WEBVTT - Important Announcement: We're Making A Massive Life Change (Shabbat Shalom)

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<v Speaker 1>Man, Chabot Shaloon, Friends, Shabat Shaloon, and welcome back to

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<v Speaker 1>New Robots Who podcast. Mama, what's the reason I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>Shabat shalom to all of our friends out there?

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<v Speaker 2>We have been having a massive discussion this week about

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<v Speaker 2>observing the Sabbath and keeping it holy.

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<v Speaker 1>We've touched upon this before, and we said that we

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<v Speaker 1>were going to implement this for the new year of

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<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty six. It is now March and it is

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<v Speaker 1>still not happening.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we hadn't talked about Actually we talked about taking

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<v Speaker 2>more time off, but we've never talked about actually observing

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<v Speaker 2>a week.

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<v Speaker 1>I talked about it.

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<v Speaker 2>A day every week. We've talked about it full turn

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<v Speaker 2>everything off. I mean, yes, but we didn't call.

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<v Speaker 1>It that correct, right, So what prompted all of that

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<v Speaker 1>this week?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, this is going to make one particular person really angry.

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<v Speaker 2>So last week I made a joke about Cana's owens

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<v Speaker 2>and then this one gal got really mad and she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>can you ever do an episode and not talk about

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<v Speaker 2>Canda's owens.

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<v Speaker 1>She's doing it again.

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<v Speaker 2>No, So she released new shirt this week that says

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<v Speaker 2>Daddy's Home Shabat Shalom, and essentially it's making fun of

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<v Speaker 2>Erica Kirk saying that Charlie Kirk would say that every Friday.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not going to spend so much time on this.

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<v Speaker 3>I promise I'm not. So I thought, that's weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Did he say it, because like I remember him saying

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<v Speaker 2>it on a podcast. I used to watch all his podcasts,

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<v Speaker 2>And then Navea said no. At Young Women's Leadership when

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<v Speaker 2>I was there for Turning Point this last summer, he

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<v Speaker 2>gave a whole speech about the importance of the Sabbath

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<v Speaker 2>and observing the Sabbath with your family and why he

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<v Speaker 2>does it, and so.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought, yeah, that's what I thought.

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<v Speaker 2>So I kind of went down this little rabbit hole

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<v Speaker 2>trying to find him actually saying it, which I found

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<v Speaker 2>five different places in like five minutes.

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<v Speaker 3>It's very easy to verify.

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<v Speaker 2>But then I went a little deeper down the rabbit

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<v Speaker 2>hole and I thought.

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<v Speaker 3>He's onto something. This sounds like a great thing for

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<v Speaker 3>our family.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, it felt like he came up with it.

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<v Speaker 2>So I would just like to thank Candace Owens for

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<v Speaker 2>creating her I mean hearted shirt, which is leading me

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<v Speaker 2>to really investigate observing a sabbath for our family and

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<v Speaker 2>doing this every week, this is going to bring.

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<v Speaker 1>About a whole It has the potential to bring about

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<v Speaker 1>an entire discussion. Yes, about people in this industry, however

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<v Speaker 1>you want to refer to or think of this industry,

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<v Speaker 1>That will maybe table for now, because I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go off on something negative here to start. So

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<v Speaker 1>the primary motivation I think for us doing this is

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<v Speaker 1>somewhat of a mental health crisis. Can I call it that?

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<v Speaker 3>Sure?

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<v Speaker 1>I was listening to Tony Robbins just coincidentally. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>like I sought this out. It popped up in my

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<v Speaker 1>algorithm and it was attention grabbing clip and I listened

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<v Speaker 1>to it, and he basically addressed how all of these

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<v Speaker 1>conferences that he does, how he can very easily determine

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<v Speaker 1>that about ninety percent of the people in the room

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<v Speaker 1>are are suffering from some sort of a mental health

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<v Speaker 1>crisis that is being brought about primarily because of time

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<v Speaker 1>or just life stress. And I definitely think that we

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<v Speaker 1>fall into that category. And he explained that basically, so

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<v Speaker 1>many of us are experiencing this same mental anguish, but

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<v Speaker 1>we do such a great job of masking it right

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes to these face to face interactions that

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<v Speaker 1>we have with other people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, mind that the reports are that somewhere around

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<v Speaker 2>thirty percent of Americans, okay, are in a mental health crisis.

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<v Speaker 3>Now I think it's probably higher than that.

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<v Speaker 2>We just call it stress, or we call it depression,

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<v Speaker 2>or we call it being overstimulated or overwhelmed, or not

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<v Speaker 2>liking our job. There's different things that we call it

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<v Speaker 2>or label it, and really what it is is just

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<v Speaker 2>like the whole world crashing down on you and never

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<v Speaker 2>feeling like you can get ahead. And it's because we

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<v Speaker 2>have so many distractions and we never quit. I think

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<v Speaker 2>in America we just go, go, go, go go, especially

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<v Speaker 2>if you own your own business, anyone that owns their

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<v Speaker 2>own business, it just goes seven days a week because

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<v Speaker 2>you can never shut it off. And we're doing it

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<v Speaker 2>to our children. We're overbooking our kids. They go from

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<v Speaker 2>they get up at six o'clock in the morning and

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<v Speaker 2>it's go, go go. I mean I remember school mornings.

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<v Speaker 2>They were stressful and you were in a hurry and

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<v Speaker 2>you were trying to catch the bus and you were

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<v Speaker 2>trying to Mom was yelling it. You get your stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>get do you have your homework.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but we have avoided that. Yes, given how it

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<v Speaker 1>is that we have chosen to live. However, I would

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<v Speaker 1>still say that we suffer from the same affliction, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So why is that?

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<v Speaker 2>Because we work for ourselves and there's always something that

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<v Speaker 2>we can be doing, So we're always doing something and.

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<v Speaker 3>It has to do with the way we live.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, when you live on twenty acres and you have

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<v Speaker 2>a farm property, there's always something.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that keeps you busy, for sure, but that doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to co mingle with what it is that you

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<v Speaker 1>consider work. That's just your to do list, that those

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<v Speaker 1>are chores. I don't think of it the same way.

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<v Speaker 2>For if you're a blogger, you have made your life,

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<v Speaker 2>your content and your work.

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<v Speaker 1>A big part of my frustration, which is this entire concept,

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<v Speaker 1>is the fact that I will hold off on things

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<v Speaker 1>that I would like to get done around here because

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<v Speaker 1>everything does have the potential for us to record it

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<v Speaker 1>and turn it into a segment for our vlog channel,

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<v Speaker 1>Good Simple Living. And this is something that came up

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<v Speaker 1>in a discussion that you and I had of going

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<v Speaker 1>back a few days ago. Because most of the books,

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<v Speaker 1>everything it is that you guys see for us with

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<v Speaker 1>regard to running our own business, I guess you could say.

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<v Speaker 1>And in the latter part of last year, prior to

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<v Speaker 1>the new year, we had a discussion on here with

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<v Speaker 1>you guys about how we're going to take more time

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<v Speaker 1>off devote ourselves a family, and I was like, where's

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<v Speaker 1>the time off right, Which is a little awkward to

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<v Speaker 1>bring up on camera, but I've just been feeling like

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<v Speaker 1>this overwhelming sense lately of time slipping through my grasp.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think a lot of us feel that way,

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<v Speaker 1>especially the age that we are, but with having the

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<v Speaker 1>kids and having them get older. You know, I took

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<v Speaker 1>my money in for his driver's ed drive this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's what we had to devote pretty much like the

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<v Speaker 1>first half of our days year. And while I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>extatic and super happy and excited for him, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>help but at the same time, I feel as though,

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<v Speaker 1>like I can't I can't believe this is happening again,

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<v Speaker 1>Like this is so bizarre that our kids are growing

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<v Speaker 1>up in that we could potentially not only have him

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<v Speaker 1>for another couple of years before he decides.

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<v Speaker 2>To And then Baby Kira, and you've always called.

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<v Speaker 3>Her baby Kira, and all she's not a baby anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it's like a Midlight Prices type

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<v Speaker 1>of thing, or it's just it's you have a different

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<v Speaker 1>comprehension of time the older you get, and you know

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<v Speaker 1>how quickly you know everything moves along.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I think our kids are feeling in a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit too, like they're falling into the feeling overwhelmed.

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<v Speaker 2>And when you go seven days a week, you get

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<v Speaker 2>overwhelmed and it never ends, and you feel like you're

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<v Speaker 2>on this vicious cycle that just keeps going. Even if

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<v Speaker 2>you work Monday through Friday and you do have your

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<v Speaker 2>weekends off. Weekends are for catching up on laundry, cleaning

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<v Speaker 2>the house, getting grocery shopping, planning the kids for the

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<v Speaker 2>next week of school. I think anybody can relate to.

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<v Speaker 2>If you work for the weekend, your weekend isn't just free.

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<v Speaker 2>That's when you catch up and then Monday morning comes around.

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<v Speaker 1>That by itself is a lot. And to you that

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<v Speaker 1>analogy that we've applied to like our parenting in the

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<v Speaker 1>past is like, what it's it like having five kids?

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<v Speaker 1>Will picture your drowning. This is all a joke. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then someone hands you a baby. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>our life has just become like this conveyor belt of

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<v Speaker 1>things that need to get done. And that's great, don't

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<v Speaker 1>get me wrong. Like I'm not trying to come on

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<v Speaker 1>here and to gripe and complain. We're so incredibly fortunate

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to do what it is that we do,

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<v Speaker 1>and we have all of you out there to thank

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<v Speaker 1>for that opportunity. But there are times where it just

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<v Speaker 1>does become a lot, you know what I mean. It

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<v Speaker 1>feels like there's never a break. It is NonStop, and

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<v Speaker 1>it is so incredibly overwhelming.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I think that a lot of people that have

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<v Speaker 2>watched YouTube for a while, or watch the Internet for

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<v Speaker 2>a while are starting to see the creators that have

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<v Speaker 2>been around for a long time starting to step back

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<v Speaker 2>and starting to take massive breaks.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. For I'm sure a number of different reasons. But

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<v Speaker 1>every time I do see that and somebody I respect

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<v Speaker 1>it so much because.

