1 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 1: Hello, friends, Welcome to Story Behind podcast. This is the 2 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: show for people who love hearing a good story and 3 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: who believe the world could use more positivity. We're the 4 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:18,919 Speaker 1: team behind God Updates and God Too, and we hope 5 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: these weekly short stories will brighten your day. 6 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 2: Grieving woman made a cemetery her home until kindness changed 7 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 2: her life forever. Written by Heather Riggleman, read by Duly Provost. 8 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:37,160 Speaker 2: A grieving woman made a cemetery her home until kindness 9 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 2: changed her life forever. I can't imagine the weight of 10 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 2: grief this woman carried. But if my high school sweetheart 11 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 2: and husband of twenty seven years was suddenly gone, I 12 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:46,559 Speaker 2: know I might have ended up right where she did. 13 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:49,239 Speaker 2: Grief has a way of shrinking the world until the 14 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 2: only place that feels safe is where love last stood still. 15 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 2: That's how Rena Holmes found herself living in a cemetery. 16 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 2: Police officers in Syracuse, New York, were stunned in December 17 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 2: when they discovered the fifty five bei old woman sleeping 18 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 2: among the gravestones at Oakwood Cemetery. But her story didn't 19 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:06,680 Speaker 2: begin there. It began years earlier, with a love that 20 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 2: lasted nearly three decades and a future that disappeared in 21 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 2: a single day. Ria Holmes and her husband Eddie Holmes 22 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 2: had been married for twenty six beautiful years. They were 23 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:18,119 Speaker 2: high school sweethearts, finally ready to buy their dream home. 24 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 2: In October twenty twenty. Their offer was accepted. That same day, 25 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 2: Eddie died suddenly at a heart attack. Instead of buying 26 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 2: a house, Rio used her down payment to purchase a 27 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 2: cemetery plot for her husband. She added a bench in 28 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 2: front of his grave and a place to sit and remember. Slowly, 29 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:38,119 Speaker 2: remembering became surviving, and surviving began slipping. Grief followed out 30 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 2: her life. Rhea lost her job, she was evicted. Too 31 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 2: proud to move into a shelter, she went into the 32 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:46,039 Speaker 2: only place she still felt like hers, Eddie's grave. This 33 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 2: is what I purchased, she said, simply. Beginning in May 34 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 2: twenty twenty five, Rea volunteered at a nearby food pantry 35 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 2: during the day. At night, she quietly returned to the 36 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 2: cemetery to sleep, unnoticed and alone. She assumed that's where 37 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 2: her life would end. But grief doesn't always get the 38 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 2: final word. In December, a retired officer working at the 39 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 2: cemetery noticed her at alerted police. Syracu's police officer, Jamie 40 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 2: Pastoral responded and became what Rhea called her angel. He 41 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:12,959 Speaker 2: paid for her to stay in a hotel. Then he 42 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 2: connected her with Leimannan College, where she could stay on 43 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 2: campus during winter break. He started a crowdfunding campaign and 44 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 2: introduced her to a nonprofit called a Tiny Home for Good, 45 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 2: which provides affordable housing to people in need. Within weeks, 46 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 2: everything changed. In just twenty days, Ria went from sleeping 47 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 2: on cold ground beside a gravestone to moving to her 48 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 2: own tiny home. Nothing will ever replace Eddie. Love like 49 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 2: that doesn't get replaced. But when Ria had Officer Jamie 50 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 2: during a recent reunion, it was clear that kindness had 51 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 2: interrupted her grief and given her a reason to keep 52 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 2: living forward. Sometimes God sends angels quietly in uniforms with 53 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:49,360 Speaker 2: open hands, right when the grief feels too heavy to survive. 54 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 2: The Lord is close to the brooken hearted and saves 55 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 2: those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm thirty four eighteen 56 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 2: FedEx worker gives birth at work, not knowing she was 57 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 2: actually pregnant, written by MICHAELA. Gordoni, read by Julie Propost. 58 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 2: Family got a very special delivery. Last month, the woman 59 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 2: gave birth at FedEx and she didn't even know she 60 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 2: was pregnant. It was a memory she'll never forget. The woman, 61 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:27,399 Speaker 2: Amethyst Bloomberg, who works at a FedEx facility in Grimes, Iowa, 62 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 2: had just fitished a workshift when she suddenly felt like 63 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 2: she had easy at the bathroom. After that, I couldn't 64 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 2: even get off the toilet, she said, adding that she 65 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 2: was able to open the door and call for help. 66 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 2: I get up and I'm like, I feel his head, 67 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 2: she recalled. The fire patrol arrived just before the baby 68 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 2: was born and assisted with the delivery. She ended up 69 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 2: giving birth on the floor at her workplace at eight 70 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 2: thirty three am. Her baby, whom she named Onyx King Easterleigh, 71 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 2: weighed six pounds eight ounces and measured nineteen inches long. 72 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 2: With my first one, I had all the symptoms, she 73 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 2: recalled of her first pregnancy. With this one, I had 74 00:03:57,600 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 2: nothing at all. I was losing weight at work. The 75 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 2: only signs she ever felt were when she was in 76 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 2: the bathroom. The only thing I felt was when my 77 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 2: back started hurting from back labor, and when he was descending, 78 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 2: I felt him move, she said. I've seen a lot 79 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 2: of things in my field, so I don't get too 80 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 2: much surprise anymore. Nick Pearson of the Johnson Grimes Fire 81 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 2: District said, I'm just very happy that she was healthy 82 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 2: and the baby was healthy. He's perfect antist said, he's 83 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:24,040 Speaker 2: our FedEx baby. Wow, what an incredible thing that this 84 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:27,720 Speaker 2: little baby stayed hidden through his mom's whole pregnancy. Anyx 85 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:29,919 Speaker 2: birth will be a story to tell for many generations. 86 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening to story Behind podcast. 87 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: We're really glad you joined us for this week's story. 88 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 1: To see photos and videos that may have been referenced 89 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,839 Speaker 1: in this episode, check out the links and the show notes, 90 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: and if you enjoyed what you heard today, subscribe to 91 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:57,919 Speaker 1: our podcast and please tell a friend about us. 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