WEBVTT - Why Do People Do Bad?

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<v Speaker 1>Life audio of today's episode of Timeless Wisdom.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do people do bad?

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<v Speaker 3>My personal belief is that the ultimate downfall of man

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<v Speaker 3>individual or as a group is pride. And I think

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<v Speaker 3>it goes back to what you were talking about before

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<v Speaker 3>with the people that were in charge of the gangs.

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<v Speaker 3>How they were so full of themselves, they had the

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<v Speaker 3>best self esteem. I think it goes back to pride. Caesar,

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<v Speaker 3>look at what he did, and most prideful man I

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<v Speaker 3>think we ever had on this planet.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, there's competition for that title, Megan, But so by

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<v Speaker 4>pride meaning what filled with oneself?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I think a total egotism. But then I think

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<v Speaker 3>pride can be this big swirling depth. You know, as

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<v Speaker 3>somebody that has roadbrake, maybe you know pride. How did

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<v Speaker 3>that person cut me off or not signal or something.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's why people rape and murder and everything.

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<v Speaker 3>It all comes back to pride.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, everybody, you're listening to the Dennis Prager Show.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's crank it up there, Sean, this is the Ultimate

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<v Speaker 4>to the great questions of life. Hi, everybody, the Ultimate

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, Sean.

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<v Speaker 4>The question today and this is really ultimate and ultimate question,

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<v Speaker 4>an ultimate issue. Why do people do bad? And let

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<v Speaker 4>me let me answer because a lot of you are

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<v Speaker 4>already don't call in. Don't call in yet. Please don't

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<v Speaker 4>know they're already calling in. Don't call it yet. Don't

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<v Speaker 4>call it. Wait till I wait till I define bad.

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<v Speaker 4>And let me tell you what I what I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 4>asking about it because I want to be very precise

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<v Speaker 4>or this thing will go all over the place. I

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<v Speaker 4>I want to focus in like a laser on the

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<v Speaker 4>question that I'm talking about. When I mean bad, I

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<v Speaker 4>mean bad toward fellow human beings. I'm not talking about

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<v Speaker 4>sin against God. Although everybody who believes in religion in

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<v Speaker 4>any sophisticated sense knows that when you heard the human

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<v Speaker 4>you were, you are sinning against God.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's not my point.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm talking when I say evil or bad, I'm talking

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<v Speaker 4>about bad toward another human. And this is this subject

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<v Speaker 4>is as much addressed to secular people as to religious people.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not a religious question. And per se, you may

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<v Speaker 4>have a religious answer. That's fine, that's your prerogative. But

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<v Speaker 4>my question is why do people do bad things to others?

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<v Speaker 4>And and I mean really bad things, whether it's blowing

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<v Speaker 4>up a children and or people on on buses, or

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<v Speaker 4>or wars of aggression to conquer, to conquer and enslave people,

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<v Speaker 4>whether it is it is racism where you believe people

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<v Speaker 4>of another group are are inferior, or or in daily

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<v Speaker 4>life when now, when you when you cheat on a test,

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<v Speaker 4>that's a bad thing. We'll call it evil. I'll call

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<v Speaker 4>it bad. Bad is lesser than evil. That's how I'm

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<v Speaker 4>using the term here. Why do people do bad things

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<v Speaker 4>to other peoples deliberately hurt other people?

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<v Speaker 2>Why? I'd like to offer you.

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<v Speaker 4>Some some answers, And incidentally, I need to tell you

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<v Speaker 4>that we're going to have an hour on why do

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<v Speaker 4>people do good? Alan, if you'll put that down, I

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<v Speaker 4>think the question of why do people do good is

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<v Speaker 4>at least as complex as the question why do people

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<v Speaker 4>do bad? People think that it's natural to do good,

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<v Speaker 4>but folks, it is natural to do bad. It is

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<v Speaker 4>more natural to cheat than to be honest. It is

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<v Speaker 4>more natural to lie when it serves your purposes than

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<v Speaker 4>to tell the truth. So, folks, it's the question of

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<v Speaker 4>why do people do good? Is a very very real one.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm dealing this hour with the question that more

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<v Speaker 4>people ask why more people ask why do.

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<v Speaker 2>People do bad?

