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Speaker 1: Man, Chabot Shaloon, Friends, Shabat Shaloon, and welcome back to

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Speaker 1: New Robots Who podcast. Mama, what's the reason I'm saying

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Speaker 1: Shabat shalom to all of our friends out there?

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Speaker 2: We have been having a massive discussion this week about

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Speaker 2: observing the Sabbath and keeping it holy.

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Speaker 1: We've touched upon this before, and we said that we

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Speaker 1: were going to implement this for the new year of

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty six. It is now March and it is

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Speaker 1: still not happening.

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Speaker 2: Well, we hadn't talked about Actually we talked about taking

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Speaker 2: more time off, but we've never talked about actually observing

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Speaker 2: a week.

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Speaker 1: I talked about it.

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Speaker 2: A day every week. We've talked about it full turn

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Speaker 2: everything off. I mean, yes, but we didn't call.

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Speaker 1: It that correct, right, So what prompted all of that

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Speaker 1: this week?

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is going to make one particular person really angry.

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Speaker 2: So last week I made a joke about Cana's owens

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Speaker 2: and then this one gal got really mad and she's like,

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Speaker 2: can you ever do an episode and not talk about

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Speaker 2: Canda's owens.

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Speaker 1: She's doing it again.

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Speaker 2: No, So she released new shirt this week that says

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Speaker 2: Daddy's Home Shabat Shalom, and essentially it's making fun of

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Speaker 2: Erica Kirk saying that Charlie Kirk would say that every Friday.

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Speaker 1: We're not going to spend so much time on this.

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Speaker 3: I promise I'm not. So I thought, that's weird.

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Speaker 2: Did he say it, because like I remember him saying

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Speaker 2: it on a podcast. I used to watch all his podcasts,

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Speaker 2: And then Navea said no. At Young Women's Leadership when

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Speaker 2: I was there for Turning Point this last summer, he

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Speaker 2: gave a whole speech about the importance of the Sabbath

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Speaker 2: and observing the Sabbath with your family and why he

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Speaker 2: does it, and so.

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Speaker 3: I thought, yeah, that's what I thought.

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Speaker 2: So I kind of went down this little rabbit hole

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Speaker 2: trying to find him actually saying it, which I found

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Speaker 2: five different places in like five minutes.

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Speaker 3: It's very easy to verify.

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Speaker 2: But then I went a little deeper down the rabbit

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Speaker 2: hole and I thought.

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Speaker 3: He's onto something. This sounds like a great thing for

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Speaker 3: our family.

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Speaker 1: Look, it felt like he came up with it.

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Speaker 2: So I would just like to thank Candace Owens for

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Speaker 2: creating her I mean hearted shirt, which is leading me

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Speaker 2: to really investigate observing a sabbath for our family and

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Speaker 2: doing this every week, this is going to bring.

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Speaker 1: About a whole It has the potential to bring about

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Speaker 1: an entire discussion. Yes, about people in this industry, however

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Speaker 1: you want to refer to or think of this industry,

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Speaker 1: That will maybe table for now, because I don't want

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Speaker 1: to go off on something negative here to start. So

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Speaker 1: the primary motivation I think for us doing this is

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Speaker 1: somewhat of a mental health crisis. Can I call it that?

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Speaker 3: Sure?

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Speaker 1: I was listening to Tony Robbins just coincidentally. It's not

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Speaker 1: like I sought this out. It popped up in my

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Speaker 1: to it, and he basically addressed how all of these

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Speaker 1: conferences that he does, how he can very easily determine

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Speaker 1: that about ninety percent of the people in the room

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Speaker 1: are are suffering from some sort of a mental health

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Speaker 1: crisis that is being brought about primarily because of time

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Speaker 1: many of us are experiencing this same mental anguish, but

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Speaker 1: we do such a great job of masking it right

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Speaker 1: when it comes to these face to face interactions that

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Speaker 1: we have with other people.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, mind that the reports are that somewhere around

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Speaker 2: thirty percent of Americans, okay, are in a mental health crisis.

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Speaker 3: Now I think it's probably higher than that.

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Speaker 2: We just call it stress, or we call it depression,

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Speaker 2: or we call it being overstimulated or overwhelmed, or not

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Speaker 2: liking our job. There's different things that we call it

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Speaker 2: like the whole world crashing down on you and never

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Speaker 2: if you own your own business, anyone that owns their

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Speaker 2: you can never shut it off. And we're doing it

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Speaker 2: to our children. We're overbooking our kids. They go from

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Speaker 2: They were stressful and you were in a hurry and

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Speaker 1: Okay, but we have avoided that. Yes, given how it

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Speaker 1: is that we have chosen to live. However, I would

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Speaker 1: still say that we suffer from the same affliction, right,

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Speaker 1: So why is that?

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Speaker 2: Because we work for ourselves and there's always something that

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Speaker 2: we can be doing, So we're always doing something and.

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Speaker 3: It has to do with the way we live.

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Speaker 2: Also, when you live on twenty acres and you have

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Speaker 2: a farm property, there's always something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that keeps you busy, for sure, but that doesn't

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Speaker 1: have to co mingle with what it is that you

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Speaker 1: consider work. That's just your to do list, that those

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Speaker 1: are chores. I don't think of it the same way.

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Speaker 2: For if you're a blogger, you have made your life,

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Speaker 2: your content and your work.