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<v Speaker 2>They say they're going to and then they don't because

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<v Speaker 2>they can't get off the hamster.

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<v Speaker 3>It feels uncomfortable to step back.

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<v Speaker 1>What is your why? What is your motivation for? Because

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<v Speaker 1>you're somebody and I've referenced this on here before, is

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<v Speaker 1>you're somebody that's really hard to keep up with. You

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<v Speaker 1>are always looking ahead to the next thing, the next thing,

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<v Speaker 1>the next thing. I think, and this isn't a knock

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<v Speaker 1>on you. I think I'm somebody who's far more present.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that fair to say? Of like the here and now,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not going to worry so much about the future.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I feel like when we're in the

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<v Speaker 3>here and now now, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you worry about the future far more

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<v Speaker 2>like you almost dread the future.

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<v Speaker 1>I do have anxiety about the uncertainty of the future,

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<v Speaker 1>but at the same time, just because of that uncertainty,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to try to appreciate the present as much

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<v Speaker 1>as I possibly can, and that's always been really difficult

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<v Speaker 1>to do when I, like I said, you have that

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<v Speaker 1>conveyor belt of never ending to do's.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so hear me out on that go ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I might be a little more here

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<v Speaker 2>and now present intentionally, And that's why I don't feel

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<v Speaker 2>as much stress as you, because I do enjoy today,

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<v Speaker 2>and I feel like you feel guilt about looking towards

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<v Speaker 2>the future and you're mad that you're not enjoying today.

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<v Speaker 3>You want to, but you're not.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I have a lot of like present day

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<v Speaker 1>stress because I feel like something's off. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>there should be like our priorities should remain to where

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<v Speaker 1>we are maximizing the amount of time we possibly can,

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<v Speaker 1>especially when it comes to the kids. When I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, something is interfering with that, I just become

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<v Speaker 1>very conflicted and even frustrated at times.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, so you have brought up I want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Turn this into like like marriage therapy because it's sounding

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<v Speaker 1>that way.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to our therapy session. So you have on multiple

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<v Speaker 2>occasions brought up. We live somewhere where there's beautiful hikes.

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<v Speaker 2>Why don't we go hiking. I want to go fishing

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<v Speaker 2>with the kids. I want to go hunting with the kids.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to go boating more, I want to go

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<v Speaker 2>do you know all these things? And so I said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we have to have a designated day for this, and

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<v Speaker 2>then Candice made her shirt. Then I dug down the

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<v Speaker 2>rabbit hole and I went, we need a shabbot.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, there we go. That's how we got to where

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<v Speaker 1>it is that we are.

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<v Speaker 2>We need an intentional day off where we focus on

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<v Speaker 2>God and our family. And I think in focusing on

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<v Speaker 2>your family and focusing on your kids and our relationship

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<v Speaker 2>with one another.

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<v Speaker 3>You are honoring God.

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<v Speaker 2>That is focusing on God because he wants you to

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<v Speaker 2>focus on your little family and what's important and what

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<v Speaker 2>he's blessed you with.

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<v Speaker 1>And work is important. Yeah, don't get me wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>You work.

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<v Speaker 2>You shall work for six days and you shall rest

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<v Speaker 2>on the seventh.

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<v Speaker 1>But you can work eighteen hours a day if you

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<v Speaker 1>choose to do so. This is kind of my point.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, hey, let's be reasonable all about this, and again,

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<v Speaker 1>how can we just maximize our time? And when I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like we are allocating in our time in a

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<v Speaker 1>way that doesn't necessarily jive with my genuine, my true desires,

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<v Speaker 1>it again, it just creates some internal conflict.

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<v Speaker 2>So when we're talking about what we want to do

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<v Speaker 2>with taking a day of rest, a true day of rest,

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<v Speaker 2>it is turning off the router. No, because the big thing,

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<v Speaker 2>the big thing that drains your time is these freaking phones.

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<v Speaker 3>And those freaking routers and the stud WiFi.

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<v Speaker 2>It is the worst thing to happen to humanity and

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<v Speaker 2>the nuclear family and relationships. Husbands and wives just sit

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<v Speaker 2>there staring down at their screens.

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<v Speaker 3>You' all do it, you know you do, and then

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<v Speaker 3>your kids do it.

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<v Speaker 2>And then your kids come up to you and they

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<v Speaker 2>have something to show you or tell you.

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<v Speaker 3>And they have done studies where they hook up.

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<v Speaker 2>The brain with the little stickers and they will show

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<v Speaker 2>parents doom scrolling and they will show their kids come

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<v Speaker 2>up to them, and the anxiety and the annoyance levels

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<v Speaker 2>go up when your child approaches you. And then they

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<v Speaker 2>have parents just sitting on the couch having a conversation

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<v Speaker 2>or just you know, sitting there and their kids come

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<v Speaker 2>up to them and endorphins light up. They're happy to

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<v Speaker 2>see their children when they come up to them, but

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<v Speaker 2>when they're doom scrolling on their stupid phone, their annoyance

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<v Speaker 2>goes up. The problem is not with the child. The

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<v Speaker 2>problem is with the evil device.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's not just that. And I think that's something that,

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<v Speaker 1>like Melissa alludes to you, I think most of was

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<v Speaker 1>probably experienced that. Alwise you wouldn't be here watching us.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think it is all amplified when you operate

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<v Speaker 1>in the world that we have elected to operate and

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<v Speaker 1>to where you feel like you need to be up

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<v Speaker 1>on stuff, you need to be constantly checking, and you

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<v Speaker 1>don't refreshing and checking the status of things. And even

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<v Speaker 1>with this entire concept and idea of implementing this Sabbath

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<v Speaker 1>day with you and I were trying to establish when

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<v Speaker 1>it is that we could take this twenty four hour

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<v Speaker 1>period so to turn off the Wi fi everything aside,

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<v Speaker 1>and that was like we couldn't come up with.

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<v Speaker 2>It, Like, wait a minute, because we want to do

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<v Speaker 2>it on Saturday. I want to do it on the

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<v Speaker 2>day that got intended. I want to do it on

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<v Speaker 2>the last day of the weekend. And I'll get into why,

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<v Speaker 2>because I know Sunday is a traditional day of worship

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<v Speaker 2>for Christians, but to me, it's important to do it

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<v Speaker 2>on the day that God said to do it on

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<v Speaker 2>because I feel like his timing fright. I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>his map for humanity is correct. And I understand that

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<v Speaker 2>it was a covenant between God and the Jew and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not trying to step on those toes at all.

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<v Speaker 3>But I don't, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, I don't believe that we're under the law anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think you can take your Sabbath on a Monday,

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<v Speaker 2>you can take your Sabbath on a Friday, you can

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<v Speaker 2>take your sabbath not at all we're not mandated to

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<v Speaker 2>take a sabbath, but are there still benefits to it?

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely sure, which is why I'm completely in favor of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But with establishing Saturday, you know, that's the day that

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<v Speaker 1>we post on goods and living for those of you

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<v Speaker 1>who watch us over there, and releasing a video on YouTube,

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<v Speaker 1>at least for us, isn't as simple as just hitting

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<v Speaker 1>publish and or you know, public or whatever it is

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<v Speaker 1>and having the video go live. It's sitting there monitoring things,

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<v Speaker 1>tracking how a video is doing, having discussions before then

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<v Speaker 1>now we need to tweak something to make it perform better.

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<v Speaker 2>And talking back and forth with our audience too, if

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<v Speaker 2>you guys have questions or like what's the code for that?

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<v Speaker 3>Or why do you do this?

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<v Speaker 2>Like? We like to be there and be present and

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<v Speaker 2>be able to respond to you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>So generally we release at eight am Pacific standard time,

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<v Speaker 1>but we are sitting at our computer or we are

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone, trying to answer comments, monitor how the

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<v Speaker 1>video is doing for at least a few hours. Generally

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<v Speaker 1>I try to walk away from it by like ten

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<v Speaker 1>and that's not because of any of you out there,

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<v Speaker 1>So apologies if you are somebody who happens to watch

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<v Speaker 1>and common a couple hours after we release, because at

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<v Speaker 1>that point I just try to move on with my

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<v Speaker 1>day for my own health.

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<v Speaker 2>And Saturday, Yeah, so what we decided was we would

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<v Speaker 2>were going to continue posting on Saturday. So we'll post

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<v Speaker 2>at eight o'clock am Pacific Standard time on Saturday. We

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<v Speaker 2>will monitor it for two hours, and then ten am

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<v Speaker 2>Saturday morning, our.

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<v Speaker 3>Shabbot starts our day of rest.

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<v Speaker 2>And then Sunday at ten am, we will turn the

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<v Speaker 2>Wi Fi rider back on and then we'll you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll probably answer questions and things like that, I'll scroll

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<v Speaker 2>through and we'll be back with you. But for twenty

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<v Speaker 2>four hours, we are going to take time to be

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<v Speaker 2>with God and with our family and be intentional about

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<v Speaker 2>rest because rest is so important for everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone needs rest.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you're not intentional about it with Wi Fi

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<v Speaker 2>in your life, if Wi Fi streams through your home,

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<v Speaker 2>are not intentional about it, you're going to get distracted

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<v Speaker 2>and you're going to get pulled back in. All right,

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<v Speaker 3>And then I found Poncho Outdoors.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've been wearing their flannels this winter and these

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, Melissa said, it's true. I'm definitely somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>really appreciates function, and Posco shirts have some really cool

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<v Speaker 1>few of their ultra light shirts, which I know are

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<v Speaker 1>New World. Also podcast. What qualifies as rest to you?

