3: That way. 197 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 4: Gay men look at men the same way as straight 198 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 4: men look at women. Because the visual turns men on, 199 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:47,720 Speaker 4: there is no analog in women. That doesn't mean that 200 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 4: a woman who may find man x a turn on 201 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 4: looking at him. 202 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 3: Of course that is possible, but not men. 203 00:12:57,800 --> 00:13:01,200 Speaker 4: A man, this man, that man, and maybe that actor, 204 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 4: maybe the man she's dating, et cetera. 205 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 3: This plays havoc with the sexes. It does. 206 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 4: I'm not proud of this, I'm describing reality, the visual, 207 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 4: the power of the visual, even disembodied. I don't mean 208 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 4: cut off like Hannibal Lecter, but I'll explain what I 209 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:26,680 Speaker 4: mean and take your calls at one eight Prager seven 210 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 4: seven six The Male Female Hour on the Dennis Prager Show. 211 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 1: This episode of Timeless Wisdom will continue right after this. 212 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:46,960 Speaker 1: Now back to more of Dennis Prager's Timeless Wisdom. 213 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:49,199 Speaker 4: You're listening to you the Dennis Prager Show, the Male 214 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 4: Female Hour, and I'm talking to you today about one 215 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:56,440 Speaker 4: of the most significant differences between the sexes and one 216 00:13:56,600 --> 00:14:00,439 Speaker 4: that is impossible for women to empathize with. 217 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:04,479 Speaker 3: Which it is no flaw whatsoever. 218 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 4: And the flaw may well be in men, but the 219 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 4: issue is in flaw anyway. 220 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 3: It's just it's not possible. 221 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 4: But it is possible to understand or to know, but 222 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:16,760 Speaker 4: it's not possible to sympathize the power of the visual 223 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 4: in arousing men. There is no analog to women. And 224 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 4: if you want to differ with me, please do, please do, 225 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 4: because I really want this to be understood, the power 226 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 4: of the visual. I want your teenage daughter to understand 227 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 4: this because the way she dresses is not perceived as 228 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 4: attractive by guys. It's perceived as come and get me sexually. 229 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 4: It's it's you know, she goes, oh, isn't isn't that cute? 230 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:53,440 Speaker 4: He's not saying isn't that cute? He's thinking, man, I 231 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:54,360 Speaker 4: want that body. 232 00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 3: Now. That may be what you want to produce. That's fine. 233 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 3: I'm not this is this is an hour for clarity 234 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 3: right now not. 235 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 4: This is not a moral judgment hour. I'm filled with 236 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 4: those hours because I so deeply believe in moral judgments. 237 00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 4: But first you have to know the truth. Then you 238 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 4: give your judgments, and then you give your opinions. There 239 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 4: is no no comparison. That is why, and that is 240 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 4: why it's it's amazing to women, and it should be. 241 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 4: If I were a woman, I would find this utterly, 242 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 4: utterly inexplicable. You just stare at a thigh and get 243 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 4: turned on. You don't even see the rest of the women. 244 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 4: You don't even talk to her. Nothing. A picture of 245 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 4: a leg, yes, yes, that's correct, a picture of a leg. 246 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:51,080 Speaker 4: It's it's and your and your husband won't tell you 247 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 4: these things. If if husbands told their wives all these things, 248 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:57,680 Speaker 4: I would not have the Male Female Hour, and I 249 00:15:57,720 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 4: would not be writing my book on men and their 250 00:16:01,200 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 4: sexual natures because it would be unnecessary. The power of 251 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 4: the visual, that's the reason for pornography. That is the 252 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 4: reason that there is no analog of women signing up 253 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:20,040 Speaker 4: on websites to check out men's legs. The idea is absurd, 254 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 4: and my proof, one of the many is that gay 255 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 4: men have the same reaction to men's bodies. A male 256 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 4: leg turns out a male homosexual female leg looking, not 257 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:40,120 Speaker 4: even just touching looking. One eight prager seven seven six 258 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 4: one eight p R A g e R seven seven 259 00:16:43,560 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 4: six receive a California David. 