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Speaker 1: A big part of my frustration, which is this entire concept,

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Speaker 1: everything does have the potential for us to record it

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Speaker 1: and turn it into a segment for our vlog channel,

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Speaker 1: Good Simple Living. And this is something that came up

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Speaker 1: in a discussion that you and I had of going

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Speaker 1: back a few days ago. Because most of the books,

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Speaker 1: everything it is that you guys see for us with

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Speaker 1: And in the latter part of last year, prior to

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Speaker 1: the new year, we had a discussion on here with

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Speaker 1: And I think a lot of us feel that way,

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Speaker 1: It's what we had to devote pretty much like the

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Speaker 1: Like this is so bizarre that our kids are growing

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Speaker 2: To And then Baby Kira, and you've always called.

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Speaker 3: Her baby Kira, and all she's not a baby anymore.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it's like a Midlight Prices type

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Speaker 1: how quickly you know everything moves along.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think our kids are feeling in a

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Speaker 2: And when you go seven days a week, you get

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Speaker 2: on this vicious cycle that just keeps going. Even if

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Speaker 2: If you work for the weekend, your weekend isn't just free.

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Speaker 2: That's when you catch up and then Monday morning comes around.

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Speaker 1: That by itself is a lot. And to you that

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Speaker 1: analogy that we've applied to like our parenting in the

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Speaker 1: Will picture your drowning. This is all a joke. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: things that need to get done. And that's great, don't

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Speaker 1: and we have all of you out there to thank

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Speaker 1: for that opportunity. But there are times where it just

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Speaker 2: Well, I think that a lot of people that have

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Speaker 2: and starting to take massive breaks.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. For I'm sure a number of different reasons. But

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Speaker 2: They say they're going to and then they don't because

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Speaker 1: What is your why? What is your motivation for? Because

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Speaker 1: Is that fair to say? Of like the here and now,

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Speaker 2: I feel like you worry about the future far more

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Speaker 1: I do have anxiety about the uncertainty of the future,

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Speaker 1: but at the same time, just because of that uncertainty,

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Speaker 1: I want to try to appreciate the present as much

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Speaker 3: Okay, so hear me out on that go ahead.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I might be a little more here

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Speaker 2: and now present intentionally, And that's why I don't feel

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Speaker 2: as much stress as you, because I do enjoy today,

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Speaker 2: and I feel like you feel guilt about looking towards

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Speaker 2: the future and you're mad that you're not enjoying today.

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Speaker 3: You want to, but you're not.

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Speaker 1: I think I have a lot of like present day

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Speaker 1: stress because I feel like something's off. I feel like

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Speaker 1: there should be like our priorities should remain to where

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Speaker 1: we are maximizing the amount of time we possibly can,

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Speaker 1: especially when it comes to the kids. When I feel like,

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Speaker 1: you know, something is interfering with that, I just become

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Speaker 3: Yes, so you have brought up I want to.

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Speaker 1: Turn this into like like marriage therapy because it's sounding

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Speaker 2: Welcome to our therapy session. So you have on multiple

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Speaker 2: occasions brought up. We live somewhere where there's beautiful hikes.

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Speaker 2: Why don't we go hiking. I want to go fishing

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Speaker 2: do you know all these things? And so I said, yeah,

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Speaker 1: New World. Also podcast. What qualifies as rest to you?

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Speaker 2: or you're you're holier, or you did better because you

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Speaker 2: observe the Sabbath with your family. We are no longer

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Speaker 2: under that, We're no longer under dietary laws or anything

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Speaker 2: like that. If you choose to eat kosher, if you

446
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Speaker 2: choose to honor a Sabbath, if you choose to to

447
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Speaker 2: continue on with these traditions, you are free to do so.

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Speaker 2: But you are not free to judge others that don't.

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Speaker 2: And you're not mandated to which means you're not under

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Speaker 2: the strict laws that once exists.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this isn't about judgment or comparison. I'm not doing

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Speaker 1: this for any other purpose than trying to honor God

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Speaker 1: in my own way, to devote myself to my family,

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Speaker 1: which in the you know, I think the also honors God.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So we said that our Sabbath was going to be

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Speaker 2: when we went out on the boat with our kids,

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Speaker 2: and when we take them out fishing for a whole day.

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Speaker 3: When we go out and.

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Speaker 2: We do every hike that's an Idaho because we live

461
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Speaker 2: there are so many waterfall hikes. Like, we want to

462
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Speaker 2: go out and hike in nature, not record it, and

463
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Speaker 2: just be with our family, pack sandwiches and have an

464
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Speaker 2: amazing day. And then I want to have a Shabbat

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Speaker 2: dinner and so and not in the traditional sense. We're

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Speaker 2: not going to have you know what people of the

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Speaker 2: Jewish faith would eat first Sabbath. We're going to have

468
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Speaker 2: pizza night, or we're going to or Kimani is going

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Speaker 2: to cook.

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Speaker 3: Kimoni's a really tremendous.

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Speaker 2: Cook and he loves to cook, but he needs like

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Speaker 2: a little bit of help still.

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Speaker 1: And everything he's made so far has been so good,

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Speaker 1: by far, the best meals that we we share it together.

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Speaker 2: Like crazy recipes. And then he gives me this list, right, and.

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Speaker 1: I encourage him, like it's such a cool thing for

477
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Speaker 1: him to tackle and take on it at fifteen years old.

478
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Speaker 1: It's so incredibly impressive what he's able to do already.

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Speaker 2: He read that of all the of the of all

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Speaker 2: the things that women find most attractive, it's being good

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Speaker 2: with kids and knowing how to cook.

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Speaker 1: He coverage.

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Speaker 2: He's like spending all this time with Micah and then.

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Speaker 3: He's learning how to cook really really good food.

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Speaker 1: He's good to Micah. He's so good, He's so sweet.