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<v Speaker 1>Because rest and respite to me just means stepping away

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<v Speaker 1>from everything it is that we would ordinarily do. So

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<v Speaker 1>if I go outside and I help on the track,

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<v Speaker 1>or I help on my lawn mower, or I decide

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<v Speaker 1>to take the kids for a hike, is that acceptable?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>So I think so.

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<v Speaker 2>I have been trying to figure out what is an appropriate.

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<v Speaker 3>Charlie Kirk said, if I can walk into your.

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<v Speaker 2>Home on your sabbath and it looks like any other day,

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<v Speaker 2>then you're not doing it right.

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<v Speaker 1>Agreed, That's what he did.

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<v Speaker 2>Set it young women's leadership that Noville was listening to, and.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree with that. But also there is times in

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<v Speaker 3>the Bible where.

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<v Speaker 2>Jesus even corrected the Pharisees because the Pharisees took the

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<v Speaker 2>fourth commandment, you shall keep the sabbath and keep it holy, right,

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<v Speaker 2>that was the fourth commandment, and they were very.

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<v Speaker 3>Strict about it.

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<v Speaker 2>But they became so strict about it they became like

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<v Speaker 2>militant about it.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to do all of these things, and you

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<v Speaker 3>can't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you're if if you even hit a grain

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<v Speaker 2>of you know, wheat, and the grain falls to the

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<v Speaker 2>ground and plants itself, you have you have failed.

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<v Speaker 3>And so Jesus came back.

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<v Speaker 2>Not to abolish the sabbath, not to say this is

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<v Speaker 2>no longer important, this no longer benefits mankind.

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<v Speaker 3>He came back to clarify its intent.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's there's all these laws that you know, got

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<v Speaker 2>more and more and more strict, and it became a

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<v Speaker 2>source of judgment against the people you're doing this wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>And so he intentionally healed somebody on the Sabbath. His

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<v Speaker 2>disciples were criticized and shamed for grabbing some wheat and

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<v Speaker 2>eating it. Yeah, like you can't do that. You have

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<v Speaker 2>to have all your meals prepared and everything. Sabbath was

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<v Speaker 2>meant to bring peace and rest and family time. I think, like,

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<v Speaker 2>you weren't even supposed to leave your place of dwelling

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<v Speaker 2>on the Sabbath. You were supposed to stay home and

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<v Speaker 2>be with your family and reconnect with God.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think that's cool. But I we're not under

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<v Speaker 3>the law.

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<v Speaker 1>The law was the same time, I'm not saying that

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<v Speaker 1>it should be some you know, like it shouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>so stringent. But if I decided to take the kids

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<v Speaker 1>to go do something, or if I you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to hike, or if I use the example

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<v Speaker 1>I just throw out there, if I hop on the

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<v Speaker 1>tractor and I project that I just wanted to do

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<v Speaker 1>off camera, or I want to whatever it is is

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<v Speaker 1>work in the garden.

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<v Speaker 3>Does that bring you peace and rest?

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<v Speaker 1>It does. At the same time, I would say that

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<v Speaker 1>it's honoring God.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>So, I mean it's very important that we don't judge

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<v Speaker 2>people like us. Taking a Sabbath doesn't make us holier.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not going to stand before God and he's going

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<v Speaker 2>to say you honored the Sabbath. Therefore, this this merit

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<v Speaker 2>based you get to go to this higher level of heaven,

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<v Speaker 2>or you're you're holier, or you did better because you

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<v Speaker 2>observe the Sabbath with your family. We are no longer

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<v Speaker 2>under that, We're no longer under dietary laws or anything

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<v Speaker 2>like that. If you choose to eat kosher, if you

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<v Speaker 2>choose to honor a Sabbath, if you choose to to

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<v Speaker 2>continue on with these traditions, you are free to do so.

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<v Speaker 2>But you are not free to judge others that don't.

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<v Speaker 2>And you're not mandated to which means you're not under

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<v Speaker 2>the strict laws that once exists.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this isn't about judgment or comparison. I'm not doing

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<v Speaker 1>this for any other purpose than trying to honor God

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<v Speaker 1>in my own way, to devote myself to my family,

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<v Speaker 1>which in the you know, I think the also honors God.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So we said that our Sabbath was going to be

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<v Speaker 2>when we went out on the boat with our kids,

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<v Speaker 2>and when we take them out fishing for a whole day.

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<v Speaker 3>When we go out and.

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<v Speaker 2>We do every hike that's an Idaho because we live

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<v Speaker 2>there are so many waterfall hikes. Like, we want to

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<v Speaker 2>go out and hike in nature, not record it, and

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<v Speaker 2>just be with our family, pack sandwiches and have an

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<v Speaker 2>amazing day. And then I want to have a Shabbat

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<v Speaker 2>dinner and so and not in the traditional sense. We're

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<v Speaker 2>not going to have you know what people of the

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<v Speaker 2>Jewish faith would eat first Sabbath. We're going to have

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<v Speaker 2>pizza night, or we're going to or Kimani is going

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<v Speaker 2>to cook.

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<v Speaker 3>Kimoni's a really tremendous.

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<v Speaker 2>Cook and he loves to cook, but he needs like

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit of help still.

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<v Speaker 1>And everything he's made so far has been so good,

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<v Speaker 1>by far, the best meals that we we share it together.

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<v Speaker 2>Like crazy recipes. And then he gives me this list, right, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I encourage him, like it's such a cool thing for

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<v Speaker 1>him to tackle and take on it at fifteen years old.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so incredibly impressive what he's able to do already.

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<v Speaker 2>He read that of all the of the of all

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<v Speaker 2>the things that women find most attractive, it's being good

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<v Speaker 2>with kids and knowing how to cook.

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<v Speaker 1>He coverage.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like spending all this time with Micah and then.

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<v Speaker 3>He's learning how to cook really really good food.

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<v Speaker 1>He's good to Micah. He's so good, He's so sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>He's going to be the best. He's going to be

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<v Speaker 2>like the best little I'm going to be so protective.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, I'm going to need a shabbot just

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<v Speaker 2>to be nice to any girl that comes along to

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<v Speaker 2>steal my little boy's heart, because oh gosh, it's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be so hard.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be part of. This has me questioning what again,

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<v Speaker 1>our motivations are? What motivates you to continue on? Like

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<v Speaker 1>we've been on this treadmill for years now, what is

0:21:51.840 --> 0:21:53.800
<v Speaker 1>it that has kept you going? You're always looking ahead?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I said, whether it be like, hey, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>write another book this year, Like every time we think

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<v Speaker 1>like our plate is full, Melissa's like not, I can

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<v Speaker 1>fit more on there. Let's do this this year. How

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<v Speaker 1>about we we grow and expand and try to do

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<v Speaker 1>this And like I get that, you know you're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to balance on the opportunity that would have been blessed with,

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<v Speaker 1>but really, really is your your incentive. What is your

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<v Speaker 1>motivation here?

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<v Speaker 2>I enjoy it. It makes me excited to get up

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<v Speaker 2>in the morning. I'm somebody who really needs something to

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<v Speaker 2>do and something to work towards. And I don't like

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<v Speaker 2>the feeling of completion. I like having something that that

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<v Speaker 2>makes me excited to put my feet on the ground

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<v Speaker 2>that I'm working towards.

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<v Speaker 3>That's hard.

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<v Speaker 1>I would say we differ in that way. Would you agree? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think my motivation is at this point

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<v Speaker 1>the stage?

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<v Speaker 2>I think you want to live the life you imagined

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<v Speaker 2>and you feel like you've worked, You've worked up to

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<v Speaker 2>that point, and now you want to sit and be

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<v Speaker 2>in that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't just want to sit, It's not like but

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you want to.

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<v Speaker 3>You want to immerse yourself in that light that you dreamed.

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<v Speaker 1>About, for sure. But it's time more than any.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, time is about time.

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<v Speaker 1>For me.

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<v Speaker 3>Time is so important, value time more than anything else.

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<v Speaker 2>So I have I mean, I have a couple things,

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<v Speaker 2>like I do like to be working towards something. I

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<v Speaker 2>like to inspire the kids. And I think that we

0:23:08.640 --> 0:23:13.680
<v Speaker 2>have definitely done that writing a just writing a children's book,

0:23:13.800 --> 0:23:16.280
<v Speaker 2>and then like now I'm going to be writing a

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<v Speaker 2>second book. It's I like to show the kids that

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<v Speaker 2>they can do things that people don't really think they

0:23:22.840 --> 0:23:25.360
<v Speaker 2>can do. I never thought that I could actually write

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<v Speaker 2>a book. I always wanted to, but it's like, well, no,

0:23:27.320 --> 0:23:28.760
<v Speaker 2>only authors, right, I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>With you on that and all this is beyond my

0:23:30.800 --> 0:23:33.239
<v Speaker 1>wild the dreams, believe me. Yeah, everything it is that

0:23:33.280 --> 0:23:35.200
<v Speaker 1>we've managed to do over the past few years. However,

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time, I think that there is value

0:23:36.720 --> 0:23:39.880
<v Speaker 1>to come along with with prioritizing the things that I'm

0:23:39.920 --> 0:23:42.760
<v Speaker 1>speaking on as well that can serve as motivation or

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<v Speaker 1>an example to them when they are older and they

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<v Speaker 1>have their families of their own.

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<v Speaker 2>So things are going to start looking a little bit different.

0:23:48.520 --> 0:23:52.080
<v Speaker 2>We've decided that we're going to be taking a week

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<v Speaker 2>off a lot of months, maybe not every month. We

0:23:54.800 --> 0:23:57.399
<v Speaker 2>didn't take a week off in February or March, but

0:23:58.880 --> 0:24:02.200
<v Speaker 2>in April, in May, in June and July and August,

0:24:02.240 --> 0:24:04.359
<v Speaker 2>definitely over the holidays. We're going to be taking a

0:24:04.440 --> 0:24:06.719
<v Speaker 2>week off a month. So there might be three videos

0:24:06.760 --> 0:24:09.320
<v Speaker 2>instead of four because we want.

