1 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: Life audio. 2 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 2: Jesus is not just a way, He is the way. 3 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 2: And my friend Melissa just wrote a book all about this. 4 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 2: She takes that gospel turns it into a beautiful allegory. 5 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 1: That you and your children will love. Let's talk about it. 6 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, Hello, ladies and gents, and welcome to this 7 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 2: week's episode of the Bottom Beloved Podcast. As always, it's 8 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 2: a girl Kirby Kelly, and I'm pumped. Honestly, I feel 9 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:33,559 Speaker 2: like this could be a twelve hour podcast that we 10 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 2: could talk about everything and anything. 11 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: But y'all know my favorite Melissa Doherty. 12 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 2: She's joining me here again on the podcast, but we're 13 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 2: talking about a new book that she just wrote that 14 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 2: she's launching, and we're gonna talk about some other things too. 15 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 2: But I love the timing of this, especially with me 16 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 2: being a new mom my baby's coming in April. 17 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, that's crazy. 18 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 2: But she just wrote a children's book and it's called 19 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 2: The Day That Made the Way, not Anyway the Way. 20 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:04,039 Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about that in a second. 21 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 2: But Melissa, for those who don't know you or haven't 22 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 2: listened to our previous episodes or anything like that, can 23 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 2: you just introduce yourself to people. Know who you are, 24 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 2: what you do, what you're passionate about. 25 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 3: Sure. Yeah, no, it's so good to be back on 26 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 3: here with you like my baby sis. 27 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:18,039 Speaker 1: I love it. 28 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 3: Yeah No, I'm a Christian apologist. I have a YouTube channel. 29 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 3: That's where most people might know me from is YouTube. 30 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 3: I cover a lot of different topics from weird wiggity wax, 31 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 3: strange spirituality like new Age, new Thought, and everything in between, theology. 32 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 3: I do some satire, pretty mediocre s I tire if 33 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 3: I say so myself, and apologetics, which is a fancy 34 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 3: word for defending the Christian faith, answering all the tough 35 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 3: questions that most Christians don't want to answer. And I'm like, 36 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 3: let's talk about it. And the last time I was 37 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 3: on here, we talked about my book Happy Lies, which 38 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 3: talks about the New Thought movement. So yeah, I know, 39 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 3: it's good. I'm happy to be back on. 40 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 1: I'm so happy you're here. 41 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 2: Y'all gotta go listen to that episode because a lot 42 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 2: of people get New Age and New Thought twisted. They 43 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 2: don't really know the difference between the two, and that 44 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 2: would just be a good video for y'all to listen to, 45 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 2: especially given today's day and culture, especially here in the West, 46 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 2: So go listen to that. 47 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 4: But today we're talking about her new book, and. 48 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: I love it. 49 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 2: I have the joy of being able to read it beforehand. 50 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:24,239 Speaker 2: I'm gonna get my copy soon. They reached out to 51 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:26,239 Speaker 2: me today, They're like, we're sending you the physical one. 52 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 2: I'm like, good, I need to add it to my 53 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 2: baby girl's library so I can read it to her 54 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 2: and make sure she knows this gospel real well. 55 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 4: But tell us about the book, tell us why you 56 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 4: wrote it, and tell us what it's about. 57 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 3: Sure, So here's the cover of the day that made 58 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 3: it the way. It's very intentional. So they reached out 59 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 3: to me, and I joke that I'm like, I say 60 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 3: no a lot, and because I mean, you know, you 61 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 3: know what it's like to write a book. And this 62 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 3: was just a very different experience. It was not the same. 63 00:02:57,080 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 3: Partnering with Brave. They're a wonderful company. It's not just 64 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 3: this book. They have a lot of other children's books, 65 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 3: and so we were a part of that. We have 66 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 3: a lot of Brave books. So we're I guess consumers 67 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 3: of Brave when it comes to that, and they're always 68 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 3: faith based, and so yeah, they reached out to me 69 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 3: and it became kind of a family project. So there's 70 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:23,399 Speaker 3: little easter eggs huh pun intended inside the book of 71 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 3: my children. They got to design their own little characters. Yeah, 72 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 3: it was really fun. And of course they you know 73 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 3: how publishers are, right, So it's like they send in 74 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,519 Speaker 3: all their art and I'm like, that's a little it's 75 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 3: a little creepy maybe, or hey, maybe you know, you should, 76 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 3: you know, put a little bit more hair on your character, 77 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. It's like they take it 78 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 3: and the artist. We got to choose the artists, and 79 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 3: we loved her art because we're familiar with Brave books, 80 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 3: and so the girls, we all kind of got to 81 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 3: get together and make all these decisions in the beginning 82 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 3: and it was really cool. And then my husband he's like, 83 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 3: let's put some hot air's in there, because my husband's 84 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 3: a high air balloon pilot. Yeah, like so unique, isn't 85 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 3: that crazy? And so they they got to add all 86 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 3: this stuff. My youngest who's uh, she's eleven, she wanted 87 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 3: her little baby budgies, her parakeets in there. And then 88 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 3: my oldest wanted some rats and so and it's an 89 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 3: allegory though, so there's only so many places they can 90 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,039 Speaker 3: put it. And they got some say and how to 91 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 3: design the sunders, which are the little characters inside the 92 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 3: the allegory who are covered in grime and dirt and darkness. 93 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 3: And then the bright one comes, you know, and anybody 94 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 3: that runs into his light, you know, is made new. 95 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:41,720 Speaker 3: It's it's just a beautiful allegory. My favorite Easter egg 96 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 3: in the entire book, though. 97 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:43,599 Speaker 4: Are. 98 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 3: Dandelions. And my oldest wanted to add this. She loves dandelions. 99 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:54,559 Speaker 3: She's like, they're my favorite flower. I'm like, really why, 100 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 3: She's like, well, it's not just one flower. It transforms. 101 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 3: You have this this this thing that looks like a weed. 102 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:03,800 Speaker 3: It doesn't look impressive, but it actually nourishes a lot 103 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:07,599 Speaker 3: of you know, grass and honeybees and all the things. 