1 00:00:08,165 --> 00:00:09,085 Speaker 1: Life audio. 2 00:00:11,285 --> 00:00:15,405 Speaker 2: Gen Z, oddly enough, is the least sexually active generation. 3 00:00:15,525 --> 00:00:16,285 Speaker 1: Isn't that interesting? 4 00:00:16,325 --> 00:00:19,285 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're the most open to Jesus. They're the most 5 00:00:19,365 --> 00:00:22,364 Speaker 2: isolated and alone, but they're most interconnected, so they're like 6 00:00:22,405 --> 00:00:24,565 Speaker 2: a walking, talking paradox in real time. 7 00:00:31,125 --> 00:00:34,085 Speaker 1: Hey, I'm going to be sitting down with my friend Ruslan. 8 00:00:34,165 --> 00:00:37,125 Speaker 1: Have you heard of him. He's a Christian YouTuber, he's 9 00:00:37,165 --> 00:00:40,925 Speaker 1: an author, he's an apologist, and he's also a rapper. 10 00:00:40,964 --> 00:00:45,645 Speaker 1: But Ruslan has become a significant voice in our culture today, 11 00:00:45,845 --> 00:00:49,364 Speaker 1: especially among younger people. So Ruslan and I are going 12 00:00:49,445 --> 00:00:52,245 Speaker 1: to be talking about a lot of things, including all 13 00:00:52,325 --> 00:00:57,165 Speaker 1: of this controversy and debating online, as well as what 14 00:00:57,405 --> 00:01:02,645 Speaker 1: he believes are signs of his spiritual awakening among younger people, 15 00:01:02,805 --> 00:01:05,485 Speaker 1: especially gen Z. We're also going to be talking about 16 00:01:05,605 --> 00:01:09,524 Speaker 1: this brand new book, Godly Ambition. I think you're gonna 17 00:01:09,565 --> 00:01:12,445 Speaker 1: love this interview. One last thing, you're going to discover 18 00:01:12,565 --> 00:01:16,485 Speaker 1: what my rap name would be if I decided to 19 00:01:16,565 --> 00:01:20,005 Speaker 1: be a rapper, which I don't see happening, but it's 20 00:01:20,045 --> 00:01:22,444 Speaker 1: good to know I have a name in case I 21 00:01:22,685 --> 00:01:25,405 Speaker 1: decide to do it. So let's dive in for this 22 00:01:25,565 --> 00:01:30,804 Speaker 1: interview with Ruslan, Well, Ruslan, great to be with you again. 23 00:01:31,205 --> 00:01:33,804 Speaker 2: Great to be with you again. This is our third 24 00:01:33,885 --> 00:01:34,845 Speaker 2: or fourth time. 25 00:01:34,765 --> 00:01:38,005 Speaker 1: Probably is. Yeah, So usually i'd come your way, So 26 00:01:38,084 --> 00:01:40,765 Speaker 1: things are coming my way. You know. I don't know 27 00:01:40,804 --> 00:01:44,285 Speaker 1: that I've ever heard a complete version of how you 28 00:01:44,365 --> 00:01:47,765 Speaker 1: came to faith in Christ. Tell us how that came about? 29 00:01:47,965 --> 00:01:54,365 Speaker 2: All right. So I'm ethnically Armenian, yes, my mother, what 30 00:01:54,485 --> 00:01:55,044 Speaker 2: if you were. 31 00:01:54,965 --> 00:01:56,525 Speaker 1: A minion, you'd be an Armenian. 32 00:01:56,565 --> 00:01:59,645 Speaker 2: Armenian, Armenian Armenian. Yeah, sometimes I am, depending on the 33 00:02:00,325 --> 00:02:01,085 Speaker 2: time of day. 34 00:02:01,125 --> 00:02:02,405 Speaker 1: It depends on the top and if. 35 00:02:02,405 --> 00:02:07,044 Speaker 2: SATs my Calvinist friends all the time. And I originally 36 00:02:07,445 --> 00:02:10,445 Speaker 2: from the Azaba John, which is just east of our 37 00:02:10,565 --> 00:02:14,045 Speaker 2: You were born born there, my goodness. And I came 38 00:02:14,085 --> 00:02:16,605 Speaker 2: to the United States because of the pilgrims of Baku 39 00:02:16,685 --> 00:02:19,365 Speaker 2: in the nineteen eighties. There's half a million Armenians that 40 00:02:19,405 --> 00:02:22,765 Speaker 2: were ethnically cleansed from Baku and we came to the 41 00:02:22,845 --> 00:02:25,725 Speaker 2: United States. And this is right before the fall of Communism. 42 00:02:25,765 --> 00:02:30,165 Speaker 2: So nineteen ninety one we come here, my mother and 43 00:02:30,205 --> 00:02:34,005 Speaker 2: my father split up, Communism falls, her family gets left behind. 44 00:02:34,725 --> 00:02:38,685 Speaker 2: She goes into a dark spiral of alcoholism, and depression 45 00:02:38,885 --> 00:02:43,605 Speaker 2: and toxic men. I slide into nineties gangster rap, which 46 00:02:43,605 --> 00:02:45,925 Speaker 2: I'm not sure how familiar you are with Doctor Dre's 47 00:02:45,965 --> 00:02:49,165 Speaker 2: the chronic Snoop Doggie Dog's Doggie style. This is what 48 00:02:49,205 --> 00:02:53,525 Speaker 2: disciples mean. Yeah, so no father in my life, completely, 49 00:02:53,965 --> 00:02:56,885 Speaker 2: no identity, no understanding, and it hadn't really heard about 50 00:02:56,925 --> 00:03:00,085 Speaker 2: God or Jesus much and it all kind of culminates 51 00:03:00,085 --> 00:03:02,685 Speaker 2: to me getting arrested and getting in trouble and all 52 00:03:02,725 --> 00:03:03,365 Speaker 2: this crazy things. 53 00:03:03,405 --> 00:03:04,285 Speaker 1: Did you get arrested for? 54 00:03:04,325 --> 00:03:08,205 Speaker 2: It is like an episode of World's Dumbest Criminals. I 55 00:03:08,245 --> 00:03:12,205 Speaker 2: don't know if you've ever seen that show. We had 56 00:03:12,205 --> 00:03:16,045 Speaker 2: a gang air quotes. We had a gang, and we 57 00:03:16,365 --> 00:03:18,885 Speaker 2: had a gang leader who was guy in his twenties 58 00:03:18,925 --> 00:03:21,205 Speaker 2: that was here from Detroit, and it was me, the 59 00:03:21,285 --> 00:03:24,205 Speaker 2: other refugee family, and one guy. So we had a gang. 60 00:03:24,525 --> 00:03:27,445 Speaker 2: And he gets arrested, and so our bright idea was 61 00:03:27,485 --> 00:03:30,045 Speaker 2: that in order to get him bail money, we were 62 00:03:30,085 --> 00:03:34,125 Speaker 2: going to break in to his girlfriend's other boyfriend's house 63 00:03:34,485 --> 00:03:36,805 Speaker 2: to get bail money. Wow, we didn't know that a 64 00:03:36,845 --> 00:03:40,285 Speaker 2: cop lived next door. My goodness, So we're breaking we're 65 00:03:40,325 --> 00:03:43,405 Speaker 2: breaking into this house. I'm the smallest one. I'm crawling 66 00:03:43,405 --> 00:03:45,845 Speaker 2: through this. I'm ten or eleven years old. 67 00:03:45,885 --> 00:03:48,245 Speaker 1: No, you are not. You're eleven years old. 68 00:03:48,405 --> 00:03:51,245 Speaker 2: A gang, Yeah, in a gang. Air quotes in a gang, 69 00:03:51,285 --> 00:03:52,725 Speaker 2: I'll tell you offline with the name of the gang 70 00:03:52,805 --> 00:03:53,405 Speaker 2: was you'll have you a gain? 71 00:03:53,525 --> 00:03:53,965 Speaker 1: I want to hear. 72 00:03:54,605 --> 00:03:57,005 Speaker 2: And so I'm in. I'm in the bathroom window and 73 00:03:57,045 --> 00:03:59,245 Speaker 2: we have a lookout that wasn't a great lookout, and 74 00:03:59,285 --> 00:04:03,245 Speaker 2: the cop next door was off duty, and he takes 75 00:04:03,285 --> 00:04:06,965 Speaker 2: our lookout, puts him in an armbar and tells me to 76 00:04:07,005 --> 00:04:08,965 Speaker 2: get out and get on the ground, and the cops came. 77 00:04:09,205 --> 00:04:11,605 Speaker 2: We got arrested and fully arrested you, fully arrested to 78 00:04:11,885 --> 00:04:14,085 Speaker 2: you everything and cuffs in the back of a police car. 79 00:04:14,205 --> 00:04:17,005 Speaker 2: My poor mom gets off work. She's working nights at 80 00:04:17,005 --> 00:04:19,285 Speaker 2: this point at a casino. She has to come out 81 00:04:19,565 --> 00:04:21,645 Speaker 2: get me out of this. And they took me in. 82 00:04:22,245 --> 00:04:25,085 Speaker 2: They they separated us in different rooms, and I knew 83 00:04:25,165 --> 00:04:27,325 Speaker 2: right away I am not about that life. Like I'm 84 00:04:27,365 --> 00:04:31,205 Speaker 2: a scrawny Russian Armenian kid. This is not the life 85 00:04:31,285 --> 00:04:35,285 Speaker 2: for me. Subsequently, I had to do probation and community 86 00:04:35,325 --> 00:04:35,925 Speaker 2: service hours. 87 00:04:36,245 --> 00:04:38,125 Speaker 1: You're twelve at this pointment, yeah. 88 00:04:37,965 --> 00:04:40,445 Speaker 2: Seventh grade and I wait till the very last minute 89 00:04:40,485 --> 00:04:42,365 Speaker 2: to do my It wasn't even that many community service. 90 00:04:42,365 --> 00:04:43,925 Speaker 2: I was like thirty hours of community service. And the 91 00:04:44,005 --> 00:04:45,965 Speaker 2: only way I can get him done in time is 92 00:04:46,005 --> 00:04:49,565 Speaker 2: if I did him with our neighbor Shari, who also 93 00:04:49,685 --> 00:04:52,365 Speaker 2: had a crazy encounter with Jesus in prison, came out 94 00:04:52,725 --> 00:04:56,605 Speaker 2: converts our entire apartment complex except the two refugee families, 95 00:04:56,845 --> 00:04:58,645 Speaker 2: and I have to go to her church to get 96 00:04:58,645 --> 00:05:01,085 Speaker 2: the community service hours done. And these are the folks 97 00:05:01,125 --> 00:05:02,565 Speaker 2: that share the gospel with me. It's like a Black 98 00:05:02,565 --> 00:05:06,085 Speaker 2: Baptist church community. They start telling me about Jesus. Wo. Yeah, 99 00:05:06,085 --> 00:05:08,645 Speaker 2: they started, and not just talking about Jesus, but saying like, 100 00:05:09,485 --> 00:05:11,765 Speaker 2: you're going to do great things for the Lord. Someday 101 00:05:12,085 --> 00:05:13,445 Speaker 2: God's going to use you to reach a million. 102 00:05:13,485 --> 00:05:16,325 Speaker 1: You know, I did that passage talks about a brand 103 00:05:16,365 --> 00:05:18,765 Speaker 1: plucked out of the fire and my you know, you 104 00:05:18,805 --> 00:05:20,805 Speaker 1: know my story. We've talked before, but you know, with 105 00:05:20,885 --> 00:05:24,325 Speaker 1: my alcoholic mother and all that. You know it. And 106 00:05:24,365 --> 00:05:26,685 Speaker 1: it's funny. No one actually shared the gospel with me, 107 00:05:26,765 --> 00:05:29,805 Speaker 1: but I over I came to a group of Christians 108 00:05:30,005 --> 00:05:32,925 Speaker 1: talking about their faith. Her Luney Frisbee, who we've talked about, 109 00:05:33,325 --> 00:05:35,045 Speaker 1: and that was the day I accept at Christ. But 110 00:05:35,485 --> 00:05:37,965 Speaker 1: it's just like the Lord looked at at two young 111 00:05:38,085 --> 00:05:40,844 Speaker 1: kids in the worst kind of a setting and said, 112 00:05:40,965 --> 00:05:42,485 Speaker 1: I love you and I'm going to reach you. Because 113 00:05:42,485 --> 00:05:45,565 Speaker 1: who would have ever thought that that little kid getting 114 00:05:45,725 --> 00:05:47,845 Speaker 1: arrested at eleven or twelve? 115 00:05:47,845 --> 00:05:49,645 Speaker 2: I was that it was ten or eleven. 116 00:05:49,765 --> 00:05:53,125 Speaker 1: I mean, you could have so easily fallen life of crime, 117 00:05:53,605 --> 00:05:57,645 Speaker 1: ended up with a drug overdose, ended up dead. And 118 00:05:57,885 --> 00:05:59,645 Speaker 1: this lady came into her life and. 119 00:05:59,765 --> 00:06:01,685 Speaker 2: Make sure Rejackson. I'm still friends with her, still friends 120 00:06:01,725 --> 00:06:02,125 Speaker 2: with her son. 121 00:06:02,205 --> 00:06:02,445 Speaker 1: Wow. 122 00:06:02,725 --> 00:06:05,365 Speaker 2: They still sharing the gospel with me. And thankfully it 123 00:06:06,005 --> 00:06:08,445 Speaker 2: doesn't take I'm still a knucklehead. We're still breaking in 124 00:06:08,485 --> 00:06:13,164 Speaker 2: the houses. And then right as seventh grade finishes, uh, 125 00:06:13,245 --> 00:06:15,885 Speaker 2: it kind of all hits the fan. We break into 126 00:06:15,885 --> 00:06:17,965 Speaker 2: this guy's house, they send someone to beat me up, 127 00:06:18,045 --> 00:06:21,205 Speaker 2: someone else is trying to stab me. Uh it was 128 00:06:21,245 --> 00:06:23,605 Speaker 2: it was just us. So this is this is the 129 00:06:23,725 --> 00:06:26,325 Speaker 2: this is seventh grade. Wow. And then right is all 130 00:06:26,365 --> 00:06:29,405 Speaker 2: this is about to hit the fan. My mom relocates 131 00:06:29,485 --> 00:06:32,045 Speaker 2: us to North County, San Diego, to Vista, California, which 132 00:06:32,085 --> 00:06:34,245 Speaker 2: that's where you came by, and I grew I grew 133 00:06:34,285 --> 00:06:36,005 Speaker 2: end up growing up in eighth grade about a mile 134 00:06:36,045 --> 00:06:37,565 Speaker 2: from where I live. Now, where were you in the 135 00:06:38,045 --> 00:06:40,485 Speaker 2: San Diego Normal Heights City Heights area? Very different San 136 00:06:40,525 --> 00:06:42,485 Speaker 2: Diego in the nineties, So this is like, yeah, this 137 00:06:42,605 --> 00:06:44,645 Speaker 2: is a anybody who was familiar with San Diego City 138 00:06:44,685 --> 00:06:49,325 Speaker 2: Heights Normal Heights area, And so we relocate and I 139 00:06:49,445 --> 00:06:53,005 Speaker 2: end up. I knew that I wasn't about that life. 140 00:06:53,045 --> 00:06:54,725 Speaker 2: I wasn't a criminal, I wasn't a tough guy. So 141 00:06:54,765 --> 00:06:55,965 Speaker 2: I go down the route of like, I'm gonna be 142 00:06:55,965 --> 00:06:58,085 Speaker 2: a basketball player. This is Michael Jordan's last year with 143 00:06:58,125 --> 00:07:00,605 Speaker 2: the with the Bulls, so I want to be like Mike. 144 00:07:00,965 --> 00:07:02,605 Speaker 2: No one tells me that I'm five foot nine in 145 00:07:02,605 --> 00:07:06,645 Speaker 2: the Armenian uh, So my identity is anchored in being 146 00:07:06,645 --> 00:07:09,645 Speaker 2: this professional basketball player. I start doing music at the 147 00:07:09,645 --> 00:07:13,845 Speaker 2: same time basketball completely falls apart. I get cut. I 148 00:07:13,965 --> 00:07:16,685 Speaker 2: start dating a Christian girl because I won this talent show, 149 00:07:16,685 --> 00:07:18,765 Speaker 2: and the only way I could see her over the 150 00:07:18,765 --> 00:07:20,845 Speaker 2: summer is if I went to church with her and 151 00:07:20,885 --> 00:07:24,645 Speaker 2: her family. It was a church planted by Horizon Church, 152 00:07:24,685 --> 00:07:29,925 Speaker 2: which is an offshoot of Calvary New Venture Christian Fellowship 153 00:07:30,125 --> 00:07:33,925 Speaker 2: with pastor Sean Mitchell in San Diego, So Junior Sea 154 00:07:34,045 --> 00:07:35,725 Speaker 2: went there. A bunch of charges guys went there. So 155 00:07:35,725 --> 00:07:37,725 Speaker 2: I ended up just coming and hearing the gospel, hearing 156 00:07:37,765 --> 00:07:41,285 Speaker 2: the gospel, hearing the gospel, and I was one of 157 00:07:41,285 --> 00:07:43,125 Speaker 2: those kids. I put my hand up every week for 158 00:07:43,285 --> 00:07:45,605 Speaker 2: years and years, Me and the Christian girl break up. 159 00:07:45,605 --> 00:07:48,205 Speaker 2: I start dating a Jehovah's witness girl. So now I'm 160 00:07:48,405 --> 00:07:49,445 Speaker 2: all sorts of confused. 161 00:07:49,725 --> 00:07:52,525 Speaker 1: God keeps treating you and you keep going hear enough. 162 00:07:53,165 --> 00:07:57,245 Speaker 2: So I'm now like, is Jesus God? Is Jesus a God? 163 00:07:57,525 --> 00:07:59,845 Speaker 2: What about the Mormons? What about the Muslims? What about 164 00:07:59,885 --> 00:08:03,005 Speaker 2: the New Thought universes? God, You're one with the universe? 165 00:08:03,325 --> 00:08:05,485 Speaker 2: What about the aliens? What about all this other stuff? 166 00:08:05,485 --> 00:08:09,205 Speaker 2: So I'm just confused this can be? And God continually 167 00:08:09,325 --> 00:08:12,885 Speaker 2: pursuing me. I'm working at Pizza Hut, still the best 168 00:08:12,925 --> 00:08:15,725 Speaker 2: pizza for the record, I think he thinks absolutely. 169 00:08:15,245 --> 00:08:17,725 Speaker 1: Okay, I have all I've lost all respect for you 170 00:08:17,765 --> 00:08:21,285 Speaker 1: with food recommendation because I'll need someone They'll say this 171 00:08:21,405 --> 00:08:24,125 Speaker 1: is the best pizza burger whatever, and I'll say, Okay, 172 00:08:24,165 --> 00:08:27,045 Speaker 1: I'm just telling you right now based on this recommendation, 173 00:08:27,125 --> 00:08:29,765 Speaker 1: I'm gonna put you on one of two, either the 174 00:08:29,805 --> 00:08:32,205 Speaker 1: guy called say where's the good food here? Or the 175 00:08:32,285 --> 00:08:35,365 Speaker 1: guy I don't call. I think Pizza Hut's fine, but 176 00:08:35,405 --> 00:08:36,804 Speaker 1: if that's the best pizzabody, that's. 177 00:08:36,725 --> 00:08:38,485 Speaker 2: The best pizza for me. Okay, So we got I 178 00:08:38,485 --> 00:08:39,165 Speaker 2: gotta hey, well. 179 00:08:39,325 --> 00:08:41,685 Speaker 1: This week, I like Taco bell still and I like 180 00:08:41,725 --> 00:08:44,085 Speaker 1: to get the Inturido Talko belt, and I can't get 181 00:08:44,165 --> 00:08:45,045 Speaker 1: anyone to go with me. 182 00:08:45,325 --> 00:08:46,605 Speaker 2: Yeah, I wouldn't go with you either. 