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Speaker 1: How are we doing out there? Everyone? Welcome back to

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Speaker 1: the World Otoo Podcast, where I'm joined by my lovely

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Speaker 1: wife Melissa, who's looking very happy and refreshed and shabboted. Shabbated.

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Speaker 2: It's not a word, but everyone, we've decided to use it.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday was Shabbat. We're going to review our experience with

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Speaker 1: our first ever We're going to wait Shabbat or Sabbath?

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Speaker 1: Can we say sabbath?

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Speaker 2: I mean the kids were saying that it was our

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Speaker 2: Shabbat shalom, and I just thought it was so funny,

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Speaker 2: So you can say whatever you want, our.

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Speaker 1: Shabbat, our Sabbath. We took the day off yesterday. We'll

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Speaker 1: review that. Also, we want to discuss really great just

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Speaker 1: some of the feedback that in Nevaigat on a recent

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Speaker 1: video and how that kind of ties into just the

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Speaker 1: what has become the cultural norm here in the United

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Speaker 1: States with kicking your kids out of the house at

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Speaker 1: the age of eighteen, get out, and kind of everything

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Speaker 1: that correlates and corresponds with that, and also Agenda twenty thirty,

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Speaker 1: where there is this narrative that is being pushed amongst

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Speaker 1: young people, especially just seemingly trying to discourage them from

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Speaker 1: pursuing their ability to build a life for themselves. Let's

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Speaker 1: say it all kind of ties in into one giant discussion. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're going to go over all that. But Mama, how

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Speaker 1: was your Shabbah?

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Speaker 2: It was so good? It was so relaxing, life changing,

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Speaker 2: and we did so many things that I've been meaning

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Speaker 2: to do. Yeah, and then I just will get sucked

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Speaker 2: into doing other stuff that doesn't matter. And so the

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Speaker 2: day felt slow and intentional, and the kids said it

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Speaker 2: felt like a long but really full day and they

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Speaker 2: really really liked it. Eli was concerned he would get bored,

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Speaker 2: and he loved it so much.

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Speaker 1: It was a long day, but in a really good way.

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Speaker 1: Do you want to go over your day, review your

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Speaker 1: day really quickly, hearing maybe just what some of your

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Speaker 1: big takeaways where, and whether or not you kept it

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Speaker 1: like faith centered again.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, we woke up in the morning, we weren't

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Speaker 2: distracted by our phones, and everybody sat there while we

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Speaker 2: drank coffee and we just had a conversation. And then

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Speaker 2: you guys took off and did your thing for like

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Speaker 2: a little bit. You can get into that. But Kier

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Speaker 2: and I made homemade pizza dough so that we could

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Speaker 2: make pizza for everyone for Shabbat dinner. And I gave

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Speaker 2: Elia book because he was feeling a little bored. He

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Speaker 2: didn't quite know what to do with his hands because

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Speaker 2: he likes to build stadiums on his device, Like he

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Speaker 1: It's the most recent thing he's into.

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Speaker 2: Stadiums are his thing right now. So if anyone has

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Speaker 2: any connections to any kind of stadium tour, baseball or football,

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Speaker 2: he's into it. So anyway, he didn't know what to do.

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Speaker 2: I gave him a book that was book one of

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Speaker 2: an entire series. And he's never read a chapter book

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Speaker 2: cover to cover. He has a lot of them, but

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Speaker 2: he doesn't sit long enough. He's a real hyper kid,

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Speaker 2: like he loves to run around and play sports and

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Speaker 2: do all of that, and then he likes things that

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Speaker 2: and the plus, he's really dyslexic, and so he has

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Speaker 2: it kind of in his head that he's not the

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Speaker 2: he read an entire chapter book. He was so proud

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Speaker 2: He was telling both of us about what was going.

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Speaker 1: On, and the character said this, yeah, yeah, it was good.

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Speaker 2: And then I gave him book too, and he was like,

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Something we haven't spoken about, I don't think on

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Speaker 1: severely dyslexic. He had a number of challenges like trying

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Speaker 1: with you. For homeschooling, it's always a whole cluster.

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Speaker 2: Try long division with somebody who's very dyslexics, order of operations,

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Speaker 2: anything that goes back and forth. Like I think last

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Speaker 1: It's really interesting to see. I mean, he'll put shirts

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Speaker 2: He's like like he feels frustrated. So for him, to

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Speaker 1: As a two hundred and forty five page book, he

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Speaker 2: And then was excited for the next one. And today

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's great. Kim Oni and I woke up, like

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Speaker 1: and then Kimanie and I headed out for a run.

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Speaker 1: If you've been following Kaimanie over on his channel Kaimanie SUSA,

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Speaker 1: he's alluded to the fact a couple of times that

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Speaker 1: we have been running, he and I and yesterday we

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Speaker 1: I've really been enjoying the experience of, you know, just

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Speaker 1: great run. It was a beautiful day, a great way

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Speaker 1: honoring God is going to be just to do things

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Speaker 1: a beautiful day. Got to smell the freshly cut grass

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Speaker 2: Well, Kier and I rode horses, which yeah, we brought

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Speaker 2: She went on a date to the symphony.

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Speaker 2: She did not look at it. She she actually started

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Speaker 1: She did the full I didn't realize that.

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Speaker 2: Yep. They talked about the Bible on the way down

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Speaker 2: To take her out. She's just full of hot date,

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Speaker 1: No, but like I guess, my big takeaway was that

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Speaker 2: So much less anxiety and stress. So I know a

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Speaker 2: I really really think you should. We were super blessed

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Speaker 1: It was a great day. I highly highly recommend it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's almost like God knew what he was doing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah? For six days you shall work, and for one

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Speaker 1: Supposed to be. Don't get me wrong, Like these things

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think by turning everything off for a day,

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Speaker 2: useless moochures. Why kick them out, Why drive them away

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Speaker 2: from your family home. I don't see the point in

434
00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:03,119
Speaker 2: it anymore. I actually like my kids, and I like

435
00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:05,920
Speaker 2: being around them. Maybe they'll end up scattered to the wind,

436
00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:08,840
Speaker 2: but I prefer to keep our family together. Why wouldn't I.

437
00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:14,080
Speaker 2: That tweet got so many negative reactions.

438
00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:15,440
Speaker 1: Also, it's not just that's good.

439
00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:18,199
Speaker 2: No, it got he said that like, it got so

440
00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:20,800
Speaker 2: many reactions he ended up making a full episode on it.

