1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: What makes an NDE evidentially significant is when something is 2 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: known or seen that couldn't have been known or seen 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: in that state physically possible in a sense. And these 4 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 1: accounts will get to are kids coming back and reporting 5 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: seeing certain people that they didn't know existed. That matches 6 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 1: up exactly with somebody that adults know and had not 7 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: told them about. 8 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 2: This is a middle aged lady. 9 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 3: She says, when I was about nine years old, I 10 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 3: drowned and I was revived, But during that time I 11 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 3: had a near death experience and it was just as 12 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:39,880 Speaker 3: real to her now fifty years later as it was then. 13 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 3: Apparently she could just tell me exactly what happened. 14 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:48,159 Speaker 1: These kind of descriptions are very very interesting. What does 15 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 1: the data show about near death experiences and children? How 16 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 1: compelling are they from an evidential standpoint? Doctor Steve Miller, 17 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: welcome back. You are my go to near death experience 18 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 1: guru and expert, and this is about the tenth episode 19 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: we've had you on to talk about near death experiences 20 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: and deathbed experiences and how they provide evidence for God 21 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:14,039 Speaker 1: and the afterlife, and also how they dovetail with the 22 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: best research on traditional Christian theology today We've got a 23 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 1: very unique topic that a lot of research has not 24 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 1: been done on, and it's near death experiences, deathbed experiences, 25 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 1: and children. According to an April twenty twenty six article 26 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:36,479 Speaker 1: in Popular Mechanics, children may hold the key to understanding death, 27 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: but quote very few studies bother and ask children about them. 28 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: A twenty twenty four article in Psychology Today reported that 29 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: most near death experience research has been done on adults. 30 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: So what are the unique challenges of studying cases of 31 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: children who have near death experiences? And why do you 32 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 1: separate them as a special line of evidence? 33 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 3: Sure, well, I think that was in Popular Mechanics or 34 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 3: other sensational title that children hold the key and that, 35 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 3: but I think there is special evidence there. It's quoting 36 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 3: a Psychology Today article that was quoting another peer reviewed 37 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 3: article which was a summary of other peer reviewed studies 38 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,839 Speaker 3: own children. So there have been several it's it has 39 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 3: been studied, just not as widely in comparison to near 40 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 3: death experiences, where you have scores of studies out there. 41 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:32,919 Speaker 2: So they have been studied, but. 42 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 3: I think the there are both challenges with children. Let's 43 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 3: say you have a four year old child that has 44 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:42,079 Speaker 3: had some that has died and come back for some 45 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 3: reason been resuscitated. You may have to interview them with 46 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 3: a coloring book at hand or something to keep their attention, 47 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 3: and you talk to them and they may kind of 48 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:52,679 Speaker 3: discuss it over. 49 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:55,519 Speaker 2: Time, rather than an adult being willing. 50 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 3: To talk to you about their experience for hours perhaps, 51 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 3: And so their attention to spans a little limited. But 52 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 3: the and also their vocabulary is limited to explain things. 53 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 3: Now that's a hindrance in one sense, but it's an 54 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 3: asset in another because as adults, we're trying to say 55 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 3: things in a way that goes along with our worldviews 56 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 3: and our past experiences, and children are just kind of 57 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 3: freely expressing it. When we get to some of the accounts, 58 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 3: you'll actually see this. But I think one of the 59 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 3: most important things about children is that number one, they're 60 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 3: not familiar with near death experience research. They haven't looked 61 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 3: at documentaries of near death studies. So if their experiences 62 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 3: are much the same as adults, then it would be 63 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 3: hard to say that, oh, well, these people had prior. 64 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 2: Exposure to this. And also they don't have a lot 65 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 2: of exposure to theology. 66 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 3: So if they're talking about things they're not trying to 67 00:03:57,760 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 3: put it into their very limited children's world, which may 68 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 3: just be from children's books that their parents have read 69 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 3: to them. 70 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: That's so interesting that on one hand they lack of 71 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 1: vocabulary to explain things in the depth and with clarity 72 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: that adults can, but that can also be a strong 73 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:18,279 Speaker 1: suit because there's less of an agenda. They're just describing 74 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 1: as best they can what they've seen and are not 75 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: as committed typically to a certain way of seeing the 76 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:27,840 Speaker 1: world and feeling the need to force this into that 77 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 1: way of the world. 78 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 3: And they're not trying to sell books obviously, like some 79 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 3: adults who are telling about their experiencing and by the way, 80 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 3: by my paperback book on my experience, so they're not 81 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 3: these ulterior motives that some adults would have. 82 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 1: I love it. That's helpful. So let's let's talk about 83 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 1: what makes an nbe near death experience evidentially significant? And 84 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: do you when you assess accounts from children look for 85 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: the same factors or is it different. 86 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 3: Many of the same factors, they just come out in 87 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 3: a different way with children not her. Diane komp was 88 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:10,279 Speaker 3: a professor emeritus of childhood oncology at Yale university. She 89 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 3: was an atheist, and she said that in order for 90 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:17,279 Speaker 3: me to find God, I felt like I had to 91 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 3: come up with some kind of really reliable witness. And 92 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 3: she never thought that that witness would be through watching 93 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 3: children go through their deaths. But she had this quote, 94 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:30,279 Speaker 3: when the clever are really intelligent, they look to children 95 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 3: for answers. 96 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 2: And I thought, you know, that's sort of like Jesus 97 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 2: treated children. 98 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:37,040 Speaker 3: People would say, oh, send the children away, we got 99 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 3: important things going on. He'd said, bring the little children 100 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 3: to me, for the Kingdom of Heaven is for such 101 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 3: as these, And he respected children. So I think that 102 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 3: they really have something special to say to us. I 103 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:57,480 Speaker 3: suspect that they're never told that they're dying. This would 104 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:01,039 Speaker 3: be a difference between adults. Imagine that you have a 105 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 3: five year old child who's dying of leukemia. You're not 106 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 3: going to come up and say, oh, and by the way, 107 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 3: you're not going to recover from this. 108 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 2: As if the. 109 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 3: Child's going to say, well, what do you mean, Well, 110 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 3: that means you're gonna go to heaven. 111 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:17,159 Speaker 2: Well what does that mean? So? 112 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:19,280 Speaker 3: Am I are you going to be there? I mean, 113 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 3: to a child, their whole world is their home, their family, 114 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 3: their teddy bear, the things that they love, what's home 115 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 3: to them. That would be a terrifying thing. So Elizabeth 116 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:31,839 Speaker 3: Koobler Ross, one of the greatest experts on wrote the 117 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 3: book on Death and Dying. She said that she was 118 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 3: usually told, don't tell them that they're going to die. 119 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 3: So if a child starts saying to their parents, I'm 120 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 3: going to die, you wonder where did this come from. 121 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 3: This is an unnatural thing. It's not like they've died 122 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 3: before and know how it feels. Why are they saying 123 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 3: they're dying if indeed they know it beforehand. So this 124 00:06:55,560 --> 00:07:00,839 Speaker 3: gives us a special opportunity, evidentially to look at to 125 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:02,280 Speaker 3: look at the near death experience. 126 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: That's so interesting, and it kind of crosses over with 127 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:07,839 Speaker 1: what might be called a deathbed experience. And we've talked 128 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 1: about this in other episodes. But some people who know 129 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 1: generally that they're suffering and could be dying, have a 130 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 1: distinct awareness that they're dying before the brain or body 131 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: could be attested and known from a doctor. They just 132 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: have this direct awareness. But of course they know they're 133 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: sick and they know what death is. When it comes 134 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 1: to kids, they don't know they're dying, and they generally 135 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 1: haven't experienced this in the same way that adults have, 136 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 1: so to talk about it is so much novel and 137 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 1: different and in some ways surprising for a child than 138 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 1: an adult. And of course we'll get to this, but 139 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 1: what makes what makes an ND evidentially significant is when 140 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 1: something is known or seen that couldn't have been known 141 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 1: or seen in that state physically possible in a sense. 142 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: The counts we'll get to are kids coming back and 143 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 1: reporting seeing certain people that they didn't know existed. That 144 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 1: matches up exactly with somebody that adults know and had 145 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 1: not told them about. These kind of descriptions are very, 146 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 1: very interesting and arguably evidentially significant. Okay, what did children 147 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 1: tend to report in their NDEs? How do they compare 148 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 1: and contrast, for example, with adults. So we often hear 149 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 1: there's common criteria, maybe twelve or fifteen. The experts like 150 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 1: von Lamel and Sabbam and Jeffrey Long and others talk 151 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:40,560 Speaker 1: about You've talked about this in your books like heightened senses, 152 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 1: seeing things, hearing things, a tunnel, Angelic Beings, Life Review. 153 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:48,319 Speaker 1: I mean, that'd be interesting for a kid who's for 154 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: to have a life review. But are these common? Are 155 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:55,319 Speaker 1: they the same kind of things that we see in adults. 156 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:58,079 Speaker 1: Do we see those same kind of things in children 157 00:08:58,840 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: in general? 158 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 3: I'd say yes, which is surprising from a naturalistic standpoint. 159 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 3: You'd think if you have a dying brain and they're 160 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 3: just hallucinating from a dying brain, or that they're dreaming 161 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 3: dreams that were suggested to them by their parents or others, 162 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 3: you would think it would conform to your or your parents' 163 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 3: expectations of death, and you'd think that these experiences will 164 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 3: be just all over the board. 