1 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:03,560 Speaker 1: Life audio. 2 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:09,799 Speaker 2: What makes an NDE evidentially significant is when something is 3 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 2: known or seen that couldn't have been known or seen 4 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 2: in that state physically possible in a sense. And these 5 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 2: accounts we'll get to are kids coming back and reporting 6 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:21,959 Speaker 2: seeing certain. 7 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 3: People that they didn't know existed. 8 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 2: That matches up exactly with somebody that adults know and 9 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 2: had not told them about. 10 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: This is a middle aged lady. 11 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 4: She says, when I was about nine years old, I 12 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 4: drowned and I was revived, but during that time I 13 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:40,279 Speaker 4: had a near death experience and it was just as 14 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 4: real to her now fifty years later as it was then. 15 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:49,279 Speaker 4: Apparently she could just tell me exactly what happened. 16 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 2: These kind of descriptions are very very interesting. What does 17 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 2: the data show about near death experiences and children? How 18 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 2: compelling are they from an evidential standpoint? 19 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 3: Doctor Steve Miller. 20 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 2: Welcome back. You are my go to near death experience 21 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 2: guru and expert, and this is about the tenth episode 22 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:13,040 Speaker 2: we've had you on to talk about near death experiences 23 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 2: and deathbed experiences and how they provide evidence for God 24 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 2: and the afterlife, and also how they dovetail with the 25 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 2: best research on traditional Christian Theology Today. We've got a 26 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 2: very unique topic that a lot of research has not 27 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 2: been done on, and it's near death experiences, deathbed experiences, 28 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:37,319 Speaker 2: and children. According to an April twenty twenty six article 29 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:42,039 Speaker 2: in Popular Mechanics, children may hold the key to understanding death, 30 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,759 Speaker 2: but quote very few studies bother and ask children about them. 31 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 2: A twenty twenty four article in Psychology Today reported that 32 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 2: most near death experience research has been done on adults. 33 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 2: So what are the unique challenges of studying cases of 34 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 2: children who have near death experiences? And why do you 35 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 2: separate them as a special line of evidence? 36 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: Sure? 37 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 4: Well, I think that was in Popular Mechanics or rather 38 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 4: sensational title, that children hold the key, and but I 39 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 4: think there is special evidence there. It's quoting a Psychology 40 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 4: Today article that was quoting another peer reviewed article which 41 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:26,359 Speaker 4: was a summary of other peer reviewed studies own children. 42 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 4: So there have been several it's it has been studied, 43 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 4: just not as widely in comparison to near death experiences, 44 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 4: where you have scores of studies out there. So they 45 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 4: have been studied, but I think the there are both 46 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 4: challenges with children. Let's say you have a four year 47 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 4: old child that has had some that has died and 48 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 4: come back for some reason been resuscitated. You may have 49 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 4: to interview them with a coloring book at hand or 50 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 4: something to keep their attention, and you talk to them 51 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 4: and they may kind of discuss it over time, rather 52 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 4: than an adult being willing to talk to you about 53 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:07,240 Speaker 4: their experience for hours perhaps, And so their attention to 54 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:11,399 Speaker 4: spans a little limited. But the and also their vocabulary 55 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 4: is limited to explain things. Now that's a hindrance in 56 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:19,080 Speaker 4: one sense, but it's an asset in another because as adults, 57 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 4: we're trying to say things in a way that goes 58 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 4: along with our worldviews and our past experiences, and children 59 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 4: are just kind of freely expressing it. When we get 60 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 4: to some of the accounts, you'll actually see this. But 61 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 4: I think one of the most important things about children 62 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 4: is that number one, they're not familiar with near death 63 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 4: experience research. They haven't looked at documentaries of near death studies. 64 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 4: So if their experiences are much the same as adults, 65 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 4: then it would be hard to say that, oh, well, 66 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 4: these people had prior exposure to this. And also they 67 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 4: don't have a lot of exposure to theology. So if 68 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 4: they're taught about things. They're not trying to put it 69 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 4: into their very limited children's worldview, which may just be 70 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 4: from children's books that their parents have read to them. 71 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 3: That's so interesting. 72 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 2: Down on one hand, they lack of vocabulary to explain 73 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 2: things in the depth and with clarity that adults can, 74 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 2: But that can also be a strong suit because there's 75 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 2: less of an agenda. They're just describing as best they 76 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:28,720 Speaker 2: can what they've seen and are not as committed typically 77 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:31,600 Speaker 2: to a certain way of seeing the world and feeling 78 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 2: the need to force this into that way of the world. 79 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 4: And they're not trying to sell books obviously like some 80 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:41,360 Speaker 4: adults who are telling about their experiencing and by the way, 81 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:44,479 Speaker 4: by my paperback book on my experience, so they're not 82 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 4: these ulterior motives that some adults would have. 83 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 3: I love it. That's helpful. 84 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 2: So let's talk about what makes an NDE near death 85 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 2: experience evidentially significant? And do you when you assess accounts 86 00:04:56,839 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 2: from children look for the same factors or is it different. 87 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 4: Many of the same factors, they just come out in 88 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 4: a different way with children. Doctor Diane komp was a 89 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 4: professor emeritus of Childhood oncology at Yale university. She was 90 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:19,839 Speaker 4: an atheist, and she said that in order for me 91 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 4: to find God, I felt like I had to come 92 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 4: up with some kind of really reliable witness. And she 93 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:29,479 Speaker 4: never thought that that witness would be through watching children 94 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 4: go through their deaths. But she had this quote, when 95 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 4: the clever are really intelligent, they look to children for answers. 96 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 4: And I thought, you know, that's sort of like Jesus 97 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:42,279 Speaker 4: treated children. People would say, oh, send the children away, 98 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:44,359 Speaker 4: we got important things going on. He said, bring the 99 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 4: little children to me, for the Kingdom of Heaven is 100 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 4: for such as these, And he respected children. So I 101 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 4: think that they really have something special to say to us. 102 00:05:57,440 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 4: I suspect that there ever told that they're dying. This 103 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:06,480 Speaker 4: would be a difference between adults. Imagine that you have 104 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 4: a five year old child who's dying of leukemia. You're 105 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:12,839 Speaker 4: not gonna come up and say, oh, and by the way, 106 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:16,160 Speaker 4: you're not going to recover from this, as the child's 107 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:19,160 Speaker 4: going to say, well, what do you mean, Well, that 108 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 4: means you're gonna go to heaven. 109 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 1: Well what does that mean? 110 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:22,720 Speaker 4: So? 111 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 1: Am I are you going to be there? I mean, 112 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 1: to a child, their. 113 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 4: Whole world is their home, their family, their teddy bear, 114 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 4: the things that they love, what's home to them. 115 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:32,479 Speaker 1: That would be a terrifying thing. 116 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:36,840 Speaker 4: So Elizabeth Koobler Ross, one of the greatest experts on 117 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 4: wrote the book on Death and Dying. She said that 118 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 4: she was usually told, don't tell them that they're going 119 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 4: to die. So if a child starts saying to their parents, 120 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 4: I'm going to die, you wonder where did this come from. 121 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 4: This is an unnatural thing. It's not like they've died 122 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 4: before and know how it feels. Why are they saying 123 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:01,039 Speaker 4: they're dying if indeed they know it beforehand. So this 124 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 4: gives us a special opportunity, evidentially to look at to 125 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 4: look at the near death experience. 126 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 2: That's so interesting, and it kind of crosses over with 127 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 2: what might be called a deathbed experience. And we've talked 128 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 2: about this in other episodes. But some people who know 129 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 2: generally that they're suffering and could be dying, have a 130 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 2: distinct awareness that they're dying before the brain or body 131 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 2: could be attested and known from a doctor. They just 132 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 2: have this direct awareness. But of course they know they're 133 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 2: sick and they know what death is. When it comes 134 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 2: to kids, they don't know they're dying, and they generally 135 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 2: haven't experienced this in the same way that adults have, 136 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 2: so to talk about it is so much novel and 137 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 2: different and in some ways surprising for a child than 138 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 2: an adult. And of course we'll get to this, but 139 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 2: what makes what makes an NVE evidentially significant is when 140 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 2: something is known or seen that couldn't have been known 141 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 2: or seen in that state physically possible in a sense. 142 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 2: And these accounts we'll get to are kids coming back 143 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 2: and reporting seeing certain people that they didn't know existed. 144 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 2: That matches up exactly with somebody that adults know and 145 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 2: had not told them about. 146 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 3: These kind of descriptions. 147 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 2: Are very, very interesting and arguably evidentially significant. Okay, what 148 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 2: did children tender report in their NDEs? How do they 149 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 2: compare and contrast, for example, with adults. So we often 150 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 2: hear there's common criteria maybe twelve or fifteen. The experts 151 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 2: like von Lamel and Sabaum and Jeffrey Long and others 152 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 2: talk about You've talked about this in your books like 153 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 2: heightened senses, seeing things, hearing things a tunnel and jelic 154 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 2: beings Life Review. I mean, that'd be interesting for kid 155 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 2: who's for to have a life review. 