104 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:13,039 Speaker 3: And then as it grows, it transforms into this wisp, right, 105 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 3: and then it's just beautiful and it goes where the 106 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 3: wind takes it. Like there was a whole spiritual beautiful. 107 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:27,160 Speaker 3: There's a whole spiritual underlying meaning behind the dandelions in it. So, yeah, 108 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 3: and it was an allegory and this is the thing 109 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:33,800 Speaker 3: is that I even from a young age C. S. 110 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 3: Lewis Tolkien. I'm even rereading Lord of the Rings right 111 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 3: now because I'm like, it's so dark out there right now, 112 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:46,239 Speaker 3: and with all it's just very unique. It's very unique 113 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 3: time in my personal life dealing with a lot of 114 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 3: the darkness out there. I'm sure we all are, and 115 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 3: I've seen some stuff, but something about the last six 116 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 3: months has been particularly devastating, just seeing the deception out there, 117 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 3: seeing how many Christians are running towards lies that they 118 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 3: think are true, and the gullibility that I've seen, the 119 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 3: the evil, the people trading in truth for lies. It's 120 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 3: it's it's so dark, and it's just like is this 121 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:20,359 Speaker 3: even worth it? Right? Like is this even worth the fight? 122 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 3: And one of my favorite lines of all time in 123 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:29,480 Speaker 3: a movie is Sam Sam Wise, you know Frodo, He's 124 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 3: in that space, He's like, is this even worth it? 125 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:35,479 Speaker 3: And and the best monologue ever of any movie that's 126 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 3: ever existed. Sam is giving this monologue of hope and 127 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:44,160 Speaker 3: you know, saying that that there's some good in this 128 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 3: world and it is worth fighting for, you know, And 129 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 3: I was like, man, I need to be reminded of that, 130 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 3: and so I went out, you know, a bought the 131 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 3: whole trilogy again, and you know, and there's something about 132 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:58,359 Speaker 3: the allegory that just kind of grips yet powerful. Yes, 133 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 3: and then every year we watch the pill progress with 134 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 3: the animated version. So it was really fun all that 135 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:06,839 Speaker 3: to say, it was really fun to be a part 136 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 3: of this project. It's not just an Easter, it's an 137 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 3: it's a gospel allegory. And I remember Zach the the 138 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 3: I want to say the I guess leader at Brave. 139 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 3: He's one of the head guys. He's like, this is 140 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 3: one of the most important books at Brave that we've 141 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 3: done because it's so gospel oriented. Yeah, and I was like, man, 142 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:31,360 Speaker 3: that's kind of cool. So but yeah, that's that's basically 143 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 3: the ins and outs of it and the family involvement. 144 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 3: It was really a family project. 145 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 1: I love that. 146 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 2: That's so special, just all the little like bits and 147 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 2: pieces that your family got to contribute to it, and 148 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 2: that you being impacted by allegory. Now you get to 149 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 2: kind of like join the roster of being able to 150 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 2: be someone who could really impact the spiritual development of 151 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 2: a child, even a family, Like some of my favorite books. 152 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 1: I have the Jesus Storybook Bible. 153 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 2: I don't know if you've ever read it or owned 154 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 2: it before, but I have it over there somewhere, and 155 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 2: I remember, yeah, it's. 156 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 1: So good, Like you need it. 157 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't care how old you are. Everyone 158 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 2: needs it and they need to read it. Because when 159 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 2: I was working at a Christian summer camp as a 160 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 2: camp counselor, I remember we would read it every night 161 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 2: or campers and I would just sit there and like 162 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 2: ball my eyes out and they're like. 163 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 4: Like, miss Kirby, are you okay, Like go. 164 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 2: To bed, and I'm just like here like reading this 165 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 2: out loud to them, little bedtime story, and it's just 166 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 2: there's just something so beautiful about, Like, I don't know 167 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:39,080 Speaker 2: children's literature when it really is rooted and grounded in truth. 168 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 2: And I love that you're contributing to that because I 169 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 2: think for for a lot of parents when it comes to, 170 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 2: like you said, the dark world that we live in, 171 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 2: where there is evil and dissension and deception and so 172 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:59,119 Speaker 2: many things out there that could not only just attack anybody, 173 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 2: but I think about children especially just how vulnerable they are, 174 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 2: like how innocent they are. Parents want their children to 175 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 2: know Jesus. Christian parents do at least they want their 176 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 2: they want their kids to not only have the morals, 177 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 2: but have the relationship, like to actually understand and have 178 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:18,560 Speaker 2: a relationship with Jesus. 179 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 1: And it starts with knowing the gospel. 180 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 2: And what what that meant, like what Jesus did, but 181 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 2: also how that is that invitation for us today. So 182 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 2: I'd love to even hear your thoughts on that, because 183 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 2: I think for some parents that can be like a 184 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 2: big task. It's like I don't want to get this wrong. 185 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 1: I want them to know the truth and to live 186 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:39,439 Speaker 1: it out. 187 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 2: But I guess let's just start there, Like what what 188 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 2: did that look like for you? Like did you ever 189 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 2: wrestle with that as a parent of like I need 190 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 2: to get this right and I don't want to mess 191 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 2: it up and it's this intimidating thing. 