1 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: Welcome to Timeless Wisdom with Dennis Prager. Here thousands of 2 00:00:24,240 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 1: hours of Dennis's lectures courses in classic radio programs had 3 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: to purchase Dennis Prager's Rational Bibles go to Dennisprager dot com. 4 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 2: Parts. 5 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 3: And since this is verse five verse, that's the way 6 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 3: I promise it, and I figured, well, walk, I'll come 7 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 3: in and I'll apologize to the clinics. 8 00:00:48,480 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 2: I'll say, look, it is my obligation to read you 9 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 2: all the stories. There's not much to. 10 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 3: Be learned, and we'll move on. And the more I study, 11 00:00:58,640 --> 00:00:59,279 Speaker 3: the more. 12 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 2: I fell in love with chapter twenty four. 13 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 3: Which is the longest chapter I believe in the Bora, 14 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:11,319 Speaker 3: and certainly in Genesis. Twenty three has its own interesting parts, 15 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 3: but it is more narrative. And we're up to twenty three. 16 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 3: And you'll see what I mean. Let me get to 17 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 3: twenty four, okay, with some speed so that but you 18 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 3: don't have to look in just listening, I hope there's enough. 19 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 3: Since I'm not delineating every sentence in this case so carefully, 20 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:32,400 Speaker 3: I'm not going to do Freighter's translation like I often 21 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 3: don't to give you the literal, but rather mean from 22 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 3: Monsostick make. 23 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 2: Up for times all right. 24 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 3: Verse one twenty three, Chapter twenty three, Genesis, Sarah's lifetime. 25 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 3: The span of Sarah's life take to one hundred and 26 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 3: twenty seven years. 27 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 2: Already, there's something interesting to know here. 28 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 3: Number one, that one hundred and twenty seven means something. 29 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 3: All the years in Genesis mean something. What they generally 30 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 3: don't mean is precision. One twenty seven is not how 31 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 3: long she lived. We don't know how long she lived. 32 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 3: Maybe she didn't live that long, but that's not the 33 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 3: point being conveyed here. The point being conveyed here is 34 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 3: the number one twenty seven in Atio of one hundred 35 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:17,079 Speaker 3: and twenty is the ideal lifespan. That's Moses' lifespan, and 36 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 3: seven is a sacred number from the set up in 37 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 3: Days of Creation through many uses of seven in the Tooro. 38 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 3: So she is so special that she lived the idea 39 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 3: lifetime plus the sacred number seven. 40 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 2: That's why people understood when. 41 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:34,360 Speaker 3: They read this a long time ago. Remember we have 42 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 3: our mindset. A week or twenty five hundred years ago, 43 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 3: or more likely a listener whould have said, wow, one 44 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 3: hundred and twenty seven, this is a great person. They 45 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 3: immediately would have said that in her as work. 46 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 2: But we in the science and mathematical age are thinking, well, 47 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 2: she lived one hundred and twenty seven, that she died a. 48 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 3: Year earlier, she would have lived one hundred and twenty six. 49 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 3: That's how we think. That's not how they thought. Hearing 50 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 3: this number. It that real significant At the number forty, 51 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 3: as I pointed out with the forty days of the 52 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 3: of the flood, forty is it a forty invataural. 53 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 2: Means one thing Allah, that's all it means. 54 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 3: It never means forty forty years in the desert forty 55 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:22,639 Speaker 3: forty again the knights on sine eye forty of the flood. 56 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 3: It means a lot one twenty seven is a great number. 57 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 3: Wasn't to this interesting point which I read in one place? 58 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 3: And unless you know it to be false, I assume 59 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 3: it's true. She's the only woman in the Torah whose 60 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 3: age is given. That's how special she is. And by 61 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 3: the way, I keep bringing this out as a subtext 62 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 3: as I teach you Genesis. 63 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 2: And I need to do it again. You know, I 64 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 2: do not read anything with. 65 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 3: Any special eye that I am aware of to look 66 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 3: for something. For example, I don't read the Bible with 67 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 3: feminist eyes. I try to read them with my eyes period, 68 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 3: and what I read, so it's not coming from someone 69 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 3: looking for affirmative action for the limit of the Bible. 70 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 2: When I tell you that. 71 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 3: You cannot read Genesis honestly and hope that the mainstree 72 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:23,280 Speaker 3: arts were less significant of the patriarchy, it's it's in fact, 73 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 3: I'm touched as as I fell us to you. I'm 74 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 3: overcome by the power of this because it's so not 75 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 3: the way in which I recall learning it at first, 76 00:04:34,840 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 3: where they were accessories to the men. 77 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 2: They're not they. Whoever wrote this from God. 78 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 3: To people was not a sexist, was absolute, that was 79 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 3: emphatic about the importance. Abraham has a lot of kids, 80 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 3: none of them matter except Sarah. 81 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 2: Sarah is the conduit. It is more precise to. 82 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:05,839 Speaker 3: Say that that Sarah is our matriar almost than Abraham 83 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 3: is our patriarch. 84 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 2: If you're Jewish, because. 85 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:13,599 Speaker 3: There are theoretically many people who are not Jewish who 86 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:15,840 Speaker 3: can say I mean, I mean, I don't mean not 87 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 3: only not Jewish, just people of all different nations. 88 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 2: Is that came from the children of the. 89 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 3: Concubines of Abraham, because it was not only has seen 90 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 3: as Katura also who could. 91 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 2: Say, oh, our out. 92 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 3: We come from Ingram, and we come from Aingor, and 93 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 3: we come from Abor, and we come from Abraham. But 94 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 3: from a Jewish standpoint, only Sarah manis and it's very important, 95 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 3: and and the text tells you, I mean, she is 96 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 3: up there with those who can get their ages recounted 97 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 3: as it worked. 98 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 2: So it's she's profoundly significant. And when it comes. 99 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 3: From Isaac and Neveecca, you learn far more about Rebecca 100 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 3: than you have to learned about Isaac. 101 00:05:57,279 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 2: She's so much more impressive. It's it's actually said for Isaac, 102 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 2: how much more impressive Rebecca is. And God, I'm not 103 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 2: only not leading into it. 104 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 3: There's no mother or read the text, as you will 105 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:13,600 Speaker 3: see later when you see Rebecca and Isaac. So it 106 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 3: begins with the life of Sarah. 107 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 2: And by the way, there's a very interesting redundancy. 108 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 3: And I won't be taking all the sentences fight as 109 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:28,239 Speaker 3: long we'll never get to twenty four, which has sixty 110 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 3: two sentences in it. 111 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 2: But a very interesting thing. 112 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 3: The literal Hebrew, which I'm only going to do sporadically 113 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 3: here is and the lives of Sarah or the life 114 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 3: of Sarah was or were one hundred and twenty seven years. 115 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 2: These were the years. 116 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 3: Of the life of Sarah. That's the way that Hebrew 117 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 3: is utterly renumbered. Why haven't at the end these were 118 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 3: the years of the life of Sarah. It is a 119 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 3: way of saying her years were really intense years. This 120 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 3: is a woman who lived one hundred and twenty seven years, 121 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 3: and it should only of all of us be said 122 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 3: that you had led such intense and such fulfilling years. 123 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 2: This woman mattered, Her years mattered. Twenty three two. 124 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 3: Sarah died in kiriart Arba, which is now Devron in 125 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 3: the land of Canaan, which is important to a later 126 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 3: history from a Jewish standpoint, because Cann becomes Israel, and 127 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 3: Abraham proceeded to mourn for Sarah and to belay on her. Okay, 128 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 3: the Hebrew of the English translation is awful here because 129 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 3: it doesn't tell you how important this sentence is. 130 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 2: This is where we know that Abraham and Sarah split. 131 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 3: Up after the binding of Isaac. It tells you where 132 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 3: she died, and if you please look for. 133 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:00,160 Speaker 2: You or just take my word for it if you 134 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 2: don't want to look now. 135 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 3: In in chapter twenty two, verse nineteen. 136 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 2: In member word verse nineteen of the previous chapter, you 137 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 2: will find very important. 138 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 3: Words after the binding of Isaac Abraham's settlement in where 139 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 3: Cheva settled. That's where he lived. 140 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 2: It could have said, and he went to Behar Cheva, 141 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 2: and then he would know nothing. It's very clear what happened. 142 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 4: He settled in where Cheva and she died. 143 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:42,559 Speaker 3: In, carried out our bid febon, they brew apart, and 144 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 3: the Hebrew has not proceeded. 145 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:47,719 Speaker 2: I'm so unhappy that that's the way that she translated. 146 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:49,199 Speaker 2: It's he came. 147 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 3: By Java, very basic even word he came in other words, 148 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:56,200 Speaker 3: he wasn't there when she died. 149 00:08:56,880 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 2: He camed to mourn her. He traveled from where he 150 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 2: was living. 151 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 3: Their marriage ceased to be after the after there would 152 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:13,319 Speaker 3: be sacrifice. Now why doesn't you might ask, why doesn't 153 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 3: it Thoas say that and they split up. That's not 154 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 3: the way it would have said it. It's too painful. 155 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 3: It tells it to you with no and we you 156 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 3: withy whatsoever. It just doesn't spell it out because it's 157 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 3: too painful. It's something for you to pick up from 158 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 3: the text that this is what happened and it makes 159 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 3: perfect sense, and it was a terrible price. 160 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 2: But he loved her and became not only to. 161 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 3: Mourn her, it says, it's very touching, but to cry 162 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 3: for her. 163 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 2: He could have said he went and mourn for her, 164 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 2: and she would have never thought another word. But he 165 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 2: went to cry for her. 166 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 3: The power of the text here in about humans is 167 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 3: so overwhelming, you know, if you think of the Bible, 168 00:09:57,440 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 3: and you think perhaps of great principles and great religiosity 169 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:06,080 Speaker 3: and about God and did themes, but the touching human elements, 170 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:10,439 Speaker 3: and especially so in Genesis, I don't think are duplicated 171 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:12,199 Speaker 3: often in literature. 172 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 2: That's only about individuals and their suffering. 173 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 3: So that's how we know that they split up and 174 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 3: she died there all right. Number three, that Abraham rose 175 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:26,439 Speaker 3: from the side is dead and spoke to the hit 176 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 3: Bites people who apparently were living there. 177 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 2: And now we have till the end of chapter twenty three. 178 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 3: The entire chapter is now devoted to Abraham's buying the 179 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:42,440 Speaker 3: cave of Makpela to bury his wife. 180 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 2: And to have him buried. And it's a very important 181 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 2: thing to the text. 182 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:51,200 Speaker 3: It wouldn't spend so much time on where he and 183 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 3: she and his followers. And by the way, the three 184 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 3: patriarchs and three of the matriarchs except Rachel, are buried there. 185 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 2: So it's considered a great importance because it's in Kanna, 186 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:06,439 Speaker 2: it's in what will be Israel. 