1 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: Life Audio. Hey, Heather Creakmar here, Thanks for listening to 2 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:10,200 Speaker 1: or watching the compared to podcasts. Today, we're in a 3 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: special series called Waiting for Weight Loss that we're doing 4 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: through the Lenten season, and really the heart behind the 5 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 1: series is for us to check ourselves. The weight loss 6 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: isn't a bad goal, but if it becomes our first pursuit, 7 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: our primary pursuit, if it takes over everything else, then 8 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 1: perhaps it's at a disordered place. But you've got these desires. 9 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 1: You want to lose weight, you want to be healthier, 10 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 1: you want to feel better in your body, and then 11 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: you also have the desire to serve the Lord and 12 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:44,240 Speaker 1: keep him first. How do you make it all work together? 13 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 1: How do you keep the pursuit of weight loss from 14 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:50,239 Speaker 1: taking over your life? And that's what we've been just 15 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: beginning to explore in this Waiting for Weight Loss series. 16 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: If you've missed any of the episodes, go back. You 17 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 1: can listen to them all right here anytime. Today we're 18 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: at episode thirteen and the theme for today is sustainability. 19 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:17,759 Speaker 1: I can't wait to dig into it with you. Today. 20 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 1: We're talking sustainability and it's kind of been a big 21 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 1: buzzword in culture. Right, you want sustainably farmed foods or 22 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:30,319 Speaker 1: sustainably produced I don't even know, but you hear the 23 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 1: word sustainability all over the place at least I do. 24 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 1: How does this apply to what we're doing around our 25 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:40,960 Speaker 1: bodies and trying to change them, trying to lose weight, 26 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:44,400 Speaker 1: trying to get healthier. I think this actually could be 27 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 1: one of the most important concepts that we cover, and 28 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: it connects so intricately with an episode we did a 29 00:01:53,480 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 1: few days ago, the topic of patience, because most of 30 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: us want to have our bodies changed by Saturday. We 31 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: want the transformation, we want the after picture, and we 32 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 1: don't want to wait years for that. We want it tomorrow. 33 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:20,360 Speaker 1: And then I've got this added pressure coming from every 34 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 1: direction of culture that you're going to be unhealthy unless 35 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 1: you change your body by tomorrow, right, Like, you've got 36 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: to change your body fast because the disease is knocking 37 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 1: at your door, and unless you make the change fast, 38 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: the disease is gonna get you. And I feel like 39 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 1: there's some things that we miss in that paradigm of fear, right, 40 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: because that's what it is. It's a fear driven urgency 41 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 1: for change. To happen just like that. But here's the 42 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: thing about our bodies. Right, And I'm not a doctor, 43 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 1: this isn't medical advice. Please consult your doctor around all 44 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 1: of these things. Right, But our bodies like to feel safe. 45 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 1: Our bodies are happiest when things are just copaesthetic. But 46 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: they like things to be just the same. That's when 47 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 1: they're comfortable, and so to some degree, right, it's healthy 48 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: to put some stress on our bodies to change them. Right. 49 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: That's why we exercise, lift weights, or maybe make some 50 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 1: shifts in the way we eat, because that change can 51 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: force something good. But too often what happens is when 52 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 1: we want to change our bodies, when we want to 53 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 1: get smaller, we want to get thinner, we want to 54 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 1: get healthier, we force too much change, too much change 55 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 1: at once, and it's not sustainable. In fact, let me 56 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 1: go beyond just deeming it not sustainable, it's not healthy. 57 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: You see. The truth is if your weight loss program 58 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 1: is causing you to lose your hair, if your fertility 59 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: is gone, if you've lost your period, I mean, I know, 60 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: if you're posting anoposle, that's a different kind of deal. 61 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 1: If it's causing you to be depressed, lethargic, anxious, angry 62 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: all the time. Friend, Like, those aren't markers of health, right, 63 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 1: A healthy body will continue to produce hair and grow 64 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:30,359 Speaker 1: your nails, And there's signs that your body may be 65 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:34,160 Speaker 1: giving you that even if you're losing weight, what you're 66 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: doing to lose weight isn't healthy. And what I've observed 67 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:42,239 Speaker 1: over the years now, like if you know my story, 68 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:45,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I've tried every diet. It's really just been 69 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 1: the last five or so years that God has taken 70 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 1: me on this food side of my body image journey 71 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: to kind of see some things in a different way 72 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 1: than I'd ever seen before. Because I always assumed if 73 00:04:57,080 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 1: you were thinner, you