192 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: Or did you feel confident going into it? 193 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:54,079 Speaker 2: Because this resource is something that's going to equip parents 194 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:57,559 Speaker 2: to have confidence going into those conversations. But I'm wondering, 195 00:09:57,679 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 2: like what was that like for you with raising little 196 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:01,440 Speaker 2: ones to where your kids are now? 197 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean yes and no, I found that the 198 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:12,680 Speaker 3: less pressure I put on myself. The easier it got, 199 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:19,680 Speaker 3: because here's my whole thing is that you can tell 200 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 3: your kids and show them and guide them and do 201 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 3: all the things right, and your conscience should be clear 202 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 3: about that, right. I mean, you can't force them. You 203 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 3: can't force anybody to believe anything. You can't do that. 204 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 3: And there's something about that acceptance of Okay, here's what 205 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:43,439 Speaker 3: this is. And I'm an apologist, right, So I don't 206 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 3: just tell them, hey, Christianity's true because I said so, right, 207 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, well, here's the why. But here's why 208 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 3: people disagree. Yeah, here's why people disagree. And then you 209 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 3: give the strongest as you can age appropriate. This is 210 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:02,440 Speaker 3: not just one conversse. This is a ongoing conversation. You 211 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 3: start when they're really really small. And then I found 212 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 3: it more fun the older they got, because then they 213 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:14,439 Speaker 3: can actually grapple with complex ideas. Yeah, like understanding logic, 214 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 3: like the laws of logic, you know, and getting a 215 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 3: little bit more brainy, with a little bit more theological, 216 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 3: if you will, understanding the role of the Holy Spirit, 217 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 3: and you know, hey, here's a tougher thing about the 218 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:28,079 Speaker 3: Bible that hey man, this really trips me up. But 219 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 3: let's talk about it. What do you think. Here's how 220 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:34,439 Speaker 3: I handled that, you know what I mean. It's like you, 221 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 3: in other words, just don't be afraid, Okay, like, don't 222 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 3: be afraid of having tough conversations with them. Would I 223 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 3: would think that it would be a mistake to force them. 224 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 3: You know, I always kind of had this all right. 225 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 3: I really don't want to be this authoritarian parent. I 226 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 3: got to pick and choose my battles. In other words, Okay, 227 00:11:56,360 --> 00:12:00,200 Speaker 3: everything's a battle. You're part of the problem. Okay. If 228 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 3: if you're going and swing into every conversation and you 229 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 3: walk away thinking, man, what was wrong with that person? 230 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 3: And then you know, you do the same thing with 231 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:11,559 Speaker 3: the next person. Like there's a saying what was it 232 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 3: that if you wake up in the morning and you 233 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:18,679 Speaker 3: run into one jerk, then that person was a jerk. 234 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 3: But if you wake up every day and every person 235 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:24,319 Speaker 3: you run into is a jerk, then chances are you're 236 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 3: the jerk. 237 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 4: Right. 238 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 3: It's kind of like that, and so we don't want 239 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 3: to be like that as parents, where every interaction that 240 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 3: we're provoking with our kids is combative, right, And so 241 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 3: I think there's wisdom and knowing what battles to pick 242 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 3: and choose, because there's always going to be somebody in 243 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 3: our ear saying, can't let them get away with that, 244 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 3: can't let them get away with that. You gotta be firm, 245 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:49,319 Speaker 3: You got to be chill out. It's fine, it's cool. Okay. 246 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 3: You don't need to be your kid's best friend, but 247 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:54,080 Speaker 3: you don't need to be a jerk while you have 248 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 3: your boundaries. I have a lot of fun with my kids. 249 00:12:56,440 --> 00:12:57,839 Speaker 3: They don't laugh at my jokes as much as I 250 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 3: wish they did. But when my almost sixteen year old, 251 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:03,560 Speaker 3: you know, says I want to go home because I 252 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:08,079 Speaker 3: miss you, or let's hang out, I'm like, okay, I 253 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 3: think I'm doing it because she knows that we have rules, 254 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 3: we have limits, and all these things. Right now, if 255 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 3: you apply all that to spirituality, I cannot force my 256 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:22,000 Speaker 3: kids to believe God, to believe in the Gospel, to 257 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 3: understand deeper things that they might be passive. Maybe maybe 258 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 3: you did everything right. Maybe you went to church every 259 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 3: single week and you had all these conversations, and you 260 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:33,559 Speaker 3: taught them as best as you could during the week, 261 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 3: and you know, and then all of a sudden they 262 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 3: become teenagers and they're just like, Mom, do we have 263 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 3: to go to church? 264 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:43,599 Speaker 1: Mom? I don't want to. 265 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 3: I don't want to talk about this right now? Is boring? 266 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:48,080 Speaker 3: I know you told me this last time. You know 267 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 3: how they get all right? You know, we get then 268 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 3: there there comes a point of wisdom in backing off 269 00:13:57,040 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 3: and being wise in your approach how to have those conversations. 270 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 3: But I'll tell you what. That foundation that you laid 271 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 3: for them, that annoyance that they have, is in my opinion, 272 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 3: a good thing because when they're older, they're going to 273 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 3: be like you saying, man, I remember when you know, 274 00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 3: I heard this in church and my mom repeated it 275 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 3: over and over again, and man, it annoyed me. And 276 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 3: I'm like, man, now I really get it, and now 277 00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 3: I'm repeating it. There's an element of the Holy Spirit 278 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 3: right coming in, Yeah, and playing that role that you 279 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 3: don't play. There comes faith. You pray for them, you 280 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 3: do your part in other words, and you do it 281 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 3: to the best of your ability, but you also need 282 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 3: to have wisdom and understanding when they have the same 283 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 3: choice that you did and that it may not look 284 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 3: the way you want it to look at first. Or 285 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 3: or here's the other option is maybe you have a 286 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 3: kid who is really faithful. Right, my eleven year olds 287 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 3: like this, she was born out of the womb a 288 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 3: Christian love in Jesus. Yeah. Man, she reminds me a 289 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 3: lot of you. It's really cool. She's like, I just 290 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 3: love Jesus so much. And I was like, dang, girl, 291 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 3: you gut some holy spirit, you know. And it's so 292 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 3: funny because I'm like, I did not have to try 293 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 3: very hard with her, right, But I think about that. 294 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 3: I'm like, man, what if she, you know, goes into 295 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 3: her teenage years, she gets out of you know, high school, 296 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,800 Speaker 3: and goes into the world, and what if she loses 297 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 3: her faith? 298 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 1: Right? 