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Speaker 1: Welcome to Timeless Wisdom with Dennis Prager. Here thousands of

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Speaker 2: Yes, Yes, Yes, go on, go on, Hey, everybody, Dennis

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Speaker 2: Prager here, Male Female hour Every Wednesday, the second hour

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Speaker 2: of the show devoted to.

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Speaker 3: Honest. That's the key, honest, talk about men and women.

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Speaker 3: As I say almost every week, I'm not a man fan,

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Speaker 3: and I am not a woman fan. I am a

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Speaker 3: good person fan, and I am a fan of men

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Speaker 3: and women bonding, marrying and hopefully getting along better. One

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Speaker 3: of the ways to get along better is to understand

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Speaker 3: each other better. Now, I'm going to talk about a

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Speaker 3: subject that I haven't talked about in a while. But

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Speaker 3: I get a tremendous amount of feedback from people because

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Speaker 3: I have been so open about the subject sex.

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Speaker 1: I think this might not be one of those.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, this might not be one for kids. That's correct.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for noting that ninety nine percent of my

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Speaker 3: shows I would love kids to listen to, this might

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Speaker 3: not be one of them. I mean, we're not graphic

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Speaker 3: in any way whatsoever. But nevertheless that's the subject. So

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Speaker 3: it arose because we're approaching Valentine's Day, which I think

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Speaker 3: is a good thing. I think all the holidays are

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Speaker 3: don't care. People enjoy it. Let them enjoy themselves. But

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Speaker 3: I think they're good things. I think that the romance

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Speaker 3: or good things. What could be bad about it? Right?

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Speaker 3: And I mean it. So there are two studies I

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Speaker 3: The one that I saw which is what engendered this topic.

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Speaker 3: This was in the Daily Mail big headline Relationship expert

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Speaker 3: busts the biggest myths about romance, and so they in

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Speaker 3: the Daily Mail, which is in It's a very interesting website,

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Speaker 3: and they have bullet points and one of the bullet

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Speaker 3: points is men prefer sex to gifts while women care

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Speaker 3: more about thought than extravagance. Perth, I guess Australia. Perth

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Speaker 3: dating coach Luanne Ward clarified common misconceptions and this was

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Speaker 3: one of them. Ninety percent, a resounding ninety percent of

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Speaker 3: men surveyed by illicit Encounters said sex was their number

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Speaker 3: one wish for Valentine's Day and that they think that's

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Speaker 3: a very good point from the triple g and any

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Speaker 3: other day and an a leap year that adds a day,

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Speaker 3: just for the record. Now, let me make something clear.

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Speaker 3: I know this. I'm going to get emails where it's

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Speaker 3: where the relationship is inverted, where the woman wants it

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Speaker 3: more than the man does. And I know that happens,

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Speaker 3: and life is filled with frustration, but I'm talking about

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Speaker 3: but it's it's it's a significant thing, and it's I've

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Speaker 3: always I must admit this has been a somewhat of

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Speaker 3: a puzzle to me. If you love your husband, and

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Speaker 3: that's a big if you and I'll give you more ifs.

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Speaker 3: If you love your husband and he's a good man.

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Speaker 3: Those are the two ifs. Okay, the two big ifs.

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Speaker 3: Why wouldn't you have a sex with him? Perhaps more often?

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Speaker 3: And I'm not pushing for daily, but when I get emails.

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Speaker 3: Even but we haven't had sex in five years. So

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Speaker 3: he asked me for advice. By the way, advice is

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Speaker 3: spelled with a C, not an S. S is advice.

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Speaker 3: C is advice is another word that's that's one. That's

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Speaker 3: another word that's commonly misspelled as is lose. It's amazing

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Speaker 3: that here, here are your choices. Make peace with it, uh,

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Speaker 3: you know what this woman might say if she loves

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Speaker 3: that you're angry at a good man? So Valentine's Day

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Speaker 3: What's you gov? It's not a government thing, is it's

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Speaker 3: like you determined? You determined? Oh oh oh, not government,

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Speaker 3: So this is uh, this is their listing the thing

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Speaker 3: men most want for Valentine's Day sexual act slash favors, second,

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Speaker 3: mean the first place, honey, would you like sex or

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Speaker 3: a card? The guy, the guy who would think you're joking?

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Speaker 3: your next Valentine's Day. Women. This is this is awesome

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Speaker 3: women's preferences. This is on you gov. Number one, Chocolates

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Speaker 3: you notice that something's not on that list that's on

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Speaker 3: the men's list electronics? What do you make of all this?

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Speaker 3: My dear listeners, men and women? One eighth Praguer seven

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Speaker 1: This episode of Timeless Wisdom will continue right after this.

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Speaker 1: Now back to more of Dennis Prager's Timeless Wisdom.

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Speaker 3: Hey, everybody, Dennis Prager here one eight Prager seven seven

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Speaker 3: not like, you know, the weather. There's an old line.