156 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:57,439 Speaker 3: But are these common? 157 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 2: Are they the same kind of things that we see 158 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 2: and adults. Do we see those same kind of things 159 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 2: in children in general? 160 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 4: I'd say yes, which is surprising from a naturalistic standpoint. 161 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 4: You'd think if you have a dying brain and they're 162 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 4: just hallucinating from a dying brain, or that they're dreaming 163 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 4: dreams that were suggested to them by their parents or others, 164 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 4: you would think it would conform to your or your parents' 165 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 4: expectations of death, and you'd think that these experiences will 166 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 4: be just all over the board as to what they're experiencing. 167 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: I mean, I would think it'd be more common if 168 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:35,960 Speaker 1: the child thought that they were. 169 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 4: Really dying, that they would kind of deceive themselves by 170 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 4: having just thinking about experiences here on earth, continuing with 171 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 4: their family, right if you're going to suggest to yourself 172 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 4: something that is comforting. So it is surprising that they 173 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 4: seem to have the characteristics of others. Now, as you say, 174 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 4: they don't have much of a life to review, you know, 175 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:59,080 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I remember that day when you took my 176 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 4: pacifier from me. I don't know what they would review, 177 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:05,679 Speaker 4: so that doesn't seem to be significant. But a lot 178 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 4: of these are deathbed experiences, and typically in deathbed experiences, 179 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:14,200 Speaker 4: the commonalities do not include a life review, which makes 180 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 4: sense from a God perspective because they don't have any 181 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 4: time to change their lives based on their life review, 182 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 4: so it wouldn't make that much sense to. 183 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 1: Have a life review if it's right before death. 184 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 4: But for the ones having a near death experience, sometimes 185 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:34,240 Speaker 4: one difference may be that it seems to be in 186 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 4: an adult experience that God is easing our passage to 187 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 4: the other side by allowing us to see people that 188 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 4: we know that had predeceased them and death, and for 189 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 4: these children, they may not know anybody who's already died, 190 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 4: so sometimes it'll be a deceased pet that comes to 191 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,560 Speaker 4: greet them and welcome them and make them feel comfortable 192 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 4: on the other side. 193 00:10:57,600 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 1: So that would be a difference. 194 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 4: It's not anything and contradiction to the amazing pattern of 195 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 4: what goes on in this experience globally with adults, but 196 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 4: it is tweaked a little bit. 197 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, that makes sense case. 198 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 2: So we're going to get to some stories which are 199 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 2: just fascinating and compelling on so many levels, and then 200 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:19,959 Speaker 2: some of the most common objections we hear against these, 201 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 2: but maybe talk for a minute, Steve, about how these 202 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 2: experiences affect children. Are they life changing? And it's just 203 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:30,840 Speaker 2: interesting to think about a life changing experience for a 204 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 2: four year old or a six year old akin to 205 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 2: somebody who's forty, fifty or sixty. Are they the same 206 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 2: kind of just impact emotionally and experientially as with an adult. 207 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:45,079 Speaker 1: I remember talking to a person. 208 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 4: One of the fascinating things about this study is I 209 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 4: went into study the best studies of near death and 210 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:54,079 Speaker 4: deathbed experiences. I wanted to see what professors and other 211 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 4: great researchers had found when they legitimately interviewed these people, 212 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:03,960 Speaker 4: some prospectively retrospective, looking at people who'd already had the experience. 213 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:06,559 Speaker 4: That's what I wanted to see. But as I began 214 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 4: doing this study and would tell other people, people would 215 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 4: start telling me their experiences, people from my own circles 216 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 4: of trust, people I know and trust. It would just 217 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:18,840 Speaker 4: send chills down my spine. I thought, why haven't we 218 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:23,079 Speaker 4: ever talked about this at a family gathering? And yet 219 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 4: people are scared people will think they're crazy, and so 220 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 4: they don't tend to share it. 221 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 1: But I remember being at a graduate gathering. 222 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 4: I teach you a public university, Kinnesas State University, and 223 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 4: there was a graduate school gathering there and my wife 224 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 4: pope me and said, hey, why don't you tell so 225 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 4: and so here about what you're studying? And I said, 226 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:44,959 Speaker 4: near death and deathbed experiences and this happened so much. 227 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 4: The lady we're talking to kind of looks at me 228 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:51,679 Speaker 4: and goes, hey, can you let's can you talk with 229 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:54,559 Speaker 4: me outside? And I said sure. This is a middle 230 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 4: aged lady, she's not like a young graduate student. And 231 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:01,560 Speaker 4: she says, when I was about nine years old, I 232 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:06,320 Speaker 4: drowned and I was revived, but during that time I 233 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:10,679 Speaker 4: had a near death experience and it was just as 234 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 4: real to her now fifty years later as it was then. 235 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 4: Apparently she could just tell me exactly what happened. 236 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:23,719 Speaker 1: So it's life changing in. 237 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 4: The sense that these people that have these experiences still 238 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:30,440 Speaker 4: remember them decades later, and they think about it, and 239 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:32,959 Speaker 4: maybe they've not had anybody to talk to about it 240 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 4: because they're so embarrassed to bring up the subject to anyone, 241 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:39,440 Speaker 4: or they've tried to tell someone about it and the 242 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 4: person nervously kind of put them off. So that's a 243 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 4: big part of the impact that I'm seeing is that 244 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 4: it's just not forgotten. But also for the children themselves 245 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 4: is this is a deathbed experience. So again I should 246 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 4: back up for those who are first time, a near 247 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 4: death experience is when someone, let's say, has a cardiac arrest, 248 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 4: the experience clinical death, cessation of breathing and heartbeat, and 249 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 4: then they come back telling about this when they're resuscitated, 250 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 4: telling about that they are on the other side and 251 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 4: this place with no pain, no worries, meeting with angels, 252 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 4: perhaps to cease relatives, having a life review, having a 253 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 4: decision as to whether you come back or not. Aul 254 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 4: in a place that's devoid seemingly of space or time, 255 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 4: where you can just go like this, to see something 256 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:33,600 Speaker 4: far away just as clearly as it is here. These 257 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 4: are things that you're not nobody's expecting on the other 258 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 4: side to be able to talk to people's mind to mind. 259 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 4: But children experience these, and at death a deathbed experience 260 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 4: would be before your final death, like a child dying 261 00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 4: of leukemia, as we mentioned, but a child experiencing this, 262 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 4: it seems to be something that just greatly eases their transition. 263 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 4: It sounds like something that loving God would allow to 264 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 4: keep a child in the most potentially distressing psychologically and 265 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 4: physically time of life to be transitioning. Some of them 266 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 4: seem to be like they may have been in a 267 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 4: very painful illness, but then for the last few days 268 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 4: be totally free of pain. It's almost like they're becoming 269 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:25,320 Speaker 4: detached from their body. And then they begin talking about 270 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 4: people they're sin now. As opposed to a near death 271 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 4: experience where you're coming out of your body, they're typically 272 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 4: in their body and they can see their family around 273 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 4: them and communicate with them, but at the same time 274 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 4: they're talking to deceased people or angels or Jesus or 275 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 4: God on the other side. Well, what this does for 276 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 4: the child is often and this is what got doctor 277 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 4: komp the one who taught at Yale, she said, here here, 278 00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 4: I had been told don't get too close to the families, 279 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 4: don't get too close to your patients at that time. 280 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 4: Maybe they've changed now in medical training, but she said, 281 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 4: I felt like I had to get close to these families, 282 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:08,360 Speaker 4: and in doing so, when I saw some of these 283 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 4: children who became very ecstatic and excited about going totally 284 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 4: away from everything that they knew, totally away from home, 285 00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 4: their teddy bears and everything, and they were excited and 286 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 4: they were comforting their parents. You see, they didn't even 287 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 4: know they were dying, according to the parents, but they 288 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 4: knew that they were dying. They knew that their parents 289 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 4: were upset and concern and you would see these little 290 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:38,800 Speaker 4: children comforting their parents and saying, it's okay, it's great. 291 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 4: Over there, I want to go. 292 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 2: This is so interesting. I'm getting someone ahead of myself 293 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 2: with the objections. But one naturalistic objection would be that 294 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:51,840 Speaker 2: evolution explains this. Somebody's dying and it's just easing the 295 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 2: process of death. But on the other hand, in evolution 296 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 2: is a fight for survival, why would you have a 297 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 2: mechanism to help somebody die then encourages other people to 298 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 2: not fear death and not fight for survival. Such an explanation, 299 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 2: to me, wouldn't seem to work. Now I'm getting a 300 00:17:10,520 --> 00:17:12,359 Speaker 2: little bit ahead of myself. I do want ep size. 301 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 2: My next question is going to be about stories. I 302 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:16,880 Speaker 2: need to give us some examples of children, what they're 303 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:19,920 Speaker 2: seeing and what they're reporting. But for this lady, you 304 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:24,240 Speaker 2: said four or five decades later to hear what you 305 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 2: do and then immediately want to share it. Say can 306 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:31,040 Speaker 2: we step outside, there's still forty or fifty years later 307 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:33,880 Speaker 2: a sense of like embarrassment is even to think I'm crazy. 