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<v Speaker 4>Is a very interesting one, but that I'll put aside

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<v Speaker 4>as well right now, because we discussed that issue on

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<v Speaker 4>one of the ultimate issues hours, and that was the

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<v Speaker 4>question of our people basically good, And of course I

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<v Speaker 4>don't believe are basically good. I believe that we have

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<v Speaker 4>good tendencies and bad tendencies, and it's very hard to

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<v Speaker 4>vanquish the bad tendency. So let me begin my answer

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<v Speaker 4>about why people do bad, and please hear me out,

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<v Speaker 4>because the issue isn't to get everybody's opinion to be

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<v Speaker 4>perfectly honest, and forgive me for even saying that that

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<v Speaker 4>is not It is to try to clarify great issues.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the purpose here. So I'd like you to react

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<v Speaker 4>to what I'm saying. And if you have something else

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<v Speaker 4>to say, of course it's welcome. But I need you

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<v Speaker 4>to hear me in this case first. So don't call

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<v Speaker 4>in yet, because I haven't even told you one answer,

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<v Speaker 4>except that it's easier to do bad often than it

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<v Speaker 4>is to do good, all right, In answering this question.

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<v Speaker 4>In answering this question, I divide, as I so often do,

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<v Speaker 4>between the macro and the micro, the personal and the societal,

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<v Speaker 4>if you will, or the social. There are two. There

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<v Speaker 4>are two authors of evil, the individual and the society,

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<v Speaker 4>or if you will, in the In the societal, there

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<v Speaker 4>is what I would call ideological reasons for evil. Let

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<v Speaker 4>me tell you something. There is more evil done or

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<v Speaker 4>certainly in the in the last hundred years, there has

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<v Speaker 4>been far more evil done for ideological reasons than because

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<v Speaker 4>of peoples, than because of people's sadism or cruelty. See

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<v Speaker 4>when you hear about a kid, a child who's kidnapped

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<v Speaker 4>and raped and and strangled, that's an active evil. Every

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<v Speaker 4>I think everybody listening knows that that is an active evil.

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<v Speaker 2>But those are relatively rare.

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<v Speaker 4>The vast majority of real evil that has been done

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<v Speaker 4>since the twentieth century began, at least, has been done

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<v Speaker 4>for ideological reasons. When the Nazis did what they did,

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<v Speaker 4>and the Communists did what they did, and the and

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<v Speaker 4>the Islamic totalitarians jihadists do what they do, it's out

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<v Speaker 4>of ideological reasons. There was torture in the name of

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<v Speaker 4>the Nazi state, torture in the name of communist liberation,

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<v Speaker 4>and torture in the name of Islam. I'm not here

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<v Speaker 4>to argue whether that is real Islam, that is what

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<v Speaker 4>that is the name they gave it. Would they would

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<v Speaker 4>invoke Islam and then torture people. I am not indicting

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<v Speaker 4>all of Islam, and it is not the subject whatsoever.

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<v Speaker 4>My point here is solely that there is ideological evil,

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<v Speaker 4>and then there is character and psychological evil. Now I

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<v Speaker 4>am clear on this, and I need to convey it clearly.

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<v Speaker 4>The two sources, the two big sources of evil are

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<v Speaker 4>individual character slash psychology and social justification. Social justification comes

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<v Speaker 4>from ideological evil, and that's worse because the people doing

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<v Speaker 4>it think they're doing good. The Nazis thought they were

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<v Speaker 4>doing good the Communists thought they were doing good, and

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<v Speaker 4>the Islamic torturers think they're doing good. That is what

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<v Speaker 4>you need to understand. These people think it's good. That's

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<v Speaker 4>why it's Ideological evil is more frightening than individual evil

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<v Speaker 4>because individual evil is done by people with sick character.

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<v Speaker 4>There's six psyches or six psyches, not necessarily both, but

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<v Speaker 4>and they are relatively rare. I mean, how many people

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<v Speaker 4>are kidnapped and murdered. Now you have a fair amount

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<v Speaker 4>of it. I mean gang violence. That's individual, that's not ideological,

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<v Speaker 4>that is individual. These are human beings with no self restraint,

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<v Speaker 4>who live the laws of a of a if you will,

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<v Speaker 4>a moral jungle. That still is relatively rare compared to

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<v Speaker 4>ideological evil. The number of people killed by Nazis and

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<v Speaker 4>Communists in the twentieth century we approached one hundred million,

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<v Speaker 4>actually exceeded one hundred million, and there people often thought

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<v Speaker 4>they're doing good. I am advancing the proletariats revolution, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>advancing a world of equality.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what Lenin's.

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<v Speaker 4>Phrase was for how he justified murdering non communists, murdering landowners,

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<v Speaker 4>murdering people who did who engaged in business. You in

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<v Speaker 4>order to make omelets, you have to break eggs, or

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<v Speaker 4>he put it the other way to you have to

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<v Speaker 4>break eggs to make omelets. See, so we're making beautiful omelets,

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<v Speaker 4>so of course we're going to have to break some heads.