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Speaker 2: He's going to be the best. He's going to be

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Speaker 2: like the best little I'm going to be so protective.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I'm going to need a shabbot just

489
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Speaker 2: to be nice to any girl that comes along to

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Speaker 2: steal my little boy's heart, because oh gosh, it's gonna

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Speaker 2: be so hard.

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Speaker 1: I'll be part of. This has me questioning what again,

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Speaker 1: our motivations are? What motivates you to continue on? Like

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Speaker 1: we've been on this treadmill for years now, what is

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Speaker 1: it that has kept you going? You're always looking ahead?

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Speaker 1: Like I said, whether it be like, hey, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: write another book this year, Like every time we think

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Speaker 1: like our plate is full, Melissa's like not, I can

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Speaker 1: fit more on there. Let's do this this year. How

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Speaker 1: about we we grow and expand and try to do

501
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Speaker 1: this And like I get that, you know you're trying

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Speaker 1: to balance on the opportunity that would have been blessed with,

503
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Speaker 1: but really, really is your your incentive. What is your

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Speaker 1: motivation here?

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Speaker 2: I enjoy it. It makes me excited to get up

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Speaker 2: in the morning. I'm somebody who really needs something to

507
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Speaker 2: do and something to work towards. And I don't like

508
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Speaker 2: the feeling of completion. I like having something that that

509
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Speaker 2: makes me excited to put my feet on the ground

510
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Speaker 2: that I'm working towards.

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Speaker 3: That's hard.

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Speaker 1: I would say we differ in that way. Would you agree? Yes?

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Speaker 1: What do you think my motivation is at this point

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Speaker 1: the stage?

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Speaker 2: I think you want to live the life you imagined

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Speaker 2: and you feel like you've worked, You've worked up to

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Speaker 2: that point, and now you want to sit and be

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Speaker 2: in that.

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Speaker 1: I don't just want to sit, It's not like but

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Speaker 1: I mean you want to.

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Speaker 3: You want to immerse yourself in that light that you dreamed.

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Speaker 1: About, for sure. But it's time more than any.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, time is about time.

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Speaker 1: For me.

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Speaker 3: Time is so important, value time more than anything else.

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Speaker 2: So I have I mean, I have a couple things,

527
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Speaker 2: like I do like to be working towards something. I

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Speaker 2: like to inspire the kids. And I think that we

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Speaker 2: have definitely done that writing a just writing a children's book,

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Speaker 2: and then like now I'm going to be writing a

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Speaker 2: second book. It's I like to show the kids that

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Speaker 2: they can do things that people don't really think they

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Speaker 2: can do. I never thought that I could actually write

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Speaker 2: a book. I always wanted to, but it's like, well, no,

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Speaker 2: only authors, right, I'm.

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Speaker 1: With you on that and all this is beyond my

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Speaker 1: wild the dreams, believe me. Yeah, everything it is that

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Speaker 1: we've managed to do over the past few years. However,

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Speaker 1: at the same time, I think that there is value

540
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Speaker 1: to come along with with prioritizing the things that I'm

541
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Speaker 1: speaking on as well that can serve as motivation or

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Speaker 1: an example to them when they are older and they

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Speaker 1: have their families of their own.

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Speaker 2: So things are going to start looking a little bit different.

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Speaker 2: We've decided that we're going to be taking a week

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Speaker 2: off a lot of months, maybe not every month. We

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Speaker 2: didn't take a week off in February or March, but

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Speaker 2: in April, in May, in June and July and August,

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Speaker 2: definitely over the holidays. We're going to be taking a

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Speaker 2: week off a month. So there might be three videos

551
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Speaker 2: instead of four because we want.

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Speaker 3: A block of time.

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Speaker 2: And in addition to that, we're going to be taking

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Speaker 2: every Saturday off. So if you try to reach us

555
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Speaker 2: on a Saturday. We are having our Shabbat and we

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Speaker 2: will get back.

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Speaker 3: To you on Sunday. It's just very important.

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Speaker 2: It's important for our marriage because we've kind of been

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Speaker 2: you want me to slow down.

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Speaker 3: I want you to catch up. And so we've had this.

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Speaker 2: Little battle where I think this is going to be

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Speaker 2: good for all of us, and our kids seem excited

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Speaker 2: about it too. At first, I thought they'd be resistant,

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Speaker 2: and when I first brought it up, they were like,

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Speaker 2: no Wi Fi twenty four hours mom, And it's like

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Speaker 2: I just started posting videos like I have to edit,

567
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Speaker 2: I have to end.

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Speaker 3: Every went oh wow, like that's going to be hard.

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Speaker 2: And then the more we talked about it, the more

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Speaker 2: they were all like, well, what day, what hours? Okay,

571
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Speaker 2: this is going to be They see the value in it,

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Speaker 2: and I think if we can instill that in them

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Speaker 2: when they're young, that rest and time with God and

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Speaker 2: prioritizing their family and knowing when to stop. Like, if

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Speaker 2: we can instill that in them WHI when they're young,

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Speaker 2: it will hopefully carry on because I told them I

577
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Speaker 2: have this dream that we continue this as a family.

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Speaker 3: If you move away, it's your.

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Speaker 2: Choice to continue it or not the Saturday tradition of rest,

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Speaker 2: because how cool would it be if.

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Speaker 3: We actually end up.

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Speaker 2: I know it's more work building that outdoor pizza of

583
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Speaker 2: and I've been talking about and every Saturday for Shabat dinner,

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Speaker 2: our kids and our grandkids come over and we have

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Speaker 2: pizza and we do a Bible study and it's just

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Speaker 2: the day that our family gets together.