308 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 2: I've got to keep this private, tells me, as a 309 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:40,359 Speaker 2: pastor at my local church, as somebody who just works 310 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:44,880 Speaker 2: with people personally, not just apologetically. We've got to talk 311 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:49,200 Speaker 2: about this, and this is way more common than people realize. 312 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 2: And to have an experience from four decades ago feel 313 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 2: alive and vibrant tells me that is a life defining 314 00:17:57,800 --> 00:18:01,600 Speaker 2: experience for this individual, and that's what we see in 315 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 2: so many of these children. So with that said, there 316 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 2: is power in the stories themselves. But I know you're 317 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:10,919 Speaker 2: a data person, and that's one reason I keep bringing 318 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 2: you back on as you do your work carefully. Give 319 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 2: us some examples of well documented stories from dying children. 320 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:21,120 Speaker 2: I say well documented because I know right now people 321 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:25,440 Speaker 2: are thinking, we've seen books with well known Christian publishers 322 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:30,440 Speaker 2: tell stories about kids near death experiences and then retract 323 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:32,480 Speaker 2: it because later the kid says it was made up. 324 00:18:33,119 --> 00:18:36,239 Speaker 2: Totally recognize there have been some faulty ones, but that 325 00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 2: doesn't mean all stories are faulty. Give me some examples 326 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 2: of well documented cases from dying children, and then maybe 327 00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:47,359 Speaker 2: how we evidentially evaluate them. 328 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 4: Sure, the name of the book, I'm familiar with, whether 329 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:54,440 Speaker 4: that happened where it was all a deception. The family's 330 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:56,600 Speaker 4: name was malarkey. We should have had some kind of 331 00:18:56,680 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 4: queue so that there was something wrong with that. But yes, 332 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 4: So when I went to study these, I thought, I 333 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 4: don't want to pull stuff from the internet. These are 334 00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:09,919 Speaker 4: people that I don't know. I want to approach it 335 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:14,360 Speaker 4: like we do in the legal sphere, where testimony is important. 336 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:17,879 Speaker 4: Testimony is value our legal system. We're largely crumble without 337 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 4: personal testimony and expert testimony. So we're looking for testimonies 338 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:28,120 Speaker 4: that are actually valuable. And one of the special cases 339 00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:32,920 Speaker 4: in the legal system is the deathbed testimony. Because people 340 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 4: are very unlikely to be trying to get in their 341 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 4: last lie right before they die. They're kind of sensitive 342 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 4: to these things and what's their motive. Again, they're not 343 00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 4: publishing a book or getting famous. They're about to die, 344 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:46,440 Speaker 4: So these testimonies can be important. But I just want 345 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:49,119 Speaker 4: to warn people if you go to YouTube and start 346 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:52,680 Speaker 4: searching for near death experiences, what it's going to inevitably 347 00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:56,920 Speaker 4: pull up for you are the most anomalous strange experiences, 348 00:19:57,640 --> 00:20:00,159 Speaker 4: not strange in the sense of unbelievable, but we are 349 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 4: going to tend to be talking about a lot of 350 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:07,119 Speaker 4: doctrine that maybe fits with a Mormon worldview or a 351 00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:12,400 Speaker 4: Hindu worldview, or somebody's Christian worldview. Because people that are 352 00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:16,440 Speaker 4: trying to get clicks on their websites and on their 353 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 4: YouTube channels, they know that people love these details, and 354 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 4: people are willing to exaggerate and put them out there. 355 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:25,480 Speaker 1: So if you go and. 356 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 4: Search for it, you'll typically get the ones that are 357 00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 4: not the same old consistent near death experience or deathbed 358 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 4: experience that we're seeing in the literature. 359 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 1: So I stuck with the literature. 360 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 4: And I've got some of the books here with me 361 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:43,480 Speaker 4: to show you that I'm actually reading these books and 362 00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 4: this is where I'm getting them from rather than just 363 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:49,200 Speaker 4: taking stories from the internet. But let me just quote, 364 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:51,439 Speaker 4: I'm going to stick a little bit close to the 365 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 4: writing because I want to get the stories correct. I 366 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 4: have a great respect for these stories. So this is 367 00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:01,480 Speaker 4: coming from my book Deathbed Experiences as Evidence for the Afterlife, 368 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 4: and I document all this relentlessly so that you can 369 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:07,239 Speaker 4: go in and study them yourselves. 370 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:09,040 Speaker 2: And so people know why you're looking for that quote. 371 00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:12,359 Speaker 2: People can buy it on Amazon. Yeah, you send people 372 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 2: the PDF for free, and we'll give that information at 373 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:19,159 Speaker 2: the end. Because earlier we said somebody who's trying to 374 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 2: sell books, and then you hold up your book, that's 375 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 2: not what you're trying to do. Here, information out to people, 376 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 2: and you're happy to send it to them totally for free. 377 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 4: Sure, and in case we forget J Steve Miller the 378 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 4: letter J Steve Miller at gmail dot com. 379 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:36,520 Speaker 1: If you don't have the money or you're in. 380 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:39,200 Speaker 4: A cour country where it's hard to get a book, 381 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:41,199 Speaker 4: you know I can send you a free PDF of 382 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:42,159 Speaker 4: any of my books. 383 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:43,439 Speaker 1: I have several on these shows. 384 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 3: So I can't believe you give your personal email out. 385 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:48,040 Speaker 2: There's about zero chance I would, which just proves you're 386 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:49,280 Speaker 2: a better man than I am. 387 00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: Steeve proves I'm not as famous as you. 388 00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:52,160 Speaker 3: I don't know at. 389 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:54,359 Speaker 1: All. 390 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:55,600 Speaker 3: Right, go to the quote. 391 00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:58,760 Speaker 1: Here we go pays one. Let's look at this one. 392 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:02,159 Speaker 4: Now, this is one is interesting thing in several ways. 393 00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 1: First of all, it's a doctor Morse. 394 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:06,919 Speaker 4: That was doing the study This was published in a 395 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:10,640 Speaker 4: peer review journal as well as his book. He has 396 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:13,680 Speaker 4: a book here that I don't see right off hand, 397 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,959 Speaker 4: but he's he wrote a book on it, dtr Morse, 398 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:22,200 Speaker 4: and it's called Closer to the Light. And so there 399 00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:25,439 Speaker 4: was this child who was brought to him who had 400 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:29,719 Speaker 4: died in a swimming pool, drowned. She was found at 401 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:33,440 Speaker 4: the bottom of the pool. She was totally unresponsive and 402 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:38,439 Speaker 4: was floating face down. Actually when they found her, she 403 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 4: was resuscitated in the emergency room. So this was a 404 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 4: good while later. They had to get her. 405 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 1: To an emergency room and she was she was actually 406 00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 1: brought back to life. 407 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:52,359 Speaker 4: And so doctor Morse inquired about what had happened in 408 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:55,080 Speaker 4: the water. So he's talking to the child after she's 409 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 4: recovered and fully conscious, and wants to know what happened, 410 00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 4: I mean, did somebody pushed her, did he needs? Did 411 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:05,960 Speaker 4: she hit the bottom? What happened? And she's saying what happened? 412 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:10,920 Speaker 4: And she said, well, do you mean about meeting Jesus 413 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:14,679 Speaker 4: and the Heavenly Father? And doctor Morris kind of shocked. 414 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:18,960 Speaker 4: He says, why, yes, tell me about that answer. And 415 00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:22,480 Speaker 4: so she told of meeting Jesus, the heavenly father and 416 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:25,880 Speaker 4: a parent angel, a couple of young boys named Mark 417 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:28,920 Speaker 4: and Andy, and he was and she talked for a 418 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:30,960 Speaker 4: little while, Like I was saying, with children, you don't 419 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:34,760 Speaker 4: get the whole story out of them, but he got 420 00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 4: that much. And then he interviews some intensive care nurses 421 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 4: to see if this could be corroborated with them, and said, 422 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 4: you know, what did she say when she first waked up, 423 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 4: If you're the one that said, well, they asked where 424 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:48,880 Speaker 4: Mark and Andy? So I mean, this was a story 425 00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:52,080 Speaker 4: that she knew well right from the very start and 426 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 4: was consistent with it. But she spoke of seeing things 427 00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:58,720 Speaker 4: that were going on with her family at their house 428 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:02,400 Speaker 4: during the time she was in the telling where what 429 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:05,720 Speaker 4: clothes her family was wearing. This is in their house, right, 430 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:07,720 Speaker 4: She wasn't in their house. She was in the hospital, 431 00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:09,879 Speaker 4: and she's telling what's going on in her house with 432 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 4: her family, what her mom was cooking, what her brothers 433 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:15,960 Speaker 4: were playing with a gi Joe specifically, and a jeep. 434 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 4: Katie's mother corroborated this and was indeed what they were 435 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 4: doing and what they were wearing at the house. 436 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 1: So he publishes this art. 437 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 4: Okay, now I think about that for a minute, how 438 00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,600 Speaker 4: did she know these things unless she was outside of 439 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:35,119 Speaker 4: her body, Which lets you know why people like JP 440 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:39,640 Speaker 4: Morland and Gary Habermoss are intent on talking about near 441 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 4: death experiences to say, this seems to prove that people 442 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:47,200 Speaker 4: are outside of their bodies and mind body dualism, which 443 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 4: the Bible talks about, so they use that as evidence 444 00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 4: of this. This is a good case in point. So 445 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 4: it was published in the American Journal of Diseases of Children. 446 00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,760 Speaker 4: This was not a theological journal. And by the way, 447 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,600 Speaker 4: these studies on near death and death but experiences, they're 448 00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 4: all over the medical literature because these are very practical 449 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 4: questions that nurses and doctors have to deal with on 450 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 4: a day to day basis. If someone's dying and they 451 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:18,000 Speaker 4: begin talking to deceased relatives, they need to know, oh, 452 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 4: do I need to adjust the morphine or is this 453 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:25,880 Speaker 4: some type of legitimate experience. And basically, when you read 454 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,960 Speaker 4: these articles, overwhelmingly they say, treat it like a legitimate 455 00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:32,840 Speaker 4: whatever you believe about it, treat it like a legitimate experience. 