299 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 3: Like, what if? It's it's one of those things where 300 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 3: you have it backwards where maybe you have a hard 301 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 3: hearted kid towards the things and then maybe they become 302 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 3: like the most on fire believer later on. Or it's 303 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:40,400 Speaker 3: backwards where you have a kid that seems really on fire, 304 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 3: but then the things of this world drown it out 305 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 3: and they deconstruct. You never know. And the point is 306 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 3: is that that role is the holy spirits. You do 307 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 3: what you gotta do. You keep yourself as a source. 308 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 3: You give them a foundation, Okay, you give them that 309 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 3: foundation that they completely understand the gospel, and so bringing 310 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 3: it full circle well explaining it to them and having 311 00:16:03,520 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 3: it open to where, hey, do you understand this? They 312 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 3: may not. They may not get it until they have 313 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 3: a reason to care about it. 314 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 1: That was me. 315 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 3: That's a lot of people that they get with it 316 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 3: what I call a gospel hangover. They hear it thousands 317 00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 3: of times where it just becomes this background noise. Oh yeah, 318 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:28,240 Speaker 3: Jesus died for my sins where it died and rose 319 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 3: again blah blah blah, we're all sinners forgot to love 320 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 3: the world. Blah blah blah blah. They can recite all 321 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 3: of it, but they don't get it and tell it 322 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 3: matters right, And so don't save your kid from the 323 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 3: things that might make it matter right. This is where 324 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 3: we can enable our kids or maybe be too permissive 325 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 3: where we save them all the time from things. And 326 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 3: I'm like, I gotta let them hurt a little bit 327 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 3: right in a good way. Don't save them all the time. 328 00:16:57,440 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 3: Experience is a much louder teacher than you, and I 329 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 3: think that that God can use those things to draw 330 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 3: people towards him. So just all that to say, don't 331 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:09,239 Speaker 3: put too much pressure on yourself, do what you know, 332 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 3: don't hide things from them, talk to them about things, 333 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:14,719 Speaker 3: don't be afraid when they ask you questions, lean into that. 334 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:17,159 Speaker 3: And if you don't know the answer, I don't know. 335 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 3: I don't know son, I don't know a daughter. Let's 336 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 3: let's look at this together, though, because you know, if 337 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:24,159 Speaker 3: it's true, it'll stand on its own and that confidence 338 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 3: of hey, if it's true, we can actually scrutinize it 339 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:31,679 Speaker 3: made the best idea, when made truth? When and if 340 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 3: I don't know, I say, I don't know, But you 341 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 3: look together and you learn together, and you model that. 342 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 1: I love that, and I love that. 343 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:43,160 Speaker 2: I do though like everything you're saying, I'm like, that's 344 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:48,159 Speaker 2: it's so true that I think the the desire of 345 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:48,879 Speaker 2: any parent. 346 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:51,600 Speaker 1: And I say this having all the experience in the world. 347 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:56,919 Speaker 1: Hey man, eight months pregnant over here, but you're in 348 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 1: the pub. 349 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I am on my foot in there, but I 350 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 2: I it's like I want to protect her from all 351 00:18:05,880 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 2: those things. But it's like, at the end of the day, 352 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:13,920 Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm gonna fail in some way at some point, 353 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 2: whether I'm overprotective, whether I'm underprotective, whether I'm this, whether 354 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:19,679 Speaker 2: I'm that, And it's like, even when it comes to 355 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:23,879 Speaker 2: instilling those things in my child, it's like, there's gonna 356 00:18:23,880 --> 00:18:26,600 Speaker 2: be conversations that are really hard. Maybe I'm gonna present 357 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:28,600 Speaker 2: something that's like, dang, I really could have done that bad, 358 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 2: But I love that what you said, Like, it's this 359 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:36,199 Speaker 2: ongoing thing where we as parents need grace ourselves on 360 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:40,800 Speaker 2: ourselves for those those conversations that will eventually get challenging too, 361 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:45,120 Speaker 2: but to really yield to God and his perfect timing, 362 00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:48,800 Speaker 2: his will, the fact that he's an advocate himself, like 363 00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 2: he can he not only advocates on our behalf, but I'm. 364 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:54,320 Speaker 1: Like he advocates on his behalf like to his people. 365 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 2: So the pressure really is off of us to perform 366 00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 2: and to get it right and have this brilliant gospel 367 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 2: presentation right when they're three years old and they're like, 368 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:05,280 Speaker 2: I literally can't even spell my name, Like what do 369 00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:05,720 Speaker 2: you mean? 370 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 1: It literally? 371 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 2: Age appropriate kind of like the sex age exactly, an 372 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:14,679 Speaker 2: audio conversation that you have that's appropriate for their age 373 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 2: and that you build on top of it as they grow. Yes, 374 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 2: And something that I like in your book is that 375 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:24,640 Speaker 2: you even in a very age appropriate way, like through allegory, 376 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 2: you're not shying away in your gospel presentation from things 377 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:34,200 Speaker 2: like sin, from these issues, like you know, sin and 378 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 2: salvation and grace and and grace. 379 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 1: Is not an issue. It's the issue is so we 380 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 1: need grace, right, But. 381 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:41,760 Speaker 2: Like you cover these things, and I feel like you 382 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 2: detail and picture these things in your book or present 383 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:48,119 Speaker 2: these things in your book so well, so can you 384 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 2: maybe talk about just like your heart behind that with 385 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 2: the importance of making sure that this is addressed and 386 00:19:56,320 --> 00:20:00,160 Speaker 2: displayed in some way, because I think some churches I'm 387 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 2: thinking about, like Sunday School, they completely miss those things 388 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:06,120 Speaker 2: and they only stick to Father Abraham had many sons 389 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:08,439 Speaker 2: and let's talk about Noah's Ark and Jesus loves you 390 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 2: and like that's kind of it. Not saying every church 391 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:14,560 Speaker 2: is like that, but it's important if we're talking about foundation, 392 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 2: that there is conversation around those things at age appropriate 393 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:24,960 Speaker 2: language and time of presenting the full gospel. 