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Speaker 1: That sounds great and we can get there, but there's

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Speaker 1: no there's not that same sense of urgency with me

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Speaker 1: in my mind. I'm like, no, we'll get there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's not a matter of

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Speaker 1: that it needs to be balls of the wall as

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Speaker 1: it has been for the last six years.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 2: I want to have this rest time too, and I

595
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Speaker 2: think it's going to be really good for our family.

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Speaker 2: It's going to intentionally give us that time to go

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Speaker 2: do those hikes that we've been talking about, to take

598
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Speaker 2: those family walks, to ride horses in.

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Speaker 1: Blessing that is, we have afforded ourselves that opportunity. What

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Speaker 1: good is it if you don't take advantage of it.

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Speaker 2: And it's God's design And I think he rested on

602
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Speaker 2: the seventh Day, but I think he knew that the

603
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Speaker 2: nature of man was always going to be more. It's

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Speaker 2: part of our fallen nature to always want more, to

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Speaker 2: always strive for more. And it's not necessarily a good thing,

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Speaker 2: and so he mandated, but he made it the law

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Speaker 2: that the Jewish people rested because he saw the importance

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Speaker 2: of it. He knew, this is so important that you

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Speaker 2: have this time to reconnect with me, to reconnect with

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Speaker 2: your family, and to find peace and then get back

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Speaker 2: to work.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because everything else is a distraction.

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Speaker 2: Right, And everybody that I hear, I mean, if you

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Speaker 2: actually Charlie kirkch just wrote a book, well, he wrote

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Speaker 2: a book. He was talking about it in July and

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Speaker 2: it came out of Christmas time, after he had passed away.

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Speaker 3: And it's called Stop in the Name of God.

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Speaker 2: And I want to order it on Amazon and read

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Speaker 2: it because I know it's going to make me even

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Speaker 2: more excited about it. I haven't read the book. I

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Speaker 2: don't know if any of you guys have read the book.

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Speaker 2: But he said that it changed his family and his

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Speaker 2: life and his stress level so much by taking an

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Speaker 2: intentional day turning everything off that he would literally take

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Speaker 2: his phone put it in the junk drawer and say

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Speaker 2: he would walk through the door, tell his daughter daddy's

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Speaker 2: home Shabat shalom. And then at the end of his

628
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Speaker 2: podcast on Friday, you can go watch his Friday podcast,

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Speaker 2: he'd go, Shabat shaloon. Everyone, go turn your phones off,

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Speaker 2: go spend time with God and family, enjoy your weekend.

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Speaker 2: We'll see you back on Monday. And he was excited,

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Speaker 2: you could tell, like he was so excited for that

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Speaker 2: time on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I admire it so much, between him serving as

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Speaker 1: an example and people like bench Perils telling you about

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Speaker 1: how he and everything he does and is.

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Speaker 3: Jewish breaker off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they have no power even in their house. But

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Speaker 1: he was explaining how even you know, when he just

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Speaker 1: takes a sip of his water or tea or whatever

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Speaker 1: beverage he's enjoying, he takes a second to thank God

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Speaker 1: for his now and for that drink. And like, I

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Speaker 1: admire that tremendously because you're keeping God at the forefront.

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Speaker 1: And like I said, we're bombarded constantly, NonStop with distractions,

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Speaker 1: especially when it comes to things like our phones, and

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Speaker 1: so to cast all this hide it's something that I

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Speaker 1: just I'm a yearn for it, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, Parents, and grandparents.

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Speaker 2: Easter is just around the corner, which means we're all

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Speaker 2: starting to fill those baskets for all of the little.

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Speaker 3: Ones in our lives.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 2: For many kids today, Easter means egg hunts, candies, and

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Speaker 2: of course the Easter Buddy. Now, these are all really

655
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Speaker 2: fun traditions, but they can also overshadow the true meaning

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Speaker 2: of why we celebrate Easter and how the resurrection of

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Speaker 2: Jesus changed everything.

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Speaker 1: So this used to trying to find the perfect basket

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Speaker 1: stuffer is definitely go. Check out the incredible story that

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Speaker 1: Brave Books just released from Christian Apologists Melissa Doherty called

661
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Speaker 1: The Day That Made the Way to help families clearly

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Speaker 1: explain the real story of Easter and the Gospel behind it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, The Day They Made the Way is such a

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Speaker 2: sweet story about creatures living in darkness until light enters

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Speaker 2: the world, helping kids understand big Biblical ideas like sin, redemption,

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Speaker 2: and why Jesus had to die and rise again. Also,

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Speaker 2: you have just this week to order to make sure

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Speaker 2: that you have it in time for Easter.

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Speaker 1: In addition to the Day That Made the Way, Brave

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Speaker 1: also has a very sweet Easter bundle that is perfect

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Speaker 1: for every basket. This year we got the whole bundle.

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Speaker 1: There are two incredible books, a coloring book, activity book, stickers,

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Speaker 1: and the cutest, softest bunny. Just add some sweets and

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Speaker 1: you we all sit with basket stuffers that are not

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Speaker 1: going delight but also teach about the true meaning of Easter.

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Speaker 3: That's right.

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Speaker 2: And if you join the Brave Book Club, which we've

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Speaker 2: been telling you guys about for months now, you are

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Speaker 2: going to get the Day that Made the Way for free,

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Speaker 2: along with the new children's book every single month designed

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Speaker 2: to help families teach biblical values and a Christian worldview.

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Speaker 2: When you go to Brave books dot com, slash Easter and.

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Speaker 3: Remember to order this week to ensure Easter delivery.