456 00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 1: This is not a hallucination. 457 00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 2: It's a great response from that doctor to just say, yeah, 458 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,160 Speaker 2: tell me more and not freak galloy, I don't. 459 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 4: He was just flabbergast did and didn't know what to say, 460 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,840 Speaker 4: or if he was sensitive enough to children to say, 461 00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 4: why this is interesting. 462 00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 1: Let's uh. 463 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,160 Speaker 2: And I find the same thing in my conversation with people. 464 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:53,480 Speaker 2: Sometimes people will say certain things that indicate they've had 465 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 2: an experience like this. I just say, tell me more. 466 00:25:56,840 --> 00:26:00,400 Speaker 2: And it's amazing how many times people are willing to share. Now, 467 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:05,880 Speaker 2: it's evidentially significant about this is she's face down, clinically dead, 468 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 2: if she's rusted the hospital, this is seemingly beyond the 469 00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:13,080 Speaker 2: four minute mark as far as I would guess, resuscitated back. 470 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,879 Speaker 2: Her family was not there giving her information that she 471 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 2: did not talk with them before the doctor did. He's 472 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:26,240 Speaker 2: the first one when she's suscitated back reports information from 473 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:31,480 Speaker 2: a distance, specified information, not just my siblings are playing 474 00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 2: on the floor or genero my mom is making dinner. 475 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 3: It's specified information. 476 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:39,080 Speaker 4: What they what they're eating, what they're playing with. 477 00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:40,360 Speaker 3: And it matches up. 478 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:44,160 Speaker 2: That's the kind of evidential significance that we're looking for 479 00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:46,159 Speaker 2: that says this is more of a story than a 480 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:49,919 Speaker 2: kid just made up. Not to mention, I mean child 481 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 2: or not like drowning like that is incredibly traumatic. That 482 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,399 Speaker 2: this is the first thing you talk about, is so 483 00:26:56,720 --> 00:27:01,880 Speaker 2: opposite of what you would expect just from a biological level. Now, 484 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,480 Speaker 2: I do want to ask if there's some reputable, larger studies, 485 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:08,120 Speaker 2: but are there some other individual accounts that you want 486 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:09,919 Speaker 2: to share about children's share I think. 487 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:11,720 Speaker 4: They need to deal with some of these accounts because 488 00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 4: they're published in peer review literature or by very respected people. 489 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,560 Speaker 4: Let me tell you, first of all, just what Morse 490 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:19,400 Speaker 4: did as a result of this. 491 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,840 Speaker 1: He said, we are taught what is his conclusion. 492 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 4: Okay, he's the doctrine charge and his articles you'll find 493 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 4: are very well documented, very very good studies that he does. 494 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 4: But he said, we're taught in medical skill to find 495 00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:35,359 Speaker 4: the simplest explanation for medical problems. After looking at all 496 00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:38,320 Speaker 4: the other explanations for near death experiences, I think the 497 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:43,119 Speaker 4: simplest explanation is that ndseas are actually glimpses into the 498 00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:43,920 Speaker 4: world beyond. 499 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:45,000 Speaker 1: Why not. 500 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:49,679 Speaker 4: I've read all the convoluted psychological and physiological explanations for 501 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:54,159 Speaker 4: NDEs and none of them seems very satisfying. And so 502 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:58,720 Speaker 4: he went on to do a study of children's near 503 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:02,520 Speaker 4: death experiences and bed experiences and publish those as well. 504 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:05,560 Speaker 2: That's just like about as good of a motivation to 505 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:08,679 Speaker 2: do that study as any. If that doesn't speak your interest, 506 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,520 Speaker 2: I don't know what would now. I do want to 507 00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:14,000 Speaker 2: get into some of those studies. But is there another 508 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:17,640 Speaker 2: account or two you want to share about the kind 509 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,040 Speaker 2: of experiences that children have so we get a sense 510 00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:21,080 Speaker 2: of it, or do you want to move on to 511 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:21,879 Speaker 2: the larger style. 512 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:24,399 Speaker 4: Let's let's talk about some of these. I think people 513 00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:27,200 Speaker 4: need to stop and reflect and put it in your 514 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:30,240 Speaker 4: theological or philosophical pipe and smoke on it a little 515 00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:32,520 Speaker 4: bit on your back deck, because you need you need 516 00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:33,919 Speaker 4: to stop and think about it. 517 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:37,480 Speaker 3: Hey, this is Biola. We don't smoke here. I'm just kidding. 518 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:41,480 Speaker 1: I teach you to public university. Okay, So here we go. 519 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 1: H on children and Death. 520 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:48,640 Speaker 4: This is by Elizabeth Koobler Ross, who is a trained psychiatrist. 521 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:53,840 Speaker 4: Her doctred is in psychiatry. She's probably the authority on 522 00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 4: death and dying, and so she has a book on 523 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,840 Speaker 4: children and death. And I'll just read one of her 524 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:06,840 Speaker 4: counts for you to evaluate. But very fascinating. Again, she 525 00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,400 Speaker 4: said it, this reminds me of my early days of 526 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:11,720 Speaker 4: my work with dying patients, and she was one of 527 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 4: the first when she came from Switzerland to New York 528 00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:17,120 Speaker 4: City and began working with dying patients. 529 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:19,680 Speaker 1: She was just appalled at the way they were treated. 530 00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,560 Speaker 4: The doctors were embarrassed that they were failing, you know, 531 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:26,000 Speaker 4: so they're kind of and you're just trying every possible 532 00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:29,320 Speaker 4: way to keep somebody alive, which may just be torturing 533 00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:34,120 Speaker 4: the patient. And so she began to work and become 534 00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 4: an authority own working with people that they're dying stages, 535 00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 4: and was very influential on the hospice movement. 536 00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:42,640 Speaker 1: By the way, at the beginnings. 537 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,160 Speaker 2: Of that about this is we're seeing more and more 538 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 2: research come out about people that seem to be in 539 00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:50,120 Speaker 2: a brain dead, comatose state that it was believed they 540 00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 2: couldn't register and hear, and now it's like, oh, actually 541 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,240 Speaker 2: people come out of it and see and hear the 542 00:29:56,280 --> 00:30:00,480 Speaker 2: way they were treated in very dehumanizing kind of lengthguage 543 00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:04,520 Speaker 2: is what we would expect if we are body and 544 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:08,400 Speaker 2: soul and not just a body. So that's another line 545 00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:11,600 Speaker 2: of evidence I think that's pointing towards this dualism that 546 00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 2: we're talking about. 547 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:14,200 Speaker 3: But keep going with her research. 548 00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:20,280 Speaker 4: Sure, so I spent at the unit she was working 549 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 4: at a university hospital, where she said I had no 550 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 4: I had to promise never to tell my patients that 551 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 4: they were terminally ill. It was easy to keep this promise, 552 00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:35,720 Speaker 4: since the patients would tell me. Shortly before children die, 553 00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,720 Speaker 4: there's often a very clear moment, as I call it. 554 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,880 Speaker 4: Those who have remained in a coma since the accident 555 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:45,440 Speaker 4: or the surgery opened their eyes. That's terminal lucidity, as 556 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:48,400 Speaker 4: we've talked about before. They opened their eyes and seem 557 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 4: very coherent. Those who have had great pain and discomfort 558 00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:55,200 Speaker 4: are very quiet and at peace. It is in these 559 00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 4: moments that I asked them if they were willing to 560 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:01,720 Speaker 4: share with me what they were experiencing. Yes, this is 561 00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 4: a quote. Yes everything is all right now. Mommy and 562 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:09,479 Speaker 4: Peter are already waiting for me. One boy replied with 563 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,320 Speaker 4: a content little smile. He slipped back into a coma, 564 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:15,880 Speaker 4: from which he made the transition we called death. I 565 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:18,320 Speaker 4: was aware that the child's mother had died at the 566 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 4: scene of the accident. Okay, so remember he saw Mommy 567 00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:25,200 Speaker 4: and Peter waiting for him. When she said she was 568 00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,520 Speaker 4: aware that the mother had died. Maybe he had heard 569 00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 4: from someone that his mother had died. Okay for her 570 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 4: to expect her on the other side, But he said, 571 00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:36,960 Speaker 4: Mommy and Peter are both waiting for me. I was 572 00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:40,320 Speaker 4: aware that the mother had died, but Peter had not died. 573 00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:42,880 Speaker 4: He had been brought to a special burn unit in 574 00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 4: another hospital, severely burnt because the car had caught fire 575 00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:50,880 Speaker 4: before he was extricated from the wreck. Since I was 576 00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:54,520 Speaker 4: only collecting data, accepted the boy's information and determined to 577 00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:58,320 Speaker 4: look in on Peter. It was not necessary, however, because 578 00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:00,560 Speaker 4: as I passed the nursing station, there was a call 579 00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:03,480 Speaker 4: from the other hospital to inform me that Peter had 580 00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:07,600 Speaker 4: died a few minutes earlier. In all that chill going 581 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:12,080 Speaker 4: down your spine, yet it should be if this is crazy, 582 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:16,080 Speaker 4: wild stuff from a naturalistic standpoint, in all the years 583 00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 4: that I have quietly collected data from California to Sydney, Australia, 584 00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 4: white and black children, Aboriginals, Eskimos, South Americans and Libyan youngsters, 585 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:31,720 Speaker 4: every since she is speaking with authority here right, every 586 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:34,640 Speaker 4: single child who has mentioned that someone was waiting for 587 00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:38,640 Speaker 4: them mentioned a person who had actually preceded them in death, 588 00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:40,560 Speaker 4: even if only by a few moments. 589 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,440 Speaker 1: And yet none of these children had been informed of the. 590 00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:47,920 Speaker 4: Recent death of the relatives by us at any time coincidence. 591 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,760 Speaker 4: By now, there is no scientist or statistician who could 592 00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 4: convince me that this occurs, as some colleagues claim, as 593 00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:01,600 Speaker 4: a result of oxygen deprivation or for other rational or 594 00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 4: scientific reasons. So this is the conclusion of somebody who's 595 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 4: spent her life working with the dying, and specifically a 596 00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 4: lot of dying children. 