260 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 3: Hello David, thank you for calling. 261 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 2: Hi Dennis. 262 00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 3: Hi. 263 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a sex addict and I know that when 264 00:16:54,600 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 2: I go to meetings of the bulk of the attendees 265 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 2: are men, and there are a few women here and there, 266 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:06,159 Speaker 2: But I can't remember any of the women saying, oh, 267 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 2: you know, I'm addicted to pornography or I'm addicted to 268 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 2: you know, something visual. They may be out. 269 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 3: There, but they're not out there. They're not out there. 270 00:17:17,800 --> 00:17:18,439 Speaker 2: They're not out there. 271 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:23,119 Speaker 4: If you've gone to sexual addiction meetings and met women 272 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:27,880 Speaker 4: and not one has had this issue, ye, this may 273 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 4: well be one of the only times in life one 274 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:32,639 Speaker 4: can say it applies to no one. 275 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I can't remember any any woman saying anything. 276 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 4: Yes, I can't stop looking at male and naked males. 277 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:44,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's like in summertime. It's also very, very 278 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:45,920 Speaker 2: difficult because the women are more scantly. 279 00:17:46,119 --> 00:17:46,680 Speaker 3: That's right. 280 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:50,000 Speaker 2: And you know I myself, you know, I mean, I'm 281 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 2: thirteen or so years sober, and which is like ancient 282 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 2: in that program, it must be. And I'll tell you 283 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:04,000 Speaker 2: I still have to give up the old habbit every time. 284 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:08,040 Speaker 2: It's it's head to have what they would say, X 285 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:09,119 Speaker 2: ray vision, you know. 286 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 287 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:15,720 Speaker 4: And it's well, if you have attained that status, you 288 00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 4: are in a rarefied high realm among men because it's 289 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:25,639 Speaker 4: so it's so common and so natural, it's so natural. Well, listen, 290 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:28,280 Speaker 4: thank you. That was a very important call. In all 291 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:34,400 Speaker 4: of his experience thirteen years sexual addict group, sex addict groups. 292 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 4: On the occasion that there have been women, not one 293 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 4: has had this issue. It's not it's not. I can't 294 00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:44,160 Speaker 4: even conceive of it being an issue. 295 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:44,399 Speaker 3: For a woman. 296 00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 4: And yet it is an issue for every male, every 297 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:52,320 Speaker 4: every normal male. And if a male doesn't have it. 298 00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:54,199 Speaker 4: Then he's not normal in this area. Doesn't make him 299 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 4: a bad guy. Maybe wonderful, but I've certainly I've not 300 00:18:58,119 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 4: met that male yet. 301 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 3: I have not I talked to men about this. I'm 302 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:04,680 Speaker 3: very free. 303 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:06,120 Speaker 4: Look, if I'm going to talk about it on the radio, 304 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 4: I could certainly talk about it privately. And I have 305 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:13,119 Speaker 4: never met such a man. And your husband is not 306 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 4: one either. He may not admit it to you because 307 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:18,439 Speaker 4: he's afraid to. That's why I do these broadcasts on 308 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:21,040 Speaker 4: men and women, because he's afraid to tell you about himself. 309 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 3: He's afraid about how you will react. 310 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 4: Remember we did one of the hours was on your 311 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 4: husband is probably not a pervert. Because the reason I 312 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 4: say the because why did we do even what did 313 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:38,359 Speaker 4: we do that hour? Is because a lot of women 314 00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:44,600 Speaker 4: might think that. Alright, let's go to Let's go to Dallas, 315 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:47,880 Speaker 4: Texas and Jim. Hello, Jim, thank you for calling Dennis Prager. 316 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 7: Hi, Dennis, it's in honor to talk to you. 317 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 3: Thank you. 318 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 7: You know I feel as if we're friends, even though 319 00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:55,200 Speaker 7: you know I only know through the radio. 320 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 4: Good I want you to feel that way. Thank you. 321 00:19:57,880 --> 00:19:58,240 Speaker 8: Great. 