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<v Speaker 3>A block of time.

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<v Speaker 2>And in addition to that, we're going to be taking

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<v Speaker 2>every Saturday off. So if you try to reach us

0:24:15.920 --> 0:24:19.199
<v Speaker 2>on a Saturday. We are having our Shabbat and we

0:24:19.240 --> 0:24:19.919
<v Speaker 2>will get back.

0:24:19.800 --> 0:24:23.840
<v Speaker 3>To you on Sunday. It's just very important.

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<v Speaker 2>It's important for our marriage because we've kind of been

0:24:26.560 --> 0:24:27.720
<v Speaker 2>you want me to slow down.

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<v Speaker 3>I want you to catch up. And so we've had this.

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<v Speaker 2>Little battle where I think this is going to be

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<v Speaker 2>good for all of us, and our kids seem excited

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<v Speaker 2>about it too. At first, I thought they'd be resistant,

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<v Speaker 2>and when I first brought it up, they were like,

0:24:43.320 --> 0:24:46.280
<v Speaker 2>no Wi Fi twenty four hours mom, And it's like

0:24:46.320 --> 0:24:48.679
<v Speaker 2>I just started posting videos like I have to edit,

0:24:48.800 --> 0:24:49.800
<v Speaker 2>I have to end.

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<v Speaker 3>Every went oh wow, like that's going to be hard.

0:24:52.520 --> 0:24:54.440
<v Speaker 2>And then the more we talked about it, the more

0:24:54.440 --> 0:24:56.320
<v Speaker 2>they were all like, well, what day, what hours? Okay,

0:24:56.359 --> 0:24:58.840
<v Speaker 2>this is going to be They see the value in it,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think if we can instill that in them

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<v Speaker 2>when they're young, that rest and time with God and

0:25:05.280 --> 0:25:10.239
<v Speaker 2>prioritizing their family and knowing when to stop. Like, if

0:25:10.280 --> 0:25:11.960
<v Speaker 2>we can instill that in them WHI when they're young,

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<v Speaker 2>it will hopefully carry on because I told them I

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<v Speaker 2>have this dream that we continue this as a family.

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<v Speaker 3>If you move away, it's your.

0:25:19.400 --> 0:25:24.560
<v Speaker 2>Choice to continue it or not the Saturday tradition of rest,

0:25:25.080 --> 0:25:27.040
<v Speaker 2>because how cool would it be if.

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<v Speaker 3>We actually end up.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's more work building that outdoor pizza of

0:25:30.480 --> 0:25:34.240
<v Speaker 2>and I've been talking about and every Saturday for Shabat dinner,

0:25:34.400 --> 0:25:36.240
<v Speaker 2>our kids and our grandkids come over and we have

0:25:36.280 --> 0:25:39.159
<v Speaker 2>pizza and we do a Bible study and it's just

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<v Speaker 2>the day that our family gets together.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds great and we can get there, but there's

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<v Speaker 1>no there's not that same sense of urgency with me

0:25:46.080 --> 0:25:48.320
<v Speaker 1>in my mind. I'm like, no, we'll get there. Yeah,

0:25:48.359 --> 0:25:49.680
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. It's not a matter of

0:25:49.760 --> 0:25:51.120
<v Speaker 1>that it needs to be balls of the wall as

0:25:51.119 --> 0:25:53.399
<v Speaker 1>it has been for the last six years.

0:25:53.560 --> 0:25:53.760
<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to have this rest time too, and I

0:25:56.720 --> 0:25:59.280
<v Speaker 2>think it's going to be really good for our family.

0:25:59.320 --> 0:26:03.280
<v Speaker 2>It's going to intentionally give us that time to go

0:26:03.359 --> 0:26:05.280
<v Speaker 2>do those hikes that we've been talking about, to take

0:26:05.280 --> 0:26:07.639
<v Speaker 2>those family walks, to ride horses in.

0:26:08.320 --> 0:26:12.000
<v Speaker 1>Blessing that is, we have afforded ourselves that opportunity. What

0:26:12.119 --> 0:26:13.760
<v Speaker 1>good is it if you don't take advantage of it.

0:26:14.000 --> 0:26:18.119
<v Speaker 2>And it's God's design And I think he rested on

0:26:18.160 --> 0:26:20.679
<v Speaker 2>the seventh Day, but I think he knew that the

0:26:20.800 --> 0:26:24.120
<v Speaker 2>nature of man was always going to be more. It's

0:26:24.240 --> 0:26:26.560
<v Speaker 2>part of our fallen nature to always want more, to

0:26:26.640 --> 0:26:29.280
<v Speaker 2>always strive for more. And it's not necessarily a good thing,

0:26:29.480 --> 0:26:32.960
<v Speaker 2>and so he mandated, but he made it the law

0:26:33.720 --> 0:26:39.359
<v Speaker 2>that the Jewish people rested because he saw the importance

0:26:39.359 --> 0:26:41.280
<v Speaker 2>of it. He knew, this is so important that you

0:26:41.400 --> 0:26:44.080
<v Speaker 2>have this time to reconnect with me, to reconnect with

0:26:44.119 --> 0:26:46.680
<v Speaker 2>your family, and to find peace and then get back

0:26:46.680 --> 0:26:46.960
<v Speaker 2>to work.

0:26:47.000 --> 0:26:49.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because everything else is a distraction.

0:26:48.880 --> 0:26:52.879
<v Speaker 2>Right, And everybody that I hear, I mean, if you

0:26:53.560 --> 0:26:56.000
<v Speaker 2>actually Charlie kirkch just wrote a book, well, he wrote

0:26:56.000 --> 0:26:58.480
<v Speaker 2>a book. He was talking about it in July and

0:26:58.520 --> 0:27:01.440
<v Speaker 2>it came out of Christmas time, after he had passed away.

0:27:01.880 --> 0:27:03.560
<v Speaker 3>And it's called Stop in the Name of God.

0:27:03.600 --> 0:27:05.280
<v Speaker 2>And I want to order it on Amazon and read

0:27:05.280 --> 0:27:07.240
<v Speaker 2>it because I know it's going to make me even

0:27:07.280 --> 0:27:08.879
<v Speaker 2>more excited about it. I haven't read the book. I

0:27:08.920 --> 0:27:10.480
<v Speaker 2>don't know if any of you guys have read the book.

0:27:10.520 --> 0:27:13.720
<v Speaker 2>But he said that it changed his family and his

0:27:13.760 --> 0:27:17.040
<v Speaker 2>life and his stress level so much by taking an

0:27:17.080 --> 0:27:20.040
<v Speaker 2>intentional day turning everything off that he would literally take

0:27:20.080 --> 0:27:23.399
<v Speaker 2>his phone put it in the junk drawer and say

0:27:23.480 --> 0:27:25.720
<v Speaker 2>he would walk through the door, tell his daughter daddy's

0:27:25.760 --> 0:27:28.679
<v Speaker 2>home Shabat shalom. And then at the end of his

0:27:28.720 --> 0:27:31.399
<v Speaker 2>podcast on Friday, you can go watch his Friday podcast,

0:27:31.480 --> 0:27:33.880
<v Speaker 2>he'd go, Shabat shaloon. Everyone, go turn your phones off,

0:27:34.000 --> 0:27:36.280
<v Speaker 2>go spend time with God and family, enjoy your weekend.

0:27:36.400 --> 0:27:38.840
<v Speaker 2>We'll see you back on Monday. And he was excited,

0:27:38.880 --> 0:27:40.399
<v Speaker 2>you could tell, like he was so excited for that

0:27:40.440 --> 0:27:40.760
<v Speaker 2>time on.

0:27:40.880 --> 0:27:44.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I admire it so much, between him serving as

0:27:44.560 --> 0:27:47.480
<v Speaker 1>an example and people like bench Perils telling you about

0:27:47.480 --> 0:27:49.439
<v Speaker 1>how he and everything he does and is.

0:27:49.480 --> 0:27:50.840
<v Speaker 3>Jewish breaker off.

0:27:51.040 --> 0:27:53.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they have no power even in their house. But

0:27:53.240 --> 0:27:54.800
<v Speaker 1>he was explaining how even you know, when he just

0:27:54.840 --> 0:27:56.880
<v Speaker 1>takes a sip of his water or tea or whatever

0:27:56.880 --> 0:27:59.560
<v Speaker 1>beverage he's enjoying, he takes a second to thank God

0:28:00.160 --> 0:28:03.879
<v Speaker 1>for his now and for that drink. And like, I

0:28:03.920 --> 0:28:08.320
<v Speaker 1>admire that tremendously because you're keeping God at the forefront.

0:28:08.359 --> 0:28:13.040
<v Speaker 1>And like I said, we're bombarded constantly, NonStop with distractions,

0:28:13.119 --> 0:28:16.199
<v Speaker 1>especially when it comes to things like our phones, and

0:28:16.280 --> 0:28:18.240
<v Speaker 1>so to cast all this hide it's something that I

0:28:18.400 --> 0:28:21.240
<v Speaker 1>just I'm a yearn for it, all.

0:28:21.200 --> 0:28:22.320
<v Speaker 3>Right, Parents, and grandparents.

0:28:22.320 --> 0:28:24.600
<v Speaker 2>Easter is just around the corner, which means we're all

0:28:24.640 --> 0:28:26.920
<v Speaker 2>starting to fill those baskets for all of the little.

0:28:26.680 --> 0:28:27.520
<v Speaker 3>Ones in our lives.

0:28:27.560 --> 0:28:27.720
<v Speaker 1>Now.

0:28:27.760 --> 0:28:30.960
<v Speaker 2>For many kids today, Easter means egg hunts, candies, and

0:28:31.040 --> 0:28:33.280
<v Speaker 2>of course the Easter Buddy. Now, these are all really

0:28:33.280 --> 0:28:36.280
<v Speaker 2>fun traditions, but they can also overshadow the true meaning

0:28:36.520 --> 0:28:39.400
<v Speaker 2>of why we celebrate Easter and how the resurrection of

0:28:39.480 --> 0:28:41.160
<v Speaker 2>Jesus changed everything.