183 00:08:46,445 --> 00:08:48,165 Speaker 1: All right, So I got you off the path here. 184 00:08:48,245 --> 00:08:50,285 Speaker 2: So we're going to a Pizza Hut. I lie at 185 00:08:50,325 --> 00:08:52,444 Speaker 2: fifteen years old. I lie on the application. I say 186 00:08:52,485 --> 00:08:56,845 Speaker 2: I'm sixteen. I get this job. I'm in the back 187 00:08:56,845 --> 00:08:59,645 Speaker 2: one day. My manager name is Barb. She's a Christian, 188 00:08:59,885 --> 00:09:02,725 Speaker 2: and our lead delivery driver he's a Christian. And I'm 189 00:09:02,765 --> 00:09:06,285 Speaker 2: processing all this as Jesus God. Is Jesus a God? 190 00:09:07,085 --> 00:09:12,805 Speaker 2: So I'm sophomore year, so sixteen. I'm talking about the Mormons, 191 00:09:12,805 --> 00:09:16,965 Speaker 2: the Jehovah's witnesses. I'm basically an aryan functionally theologically, I 192 00:09:17,005 --> 00:09:18,605 Speaker 2: like Jesus the son of God, but he's not God. 193 00:09:19,085 --> 00:09:22,845 Speaker 2: And they start telling me the gospel again, and they 194 00:09:22,845 --> 00:09:25,444 Speaker 2: hand me a book and it's called The New Evidence 195 00:09:25,445 --> 00:09:28,245 Speaker 2: that Demands a Verdict by doctor joshmn Oh wow. Yeah. 196 00:09:28,285 --> 00:09:31,365 Speaker 2: And I take that book home. I read it. I 197 00:09:31,565 --> 00:09:34,885 Speaker 2: end up devouring it. I called the Jehoah's Witness girl. 198 00:09:34,925 --> 00:09:38,845 Speaker 2: I told her she's in a cult. Probably not Probably 199 00:09:38,885 --> 00:09:42,324 Speaker 2: not the wisest thing to do. And I keep going 200 00:09:42,365 --> 00:09:45,365 Speaker 2: to church, keep going to church, and then I have 201 00:09:45,445 --> 00:09:46,885 Speaker 2: to do the one foot in, one foot out thing 202 00:09:46,925 --> 00:09:49,285 Speaker 2: for a while. I go back to dating the Christian girl, 203 00:09:49,325 --> 00:09:52,205 Speaker 2: and we're furnicating, and I'm in sin and I'm a mess. 204 00:09:52,405 --> 00:09:57,125 Speaker 2: And then it all culminates too. The year two thousand 205 00:09:57,245 --> 00:10:01,805 Speaker 2: and two, July fourth, I do my first public profession 206 00:10:01,845 --> 00:10:03,445 Speaker 2: of faith when I came down to an altar call 207 00:10:03,845 --> 00:10:07,165 Speaker 2: at a Miles Ahead Crusade, San Diego. Of course. Yeah, 208 00:10:07,205 --> 00:10:09,645 Speaker 2: Miles McPherson, Yeah, who I'm friends with right now. Yeah, 209 00:10:09,645 --> 00:10:10,165 Speaker 2: really trippy. 210 00:10:10,205 --> 00:10:10,765 Speaker 1: He's a great guy. 211 00:10:10,805 --> 00:10:13,765 Speaker 2: He's amazing guy. And that was my profession of faith 212 00:10:13,805 --> 00:10:14,525 Speaker 2: immediately after that. 213 00:10:14,565 --> 00:10:18,405 Speaker 1: Why do you think it? I mean I actually responded 214 00:10:18,645 --> 00:10:22,085 Speaker 1: effectively the first time I heard the gospel. But you 215 00:10:22,205 --> 00:10:24,365 Speaker 1: heard it, heard it, heard it, raise your cand at 216 00:10:24,445 --> 00:10:27,565 Speaker 1: church over and over. Yeah, you read Josh mcdowall's book 217 00:10:27,605 --> 00:10:31,005 Speaker 1: that really helped. But then it all came together with 218 00:10:31,165 --> 00:10:34,365 Speaker 1: an event with Miles. What do you think made to finally. 219 00:10:34,085 --> 00:10:37,845 Speaker 2: Take I'm naturally more skeptical, Yeah, it seems that way, 220 00:10:37,965 --> 00:10:41,165 Speaker 2: And I'm a thinker and I want to turn every 221 00:10:41,165 --> 00:10:44,564 Speaker 2: corner and ask every question and examine everything. So I'm 222 00:10:44,645 --> 00:10:47,165 Speaker 2: naturally a bit more skeptical, which sometimes is a good thing. 223 00:10:47,205 --> 00:10:50,045 Speaker 2: So that's could be collete to cynicism. And I think 224 00:10:50,085 --> 00:10:53,605 Speaker 2: I also started, really before giving my life to the lot, 225 00:10:53,605 --> 00:10:56,925 Speaker 2: I started forming Christian community, so I was around Christians 226 00:10:57,045 --> 00:11:01,365 Speaker 2: more and so that became the I think the segways 227 00:11:01,485 --> 00:11:04,765 Speaker 2: I needed fertile ground to plant myself. 228 00:11:04,885 --> 00:11:07,205 Speaker 1: It seems to me like not only was the Lord 229 00:11:07,245 --> 00:11:10,725 Speaker 1: preparing you to bring you to himself, but he was 230 00:11:10,765 --> 00:11:13,325 Speaker 1: preparing you for what he was calling you to do. 231 00:11:13,885 --> 00:11:17,925 Speaker 1: Because you come from this crazy environment and God gets 232 00:11:17,925 --> 00:11:21,525 Speaker 1: hold of you, but you're skeptical. You're thinking a lot, 233 00:11:21,725 --> 00:11:24,324 Speaker 1: even as a young kid, and now here you are 234 00:11:24,525 --> 00:11:26,085 Speaker 1: still holl to you today. 235 00:11:26,365 --> 00:11:27,165 Speaker 2: So I'm forty one. 236 00:11:27,245 --> 00:11:30,125 Speaker 1: Okay, so you're forty one years old, but God's using 237 00:11:30,165 --> 00:11:32,684 Speaker 1: you to be a voice to a younger generation. I 238 00:11:32,725 --> 00:11:36,125 Speaker 1: think to an older generation too, helping an older generation 239 00:11:36,325 --> 00:11:39,525 Speaker 1: understand a younger generation, but at the same time having 240 00:11:39,565 --> 00:11:43,125 Speaker 1: a real heart to reach culture and to tackle the 241 00:11:43,165 --> 00:11:47,645 Speaker 1: subjects maybe others would not want to tackle, and you're 242 00:11:47,685 --> 00:11:50,485 Speaker 1: not afraid to. So it seems like God was preparing 243 00:11:50,525 --> 00:11:53,805 Speaker 1: you from the beginning for what you're doing right now. Yeah. 244 00:11:54,245 --> 00:11:58,045 Speaker 2: I would think so, because immediately after getting saved, were 245 00:11:58,085 --> 00:12:00,005 Speaker 2: like really surrendering my life. I was already going to church, 246 00:12:00,045 --> 00:12:02,365 Speaker 2: but fully surrendering my life. After that, I end up 247 00:12:02,365 --> 00:12:06,285 Speaker 2: starting a Bible study. We start doing open mic night, 248 00:12:06,565 --> 00:12:09,125 Speaker 2: so we'd do an open mic, we'd wrap, we'd do poetry. 249 00:12:09,285 --> 00:12:11,525 Speaker 1: Yeah, I left out the part you were like, you 250 00:12:11,565 --> 00:12:13,725 Speaker 1: had a rapping you had a career, is a rapper? 251 00:12:13,765 --> 00:12:14,725 Speaker 2: Yeah, I had a rapping career. 252 00:12:14,765 --> 00:12:15,845 Speaker 1: And what was your name? 253 00:12:15,925 --> 00:12:16,805 Speaker 2: This is my name Ruslan. 254 00:12:16,885 --> 00:12:19,645 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's Katy though Katie. 255 00:12:19,645 --> 00:12:21,925 Speaker 2: We added after the fact for like YouTube, if I 256 00:12:22,125 --> 00:12:22,645 Speaker 2: became a. 257 00:12:22,645 --> 00:12:24,685 Speaker 1: Rapper, what would my name be? 258 00:12:25,325 --> 00:12:29,965 Speaker 2: Greg Geezy Geezy Greg g the st Yeah that's that's 259 00:12:29,965 --> 00:12:30,525 Speaker 2: a good one. 260 00:12:30,565 --> 00:12:33,285 Speaker 1: Okay, so thank you for that. Yeah, I've never been 261 00:12:33,325 --> 00:12:34,205 Speaker 1: given a rap name. 262 00:12:34,285 --> 00:12:35,525 Speaker 2: Yeah, well you're very creative. 263 00:12:36,125 --> 00:12:36,885 Speaker 1: You're very creative. 264 00:12:37,165 --> 00:12:39,645 Speaker 2: So I start a Bible study right after open mic, 265 00:12:39,725 --> 00:12:42,085 Speaker 2: I bring pizza, hut, pizza, back to the pizza, back 266 00:12:42,085 --> 00:12:44,445 Speaker 2: to the pizza. So we just would we'd have pizza 267 00:12:44,525 --> 00:12:47,045 Speaker 2: left over on the oven everything everyone loves pizza, and 268 00:12:47,085 --> 00:12:49,444 Speaker 2: I'd grab a box of those leftover pizzas that were 269 00:12:49,485 --> 00:12:53,205 Speaker 2: mess ups, throw a Bible study slash open mic, and 270 00:12:53,205 --> 00:12:55,285 Speaker 2: then we ended up having you know, eighty ninety one 271 00:12:55,325 --> 00:12:58,285 Speaker 2: hundred kids every Thursday that would show up and we 272 00:12:58,285 --> 00:12:58,845 Speaker 2: would did. 273 00:12:58,725 --> 00:13:01,685 Speaker 1: You ever a feel like Colin becoming the pastor yourself? 274 00:13:01,725 --> 00:13:06,205 Speaker 2: So? I know because I understood the role of a 275 00:13:06,285 --> 00:13:09,845 Speaker 2: local shepherd and the weight that carried, and I knew 276 00:13:10,525 --> 00:13:14,685 Speaker 2: my matter of fractness the way I talk, I'm not 277 00:13:15,245 --> 00:13:18,925 Speaker 2: the most gentle with the shepherding aspect. So people would 278 00:13:18,925 --> 00:13:22,005 Speaker 2: come to me and be like, man, I'm sleepy, want 279 00:13:22,045 --> 00:13:25,245 Speaker 2: my girlfriend, and I'll just be like, stop, stop, don't 280 00:13:25,245 --> 00:13:25,725 Speaker 2: do that, no more. 281 00:13:25,725 --> 00:13:28,165 Speaker 1: I don't know that not being a good shepherd. 282 00:13:27,805 --> 00:13:29,885 Speaker 2: Well, they would they would need to be coddled, they 283 00:13:29,885 --> 00:13:32,805 Speaker 2: would need to be encouraged, and they need to be pathologized, 284 00:13:32,805 --> 00:13:34,085 Speaker 2: and I was just like, just cut it out. So 285 00:13:34,125 --> 00:13:37,365 Speaker 2: I wasn't so, but I was doing functional ministry in 286 00:13:37,405 --> 00:13:41,085 Speaker 2: a local context, and that Bible study evolved and it 287 00:13:41,125 --> 00:13:43,085 Speaker 2: became an open mic ministry and you get a couple 288 00:13:43,125 --> 00:13:47,684 Speaker 2: hundred people, and then we started doing no I stopped 289 00:13:47,685 --> 00:13:50,485 Speaker 2: that around about about ten years ago. That evolved into 290 00:13:50,485 --> 00:13:53,525 Speaker 2: a men's group. So we do this men's group and 291 00:13:53,565 --> 00:13:55,525 Speaker 2: the men. We would get men into church, and it 292 00:13:55,565 --> 00:13:57,685 Speaker 2: would be they would want to be committed, and so 293 00:13:57,765 --> 00:13:59,525 Speaker 2: we'd say, hey, you're gonna come into this, you gotta 294 00:13:59,525 --> 00:14:01,485 Speaker 2: come for sixteen weeks. We do the Bible in a year. 295 00:14:02,245 --> 00:14:04,084 Speaker 2: And they would come in with all their fears and 296 00:14:04,165 --> 00:14:07,125 Speaker 2: all their stress and I heard this, and I read this, 297 00:14:07,245 --> 00:14:09,365 Speaker 2: and Alex Jones and this thing, and so we would 298 00:14:09,405 --> 00:14:12,685 Speaker 2: have to kind of detangle whatever anxieties they had to 299 00:14:12,725 --> 00:14:15,285 Speaker 2: then segue into the scripture. And that's functionally what I 300 00:14:15,325 --> 00:14:17,605 Speaker 2: do on YouTube now is I'm trying to take the 301 00:14:17,605 --> 00:14:19,845 Speaker 2: things that people are nervous about and anxious about with 302 00:14:19,925 --> 00:14:22,965 Speaker 2: the culture, trending events, news, and trying to segue them 303 00:14:23,005 --> 00:14:24,045 Speaker 2: back into with the scriptures. 304 00:14:24,045 --> 00:14:26,285 Speaker 1: See you've just written a book. Yes, is this your 305 00:14:26,325 --> 00:14:26,805 Speaker 1: first book? 306 00:14:26,845 --> 00:14:27,285 Speaker 2: First book? 307 00:14:27,365 --> 00:14:28,885 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's called Godly Ambition. 308 00:14:29,005 --> 00:14:29,645 Speaker 2: God the Ambition. 309 00:14:29,725 --> 00:14:32,565 Speaker 1: People often think, oh no, don't be ambitious, be humble. 310 00:14:33,165 --> 00:14:35,405 Speaker 1: So tell me what godly ambition is. 311 00:14:35,725 --> 00:14:39,165 Speaker 2: So the word ambition is one of those interesting words 312 00:14:39,165 --> 00:14:42,365 Speaker 2: where I did a New Testament dive on that word, 313 00:14:42,605 --> 00:14:46,045 Speaker 2: and there's a forbidding of selfish ambition, and I discovered 314 00:14:46,045 --> 00:14:48,765 Speaker 2: that word we're selfish ambition. The Greek is edithea. It 315 00:14:48,925 --> 00:14:51,965 Speaker 2: is a claboring, it is a getting your way by 316 00:14:51,965 --> 00:14:55,205 Speaker 2: any means necessary. But then I discovered that there's a 317 00:14:55,285 --> 00:14:57,845 Speaker 2: positive sense of the word ambition that's used three times, 318 00:14:57,845 --> 00:15:02,725 Speaker 2: not two times. And Paul is writing dis Churching Dustanika. 319 00:15:04,445 --> 00:15:08,405 Speaker 2: They're doing well, but there's persecution, and they're worried, and 320 00:15:08,445 --> 00:15:10,405 Speaker 2: they're anxious, and they're stressed out, and they're asking them 321 00:15:10,405 --> 00:15:14,165 Speaker 2: all the eschatology questions, all the end Times questions, and 322 00:15:14,405 --> 00:15:17,325 Speaker 2: they're ready for Jesus to come back. But they're so 323 00:15:17,365 --> 00:15:18,885 Speaker 2: ready for Jesus to come back, they're kind of letting 324 00:15:18,925 --> 00:15:22,165 Speaker 2: their life go. They're kind of punting it. And Paul 325 00:15:22,325 --> 00:15:25,725 Speaker 2: has to write to them twice and stir some godly 326 00:15:25,765 --> 00:15:29,445 Speaker 2: ambition in them because they're so concerned with the persecution 327 00:15:29,605 --> 00:15:32,845 Speaker 2: and all the craziness. So Paul and first Thesalonians four 328 00:15:33,805 --> 00:15:36,205 Speaker 2: ten to eleven, he tells them, and make it your 329 00:15:36,245 --> 00:15:37,845 Speaker 2: ambition talks about how you guys are doing good for 330 00:15:37,845 --> 00:15:39,405 Speaker 2: the Church of Macedonia. I need you to do more. 331 00:15:39,685 --> 00:15:42,725 Speaker 2: It sounded like the church in Thesalonika was prosperous, like 332 00:15:42,805 --> 00:15:44,885 Speaker 2: they had the ability to do well, and the Church 333 00:15:44,965 --> 00:15:48,405 Speaker 2: of Macedonia was going through famine. So Paul is like, 334 00:15:48,445 --> 00:15:50,325 Speaker 2: you guys can step up and be a blessing to 335 00:15:50,405 --> 00:15:52,525 Speaker 2: these other churches in your region. I need you to 336 00:15:52,605 --> 00:15:54,285 Speaker 2: do more and more. I know you love Macedonia. I 337 00:15:54,365 --> 00:15:57,205 Speaker 2: need you to do more. Make it your ambition to 338 00:15:57,325 --> 00:16:00,325 Speaker 2: lead a quiet life. And people say quiet life, and 339 00:16:00,405 --> 00:16:02,125 Speaker 2: they think I'm not supposed to say anything. I'm suposed 340 00:16:02,125 --> 00:16:04,325 Speaker 2: to be quiet. No, Paul wasn't quiet. Paul was very bold, 341 00:16:04,445 --> 00:16:07,925 Speaker 2: very u telling them don't be hysterical about. 342 00:16:07,725 --> 00:16:08,685 Speaker 1: All the craziness. 343 00:16:08,765 --> 00:16:11,325 Speaker 2: Don't don't be one of these busy bodies. That's what 344 00:16:11,405 --> 00:16:13,725 Speaker 2: he calls them in Second Thessalonians, Right, So he says, 345 00:16:13,885 --> 00:16:16,125 Speaker 2: make it the ambition to the quiet life. Work with 346 00:16:16,205 --> 00:16:18,685 Speaker 2: your own hands, so that you may not be dependent 347 00:16:18,765 --> 00:16:22,565 Speaker 2: on anybody, so that your daily life may win the 348 00:16:22,645 --> 00:16:26,125 Speaker 2: respect of outsiders. And the more and more I thought 349 00:16:26,165 --> 00:16:28,445 Speaker 2: about that, I said, man, is that not a word 350 00:16:28,565 --> 00:16:30,965 Speaker 2: for this generation? You have a lot of people that 351 00:16:31,005 --> 00:16:34,525 Speaker 2: are hysterical. They're confused, they're scared, they're nervous. What about this? 352 00:16:34,685 --> 00:16:37,365 Speaker 2: What about the uncertainty of economy? What about housing prices? 353 00:16:37,445 --> 00:16:39,325 Speaker 2: All the boomers bought up all the houses and got 354 00:16:39,365 --> 00:16:41,365 Speaker 2: their two percent interest rates and they don't want to 355 00:16:41,365 --> 00:16:42,885 Speaker 2: sell that. I'll never be able to buy a house. 356 00:16:43,325 --> 00:16:44,925 Speaker 2: And then Jesus has come in. Everything's going ah hell 357 00:16:44,925 --> 00:16:45,565 Speaker 2: on in a hand basket? 