441
00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:23,080
Speaker 2: But he didn't mean to, Like, he wasn't going to

442
00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:25,280
Speaker 2: make a full episode about it. He just had a

443
00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:27,640
Speaker 2: thought and him and his wife were talking about it, probably,

444
00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:30,520
Speaker 2: and so he tweeted it out. The negative reactions on

445
00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:33,160
Speaker 2: that were like, are you sick? Like what is wrong

446
00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:34,800
Speaker 2: with you? Why would you want your family to stay

447
00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:37,880
Speaker 2: on your property? You're controlling them? Why don't you want

448
00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:41,320
Speaker 2: them to go build their own thing? And it's funny

449
00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:44,480
Speaker 2: because around the world people don't live like that. My

450
00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:47,119
Speaker 2: Yaya came here from Greece, like what, seventy four percent

451
00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:50,360
Speaker 2: of Greeks from eighteen to thirty four still live with

452
00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:52,720
Speaker 2: their parents, a multi generation right here.

453
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Speaker 1: So this is in Europe and the US, more young

454
00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:58,199
Speaker 1: men and women live at home with her parents. So

455
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Speaker 1: this is the percentage of young adult ages eighteen to

456
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Speaker 1: thirty four who are still living at home with their parents.

457
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Speaker 1: And this is back from twenty twenty one, so take

458
00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:08,760
Speaker 1: that into account. But in places like Croatia it is

459
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Speaker 1: seventy six percent, Serbia seventy one percent, in Greece seventy

460
00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:15,600
Speaker 1: three percent, Portugal seventy two percent. At least seventy percent,

461
00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:17,320
Speaker 1: you can work your way all the way down this

462
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Speaker 1: list to the US, which is sitting at thirty three percent.

463
00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:23,040
Speaker 1: So this is again, this is the part that I

464
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Speaker 1: find so baffling. Why is it that it's it's treated

465
00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:29,600
Speaker 1: and handled and thought of as burdens on. Your kids

466
00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:31,360
Speaker 1: are a total burden. Sooner you can get them out

467
00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:34,280
Speaker 1: the sooner you have that streak of independence for yourself,

468
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Speaker 1: you can go and do whatever it is you want.

469
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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess I get it to a certain extent,

470
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Speaker 1: but really, when it comes to family, like nothing else

471
00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:43,400
Speaker 1: should come before a family, when it comes to addressing

472
00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:44,960
Speaker 1: your own needs, you know what I.

473
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Speaker 2: Mean, right? And obviously like that, relationship changes, But there

474
00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:50,600
Speaker 2: is so much beauty in that too. It's fun to

475
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Speaker 2: watch your kids get older and become adults and you

476
00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:54,560
Speaker 2: become kind of a spectator in their life. You're still

477
00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:57,480
Speaker 2: there to offer advice if they want it. But mostly

478
00:20:57,520 --> 00:21:00,720
Speaker 2: you're a spectator. And how cool would it be to

479
00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:03,800
Speaker 2: be able to spectate from your porch, Like I would

480
00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:07,399
Speaker 2: love to see my grand babies running across that field.

481
00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:10,879
Speaker 2: Like I've looked at that field and pictured Palomino's and

482
00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:13,160
Speaker 2: all kinds of stuff, But there is nothing more beautiful

483
00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:16,199
Speaker 2: than I could picture than my grandkids running across the

484
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Speaker 2: field from their house.

485
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's our primary motivation with trying to pick

486
00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:22,320
Speaker 1: up some large acreage out here. We did what we could,

487
00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:25,239
Speaker 1: we kind of, you know, we we bought as much

488
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Speaker 1: land as we could afford the time. I just don't

489
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Speaker 1: understand the philosophy. And this goes hand in hand with

490
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Speaker 1: like the way people raise even their young children, of like, hey,

491
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Speaker 1: wake up at six am, put your clothes on, get dress,

492
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Speaker 1: hop in the car. Let's not have any conversation. I'm

493
00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:41,119
Speaker 1: gonna leave you here at school or daycare, and then

494
00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,080
Speaker 1: again as soon as you grow up and you become eighteen,

495
00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:44,760
Speaker 1: you're out of the house. But so many people on

496
00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:47,920
Speaker 1: a day to day basis don't spend any real significant

497
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Speaker 1: time with their young children. Even it's like, you know,

498
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Speaker 1: I'll pick you up at six pm after you're doing

499
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Speaker 1: your after school activities. Once I'm done with work, we'll

500
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Speaker 1: see each other for a couple hours and it's back

501
00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:57,640
Speaker 1: to bed to do this all over again.

502
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Speaker 2: Yeah, we homeschool. I mean we work together, our kids

503
00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:01,560
Speaker 2: are we're all together.

504
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 1: Kids Like I would never want to drive them away

505
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:05,800
Speaker 1: or make a conscious decision to be like, no, you're

506
00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:07,720
Speaker 1: on the outs from a different day to day basis

507
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 1: and in life.

508
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Speaker 2: See on the holidays, we'll see. I don't want that

509
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 2: relationship with our kids either, And so obviously I hope

510
00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:18,480
Speaker 2: that's not the way that it works out. If it is,

511
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:22,399
Speaker 2: then then it is. But the opportunities here, and we

512
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,640
Speaker 2: want to give them a good, strong start. I don't

513
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Speaker 2: want to just say, hey, you're eighteen, you have to

514
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Speaker 2: go to school, like you need to go pay for

515
00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:31,400
Speaker 2: your own college and go do that, because well that's

516
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Speaker 2: what I had to do, and that was always like like,

517
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Speaker 2: well I had to do that, and I was out

518
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Speaker 2: when I was eighteen. It's like, yeah, but was that

519
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 2: the best thing for you? Because so much of what

520
00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:44,479
Speaker 2: society is now is wasting your twenties. So from eighteen

521
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 2: to twenty two, you're getting that four year degree, you're

522
00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:49,919
Speaker 2: starting your life in tremendous debt. You're getting out with

523
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 2: no experience. Yeah, entry level jobs, you can't even pay

524
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Speaker 2: back your loans. And now the cost of housing is

525
00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:01,239
Speaker 2: two to three times percentage the cost that it was

526
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Speaker 2: for our parents' generation.

527
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Speaker 1: Yeah, we've talked about that before. Not to say that

528
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:06,920
Speaker 1: it's impossible, but it is most definitely more difficult.

529
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 2: So if you're starting with a useless degree that you're

530
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:11,159
Speaker 2: not even going to use now, if you want to

531
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Speaker 2: be a doctor or a dentist or an architect or

532
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 2: something that requires that degree, then by all means, have

533
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Speaker 2: a plan. But don't just go and use that as

534
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Speaker 2: social time and four years of growing up, because that's

535
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 2: a really expensive social experiment and now you're already starting below.