322 00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 7: Well, what I was thinking, Dennis, is I don't think 323 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 7: even though I agree with you, I don't think it's 324 00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 7: good to emphasize this, and I take it as a 325 00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:10,119 Speaker 7: weakness in men. I don't think it's so good to 326 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:13,360 Speaker 7: focus on it, because then a lot of men kind 327 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 7: of just see it as an excuse to simply, you know, 328 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 7: be addicted to pornography or or see other women and 329 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:23,760 Speaker 7: things like that. I think it's very possible for men 330 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:29,359 Speaker 7: to be in love with their wife and because that 331 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:33,160 Speaker 7: what they love is the nobility of being in love 332 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:35,640 Speaker 7: with a single woman. And once you do that, it's 333 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:39,399 Speaker 7: easy to get away from the visual and all that 334 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:40,240 Speaker 7: that you talk about. 335 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:43,720 Speaker 4: Well, first of all, none of this has anything to 336 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:47,639 Speaker 4: do with loving your wife. Of course, I'm talking about arousal. 337 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:47,640 Speaker 3: Not love. 338 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:53,159 Speaker 7: Well, yeah, but I think that once you if you 339 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:55,639 Speaker 7: love your wife so much, I think that it's it's 340 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:58,280 Speaker 7: possible even to change you, even at a sort of 341 00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 7: physiological level. That once you're so in love with the 342 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 7: nobility of being attracted to a single woman, I think 343 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:08,920 Speaker 7: it becomes a lot easier not to be so easily 344 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:14,080 Speaker 7: swayed by the visual and that I think it actually 345 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:17,120 Speaker 7: it's actually a benefit to us to sort of kind 346 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 7: of be scornful of men that are too easily swayed 347 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:21,720 Speaker 7: by the visual and by other women. 348 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:26,040 Speaker 4: Well, I don't score in such men. I have the 349 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,920 Speaker 4: opposite reaction, or I don't know if opposite is fair 350 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:33,080 Speaker 4: to say, Jim, I have the reaction that, given how 351 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 4: powerful the visual is in men, I salute all the 352 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:42,760 Speaker 4: guys who control their behavior. That's my reaction. Not only 353 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:45,399 Speaker 4: don't I have contempt, I have greater admiration. It's like 354 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:48,560 Speaker 4: the guy who can see all that alcohol wants to 355 00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:49,679 Speaker 4: drink it, but doesn't. 356 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:51,840 Speaker 3: We'll be back in a moment. 357 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 1: In this episode of Timeless Wisdom will continue right after this. 358 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 1: Now back to more of Dennis Prager's timeless wisdoms. 359 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,760 Speaker 3: Fragger it is. I'm Dennis Prager. This is the Male 360 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 3: Female Hour. 361 00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:19,600 Speaker 4: Every Wednesday, at this hour of my show, the second 362 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:23,480 Speaker 4: hour of my show, I talk to you about. 363 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 3: Men and women. And today's subject, tied. 364 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:33,400 Speaker 4: For first in importance with so many others, is something 365 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:41,719 Speaker 4: that has no analogous truth among women. There's no analogy, 366 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 4: and that is the power of sight to stimulate. 367 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 3: It does not. 368 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:53,120 Speaker 4: Exist with women as it does with men. That doesn't 369 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:56,879 Speaker 4: mean that the man that a woman loves, will not 370 00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:03,040 Speaker 4: arouse her excite her just by seeing him. But that 371 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,800 Speaker 4: is the man she loves or the man she wants. 372 00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 4: It's amen. But if you put before any woman on 373 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:16,960 Speaker 4: earth twenty five pictures of nice male legs, she would 374 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 4: be happier to look at. Twenty five tables. Table legs 375 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 4: would interest her more, but not men. And just the legs, 376 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:37,119 Speaker 4: just the tummy, just the breast, just the back, just 377 00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:42,480 Speaker 4: the shoulders, just the arms. I mean, it's almost inconceivable 378 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:46,159 Speaker 4: to a woman. And it is inconceivable. It's one of 379 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:50,199 Speaker 4: those facts that a woman can know but not understand. 