358 00:16:45,645 --> 00:16:46,205 Speaker 1: What about his love? 359 00:16:46,245 --> 00:16:49,125 Speaker 2: And what about this? What? These are legitimate concerns, But 360 00:16:50,005 --> 00:16:52,125 Speaker 2: we're called to make it our ambitions to the quiet life, 361 00:16:52,165 --> 00:16:54,125 Speaker 2: working with our own hands, minding our own business, so 362 00:16:54,205 --> 00:16:56,925 Speaker 2: that our daily life may win the respective outsiders. That's 363 00:16:57,005 --> 00:16:58,645 Speaker 2: kind of what anchor that verse. Paul used that same 364 00:16:58,685 --> 00:17:01,485 Speaker 2: word filio timome. He uses it two other words. He says, 365 00:17:01,485 --> 00:17:03,725 Speaker 2: I'm making my ambition to preach the gospel where others 366 00:17:03,765 --> 00:17:05,605 Speaker 2: have been, and then he says, I make it my 367 00:17:05,725 --> 00:17:07,365 Speaker 2: ambition to do what pleases God. 368 00:17:07,445 --> 00:17:07,685 Speaker 1: Wow. 369 00:17:07,925 --> 00:17:09,685 Speaker 2: And so that's the three times that word is used, 370 00:17:09,844 --> 00:17:12,685 Speaker 2: funny enough that Thessalonians didn't get it. He had to 371 00:17:12,725 --> 00:17:15,365 Speaker 2: write them again and second Thessalonians and say, I'm hearing 372 00:17:15,405 --> 00:17:18,364 Speaker 2: you guys are idle don't sit with the believer and 373 00:17:18,405 --> 00:17:20,965 Speaker 2: have food with a believer that's idol. He's disruptive, you know, 374 00:17:21,044 --> 00:17:22,925 Speaker 2: he's a busy body. And then he goes on to 375 00:17:23,004 --> 00:17:25,764 Speaker 2: drop the bomb a man who ought not work, ought 376 00:17:25,844 --> 00:17:28,764 Speaker 2: not eat? Right, which we have seven million men right 377 00:17:28,804 --> 00:17:30,725 Speaker 2: now that are completely checked out of the labor force, 378 00:17:30,885 --> 00:17:33,604 Speaker 2: able body, men that could work, checked out of the 379 00:17:33,645 --> 00:17:35,484 Speaker 2: labor force. Who's taking care of these guys? Whose couches 380 00:17:35,484 --> 00:17:36,124 Speaker 2: are they sleeping on? 381 00:17:36,564 --> 00:17:36,725 Speaker 1: Right? 382 00:17:36,804 --> 00:17:40,445 Speaker 2: And so it really was stirring that and saying, I 383 00:17:40,524 --> 00:17:42,405 Speaker 2: have some insight, have solved some problems in my own 384 00:17:42,445 --> 00:17:44,804 Speaker 2: life with regards to this, and coming from a single 385 00:17:44,885 --> 00:17:47,004 Speaker 2: parent home, how can I kind of give men some 386 00:17:47,205 --> 00:17:50,004 Speaker 2: frameworks that ultimately anchors them and the God. Supposed the 387 00:17:50,004 --> 00:17:51,844 Speaker 2: biggest compliment I get when people read to be the 388 00:17:51,925 --> 00:17:54,804 Speaker 2: Work is like this is so enriched with scripture, you know, 389 00:17:54,885 --> 00:17:57,325 Speaker 2: but it's very practical, and it's giving people a framework 390 00:17:57,405 --> 00:18:00,685 Speaker 2: to figure out your purpose. You're calling I loved when 391 00:18:00,925 --> 00:18:03,085 Speaker 2: I was at harvest. You guys have the no God 392 00:18:03,165 --> 00:18:05,045 Speaker 2: and make him known anywhere? Right? And I say every 393 00:18:05,125 --> 00:18:08,085 Speaker 2: Christian purposes the same to know God and make him known. 394 00:18:08,365 --> 00:18:11,044 Speaker 2: How your assignment and your season is going to be different, 395 00:18:11,405 --> 00:18:14,364 Speaker 2: and then your calling is discovered through being faithful to 396 00:18:14,484 --> 00:18:16,484 Speaker 2: the current thing that's in front of you, through stewarding that. 397 00:18:16,604 --> 00:18:20,284 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, we're living in a time where where masculinity 398 00:18:21,604 --> 00:18:24,524 Speaker 1: is either an I don't want to say exaggerated, but 399 00:18:25,044 --> 00:18:30,324 Speaker 1: distorted to such a degree that it's not real masculinity, 400 00:18:30,925 --> 00:18:34,564 Speaker 1: or it's feminized to such a degree that you're not 401 00:18:34,725 --> 00:18:37,004 Speaker 1: being a man. I remember that scene in The Godfather 402 00:18:37,604 --> 00:18:40,364 Speaker 1: or Vito Corleone, you know, says to the guy, this singer, 403 00:18:40,445 --> 00:18:42,244 Speaker 1: you know who couldn't get the part of the movie. 404 00:18:42,284 --> 00:18:44,524 Speaker 1: You start to gree be a man. You know, we 405 00:18:44,685 --> 00:18:47,124 Speaker 1: need to be a man. We need to be a 406 00:18:47,324 --> 00:18:50,604 Speaker 1: man of God. What is a man of God? What 407 00:18:50,685 --> 00:18:53,165 Speaker 1: does it mean? Like if someone is listening to this, 408 00:18:53,324 --> 00:18:56,244 Speaker 1: they're young, maybe they didn't have a male role model 409 00:18:56,324 --> 00:18:58,645 Speaker 1: growing up, or a good one at least, what would 410 00:18:58,685 --> 00:19:01,725 Speaker 1: you say to them about being a godly man today? 411 00:19:02,004 --> 00:19:05,165 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say there's three pillars that I point mento. 412 00:19:05,645 --> 00:19:09,004 Speaker 2: The first one is participate in the priesthood of all believers. 413 00:19:09,604 --> 00:19:12,284 Speaker 2: So we're called to be priests in terms of the 414 00:19:12,324 --> 00:19:14,044 Speaker 2: priesthood of all believers. And I believe as men were 415 00:19:14,084 --> 00:19:15,924 Speaker 2: called to be priests and pastors of our home right, 416 00:19:16,244 --> 00:19:18,764 Speaker 2: And so if I'm the priest of my home, that 417 00:19:18,844 --> 00:19:21,644 Speaker 2: means I need to work out my own junk. I 418 00:19:21,725 --> 00:19:23,844 Speaker 2: need to wage war on my sin. I need to 419 00:19:23,925 --> 00:19:26,325 Speaker 2: stop treating my sin like it's a little cute pet 420 00:19:26,484 --> 00:19:28,484 Speaker 2: that I could just kind of have in the background. 421 00:19:28,524 --> 00:19:29,964 Speaker 2: That little that little kitten is going to grow up 422 00:19:29,965 --> 00:19:31,844 Speaker 2: and be a tiger and eat you if you're not 423 00:19:31,965 --> 00:19:33,804 Speaker 2: careful with it. And so you got to you gotta 424 00:19:34,125 --> 00:19:35,844 Speaker 2: be the priest. You got to work out your own 425 00:19:35,885 --> 00:19:40,124 Speaker 2: salvation and actually become someone that is sanctified and can 426 00:19:40,205 --> 00:19:42,284 Speaker 2: lead your household when you can't lead your asshole until 427 00:19:42,284 --> 00:19:44,644 Speaker 2: you can lead yourself. And so I say foundationally that 428 00:19:44,764 --> 00:19:46,605 Speaker 2: relationship with Jesus has to be there. 429 00:19:47,284 --> 00:19:49,284 Speaker 1: So many homes men are not. I'm sorry, I want 430 00:19:49,324 --> 00:19:51,085 Speaker 1: to give to your next point, but in so many 431 00:19:51,165 --> 00:19:54,565 Speaker 1: homes men are not being strong spiritual leaders at all. 432 00:19:54,844 --> 00:19:59,965 Speaker 1: At best, they're passive and at worst they're working against it. 433 00:20:00,524 --> 00:20:02,725 Speaker 1: And the wife is a spiritual leader. And thank God 434 00:20:02,804 --> 00:20:05,804 Speaker 1: for the women stepping up to the plate and wanting 435 00:20:05,885 --> 00:20:08,165 Speaker 1: to do the right thing, but the wives need to 436 00:20:08,205 --> 00:20:10,884 Speaker 1: support their husbands and this as well, not undermine them. 437 00:20:11,004 --> 00:20:13,044 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, And I think what you don't want to 438 00:20:13,084 --> 00:20:16,404 Speaker 2: do is also just outsource the spiritual development of your 439 00:20:16,445 --> 00:20:19,084 Speaker 2: wife and your children to the church. The church is amazing, 440 00:20:19,165 --> 00:20:22,045 Speaker 2: but the church is not there to re enforced Yes, 441 00:20:23,004 --> 00:20:26,484 Speaker 2: yes and uncertain Yeah, so the priest. So I would say, 442 00:20:26,524 --> 00:20:28,204 Speaker 2: you've got to be a priest and man, that may 443 00:20:28,324 --> 00:20:30,644 Speaker 2: mean going to therapy for some guys. That may mean 444 00:20:30,725 --> 00:20:33,844 Speaker 2: getting you know, confessing some sin for some guys. So 445 00:20:34,205 --> 00:20:34,844 Speaker 2: become the priest. 446 00:20:35,324 --> 00:20:35,444 Speaker 1: Uh. 447 00:20:35,725 --> 00:20:40,405 Speaker 2: Then I would say, become a provider. Yes. The scriptures 448 00:20:40,405 --> 00:20:43,325 Speaker 2: and press Timothy. For Timothy five says a man who 449 00:20:43,365 --> 00:20:46,685 Speaker 2: does not provide for the needs of his family, particular 450 00:20:46,804 --> 00:20:49,524 Speaker 2: his immediate family, is worse than another believer and is 451 00:20:49,524 --> 00:20:52,845 Speaker 2: denied to faith. Interesting part about that chapter is that's 452 00:20:52,844 --> 00:20:55,325 Speaker 2: actually in the context of caring for widows in the church, 453 00:20:55,564 --> 00:20:58,004 Speaker 2: and so Paul is basically saying, hey, like, the church 454 00:20:58,084 --> 00:21:01,084 Speaker 2: is not a welfare office where we're just gonna do 455 00:21:01,445 --> 00:21:03,604 Speaker 2: whatever we can for Everybody's saying no, No, you have 456 00:21:03,725 --> 00:21:06,165 Speaker 2: a hierarchy of first caring for your own family, particularly 457 00:21:06,244 --> 00:21:08,965 Speaker 2: your extended family, then your immediate family, and then the 458 00:21:09,044 --> 00:21:11,045 Speaker 2: churches to care for widows who can't care for themselves 459 00:21:11,445 --> 00:21:14,524 Speaker 2: and that the whole chapter is brilliant. So I would say, 460 00:21:14,764 --> 00:21:19,084 Speaker 2: being a provider, can you provide for a woman? Can 461 00:21:19,125 --> 00:21:20,964 Speaker 2: you provide for your kids? And I know that's difficult 462 00:21:21,004 --> 00:21:23,004 Speaker 2: in southern California, so that could be difficult. I hear 463 00:21:23,044 --> 00:21:25,364 Speaker 2: every excuse, Oh, the cost of living, the inflation, so 464 00:21:25,405 --> 00:21:27,845 Speaker 2: on and so forth. Here's what the data shows. Forbes 465 00:21:27,885 --> 00:21:31,604 Speaker 2: that Forbes Woman, that an article several years ago, and 466 00:21:31,685 --> 00:21:34,564 Speaker 2: they found out that eighty five percent of working women, 467 00:21:34,764 --> 00:21:38,725 Speaker 2: not Christian women, not conservative women, working women are aspiring 468 00:21:38,885 --> 00:21:41,484 Speaker 2: and preferring for a season when they have little kids 469 00:21:41,524 --> 00:21:44,205 Speaker 2: to stay home and be mobs. Wow, eighty five percent 470 00:21:44,284 --> 00:21:47,405 Speaker 2: of working women. Another study during COVID, they found out 471 00:21:47,445 --> 00:21:50,925 Speaker 2: that seventy percent of working women with kids eighteen and 472 00:21:51,004 --> 00:21:53,325 Speaker 2: younger would have preferred to stay home and raise their 473 00:21:53,405 --> 00:21:55,405 Speaker 2: kids had they been given the opportunity to. So I'm 474 00:21:55,445 --> 00:21:57,445 Speaker 2: not saying every woman can't work outside the home. We 475 00:21:57,524 --> 00:22:00,205 Speaker 2: can have for women have different giftings and entrepreneur gifts 476 00:22:00,205 --> 00:22:03,364 Speaker 2: and all that, but generally speaking, most women prefer a 477 00:22:03,524 --> 00:22:07,124 Speaker 2: season to stay home with the little ones. And I 478 00:22:07,205 --> 00:22:09,205 Speaker 2: think men need to be thinking about that, Like generally, 479 00:22:09,205 --> 00:22:12,205 Speaker 2: speaking of your wife is when you andres and man 480 00:22:12,284 --> 00:22:14,524 Speaker 2: pushing my baby. My wife has a baby nine months old. 481 00:22:14,725 --> 00:22:17,925 Speaker 2: Luke is amazing. But there's nothing like watching a mom 482 00:22:18,084 --> 00:22:20,764 Speaker 2: bond with a baby and to think about scurring her 483 00:22:20,844 --> 00:22:24,805 Speaker 2: back on to work because you're fourteen weeks of maternity 484 00:22:24,885 --> 00:22:27,165 Speaker 2: leave is done like that would be so heartbreaking. And 485 00:22:27,405 --> 00:22:28,924 Speaker 2: and a lot of women have to do this all 486 00:22:28,965 --> 00:22:30,725 Speaker 2: the time because men aren't thinking about, Hey, I got 487 00:22:30,844 --> 00:22:32,484 Speaker 2: to build my life in a way or I can 488 00:22:32,564 --> 00:22:34,484 Speaker 2: be a provider from them rightly, So I'll be the 489 00:22:34,524 --> 00:22:36,764 Speaker 2: second one. And you know, for us, we did a 490 00:22:36,844 --> 00:22:39,445 Speaker 2: Dave Ramsey plan. We were technically one hundred thousand dollars 491 00:22:39,445 --> 00:22:42,804 Speaker 2: in debt before YouTube, before music. We paid it off 492 00:22:42,844 --> 00:22:45,365 Speaker 2: in eighteen months, clean up our finances, and that set 493 00:22:45,445 --> 00:22:47,804 Speaker 2: us up for having the ability to let my wife 494 00:22:47,804 --> 00:22:49,725 Speaker 2: stay home when we had levive years ago. 495 00:22:50,405 --> 00:22:52,445 Speaker 1: So I say, yeah, provider, I'd been to your home 496 00:22:52,524 --> 00:22:56,084 Speaker 1: and I believe your wife homeschool. Yeah it's great. So 497 00:22:56,244 --> 00:22:56,965 Speaker 1: that's fantastic. 498 00:22:57,125 --> 00:23:00,885 Speaker 2: So number three, number three protector, I was gonna say, yeah, 499 00:23:00,885 --> 00:23:04,445 Speaker 2: you got to be both spiritually protective. So I'm responsible 500 00:23:04,484 --> 00:23:07,124 Speaker 2: on what my kids look at the iPad, I'm responsible 501 00:23:07,165 --> 00:23:09,644 Speaker 2: for the device access they have. It's ultimately on me. 502 00:23:09,725 --> 00:23:13,844 Speaker 2: I'm the protector. I'm protecting them. And that's in a 503 00:23:13,885 --> 00:23:16,205 Speaker 2: spiritual sense, that's also in a fiscal sense. Are you 504 00:23:16,445 --> 00:23:20,044 Speaker 2: competent and physically capable of protecting your family if something 505 00:23:20,084 --> 00:23:22,244 Speaker 2: were to go down? You know, I think a lot 506 00:23:22,284 --> 00:23:25,765 Speaker 2: of guys unfortunately. You know, seventy percent of Americans are overweight, 507 00:23:26,004 --> 00:23:27,565 Speaker 2: forty percent of morbidly obese. 508 00:23:27,685 --> 00:23:29,445 Speaker 1: Well, you looked at my stomach on this thud. 509 00:23:29,524 --> 00:23:30,044 Speaker 2: You look great? 510 00:23:30,165 --> 00:23:31,564 Speaker 1: No, you said, or overweight? 511 00:23:31,685 --> 00:23:33,364 Speaker 2: You just I did not do that. I did not 512 00:23:33,445 --> 00:23:33,604 Speaker 2: do that. 513 00:23:33,645 --> 00:23:34,004 Speaker 1: I told you. 514 00:23:34,165 --> 00:23:36,004 Speaker 2: I gave you a compliment. Ear last year, I look great, 515 00:23:36,084 --> 00:23:37,925 Speaker 2: I said, you've been working out. It looks like you've 516 00:23:37,925 --> 00:23:39,164 Speaker 2: been working out. You playing a lot of pickleball? 517 00:23:39,284 --> 00:23:42,764 Speaker 1: Huh, well, play rocketball once that week. I played pickleball 518 00:23:42,844 --> 00:23:46,764 Speaker 1: twice a week. It doesn't serve sound very masculine, play pickleball, 519 00:23:47,004 --> 00:23:49,564 Speaker 1: but it's actually fun. And then I also go to 520 00:23:49,645 --> 00:23:50,164 Speaker 1: the gym, just. 521 00:23:50,125 --> 00:23:52,284 Speaker 2: Slip waits and yeah, that's awesome. You know. 522 00:23:52,365 --> 00:23:54,764 Speaker 1: But when you're like I'm seventy three now, you know, 523 00:23:55,244 --> 00:23:58,004 Speaker 1: it's different. When you get older. At this point, you 524 00:23:58,125 --> 00:23:59,925 Speaker 1: just want to be kind of mobile. I want to 525 00:23:59,965 --> 00:24:02,645 Speaker 1: get up out of this chair without assistance. I want 526 00:24:02,685 --> 00:24:05,725 Speaker 1: to move, you know, just be able to function, yes, 527 00:24:05,965 --> 00:24:07,405 Speaker 1: and anyway, but thank you. 528 00:24:07,685 --> 00:24:10,644 Speaker 2: And all the data shows that like, the more you 529 00:24:10,844 --> 00:24:14,205 Speaker 2: spend time strength training and being active, the easier your 530 00:24:14,284 --> 00:24:16,364 Speaker 2: years are going to be. And so I often tell men, 531 00:24:17,205 --> 00:24:18,725 Speaker 2: you know, if you do what is easier, life will 532 00:24:18,764 --> 00:24:20,445 Speaker 2: be hard. And if you do it as hard, later 533 00:24:20,524 --> 00:24:21,484 Speaker 2: on your life will be easy. 534 00:24:21,685 --> 00:24:21,885 Speaker 1: Wow. 535 00:24:21,965 --> 00:24:24,565 Speaker 2: And so I'm encouraging that, Hey, do the hard thing, now, 536 00:24:25,885 --> 00:24:26,764 Speaker 2: pick up the heavy thing. 