536
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 2: You remember the game of life where it was like

537
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:32,680
Speaker 2: do you want to go to college and take out

538
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:34,240
Speaker 2: the loans or do you want to just start life?

539
00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:35,400
Speaker 2: I just started life.

540
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Speaker 1: That was more of a connect for a guy myself.

541
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Speaker 2: But then but then I ended up going to college

542
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Speaker 2: and getting the loans, and I got out of college

543
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 2: and it was difficult to get a job, and I

544
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:49,919
Speaker 2: don't even use that degree now, so I don't I

545
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:51,879
Speaker 2: didn't want that to be my kid's story if they

546
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:53,919
Speaker 2: had something that they really wanted to do, but I

547
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Speaker 2: just went to go.

548
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Speaker 1: Times are changing, like one of the biggest takeaways I

549
00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 1: had and reading through her comment session on that video

550
00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:01,919
Speaker 1: or just that, I think there's a it's very generational

551
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 1: as well to where I think a lot of older

552
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 1: people and like I had a conversation with my dad

553
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:07,320
Speaker 1: that you overheard earlier this week where I feel like

554
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 1: a lot of older people are missing the fact that

555
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 1: we seem to be in a state of transition to

556
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 1: where things are changing and the old rules no longer

557
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 1: apply when it comes to a number of things. But

558
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:20,159
Speaker 1: I think this whole classic tradition of like yeah, graduate

559
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 1: high school and either join a military, go to college,

560
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 1: or go to vacational school, and then you get out

561
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:26,520
Speaker 1: of that and you're still struggling.

562
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Speaker 2: Like you get a job and then you could afford

563
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Speaker 2: a house, but that's not necessarily true, and.

564
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Speaker 1: Then start a fam Like, yeah, it's great when everything

565
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 1: falls into place like that, but I feel like the

566
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 1: way things are set up currently, you're setting yourself up

567
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:43,080
Speaker 1: just a struggle long term if you follow that old.

568
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Speaker 2: Because now of doing things. Yeah, because that blueprint was

569
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:48,520
Speaker 2: get the nine to five work until you retire. Then

570
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,400
Speaker 2: you'll maybe you're lucky if you have a pension or

571
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,439
Speaker 2: some kind of a retirement account. And then it was

572
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:57,320
Speaker 2: just there was a cookie cut or blueprint of how

573
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Speaker 2: to do things. But it's not the only way. And

574
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Speaker 2: with the Internet now it is easier now, I think

575
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 2: for young people to build something of their own. Because

576
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Speaker 2: we have the internet, you can you can start a vlog,

577
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 2: you can start a business. There are so many women,

578
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:18,160
Speaker 2: housewives making millions of dollars with a product that they created.

579
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 2: They saw a problem, they created a product, they started

580
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 2: an Etsy page or you know, a Shopify or something,

581
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 2: and now they're running businesses from their home and you

582
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:29,159
Speaker 2: could never do that before. So the world is different

583
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 2: than it used to be and the old blueprint is

584
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 2: not the only way.

585
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:37,199
Speaker 1: No longer applies. At least that's the way I see it.

586
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 2: It's just not the only way. But so many people

587
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:41,199
Speaker 2: are telling her that's the way you need to do it.

588
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:42,399
Speaker 2: You need to do it this way. You need to

589
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 2: go to college, you need to go to vocational school,

590
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,200
Speaker 2: you need to go travel the world. That's a big one.

591
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:48,639
Speaker 2: She gets, go travel, travel travel date a bunch of

592
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 2: meny a bunch of people, and that's how you find

593
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:53,359
Speaker 2: your soul.

594
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Speaker 1: Man, marry a bunch of people. Go find yourself through

595
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Speaker 1: through world travel. Yeah, which to me sounds like it's

596
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Speaker 1: just like you don't don't waste your twenties taking a

597
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 1: prolonged vacation, right, that's not going to.

598
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,399
Speaker 2: Take I understand the whole, like backpack through Europe and

599
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:08,359
Speaker 2: stuff like. I mean, if you want to Rick Steves

600
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 2: your way through your twenties, Like, it just seems like

601
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 2: kind of a recipe for disaster.

602
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:16,919
Speaker 1: Crazy if you're backpacking through Europe, now you.

603
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:17,520
Speaker 2: You you're crazy, especially as a young woman. If you're

604
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 2: staying in hostels and stuff like, you're insane. But that

605
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 2: was like all the rage when we were in college.

606
00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:24,879
Speaker 2: I was like, what do you go to Spain? Go

607
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 2: to Yeah, So the it's just not you waste your twenties.

608
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 2: It's the average age to get married now for young

609
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:38,439
Speaker 2: people is like thirty years old. Well, you just wasted

610
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 2: your best baby making years. I'm serious. Like I was

611
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 2: telling the kids yesterday because we were having these crazy

612
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 2: conversations because we had so much time to sit in top.

613
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 2: They were like they asked me like, what would you

614
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:48,880
Speaker 2: do differently?

615
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Speaker 1: Mom?

616
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Speaker 2: And I was like, man, I started having kids at

617
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Speaker 2: twenty three, and I think that was great, But I

618
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 2: would have like kept having Like, well, I guess we

619
00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:58,199
Speaker 2: have quite a few kids in our twenties.

620
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Speaker 1: We have three kids in our twenties.

621
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that was great. But now imagine if we

622
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 2: had waited till we were thirty.

623
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Speaker 1: People would advise against doing something like that.

624
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 2: It was such a beautiful like, it was such a

625
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 2: beautiful life and such a beauty.

626
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:10,959
Speaker 1: It was, and it got us going. It forced us

627
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 1: to grow up really quickly. Yeah, I needed to lock

628
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 1: down a career. I became a police officer at twenty

629
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Speaker 1: three years old. We bought our first home at age

630
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 1: twenty three. You don't see twenty three year olds buying

631
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 1: homes these days because that's so out of reach. No

632
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,360
Speaker 1: twenty three year old can't afford it down their own,

633
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:26,680
Speaker 1: that's impossible.

634
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:30,919
Speaker 2: If houses cost percentage wise what they cost today, we

635
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:32,880
Speaker 2: would not have been able to get into our starter home.

636
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 1: Accounting and taking inflation into account, the median home price

637
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,680
Speaker 1: today should be I think one hundred and eighty one

638
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 1: thousand dollars.