0:28:41.240 --> 0:28:42.880
<v Speaker 1>So this used to trying to find the perfect basket

0:28:42.960 --> 0:28:44.920
<v Speaker 1>stuffer is definitely go. Check out the incredible story that

0:28:44.920 --> 0:28:48.400
<v Speaker 1>Brave Books just released from Christian Apologists Melissa Doherty called

0:28:48.440 --> 0:28:50.520
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0:28:50.560 --> 0:28:53.200
<v Speaker 1>explain the real story of Easter and the Gospel behind it.

0:28:53.280 --> 0:28:54.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, The Day They Made the Way is such a

0:28:54.960 --> 0:28:58.200
<v Speaker 2>sweet story about creatures living in darkness until light enters

0:28:58.200 --> 0:29:02.640
<v Speaker 2>the world, helping kids understand big Biblical ideas like sin, redemption,

0:29:02.920 --> 0:29:05.600
<v Speaker 2>and why Jesus had to die and rise again. Also,

0:29:05.680 --> 0:29:07.800
<v Speaker 2>you have just this week to order to make sure

0:29:07.880 --> 0:29:09.320
<v Speaker 2>that you have it in time for Easter.

0:29:09.480 --> 0:29:11.320
<v Speaker 1>In addition to the Day That Made the Way, Brave

0:29:11.320 --> 0:29:13.680
<v Speaker 1>also has a very sweet Easter bundle that is perfect

0:29:13.680 --> 0:29:16.000
<v Speaker 1>for every basket. This year we got the whole bundle.

0:29:16.000 --> 0:29:19.680
<v Speaker 1>There are two incredible books, a coloring book, activity book, stickers,

0:29:19.720 --> 0:29:22.240
<v Speaker 1>and the cutest, softest bunny. Just add some sweets and

0:29:22.280 --> 0:29:24.040
<v Speaker 1>you we all sit with basket stuffers that are not

0:29:24.080 --> 0:29:26.760
<v Speaker 1>going delight but also teach about the true meaning of Easter.

0:29:26.960 --> 0:29:27.400
<v Speaker 3>That's right.

0:29:27.400 --> 0:29:29.480
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0:29:29.480 --> 0:29:31.440
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0:29:31.480 --> 0:29:33.720
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0:29:33.800 --> 0:29:36.600
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0:29:36.640 --> 0:29:40.240
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0:29:40.400 --> 0:29:43.480
<v Speaker 2>When you go to Brave books dot com, slash Easter and.

0:29:43.480 --> 0:29:46.280
<v Speaker 3>Remember to order this week to ensure Easter delivery.

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<v Speaker 2>So Sunday would have been the obvious day because we're

0:29:49.240 --> 0:29:51.640
<v Speaker 2>Christians and that's the Christian day of worship. So that

0:29:51.720 --> 0:29:54.080
<v Speaker 2>led me down another rabbit hole of like, why do

0:29:54.320 --> 0:29:57.320
<v Speaker 2>Christian celebrate on Sunday instead of Saturday? And was it

0:29:57.440 --> 0:30:01.520
<v Speaker 2>literally just because well, and then I heard a lot

0:30:01.520 --> 0:30:04.280
<v Speaker 2>of Jewish people onlan say Christian should not be taking

0:30:04.760 --> 0:30:07.480
<v Speaker 2>a sabbath on Saturday. That was a covenant between God

0:30:07.520 --> 0:30:10.160
<v Speaker 2>and Jews, and they believe that covenant is still in place,

0:30:10.200 --> 0:30:12.560
<v Speaker 2>and so that's why they still observe the Sabbath and

0:30:13.040 --> 0:30:15.880
<v Speaker 2>they're still do it with all of the rituals and

0:30:15.880 --> 0:30:20.800
<v Speaker 2>the traditions, and I mean, I would argue that that

0:30:21.560 --> 0:30:25.720
<v Speaker 2>Sabbath and rest is for mankind. God created all of us,

0:30:26.000 --> 0:30:31.840
<v Speaker 2>and yes, it was a covenant, but once Jesus rose again,

0:30:32.120 --> 0:30:35.920
<v Speaker 2>like we're you know, the law was fulfilled. Now if

0:30:35.920 --> 0:30:38.520
<v Speaker 2>you're of the Jewish faith, that you don't believe that obviously,

0:30:38.960 --> 0:30:42.400
<v Speaker 2>and that's fine. I'm not here to debate Judaism versus Christianity.

0:30:42.680 --> 0:30:44.640
<v Speaker 2>But it kind of led me down this, like, so

0:30:44.640 --> 0:30:47.560
<v Speaker 2>why is it that the Christian celebrates Sunday. And then

0:30:47.640 --> 0:30:50.719
<v Speaker 2>it all started like a very long time ago, where

0:30:51.000 --> 0:30:56.200
<v Speaker 2>like the Roman Empire Constantine or the Roman Emperor Constantine,

0:30:56.240 --> 0:30:59.040
<v Speaker 2>he used to worship the Son. He was a son worshiper,

0:30:59.280 --> 0:31:01.880
<v Speaker 2>and that was like a pagan religion in Rome. And

0:31:01.920 --> 0:31:05.160
<v Speaker 2>then in three twenty one AD, well a few years

0:31:05.160 --> 0:31:08.840
<v Speaker 2>before that, he converted to Christianity, and so the Roman

0:31:08.840 --> 0:31:11.640
<v Speaker 2>Empire were still Pagans, but then he was a Christian

0:31:11.640 --> 0:31:14.320
<v Speaker 2>and he was watching Christians be persecuted and literally thrown

0:31:14.360 --> 0:31:17.120
<v Speaker 2>into the arena to be killed because that's what they

0:31:17.120 --> 0:31:19.360
<v Speaker 2>did with a lot of Christians and slaves to entertain them.

0:31:19.760 --> 0:31:25.440
<v Speaker 2>And so to try to kind of marry the pagan

0:31:25.480 --> 0:31:30.160
<v Speaker 2>religion to the Christian religion and have peace in his empire.

0:31:30.960 --> 0:31:33.600
<v Speaker 2>He said, Sunday is the day of worship. So whether

0:31:33.600 --> 0:31:37.280
<v Speaker 2>you worship the Sun, the sun God Sunday the day

0:31:37.320 --> 0:31:41.240
<v Speaker 2>of the Sun, or you worship Christ. Because the Christians

0:31:41.280 --> 0:31:44.720
<v Speaker 2>were all worshiping Christ on Sunday, this is going to

0:31:44.760 --> 0:31:47.440
<v Speaker 2>be this day of worship. Shops will be closed, and

0:31:47.560 --> 0:31:48.680
<v Speaker 2>you can't persecute anyone.

0:31:48.720 --> 0:31:49.320
<v Speaker 3>Nobody can.

0:31:49.560 --> 0:31:52.160
<v Speaker 2>So like you kind of was like pardoning Christians, like,

0:31:52.320 --> 0:31:54.360
<v Speaker 2>we can't persecute Christians on this day, it's their day

0:31:54.360 --> 0:31:56.960
<v Speaker 2>of worship. But really what he was doing was trying

0:31:56.960 --> 0:31:59.360
<v Speaker 2>to be friendly with the Christians because he was.

0:31:59.680 --> 0:32:06.720
<v Speaker 1>Convert my little historical bride here. So I just I.

0:32:06.960 --> 0:32:10.040
<v Speaker 3>Dove down rabbit holes this week, okay. But then it

0:32:10.120 --> 0:32:12.680
<v Speaker 3>became a persecution against the Jews.

0:32:12.720 --> 0:32:15.600
<v Speaker 2>So then it became okay, if you're not celebrating on

0:32:15.680 --> 0:32:17.320
<v Speaker 2>Sunday and you're celebrating on.

0:32:17.280 --> 0:32:19.120
<v Speaker 3>Saturday, oh, those are the Jewish people.

0:32:19.160 --> 0:32:22.320
<v Speaker 2>And then they started to persecute Jews that celebrated on

0:32:22.360 --> 0:32:25.960
<v Speaker 2>Saturday and force them to celebrate on Sunday. So they

0:32:26.080 --> 0:32:29.320
<v Speaker 2>literally have now gone back to a Saturday Sabbath. But

0:32:29.320 --> 0:32:31.880
<v Speaker 2>they were celebrating on Sunday because they were persecuted or

0:32:31.880 --> 0:32:35.800
<v Speaker 2>excommunicated out of Rome if they tried to celebrate on

0:32:36.040 --> 0:32:38.960
<v Speaker 2>the Jewish tradition of Saturday.

0:32:38.600 --> 0:32:40.440
<v Speaker 1>Doesn't really matter. There's seven days in a week.

0:32:40.600 --> 0:32:44.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, I feel like, do we want to

0:32:44.040 --> 0:32:47.280
<v Speaker 2>be traditional with doing Saturday the last day of the week.

0:32:47.320 --> 0:32:49.840
<v Speaker 2>It's God intended he rested on the seventh day. I

0:32:49.880 --> 0:32:52.360
<v Speaker 2>feel like God's timing is always perfect. So I've been

0:32:52.440 --> 0:32:55.920
<v Speaker 2>tortured all week with this. But then it's like, but

0:32:56.000 --> 0:32:58.880
<v Speaker 2>if you go back two hundred years earlier, there was

0:32:58.960 --> 0:33:02.040
<v Speaker 2>somebody just just in Martyr and wonder what his parents,

0:33:02.040 --> 0:33:04.160
<v Speaker 2>what happened to his parents. I'm not having the last

0:33:04.200 --> 0:33:05.920
<v Speaker 2>name of martyr back then. So this is like one

0:33:06.000 --> 0:33:09.920
<v Speaker 2>hundred years after Christ died. He wrote that he noticed

0:33:10.000 --> 0:33:14.080
<v Speaker 2>Christians were celebrating on Sunday because it was Resurrection Day,

0:33:14.120 --> 0:33:14.560
<v Speaker 2>it was the.