165 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:26,319 Speaker 2: As to what they're experiencing. 166 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:27,839 Speaker 3: I mean, I would think it'd be more common if 167 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 3: the child thought that they were really dying, that they 168 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 3: would kind of deceive themselves by having just thinking about 169 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 3: experiences here on earth, continuing with their family, right if 170 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 3: you're going to suggest to yourself something. 171 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 2: That is comforting. 172 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:47,000 Speaker 3: So it is surprising that they seem to have the 173 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 3: characteristics of others. Now, as you say, they don't have 174 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 3: much of a life to review, you know, Oh yeah, 175 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 3: I remember that day when you took my pacifier from me, 176 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 3: and I don't know what they would review, So that 177 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 3: doesn't seem to be significant. A lot of these are 178 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 3: deathbed experiences, and typically in deathbed experiences, the commonalities do 179 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 3: not include a life review, which makes sense from a 180 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 3: God perspective because they don't have any time to change 181 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 3: their lives based on their life review, so it wouldn't 182 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 3: make that much sense to have a life review if 183 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 3: it's right before death. But for the ones having a 184 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:27,840 Speaker 3: near death experience, sometimes one difference may be that it 185 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 3: seems to be in an adult experience that God is 186 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 3: easing our passage to the other side by allowing us 187 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 3: to see people that we know that had predeceased them 188 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 3: in death, and for these children, they may not know 189 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 3: anybody who's already died, so sometimes it'll be a deceased 190 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:49,880 Speaker 3: pet that comes to greet them and welcome them and 191 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 3: make them feel comfortable on. 192 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:53,319 Speaker 2: The other side. So that would be a difference. 193 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:59,440 Speaker 3: It's not anything in contradiction to the amazing pattern of 194 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 3: what goes on on this experience globally with adults, but 195 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 3: it is tweaked a little bit. 196 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense. 197 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:05,719 Speaker 3: Ca. 198 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 1: So we're going to get to some stories which are 199 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:11,200 Speaker 1: just fascinating and compelling on so many levels, and then 200 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 1: some of the most common objections we hear against these, 201 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 1: but maybe talk for a minutes Steve about how these 202 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:22,680 Speaker 1: experiences affect children. Are they life changing? And it's just 203 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 1: interesting to think about a life changing experience for a 204 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 1: four year old or a six year old. Again to 205 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 1: somebody who's forty, fifty or sixty. Are they the same 206 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:37,320 Speaker 1: kind of just impact emotionally and experientially as with an adult. 207 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 2: I remember talking to a person. 208 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 3: One of the fascinating things about this study is I 209 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 3: went in to study the best studies of near death 210 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:48,320 Speaker 3: and deathbed experiences. I wanted to see what professors and 211 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 3: other great researchers had found when they legitimately interviewed these people, 212 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 3: some prospectively, some retrospective, looking at people who'd already had 213 00:11:57,760 --> 00:12:00,560 Speaker 3: the experience. That's what I wanted to see. But as 214 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 3: I began doing this study and would tell other people, 215 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 3: people would start telling me their experiences, people from my 216 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 3: own circles of trust, people I know and trust. It 217 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 3: would just send chills down my spine. I thought, why 218 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:15,319 Speaker 3: haven't we ever talked about this at a family gathering? 219 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 3: And yet people are scared people will think they're crazy, 220 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 3: and so they don't tend to share it but I 221 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 3: remember being at a graduate gathering. I teach a public university, 222 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:30,319 Speaker 3: Kinnesas State University, and there was a graduate school gathering 223 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:32,560 Speaker 3: there and my wife pope me and said, hey, why 224 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:35,680 Speaker 3: don't you tell so and so here about what you're studying? 225 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:38,079 Speaker 3: And I said, near death and deathbed experiences and this 226 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:41,200 Speaker 3: happened so much. The lady you were talking to kind 227 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 3: of looks at me and goes, hey, can you uh 228 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 3: let's can you talk with me outside? And I said sure. 229 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 3: This is a middle aged lady, she's not like a 230 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 3: young graduate student. And she says, when I was about 231 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 3: nine years old, I drowned and I was revived, but 232 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 3: that time I had a near death experience and it 233 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:08,439 Speaker 3: was just as real to her now fifty years later 234 00:13:09,520 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 3: as it was then. Apparently she could just tell me 235 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 3: exactly what happened. So it's life changing in the sense 236 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 3: that these people that have these experiences still remember them 237 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 3: decades later, and they think about it, and maybe they've 238 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 3: not had anybody to talk to about it because they're 239 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:31,720 Speaker 3: so embarrassed to bring up the subject to anyone, or 240 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 3: they've tried to tell someone about it and the person 241 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:38,320 Speaker 3: nervously kind of put them off. So that's a big 242 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:42,079 Speaker 3: part of the impact that I'm seeing is that it's 243 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 3: just not forgotten, but also for the children themselves, it's 244 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:47,960 Speaker 3: this is a deathbed experience. So again I should back 245 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:50,200 Speaker 3: up for those who are the first time a near 246 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:53,680 Speaker 3: death experience is when someone, let's say, has a cardiac arrest, 247 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 3: the experience clinical death, cessation of breathing and heartbeat, and 248 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 3: then they come back telling about this when they're resuscitated, 249 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:04,719 Speaker 3: telling about that they are on the other side, in 250 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 3: this place with no pain, no worries, meeting with angels, 251 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 3: perhaps to cease relatives, having a life review, having a 252 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 3: decision as to whether you come back or not, all 253 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 3: in a place that's devoid, seemingly of space or time, 254 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 3: where you can just go like this to see something 255 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 3: far away just as clearly as it is here. These 256 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 3: are things that you're not nobody's expecting on the other 257 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 3: side to be able to talk to people's mind to mind. 258 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 3: But children experience these, and at death a deathbed experience 259 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 3: would be before your final death, like a child dying 260 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 3: of leukemia, as we mentioned, but a child experiencing this 261 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 3: it seems to be something that just greatly eases their transition. 262 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 3: It sounds like something that a loving God would allow 263 00:14:56,840 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 3: to keep a child in the most potentially dressing psychologically 264 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 3: and physically time of life to be transitioning. Some of 265 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 3: them seemed to be like they may have been having 266 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 3: a very painful illness, but then for the last few 267 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 3: days be totally free of pain. It's almost like they're 268 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 3: becoming detached from their body. And then they begin talking 269 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 3: about people they're sin now. As opposed to a near 270 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 3: death experience where you're coming out of your body, they're 271 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 3: typically in their body and they can see their family 272 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 3: around them and communicate with them, but at the same 273 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:36,400 Speaker 3: time they're talking to deceased people or angels or Jesus 274 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 3: or God on the other side. Well, what this does 275 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 3: for the child is often and this is what got 276 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 3: doctor komp the one who taught at Yale, she said, 277 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 3: here here, I had been told don't get too close 278 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 3: to the families, don't get too close to your patients 279 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 3: at that time. Maybe they've changed now in medical training, 280 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 3: but she said, I felt like I had to get 281 00:15:57,560 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 3: close to these families, and in doing so, when I 282 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 3: saw some of these children who became very ecstatic and 283 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 3: excited about going totally away from everything that they knew, 284 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:14,520 Speaker 3: totally away from home, their teddy bears and everything, and 285 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 3: they were excited and they were comforting their parents. You see, 286 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 3: they didn't even know they were dying, according to the parents, 287 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 3: but they knew that they were dying. 288 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 2: They knew that. 289 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 3: Their parents were upset and concern and you would see 290 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 3: these little children comforting their parents and saying, it's okay, 291 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 3: it's great. Over there, I want to go. 292 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 1: This is so interesting. I'm getting someone ahead of myself 293 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 1: with the objections. But one naturalistic objection would be that 294 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 1: evolution explains this. Somebody's dying and it's just easing the 295 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 1: process of death. But on the other hand, in evolution 296 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 1: is a fight for survival, why would you have a 297 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 1: mechanism to help somebody die then encourages other people to 298 00:16:57,560 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 1: not fear death and not fight force their face. Such 299 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:04,640 Speaker 1: an explanation, to me, wouldn't seem to work. Now I'm 300 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 1: getting a little bit ahead of myself. I do want 301 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 1: e f size. My next question is going to be 302 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:10,680 Speaker 1: about stories. I need to give us some examples of children, 303 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: what they're seeing and what they're reporting. But for this lady, 304 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 1: you said four or five decades later to hear what 305 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 1: you do and then immediately want to share it, say, 306 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 1: can we step outside, there's still forty or fifty years later, 307 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:28,360 Speaker 1: a sense of like embarrassment is even to think I'm crazy. 308 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 1: I've got to keep this private, tells me, as a 309 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 1: pastor at my local church, as somebody who just works 310 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 1: with people personally, not just apologetically. We've got to talk 311 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:43,639 Speaker 1: about this, and this is way more common than people realize. 