597 00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,920 Speaker 2: So the first account is somebody having information at a 598 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:17,280 Speaker 2: distance that they could not have had access to. This 599 00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 2: account is somebody having information from the next life or 600 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:25,480 Speaker 2: the after life that they couldn't have had information to, 601 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:29,440 Speaker 2: knowing that a person had died. What's interesting about this 602 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:34,240 Speaker 2: is this not just North American Christians, for example, she says, 603 00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:39,800 Speaker 2: it's a cross culture, Libya, Latin America, Native Americans, you 604 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:43,760 Speaker 2: name it. So it's more of a universal kind of experience, 605 00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,920 Speaker 2: which tells us two things. Number one, there's a lot 606 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,640 Speaker 2: of numbers behind this. Yes, Number two, there's a lot 607 00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:52,760 Speaker 2: of diversity behind this, which I think makes the case 608 00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 2: arguably even stronger. Uh, let's talk a little about do 609 00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,640 Speaker 2: you have another individual story you want you want to share. 610 00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,440 Speaker 1: Love them are closely related to me. 611 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,880 Speaker 4: Again, one of the most fascinating things, and I would 612 00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:08,239 Speaker 4: just encourage people. One of the most fascinating things about 613 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,440 Speaker 4: this is if you're not into the research and digging 614 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:15,680 Speaker 4: endlessly into peer reviewed journals, start talking to the people 615 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 4: you know and trust. Tell them you know, I'm interested, 616 00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:23,280 Speaker 4: and I'm studying on near death and deathbed experiences and experience. 617 00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:25,919 Speaker 1: And you'll be amazed at how many people come up. 618 00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:29,840 Speaker 4: To you from your church, from your UH, from your work, 619 00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:34,239 Speaker 4: from your UH wherever you're studying at a university UH 620 00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:37,880 Speaker 4: and and start telling you these stories. So I reconnected 621 00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:41,440 Speaker 4: with a friend of mine in the ministry. He had 622 00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:44,879 Speaker 4: had a background and a Simmary seminary that was more 623 00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 4: on dispensationalism, teaching that God worked these miraculous ways and early, 624 00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,919 Speaker 4: you know, back in biblical times, but not so much now. 625 00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:57,680 Speaker 4: So when we were in ministry together, we didn't talk 626 00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:00,479 Speaker 4: a lot about miracles and visions or anything like that. 627 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:04,200 Speaker 4: He had since spent some time in a Muslim country 628 00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:07,239 Speaker 4: ministering and had come back and was talking about some 629 00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:09,720 Speaker 4: of these visions. But they actually had one that happened 630 00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:12,640 Speaker 4: in their own family. So this is a person I 631 00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:15,320 Speaker 4: know and trust. He's not a guy who's always telling 632 00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,279 Speaker 4: wild stories of God did this, God did that in 633 00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,600 Speaker 4: my life. He's not one of those. But his wife 634 00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:24,920 Speaker 4: just wrote me an email. She said, I'd like to 635 00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:27,760 Speaker 4: tell you what happened to my precious four year old niece. 636 00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:30,719 Speaker 4: She gives the names, but I'm going to leave those 637 00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:37,800 Speaker 4: out for their privacy. She died tragically and unexpected unexpectedly. 638 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:38,279 Speaker 1: Several years ago, four years old. 639 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:41,239 Speaker 4: Okay, Remember that a few weeks prior to her death, 640 00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:43,439 Speaker 4: she started coming to her parents room in the middle 641 00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:45,960 Speaker 4: of the night. She would wake them up tell them 642 00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:49,359 Speaker 4: that she had seen Jesus and that he wanted her 643 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:52,000 Speaker 4: to come and live with him. His parents, of course, 644 00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:54,279 Speaker 4: would assure her that yes, someday she would go to 645 00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,040 Speaker 4: be with Jesus when she died, but that would be 646 00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:59,480 Speaker 4: a long time in the future. The following night, Andy 647 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,080 Speaker 4: came into the bedroom and repeated what she had seen. 648 00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:05,719 Speaker 4: The third night this happened, her mother became upset and 649 00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:09,479 Speaker 4: told her, no, not now, in the future. Andy would 650 00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:12,680 Speaker 4: not be convinced, Mommy, She said, Jesus wants me to 651 00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,360 Speaker 4: come now to live with him, and I want to 652 00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:20,680 Speaker 4: go now. I get that she wants to go now. 653 00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:23,840 Speaker 4: Her parents were not mean parents. This was a loving family. 654 00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:29,400 Speaker 4: But somehow on the other side, she felt so welcomed 655 00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,640 Speaker 4: so at home that this had prepared her and was 656 00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:36,280 Speaker 4: preparing her family with what was to happen. Two weeks later, 657 00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:38,800 Speaker 4: the mother was driving to the school where she was 658 00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,800 Speaker 4: a teacher. The daughter safely buckled in the back seat 659 00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:47,440 Speaker 4: the rural road where they ran parallel to the train track. 660 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,080 Speaker 4: Then right before the school, the road made a sharp 661 00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:53,600 Speaker 4: left turn and crossed the track. It was a blind crossing, 662 00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:57,280 Speaker 4: meaning there were no gates or lights. The mother crossed 663 00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,439 Speaker 4: the track every morning. At this time there were never 664 00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:03,040 Speaker 4: any train, but this day there was. The car they 665 00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:09,360 Speaker 4: were driving was broadsided by the train, badly damaged. The 666 00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:18,480 Speaker 4: mother survived, but the child died in that wreck. She 667 00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:21,360 Speaker 4: was able to hold her for a minute, but she 668 00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:25,480 Speaker 4: died afterwards. And indeed she went to live with Jesus. 669 00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:29,640 Speaker 4: So this is a powerful, powerful thing coming from somebody, 670 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:33,000 Speaker 4: somebody I know, and I can just maybe if we 671 00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:35,000 Speaker 4: don't have time for all of these, I'll just say 672 00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:40,320 Speaker 4: they're I don't know the statistics on children. Children obviously 673 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,480 Speaker 4: haven't lived as long as adults, and so they haven't 674 00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:46,360 Speaker 4: had as many opportunities to die and come back in 675 00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:48,120 Speaker 4: a near death experience. 676 00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:49,360 Speaker 1: Or have heart attacks or whatever. 677 00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:53,040 Speaker 4: So four percent of the adult population is talking about 678 00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:56,399 Speaker 4: near death experiences. In large well done surveys in Australia 679 00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:59,800 Speaker 4: and Germany. The United States, four to six percent of 680 00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:05,759 Speaker 4: the people deathbed experiences deathbed visions. Someone studied that in 681 00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:08,719 Speaker 4: a hospice unit. 682 00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:09,520 Speaker 1: In New York. 683 00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:12,759 Speaker 4: They interviewed the patients daily and found that up to 684 00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:15,719 Speaker 4: eighty eight percent of them we're having these experiences. So 685 00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:19,480 Speaker 4: these are widely experienced. I don't know the numbers on children, 686 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,920 Speaker 4: but I know there are plenty of peer reviewed and 687 00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:26,440 Speaker 4: reputable people that have given plenty of instances of coming 688 00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:27,160 Speaker 4: from children. 689 00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:32,680 Speaker 1: But I'll just mention a family from Ukraine. 690 00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 2: Let mean you have in here before you go to 691 00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:36,640 Speaker 2: the family from Ukraine. I know people listening to that 692 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:39,360 Speaker 2: past story going, wait a minute, why would God allow 693 00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,120 Speaker 2: this to happen? Why wouldn't he just save the child? 694 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:45,880 Speaker 2: Those are completely fair questions. Yes, related to the problem 695 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:49,359 Speaker 2: of evil, and we're going to deal with theological and 696 00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:53,800 Speaker 2: biblical objections in an entire other episode we're doing soon. 697 00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:55,399 Speaker 3: We're not dismissing those. 698 00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:57,880 Speaker 2: Part of my answer is I don't know the answer 699 00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:01,120 Speaker 2: to that, and that's very fair. What we're looking at 700 00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:05,880 Speaker 2: here is the evidential significance of somebody saying this in 701 00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:08,200 Speaker 2: the middle of the night to their parents and then 702 00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:13,680 Speaker 2: within two weeks dying. That is, it's hard to invent 703 00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:17,880 Speaker 2: a story like that. Again, somebody seemingly no incentive because 704 00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:22,839 Speaker 2: you know, they lost their child. Sharing this with you personally, 705 00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:26,319 Speaker 2: that's a very significant thing. Now, of course somebody gets say, well, 706 00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:30,160 Speaker 2: they're inventing it to make themselves feel good and comfort themselves. 707 00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:30,960 Speaker 3: Well, there's a lot of. 708 00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:35,160 Speaker 2: Ways to comfort yourself besides inventing a story that raises 709 00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:36,040 Speaker 2: other things. 710 00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:40,160 Speaker 4: How did they know they needed to be comforted exactly? 711 00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:41,719 Speaker 1: Train had not hit them in that. 712 00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:43,280 Speaker 3: You're raising all the right questions. 713 00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:44,880 Speaker 2: I just want to make sure people know we're not 714 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,480 Speaker 2: dismissing those, and I understand the way to those questions. 715 00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:49,480 Speaker 1: Let me let me comment on the problem of evil. 716 00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:51,520 Speaker 4: I think this is important and I think that near 717 00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,200 Speaker 4: death and deathbed experiences have something to say to that, 718 00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:57,239 Speaker 4: because people do think of what what kind of a 719 00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:00,680 Speaker 4: god would allow a young child like this to be 720 00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:04,680 Speaker 4: to be killed in such a tragic way. But I 721 00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:07,840 Speaker 4: will say that people who have had near death experiences, 722 00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:11,600 Speaker 4: and I've read hundreds and hundreds of these experiences, I've 723 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:14,680 Speaker 4: never seen one person come back and say that when 724 00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:18,920 Speaker 4: they met God that he was evil or unjust. 725 00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:21,879 Speaker 1: They even the things. 726 00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:24,080 Speaker 4: In their life like why was I born into this 727 00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:27,040 Speaker 4: family or why did this happen to me? On the 728 00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:32,560 Speaker 4: other side, it all made since, and they come back saying, 729 00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:35,520 Speaker 4: that is the most loving being. I never wanted to 730 00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:41,719 Speaker 4: leave this being side, And so it seems like the 731 00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:45,200 Speaker 4: problem of evil is cleared up once your mind has expanded. 732 00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:48,160 Speaker 4: Now when they come back over here, they can't explain 733 00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:51,200 Speaker 4: to you exactly why all that made sense, but they 734 00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:54,239 Speaker 4: know that it made sense, and so I think it 735 00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:58,280 Speaker 4: does speak to a loving God. That is another issue 736 00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:01,120 Speaker 4: and a lot of discussion. I've I've lost loved ones, 737 00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:03,279 Speaker 4: been through a lot of tragedy in my life, so 738 00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:06,759 Speaker 4: I understand those questions, and I've come out in my 739 00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:10,319 Speaker 4: theological journey would beling that God really does love us, 740 00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:13,240 Speaker 4: even though there's a lot of horrible things that happened 741 00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:13,760 Speaker 4: in the world. 