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<v Speaker 4>And so that was the understanding because of the beautiful

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<v Speaker 4>omelet that communism would be making. So you kill some

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<v Speaker 4>and in the case of Stalin, who went to between

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<v Speaker 4>twenty and forty million, you killed. But after all, you

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<v Speaker 4>make a beautiful omelet. Of course, the irony is that

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<v Speaker 4>the beautiful omelet was didn't exist either. They broke eggs

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<v Speaker 4>in order to break eggs, and all they had was

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<v Speaker 4>broken eggs. There are two sources then, for evil, bad

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<v Speaker 4>ideology and bad character, or bad character and bad psychology both.

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<v Speaker 4>I will talk about the bad character of bad psychology.

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<v Speaker 4>And now I'll take your calls. One eighth Prager seven

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<v Speaker 4>seven six. That's eight seven seven two four three triple

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<v Speaker 4>seven six eight seven seven two four to three triple

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<v Speaker 4>seven six. This is the ultimate Issues hour on the

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<v Speaker 4>Dennis Prager Show. Why do People Do Bad Things?

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<v Speaker 1>This episode of Timeless Wisdom will continue right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>Now back to more of Dennis Prager's Timeless wisdom.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, everybody, Dennis Prager here, this is the Ultimate

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<v Speaker 4>Issues Hour, the Hour on the Great Questions of Life,

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<v Speaker 4>every Tuesday at this hour. I have this subject today

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<v Speaker 4>is why do people do bad things? I mean really

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<v Speaker 4>bad things. I don't mean little bad things, although little

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<v Speaker 4>bad things. In other words, as an example, why do people,

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<v Speaker 4>for example, why will they park diagonally and take up

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<v Speaker 4>to parking spots. I mean, you know, that's bad, that's

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<v Speaker 4>not evil, but it is part of a continuum. Now

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not saying that somebody who does that is going

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<v Speaker 4>to be a torturer, but it's part.

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<v Speaker 2>It's part of a continuum.

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<v Speaker 4>And remember that what I have done here is I've

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<v Speaker 4>divided between ideological evil Nazism, evil done in the name

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<v Speaker 4>of religion, communism, where you have an ideological justification to

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<v Speaker 4>not only do evil, but to think you're right when

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<v Speaker 4>you do it, versus individual evil stealing, murder, et cetera,

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<v Speaker 4>that you will do individually, and that emanates from character

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<v Speaker 4>flaws and psychopathology. Now, I don't believe that evil is sick.

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<v Speaker 4>Evil may in fact be. It's a very difficult question.

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<v Speaker 4>Is evil is all evil sick? Can of psychologically healthy

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<v Speaker 4>person commit evil, and in my opinion, the answer is yes,

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<v Speaker 4>my opinion, in fact, I'm certain of it. Not everybody

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<v Speaker 4>who does evil is sick, and not every sick person

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<v Speaker 4>does evil, but sometimes psychopathology causes you to do bad things.

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<v Speaker 4>All righty, let's see what you have to say, folks

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<v Speaker 4>in light of what I have just said. One eight

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<v Speaker 4>Praguer seven seven six and we go to Cleveland and Charles, Hello,

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<v Speaker 4>Charles Dennis Prager.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, thank you, Dennis. I'm looking for the next time

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<v Speaker 5>you come to Cleveland on the will D. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I think there's only one root cause, and it's the

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<v Speaker 5>It's the failure to put uh any restraints on impulses,

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<v Speaker 5>and it's the nationalization for that. I treated sexual offenders

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<v Speaker 5>for five years. I've you know, I've been acting politically

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<v Speaker 5>and and and like you love love history and in

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<v Speaker 5>each case, and you're right, they don't have to be

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<v Speaker 5>as sick of the sense of being, you know, some

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<v Speaker 5>kind of you know, psychiat psychiatic disorder. Kids learned that

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<v Speaker 5>on a micro level. Kids learn that they can get

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<v Speaker 5>away with things, and they do it, and they develop

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<v Speaker 5>an ideology that says, uh, there the world is divided

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<v Speaker 5>into smart people and suckers, and on the macro level,

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<v Speaker 5>people learn that we can achieve certain things, and they have.

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<v Speaker 5>They have different nationalizations, but the core behaviors isn't that different.

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<v Speaker 5>Stylent isn't that different from a gang leader, as a

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<v Speaker 5>matter of fact. But in the study of so called

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<v Speaker 5>self esteem, the highest feeling in the kids country of

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<v Speaker 5>the that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, that's right. That is so good.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you, Charles, and I'll be announcing when I come

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<v Speaker 4>to Cleveland, I will be that is exactly right. I

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<v Speaker 4>had a number of people on my show over the

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<v Speaker 4>course of years who noted, and I've always believed that,

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<v Speaker 4>but I had scholars who work in this field say it,

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<v Speaker 4>and perhaps it would give it more authority than my

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<v Speaker 4>theorizing about it that a lot of bad people have

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<v Speaker 4>very high self esteem. This notion you give kids high

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<v Speaker 4>self esteem and you will therefore be well on your

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<v Speaker 4>way to stopping anti social behavior is nonsense. A lot

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<v Speaker 4>of criminals have extremely high self esteem. That's why they

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<v Speaker 4>think they can do what they do to other people.