187 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 3: That is why this is of such great importance to him, 188 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 3: and it's a great importance to the toilet to showing this. 189 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 3: That's why the whole deal is actually in unseeing how 190 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:20,080 Speaker 3: he went about getting it, because it's not easy to 191 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 3: have done it. 192 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:25,120 Speaker 1: And you'll see this episode of timeless Wisdom will continue 193 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 1: right after this. Now back to more of Dennis Prager's 194 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:37,560 Speaker 1: Timeless Wisdom. 195 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 2: Okay, twenty three the verse verse three. 196 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:45,559 Speaker 3: All right, so Abraham wrote from besides Davia spoke to 197 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:47,680 Speaker 3: the hit night, saying, I'm a resident. 198 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 2: Alien among you. 199 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 3: Sell me a burial site among you that I may 200 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:56,320 Speaker 3: remove my debt for veryal Okay, that's what that's what 201 00:11:56,440 --> 00:12:00,200 Speaker 3: this is about. He already acknowledges that the outset. Look, 202 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:03,200 Speaker 3: I'm a resident alien. In other words, I'm not fully 203 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 3: an alien where I would have no claims, but I'm 204 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 3: not one of you either. 205 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:09,319 Speaker 2: I'm a resident alien. 206 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 3: He had, as it were a green car okay, and 207 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 3: the hit type's reply to Abraham's saying to him, hear us, 208 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 3: my lord, and it's very interesting. 209 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 2: You will find a fascinating thing. 210 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 3: They treat him with incredible respect, and he constantly humbles himself, 211 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 3: which the Rabbis had a great. 212 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 2: Deal to say about. And I will read you about 213 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 2: it after you see what happens. 214 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:38,960 Speaker 3: Hear us, my lord, you are the elect of God 215 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 3: among us very ordented, and choices of our burial places. Again, 216 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 3: by the way, it's important to know, and this is 217 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 3: a constant throughout the total Non Jews are never depicted 218 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 3: as bad unless they're bad. I mean, when the Egyptians 219 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:56,439 Speaker 3: enslaved Jews, they're pictured is bad. 220 00:12:56,760 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 2: The Kannanites with their awful practices and pictured is bad. 221 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 3: But non Jews are often shown as more beautiful, as 222 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 3: more ethical than the Jews are. That it's this very 223 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 3: objectivity that I told you private again, which is one 224 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 3: of the reasons to get to your original question, that 225 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:16,079 Speaker 3: I believe that there is such. 226 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 2: Veracity in the text. 227 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 3: If it was just people are the oddsar would have 228 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 3: been to glorify themselves very your dead in the choices 229 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 3: of Barbarian places. None of us would hold this burial 230 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 3: place from you forbarying you're dead. 231 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 2: Thereupon Abraham bow blow again. Notice the humbling of himself. 232 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 2: Bertie says, I'm just the resident alien. Secondly, he says it. 233 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 3: Says he bowed blow to the people of the land. 234 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 3: People of the land. In Hebrew, amaharez is usually means 235 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:50,199 Speaker 3: to the simple folk. 236 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:54,080 Speaker 2: So it goes even further. He bowed blow and the 237 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:57,680 Speaker 2: simple folk of the land am ahis the hippipes. And 238 00:13:57,760 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 2: he said to them, if it. 239 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 3: Is your wish that I removed by dead for burial, 240 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 3: you must agree to and proceed for me with Ephro, 241 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 3: the son of Zohar. 242 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:11,440 Speaker 2: Let him sell me. Notice it sell me there is. 243 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 3: One of the reasons for the detail of this chapter 244 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 3: is to is to establish the legitimacy of Jewish plains 245 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 3: and can that whatever they have there was bold, and 246 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 3: that's the reason there was no gif past for or 247 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 3: anything else. I will pay full price. And it goes 248 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:32,080 Speaker 3: on to tell you how much. It's a very important thing. 249 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 2: You have to remember who is reading this and underwa 250 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 2: conditions Jews settling in the land of Israel. Let him 251 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 2: sell me. 252 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 3: The Cave of math plot which he owns, which is 253 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 3: at the edge of his land. Let him sell it 254 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 3: to me at the full price. You see, no chicanery. 255 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:53,120 Speaker 3: I paid every penny for it. Whatever he can do. 256 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 3: All I asked you was to intercede and go to 257 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 3: Ephrom for a burial site. 258 00:14:57,760 --> 00:15:00,160 Speaker 2: In your liss Ethyrol was present among the. 259 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 3: Hit dies, so Efrom the hit fight, answered Abraham, and 260 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 3: the hearing of the hides, and again to show you 261 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 3: it was not done privately. 262 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 2: It was done publicly. You see. This is one of 263 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 2: the reasons for the detail. 264 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 3: It was done publicly. There was no Ethyron and Abraham 265 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 3: doing it privately. And then you could say later on 266 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 3: the strict that prone in the presence of the hearing 267 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 3: of ignites. He did it all who went through the 268 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 3: gate of his house saying, no, my lord, hear me. 269 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 2: I give you the feel. 270 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 3: He wants to give it to him, you see, he 271 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 3: wants to give it as a gift. 272 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 2: And I give you the king that is in it. 273 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 3: I give it to you in the presence of my 274 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 3: people bury your dad. Then, Abraham, value well, you see 275 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 3: the themes here. When I pointed out to you he. 276 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 2: Battle alone with more of the people of the land. 277 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 3: And spoke to that throne in the hearing of the people. 278 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 3: You see why your repetition is to make the point. 279 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 3: He won't do he won't take a gift, he won't 280 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 3: do it privately, will take the full price, hold himself 281 00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 3: everything to show how it was done. And the lord, 282 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 3: so you can never say, well, he lord it over 283 00:16:04,560 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 3: than he came in, and he showed how wealthy he was, 284 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 3: or he dominated them when he said, oh way, in the. 285 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 2: Name of God, you have to because God speaks to me. 286 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 2: Nothing like that. A business deal, honorly, openly. 287 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 3: If only you would hear me out, Let me pay 288 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:22,520 Speaker 3: the of the lad he's begging to pay, and Ephron 289 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 3: wants to give it to him for free. Accept it 290 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:28,440 Speaker 3: from me that I named burying my debt there and 291 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 3: Efro replied to Abraham saying to him, my lord, you 292 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 3: hear me a piece. 293 00:16:33,320 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 2: Of land worth four hundred shekels of silver? Why is 294 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 2: that between you and me? Go and bury your. 295 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 3: Dead obviously a wealthy guy. Abraham accepted Efrom's parents, and 296 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 3: he took it. He paid out said, in other words, 297 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 3: he said, okay, I won't pay that. Abraham paid out 298 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 3: to Ethron the money that he had named in the 299 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 3: hearing of the hit Dice. Once again in the hearing 300 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:59,040 Speaker 3: of the hit Ice. You see it's really hits me 301 00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:02,480 Speaker 3: over the head four hundred shekels of silver at the 302 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 3: going merchants rate. 303 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:06,920 Speaker 2: See that. Plus you think that he gave him a 304 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:10,880 Speaker 2: cheap price. You get what's happening here, which. 305 00:17:10,639 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 3: If he didn't realize what was going on, you think 306 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 3: these worlds superple as details. It was at the price, 307 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:18,359 Speaker 3: it was done publicly. He had asked me and never maked. 308 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 3: The gift was it was no intimidation. So Afron's land 309 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 3: and pla there momray the field with its cave and 310 00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:27,560 Speaker 3: all the trees anywhere within the. 311 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:30,159 Speaker 2: Confines of that field. Awesome, and tell you this is 312 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:32,320 Speaker 2: exactly what they got, not just the cave, but the 313 00:17:32,359 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 2: area around it with the trees. 314 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:38,439 Speaker 3: Passed to Abraham as his possession. In the presence of 315 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:43,000 Speaker 3: the hip. It's almost funny, isn't it. Hawventy fives In 316 00:17:43,040 --> 00:17:43,680 Speaker 3: the presence of. 317 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:44,200 Speaker 2: The hit Ice. 318 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:47,280 Speaker 3: You can imagine Abraham saint, don't go away, don't don't 319 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 3: show them, and stay here. I'm actually hear the rest 320 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:52,200 Speaker 3: of the eel of all who went at the gate 321 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:55,479 Speaker 3: of his town. And then Abraham buried his wife Sarah 322 00:17:55,560 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 3: in the cave of the field of flat facing Momrae. 323 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 3: Now Emrome felling you where it is in the land 324 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:06,480 Speaker 3: of Cana. Thus, in case you listed, thus the field 325 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 3: with its cave passed from the hit ice to Abraham 326 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:14,679 Speaker 3: as a burial site. So that that was that was 327 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:17,040 Speaker 3: very clear what was intended to here. Lucky we hear 328 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 3: a mid about Abraham on this the rabbi is considered 329 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 3: Abraham's kind of a very praiseworthy Here is one from 330 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 3: the mid rush. 331 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:29,440 Speaker 2: Come and see the humility of Abraham. 332 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:32,920 Speaker 3: Our father, the Holy One blessed be he, that's God 333 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:36,119 Speaker 3: promised to give him and his seed the land forever. 334 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:39,680 Speaker 3: Yet now he could only find a burial ground by 335 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:42,879 Speaker 3: paying a high price. And yet he did not question 336 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:45,919 Speaker 3: the attributes of the Holy One blessed to be, and. 337 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:49,159 Speaker 2: He did not complain. After all, you think Abraham is 338 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 2: about to die, it needs a burial place. You would 339 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 2: think it's a god I don't have, I don't have 340 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:56,359 Speaker 2: a senti. You would lad here, what's going on here? 341 00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:59,120 Speaker 2: But no, you see, and there's a. 342 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:01,520 Speaker 3: Great lesson here, not just the one that is Midrash 343 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:06,320 Speaker 3: this rabbinic legend or philosophical bilopy which one people wants 344 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:09,400 Speaker 3: to teach. It's this, even if God makes promises to you, 345 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 3: you have to act. Even when God. 346 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:14,879 Speaker 2: Makes promises, and in most of our lives, God doesn't 347 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:15,679 Speaker 2: make promises. 348 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:19,880 Speaker 3: But even if God directly promises you something, you cannot 349 00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 3: sit back and let. 350 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:22,880 Speaker 2: God do it. How much more so the. 351 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:25,200 Speaker 3: Rest of us, for whom we don't have direct promises, 352 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:27,959 Speaker 3: You cannot say God will do it. 353 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:32,639 Speaker 2: You must do everything. And that's the lesson that at 354 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:37,240 Speaker 2: least has been inferred from this particular chapter. Moreover, Abraham 355 00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 2: addressed the inhabitants of the. 356 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:41,800 Speaker 3: Land with humility, as it is said, I am a 357 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 3: stranger and a sojourner with you, said the Holy One 358 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 3: blessed to eat Abraham. You have humiliated yourself on thy life. 359 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 3: I will make you a lord and a prince over there. 360 00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:53,920 Speaker 2: Okay, that was that. 361 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 3: That's not what God actually said. That's what they said 362 00:19:57,119 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 3: God said this mid rush. Now all Legion McCloud says 363 00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:03,640 Speaker 3: on this particular. 364 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:07,679 Speaker 1: Thing, this episode of timeless wisdom will continue right after this. 365 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 1: Now back to more of Dennis Prager's timeless wisdom. 366 00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 3: Why is the Bible, I'm so concerned with the acquisition 367 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 3: of the grave site. A close reading of the text 368 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:28,280 Speaker 3: reveals a profound anxiety time Abraham's measured phrases. 