742 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:15,480 Speaker 3: Amen. And he loves children too. 743 00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:19,160 Speaker 2: We see that distinctly with Jesus in an age when 744 00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:22,080 Speaker 2: children were not valued on the same level. Even his 745 00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:25,360 Speaker 2: disciples are like, why are you talking to children? So 746 00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:27,320 Speaker 2: on that note, I think you had one more account 747 00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:27,919 Speaker 2: you wanted to share. 748 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:30,680 Speaker 4: Sure, well, I'll mention briefly a couple of them. But 749 00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:33,680 Speaker 4: I lived in Slovakia for a while and had a 750 00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:35,920 Speaker 4: colleague that was a missionary in the Ukraine. And I 751 00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:40,200 Speaker 4: noticed in his prayer letter he mentioned that his child 752 00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:45,520 Speaker 4: had died when he had made a little fort in 753 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:49,120 Speaker 4: a snow bank and the snow bank fell on him, died, 754 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 4: was resuscitated in the ambulance, and I thought, okay, And 755 00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:55,279 Speaker 4: he mentioned that he had some kind of experience on 756 00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:56,040 Speaker 4: the other side. 757 00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:58,879 Speaker 1: So I talked with this child. 758 00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:02,440 Speaker 4: On the phone, and it was it was amazing. He 759 00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:06,680 Speaker 4: went to the other side, he felt perfectly fine, and 760 00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:13,000 Speaker 4: his deceased Saint Bernard was bounding in to greet him, 761 00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,960 Speaker 4: and it was just a precious story. But as I 762 00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,560 Speaker 4: asked him, he just he could. It was almost like 763 00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:20,839 Speaker 4: he was playing back the video. 764 00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:21,959 Speaker 1: In his mind. I said. 765 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:24,120 Speaker 4: He said, oh, there were these beautiful flowers over there, 766 00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:25,920 Speaker 4: and I said, well, what colors were they? And he 767 00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,600 Speaker 4: told me specifically the colors he saw the ones he 768 00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:31,160 Speaker 4: didn't see, and then he said there were other colors 769 00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:35,960 Speaker 4: that I've never seen before, but I can't even describe those. 770 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:39,240 Speaker 4: So it was a powerful experience in this child's life. 771 00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,080 Speaker 4: Again coming from somebody that I know and trust, Why 772 00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:45,560 Speaker 4: would they be lying to me about that. There's a 773 00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:50,960 Speaker 4: dissertation I quote. Angela Ethier wrote a dissertation for her 774 00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:57,560 Speaker 4: nursing degree, so her doctoral work on children and death, 775 00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:00,759 Speaker 4: and so she interviewed a lot of parents who had 776 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:04,600 Speaker 4: lost their children, and in that there was a story 777 00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:08,000 Speaker 4: about a parent who was in with her child. Her 778 00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:12,360 Speaker 4: child kind of gingerly asked, mother, do you see the 779 00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:17,560 Speaker 4: angels in the room, And her mother, wanting to have 780 00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:20,279 Speaker 4: a feel good moment, said, well, yes, I see them. 781 00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:23,960 Speaker 4: And the child says what do they look like? And 782 00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:26,319 Speaker 4: she said the mother said, well, the one I see 783 00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:29,279 Speaker 4: has great big wings, and she says, Mom, you don't 784 00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:30,239 Speaker 4: have to lie to me. 785 00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:35,120 Speaker 1: They don't have wings. And so the wisdom of children 786 00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:36,680 Speaker 1: and that's something that. 787 00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:43,920 Speaker 4: Doctor Barrett wrote in his book, Sir William Barrett Deathbed Visions. 788 00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:48,279 Speaker 4: He was collecting stories of deathbed visions. He was so 789 00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:52,480 Speaker 4: great at his work in physics and his discoveries that 790 00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:56,600 Speaker 4: he was knight at Sir William Barrett, very reputable source. 791 00:43:57,120 --> 00:44:00,880 Speaker 4: But he said that typically when he saw children, that 792 00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:06,320 Speaker 4: stories of children who had died, that the angels didn't 793 00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:12,000 Speaker 4: have wings, which is impressive from a Christian standpoint, because children, 794 00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:15,480 Speaker 4: if they're getting their theology from little children's books and 795 00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:20,280 Speaker 4: children's stories, all the stories of Jesus and the angels, 796 00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:23,240 Speaker 4: you know at his birth, all the angels have wings, 797 00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:26,359 Speaker 4: but the Bible never says that they had wings, right. 798 00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:28,800 Speaker 4: I mean, there's some angelic creatures in the Old Testament 799 00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:31,799 Speaker 4: that had wings, but they're never called angels. So it's 800 00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:35,279 Speaker 4: like what you would think a child would be expecting 801 00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:40,000 Speaker 4: doesn't happen. So these are powerful stories and maybe I 802 00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:43,360 Speaker 4: should mention Diane Coomp too in her book and I 803 00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:47,239 Speaker 4: would highly recommend it. A Window to Heaven Again by 804 00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:52,400 Speaker 4: Dane comp She's the one who teaches or taught at Yale. 805 00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:58,400 Speaker 4: She's retired now Professor emeritus, and she gives cases where 806 00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:01,760 Speaker 4: the children were dying. This is when she was an 807 00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:05,759 Speaker 4: atheist and she was watching these children die, and one 808 00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:09,759 Speaker 4: child just right before she died, she just raised up 809 00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:12,440 Speaker 4: in her bed and she said, Mimmy, the angels. Can 810 00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:16,800 Speaker 4: you hear them singing? I've never heard such beautiful singing. 811 00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:19,800 Speaker 4: She was ecstatic, and then she laid down and died. 812 00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:27,120 Speaker 4: I mean just immediately. You can't make up that. I mean, 813 00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:31,680 Speaker 4: what's going on? And you a witness, you know, when 814 00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:36,120 Speaker 4: you're in a court situation, you're evaluating testimony. You look 815 00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:39,520 Speaker 4: at people's expressions, how they're saying, what they're saying, when 816 00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:42,800 Speaker 4: little children are just as sincere as the world talking 817 00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:46,040 Speaker 4: about these things. But Dan comp said something very special. 818 00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:49,560 Speaker 4: She said, you couldn't have given the parents a greater 819 00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:54,800 Speaker 4: gift at that point, because these parents have the assurance 820 00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,440 Speaker 4: that their child was going to heaven. 821 00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:00,560 Speaker 1: What more could you add ask for? 822 00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:03,360 Speaker 2: Well, I don't know where she went in her worldview, 823 00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:05,520 Speaker 2: but if you're an atheist, it's hard to account for 824 00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,719 Speaker 2: a gift. What evolution gives you a gift like that 825 00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:11,480 Speaker 2: doesn't make any sense. But if there's a gift giver, 826 00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:15,600 Speaker 2: a god who cares about comforting people, it makes sense. 827 00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:18,719 Speaker 2: It's the kind of thing that we might expect and 828 00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:20,480 Speaker 2: fits within a certain worldview. 829 00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:23,480 Speaker 3: It's not surprising. It gave me goosebumps, and it's beautiful. 830 00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:27,840 Speaker 2: It's not surprising from an epistemic standpoint, which is important. 831 00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:30,560 Speaker 4: And by the way, doctor comp did become a believer 832 00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:32,960 Speaker 4: in God, became a strong Christian. 833 00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:33,920 Speaker 1: And she's got. 834 00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:37,480 Speaker 4: Verses throughout this book. I haven't I think nineteen nineties 835 00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:40,560 Speaker 4: or whatever. It's probably ninety nine cents on Amazon. 836 00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:45,239 Speaker 1: Get it. I mean, here is a Yale. 837 00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:51,000 Speaker 4: Professor talking about the experiences she's seen. I think that's 838 00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:51,760 Speaker 4: a great source. 839 00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:53,960 Speaker 2: So people know you have a Yale professor here, you 840 00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:58,239 Speaker 2: have Sir William Barrett who was knighted Doctor Morris. You're 841 00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:01,520 Speaker 2: not pulling from just studies and random stories on YouTube. 842 00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:05,640 Speaker 2: You've done careful work again, which is why I keep 843 00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:08,160 Speaker 2: wanting you back. Now. There are some objections I do 844 00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:13,920 Speaker 2: want you to address related to children having NDEs, and 845 00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:16,359 Speaker 2: one of them comes from Michael Shermer, who I've had 846 00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:20,000 Speaker 2: debates with multiple times. Really a joy engaging him, thoughtful, 847 00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:23,279 Speaker 2: and he's pushed back on the evidence of near death experiences, 848 00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:25,800 Speaker 2: even though he had a kind of experience that doesn't 849 00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:28,840 Speaker 2: really fit within his worldview. But that's a story for 850 00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:31,440 Speaker 2: another time. You and I have discussed a fun story. Yes, 851 00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:34,240 Speaker 2: and he said, there are billions of people in the world. 852 00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:37,680 Speaker 2: With that many people having dreams and hallucinations, surely the 853 00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,640 Speaker 2: odds are that some will have hallucinations that correspond to 854 00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:44,600 Speaker 2: reality and fantastic ways. People just don't understand large numbers. Now, 855 00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:49,680 Speaker 2: basically this is a common naturalistic move to increase our 856 00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:55,920 Speaker 2: probabilistic resources. So the origin of life incredibly remote. But 857 00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:59,360 Speaker 2: if you have enough universes or enough planets and enough 858 00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:03,760 Speaker 2: oppertun tunity in time, life could emerge. It's the same 859 00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:06,759 Speaker 2: kind of moves. So, yes, these are surprising from the 860 00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:08,919 Speaker 2: bottom up. But if you include the number of people 861 00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:11,640 Speaker 2: who have lived in the accounts that people tell, we 862 00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:15,080 Speaker 2: shouldn't be surprised that we have a few anomalies, so 863 00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:16,520 Speaker 2: to speak, that we can't explain. 864 00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:24,680 Speaker 4: Sure well, Number one, there are black swans in science 865 00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:28,600 Speaker 4: where somebody will say, you know, all you need is 866 00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:32,560 Speaker 4: one black swan to overturn the theory that all swans 867 00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:36,319 Speaker 4: are white. And sure enough, that's what some European explorers 868 00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:38,719 Speaker 4: found when they used to make little jokes about, you know, 869 00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:41,200 Speaker 4: white swans, because all swans they knew were white. And 870 00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:43,360 Speaker 4: then somebody goes down to Australia and finds. 871 00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:43,680 Speaker 1: A black one. 872 00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:48,720 Speaker 4: It only takes one good observation to overturn a theory 873 00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:54,080 Speaker 4: that all swans are white. Well, what naturalists are saying 874 00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:57,960 Speaker 4: is everything is naturalistic. Okay, Well, all you need to 875 00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:02,560 Speaker 4: find is one thing that is not consistent obviously with naturalism. 