394 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:26,680 Speaker 1: So can you talk a little bit about that? 395 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:28,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love this question. This was also a theme 396 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 3: in Happy Lives as well, where there's an element of 397 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 3: light and dark, but it's it's not like in this 398 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:43,399 Speaker 3: weird pseudo spiritual, fuzzy kind of ambiguous way. This is 399 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:46,159 Speaker 3: a biblical concept and it builds on John three. Like 400 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:48,600 Speaker 3: even the cover. I loved what they did with the cover. 401 00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:51,080 Speaker 3: I mean, like, look at that imagery and they're like 402 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 3: the narrow gate, the lights, the darkness around it. It's 403 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 3: just it was so good. And so that can give 404 00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 3: you an idea of like the animation you'll find in there. 405 00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:05,159 Speaker 3: But the theme is and I even the foreword, not 406 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:08,919 Speaker 3: the foreword, the dedication is to my girls, and I'm like, 407 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 3: may you always run towards the light, don't be afraid 408 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 3: of the light. Right, And it builds on John three. 409 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:18,240 Speaker 3: And this is the element that I really want people 410 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 3: to get and walk away from when they read either 411 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 3: one of my books, is that we love our darkness. 412 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:28,240 Speaker 3: And that's the way I kind of like to put 413 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,679 Speaker 3: it to kids, is that sin is it can be 414 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:35,440 Speaker 3: a big word, right, like what does sin mean? It's like, okay, well, 415 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 3: it's it's this darkness that we love, all right. If 416 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:43,359 Speaker 3: you read John three, we read John three sixteen forgot 417 00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:44,720 Speaker 3: to love the world, that he gave his one and 418 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 3: only son, that whoever sh'll believe in him will have 419 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 3: everlasting life. But I'm like, hey, keep reading. 420 00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 1: Right that par seventeen to night. 421 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 3: I'm saying it's three sixteen through seventeen through twenty one. 422 00:21:55,880 --> 00:22:00,760 Speaker 3: If you read those with your kiddos this alongside this book, 423 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 3: I'm hoping it'll hit that. Basically, the verse is saying, 424 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:08,440 Speaker 3: you know, the verdict is this, the judgment has come 425 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 3: into the world, that people loved that light has come 426 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:17,359 Speaker 3: into the world, but people loved their darkness. They didn't 427 00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:20,880 Speaker 3: want the light. They The point that Jesus is trying 428 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,920 Speaker 3: to get across is, hey, I'm here to save you. 429 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:27,639 Speaker 3: You're condemned already. You're already condemned. Like people get this 430 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,639 Speaker 3: backwards all the time, where they think that literally all 431 00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 3: the time. This was a paradigm shift from me, girl, 432 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:35,920 Speaker 3: when when I got explained that. When when I got 433 00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:38,199 Speaker 3: this part, I was like, oh my gosh, God doesn't 434 00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 3: send anybody to Hell. We're already on our way to hell. 435 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:46,400 Speaker 3: But we're already there, like we're born, Like it makes 436 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:51,439 Speaker 3: perfect sense. We're already born as children of the devil. 437 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,919 Speaker 3: This is why you must be born again. 438 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:57,840 Speaker 2: Like me, I was like, oh, oh, this makes so 439 00:22:57,920 --> 00:22:58,439 Speaker 2: much sense. 440 00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:01,679 Speaker 3: I love John three. Love John three and John in 441 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 3: general is my favorite gospel. I mean, here's Jesus given 442 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:05,840 Speaker 3: a tongue lashing to the Pharisees. He's like, you know 443 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:10,320 Speaker 3: you love your father the devil, right, and you know, John, 444 00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 3: I get I guess In first John repeats this, this 445 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:16,679 Speaker 3: element of you know that your children of the devil, 446 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:21,120 Speaker 3: your children of darkness, you must be born again. And 447 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:24,399 Speaker 3: I'm like, man, that's so good, because Jesus is here 448 00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:28,359 Speaker 3: to save you from the darkness. You're already in the dark, 449 00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 3: like and if we can get that, then we'll understand 450 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:36,920 Speaker 3: why Jesus had to come. And so that's the whole idea. 451 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:40,919 Speaker 3: You know, these these sunders, these creatures in the book 452 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:45,240 Speaker 3: represent us, you know, darkness and grime, and they don't 453 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:47,919 Speaker 3: like the light go away, right, And the ones that 454 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 3: get close to the light, they're like, ooh, I'm afraid 455 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 3: of that. Everything's going to be exposed if I go 456 00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:55,719 Speaker 3: into that light. I don't I don't like that. And 457 00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:57,920 Speaker 3: so they stay out of it in their darkness because 458 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:01,240 Speaker 3: they love their sin, they love their darkness. But there's 459 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:02,360 Speaker 3: one little Sunder. 460 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:02,200 Speaker 2: You know. 461 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:05,199 Speaker 3: He reaches down into the light and he sees you know, 462 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:09,080 Speaker 3: the bright one who represents you know, Messiah, Jesus, and 463 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:12,159 Speaker 3: he runs towards it, and I'm like, yes, let that 464 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 3: be you, Let your deeds be exposed. That's where freedom is. 465 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:19,439 Speaker 3: And so there's this idea of everything, all these really 466 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 3: really cool biblical concepts of salvation redemption, like these heavy things. 467 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 3: Heavy I say heavy, but it's so easy that a 468 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:31,800 Speaker 3: child can understand it. 469 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 1: It's a simple, a simple gospel. 470 00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 3: It's so simple. Beware of those who make it complicated, 471 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:39,119 Speaker 3: Beware of those who want to add everything to it. 472 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:40,919 Speaker 3: Right and then and then this is the beauty of 473 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 3: it is, here's where the sanctification happens. Is a girl. 474 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:47,760 Speaker 3: I had garbage theology when I got saved. 475 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,280 Speaker 1: I did not like the Trinity. 476 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 3: I had a really weird understanding of the Trinity. I mean, 477 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:54,960 Speaker 3: I was a new thought, right, it really got in 478 00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:57,080 Speaker 3: there and messed up some things. But I was saved. 479 00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:01,720 Speaker 3: And as time goes on, there's this actification and this 480 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:05,840 Speaker 3: drawing of what is true about God that lives in you. 481 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:06,120 Speaker 1: Right. 482 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,200 Speaker 3: So, I mean I think there's always hope. There's always 483 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:12,160 Speaker 3: hope for people who might even be in deception. Right. 484 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,919 Speaker 3: It's that the parable of the sower in the seeds, 485 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 3: right where the seed gets scattered and the weeds come 486 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:22,080 Speaker 3: up alongside where that good seed was. I really feel 487 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:23,520 Speaker 3: like that was me for a while, you know. I 488 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:26,679 Speaker 3: was wrapped up in some stuff and just couldn't grow, 489 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,200 Speaker 3: you know. And so I think that there's lots of hope, 490 00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,680 Speaker 3: and I think that there's something there to be said 491 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 3: about darkness and light and how it plays a part 492 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,639 Speaker 3: and how we present all of this to our children. 