369 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 2: After all, he has no assurance that the hit sites 370 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 2: will agree to his request. 371 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 3: He might have to bury his life somewhere by the 372 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:41,280 Speaker 3: roadside in no man's land, just as Jacob was later 373 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:41,919 Speaker 3: forced to do. 374 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 2: At this moment of his life. After the fearful trial, 375 00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:48,480 Speaker 2: at moreal. 376 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:53,200 Speaker 3: The binding of Isaac and bereave of his beloved life, 377 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:59,200 Speaker 3: Abraham seeks desperately for something physical, someplace, even a gravesite 378 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:02,639 Speaker 3: to call his own. Yet again, his hope is tried, 379 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:06,439 Speaker 3: and he must ask others strangers to do what he 380 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:09,679 Speaker 3: cannot do for himself, and what God can only crowns 381 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:11,399 Speaker 3: to obtain. 382 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:12,160 Speaker 2: A mere piece of earth. 383 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:16,919 Speaker 3: The few moments of bargaining represent therefore another trial for 384 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:20,920 Speaker 3: the patriarch. In the limpse of this man bound low 385 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:24,159 Speaker 3: before the debits, we see the friend of God, for 386 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 3: in once more between agony and oak. Further the burial 387 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:32,920 Speaker 3: place is it foken God promised Abraham and his descendants 388 00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:37,480 Speaker 3: of the land Pelaven is a visible sign of the future, 389 00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:40,320 Speaker 3: a burial place for the dead. 390 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:47,400 Speaker 2: Is the only piece of land that Abraham, a non resident, 391 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:48,680 Speaker 2: can hope to acquire. 392 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:53,000 Speaker 3: It represents a foken title to the promised land and 393 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:56,520 Speaker 3: a symbol of possession where when the people are far 394 00:21:56,560 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 3: from the land, whether in Egyptian slavery or European exaus. 395 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:06,120 Speaker 3: All right, that's chapter twenty three. Now chapter twenty four. 396 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:15,840 Speaker 3: Abraham was now old, advanced in years, and the Lord 397 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 3: hath blessed Abraham in all things. In other words, this 398 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:26,000 Speaker 3: is really, in effect the death bed request of Abraham 399 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:31,480 Speaker 3: that we're about about to encounter. And Abraham said to 400 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:36,080 Speaker 3: the senior servant of his household. This senior servant is 401 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:39,440 Speaker 3: never named, by the way, and has to be accounted 402 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:42,679 Speaker 3: one of the minor heroes of the Bible. When you 403 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:46,960 Speaker 3: see what a job and servant did, you will really 404 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:53,320 Speaker 3: say why the help they had in those days. And 405 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:56,480 Speaker 3: Abraham said to the senior servant of his household, who 406 00:22:56,520 --> 00:23:00,080 Speaker 3: had charge of all that he owned, put your hand 407 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 3: under my thigh, and I will make you swear by 408 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 3: the Lord, the God of heaven and earth, that you 409 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 3: will not take a wife for my son from the 410 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,200 Speaker 3: daughters of the Kingaanites. 411 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:17,920 Speaker 2: Among whom I dwell, but will go to the land 412 00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:21,120 Speaker 2: of my birth and get a wife from my son Isaac. 413 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 3: First of all, put your hand under my thigh. 414 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 2: How do you make a deal with someone today? You 415 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:29,880 Speaker 2: shake the person's hand. 416 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 3: So before you regard this as bizarre, remember that we 417 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 3: also constantly deals with the touching of an organ of 418 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 3: the other person in this case. In our case, it's 419 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,120 Speaker 3: the hand, all right, let's shake on that. 420 00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:47,920 Speaker 2: Correct. 421 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:53,280 Speaker 3: Then in those days you would take an oath putting 422 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:56,679 Speaker 3: your hand under the other presumably man man under the 423 00:23:56,720 --> 00:24:02,640 Speaker 3: other man's thigh, which probably meant either hold his testicles 424 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 3: or hold his penis. 425 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 2: It meant one of them. And by the way, we 426 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:12,160 Speaker 2: actually have a proof of this which I picked up once. 427 00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:14,560 Speaker 3: And I haven't seen mentioned again, but I am convinced 428 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:15,560 Speaker 3: that it was accurate. 429 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:22,440 Speaker 2: We get the word testimony from testical. That's how old 430 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 2: it is. 431 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:28,399 Speaker 3: Put put puts your hands on my on my testies, 432 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:30,080 Speaker 3: on my organ. 433 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:34,080 Speaker 2: I mean that that's really makes it serious. I mean 434 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:41,760 Speaker 2: that's definitely more than a handshake. And that really is 435 00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:44,080 Speaker 2: what puts your hand under my thighs is it? 436 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,200 Speaker 3: And we notice it's also other Middle East and texts 437 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:51,960 Speaker 3: that we have that that actually used similar terminology at 438 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:53,400 Speaker 3: any rate, That's. 439 00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,280 Speaker 2: What was going on here. So this is a big Oah, 440 00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:56,480 Speaker 2: put your hand under my. 441 00:24:56,560 --> 00:25:00,080 Speaker 3: Thigh, And why does he make the servant swear? 442 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,960 Speaker 2: And this is again like a deathbed swear. It's really 443 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:04,159 Speaker 2: a solemn as you can. 444 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:06,920 Speaker 3: Get with a hand under the thigh and the deathbed. 445 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,800 Speaker 3: This has made your stuff from Abraham that you won't 446 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:11,920 Speaker 3: let my son. 447 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:15,320 Speaker 2: Marry a girl from the Canaanites. 448 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:21,680 Speaker 3: Now why not, m You might say, well, he wants 449 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:23,880 Speaker 3: them to marry a Jew, but. 450 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:27,159 Speaker 2: There are no Jews. So that question is do they 451 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 2: go way might say wanted them to marry a Monothy's 452 00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:32,280 Speaker 2: whole Monothy is in those days. 453 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:38,119 Speaker 3: The issue has nothing to do with race and ethnicity or. 454 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,119 Speaker 2: Even have to do with Monotheism. 455 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 3: It has to do, I believe, because I went through 456 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:45,120 Speaker 3: a lot of sources on. 457 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 2: This, overwhelmingly with one simple fact. The Torah has deep 458 00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:54,320 Speaker 2: contemned for the Canadius. It considers them. 459 00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 3: To be the lowest of the law, with their with 460 00:25:56,680 --> 00:26:02,480 Speaker 3: their child's sacrifice, with their horrible rituals, with their sacred 461 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:06,040 Speaker 3: prostitution and so on. It considers them the lowest of 462 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:12,040 Speaker 3: the low. And if you look in Leviticus eighteen three, 463 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:16,480 Speaker 3: you will see that the Jews are ordered. You may 464 00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 3: not act the way that Egyptians, and you may not 465 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:22,760 Speaker 3: act in the way the Canaanitites act. 466 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 2: All the nations are not mentioned. 467 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,879 Speaker 3: Doesn't say, no'mact like the Philistines, go act like the 468 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:29,680 Speaker 3: Gilgamines of the Babylonians. 469 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,640 Speaker 2: It says, don't act life. 470 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 3: The Egyptians who enslave you, so that'll really get home, 471 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:38,160 Speaker 3: or the Canaanites. 472 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:40,920 Speaker 2: They are a miserable group. 473 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 3: And that is the reason that I am convinced that 474 00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 3: Abraham says this, because it doesn't say he ends up Isaac. 475 00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:52,119 Speaker 2: This is where you can get shripped. Isaac does end. 476 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:56,200 Speaker 3: Up marrying the relevant, but that is not what Abraham 477 00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:59,600 Speaker 3: had asked his servant to do. Remember that you can 478 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:04,880 Speaker 3: get stripped up, tripped up by the tradition on this. Yes, 479 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 3: it is true Isaac ends up marrying Abraham's brothers grandchild, granddam, 480 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:18,119 Speaker 3: but that is not whom a servant was told to 481 00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:22,280 Speaker 3: have married Isaac. He was called, simply go back to 482 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:26,360 Speaker 3: my home land, find somebody, get out of Canan, go 483 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:30,720 Speaker 3: back there, have and then take her back to hear. 484 00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:34,199 Speaker 2: That's what you must do, is you will see. So 485 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 2: that's why this is a little involved. Okay. That that 486 00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:46,080 Speaker 2: is the death is the oath that he takes. 487 00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:48,919 Speaker 3: By the way, remember the way it is, because he 488 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:50,160 Speaker 3: will repeat the whole. 489 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:54,400 Speaker 2: Story later the servant and drops his parents. So remember 490 00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:57,080 Speaker 2: if you can, what he is taking an oath to do. 491 00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 2: Go to the land of my birth, get a life 492 00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:03,520 Speaker 2: of my son Isaac. By the way, you might notice 493 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 2: on my just mention, already. 494 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:09,000 Speaker 3: Isaac doesn't play a single role in the choosing of 495 00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:13,639 Speaker 3: his wife. Even this, and he's already, you know, because 496 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 3: it's after Sarah's death, he's already in his forties, and 497 00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:21,040 Speaker 3: yet he doesn't do anything about it. 498 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 2: Even this is. 499 00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 3: Done solely by his father, just as he was taken 500 00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:31,639 Speaker 3: for the sacrifice by his father, no parallel, intendant, he 501 00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 3: is taken to. 502 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:37,120 Speaker 2: The altar by his daughter. I consider marriage much much 503 00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:40,160 Speaker 2: better than sacrificing. I just want to make that clear. 504 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:43,000 Speaker 2: For some people, they all requitment. 505 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 3: Unfortunately, that's not that's not the parrel of Lion and 506 00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:49,520 Speaker 3: LOI favored market Town police. 507 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,160 Speaker 2: Don't forget it on the holy plenty of time. 508 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 3: But I know all was my. 509 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:54,520 Speaker 2: Track, thank you. 510 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,360 Speaker 3: Verse five, And the servant said to him, what if 511 00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:01,640 Speaker 3: the woman does not consent to follow me to this land? 512 00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:04,680 Speaker 2: All right? Did you get it? Remember he has to 513 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,320 Speaker 2: go find a life in the home land, but a 514 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,280 Speaker 2: bigger back to Canaan. Right. 515 00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,520 Speaker 3: So the servant has a very good question, what if 516 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:15,120 Speaker 3: the woman doesn't consent to follow me to his land? 517 00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:17,480 Speaker 3: Shall I then take your son back to the land 518 00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:21,640 Speaker 3: from which he came, in other words, in effect leave 519 00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 3: him there? 520 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:23,400 Speaker 2: Okay? 521 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:29,760 Speaker 3: So Noahs, by the way, an interesting thing here, which 522 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,920 Speaker 3: again a lot of readings made me aware of it. 523 00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 2: He didn't say, what if the woman doesn't consent to 524 00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:39,600 Speaker 2: brry Isaac that much? They didn't have freedom. 525 00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 3: Women in those days, but she could have the freedom 526 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:47,040 Speaker 3: not to move. For a woman to choose her husband 527 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,960 Speaker 3: is unheard of in most of the world to this 528 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 3: day in some ways, and certainly in rap history. But 529 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 3: what she did have a right to say was I 530 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:59,440 Speaker 3: don't want to leave my family. So she that's the 531 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,680 Speaker 3: question he asks, not why if she said no? 532 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:05,480 Speaker 2: We why if she doesn't want to move? Okay? 533 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:10,400 Speaker 3: So Abraham answers him verse six. On no account, I mean, 534 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 3: this is really the Hebrew is very direct. Must you 535 00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:20,240 Speaker 3: take my son back there? The Lord heaven who took 536 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,480 Speaker 3: me from my father's house and from my native land, 537 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:27,800 Speaker 3: who promised me on oath saying I will give this 538 00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:32,720 Speaker 3: land to your offspring. He will send his angel before you, 539 00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:36,200 Speaker 3: and you will get a wife for my son from there. 