537 00:24:26,844 --> 00:24:26,964 Speaker 1: Now. 538 00:24:27,284 --> 00:24:29,484 Speaker 2: I got a buddy named Justin Early. He wrote a 539 00:24:29,484 --> 00:24:32,564 Speaker 2: brilliant book. It's called The Body Teaches the Soul, and 540 00:24:32,645 --> 00:24:36,965 Speaker 2: it's all about how, you know, we've collapsed our spiritual 541 00:24:37,004 --> 00:24:40,084 Speaker 2: life from our physical life. But really they're integrated. We're 542 00:24:40,125 --> 00:24:42,884 Speaker 2: integrated people, just the way Jesus was fully god fully man. 543 00:24:43,405 --> 00:24:46,244 Speaker 2: We are physical people and we're spiritual people. We don't 544 00:24:46,244 --> 00:24:49,284 Speaker 2: want to negate the fact that you're a physical train 545 00:24:49,405 --> 00:24:52,165 Speaker 2: your body to do hard things, pick up stuff, go, walk, move. 546 00:24:52,604 --> 00:24:54,684 Speaker 2: So I would say that that means you're a protector. 547 00:24:54,725 --> 00:24:56,925 Speaker 2: You should be competent and capable of protecting someone. 548 00:24:56,804 --> 00:24:59,764 Speaker 1: Broke into your home. It's our job to you know, 549 00:24:59,925 --> 00:25:02,685 Speaker 1: deal with the intruder to stop them. Whatever is needed, 550 00:25:02,764 --> 00:25:05,124 Speaker 1: We're going to do that. But in many homes or 551 00:25:05,205 --> 00:25:10,244 Speaker 1: under spiritual attack, and the father is not being a protector, 552 00:25:10,645 --> 00:25:12,925 Speaker 1: he's not looking out for the spiritual welfare of the 553 00:25:13,004 --> 00:25:16,204 Speaker 1: family and not leading this family spiritually. So these are 554 00:25:16,244 --> 00:25:17,205 Speaker 1: all important things. 555 00:25:17,324 --> 00:25:19,324 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, And so what ends up happening is if 556 00:25:19,445 --> 00:25:22,205 Speaker 2: we as the church, we don't speak into these things, 557 00:25:22,564 --> 00:25:25,004 Speaker 2: the world is gonna give men a perverted version of this. 558 00:25:25,324 --> 00:25:27,165 Speaker 2: They're going to add just enough of a kernel of 559 00:25:27,244 --> 00:25:28,884 Speaker 2: truth in them and then they're gonna take it, and 560 00:25:28,925 --> 00:25:30,924 Speaker 2: they're gonna andrew tate it. They're gonna they're gonna make 561 00:25:30,965 --> 00:25:33,004 Speaker 2: it about clivic, they're gonna make it about luxmaxing, they're 562 00:25:33,004 --> 00:25:36,085 Speaker 2: gonna make it about being a playboy in all this nonsense. 563 00:25:36,284 --> 00:25:37,725 Speaker 2: And so I think we have to be clear and 564 00:25:37,764 --> 00:25:39,405 Speaker 2: speaking into these things. And this is what I discovered. 565 00:25:39,405 --> 00:25:41,924 Speaker 2: People always add, why don't you talk about women's issues, 566 00:25:41,925 --> 00:25:43,605 Speaker 2: and why don't you talk about women and modern women? 567 00:25:43,645 --> 00:25:45,845 Speaker 2: And I go, generally speaking, I'm sure you could speak 568 00:25:45,844 --> 00:25:47,764 Speaker 2: to this. If we get the men, If the men 569 00:25:47,804 --> 00:25:51,644 Speaker 2: start following and loving Jesus women tend to follow, you 570 00:25:51,764 --> 00:25:54,484 Speaker 2: get the men. The women follow, the children follow, and 571 00:25:54,564 --> 00:25:58,205 Speaker 2: so as we build up competent, capable men. I've just 572 00:25:58,284 --> 00:26:00,885 Speaker 2: always noticed that man a woman would love to feel 573 00:26:00,925 --> 00:26:04,244 Speaker 2: protected and provided for. And when when she feels safe, 574 00:26:04,484 --> 00:26:08,284 Speaker 2: she naturally slides into her feminine, you know, frame of 575 00:26:08,445 --> 00:26:10,564 Speaker 2: being able to be led. But if they're always in 576 00:26:10,645 --> 00:26:12,364 Speaker 2: anxiety because they don't know if the bills are going 577 00:26:12,405 --> 00:26:13,804 Speaker 2: to get paid, and they don't know what's going to happen, 578 00:26:14,125 --> 00:26:16,124 Speaker 2: then then do you get some of that usurping that 579 00:26:16,205 --> 00:26:18,205 Speaker 2: we see from the curs of Genesis three? And so 580 00:26:18,244 --> 00:26:19,965 Speaker 2: I actually let's get let's get the men on board, 581 00:26:20,284 --> 00:26:22,205 Speaker 2: and for my experienced women tend to follow. 582 00:26:22,885 --> 00:26:25,365 Speaker 1: Very true. You know, it's interesting because you came from 583 00:26:25,445 --> 00:26:28,685 Speaker 1: a background where you saw the effects of communism in 584 00:26:28,804 --> 00:26:32,364 Speaker 1: real time, and yet in our country now we're seeing 585 00:26:32,524 --> 00:26:37,524 Speaker 1: an emergence of communism people even running for office. We 586 00:26:37,685 --> 00:26:40,604 Speaker 1: call them democratic socialists, but in many ways they're just 587 00:26:40,685 --> 00:26:44,405 Speaker 1: outright community No, let's flat out communists, and so define 588 00:26:44,524 --> 00:26:48,324 Speaker 1: socialism communism and what you mean when you say flat 589 00:26:48,365 --> 00:26:49,285 Speaker 1: out communists, Well. 590 00:26:49,484 --> 00:26:52,045 Speaker 2: They're the same thing anyone that's being intellectually honest. When 591 00:26:52,084 --> 00:26:54,484 Speaker 2: you want to own the means of production and you 592 00:26:54,604 --> 00:26:56,484 Speaker 2: want that to be owned by the people, i e. 593 00:26:56,725 --> 00:26:59,644 Speaker 2: The state. You're a communist, you're a socialist. If you 594 00:26:59,725 --> 00:27:02,445 Speaker 2: want to say we need more safety nets and we 595 00:27:02,564 --> 00:27:04,564 Speaker 2: want to have universal health care and look at the 596 00:27:04,604 --> 00:27:08,524 Speaker 2: Scandinovian nation, that's a different conversation because the Scandinavian nations 597 00:27:08,725 --> 00:27:10,884 Speaker 2: all pay more in taxes. So if people want to 598 00:27:10,885 --> 00:27:13,004 Speaker 2: collectively get together and say, hey, the lower class and 599 00:27:13,044 --> 00:27:14,604 Speaker 2: the middle class are all going to pay more in 600 00:27:14,725 --> 00:27:16,965 Speaker 2: taxes so we can have healthcare, we can have whatever 601 00:27:17,004 --> 00:27:20,044 Speaker 2: safety net program, that's a different conversation. But Sweden, in 602 00:27:20,084 --> 00:27:22,844 Speaker 2: these places, they're still capitalistic. They're just all pay more. Canada, 603 00:27:22,885 --> 00:27:25,525 Speaker 2: they just all pay more and then they spend more. 604 00:27:25,764 --> 00:27:27,884 Speaker 2: So I think here in America, I think we have 605 00:27:28,004 --> 00:27:29,764 Speaker 2: the best of both worlds in the sense that there's 606 00:27:29,764 --> 00:27:31,685 Speaker 2: safety nets that if something were to happen to someone, 607 00:27:31,844 --> 00:27:33,925 Speaker 2: there's stuff like welfare. People don't know. We spend a 608 00:27:34,004 --> 00:27:36,604 Speaker 2: trillion dollars a year on welfare. It's more than our 609 00:27:36,645 --> 00:27:38,965 Speaker 2: military budget. That's a fact. You can check me on that. 610 00:27:39,764 --> 00:27:41,604 Speaker 2: So we spend a lot of money already on the 611 00:27:41,645 --> 00:27:44,685 Speaker 2: safety nets. But in our framework, we just keep thinking 612 00:27:44,764 --> 00:27:47,205 Speaker 2: that taxing the rich is going to fix everything, and 613 00:27:47,804 --> 00:27:49,965 Speaker 2: it's not the reality is that if you took ninety 614 00:27:50,004 --> 00:27:53,044 Speaker 2: nine percent of the wealth from all the billionaires, you 615 00:27:53,084 --> 00:27:56,445 Speaker 2: would get eight trillion dollars or nine trillion dollars that 616 00:27:56,764 --> 00:27:59,885 Speaker 2: would fund our federal budget for a year and a half, 617 00:28:00,284 --> 00:28:01,725 Speaker 2: two years. I did the math on this. I really 618 00:28:01,725 --> 00:28:04,605 Speaker 2: went down this rabbit hole. And so these guys are madamie, 619 00:28:04,645 --> 00:28:06,445 Speaker 2: and you know these has a flat out saying yeah, 620 00:28:06,445 --> 00:28:09,165 Speaker 2: the ultimate end is we want to own the means 621 00:28:09,205 --> 00:28:12,725 Speaker 2: of production. We want the government to own the capital, yes, 622 00:28:12,844 --> 00:28:14,965 Speaker 2: and we don't want private citizens to own capital. And 623 00:28:15,125 --> 00:28:17,925 Speaker 2: that never goes well, that always falls apart. And you 624 00:28:17,965 --> 00:28:19,725 Speaker 2: saw it happened in the Soviet Union. You see it 625 00:28:20,484 --> 00:28:22,644 Speaker 2: in nation after nation. So there's no example of it 626 00:28:22,764 --> 00:28:26,725 Speaker 2: working ever anywhere, yep. And it's resulted in the deaths 627 00:28:26,764 --> 00:28:30,805 Speaker 2: of literally millions and millions of people. And the way 628 00:28:30,885 --> 00:28:33,564 Speaker 2: Christians are treated under these systems always the way Christians 629 00:28:33,604 --> 00:28:35,725 Speaker 2: were treated in the Soviet Union. Yes, I meet I 630 00:28:35,764 --> 00:28:38,285 Speaker 2: feel like every week I meet another Slavic Christian. And 631 00:28:38,325 --> 00:28:40,684 Speaker 2: my dad was in prison for ten years for being 632 00:28:40,725 --> 00:28:44,205 Speaker 2: a Christian back in the Soviet Union. My uncle, it's awful. 633 00:28:45,245 --> 00:28:48,885 Speaker 1: So a lot of this is amplified and spread online 634 00:28:49,485 --> 00:28:53,525 Speaker 1: and so you know, you have your podcast and you're 635 00:28:53,565 --> 00:28:56,644 Speaker 1: out there making the difference. And so let's talk a 636 00:28:56,685 --> 00:28:58,685 Speaker 1: little bit about that. Let it kind of focus a 637 00:28:58,725 --> 00:29:01,644 Speaker 1: little bit on gen Z. You know, they've been described 638 00:29:02,405 --> 00:29:07,924 Speaker 1: by some as the hopeless generation. Seventy two of them 639 00:29:07,965 --> 00:29:12,205 Speaker 1: now are using AI companions instead of human interaction. They're 640 00:29:12,285 --> 00:29:17,125 Speaker 1: literally going to chat or claude or whatever, and they're 641 00:29:17,205 --> 00:29:21,204 Speaker 1: asking questions they should be asking of God and asking 642 00:29:21,285 --> 00:29:24,765 Speaker 1: at church with biblical response. So there's people who are 643 00:29:24,805 --> 00:29:28,205 Speaker 1: older who maybe are perplexed by this generation gen Z, 644 00:29:28,485 --> 00:29:31,085 Speaker 1: like lit't I'll put myself in the position, Okay, as 645 00:29:31,125 --> 00:29:33,884 Speaker 1: an older person of boomer what do I need to 646 00:29:34,005 --> 00:29:36,844 Speaker 1: know about gen Z? About what I can do to 647 00:29:36,965 --> 00:29:37,445 Speaker 1: help them? 648 00:29:38,005 --> 00:29:40,245 Speaker 2: Yeah? I think for starters, gen Z is the most 649 00:29:40,525 --> 00:29:43,525 Speaker 2: Jesus curious generation. Is why do you say that, Well, 650 00:29:43,565 --> 00:29:46,445 Speaker 2: the data shows that they almost half of gen Z 651 00:29:46,885 --> 00:29:49,045 Speaker 2: is Jesus curious, in Jesus open. It doesn't mean a Christians. 652 00:29:49,084 --> 00:29:51,485 Speaker 1: Would you contrast that to gen X, which. 653 00:29:51,844 --> 00:29:53,765 Speaker 2: There's more secular? Yeah, gen X was way more. 654 00:29:53,805 --> 00:29:55,444 Speaker 1: Second, you feel like they kind of feel like they 655 00:29:55,485 --> 00:29:57,805 Speaker 1: got left out the boomers. And then it went to 656 00:29:57,925 --> 00:29:59,805 Speaker 1: gen Z and like, hey, what about us? 657 00:30:00,765 --> 00:30:03,005 Speaker 2: Well, you know, interesting thing. I went down the that 658 00:30:03,365 --> 00:30:05,045 Speaker 2: I went deep on this and I found out that, 659 00:30:06,045 --> 00:30:09,405 Speaker 2: oddly enough, is the least sexually active generation. 660 00:30:09,565 --> 00:30:11,045 Speaker 1: Isn't that interesting at least? 661 00:30:11,045 --> 00:30:14,245 Speaker 2: Actually the most sexually active generation was Gen xers and boomers, 662 00:30:14,885 --> 00:30:17,245 Speaker 2: all the free love stuff and the hippie stuff, and 663 00:30:17,485 --> 00:30:20,245 Speaker 2: you know that. So they're they're the least sexually active, 664 00:30:20,245 --> 00:30:23,525 Speaker 2: they're the most open to Jesus. They're the most isolated 665 00:30:23,565 --> 00:30:26,565 Speaker 2: and alone, but they're most interconnected. So they're like a walking, 666 00:30:26,645 --> 00:30:30,565 Speaker 2: talking paradox in real time. They're very confused, they're they're 667 00:30:30,685 --> 00:30:34,124 Speaker 2: very anxious, they're very stressed out. And I think what 668 00:30:35,045 --> 00:30:37,245 Speaker 2: is difficult in terms of dealing with them is they 669 00:30:37,365 --> 00:30:40,364 Speaker 2: start thinking that their struggles are unique to them, and 670 00:30:40,445 --> 00:30:43,165 Speaker 2: they forget that every generation has had a unique struggle. 671 00:30:43,565 --> 00:30:46,245 Speaker 2: And so you think of the millennials. I got married 672 00:30:46,245 --> 00:30:48,565 Speaker 2: in two thousand and eight, right as the housing market 673 00:30:48,604 --> 00:30:51,205 Speaker 2: and economy fell apart, and it was very difficult just 674 00:30:51,285 --> 00:30:54,525 Speaker 2: finding it part time job. So every generation has unique challenges. 675 00:30:54,565 --> 00:30:57,604 Speaker 2: They're going to deal with a bit more inflation unfortunately, 676 00:30:57,685 --> 00:31:01,364 Speaker 2: and all the supply chain issues with COVID they're you know, senior, 677 00:31:01,485 --> 00:31:04,005 Speaker 2: junior years of high school, freshman years of college. They 678 00:31:04,045 --> 00:31:06,485 Speaker 2: were locked down. They feel like they were robbed of 679 00:31:06,565 --> 00:31:09,604 Speaker 2: some stuff and they were considering that. You know, I 680 00:31:09,685 --> 00:31:11,884 Speaker 2: think we locked down too hard and overdid it, and 681 00:31:12,045 --> 00:31:14,884 Speaker 2: so there's a lot of frustration and disorientation. And I 682 00:31:14,925 --> 00:31:19,845 Speaker 2: think they're also not the most equipped with processing information 683 00:31:20,005 --> 00:31:22,925 Speaker 2: well right, so they're very onto the next thing. So 684 00:31:23,325 --> 00:31:26,005 Speaker 2: right now, oh, you know is real bad. So now 685 00:31:26,045 --> 00:31:28,965 Speaker 2: they're on that train. Then you know, before that it 686 00:31:29,045 --> 00:31:31,525 Speaker 2: was BLM and police are bad, and before that, you know, 687 00:31:31,765 --> 00:31:34,245 Speaker 2: so it's like they kind of move on from thing 688 00:31:34,325 --> 00:31:37,165 Speaker 2: to thing, and they love they want to change the world, 689 00:31:37,604 --> 00:31:39,525 Speaker 2: but they don't want to change their world. So they're 690 00:31:39,565 --> 00:31:41,724 Speaker 2: not thinking about what's in front of me right now 691 00:31:41,805 --> 00:31:44,805 Speaker 2: that I can influence. They want to think about what's 692 00:31:44,844 --> 00:31:47,245 Speaker 2: happening three thousand miles away. They want to think about 693 00:31:47,285 --> 00:31:50,445 Speaker 2: this action over here, and so they end up kind 694 00:31:50,445 --> 00:31:52,045 Speaker 2: of missing what's right in front of them. And so 695 00:31:52,125 --> 00:31:54,005 Speaker 2: what I'm trying to do is say, hey, guys, like 696 00:31:54,885 --> 00:31:57,005 Speaker 2: there's a lot of stuff you can't control. We can't 697 00:31:57,445 --> 00:32:00,245 Speaker 2: the family we were born into, the year we were born, 698 00:32:00,645 --> 00:32:02,485 Speaker 2: where we live, we can't control some which you can 699 00:32:02,525 --> 00:32:05,245 Speaker 2: control what's in front. Right, Let's work on what we 700 00:32:05,285 --> 00:32:08,925 Speaker 2: can control and doing those inputs. And I think they need, 701 00:32:09,365 --> 00:32:12,245 Speaker 2: like every Gen Z person needs a good boomer in 702 00:32:12,285 --> 00:32:14,644 Speaker 2: their life. They need someone in their life to remind 703 00:32:14,685 --> 00:32:18,565 Speaker 2: them that you're not that unique, you're not that special. 704 00:32:18,844 --> 00:32:20,845 Speaker 2: And let me tell you something. You think it's hard 705 00:32:20,844 --> 00:32:22,965 Speaker 2: to buy a house, how about when interest rates we're 706 00:32:23,285 --> 00:32:25,604 Speaker 2: fifteen percent or whatever they were in the seventies and 707 00:32:25,645 --> 00:32:28,245 Speaker 2: the eighties. Right, you think it's difficult, Now, how about 708 00:32:28,245 --> 00:32:30,205 Speaker 2: when we have the gas shortage in the seventies and 709 00:32:30,525 --> 00:32:33,645 Speaker 2: all these things. We don't remember these things as millennials 710 00:32:33,685 --> 00:32:35,045 Speaker 2: because we didn't live through these things. But you guys 711 00:32:35,045 --> 00:32:40,084 Speaker 2: have gone through some serious things, wars and crazy events. 