380 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:53,600 Speaker 4: It's not her fault. It's like asking me to understand 381 00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:57,639 Speaker 4: how an orangutan thinks and I can't. It's just the 382 00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:00,119 Speaker 4: way it is. But it's important to know this. And 383 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:04,679 Speaker 4: again on my last call there were two objections. Well, 384 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:06,760 Speaker 4: a man who really loves his wife, who's a young man, 385 00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 4: twenty four year old man from Dallas, and I thank 386 00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:12,719 Speaker 4: you again for the call. And they said, well, you know, 387 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 4: a man who really loves his wife and respects her 388 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:22,680 Speaker 4: and adores her, then this won't play as much a role. 389 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,000 Speaker 4: But that's not true. One has nothing to do with 390 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 4: the other. The man isn't loving these women with their legs. 391 00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:34,960 Speaker 4: He's just being aroused by them, stimulated by them. Now 392 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 4: and then he said, well, you're just giving men a 393 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,520 Speaker 4: green light to look at pornography. One has nothing to 394 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:43,240 Speaker 4: do with the other. Again, I'm talking about male nature. 395 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 4: I'm not talking about what we should do with our nature. 396 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,159 Speaker 4: My whole point in life is that life is a 397 00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 4: battle with our human nature. The subtitle of my book 398 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:59,399 Speaker 4: on happiness is a Human Nature Repair Manual. Men know 399 00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:01,760 Speaker 4: from the earth earliest age we have to battle our 400 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:08,520 Speaker 4: nature or we'll be in jail. The big problem today 401 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,560 Speaker 4: is that we don't teach our girls to battle their natures. 402 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 4: That's the big problem. And Alan, let's put that down 403 00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:18,200 Speaker 4: for a for a subject. If we haven't done that, 404 00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:19,560 Speaker 4: I know we may have done. 405 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:20,639 Speaker 3: In a regular hour. I don't know if I did 406 00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:21,960 Speaker 3: it on a male female. 407 00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:24,920 Speaker 4: Hour, teaching girls to battle their natures like we teach 408 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:31,840 Speaker 4: boys to battle their natures. Alrighty, let's go to Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. 409 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:33,240 Speaker 3: Chris Hi, Chris Dennis. 410 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,480 Speaker 8: Prager blow Dennis, thanks for taking my call. 411 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:35,879 Speaker 3: Thank you. 412 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 8: I completely agree with you that men are totally visual 413 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 8: more than women. My father gave me a great a 414 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:51,600 Speaker 8: day to live by that men love with their eyes 415 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:53,760 Speaker 8: and women love with their ears. Love might be a 416 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:57,440 Speaker 8: strong word, but it's totally the truth. A man will 417 00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 8: find a woman attractive just by looks. Women will find 418 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,160 Speaker 8: a man attractive by talking to him. 419 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 3: That's right. 420 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:09,800 Speaker 4: A man's voice is a very powerful arousal mechanism that 421 00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:13,320 Speaker 4: is exactly right for men. It's you know, how does 422 00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:18,840 Speaker 4: she look? You know he'll deal with any voice. Now, 423 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 4: that's just the way it is. But you're right. The 424 00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 4: ear is more powerful. And one might argue here that 425 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 4: women are aroused their their method of being attracted to 426 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 4: men is deeper than men's animal or superficial like way 427 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:36,840 Speaker 4: that that one can argue that I have. I'm not 428 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:39,680 Speaker 4: making a case for men. I'm not making a case 429 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:43,119 Speaker 4: for women. I'm not making a case for superior Women 430 00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:48,520 Speaker 4: have their own superficial forms of being attracted to men, 431 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 4: like money, all right. 432 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 3: So so. 433 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,840 Speaker 4: The sexes are quite balanced in flaws and strengths. But 434 00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,959 Speaker 4: this but the you have to know the unique differences. 435 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:03,200 Speaker 4: And for those of you who missed it, gay men 436 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:08,159 Speaker 4: are my proof because they see male bodies see and 437 00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:12,399 Speaker 4: aroused by male bodies the way women the way men 438 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 4: are aroused by seeing female bodies. 