540 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:40,520 Speaker 3: And if the woman doesn't consent to follow you, you 541 00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:43,160 Speaker 3: shall then be clear of this oath to me. But 542 00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:45,840 Speaker 3: do not take my son back there. In other words, 543 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:48,880 Speaker 3: only don't don't come back for Isaac, and we'll move 544 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 3: him there. In other words, Canaan has to be where 545 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:56,400 Speaker 3: he stays, because Israel is what promise to us. This 546 00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:58,560 Speaker 3: is where we stay. If you don't get. 547 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:00,320 Speaker 2: A life for him. If you don't get a life. 548 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 3: For him, you did what you could do. It didn't work. Fine, 549 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 3: but Isaac doesn't. 550 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:10,400 Speaker 2: Move clear, Okay, that is what he demands. That can. 551 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:13,120 Speaker 3: By the way, I have not seen commentaries on this, 552 00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:19,000 Speaker 3: but no angels showed up. It's funny that the NEIGHBORHM 553 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,160 Speaker 3: says to the servant, an angel will help you do 554 00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:26,280 Speaker 3: this whole ask, but no angel actually does show up later. 555 00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:29,600 Speaker 3: I've not seen commentary on it, and I find that 556 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:30,240 Speaker 3: of interest. 557 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:33,360 Speaker 2: I guess Abraham was so used to angels showing up 558 00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 2: and helping out of these difficult things. 559 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 3: I need it. 560 00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:38,600 Speaker 2: That's probably what happens. Listen, where's the worst? Does like? 561 00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:40,880 Speaker 2: And they will have an angel show on, you know 562 00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,360 Speaker 2: when you know, when you get into angels. That's the 563 00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 2: problem with expectations and luck, you know. But we'll trouble 564 00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:51,680 Speaker 2: get an angel. But anyway, as I say, no angel 565 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:54,840 Speaker 2: does show up. Now, okay, we. 566 00:31:54,960 --> 00:32:07,040 Speaker 3: Continue, all right. Nine, So the servant put his hands 567 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:11,120 Speaker 3: under the thigh of his master Abraham and swore to 568 00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 3: him as biddeness. 569 00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:19,440 Speaker 2: Okay, then a servant can then a servant the ten 570 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:24,240 Speaker 2: of his master's camels. This will come in report in 571 00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:28,960 Speaker 2: the story ten Camels, and set out thinking with him 572 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,640 Speaker 2: all the bauty of his master. 573 00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:36,840 Speaker 3: I think that that did more than an angel. If 574 00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,600 Speaker 3: you want to get a light and camels is a 575 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:44,640 Speaker 3: better idea. That's really comes out here because this wealth 576 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:49,240 Speaker 3: definitely overwhelms Laban, who has the final say of regard 577 00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:50,440 Speaker 3: for Rebecca later as we. 578 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:53,480 Speaker 2: See, I mean, if he took all of Abraham's balty. 579 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:55,760 Speaker 3: I mean he gave four hundred schos of silver to 580 00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:58,880 Speaker 3: the hit bike, like nothing like you know pocket chain. 581 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 3: He was clearly wealth the Abraham, and that helps in 582 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:03,160 Speaker 3: getting a woman. 583 00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:04,719 Speaker 2: There's just nobody around them. 584 00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,840 Speaker 3: There's got a whole weekend on relationships, and pointed out 585 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,400 Speaker 3: that this is a fact of life, and it is 586 00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:13,680 Speaker 3: an unfortunate fact, but it is matched by other unfortment 587 00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:16,360 Speaker 3: facts in the other direction, which he will see as well. 588 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 2: But he goes. 589 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:20,000 Speaker 3: He wants to make a very impression that if you 590 00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:23,800 Speaker 3: want to get somebody a daughter to bury your son. 591 00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,320 Speaker 2: It helps the brink and candles and all of your bounty. 592 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:31,520 Speaker 3: So he takes all the valley of mess imagely through 593 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 3: Aram Naharayan to the city of Nahor. He made the 594 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:41,480 Speaker 3: camels kneel down and buy the well outside the city. 595 00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:43,480 Speaker 2: This servant is a genius. 596 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:48,960 Speaker 3: This servant is so impressive because remember everything that the 597 00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:50,320 Speaker 3: servant does, he. 598 00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:53,880 Speaker 2: Came up with. None of this was told all Abraham. 599 00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 2: Pol was what to do, and Abraham didn't even all 600 00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:58,640 Speaker 2: the works and is it veils come back. Just don't 601 00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:01,440 Speaker 2: take Isaac to back to my own life. Right. 602 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:04,480 Speaker 3: He doesn't give him a word on how to go 603 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,960 Speaker 3: about getting a wife or Isaac. 604 00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 2: The servant has to create the whole scenario on his own. 605 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:15,520 Speaker 2: And it's as you will see. It is brilliant, and 606 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:19,600 Speaker 2: I found to be one of the most touching in 607 00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:23,480 Speaker 2: the Bible. On what he does to figure out who 608 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:27,080 Speaker 2: is the right person to be the daughter in law 609 00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,279 Speaker 2: of Abraham, to be a. 610 00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:32,680 Speaker 3: Matriarch of this succession of Abraham and his religion? 611 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:34,919 Speaker 2: What does he do? 612 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,239 Speaker 3: He made the camels of Versila and kneel down by 613 00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:42,360 Speaker 3: the well outside the city at evening. 614 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:45,719 Speaker 2: Time, the time when women come out to droll water. 615 00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:49,319 Speaker 3: Ay thing is he comes to a city, where is 616 00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 3: the best place to find. 617 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:55,719 Speaker 2: Single women by the way out the No. 618 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,840 Speaker 3: That's exactly That's exactly what I said. Where else abody 619 00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:01,400 Speaker 3: gonna find them? When you didn't have single bars in 620 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:03,399 Speaker 3: the os arey got to show up there anyway. It's 621 00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:05,880 Speaker 3: not the type of person he want for Isaac. He 622 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,719 Speaker 3: went to the well where you where you fe the 623 00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:12,000 Speaker 3: where you fed the animals, where the women come at 624 00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:14,879 Speaker 3: and where they feed their families come out for droll water. 625 00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:16,800 Speaker 2: I tell you, if. 626 00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:18,759 Speaker 3: Somebody would make a film of this, it would be 627 00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:19,879 Speaker 3: so overwhelming. 628 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,759 Speaker 2: It's so beautiful because the details are so rich. 629 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:31,840 Speaker 3: Twelve And he said, Oh Lord, God of my Master, Abraham, 630 00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:37,120 Speaker 3: grant me good fortune this day, and deal graciously with 631 00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:42,759 Speaker 3: my master Abraham. Here I stand by the spring, as 632 00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:45,879 Speaker 3: the daughters of the townsmen come out to draw water. 633 00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:52,200 Speaker 3: Let the maiden to whom I say, please lower your 634 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:56,480 Speaker 3: jar that I may drink, and who replies drink. 635 00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,080 Speaker 2: And I will also order your cattles. 636 00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:02,880 Speaker 3: Let her be the one whom you have decreed for 637 00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:07,480 Speaker 3: your servant, Isaac. Thereby shall I know that you have 638 00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:09,400 Speaker 3: dealt graciously with my master. 639 00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:12,960 Speaker 1: This episode of timeless wisdom will continue right after this. 640 00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:22,160 Speaker 1: Now back to more of Dennis Prager's timeless wisdom. 641 00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:24,800 Speaker 2: This is his plan. 642 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:29,000 Speaker 3: It's really it is. It's overwhelming in its beauty, and 643 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,959 Speaker 3: it's touching on many First of all, you might find 644 00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:35,920 Speaker 3: it of interest. This is the first individual petitionary prayer 645 00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:40,680 Speaker 3: in the Bible, and I would like to know the following. 646 00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:46,120 Speaker 3: It is the petitionary prayer not of a patriarch, not 647 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:47,200 Speaker 3: of a matriarch. 648 00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:51,439 Speaker 2: It is not of a Hebrew, and it is not 649 00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 2: even of a person with a name. 650 00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:58,000 Speaker 3: I find that very moving that the first prayer to 651 00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:03,680 Speaker 3: God in this way of making a request is nothing 652 00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:08,200 Speaker 3: you would have expected. It's an anonymous human being race 653 00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:09,960 Speaker 3: origin unknown. 654 00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:14,399 Speaker 2: And why does that say anyone can talk to God, 655 00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:19,160 Speaker 2: anyone can ask God to come into his or her life. 656 00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:22,520 Speaker 2: I find that very moving. And that's the person to 657 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,400 Speaker 2: whom attributed the first prayer. 658 00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:27,279 Speaker 3: As such, others talk to God, but this is the 659 00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,600 Speaker 3: first prayer because we have no record of God appearing 660 00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,640 Speaker 3: to this person. It wasn't like God and this servant 661 00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:40,320 Speaker 3: were on biological grounds like with Noah or with Abraham. 662 00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:43,520 Speaker 2: Not at all, just a spontaneous prayer. 663 00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:48,839 Speaker 3: I ask you God for the following. What is very powerful, though, 664 00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 3: that you might have missed is this and. 665 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,560 Speaker 2: What does it resonate with me? He did not pray 666 00:37:55,600 --> 00:38:00,680 Speaker 2: for himself. The first petitionary prayer is for somebody else. 667 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:06,160 Speaker 2: I have a sense that those are that, in a 668 00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:10,040 Speaker 2: certain sense, is almost the ideal that you are. You 669 00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:14,359 Speaker 2: ask for God on another's hand. That's why he had asked, 670 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:16,960 Speaker 2: is Oh, God, let me have the following so I 671 00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:18,279 Speaker 2: can do my job right. 672 00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:21,440 Speaker 3: Can't rewarded, which is a very logical thing for an 673 00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:23,040 Speaker 3: employee to say, Okay. 674 00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:25,080 Speaker 2: They do a great job of being Rachel mebail. 675 00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:28,440 Speaker 3: Me whatever, no, let me fulfill what is needed for 676 00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:33,600 Speaker 3: abramham O God that's his request. Now not only that, 677 00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:36,759 Speaker 3: but it's very interesting. Of course, he requests very specific 678 00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:39,680 Speaker 3: things from God. God and I have to do the 679 00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:43,239 Speaker 3: following test, and I want the I'll know the right 680 00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:47,160 Speaker 3: girl or Isaac on the basis of her fulfilling it 681 00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:50,239 Speaker 3: with the following response. I mean, he was asking for 682 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:52,200 Speaker 3: a great deal. But on the other handles and us 683 00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:57,680 Speaker 3: or not on being sent by Abraham on the test, 684 00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:00,959 Speaker 3: so he had cloud that some of us in some 685 00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:02,080 Speaker 3: sense may not have had. 686 00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:03,920 Speaker 2: But that of course would invalidate the. 687 00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:07,120 Speaker 3: Idea that anybody could pray aditionarily, which is clearly an 688 00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:10,320 Speaker 3: important idea. Anyway, Why is his thing? 689 00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:13,759 Speaker 2: What is the test? This is critical that we follow this. 690 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:17,960 Speaker 2: How will he know the right person for Isaac? This 691 00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:20,200 Speaker 2: is the part that Welling in. 692 00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:29,160 Speaker 3: Reading it purely based on fooitness, it's so fuschy. That 693 00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:32,960 Speaker 3: is the one grounds upon which I will know what 694 00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:34,920 Speaker 3: you write for Isaac. 695 00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:37,720 Speaker 2: Is she kind and good? 696 00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:46,640 Speaker 3: None of the other stuff, not her career, not her well, 697 00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:51,319 Speaker 3: not her view need. So that comes in later, as 698 00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:54,359 Speaker 3: we'll see. But that's not Nyana's boy. He says, I'll 699 00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:58,480 Speaker 3: know who's right for Isaac based on the way she responds. 700 00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:01,319 Speaker 2: To my request for water, And why does he. 701 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:05,400 Speaker 3: Say I want to review review it. It's not only 702 00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:08,120 Speaker 3: enough that she will say, please lower your jar that 703 00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:14,040 Speaker 3: I may drink. Excuse me that she replies drink, yes, 704 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 3: here is my jar, but that she volunteers and I 705 00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:20,080 Speaker 3: will also water your camels. 706 00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:24,880 Speaker 2: How many camels? Ten camels? Can you imagine going to 707 00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:27,120 Speaker 2: somebody and saying, can I have a drink? Sure? Let 708 00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:31,239 Speaker 2: me do your ten cattle Wallerado. I actually get so 709 00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:34,000 Speaker 2: much research on this. I found out how long it 710 00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:37,799 Speaker 2: takes for a camel to fill up. Okay, I did 711 00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:39,520 Speaker 2: it tens ten minutes. 