639
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 2: Good luck finding that so we paid two thirty nine

640
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:44,200
Speaker 2: for our first house. I just looked that house up,

641
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 2: and that house is now selling for almost seven hundred

642
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:47,920
Speaker 2: thousand dollars.

643
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 1: Crazy.

644
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 2: What you made as a police officer versus what you

645
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:55,399
Speaker 2: would make today as a police officer has not gone

646
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 2: up that much. So it's three times more expensive than

647
00:27:58,840 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 2: it was twenty years ago.

648
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 1: I probably like one hundred and ten thousand dollars right now.

649
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 2: So it doesn't equate. And we could barely pay the mortgage,

650
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 2: so we would not have been able to afford that.

651
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Speaker 1: You're doing just fine, I mean, you know, yeah, we

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Speaker 1: were your typical middle class right.

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Speaker 2: We were waiting till that paycheck came in, though, and

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Speaker 2: we weren't like if the car broke down, it was

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Speaker 2: like we got to dig into savings. Yeah, like it

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Speaker 2: was we didn't have an extra at the end of

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Speaker 2: the month. Yeah, And we weren't going on vacations. I mean,

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Speaker 2: our kids didn't go on an airplane until five years ago.

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Speaker 1: So we want to set our kids up the best

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Speaker 1: that we can, to the best of our ability, and

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Speaker 1: I think we've we've done that, but in presenting them

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Speaker 1: the option now that it's all coming to fruition and

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Speaker 1: the Vede's expressing an interest in potentially doing this or

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Speaker 1: I'm saying that she's going to do it, but if

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Speaker 1: she if she does, we'd be very happy about it.

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Speaker 1: I really don't understand the criticism. Is it from people

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Speaker 1: that are like, well, you're just a spoiled brat, because

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Speaker 1: you know, they all get a lot of that, and

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Speaker 1: maybe that's fair to a certain extent. She's yeah, but

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Speaker 1: you know, like when we've you and I have devote

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Speaker 1: her lives to making sure that our kids never go without.

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Speaker 1: So that's not realistic for a lot of people out there,

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Speaker 1: which I get. Yeah, I was one of those kids,

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Speaker 1: so I understand. But you know, we're doing the best

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Speaker 1: that we can to make sure that her best foot

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Speaker 1: is forward. And yeah, we'll see where it goes.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean, I understand the whole It takes

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Speaker 2: a village, but I've never bought into that. I don't.

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Speaker 2: I've seen the village. They're weird and I don't want

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Speaker 2: any part of it.

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Speaker 1: So your parencing advice from Hillary Clinton.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it takes a family, for sure, and it like

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Speaker 2: there are people that don't have that family unit. And

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Speaker 2: I understand needing that village. I do. I understand, Like,

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Speaker 2: if you're a single mom and no fault of your

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Speaker 2: and you need to utilize daycare, I get it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: there's need to situations. But if you're putting your kids,

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Speaker 2: if you stay home and you put your kids in

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Speaker 2: daycare because you just want me time, there are so

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Speaker 2: many people that drop their kids off a daycare that

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Speaker 2: stay home.

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Speaker 1: I pointed out to you that we've known people in

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Speaker 2: When I was a teacher, so many of the teachers

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Speaker 1: You sacrifice time with your child so that you can

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Speaker 1: go and care for other people's kids, But your kid

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Speaker 1: is in daycare or in school, or it just I

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Speaker 1: don't know. Again, maybe we're the weird ones. You can

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Speaker 1: let us know down in the comments. And this isn't

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Speaker 1: And with the way that you're doing things. If this

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Speaker 1: of goes hand in hand with this on Mama and

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Speaker 1: the narrative that's being pushed amongst so many of our

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Speaker 1: Agenda twenty thirty.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you will own nothing and be happy. And

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Speaker 2: when we all heard that, we went no, wait, no

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Speaker 1: To fall for that. It's all playing.

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Speaker 2: Out, yes, And so now we're seeing it, we're just.

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Speaker 1: Talking about it. Yeah, average cost of a brand new

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Speaker 2: I mean we were already kind of like it worked

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Speaker 2: a little bit for us, but it was a little

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Speaker 2: was like they were kind of on fire, and they

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Speaker 2: the life of the preborn. They were fighting against just

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Speaker 2: a lot smaller government, less taxes, healthy good things that

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Speaker 2: of a mom and a dad in the home and

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Speaker 2: So now you have these huge names in the space

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Speaker 2: happening on the right. Now it's just ugly and there's

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Speaker 2: so much fighting. You've got Catholics against Protestants and everybody

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Speaker 2: against Jews, and you've got it's not like the right

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Speaker 2: And it's really really frustrated, and it's like, why is

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Speaker 2: they were on the right track or that they were

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Speaker 2: fighting for things that are good and righteous now tearing

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Speaker 1: How does this tie into Agenda twenty thirty and the

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Speaker 1: discouragement of young people was trying to build a life

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Speaker 2: So I think if you went to the grocery store

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Speaker 2: doesn't matter, it doesn't affect my life. However, however, if

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Speaker 2: the way that they view themselves and their future and

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Speaker 2: what's possible. And when you have the media and you

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Speaker 2: Don't join the military because you're just fighting for other countries,

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Speaker 2: you're not fighting for America. Like they're telling boys that

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Speaker 2: they're victims of feminism, and they're telling girls that either

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Speaker 2: you need to go out and be a she boss

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Speaker 2: and like forget men, there's no good men anymore, or

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Speaker 2: girls want choice, they don't want to be told that

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866
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Speaker 2: this manisphere that's popping up that is calling themselves right wing. Right.

867
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 2: You've got the Andrew Tates and the Nick Fonteses and

868
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:17,280
Speaker 2: these male podcasts that are really influential in the minds

869
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 2: of boys that are like twelve, I mean they're starting

870
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 2: to listen to these guys young, like definitely by fourteen,

871
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 2: they're starting to listen to the Manisphere, and they're pumping

872
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 2: up these young boys of like you guys are great,

873
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:31,480
Speaker 2: but like the world's against you. And they're telling these

874
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:34,319
Speaker 2: boys that they're victims. And it's like this is no

875
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:38,879
Speaker 2: different than BLM telling everybody that they were victims. You know, like, oh,

876
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:40,919
Speaker 2: you're a victim because of the color of your skin.

877
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 2: They're telling these guys, oh, you're a victim of the

878
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:45,880
Speaker 2: Me too movement. You're a victim of feminism, You're a

879
00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:48,880
Speaker 2: victim of BLM, you're a victim of all of stuff.

