1 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:07,760 Speaker 1: Life Audio. 2 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to your Daily Prayer, a podcast 3 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 2: dedicated to helping you find the words you need to 4 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 2: connect with your Father in Heaven. No matter what is 5 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:25,079 Speaker 2: going on in your life today, you can trust that 6 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 2: God wants. 7 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: To hear from you. 8 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 2: Right after this short word from our sponsor, you will 9 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 2: pray through today's prayer for when the Truth Hurts together 10 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 2: A Prayer for When the Truth Hurts written by Peyton Garland, 11 00:00:55,440 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 2: read by Carrie Iberger. But blessed is the one who 12 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 2: trusts in the Lord, whose confidence. 13 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:04,320 Speaker 1: Is in him. 14 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 2: They will be like a tree planted by the water 15 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 2: that sends out its roots by the stream, does not 16 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 2: fear when heat comes. Its sleeves are always green. It 17 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 2: has no worries in a year of drought, and never 18 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 2: fails to bear fruit. Jeremiah seventeen, verse seven and eight. 19 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 2: There's a reason we lie. Whether it's as simple as 20 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:31,559 Speaker 2: stivving that we enjoyed the meal our spouse cooked to us, 21 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 2: or as destructive as hiding a marital affair, we lie 22 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 2: because we have convinced ourselves that it saves pain, whether 23 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 2: for us, the other party, or both. Lies promise comfort, 24 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 2: but it's a false sense of security we too easily 25 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 2: lean on. But there's a reason lies are wrong. There's 26 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 2: a reason lying is one of the seven deadly sins. 27 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 2: Lying is a double edged sword, deceiving everyone involved. We 28 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 2: are speaking falsehoods to a spouse, friend, boss, etc. While 29 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 2: deceiving our souls with the ridiculous notion that lies won't 30 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 2: eventually be held to the light, that we won't self 31 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 2: distract and hurt others in our path. Both parties lose 32 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 2: every time a lie enters the conversation. Deceit erodes trust 33 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:30,360 Speaker 2: that often can't be recovered. As Christians, we are a 34 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 2: people called to forgive, but in this human body, forgiveness 35 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 2: doesn't mean forgetfulness, And in the name of protecting ourselves, 36 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 2: we often close ourselves off to whoever broke our trust. 37 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 2: When the deceit was heavy and harmful, it only makes 38 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 2: sense that we step away, especially when the other person 39 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 2: shows no signs of remorse, repentance, or change. Unfortunately, it's 40 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 2: all too common that we readily displace our distrust of 41 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 2: one person onto whoever comes along next. 42 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 1: This new individual might. 43 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 2: Share surface level similarities with the one who hurt us, 44 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 2: perhaps in physical looks, mannerisms, career choices or even sense 45 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 2: of style. Yet they have done nothing to lose our trust. 46 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 2: This is where the truth hurts. This is when truth 47 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 2: becomes uncomfortable, because truth wants us to trust again. It's 48 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 2: not asking us to trust the person who betrayed our hearts. 49 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 2: It's asking us to love others with a love that 50 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 2: is open and vulnerable. It's asking us to give another 51 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 2: person a fair chance at being part of our lives. 52 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 2: It's a blind, but rewarding faith that says, perhaps you're 53 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 2: meant to be a blessing in my life, and allows 54 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 2: someone to prove themselves. This isn't easy, especially if lies 55 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 2: have ruined your perception of relationship of any We humans 56 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 2: are far more delicate than we often care to admit. 57 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 2: But that's why I recently shared with a friend that 58 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 2: broken hearts have great value because only the priceless things shatter, 59 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 2: but the good people, the ones we can trust, defy 60 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 2: the human tendency of fickleness and impatience, so they can 61 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 2: glue us back together peace by peace. 62 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 1: And as always, our God. 63 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 2: Never lets broken things go to waste. In fact, he 64 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:36,159 Speaker 2: allows his light to shine through them the brightest. I'm 65 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 2: not asking you to throw caution to the wind, refuse 66 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 2: the gift of discernment, or ignore red flags. But what 67 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 2: I'm asking you to do is release the bitterness and 68 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 2: allow your heart to be free of the distrust you 69 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 2: place on others because of someone who hurt you in 70 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 2: the past. Instead, I'm asking you to trust and the 71 00:04:56,800 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 2: goodness of God and the plan he has for you. 72 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:03,359 Speaker 2: The plan you must be fearless enough to step into. 73 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:08,919 Speaker 2: It's one that, as Jeremiah promises, will forever bear fruit. 74 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:13,280 Speaker 2: You owe it to yourself, others, and God to have 75 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 2: open hands that are brave enough and willing to receive 76 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 2: the blessings of a new friendship, a new chance at love, 77 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 2: and so on. 78 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 1: Allow God to mend. 79 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 2: What was torn, heal what was hurt, and restore all 80 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 2: that was lost. 81 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 1: Let's pray, Father, thank you for being a god we can. 82 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 2: Trust your loving faithfulness has proven itself over and over. 83 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 2: Grant us the grace to remember all the times you 84 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:45,360 Speaker 2: have healed our hurts and placed wonderful people in our 85 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 2: lives as part of that healing journey. May we never 86 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 2: count out the blessing of friendship, marriage and love you 87 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 2: offer us, And may we be stewards of the relationships 88 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:59,839 Speaker 2: you have presented to us. Allow your discernment to guide 89 00:05:59,920 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 2: us us and your hope to fill our hearts and 90 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:06,479 Speaker 2: minds as we trust others when it's hard. 91 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 1: In your Holy namely pray Amen. 92 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 2: Your Daily Prayer is a production of Life Audio and 93 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:29,359 Speaker 2: Sale Media. For more faith filled inspirational podcasts, visit us 94 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 2: at lifeaudio dot com. While you're there, sign up for 95 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 2: our daily email. 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