712 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,040 Speaker 3: That's a long time to drink ten minutes the camel 713 00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:46,880 Speaker 3: drinks to fill up ten camels is one hundred minutes. 714 00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:50,480 Speaker 2: That's one hour and forty minutes of just camel drinking. 715 00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:55,000 Speaker 2: That's a very very big deal to a stranger and talking. 716 00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:56,799 Speaker 2: You have to understand. 717 00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:59,880 Speaker 3: It almost does board on the miraculous. I mean, I 718 00:40:59,920 --> 00:41:03,040 Speaker 3: think I'm a good guy. I could imagine saying okay, 719 00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:05,720 Speaker 3: I'll help your camel too, But if the guy comes 720 00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:06,759 Speaker 3: with an army. 721 00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:09,719 Speaker 2: I'd say, listen, let me show you where the water is. 722 00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:12,600 Speaker 2: I have a wonderful day, right, I mean, I even 723 00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:14,120 Speaker 2: I think I'm a good guy. 724 00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:18,000 Speaker 3: So he is asking you have to remember not just 725 00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:23,960 Speaker 3: for Kiyas, but someone of extraordinary, almost miraculous goodness. To 726 00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:27,760 Speaker 3: have said that to a stranger like that is just extraordinary. 727 00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:30,960 Speaker 3: And by the way, you will recall, so I won't. 728 00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:31,560 Speaker 2: Go over it again. 729 00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:35,759 Speaker 3: How I kept emphasizing how treatment that the stranger is 730 00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:39,800 Speaker 3: the greatest statement of ethics of decency in the world. 731 00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:44,759 Speaker 3: And this is a deeply, deeply even biblical notion that 732 00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:49,120 Speaker 3: you must treat strangers well. You will also find, of course, 733 00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:52,680 Speaker 3: the parallels here and why Moses was chosen by God? 734 00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:55,600 Speaker 2: Why Moses? Why not somebody else? 735 00:41:56,440 --> 00:42:00,240 Speaker 3: How simple kindness is the issue, and we're going to come. 736 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:03,320 Speaker 2: To that when you see what happens. Anyway, this is 737 00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:05,200 Speaker 2: quite a request he's making of God. 738 00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:08,640 Speaker 3: You must understand that the person should be this remarkable. 739 00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:18,759 Speaker 2: However, I want to make one. 740 00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:30,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, where he has made this request is verse eighteen right, none, No, fourteen, sorry, 741 00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:34,279 Speaker 3: like eighteen almost reduplications. I want to read fourteen the 742 00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:40,920 Speaker 3: Hebrew to make sure. Yeah, it doesn't say all the camels. 743 00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:43,960 Speaker 3: It says the camels in Hebrew. You have that an 744 00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:45,720 Speaker 3: English dude, Yeah, they're camels. 745 00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:49,920 Speaker 5: It doesn't say all the camels, so in a sense, 746 00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:54,359 Speaker 5: she could have passed the test not doing all ten camels. Okay, No, 747 00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:56,960 Speaker 5: I think that is important because, as I said, the 748 00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:00,160 Speaker 5: nature of the request is almost superhuman that. 749 00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:04,680 Speaker 3: Somebody would volunteer that after being just asked for a drink. Okay, 750 00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:11,080 Speaker 3: So we go to verse fifteen. He had scarcely finished 751 00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:20,399 Speaker 3: speaking when Rebecca, who was born to the two al 752 00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:24,759 Speaker 3: the son of Milcop, the wife of Abraham's brother, not 753 00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:31,120 Speaker 3: far In other words, cases that confuses you, Rebecca is 754 00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:38,239 Speaker 3: the daughter of Abraham's nephew, or if you will, abraham 755 00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:40,279 Speaker 3: brother's granddaughter. 756 00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:43,840 Speaker 2: Great niece. Yeah, that will never would have helped me. 757 00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:46,640 Speaker 2: I mean, I thank you. I don't know what a 758 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:47,400 Speaker 2: great niece. 759 00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:51,120 Speaker 3: Is, and that it's through confusing his brother's granddaughter struck me. 760 00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:52,680 Speaker 3: He's the easiest way to figuring out I am so 761 00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:55,080 Speaker 3: made a family connections deal that I actually drew out 762 00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:56,800 Speaker 3: a chart for myself with all these names. 763 00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:58,760 Speaker 2: I couldn't figure it out through the text. 764 00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:01,640 Speaker 3: So whichever one is easier for you, because it is 765 00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:05,040 Speaker 3: obviously important, Either you would hold it as the daughter 766 00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:06,240 Speaker 3: of Abraham's nephew. 767 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,040 Speaker 2: So think of your nephew, and then think of your 768 00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:12,680 Speaker 2: nephew having a daughter. That would be it your. 769 00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:17,280 Speaker 3: Abraham or your brother's granddaughter, if that's easy. 770 00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,239 Speaker 2: Anyway, that's who she is, it tells you here. 771 00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:22,440 Speaker 3: Of course, he doesn't know that. 772 00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:24,879 Speaker 2: That's very important. The servant doesn't know that at all. 773 00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:29,000 Speaker 2: He just sees women who are at the wealth. She 774 00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,200 Speaker 2: came out with her job on her shoulder. 775 00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:40,880 Speaker 3: The mazing was very The girl was very beautiful, a virgin. 776 00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:41,839 Speaker 2: Whom no man had known. 777 00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:44,360 Speaker 3: By the way, it's very interesting you would think that 778 00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:48,680 Speaker 3: that's redundant. That's exactly what virgins are, women who no 779 00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:52,840 Speaker 3: man has known. And I figured out the reason, and 780 00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:56,920 Speaker 3: this was actually a revelation to me. The live Hebrew 781 00:44:57,200 --> 00:45:01,719 Speaker 3: is always translated as virtuine, but it doesn't always mean 782 00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:05,600 Speaker 3: technically virgin. It could simply mean woman of marriageable agent 783 00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:10,000 Speaker 3: who is not technically a virgin. That's the reason the 784 00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:11,120 Speaker 3: words in Hebrew are read. 785 00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:12,000 Speaker 2: I didn't know that. 786 00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:15,120 Speaker 3: By the way, in this regard, Christians here will find 787 00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:18,680 Speaker 3: this particular interest because so often Isaiah with a virgin 788 00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:21,320 Speaker 3: shel And see who decided with regard to the birth 789 00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:24,640 Speaker 3: of Jesus, the word there is not even bit du La. 790 00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:28,520 Speaker 3: It's Almah, which is even less a virgin. Then, and 791 00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,920 Speaker 3: my point is God forbid not to undermine any faith. 792 00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:34,760 Speaker 2: It's only to be honest to the text. It isn't 793 00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:35,759 Speaker 2: even bitdu. 794 00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:38,600 Speaker 3: Lah, which is closer to virgin, than Almah, which is. 795 00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:39,479 Speaker 2: Just young woman. 796 00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:42,960 Speaker 3: So it's very important to know what words we're using here, 797 00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:45,040 Speaker 3: and that is why it says a virgin whom no 798 00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:48,640 Speaker 3: man had known, she went down to the spring, filled 799 00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:54,360 Speaker 3: her jar, and came up. Now, it is important here 800 00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:58,680 Speaker 3: it says she was beautiful, and it's important that it 801 00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:00,280 Speaker 3: says it for a number of reasons. 802 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:01,160 Speaker 2: I am convinced. 803 00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:05,400 Speaker 3: One of the reasons is, after all, he has his choice, 804 00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:06,239 Speaker 3: the serpent. 805 00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:09,040 Speaker 2: Of whom to choose, and he didn't know that she 806 00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:12,879 Speaker 2: was decent any more than any of the other women there. 807 00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:16,280 Speaker 3: He obviously picked a beautiful or the most beautiful girl 808 00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:19,840 Speaker 3: who was at the weather. Right, And that's just something 809 00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:22,799 Speaker 3: that the text is telling you, because well, why not 810 00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:24,040 Speaker 3: start with the most beautiful? 811 00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:27,080 Speaker 2: We can always go down from there. But the but 812 00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:29,839 Speaker 2: there was another, right, there was another element I think 813 00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:30,160 Speaker 2: in this. 814 00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:35,880 Speaker 3: I think it's the text is saying to you she 815 00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:37,680 Speaker 3: was very beautiful. 816 00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:41,240 Speaker 2: And yet despite that, look at how she acted. 817 00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:45,400 Speaker 3: I think that that, frankly, is as much part of 818 00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:46,280 Speaker 3: lot as being. 819 00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:49,759 Speaker 2: Said about Rebecca. It makes clear why he chose her. 820 00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:52,600 Speaker 3: But I think can answer to her greatness, because it 821 00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:55,640 Speaker 3: is very easy for a particularly beautiful woman or particularly 822 00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:59,000 Speaker 3: handsome man to be particularly arrogant, to. 823 00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:01,440 Speaker 2: Rely solely on that in life to get ahead. And 824 00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:03,960 Speaker 2: while white father being kind, who needs it. 825 00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:08,279 Speaker 3: I'll get all the attention. Okay, so this is the 826 00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:13,240 Speaker 3: woman he's doing the test. That's all we know right now. Okay, 827 00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:16,239 Speaker 3: let's continue. The servant ran to her and said, please 828 00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:20,240 Speaker 3: let me sip a little water from your jar, just as. 829 00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:23,239 Speaker 2: He said in his prayer that God would do. 830 00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:26,000 Speaker 3: He says to her, if you have never read this 831 00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:28,600 Speaker 3: story before, aren't you at your seat's edge? 832 00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:31,160 Speaker 2: I mean, isn't it, Facett? What's gonna happen? Why does 833 00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:38,240 Speaker 2: she do? This? Beautiful woman? And eighteen? Drink, my lord? 834 00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:44,360 Speaker 3: She said, And she quickly lowered her jar upon her hand. 835 00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:50,960 Speaker 2: And let him drink so far apart on his past. Correct. Okay, 836 00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:54,520 Speaker 2: and I will show you how the text goes. 837 00:47:56,920 --> 00:48:00,799 Speaker 3: There's a word in this sentence which albody tells you 838 00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:02,440 Speaker 3: she's going to pass this test. 839 00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:11,360 Speaker 2: What's the word nope? 840 00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:15,720 Speaker 3: Nope, nope? 841 00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:22,680 Speaker 2: Are not many words like guys? Quickly quickly? That tells 842 00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:24,320 Speaker 2: you what was the hint? 843 00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:28,440 Speaker 3: She not only did what he requested, she quickly did it. 844 00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:32,000 Speaker 2: And those adverbs are gonna show up like crazy now 845 00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:32,959 Speaker 2: to tell you. 846 00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:36,280 Speaker 3: What, Michael, the person is Rebecca is. She didn't merely 847 00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:38,960 Speaker 3: give him to drink. She quickly gave him to drink. 848 00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:41,520 Speaker 3: Now you know she's gonna pass the test. 849 00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:44,040 Speaker 2: That's the giveaway. This is the kind of person you 850 00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:47,040 Speaker 2: give by the way, I get the chills. Why he says, 851 00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:49,600 Speaker 2: where do you see such a thing? Where character is 852 00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:52,879 Speaker 2: everything in choosing a spouse and to show you how 853 00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:54,719 Speaker 2: it's done. And I will have a lot to say 854 00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:58,120 Speaker 2: about that, because this is what I always talking about. 855 00:48:58,280 --> 00:49:01,200 Speaker 2: My singles don't think about. When they often while to 856 00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:03,360 Speaker 2: meet somebody, they think about why do they like it? 857 00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:06,279 Speaker 2: Allian food? And what kind of movies they like it. 858 00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:09,319 Speaker 2: Character never shows up and it's the only thing here. 859 00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:11,399 Speaker 2: Can you imagine if the guy drink, I really hope 860 00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:12,319 Speaker 2: she likes message that. 861 00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:24,000 Speaker 4: A need boot, So she says, drink my order. 862 00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:26,759 Speaker 2: She quickly lowered her genre upon her hand and let 863 00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:27,760 Speaker 2: him drink. Quickly. 864 00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:32,520 Speaker 3: When she had let him drink his fill, she said, 865 00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:38,640 Speaker 3: I will also draw for your camels until they finished drinking, 866 00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:44,000 Speaker 3: and adds again, I won't nearly start it. I will 867 00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:47,640 Speaker 3: stay till the end. Listen to this woman. I will 868 00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:50,360 Speaker 3: stay in the end for watching have end, for stumping 869 00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:54,440 Speaker 3: a cowl, drink all of this water. It's unbelievable what 870 00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:57,880 Speaker 3: she does, ten of them. 871 00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:01,880 Speaker 2: What's the first word in the next level? Quickly you 872 00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:04,960 Speaker 2: see what I mean? Affects is telling you what kind 873 00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:09,280 Speaker 2: of person this is. It's like almost unreal. Quickly emptying 874 00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:12,320 Speaker 2: her genre into the truck, she ran back to the 875 00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:16,000 Speaker 2: well to draw. She ran back to the well. She 876 00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:17,680 Speaker 2: didn't merely go back. 877 00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:22,319 Speaker 3: She's in Washington, do a stranger of favor, and she 878 00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:25,239 Speaker 3: drew for how many camels? 