712 00:32:40,485 --> 00:32:43,965 Speaker 2: And so I think they need someone that's older, that's 713 00:32:44,005 --> 00:32:46,525 Speaker 2: a boomer, that can sit there like you're not that unique, 714 00:32:46,604 --> 00:32:50,005 Speaker 2: Like there's always uncertainty, there's always chaos. That's actually the 715 00:32:50,125 --> 00:32:53,205 Speaker 2: natural state of the world. It's chaos. Like you're in 716 00:32:53,285 --> 00:32:57,485 Speaker 2: a westernized American bubble where everything is orderly and there's laws, no, no, no. 717 00:32:57,645 --> 00:33:00,445 Speaker 2: The natural state of the world is chaos. And so 718 00:33:00,565 --> 00:33:03,045 Speaker 2: I'm always encouraging a lot of the gen z, like, 719 00:33:03,285 --> 00:33:04,885 Speaker 2: get you a good boomer in your life, get somebody 720 00:33:04,885 --> 00:33:06,644 Speaker 2: that you could just sit with and talk to. 721 00:33:06,805 --> 00:33:09,884 Speaker 1: I love that, you know. When I first came to 722 00:33:10,005 --> 00:33:14,045 Speaker 1: christ I never had a father figure, or for that matter, 723 00:33:14,165 --> 00:33:17,604 Speaker 1: a mother figure. So when I became a believer, I 724 00:33:17,725 --> 00:33:20,644 Speaker 1: wanted to meet godly older people. And it's funny. I 725 00:33:20,685 --> 00:33:23,084 Speaker 1: did think around people my age, but I'd like to 726 00:33:23,165 --> 00:33:25,844 Speaker 1: hang around older people more because I thought, I have 727 00:33:26,005 --> 00:33:28,724 Speaker 1: to figure these things out. I don't even know how 728 00:33:28,844 --> 00:33:32,445 Speaker 1: to function really in a practical way. Pastor Chuck Smith 729 00:33:32,604 --> 00:33:35,884 Speaker 1: was a father figure for me. Later I had the 730 00:33:35,925 --> 00:33:38,245 Speaker 1: privilege of getting to know Billy Graham, you know, a 731 00:33:38,365 --> 00:33:41,925 Speaker 1: father type figure. Others in my life that were very important. 732 00:33:42,084 --> 00:33:45,045 Speaker 1: Other godly women too that I could talk to and 733 00:33:45,125 --> 00:33:47,965 Speaker 1: ask quit Chuck out a wife. They're both didn't have 734 00:33:48,045 --> 00:33:49,925 Speaker 1: it now, but her name is Kay. I talked to 735 00:33:49,965 --> 00:33:52,485 Speaker 1: her about things, and I had my aunt, my mother 736 00:33:52,685 --> 00:33:55,565 Speaker 1: sister who helped me a lot. But it's so important 737 00:33:55,604 --> 00:33:57,884 Speaker 1: and it's so great for the older folks. They have 738 00:33:58,045 --> 00:34:01,165 Speaker 1: a place to share the things they've learned. And I've 739 00:34:01,205 --> 00:34:05,005 Speaker 1: also converted to older believers and new believers. Older believers 740 00:34:05,205 --> 00:34:08,325 Speaker 1: need believers in their life to energize them, and new 741 00:34:08,405 --> 00:34:11,444 Speaker 1: believers need older believers in their life to stabilize them. 742 00:34:11,565 --> 00:34:12,125 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's good. 743 00:34:12,285 --> 00:34:14,285 Speaker 1: So it's kind of the same principle. But over in 744 00:34:14,365 --> 00:34:15,645 Speaker 1: the spiritual world a little. 745 00:34:15,565 --> 00:34:18,285 Speaker 2: How old were you in your early twenties as you're 746 00:34:18,285 --> 00:34:21,005 Speaker 2: coming to faithteen's early twenties, and how old was Chuck 747 00:34:21,045 --> 00:34:21,805 Speaker 2: at that time? Oh? 748 00:34:21,885 --> 00:34:25,165 Speaker 1: My good question. I was, well, I was. I came 749 00:34:25,245 --> 00:34:28,165 Speaker 1: to Christ said seventeen. I started to get to know 750 00:34:28,325 --> 00:34:30,685 Speaker 1: him at eighteen. He would have been in his early 751 00:34:30,805 --> 00:34:33,605 Speaker 1: forties at that point, which now sounds young to me, 752 00:34:34,805 --> 00:34:37,685 Speaker 1: but he seems so much older. And he was already 753 00:34:37,765 --> 00:34:41,485 Speaker 1: married with Oh you had married kids, and so he was. 754 00:34:41,645 --> 00:34:41,805 Speaker 2: You know. 755 00:34:42,885 --> 00:34:45,485 Speaker 1: I learned kind of a work ethic from Chuck too, 756 00:34:45,845 --> 00:34:48,885 Speaker 1: because I had to learn how to provide for myself, 757 00:34:48,965 --> 00:34:51,685 Speaker 1: to take care of myself because sometimes my mom wouldn't 758 00:34:51,685 --> 00:34:54,085 Speaker 1: come home at night, so I just scrounged money up 759 00:34:54,125 --> 00:34:57,445 Speaker 1: and defeed myself, get myself ready for school, etc. So 760 00:34:57,765 --> 00:35:01,325 Speaker 1: you know, but God used those things later in my life, 761 00:35:01,965 --> 00:35:04,805 Speaker 1: as I think he's used your upbringing this well, and 762 00:35:04,925 --> 00:35:07,165 Speaker 1: you know, he can bring beauty out of ash. That's 763 00:35:07,165 --> 00:35:09,645 Speaker 1: as the Bible says it, and even cause all things 764 00:35:09,685 --> 00:35:12,405 Speaker 1: to work together for good, for his glory. 765 00:35:12,565 --> 00:35:14,405 Speaker 2: So yeah, but but looking for. 766 00:35:14,725 --> 00:35:17,165 Speaker 1: Advices from older people, and I but always ask them 767 00:35:17,245 --> 00:35:20,725 Speaker 1: lots of questions. But older folks can learn from younger 768 00:35:20,765 --> 00:35:22,445 Speaker 1: people too, don't you think? Absolutely? 769 00:35:22,685 --> 00:35:25,205 Speaker 2: And I think for starters, older folks need to know 770 00:35:25,365 --> 00:35:27,245 Speaker 2: that you don't need to be intimidated by these guys. 771 00:35:27,405 --> 00:35:27,605 Speaker 1: Yeah. 772 00:35:27,725 --> 00:35:31,205 Speaker 2: There they come off stand office, too cool for school. Yeah, 773 00:35:31,245 --> 00:35:32,885 Speaker 2: But the moment you spend a little bit of time 774 00:35:32,965 --> 00:35:36,245 Speaker 2: and those facades come down, they want to be known. 775 00:35:36,725 --> 00:35:38,805 Speaker 2: They want to be known, They want to they want 776 00:35:38,845 --> 00:35:40,605 Speaker 2: to have time. A lot of these folks they just 777 00:35:40,685 --> 00:35:42,365 Speaker 2: want time. They don't they don't need you to have 778 00:35:42,445 --> 00:35:44,605 Speaker 2: the house perfect. They don't need you to make a 779 00:35:44,685 --> 00:35:47,685 Speaker 2: fancy dinner. Just open up your home and we have 780 00:35:47,965 --> 00:35:50,165 Speaker 2: you know, an influx right now of gen Z coming 781 00:35:50,205 --> 00:35:53,005 Speaker 2: to faith, especially young young gen Z men that are 782 00:35:53,085 --> 00:35:56,245 Speaker 2: gen Z that are coming to faith. Yes, swarming back 783 00:35:56,245 --> 00:35:56,565 Speaker 2: to church. 784 00:35:56,725 --> 00:35:57,645 Speaker 1: Is that still happening? 785 00:35:57,765 --> 00:35:59,325 Speaker 2: I think so? I mean not our churches is a 786 00:35:59,365 --> 00:36:01,205 Speaker 2: ton of men women too, But I see a lot 787 00:36:01,285 --> 00:36:01,565 Speaker 2: of men. 788 00:36:01,805 --> 00:36:05,405 Speaker 1: So still isn't more young gen Z men young men 789 00:36:05,605 --> 00:36:06,325 Speaker 1: than young women. 790 00:36:06,365 --> 00:36:08,205 Speaker 2: That's what the data showing that's what the dat I 791 00:36:08,245 --> 00:36:08,645 Speaker 2: read that, but. 792 00:36:08,645 --> 00:36:10,125 Speaker 1: I wouldn't have been shifted a little or not. 793 00:36:10,485 --> 00:36:14,165 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say on a ground level, I'm seeing 794 00:36:15,165 --> 00:36:18,325 Speaker 2: fifty five forty five, fifty five percent men, forty five 795 00:36:18,325 --> 00:36:18,884 Speaker 2: percent women. 796 00:36:19,645 --> 00:36:21,885 Speaker 1: Because in the past it was more it seemed like 797 00:36:21,965 --> 00:36:24,685 Speaker 1: women would always lead the way in all these things. Yeah, yeah, 798 00:36:24,725 --> 00:36:26,445 Speaker 1: it's I think it's an unusual shift. 799 00:36:26,485 --> 00:36:29,645 Speaker 2: It's it's a very unusual shift. And so I think 800 00:36:30,125 --> 00:36:33,085 Speaker 2: these these folks just want relationship, They want to be around. 801 00:36:33,805 --> 00:36:36,765 Speaker 2: More is caught than taught. And you don't got to 802 00:36:36,805 --> 00:36:38,165 Speaker 2: get the house perfect. You don't got to make a 803 00:36:38,165 --> 00:36:40,445 Speaker 2: perfect meal for them. Just invite them over when you're 804 00:36:40,485 --> 00:36:43,325 Speaker 2: doing hard work, Invite them over when you're running errands, 805 00:36:43,365 --> 00:36:45,525 Speaker 2: invite them over to take them on a walk. Like 806 00:36:45,885 --> 00:36:48,005 Speaker 2: they appreciate those simple things. And I think it's the 807 00:36:48,125 --> 00:36:51,245 Speaker 2: proximity that that matters. And I would I would bet 808 00:36:51,325 --> 00:36:53,805 Speaker 2: that in the same way, you know pastor Chuck wasn't 809 00:36:53,805 --> 00:36:55,805 Speaker 2: intimidated by a bunch of young hippies and all these 810 00:36:55,845 --> 00:36:57,925 Speaker 2: folks around, I would say that we need some of 811 00:36:57,965 --> 00:37:01,205 Speaker 2: that fearlessness from the boomers to say, not afraid of 812 00:37:01,285 --> 00:37:05,005 Speaker 2: you guys like whatever like okay, so you got TikTok brain. 813 00:37:05,125 --> 00:37:07,405 Speaker 2: You know, I had a short insentience speak okay, come over, 814 00:37:07,565 --> 00:37:09,565 Speaker 2: come over. And so now we got these young folks 815 00:37:10,045 --> 00:37:12,445 Speaker 2: and you got boomers who have homes and spaces for 816 00:37:12,525 --> 00:37:14,205 Speaker 2: them to get. That's another thing, is like the death 817 00:37:14,245 --> 00:37:16,685 Speaker 2: of the third space, where what is the third space 818 00:37:16,725 --> 00:37:19,245 Speaker 2: in between home and school? A lot of them are 819 00:37:19,325 --> 00:37:21,125 Speaker 2: coming from dysfunctional home, so they don't want to be 820 00:37:21,165 --> 00:37:23,565 Speaker 2: at home right, and so opening up the home to 821 00:37:23,685 --> 00:37:25,805 Speaker 2: just say come on over, well, come hang out. 822 00:37:25,845 --> 00:37:28,445 Speaker 1: I love that. So that's something anybody could do. Any 823 00:37:28,685 --> 00:37:32,685 Speaker 1: like Christian listening to this could open their home and 824 00:37:32,805 --> 00:37:36,165 Speaker 1: when they have dinner they can invite some younger people 825 00:37:36,285 --> 00:37:39,245 Speaker 1: over and just say hey, let's hang out. Someone did 826 00:37:39,325 --> 00:37:41,285 Speaker 1: that for me after I became a Christian. A guy 827 00:37:41,365 --> 00:37:45,605 Speaker 1: named Mark said, Hey, come over to my house for dinner. 828 00:37:46,005 --> 00:37:48,645 Speaker 1: And I've never been with a Christian family before. I've 829 00:37:48,685 --> 00:37:52,165 Speaker 1: never said grace before a meal. And so we had 830 00:37:52,205 --> 00:37:54,965 Speaker 1: the meal and then afterwards we had a little Bible study. 831 00:37:55,005 --> 00:37:57,365 Speaker 1: We'd talked about the Bible, and it was just like 832 00:37:57,685 --> 00:38:00,285 Speaker 1: revelatory to me, this is what I've been looking for, 833 00:38:00,805 --> 00:38:03,765 Speaker 1: this is what I've been wanting, and so I came 834 00:38:03,845 --> 00:38:06,165 Speaker 1: to Christ during the spiritual Awake and think we've talked 835 00:38:06,165 --> 00:38:08,925 Speaker 1: about it a lot, the Jesus Revolution. They made a 836 00:38:09,005 --> 00:38:12,285 Speaker 1: movie out of it. Do you think are you seeing 837 00:38:13,005 --> 00:38:16,805 Speaker 1: signs of what could be another revival among gen Z 838 00:38:17,725 --> 00:38:19,085 Speaker 1: right now? I am on the. 839 00:38:19,125 --> 00:38:21,445 Speaker 2: Ground in terms of our church is doubled. You've met 840 00:38:21,485 --> 00:38:24,884 Speaker 2: my pastor, Pastor Jeff mors So within the last eighteen months, 841 00:38:24,885 --> 00:38:28,085 Speaker 2: our church is doubled in size. I just spoke at 842 00:38:28,165 --> 00:38:31,445 Speaker 2: College app church. They've doubled, and so I'm hearing a 843 00:38:31,485 --> 00:38:34,885 Speaker 2: lot of church doubling tripling really quickly. So I do 844 00:38:35,325 --> 00:38:38,485 Speaker 2: think there seems to be a shift happening, and I 845 00:38:38,565 --> 00:38:40,445 Speaker 2: think that that is a beautiful thing. 846 00:38:41,005 --> 00:38:44,165 Speaker 1: Can you identify, because you Trevorn, you're speaking different churches, 847 00:38:44,205 --> 00:38:47,405 Speaker 1: like I've noticed this type of church is doubling and 848 00:38:47,525 --> 00:38:50,165 Speaker 1: tripling and this other type of church isn't. 849 00:38:50,445 --> 00:38:52,125 Speaker 2: Well that's a great question, okay, So I would say 850 00:38:52,125 --> 00:38:54,805 Speaker 2: that church that this is what makes gen Z unique 851 00:38:55,165 --> 00:38:59,365 Speaker 2: is they want substance. They want to go deep so 852 00:38:59,485 --> 00:39:01,805 Speaker 2: to find that. They want to know what the Greek says, 853 00:39:02,245 --> 00:39:04,645 Speaker 2: they want to know about the manuscripts, they want to 854 00:39:04,765 --> 00:39:10,125 Speaker 2: know about church history. They want to know and be informed, 855 00:39:10,325 --> 00:39:11,965 Speaker 2: and so they want to go deep. So the churches 856 00:39:12,005 --> 00:39:15,485 Speaker 2: that are exploding right now again Pastor Chris Hilken College 857 00:39:15,525 --> 00:39:19,405 Speaker 2: at church right in SDSU, he's preaching an hour hard. 858 00:39:19,925 --> 00:39:22,685 Speaker 2: There's not always an opening illustration. There's not a story, 859 00:39:22,725 --> 00:39:25,485 Speaker 2: there's not a funny Story's all right, guys, we're in 860 00:39:25,565 --> 00:39:28,045 Speaker 2: a colossal Chapter four train the Bibles. Boom. I just 861 00:39:28,125 --> 00:39:30,525 Speaker 2: went to see Pastor Joby Martin out at eleven twenty two, 862 00:39:30,645 --> 00:39:32,485 Speaker 2: one of the want to say, top twenty churches in 863 00:39:32,525 --> 00:39:34,845 Speaker 2: America right now, over thirty thousand and thirty five thousand 864 00:39:34,845 --> 00:39:38,205 Speaker 2: people like Sunday taking him through the Gospel of Matthew, 865 00:39:38,325 --> 00:39:42,445 Speaker 2: verse by verse, Hey, guys, Matthew boom, and he's taking 866 00:39:42,485 --> 00:39:45,285 Speaker 2: him through Matthew at Rhythm Church. We just finished Joshua. 867 00:39:46,245 --> 00:39:48,285 Speaker 2: Before that, we spent the year in Acts. So I 868 00:39:48,325 --> 00:39:51,844 Speaker 2: would say they're preaching the scriptures, they're preaching the text. 869 00:39:52,165 --> 00:39:55,325 Speaker 2: These churches are going along. They're they're like forty five 870 00:39:55,485 --> 00:39:59,404 Speaker 2: minutes minimal, they're going sometimes an hour. They're going deep, 871 00:40:00,125 --> 00:40:04,125 Speaker 2: and there is some sort of applicable step. What can 872 00:40:04,205 --> 00:40:08,125 Speaker 2: you do? Step in, serve, contribute, don't just be a consumer. 873 00:40:08,445 --> 00:40:10,765 Speaker 2: Don't just sit sit and take take take take no, 874 00:40:10,965 --> 00:40:13,125 Speaker 2: step in and do something with the faith. So those 875 00:40:13,125 --> 00:40:15,165 Speaker 2: are some of the identity markers that I'm noticing. 876 00:40:15,285 --> 00:40:19,685 Speaker 1: Anything else, like what the styles of worship vary with 877 00:40:19,805 --> 00:40:22,844 Speaker 1: They tend to be more contemporary because sometimes you hear, oh, 878 00:40:22,965 --> 00:40:26,445 Speaker 1: young people are attracted down more to tradition or to 879 00:40:26,765 --> 00:40:30,005 Speaker 1: a liturgy or to something else, and to me, a 880 00:40:30,085 --> 00:40:33,205 Speaker 1: lot of times it's action reaction. So like you know, 881 00:40:33,485 --> 00:40:39,485 Speaker 1: the generation before us, very formal, traditional church. So you know, boomers, 882 00:40:39,725 --> 00:40:41,885 Speaker 1: we're all we have the hippie thing, okay, and we 883 00:40:42,045 --> 00:40:46,845 Speaker 1: invented effectively contemporary Christian music. You know, electric guitars, drums. 884 00:40:46,965 --> 00:40:48,725 Speaker 1: But then when you're a kid in your wraith and 885 00:40:48,845 --> 00:40:51,805 Speaker 1: that now that's the north. So you know, we think 886 00:40:51,845 --> 00:40:53,885 Speaker 1: it's cutting there. So look how cutting edge we are. 887 00:40:54,125 --> 00:40:56,245 Speaker 1: We have electric guitars, and maybe they think, well, we 888 00:40:56,285 --> 00:40:59,125 Speaker 1: don't think that's cool, and then they react, and then 889 00:40:59,165 --> 00:41:02,605 Speaker 1: they get older and then their kids they react. So 890 00:41:02,685 --> 00:41:04,485 Speaker 1: it's all these actions reactions. 