312 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:47,280 Speaker 1: And to have an experience from four decades ago feel 313 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 1: alive and vibrant tells me that is a life defining 314 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:56,080 Speaker 1: experience for this individual. And that's what we see in 315 00:17:56,119 --> 00:17:59,200 Speaker 1: so many of these children. So with that said, there 316 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 1: is in the stories themselves. But I know you're a 317 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:05,480 Speaker 1: data person, and that's one reason I keep bringing you 318 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 1: back on is you do your work carefully. Give us 319 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:13,359 Speaker 1: some examples of well documented stories from dying children. I 320 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 1: say well documented because I know right now people are thinking, 321 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 1: we've seen books with well known Christian publishers tell stories 322 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 1: about kids near death experiences and then retract it because 323 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:28,560 Speaker 1: later the kid says it was made up. Totally recognize 324 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 1: there have been some faulty ones, but that doesn't mean 325 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 1: all stories are faulty. Give me some examples of well 326 00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 1: documented cases from dying children, and then maybe how we 327 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:41,800 Speaker 1: evidentially evaluate them. 328 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:45,160 Speaker 3: Sure, the name of the book I'm familiar with, whether 329 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:48,880 Speaker 3: that happened where it was all a deception. The family's 330 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 3: name was Malarkey. We should have had some kind of 331 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 3: queue so that there was something wrong with that. 332 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 1: Oh my good. 333 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:56,200 Speaker 2: But yes. 334 00:18:56,680 --> 00:19:00,080 Speaker 3: So when I went to study these, I thought, I 335 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 3: don't want to pull stuff from the internet. These are 336 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:04,359 Speaker 3: people that I don't know. I want to approach it 337 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 3: like we do in the legal sphere, where testimony is important. 338 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 3: Testimony is value our legal system. We're largely crumble without 339 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:18,200 Speaker 3: personal testimony, an expert testimony. So we're looking for testimonies 340 00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 3: that are actually valuable. And one of the special cases 341 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:27,359 Speaker 3: in the legal system is the deathbed testimony. Because people 342 00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 3: are very unlikely to be trying to get in their 343 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:32,440 Speaker 3: last lie right before they die. They're kind of sensitive 344 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 3: to these things and what's their motive. Again, They're not 345 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:37,479 Speaker 3: publishing a book or getting famous. They're about to die, 346 00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:40,880 Speaker 3: So these testimonies can be important. But I just want 347 00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 3: to warn people. If you go to YouTube and start 348 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:47,160 Speaker 3: searching for near death experiences. What it's going to inevitably 349 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:51,359 Speaker 3: pull up for you are the most anomalous, strange experiences, 350 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,679 Speaker 3: not strange in the sense of unbelievable, but they're going 351 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,159 Speaker 3: to tend to be talking about a lot of doctrine 352 00:19:57,160 --> 00:20:03,120 Speaker 3: that maybe fits with a Norman worldview or Hindu worldview, 353 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:07,240 Speaker 3: or somebody's Christian worldview. Because people that are trying to 354 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:12,160 Speaker 3: get clicks on their websites and on their YouTube channels, 355 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:17,240 Speaker 3: they know that people love these details, and people are 356 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:19,439 Speaker 3: willing to exaggerate and put them out there. So if 357 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:22,159 Speaker 3: you go and search for it, you'll typically get the 358 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:26,200 Speaker 3: ones that are not the same old consistent near death 359 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 3: experience or deathbed experience that we're seeing in the literature. 360 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:31,639 Speaker 3: So I stuck with the literature, and I've got some 361 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 3: of the books here with me to show you that 362 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 3: I'm actually reading these books and this is where I'm 363 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:41,720 Speaker 3: getting them from rather than just taking stories from the internet. 364 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:44,399 Speaker 3: But let me just quote, I'm going to stick a 365 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:47,000 Speaker 3: little bit close to the writing because I want to 366 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:49,399 Speaker 3: get the stories correct. I have a great respect for 367 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:50,160 Speaker 3: these stories. 368 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:51,520 Speaker 2: So this is. 369 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 3: Coming from my book Deathbed Experiences as Evidence for the Afterlife, 370 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:59,440 Speaker 3: and I document all this relentlessly so that you can 371 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:01,679 Speaker 3: go in and study them yourselves. 372 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:03,480 Speaker 1: And so people know why you're looking for that quote. 373 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 1: People can buy it on Amazon, but you send people 374 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 1: the PDF for free, and we'll give that information at 375 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 1: the end. Because earlier we said somebody who's trying to 376 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:15,879 Speaker 1: sell books, and then you hold up your book, that's 377 00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:20,520 Speaker 1: not what you're trying to do. Here, information out to people, 378 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:22,919 Speaker 1: and you're happy to send to them totally for free. 379 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:26,520 Speaker 3: Sure, And in case we forget J Steve Miller, the 380 00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:29,160 Speaker 3: letter J Steve Miller at gmail dot com. 381 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:30,879 Speaker 2: If you don't have the money or you're in. 382 00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:33,800 Speaker 3: A country where it's hard to get a book, you 383 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:35,920 Speaker 3: know I can send you a free PDF of any 384 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:36,640 Speaker 3: of my books. 385 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:37,879 Speaker 2: I have several on these shows. 386 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 1: So I can't believe you give your personal email out. 387 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 1: There's about zero chance I would, which just proves you're 388 00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 1: a better man than I am. 389 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 2: See proves I'm not as famous as you. I don't 390 00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:48,800 Speaker 2: know about all. 391 00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:50,119 Speaker 1: Right, go to the quote. 392 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:53,200 Speaker 2: Here we go pays one. Let's look at this one. 393 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 3: Now, this is one is interesting in several ways. 394 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 2: First of all, it's a doctor Morse that was doing 395 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:00,439 Speaker 2: the study. 396 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 3: This was published in a peer review journal as well 397 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:06,879 Speaker 3: as his book. He has a book here that I 398 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 3: don't see right off hand, but he's uh, he wrote 399 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:14,200 Speaker 3: a book on it, Dr Morse, and it's called Closer 400 00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:14,880 Speaker 3: to the Light. 401 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,360 Speaker 2: And so there was this child who was. 402 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:23,160 Speaker 3: Brought to him who had died in a swimming pool, drowned. 403 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 3: She was found at the bottom of the pool. She 404 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:31,680 Speaker 3: was totally unresponsive and was floating face down. Actually when 405 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 3: they found her, she was resuscitated in the emergency room. 406 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 2: So this was a good while later. They had to 407 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:42,199 Speaker 2: get her to an emergency room and she was she 408 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:43,720 Speaker 2: was actually brought back to life. 409 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:46,800 Speaker 3: And so doctor Morse inquired about what had happened in 410 00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:49,520 Speaker 3: the water. So he's talking to the child after she's 411 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:54,000 Speaker 3: recovered and fully conscious, and wants to know what happened. 412 00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:56,320 Speaker 3: I mean, did somebody push her? Did he? He needs, 413 00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,680 Speaker 3: did she hit the bottom? What happened? And she's saying 414 00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:03,880 Speaker 3: what happened? And she said, well, do you mean about 415 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:08,640 Speaker 3: meeting Jesus and the Heavenly Father? And Doctor Moore's kind 416 00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 3: of shocked. He says, why, yes, tell me about that 417 00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 3: fit answer, And so she told of meeting Jesus the 418 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 3: heavenly father and a parent angel, a couple of young 419 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 3: boys named Mark and Andy, and he was and she 420 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 3: talked for a little while, Like I was saying, with children, 421 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:27,439 Speaker 3: you don't get the whole story out of them, but 422 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:31,440 Speaker 3: he got that much. And then he interviews some intensive 423 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:34,760 Speaker 3: care nurses to see if this could be corroborated with them, 424 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:36,960 Speaker 3: and said, you know, what did she say when she 425 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,080 Speaker 3: first waked up, If you're the one that said, well, 426 00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 3: they asked where Mark and Andy? So I mean, this 427 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 3: was a story that she knew well right from the 428 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,760 Speaker 3: very start and was consistent with it. But she spoke 429 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,520 Speaker 3: of seeing things that were going on with her family 430 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 3: at their house during the time she was in the coma, 431 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:58,960 Speaker 3: telling where what clothes her family was wearing. This is 432 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:01,399 Speaker 3: in their house. She wasn't in their house. She was 433 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 3: in the hospital, and she's telling what's going on in 434 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,439 Speaker 3: her house with her family, what her mom was cooking, 435 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,800 Speaker 3: what her brothers were playing with a gi Joe specifically, 436 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 3: and a jeep. Katie's mother corroborated this and was indeed 437 00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,239 Speaker 3: what they were doing and what they were wearing at 438 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:18,679 Speaker 3: the house. 439 00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:20,040 Speaker 2: So he publishes this art. 440 00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,960 Speaker 3: Okay, now I think about that for a minute, how 441 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 3: did she know these things unless she was outside of 442 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:29,560 Speaker 3: her body, which lets you know why people like JP 443 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:34,120 Speaker 3: Morland and Gary Habermoss are intent on talking about near 444 00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:37,200 Speaker 3: death experiences to say, this seems to prove that people 445 00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:41,640 Speaker 3: are outside of their bodies and mind body dualism, which 446 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:45,440 Speaker 3: the Bible talks about, so they use that as evidence 447 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:48,280 Speaker 3: of this. This is a good case, endpoint. So it 448 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 3: was published in the American Journal of Diseases of Children. 449 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:54,280 Speaker 3: This was not a theological journal. And by the way, 450 00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:57,040 Speaker 3: these studies on near death and death but experiences, they're 451 00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:00,960 Speaker 3: all over the medical literature because these are very practical 452 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 3: questions that nurses and doctors have to deal with on 453 00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 3: a day to day basis. If someone's dying and they 454 00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:12,440 Speaker 3: begin talking to deceased relatives, they need to know, oh, 455 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:15,480 Speaker 3: do I need to adjust the morphine or is this 456 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 3: some type of legitimate experience. And basically when you read 457 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,400 Speaker 3: these articles, overwhelmingly they say, treat it like a legitimate 458 00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 3: whatever you believe about it, treat it like a legitimate experience. 459 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:28,920 Speaker 2: This is not a hallucination. 460 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:32,400 Speaker 1: It's a great response from that doctor to just say, yeah, 461 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:34,320 Speaker 1: tell me more and not freak galloy. 462 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:37,720 Speaker 3: He was just flabbergast, didn't didn't know what to say, 463 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,280 Speaker 3: or if he was sensitive enough to children to say, 464 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:42,119 Speaker 3: this is interesting, let's uh. 465 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 1: And I find the same thing in my conversation with people. 466 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:47,920 Speaker 1: Sometimes people will say certain things that indicate they've had 467 00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 1: an experience like this. I just say, tell me more. 468 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 1: And it's amazing how many times people are willing to share. Now, 469 00:25:54,880 --> 00:26:00,320 Speaker 1: it's evidentially significant about this is she's face down, clinically dead, 470 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:03,480 Speaker 1: if she's rushed the hospital. This is seemingly beyond the 471 00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:07,560 Speaker 1: four minute mark as far as I would guess, resuscitated back. 472 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:11,359 Speaker 1: Her family was not there giving her information that she 473 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:14,440 Speaker 1: did not talk with them before the doctor did. He's 474 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 1: the first one when she's suscitated back reports information from 475 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:25,960 Speaker 1: a distance, specified information, not just my siblings are playing 476 00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:28,440 Speaker 1: on the floor or genero my mom's making dinner. It's 477 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 1: specified information what. 478 00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 2: They are, what they're eating, what they're playing with. 479 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it matches up. That's the kind of evidential 480 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 1: significance that we're looking for that says this is more 481 00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:42,399 Speaker 1: of a story than a kid just made up. Not 482 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:45,639 Speaker 1: to mention, I mean child or not like drowning like 483 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:49,680 Speaker 1: that is incredibly traumatic that this is the first thing 484 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,680 Speaker 1: you talk about is so opposite of what you would 485 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 1: expect just from a biological level. Now, I do want 486 00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:59,199 Speaker 1: to ask if there's some reputable, larger studies, but are 487 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:02,920 Speaker 1: there some other individual accounts that you want to share 488 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 1: about children's Sure, I think. 