879 00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:29,120 Speaker 2: All Disney apples? Which you think? The effect is pretty 880 00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:31,040 Speaker 2: clear on what kind of what you did? You ask? 881 00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:35,319 Speaker 3: That guy must be standing there, absolutely awe, that's right, 882 00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:36,439 Speaker 3: an absolute lawe. 883 00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:40,239 Speaker 2: This is a giant. He's probably also thinking, God, if 884 00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:45,840 Speaker 2: I think want you, why I think for me? Everybody didn't. 885 00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:49,719 Speaker 3: And that is exactly what happens in the next verse 886 00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:52,799 Speaker 3: The man meanwhile stude gays me had her. 887 00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:57,040 Speaker 2: He was awestruck silently. 888 00:50:56,880 --> 00:51:00,920 Speaker 3: The Hebrew is incredible. There is I mean, it's new. 889 00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:05,080 Speaker 3: He was at its death and new. He is totally 890 00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:10,799 Speaker 3: speechless because he doesn't want to say anything here, but 891 00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:14,719 Speaker 3: wondering whether the law had made his errand successful or not. 892 00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:18,439 Speaker 3: He really watched the herder say these things, but now 893 00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:19,560 Speaker 3: he was going to watch. 894 00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:20,239 Speaker 2: That she really did it. 895 00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:24,880 Speaker 3: At this point we have a suspicion, of course, that's 896 00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:34,279 Speaker 3: exactly what will happen. Three times between verses nineteen and 897 00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:38,480 Speaker 3: twenty two, three times it notes that she. 898 00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:42,200 Speaker 2: Let them drink until they were all filled. Isn't that something? 899 00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:43,600 Speaker 2: And sure enough. 900 00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:47,240 Speaker 3: Again in verse twenty two, when the camels had finished drinking, 901 00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:49,200 Speaker 3: the man took. 902 00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:53,920 Speaker 2: A gold nosering weighing a half shekelt and two gold 903 00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:58,920 Speaker 2: bands for her arms ten khols in waiting. Now, a 904 00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:00,640 Speaker 2: few things for a moment. 905 00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:05,319 Speaker 3: One of the things that all the commentators know is 906 00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:09,280 Speaker 3: that her tenderness to the animals is also a big factor, 907 00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:13,759 Speaker 3: as you may recall with Moses as well later and. 908 00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:17,879 Speaker 2: The heaven Bible treatment of animals decently is an actually 909 00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:20,720 Speaker 2: very important thing. And remember is one of the seven 910 00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:23,640 Speaker 2: laws of the whole world. 911 00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:27,520 Speaker 3: That Judaism holds the whole world is boundary, and that 912 00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:29,400 Speaker 3: one is that you can't cut the limb off a 913 00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:33,040 Speaker 3: living animal, which is why people did prior to refrigeration 914 00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:34,400 Speaker 3: to keep animals fresh. 915 00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:37,200 Speaker 2: Oh, I'll take a chicken. I'll take a chicken leg 916 00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:37,880 Speaker 2: And they pulled a. 917 00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:41,440 Speaker 3: Leg off, And this was one of the seven things 918 00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:44,880 Speaker 3: the world is commanded not to do. That tenderness to 919 00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:45,960 Speaker 3: animals is a. 920 00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:47,280 Speaker 2: Very important factor. 921 00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:54,200 Speaker 3: It certainly a large basis of les of Kusher as well. Anyway, 922 00:52:56,000 --> 00:53:00,080 Speaker 3: let me just see, Oh I missed one little point here. 923 00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:04,120 Speaker 3: There were so many points in this thing. In verse seventeen, 924 00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:11,040 Speaker 3: he said, please let me sit a little warmer, He said, 925 00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:11,800 Speaker 3: a little warmer. 926 00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:16,279 Speaker 2: He purposely understated his request to make the test that 927 00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:19,680 Speaker 2: more difficult. She could have easily said gears over the 928 00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:22,880 Speaker 2: water and felt that she was doing fine. Okay, I 929 00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:25,600 Speaker 2: just wanted to remark on that. 930 00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:30,600 Speaker 3: So all the quickly is, all the running to do things, 931 00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:33,200 Speaker 3: all the filling up of all the camels, which took 932 00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:37,080 Speaker 3: one hour and forty minutes without any time between camels 933 00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:42,640 Speaker 3: between camels, and her concern for animals is just a 934 00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:43,600 Speaker 3: number of questions. 935 00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:51,960 Speaker 2: That's right, that's very possible. 936 00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:58,480 Speaker 3: She wasn't that impressive, so what I know about camel feeding. 937 00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:01,600 Speaker 3: But I would think though, that she'd keep coming back 938 00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:02,759 Speaker 3: and forth pouring. 939 00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:04,759 Speaker 2: And it so probably puts somewhere between ten minutes and 940 00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:07,879 Speaker 2: an hour and forty minutes. Fair enough, but it's still 941 00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:09,959 Speaker 2: but it's right, But it's still a lot of water. 942 00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:12,440 Speaker 2: All right. That'd be maybe not as much time, but 943 00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:13,440 Speaker 2: a lot of water. 944 00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:19,360 Speaker 3: While we're her parents thinking during that time, back his 945 00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:30,560 Speaker 3: holly helping strangers again. Okay, twenty, let's see hold on, yeah, right, 946 00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:32,880 Speaker 3: my notes. I just want to make sure if she 947 00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:36,080 Speaker 3: runs back quickly and he's all his panels. Oh, let 948 00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:37,120 Speaker 3: me read to you about a. 949 00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:39,440 Speaker 2: Russian rabbi in the nineteenth century. 950 00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:49,880 Speaker 3: The malbem said about her here, okay, if he he 951 00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:54,279 Speaker 3: points out her her kindness and greatness this way, the 952 00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:57,920 Speaker 3: ordinary reaction of the girl would be to the to 953 00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:00,960 Speaker 3: the servant who was there. You're standing by the well, 954 00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:05,040 Speaker 3: help yourself to the water. Number two, they would money 955 00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:07,680 Speaker 3: of girls going out to fetch water. She could say, 956 00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:11,200 Speaker 3: why pick on me when I've already replaced the job 957 00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:14,440 Speaker 3: on my shoulder? They've got another girl who's still holding 958 00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:17,160 Speaker 3: the water on her head in her hand. 959 00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:19,799 Speaker 2: Excused me they could look some of the sites I 960 00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:20,840 Speaker 2: saw in the middle eighty. 961 00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:23,880 Speaker 3: Third, I shall ask her to filter the jug herself 962 00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:27,640 Speaker 3: to enable me to drink. This means a special effort 963 00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,400 Speaker 3: for her to let down the dreadful water jug in 964 00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:31,640 Speaker 3: order to give me a drink. 965 00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:34,000 Speaker 2: She would be justified in being. 966 00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:37,120 Speaker 3: Annoyed and saying, filter the jar yourself from my shoulder 967 00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:39,840 Speaker 3: and drink, But don't will bother me to do it myself? 968 00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:42,719 Speaker 2: It upwards out he's putting out even more goodness is 969 00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:44,399 Speaker 2: here than I had noted him. 970 00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:47,759 Speaker 3: For her offer to give my camels a drink, too, 971 00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:51,919 Speaker 3: would indicate their thoughtfulness and understanding, showing that she had 972 00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:56,200 Speaker 3: said to herself, this man is obviously handicapped and cannot 973 00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:59,640 Speaker 3: draw the water himself from the well and lowered the jug. 974 00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:03,319 Speaker 3: If he can't give himself a drink, then he most 975 00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:05,719 Speaker 3: certainly isn't up for water, and the camels too. 976 00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:07,560 Speaker 2: Isn't that interesting? 977 00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:11,799 Speaker 3: This would indicate her finest to animals, not forgetting the thirst. 978 00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:12,280 Speaker 2: Of the camels. 979 00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:16,399 Speaker 3: So while this rabbi nineteen century Russia was saying it 980 00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:19,160 Speaker 3: is she really thought, if this guy can't even for 981 00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:23,359 Speaker 3: his own war, he's obviously not physically capable of doing this. 982 00:56:23,520 --> 00:56:25,280 Speaker 2: Now I feel sorry for his candles. 983 00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:28,680 Speaker 3: I mean, now, how many people give the benefit of 984 00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:30,359 Speaker 3: the doubt from a stranger like that. 985 00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:34,440 Speaker 2: And wouldn't just say lazy? Right, It's a very interesting 986 00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:38,120 Speaker 2: twist on this that this nineteenth century Russian rabbi. 987 00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:57,360 Speaker 6: Notes, Yeah, so you think. 988 00:56:57,200 --> 00:57:09,280 Speaker 3: That she had ulcurier motives because she liked the guy? Yeah, well, 989 00:57:09,920 --> 00:57:12,480 Speaker 3: it's a modern reading that this gentleman has at that 990 00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:15,800 Speaker 3: it was really a good pickup line of the ancient areas. 991 00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:18,360 Speaker 2: Who knows? Who knows? 992 00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:21,360 Speaker 3: I understand what you're saying. I don't fully see it 993 00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:23,000 Speaker 3: that way, but I appreciate it. Let me let me 994 00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:26,080 Speaker 3: just continue here because this is a very long chapter 995 00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:29,680 Speaker 3: and I want to finish it. We are up to 996 00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:34,520 Speaker 3: one person, my friends twenty three? Yeah, okay, Now, when 997 00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:35,680 Speaker 3: the count finished. 998 00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:39,160 Speaker 2: Drinking on only then the man put the gold nose ring, 999 00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:43,160 Speaker 2: which by only gives you an idea of the antiquity 1000 00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:46,520 Speaker 2: of this of this the story is, it's obviously not 1001 00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:47,280 Speaker 2: the sort of thing. 1002 00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:49,880 Speaker 3: You would relate to, though it seems to be making 1003 00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:55,600 Speaker 3: a comeback in some parts of noetrect the Biblical times. 1004 00:57:55,640 --> 00:58:03,000 Speaker 7: On Melrose, okay, the man took the gold nose ring 1005 00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:05,760 Speaker 7: way and half shik el and two gold bands for 1006 00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:06,400 Speaker 7: her arms. 1007 00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:07,920 Speaker 2: Ten shekels, invited, no words. 1008 00:58:07,920 --> 00:58:11,880 Speaker 3: Obviously very very wealthy stuff, very rich slipping things. 1009 00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:15,080 Speaker 2: Pray tell me, he said, who's door arey? This is 1010 00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:20,040 Speaker 2: very important. He did not know who she was. The 1011 00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:24,040 Speaker 2: only reason he picked her was because of her acts 1012 00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:26,560 Speaker 2: he had. And that's you don't I can't tell you 1013 00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:29,200 Speaker 2: I'm poor. That is because some traditions try to hold 1014 00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:31,360 Speaker 2: well deep down. He really knew that this was developed 1015 00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:34,840 Speaker 2: in the Abraham nonsense that expells you. He doesn't know 1016 00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:36,560 Speaker 2: who she is. Still, the acts. 1017 00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:40,000 Speaker 3: It's the acts that make her deserving to be the matriarch, 1018 00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:45,680 Speaker 3: not a bird. Okay, merit by action, not by birth. 1019 00:58:47,720 --> 00:58:49,160 Speaker 3: Whose daughter are he is? 1020 00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:51,720 Speaker 2: Is there room in your father's house for us to 1021 00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:52,360 Speaker 2: spend the night? 1022 00:58:55,720 --> 00:58:58,280 Speaker 3: She replied, I am the daughter of the two al 1023 00:58:58,400 --> 00:58:59,600 Speaker 3: the son of milk. 1024 00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:01,400 Speaker 2: Up, whom she worked enough for. 1025 00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:05,400 Speaker 3: And she went on, there's plenty of straw and feet 1026 00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:08,919 Speaker 3: at home, and also room to spend the night. Again, 1027 00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:12,440 Speaker 3: do you remember the story with Moses Later and Sipora, 1028 00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:18,560 Speaker 3: and where he goes to her home. The man bowed 1029 00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:22,400 Speaker 3: love in homage to the Lord, that's to God, and said, 1030 00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:26,200 Speaker 3: blessed be the Lord, the God of my master Abraham, 1031 00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:29,960 Speaker 3: who has not who had held his steadfast kindness from 1032 00:59:29,960 --> 00:59:33,440 Speaker 3: my master, For I have been guided on my errand 1033 00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:35,120 Speaker 3: by the Lord to the. 1034 00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:37,160 Speaker 2: House of my master's kinsmen. 1035 00:59:38,840 --> 00:59:42,480 Speaker 3: Now he knows that there is that they are related. 1036 00:59:43,000 --> 00:59:45,120 Speaker 3: I'd also like to point out here a lot of 1037 00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:48,960 Speaker 3: people make petitionary prayers to God, and a lot of 1038 00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:50,480 Speaker 3: people get their prayers answered. 1039 00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:52,640 Speaker 2: Let's be honest. There a lot of you who have 1040 00:59:52,680 --> 00:59:54,880 Speaker 2: created somebody, be well the person as well. 1041 00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:57,959 Speaker 3: How often have you then said a prayer thanking God 1042 00:59:58,040 --> 01:00:01,800 Speaker 3: for having happened. I would say that requests are far 1043 01:00:01,840 --> 01:00:05,960 Speaker 3: more common than gratitude. This is very impressive on the 1044 01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:09,440 Speaker 3: part of the servant. He didn't forget to say it 1045 01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:11,960 Speaker 3: thank you, which was just as long. 1046 01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:16,480 Speaker 2: As the request was. I was moved by that. Twenty eight. 