439 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:17,760 Speaker 6: Hi, Dannis, my name is Nick. I was in Westwood, 440 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,520 Speaker 6: New Jersey, and I just want to wish you well. 441 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:22,960 Speaker 6: I know you've had an ordeal to deal with the 442 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:27,159 Speaker 6: less a year year plus now what happened to at 443 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:30,880 Speaker 6: your fall? I, like many people, have had their life 444 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:34,760 Speaker 6: changed by you your show and your columns and your 445 00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:39,800 Speaker 6: videos and your books. I've read everything you've ever written, 446 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:44,639 Speaker 6: and you just changed my life. She convinced me to 447 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 6: get a PhD. In American religion. I went to atheists 448 00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:53,720 Speaker 6: to back to Catholic. I went from little conservative. I 449 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:57,679 Speaker 6: have successfully converted God knows how many people and my 450 00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:03,200 Speaker 6: family over to our use. And I just really appreciate 451 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 6: everything you've done for me. And there are there are millions, 452 00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:09,760 Speaker 6: if not tens of millions of people like me. Most 453 00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 6: of them will not call, but just know how much 454 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:15,879 Speaker 6: good you've done in this world. So I wish you 455 00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:22,399 Speaker 6: well and I look forward to continuing to indulge. And 456 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:26,159 Speaker 6: you're getting your timeless wisdom. Thank you so much from 457 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 6: the bottle of my heart. 458 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 1: Are you enjoying timeless wisdom? We'd love to hear from 459 00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:33,400 Speaker 1: you call eight seven seven two four three seventy seven 460 00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:36,639 Speaker 1: seventy six and leave a review, share your thoughts, or 461 00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:40,240 Speaker 1: just even an encouraging word for Dennis. Your voicemail might 462 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 1: just make it on the show. That's eight seven seven 463 00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:46,760 Speaker 1: two four three seventy seven seventy six. That's eight seven 464 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:51,440 Speaker 1: seven two four three triple seven six. Thanks for listening 465 00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 1: and for your support. 466 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:06,480 Speaker 4: Dennis Prager The Male Female Hour. The subject today is 467 00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:10,760 Speaker 4: the unique a unique aspect of male sexuality which plays 468 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:13,560 Speaker 4: havoc with the sexes. Especially if you don't understand it, 469 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,920 Speaker 4: and even if you do understand it, please understand that 470 00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:20,320 Speaker 4: this is a battle every man fights every day, gay 471 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:25,400 Speaker 4: or straight. The visual is stimulating. That's why there are 472 00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:27,680 Speaker 4: parts of the world that cover women from head to toe. 473 00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:31,280 Speaker 4: To say that I oppose that is like saying that 474 00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:34,040 Speaker 4: they oppose kidnapping. I mean, of course I oppose it. 475 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:37,800 Speaker 4: I find it utterly and thoroughly dehumanizing. Men simply have 476 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:40,320 Speaker 4: to learn to control themselves. There has to be a 477 00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:44,280 Speaker 4: middle road, however, between the micro skirt on the one 478 00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:47,120 Speaker 4: hand and the hut door on the other. There has 479 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:50,640 Speaker 4: to be a middle road where the woman is is 480 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 4: not covered like she is an invisible being in a 481 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:58,680 Speaker 4: potato sack, and on the other hand, is not revealing 482 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:03,800 Speaker 4: just about everything. Think so, but that that will talk 483 00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 4: about Alan put that down for that's another day. We'll 484 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:10,160 Speaker 4: talk about women's clothing. I think we'll have a we'll 485 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 4: have a male female hour, just on that. The question 486 00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:17,160 Speaker 4: of modesty, which is almost a dirty word today in 487 00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:22,160 Speaker 4: our hyper sexual and hyper sophisticated civilization. But it is 488 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:24,880 Speaker 4: a battle that every man fights, every gay man fights. 489 00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:28,120 Speaker 4: It's why it's very hard for gay men to stay 490 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 4: in a relationship. It's no no condemnation of them because 491 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 4: the guy you see women keep us heterosexual men down 492 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:42,680 Speaker 4: on the farm, but because they are monogamous in nature. 493 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:46,720 Speaker 4: But I few if if if the two beings together 494 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,440 Speaker 4: are both polygamous in nature. It's it's very and so 495 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:53,440 Speaker 4: easily aroused. It's the ease of the arousal mechanism in men, 496 00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:58,800 Speaker 4: the ease because the visual is so so ubiquitous, it's 497 00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:03,000 Speaker 4: so common, it's so it's so it's constant, especially in 498 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:07,800 Speaker 4: hotter climbs where women wear less one. 499 00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 3: A Praguer seven seven six. Let's go to. 500 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:15,440 Speaker 4: Let's go to this an interesting question Sandra and Anchorage, Alaska. 