489 00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,160 Speaker 3: They need to deal with some of these accounts because 490 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:09,719 Speaker 3: they're published in peer review literature or by very respected people. 491 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 3: Let me tell you, first of all, just what Morse 492 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,600 Speaker 3: did as a result of this. He said, we are 493 00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:17,919 Speaker 3: taught what is his conclusion. Okay, he's the doctrine charge 494 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 3: and his articles you'll find are very well documented, very 495 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 3: very good studies that he does. But he said, we're 496 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 3: taught in medical skill to find the simplest explanation for 497 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:31,119 Speaker 3: medical problems. After looking at all the other explanations for 498 00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:34,439 Speaker 3: near death experiences, I think the simplest explanation is that 499 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:38,360 Speaker 3: ndseas are actually glimpses into the world beyond. 500 00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:39,439 Speaker 2: Why not. 501 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:44,119 Speaker 3: I've read all the convoluted psychological and physiological explanations for 502 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 3: NDEs and none of them seems very satisfying. And so 503 00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:53,160 Speaker 3: he went on to do a study of children's near 504 00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 3: death experiences and deathbed experiences and plublish those as well. 505 00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,119 Speaker 1: That's seems like about as good of a motivation to 506 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,200 Speaker 1: do that study as any. If that doesn't see your interest, 507 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 1: I don't know what would now. I do want to 508 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,439 Speaker 1: get into some of those studies. But is there another 509 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:12,040 Speaker 1: account or two you want to share about the kind 510 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,480 Speaker 1: of experiences that children have so we get a sense 511 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:15,560 Speaker 1: of it, or do you want to move on to 512 00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:16,359 Speaker 1: the larger style. 513 00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:17,880 Speaker 2: Let's let's talk about some of these. 514 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:21,240 Speaker 3: I think people need to stop and reflect and put 515 00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:24,280 Speaker 3: it in your theological or philosophical pipe and smoke on 516 00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 3: it a little bit on your back deck, because you 517 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,359 Speaker 3: need you need to stop and think about it. 518 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,960 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Biola. We don't smoke here. I'm just kidding. 519 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:36,040 Speaker 3: I teach you to public university. Okay, So here we go. 520 00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,440 Speaker 2: H on children and Death. 521 00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:43,080 Speaker 3: This is by Elizabeth Koobler Ross, who is a trained psychiatrist. 522 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 3: Her doctred is in psychiatry. She's probably the authority on 523 00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:51,440 Speaker 3: death and dying, and so she has a book on 524 00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,400 Speaker 3: children and death. And I'll just read one of her 525 00:28:54,440 --> 00:29:01,600 Speaker 3: accounts for you to evaluate. But very fascinating. Again, she said, 526 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,840 Speaker 3: it reminds this reminds me of my early days of 527 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,160 Speaker 3: my work with dying patients, and she was one of 528 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:09,480 Speaker 3: the first when she came from Switzerland to New York 529 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 3: City and began working with dying patients. 530 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:14,120 Speaker 2: She was just appalled at the way they're treated. 531 00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 3: The doctors were embarrassed that they were failing, you know, 532 00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:20,440 Speaker 3: so they're kind of and you're just trying every possible 533 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:23,760 Speaker 3: way to keep somebody alive, which may just be torturing 534 00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:28,560 Speaker 3: the patient. And so she began to work and become 535 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 3: an authority own working with people that they're dying stages, 536 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 3: and was very influential on the hospice movement. 537 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 1: By the way, beginnings of that about this is we're 538 00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 1: seeing more and more research come out about people that 539 00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 1: seem to be in a brain dead, coomatose state that 540 00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,960 Speaker 1: it was believed they couldn't register and hear, and now 541 00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,560 Speaker 1: it's like, oh, actually people come out of it and 542 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,640 Speaker 1: see and hear. The way they were treated in very 543 00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:57,600 Speaker 1: dehumanizing kind of language is what we would expect if 544 00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,480 Speaker 1: we are body and soul and not just a body. 545 00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 1: So that's another line of evidence I think that's pointing 546 00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:07,960 Speaker 1: towards this dualism that we're talking about, but keep going 547 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:08,640 Speaker 1: with her research. 548 00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:14,760 Speaker 3: Sure, so I spent at the unit she was working 549 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:18,280 Speaker 3: at a university hospital, where she said I had no 550 00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:22,239 Speaker 3: I had to promise never to tell my patients that 551 00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 3: they were terminally ill. It was easy to keep this promise, 552 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:30,200 Speaker 3: since the patients would tell me. Shortly Before children die, 553 00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:33,160 Speaker 3: there's often a very clear moment, as I call it. 554 00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 3: Those who have remained in a coma since the accident 555 00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,880 Speaker 3: or a surgery opened their eyes. That's terminal lucidity, as 556 00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:42,840 Speaker 3: we've talked about before. They opened their eyes and seem 557 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:46,800 Speaker 3: very coherent. Those who have had great pain and discomfort 558 00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:49,640 Speaker 3: are very quiet and at peace. It is in these 559 00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:52,080 Speaker 3: moments that I asked them if they were willing to 560 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 3: share with me what they were experiencing. Yes, this is 561 00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:59,560 Speaker 3: a quote. Yes everything is all right now. Mommy and 562 00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:03,920 Speaker 3: Peter are already waiting for me. One boy replied with 563 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,800 Speaker 3: a content little smile. He slipped back into a coma, 564 00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 3: from which he made the transition we called death. I 565 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:12,800 Speaker 3: was aware that the child's mother had died at the 566 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:16,840 Speaker 3: scene of the accident. Okay, so remember he saw Mommy 567 00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,640 Speaker 3: and Peter waiting for him. When she said she was 568 00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:21,960 Speaker 3: aware that the mother had died. Maybe he had heard 569 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,960 Speaker 3: from someone that his mother had died. Okay for her 570 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,880 Speaker 3: to expect her on the other side, But he said, 571 00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:31,400 Speaker 3: Mommy and Peter are both waiting for me. I was 572 00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 3: aware that the mother had died, but Peter had not died. 573 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,320 Speaker 3: He had been brought to a special burn unit in 574 00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:41,280 Speaker 3: another hospital, severely burnt because the car had caught fire 575 00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:45,320 Speaker 3: before he was extricated from the wreck. Since I was 576 00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:49,240 Speaker 3: only collecting data, accepted the boy's information determined to look 577 00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:52,960 Speaker 3: in on Peter. It was not necessary, however, because as 578 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:55,280 Speaker 3: I passed the nursing station there was a call from 579 00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:58,240 Speaker 3: the other hospital to inform me that Peter had died 580 00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:02,240 Speaker 3: a few minutes earlier. In all that chill going down 581 00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 3: your spine, yet it should be if this is crazy, 582 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:10,520 Speaker 3: wild stuff from a naturalistic standpoint, in all the years 583 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:15,400 Speaker 3: that I have quietly collected data from California to Sydney, Australia, 584 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:21,480 Speaker 3: white and black children, Aboriginals, Eskimos, South Americans and Libyan youngsters, 585 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 3: every since she is speaking with authority here right, every 586 00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:29,040 Speaker 3: single child who has mentioned that someone was waiting for 587 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:33,080 Speaker 3: them mentioned a person who had actually preceded them in death, 588 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:36,040 Speaker 3: even if only by a few moments. And yet none 589 00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 3: of these children had been informed of the recent death 590 00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:44,440 Speaker 3: of the relatives by us at any time coincidence. By now, 591 00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:48,000 Speaker 3: there is no scientist or statistician who could convince me 592 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 3: that this occurs, as some colleagues claim, as a result 593 00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:57,360 Speaker 3: of oxygen deprivation or for other rational or scientific reasons. 594 00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:00,360 Speaker 3: So this is the conclusion of somebody who's spent her 595 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:03,760 Speaker 3: life working with the dying, and specifically a lot of 596 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:04,640 Speaker 3: dying children. 597 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 1: So the first account is somebody having information at a 598 00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:11,720 Speaker 1: distance that they could not have had access to. This 599 00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:15,760 Speaker 1: account is somebody having information from the next life or 600 00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:19,920 Speaker 1: the after life that they couldn't have had information to, 601 00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 1: knowing that a person had died. What's interesting about this 602 00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:28,680 Speaker 1: is it's not just North American Christians, for example, she says, 603 00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:34,240 Speaker 1: it's a cross culture, Libya, Latin America, Native Americans, you 604 00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:38,200 Speaker 1: name it. So it's more of a universal kind of experience, 605 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:41,360 Speaker 1: which tells us two things. Number one, there's a lot 606 00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:43,920 Speaker 1: of numbers behind this. Yes, So number two, there's a 607 00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:46,920 Speaker 1: lot of diversity behind this, which I think makes the 608 00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:51,360 Speaker 1: case arguably even stronger. Uh, let's talk a little about 609 00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:53,400 Speaker 1: do you have another individual story you want to you 610 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:54,480 Speaker 1: want to share, you mention. 611 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,880 Speaker 2: A couple of them related with me. 612 00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,320 Speaker 3: Again, one of the most fascinating things, and I would 613 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:02,720 Speaker 3: just encourage people. One of the most fascinating things about 614 00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,920 Speaker 3: this is if you're not into the research and digging 615 00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:10,160 Speaker 3: endlessly into peer reviewed journals, start talking to the people 616 00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:13,120 Speaker 3: you know and trust. Tell them you know, I'm interested 617 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:16,560 Speaker 3: in and I'm studying on near death and deathbed experiences 618 00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:19,800 Speaker 3: and experience. And you'll be amazed at how many people 619 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:23,439 Speaker 3: come up to you from your church, from your UH, 620 00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:27,160 Speaker 3: from your work, from your UH wherever you're studying at 621 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:30,800 Speaker 3: a university UH and and start telling you these stories. 622 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:35,200 Speaker 3: So I reconnected with a friend of mine in the ministry. 623 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:38,880 Speaker 3: He had had a background and a Simmary seminary that 624 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:44,759 Speaker 3: was more on dispensationalism, teaching that God worked these miraculous 625 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:48,120 Speaker 3: ways and early, you know, back in biblical times, but 626 00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:51,480 Speaker 3: not so much now. So when we were in ministry together, 627 00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:54,000 Speaker 3: we didn't talk a lot about miracles and visions or 628 00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:57,360 Speaker 3: anything like that. He had since spent some time in 629 00:34:57,480 --> 00:35:00,920 Speaker 3: a Muslim country ministry and had come back and was 630 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,399 Speaker 3: talking about some of these visions, but they actually had 631 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:05,360 Speaker 3: one that happened in their own family. 