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<v Speaker 4>I am so terrific. I think so highly of myself

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<v Speaker 4>that I can rob a bank. You suckers out there,

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<v Speaker 4>you play by the rules, but not me. Ha ha,

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<v Speaker 4>I take what I want. So the battle against bad

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<v Speaker 4>is huge because it's so it's so easy to do it.

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<v Speaker 4>It's so easy and so tempting. I remember the difficulty

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<v Speaker 4>I had telling young kids that you can't download music

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<v Speaker 4>that you didn't pay for.

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<v Speaker 2>Why not?

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<v Speaker 4>Everybody does it? Everybody does it. That ends the issue.

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<v Speaker 4>Everybody does it. The roots of bad are are so enormous,

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<v Speaker 4>but I have really divided them into two categories ideological

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<v Speaker 4>evil and personal evil, or personal bad and under personal.

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<v Speaker 4>I have psychological reasons and character flaw reasons, chieving, lying,

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<v Speaker 4>stealing for personal gain, murder for personal gain. See the

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<v Speaker 4>movie Crimes and Misdemeanors. Despite the fact that it was

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<v Speaker 4>made by Woody Allen, is one of the most brilliant

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<v Speaker 4>moral films ever made, if not the most brilliant. One

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<v Speaker 4>eighth Praguer seven seven six, and we go to Henry

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<v Speaker 4>with the opposite view. Hello Henry, Los Angeles, Dennis Prager, high, Hey,

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<v Speaker 4>good morning.

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<v Speaker 6>All right, Well my opinion is it is self loathing.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, you take the dictators of the world, Adolf Hitler, Mussolini, Stone,

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<v Speaker 6>they were all very short men with horrible families. I

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<v Speaker 6>mean these guys, they were consistently picked on and they

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<v Speaker 6>kind of flash back. And a lot of times people

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<v Speaker 6>reason people do things is that they feel alienated and

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<v Speaker 6>they want they need something attention or something that don't

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<v Speaker 6>make them feel good. Like the crook that does steal,

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<v Speaker 6>he steals it because it makes them feel like, hey, man,

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<v Speaker 6>I robbed the bank. Hey I'm pretty badass. I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 6>I shouldn't surround the radio. Sorry about that, Craiger, I'm

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<v Speaker 6>sorry about that. But a lot of guys feel that

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<v Speaker 6>they have to go out of the way to make themselves,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, have a feeling of self worth. Also, people

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<v Speaker 6>who talk people are hurt or torture people are something

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<v Speaker 6>from a pain inside.

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<v Speaker 4>Well yeah, no, I'm listening. I heard every word. Why

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<v Speaker 4>do you say then to the argument that was just

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<v Speaker 4>offered by Charles, which I supported that a lot. That

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<v Speaker 4>when they ever they do assessments of gang leaders and

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of the worst people in society, they have

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<v Speaker 4>high self esteem.

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<v Speaker 6>Well they seem to be have high self esteem because

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<v Speaker 6>but they went out and did that because they had

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<v Speaker 6>now self esteem.

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<v Speaker 2>Well no, maybe they did it.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait, maybe they did

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<v Speaker 4>it because they have such high self esteem, they don't

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<v Speaker 4>think that the rules that apply to suckers like you

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<v Speaker 4>and me apply to them.

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<v Speaker 2>Uber mentioned.

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<v Speaker 4>You see, you know what this is why, this is

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<v Speaker 4>why you could make the argument this self. That's why

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<v Speaker 4>I never attributed to the self esteem notion quite these

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<v Speaker 4>moral significance. It's good to have self esteem and it's

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<v Speaker 4>also to have a good dose of self doubt.

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<v Speaker 2>Both are good.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's some of the best people I know suffer

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<v Speaker 4>from self esteem problems. So it's a tough call on

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<v Speaker 4>self esteem. But yes, I think that there is something

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<v Speaker 4>to what you say. But the idea that you know

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<v Speaker 4>Stalin was mistreated as a youth, I don't recall that

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<v Speaker 4>he may have been. I don't recall that. I've read

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<v Speaker 4>a number of biographies about him, but I never took

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<v Speaker 4>particular interest in his childhood. I don't even know if

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<v Speaker 4>we know much about his childhood. And with Hitler, I

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<v Speaker 4>mean he was the loss of his mother. I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know as if if he was raised well with poor

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<v Speaker 4>with poor self esteem, or or hurt by his parents.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't he was hurt by the death of his mother,

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<v Speaker 4>whom he loved. But you know the number of people

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<v Speaker 4>who lost their parents in history at an early age

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<v Speaker 4>is so large, and none of them ended up advocating

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<v Speaker 4>a genocide. We continue, why do people do bad things?