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Speaker 2: So Sunday would have been the obvious day because we're

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Speaker 2: Christians and that's the Christian day of worship. So that

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Speaker 2: led me down another rabbit hole of like, why do

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Speaker 2: Christian celebrate on Sunday instead of Saturday? And was it

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Speaker 2: literally just because well, and then I heard a lot

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Speaker 2: of Jewish people onlan say Christian should not be taking

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Speaker 2: a sabbath on Saturday. That was a covenant between God

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Speaker 2: and Jews, and they believe that covenant is still in place,

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Speaker 2: and so that's why they still observe the Sabbath and

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Speaker 2: they're still do it with all of the rituals and

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Speaker 2: the traditions, and I mean, I would argue that that

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Speaker 2: Sabbath and rest is for mankind. God created all of us,

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Speaker 2: and yes, it was a covenant, but once Jesus rose again,

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Speaker 2: like we're you know, the law was fulfilled. Now if

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Speaker 2: you're of the Jewish faith, that you don't believe that obviously,

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Speaker 2: and that's fine. I'm not here to debate Judaism versus Christianity.

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Speaker 2: But it kind of led me down this, like, so

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Speaker 2: why is it that the Christian celebrates Sunday. And then

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Speaker 2: it all started like a very long time ago, where

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Speaker 2: like the Roman Empire Constantine or the Roman Emperor Constantine,

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Speaker 2: he used to worship the Son. He was a son worshiper,

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Speaker 2: and that was like a pagan religion in Rome. And

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Speaker 2: then in three twenty one AD, well a few years

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Speaker 2: before that, he converted to Christianity, and so the Roman

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Speaker 2: Empire were still Pagans, but then he was a Christian

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Speaker 2: and he was watching Christians be persecuted and literally thrown

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Speaker 2: into the arena to be killed because that's what they

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Speaker 2: did with a lot of Christians and slaves to entertain them.

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Speaker 2: And so to try to kind of marry the pagan

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Speaker 2: religion to the Christian religion and have peace in his empire.

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Speaker 2: He said, Sunday is the day of worship. So whether

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Speaker 2: you worship the Sun, the sun God Sunday the day

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Speaker 2: of the Sun, or you worship Christ. Because the Christians

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Speaker 2: were all worshiping Christ on Sunday, this is going to

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Speaker 2: be this day of worship. Shops will be closed, and

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Speaker 2: you can't persecute anyone.

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Speaker 3: Nobody can.

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Speaker 2: So like you kind of was like pardoning Christians, like,

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Speaker 2: we can't persecute Christians on this day, it's their day

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Speaker 2: of worship. But really what he was doing was trying

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Speaker 2: to be friendly with the Christians because he was.

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Speaker 1: Convert my little historical bride here. So I just I.

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Speaker 3: Dove down rabbit holes this week, okay. But then it

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Speaker 3: became a persecution against the Jews.

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Speaker 2: So then it became okay, if you're not celebrating on

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Speaker 2: Sunday and you're celebrating on.

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Speaker 3: Saturday, oh, those are the Jewish people.

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Speaker 2: And then they started to persecute Jews that celebrated on

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Speaker 2: Saturday and force them to celebrate on Sunday. So they

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Speaker 2: literally have now gone back to a Saturday Sabbath. But

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Speaker 2: they were celebrating on Sunday because they were persecuted or

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Speaker 2: excommunicated out of Rome if they tried to celebrate on

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Speaker 2: the Jewish tradition of Saturday.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't really matter. There's seven days in a week.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I feel like, do we want to

739
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Speaker 2: be traditional with doing Saturday the last day of the week.

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Speaker 2: It's God intended he rested on the seventh day. I

741
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Speaker 2: feel like God's timing is always perfect. So I've been

742
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Speaker 2: tortured all week with this. But then it's like, but

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Speaker 2: if you go back two hundred years earlier, there was

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Speaker 2: somebody just just in Martyr and wonder what his parents,

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Speaker 2: what happened to his parents. I'm not having the last

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Speaker 2: name of martyr back then. So this is like one

747
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Speaker 2: hundred years after Christ died. He wrote that he noticed

748
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Speaker 2: Christians were celebrating on Sunday because it was Resurrection Day,

749
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Speaker 2: it was the.

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Speaker 3: Day of our Lord.

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Speaker 2: So long before Constantine said we have to celebrate on Sunday,

752
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Speaker 2: Christians were already celebrating on Sunday. So I feel like

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Speaker 2: you could do it Saturday or Sunday. There is no

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Speaker 2: right or wrong answer, because we're not under the law,

755
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Speaker 2: we're not under the Jewish tradition. Do it for peace,

756
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Speaker 2: do it for God, do it for your family, or

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Speaker 2: don't do it because you don't have to agree.

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Speaker 1: Are you disturbed as I am that it was so

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Speaker 1: difficult for us to find a twenty four hour period,

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Speaker 1: like a Saturday sun up to sundown to implement all this.

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Speaker 2: Because we're so busy and we do we work seven

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Speaker 2: days a week that we had to shuffle stuff in

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Speaker 2: different directions. Okay on Saturday, this can go on Friday,

764
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Speaker 2: and then this can extend to Sunday and then this

765
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Speaker 2: will just not do anymore. And you know, so we

766
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Speaker 2: had to like we had to clean the slate and

767
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Speaker 2: move stuff, and it was very difficult. And I think

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Speaker 2: anyone's going to find that difficult. Like people could be

769
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Speaker 2: listening to this, going, I work Monday through Friday, Saturday,

770
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Speaker 2: I go grocery shopping, I catch up on all my laundry.

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Speaker 2: I you know, I do all the stuff. Or her

772
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Speaker 2: guys might be going, I'm not doing.