632 00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:08,359 Speaker 2: So this is a person I know and trust. He's 633 00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:09,000 Speaker 2: not a guy. 634 00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:12,200 Speaker 3: Who's always telling wild stories of God did this, God 635 00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,480 Speaker 3: did that in my life. He's not one of those. 636 00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:18,919 Speaker 3: But his wife just wrote me an email. She said, 637 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 3: I'd like to tell you what happened to my precious 638 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:24,520 Speaker 3: four year old niece. She gives the names, but I'm 639 00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:27,240 Speaker 3: going to leave those out for their privacy. She died 640 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:33,160 Speaker 3: tragically and unexpected unexpectedly several years ago, four years old. Okay, 641 00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:35,840 Speaker 3: remember that a few weeks prior to her death, she 642 00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:37,920 Speaker 3: started coming to her parents room in the middle of 643 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:41,080 Speaker 3: the night. She would wake them up tell them that 644 00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:43,920 Speaker 3: she had seen Jesus and that he wanted her to 645 00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:46,680 Speaker 3: come and live with him. His parents, of course, would 646 00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:48,800 Speaker 3: assure her that yes, someday she would go to be 647 00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:50,560 Speaker 3: with Jesus when she died, but that would be a 648 00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:54,239 Speaker 3: long time in the future. The following night, Andy came 649 00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:57,239 Speaker 3: into the bedroom and repeated what she had seen. The 650 00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:01,319 Speaker 3: third night this happened, her mother became upset and told her, no, 651 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:05,360 Speaker 3: not now, in the future. Andy would not be convinced mommy, 652 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:08,439 Speaker 3: She said, Jesus wants me to come now to live 653 00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:12,960 Speaker 3: with him, and I want to go now. I get 654 00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:16,000 Speaker 3: that she wants to go now. Her parents were not 655 00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:19,920 Speaker 3: mean parents. This was a loving family. But somehow on 656 00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:24,960 Speaker 3: the other side, she felt so welcomed, so at home 657 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:28,200 Speaker 3: that this had prepared her and was preparing her family 658 00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 3: with what was to happen. Two weeks later, the mother 659 00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:33,840 Speaker 3: was driving to the school where she was a teacher. 660 00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:37,200 Speaker 3: The daughter safely buckled in the back seat the rural 661 00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:42,399 Speaker 3: road where they ran parallel to the train track. Then 662 00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:44,879 Speaker 3: right before the school, the road made a sharp left 663 00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:48,040 Speaker 3: turn and crossed the track. It was a blind crossing, 664 00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:51,720 Speaker 3: meaning there were no gates or lights. The mother crossed 665 00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:53,879 Speaker 3: the track every morning. At this time, there were never 666 00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:57,480 Speaker 3: any trains, but this day there was. The car they 667 00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:03,800 Speaker 3: were driving was broadsided by the train, badly damaged. The 668 00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:12,920 Speaker 3: mother survived, but the child died in that wreck. She 669 00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,799 Speaker 3: was able to hold her for a minute, but she 670 00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:19,920 Speaker 3: died afterwards, And indeed she went to live with Jesus. 671 00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:24,080 Speaker 3: So this is a powerful, powerful thing coming from somebody, 672 00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:27,440 Speaker 3: somebody I know, and I can just maybe if we 673 00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,480 Speaker 3: don't have time for all of these, I'll just say 674 00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:34,799 Speaker 3: they're I don't know the statistics on children. Children obviously 675 00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:37,920 Speaker 3: haven't lived as long as adults, and so they haven't 676 00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:40,800 Speaker 3: had as many opportunities to die and come back in 677 00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:43,840 Speaker 3: a near death experience, or have heart attacks or whatever. 678 00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:47,520 Speaker 3: So four percent of the adult population is talking about 679 00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:50,839 Speaker 3: near death experiences. In large well done surveys in Australia 680 00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:54,319 Speaker 3: and Germany. The United States, four to six percent of 681 00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:58,320 Speaker 3: the people deathbed experiences deathbed visions. 682 00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 2: Someone studied that in. 683 00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:05,920 Speaker 3: A hospice unit in New York. They interviewed the patients 684 00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:08,279 Speaker 3: daily and found that up to eighty eight percent of 685 00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:12,200 Speaker 3: them we're having these experiences. So these are widely experienced. 686 00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,680 Speaker 3: I don't know the numbers on children, but I know 687 00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:18,880 Speaker 3: there are plenty of peer reviewed and reputable people that 688 00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:21,640 Speaker 3: have given plenty of instances of coming from children. 689 00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:27,080 Speaker 2: But I'll just mention a family from Ukraine. 690 00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:28,600 Speaker 1: Let mean you in here before you go to the 691 00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:31,359 Speaker 1: family from Ukraine. I know people listening to that past 692 00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:34,200 Speaker 1: story going, wait a minute, why would God allow this 693 00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:36,959 Speaker 1: to happen? Why wouldn't he just save the child? Those 694 00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:40,520 Speaker 1: are completely fair questions, yes, related to the problem of 695 00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:44,280 Speaker 1: evil and we're going to deal with theological and biblical 696 00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:48,879 Speaker 1: objections in an entire other episode we're doing soon. We're 697 00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:51,360 Speaker 1: not dismissing those. Part of my answer is I don't 698 00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:54,759 Speaker 1: know the answer to that, and that's very fair. What 699 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:59,560 Speaker 1: we're looking at here is the evidential significance of somebody 700 00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:01,399 Speaker 1: saying this in the middle of the night to their 701 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:07,400 Speaker 1: parents and then within two weeks dying. That it's hard 702 00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:11,279 Speaker 1: to invent a story like that. Again, somebody seemingly no 703 00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:15,560 Speaker 1: incentive because you know, they lost their child. Sharing this 704 00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:19,600 Speaker 1: with you personally, that's a very significant thing. Now, of 705 00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:22,080 Speaker 1: course somebody gets say, well, they're inventing it to make 706 00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:25,319 Speaker 1: themselves feel good and comfort themselves. Well, there's a lot 707 00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:29,000 Speaker 1: of ways to comfort yourself besides inventing a story that 708 00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,279 Speaker 1: raises other things. 709 00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:35,120 Speaker 3: Did they know they needed to be comforted exactly? Train 710 00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:36,160 Speaker 3: had not hit them in that. 711 00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:38,239 Speaker 1: You're raising all the right questions. I just want to 712 00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:40,480 Speaker 1: make sure people know we're not dismissing those, and I 713 00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:41,920 Speaker 1: understand the way to those questions. 714 00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:43,920 Speaker 2: Let me let me comment on the problem of evil. 715 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:45,960 Speaker 3: I think this is important and I think that near 716 00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:48,680 Speaker 3: death and deathbed experiences have something to say to that 717 00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,680 Speaker 3: because people do think of what what kind of a 718 00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:55,160 Speaker 3: God would allow a young child like this to be 719 00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:59,120 Speaker 3: to be killed in such a tragic way. But I 720 00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:02,280 Speaker 3: will say that people poll who have had near death experiences, 721 00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:06,040 Speaker 3: and I've read hundreds and hundreds of these experiences, I've 722 00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:09,160 Speaker 3: never seen one person come back and say that when 723 00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:13,360 Speaker 3: they met God that he was evil or unjust. 724 00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:16,160 Speaker 2: They even the things in. 725 00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:19,080 Speaker 3: Their life like why was I born into this family 726 00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:22,600 Speaker 3: or why did this happen to me? On the other side, 727 00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:27,120 Speaker 3: it all made since, and they come back saying, that 728 00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:30,319 Speaker 3: is the most loving being. I never wanted to leave 729 00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:36,560 Speaker 3: this being side, And so it seems like the problem 730 00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:39,640 Speaker 3: of evil is cleared up once your mind has expanded. 731 00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,640 Speaker 3: Now when they come back over here, they can't explain 732 00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:45,640 Speaker 3: to you exactly why all that made sense, but they 733 00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:48,719 Speaker 3: know that it made since, and so I think it 734 00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:52,720 Speaker 3: does speak to a loving God. That is another issue 735 00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:55,719 Speaker 3: and a lot of discussion. I've lost loved ones, been 736 00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:57,880 Speaker 3: through a lot of tragedy in my life, so I 737 00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:01,960 Speaker 3: understand those questions, and I've come out in my theological 738 00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:05,879 Speaker 3: journey would belieing that God really does love us, even 739 00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:07,759 Speaker 3: though there's a lot of horrible things that happened in 740 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:08,200 Speaker 3: the world. 741 00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:11,400 Speaker 1: Amen. And he loves children too. We see that distinctly 742 00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:15,160 Speaker 1: with Jesus in an age when children were not valued 743 00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,799 Speaker 1: on the same level. Even his disciples are like, why 744 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,480 Speaker 1: are you talking to children? So on that note, I 745 00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:22,359 Speaker 1: think you had one more account you wanted to share. 746 00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:25,120 Speaker 3: Sure, while I mentioned briefly a couple of them. But 747 00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:28,120 Speaker 3: I lived in Slovakia for a while and had a 748 00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:30,360 Speaker 3: colleague that was a missionary in the Ukraine, and I 749 00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:34,640 Speaker 3: noticed in his prayer letter he mentioned that his child 750 00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:39,960 Speaker 3: had died when he had made a little fort in 751 00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:43,560 Speaker 3: a snow bank and the snow bank fell on him. Died, 752 00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:47,560 Speaker 3: was resuscitated in the ambulance, and I thought, okay, And 753 00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:49,600 Speaker 3: he mentioned that he had had some kind of experience 754 00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,960 Speaker 3: on the other side. So I talked with this child 755 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:57,799 Speaker 3: on the phone, and it was amazing. He went to 756 00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:02,840 Speaker 3: the other side. He felt perfectly fine, and his deceased 757 00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:08,279 Speaker 3: Saint Bernard was bounding in to greet him, and it 758 00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:10,960 Speaker 3: was just a precious story. But as I asked him, 759 00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:13,440 Speaker 3: he just he could. It was almost like he was 760 00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:15,960 Speaker 3: playing back the video in his mind. 761 00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:16,399 Speaker 2: I said. 762 00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:18,600 Speaker 3: He said, oh, there were these beautiful flowers over there, 763 00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:20,360 Speaker 3: and I said, well, what colors were they? And he 764 00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:23,080 Speaker 3: told me specifically the colors he saw the ones he 765 00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,640 Speaker 3: didn't see, and then he said there were other colors 766 00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:30,400 Speaker 3: that I've never seen before, but I can't even describe those. 767 00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:33,680 Speaker 3: So it was a powerful experience in this child's life. 768 00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:36,520 Speaker 3: Again coming from somebody that I know and trust. Why 769 00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:40,000 Speaker 3: would they be lying to me about that. There's a 770 00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:45,399 Speaker 3: dissertation I quote. Angela Ethier wrote a dissertation for her 771 00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:52,040 Speaker 3: nursing degree, so her doctoral work on children and death, 772 00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:55,200 Speaker 3: and so she interviewed a lot of parents who had 773 00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:59,080 Speaker 3: lost their children, and in that there was a story 774 00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:02,440 Speaker 3: about a parent who was in with her child. Her 775 00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:06,799 Speaker 3: child kind of gingerly asked, mother, do you see the 776 00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:12,000 Speaker 3: angels in the room, And her mother, wanting to have 777 00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:14,719 Speaker 3: a feel good moment, said, well, yes, I see them. 778 00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:18,400 Speaker 3: And the child says, what do they look like? And 779 00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,759 Speaker 3: she said the mother said, well, the one I see 780 00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:23,759 Speaker 3: has great big wings, and she says, mom, you don't 781 00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:24,680 Speaker 3: have to lie to me. 782 00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:25,880 Speaker 2: They don't have wings. 