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<v Speaker 2>Have a whole host.

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<v Speaker 4>Of different thoughts from around the country. But again I've

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<v Speaker 4>given you my to the ideological. That's why that's the

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<v Speaker 4>one I fight the most. We'll be back in a moment.

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<v Speaker 4>You're listening to the Dennis Prager Show.

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<v Speaker 1>This episode of Timeless Wisdom will continue right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>Now back to more of Dennis Prager's Timeless Wisdom.

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<v Speaker 4>You're listening to the Dennis Prager Show. This is the

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<v Speaker 4>Ultimate Issues Hour. Every week at this time, I devote

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<v Speaker 4>an hour to the great questions of life? Why do

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<v Speaker 4>people do bad things? And I'm not asking why do

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<v Speaker 4>people sin? That's a theological question and that's not my question.

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<v Speaker 4>Now bad is sinful, but that's a separate issue. But

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<v Speaker 4>why do people hurt other people? Why do they do

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<v Speaker 4>bad things? Whether it is little bad things like a

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<v Speaker 4>cheating on a test or huge bad things like murdering

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<v Speaker 4>innocent people. But why do people do bad? And why

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<v Speaker 4>do people do evil? And there's a gradation that from

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<v Speaker 4>bad to evil? Obviously, I mean that's the way I'm

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<v Speaker 4>using them. These are not scientific terms. I don't mean

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<v Speaker 4>them to be, but they are helpful for the question

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<v Speaker 4>that I am posing. I consider it a riddle, by

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<v Speaker 4>the way, about why do people do good things? And incidentally,

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<v Speaker 4>the answer to why people do good things is the

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<v Speaker 4>same as to why people do bad things. But we'll

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<v Speaker 4>have a separate.

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<v Speaker 2>Hour on that.

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<v Speaker 4>But remember I'm dividing between ideological evil and personal evil.

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<v Speaker 4>Doing evil and for because an ideology told you to

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<v Speaker 4>do so. Nazis were told it's a good it's a

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<v Speaker 4>good thing to to kill Jews. And let's see those

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<v Speaker 4>who those who enslave blacks were told it's a good thing.

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<v Speaker 2>People need slaves.

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<v Speaker 4>Blacks are not fully human anyway, so you can do that.

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<v Speaker 4>That's ideological evil. That's why you could have people who

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<v Speaker 4>after a day, you could have Nazis, after a day

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<v Speaker 4>of guessing Jewish families go back to their family and

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<v Speaker 4>and and talk to you know, play with their kids.

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<v Speaker 4>And and that's why you could have had people who

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<v Speaker 4>engage in the slave trade and watch watch the suffering

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<v Speaker 4>on the on the Transatlantic crossing, and then and then

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<v Speaker 4>have h then go back to their families after their

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<v Speaker 4>after their crews. That's ideological evil. That's where the human being,

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<v Speaker 4>his conscience is perverted. That's the most dangerous because it's

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<v Speaker 4>it's well, it's the most dangerous because it happens on

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<v Speaker 4>the largest level of numbers. That's where you have basically

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<v Speaker 4>decent people taught that bad is good. We have that

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<v Speaker 4>today with with people who murder in the name of Islam.

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<v Speaker 4>They think they're doing good. It'll usher in a full

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<v Speaker 4>period where the world will be ruled by Shariah. They

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<v Speaker 4>they think they're doing good. Then there is individual evil,

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<v Speaker 4>and sometimes they're together where the ideology reinforces your psychopathology.

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<v Speaker 4>But there was individual where it's just weak character and

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<v Speaker 4>a and a broken psychology, a broken psyche. One eighth

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<v Speaker 4>Praguer seven seven six. We go to Dallas, and in Dallas,

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<v Speaker 4>it's Megan. Hello, Meghan, Dennis Prager.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, Dennis, pleasure to speak with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you. Is it Megan or Megan?

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<v Speaker 3>It's Meghan? Actually, Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I always like to know, Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I My personal belief is that the ultimate downfall of

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<v Speaker 3>man individual or a group is pride. And I think

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<v Speaker 3>it goes back to what you're talking about before with

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<v Speaker 3>the people that were in charge of the gangs. How

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<v Speaker 3>they were so full of themselves, they had the best

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<v Speaker 3>self esteem. I think it goes back to pride. Look

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<v Speaker 3>at what he did and most prideful man I think

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<v Speaker 3>we ever had on this planet.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, there's competition for that title, Megan. But but so

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<v Speaker 4>by pride meaning what filled with oneself?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I think total egotism. But then I think pride

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<v Speaker 3>can be this big swirling depth. You know, as somebody

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<v Speaker 3>that has road rake maybe you know pride. How did

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<v Speaker 3>that person cut me off or not signal or something.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's why people rape and murder and everything.