880
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 2: You're a white male. You're a victim, and they're starting

881
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:51,879
Speaker 2: to feel that they are.

882
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 1: So again, you're tying in these social media influencers with

883
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 1: the agenda being push by the I believe the U

884
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 1: win of don't bother is what the messaging is.

885
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 2: Yes, you're never going to get ahead. You're a victim.

886
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:11,839
Speaker 2: The world's against you. There's no good women that don't

887
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:14,320
Speaker 2: bother trying to like actually get married, don't want to

888
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 2: have children. That's going to tie you down because think

889
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 2: about like the biggest names in male influence in the

890
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:23,880
Speaker 2: manisphere word botel, it's not us. No one wants to

891
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 2: hear from a married I was gonna say for almost

892
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 2: twenty years father.

893
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 1: So despite the fact that I feel like I've done

894
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: relatively like well and okay for myself in life, no

895
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:36,280
Speaker 1: fourteen year old boy wants to hear from a forty

896
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:40,080
Speaker 1: two year old father of five on a mediocre at

897
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 1: best podcast saying Hey, work hard, save your money, ignore

898
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 1: the noise, like start a family, find yourself a good girl,

899
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,879
Speaker 1: that's not sexy and appealing to a young teenage boy

900
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 1: who's trying to figure things out. When I would be

901
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:57,880
Speaker 1: competing theoretically against the andrew Tates of the world, surrounded

902
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 1: by scantily clad w them that are dressed in falling

903
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:06,879
Speaker 1: bikinis of like, and smoking cigars and flashing cash.

904
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 2: Big watches like they all like do this on their podcast.

905
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:15,880
Speaker 1: Oh what Meanwhile, I got my sweet Sako dive watch.

906
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:17,960
Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with a dad watch.

907
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 1: This is indulgence for me.

908
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 2: Matches your braided leather belt.

909
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 1: It was in the budget a couple hundred bucks. Why

910
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 1: that's my fancy watch.

911
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:27,719
Speaker 2: Yeah. So yeah, No one wants to hear about how

912
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 2: to be a man from someone who's actually out there.

913
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 1: Being a man. I don't hear from a dad.

914
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:34,359
Speaker 2: No, you don't. And so if you really think about

915
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 2: these guys, these Manus Foret podcast guys, they're losers. They're

916
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:42,400
Speaker 2: in their late thirties or forties, they are not married,

917
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:45,600
Speaker 2: they have gone through all these women. Nobody loves them,

918
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 2: and they love no one. They have no children, and

919
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 2: it's like, what have you actually accomplished with your life

920
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:54,400
Speaker 2: that brings you true fulfillment?

921
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 1: But again, so what is your theory. Are all of

922
00:40:56,080 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 1: these personalities just paid actors that are pushing an agenda,

923
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,240
Speaker 1: a narrative to to win over young minds because it's effective.

924
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 1: It's been effective. We're seeing it. All these young people

925
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:07,799
Speaker 1: are not growing up, they're not getting married, they're they're

926
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 1: not building life for themselves. There's a massively disproportionate number

927
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 1: of young twenty year olds who are in their prime

928
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:16,880
Speaker 1: baby making stage of life, to use your quote, and

929
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 1: they're not taking advantage of it. They're not even taking

930
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 1: the time to like walk up to a woman to.

931
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:23,280
Speaker 2: Asking out women.

932
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:27,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're they're relationship. They do all of their their

933
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:32,319
Speaker 1: flirtation via their their smartphones and that's of course that's

934
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 1: not you know, a firm foundation to build a relationship

935
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 1: upon it. It's really interesting, But is that what you're saying,

936
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:38,720
Speaker 1: is that your theory.

937
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:40,640
Speaker 2: I hate to be one of those people that say like, oh,

938
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:42,319
Speaker 2: you're bought and paid for it, you're being paid and

939
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:43,759
Speaker 2: all this stuff, because we get that all the time

940
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 2: and it's so annoying.

941
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's clear that off right now. Okay, because this

942
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 1: past week we know seven bought and paid for by

943
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 1: by by the Jews by Israel. We have not received

944
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:56,680
Speaker 1: a single time.

945
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:57,360
Speaker 2: We have not received it.

946
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 1: We have been accused of working and doing the bidding

947
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:03,320
Speaker 1: of Turning Point USA, which we are not never.

948
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 2: Received Turning Point. We do not work for them, and

949
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 2: they do not know who we are. Does not work

950
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 2: for a Turning Point.

951
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 1: Doing the work of the Daily Wire.

952
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:14,080
Speaker 2: Yes, we got that one, that we work for the

953
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 2: Daily Wire, answer to them. They have sponsored the podcast,

954
00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 2: but we know more answer to the Daily Wire than

955
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 2: we do Athletic Greens or racon Earbuds, Like they're just sponsors.

956
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 2: They don't dictate our content at all, and we have

957
00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 2: not actually even communicated with them in years.

958
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 1: Like hopefully that's a relationship that is ongoing. I mean,

959
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:37,760
Speaker 1: I really appreciated the fact.

960
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 2: That we too us and this week we were accused

961
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:45,839
Speaker 2: of doing the bidding of Ben Shapiro and working for him.

962
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 2: And I promise you Ben Shapiro does not know who

963
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:54,359
Speaker 2: we are. And we met him, like when we had

964
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 2: Matt Walsh on the podcast, he came in after we

965
00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:00,879
Speaker 2: met him the week or two before, and it's nice

966
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 2: to meet. That's how much we don't work for.

967
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 1: The Daily Life before. No, but I love the day

968
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 1: where and it just so happens that that we share

969
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 1: We're not important, we share the same mindset and philosophy. Like,

970
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 1: if there's anybody on the tapestry of online media that

971
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:19,440
Speaker 1: I would identify most with, it will probably be Ben

972
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 1: Shapiro by default, upon the tragic assassination of Charlie Kirk,

973
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: men that I respect and you know not to say

974
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:29,839
Speaker 1: he's not fair and open to criticisms like, go ahead,

975
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 1: I'm sure you know. I could find things to criticize

976
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 1: him on myself. But yeah, we're not We aren't chills.

977
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 1: I guess this is what I'm trying to say.

978
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 2: Okay, so we cleared that outre anyway.

979
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 1: Sorry, back to your point, It's just I had to

980
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 1: address it.

981
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 2: We should just have likes here, like seven thousand dollars.

982
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 1: I'm coming here next week. Put a Yamaica on. I

983
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,879
Speaker 1: don't know, Sorry I broke away. What were you saying?