783 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:30,960 Speaker 3: And so the wisdom of children, and that's something that 784 00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:38,359 Speaker 3: doctor Barrett wrote in his book, Sir William Barrett deathbed visions. 785 00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:42,719 Speaker 3: He was collecting stories of deathbed visions. He was so 786 00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:46,920 Speaker 3: great at his work in physics and his discoveries that 787 00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:51,040 Speaker 3: he was knight at Sir William Barrett, very reputable source. 788 00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:55,399 Speaker 3: But he said that typically when he saw children, that 789 00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:01,400 Speaker 3: stories of children who had died, that angels didn't have wings, 790 00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:07,000 Speaker 3: which is impressive from a Christian standpoint, because children, if 791 00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:10,920 Speaker 3: they're getting their theology from little children's books and children's stories, 792 00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:15,000 Speaker 3: all the stories of Jesus and the angels, you know 793 00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:17,920 Speaker 3: at his birth, all the angels have wings, but the 794 00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:21,000 Speaker 3: Bible never says that they had wings, right. I mean, 795 00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:23,880 Speaker 3: there's some angelic creatures in the Old Testament that had wings, 796 00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:26,840 Speaker 3: but they're never called angels. So it's like what you 797 00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:30,960 Speaker 3: would think a child would be expecting doesn't happen. 798 00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:33,200 Speaker 2: So these are powerful stories. 799 00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:36,680 Speaker 3: And maybe I should mention Diane Comp too in her 800 00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:40,360 Speaker 3: book and I would highly recommend it. A Window to 801 00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:43,720 Speaker 3: Heaven Again by Dane Comp. She's the one who teaches 802 00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:50,319 Speaker 3: or taught at Yale. She's retired now Professor emeritus, and 803 00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:54,600 Speaker 3: she gives cases where the children were dying. 804 00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:57,759 Speaker 2: This is when she was an atheist and she was 805 00:44:57,800 --> 00:44:59,080 Speaker 2: watching these children die. 806 00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:03,920 Speaker 3: One child, just right before she died, she just raised 807 00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:06,719 Speaker 3: up in her bed and she said, Mimmy, the angels. 808 00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:11,240 Speaker 3: Can you hear them singing? I've never heard such beautiful singing. 809 00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:14,240 Speaker 3: She was ecstatic, and then she laid down and died. 810 00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:21,560 Speaker 3: I mean just immediately. You can't make up that. I mean, 811 00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:26,160 Speaker 3: what's going on? And you a witness, you know, when 812 00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:30,600 Speaker 3: you're in a court situation, you're evaluating testimony. You look 813 00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:33,960 Speaker 3: at people's expressions, how they're saying, what they're saying when 814 00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:37,240 Speaker 3: little children are just as sincere as the world talking 815 00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:40,480 Speaker 3: about these things. But Dan comp said something very special. 816 00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,920 Speaker 3: She said, you couldn't have given the parents. 817 00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:44,600 Speaker 2: A greater gift. 818 00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:49,240 Speaker 3: Oh at that point, because these parents have the assurance 819 00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:51,880 Speaker 3: that their child was going to heaven. 820 00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:55,000 Speaker 2: What more could you ask for? 821 00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:57,799 Speaker 1: Well, I don't know where she went in her worldview, 822 00:45:57,840 --> 00:45:59,880 Speaker 1: but if you're an atheist, it's hard to account for 823 00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:03,200 Speaker 1: a gift. What evolution gives you a gift like that 824 00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,959 Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense. But if there's a gift giver, 825 00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:10,080 Speaker 1: a god who cares about comforting people, it makes sense. 826 00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:13,160 Speaker 1: It's the kind of thing that we might expect and 827 00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:16,319 Speaker 1: fits within a certain worldview. It's not surprising. It gave 828 00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:20,160 Speaker 1: me goosebumps, and it's beautiful. It's not surprising from an 829 00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:22,280 Speaker 1: epistemic standpoint, which is important. 830 00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:25,000 Speaker 3: And by the way, doctor comp did become a believer 831 00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:27,440 Speaker 3: in God, became a strong Christian. 832 00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:28,360 Speaker 2: And she's got. 833 00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:32,480 Speaker 3: Verses throughout this book. I haven't think nineteen nineties or whatever. 834 00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:34,960 Speaker 3: It's probably ninety nine cents on Amazon. 835 00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:35,960 Speaker 2: Get it. 836 00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:43,799 Speaker 3: I mean, here is a Yale professor talking about the 837 00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:46,200 Speaker 3: experiences she's seen. I think that's a great source. 838 00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:48,400 Speaker 1: So people know you have a Yale professor here, you 839 00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:52,680 Speaker 1: have Sir William Barrett, who is knighted Doctor Morris. You're 840 00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:55,960 Speaker 1: not pulling from just studies and random stories on YouTube. 841 00:46:56,000 --> 00:47:00,000 Speaker 1: You've done careful work again, which is why I keep 842 00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:02,640 Speaker 1: want you back. Now. There are some objections I do 843 00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:08,359 Speaker 1: want you to address related to children having NDEs, and 844 00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:10,799 Speaker 1: one of them comes from Michael Shermer, who I've had 845 00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:14,440 Speaker 1: debates with multiple times. Really a joy engaging him, thoughtful, 846 00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:17,080 Speaker 1: and he's pushed back on the evidence of near death 847 00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:19,799 Speaker 1: experiences even though he had a kind of experience that 848 00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:23,160 Speaker 1: doesn't really fit within his worldview. But that's the story 849 00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:25,879 Speaker 1: for another time. You and I have discussed a fun story. Yes, 850 00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:28,680 Speaker 1: and he said, there are billions of people in the world. 851 00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:32,120 Speaker 1: With that many people having dreams and hallucinations, surely the 852 00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:35,080 Speaker 1: odds are that some will have hallucinations that correspond to 853 00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:39,520 Speaker 1: reality and fantastic ways. People just don't understand large numbers. Now, basically, 854 00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:46,120 Speaker 1: this is a common naturalistic move to increase our probabilistic resources. 855 00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:50,680 Speaker 1: So the origin of life incredibly remote, but if you 856 00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:55,320 Speaker 1: have enough universes or enough planets and enough opportunity and time, 857 00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:59,919 Speaker 1: life could emerge. It's the same kind of move. So, yes, 858 00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:02,680 Speaker 1: these are surprising from the bottom up. If you include 859 00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:05,000 Speaker 1: the number of people who have lived in the accounts 860 00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:07,560 Speaker 1: that people tell, we shouldn't be surprised that we have 861 00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:10,960 Speaker 1: a few anomalies, so to speak, that we can't explain. 862 00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:19,160 Speaker 3: Sure well, Number one, there are black swans in science 863 00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:23,080 Speaker 3: where somebody will say, you know, all you need is 864 00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:27,000 Speaker 3: one black swan to overturn the theory that all swans 865 00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:30,799 Speaker 3: are white. And sure enough, that's what some European explorers 866 00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:33,200 Speaker 3: found when they used to make little jokes about, you know, 867 00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:35,680 Speaker 3: white swans, because all swans they knew were white. And 868 00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:38,120 Speaker 3: then somebody goes down to Australia and finds a black one. 869 00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:43,200 Speaker 3: It only takes one good observation to overturn a theory 870 00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:48,560 Speaker 3: that all swans are white. Well, what naturalists are saying 871 00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:52,440 Speaker 3: is everything is naturalistic. Okay, Well, all you need to 872 00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:57,000 Speaker 3: find is one thing that is not consistent obviously with naturalism, 873 00:48:57,560 --> 00:49:01,040 Speaker 3: or that they say the body. When the body dies, 874 00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:05,440 Speaker 3: the person dies. Okay, well that's something. But when you 875 00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:10,520 Speaker 3: have these people giving testimony after testimony in a situation 876 00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:12,439 Speaker 3: that in a court of law they would be very 877 00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:15,120 Speaker 3: believable saying that they were on the other side visiting 878 00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:19,840 Speaker 3: with deceased relatives, that sounds like these relatives died years ago, 879 00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:22,640 Speaker 3: that's after their life, which sounds a lot like the 880 00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:26,080 Speaker 3: after life to me. And so I think we have 881 00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:30,399 Speaker 3: great evidence, not just okay, so children, Well I don't 882 00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:33,839 Speaker 3: have statistics on children, but I have a lot of 883 00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:36,400 Speaker 3: great accounts from authorities who have seen a lot of 884 00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:40,160 Speaker 3: children in death situations and have collected them. But when 885 00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:43,799 Speaker 3: you look at the near death experiences in general, four 886 00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,759 Speaker 3: to six percent of the population eighty percent to eighty 887 00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:50,840 Speaker 3: eight percent having these visions at death. This is not 888 00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:53,839 Speaker 3: a one out of a billion thing, as Shermer's talking 889 00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:57,120 Speaker 3: about and by the way, Shermer made one statement. I 890 00:49:57,120 --> 00:50:01,160 Speaker 3: did read his book where he was arguing again the afterlife, 891 00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:03,799 Speaker 3: and he said, one reason that we know that there's 892 00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:07,360 Speaker 3: not an afterlife is that when as the body's dying 893 00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:13,040 Speaker 3: from diseases like meningitis and Alzheimer's that are destroying the brain, 894 00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:17,600 Speaker 3: that they don't get better, they don't recover their ability to. 895 00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:19,440 Speaker 2: Have conscious experiences. 896 00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:23,279 Speaker 3: Well, obviously he didn't study terminal lucidity, because we have 897 00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:25,760 Speaker 3: good evidence that at death, a lot of these people, 898 00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:29,360 Speaker 3: including some children, they're at death, maybe their brains have 899 00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:32,280 Speaker 3: been eaten away by a tumor not just pushed aside, 900 00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:37,520 Speaker 3: but actually eaten away and then become perfectly conscious. That 901 00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:41,640 Speaker 3: speaks against Shermer's contention that once your brain is gone, that. 902 00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:45,520 Speaker 2: You can't have experiences with your mind. 903 00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:49,520 Speaker 1: So the number of cases we have and the specificity 904 00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:53,360 Speaker 1: of those cases counters the idea that we can just 905 00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:56,240 Speaker 1: look at so many people who die, and the number 906 00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:59,920 Speaker 1: of possibilities, the number of cases that we could document 907 00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:04,080 Speaker 1: from reputable sources, and the specificity they give cannot be 908 00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:07,880 Speaker 1: wiped away by just referring to some apparent large number 909 00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:10,640 Speaker 1: all right. With that said, let's go a couple more. 910 00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:14,120 Speaker 1: Sometimes skeptics will pose it that these are the results 911 00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:18,160 Speaker 1: of a developing brain undergoing stress. So either it's a 912 00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:22,960 Speaker 1: young brain, it's developing, it's expanding pretty radically, and sometimes 913 00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:26,759 Speaker 1: this will be coupled with kids just creative imaginations, which 914 00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:29,920 Speaker 1: we all know have kids. Kids have creative imaginations, and 915 00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:34,319 Speaker 1: they have dragon friends, and they have battles they fought in. 916 00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:37,040 Speaker 1: So how do we know that the best explanation is 917 00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:40,440 Speaker 1: not some developing brain or just kids kind of telling 918 00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:42,040 Speaker 1: stories like kids do. 919 00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:45,439 Speaker 3: Sure, I mean some even adults believe that Spider Man 920 00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:49,480 Speaker 3: is real, you know, so we do have to consider 921 00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:54,719 Speaker 3: that as a hypothesis. But as Bruce, doctor Bruce Grayson said, 922 00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:57,400 Speaker 3: who's taught his whole most of his adult life at 923 00:51:57,400 --> 00:52:01,279 Speaker 3: the University of Virginia Department of Perceptual Studies, he says, 924 00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:05,000 Speaker 3: near death experiences sound pretty naturalistic as long as you 925 00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:09,880 Speaker 3: ignore all the supernatural elements. And I think, yeah, people, 926 00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:14,160 Speaker 3: there are things that happen at death to the brain 927 00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:17,040 Speaker 3: that cause some people to hallucinate, some people to think 928 00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:19,520 Speaker 3: that bugs are crawling all over them, or have all 929 00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:24,840 Speaker 3: kinds of distressing things go on. But these are very 930 00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:28,040 Speaker 3: different from a near death or deathbed experience. 