1 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: Life audio. Hi from the Salvation Army. You're listening to 2 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: Words of Life. 3 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:25,640 Speaker 2: The Words of the Life. 4 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 3: Hey, and welcome back to Words of Life. As parents, 5 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 3: it's easy to focus on grades, assignments, and our kids' 6 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 3: academic success, But how can we encourage our children without 7 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 3: making achievement their identity. In today's episode, our guests share 8 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 3: some practical wisdom on partnering with teachers, supporting struggling students, 9 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 3: and helping our kids navigate challenges like anxiety and their 10 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 3: growing independence. We pray this conversation encourages you and your family. 11 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 3: Was the project I. 12 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:21,120 Speaker 1: Help with? 13 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 3: Those is when you're having so much fun that I 14 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 3: then turn around and she's nowhere to be found. 15 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 4: I'm having a blast. 16 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:36,400 Speaker 3: Look at this dinosaur like she's like, Okay, I love that. 17 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 5: I know. 18 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:40,680 Speaker 6: I remember to helping Troy with a project. But they 19 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 6: had a talking zoo in second grade and he had 20 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 6: to write this big, huge poster board about the sharks 21 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 6: and what they did. I'm like, this kid has his 22 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 6: handwriting is not great. So I wrote everything and then 23 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 6: I got to school and no other parent helped, Like 24 00:01:56,880 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 6: I was the only one that Yes, he did get 25 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 6: a good grade. He knew all his facts and everything 26 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 6: because you had to push his little button and then 27 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:08,640 Speaker 6: he'd tell you everything. But I'm like, oh man, I 28 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 6: need to stop rescuing. I just need to let him, 29 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 6: like you said, like just struggle through it. 30 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 7: I also think nowadays with technology, with all these apps, 31 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 7: like it's almost hard not to know what's going on, 32 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 7: like school. I get school notifications all the time, a 33 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 7: whole just list of emails of like they got this 34 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 7: on their assignment. And so if you have the information 35 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:33,359 Speaker 7: available to keep track of you know, the grade trackers 36 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 7: and all all these things and teachers. I think they 37 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 7: actually tell you on their website. You can go to 38 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 7: each like grade and they have a link to view 39 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 7: the class guide, like hey, this is what they're working 40 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:47,360 Speaker 7: on this more teachers. 41 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 3: I mean, we can go in and we can get 42 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 3: a pdf. 43 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 7: Right, So all that information is available for you to know, 44 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:55,359 Speaker 7: like where they're supposed to be, what they're working on, 45 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:59,679 Speaker 7: more than before. I can't imagine my parents had that information. 46 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 7: Glad my parents didn't have. 47 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 4: I think the danger the only danger with that is 48 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 4: because it's information overload, it can start to lose some 49 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:14,239 Speaker 4: of the value. And so I think that when we 50 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 4: have so much information, we're convinced that we okay, we 51 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 4: know what our kids doing, or we know it when 52 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 4: you know it's sometimes isn't actually that? And so I 53 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 4: think we want to make sure that we are still 54 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 4: having those personal conversations that we've already talked about, you 55 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 4: know today about hey, okay, so talk to about what 56 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 4: you learned in science? What was that that that's a 57 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 4: really cool assignment you're doing, But what is it that 58 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 4: you're actually taking away from that? Try to have those 59 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 4: conversations because I think that those conversations are far more 60 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 4: valuable than just the surface of what was the assignment? 61 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 4: What did you get on the assignment? The only other 62 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 4: side note to what we were talking about were we 63 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 4: how do we check on our kids? And we want 64 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 4: to promote that independence. One of the most important conversations 65 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 4: every parent needs to have, especially in middle high school parents, 66 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 4: is they need to talk to their kids about how 67 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 4: they're using AI because every kid is going to and 68 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 4: so you need to have a conversation with them about 69 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 4: how it's going to be helpful to them, how it's 70 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 4: a tool they need to learn how to use, but 71 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:20,040 Speaker 4: how they cannot just use it to replace what they're doing. 72 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 4: I think math is one of the elements that is 73 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 4: a little bit more safe in some ways. But I 74 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 4: know my colleagues in the English department absolutely just have 75 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 4: their hands full with kids are not writing their own thoughts, 76 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 4: and so you know, our daughter, especially are going the 77 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 4: one going into high school, she's often talked to us about, yeah, 78 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 4: all my classmates just did that on AI. They just 79 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 4: used the I to answer that question. And so she's 80 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,039 Speaker 4: come to the point where like, Okay, I can see 81 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 4: where it can help me be a bit more efficient. 82 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 4: But we're trying and we want that conversation to happen. 