984
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't I don't even remember where.

985
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 1: I was I asked you about. Just you're talking about

986
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 1: people who are in bought and paid for pushing it.

987
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 2: I hate saying that, but it does feel like there's

988
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 2: this sudden narrative and they all seem to be speaking

989
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 2: from a script because you can literally take what they're

990
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 2: saying and they're all saying the exact same It's.

991
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,360
Speaker 1: A massive flip flop on the same day. Not that

992
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 1: people aren't entitled to change their minds and opinions on matters,

993
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:19,839
Speaker 1: but when, like you said, they're all pushing the same

994
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 1: agenda and it seems to be uh, the intention to

995
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 1: discourage young people. Yes, things start getting a little fishing.

996
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 2: They're discouraging the right is discouraging young people, and that

997
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 2: is new that never ever happened. It was like capitalism

998
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 2: and build a business and get rich, like you can

999
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 2: be rich, you can be a millionaire, like the sky

1000
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 2: is the limit. That was always the story, like be independent.

1001
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 1: I think the intention is to make them all feel

1002
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:49,279
Speaker 1: disenfranchised so that they can be swooped up by a

1003
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:52,359
Speaker 1: future savior. And this is happening and it is having

1004
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:54,239
Speaker 1: an impact. I get that most of us are older

1005
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:55,839
Speaker 1: and we don't pay attention to these things in order

1006
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:57,240
Speaker 1: we care. But I can tell.

1007
00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:59,080
Speaker 2: You we have young kids, so we see it and

1008
00:44:59,120 --> 00:44:59,759
Speaker 2: they talk about it.

1009
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:01,759
Speaker 1: That But even when we've gone like when I went

1010
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 1: to tpusa's event and student action summing down in Tampa

1011
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 1: last year, pretty much every single young person I was

1012
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 1: walking to the Michael was expressing these feelings of being

1013
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:15,839
Speaker 1: disenfranchised and frustrated by the state of the world, and

1014
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: they feel like they're being screwed over because the generations

1015
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 1: I came before them had far more opportunity and came

1016
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 1: up in the time of massive economic prosperity, and they

1017
00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 1: feel like they're being nudged out of that potential for themselves,

1018
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:31,359
Speaker 1: which which I get. And we've come on here before

1019
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 1: and done the podcast about how, yes it is, it

1020
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:37,759
Speaker 1: is maybe more difficult. You could make that argument is

1021
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 1: more difficult, but we push against it.

1022
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:42,399
Speaker 2: There's things that are easier, and now you have.

1023
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 1: Far more opportunity now. Like I just had a I

1024
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 1: was going back and forth to somebody I think down

1025
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:48,440
Speaker 1: on our comment section to where they were like, oh,

1026
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: young people are getting screwed on. No, they're not, because

1027
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 1: we came in here and did that episode about how, yeah,

1028
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 1: it is maybe more difficult, but it's not impossible. And

1029
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 1: the fact that that's what we're telling these young people

1030
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:59,800
Speaker 1: is disgusting is my personal take. But yeah, the amount

1031
00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:04,919
Speaker 1: of opportunity you have now to benefit financially. You can

1032
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 1: make an exorbitan amount of money with this thing in

1033
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:10,879
Speaker 1: your palm, even if it's just you know, hey, yeah,

1034
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 1: I'm working in nine to five, but at night, I

1035
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 1: go and I do Uber Eats and I make an

1036
00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:17,479
Speaker 1: extra three, four or five hundred bucks a night because

1037
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 1: of it. We didn't have that opportunity.

1038
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 2: No, there was no online anything.

1039
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 1: If you're willing to bust your butt, you can make

1040
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 1: a crazy amount of money, especially online.

1041
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 2: Now you used to have to get up and go

1042
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:31,360
Speaker 2: to a job to make a paycheck. Yeah, and or

1043
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 2: you were like on your landline doing Remember when they

1044
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 2: used to do those commercials like if you're a mom

1045
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 2: and you want to make money from home, you can

1046
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 2: do and you would like call and be customer service

1047
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:43,879
Speaker 2: from your house. There's people that did that, or they

1048
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:46,359
Speaker 2: were doing bookkeeping from their home. There were a few

1049
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 2: things you could do from home. Now you can run

1050
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 2: so many businesses from your house. You can be the products,

1051
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 2: you can create a product, you can ship from their

1052
00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:59,960
Speaker 2: ship station, and like all these things. You can make

1053
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:04,239
Speaker 2: a clothing line, you can make cosmetics.

1054
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:06,200
Speaker 1: Like literally, side hustle games.

1055
00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:09,720
Speaker 2: Yes, and it doesn't have to necessarily be a side hustle.

1056
00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 2: You can start massive corporations from your home.

1057
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:13,879
Speaker 1: I mean when you were a stay at home mom,

1058
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 1: you were painting all the baby letters and we were

1059
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 1: making you know, one hundreds of dollars.

1060
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 2: That's when the internet was still kind of in its

1061
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 2: infancy in a way.

1062
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 1: I got an Etsy page, and that was that was huge.

1063
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:26,040
Speaker 2: He was groundbreaking to me because before Etsy, I was

1064
00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 2: selling that stuff on Craigslist.

1065
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:28,280
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1066
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:30,360
Speaker 2: I would post on Craigslist and then I would have

1067
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:32,319
Speaker 2: to chip you were.

1068
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:34,960
Speaker 1: Getting kicked off of all the Cigslist because.

1069
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 2: I wasn't from that area. So I was joining Craigslist

1070
00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 2: in California and Massachusetts. I would find the richest areas,

1071
00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 2: the richest county. Yeah. I would find I feel like, okay, Manhattan,

1072
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 2: and I would join like Manhattan Craigslist and I would

1073
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:54,160
Speaker 2: advertise these letters with shipping, and I was shipping them

1074
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 2: from Washington State, and then Craigslist woul figure out that

1075
00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,279
Speaker 2: I didn't live in Manhattan and they've kicked me off.

1076
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 2: So that's the way that I had to try to

1077
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:03,399
Speaker 2: do an online business. Then Etsy came out.

1078
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I.

1079
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:08,399
Speaker 2: Can make a shop. Yeah, and there are so many

1080
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 2: women that have become millionaires because of Edsy.

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Speaker 1: We've been telling you guys about Angel Studios for literally

1082
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 1: years now, and that's because they offer so many amazing movies, shows,

1083
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Speaker 1: and documentaries that are all safe, inspiring, and actually entertaining.