931 00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:29,799 Speaker 2: From what they're experiencing. 932 00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:32,759 Speaker 3: There, they're very lucid. They'll just talk to you like 933 00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:35,359 Speaker 3: we're talking to each other right now. And you say, 934 00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:39,080 Speaker 3: this is a real intelligent person that's speaking very lucidly 935 00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:43,280 Speaker 3: about what's going on. And then anything about a dying 936 00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:48,399 Speaker 3: brain doesn't explain how how this child knew before the 937 00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:50,880 Speaker 3: train hit them that they were going to die. It 938 00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:53,799 Speaker 3: didn't doesn't tell how the little girl knew what her 939 00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:56,560 Speaker 3: family was doing at their houses. It's just not a 940 00:52:56,600 --> 00:52:57,960 Speaker 3: sufficient explanation. 941 00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:02,719 Speaker 1: Another responsors that parents or some other authority or filtering 942 00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:05,719 Speaker 1: these cases to kids. Like I mentioned earlier, there's at 943 00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:08,439 Speaker 1: least one prominent best selling book I guess the name 944 00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:12,239 Speaker 1: was Malarkey. That's the first I've heard that with some 945 00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:15,160 Speaker 1: level of irony of a child having a near death 946 00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:18,520 Speaker 1: experience that the publisher pulled and said it didn't happen. 947 00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:20,759 Speaker 1: So how do we know there's not some kind of 948 00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:26,080 Speaker 1: hidden information or mechanism giving this to kids before they 949 00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:27,120 Speaker 1: share their accounts. 950 00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:30,879 Speaker 3: So in none of these illustrations that I've given were 951 00:53:30,920 --> 00:53:37,719 Speaker 3: the parents, you know, writing books about it or have 952 00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:40,600 Speaker 3: any ulterior motives for doing it, and think about doctor 953 00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:43,520 Speaker 3: Morris was interviewing the child or self, not the parents, 954 00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:48,720 Speaker 3: about what was going on, and typically these are doctor 955 00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:53,279 Speaker 3: koober Ross. She was actually talking directly to the children themselves. 956 00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:56,000 Speaker 3: So I don't think it can be just parents making 957 00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:56,720 Speaker 3: up things. 958 00:53:57,000 --> 00:54:00,120 Speaker 1: So talking to kids themselves helps weed that out. So 959 00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:02,279 Speaker 1: there's a certain chain of command in some of these 960 00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:06,000 Speaker 1: cases where there's just no time for parent input from 961 00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:11,120 Speaker 1: the accident, near death experience to the report. Parents come 962 00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:14,600 Speaker 1: subsequent to that. So unless you say the parents fed them, 963 00:54:14,880 --> 00:54:17,600 Speaker 1: had the kid fed them the information, had them nearly 964 00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:19,759 Speaker 1: die and drown and then come out of it to 965 00:54:19,800 --> 00:54:23,680 Speaker 1: tell this story, which is far less believable to me, 966 00:54:24,640 --> 00:54:27,800 Speaker 1: the possibility to impart that information at least many of 967 00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:28,680 Speaker 1: the cases is. 968 00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:35,640 Speaker 3: Not extraordinary claims demand extraordinary evidence. I mean, hey, maybe 969 00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:40,440 Speaker 3: these kids have an international conspiracy together to tell stories 970 00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:43,200 Speaker 3: that all have the same results. Okay, but that what 971 00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:47,080 Speaker 3: an extraordinary You know, the parents all made this up? 972 00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:51,560 Speaker 3: But wait a minute, was the kids interviewed? These naturalistic 973 00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:56,080 Speaker 3: explanations are just quite extraordinary and seem to have no 974 00:54:56,719 --> 00:55:00,239 Speaker 3: data behind them. These studies have been done for the 975 00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:04,080 Speaker 3: past fifty years, particularly on near death experiences, and the 976 00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:07,600 Speaker 3: naturalistic theories just do not fit the data that the 977 00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:10,200 Speaker 3: best researchers have gotten. And some of these researchers have 978 00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:15,640 Speaker 3: been researching since their early years in medicine, and today, 979 00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:19,480 Speaker 3: you know, fifty years later, they're saying, yeah, these people 980 00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:21,960 Speaker 3: came out of their bodies. So you've got to match 981 00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:27,360 Speaker 3: the data infer to to you know, to the hypothesis 982 00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:29,120 Speaker 3: that makes the best sense of the data. 983 00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:33,000 Speaker 1: That's why worldview is so important and critical here that 984 00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:36,560 Speaker 1: if you bring a theistic worldview, an openness to the afterlife, 985 00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:40,000 Speaker 1: these stories don't surprise me. They fit with what I 986 00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:42,960 Speaker 1: believe it's true. But what is interesting is you have 987 00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:46,600 Speaker 1: people like Pim von Nmel who I've interviewed, Evan Alexandrew, 988 00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:52,840 Speaker 1: who I've interviewed, committed leading scientists, medical doctors in a 989 00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:59,319 Speaker 1: materialist worldview, game changing experiences they had or saw shifted 990 00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:03,680 Speaker 1: their world in light of the near death experiences. So 991 00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:06,719 Speaker 1: when we are confronted with some of that challenges our worldview, 992 00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:11,920 Speaker 1: either we can dismiss it or we can shift our worldview. 993 00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:14,879 Speaker 1: And that's what I'm hoping skeptics might do when they 994 00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:18,960 Speaker 1: see this, given the number of cases and the unique, evidential, 995 00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:24,120 Speaker 1: just fascinating value of children, I'm hoping that might give 996 00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:26,120 Speaker 1: them at least some pause now. 997 00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:28,239 Speaker 3: Coming out of that, Yeah, I think an interesting thing 998 00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:32,680 Speaker 3: is that some some atheists who have not read in 999 00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:36,760 Speaker 3: this area will say, oh, well, this is just Christian 1000 00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:40,320 Speaker 3: researchers trying to affirm their worldviews. But as you mentioned, 1001 00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:48,160 Speaker 3: people like von Lameo, doctor Sebom, these others that doctor Grayson, 1002 00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:54,239 Speaker 3: these were not evangelical Christians from the start trying to 1003 00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:55,520 Speaker 3: defend their worldview. 1004 00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:57,160 Speaker 2: They were startled. 1005 00:56:58,560 --> 00:57:01,360 Speaker 3: It was like they came into this thing kicking and screaming, 1006 00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:06,160 Speaker 3: not believing that these were really experiences with the afterlife. 1007 00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:10,200 Speaker 3: And then after their study and after a whole lifetime 1008 00:57:10,239 --> 00:57:13,040 Speaker 3: of studying, these are some of the best researchers they 1009 00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:15,080 Speaker 3: believe these people were coming out of their bodies. 1010 00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:15,600 Speaker 2: Now. 1011 00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:20,680 Speaker 3: Interestingly, the atheists that I see arguing against near death experiences, 1012 00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:24,560 Speaker 3: they were already outspoken atheists before they ever got into 1013 00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:25,600 Speaker 3: near death experiences. 1014 00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:27,640 Speaker 2: So it looks to me like there's a lot. 1015 00:57:27,560 --> 00:57:32,840 Speaker 3: More potential for them to be placing their worldview over 1016 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,800 Speaker 3: this and seeing it through their lens rather than being. 1017 00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:37,600 Speaker 2: Able to look objectively at the evidence. 1018 00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:41,080 Speaker 1: Perhaps the most common objection I hear, and this is 1019 00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:45,200 Speaker 1: with say, the evidence surrounding historical Jesus, more so in 1020 00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:48,600 Speaker 1: the area of intelligent design is just God of the gaps. 1021 00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:51,920 Speaker 1: There's some facts that we can't fully explain, we don't know, 1022 00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:56,080 Speaker 1: but rather than saying God did this, let's allow science 1023 00:57:56,240 --> 00:58:01,000 Speaker 1: to advance and eventually we'll discover a reason. So positing 1024 00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:04,400 Speaker 1: his soul, posing an afterlife is kind of a God 1025 00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:08,120 Speaker 1: of the gaps. That number one prevents science from moving 1026 00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:10,360 Speaker 1: forward because now you say God did it, so there's 1027 00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:14,440 Speaker 1: no reason to probe further for a naturalistic explanation, and 1028 00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:20,480 Speaker 1: it posits an unjustified pointer towards something beyond science. So 1029 00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:22,640 Speaker 1: what's your take on this being a God of the 1030 00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:23,680 Speaker 1: gaps kind of argument? 1031 00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:28,400 Speaker 3: Sure, well, that's interesting because Dr Moody from the start, 1032 00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:30,600 Speaker 3: if you read his books, it's almost frustrating. 1033 00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:31,280 Speaker 2: Doctor Kubler. 1034 00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:34,120 Speaker 3: Ross would speak with doctor Moody, who did the first 1035 00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:38,880 Speaker 3: really popular study of spring nineteen seventy five is when 1036 00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:42,360 Speaker 3: he published his book Life After Life, and he would 1037 00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:44,880 Speaker 3: he would give all this stuff that was very consistent 1038 00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:49,240 Speaker 3: with theism and with the afterlife as he described, and 1039 00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:50,919 Speaker 3: then would come to the end and he would say 1040 00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:54,320 Speaker 3: something like, but of course these are just anecdotes, like Kubler, 1041 00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:56,760 Speaker 3: Ross would be, what what. 1042 00:58:56,680 --> 00:58:57,479 Speaker 2: Are you talking about? 1043 00:58:57,520 --> 00:58:59,840 Speaker 3: I mean, this is really powerful evidence. And I asked 1044 00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:03,080 Speaker 3: for movie one time on the phone. I said, why 1045 00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:05,240 Speaker 3: is it that it took you so long until your 1046 00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:09,200 Speaker 3: later years before you finally said, yeah, this is the 1047 00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:10,800 Speaker 3: afterlife is the best. 1048 00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:11,600 Speaker 2: Explanation, he said. 1049 00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:14,520 Speaker 3: I was just I always wanted to be the Socrates 1050 00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:16,720 Speaker 3: who was just always doubting, as I was afraid if 1051 00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:19,120 Speaker 3: I came to a conclusion that I'd quit searching. 1052 00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:22,240 Speaker 2: So he really really resisted. 1053 00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:26,400 Speaker 3: That, but finally says, yeah, okay, that's about the afterlife, 1054 00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:30,400 Speaker 3: but about the god of the gaps. I love to 1055 00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:35,240 Speaker 3: I love to explore caves, particularly wild caves and h 1056 00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:37,200 Speaker 3: but I was in a public cave one time and 1057 00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:41,840 Speaker 3: a person was showing a formation where uh, it was 1058 00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:45,360 Speaker 3: like on a stalagmite hanging down, but there was a 1059 00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:51,480 Speaker 3: curved deposit of calcite on it, and they said, we 1060 00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:55,160 Speaker 3: we haven't figured out how in the world that happened. 1061 00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:58,560 Speaker 3: That just doesn't make sense because drops dropped down and 1062 00:59:58,640 --> 00:59:59,480 Speaker 3: deposit there. 1063 00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:00,760 Speaker 2: Why would it go around. 1064 01:00:01,800 --> 01:00:04,880 Speaker 3: And I thought, okay, that's a good illustration if I say, well, 1065 01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:08,600 Speaker 3: we don't know how it happened, therefore God made that. 1066 01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:10,640 Speaker 2: That would be an example of God of the gaps. 1067 01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:13,520 Speaker 3: I'm throwing God in there where really we ought to 1068 01:00:13,520 --> 01:00:18,960 Speaker 3: wait on a naturalistic explanation for it. But in these situations, 1069 01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:23,200 Speaker 3: this is not just throwing God in as an explanation. 