1 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: Life Audio. Hello, thank you for listening to your Daily 2 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 1: Bible Verse, the podcast that examines one verse each day 3 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: to learn more about God and his will for us. 4 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 1: I'm your host, Kirol mccragen, and after a short word 5 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 1: from our sponsor, will dive into today's Bible Verse, Fileman 6 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 1: Won twenty four. Today's Bible Verse is Filemon one T. Four, 7 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:45,160 Speaker 1: where Paul closes his letter by saying, and so do Mark, 8 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: Aristocus Damis and Luke, my fellow workers. Now. A few 9 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 1: years ago, I was standing behind someone in a coffee 10 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: shop when the cashier told the customer that their credit 11 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: card had been declined, and you can see the embarrassment immediately. 12 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: The customer looked through a wallet, tried another card, and 13 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: then another. Nothing worked, and the line behind them kept growing. 14 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 1: People were checking their watches. The customer was apologizing, and 15 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 1: it was one of those uncomfortable moments when everybody wants 16 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 1: to look somewhere else. Then the woman behind him stepped 17 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: forward and said, I've got it. The customer protested, but 18 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 1: she insisted. The cashier rang up the order and the 19 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 1: woman paid the bill for someone she had never met. 20 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:33,399 Speaker 1: As I watched, I remember thinking how quickly the entire 21 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: atmosphere changed, the embarrassment disappeared, and the tension vanished. The 22 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 1: customer walked away, relieved because someone else had absorbed a 23 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 1: debt they couldn't pay. In that moment, you know, there's 24 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 1: simply powerful lot having a debt removed from your account 25 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 1: and placed into someone else's. And that's exactly the kind 26 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: of scene that we find them the Little New Testament 27 00:01:55,080 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 1: Book of Filima, a runaway servant owes a debt, a 28 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: friend offers to pay for it, a broken relationship has 29 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: a chance to be restored. And tucked into the closing 30 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 1: verses is another story of forgiveness, involving a man named Mark, 31 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 1: a reminder that God doesn't just forgive debts, he restores people. Now, 32 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: at first glance, our verse may not seem like a 33 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 1: verse worthy of very much attention. It's part of a 34 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 1: closing reading, one of those sections we often skim as 35 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: we hurry to end the end of a Bible book. 36 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 1: But tucked away in that simple list of names is 37 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 1: a remarkable story about forgiveness. Before we go any further, 38 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:38,519 Speaker 1: let's make sure we know who's in the story. Paul 39 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 1: is the apostle writing the letter At this point, he's 40 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 1: under house, arrested for preaching the gospel. He's not writing 41 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 1: from a position of power or comfort, which he could, 42 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 1: but he's writing from confinement. Filehmon is a wealthy Christian 43 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: living in Colisse. A church actually meets in his home. 44 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,920 Speaker 1: He's a respect acted, faithful and well known among believers. 45 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 1: Then there's Anissimus. His name means useful, which becomes important 46 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 1: later in a letter. On Isimus is an enslaved servant 47 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: in Filemon's household who is a run away. Now in 48 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 1: the process, he may have stolen money or property from Fileman, 49 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: creating a debt he cannot repate. Under Roman law. Running 50 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 1: away was a serious offense, and returning home would have 51 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 1: been very risky. Somewhere along the way, Anisimus encounters Paul. 52 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 1: We don't know all the details, but we know the result. 53 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: Anissimus becomes a follower of Jesus. The runaway servant experiences 54 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 1: genuine transformation. Now Paul finds himself in a difficult position. 55 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: He loves Anisimus, whom he describes as my son in 56 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: the faith. He also loves Fileieman, his fellow believer and 57 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: ministry partner. So Paul writes this deeply personal letter, hoping 58 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 1: to bring reconciliation between two men who have been separated 59 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: by hurt, loss and broken trust. And then, almost quietly, 60 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 1: another name appears near the end of the letter, Mark. 61 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 1: This is John Mark, the same Mark traditionally associated with 62 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:16,840 Speaker 1: the Gospel of Mark. At first, it seems like just 63 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 1: another greeting, but Mark's presence tells us something important about forgiveness, 64 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 1: because Paul and Mark have their own story of conflict 65 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:28,919 Speaker 1: and reconciliation. Imagine receiving a bill for someone else's debt, 66 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:32,160 Speaker 1: not because you co signed for it, but because you've 67 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:36,599 Speaker 1: caused it, not because you've benefited from it. You simply 68 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 1: choose to pay it. And that's essentially what Paul does 69 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 1: in this book of Fullynan and Isamus had run away 70 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,840 Speaker 1: from Fullman. In the process, he may have stolen from 71 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 1: him or caused financial loss. While away, and Ismus met Paul, 72 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 1: became a follower of Christ and experienced at transform to life. 73 00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: But now Paul's sending him home. That sounds simple enough 74 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:03,599 Speaker 1: until you remember that going home meant facing the person 75 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 1: heed wronged. So Paul writes one of the most personal 76 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 1: letters in the New Testament, in verse eighteen, he tells Filemon, 77 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 1: if he has done you any wrong or owes you anything, 78 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 1: charge it to me. What an incredible statement. Paul is 79 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 1: willing to absorb the cost of reconciliation, and he's not 80 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 1: minimizing the offense. He's not pretending that no harm was done. 81 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 1: He's not saying that doesn't even matter. He's saying, put 82 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 1: it on my account. That's forgiveness with skin on it. 83 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: But Fileimon isn't only about the reconciliation between Anisimus and Filemon. 