501 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:16,920 Speaker 4: Thank you for calling. Dennis Prager. 502 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:18,800 Speaker 2: Yes, I have a. 503 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:22,800 Speaker 9: Question about how this issue affects blind men or people 504 00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:24,240 Speaker 9: who are visually impaired. 505 00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:30,480 Speaker 4: I have asked every blind man who's called that question. 506 00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,440 Speaker 3: I am. I am utterly fascinated by that. 507 00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:40,680 Speaker 4: Sandra, you've asked your question shows you got it. And 508 00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:44,120 Speaker 4: the answer, to the best of my knowledge, is that 509 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:49,240 Speaker 4: they probably do not walk around nearly as frequently aroused 510 00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:54,400 Speaker 4: as sighted men do. And number two, it partially depends 511 00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 4: on whether they were sighted and have images of women 512 00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:01,040 Speaker 4: in their minds, or they were born blind or became 513 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 4: blind at a very early age, like two years of age, 514 00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,880 Speaker 4: so that might be an effect. But beyond that, they 515 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 4: certainly are aroused. They have children, they have normal sex lives, 516 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,959 Speaker 4: and it is because of touch and smell and sound 517 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 4: the other senses tend to compensate. I mean, look, after all, 518 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:25,120 Speaker 4: there are men, you know, in the porn world, there's 519 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:28,560 Speaker 4: telephone sex guys not seeing anybody. 520 00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:30,280 Speaker 2: That's true. 521 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:32,360 Speaker 3: Okay, thank you, all. 522 00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:35,400 Speaker 4: Right, thank you, I love you, I love your questions. 523 00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,720 Speaker 4: I love doing this. All right, here we go. Carol 524 00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:41,200 Speaker 4: Colorado Springs, Colorado, Hi, Carol, Dennis. 525 00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 3: Prager, I to stick with you. 526 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:44,600 Speaker 9: I don't know what I would give to be able 527 00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,480 Speaker 9: to have you, with your gift of clarity, to explain 528 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 9: to my husband that it is normal and that I 529 00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 9: actually feel more loved to a deeper, stronger level if 530 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,520 Speaker 9: you would just be able to ag normal in front 531 00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:01,160 Speaker 9: of me. And we have two teenage sons, and I 532 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:05,400 Speaker 9: want my teenage boys to grow knowing that they are 533 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 9: normal by looking at the girls and you know, being 534 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:12,640 Speaker 9: attracted to that, and that it is not you know, 535 00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:16,800 Speaker 9: perversion or anything like that. But he instead of that. 536 00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:21,080 Speaker 9: My biggest battle has actually been my husband because when 537 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:24,680 Speaker 9: I'm around and there's an attractive woman around, if I 538 00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:28,800 Speaker 9: make a comment, he'll make some stupid question, I mean 539 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:33,240 Speaker 9: a comment like who what where. I'll give you an example, 540 00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:37,640 Speaker 9: there's two attractive women, one ugly one or the other 541 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:39,800 Speaker 9: way around, one attractive woman and two ugly ones, and 542 00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:42,600 Speaker 9: then I'll make comment and say something like, oh, she 543 00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:48,400 Speaker 9: kind of reminds me of Angelina Julie h which one hush. 544 00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:50,800 Speaker 4: He will deny that this is part of him. He 545 00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:52,200 Speaker 4: they're invisible to. 546 00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:55,760 Speaker 3: Him, yes, and I okay, I don't. 547 00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:59,120 Speaker 4: Well, this is so interesting because there are women who 548 00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:02,040 Speaker 4: were probably thinking, boy, I wish my husband would act 549 00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:05,360 Speaker 4: like all these women are invisible to him. But women, 550 00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:09,279 Speaker 4: watch what you ask for. Much better to be with 551 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:12,640 Speaker 4: a guy who admits what goes on in his mind 552 00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 4: than a guy who hides it. I sympathize with you, Caro. 553 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:20,239 Speaker 4: He should. You should play for him this broadcast. 