1047 01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:25,760 Speaker 3: The maiden ran and told all this to her mother's household. 1048 01:00:27,160 --> 01:00:29,280 Speaker 2: Now that apparently that. 1049 01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:33,840 Speaker 3: Her father is either dead or comatos, he has a 1050 01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:37,840 Speaker 3: very non existent role. That's the mother's household, that's her 1051 01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:42,240 Speaker 3: brother Lavian, who plays their major role, and so on. Now, 1052 01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:46,000 Speaker 3: Rebecca had a brother whose name was Laban or Lavana. 1053 01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:51,160 Speaker 2: Laban ran out to the man at the spring when 1054 01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:53,800 Speaker 2: he saw the nose ring and the vans. 1055 01:00:53,440 --> 01:00:56,800 Speaker 3: On his sister's arms, and when he heard his sister 1056 01:00:56,840 --> 01:00:58,160 Speaker 3: Rebecca say, thus. 1057 01:00:58,080 --> 01:00:59,120 Speaker 2: The man spoke to me. 1058 01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:02,440 Speaker 3: He went up to the man who was still standing 1059 01:01:02,480 --> 01:01:04,040 Speaker 3: beside the camels of the spring. 1060 01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:08,000 Speaker 2: Now you can read this either as this is normal. 1061 01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:11,360 Speaker 3: Human conduct or an implication by the Torah that Laban 1062 01:01:11,480 --> 01:01:16,560 Speaker 3: is very touched by money. Okay, what does Lagan see 1063 01:01:16,880 --> 01:01:18,680 Speaker 3: a nose ring? 1064 01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:21,400 Speaker 2: Okay, it's just you know, it's two nobles. We don't 1065 01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:24,800 Speaker 2: know yet. Nolion know Labor later. That's the assumption. And no, 1066 01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:28,439 Speaker 2: Layman is not the love lightman, that is clear from 1067 01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:29,280 Speaker 2: the text. 1068 01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:31,760 Speaker 3: Anyway, he went up to the man who was still 1069 01:01:31,800 --> 01:01:33,520 Speaker 3: standing beside the camels. 1070 01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:33,880 Speaker 2: In the spring. 1071 01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:38,160 Speaker 3: Come in, oh, blessed of the Lord, He said, why 1072 01:01:38,160 --> 01:01:40,760 Speaker 3: do you remain outside when I have made ready the 1073 01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:43,600 Speaker 3: house in a place for the camels. So the man 1074 01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:47,360 Speaker 3: entered the house and the camels were unloaded. The camels 1075 01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:50,480 Speaker 3: were given straw and feed, and water was brought to 1076 01:01:50,560 --> 01:01:53,280 Speaker 3: Bathe his feet and the feet of the men with him. 1077 01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:54,800 Speaker 2: But when food was. 1078 01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:57,360 Speaker 3: Set before him that as a servant, he said, I 1079 01:01:57,400 --> 01:01:59,200 Speaker 3: will not even feel like old mac tail. 1080 01:01:59,960 --> 01:02:02,280 Speaker 2: This is some worker, huh. I mean he is really 1081 01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:05,600 Speaker 2: extraordinary everybody. First of all, he's the one who thought 1082 01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:08,480 Speaker 2: up this whole thing, not an him. You've just got 1083 01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:09,840 Speaker 2: to remember that that he's. 1084 01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:14,560 Speaker 3: The one who's this character orientation, ethics, decency, goodness orientation. 1085 01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:17,320 Speaker 2: And he's not going to take food until he finishes 1086 01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:17,880 Speaker 2: his desk. 1087 01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:26,600 Speaker 3: I am Abraham's servant, he began verse thirty four. The 1088 01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:30,479 Speaker 3: Lord has greatly blessed my master, and he has become rich. 1089 01:02:30,640 --> 01:02:33,960 Speaker 2: He is very shrewd. He knows what more? 1090 01:02:34,160 --> 01:02:37,320 Speaker 3: Lady, Okay, telling you layman, I want you to know 1091 01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:39,000 Speaker 3: this man is an ethic anopy is. 1092 01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:45,440 Speaker 2: That would not go over. What does he do? He 1093 01:02:45,600 --> 01:02:49,200 Speaker 2: is given him sheep and cattle, not even enough to 1094 01:02:49,240 --> 01:02:51,400 Speaker 2: tell him he's rich. I want you to know how rich. 1095 01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:55,880 Speaker 3: Sheep and cattle, silver and gold, male and female servants, 1096 01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:57,200 Speaker 3: camels and acids. 1097 01:02:57,920 --> 01:03:01,600 Speaker 2: Oh that's who you're representing me talking. That's an effect 1098 01:03:01,680 --> 01:03:03,920 Speaker 2: what one is being said here Now. 1099 01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:06,360 Speaker 3: I'm not this I will plays him in two minutes 1100 01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:09,640 Speaker 3: now and Sarah my master's wife or my master a 1101 01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:13,160 Speaker 3: son in her old age, and he has given him 1102 01:03:13,240 --> 01:03:14,520 Speaker 3: everything he owned. 1103 01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:19,200 Speaker 2: Again, very rich son in law or actually you're his 1104 01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:20,000 Speaker 2: brother in law, O. 1105 01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:25,640 Speaker 3: Lagan that I'm talking about. See he The beauty of 1106 01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:29,840 Speaker 3: this servant is he is smart enough to know what 1107 01:03:29,960 --> 01:03:34,120 Speaker 3: you have to do when he cares about goodness and ethics. 1108 01:03:33,800 --> 01:03:36,560 Speaker 2: When it comes to choosing his spouse for Isaac. But 1109 01:03:36,760 --> 01:03:39,760 Speaker 2: he totally thoughts money. But it comes to getting Urda 1110 01:03:39,800 --> 01:03:43,040 Speaker 2: Mary Isaac to talking to Laban, you get it. This 1111 01:03:43,280 --> 01:03:45,760 Speaker 2: is a smart man. You have to know what to say, 1112 01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:47,520 Speaker 2: who to do what you need. 1113 01:03:47,840 --> 01:03:49,680 Speaker 3: If he is at all, you're very fine. And your 1114 01:03:49,720 --> 01:03:52,240 Speaker 3: daughter has such wonderful epics. The guy had been shown 1115 01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:56,760 Speaker 3: at tend door. That's that's what's obtuous now and will 1116 01:03:56,800 --> 01:03:57,680 Speaker 3: see the proof here. 1117 01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:02,360 Speaker 2: Now, My master made me swear saying you shall not. 1118 01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:05,680 Speaker 3: Get a wife for my son from the daughters of 1119 01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:11,400 Speaker 3: the Cannanites in whose land I dwell? Now what was 1120 01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:15,080 Speaker 3: the actual swear that Abraham made him? 1121 01:04:15,520 --> 01:04:17,840 Speaker 2: You will know this. You will ask the question I 1122 01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:18,840 Speaker 2: asked when I study this. 1123 01:04:18,800 --> 01:04:21,800 Speaker 3: Why does the hat to recount the whole story in 1124 01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:23,800 Speaker 3: the servant's words, why. 1125 01:04:23,600 --> 01:04:24,439 Speaker 2: Don't you just say? 1126 01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:28,440 Speaker 3: And the servant pulled labor in the story, and to 1127 01:04:28,520 --> 01:04:29,920 Speaker 3: show you the brilliance of the. 1128 01:04:29,880 --> 01:04:33,040 Speaker 2: Servant and what to feel for labor. What did he drop? 1129 01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:36,640 Speaker 3: Notice he said, now, my master made me swear, saying right, 1130 01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:39,040 Speaker 3: go back, please to verse three. 1131 01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:48,880 Speaker 2: What was the actual swear? Verse three? I made you swear? 1132 01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:50,680 Speaker 2: This is Abraham booking to the servant. 1133 01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:53,360 Speaker 3: I made you swear by the Lord, the God of 1134 01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:56,480 Speaker 3: Aan and the God of Earth. Now what does it 1135 01:04:56,560 --> 01:05:00,440 Speaker 3: say here in thirty seven when he recounts it, God 1136 01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:02,040 Speaker 3: is invention. 1137 01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:05,880 Speaker 2: And in one of the great lines. 1138 01:05:06,120 --> 01:05:09,720 Speaker 3: Of the Humble labors who as she is one of 1139 01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:11,640 Speaker 3: the great scholars in the world. 1140 01:05:13,680 --> 01:05:17,920 Speaker 2: She has written commentaries on all on all the books, compilations, 1141 01:05:17,920 --> 01:05:21,080 Speaker 2: and they're just wonderful. She has one life. 1142 01:05:21,160 --> 01:05:23,400 Speaker 3: She's not going for a sense of humor. But I 1143 01:05:23,520 --> 01:05:29,720 Speaker 3: found very raw line she writes. The servant doesn't mention 1144 01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:32,560 Speaker 3: the oath and full from verse three about Jehovah. 1145 01:05:32,160 --> 01:05:34,040 Speaker 2: Daughter Heaven and daughter of her quote. 1146 01:05:34,880 --> 01:05:40,000 Speaker 3: This would not be appreciated in layman's circles. I love 1147 01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:43,720 Speaker 3: the under statement from the theme. So you notice how 1148 01:05:43,800 --> 01:05:46,440 Speaker 3: he drops Bundy has to and as money has to. 1149 01:05:46,840 --> 01:05:50,880 Speaker 2: That's why it's recounted. He doesn't mention any guy. I 1150 01:05:50,880 --> 01:05:52,440 Speaker 2: didn't take an old than God's name. 1151 01:05:52,480 --> 01:05:57,200 Speaker 3: I just sworecas Laban's crowd, God, God of heaven, God 1152 01:05:57,240 --> 01:06:00,280 Speaker 3: of hurt. Who is this guy? They would have been suspicious. 1153 01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:02,600 Speaker 3: They can swear everybody has those old. 1154 01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:04,240 Speaker 2: Cultures, but not in the name of. 1155 01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:06,520 Speaker 3: God, because this is not that she writes, going to 1156 01:06:06,560 --> 01:06:10,920 Speaker 3: be appreciated by layman circles. All right, let's come finally. 1157 01:06:10,960 --> 01:06:14,240 Speaker 3: I'm thirty seven. Yeah, you make me swear did. 1158 01:06:13,760 --> 01:06:15,840 Speaker 2: Not get a life from my son from the daughters 1159 01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:18,440 Speaker 2: of the conn ice in whose land I twelve? But 1160 01:06:18,560 --> 01:06:20,920 Speaker 2: you should go to my father's house, my kindred, get 1161 01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:25,760 Speaker 2: away from my son. That's not true. He never said that. Abraham. 1162 01:06:25,840 --> 01:06:28,520 Speaker 2: He made his whole thing up. He just said, come 1163 01:06:28,560 --> 01:06:31,000 Speaker 2: to my whole land. He makes help, go to my 1164 01:06:31,160 --> 01:06:33,720 Speaker 2: family and my kidred. Now he gives all I got 1165 01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:35,560 Speaker 2: to the family. Why I'm throwing him because this is 1166 01:06:35,600 --> 01:06:36,440 Speaker 2: exactly along. 1167 01:06:36,560 --> 01:06:40,160 Speaker 3: So now not only is he unbelievably rich your future 1168 01:06:40,200 --> 01:06:40,600 Speaker 3: brother in. 1169 01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:43,360 Speaker 2: Law, but there are fates involved. 1170 01:06:42,920 --> 01:06:46,040 Speaker 3: Here because he sent me to find a lookalife out 1171 01:06:46,600 --> 01:06:48,680 Speaker 3: and the guy is a real He get sharped. 1172 01:06:49,080 --> 01:06:53,160 Speaker 2: He is truly sharp. And I said to my master, 1173 01:06:53,520 --> 01:06:55,200 Speaker 2: a lot of the women does not follow me. 1174 01:06:55,840 --> 01:06:58,880 Speaker 3: He replied to me, the Lord whose ways I have followed, 1175 01:06:59,160 --> 01:07:02,760 Speaker 3: will send his angel with you and make your errand successful. 1176 01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:05,560 Speaker 3: I still don't know why the angel showed up, but 1177 01:07:05,640 --> 01:07:06,760 Speaker 3: he figured out why not. 1178 01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:10,560 Speaker 2: It shows that angels were involved. So the faith's angels money. 1179 01:07:10,760 --> 01:07:15,840 Speaker 2: This is he's doing everything possible to get Rebecca. 1180 01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:22,240 Speaker 3: So angels where what? Where's one fortune? And will send 1181 01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:24,360 Speaker 3: an angel with you and make your marriage successful. You 1182 01:07:24,360 --> 01:07:26,480 Speaker 3: will get a wife from my son, from my kindred, 1183 01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:27,720 Speaker 3: from my father's house. 1184 01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:30,840 Speaker 2: And keeps repeating it, even though it's pure belonging forty one. 1185 01:07:31,400 --> 01:07:34,200 Speaker 3: Thus, only shall you be free for my adjuration, for 1186 01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:36,760 Speaker 3: my errand if when you choot, when you come from 1187 01:07:36,800 --> 01:07:40,040 Speaker 3: my kindred, they recuse you, only then shall you be 1188 01:07:40,160 --> 01:07:44,840 Speaker 3: freed from my errand for my open I came today. 1189 01:07:44,560 --> 01:07:46,880 Speaker 2: To the spring, and I said, oh, Lord, God of 1190 01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:49,760 Speaker 2: my Master Abraham. Now he throws it any figures. Maybe 1191 01:07:49,760 --> 01:07:52,640 Speaker 2: at this point he could actually invoke God. But who 1192 01:07:52,640 --> 01:07:55,360 Speaker 2: which God, God of my Master Abraham, knock gone at 1193 01:07:55,360 --> 01:07:57,360 Speaker 2: the heavens? And God of the earth in whose name 1194 01:07:57,440 --> 01:08:01,320 Speaker 2: he took the spare. Remember that God of my master Abraham. Okay, 1195 01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:04,720 Speaker 2: Abraham has a god. Okay, if you would indeed grant 1196 01:08:04,800 --> 01:08:07,800 Speaker 2: success to the errand on which I am engaged. As 1197 01:08:07,840 --> 01:08:09,439 Speaker 2: I stand by the spring of water. 1198 01:08:09,760 --> 01:08:12,240 Speaker 3: But the young woman who comes out to draw, and 1199 01:08:12,360 --> 01:08:14,959 Speaker 3: to whom I say, please let me drink a little water, 1200 01:08:15,120 --> 01:08:17,639 Speaker 3: you repeat it, exactly, a little water from your jar, 1201 01:08:18,040 --> 01:08:20,999 Speaker 3: and who answers you may drink, and I will also 1202 01:08:21,120 --> 01:08:24,320 Speaker 3: drive for your camels. Told it exactly right here, led her, 1203 01:08:24,320 --> 01:08:27,400 Speaker 3: who the life, who the Lord has decreed for my 1204 01:08:27,520 --> 01:08:28,280 Speaker 3: master's son. 1205 01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:30,800 Speaker 2: This is pretty intimidating. 1206 01:08:30,200 --> 01:08:32,200 Speaker 3: For later me and I have to admit it, right, 1207 01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:35,360 Speaker 3: I mean, all the things involved here and it works. 1208 01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:39,360 Speaker 3: I mean it's intimidating as sulf work. I had scarcely 1209 01:08:39,400 --> 01:08:42,720 Speaker 3: finished praying in my heart when Rebecca came out with 1210 01:08:42,800 --> 01:08:44,080 Speaker 3: her jar on her shoulder. 1211 01:08:44,160 --> 01:08:45,360 Speaker 2: By the way, how does he know her name? 1212 01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:47,640 Speaker 3: We don't know exactly the assumption as he heard it 1213 01:08:48,280 --> 01:08:50,960 Speaker 3: in conversation there went down to the spring and drewers. 1214 01:08:50,960 --> 01:08:53,559 Speaker 2: Remember he didn't ask her name. He asked where her 1215 01:08:53,600 --> 01:08:57,320 Speaker 2: father was, and I said to her, please give me 1216 01:08:57,360 --> 01:09:00,920 Speaker 2: a drinking. She quickly see that he got it right. 1217 01:09:01,120 --> 01:09:03,960 Speaker 3: She quickly lowered her jar and said drink, and I 1218 01:09:04,000 --> 01:09:05,479 Speaker 3: will also water your cattles. 1219 01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:08,519 Speaker 2: So I drank, and she also ordered the camels. I 1220 01:09:08,520 --> 01:09:10,160 Speaker 2: ain't quired of her. Whose daughter are you? 1221 01:09:10,200 --> 01:09:12,679 Speaker 3: And she said daughter to two elson of the hooker 1222 01:09:12,760 --> 01:09:14,479 Speaker 3: who milk up board hand. 1223 01:09:14,960 --> 01:09:17,200 Speaker 2: And I put the ring on her nose and the 1224 01:09:17,320 --> 01:09:22,600 Speaker 2: bands on her arms is not true? Did you patch that? 1225 01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:30,519 Speaker 2: That's not true? In that worse d now he put 1226 01:09:30,520 --> 01:09:32,920 Speaker 2: it on her nose. That's not the problem. He got 1227 01:09:32,920 --> 01:09:34,840 Speaker 2: the order totally reversed. Purposely. 1228 01:09:35,760 --> 01:09:37,800 Speaker 3: He didn't know who she was when she when he 1229 01:09:37,880 --> 01:09:41,400 Speaker 3: gave her the nose ring, He says, I asked, oh 1230 01:09:42,040 --> 01:09:43,120 Speaker 3: you are in that family. 1231 01:09:43,439 --> 01:09:49,840 Speaker 2: Here's the nosery. He lies through his thea because to 1232 01:09:49,920 --> 01:09:52,439 Speaker 2: tell Laban in his crowd, when I saw what a 1233 01:09:52,479 --> 01:09:54,760 Speaker 2: beautiful human beings she is, that's what I gave for 1234 01:09:54,840 --> 01:09:56,360 Speaker 2: the nose ring. But I can't give me a break. 1235 01:09:56,600 --> 01:09:59,839 Speaker 2: Oh no, he tellsn't it. I knew she's in your family. 