891 00:41:04,805 --> 00:41:09,165 Speaker 2: Yeah, all things become news. So absolutely, so that's that's 892 00:41:09,245 --> 00:41:12,325 Speaker 2: great for av budgets at churches. They don't care about 893 00:41:12,325 --> 00:41:14,685 Speaker 2: the fog machine. They don't need a fancy light show. 894 00:41:14,845 --> 00:41:18,844 Speaker 2: This is the most marketed to generation ever. Everything has 895 00:41:18,965 --> 00:41:22,005 Speaker 2: been marketed. So remember my generation, we as millennials. I 896 00:41:22,085 --> 00:41:25,645 Speaker 2: remember a world before iPhone. I remember a world before 897 00:41:25,845 --> 00:41:28,525 Speaker 2: social media. I remember a world before everyone walked around 898 00:41:28,565 --> 00:41:31,245 Speaker 2: with their head down. These kids have always grown up 899 00:41:31,245 --> 00:41:33,765 Speaker 2: with the iPad, the tablets in their hands. So they're 900 00:41:33,805 --> 00:41:35,605 Speaker 2: the most marketed to generation. So they don't want to 901 00:41:35,605 --> 00:41:37,645 Speaker 2: feel like you're trying to sell them something. They don't 902 00:41:37,685 --> 00:41:40,205 Speaker 2: need an over the top production. They've seen it all, 903 00:41:40,245 --> 00:41:42,765 Speaker 2: they've gone, They've seen Taylor Swift, they've seen Drake at tour. 904 00:41:42,965 --> 00:41:46,765 Speaker 2: You're not going to out Drake Drake. Just just give 905 00:41:46,845 --> 00:41:50,485 Speaker 2: us good, wholesome, reverent worships. That's what we want. And 906 00:41:50,885 --> 00:41:52,845 Speaker 2: I don't think they're angry at that fog machines, but 907 00:41:52,925 --> 00:41:55,245 Speaker 2: that's that's not drawing them in. That's not cool to them. 908 00:41:55,285 --> 00:41:57,445 Speaker 2: They just they want simplicity and I think that. I 909 00:41:57,485 --> 00:41:59,005 Speaker 2: mean you're seeing that, yes, So with the with the 910 00:41:59,085 --> 00:42:00,884 Speaker 2: liturgy and the order in the structure, I think there's 911 00:42:00,925 --> 00:42:02,045 Speaker 2: there's a hunger for that as well. 912 00:42:02,165 --> 00:42:06,605 Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, now on your podcast, you interview all kinds 913 00:42:06,645 --> 00:42:09,645 Speaker 1: of people, You talk about all kinds of subjects, And 914 00:42:09,805 --> 00:42:13,165 Speaker 1: it seems to me right now online that obviously you 915 00:42:13,285 --> 00:42:19,085 Speaker 1: can grow your platform by controversy, by criticism. Some people 916 00:42:19,165 --> 00:42:22,725 Speaker 1: seem to all it seems they do is criticize, and 917 00:42:23,165 --> 00:42:27,445 Speaker 1: that's that's how they get, you know, likes or followers 918 00:42:27,765 --> 00:42:31,405 Speaker 1: or clicks or whatever platform they're utilizing to do that, 919 00:42:32,125 --> 00:42:35,645 Speaker 1: and you are not doing that. But you do deal 920 00:42:35,765 --> 00:42:38,844 Speaker 1: with subjects and you're not afraid to shy away from 921 00:42:38,925 --> 00:42:42,165 Speaker 1: certain things. So when something is like a trendy topic 922 00:42:42,885 --> 00:42:45,365 Speaker 1: and you think, Okay, should I do a podcast on 923 00:42:45,485 --> 00:42:49,445 Speaker 1: this or should I just set this one out? How 924 00:42:49,525 --> 00:42:51,725 Speaker 1: do you make that determination? Yeah? 925 00:42:52,005 --> 00:42:56,445 Speaker 2: I prayerfully, hopefully, we're praying and we're thinking, and we're 926 00:42:56,485 --> 00:42:59,445 Speaker 2: also attempting to listen to our audience and what are 927 00:42:59,445 --> 00:43:01,925 Speaker 2: they what are their concerns, what are they fearful of? 928 00:43:02,085 --> 00:43:05,805 Speaker 2: What are they worried about? And then there's certain things 929 00:43:05,885 --> 00:43:10,285 Speaker 2: that if something is publicly verified, these are public statements 930 00:43:10,365 --> 00:43:15,285 Speaker 2: being made. I think public statements open up public responses, 931 00:43:15,885 --> 00:43:17,925 Speaker 2: and I think I think that's a huge one. So 932 00:43:17,965 --> 00:43:19,805 Speaker 2: if something is not public or something is a rumor, 933 00:43:19,845 --> 00:43:22,565 Speaker 2: I mean, in my world, I'm hearing a lot of 934 00:43:22,645 --> 00:43:25,005 Speaker 2: stuff and that's rumors. And so I try not to 935 00:43:25,045 --> 00:43:28,125 Speaker 2: speak on anything that's not publicly verified. So generally is 936 00:43:28,165 --> 00:43:30,365 Speaker 2: a public is it coming from the horse's mouth? And 937 00:43:30,725 --> 00:43:34,045 Speaker 2: then is there more to this than meets the eye? 938 00:43:34,245 --> 00:43:37,364 Speaker 2: Meaning this that sometimes proverb says, you know, he who 939 00:43:37,845 --> 00:43:40,405 Speaker 2: presents his case first seems right, and then until the 940 00:43:40,485 --> 00:43:43,365 Speaker 2: one that comes and does the cross examination right I'm paraphrasing. 941 00:43:43,605 --> 00:43:47,485 Speaker 2: So sometimes the being first isn't being right. Sometimes you 942 00:43:47,565 --> 00:43:49,725 Speaker 2: can get to a story or a topic or a 943 00:43:49,805 --> 00:43:51,925 Speaker 2: video first, and you're not always right. So I think 944 00:43:51,925 --> 00:43:53,485 Speaker 2: it's also slowing down and saying, wait a minute, is 945 00:43:53,605 --> 00:43:57,565 Speaker 2: there more here to this? Let's hit pause. I've intentionally 946 00:43:57,725 --> 00:44:02,445 Speaker 2: tried to do videos where I'm doing yes and content 947 00:44:03,405 --> 00:44:07,245 Speaker 2: and I'm trying to shape share something positive and not 948 00:44:07,445 --> 00:44:10,045 Speaker 2: just tear down. I like that because I think it's 949 00:44:10,125 --> 00:44:11,485 Speaker 2: very easy to just tear down. 950 00:44:11,685 --> 00:44:14,765 Speaker 1: I think you're very balanced. I always appreciate your take 951 00:44:14,845 --> 00:44:17,445 Speaker 1: on things. And there'll be a subject coming up and 952 00:44:17,485 --> 00:44:19,685 Speaker 1: I'll say, oh, Ruslan's dealing with us. I'm going to 953 00:44:19,725 --> 00:44:22,085 Speaker 1: see what his take on it is. Because I like 954 00:44:22,205 --> 00:44:25,685 Speaker 1: that you're not afraid to tackle a difficult subject, but 955 00:44:25,765 --> 00:44:28,805 Speaker 1: you come at it with a biblical worldview. And I 956 00:44:28,885 --> 00:44:31,605 Speaker 1: think you're very even handed with things, and you want 957 00:44:31,645 --> 00:44:34,965 Speaker 1: to know what is true and verify it, and so 958 00:44:35,205 --> 00:44:37,685 Speaker 1: I think you do. I think you're a very important 959 00:44:37,765 --> 00:44:40,765 Speaker 1: voice out there, and it's you know, and I think 960 00:44:41,285 --> 00:44:45,405 Speaker 1: some people will blow their things up bigger and then 961 00:44:45,445 --> 00:44:48,765 Speaker 1: they'll crash and burn one day. And I would rather 962 00:44:48,925 --> 00:44:52,605 Speaker 1: be steady, consistent and do it in the right way, 963 00:44:52,725 --> 00:44:55,605 Speaker 1: even if I have less followers, you know, even if 964 00:44:55,605 --> 00:44:57,565 Speaker 1: I have less clicks, or if I have less whatever. 965 00:44:57,885 --> 00:44:59,645 Speaker 1: I'll just say, this is something I want to say, 966 00:45:00,045 --> 00:45:01,405 Speaker 1: and I'm going to say it, and I think it 967 00:45:01,525 --> 00:45:04,805 Speaker 1: needs to be said, and maybe it'll be responded to well, 968 00:45:05,085 --> 00:45:07,725 Speaker 1: and maybe it won't be There are things that I'm 969 00:45:07,805 --> 00:45:10,485 Speaker 1: surprised by how some things are responded to. Have you've 970 00:45:10,485 --> 00:45:13,325 Speaker 1: ever done a podcast just dealing with whatever subject and 971 00:45:13,445 --> 00:45:16,485 Speaker 1: it blew up and became super viral, and then something 972 00:45:16,565 --> 00:45:18,765 Speaker 1: else she thought, Oh, this is going to be super 973 00:45:18,845 --> 00:45:21,525 Speaker 1: big and it wasn't as well responded to. 974 00:45:21,725 --> 00:45:24,285 Speaker 2: Yeah, all the time, all the time. I mean, what 975 00:45:24,445 --> 00:45:27,005 Speaker 2: I think happens, what I think culturally is happening right 976 00:45:27,045 --> 00:45:28,645 Speaker 2: now is a lot of people are falling into the 977 00:45:28,685 --> 00:45:33,885 Speaker 2: biggest bad fallacy. So there's an entire industry of just 978 00:45:34,605 --> 00:45:40,045 Speaker 2: calling out big things like megachurch, megachurch, bad, megachurch pastor. 979 00:45:39,765 --> 00:45:41,884 Speaker 1: Bad yeah and immediately yeah. 980 00:45:41,925 --> 00:45:45,165 Speaker 2: And so I end up defending a lot of people 981 00:45:45,525 --> 00:45:47,445 Speaker 2: and trying to point out to the beauty of what 982 00:45:47,525 --> 00:45:50,165 Speaker 2: they're doing instead of saying hey. And I often think 983 00:45:50,205 --> 00:45:53,445 Speaker 2: that that the just because something is big doesn't make 984 00:45:53,485 --> 00:45:56,205 Speaker 2: it good either. But a lot of times, especially today, 985 00:45:56,245 --> 00:45:59,645 Speaker 2: I think that the person gets to decide whether something 986 00:45:59,805 --> 00:46:01,965 Speaker 2: is big or not. You can't trick people anymore, you 987 00:46:02,005 --> 00:46:06,325 Speaker 2: can't market your way into effectiveness. Actually have to have 988 00:46:06,445 --> 00:46:09,045 Speaker 2: the substance because they'll just move on to the next thing. 989 00:46:09,325 --> 00:46:10,805 Speaker 2: And so now what we're saying is we're seeing a 990 00:46:10,925 --> 00:46:13,165 Speaker 2: lot of good men, a lot of good pastors that 991 00:46:13,205 --> 00:46:16,325 Speaker 2: are being attagged for silly reasons, and we're not really 992 00:46:16,405 --> 00:46:19,165 Speaker 2: processing why are we upset about this? Yeah, so I'll 993 00:46:19,205 --> 00:46:21,005 Speaker 2: go in and say, Okay, well, is this a black 994 00:46:21,045 --> 00:46:23,245 Speaker 2: or white issue or is this a personal conviction? 995 00:46:23,525 --> 00:46:23,685 Speaker 1: Right? 996 00:46:23,765 --> 00:46:25,805 Speaker 2: And let's deal with that. And so I think that's 997 00:46:25,885 --> 00:46:27,765 Speaker 2: the that's the heart of what I'm trying to do. 998 00:46:27,965 --> 00:46:31,485 Speaker 1: That's good. Yeah, it's weird because most you know, wes 999 00:46:31,765 --> 00:46:35,085 Speaker 1: I passed, I passor for over fifty years and one 1000 00:46:35,165 --> 00:46:38,485 Speaker 1: day in the eighties, I got a call from some magazine, 1001 00:46:38,605 --> 00:46:42,165 Speaker 1: Christian magazine. Oh, as a mega church we wanted to interview. 1002 00:46:42,245 --> 00:46:44,685 Speaker 1: I never even heard the term before. We never set 1003 00:46:44,765 --> 00:46:47,245 Speaker 1: out to be a mega church, and I don't know 1004 00:46:47,365 --> 00:46:50,245 Speaker 1: that most people who pastor as so called mega churches did. 1005 00:46:50,845 --> 00:46:53,445 Speaker 1: And to me, it'd be like, well, there's this one restaurant, 1006 00:46:53,485 --> 00:46:56,325 Speaker 1: there's a line around the block. People love to eat there, 1007 00:46:56,845 --> 00:46:59,485 Speaker 1: and then there's another restaurant that you know has no 1008 00:46:59,685 --> 00:47:02,885 Speaker 1: clientele and they're basically close to going out of business. 1009 00:47:03,405 --> 00:47:05,924 Speaker 1: Now we went and criticized a restaurant of the line 1010 00:47:05,965 --> 00:47:09,365 Speaker 1: around the block, Why are we immediately critical of a 1011 00:47:09,525 --> 00:47:12,885 Speaker 1: church just because that's grown. However, having said that, you 1012 00:47:13,045 --> 00:47:16,485 Speaker 1: can grow a church in the wrong way with false teaching, 1013 00:47:17,285 --> 00:47:21,005 Speaker 1: and so there is some validity, but you have to 1014 00:47:21,125 --> 00:47:24,285 Speaker 1: evaluate them on the basis of what's being preached there, 1015 00:47:24,365 --> 00:47:26,685 Speaker 1: what kind of spiritual fruit you see from there over 1016 00:47:26,725 --> 00:47:27,125 Speaker 1: the years. 1017 00:47:27,485 --> 00:47:30,165 Speaker 2: So there's a lot more to it than just yeah, 1018 00:47:30,245 --> 00:47:35,844 Speaker 2: big is bad and is the teaching bringing harm to people? Yeah, 1019 00:47:35,965 --> 00:47:40,805 Speaker 2: because there are teachers and teachings that I'm not mad 1020 00:47:40,845 --> 00:47:44,205 Speaker 2: at the teacher per se, but the culture they're exporting 1021 00:47:44,725 --> 00:47:47,765 Speaker 2: is actually now infiltrating our church. And now I'm having 1022 00:47:47,805 --> 00:47:50,005 Speaker 2: to deal with you know, filled in the blank, whether 1023 00:47:50,045 --> 00:47:52,405 Speaker 2: it's hyper deliverance and everything is a demon now and 1024 00:47:52,485 --> 00:47:54,005 Speaker 2: so now we got to now we gotta walk you 1025 00:47:54,085 --> 00:47:56,884 Speaker 2: through what it means to be saved. And so it's 1026 00:47:56,965 --> 00:47:59,085 Speaker 2: like we have to deal with these things on the 1027 00:47:59,125 --> 00:48:02,165 Speaker 2: ground or you know, the hyper charismaniac. God told me 1028 00:48:02,605 --> 00:48:05,285 Speaker 2: everything is a prophecy, and so when I see these 1029 00:48:05,325 --> 00:48:08,485 Speaker 2: things is being exported, this hurts people on the ground. 1030 00:48:09,205 --> 00:48:11,165 Speaker 2: And those things do need to be interested and they 1031 00:48:11,165 --> 00:48:13,885 Speaker 2: do need to be not to attack people to correct 1032 00:48:13,925 --> 00:48:14,525 Speaker 2: bad teaching. 1033 00:48:14,765 --> 00:48:16,725 Speaker 1: I mean, this is a whole new medium now where 1034 00:48:17,005 --> 00:48:20,645 Speaker 1: anyone can effectively have a voice. So it's good because 1035 00:48:20,845 --> 00:48:23,805 Speaker 1: anyone can have a voice. It's bad because anyone can 1036 00:48:23,885 --> 00:48:26,965 Speaker 1: have a voice. And so it's all out there. But 1037 00:48:28,245 --> 00:48:32,924 Speaker 1: you've encouraged pastors. I heard you say today that every 1038 00:48:33,045 --> 00:48:36,005 Speaker 1: pastor should have a podcast, right, so I'll explain that. 1039 00:48:36,285 --> 00:48:40,685 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I think most pastors already have the material, yes, 1040 00:48:41,085 --> 00:48:45,005 Speaker 2: because most pastors are spending hours, you know, sometimes fifteen 1041 00:48:45,045 --> 00:48:47,085 Speaker 2: twenty hours a week prepping for their talk on Sunday, 1042 00:48:47,445 --> 00:48:50,685 Speaker 2: you know, squeezing everything you studied for in a thirty 1043 00:48:50,725 --> 00:48:53,365 Speaker 2: to time. It's a sixty minute talk. So they already 1044 00:48:53,445 --> 00:48:56,085 Speaker 2: have extra material that I wish I could have gotten 1045 00:48:56,125 --> 00:48:58,245 Speaker 2: to the very true it's okay, so take your church 1046 00:48:58,365 --> 00:49:00,165 Speaker 2: deeper on that thing, you know, take them deeper on 1047 00:49:00,245 --> 00:49:02,805 Speaker 2: the thing I wish I could have gone into. Now 1048 00:49:03,045 --> 00:49:07,445 Speaker 2: they're getting more time with you in terms of receiving 1049 00:49:07,485 --> 00:49:09,605 Speaker 2: from you, and it's at scale in the same way 1050 00:49:09,645 --> 00:49:12,885 Speaker 2: that Paul utilized letters that they were sending the churches. Right, 1051 00:49:12,925 --> 00:49:15,325 Speaker 2: Paul wasn't sitting one to one with every single person. 1052 00:49:15,605 --> 00:49:18,565 Speaker 2: He was writing letters many times answering their questions, yeah, 1053 00:49:18,685 --> 00:49:22,045 Speaker 2: real concerns, and he was using the technology at the time. 1054 00:49:22,125 --> 00:49:23,485 Speaker 2: And so to me, I go, okay, well, you have 1055 00:49:23,565 --> 00:49:27,405 Speaker 2: extra material. Your congregation needs you. They need to hear 1056 00:49:27,485 --> 00:49:29,885 Speaker 2: from you more. And it's not going to take a 1057 00:49:29,925 --> 00:49:31,485 Speaker 2: whole lot of effort for you to sit down for 1058 00:49:31,565 --> 00:49:34,085 Speaker 2: an hour or two and just say this is everything 1059 00:49:34,125 --> 00:49:36,605 Speaker 2: I wish I would have said, so well, and then 1060 00:49:36,685 --> 00:49:38,085 Speaker 2: you could take that and you could say, okay, well 1061 00:49:38,125 --> 00:49:40,165 Speaker 2: there's some things I'm want to speak into. That's a 1062 00:49:40,205 --> 00:49:42,685 Speaker 2: current event where that's a news story. I think that 1063 00:49:43,005 --> 00:49:44,965 Speaker 2: I pointed to Josh Howardon, who's a dear friend of mine, 1064 00:49:44,965 --> 00:49:47,645 Speaker 2: pastors a massive church out in Texas, and his podcast 1065 00:49:47,725 --> 00:49:50,805 Speaker 2: is exploding. And a lot of pastors already have the 1066 00:49:50,805 --> 00:49:54,525 Speaker 2: gift of communication, So transitioning to a podcast is not 1067 00:49:54,685 --> 00:49:57,005 Speaker 2: much different than a sermon. You already know how to 1068 00:49:57,045 --> 00:50:00,325 Speaker 2: tell stories, how to execute the text. And so Josh 1069 00:50:00,365 --> 00:50:04,725 Speaker 2: Howardson has exploded, Pastor Jobey Martin's exploded, Pastor Philip Anthony 1070 00:50:04,725 --> 00:50:06,765 Speaker 2: Mitchell have exploded. Do They all have their podcasts and 1071 00:50:06,805 --> 00:50:10,005 Speaker 2: it's just getting their congregation more time, and then sometimes 1072 00:50:10,045 --> 00:50:12,645 Speaker 2: it goes way beyond their congregation, which I think is 1073 00:50:12,645 --> 00:50:14,005 Speaker 2: also a net positive for the kingdom. 