876 00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:06,839 Speaker 4: Or they say the body. When the body dies, the 877 00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:11,160 Speaker 4: person dies. Okay, well that's something. But when you have 878 00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:16,319 Speaker 4: these people giving testimony after testimony in a situation that 879 00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:18,600 Speaker 4: in a court of law they would be very believable 880 00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:20,799 Speaker 4: saying that they were on the other side visiting with 881 00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:25,319 Speaker 4: deceased relatives, that sounds like these relatives died years ago, 882 00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:28,200 Speaker 4: that's after their life, which sounds a lot like the 883 00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:31,640 Speaker 4: after life to me. And so I think we have 884 00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:36,000 Speaker 4: great evidence, not just okay, so children, Well I don't 885 00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:39,400 Speaker 4: have statistics on children, but I have a lot of 886 00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:41,960 Speaker 4: great accounts from authorities who have seen a lot of 887 00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:45,759 Speaker 4: children in death situations and have collected them. But when 888 00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:49,320 Speaker 4: you look at the near death experiences in general, four 889 00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:52,319 Speaker 4: to six percent of the population eighty percent to eighty 890 00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:56,400 Speaker 4: eight percent having these visions at death. This is not 891 00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:59,760 Speaker 4: a one out of a billion thing. As Shermer's talking about. 892 00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:02,879 Speaker 4: And by the way, Shermer made one statement. I did 893 00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:06,720 Speaker 4: read his book where he was arguing against the afterlife, 894 00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:09,359 Speaker 4: and he said, one reason that we know that there's 895 00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:12,960 Speaker 4: not an afterlife is that when as the body's dying 896 00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:18,520 Speaker 4: from diseases like meningitis and Alzheimer's that are destroying the brain, 897 00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:22,960 Speaker 4: that they don't get better, they don't recover their ability 898 00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:28,160 Speaker 4: to have conscious experiences. Well, obviously he didn't study terminal lucidity, 899 00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:30,759 Speaker 4: because we have good evidence that at death, a lot 900 00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:34,279 Speaker 4: of these people, including some children, they're at death, maybe 901 00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:36,759 Speaker 4: their brains have been eaten away by a tumor not 902 00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:41,200 Speaker 4: just pushed aside, but actually eaten away and then become 903 00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:46,200 Speaker 4: perfectly conscious. That speaks against Shermer's contention that once your 904 00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:51,040 Speaker 4: brain is gone, that you can't have experiences with your mind. 905 00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:55,080 Speaker 2: So the number of cases we have and the specificity 906 00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:58,920 Speaker 2: of those cases counters the idea that we can just 907 00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:01,800 Speaker 2: look at so many people who die, and the number 908 00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:05,480 Speaker 2: of possibilities, the number of cases that we could document 909 00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:09,640 Speaker 2: from reputable sources, and the specificity they give cannot be 910 00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:13,440 Speaker 2: wiped away by just referring to some apparent large number. 911 00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:16,160 Speaker 3: All right, With that said, let's go a couple more. 912 00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:19,680 Speaker 2: Sometimes skeptics will pose it that these are the results 913 00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:23,719 Speaker 2: of a developing brain undergoing stress. So either it's a 914 00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:28,480 Speaker 2: young brain, it's developing, it's expanding pretty radically, and sometimes 915 00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:32,239 Speaker 2: this will be coupled with kids just creative imaginations, which 916 00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:35,480 Speaker 2: we all know have kids. Kids have creative imaginations, and 917 00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:39,799 Speaker 2: they have dragon friends, and they have battles they fought in. 918 00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:42,560 Speaker 2: So how do we know that the best explanation is 919 00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:46,000 Speaker 2: not some developing brain or just kids kind of telling 920 00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:47,560 Speaker 2: stories like kids do. 921 00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,960 Speaker 4: Sure, I mean some even adults believe that Spider Man 922 00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:55,040 Speaker 4: is real, you know, so we do have to consider 923 00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:59,640 Speaker 4: that as a hypothesis. But as Bruce Gray, doctor Bruce 924 00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:01,960 Speaker 4: grace And said, who's taught his whole most of his 925 00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:06,200 Speaker 4: adult life at the University of Virginia Department of Perceptual Studies, 926 00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:10,279 Speaker 4: he says, near death experiences sound pretty naturalistic as long 927 00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:15,440 Speaker 4: as you ignore all the supernatural elements. And I think, yeah, people, 928 00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:19,680 Speaker 4: there are things that happen at death to the brain 929 00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:22,600 Speaker 4: that caused some people to hallucinate, some people to think 930 00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:25,040 Speaker 4: that bugs are crawling all over them, or have all 931 00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:30,400 Speaker 4: kinds of distressing things go on, but these are very 932 00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:33,880 Speaker 4: different from a near death or deathbed experience. From what 933 00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:38,000 Speaker 4: they're experiencing there, they're very lucid. They'll just talk to 934 00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:40,520 Speaker 4: you like we're talking to each other right now. And 935 00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:43,800 Speaker 4: you say, this is a real intelligent person that's speaking 936 00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:48,120 Speaker 4: very lucidly about what's going on. And then anything about 937 00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:53,640 Speaker 4: a dying brain doesn't explain how this child knew before 938 00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:55,839 Speaker 4: the train hit them that they were going to die. 939 00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:59,120 Speaker 4: It didn't doesn't tell how the little girl knew what 940 00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:02,120 Speaker 4: her family was at their houses. It's just not a 941 00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:03,520 Speaker 4: sufficient explanation. 942 00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:07,680 Speaker 2: Another response is that parents or some other authority are 943 00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:11,160 Speaker 2: filtering these cases to kids. Like I mentioned earlier, there's 944 00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:13,719 Speaker 2: at least one prominent best selling book I guess the 945 00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:17,399 Speaker 2: name was Malarkey. That's the first I've heard that with 946 00:53:17,719 --> 00:53:20,440 Speaker 2: some level of irony of a child having a near 947 00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:24,080 Speaker 2: death experience that the publisher pulled and said it didn't happen. 948 00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:26,319 Speaker 2: So how do we know there's not some kind of 949 00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:31,640 Speaker 2: hidden information or mechanism giving this to kids before they 950 00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:32,680 Speaker 2: share their accounts. 951 00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:36,439 Speaker 4: So in none of these illustrations that I've given were 952 00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:43,279 Speaker 4: the parents, you know, writing books about it or have 953 00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:46,120 Speaker 4: any ulterior motives for doing it, And think about doctor 954 00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:49,080 Speaker 4: Morris was interviewing the child her self, not the parents, 955 00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:54,280 Speaker 4: about what was going on, and typically these are doctor 956 00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:58,839 Speaker 4: kober Ross. She was actually talking directly to the children themselves. 957 00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:01,560 Speaker 4: So I don't think it can be just parents making 958 00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:02,200 Speaker 4: up things. 959 00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:05,279 Speaker 2: So talking to the kids themselves helps weed that out. 960 00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:07,480 Speaker 2: But also there's a certain chain of command in some 961 00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:10,560 Speaker 2: of these cases where there's just no time for parent 962 00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:15,600 Speaker 2: input from the accident, near death experience to the report. 963 00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:19,239 Speaker 2: Parents come subsequent to that. So unless you say the 964 00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:21,960 Speaker 2: parents fed them, had the kid fed them the information, 965 00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:24,960 Speaker 2: had them nearly die and drown and then come out 966 00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:28,240 Speaker 2: of it to tell this story, which is far less 967 00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:32,680 Speaker 2: believable to me, the possibility to impart that information at 968 00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:34,160 Speaker 2: least many of the cases is. 969 00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:41,200 Speaker 4: Not extraordinary claims demand extraordinary evidence. I mean, hey, maybe 970 00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:46,000 Speaker 4: these kids have an international conspiracy together to tell stories 971 00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:48,719 Speaker 4: that all have the same results. Okay, but that what 972 00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:52,640 Speaker 4: an extraordinary You know, the parents all made this up? 973 00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:57,120 Speaker 4: But wait a minute, was the kids interviewed? These naturalistic 974 00:54:57,320 --> 00:55:01,600 Speaker 4: explanations are just quite extraordin and seem to have no 975 00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:05,799 Speaker 4: data behind them. These studies have been done for the 976 00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:09,600 Speaker 4: past fifty years, particularly on near death experiences, and the 977 00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:13,160 Speaker 4: naturalistic theories just do not fit the data that the 978 00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:15,759 Speaker 4: best researchers have gotten. And some of these researchers have 979 00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:21,160 Speaker 4: been researching since their early years in medicine, and today, 980 00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:25,040 Speaker 4: you know, fifty years later, they're saying, yeah, these people 981 00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:27,520 Speaker 4: came out of their bodies. So you've got to match 982 00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:31,479 Speaker 4: the data infer to the to you know, to the 983 00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:34,680 Speaker 4: hypothesis that makes the best sense of the data. 984 00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:38,560 Speaker 2: That's why worldview is so important and critical here that 985 00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:42,120 Speaker 2: if you bring a theistic worldview an openness to the afterlife, 986 00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:45,560 Speaker 2: these stories don't surprise me. They fit with what I 987 00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:48,480 Speaker 2: believe it's true. But what is interesting is you have 988 00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:52,200 Speaker 2: people like Pim von Nmel who I've interviewed, Evan Alexandrew 989 00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:58,400 Speaker 2: who I've interviewed, committed leading scientists, medical doctors in a 990 00:55:58,600 --> 00:56:03,800 Speaker 2: materialist worldview. You game changing experiences they had or saw 991 00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:08,760 Speaker 2: shifted their worldview in light of the near death experiences. 992 00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:12,280 Speaker 2: So when we are confronted with something that challenges our worldview, 993 00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:18,000 Speaker 2: either we can dismiss it or we can shift our worldview. 994 00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,840 Speaker 2: That's what I'm hoping skeptics might do when they see this, 995 00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:24,840 Speaker 2: given the number of cases and the unique, evidential, just 996 00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:29,919 Speaker 2: fascinating value of children, I'm hoping that might give them 997 00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:31,240 Speaker 2: at least some pause. 998 00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:34,000 Speaker 1: Now coming out of that, Yeah, I think an interesting thing. 999 00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:38,239 Speaker 4: Is that some some atheists who have not read in 1000 00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:42,320 Speaker 4: this area will say, oh, well, this is just Christian 1001 00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:45,800 Speaker 4: researchers trying to affirm their worldviews. But as you mentioned, 1002 00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:53,719 Speaker 4: people like von Lameo, doctor Sebom, these others that doctor Grayson, 1003 00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:59,719 Speaker 4: these were not evangelical Christians from the start trying to 1004 00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:01,080 Speaker 4: defe in their worldview. 1005 00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:03,680 Speaker 1: They were startled this. 1006 00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:06,920 Speaker 4: It was like they came into this thing kicking and screaming, 1007 00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:11,640 Speaker 4: not believing that these were really experiences with the afterlife. 