554 00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:21,879 Speaker 9: How can I obtain it? 555 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:24,880 Speaker 4: Oh, just go to Dennis Prager dot com and you 556 00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,320 Speaker 4: could subscribe to download. You can go to Prager Radio 557 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:29,879 Speaker 4: and you get a podcast of it. There are many, many, 558 00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:31,680 Speaker 4: many ways to do that. Just go to either of 559 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:38,400 Speaker 4: my websites. But folks, this is very important. This is 560 00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:41,959 Speaker 4: why I do this. The number of men who will 561 00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:46,080 Speaker 4: not acknowledge their sexual nature to their wives is huge. 562 00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:51,879 Speaker 4: It's the vast majority. They're afraid to some and this 563 00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:54,719 Speaker 4: husband might be an example, are afraid to acknowledge it 564 00:34:54,760 --> 00:35:00,080 Speaker 4: to themselves lest they feel sinful, or they feel that 565 00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:04,080 Speaker 4: they're dirty, or that for whatever reason, they will have 566 00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:08,880 Speaker 4: self loathing for it. This is the way the male is. 567 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:13,399 Speaker 4: This is not a license to act irresponsibly on it. 568 00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:15,239 Speaker 4: That's not the point at all. 569 00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:15,640 Speaker 3: Listen. 570 00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:20,040 Speaker 4: It is nature to steal, It is nature to take 571 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,560 Speaker 4: what doesn't belong to you. You teach your children not 572 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:27,200 Speaker 4: to steal, correct, I hope you do so. If I 573 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:29,400 Speaker 4: say that it is human nature to take what doesn't 574 00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:31,960 Speaker 4: belong to them, am I advocating stealing? 575 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:35,239 Speaker 3: Of course not. It's the opposite. 576 00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:38,000 Speaker 4: I'm saying, look at our nature and learn then how 577 00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:43,480 Speaker 4: to control it. We'll talk another time how women can 578 00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:45,440 Speaker 4: help men in this way, But one way is to 579 00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:52,080 Speaker 4: acknowledge your husband's yes, greatness, heroism, even in the fact 580 00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:56,000 Speaker 4: that he is so visually stimulated, so easily stimulated, and 581 00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:59,120 Speaker 4: confines his sexual behavior to you, who he loves. 582 00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:01,239 Speaker 3: I'm Dennis Prager. We return. 583 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:06,279 Speaker 1: This episode of timeless Wisdom will continue right after this. 584 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:20,840 Speaker 1: Now back to more of Dennis Prager's timeless wisdom. 585 00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:24,719 Speaker 4: I'm Dennis Prager, the Male Female Hour talking to you 586 00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:29,200 Speaker 4: today about the power of the visual to arouse and see. 587 00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 4: We use euphemisms in life when we're uncomfortable totally understandably 588 00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:37,400 Speaker 4: when we say attractive, well, attractive is attractive. There are 589 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:41,640 Speaker 4: many attractive. I mean there are attractive, There are there 590 00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:44,160 Speaker 4: are men who find there are heterosexual men who could 591 00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:46,920 Speaker 4: say this man is attractive. But there's not arousing the 592 00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:52,200 Speaker 4: man when so I'm talking arousal, folks, I'm talking the 593 00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:55,520 Speaker 4: deepest mechanism. The visual does that to men. 594 00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:56,759 Speaker 3: It does it. 595 00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:01,880 Speaker 4: Gay gay men are aroused by by male body parts. 596 00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:03,200 Speaker 3: And and I don't mean. 597 00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:06,040 Speaker 4: Separated from bodies as part of a body, but still 598 00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:09,920 Speaker 4: just the part. And this is there's no analog. A 599 00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:13,160 Speaker 4: woman doesn't react to a male, an anonymous male leg 600 00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:19,719 Speaker 4: like a man does to an anonymous female leg, just 601 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:23,719 Speaker 4: the way it is. And we need to know that, 602 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,279 Speaker 4: and and women need to know that. And this is 603 00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:28,719 Speaker 4: part of what it is to be a man. Now 604 00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:31,279 Speaker 4: we have to balance it too, because a guy, a 605 00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:34,040 Speaker 4: woman has to know this about a man. But a 606 00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:37,600 Speaker 4: man shouldn't just be what I call radar run where 607 00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:40,239 Speaker 4: you know, you sit at a lunch at a restaurant 608 00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:42,319 Speaker 4: with a guy and he's never looking at you. I 609 00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:45,719 Speaker 4: don't only mean you as wife, I mean me. His 610 00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:49,279 Speaker 4: is male business, you know, companion for lunch and I 611 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:52,200 