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Speaker 1: Sunday, We're on laundry or any of the things that

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Speaker 1: you're laying out here ever, right, which which again is

775
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Speaker 1: part of the problem. We can't find the time to

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Speaker 1: do even these very basic things.

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Speaker 2: So you have to say, Okay, if I do all

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Speaker 2: my laundry on Saturday, can I do it on Sunday?

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Speaker 3: Or can I do a load on Friday and a

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Speaker 3: load on Sunday.

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Speaker 1: First world problems.

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Speaker 3: But I'm just saying, like, you have to like squish

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Speaker 3: it out.

784
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Speaker 2: You have to get rid of the stuff that's work,

785
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Speaker 2: and you have to only keep the stuff that brings

786
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Speaker 2: you have to Maria Condo, your Saturday you have.

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Speaker 3: If it doesn't bring you peace, you got it, you

788
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Speaker 3: got to give it to the thrift store.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm looking forward to it. Though you have more

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Speaker 1: on the historian front there on the.

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Speaker 2: Paper, and I could go on and on all It's

792
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Speaker 2: just a lot of people will argue when they hear

793
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Speaker 2: this podcast that the Sabbath is no longer biblical because

794
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Speaker 2: when Jesus died, the law was fulfilled and we don't

795
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Speaker 2: need to practice it anymore.

796
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Speaker 3: I will argue that all.

797
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Speaker 2: Of the apostles still observed the Sabbath after Christ's resurrection

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Speaker 2: and the apostle Paul, who knew that Christ was the Christ,

799
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Speaker 2: he knew that he was resurrected. He was literally the

800
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Speaker 2: apostle to the gentile, still observed the Sabbath after so

801
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Speaker 2: he knew that the law had been fulfilled, but he

802
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Speaker 2: still saw the importance in it. So I don't think

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Speaker 2: that Christ came to abolish the Sabbath.

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Speaker 3: I mean you could.

805
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Speaker 2: Say, like, oh, we're not damned by the law anymore,

806
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Speaker 2: but does that make it no longer important? I mean,

807
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Speaker 2: you can't just go out there and lie, cheat, steel, murder,

808
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Speaker 2: covet and then take your you know, take your neighbor's

809
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Speaker 2: wife and his sports car because Christ died.

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Speaker 1: And I just felt the degree to it. Like I

811
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Speaker 1: told you, there was an analogy that was made about

812
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 1: people and how we're all so internally conflicted, and that

813
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 1: happiness resides somewhere in between what it is that we

814
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Speaker 1: say we would like to do, or ideally what it

815
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Speaker 1: is we would like to be doing, with how it

816
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Speaker 1: does that we spend and redeem our time versus what

817
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Speaker 1: it is that we actually do. And so few of

818
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Speaker 1: us actually live out our lives the way that we

819
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Speaker 1: ideally would like to. And I don't know what the

820
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Speaker 1: reasoning for that is, whether it be laziness or just distractions.

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Speaker 1: But I'm trying to make that discrepancy as little as

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Speaker 1: I possibly can, because every time we seem to take

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Speaker 1: on more, like I spend a second ago, the broader

824
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 1: that discrepancy becomes, it just serves more so as a

825
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Speaker 1: recipe for not misery, but just some mense and emotional anguish,

826
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Again, I'm not trying to

827
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Speaker 1: be too heavy handed with like I'm I'm not complaining.

828
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Speaker 1: I'm very grateful for everything it is that we have

829
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Speaker 1: in our life, but it doesn't mean that you can't

830
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Speaker 1: also improve upon things, right.

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Speaker 2: I think, Yeah, I think anybody can improve on their

832
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Speaker 2: schedule and on their priority life, and on their time

833
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Speaker 2: with their family, and on their marriage, and on their

834
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Speaker 2: time with their aging parents. There is always somewhere where

835
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Speaker 2: you can improve. And so I love that we're going

836
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Speaker 2: to do this. We're going to stick to it, and

837
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Speaker 2: it's going to be very easy in the beginning before

838
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Speaker 2: it becomes a habit, because it takes a long time

839
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Speaker 2: to form a new habit.

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Speaker 1: Note, what fears do you have going into this?

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Speaker 2: Do you have any my fear going into it is

842
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Speaker 2: that we're going to be tempted to.

843
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Speaker 3: Put stuff in there that we.

844
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Speaker 2: Go, well, this doesn't really work or it's okay, or

845
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Speaker 2: oh my gosh, something major.

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Speaker 3: Happen, Like we have to monitor this.

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Speaker 2: Like so, my fear is before it becomes a true

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Speaker 2: habit and we see the fruits of it in our lives,

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Speaker 2: that we're going to be tempted to cheat or justify how.

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Speaker 1: About it qualifying our schedule? Are you afraid of like

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Speaker 1: falling behind, not not just for ourselves and our level

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Speaker 1: of expectation, but with the drawing comparison to others and

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Speaker 1: this feeling of competitiveness. I read through a comment thread

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Speaker 1: on another video that I don't want to res directly about,

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Speaker 1: somebody sort of tried to explain what the experience is

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Speaker 1: of being a quote unquote YouTuber or an influencer and

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Speaker 1: having these feelings of competitiveness in your niche and the

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Speaker 1: audience struck me as being completely oblivious to that fact.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

911
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 3: I don't think the audience cares.

912
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 2: I think content creators care far more about who's getting

913
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Speaker 2: more views and oh my gosh, we released at the

914
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Speaker 2: same time and they have fifty you about what yours.

915
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 1: Are and following feelings and having these feelings as though

916
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 1: you were falling behind, when when really they're completely illogical

917
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 1: because the reality of it is, regardless of how drastic

918
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 1: a downturn might be, we're still gonna be okay, We're

919
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Speaker 1: gonna be just fine.