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Speaker 3: It was Mark Twain. Everybody talks about the weather and

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Speaker 3: and it's they're so often accompanied by a lover look.

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Speaker 3: You know, I'm a behaviorist in every yerena, including sex.

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Speaker 3: I don't care how people feel one tenth as much

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Speaker 3: I mean, obviously speech matters, but actions are everything. I

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Speaker 3: don't understand, and I never say I don't understand as

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Speaker 3: five years. What do you advise? That was the gist

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Speaker 3: you know women, it's chocolates and flowers and dinner and

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Speaker 3: Why doesn't that strike you as a compelling argument? Well,

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Speaker 3: You could actually google it. Dennis Prager advocates marital rape.

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Speaker 3: This is the impossibility of dialogue with the left, because

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Speaker 3: a very big problem, because that's called narcissism. What I

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Speaker 3: bad men. I think if you said to most men, hey,

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Speaker 3: an entire life of talking on the issue. A series

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Speaker 3: I certainly can okay to exist the twenty minutes I'm sorry,

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Speaker 5: Both start with the man.

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Speaker 4: I'm married for I got married in two thousand and one,

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Speaker 3: All right, what is number three? What's number three?

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Speaker 4: Well, I heard you say the twenty minutes don't exist,

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Speaker 3: When I I'll say it again, I said, if they listen.

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Speaker 4: I mean it?

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Speaker 3: It's to get people to love each other better. That's it.

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Speaker 3: That's simple thing. What's our timing, my friend? Okay? Relief

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Speaker 1: Now back to more of Dennis Prager's timeless wisdom.

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Speaker 3: Hey everybody, Dennis Prager Male Female Hour, Wednesday, Second Hour

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Speaker 3: and that was not on the list for women's most

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Speaker 5: Hi, Jennifer, Hi, Dennis, how are you well?

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Speaker 5: Just first of all, I love listening to you, and

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Speaker 5: I agree with you on probably ninety five percent of

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Speaker 5: I'm true, oftentimes it is a painful not just a

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, And there are a lot of solutions medically,

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Speaker 3: Yes, okay, if it is huge, there's still the hope

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Speaker 3: not not in one day, one out of five hugs

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Speaker 3: Right? No? No, all right? So okay, men need to

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Speaker 3: important call. They're all important. But I think what I'm

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Speaker 3: Men should communicate. Ty in Roseville, Illinois doesn't understand why

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Speaker 3: And I like the Queen of England. By the way,

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Speaker 3: back in a moment.

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Speaker 1: This episode of Timeless Wisdom will continue right after this.

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Speaker 1: Now back to more of Dennis Prager's Timeless Wisdom.

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Speaker 2: Let's you air of fly?

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Speaker 3: All right, everybody, Dennis Prager here for me. I tell

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Speaker 3: you how much I have learned about life having a

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Speaker 3: radio talk show. You can you can you realize? I mean,

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Speaker 3: how many people. It's an infinitesimally small number of people

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Speaker 3: who have talked to so many people from every background

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Speaker 3: possible about every subject, most intimate, like today. It has

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Speaker 3: been a for somehe one who wants to understand life,

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Speaker 3: this has been the greatest possible experience. Lisa in Mansfield,

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Speaker 3: Texas is the male female hour. Let's end with a

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Speaker 3: perhaps this might be a happier call. I'm counting on it, Lisa, Yes.

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Speaker 6: It is. It is. It's very simple. Whatever he wants

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Speaker 6: I like to do because it makes him happy, and

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Speaker 6: he does the thing for me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't understand why that's not the deal in

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Speaker 3: most leverages.

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Speaker 6: Yes, I'll give you an example in but we were

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Speaker 6: him a plate. So I made him a plate of

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Speaker 6: food and I brought it over and like, oh, I

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Speaker 6: I would never do that. I said, well, it makes

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Speaker 3: It makes him happy exactly. God bless you, Lisa. You

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Speaker 3: know I've had an unhappy marriage, and I've had a

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Speaker 3: I my wife. It makes my wife very happy to

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Speaker 3: plant trees. All right? Sure was looking at me. That

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Speaker 3: was It was one of the great looks I've received.

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Speaker 3: That's really too bad. There was no video. You can't

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Speaker 3: replicate that look. I can't even explain it. It was

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Speaker 3: sort of like, really, huh, So we get trees on

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Speaker 3: my uh fireside chat. I do a fireside chat every

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Speaker 3: week at prager you dot com, and the there's always

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Speaker 3: a video question Candice Owens, to her great credit, that magnificent,

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Speaker 3: brilliant young woman, gutsy young woman. She posed a question.

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Speaker 3: She sent it it. I was at her wedding, said,

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Speaker 3: advice for newlyweds. And I said, be as easy as possible,

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Speaker 3: that's my advice. If he likes it, what's the cost,

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Speaker 3: If she likes it, what's the cost? All right? Happy

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Speaker 3: Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 2: Call, I need you help me.

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