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<v Speaker 3>It all comes back.

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<v Speaker 4>To pride, so which is related to the notion of

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<v Speaker 4>the high self esteem in bad people. Absolutely, Okay, very good, Megan,

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<v Speaker 4>thanks so much.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, and let's go to Cypress, California. Darren, Hello, Darren,

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<v Speaker 4>Dennis Praeger.

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<v Speaker 7>Hi, Dennis, a pleasure to speak with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 7>I believe that I haven't developed to the ideolog ideological

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<v Speaker 7>level yet, but I believe that at the micro level,

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<v Speaker 7>it is all related to your ability to sympathize with others,

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<v Speaker 7>and I think that it's instilled at an early childhood stage.

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<v Speaker 4>That's brilliant. That is absolutely right. I wish I had

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<v Speaker 4>noted it. You're absolutely right. Is there empathy or enough

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<v Speaker 4>right and.

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<v Speaker 7>Your ability to develop that early on and how you

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<v Speaker 7>relate to humanity.

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<v Speaker 4>And that is why ideological evil. What it does is

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<v Speaker 4>it breaks down your ability to empathize the other. The

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<v Speaker 4>black can be enslaved, the Jew could be gassed, The

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<v Speaker 4>Tutsi is not real. We'll be back in a moment.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Dennis Prager. I welcome to you back.

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<v Speaker 4>This is the Ultimate Issues Hour, the hour each week

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<v Speaker 4>devoted to the great questions of life? Why do people

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<v Speaker 4>do bad? The last caller hit on something huge, empathy.

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<v Speaker 4>Some people have it and some people don't. That goes

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<v Speaker 4>under remember my two headings, ideological evil and personal evil

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<v Speaker 4>or personal bad. It's usually more, but both exist and

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<v Speaker 4>under the personal there are psychological reasons. There are people

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<v Speaker 4>who are just so unhealthy that it leads them into

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<v Speaker 4>hurting other people, almost without even realizing it. And there

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<v Speaker 4>are those with simple character flaws. One eighth Prager seven

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<v Speaker 4>seven six What happened to my ah bummer? The guy

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<v Speaker 4>with the with his with his uh expensive car. I

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<v Speaker 4>had a guy calling in who said he's a good guy.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess he thinks a good guy. He takes two

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<v Speaker 4>spaces parking spaces acrosses parks diony because he doesn't want

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<v Speaker 4>his car bumped. And I wish I was, you would

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<v Speaker 4>be it would have been my next call. It's too

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<v Speaker 4>bad and and it's there. There would have been a

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<v Speaker 4>good example. And I appreciated so much your calling. But

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<v Speaker 4>here's a perfect example of the ability to justify what

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<v Speaker 4>is wrong. And that is what we call rationalize, the

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<v Speaker 4>ability to use reason. That's why you can't use reason

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<v Speaker 4>alone to know what is good. Reason is not enough.

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<v Speaker 4>Good is higher than reason. Reason is is necessary but

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<v Speaker 4>not sufficient. The answer if you have an expensive car

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<v Speaker 4>is not to park diagonally. Is either don't get an

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<v Speaker 4>expensive car and therefore hog up two spaces because you

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<v Speaker 4>had the money for an expensive car, or park elsewhere.

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<v Speaker 4>I me, it's just that's really a sense of self esteem.

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<v Speaker 4>You see, there's a perfect example. I have a great car,

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<v Speaker 4>an expensive car, so I unlike you, nothing's out there

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<v Speaker 4>who are driving ford escorts. I with my expensive car

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<v Speaker 4>can take two spaces. But you, you, the wretched of

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<v Speaker 4>the earth, who drive regular cars, you have to take

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<v Speaker 4>one spot. It's too bad you didn't stay on. I

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<v Speaker 4>would have loved to have that discussion with you, folks.

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<v Speaker 4>It is so easy to do bad. It is so

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<v Speaker 4>easy because of the psychological reasons, because you don't even

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<v Speaker 4>know you're doing bad, because of your rationalization of doing bad,

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<v Speaker 4>because of ideological justification of doing bad. That it's it's

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<v Speaker 4>very easy. That's why good is more of a riddle

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<v Speaker 4>to me than bad. It's so easy to do bad.

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<v Speaker 4>One eighth Praguer seven seven six is Reverend Jamie and Parma, Ohio.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello Reverend Jamie.

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<v Speaker 8>Dennis Prager, Hello Dennis, Hi, Hi, you know what, I

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<v Speaker 8>just love listening to your show, and I love your

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<v Speaker 8>ultimate issues. So many times I've wanted to call you

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<v Speaker 8>on the Opman issues. Thank you, thank you, But I

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<v Speaker 8>got your answer to the root and being a reverend.

