1 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:13,399 Speaker 1: Life Audio. Hello, thank you for listening to your Daily 2 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: Bible Verse, the podcast that examines one verse each day 3 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: to learn more about God and his will for us. 4 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:23,279 Speaker 1: I'm your host, Jennifer Sadary, and after this short word 5 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 1: from our sponsors, we'll dive into today's Bible verse Neamiah 6 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 1: one four. Today's Bible verses Neamiah one four. When I 7 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 1: heard these things, I sat down and wept for some days. 8 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 1: I mourned and fasted and prayed before the God of Heaven. 9 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 1: My friend came to me in tears, overwhelmed with shame 10 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: regarding a recent reaction that stemmed from her emotional dysregulation 11 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 1: in short after decades of shattered relationships, angry outbursts, and 12 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: self sabotaging fear based responses that often hurt her, and 13 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: though she loved she was trying to live differently. The 14 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: problem was she didn't know how to live out her 15 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 1: deepest values to love like Jesus, in part because she'd 16 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:24,960 Speaker 1: never learned how to process intense emotions in a healthy 17 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 1: and God honoring way. Because of this, when potentially life 18 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 1: altering problems hit, she tended to become engulfed in her overwhelm, 19 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 1: which often caused her to react before rational thought kicked in. 20 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: If you can relate, you might If you can relate, 21 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 1: you might find A recent Faith over Fear podcast episode 22 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: Carol and I recorded encouraging its titled emotional Overwhelm Finding 23 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 1: Christ Peace when you've reached your limit. You can access 24 00:01:56,560 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 1: that on Life Audio or wherever you listen to podcasts. 25 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: Many of us reach adulthood not knowing how to manage 26 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 1: our most intense emotions because many of us were taught 27 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,920 Speaker 1: to suppress or deny how we feel, and often with 28 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:16,799 Speaker 1: toxic results. This is one of the reasons biblical examples 29 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: like the one presented in Nehemiah Chapter one can be 30 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 1: so helpful. They provide something of a holy guide for 31 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: us to follow when we receive challenging news or find 32 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 1: ourselves facing hardship. This Old Testament book records one man's 33 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: response to a distressing situation that began with a glorious, 34 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: divinely blessed assignment to rebuild ancient Israel's homeland previously destroyed 35 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 1: by their enemies. This occurred less than one hundred years 36 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 1: after what scholars refer to as the Babylonian Captivity, when 37 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: God returned the people to Jerusalem as promised, while miraculously 38 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: providing them with everything they need to rebuild their sacred city, 39 00:02:55,880 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: its walls, and most importantly, the temple. The Bible Book 40 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: of Ezra details much of this process, how the people began, 41 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: the opposition they faced, and the project's decade and a 42 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 1: half delay. This leads us to Niemiyah, a Jewish man 43 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 1: who became cup thear to a Persian king. About fifteen 44 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:19,080 Speaker 1: years after ancient Israel's rebuilding project began, some men from 45 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: Judah returned to Persia, and Niemiah asked about the state 46 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 1: of things back in Jerusalem. They replied, quote, those who 47 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: survived the exile and are back in the province are 48 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 1: in great trouble and disgrace. The wall of Jerusalem is 49 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 1: broken down and its gates have been burned with fire. 50 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 1: End quote. The news greatly upset Nehemiah. But notice what 51 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 1: today's verse reveals regarding his response. First, he wept. He 52 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: didn't suppress or deny his emotions, nor did he rush 53 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:56,119 Speaker 1: through them. He mourned four days. He also fasted. That's 54 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: not a discipline many of us here encouraged or preached 55 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 1: on much nowadays, but scripture shows that God's people have 56 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: used deliberate restrictions, usually from food, to gain in pre 57 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 1: self control, spiritual receptivity, deeper connection with the Lord, and 58 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 1: to experience spiritual breakthrough. Niamiah also prayed, presumably for days 59 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:23,159 Speaker 1: all before quote the God of Heaven end quote, and 60 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:26,160 Speaker 1: I wonder if scripture added that ending phrase to make 61 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 1: it clear to Jewish and potentially Babylonian readers who Namiah 62 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: prayed to, so that they'd also recognize who came through 63 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: for Namiah and the Jewish people, remember, he was living 64 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: in a pagan land where people worshiped numerous demons they 65 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 1: believed were gods, and the Lord may have wanted to 66 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: draw a clear distinction between the one true God and 67 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:52,480 Speaker 1: the numerous very humanike deities worshiped in Susa. Or maybe 68 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 1: Neemiah was reminding himself of the power and authority of 69 00:04:56,480 --> 00:05:00,839 Speaker 1: his father. He might have used the title to breast, praise, 70 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: and respect. The Lord is the God of Heaven, of 71 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 1: earth and all that exists, who holds power over all 72 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 1: and gives his people everything they need to do all 73 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 1: that he asks, as he did for those who embraced 74 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 1: the long, difficult and frustrating task of rebuilding what their people, sins, 75 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: and their enemies had previously destroyed. So again, when facing 76 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:29,839 Speaker 1: overwhelming emotion, Neemiah gave full expression to his feelings. He wept, mourned, fasted, prayed, 77 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: and proclaimed God's power and authority, thereby reminding himself of 78 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 1: the one who stood with him, would go before him 79 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: and wouldn't fail him. Our Savior still reigns from heaven, 80 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: outside of time and space, yet he also draws near 81 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: to help us in our time of need, just as 82 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 1: he did with Nehemiah so long ago. Many of us 83 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 1: know these truths intellectually, it can feel challenging to rest 84 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 1: in them. However, when under distress, by following Neamiah's exams, 85 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 1: we can begin to calm our anxiety and fear, received 86 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:08,280 Speaker 1: comfort for our sorrow, increase our spiritual and emotional resilience, 87 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 1: and stand firm in our faith and our God. If 88 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 1: you're experiencing intense emotions or walking through a painful, stressful, 89 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 1: or difficult circumstance, can I gently encourage you to give 90 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 1: yourself space to process your feelings, doubts and questions with God. 91 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 1: Maybe set aside five minutes to journal so that you 92 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 1: can express whatever feels heavy to the one with the 93 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 1: ability to reduce your load. Tell him how you feel, 94 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:40,280 Speaker 1: ask him to help you. Sense his presence, listen for 95 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:45,600 Speaker 1: his perspective and guidance, and rest in his love. Let's pray, 96 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: Holy Father, thank you so much for your tender care. 97 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 1: You see our every hurt, our every concern. You understand 98 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 1: our fear, our stress. Whatever emotions are weighing on us 99 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:02,480 Speaker 1: to and we'll weigh on us tomorrow. You get it 100 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: all and you love us completely. Thank you that we 101 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: are never alone, We're never helpless, we're never defenseless, we're 102 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 1: never overpowered because you have given us and will give 103 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 1: us everything we need to thrive and to live fully 104 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 1: yielded obedient lives to you, we know that is where 105 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 1: we experience the greatest freedom, fulfillment, joy and peace. If 106 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 1: we have spent a lifetime suppressing, denying, disregarding our emotions, 107 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: we might not even recognize how we feel, and so 108 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 1: we ask that you would reveal back to us and 109 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 1: help us gain emotional maturity. We love you and we 110 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 1: praise you. And as the name of your son, our Savior, 111 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, that we pray a month