84 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 1: There's another reconciliation quietly hiding in the letter. And his 85 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 1: name is Mark. And if you've been reading the New 86 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 1: Testament for a while, you may remember that Paul and 87 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 1: Mark have a history. Macinac's thirteen Mark accompanied Paul and 88 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 1: Barnabas on missionary journey, but part way through the trip, 89 00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:02,040 Speaker 1: Mark left and returned home. Scripture doesn't tell us exactly why. 90 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 1: Maybe he was homesick, and maybe he was frightened. Maybe 91 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 1: the hardships of ministry were more difficult than a young 92 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 1: guy expected. Whatever happened, Paul viewed at his failure. Later, 93 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: when Paul and Barnabas prepared for another missionary journey. Barnabas 94 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 1: wanted to bring Paul again, but Paul refused. Acts fifteen 95 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 1: thirty nine says their disagreement became so sharp they parted company. 96 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 1: Now think about that, two godly men who were two 97 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: mature believers and two leaders in the early church, and 98 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: they couldn't agree. The conflict was so significant that they 99 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:42,720 Speaker 1: went separate directions for years. That appears to have been 100 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 1: the end of the story, but it wasn't. When we 101 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: reached Filehman, written years later during Paul's imprisonment, Something's changed Mark, isn't. 102 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:55,119 Speaker 1: He's no longer a source of contention, if you will. 103 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 1: He's now listed among Paul's fellow workers. And that phrase 104 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:05,599 Speaker 1: is important. The Greek noun translated fellow workers. It's pronounced 105 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: soon ear ghost. It refers to a co laborer, partner, 106 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 1: or teammate in God's work. So Paul isn't merely tolerating Mark. 107 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: He's not saying, well, I guess we're speaking again. He's 108 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 1: calling him a trusted ministry partner. The relationship has been restored. 109 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 1: We see further evidence of this and Colossians four ten, 110 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: where Paul specifically instructs the believers to welcome Mark if 111 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: he comes to them. Then, near the end of Paul's life, 112 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 1: he writes perhaps the most moving statement of all. In 113 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 1: Tewod Timothy four eleven, Paul tells Timothy can't Mark and 114 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: bring him with you, because he's helpful to me in 115 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 1: my ministry, helpful and youthful and valuable. The very man 116 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 1: Paul once considered unreliable had become indispensable. That doesn't happen 117 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 1: without forgiveness, and that brings us back to Filimon. The 118 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 1: little letter is saturated with the gospel. Paul offers to 119 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 1: pay Anysmus's debt. Filiehman is asked to receive Nissimus as 120 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 1: a brother. Anisimus returns instead of continuing to run and 121 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:17,120 Speaker 1: standing quietly in the greeting section of Mark, living proof 122 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 1: that broken relationships don't have to stay broken. Sometimes when 123 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 1: we think about forgiveness, we imagine it is pretending nothing happened. 124 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:32,199 Speaker 1: But the Bible never teaches that. Paul doesn't deny Animis's debt, 125 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 1: He acknowledges it. He doesn't rewrite history with Mark, the 126 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 1: disagreement and acts still happened. Biblical forgiveness doesn't require amnesia. 127 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 1: It requires surrendering our right to collect the debt ourselves. 128 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:51,959 Speaker 1: And that's exactly what Christ did for us. The gospels 129 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 1: built on the reality that someone paid what someone else owed. 130 00:08:56,600 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 1: Jesus didn't declare our sin imaginary. He paid for the cross. 131 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 1: Wasn't God overlooking a debt. It was God's satisfying it. 132 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 1: And because we've been forgiven, we're called to become forgiving people. 133 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 1: And that doesn't mean every relationship is restored exactly what 134 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 1: it once was. Trust may take some time to rebuild, 135 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:22,080 Speaker 1: boundaries may still be necessary, and wisdom still matters. But 136 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:25,960 Speaker 1: forgiveness means releasing our grip on the offense and allowing 137 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 1: God to work. Maybe today you're more like Fileman. Somebody 138 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 1: owes you an apology, or maybe wounded you or disappointed you. 139 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 1: Or maybe you're more like Anisimus. You're carrying regret over 140 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: something you've done and wondering if reconciliation is possible. Or 141 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 1: maybe you're like Mark. You've failed, you let somebody down, 142 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 1: and you're afraid that's how you'll always be remembered. Fileman 143 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 1: reminds us that the Gospel has room for all three. 144 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 1: A debt can be paid, and a runaway can come home. 145 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 1: Failure can become a fellow worker in relationships that seem 146 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: permanently broken, and can become testimonies of God's grace. That's 147 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: why a simple greeting and filema matters so much, Because 148 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:18,439 Speaker 1: every time Paul writes, mark my fellow worker, we're reminded 149 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 1: that forgiveness doesn't change the future. Sometimes it rewrites the 150 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 1: ending of story entirely. Will you pray with me, dear 151 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 1: Lord in Heaven, thank you that we have that small letter, 152 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 1: Paul's shortest work recorded in the Bible. We can easily 153 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 1: read it too fast. But Lord, sometimes you will slow 154 00:10:43,960 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 1: us down, and you will give us a jewel, like 155 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 1: a tiny little sentence that changes the ending of a story. 156 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 1: Reconciliation is possible for all, Lord, and you remind us 157 00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:00,840 Speaker 1: of that in that very letter. If we're like any 158 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 1: one of the three characters in the Book of Lihman, 159 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 1: a true story, help us to really feel the resonation 160 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:14,839 Speaker 1: of that fact, and that this whole book is about forgiveness, 161 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 1: something that is shared with us. Also help us lean 162 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 1: into the Lord for it and realize that we're as 163 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 1: worthy of forgiveness as anyone else. In your precious name, 164 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 1: we pray Almuh