were healthier, Like that was just obvious, right, 74 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 1: Thin people are healthier people. But now looking back at 75 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:07,920 Speaker 1: my own story and the stories of hundreds of women 76 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 1: that I've worked with, I can see how that's not 77 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 1: always true. Of course, it's not true from a mental 78 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: health standpoint. Right when I was thinner, but mentally I 79 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 1: was not healthy. I was obsessing over every morsel of 80 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 1: food in every minute of exercise, and I was thinking 81 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: about my body all of the time, So it wasn't 82 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: mentally healthy. For me. It also wasn't spiritually healthy for me. 83 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 1: We're going to talk about that more in the next episode, right, 84 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 1: But physically I had some signs that what I was 85 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:42,039 Speaker 1: doing wasn't healthy for me either. In fact, I've shared 86 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 1: this on the podcast before, but at age forty, I 87 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 1: was probably teaching five or roobis classes a week. I 88 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 1: was eating clean healthy, whatever terminology would we want to use, 89 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:58,039 Speaker 1: I mean I cut out I think, dairying, and a 90 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:01,039 Speaker 1: bunch of other things. At age forty, I went to 91 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 1: the doctor and I was diagnosed with hashimotos and hypothyroid 92 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:07,279 Speaker 1: and I had to start taking thyroid medication, and I 93 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 1: was told I needed to cut out gluten and various 94 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: other things to help with the hashimotos, which is autoimmune 95 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 1: thyroid disease, and my body was crying out for help. 96 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 1: What I should also share is that I had some 97 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 1: degree of adrenal failure. There's some argumentation as to whether 98 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 1: or not that's a real thing, but I know for me, 99 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:30,320 Speaker 1: like my body felt exhausted. So I would get up 100 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: and sometimes teach like a six am spin class, and 101 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 1: then I would have to take a nap at ten am, 102 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 1: and then I would maybe take another nap at like 103 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 1: two pm. It was two naps a day to get 104 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:46,280 Speaker 1: through a day. And it was because I just kind 105 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:49,160 Speaker 1: of burned my body out and I burned my thyroid out, 106 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 1: and so all of these things I was doing to 107 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:55,120 Speaker 1: try to be healthy or get healthier were actually harming 108 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:58,159 Speaker 1: my body. What I love about some of the research 109 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 1: that I'm seeing come out now is that there's more 110 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:02,839 Speaker 1: and more research showing that there is such a thing 111 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:07,039 Speaker 1: as too much exercise. I never heard that before, right, 112 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: Or there is such a thing as being too thin. 113 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 1: We didn't hear that in the nineties, Right, That your 114 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: body needs a certain amount of calories. We're hearing more 115 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 1: and more of that statistic that you know, twelve hundred 116 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 1: calories a day isn't enough for a toddler, Right, you 117 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: are a grown woman. Your body needs more than that. 118 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 1: And I'm seeing more and more trainers on the internet 119 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 1: kind of share that truth. And so it's awesome. Well, 120 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 1: let's go back to you, right, is the way you're 121 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 1: trying to change your body sustainable? Is this something you 122 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 1: can do for the rest of your life? Now? Let 123 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: me let me clarify here, right, Because what happens when 124 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 1: you start your program, like let's say keto or intermitt 125 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 1: infesting or even back of the day we did low 126 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 1: fat and trust me, friends, that's coming back. But you 127 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:57,679 Speaker 1: do keto for like six weeks, you see some great 128 00:07:57,720 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 1: results and you're like, I can do this for the 129 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:03,239 Speaker 1: of my life. I love this, I feel so great, 130 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 1: this is fantastic. This was what I'm gonna do for 131 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 1: the rest of my life. And we do that, right. 132 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 1: We vowed to ourselves like, oh, I found it. I 133 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 1: have found the plan, the holy grill I've been looking 134 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 1: for for my entire life, and I'm gonna do this forever. 135 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 1: But then it stops working, or your body's overwhelming desire 136 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 1: for carbohydrates it kicks in and you just can't. You 137 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 1: just can't do it forever, and then you kind of 138 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 1: feel like you failed. But for let me tell you, 139 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 1: you did not fail. Your body was designed to run 140 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 1: on carbohydrates, protein, and fat, the three macronutrients every cell 141 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 1: in your body needs. To some degree or another, All 142 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 1: three of those macronutrients play an important role in your body. 143 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 1: And although diet after diet comes out and says, ooh, 144 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 1: we found the hack to be skinny, just get rid 145 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:58,960 Speaker 1: of this macronutrient. It never lasts. And some of you 146 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 1: friends were with menineteen nineties when we were eating low 147 