83 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 4: We need to and it's hard for us as parents 84 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 4: because we didn't have that as kids growing up, and 85 00:04:57,120 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 4: so we don't have that as that experience. So it's 86 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 4: important that we start to have a conversation with each 87 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 4: of our kids about, Okay, how are we going to 88 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 4: have some form of AI help us, but not replace 89 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 4: your learning, Because if you don't actually do the work, 90 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 4: then you didn't go to the gym today to work out, No, 91 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 4: you let the AI bot do the work out for you. 92 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 4: You didn't, you know, So you have to actually do 93 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 4: the work. 94 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:23,280 Speaker 3: And if every single thing we're researching, we're just letting 95 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 3: a bot do for us. It's got to be doing 96 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 3: something up here that's diminishing. 97 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:30,159 Speaker 5: I don't have the science behind that, but I know 98 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 5: that there have been studies that are out there that 99 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 5: like the brain, like we're not thinking as hard as 100 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 5: we did before, Like our creativity is slipping away because 101 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 5: we're just letting the bots do it. 102 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:42,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, so have the conversation with your kids. You don't 103 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,559 Speaker 4: have to have great solutions, but you have to start 104 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 4: talking about it. Because yes, you may just see the 105 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:51,360 Speaker 4: grades in the grade book and you may see your 106 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 4: students turning something in, But how much of that was 107 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 4: their own creative thought? How much of that was their effort? 108 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 4: Your kid needs to needs to have that conversation, and 109 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:03,479 Speaker 4: it's an ongoing conversation. 110 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,799 Speaker 5: And I imagine that conversation is better to start having early, 111 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:09,160 Speaker 5: ye earlier than you probably think you need to have 112 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 5: that conversation. 113 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:12,480 Speaker 4: So if you're waiting, it might be too late and 114 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 4: your kids already developed some bad habits. 115 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 3: Hey, you're listening to the Salvation Armies Words of life. 116 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 3: We're going to take a quick bad break and we'll 117 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:31,280 Speaker 3: be right back. What should parents do. How should they 118 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 3: respond appropriately if their child is struggling academically. 119 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 4: I think one of the things that we've talked about 120 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 4: for and previous to this is one if you immediately 121 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:45,840 Speaker 4: jump on the grade and why was that grade so poor? 122 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 4: Then you're starting to tie identity to the grade. And 123 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 4: so we have to really be careful as parents that 124 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 4: we have done the groundwork, and if we haven't, we 125 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:59,600 Speaker 4: go back and we really emphasize, Okay, your identity is 126 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 4: not tied to this grade. You'd be surprised. I say 127 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 4: to my students before every major assessment, how much of 128 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 4: your identity is tied to this test? And a lot 129 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 4: of them say a lot of my identity And I 130 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 4: say zero, zero of your identity is tied to this test. 131 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 4: And so I'm saying that, but I'm one voice out 132 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 4: of many voices, right, So I think that's the first 133 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:24,239 Speaker 4: thing is we just have to really make sure our 134 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 4: child knows my identity is not found in whether my 135 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 4: grade is a BC, anywhere in between. 136 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 3: If the child is really struggling, you've tried to have 137 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 3: some conversations and you don't really feel like you're getting anywhere, 138 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 3: when should parents reach out to the school. What should 139 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 3: that look like? What are parents allowed to do like? 140 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 3: What is that process? 141 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 7: Then I feel like the first line of defense should 142 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 7: be reaching out to the teacher, the one who is 143 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 7: present with the student, knows the student, hopefully knows the student, 144 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 7: and we would also so that you have established rapport 145 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 7: and communication from the beginning of the year, right by 146 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 7: going to the open houses, by going to the meetings. 147 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 4: If I were to think about it, on the teacher side, 148 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 4: you just want to be present, but not overbearing at 149 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 4: the beginning, especially, be positive, be encouraging. 150 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 7: To be curious, be curious, ask them, hey, what are 151 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 7: you seeing, not accusatory. 152 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 4: And then when things are struggling, coming with okay, not 153 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 4: making an accusation here, just curious, why do you think 154 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:38,320 Speaker 4: my son or my daughter might be struggling on this 155 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 4: particular topic or what was it that maybe they missed? 