493 00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,679 Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. 494 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,320 Speaker 4: Like I know, I keep saying that, like I love this, 495 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:47,920 Speaker 4: I love it, but I do. 496 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,760 Speaker 1: I love the imagery in the book. I loved reading it. 497 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:53,720 Speaker 2: Like I said, I think some of the books that 498 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:56,440 Speaker 2: have impacted me the most of my Christian faith walk 499 00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 2: and I've been loving these big, thick theology books where 500 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 2: I'm like, I got to look up half of these words, 501 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:06,119 Speaker 2: because what is going on has been these these simple 502 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:10,240 Speaker 2: children's books, because it's it's such a simple gospel, like 503 00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,359 Speaker 2: obviously there's so much depth to it. The theology words 504 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:17,920 Speaker 2: they matter, sin, redemption, you know, atonement, like all these things. 505 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 2: They matter, and they provide context so that my whole 506 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,639 Speaker 2: thing is like an informed theology informs. 507 00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:26,400 Speaker 1: Our love for God, like we need to have a right. 508 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:30,640 Speaker 2: Theology, a correct theology, a contextual theology that is that 509 00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:35,200 Speaker 2: does the scripture's justice right, it honors what it's actually saying, 510 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:38,640 Speaker 2: because it's not just to know it all, but it's 511 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 2: to know him right. That's the hope, is that it's 512 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:44,360 Speaker 2: to know him, to love him, to be in relationship 513 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 2: with him, and to be a part of his kingdom 514 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:48,359 Speaker 2: work and what he's called us. 515 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:51,040 Speaker 1: To doshi of that worship. 516 00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:56,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, but it doesn't need to be so complicated. 517 00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 4: Like Jesus said, let the little children come to me. 518 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,200 Speaker 2: And it's like, I think your book is just such 519 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 2: a beautiful picture of that of like little children, Yeah, 520 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:08,080 Speaker 2: can come to him and actually be able to picture 521 00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:10,880 Speaker 2: and hold onto these things in a way where it's like, oh, 522 00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:13,720 Speaker 2: this makes sense to me, Like I can actually understand 523 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:14,120 Speaker 2: these things. 524 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you don't, but you don't know until you 525 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:17,160 Speaker 3: have to explain it to a child. 526 00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:22,040 Speaker 2: That part, that part, I'm so excited for the question why. 527 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 2: I know so many parents probably dread it and they 528 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:28,160 Speaker 2: got it and maybe I'm saying girl, I'm like, there's 529 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:29,720 Speaker 2: probably gonna be a day where it's like. 530 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:31,480 Speaker 1: Well, why, well, why well why? 531 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,199 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be like, girl, look it up, because I 532 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,480 Speaker 2: don't know, like we might get to that point, but 533 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:39,199 Speaker 2: I want to be prepared enough that I can, to 534 00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:43,120 Speaker 2: my best ability, answer those whys, or at least bring 535 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:48,639 Speaker 2: them her alongside me, to figure out the why, to 536 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,560 Speaker 2: figure out the who, the what, the wind, the where, 537 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 2: the how, all that, but to land the plane. I 538 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,879 Speaker 2: want to talk about the title because that's something that 539 00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 2: we talked about very beginning before we started recording, because 540 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:02,200 Speaker 2: I think that is like such a cherry on top 541 00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,760 Speaker 2: thing that is really an important distinction. 542 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:08,360 Speaker 1: The day that made the way. 543 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:13,800 Speaker 2: Why did you pick to put why? Why the way 544 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 2: and not a way? 545 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:17,240 Speaker 3: Well? Because I think this is brilliant. Yeah, because there's 546 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:21,159 Speaker 3: not just a way. He's Jesus is not one of 547 00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 3: many ways. And this is the one of the hardest 548 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:32,399 Speaker 3: things for I think skeptics or maybe progressives, they will 549 00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:35,560 Speaker 3: not say no, no, no, Jesus is not the only way, 550 00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 3: and they have just created for themselves a lot of 551 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 3: really difficult hoops to jump through with that because we're 552 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,360 Speaker 3: not the one saying that, Like, this is not a 553 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:51,360 Speaker 3: claim that we're just reading into the text. This is 554 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:56,600 Speaker 3: something that's drawn contextually from the claims of Jesus that 555 00:28:56,680 --> 00:29:01,080 Speaker 3: he is the way. He is the only way. There's 556 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:06,920 Speaker 3: one unique God who became his own creation, who paid 557 00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:11,200 Speaker 3: a debt, a sind debt, took all the darkness on 558 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:16,280 Speaker 3: himself and turned it into you know, to light. Basically, right, 559 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,720 Speaker 3: he paid a sind debt that we could not pay. 560 00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,840 Speaker 3: And that's the idea is that it's just this weird, 561 00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:29,880 Speaker 3: works based Pharisee kind of religion. I call it soft 562 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:34,120 Speaker 3: legalism to say that Jesus is a way, because that 563 00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:37,640 Speaker 3: implies there's other ways to be saved. Well, then how 564 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 3: then are you saved? Well, you know, I got to 565 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:45,160 Speaker 3: do this, do that? You fill in the blank. It's 566 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:49,840 Speaker 3: just another works faced religion, that's all it is. If 567 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:53,000 Speaker 3: Jesus is a way that implies that there's other ways 568 00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:57,160 Speaker 3: that you need to do in order to be saved 569 00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:01,960 Speaker 3: to reach God, that's not how that works. He's the way, 570 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:05,719 Speaker 3: the only way because you can't, you cannot do it, 571 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:09,960 Speaker 3: and once you realize that you can't do it, that's 572 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 3: when surrender happens, you know. And speaking of light, something 573 00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:16,440 Speaker 3: that people think of almost every single time that this 574 00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:16,800 Speaker 3: comes up. 575 00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:17,040 Speaker 2: As well. 576 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,840 Speaker 3: What about those who've never heard? Right, we love apologetics. 577 00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:22,840 Speaker 3: We deal with this all the time. What about those 578 00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 3: who have never heard? You know, what about this? What 579 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:29,640 Speaker 3: about that? Right? Speaking of light and God being a 580 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:32,800 Speaker 3: good judge, Right, he's the perfect judge. God is good. 581 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 3: He judges people on the light that they have been given. 582 00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 3: Is as simple as that. This is Romans one stuff. 