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: fat and we wouldn't touch an avocado, And then some 148 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 1: of you were with me in the twenty tens when 149 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: we were making fat bombs to try to be healthier, 150 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 1: and it was just such a one point eighty like, 151 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 1: what in the world has happened? Now I'm eating all 152 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 1: fat and I used to not eat any fat. Friend, 153 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 1: The trends of our culture around food and diet have 154 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 1: had us on mister Toad's wild ride. And I think 155 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 1: the healthiest place for us, as Christian women who desire 156 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: weight loss is to tune out all of that noise 157 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 1: and ask the Holy Spirit, Ask the God who created 158 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 1: your body, because that's the other thing. We're all different, right, 159 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:48,079 Speaker 1: My body loves red meat. My husband's body cannot handle 160 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: a couple bits of red meat. He loves fish. We're 161 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 1: all different. Ask the God who made your body, how 162 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:05,199 Speaker 1: to eat, how to move, Consult him, ask him. Now, 163 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:07,680 Speaker 1: that doesn't mean you don't get outside help. Of course, 164 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 1: of course there's wise people that we can bring into 165 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:14,959 Speaker 1: the process, for sure, But by and large, the noise 166 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:18,319 Speaker 1: of culture is promoting ways to lose weight that are 167 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 1: not sustainable and may not be right for your body. Now, 168 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 1: let's take a different twist on this. Let's talk about 169 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: this from a spiritual perspective, right, because I already told 170 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 1: you our biggest problem is we're impatient, right, Like, we 171 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 1: just want the change tomorrow, and we know, I think, 172 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:40,559 Speaker 1: somewhere deep in our hearts, we know what we're trading, right, 173 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 1: We kind of know, like, if I do this thing, 174 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 1: I might be skinny by next month, and I really 175 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 1: like being skinny by next month. But then we kind 176 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:51,200 Speaker 1: of know in the back of our heads, in the 177 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:54,199 Speaker 1: back of our hearts, and it's probably not gonna last. 178 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 1: And sometimes candidly we just make the choice, right like, well, 179 00:10:57,400 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 1: I don't care. I want to be skinny for those 180 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 1: vacation pictures. I'm gonna be skinny for my kid's wedding. 181 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 1: I want to be skinny for this. I don't care. 182 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 1: I'll just worry about the consequences later. And then we 183 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 1: have to start all over. Right, then you've done it too. 184 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 1: I'm sure you lose the weight, and then you gain 185 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: even more weight, and maybe you're further behind quote unquote 186 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 1: on that goal. That you had to begin with. You 187 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: made a short term sacrifice, You made a long term 188 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:27,439 Speaker 1: sacrifice to have a short term goal. And here's the thing. 189 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:32,599 Speaker 1: As Christians, right, we are not called to live lives 190 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:37,959 Speaker 1: that are driven by Oh, I'm gonna call it a word. 191 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 1: It's greed, right, that's what makes us impatient. It's greed. 192 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 1: It's actually lust and greed kind of go together. Lust 193 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:51,440 Speaker 1: isn't always just sexual, like I've got to have that thing, right, 194 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:54,960 Speaker 1: Lust and greed are kind of the same, like driven, 195 00:11:55,840 --> 00:12:00,200 Speaker 1: must have what I want now, any way possible. Give 196 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 1: it to me, Give it to me. I need it, 197 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 1: short term gratification, must have. In fact, listen to something 198 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 1: I read about greed and lost as they connect impatience. Okay, 199 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 1: catch this right. So greed connects to impatients because it 200 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 1: feels an insatiable, urgent desire for more right now. It 201 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 1: forces shortcuts that sacrifice long term value for immediate gratification. 202 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 1: Impatience acts as the accelerator for greed. It drives desperate actions, 203 00:12:33,360 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 1: risky decisions, and even exploits others. Because the greedy mind 204 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 1: cannot wait for legitimate gains or shall we say, legitimate losses, 205 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 1: Lust is similar. Lust connects to impatients because it transforms 206 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 1: our desires into urgent, immediate demands that we cannot tolerate 207 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 1: living without today. But here's the thing. We're called to 208 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 1: live by. What not big green and lost, We're called 209 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 1: to live by love. Love is characterized by patience, by 210 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 1: long term commitment, by secure pacing, whereas lust and greed 211 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 1: or high energy, it's now or never, I've got to 212 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:19,959 Speaker 1: have it now, and they focus on reckless behavior or 213 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:24,559 Speaker 1: skipping necessary steps to get the results that we want. Friend, 214 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 1: stewardship of our bodies cannot be driven by lust or greed, right, 215 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 1: it just it can't be, and so often, right, that 216 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 1: is what kind of drives us. In fact, Oh, I 217 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 1: want to tread carefully here. But if you've been involved 218 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:48,079 Speaker 1: with certain dieting programs, what do they