1074 00:50:14,325 --> 00:50:17,005 Speaker 1: What do you think people are really are you kind 1075 00:50:17,045 --> 00:50:20,085 Speaker 1: of touched on it, but are really hungry for and 1076 00:50:20,165 --> 00:50:23,245 Speaker 1: are really needing right now? Like topics we should be 1077 00:50:23,405 --> 00:50:28,405 Speaker 1: addressing in the podcasting platform or other forms of social media, 1078 00:50:28,885 --> 00:50:30,765 Speaker 1: I think are from the pulpit for that matter. 1079 00:50:30,965 --> 00:50:35,325 Speaker 2: I think a big concern I have is our modern 1080 00:50:35,445 --> 00:50:38,125 Speaker 2: education system has not done a great job of teaching 1081 00:50:38,165 --> 00:50:41,005 Speaker 2: young people how to think as much as they've been 1082 00:50:41,045 --> 00:50:44,445 Speaker 2: teaching them what to think. So there's being indoctrinated critical 1083 00:50:44,485 --> 00:50:46,645 Speaker 2: theory and Marxism and all that, and I'm not using 1084 00:50:46,685 --> 00:50:49,245 Speaker 2: these boogiey band terms like these are real things they're 1085 00:50:49,285 --> 00:50:52,285 Speaker 2: being indoctrinated with. Then they go to church and now 1086 00:50:52,325 --> 00:50:55,725 Speaker 2: they're just giving opposing ideas, but they're not being taught 1087 00:50:55,845 --> 00:50:59,285 Speaker 2: how to think, how to process what is a logical fallacy? 1088 00:50:59,365 --> 00:51:02,285 Speaker 2: How do you understand the reason? How do you deduce 1089 00:51:02,445 --> 00:51:04,685 Speaker 2: what is true out of multiple theories? And so I 1090 00:51:04,725 --> 00:51:07,285 Speaker 2: think if we could help young people learn how to 1091 00:51:07,445 --> 00:51:10,165 Speaker 2: think and how to check their own biases. You know, 1092 00:51:10,205 --> 00:51:13,885 Speaker 2: the scriptures talk about people floating from the latest teaching 1093 00:51:13,965 --> 00:51:16,965 Speaker 2: and all that sort of stuff. And my buddy Matthew 1094 00:51:17,005 --> 00:51:18,685 Speaker 2: was talking about we were just hanging out earlier and 1095 00:51:18,725 --> 00:51:20,725 Speaker 2: he was talking about Paul's writing The Corintheans, and he's 1096 00:51:20,725 --> 00:51:23,085 Speaker 2: telling like, you're still on milk. You're still on milk. 1097 00:51:23,125 --> 00:51:24,565 Speaker 2: You need to get on me, you need to go 1098 00:51:24,605 --> 00:51:26,045 Speaker 2: a little deeper. And I think that comes as the 1099 00:51:26,045 --> 00:51:28,364 Speaker 2: byproduct of teaching people how to think. So I think 1100 00:51:28,445 --> 00:51:32,845 Speaker 2: how to think? I think, Uh, I wish more, And 1101 00:51:32,925 --> 00:51:35,285 Speaker 2: this is going to be controversial. I wish more pastors 1102 00:51:35,845 --> 00:51:39,285 Speaker 2: spoke about financial literacy and finances more because I think 1103 00:51:39,325 --> 00:51:41,525 Speaker 2: a lot of young people are uncertain and they're scared, 1104 00:51:42,085 --> 00:51:45,404 Speaker 2: and they got they got Dave Ramsey, and they got 1105 00:51:45,845 --> 00:51:47,845 Speaker 2: the world, and they got all the point and that 1106 00:51:48,005 --> 00:51:53,205 Speaker 2: then the gambling is up, the speculation on the they're 1107 00:51:53,205 --> 00:51:55,325 Speaker 2: gambling on the weather now I know, right, And and 1108 00:51:55,725 --> 00:51:57,885 Speaker 2: so I wish we had podcast on. 1109 00:52:00,205 --> 00:52:02,165 Speaker 1: Now you can liberally put your phone, you. 1110 00:52:02,205 --> 00:52:04,805 Speaker 2: Can bet on the weather. It is so weird. And 1111 00:52:04,885 --> 00:52:09,125 Speaker 2: so I wish we had more pastors talking about financial literacy. 1112 00:52:09,845 --> 00:52:12,365 Speaker 2: Why giving is good for you, yes, why serving is 1113 00:52:12,405 --> 00:52:14,205 Speaker 2: good for you, Why having a budget is good for you. 1114 00:52:14,765 --> 00:52:16,765 Speaker 2: I think the Ramsey people are doing an amazing job. 1115 00:52:16,845 --> 00:52:20,565 Speaker 1: I think sometimes pastors avoid those topics because they may 1116 00:52:20,605 --> 00:52:23,285 Speaker 1: be afraid that they'll be criticized because all the church 1117 00:52:23,365 --> 00:52:25,925 Speaker 1: does is talk about money, which isn't true. I mean, 1118 00:52:26,005 --> 00:52:28,325 Speaker 1: maybe there are some churches and all they talk about 1119 00:52:28,445 --> 00:52:31,045 Speaker 1: is money, but fine, large that's not true of most churches. 1120 00:52:31,125 --> 00:52:33,685 Speaker 1: It's funny, how you know a person won't think twice 1121 00:52:33,685 --> 00:52:35,645 Speaker 1: about paying some huge amount of money to go to 1122 00:52:36,205 --> 00:52:39,085 Speaker 1: a movie, a lot more money to go to a concert, 1123 00:52:39,245 --> 00:52:42,165 Speaker 1: even a relatively large amount of money to get a 1124 00:52:42,405 --> 00:52:44,845 Speaker 1: you know, cappuccino. But all of a sudden, when an 1125 00:52:44,885 --> 00:52:47,605 Speaker 1: offering play this past what what I have to invest 1126 00:52:47,685 --> 00:52:50,845 Speaker 1: in this, and there is there is a blessing in giving, 1127 00:52:51,445 --> 00:52:54,884 Speaker 1: but there's a responsibility attached to it as well. 1128 00:52:55,045 --> 00:52:57,005 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think to me, I think we we 1129 00:52:57,525 --> 00:53:00,565 Speaker 2: we should be leading in that. And I'm not afraid. 1130 00:53:00,685 --> 00:53:03,404 Speaker 2: And I've said this before, and I love being called 1131 00:53:03,445 --> 00:53:05,725 Speaker 2: into a church to give, to give the giving talk. 1132 00:53:05,845 --> 00:53:09,365 Speaker 2: I love it because when we were in debt, we 1133 00:53:09,645 --> 00:53:13,885 Speaker 2: gave and tithe through that consistently. We gave ten percent 1134 00:53:14,205 --> 00:53:16,005 Speaker 2: while we were getting out of debt. And it's the 1135 00:53:16,085 --> 00:53:17,845 Speaker 2: best thing we could have done. And people will argue 1136 00:53:17,845 --> 00:53:20,325 Speaker 2: and it is it an Old Testament law for the 1137 00:53:20,405 --> 00:53:22,565 Speaker 2: New test Most of you aren't giving anything. 1138 00:53:22,805 --> 00:53:25,765 Speaker 1: That's the point, you know. I never hear people it's 1139 00:53:26,005 --> 00:53:26,605 Speaker 1: entry level. 1140 00:53:26,765 --> 00:53:28,565 Speaker 2: I never hear people that are giving twenty percent or 1141 00:53:28,565 --> 00:53:30,925 Speaker 2: thirty percent of their income. I want to argue about it. 1142 00:53:30,925 --> 00:53:33,005 Speaker 2: If it's a law, it's off the net or the growth. 1143 00:53:33,005 --> 00:53:34,885 Speaker 2: It's always the people that don't give anything. They got 1144 00:53:34,885 --> 00:53:37,165 Speaker 2: a lot of opinions. And so to me, we've always 1145 00:53:37,205 --> 00:53:39,285 Speaker 2: given ten percent. I don't think it's a law in 1146 00:53:39,325 --> 00:53:40,565 Speaker 2: the sense that I don't think it's a law like 1147 00:53:40,565 --> 00:53:42,205 Speaker 2: the Sabbath is a law. But I think it's a 1148 00:53:42,325 --> 00:53:45,125 Speaker 2: great principle to take rest every week. And in the 1149 00:53:45,125 --> 00:53:46,605 Speaker 2: same way, I think it's a great principle to give 1150 00:53:46,605 --> 00:53:49,605 Speaker 2: at least percent of income. And there's something that happens 1151 00:53:49,645 --> 00:53:52,885 Speaker 2: when I release my money, So I wish again, I 1152 00:53:52,885 --> 00:53:56,165 Speaker 2: wish more. Pastors talked about financial literacy, living on a budget, 1153 00:53:56,205 --> 00:53:58,925 Speaker 2: living on less than what you make, avoiding debt, avoiding gambling, 1154 00:53:59,605 --> 00:54:03,645 Speaker 2: having a plan for your future, and I think it's necessary. 1155 00:54:03,685 --> 00:54:04,165 Speaker 2: I think it's. 1156 00:54:05,685 --> 00:54:09,645 Speaker 1: So let's just say, you remember when when Twitter first 1157 00:54:09,685 --> 00:54:12,485 Speaker 1: came out and now called x and it was controversial. 1158 00:54:12,605 --> 00:54:15,925 Speaker 1: This at a pastor's conference and they were literally some 1159 00:54:16,085 --> 00:54:18,125 Speaker 1: of these older guys were like, I don't know, we 1160 00:54:18,165 --> 00:54:21,085 Speaker 1: shouldn't go on Twitter? Should we go on Twitter? Twitter's 1161 00:54:21,165 --> 00:54:24,125 Speaker 1: like I tink a microphone hooked up to two speakers. 1162 00:54:24,405 --> 00:54:26,845 Speaker 1: Should I speak into the microphone? Of course you should. 1163 00:54:27,485 --> 00:54:29,805 Speaker 1: Let's imagine for a moment, you're going up to a 1164 00:54:29,885 --> 00:54:34,125 Speaker 1: microphone and you're speaking to an audience of one million 1165 00:54:35,005 --> 00:54:39,485 Speaker 1: gen Z kids, and you've got maybe two or three minutes, Like, 1166 00:54:39,645 --> 00:54:40,805 Speaker 1: what do you want to say to them? 1167 00:54:41,445 --> 00:54:45,285 Speaker 2: Man, I'd want to say one, the very best thing 1168 00:54:45,485 --> 00:54:47,525 Speaker 2: you can do is to surrender your life at the 1169 00:54:47,565 --> 00:54:48,485 Speaker 2: lordship with Jesus. 1170 00:54:49,125 --> 00:54:50,365 Speaker 1: Explain what that means. 1171 00:54:50,205 --> 00:54:52,125 Speaker 2: Well, I think a lot of people want Jesus as 1172 00:54:52,165 --> 00:54:55,445 Speaker 2: their savior, as their friend, as their homeboys, as their buddy, 1173 00:54:55,565 --> 00:54:59,565 Speaker 2: as their Powell, as their sidekick. They don't want Jesus as. 1174 00:54:59,725 --> 00:55:03,245 Speaker 1: Remember when that hat Jesus is my booys popular. Yeah, 1175 00:55:03,325 --> 00:55:07,045 Speaker 1: so they need to know about knowing him as Savior 1176 00:55:07,085 --> 00:55:07,884 Speaker 1: and Lord and lord. 1177 00:55:08,165 --> 00:55:10,245 Speaker 2: If someone's lord, if someone's king over my life, that 1178 00:55:10,325 --> 00:55:13,805 Speaker 2: means that king has no dominion. And the paradoxical part 1179 00:55:13,965 --> 00:55:16,365 Speaker 2: is when I live by the king's ways, it's actually 1180 00:55:16,445 --> 00:55:19,165 Speaker 2: in my best interest and God's and ways are good 1181 00:55:19,205 --> 00:55:21,925 Speaker 2: for me. And so I always encourage people if you 1182 00:55:22,085 --> 00:55:24,525 Speaker 2: want God's will for your life, if you want God's 1183 00:55:24,565 --> 00:55:27,045 Speaker 2: goodness for your life, you have to get aligned with 1184 00:55:27,165 --> 00:55:29,045 Speaker 2: God's ways for your life. And you want to know 1185 00:55:29,125 --> 00:55:30,725 Speaker 2: what God's will is. It's not always a fork in 1186 00:55:30,765 --> 00:55:32,965 Speaker 2: the road moment. It's often how you go about doing 1187 00:55:33,005 --> 00:55:35,725 Speaker 2: those boring, mundane things that you don't want to think about. 1188 00:55:36,045 --> 00:55:39,525 Speaker 2: But if you can, if you can extract God's ways 1189 00:55:39,605 --> 00:55:41,325 Speaker 2: for your life, you'll always be in God's will. How 1190 00:55:41,365 --> 00:55:43,045 Speaker 2: do we get to God's ways? We getting God's word. 1191 00:55:43,205 --> 00:55:44,405 Speaker 2: So I think that's one of the best things you 1192 00:55:44,445 --> 00:55:48,005 Speaker 2: could do is getting God's word. I am astonished by 1193 00:55:48,045 --> 00:55:50,085 Speaker 2: the amount of people that claim to be Christian have 1194 00:55:50,205 --> 00:55:53,525 Speaker 2: never read the Bible and cover. I am doing currently 1195 00:55:53,565 --> 00:55:56,725 Speaker 2: a reading plan that I designed Monday through Friday Old Testament, 1196 00:55:56,845 --> 00:55:59,925 Speaker 2: New Testament, Salmon proverb, two year plan. I do it 1197 00:55:59,965 --> 00:56:02,085 Speaker 2: every morning. It's I mean, sometimes I'll go deeper. 1198 00:56:02,205 --> 00:56:04,325 Speaker 1: Someone's will it take you to go through a day's reading? 1199 00:56:04,565 --> 00:56:05,325 Speaker 2: Up? Seven minutes? 1200 00:56:05,645 --> 00:56:05,884 Speaker 1: Wow? 1201 00:56:05,965 --> 00:56:06,525 Speaker 2: Seven minutes? 1202 00:56:06,565 --> 00:56:06,765 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1203 00:56:06,805 --> 00:56:08,885 Speaker 2: Yeah, and so seven minutes. And then often I'll go deeper. 1204 00:56:09,205 --> 00:56:11,085 Speaker 2: I'll want to jump in the Greek. I'll pull up 1205 00:56:11,085 --> 00:56:15,884 Speaker 2: the Google sorry, the logos study app. I'll sometimes I'll 1206 00:56:15,925 --> 00:56:16,725 Speaker 2: throw it on while I'm on. 1207 00:56:16,845 --> 00:56:19,725 Speaker 1: So for people that don't know, logo says an amazing 1208 00:56:20,125 --> 00:56:21,685 Speaker 1: yes download. 1209 00:56:21,725 --> 00:56:23,445 Speaker 2: Yeah, And logos used to just be for pastors, like 1210 00:56:23,485 --> 00:56:25,485 Speaker 2: ten years ago, it was only for pastors. Now it's 1211 00:56:25,605 --> 00:56:27,285 Speaker 2: I think my plan is fifteen bucks a month. 1212 00:56:27,405 --> 00:56:27,605 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1213 00:56:27,765 --> 00:56:29,445 Speaker 2: And there's also something that you know, when you pay, 1214 00:56:29,565 --> 00:56:31,565 Speaker 2: you pay attention. When you pay a little something, you 1215 00:56:31,645 --> 00:56:34,364 Speaker 2: pay attention. So I'm a big advocate for logos. So yeah, 1216 00:56:34,485 --> 00:56:36,285 Speaker 2: I think carving out time to get in the word, 1217 00:56:36,645 --> 00:56:40,165 Speaker 2: carving out time to pray. I think prayer is huge. 1218 00:56:40,805 --> 00:56:43,125 Speaker 2: I'm a big advocate of prayer journaling, So I like 1219 00:56:43,245 --> 00:56:46,965 Speaker 2: writing out prayers. We forget and we need to be reminded, 1220 00:56:47,365 --> 00:56:49,125 Speaker 2: often way more than we need to be taught. 1221 00:56:49,005 --> 00:56:50,364 Speaker 1: Of the faithfulness of the Lord. 1222 00:56:50,445 --> 00:56:52,205 Speaker 2: Of the faithfulness of the Lord. Have He already answered 1223 00:56:52,205 --> 00:56:52,525 Speaker 2: your prayer? 1224 00:56:52,565 --> 00:56:53,805 Speaker 1: You already answered your prayers? 1225 00:56:53,925 --> 00:56:57,165 Speaker 2: Yeah, So I love prayer journaling, starting with praise reports 1226 00:56:57,605 --> 00:57:00,485 Speaker 2: then praying for other people, then praying for yourself, and 1227 00:57:00,685 --> 00:57:02,325 Speaker 2: you know that's where you would confess some sins, and 1228 00:57:02,365 --> 00:57:04,765 Speaker 2: then reflecting all what God is doing teaching you through 1229 00:57:04,805 --> 00:57:08,885 Speaker 2: the word. And then I would say, lastly, like become useful, 1230 00:57:09,285 --> 00:57:12,205 Speaker 2: become useful, become useful to your current employer. What skills 1231 00:57:12,245 --> 00:57:14,045 Speaker 2: do you have? What skills can you build on top of? 1232 00:57:15,005 --> 00:57:17,885 Speaker 2: Become useful and faithful? To write where you are, because 1233 00:57:17,925 --> 00:57:19,565 Speaker 2: often it's being faithful. And then the little things that 1234 00:57:19,605 --> 00:57:20,725 Speaker 2: will lead you to the next sea. 1235 00:57:20,605 --> 00:57:23,085 Speaker 1: And so many of the parables of Jesus that was 1236 00:57:23,165 --> 00:57:27,485 Speaker 1: so amplified. You know, personal responsibility and you are awarded 1237 00:57:27,645 --> 00:57:31,925 Speaker 1: according to your faithfulness and with taking that responsibility, like 1238 00:57:32,005 --> 00:57:35,325 Speaker 1: the parable of the talents and so and so forth. 