1236 01:10:00,160 --> 01:10:03,400 Speaker 2: I gave her the nose ring. They got his leaving 1237 01:10:03,520 --> 01:10:05,720 Speaker 2: that whole story here. That is why I say this 1238 01:10:05,760 --> 01:10:07,719 Speaker 2: thing would make such a great film. He keep looking 1239 01:10:07,760 --> 01:10:11,639 Speaker 2: at the camera dark and then called back to Laban 1240 01:10:11,720 --> 01:10:14,240 Speaker 2: and you know, and Laban is sucking it up and 1241 01:10:14,400 --> 01:10:14,880 Speaker 2: loving it. 1242 01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:18,360 Speaker 3: Oh my family, of course, like he gave a move 1243 01:10:19,120 --> 01:10:19,880 Speaker 3: care who it was. 1244 01:10:19,920 --> 01:10:22,639 Speaker 2: It wasn't supposed to be family. It didn't matter if 1245 01:10:22,640 --> 01:10:27,160 Speaker 2: to Abraham it didn't matter. But deserving him, then I bowed. 1246 01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:29,120 Speaker 3: Him low and homage to the Lord, and bless the Lord, 1247 01:10:29,160 --> 01:10:31,599 Speaker 3: the God of my master Abraham. 1248 01:10:31,280 --> 01:10:33,040 Speaker 2: Who led me on the right way to get the 1249 01:10:33,120 --> 01:10:37,000 Speaker 2: daughter of my master's brother for his selling Ruffian right? 1250 01:10:37,520 --> 01:10:40,360 Speaker 2: Is that a right? Big? Why not? Great? Why I'll 1251 01:10:40,439 --> 01:10:40,640 Speaker 2: use it? 1252 01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:43,600 Speaker 3: And now if you mean to treat my master with 1253 01:10:43,680 --> 01:10:46,920 Speaker 3: true kindness, Eli, and if not, tell me also that 1254 01:10:47,040 --> 01:10:47,920 Speaker 3: I may turn right on it. 1255 01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:52,040 Speaker 2: Okay, it's decision time. He's not even eating yet. He's 1256 01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:54,840 Speaker 2: also small on this issue. He doesn't want him to dally. 1257 01:10:55,120 --> 01:10:56,360 Speaker 2: He doesn't even want to kneel. 1258 01:10:56,800 --> 01:11:01,800 Speaker 3: He wants bombarding him with God, angels, faith, diamonds and 1259 01:11:01,960 --> 01:11:03,519 Speaker 3: camels to get the answer. 1260 01:11:05,120 --> 01:11:08,160 Speaker 2: And sure enough, he was right to demand it. 1261 01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:11,360 Speaker 3: Soon Verse fifty. Then Laban and the two hal answered 1262 01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:14,680 Speaker 3: the duel. The duelf the father shows up like he 1263 01:11:14,760 --> 01:11:17,240 Speaker 3: had an answer to him. I think he's just thrown 1264 01:11:17,280 --> 01:11:20,720 Speaker 3: in there for good measure. The matter was decreed by 1265 01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:23,519 Speaker 3: the Lord. We cannot speak to you better. In other words, 1266 01:11:23,520 --> 01:11:26,439 Speaker 3: we can't tell you whether we have no answer to 1267 01:11:26,479 --> 01:11:29,400 Speaker 3: give you. Here is Rebecca. In other words, it is, 1268 01:11:29,439 --> 01:11:32,760 Speaker 3: it is true. But oh, actually, excuse me. Where is 1269 01:11:32,800 --> 01:11:34,640 Speaker 3: the program that said the ten days I want her 1270 01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:36,439 Speaker 3: to get the diary. Well, they'll come up. 1271 01:11:36,920 --> 01:11:37,680 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. 1272 01:11:38,360 --> 01:11:39,840 Speaker 3: Oh, it comes a little later. So I have this 1273 01:11:39,960 --> 01:11:42,920 Speaker 3: mixed up anyway, he says. He says, Look, it was 1274 01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:43,920 Speaker 3: decreed by the Lord. 1275 01:11:44,080 --> 01:11:47,120 Speaker 2: In other words, the argument's work of the of the 1276 01:11:47,479 --> 01:11:50,960 Speaker 2: of the messenger. Here is Rebecca before you take her 1277 01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:54,000 Speaker 2: and go. Ah, Now, I'll tell you that's why I'm 1278 01:11:54,160 --> 01:11:56,479 Speaker 2: like that. He wants a decision now that they will valley, 1279 01:11:56,680 --> 01:11:57,479 Speaker 2: not on the. 1280 01:11:57,400 --> 01:12:00,880 Speaker 3: Wife part, but on the moving part. Remember he has 1281 01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:04,400 Speaker 3: two major requests here. Wife is one, but that's not 1282 01:12:04,960 --> 01:12:07,000 Speaker 3: that's not the whole thing at all. She has to 1283 01:12:07,040 --> 01:12:10,040 Speaker 3: be able to move and leave her family. So here 1284 01:12:10,120 --> 01:12:12,720 Speaker 3: is Rebecca, before you take her and go and let 1285 01:12:12,760 --> 01:12:14,439 Speaker 3: her be a wife to your master's son. 1286 01:12:14,479 --> 01:12:17,160 Speaker 2: As the Lord is spoken, in other words, I even 1287 01:12:17,200 --> 01:12:18,320 Speaker 2: see the hand of God in here. 1288 01:12:18,360 --> 01:12:20,920 Speaker 3: There's no question, And I mean the happiness be anything 1289 01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:22,000 Speaker 3: but that, Okay. 1290 01:12:22,320 --> 01:12:23,559 Speaker 2: I also I like your money. 1291 01:12:24,040 --> 01:12:27,320 Speaker 3: When abraham servant heard their words, he battleoaded the ground 1292 01:12:27,360 --> 01:12:28,000 Speaker 3: before the war. 1293 01:12:28,479 --> 01:12:31,200 Speaker 2: The servant brought out objects of sumer and gold. 1294 01:12:31,400 --> 01:12:34,160 Speaker 3: Why why if he's already said yes, is he gonna 1295 01:12:34,280 --> 01:12:36,719 Speaker 3: still bring out more money because he has. 1296 01:12:36,600 --> 01:12:40,120 Speaker 2: The big request to make. Now the life part is 1297 01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:44,040 Speaker 2: the easy part. This is the felt part. He brings 1298 01:12:44,080 --> 01:12:46,280 Speaker 2: out more silver and gold than garments, and gave it 1299 01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:48,800 Speaker 2: to Rebecca, and gave presents to my brother and our mother. 1300 01:12:49,400 --> 01:12:53,160 Speaker 2: Guy smart. Then he and the man with him aiden's rake, 1301 01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:54,280 Speaker 2: and then spent the night. 1302 01:12:54,640 --> 01:12:57,559 Speaker 3: When they arose next morning, he said, give me leave 1303 01:12:57,640 --> 01:12:58,559 Speaker 3: to go to my master. 1304 01:12:59,720 --> 01:13:02,599 Speaker 2: But her brother and her mother said, let the maiden 1305 01:13:02,680 --> 01:13:07,200 Speaker 2: remain with us some ten days. See that it's one 1306 01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:09,479 Speaker 2: thing to give it to give her away and get 1307 01:13:09,479 --> 01:13:11,320 Speaker 2: all this money. That's great, and we can get rich 1308 01:13:11,360 --> 01:13:13,080 Speaker 2: because we stay here with all our money. 1309 01:13:13,360 --> 01:13:14,960 Speaker 3: But now he's saying, I want to take her to 1310 01:13:15,120 --> 01:13:18,680 Speaker 3: her master, to my master, I wanted to take her away. No, 1311 01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:22,479 Speaker 3: say ten days, then you may go. Now, what's gonna 1312 01:13:22,479 --> 01:13:25,000 Speaker 3: happen in ten days? Probably dally again, because we all 1313 01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:28,360 Speaker 3: know about dalaying later, as you recall, with working for 1314 01:13:28,800 --> 01:13:31,519 Speaker 3: just work a little time on another seven years. By 1315 01:13:31,560 --> 01:13:33,600 Speaker 3: the way, you'll see how that happens here. Anyway, you 1316 01:13:33,680 --> 01:13:36,800 Speaker 3: said to them, do not delay me. Now that the 1317 01:13:36,840 --> 01:13:39,599 Speaker 3: Lord has made my errand successful, he's invoking God. 1318 01:13:39,680 --> 01:13:42,320 Speaker 2: Now, okay, listen, you you start with me. 1319 01:13:42,479 --> 01:13:45,439 Speaker 3: You're starting with God, which is a great line to 1320 01:13:45,479 --> 01:13:47,240 Speaker 3: have if you can do it successfully. 1321 01:13:47,520 --> 01:13:49,400 Speaker 2: You're not delay me. Now that the Lord has made 1322 01:13:49,439 --> 01:13:51,519 Speaker 2: my errand successful, give me leave that I can go 1323 01:13:51,560 --> 01:13:55,200 Speaker 2: to my master. And then they said, this is very touching. 1324 01:13:55,760 --> 01:13:57,759 Speaker 2: Let us call the girl and ask for her reply. 1325 01:13:58,600 --> 01:14:00,879 Speaker 2: Remember when I sent to you from the very beginning. 1326 01:14:01,439 --> 01:14:03,920 Speaker 3: She doesn't have any say on who she marries, but 1327 01:14:04,000 --> 01:14:06,320 Speaker 3: she does have a say on whether she leaves her family. 1328 01:14:07,240 --> 01:14:10,320 Speaker 3: So I say, okay, let's ask for Rebecca. They called 1329 01:14:10,320 --> 01:14:12,559 Speaker 3: Rebecca and said to her, will you go with this man? 1330 01:14:13,000 --> 01:14:15,400 Speaker 3: And she said, with a brother like you, I leave 1331 01:14:15,439 --> 01:14:17,080 Speaker 3: in a second. 1332 01:14:17,560 --> 01:14:20,320 Speaker 2: That isn't very or not. Many of your texts happen 1333 01:14:22,560 --> 01:14:28,439 Speaker 2: for sure, and she said I will, So they sent it. 1334 01:14:28,560 --> 01:14:29,559 Speaker 2: So they sent off their. 1335 01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:32,519 Speaker 3: Sister, Rebecca and her nurse, along with abraham servant that 1336 01:14:32,680 --> 01:14:32,920 Speaker 3: is mad. 1337 01:14:32,960 --> 01:14:35,400 Speaker 2: And they bought Rebecca and said to her, oh, sister, 1338 01:14:35,680 --> 01:14:36,479 Speaker 2: when you grow in the. 1339 01:14:36,560 --> 01:14:39,400 Speaker 3: Thousands of myriads, may your offspring seas the gates of 1340 01:14:39,479 --> 01:14:42,120 Speaker 3: their boats, the typicult thing you say to your sister 1341 01:14:42,160 --> 01:14:44,800 Speaker 3: once you leaves to Then Rebecca and her maids are 1342 01:14:44,880 --> 01:14:48,080 Speaker 3: rose mounted the camels and followed the man. So the 1343 01:14:48,120 --> 01:14:50,680 Speaker 3: servant took Rebecca and went his way. Why do you 1344 01:14:50,720 --> 01:14:51,479 Speaker 3: think of that, folks? 1345 01:14:51,520 --> 01:14:54,120 Speaker 2: Then does that guy deserve an ovation? I tell you 1346 01:14:54,160 --> 01:14:54,599 Speaker 2: he really does. 1347 01:14:54,640 --> 01:14:54,840 Speaker 7: Who did? 1348 01:14:54,920 --> 01:15:00,000 Speaker 2: Pat kid doesn't even have a name, And look at 1349 01:15:00,040 --> 01:15:03,479 Speaker 2: how terrificated wite harry O. Let's just finish this chapter. 1350 01:15:03,600 --> 01:15:04,799 Speaker 2: Isaac had just come back. 1351 01:15:04,640 --> 01:15:07,680 Speaker 3: From the vicinity of their leftire elite or he was 1352 01:15:07,720 --> 01:15:10,719 Speaker 3: settled in the region of the degad. He was, so said, 1353 01:15:11,720 --> 01:15:15,400 Speaker 3: now Isaac shows up, everything's done for him again. 1354 01:15:15,720 --> 01:15:18,280 Speaker 2: It's really I've gonecause I don't wish to luck him 1355 01:15:18,320 --> 01:15:21,240 Speaker 2: in any way. It's a sense of sadness here. 1356 01:15:21,400 --> 01:15:25,200 Speaker 3: You'll see the way the thing ends is particularly true 1357 01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:25,759 Speaker 3: about Isaac. 1358 01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:28,080 Speaker 2: And Isaac went out walking in the field for an evening, 1359 01:15:28,120 --> 01:15:31,840 Speaker 2: and looking up, he saw Cavell's approaching. Raising her eyes, 1360 01:15:31,880 --> 01:15:35,800 Speaker 2: Rebecca saw Isaac. She suspected that this is the man. 1361 01:15:36,280 --> 01:15:38,639 Speaker 3: She alighted from the camel and said to the servant, 1362 01:15:38,880 --> 01:15:41,439 Speaker 3: who's that man walking in the field for us, and 1363 01:15:41,520 --> 01:15:44,920 Speaker 3: the servant said, that's my master. So she took her 1364 01:15:44,960 --> 01:15:46,920 Speaker 3: veil and covered herself from which. 1365 01:15:46,760 --> 01:15:49,040 Speaker 2: We get the veiling and unveiling to. 1366 01:15:49,000 --> 01:15:53,679 Speaker 3: This day in Jewish marital ceremonies. And the servant called 1367 01:15:53,800 --> 01:15:57,639 Speaker 3: Isaac all the things that he had done. Isaac then 1368 01:15:57,720 --> 01:16:00,960 Speaker 3: brought her into the tent of his mother, Sarah, and 1369 01:16:01,040 --> 01:16:08,760 Speaker 3: he took Rebecca as his wife. Isaac loved her and 1370 01:16:08,840 --> 01:16:13,000 Speaker 3: thus found comfort after his mother's death. This is very 1371 01:16:13,040 --> 01:16:18,160 Speaker 3: powerful ending. Now it's the tenth of his mother Sarah, 1372 01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:22,200 Speaker 3: and the she is dead, but it also implies that 1373 01:16:22,280 --> 01:16:24,400 Speaker 3: that's when he went to live with after the binding, 1374 01:16:24,800 --> 01:16:29,160 Speaker 3: that he went to his mother, which is understandable. This 1375 01:16:29,320 --> 01:16:31,559 Speaker 3: is that you made my father again is likely another job. 1376 01:16:32,040 --> 01:16:41,200 Speaker 2: He died like it, and so it's good. It's clearly 1377 01:16:41,280 --> 01:16:44,439 Speaker 2: life to live with Sarah all. What it's also clear 1378 01:16:44,760 --> 01:16:47,880 Speaker 2: is that his attachment was beyond the norm. 1379 01:16:49,000 --> 01:16:53,080 Speaker 3: There are profound psychological insights and genesis, and certainly one 1380 01:16:53,240 --> 01:16:56,200 Speaker 3: is ear this man is deeply attached. 1381 01:16:55,840 --> 01:16:56,439 Speaker 2: To his mother. 1382 01:16:56,880 --> 01:17:00,000 Speaker 3: It's his mother's tend He put Rebecca for a white, 1383 01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:02,439 Speaker 3: loved her, and thus found comfort after his mother's death. 1384 01:17:02,479 --> 01:17:05,559 Speaker 2: And I am very unhappy that that's the translation. That's 1385 01:17:05,600 --> 01:17:08,280 Speaker 2: not what he who says the Hebrew has no word. 1386 01:17:08,360 --> 01:17:13,120 Speaker 2: Then the Hebrew just says and thus found comfort after 1387 01:17:13,280 --> 01:17:18,400 Speaker 2: his mother. Period and the chapter they end the but. 1388 01:17:20,120 --> 01:17:28,639 Speaker 3: Hurtz just says after his mother. Oh, and the Hebrew 1389 01:17:28,760 --> 01:17:32,120 Speaker 3: is after his mother, and it has to be after 1390 01:17:32,280 --> 01:17:39,760 Speaker 3: his mother. The point here is also his loss with 1391 01:17:39,880 --> 01:17:41,680 Speaker 3: his mother's death is overwhelming. 1392 01:17:43,360 --> 01:17:45,920 Speaker 2: This woman whom he loves, he loves as a replacement 1393 01:17:46,000 --> 01:17:50,080 Speaker 2: for his mother. That's the statement that's being made. It's 1394 01:17:50,240 --> 01:17:52,840 Speaker 2: terrible that they added an English depict. That's not the point. 1395 01:17:53,560 --> 01:17:56,760 Speaker 2: It's after his mother. He found comfort after his mother. 1396 01:17:57,160 --> 01:18:00,280 Speaker 2: This is my substitute mother. And that, by the way, 1397 01:18:00,400 --> 01:18:03,360 Speaker 2: is what happens later. In fact, she mothers him in 1398 01:18:03,439 --> 01:18:06,960 Speaker 2: the sense that she runs the household. That is what 1399 01:18:07,200 --> 01:18:10,120 Speaker 2: Isaac's faded life is. And I'm not saying good or bad. 1400 01:18:10,160 --> 01:18:12,760 Speaker 2: I'm just explaining it. And the tow is clear about that. 1401 01:18:14,200 --> 01:18:17,120 Speaker 2: One final little interesting point in this statement. 1402 01:18:17,880 --> 01:18:23,320 Speaker 3: You see the view of the tradition rather than madernity 1403 01:18:23,479 --> 01:18:24,759 Speaker 3: about love and marriage. 1404 01:18:25,720 --> 01:18:30,000 Speaker 2: We love first and then married. They marry first and 1405 01:18:30,160 --> 01:18:33,559 Speaker 2: then love, And that's the order given here. 1406 01:18:33,680 --> 01:18:38,880 Speaker 3: If you see it in the sentence, and he couldn't 1407 01:18:38,960 --> 01:18:46,360 Speaker 3: Rebecca as his wife. Isaac loved her, and that is 1408 01:18:46,640 --> 01:18:49,040 Speaker 3: in that is the best of. 1409 01:18:49,120 --> 01:18:52,559 Speaker 2: The traditional world. It doesn't work often, obviously, and ours 1410 01:18:52,600 --> 01:18:56,840 Speaker 2: doesn't work often either, but the best in that world. 1411 01:18:56,960 --> 01:19:02,559 Speaker 2: As one very traditional Hassitic rabbi was holding, he said. 1412 01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:05,240 Speaker 3: Denis, I just did I believe that we believe the 1413 01:19:05,280 --> 01:19:10,080 Speaker 3: opposite of modernity. We believe that you marry and then 1414 01:19:10,120 --> 01:19:11,639 Speaker 3: you gradually get to love. 1415 01:19:12,200 --> 01:19:14,240 Speaker 2: And what most people today do is they love and 1416 01:19:14,320 --> 01:19:17,040 Speaker 2: then gradually that they marry and then gradually fall out 1417 01:19:17,080 --> 01:19:20,160 Speaker 2: of love. So that is the way we do it. 1418 01:19:20,840 --> 01:19:23,360 Speaker 2: But that is the way it was done, and it worked. 1419 01:19:23,720 --> 01:19:25,240 Speaker 2: But how he loved her? 1420 01:19:25,880 --> 01:19:29,080 Speaker 3: Are what those very powerful little words that end this 1421 01:19:29,520 --> 01:19:35,559 Speaker 3: unbelievable chapters of men and women, of dignity of character 1422 01:19:35,720 --> 01:19:39,640 Speaker 3: and so on, and this is you know what I 1423 01:19:39,720 --> 01:19:40,880 Speaker 3: have begun studying it. 1424 01:19:41,479 --> 01:19:44,200 Speaker 2: The commentators. Modern commentators said, this is one of the 1425 01:19:44,280 --> 01:19:48,160 Speaker 2: most beautiful chapters in all of literature. And I had 1426 01:19:48,200 --> 01:19:50,120 Speaker 2: read it. Who hasn't read this? 1427 01:19:51,320 --> 01:19:54,320 Speaker 3: But they're right when you really look at it, and 1428 01:19:54,560 --> 01:19:59,280 Speaker 3: the subtle he's involved, it's just it is, it's overwhelming, 1429 01:19:59,439 --> 01:20:02,759 Speaker 3: and God knows the message on how to choose a spouse. 1430 01:20:03,720 --> 01:20:06,800 Speaker 3: It's so interesting because many of you may know what 1431 01:20:06,960 --> 01:20:08,640 Speaker 3: I always say to singles. 1432 01:20:08,240 --> 01:20:09,400 Speaker 2: And half for so many years. 1433 01:20:09,479 --> 01:20:11,280 Speaker 3: I say, you know, of course you should. 1434 01:20:11,080 --> 01:20:14,080 Speaker 2: Fight out the character. And I even say, there's a test. 1435 01:20:14,200 --> 01:20:16,960 Speaker 3: I have prayed his liftus test on how to check 1436 01:20:17,040 --> 01:20:18,679 Speaker 3: on a person's character quickly? 1437 01:20:19,240 --> 01:20:23,080 Speaker 2: What is it? Watch? How they treat a stranger from 1438 01:20:23,160 --> 01:20:24,479 Speaker 2: whom they don't need anything? 1439 01:20:25,040 --> 01:20:29,000 Speaker 3: And the example I always get is a later or waitress, 1440 01:20:30,040 --> 01:20:33,080 Speaker 3: And sure enough, what's his watch? 1441 01:20:33,160 --> 01:20:36,519 Speaker 2: How she treats the stranger from whom she doesn't need anything? 1442 01:20:37,680 --> 01:20:38,519 Speaker 2: And he was right. 1443 01:20:39,160 --> 01:20:42,240 Speaker 3: And it's a great lesson in our age of not 1444 01:20:42,400 --> 01:20:45,000 Speaker 3: taking this stuff seriously and then wondering why you get 1445 01:20:45,080 --> 01:20:47,600 Speaker 3: hurt by friends or by spouses. 1446 01:20:47,920 --> 01:20:50,360 Speaker 2: I'll have to take questions next week. I thank you 1447 01:20:50,560 --> 01:20:51,240 Speaker 2: very very much. 1448 01:20:57,800 --> 01:21:02,080 Speaker 1: This has been timeless wisdom with Dennis Prager. 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