920
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Speaker 2: Also, what you gain is so much more valuable. There's

921
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 2: no point, there's no dollar sign on time.

922
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:54,200
Speaker 1: This is my pa.

923
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 2: You can't buy more time. You can't buy time, really

924
00:40:57,640 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 2: and you definitely can't buy more time.

925
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 1: That's why time is more valuable.

926
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:04,799
Speaker 2: Yes, And so I would say that you just have

927
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:06,959
Speaker 2: to be at peace with that. You don't you can't

928
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 2: compare yourself to someone doing more than you.

929
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 1: I was struck by it, I guess because it's it's

930
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 1: a very it's a thing like competition in any space,

931
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:18,360
Speaker 1: in any industry.

932
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:19,719
Speaker 3: Yes, sports are like that.

933
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 1: It serves as a like driving force of motivation, so

934
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 1: oftentimes for people.

935
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 2: In US restaurants, so like, that's why restaurants used to

936
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,920
Speaker 2: close on Sunday. Shops used to close on Sunday, but

937
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 2: then it became, oh well, Joe across the street stays

938
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:34,320
Speaker 2: open on Sunday, so we need to stay open on Sunday.

939
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 1: But I think because in the online world, you don't

940
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 1: have anything tangible, it's not like a brick and mortar

941
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:39,799
Speaker 1: type of location. I think people are just kind of

942
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:44,240
Speaker 1: oblivious to that. But it is a highly competitive space,

943
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 1: and that brings about the worst in people. A lot

944
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 1: of times it brings up.

945
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:50,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, it brings about the worst in people. And I

946
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:51,040
Speaker 3: mean it.

947
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 1: This is why we don't. We don't. We just do

948
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:54,840
Speaker 1: our own thing. We don't. I don't. I don't. I

949
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:56,880
Speaker 1: said this on here before, Like I don't follow any

950
00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:00,960
Speaker 1: anyone else or anything else in the broader space that

951
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 1: we sort of operate in. And the reason for that

952
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 1: is I just don't. I really don't care all that much.

953
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 1: It's not like it's not I don't. It's not important

954
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:08,360
Speaker 1: to me.

955
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, you can rattle yourself up, and it can

956
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 2: bring about the worst in you because you're like, you know,

957
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 2: you're trying to keep up with the joneses and that

958
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 2: that matters with cars and yards and the way you

959
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 2: people look and the way that people's children look, and

960
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 2: who's the smartest kid and who's the best kid on

961
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:27,359
Speaker 2: the team?

962
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 3: Am I doing something? This person outside?

963
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:34,799
Speaker 1: That's a slippery slope as well.

964
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 2: And you see that, and it will make you not

965
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 2: want to take a day of rest because you'll feel

966
00:42:40,640 --> 00:42:42,719
Speaker 2: like you're you're falling behind the day, but you're not.

967
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 2: You're gaining so much more. And if you gain peace

968
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:51,320
Speaker 2: and you gain time and you have these amazing memories

969
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:56,439
Speaker 2: that don't involve any distractions. When was the last time

970
00:42:56,480 --> 00:43:01,760
Speaker 2: you made a memory with kids, grandkids, is your spouse

971
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 2: that didn't involve anybody looking at their phone or anything

972
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 2: like that. It's been a while, you know what I mean,

973
00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:11,200
Speaker 2: Like just no phones. You go out to eat, nobody,

974
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 2: you don't order, and then as you're waiting for your food,

975
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:16,719
Speaker 2: you pull your phone out. And this need to be

976
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:20,239
Speaker 2: constantly entertained is stressing us all out.

977
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, we all feel it. You and I were talking

978
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 1: about the passage of time, and how it all seems

979
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 1: to be so like it seems to have gone relatively

980
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 1: quickly over the past couple of decades. At the very least,

981
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 1: it seems like time is sped up. And I don't

982
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 1: think that's just an aging thing, because you know that

983
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 1: as a natural byproduct of getting older, time becomes very relative,

984
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 1: doesn't it? For me personally? I referenced it to you

985
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 1: before we hopped on camera here is that ever since

986
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:45,239
Speaker 1: like September eleventh, like time has just been at a

987
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:47,759
Speaker 1: warp speeds where you can't comprehend it. When we were

988
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:49,840
Speaker 1: in high school in the nineties, you think back to

989
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 1: the seventies as being like, oh, this retro thing, like

990
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:54,239
Speaker 1: you know, way back in the seventies, twenty years prior

991
00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 1: to when years we were in high school, and now

992
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:57,800
Speaker 1: you have this entire movement I see or even the

993
00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:01,240
Speaker 1: kids talk about it all. I like about the nineties,

994
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 1: and I see all these damn reels about you know, people,

995
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:05,400
Speaker 1: what were you like in the nineties or you like

996
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 1: in two thousands, and we just had the nineties and

997
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 1: two thousands, when in reality that was the same amount

998
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 1: of amount of time as it was for us back

999
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:13,800
Speaker 1: in the nineties when we were referencing the seventies and

1000
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: the sixties, Right, it just seems like time has sped

1001
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 1: up tremendously.

1002
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 2: Well, I think the Internet has wasted a tremendous amount

1003
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:20,880
Speaker 2: of brain space.

1004
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:22,719
Speaker 1: I do think that is a massive part of it.

1005
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 2: We are just literally being lulled through our days and

1006
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:30,880
Speaker 2: through our lives and through our lives. Yes, doom scrolling

1007
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 2: reels reels are just oh my gosh, like you could

1008
00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:35,839
Speaker 2: just scroll and scroll and scroll and like.