1084
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Speaker 2: That's right, And with Easter ride around the Corner, Angel

1085
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:22,840
Speaker 2: had some really amazing movies that are perfect for that

1086
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 2: special movie night with the whole family. The Sound of

1087
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Speaker 2: Hope is one that we really recommend. It's an inspiring

1088
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:31,399
Speaker 2: true story about ordinary people who step forward to care

1089
00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:34,760
Speaker 2: for children and transform their community. This one is really

1090
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 2: raw and really honest, and it was such a great

1091
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 2: one to watch with the kids.

1092
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:39,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's also The King of Kings, which is a

1093
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 1: sweeping and moving animated portrayal of the life of Jesus

1094
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 1: and the story at the heart of Easter that most

1095
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 1: fantastic definitely worth checking out.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, there are just so many to choose from, and

1097
00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:51,399
Speaker 2: they're always adding new titles both on Angel Premium, which

1098
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:54,000
Speaker 2: is their streaming platform, and in theaters. This year, they

1099
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:56,839
Speaker 2: have some really incredible movies coming out, and Angel is

1100
00:48:56,960 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 2: just so much better than all the garbage found on

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Speaker 2: all of those streaming platforms.

1102
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 1: We're so happy to support them, and we'd love for

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Speaker 1: premium Angel Guild member.

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Speaker 2: There are so many women that have become millionaires because

1108
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:12,280
Speaker 2: of Etsy.

1109
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:14,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, which is a great thing. Yeah so, and which

1110
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:17,080
Speaker 1: which is the message that we should be pushing right

1111
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:20,399
Speaker 1: that you have, you have this abundance of opportunity, Yes,

1112
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:22,319
Speaker 1: work hard and take advantage of it. And you too,

1113
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:25,239
Speaker 1: don't have to fall into this agenda twenty thirty crap.

1114
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 2: And don't listen to these manisphere losers that don't have

1115
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:31,799
Speaker 2: wives and don't have children. And they're literally losers. These

1116
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 2: guys are losers. Like they're like, you know, you just

1117
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:37,240
Speaker 2: have all these women, and like men aren't. They're teaching

1118
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:39,839
Speaker 2: men that, like, you need to be primal and they're

1119
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 2: speaking to all of the hearts of a teenager raper machismo.

1120
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:45,320
Speaker 2: Yeah like that you like you just work out, be

1121
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:48,400
Speaker 2: buffed and have this red fancy car and this big

1122
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 2: watch and no wife. But all these girlfriends and the

1123
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 2: girls they need to be loyal to you. But you

1124
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 2: don't need to be loyal to them because that's not

1125
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 2: the cheese me. Like they're all teaching and while you

1126
00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:01,799
Speaker 2: turn to instid their hands, yeah, and then they're just

1127
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:03,799
Speaker 2: like I have no vibe and like you see them

1128
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 2: sometimes when they get honest where they're like, I'm lonely

1129
00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 2: at night.

1130
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:07,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, bet, And.

1131
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, because nobody loves you because you're a

1132
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 2: jerk and so and you've always been a jerker online, Like,

1133
00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 2: no good woman's going to want to be with somebody

1134
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:15,399
Speaker 2: like that.

1135
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 1: I guess to summarize, can we both acknowledge that there

1136
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:23,200
Speaker 1: are online influences that are really beginning to impact so

1137
00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 1: many of our lives, but especially the lives of our

1138
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 1: young people, and that because of that, they should maybe

1139
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:29,720
Speaker 1: consider doing the Shabbat because then they'd stayff the phones,

1140
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 1: they wouldn't see or hear any of this cap and

1141
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 1: they could just live a life of contentment.

1142
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 2: Well, I know, like people that are our age and

1143
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 2: people that are older, you know, are our parents' age,

1144
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 2: might be saying, why do I care. I don't care

1145
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 2: about these influencers. You have to care for your grandkids

1146
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 2: because your grandsons are watching these guys. They are at

1147
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:49,680
Speaker 2: least they know who they are, and they're being influenced

1148
00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 2: by it and their friends or if their friends are

1149
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 2: watching it, and they're all talking. When fourteen and fifteen

1150
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:56,879
Speaker 2: year old boys get together, they talk about their frustrations,

1151
00:50:57,280 --> 00:50:59,319
Speaker 2: and when eighteen year old and nineteen year old guys

1152
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 2: get together, they talk about their frustrations and like, I

1153
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:03,879
Speaker 2: can't buy a house, how am I supposed to sart

1154
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:07,000
Speaker 2: a business? Because they've been told over and over and

1155
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:10,400
Speaker 2: over again that they are victims. It's unaffordable, it's unachievable.

1156
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:14,680
Speaker 2: Don't bother trying. And then when you take away a

1157
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 2: human beings will to try the purpose. When you take

1158
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:21,719
Speaker 2: away their purpose, now you can swoop in with the

1159
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:25,840
Speaker 2: don't worry. We'll take care. We got you, mom, donnid Yeah,

1160
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:29,200
Speaker 2: yes exactly. We're going to own these grocery stores and

1161
00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:31,160
Speaker 2: we're going to give you these things, and we're going

1162
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:33,319
Speaker 2: to make sure your medical's taken care of, and we're

1163
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:34,920
Speaker 2: going to make sure that you live in these crappy

1164
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:38,799
Speaker 2: little apartments in your fifteen minute cities. Yes, everything you

1165
00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 2: need is here. Don't worry because they've had all this

1166
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:44,279
Speaker 2: anxiety their whole life growing up because all of these

1167
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 2: great influences that they look up to are telling them

1168
00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:50,759
Speaker 2: it can't be done, and now you can sweep in

1169
00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:53,720
Speaker 2: and you can control them because they're defeated.

1170
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:54,919
Speaker 1: You're the savior, yep.

1171
00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 2: And so it's so so damaging, and that's why we

1172
00:51:57,760 --> 00:52:02,360
Speaker 2: have to care as parents and grandparents, because these influences

1173
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:07,879
Speaker 2: are they're destroying the minds and the will of our youth,

1174
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:11,360
Speaker 2: of our kids, and it matters because they're the next generation.

1175
00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:14,360
Speaker 2: And if they feel like there's no point and it's unachievable,

1176
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:18,319
Speaker 2: then then we lose. Like it's lost. Then you're going

1177
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:19,759
Speaker 2: to be able to go in and you're going to

1178
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 2: be able to control the masses by being this nanny state,

1179
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:25,359
Speaker 2: and they're going to welcome it. They're going to vote

1180
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:27,040
Speaker 2: for it, and they're not going to realize that it's

1181
00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 2: a nightmare and disaster until it's too late.