Speaker 4: you know, the guy's head is just swiveling the entire time. 612 00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,440 Speaker 4: It's one thing to notice and it's you know, and 613 00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:57,920 Speaker 4: it's another thing to all that's all you do. By 614 00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:00,680 Speaker 4: the way, if you can't stop yourself, Guys always said this, 615 00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:05,600 Speaker 4: take take a take a chair that is facing a wall. 616 00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:08,319 Speaker 4: Let's all sit at a table where you face the wall. 617 00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:10,720 Speaker 4: Then then you know, out of sight, out of mind. 618 00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:13,799 Speaker 4: Then you can actually concentrate on the woman you're with, 619 00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:16,080 Speaker 4: or for that matter, on the man in the business. 620 00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:16,480 Speaker 3: You want to talk to. 621 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:23,919 Speaker 4: Okay, Uh, there's so many good Jerry in La wants 622 00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:26,120 Speaker 4: to know our older men as visual as younger men. 623 00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:26,439 Speaker 3: Yes. 624 00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:28,600 Speaker 4: In fact, as my father, who is ninety says, he 625 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:32,280 Speaker 4: expects that his coffin will be a couple of inches 626 00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:34,760 Speaker 4: open on top so he could check out the women 627 00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:39,080 Speaker 4: at at his funeral. All right, that's my uh, all right, 628 00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:42,200 Speaker 4: and he talks that way at ninety. So I come 629 00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:45,279 Speaker 4: from a good pedigree of a healthy, healthy understanding. He 630 00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:48,000 Speaker 4: married sixty seven years. If I'm not mistaken. 631 00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:51,080 Speaker 1: Tomorrow, un timeless wisdom with Dennis Priger. 632 00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:54,279 Speaker 4: I don't know if there is anybody who has a 633 00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:58,360 Speaker 4: financial anything named after him that is as famous or 634 00:38:58,400 --> 00:38:59,520 Speaker 4: infamous as Ponsi. 635 00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:04,120 Speaker 5: Even Capone didn't get you know, a submarchine gun named 636 00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:04,959 Speaker 5: after him, right. 637 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:07,960 Speaker 4: Yes, I mean when you think I can't, I cannot 638 00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:10,120 Speaker 4: think of a parallel. 639 00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:12,479 Speaker 3: This uh, this, this. 640 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:16,439 Speaker 4: Ponzi fascinates I guess I don't think he fascinates people. 641 00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:19,840 Speaker 4: They don't even think of him, when, in fact, I didn't. 642 00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:23,160 Speaker 3: Know it was named after a guy. So I assume 643 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:25,600 Speaker 3: that I'm in the majority in that way. We all 644 00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:28,960 Speaker 3: heard of the scheme, but we don't know the guy. Why. 645 00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:30,759 Speaker 5: It's funny. I think you were right when you said 646 00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:33,600 Speaker 5: ninety eight point four two three percent heard of Ponzi schemes. 647 00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:36,239 Speaker 5: I think the other half of that equation is that 648 00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:40,799 Speaker 5: one point five seven seven actually knew about Charles. 649 00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:44,000 Speaker 3: Pons right, and you're one of them. Why did you 650 00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:45,680 Speaker 3: write this book for. 651 00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:48,160 Speaker 5: That very reason? You know, I was a journalist for 652 00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:51,120 Speaker 5: a long time at the Boston Boston Globe, and to 653 00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:53,239 Speaker 5: tell stories that people didn't know it has always been 654 00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:55,759 Speaker 5: a passion of mine. And the fact that there was 655 00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:58,440 Speaker 5: this Charles Ponzie. I was a banking reporter in Boston 656 00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:01,200 Speaker 5: when banks were failing left right, and someone said to me, 657 00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:03,319 Speaker 5: out of the blue, you know, banks haven't failed like 658 00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:07,000 Speaker 5: this since the days of Ponzi. And when I Ponzi 659 00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:09,239 Speaker 5: liked the scheme, and I said, yeah, he was a 660 00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:09,959 Speaker 5: Boston guy. 661 00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:11,879 Speaker 6: Oh, and it set me. 662 00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 1: Down the path join us tomorrow to hear more on 663 00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:20,040 Speaker 1: Timeless Wisdom with Dennis Prigger. Visit Dennispragger dot com for 664 00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:24,480 Speaker 1: thousands of hours of Dennis's lectures, courses in classic radio programs, 665 00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:31,920 Speaker 1: and to purchase Dennis Prager's Rational Bibles. We want to 666 00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:34,200 Speaker 1: take just a second to thank the team at Life 667 00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:36,880 Speaker 1: Audio for their partnership with us on the podcast. 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