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<v Speaker 8>This has nothing to do with theology or religion in

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<v Speaker 8>any way. It covers your ideological as well as your

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<v Speaker 8>private or personal evils. The root is selfishness and self centeredness.

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<v Speaker 8>Selfishness and self centeredness is in all its degrees and

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<v Speaker 8>forms and variances. It's very subtle and it can be

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<v Speaker 8>very profound. I mean, you throw, Dennis, throw anything at

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<v Speaker 8>me that you think is an evil or bad or

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<v Speaker 8>the malady of our society, and I will be able

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<v Speaker 8>to show you why it's selfishness or self centeredness. That's

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<v Speaker 8>bottom line.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right, that's a good point. So which is built

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<v Speaker 2>in right right now?

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<v Speaker 8>How far do you want to go with this? Is

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<v Speaker 8>it selfish and self centered to want to breathe? Because

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<v Speaker 8>if I don't breathe, I won't live.

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, here is the question.

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<v Speaker 4>You're a thinker, obviously, here's the question of what is

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<v Speaker 4>selfish or not? I'm in other words, with people starving

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<v Speaker 4>in the world. Am I selfish for buying a house

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<v Speaker 4>rather than living in an apartment.

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<v Speaker 8>Hm, that's I would think at that point we were

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<v Speaker 8>talking about more of an ideological question rather than a

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<v Speaker 8>personal question.

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<v Speaker 2>No, well, it's a moral question. I have the answer.

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<v Speaker 2>I think.

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<v Speaker 4>I think there's nothing wrong in your living in a house,

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<v Speaker 4>and I have a lot of answers for that, and

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<v Speaker 4>I and by the way, you're right, and that's that's

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<v Speaker 4>a great answer.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right. See, selfishness is built in that's why. Uh.

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<v Speaker 4>It's one of the reasons that I believe in good religion.

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<v Speaker 4>And I've always said that well before the problems we

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<v Speaker 4>have with whatever percentage of Muslims we have problems with.

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<v Speaker 4>I've said this for so long. There's bad religion and

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<v Speaker 4>good religion. I've always said I believe in good religion,

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<v Speaker 4>just like I believe in good psychotherapy. There's a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of bad psychotherapy. Most psychotherapy stinks. Most therapists are not competent.

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<v Speaker 4>Every single therapist I've interviewed has said most therapists are

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<v Speaker 4>not competent. But good religion makes people better and bad

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<v Speaker 4>religion makes people worse. But in any event, we need

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<v Speaker 4>good religion because our nature isn't good. We are born selfish,

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<v Speaker 4>We are not born empathetic kids hoard at the party,

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<v Speaker 4>at a birthday party, they hoard those cookies. Half of

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<v Speaker 4>the joy is not only that they'll have all the

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<v Speaker 4>cookies because they can't eat them all. They'll have the

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<v Speaker 4>stomach pumped if they eat them all, is that they're

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<v Speaker 4>depriving the other kids from it. I got more than you.

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<v Speaker 4>Look ahead me. He thank you, Reverend Jamie. That's exactly right.

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<v Speaker 4>By the way, my answer in the question of whether

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<v Speaker 4>it is okay to buy a house and when you

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<v Speaker 4>can live in an apartment, whether it buy a nicer

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<v Speaker 4>car when you could drive a cheaper car, the cheapest car,

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<v Speaker 4>because there are people starving, you should send your money

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<v Speaker 4>to Africa is a It's not going to help the

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<v Speaker 4>people of Africa if you do that, and it's going

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<v Speaker 4>to hurt our country if you don't buy a house,

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<v Speaker 4>because then everybody who builds houses will be unemployed, impoverishing yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>Everyone has to give charity, that's that's obvious. But impover

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<v Speaker 4>giving away your money isn't going isn't going to help.

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<v Speaker 4>And aside, you're not going to work. The human being

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<v Speaker 4>there are almost no human being will work as hard

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<v Speaker 4>when all the money or nearly all the money that

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<v Speaker 4>he earns or she earns is then going to be

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<v Speaker 4>given away or taken away and taxes or given away,

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<v Speaker 4>even even voluntarily. So you see, folks, the battle the

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<v Speaker 4>good is natural. That's what I've been trying my whole life.

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<v Speaker 4>I've talked about this subject well before I had radios lecturing,

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<v Speaker 4>and I would say.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the battle. The battle is with yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the difference between in my opinion, my religious upbringing

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<v Speaker 4>and the secular liberal upbringing. My upbringing said, the biggest

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<v Speaker 4>battle in Dennis Prager's life is Dennis Prager. Today kids

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<v Speaker 4>are taught that the biggest battle in their life is

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<v Speaker 4>global warming, or racism or sexism, in other words, something

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<v Speaker 4>outside of themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>This episode of Timeless Wisdom will continue right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>Now back to more of Dennis Prager's timeless wisdom.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do people do bad?