1182
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:31,840
Speaker 1: It's easy to have a really hearted conversation about this stuff,

1183
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 1: but it legitimately worries me for our kids and then

1184
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 1: what life in the world looks like when you and

1185
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 1: I are in our sixties and seventies, you know, like

1186
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:39,799
Speaker 1: what for real? What well?

1187
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:45,840
Speaker 2: I mean in Iran, the Persian people voted for the

1188
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 2: government that you're seeing today. But then when by the

1189
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 2: time it took over, like they it was the hippie

1190
00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:56,760
Speaker 2: anti establishment that voted for this regime and then they

1191
00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 2: completely were like okay, mass executions now anybody that bucks

1192
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:04,120
Speaker 2: is and and you see it over and over and

1193
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:06,839
Speaker 2: over again in societies that vote for socialism or they

1194
00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 2: vote for communism because it sounds good, and then it

1195
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:12,719
Speaker 2: becomes a nightmare. But it's too late. At that point,

1196
00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:14,719
Speaker 2: you you can't reverse it.

1197
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 1: I don't want to be taken care of.

1198
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 2: But if you thought that you couldn't do it yourself

1199
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:20,879
Speaker 2: and then somebody's offering you the free rise, I don't care.

1200
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 1: What anyone tells me. I'm going to truy and see.

1201
00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 1: This is the difference between I think people of maybe

1202
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 1: our age and older versus these new like I will

1203
00:53:27,640 --> 00:53:28,720
Speaker 1: do whatever it takes.

1204
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 2: You can program people though from a very young Yeah,

1205
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:33,880
Speaker 2: I think it's I think that's the problem with public school.

1206
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:36,360
Speaker 2: Like I literally say that is the problem with public

1207
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:38,920
Speaker 2: school is there's so much agenda and there's so much

1208
00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:41,080
Speaker 2: of like, Okay, you either need to do this, and

1209
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:43,120
Speaker 2: this is kind of the recipe for failure. Kids are

1210
00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:45,360
Speaker 2: smart enough to look at the recipe that's being fedded

1211
00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 2: them in school going that doesn't work, it doesn't make sense,

1212
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:53,399
Speaker 2: and then they feel hopeless instead of being taught alternatives.

1213
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:55,160
Speaker 1: Meanwhile, you and I are the ones that are guilty

1214
00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 1: of breaking watching our child and coursing.

1215
00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 2: Send them to public school, send them into the cysto.

1216
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:03,520
Speaker 1: Wanting to build her own home on a family compound

1217
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:05,880
Speaker 1: property and beautiful North Idaho. It's you and I.

1218
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:09,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that our grandchildren don't have to see daycare,

1219
00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 2: so that they can be raised by people that will,

1220
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:13,560
Speaker 2: you know, love them and care for them. And if

1221
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:16,920
Speaker 2: our kids need to go to work or want to

1222
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 2: go to work, or want to get their hair done,

1223
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:21,000
Speaker 2: or want to go to dinner on a date, the

1224
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:23,719
Speaker 2: kids are going to be with people that would die

1225
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:29,360
Speaker 2: for them, not some daycare somewhere. And I just I

1226
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:33,280
Speaker 2: know that that's not everybody's reality. And maybe that sounds

1227
00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 2: horrible to some people, but it doesn't need to be that, like, Okay,

1228
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,759
Speaker 2: that's like the polar opposite of like, so there's this

1229
00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 2: over here of like you need to be in a

1230
00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 2: fifteen minute city, and then there's family sues a compound

1231
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:47,480
Speaker 2: over here in North Idaho mountains. So there's two extremes,

1232
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:49,839
Speaker 2: but there's a middle ground. And I think it's really

1233
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 2: important that we're teaching young people or we're having these

1234
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:55,759
Speaker 2: conversations in our home, whether it's grandparents or parents, that

1235
00:54:56,239 --> 00:55:00,319
Speaker 2: maybe the nineteen sixties American dream doesn't work anymore more,

1236
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:03,680
Speaker 2: but you have all this opportunity and the American dream

1237
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:05,840
Speaker 2: is still alive and well, and young people need to

1238
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 2: go after it, and they do need to be looking

1239
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:10,960
Speaker 2: to get married and having children because that is ultimately

1240
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:13,120
Speaker 2: what is always brought fulfillment through life.

1241
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:14,560
Speaker 1: We're gonna wind us on here in a second, though,

1242
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:16,040
Speaker 1: but I think I think there is an element of

1243
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:17,879
Speaker 1: conformity to come along with all of this, Like we've

1244
00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:19,480
Speaker 1: branched out when we've done things in a way that

1245
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:21,799
Speaker 1: is very unorthodox, and people don't like that. They don't

1246
00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 1: like when you forge your own path and do things

1247
00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 1: in a way that works out really well for you.

1248
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 2: I think it makes people uncomfortable that the people that

1249
00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:33,719
Speaker 2: get really angry about it and lash out or I'm like,

1250
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:35,680
Speaker 2: why are you angry? This literally has nothing to do

1251
00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 2: with you. I think it's because they feel personally attacked

1252
00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:41,799
Speaker 2: that you didn't do it the way that they were

1253
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:43,799
Speaker 2: told that they did, that they bought in, that they

1254
00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:47,080
Speaker 2: bought into, and now they're angry when somebody breaks free

1255
00:55:47,080 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 2: from that. It's kind of like like they take it

1256
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 2: personally when it's not personal.

1257
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:55,600
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, On that note, are we back in here

1258
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 1: next week?

1259
00:55:56,320 --> 00:55:56,640
Speaker 2: We are.

1260
00:55:56,800 --> 00:55:58,440
Speaker 1: We're back in here next week. We're gonna wind this

1261
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:01,080
Speaker 1: one down after our day of rest, after our day

1262
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:04,239
Speaker 1: of rest. Yeah, shalom, you guys, have a great week.

1263
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 1: Thank you for being here once again. Sincerely appreciate it.

1264
00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:09,760
Speaker 1: So you hope you enjoy your Shabbat.

1265
00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:12,000
Speaker 2: If you let us know if you're going to do it,

1266
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:14,200
Speaker 2: let us know how it goes. I would love to

1267
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:17,359
Speaker 2: hear how it. Bless you guys, because it's been it's

1268
00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:19,120
Speaker 2: been good. It's only been one, but it's been good.

1269
00:56:19,160 --> 00:56:21,799
Speaker 1: It's been awesome. Do it all right, love and appreciate you.

1270
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 1: We'll see you next week. Take care of guys,