583 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 3: You have general revelation. Okay, general revelation, let's get nerdy 584 00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 3: for a second, and. 585 00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:49,040 Speaker 1: Then general and special one. 586 00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:53,400 Speaker 3: We all have the same playing field. We all can see. 587 00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 3: They call this the fancy word te leelogical, right, the 588 00:30:55,840 --> 00:31:00,440 Speaker 3: design of the universe, of us, of everything. And they know, 589 00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,680 Speaker 3: even the ancients know, those those people in the Amazon 590 00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,080 Speaker 3: that you're worried about, they know God exists. Why aren't 591 00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 3: they atheists? Interesting? Anyway, I digress, But there's a response 592 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 3: to that, Who is this God? I want to know more? 593 00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:23,640 Speaker 3: Right than there's special revelation, it's no. You know, people 594 00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:28,280 Speaker 3: who live in these areas, who get visions, dreams, a missionary, right, 595 00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 3: there's special revelation given to them. If the word of God, 596 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 3: if you respond to the truth you've been given, God 597 00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,160 Speaker 3: will give you the truth, right, and so there's a 598 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:39,960 Speaker 3: whole argument for that. But he is the way, and 599 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:43,640 Speaker 3: if he is the way, he will find the way 600 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,480 Speaker 3: to get you the way, like how to get the way, 601 00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:50,040 Speaker 3: and so that, yeah, there's a whole there's a whole 602 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:53,280 Speaker 3: apologetic argument for the exclusivity of Jesus. And it's not 603 00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:55,720 Speaker 3: a bad thing. That is a good thing. It makes 604 00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:57,080 Speaker 3: the cross make sense. 605 00:31:58,080 --> 00:31:59,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely. 606 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 2: I remember learning all of that when I was in 607 00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 2: DBU in my master not my master's program, my undergrad 608 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:09,680 Speaker 2: program and loving that because I think that is something 609 00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,760 Speaker 2: that so many people wrestle with, is this idea of like, well, 610 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:15,240 Speaker 2: if he's so good and he's such a loving God 611 00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:18,920 Speaker 2: and he makes himself known and he did that, it's like, girl, 612 00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:21,880 Speaker 2: the answer is there, Boy, the answer is there. 613 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:23,160 Speaker 1: God thought of. 614 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:23,760 Speaker 2: It all well. 615 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:27,320 Speaker 3: And some Calvinists don't like this answer. I'm not reformed 616 00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:31,240 Speaker 3: and not a reformed Calvinist. My friend Frank Frank Turk says, 617 00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:31,840 Speaker 3: this is that. 618 00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:34,760 Speaker 1: And this is a there's. 619 00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:39,400 Speaker 3: Another theological theological argument of They call it the Hiddennis 620 00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 3: of God, Like okay, well, where is this right? And 621 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 3: it's actually a very beautiful philosophical truth about God. Is 622 00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:50,720 Speaker 3: that He gives just enough of himself so that just 623 00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 3: enough light so that if you want to see free will, 624 00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:58,920 Speaker 3: if you want to see you will, he cannot overpower that. 625 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 3: To have real love, you have to have free will. 626 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:08,680 Speaker 3: You have to freely choose to love. Yes, it's a choice. 627 00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:11,840 Speaker 3: And so he gives just enough light so that if 628 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:14,120 Speaker 3: you want to believe, if you want more light, he'll 629 00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,080 Speaker 3: give you more light. But there's just enough light that 630 00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:18,920 Speaker 3: if you don't want to see, there's a hardening there. Right, 631 00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 3: there's a choice that cannot be overpowered. And I think 632 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:27,040 Speaker 3: that that's a very important concept. Then we all have 633 00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:31,640 Speaker 3: talked to them the hardened heart. And I mentioned Pilgrim's 634 00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:36,760 Speaker 3: Progress before. The best picture of this, the animated version 635 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:42,680 Speaker 3: Pilgrim's Progress. There is a character called oh is it pliable? No, 636 00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:46,920 Speaker 3: it's not pliable, obstinate Obstinate, which means stubborn. Pliable means 637 00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:51,120 Speaker 3: they're very easily swayed. Yeah, And so you see how 638 00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 3: each character stands for these things. Obstinate is stubborn and obstinate, Right, 639 00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:59,120 Speaker 3: Christians sitting there talking to obstinate about this book? 640 00:33:59,280 --> 00:33:59,440 Speaker 4: Here? 641 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,600 Speaker 3: Here, the truth is in here. Don't you see an 642 00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 3: obstinence answer is so interesting. He's like, no, I don't 643 00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:10,240 Speaker 3: see and quite frankly, I don't want to. And I'm like, WHOA, 644 00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,360 Speaker 3: that is good because that is the posture of a 645 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:16,440 Speaker 3: lot of people. It's like, here, here's truth, here's evidence. 646 00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 3: I don't want to see that. I don't want to 647 00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:20,959 Speaker 3: see that. I don't I don't care about that. That's 648 00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,160 Speaker 3: kind of the that's kind of the heart posture. And 649 00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:25,719 Speaker 3: then it's just again with wisdom, kind of have to 650 00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,560 Speaker 3: learn how to deal with that. But it does matter, Okay. 651 00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:31,480 Speaker 3: So I mean there's there's very beautiful. 652 00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:32,799 Speaker 1: Uh. 653 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:36,960 Speaker 3: I want to say, philosophical deep truths that are within 654 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,080 Speaker 3: reality that tell us who God is and we can 655 00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:40,799 Speaker 3: draw from those. 656 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:45,960 Speaker 2: Absolutely God wants. God wants his people to know him. 657 00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:49,239 Speaker 2: And that's a whole other podcast episode I could film. 658 00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:50,120 Speaker 1: Honestly, it's just. 659 00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:54,960 Speaker 2: The trying to wrap your mind around the sovereignty of 660 00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:58,520 Speaker 2: God coexisting with the free will that He has given us. 661 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:00,400 Speaker 2: Like I feel like you want I are in the 662 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,560 Speaker 2: same camp there where I'm like, I believe God being 663 00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:08,640 Speaker 2: so much bigger than me. Those two things work out 664 00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:12,160 Speaker 2: in this beautiful dance that I am just listening. 665 00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:12,640 Speaker 1: To the music too. 666 00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:16,799 Speaker 3: You know that is providence, right, So God's providence. Yes, 667 00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:21,200 Speaker 3: that is the beautiful word that explains how God can 668 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:26,479 Speaker 3: always be in control with his creation, who has free will, 669 00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:30,920 Speaker 3: and his providence is him working in his sovereignty and 670 00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:34,360 Speaker 3: that free will. It's beautiful. I love God's providence. That 671 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:38,280 Speaker 3: is one of my favorite things about you know, the attributes, 672 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:41,520 Speaker 3: attributes and characteristic. Yeah, it's really beautiful. 