1239 00:57:35,765 --> 00:57:38,485 Speaker 1: And then there's a multiplied blessing and response. 1240 00:57:38,645 --> 00:57:41,725 Speaker 2: So and I would say last day to gen Z, like, man, 1241 00:57:43,485 --> 00:57:46,205 Speaker 2: your great great grandparents would trade places with you in 1242 00:57:46,245 --> 00:57:48,485 Speaker 2: a heartbeat to live the life that you live with 1243 00:57:48,565 --> 00:57:51,125 Speaker 2: all of our unique challenges and the economy and that 1244 00:57:51,285 --> 00:57:53,725 Speaker 2: cost of like all of that is fair. They would 1245 00:57:54,005 --> 00:57:56,205 Speaker 2: trade places with you in a heart beat to be 1246 00:57:56,325 --> 00:57:58,365 Speaker 2: here and now. And I would also say, when when 1247 00:57:58,365 --> 00:58:02,365 Speaker 2: you're reading the scriptures, remember of the freedom that we 1248 00:58:02,445 --> 00:58:04,565 Speaker 2: have in our concepts to share our faith, of the 1249 00:58:04,685 --> 00:58:08,165 Speaker 2: freedom that we have to build businesses and build ministries 1250 00:58:08,205 --> 00:58:11,285 Speaker 2: and build nonprofits and do good and help people. We 1251 00:58:11,445 --> 00:58:14,365 Speaker 2: have such a huge opportunity to do good, and I 1252 00:58:14,405 --> 00:58:17,685 Speaker 2: would hate for us to squander it because we're obsessed 1253 00:58:17,685 --> 00:58:20,405 Speaker 2: about the latest controversy or the latest conspiracy or the 1254 00:58:20,485 --> 00:58:23,725 Speaker 2: latest economic concertaincy and the political state of the world. 1255 00:58:23,765 --> 00:58:26,045 Speaker 2: And it's like, man, look at the opportunity we all have. 1256 00:58:26,245 --> 00:58:30,045 Speaker 1: That's right. Yeah, those great words just kind of a 1257 00:58:30,285 --> 00:58:34,605 Speaker 1: cook lightning round of more mundane things. Uh So, like 1258 00:58:34,645 --> 00:58:37,565 Speaker 1: when Ruslan's hungry, what's your favorite food to have? Is 1259 00:58:37,645 --> 00:58:38,565 Speaker 1: it pizza? Hut pea? 1260 00:58:38,765 --> 00:58:40,645 Speaker 2: No? I can't eat pizza hut no more no, no, no, 1261 00:58:41,325 --> 00:58:43,925 Speaker 2: I'm a very simple guy. I'm a I'm a chicken, 1262 00:58:43,965 --> 00:58:47,125 Speaker 2: sweet potato guy now and fruit yeah. Yeah. 1263 00:58:47,685 --> 00:58:50,125 Speaker 1: So when you go to a do you like coffee? 1264 00:58:50,725 --> 00:58:51,805 Speaker 2: I'm a I'm a tea guy. 1265 00:58:52,165 --> 00:58:54,165 Speaker 1: Well, you know, Michael W. Smith said that to me. 1266 00:58:54,525 --> 00:58:55,765 Speaker 1: It was very disappointing too. 1267 00:58:55,885 --> 00:58:56,045 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1268 00:58:56,085 --> 00:58:56,365 Speaker 1: I like you. 1269 00:58:58,205 --> 00:59:01,965 Speaker 2: You like your root, I like Maya, I like mate. 1270 00:59:02,205 --> 00:59:04,485 Speaker 2: So you're romante from South America. That's my jam. 1271 00:59:04,525 --> 00:59:05,205 Speaker 1: I don't know what that is. 1272 00:59:05,485 --> 00:59:06,245 Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna get you. 1273 00:59:06,325 --> 00:59:09,165 Speaker 1: Hip. A friend of mine got me going on macha 1274 00:59:09,765 --> 00:59:12,325 Speaker 1: and so I have a cappuccino in the morning, then 1275 00:59:12,365 --> 00:59:15,165 Speaker 1: after I eat lunch, I have an iced macha. Okay. 1276 00:59:15,205 --> 00:59:18,445 Speaker 1: And the cool thing is it's an antioxidant and the 1277 00:59:18,645 --> 00:59:21,885 Speaker 1: caffeine is really slower. Yes, they don't get the immediate boom, 1278 00:59:22,005 --> 00:59:25,325 Speaker 1: you know, but it's a nice slow caffeine released. But 1279 00:59:25,445 --> 00:59:28,085 Speaker 1: it has be done right because machigan tastes really weird. 1280 00:59:28,245 --> 00:59:29,525 Speaker 2: Yes, if it's not done right. 1281 00:59:29,565 --> 00:59:31,645 Speaker 1: But I found the guy. He has a place called 1282 00:59:31,725 --> 00:59:35,605 Speaker 1: Mongot Coffee. They're in Orange County. Little commercial for him. 1283 00:59:36,045 --> 00:59:37,765 Speaker 1: He nails the ice macha. 1284 00:59:37,845 --> 00:59:39,845 Speaker 2: Yeah, my son loves macha. So Mate is similar in 1285 00:59:40,005 --> 00:59:42,605 Speaker 2: that it's less of a spike and it's less of 1286 00:59:42,605 --> 00:59:45,245 Speaker 2: a crash, it's more of an arc. So for deep work, 1287 00:59:45,245 --> 00:59:45,885 Speaker 2: it's it's perfect. 1288 00:59:45,925 --> 00:59:48,645 Speaker 1: So who's your favorite like band of all time? Oh, 1289 00:59:49,205 --> 00:59:52,085 Speaker 1: band of altam artist, single artist. 1290 00:59:52,325 --> 00:59:57,165 Speaker 2: I am a big fan of Fred Hammond. Oh yeah, 1291 00:59:57,325 --> 00:59:59,725 Speaker 2: gospel worship that Like, if I'm jamming anything, it's probably 1292 00:59:59,765 --> 01:00:01,685 Speaker 2: going to be Fred Hammond. Yeah. And then I listen 1293 01:00:01,765 --> 01:00:04,285 Speaker 2: to a lot of my friends. I listened to Indie Tribe, 1294 01:00:04,325 --> 01:00:06,605 Speaker 2: I listened to Forrest Frame, I listened to Jake, I 1295 01:00:06,725 --> 01:00:08,805 Speaker 2: listened to a lot of my hold. 1296 01:00:08,885 --> 01:00:10,405 Speaker 1: Does Fred play guitar too? 1297 01:00:10,645 --> 01:00:12,325 Speaker 2: Fred plays bass? 1298 01:00:13,045 --> 01:00:13,685 Speaker 1: Bass? Yeah? 1299 01:00:14,005 --> 01:00:17,205 Speaker 2: Sorry? Did you say Frank No? I say it's Fred Hamman, 1300 01:00:17,205 --> 01:00:18,405 Speaker 2: Fred Hamman, Yes, he plays bass. 1301 01:00:18,565 --> 01:00:20,725 Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, right good. I don't know that I've ever 1302 01:00:20,805 --> 01:00:21,485 Speaker 1: earned as as. 1303 01:00:22,445 --> 01:00:23,885 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like nineties gospel music. 1304 01:00:24,245 --> 01:00:27,405 Speaker 1: That's cool. What like movies? Like? What are your top 1305 01:00:27,525 --> 01:00:28,325 Speaker 1: three movies? 1306 01:00:29,405 --> 01:00:32,765 Speaker 2: Oh? Gosh, So I'm into whatever my kids are into 1307 01:00:32,885 --> 01:00:36,165 Speaker 2: right now. So we're big on the Marvel Universe, Spider 1308 01:00:36,245 --> 01:00:39,205 Speaker 2: Man and Star Wars. That's that's where we're living right now. 1309 01:00:39,725 --> 01:00:43,645 Speaker 2: My favorite movies. I love The Inception. I thought that 1310 01:00:43,765 --> 01:00:45,205 Speaker 2: was a great I don't know if I ever fully 1311 01:00:45,285 --> 01:00:48,765 Speaker 2: understod that that's a great way about going into dreams. Christopher. 1312 01:00:49,325 --> 01:00:51,845 Speaker 1: Then I have seys it's pretty good. 1313 01:00:51,845 --> 01:00:52,525 Speaker 2: I heard it was good. 1314 01:00:52,725 --> 01:00:55,805 Speaker 1: I mean there was so much criticism about you know, 1315 01:00:55,925 --> 01:00:58,685 Speaker 1: the cast, yes, yes, yes, and and Franklin when you 1316 01:00:58,725 --> 01:01:03,365 Speaker 1: watch a movie. Yeah, no, that was especially I'm forgetting 1317 01:01:03,405 --> 01:01:05,925 Speaker 1: the actor's name, actresses name. 1318 01:01:06,205 --> 01:01:10,645 Speaker 2: That Elliott Page, Yeah, Elliott p Why why did you 1319 01:01:10,725 --> 01:01:10,965 Speaker 2: do this? 1320 01:01:11,165 --> 01:01:14,045 Speaker 1: But apart from that, it was actually a pretty interesting 1321 01:01:14,125 --> 01:01:17,165 Speaker 1: film and I even sort of a good spiritual message. 1322 01:01:17,245 --> 01:01:20,165 Speaker 1: You know, it's a story of Odysseus trying to make 1323 01:01:20,245 --> 01:01:22,965 Speaker 1: his way home and all the obstacles he has to 1324 01:01:23,005 --> 01:01:25,525 Speaker 1: overcome and the various Greek gods he has to face 1325 01:01:25,605 --> 01:01:27,965 Speaker 1: off with. And to me it was a message of 1326 01:01:28,445 --> 01:01:31,925 Speaker 1: you know, returning home, home to God, home to what 1327 01:01:32,165 --> 01:01:34,685 Speaker 1: is true. But I enjoyed it. It was an hour 1328 01:01:34,805 --> 01:01:35,365 Speaker 1: too long for me. 1329 01:01:35,445 --> 01:01:37,325 Speaker 2: Yes, Spider Man was similar. It was like a really 1330 01:01:37,365 --> 01:01:39,365 Speaker 2: good I haven't seen in these like it. I think 1331 01:01:39,605 --> 01:01:43,165 Speaker 2: it's weird that major blockbuster movies are having these kind 1332 01:01:43,165 --> 01:01:44,565 Speaker 2: of biblical undertones to them. 1333 01:01:44,605 --> 01:01:49,445 Speaker 1: And just see how Christian films and series like the 1334 01:01:49,565 --> 01:01:53,565 Speaker 1: House of David the Chosen, I mean, really the quality 1335 01:01:53,605 --> 01:01:57,765 Speaker 1: of Christian filmmaking has increased dramatically. Yes, And you know, 1336 01:01:58,005 --> 01:02:00,805 Speaker 1: I know you've interviewed John R. When and John and 1337 01:02:00,965 --> 01:02:02,765 Speaker 1: John Is. You know, he's on the cutting edge. His 1338 01:02:02,885 --> 01:02:06,445 Speaker 1: brother Ry really talented over there Kingdom. They used to 1339 01:02:06,525 --> 01:02:09,525 Speaker 1: do more together, but now they're both than separate projects. 1340 01:02:09,605 --> 01:02:12,365 Speaker 1: And you know, with all the films they've done, and 1341 01:02:12,965 --> 01:02:16,725 Speaker 1: of course Dallas Jenkins, Yes, with their Chos Gibson's got 1342 01:02:16,805 --> 01:02:20,565 Speaker 1: you know, sequels to the Passion coming out. So I mean, 1343 01:02:20,605 --> 01:02:23,165 Speaker 1: I love this because it's a great way to reach people. 1344 01:02:23,205 --> 01:02:25,525 Speaker 1: It can open their heart up for the preaching of 1345 01:02:25,605 --> 01:02:26,125 Speaker 1: the gospel. 1346 01:02:26,205 --> 01:02:28,845 Speaker 2: Well, I would. I also love about John Is. He's 1347 01:02:28,965 --> 01:02:30,685 Speaker 2: he really is on the cutting edge of the tests 1348 01:02:30,885 --> 01:02:32,765 Speaker 2: and so he's not afraid of technology. He's leaning in 1349 01:02:32,805 --> 01:02:33,685 Speaker 2: and he's charging it. 1350 01:02:33,965 --> 01:02:37,125 Speaker 1: He's actually doing stuff no one else is doing right now. 1351 01:02:37,205 --> 01:02:39,125 Speaker 2: Yeah, and he's using EI yes. 1352 01:02:39,165 --> 01:02:41,725 Speaker 1: And other things kind of like but they've done with Mandalorian, 1353 01:02:42,125 --> 01:02:44,445 Speaker 1: but he's taking it to the next level in an 1354 01:02:44,485 --> 01:02:45,045 Speaker 1: amazing way. 1355 01:02:45,125 --> 01:02:48,605 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's doing great. So I think what Hollywood is noticing, 1356 01:02:48,805 --> 01:02:50,885 Speaker 2: I think is some of the shift that's happening. They're 1357 01:02:50,925 --> 01:02:53,525 Speaker 2: starting to see it. They're making investments and so yeah, 1358 01:02:53,565 --> 01:02:56,085 Speaker 2: I'm a big proponent of everything they're doing. I love 1359 01:02:56,285 --> 01:02:59,525 Speaker 2: The Chosen, I love House of David. We watched those regularly. 1360 01:03:00,485 --> 01:03:02,285 Speaker 2: Momento is a really good movie. I don't know if 1361 01:03:02,285 --> 01:03:04,285 Speaker 2: anybody's ever seen seen that for a lot. That's I 1362 01:03:04,325 --> 01:03:05,765 Speaker 2: think Christopher Nolan's first out. 1363 01:03:05,805 --> 01:03:06,885 Speaker 1: So you're a big Christopher Nolan. 1364 01:03:06,965 --> 01:03:09,365 Speaker 2: I love Christopher and you could see some of his 1365 01:03:09,445 --> 01:03:11,925 Speaker 2: worldview sneak in. I think he grew up Catholics, so 1366 01:03:12,005 --> 01:03:14,045 Speaker 2: you can real see some of these themes. I'm not 1367 01:03:14,085 --> 01:03:16,085 Speaker 2: gonna say they're biblical themes in the movies, but there's 1368 01:03:16,125 --> 01:03:18,525 Speaker 2: definitely Christian worldview things sneaking in there. 1369 01:03:18,685 --> 01:03:24,125 Speaker 1: Yeah, So Russin, like, are there go to scriptures that 1370 01:03:24,245 --> 01:03:26,845 Speaker 1: you find yourself turning to over and over again, like 1371 01:03:26,965 --> 01:03:30,765 Speaker 1: maybe when you're stressed out about something uncertain about your future? 1372 01:03:32,045 --> 01:03:35,205 Speaker 1: Like these are verses I go to and I remind 1373 01:03:35,285 --> 01:03:35,765 Speaker 1: myself of. 1374 01:03:36,325 --> 01:03:40,565 Speaker 2: Yeah, oddly enough, the verse, the first verse I memorize 1375 01:03:40,645 --> 01:03:41,645 Speaker 2: is often a verse I. 1376 01:03:41,685 --> 01:03:42,085 Speaker 1: Go back to. 1377 01:03:43,005 --> 01:03:46,925 Speaker 2: It's Matthew seven seven asking it will be given. Yeah, 1378 01:03:47,125 --> 01:03:49,845 Speaker 2: seeking you will find knocking the door that will be open. 1379 01:03:49,925 --> 01:03:52,285 Speaker 2: And that's in the context of prayer. So I just 1380 01:03:52,365 --> 01:03:54,685 Speaker 2: preached this message on the paradox of prayer and how 1381 01:03:54,725 --> 01:03:57,765 Speaker 2: does our prayers work with God's sovereignty? And I just 1382 01:03:57,765 --> 01:03:59,485 Speaker 2: said that stuff's above my pay grade. But what I 1383 01:03:59,565 --> 01:04:01,605 Speaker 2: do know is I'm called to pray to God, pray 1384 01:04:01,645 --> 01:04:03,965 Speaker 2: to called the commune with God, called to pray for 1385 01:04:04,045 --> 01:04:06,485 Speaker 2: other people. And I often find myself just going back 1386 01:04:06,485 --> 01:04:07,685 Speaker 2: to that Matthew seven to seven. 1387 01:04:07,885 --> 01:04:11,565 Speaker 1: That's great, And there's an as sending intensity to the 1388 01:04:11,645 --> 01:04:14,365 Speaker 1: words that are used to ask, seek not It gets 1389 01:04:14,405 --> 01:04:16,805 Speaker 1: a little more aggressive. And of course it's something you 1390 01:04:16,925 --> 01:04:20,605 Speaker 1: do continuously, you know, because some sence we pray about 1391 01:04:20,685 --> 01:04:23,325 Speaker 1: things and we don't get an answer, or we don't 1392 01:04:23,405 --> 01:04:26,205 Speaker 1: like the answer we get, which is basically no or wait. 1393 01:04:26,885 --> 01:04:29,285 Speaker 1: But that doesn't mean we should stop praying. You know, 1394 01:04:29,365 --> 01:04:31,285 Speaker 1: Paul had a storn in the flesh. We don't know 1395 01:04:31,365 --> 01:04:33,845 Speaker 1: what it was. Exactly three times he asked the Lord 1396 01:04:33,925 --> 01:04:36,045 Speaker 1: to take it away. But there are other times you pray, 1397 01:04:36,085 --> 01:04:38,765 Speaker 1: and you pray like you know, I love Acts twelve 1398 01:04:39,205 --> 01:04:42,445 Speaker 1: where James was killed, Peter was put in prison, and 1399 01:04:42,565 --> 01:04:45,885 Speaker 1: we read constant prayer was offered for him to God 1400 01:04:46,045 --> 01:04:48,685 Speaker 1: by the church and it was like boom, the prayer 1401 01:04:48,845 --> 01:04:51,645 Speaker 1: was answered in fact, the prayer was answered so quickly 1402 01:04:52,085 --> 01:04:54,965 Speaker 1: that when Peter showed up at the house of the 1403 01:04:55,085 --> 01:04:57,365 Speaker 1: place where the people were praying and a girl named 1404 01:04:57,405 --> 01:04:59,845 Speaker 1: Rhoda answers the door, she can't believe it's Peter. 1405 01:05:00,125 --> 01:05:01,165 Speaker 2: Like what you know. 1406 01:05:01,325 --> 01:05:04,645 Speaker 1: So sometimes the Lord will take his sweet time because 1407 01:05:04,685 --> 01:05:07,485 Speaker 1: he has his timing. In other times boom, just you 1408 01:05:07,645 --> 01:05:09,245 Speaker 1: have not because you asked the eye right. 1409 01:05:09,325 --> 01:05:12,245 Speaker 2: And then James talks about sometimes we ask with bad motives. 1410 01:05:12,805 --> 01:05:15,005 Speaker 2: So the motives of the art. I think it's huge. 1411 01:05:15,045 --> 01:05:17,565 Speaker 2: So the motives, the prayer, the asking. And then I 1412 01:05:17,685 --> 01:05:20,525 Speaker 2: love this quote. They quote it to Augustine. I don't 1413 01:05:20,525 --> 01:05:23,325 Speaker 2: think it's an Augustined quote, but it's pray like it 1414 01:05:23,365 --> 01:05:25,365 Speaker 2: all depends on God, and work like it all depends 1415 01:05:25,405 --> 01:05:28,445 Speaker 2: on you. And so I think when we when we're waiting, 1416 01:05:28,725 --> 01:05:30,565 Speaker 2: usually there's some work that we need to be doing 1417 01:05:30,605 --> 01:05:33,405 Speaker 2: in the process. That's okay, Well, thanks so much for 1418 01:05:33,525 --> 01:05:35,645 Speaker 2: your time. It's great being with great Thank you so much. 1419 01:05:35,725 --> 01:05:37,045 Speaker 2: This is a this is a huge blessing. 1420 01:05:37,325 --> 01:05:37,565 Speaker 1: Thanks