156 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 4: So I think opening the conversation as opposed to it 157 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 4: being Hey, this didn't go the way I wanted. We 158 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 4: got to fix it. Sure, yeah we do, but that's 159 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 4: a team effort. I think very very often teachers begin 160 00:08:57,320 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 4: to feel like babysitters as opposed to teammates, and so 161 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 4: we want to make sure that as parents, when we're 162 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 4: reaching out to our kids teachers, that they know, hey, 163 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 4: we are equally a part of this, if not the 164 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:12,839 Speaker 4: biggest player on the team. How can I support you 165 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 4: as you support my child. I was telling Dina's earlier 166 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 4: that it's amazing how many emails I get that are very, 167 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 4: very aggressive and almost just snarky. And I'll say, hey, 168 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 4: let's have a phone conversation, and we get on the 169 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 4: phone and all of a sudden, the tone has changed 170 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 4: and they're much more receptive. And so I think that 171 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 4: if we as parents reach out to our teachers, it 172 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 4: should be very positive but saying okay, we want to 173 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:43,680 Speaker 4: partner with you in assisting our child. Whatever that looks like. 174 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 5: I think you said a couple of really good things 175 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 5: was one like we are on the same team, And 176 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 5: I think that's helpful to recognize that, like it's not 177 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 5: me against you, but like we really are on the 178 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 5: same team to help my kids succeed, and I appreciate 179 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 5: what you do for that. 180 00:09:56,920 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 7: The social emotional side is asking being curious about what 181 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 7: else is going on in my child's life. Are there 182 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 7: any significant stressors or events or things that might be 183 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 7: you know, distracting them from performing the way that I 184 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 7: know that they can, right and talking to yes, the teachers, 185 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 7: talking to your child themselves, or just maybe maybe their 186 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 7: friendship circles are changing, right, that's a huge part of 187 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 7: their life. Are the dynamics between friends and you know, 188 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 7: so what is going on in their life that you 189 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 7: have to consider that could be impacting how they're performing 190 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 7: to guidance counselors are a beautiful resource. Now they're usually 191 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 7: more being they're being proactive and they're trying to kind 192 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 7: of respond when something's already happened. But you can still 193 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 7: bring them in on the conversation so that they can 194 00:10:56,320 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 7: keep an eye and they can sort of assess, like, 195 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 7: you know, what could be going on in the school 196 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 7: environment for them. Yeah. 197 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 6: I think getting to the why is first to you know, 198 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 6: communication and then getting to the why is this either 199 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 6: suddenly becoming a problem or is a problem. I know 200 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 6: our son was bullied and we didn't know about it 201 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 6: for a long time, for significant amount of time, and 202 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:25,960 Speaker 6: that was his why. That was his why. He was 203 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 6: trying just trying to get through the day and just 204 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 6: focus on it. It wasn't a physical bullying necessarily, but 205 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:38,320 Speaker 6: it certainly attacked his character and his mental health and 206 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 6: all of that. So that was a huge part of it. 207 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 6: You know, just like I'm not good enough. I can't 208 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 6: I can't get through this. So yeah, so getting to 209 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:49,079 Speaker 6: the why is definitely a huge, huge thing. 210 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 3: We pray that you're enjoying and being blessed by this conversation. 211 00:11:57,640 --> 00:11:59,559 Speaker 3: We're going to take one more ad break and we'll 212 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 3: be right back. 213 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 7: Well, we touched on celebrating progress just a little bit, 214 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 7: but I feel like you said something about like, hey, 215 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:15,200 Speaker 7: celebrating you know, just celebrating the winds really and whatever 216 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 7: that looks like. So even if it is they're not 217 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 7: bringing home in a but maybe it's a project or 218 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 7: an assignment that they wrote and they're reading out to you, 219 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 7: or just celebrating whatever that is for your child and 220 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:31,839 Speaker 7: maximizing that because those are the experiences that I think 221 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 7: that's going to stick with them as part of their 222 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 7: academic journey. 223 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 3: Right, every person, every student, every human has different gifts 224 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 3: and different interests. And I think when you find the thing, 225 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 3: the subject, the project or whatever that you saw your 226 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 3: kid really shine in, yes, I think really leaning into 227 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 3: that and you know, supporting that encouraging them. School historically 228 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 3: has a bad rap of just trying to make you 229 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:57,440 Speaker 3: better at what you're not good at instead of just 230 00:12:57,480 --> 00:13:00,680 Speaker 3: really like investing in what your talent is. And I 231 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:03,439 Speaker 3: think making sure that we as parents are finding those 232 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:06,679 Speaker 3: little sparks in our kids and just like just you know, 233 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:09,080 Speaker 3: celebrating that in whatever way we can. 234 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 7: I know, our second struggles a little bit more in math. 235 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:17,800 Speaker 7: She really works hard on just studying. And you know, 236 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 7: she came home and she got like an eighty nine, right, 237 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:24,200 Speaker 7: and that's still that's a phenomenal grade. But knowing the 238 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 7: work and the effort she put into it, I was like, 239 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:29,960 Speaker 7: that's amazing. Let's go get ice cream. Yes, that's just 240 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 7: so amazing. 241 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 5: You know. She's like, but it wasn't. 242 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 7: And I was like, oh my gosh, I know how 243 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 7: hard you work. Like We're just so proud of the 244 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 7: work you put into that. I was like, this is 245 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 7: worth going out and getting ice cream for school is hard. 246 00:13:42,880 --> 00:13:44,079 Speaker 7: I mean, it just is. 247 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:46,679 Speaker 3: No, I don't know. 248 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 4: I go every day. 249 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 1: I love the Salvation Army's mission. Doing the most good 250 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 1: means helping people with material and spiritual needs. 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