do? They get 219 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 1: you involved in the program, you start to see some results, 220 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 1: and then they actually convince you to buy into the 221 00:13:56,280 --> 00:14:00,440 Speaker 1: program and start selling the program yourself, and then you 222 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 1: start making money, right, and oh goodness, our human hearts 223 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:11,200 Speaker 1: tendency to greed. Oh it's just right there, always ready, right, 224 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 1: And then you start making money and you've got the 225 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:17,680 Speaker 1: weight loss and this machine starts going, I'm not making money, 226 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 1: I'm loosing getting skinny, I'm making money, I mean and 227 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: friend like, even if you're not making money, right, Like, 228 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 1: let's just be honest. A thin body is a commodity 229 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 1: in our culture, right, that is how you are wealthy 230 00:14:32,640 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 1: in our culture. In my course called the Body Manage 231 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:38,880 Speaker 1: Freedom Framework, I dig deep into like some of the 232 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 1: belief systems and how like really even just our economics 233 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 1: are messed up with what we believe about a thin 234 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 1: body and value. But greed should never be our motivator. 235 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 1: Greed lost. These aren't the answers. And so let's go 236 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 1: back to Patients School. Listen to that episode again. If 237 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 1: you need to, right, what can you do to support 238 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 1: your weight loss goal that you can do right now 239 00:15:07,920 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 1: and you can do it for the rest of your life. Right, 240 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 1: you can incorporate it into your habit today. You don't 241 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 1: have to wait and start Monday. Right, That's the worst 242 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 1: thing anyone ever came up with, this starting Monday thing. Today? 243 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 1: What habits can you start today that will last a lifetime? 244 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 1: Those are the habits to incorporate and like I talked 245 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 1: about before in my forty Day Body image work book. 246 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 1: I do have a list of some sustainable habits. In fact, 247 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 1: you could join us on the forty Day Journey. We 248 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:42,200 Speaker 1: start in just about a month right after Easter. Friend, 249 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 1: This journey could be so good for you in terms 250 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 1: of thinking about your body in a healthy way and 251 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 1: thinking about sustainable habits around food in a healthier way. 252 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 1: Join us. You can go to improvebodymage dot com and 253 00:15:57,120 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 1: find out more about how to join us in that. 254 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:02,120 Speaker 1: We'd love to have you there right so, but my 255 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 1: project for you today is think about some things that 256 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 1: would be good for you and how you can start 257 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 1: incorporating them right now, and then look at these other 258 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 1: things you're doing around weight loss and ask yourself, is 259 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 1: this sustainable? Can I do this for the rest of 260 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:20,600 Speaker 1: my life? Like I'm not against jlp ones. In fact, 261 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 1: I thought about doing a whole episode on that as 262 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 1: part of this series. I'm not sure if I will 263 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 1: or not. You can let me know if that's something 264 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 1: you'd like to see. I'm not against them, but my 265 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:31,240 Speaker 1: problem is there is clear research to show that, and 266 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 1: let's use it for the rest of your life. It's 267 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 1: not gonna work. The weight will come back, and that's 268 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 1: a concern for me now, I think there's certain populations 269 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 1: right where it makes a whole lot of sense. But 270 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 1: for other populations, if you're trying to lose that fifty 271 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:54,360 Speaker 1: forty thirty twenty pounds ten pounds, oh, I don't know. 272 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 1: I think this is playing with fire. So again, I'm 273 00:16:57,880 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 1: not a medical doctor. Can sell your doctor around that. 274 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:02,480 Speaker 1: But think about what you're doing in your life and 275 00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 1: ask yourself, is this sustainable? Can I work out like 276 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:08,320 Speaker 1: this for the rest of my life? I mean, assuming 277 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:10,639 Speaker 1: you don't get injured, all right? Can I eat like 278 00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 1: this for the rest of my life? Or Am I 279 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 1: going to show up at a birthday party some day 280 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:17,360 Speaker 1: and be like, Nope, I'm having the cake and friend, 281 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 1: let me tell you that's not a bad thing. That's 282 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:23,720 Speaker 1: my challenge question for you today. I'm glad you're watching 283 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:26,359 Speaker 1: her listening. Hey, if you've got questions you'd like to 284 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 1: hear tackled on the show. Even after this series is done, 285 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:31,600 Speaker 1: join us in the Waiting for Weight Loss community. We're 286 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 1: having some great conversations there. You can go to Waiting 287 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:37,520 Speaker 1: Forweightloss dot com and you can be part. Thanks for 288 00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:41,680 Speaker 1: listening today, Bye babe. Compared to podcasts, is proud to 289 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:43,880 Speaker 1: be part of the Life Audio Podcast Network. Former Great 290 00:17:43,880 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 1: wisal podcast Go to life audio dot