0:33:14.560 --> 0:33:15.440
<v Speaker 3>Day of our Lord.

0:33:16.000 --> 0:33:20.200
<v Speaker 2>So long before Constantine said we have to celebrate on Sunday,

0:33:20.440 --> 0:33:24.040
<v Speaker 2>Christians were already celebrating on Sunday. So I feel like

0:33:24.080 --> 0:33:26.400
<v Speaker 2>you could do it Saturday or Sunday. There is no

0:33:26.520 --> 0:33:28.479
<v Speaker 2>right or wrong answer, because we're not under the law,

0:33:28.520 --> 0:33:32.240
<v Speaker 2>we're not under the Jewish tradition. Do it for peace,

0:33:32.600 --> 0:33:35.120
<v Speaker 2>do it for God, do it for your family, or

0:33:35.200 --> 0:33:37.959
<v Speaker 2>don't do it because you don't have to agree.

0:33:38.200 --> 0:33:40.400
<v Speaker 1>Are you disturbed as I am that it was so

0:33:40.440 --> 0:33:42.320
<v Speaker 1>difficult for us to find a twenty four hour period,

0:33:42.440 --> 0:33:46.280
<v Speaker 1>like a Saturday sun up to sundown to implement all this.

0:33:46.200 --> 0:33:49.040
<v Speaker 2>Because we're so busy and we do we work seven

0:33:49.120 --> 0:33:51.840
<v Speaker 2>days a week that we had to shuffle stuff in

0:33:51.920 --> 0:33:55.719
<v Speaker 2>different directions. Okay on Saturday, this can go on Friday,

0:33:55.720 --> 0:33:57.880
<v Speaker 2>and then this can extend to Sunday and then this

0:33:57.920 --> 0:34:01.840
<v Speaker 2>will just not do anymore. And you know, so we

0:34:01.880 --> 0:34:05.520
<v Speaker 2>had to like we had to clean the slate and

0:34:05.640 --> 0:34:08.359
<v Speaker 2>move stuff, and it was very difficult. And I think

0:34:08.440 --> 0:34:10.520
<v Speaker 2>anyone's going to find that difficult. Like people could be

0:34:10.520 --> 0:34:13.520
<v Speaker 2>listening to this, going, I work Monday through Friday, Saturday,

0:34:13.560 --> 0:34:17.000
<v Speaker 2>I go grocery shopping, I catch up on all my laundry.

0:34:17.480 --> 0:34:19.040
<v Speaker 2>I you know, I do all the stuff. Or her

0:34:19.040 --> 0:34:20.400
<v Speaker 2>guys might be going, I'm not doing.

0:34:20.239 --> 0:34:23.319
<v Speaker 1>Sunday, We're on laundry or any of the things that

0:34:23.360 --> 0:34:25.960
<v Speaker 1>you're laying out here ever, right, which which again is

0:34:25.960 --> 0:34:27.640
<v Speaker 1>part of the problem. We can't find the time to

0:34:27.640 --> 0:34:28.959
<v Speaker 1>do even these very basic things.

0:34:29.040 --> 0:34:31.080
<v Speaker 2>So you have to say, Okay, if I do all

0:34:31.120 --> 0:34:33.600
<v Speaker 2>my laundry on Saturday, can I do it on Sunday?

0:34:34.080 --> 0:34:36.600
<v Speaker 3>Or can I do a load on Friday and a

0:34:36.640 --> 0:34:37.360
<v Speaker 3>load on Sunday.

0:34:37.400 --> 0:34:38.320
<v Speaker 1>First world problems.

0:34:38.640 --> 0:34:41.360
<v Speaker 3>But I'm just saying, like, you have to like squish

0:34:41.400 --> 0:34:41.799
<v Speaker 3>it out.

0:34:42.440 --> 0:34:45.319
<v Speaker 2>You have to get rid of the stuff that's work,

0:34:45.640 --> 0:34:47.600
<v Speaker 2>and you have to only keep the stuff that brings

0:34:47.640 --> 0:34:50.960
<v Speaker 2>you have to Maria Condo, your Saturday you have.

0:34:51.080 --> 0:34:53.520
<v Speaker 3>If it doesn't bring you peace, you got it, you

0:34:53.560 --> 0:34:54.800
<v Speaker 3>got to give it to the thrift store.

0:34:55.239 --> 0:34:57.160
<v Speaker 1>Now I'm looking forward to it. Though you have more

0:34:57.680 --> 0:34:59.400
<v Speaker 1>on the historian front there on the.

0:34:59.360 --> 0:35:02.160
<v Speaker 2>Paper, and I could go on and on all It's

0:35:02.280 --> 0:35:06.239
<v Speaker 2>just a lot of people will argue when they hear

0:35:06.320 --> 0:35:09.479
<v Speaker 2>this podcast that the Sabbath is no longer biblical because

0:35:09.520 --> 0:35:11.719
<v Speaker 2>when Jesus died, the law was fulfilled and we don't

0:35:11.719 --> 0:35:13.000
<v Speaker 2>need to practice it anymore.

0:35:13.400 --> 0:35:15.400
<v Speaker 3>I will argue that all.

0:35:15.200 --> 0:35:19.320
<v Speaker 2>Of the apostles still observed the Sabbath after Christ's resurrection

0:35:19.960 --> 0:35:25.960
<v Speaker 2>and the apostle Paul, who knew that Christ was the Christ,

0:35:26.320 --> 0:35:28.680
<v Speaker 2>he knew that he was resurrected. He was literally the

0:35:28.719 --> 0:35:34.560
<v Speaker 2>apostle to the gentile, still observed the Sabbath after so

0:35:34.600 --> 0:35:36.440
<v Speaker 2>he knew that the law had been fulfilled, but he

0:35:36.480 --> 0:35:38.480
<v Speaker 2>still saw the importance in it. So I don't think

0:35:38.480 --> 0:35:40.560
<v Speaker 2>that Christ came to abolish the Sabbath.

0:35:41.000 --> 0:35:42.360
<v Speaker 3>I mean you could.

0:35:42.120 --> 0:35:44.280
<v Speaker 2>Say, like, oh, we're not damned by the law anymore,

0:35:44.320 --> 0:35:47.359
<v Speaker 2>but does that make it no longer important? I mean,

0:35:47.520 --> 0:35:50.200
<v Speaker 2>you can't just go out there and lie, cheat, steel, murder,

0:35:50.280 --> 0:35:54.880
<v Speaker 2>covet and then take your you know, take your neighbor's

0:35:54.880 --> 0:35:58.640
<v Speaker 2>wife and his sports car because Christ died.

0:35:58.840 --> 0:36:01.040
<v Speaker 1>And I just felt the degree to it. Like I

0:36:01.080 --> 0:36:03.160
<v Speaker 1>told you, there was an analogy that was made about

0:36:03.520 --> 0:36:06.040
<v Speaker 1>people and how we're all so internally conflicted, and that

0:36:06.080 --> 0:36:08.319
<v Speaker 1>happiness resides somewhere in between what it is that we

0:36:08.360 --> 0:36:10.440
<v Speaker 1>say we would like to do, or ideally what it

0:36:10.480 --> 0:36:12.080
<v Speaker 1>is we would like to be doing, with how it

0:36:12.080 --> 0:36:13.840
<v Speaker 1>does that we spend and redeem our time versus what

0:36:13.840 --> 0:36:16.120
<v Speaker 1>it is that we actually do. And so few of

0:36:16.239 --> 0:36:20.359
<v Speaker 1>us actually live out our lives the way that we

0:36:20.440 --> 0:36:22.799
<v Speaker 1>ideally would like to. And I don't know what the

0:36:22.840 --> 0:36:26.920
<v Speaker 1>reasoning for that is, whether it be laziness or just distractions.

0:36:27.520 --> 0:36:32.160
<v Speaker 1>But I'm trying to make that discrepancy as little as

0:36:32.160 --> 0:36:35.120
<v Speaker 1>I possibly can, because every time we seem to take

0:36:35.160 --> 0:36:37.440
<v Speaker 1>on more, like I spend a second ago, the broader

0:36:37.840 --> 0:36:42.040
<v Speaker 1>that discrepancy becomes, it just serves more so as a

0:36:42.080 --> 0:36:46.960
<v Speaker 1>recipe for not misery, but just some mense and emotional anguish,

0:36:47.040 --> 0:36:48.520
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. Again, I'm not trying to

0:36:48.520 --> 0:36:50.760
<v Speaker 1>be too heavy handed with like I'm I'm not complaining.

0:36:50.800 --> 0:36:52.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm very grateful for everything it is that we have

0:36:52.880 --> 0:36:54.680
<v Speaker 1>in our life, but it doesn't mean that you can't

0:36:54.680 --> 0:36:56.480
<v Speaker 1>also improve upon things, right.

0:36:56.520 --> 0:36:58.480
<v Speaker 2>I think, Yeah, I think anybody can improve on their

0:36:58.480 --> 0:37:00.759
<v Speaker 2>schedule and on their priority life, and on their time

0:37:00.800 --> 0:37:03.600
<v Speaker 2>with their family, and on their marriage, and on their

0:37:03.600 --> 0:37:07.640
<v Speaker 2>time with their aging parents. There is always somewhere where

0:37:07.680 --> 0:37:10.920
<v Speaker 2>you can improve. And so I love that we're going

0:37:11.000 --> 0:37:13.200
<v Speaker 2>to do this. We're going to stick to it, and

0:37:13.320 --> 0:37:16.000
<v Speaker 2>it's going to be very easy in the beginning before

0:37:16.040 --> 0:37:18.080
<v Speaker 2>it becomes a habit, because it takes a long time

0:37:18.120 --> 0:37:19.080
<v Speaker 2>to form a new habit.