1009
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:38,040
Speaker 1: And how will pass by? And you're like, what happened?

1010
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:38,720
Speaker 3: What happened?

1011
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:40,880
Speaker 2: And your kids came up and they said stuff to you,

1012
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 2: or maybe they tried to come up to you, or

1013
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 2: maybe they went to approach you and they turned around

1014
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 2: and walked away.

1015
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 1: I was watching long I was watching long care reels,

1016
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:50,439
Speaker 1: and after the twentieth one, I'm like, what am I doing?

1017
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 1: What you need to know about when I need to

1018
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:57,640
Speaker 1: thatch my lawn or airate and what the best means

1019
00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 1: of a fertilization, Like it such a waste as of.

1020
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 3: You know what I'm getting now shabbatchalomreeles.

1021
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:05,760
Speaker 1: Because I went down this thanks.

1022
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 3: It was very helpful. So I think this is going

1023
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 3: to be good.

1024
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 2: I really really hope and pray that we stick to

1025
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 2: it until it becomes a habit. I hope it becomes

1026
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 2: a lifelong tradition for us and our children, and then

1027
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 2: it brings us peace and meaning, It brings us closer

1028
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:25,280
Speaker 2: to God and closer to one another.

1029
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 3: I'm very excited about it.

1030
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 2: I think it's going to provide us so many days

1031
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 2: of hiking and fishing and boating and making pizza, and.

1032
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:37,759
Speaker 1: It's making memories and cherishing the time it is that

1033
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:39,479
Speaker 1: we have with our kids and each other.

1034
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:43,280
Speaker 2: And so I have a little challenge for you guys.

1035
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:47,239
Speaker 2: Try try to see if you can find a day.

1036
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:49,239
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter what day. It doesn't need to be

1037
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:53,840
Speaker 2: the seventh day, just a day where you're honoring your family,

1038
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 2: your peace, your mental health, your God, and you're turning

1039
00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 2: off these horrible things.

1040
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:03,720
Speaker 3: I mean, like turning them off, turn your router off.

1041
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 2: If somebody you can have your neighbors over for dinner,

1042
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:09,359
Speaker 2: like like, oh, we've been meaning to have those people

1043
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:11,440
Speaker 2: for dinner. If you have a day of the week

1044
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 2: every week where you're not distracted and you're not toiling

1045
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 2: over something, you can start to piece back together those

1046
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 2: friendships and those relationships with your family, and I just

1047
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:24,800
Speaker 2: think this could.

1048
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 3: Benefit so many people. So I want to hear if

1049
00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 3: any of you guys are going to try it, We're

1050
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:28,600
Speaker 3: going to do it.

1051
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:30,280
Speaker 2: We're going to go for it. We're going to report

1052
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:33,360
Speaker 2: back here, you know, after a couple of weeks and

1053
00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 2: see how it's going. But I think it's going to

1054
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:37,839
Speaker 2: be good. I mean, I can't imagine that it's not

1055
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 2: going to be a massive blessing.

1056
00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:41,200
Speaker 3: I don't know why we haven't done this sooner.

1057
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 1: So starting this Saturday.

1058
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 2: Starting this Saturday, ten am, So if you have a question,

1059
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 2: ask me before ten am, because then it is.

1060
00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 3: But we are turning off we let's just say.

1061
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:54,400
Speaker 1: Get rid of your WiFi and your cell phones, but

1062
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:55,800
Speaker 1: watch us on and living.

1063
00:46:56,080 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 2: So watch before ten am and then turn that off

1064
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:01,720
Speaker 2: and we'll see you again on Sunday.

1065
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 3: Whatever you choose for yourself, whatever is good for you.

1066
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 1: I like, I love the message, and yeah, I would

1067
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: encourage anyone out there kind of having the same feelings

1068
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:13,400
Speaker 1: and desires that we're expressing here on the podcast to

1069
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:15,880
Speaker 1: at least consider this. Yeah, I think it's gonna be

1070
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 1: a good thing, and I'm glad that we're putting it

1071
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 1: out there publicly. Please hold us accountable.

1072
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 2: We'll report back if you see us online on like

1073
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 2: a Saturday at eleven or something. If I reply to

1074
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 2: some especially if I'm if I'm like firing off and

1075
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 2: someone I have broken.

1076
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 1: Shabbat going to be out of control now between Saturday

1077
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 1: and if you want.

1078
00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:37,799
Speaker 3: To say something real, mean, that's your window.

1079
00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 1: Because we won't see it all right, Do you have

1080
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 1: anything else you want to squeeze in?

1081
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 3: No, I don't think so. I think that's it.

1082
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:51,440
Speaker 1: I hope we didn't come across like two marriage couples

1083
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:52,359
Speaker 1: therapy ISHU.

1084
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean we've we've been having a

1085
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 3: lot of discussions.

1086
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:57,719
Speaker 1: It's been a thing in our household. Like I said,

1087
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 1: it's been bugging me for quite a while now, being

1088
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:04,000
Speaker 1: totally honest, So hopefully this will maybe just you know,

1089
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:05,880
Speaker 1: we can talk this LF as an improvement moving in

1090
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:08,880
Speaker 1: the right direction. And in the meantime, Yeah, just still

1091
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 1: incredibly grateful to all of you out there, blessed to

1092
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 1: have this opportunity. So I don't want to come on

1093
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 1: here and complain. I just want to be to.

1094
00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:17,680
Speaker 3: Make sure that yeah, keeping it real.

1095
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well, we will see you next week here

1096
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: correct ye On that note, you guys take care of

1097
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:35,720
Speaker 1: a blast week. We'll see you Wednesday.