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<v Speaker 4>That's the subject of this the Ultimate Issues hour, this

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<v Speaker 4>hour of the week, on the great question. If I

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<v Speaker 4>have left you with anything, I hope it is at

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<v Speaker 4>least two things.

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<v Speaker 2>One, how natural bad is.

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<v Speaker 4>The Remember we live in the age of stupidity, emanating

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<v Speaker 4>from the secularization of society and the lack of wisdom

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<v Speaker 4>and the belief that people are basically good. Human nature

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<v Speaker 4>is entirely a mixed bag. There's good and there's a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of bad. Very few people are born empathetic. Very

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<v Speaker 4>few people are born anything but selfish. So hard to

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<v Speaker 4>teach kids, so hard to teach them the right thing

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<v Speaker 4>in so many instances. Why shouldn't I cheat on a test?

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<v Speaker 2>Dad?

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<v Speaker 4>All the other kids do? Why shouldn't I download songs

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't pay for dad? All the other kids do.

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<v Speaker 4>Why shouldn't I X y Z? Why shouldn't I? Why

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<v Speaker 4>shouldn't I? Why shouldn't I? Everybody does? Selfishness is built

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<v Speaker 4>in now. There has to be an level of selfishness.

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<v Speaker 4>You have to take care of yourself. But you all

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<v Speaker 4>know what I mean by that. Linda Philadelphia, Dennis Prager High, Linda, Hi,

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<v Speaker 4>How are you Hi?

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<v Speaker 9>I think it has a lot to do with narcissism,

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<v Speaker 9>both on a personal level and on a global level.

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<v Speaker 9>If you're an extremely narcissistic person, you don't even have

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<v Speaker 9>to stop and consider anyone else. If your religion is narcissistic,

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<v Speaker 9>it only it doesn't need to examine itself.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, you are. You are one hundred percent right. I've

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<v Speaker 4>dealt with narcissism a lot. I don't mean in my

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<v Speaker 4>personal life, I mean on the show. And you are

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<v Speaker 4>so right. I think we have though, And thank you well, Linda. Jessica,

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<v Speaker 4>you called back. You're the one with the car. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>oh good, okay, go ahead quickly.

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<v Speaker 10>In Chicago, Yes, I we park into parking spots, typically

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<v Speaker 10>far away where it's not just courteous to other people,

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<v Speaker 10>but to protect our car because you know, other people

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<v Speaker 10>that open their door too hard and ding your car,

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<v Speaker 10>they don't care and they don't leave a number to

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<v Speaker 10>fix it, and then you're stuck with the bill to

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<v Speaker 10>fix your car, and that's not fair.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, but it's not it's also not fair to take

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<v Speaker 2>two spots.

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<v Speaker 10>Well, that may be true, and we typically try to

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<v Speaker 10>take two spots that is far enough away, will walk

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<v Speaker 10>the extra distance where it's not going to bother anybody

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<v Speaker 10>else where nobody else is parking in the back of

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<v Speaker 10>the lot or something like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, if in fact there really isn't any other But

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<v Speaker 4>remember that, you always hear, Jessica, because there's.

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<v Speaker 2>So little time.

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<v Speaker 4>Here's a very important thing to ask before you do anything.

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<v Speaker 4>The rule of thumb about deciding whether something is right.

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<v Speaker 4>What if everybody did what I do? People with cheaper

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<v Speaker 4>cars also don't want their cars deemed they have to

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<v Speaker 4>pay to get it repaired. To why shouldn't everybody take

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<v Speaker 4>two spots? This has been the Ultimate Issues hour on

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<v Speaker 4>the Dennis Prager Show. Thanks for listening.

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<v Speaker 1>Tomorrow on Timeless Wisdom with Dennis Prager.

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<v Speaker 2>If you had to.

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<v Speaker 4>Offer your opinion on what is the biggest no no

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<v Speaker 4>in a marriage?

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<v Speaker 7>I think I have the answer to that question.

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<v Speaker 8>The answer is the failure to communicate. And by this

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<v Speaker 8>I mean the unwillingness to listen and or to voice

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<v Speaker 8>your opinion.

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<v Speaker 11>The thing that I have found that will destroy any

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<v Speaker 11>relationship is lying. If you cannot trust that other person

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<v Speaker 11>and have the audacity to lie to you, then how

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<v Speaker 11>can you trust them in the future.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'm sure you have something in mind. Give it,

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<v Speaker 4>Give me the example that's in your mind.

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