0:37:19.880 --> 0:37:21.960
<v Speaker 1>Note, what fears do you have going into this?

0:37:22.000 --> 0:37:24.520
<v Speaker 2>Do you have any my fear going into it is

0:37:24.520 --> 0:37:26.440
<v Speaker 2>that we're going to be tempted to.

0:37:27.880 --> 0:37:29.040
<v Speaker 3>Put stuff in there that we.

0:37:29.000 --> 0:37:31.439
<v Speaker 2>Go, well, this doesn't really work or it's okay, or

0:37:31.640 --> 0:37:33.080
<v Speaker 2>oh my gosh, something major.

0:37:32.920 --> 0:37:34.680
<v Speaker 3>Happen, Like we have to monitor this.

0:37:34.920 --> 0:37:38.840
<v Speaker 2>Like so, my fear is before it becomes a true

0:37:38.880 --> 0:37:41.800
<v Speaker 2>habit and we see the fruits of it in our lives,

0:37:42.120 --> 0:37:45.560
<v Speaker 2>that we're going to be tempted to cheat or justify how.

0:37:45.440 --> 0:37:47.960
<v Speaker 1>About it qualifying our schedule? Are you afraid of like

0:37:48.040 --> 0:37:51.239
<v Speaker 1>falling behind, not not just for ourselves and our level

0:37:51.239 --> 0:37:55.080
<v Speaker 1>of expectation, but with the drawing comparison to others and

0:37:55.360 --> 0:37:58.240
<v Speaker 1>this feeling of competitiveness. I read through a comment thread

0:37:58.360 --> 0:38:00.839
<v Speaker 1>on another video that I don't want to res directly about,

0:38:00.840 --> 0:38:05.840
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0:38:08.200 --> 0:38:12.400
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<v Speaker 2>I think content creators care far more about who's getting

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<v Speaker 1>Are and following feelings and having these feelings as though

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<v Speaker 1>That's why time is more valuable.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, And so I would say that you just have

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0:41:07.000 --> 0:41:09.080
<v Speaker 2>compare yourself to someone doing more than you.

0:41:09.560 --> 0:41:12.440
<v Speaker 1>I was struck by it, I guess because it's it's

0:41:12.600 --> 0:41:17.480
<v Speaker 1>a very it's a thing like competition in any space,

0:41:17.520 --> 0:41:18.360
<v Speaker 1>in any industry.

0:41:18.560 --> 0:41:19.719
<v Speaker 3>Yes, sports are like that.

0:41:19.840 --> 0:41:21.920
<v Speaker 1>It serves as a like driving force of motivation, so

0:41:22.000 --> 0:41:23.480
<v Speaker 1>oftentimes for people.

0:41:23.200 --> 0:41:26.160
<v Speaker 2>In US restaurants, so like, that's why restaurants used to

0:41:26.160 --> 0:41:28.920
<v Speaker 2>close on Sunday. Shops used to close on Sunday, but

0:41:28.960 --> 0:41:32.000
<v Speaker 2>then it became, oh well, Joe across the street stays

0:41:32.040 --> 0:41:34.320
<v Speaker 2>open on Sunday, so we need to stay open on Sunday.

0:41:34.360 --> 0:41:36.239
<v Speaker 1>But I think because in the online world, you don't

0:41:36.239 --> 0:41:37.960
<v Speaker 1>have anything tangible, it's not like a brick and mortar

0:41:38.000 --> 0:41:39.799
<v Speaker 1>type of location. I think people are just kind of

0:41:39.800 --> 0:41:44.240
<v Speaker 1>oblivious to that. But it is a highly competitive space,

0:41:44.480 --> 0:41:46.960
<v Speaker 1>and that brings about the worst in people. A lot

0:41:47.000 --> 0:41:48.160
<v Speaker 1>of times it brings up.

0:41:48.600 --> 0:41:50.719
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it brings about the worst in people. And I

0:41:50.719 --> 0:41:51.040
<v Speaker 3>mean it.

0:41:51.320 --> 0:41:52.799
<v Speaker 1>This is why we don't. We don't. We just do

0:41:52.840 --> 0:41:54.840
<v Speaker 1>our own thing. We don't. I don't. I don't. I

0:41:54.880 --> 0:41:56.880
<v Speaker 1>said this on here before, Like I don't follow any

0:41:57.640 --> 0:42:00.960
<v Speaker 1>anyone else or anything else in the broader space that

0:42:00.960 --> 0:42:03.040
<v Speaker 1>we sort of operate in. And the reason for that

0:42:03.120 --> 0:42:05.560
<v Speaker 1>is I just don't. I really don't care all that much.

0:42:05.600 --> 0:42:08.120
<v Speaker 1>It's not like it's not I don't. It's not important

0:42:08.160 --> 0:42:08.360
<v Speaker 1>to me.

0:42:08.520 --> 0:42:11.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, you can rattle yourself up, and it can

0:42:11.040 --> 0:42:13.960
<v Speaker 2>bring about the worst in you because you're like, you know,

0:42:14.000 --> 0:42:16.719
<v Speaker 2>you're trying to keep up with the joneses and that

0:42:16.719 --> 0:42:22.200
<v Speaker 2>that matters with cars and yards and the way you

0:42:22.239 --> 0:42:24.960
<v Speaker 2>people look and the way that people's children look, and

0:42:25.000 --> 0:42:26.960
<v Speaker 2>who's the smartest kid and who's the best kid on

0:42:27.000 --> 0:42:27.359
<v Speaker 2>the team?

0:42:29.160 --> 0:42:32.960
<v Speaker 3>Am I doing something? This person outside?

0:42:32.960 --> 0:42:34.799
<v Speaker 1>That's a slippery slope as well.

0:42:34.800 --> 0:42:37.120
<v Speaker 2>And you see that, and it will make you not

0:42:37.920 --> 0:42:40.640
<v Speaker 2>want to take a day of rest because you'll feel

0:42:40.640 --> 0:42:42.719
<v Speaker 2>like you're you're falling behind the day, but you're not.

0:42:42.800 --> 0:42:47.120
<v Speaker 2>You're gaining so much more. And if you gain peace

0:42:47.200 --> 0:42:51.320
<v Speaker 2>and you gain time and you have these amazing memories

0:42:51.920 --> 0:42:56.439
<v Speaker 2>that don't involve any distractions. When was the last time

0:42:56.480 --> 0:43:01.760
<v Speaker 2>you made a memory with kids, grandkids, is your spouse

0:43:01.920 --> 0:43:05.200
<v Speaker 2>that didn't involve anybody looking at their phone or anything

0:43:05.239 --> 0:43:08.960
<v Speaker 2>like that. It's been a while, you know what I mean,

0:43:09.040 --> 0:43:11.200
<v Speaker 2>Like just no phones. You go out to eat, nobody,

0:43:11.400 --> 0:43:13.640
<v Speaker 2>you don't order, and then as you're waiting for your food,

0:43:13.719 --> 0:43:16.719
<v Speaker 2>you pull your phone out. And this need to be

0:43:16.840 --> 0:43:20.239
<v Speaker 2>constantly entertained is stressing us all out.

0:43:20.400 --> 0:43:21.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we all feel it. You and I were talking

0:43:21.960 --> 0:43:24.160
<v Speaker 1>about the passage of time, and how it all seems

0:43:24.200 --> 0:43:27.640
<v Speaker 1>to be so like it seems to have gone relatively

0:43:27.719 --> 0:43:29.759
<v Speaker 1>quickly over the past couple of decades. At the very least,

0:43:29.760 --> 0:43:31.160
<v Speaker 1>it seems like time is sped up. And I don't

0:43:31.200 --> 0:43:32.719
<v Speaker 1>think that's just an aging thing, because you know that

0:43:32.719 --> 0:43:36.400
<v Speaker 1>as a natural byproduct of getting older, time becomes very relative,

0:43:36.920 --> 0:43:39.160
<v Speaker 1>doesn't it? For me personally? I referenced it to you

0:43:39.160 --> 0:43:41.000
<v Speaker 1>before we hopped on camera here is that ever since

0:43:41.080 --> 0:43:45.239
<v Speaker 1>like September eleventh, like time has just been at a

0:43:45.239 --> 0:43:47.759
<v Speaker 1>warp speeds where you can't comprehend it. When we were

0:43:47.800 --> 0:43:49.840
<v Speaker 1>in high school in the nineties, you think back to

0:43:49.920 --> 0:43:52.120
<v Speaker 1>the seventies as being like, oh, this retro thing, like

0:43:52.160 --> 0:43:54.239
<v Speaker 1>you know, way back in the seventies, twenty years prior

0:43:54.280 --> 0:43:56.080
<v Speaker 1>to when years we were in high school, and now

0:43:56.120 --> 0:43:57.800
<v Speaker 1>you have this entire movement I see or even the

0:43:57.840 --> 0:44:01.240
<v Speaker 1>kids talk about it all. I like about the nineties,

0:44:01.239 --> 0:44:03.680
<v Speaker 1>and I see all these damn reels about you know, people,

0:44:03.680 --> 0:44:05.400
<v Speaker 1>what were you like in the nineties or you like

0:44:05.480 --> 0:44:07.160
<v Speaker 1>in two thousands, and we just had the nineties and

0:44:07.200 --> 0:44:09.640
<v Speaker 1>two thousands, when in reality that was the same amount

0:44:09.640 --> 0:44:11.920
<v Speaker 1>of amount of time as it was for us back

0:44:11.960 --> 0:44:13.800
<v Speaker 1>in the nineties when we were referencing the seventies and

0:44:13.840 --> 0:44:16.080
<v Speaker 1>the sixties, Right, it just seems like time has sped

0:44:16.160 --> 0:44:16.960
<v Speaker 1>up tremendously.

0:44:17.400 --> 0:44:20.040
<v Speaker 2>Well, I think the Internet has wasted a tremendous amount

0:44:20.120 --> 0:44:20.880
<v Speaker 2>of brain space.

