1 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: Life Audio. Hello, thank you for listening to your Daily 2 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: Bible Verse, the podcast that examines one verse each day 3 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 1: to learn more about God and his will for us. 4 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 1: I'm your host, joy A Williams, and after this short 5 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 1: word from our sponsor, we'll dive into today's Bible verse, 6 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 1: Colossians chapter three, verse thirteen. Today's Bible verse, it's Colossians 7 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:51,200 Speaker 1: chapter three, verse thirteen, and it says, bear with each 8 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 1: other and forgive one another. If any of you has 9 00:00:54,680 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: a grievance against someone, forgive as the Lord forgave you. Well, 10 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:04,960 Speaker 1: dear listener, I placed my faith in Christ many years ago, 11 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 1: but as a young adult, I went through a season 12 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:14,040 Speaker 1: where my faith was not my focus. Thankfully, this unfocused 13 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:18,400 Speaker 1: season of mine was interrupted by God's grace, and while 14 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 1: reading the scriptures, I was reminded that the forgiveness Christ 15 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: gives us is free, but we must receive the gift. Well. 16 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 1: With this needful reminder, I took out a sheet of 17 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 1: paper and I went into a confession frenzy. I mean, 18 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 1: I wrote every sin I committed or that I could recall. 19 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 1: And after the list was complete and my prayer of 20 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 1: repentance was done, I wondered what to do with the list. 21 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,919 Speaker 1: It had served its purpose and guilt had lost its power. 22 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: I tore the list into tiny pieces and threw it away, 23 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 1: But I knew each tattered piece was covered by the 24 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: blood of Jesus, which washes away our sin. Although that 25 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: experience was decades ago, I recall it from time to time. 26 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 1: But my recall has become the most useful when it's 27 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 1: time for me to forgive someone else. And In today's 28 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 1: Bible verse, the apostle Paul is writing to the Colossian 29 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 1: church about living as those made alive in Christ and 30 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:28,959 Speaker 1: forgiving as one who's been forgiven by Christ. Colossians three 31 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: and thirteen says, bear with each other and forgive one another. 32 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 1: If any of you has a grievance against someone, forgive 33 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: as the Lord forgave you. Oh but dear friend, when 34 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:45,640 Speaker 1: it comes to unforgiveness, then our focus shifts from being 35 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: forgiven by Christ to focusing on being hurt or angered 36 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 1: by someone else. Now, it's not that we should deny 37 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 1: the harmful impact of someone else's actions, but forgiving someone 38 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: who's us may feel like they're getting away with not 39 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: acknowledging what they did or said wrong. Forgiving an offense 40 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:12,920 Speaker 1: can feel like offering the offender of freedom they don't deserve. Well, 41 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: not put it that way, offering a freedom they don't deserve. 42 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 1: Isn't that exactly the way Christ forgives you and me? 43 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: And yet in our pain, our anger, and frustration, we 44 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 1: can be freely forgiven, but not free to forgive. We 45 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 1: can become bound by someone else's failure or their malice 46 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 1: instead of being liberated by the power of the cross, 47 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 1: where Jesus died for all of humanity sin. And we 48 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 1: read about that in Colossians chapter two, Verses thirteen through fifteen. 49 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: But back to Colossians chapter three, where our focus scripture 50 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 1: is particularly in verses five through ten. The apostle Paul 51 00:03:55,600 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 1: also shares a list of sins Christians should avoid. It's 52 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 1: not an exhaustive list, but yet it reminds me that 53 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 1: as pride and pain that we may have overheurt, that 54 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: pride and pain can make it easy for us to 55 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 1: give ourselves a pass for our sin while insisting that 56 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 1: someone else gets punished for theirs. Now I realized that, 57 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 1: depending on our life experiences, forgiving someone can be very difficult, 58 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:29,479 Speaker 1: and it might be a process over time, we may 59 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 1: need to learn or relearn biblical truths. We may need 60 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: help from a counseling professional while we heal from a 61 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:40,840 Speaker 1: wrong or a trauma we've suffered. And I find the 62 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 1: New Living Translation of Colossians three and thirteen helpful. It 63 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: reads a little differently from the first version I read, 64 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:53,279 Speaker 1: which is the NIV, and it says, make allowance for 65 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:57,720 Speaker 1: each other's faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember 66 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 1: the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Remember 67 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 1: the Lord forgave you. That phrase just sticks out to me, 68 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 1: and maybe our struggle with forgiving others is a case 69 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:15,119 Speaker 1: of spiritual amnesia, because, to be honest, over the years, 70 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: I've certainly added to that list for my young adult 71 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 1: year's concerning sin. But if we forget our own sinful 72 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 1: habits and our courage struggles, we can feel a lot 73 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 1: less empathy for someone else's sinful ways, because in Christ, 74 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:38,279 Speaker 1: being forgiven is a gift, but being unforgiving is like 75 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 1: hoarding the gift, meaning it's meant for us and no 76 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 1: one else. And I've certainly been there too, and I'm 77 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 1: grateful for the humbling way God corrects my hurting and 78 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:54,159 Speaker 1: spiritually forgetful heart. Of course, it's important to note that 79 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: making allowances for someone else does not mean making excuses 80 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:03,279 Speaker 1: for someone's bad behavior. It doesn't mean making light of 81 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 1: an egregious offense. I believe making allowances also means we 82 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: must make peace with the fact that we live in 83 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:16,039 Speaker 1: the fallen world, and sadly we often hurt one another. 84 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 1: But we can also make room for how Christ's redemption 85 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 1: makes a difference to you and to me. Let's pray 86 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:29,600 Speaker 1: about it. Dear God, thank you for the power of 87 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:34,840 Speaker 1: Christ's redemption. Because of Jesus, I am free and forgiven 88 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 1: of my sin. Help me to see why I am 89 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 1: bound by the sins of others. Lord, I receive your 90 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:46,239 Speaker 1: power to release them from the prison of my pain 91 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 1: and pride. May I begin to heal from the hurt 92 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 1: and walk in the liberty. And how Christ has set 93 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 1: me free. And this is our prayer in Jesus' name, 94 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 1: Amen a