1070 01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:27,240 Speaker 3: God is already all over the experience. This little girl said, 1071 01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:32,760 Speaker 3: I saw the Heavenly Father, I saw Jesus, I saw angels. Well, 1072 01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:35,560 Speaker 3: by the virtue of the fact that it's already a 1073 01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:38,800 Speaker 3: part of the experience, that surely gives us the right 1074 01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:43,400 Speaker 3: to say, well, here's one hypothesis. Maybe she really saw God, 1075 01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:47,520 Speaker 3: the Father and Jesus and angels. Okay, so it deserves 1076 01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:51,240 Speaker 3: the right to have a hypothesis. To me, when secular 1077 01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:54,640 Speaker 3: people come in and impose their own worldview on this 1078 01:00:55,560 --> 01:00:59,160 Speaker 3: and say, okay, well there's got to be a naturalistic explanation. 1079 01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:03,120 Speaker 3: Let's just you don't know the naturalistic explanation for NDEs, 1080 01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:06,280 Speaker 3: but we should await a naturalistic suggestion, I'd say, well, 1081 01:01:06,280 --> 01:01:10,000 Speaker 3: that's called naturalism of the gaps, where you just take 1082 01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:13,760 Speaker 3: your naturalistic worldview, and you impose it on whatever you 1083 01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:17,640 Speaker 3: see and assume there'll be a naturalistic answer. So if 1084 01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:19,520 Speaker 3: they say, oh, well, we ought to wait and see 1085 01:01:19,680 --> 01:01:22,880 Speaker 3: a future evidence, and I'll say, but I can't make 1086 01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:26,760 Speaker 3: my decisions on anything with future evidence. 1087 01:01:26,800 --> 01:01:28,080 Speaker 2: That's all hypothetical. 1088 01:01:28,200 --> 01:01:31,200 Speaker 3: I can only deal with the evidence as I see it, 1089 01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:35,000 Speaker 3: and to me, the evidence weighs heavily in the favor 1090 01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:36,680 Speaker 3: of the afterlife hypothesis. 1091 01:01:37,040 --> 01:01:39,360 Speaker 1: You've written four books on this that people can get 1092 01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:43,280 Speaker 1: either on Amazon or you'll email PDFs to them for free, 1093 01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:45,440 Speaker 1: which is amazing. You've brought a lot of these books. 1094 01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:48,480 Speaker 1: You've researched this a ton. Are there any just final 1095 01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:53,120 Speaker 1: remarks related to kids and NDEs or deathbed experiences we 1096 01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:55,200 Speaker 1: didn't cover that you want to make or you feel 1097 01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:57,120 Speaker 1: like we laid it out there. 1098 01:01:58,120 --> 01:02:00,480 Speaker 3: I'd say, what is it profit of me to gain 1099 01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:03,800 Speaker 3: the whole world and lose or forfeit his soul? Jesus 1100 01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:05,760 Speaker 3: said that you know, when I was young in my 1101 01:02:06,680 --> 01:02:12,880 Speaker 3: spiritual journey, that during my times of faith, that reassured 1102 01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:14,720 Speaker 3: me I was going in the right direction. When I 1103 01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:19,320 Speaker 3: was going through doubts, it haunted me. But I believe 1104 01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:21,960 Speaker 3: that what it shows is that this life isn't all 1105 01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:26,200 Speaker 3: there is. Why live for things on this earth that 1106 01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:32,000 Speaker 3: don't last. Why chase, you know, climbing up the ladder 1107 01:02:32,080 --> 01:02:35,280 Speaker 3: of success, but then finding at the end of your 1108 01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:37,800 Speaker 3: life that it was leaning against the wrong wall. That 1109 01:02:37,960 --> 01:02:40,960 Speaker 3: just doesn't make sense when in the light of even 1110 01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:43,200 Speaker 3: if you're not a Christian, but just in the light 1111 01:02:43,240 --> 01:02:46,720 Speaker 3: of near death and deathbed research showing that there's something 1112 01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:49,960 Speaker 3: much more glorious that's offered to us afterwards, and that 1113 01:02:50,160 --> 01:02:53,880 Speaker 3: children have preceded us sometimes there and have told us 1114 01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:57,920 Speaker 3: in their transition, oh my goodness, this is where I 1115 01:02:58,000 --> 01:03:01,840 Speaker 3: want to go. This is my ultimate home. That's what 1116 01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:03,720 Speaker 3: we need to be living for. And if you have 1117 01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:07,920 Speaker 3: a lot of uncertainties regarding religion, some of these people 1118 01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:13,160 Speaker 3: saw Jesus. I would recommend heavily that you seek Jesus. 1119 01:03:13,200 --> 01:03:16,080 Speaker 3: The earliest and best documents we have on him are 1120 01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:19,680 Speaker 3: the documents contained in the New Testament. Matthew, Mark Luke, 1121 01:03:19,720 --> 01:03:23,360 Speaker 3: and John the Apostle. Paul was a contemporary of Jesus, 1122 01:03:23,400 --> 01:03:25,880 Speaker 3: born about the same time he wrote about Jesus. 1123 01:03:26,280 --> 01:03:27,320 Speaker 2: I'd say go back to. 1124 01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:32,080 Speaker 3: These documents if you are searching for reality and spiritual 1125 01:03:32,160 --> 01:03:37,360 Speaker 3: things and for meaning in life beyond this material world. 1126 01:03:37,560 --> 01:03:41,440 Speaker 3: Seek Jesus, and yes, read my books. I've tried to 1127 01:03:41,480 --> 01:03:45,560 Speaker 3: do the best I could on researching the best research 1128 01:03:45,680 --> 01:03:48,160 Speaker 3: and giving it to you in a way that's understandable 1129 01:03:48,200 --> 01:03:51,400 Speaker 3: and actually readable. So I think I've given people a 1130 01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:53,960 Speaker 3: way to search with plenty of documentation. 1131 01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:56,320 Speaker 1: If you want to go further, you definitely have. And 1132 01:03:56,480 --> 01:03:58,320 Speaker 1: I had one last question for in somebody as we've 1133 01:03:58,320 --> 01:04:02,720 Speaker 1: answered this, If somebody says, hey, can I talk to 1134 01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:06,040 Speaker 1: you outside? I have an experience to share with you. 1135 01:04:06,680 --> 01:04:10,960 Speaker 1: Hear somebody say something conversation that suggests a near death experience. 1136 01:04:11,640 --> 01:04:14,280 Speaker 1: Where you talk with a kid that starts talking about 1137 01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:17,480 Speaker 1: certain things you might be tempted to write off as 1138 01:04:17,600 --> 01:04:20,400 Speaker 1: just imagination, But now that you've heard this, you think 1139 01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:24,480 Speaker 1: maybe they had an experience that was a near death experience. 1140 01:04:25,160 --> 01:04:29,320 Speaker 1: How should we respond just pastorally and practically to people 1141 01:04:29,960 --> 01:04:32,480 Speaker 1: who have that kind of experience. 1142 01:04:32,560 --> 01:04:36,120 Speaker 3: Biblically, be quick to hear and slow to speak, amen 1143 01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:40,960 Speaker 3: ask them questions. I hate it when somebody gets back 1144 01:04:40,960 --> 01:04:44,520 Speaker 3: from the mission field the people I'll hear a report 1145 01:04:44,640 --> 01:04:46,960 Speaker 3: and then never ask them anything else about it. This 1146 01:04:47,080 --> 01:04:50,000 Speaker 3: may be the most important thing in the person's life. Well, 1147 01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:53,640 Speaker 3: these people have been to the other side. I'm calling 1148 01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:55,600 Speaker 3: it the other side. I don't want to talk about 1149 01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:58,800 Speaker 3: as if it's the final New Heavens and New Earth 1150 01:04:58,920 --> 01:05:01,680 Speaker 3: or something like that. They've been on the other side, 1151 01:05:01,680 --> 01:05:04,480 Speaker 3: They've talked to the deceased, they they've had maybe had 1152 01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:07,439 Speaker 3: a life review. This is by far the most important 1153 01:05:07,480 --> 01:05:10,360 Speaker 3: thing that's ever happened to them. Talk to them about it. 1154 01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:14,200 Speaker 3: Let's listen to them, ask them more questions. What I 1155 01:05:14,240 --> 01:05:17,240 Speaker 3: find is that often they'll kind of just say, well, 1156 01:05:17,240 --> 01:05:20,880 Speaker 3: I had an experience like that once. They're just testing 1157 01:05:20,920 --> 01:05:23,960 Speaker 3: you to see, okay, if you're going to change the subject, 1158 01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:26,520 Speaker 3: they're not going to go there. Some of the people 1159 01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:29,080 Speaker 3: that tell me that this about their experiences will say, 1160 01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:31,320 Speaker 3: you're the only person I've ever told about this. They're 1161 01:05:31,440 --> 01:05:34,480 Speaker 3: so so afraid people will think they're crazy. 1162 01:05:35,040 --> 01:05:37,000 Speaker 2: So ask them more questions. 1163 01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:38,680 Speaker 3: Talk to them and say, you know, I'd like to 1164 01:05:38,720 --> 01:05:41,200 Speaker 3: talk more about this in the future, would. 1165 01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:42,240 Speaker 2: You mind talking to me more? 1166 01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:44,800 Speaker 3: And what you'll find is this is just a wonderful 1167 01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:49,520 Speaker 3: ministry opportunity because typically they haven't found anybody that wants 1168 01:05:49,520 --> 01:05:52,520 Speaker 3: to carry on a conversation about this, or you could say, 1169 01:05:52,560 --> 01:05:54,600 Speaker 3: you know, I need to study this more. As I 1170 01:05:54,720 --> 01:05:57,640 Speaker 3: research and read more on it, can I come back 1171 01:05:57,640 --> 01:06:00,200 Speaker 3: to you and talk to you about their experience so off, 1172 01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:06,160 Speaker 3: And I've been shocked at people in my church that 1173 01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:08,480 Speaker 3: that I'll begin talking to about this and they'll say, oh, 1174 01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:12,000 Speaker 3: let me tell you about my experience, and I'll talk 1175 01:06:12,080 --> 01:06:14,919 Speaker 3: to them there. But then I'll write down some more 1176 01:06:15,160 --> 01:06:17,640 Speaker 3: thoughts about it that I want to ask, and I'll say, okay, 1177 01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:21,920 Speaker 3: well is this like fairly real? Was this as real 1178 01:06:22,120 --> 01:06:26,200 Speaker 3: as you know, a vivid dream? What degree of reality 1179 01:06:26,520 --> 01:06:28,640 Speaker 3: was it? And They'll come back and say, oh, it was. 1180 01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:30,760 Speaker 2: It was real. It was just. 1181 01:06:32,200 --> 01:06:37,520 Speaker 3: As us talking here today. And I asked them those questions, 1182 01:06:37,600 --> 01:06:40,560 Speaker 3: and it still to this day it just seems sends 1183 01:06:40,560 --> 01:06:42,880 Speaker 3: shivers down my spine when I have people I know 1184 01:06:43,280 --> 01:06:47,280 Speaker 3: and trust get them talking. Listen, We've got a lot 1185 01:06:47,320 --> 01:06:48,880 Speaker 3: to learn from these people, Steve. 1186 01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:51,120 Speaker 1: There's a lot of reasons why I enjoy having you 1187 01:06:51,160 --> 01:06:52,720 Speaker 1: on as guests. One of the things you do is 1188 01:06:52,760 --> 01:06:54,920 Speaker 1: you go back through as many of the comments as 1189 01:06:54,920 --> 01:06:57,880 Speaker 1: you can, and you respond to skeptics as you can 1190 01:06:58,000 --> 01:07:01,720 Speaker 1: with questions. You hear people's story, He's give them counsel. So, 1191 01:07:01,800 --> 01:07:03,920 Speaker 1: as I've said on some of the previous videos, if 1192 01:07:03,920 --> 01:07:07,000 Speaker 1: people listening had a near death experience, if you saw 1193 01:07:07,080 --> 01:07:11,280 Speaker 1: somebody have a deathbed experience, especially if you had one 1194 01:07:11,320 --> 01:07:16,320 Speaker 1: as a child, please share it here. Listroubel interviewed you 1195 01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:19,680 Speaker 1: for his book on Seeing the Supernatural, and one of 1196 01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:22,840 Speaker 1: his responses of looking through some of my videos interviewing 1197 01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:26,040 Speaker 1: you was he expected all this criticism and attack, and 1198 01:07:26,120 --> 01:07:30,080 Speaker 1: it was story after story after story of people sharing 1199 01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:32,480 Speaker 1: and in many cases saying, this is the first time 1200 01:07:32,520 --> 01:07:35,880 Speaker 1: I've shared. Thanks for listening, thanks for giving me a platform. 1201 01:07:36,320 --> 01:07:39,240 Speaker 1: So please comment with a story below. We would love 1202 01:07:39,360 --> 01:07:42,080 Speaker 1: to hear your account on this video. Now you and 1203 01:07:42,080 --> 01:07:44,800 Speaker 1: I are about to shift because we have about eight 1204 01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:47,520 Speaker 1: or ten students in studio that are in a class 1205 01:07:47,720 --> 01:07:51,680 Speaker 1: right now called Afterlife Apologetics that you are teaching with 1206 01:07:51,840 --> 01:07:54,080 Speaker 1: me here at Top School Theology. Now this will not 1207 01:07:54,280 --> 01:07:57,680 Speaker 1: be aired our interaction, so people listening to this are going, 1208 01:07:57,720 --> 01:07:59,200 Speaker 1: wait a minute, how do I get it in on 1209 01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:01,640 Speaker 1: this In the answer, thus is you join us in 1210 01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:05,480 Speaker 1: theme Apologize program here at Talbot School of Theology. This 1211 01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:08,600 Speaker 1: is a class we want to teach again. So if 1212 01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:12,240 Speaker 1: you're listening, you're fascinated by this. Pick up Steve's books. 1213 01:08:12,280 --> 01:08:14,720 Speaker 1: That's a great place to start. I've actually just yesterday 1214 01:08:14,720 --> 01:08:17,519 Speaker 1: as we're recording this, created a playlist that has all 1215 01:08:17,560 --> 01:08:20,720 Speaker 1: of our interviews on near death experiences, as well as 1216 01:08:20,720 --> 01:08:24,759 Speaker 1: saman And von Lamel and Jeffrey Long and John Burke, 1217 01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:27,439 Speaker 1: some of the leaders in this. For people who want 1218 01:08:27,479 --> 01:08:30,760 Speaker 1: to go back and study, we have crossed almost every 1219 01:08:30,800 --> 01:08:32,920 Speaker 1: t and dotted the eyes and if you have some ideas, 1220 01:08:33,000 --> 01:08:36,000 Speaker 1: wait a minute, somebody hasn't done this on near death experiences. 1221 01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:38,439 Speaker 1: Let us know and maybe we'll revisit it if we 1222 01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:40,719 Speaker 1: could do it in a way that would be helpful. 1223 01:08:41,200 --> 01:08:44,200 Speaker 1: Steve always enjoys gives your email one more time. For 1224 01:08:44,280 --> 01:08:46,320 Speaker 1: people who would want a PDF of your boss. 1225 01:08:46,200 --> 01:08:47,280 Speaker 2: Sure the letter J J. 1226 01:08:47,479 --> 01:08:51,640 Speaker 3: Steve Miller at gmail dot com and now let me 1227 01:08:51,680 --> 01:08:53,639 Speaker 3: know if you need a copy. I send them out 1228 01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:58,120 Speaker 3: and appreciate your candid input. We have good conversations. 1229 01:08:58,320 --> 01:09:01,360 Speaker 1: You're awesome. Thanks brother. Hey, if you enjoyed this show, 1230 01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:04,840 Speaker 1: please hit that foll button on your podcast app. Most 1231 01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:07,080 Speaker 1: of you tuning in haven't done this yet, and it 1232 01:09:07,120 --> 01:09:09,960 Speaker 1: makes a huge difference in helping us reach and equip 1233 01:09:10,040 --> 01:09:13,120 Speaker 1: more people and build community. And please consider leaving a 1234 01:09:13,280 --> 01:09:17,280 Speaker 1: podcast review. Every review helps. 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