0:44:20.920 --> 0:44:22.719
<v Speaker 1>I do think that is a massive part of it.

0:44:23.600 --> 0:44:27.200
<v Speaker 2>We are just literally being lulled through our days and

0:44:27.239 --> 0:44:30.880
<v Speaker 2>through our lives and through our lives. Yes, doom scrolling

0:44:31.120 --> 0:44:34.040
<v Speaker 2>reels reels are just oh my gosh, like you could

0:44:34.120 --> 0:44:35.839
<v Speaker 2>just scroll and scroll and scroll and like.

0:44:35.880 --> 0:44:38.040
<v Speaker 1>And how will pass by? And you're like, what happened?

0:44:38.080 --> 0:44:38.720
<v Speaker 3>What happened?

0:44:39.040 --> 0:44:40.880
<v Speaker 2>And your kids came up and they said stuff to you,

0:44:40.960 --> 0:44:42.719
<v Speaker 2>or maybe they tried to come up to you, or

0:44:42.760 --> 0:44:44.759
<v Speaker 2>maybe they went to approach you and they turned around

0:44:44.760 --> 0:44:45.400
<v Speaker 2>and walked away.

0:44:45.520 --> 0:44:47.880
<v Speaker 1>I was watching long I was watching long care reels,

0:44:48.280 --> 0:44:50.439
<v Speaker 1>and after the twentieth one, I'm like, what am I doing?

0:44:51.719 --> 0:44:54.000
<v Speaker 1>What you need to know about when I need to

0:44:54.000 --> 0:44:57.640
<v Speaker 1>thatch my lawn or airate and what the best means

0:44:57.800 --> 0:45:00.719
<v Speaker 1>of a fertilization, Like it such a waste as of.

0:45:00.800 --> 0:45:02.640
<v Speaker 3>You know what I'm getting now shabbatchalomreeles.

0:45:02.840 --> 0:45:05.760
<v Speaker 1>Because I went down this thanks.

0:45:07.440 --> 0:45:11.560
<v Speaker 3>It was very helpful. So I think this is going

0:45:11.600 --> 0:45:12.480
<v Speaker 3>to be good.

0:45:13.080 --> 0:45:15.239
<v Speaker 2>I really really hope and pray that we stick to

0:45:15.280 --> 0:45:17.560
<v Speaker 2>it until it becomes a habit. I hope it becomes

0:45:17.560 --> 0:45:21.120
<v Speaker 2>a lifelong tradition for us and our children, and then

0:45:21.160 --> 0:45:23.920
<v Speaker 2>it brings us peace and meaning, It brings us closer

0:45:23.960 --> 0:45:25.280
<v Speaker 2>to God and closer to one another.

0:45:25.320 --> 0:45:26.640
<v Speaker 3>I'm very excited about it.

0:45:26.800 --> 0:45:30.480
<v Speaker 2>I think it's going to provide us so many days

0:45:30.560 --> 0:45:35.160
<v Speaker 2>of hiking and fishing and boating and making pizza, and.

0:45:35.880 --> 0:45:37.759
<v Speaker 1>It's making memories and cherishing the time it is that

0:45:37.800 --> 0:45:39.479
<v Speaker 1>we have with our kids and each other.

0:45:39.840 --> 0:45:43.280
<v Speaker 2>And so I have a little challenge for you guys.

0:45:44.560 --> 0:45:47.239
<v Speaker 2>Try try to see if you can find a day.

0:45:47.280 --> 0:45:49.239
<v Speaker 2>It doesn't matter what day. It doesn't need to be

0:45:49.320 --> 0:45:53.840
<v Speaker 2>the seventh day, just a day where you're honoring your family,

0:45:54.200 --> 0:45:58.080
<v Speaker 2>your peace, your mental health, your God, and you're turning

0:45:58.120 --> 0:46:00.520
<v Speaker 2>off these horrible things.

0:46:00.680 --> 0:46:03.720
<v Speaker 3>I mean, like turning them off, turn your router off.

0:46:04.160 --> 0:46:07.200
<v Speaker 2>If somebody you can have your neighbors over for dinner,

0:46:07.239 --> 0:46:09.359
<v Speaker 2>like like, oh, we've been meaning to have those people

0:46:09.520 --> 0:46:11.440
<v Speaker 2>for dinner. If you have a day of the week

0:46:11.920 --> 0:46:15.560
<v Speaker 2>every week where you're not distracted and you're not toiling

0:46:15.600 --> 0:46:19.960
<v Speaker 2>over something, you can start to piece back together those

0:46:20.000 --> 0:46:24.000
<v Speaker 2>friendships and those relationships with your family, and I just

0:46:24.080 --> 0:46:24.800
<v Speaker 2>think this could.

0:46:24.600 --> 0:46:26.239
<v Speaker 3>Benefit so many people. So I want to hear if

0:46:26.280 --> 0:46:28.160
<v Speaker 3>any of you guys are going to try it, We're

0:46:28.160 --> 0:46:28.600
<v Speaker 3>going to do it.

0:46:28.640 --> 0:46:30.280
<v Speaker 2>We're going to go for it. We're going to report

0:46:30.320 --> 0:46:33.360
<v Speaker 2>back here, you know, after a couple of weeks and

0:46:33.440 --> 0:46:35.920
<v Speaker 2>see how it's going. But I think it's going to

0:46:35.960 --> 0:46:37.839
<v Speaker 2>be good. I mean, I can't imagine that it's not

0:46:37.880 --> 0:46:39.520
<v Speaker 2>going to be a massive blessing.

0:46:39.560 --> 0:46:41.200
<v Speaker 3>I don't know why we haven't done this sooner.

0:46:41.320 --> 0:46:43.040
<v Speaker 1>So starting this Saturday.

0:46:42.840 --> 0:46:47.080
<v Speaker 2>Starting this Saturday, ten am, So if you have a question,

0:46:47.239 --> 0:46:50.120
<v Speaker 2>ask me before ten am, because then it is.

0:46:50.280 --> 0:46:52.640
<v Speaker 3>But we are turning off we let's just say.

0:46:52.520 --> 0:46:54.400
<v Speaker 1>Get rid of your WiFi and your cell phones, but

0:46:54.680 --> 0:46:55.800
<v Speaker 1>watch us on and living.

0:46:56.080 --> 0:47:00.239
<v Speaker 2>So watch before ten am and then turn that off

0:47:00.480 --> 0:47:01.720
<v Speaker 2>and we'll see you again on Sunday.

0:47:02.280 --> 0:47:04.640
<v Speaker 3>Whatever you choose for yourself, whatever is good for you.

0:47:04.760 --> 0:47:07.480
<v Speaker 1>I like, I love the message, and yeah, I would

0:47:07.560 --> 0:47:10.080
<v Speaker 1>encourage anyone out there kind of having the same feelings

0:47:10.080 --> 0:47:13.400
<v Speaker 1>and desires that we're expressing here on the podcast to

0:47:13.440 --> 0:47:15.880
<v Speaker 1>at least consider this. Yeah, I think it's gonna be

0:47:15.880 --> 0:47:17.680
<v Speaker 1>a good thing, and I'm glad that we're putting it

0:47:17.680 --> 0:47:19.440
<v Speaker 1>out there publicly. Please hold us accountable.

0:47:19.440 --> 0:47:22.719
<v Speaker 2>We'll report back if you see us online on like

0:47:22.760 --> 0:47:25.239
<v Speaker 2>a Saturday at eleven or something. If I reply to

0:47:25.239 --> 0:47:28.120
<v Speaker 2>some especially if I'm if I'm like firing off and

0:47:28.200 --> 0:47:29.759
<v Speaker 2>someone I have broken.

0:47:29.440 --> 0:47:34.000
<v Speaker 1>Shabbat going to be out of control now between Saturday

0:47:34.040 --> 0:47:35.520
<v Speaker 1>and if you want.

0:47:35.360 --> 0:47:37.799
<v Speaker 3>To say something real, mean, that's your window.

0:47:39.640 --> 0:47:44.120
<v Speaker 1>Because we won't see it all right, Do you have

0:47:44.120 --> 0:47:45.239
<v Speaker 1>anything else you want to squeeze in?

0:47:45.400 --> 0:47:47.480
<v Speaker 3>No, I don't think so. I think that's it.

0:47:48.040 --> 0:47:51.440
<v Speaker 1>I hope we didn't come across like two marriage couples

0:47:51.600 --> 0:47:52.359
<v Speaker 1>therapy ISHU.

0:47:52.680 --> 0:47:55.200
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I mean we've we've been having a

0:47:55.280 --> 0:47:56.120
<v Speaker 3>lot of discussions.

0:47:56.120 --> 0:47:57.719
<v Speaker 1>It's been a thing in our household. Like I said,

0:47:57.760 --> 0:48:00.200
<v Speaker 1>it's been bugging me for quite a while now, being

0:48:00.280 --> 0:48:04.000
<v Speaker 1>totally honest, So hopefully this will maybe just you know,

0:48:04.000 --> 0:48:05.880
<v Speaker 1>we can talk this LF as an improvement moving in

0:48:05.880 --> 0:48:08.880
<v Speaker 1>the right direction. And in the meantime, Yeah, just still

0:48:08.960 --> 0:48:11.440
<v Speaker 1>incredibly grateful to all of you out there, blessed to

0:48:11.440 --> 0:48:13.120
<v Speaker 1>have this opportunity. So I don't want to come on

0:48:13.200 --> 0:48:15.920
<v Speaker 1>here and complain. I just want to be to.

0:48:15.880 --> 0:48:17.680
<v Speaker 3>Make sure that yeah, keeping it real.

0:48:17.719 --> 0:48:21.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, well, we will see you next week here

0:48:21.280 --> 0:48:23.680
<v Speaker 1>correct ye On that note, you guys take care of

0:48:23.920 --> 0:48:35.720
<v Speaker 1>a blast week. We'll see you Wednesday.