673 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:45,279 Speaker 2: Well that's the rabbit hole that everyone can go down 674 00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:47,200 Speaker 2: today is the providence of God. 675 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:48,719 Speaker 1: I'm sure they clicked on this. 676 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:52,840 Speaker 2: They're like Christian children's book, like the providence of God. 677 00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,239 Speaker 2: But that's that's what I love about you, is that 678 00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,439 Speaker 2: you go, you go deep, you make it fun. 679 00:35:58,880 --> 00:35:59,759 Speaker 1: Were you there? 680 00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:00,440 Speaker 3: Weren't? No? 681 00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:03,080 Speaker 2: Literally, But then it's not just like Okay, here's a 682 00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,040 Speaker 2: fancy word and I don't know what to do with it, 683 00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,600 Speaker 2: or how this relates to the gospel, how this relates 684 00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:11,480 Speaker 2: to me and my relationship with God. It's these foundational 685 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:14,720 Speaker 2: things that as we grow in our faith, we should 686 00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:17,319 Speaker 2: be going deeper into these things, not for the sake 687 00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:19,880 Speaker 2: of just being some Christian scholar who says I know 688 00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:24,120 Speaker 2: it all, but to be a faithful disciple who worships, 689 00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:27,560 Speaker 2: knows and loves God and is able to help others, 690 00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:31,440 Speaker 2: the vulnerable, the least, the loss, the last, whoever you 691 00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:34,520 Speaker 2: want to say, the children, the adults to be able 692 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:37,960 Speaker 2: to walk out faith and reason the faith too, because 693 00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:39,560 Speaker 2: faith is a reasoning trust. 694 00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:40,920 Speaker 1: We can we can. 695 00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:47,640 Speaker 2: Truly believe this ancient religion if you will this very 696 00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:50,080 Speaker 2: real God who is still real today and have a 697 00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:51,120 Speaker 2: relationship with You're. 698 00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:52,759 Speaker 3: Going to You're gonna do. 699 00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:55,279 Speaker 1: I'm so excited. 700 00:36:55,760 --> 00:37:01,160 Speaker 2: Literally, I'm like ABC's Asians for Annointed, these dans beatitude. 701 00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:02,560 Speaker 1: It's gonna be great. 702 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:04,680 Speaker 4: I'm gonna make my own children's book. 703 00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:06,920 Speaker 1: Awesome. 704 00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:12,440 Speaker 3: You should make a satirical children's for baby theologians. You 705 00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:15,279 Speaker 3: should do that. That's a great idea. 706 00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:16,040 Speaker 1: I love that. 707 00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,640 Speaker 4: Forget about Gerber Godber. You know. 708 00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:23,280 Speaker 2: Anyways, Melissa, where can people grab their copy of the book, 709 00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:25,680 Speaker 2: Because by the time this episode is out, they can, 710 00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:27,879 Speaker 2: they can get it, they can order it. I'll link 711 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:30,000 Speaker 2: it all down below, but tell them give them the 712 00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:31,960 Speaker 2: whole s sure. I don't know when this will be out. 713 00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,279 Speaker 2: It's out March eleventh of twenty twenty six. I don't 714 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:35,480 Speaker 2: know how late you'll be, but. 715 00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, the day it'll be in April. 716 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:39,400 Speaker 1: It'll be in April to. 717 00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:41,560 Speaker 3: Day that the day that made the way. It's real 718 00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:45,040 Speaker 3: easy and go to Madethway dot com. You have three 719 00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:48,120 Speaker 3: options to buy the book. Oh and asunder plush. These 720 00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:51,120 Speaker 3: plushies are adorable. They have those together with a book bundle, 721 00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:53,319 Speaker 3: and then you can join the Brave Book Club if 722 00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:55,840 Speaker 3: you want. But yeah, go to Maddthway dot com to 723 00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:57,319 Speaker 3: get it. 724 00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:58,439 Speaker 1: Awesome and I'll link that too. 725 00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:00,319 Speaker 2: If y'all are just like I don't want to type 726 00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:02,319 Speaker 2: all that out, you can scroll. 727 00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:05,279 Speaker 4: Click, add the car, get a little pleasure to you. 728 00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:08,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna need to get one of those added to 729 00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:09,760 Speaker 1: my collector Richard. 730 00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:12,839 Speaker 2: Richard will look over and he's like, there's more here 731 00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:14,160 Speaker 2: than there was last week. 732 00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:17,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, that's so funny. How give it? Give it multiply? 733 00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:21,279 Speaker 3: Like right, the plush you know, it's all the trend 734 00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:24,520 Speaker 3: of this. The kids love the plushes. So whenever Brave 735 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:26,319 Speaker 3: was like, let's do something with the book and they 736 00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,919 Speaker 3: said plush, I'm like, that's let's do that. It was fine. 737 00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:31,440 Speaker 2: That well, sweet y'all could pick that up for your 738 00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:33,640 Speaker 2: kid or for you, I don't know, maybe you like 739 00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:37,560 Speaker 2: to collect, but no, we can. 740 00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:38,880 Speaker 3: We can. 741 00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:39,919 Speaker 4: We can be weird. 742 00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know me with like my jelly cats and 743 00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:47,359 Speaker 2: like looking over there, I'm like really cute over there. 744 00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:49,280 Speaker 4: But o dang. 745 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:51,440 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, thanks Melissa, Thanks for taking time to be 746 00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:54,520 Speaker 2: on here to just chat, to chat about your book 747 00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:57,200 Speaker 2: and chat about all things motherhood and theology. 748 00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:58,640 Speaker 3: Your shirt always love coming on. 749 00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:01,680 Speaker 2: Thanks for having me absolutely, and to all of y'all 750 00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:02,719 Speaker 2: who listened and tuned in. 751 00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:04,800 Speaker 4: I hope that this conversation was encouraging. 752 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:06,960 Speaker 2: I don't know if you thought it was gonna go 753 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:09,680 Speaker 2: this way. I knew it probably would because I loved 754 00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:12,239 Speaker 2: theology and I love Melissa, so I was excited to 755 00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:14,480 Speaker 2: have her on. But I hope that it encouraged you 756 00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:17,360 Speaker 2: in whatever way your own faith walk. 757 00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:20,560 Speaker 1: In your family that you have, or maybe even. 758 00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:23,080 Speaker 2: Your future family that you're praying for, you're trying for. 759 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:26,319 Speaker 2: I don't know, but I'm excited to see what testimonies 760 00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:28,440 Speaker 2: come from this and specifically this book. 761 00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:28,759 Speaker 4: Again. 762 00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:29,800 Speaker 1: It's linked down below. 763 00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:32,160 Speaker 2: Grab your copy today and I will see you guys 764 00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:34,920 Speaker 2: here again next week on the Bottom Beloved Podcast. 765 00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:36,880 Speaker 4: But until then, love you guys. 766 00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:38,480 Speaker 1: Bye, Live in the light. 767 00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:43,080 Speaker 2: For more life giving, faith based podcast just like this one. 768 00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:46,200 Speaker 2: Check out life audio dot com, a proud partner of 769 00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:49,759 Speaker 2: the bottom Beloved podcast