1008 00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:15,719 Speaker 4: And then after their study and after a whole lifetime 1009 00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:18,600 Speaker 4: of studying, these are some of the best researchers they 1010 00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:22,000 Speaker 4: believe these people were coming out of their bodies. Now, interestingly, 1011 00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:26,240 Speaker 4: the atheists that I see arguing against near death experiences, 1012 00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:30,120 Speaker 4: they were already outspoken atheists before they ever got into 1013 00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:32,560 Speaker 4: near death experiences. So it looks to me like there's 1014 00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:37,479 Speaker 4: a lot more potential for them to be placing their 1015 00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:40,800 Speaker 4: worldview over this and seeing it through their lens rather 1016 00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:43,160 Speaker 4: than being able to look objectively at the evidence. 1017 00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:46,600 Speaker 2: Perhaps the most common objection I hear, and this is 1018 00:57:46,680 --> 00:57:50,720 Speaker 2: with say, the evidence surrounding historical Jesus, more so in 1019 00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:54,160 Speaker 2: the area of intelligent design, is just God of the gaps. 1020 00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:57,480 Speaker 3: There's some facts that we can't fully explain. We don't know. 1021 00:57:57,960 --> 00:58:01,640 Speaker 2: But rather than saying God did this, let's allow science 1022 00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:06,560 Speaker 2: to advance and eventually we'll discover a reason. So positing 1023 00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:09,960 Speaker 2: his soul, posing it afterlife is kind of a God 1024 00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:13,640 Speaker 2: of the gaps. That number one prevents science from moving 1025 00:58:13,720 --> 00:58:15,880 Speaker 2: forward because now you say God did it, so there's 1026 00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:19,960 Speaker 2: no reason to probe further for a naturalistic explanation, and 1027 00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:26,040 Speaker 2: it posits an unjustified pointer towards something beyond science. So 1028 00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:28,200 Speaker 2: what's your take on this being a God of the 1029 00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:29,240 Speaker 2: gaps kind of argument? 1030 00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:33,920 Speaker 4: Sure, well, that's interesting because Dr Moody from the start, 1031 00:58:34,000 --> 00:58:36,840 Speaker 4: if you read his books, it's almost frustrating. Doctor Kubler 1032 00:58:36,960 --> 00:58:39,640 Speaker 4: Ross would speak with doctor Moody, who did the first 1033 00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:44,440 Speaker 4: really popular study of experience nineteen seventy five is when 1034 00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:48,000 Speaker 4: he published his book Life after Life, and would he 1035 00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:50,600 Speaker 4: would give all this stuff that was very consistent with 1036 00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:54,920 Speaker 4: theism and with the afterlife as he described, and then 1037 00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:56,840 Speaker 4: would come to the end and he would say something like, 1038 00:58:56,920 --> 00:59:00,440 Speaker 4: but of course these are just anecdotes. I suld be, 1039 00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:03,600 Speaker 4: what what are you talking about? I mean, this is 1040 00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:06,560 Speaker 4: really powerful evidence. And I asked doctor Mode one time 1041 00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:09,120 Speaker 4: on the phone, I said, why is it that it 1042 00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:11,880 Speaker 4: took you so long until your later years before you 1043 00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:16,760 Speaker 4: finally said, yeah, this is the afterlife. Is the best explanation, 1044 00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:19,200 Speaker 4: he said. I was just I always wanted to be 1045 00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:22,120 Speaker 4: the Socrates who was just always doubtings. I was afraid 1046 00:59:22,160 --> 00:59:24,680 Speaker 4: if I came to a conclusion that I'd quit searching. 1047 00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:27,800 Speaker 1: So he really really resisted. 1048 00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:31,960 Speaker 4: That, but finally says, yeah, okay, that's about the afterlife, 1049 00:59:32,360 --> 00:59:35,960 Speaker 4: but about the god of the gaps. I love to 1050 00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:41,000 Speaker 4: I love to explore caves, particularly wild caves, and but 1051 00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:42,840 Speaker 4: I was in a public cave one time and a 1052 00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:47,720 Speaker 4: person was showing a formation where it was like on 1053 00:59:47,760 --> 00:59:53,040 Speaker 4: a stalagmite hanging down, but there was a curved deposit 1054 00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:57,560 Speaker 4: of calcite on it, and they said, we we haven't 1055 00:59:57,600 --> 01:00:01,040 Speaker 4: figured out how in the world that happen. That just 1056 01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:05,040 Speaker 4: doesn't make sense because drops drop down and deposit there 1057 01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:06,320 Speaker 4: why would it go around? 1058 01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:09,320 Speaker 1: And I thought, okay, that's a dear illustration. 1059 01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:11,840 Speaker 4: If I say, well, we don't know how it happened, 1060 01:00:11,840 --> 01:00:15,400 Speaker 4: therefore God made that. That would be an example of 1061 01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:18,080 Speaker 4: God of the gaps. I'm throwing God in there where 1062 01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:22,320 Speaker 4: really we ought to wait on a naturalistic explanation for it. 1063 01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:27,000 Speaker 4: But in these situations, this is not just throwing God 1064 01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:31,480 Speaker 4: in as an explanation. God is already all over the experience. 1065 01:00:31,760 --> 01:00:35,440 Speaker 4: This little girl said, I saw the Heavenly Father, I 1066 01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:39,680 Speaker 4: saw Jesus, I saw angels. Well, by the virtue of 1067 01:00:39,720 --> 01:00:42,520 Speaker 4: the fact that it's already a part of the experience, 1068 01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:45,640 Speaker 4: that surely gives us the right to say, well, here's 1069 01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:46,760 Speaker 4: one hypothesis. 1070 01:00:47,080 --> 01:00:49,720 Speaker 1: Maybe she really saw God, the Father. 1071 01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:53,360 Speaker 4: And Jesus and angels. Okay, so it deserves the right 1072 01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:57,400 Speaker 4: to have a hypothesis. To me, when secular people come 1073 01:00:57,520 --> 01:01:02,560 Speaker 4: in and impose their own worldview on them this and say, okay, well, 1074 01:01:02,600 --> 01:01:05,600 Speaker 4: there's got to be a naturalistic explanation. Let's just we 1075 01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:09,560 Speaker 4: don't know the naturalistic explanation for NDEs, but we should 1076 01:01:09,600 --> 01:01:13,440 Speaker 4: await a naturalistic suggestion. I'd say, well, that's called naturalism 1077 01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:17,400 Speaker 4: of the gaps, where you just take your naturalistic worldview 1078 01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:20,520 Speaker 4: and you impose it on whatever you see and assume 1079 01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:22,280 Speaker 4: there will be a naturalistic answer. 1080 01:01:22,800 --> 01:01:24,720 Speaker 1: So if they say, oh, well, we ought to wait. 1081 01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:27,680 Speaker 4: And see a future evidence, and I'll say, but I 1082 01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:32,320 Speaker 4: can't make my decisions on anything with future evidence. 1083 01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:33,640 Speaker 1: That's all hypothetical. 1084 01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:36,760 Speaker 4: I can only deal with the evidence as I see it, 1085 01:01:37,160 --> 01:01:40,520 Speaker 4: and to me, the evidence weighs heavily in the favor 1086 01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:42,240 Speaker 4: of the afterlife hypothesis. 1087 01:01:42,600 --> 01:01:44,919 Speaker 2: You've written four books on this that people can get 1088 01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:48,840 Speaker 2: either on Amazon or you'll email PDFs to them for free, 1089 01:01:48,840 --> 01:01:49,600 Speaker 2: which is amazing. 1090 01:01:49,680 --> 01:01:51,800 Speaker 3: You've brought a lot of these books. You've researched this 1091 01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:52,200 Speaker 3: a ton. 1092 01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:56,000 Speaker 2: Are there any just final remarks related to kids and 1093 01:01:56,200 --> 01:01:59,800 Speaker 2: NDEs or deathbed experiences We didn't cover that you want 1094 01:01:59,800 --> 01:02:02,400 Speaker 2: to you feel like we laid it out there. 1095 01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:06,040 Speaker 4: I'd say, what is it profit a man to gain 1096 01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:09,280 Speaker 4: the whole world and lose or forfeit his soul? Jesus 1097 01:02:09,360 --> 01:02:11,320 Speaker 4: said that, you know, when I was young in my 1098 01:02:12,200 --> 01:02:18,440 Speaker 4: spiritual journey that during my times of faith, that reassured 1099 01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:20,240 Speaker 4: me I was going in the right direction. When I 1100 01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:24,880 Speaker 4: was going through doubts, it haunted me. But I believe 1101 01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:27,520 Speaker 4: that what it shows is that this life isn't all 1102 01:02:27,560 --> 01:02:31,760 Speaker 4: there is. Why live for things on this earth that 1103 01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:37,600 Speaker 4: don't last. Why chase, you know, climbing up the ladder 1104 01:02:37,600 --> 01:02:40,840 Speaker 4: of success, but then finding at the end of your 1105 01:02:40,880 --> 01:02:43,360 Speaker 4: life that it was leaning against the wrong wall. That 1106 01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:46,520 Speaker 4: just doesn't make sense when in the light of even 1107 01:02:46,560 --> 01:02:48,720 Speaker 4: if you're not a Christian, but just in the light 1108 01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:52,240 Speaker 4: of near death and deathbed research showing that there's something 1109 01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:55,560 Speaker 4: much more glorious that's offered to us afterwards, and that 1110 01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:59,360 Speaker 4: children have preceded us sometimes there and have told us 1111 01:02:59,640 --> 01:03:03,480 Speaker 4: in their transition, oh my goodness, this is where I 1112 01:03:03,520 --> 01:03:04,120 Speaker 4: want to go. 1113 01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:07,800 Speaker 1: This is my ultimate home. That's what we need to 1114 01:03:07,840 --> 01:03:08,520 Speaker 1: be living for. 1115 01:03:08,760 --> 01:03:11,760 Speaker 4: And if you have a lot of uncertainties regarding religion, 1116 01:03:12,680 --> 01:03:16,480 Speaker 4: some of these people saw Jesus. I would recommend heavily 1117 01:03:17,120 --> 01:03:20,520 Speaker 4: that you seek Jesus. The earliest and best documents we 1118 01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:24,680 Speaker 4: have on him are the documents contained in the New Testament. Matthew, 1119 01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:28,320 Speaker 4: Mark Luke, and John the Apostle. Paul was a contemporary 1120 01:03:28,320 --> 01:03:31,440 Speaker 4: of Jesus, born about the same time he wrote about Jesus. 1121 01:03:31,840 --> 01:03:34,360 Speaker 4: I'd say go back to these documents if you are 1122 01:03:34,520 --> 01:03:39,320 Speaker 4: searching for reality. And spiritual things and for meaning in 1123 01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:45,960 Speaker 4: life beyond this material world. Seek Jesus, and yes, read 1124 01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:48,120 Speaker 4: my books. I've tried to do the best I could 1125 01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:52,200 Speaker 4: on researching the best research and giving it to you 1126 01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:55,760 Speaker 4: in a way that's understandable and actually readable. So I 1127 01:03:55,840 --> 01:03:58,720 Speaker 4: think I've given people a way to search with plenty 1128 01:03:58,720 --> 01:03:59,520 Speaker 4: of documentation. 1129 01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:01,720 Speaker 1: If you want to go further, you definitely have. 1130 01:04:01,800 --> 01:04:03,840 Speaker 2: And I had one last question for somebody as we've 1131 01:04:03,880 --> 01:04:08,200 Speaker 2: answered this, But if somebody says, hey, can I talk 1132 01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:08,920 Speaker 2: to you outside? 1133 01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:11,560 Speaker 3: I have an experience to share with you. 1134 01:04:12,200 --> 01:04:16,480 Speaker 2: Here somebody say something conversation that suggests a near death experience, 1135 01:04:17,160 --> 01:04:19,760 Speaker 2: where we talk with a kid that starts talking about 1136 01:04:19,840 --> 01:04:23,040 Speaker 2: certain things. You might be tempted to write off as 1137 01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:25,960 Speaker 2: just imagination, But now that you've heard this, you think 1138 01:04:26,560 --> 01:04:30,040 Speaker 2: maybe they had an experience that was a near death experience. 1139 01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:34,880 Speaker 2: How should we respond just pastorally and practically to people 1140 01:04:35,520 --> 01:04:38,080 Speaker 2: who have that kind of experience. 1141 01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:41,680 Speaker 4: Biblically, be quick to hear and slow to speak, amen 1142 01:04:42,440 --> 01:04:46,480 Speaker 4: ask them questions. I hate it when somebody gets back 1143 01:04:46,520 --> 01:04:50,080 Speaker 4: from the mission field and people I'll hear a report 1144 01:04:50,160 --> 01:04:52,520 Speaker 4: and then never ask them anything else about it. This 1145 01:04:52,600 --> 01:04:55,560 Speaker 4: may be the most important thing in the person's life. Well, 1146 01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:59,240 Speaker 4: these people have been to the other side. I'm calling 1147 01:04:59,280 --> 01:05:01,200 Speaker 4: it the other side. I don't want to talk about 1148 01:05:01,360 --> 01:05:04,360 Speaker 4: as if it's the final New Heavens and New Earth 1149 01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:05,320 Speaker 4: or something like that. 1150 01:05:05,400 --> 01:05:07,760 Speaker 1: But they've they've been on the other side. They've talked 1151 01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:10,680 Speaker 1: to the deceased, they've had maybe had a life review. 1152 01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:13,640 Speaker 4: This is by far the most important thing that's ever 1153 01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:16,960 Speaker 4: happened to them. Talk to them about it. Let's listen 1154 01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:20,240 Speaker 4: to them, ask them more questions. What I find is 1155 01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:23,120 Speaker 4: that often they'll kind of just say, well, I had 1156 01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:27,920 Speaker 4: an experience like that once. They're just testing you to see, okay, 1157 01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:30,480 Speaker 4: if you're going to change the subject, they're not going 1158 01:05:30,560 --> 01:05:32,520 Speaker 4: to go there. Some of the people that tell me 1159 01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:35,040 Speaker 4: that this about their experiences will say, you're the only 1160 01:05:35,080 --> 01:05:38,320 Speaker 4: person I've ever told about this. They're so so afraid 1161 01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:40,000 Speaker 4: people will think they're crazy. 1162 01:05:40,600 --> 01:05:42,520 Speaker 1: So ask them more questions. 1163 01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:44,520 Speaker 4: Taught them and say, you know, I'd like to talk 1164 01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:46,280 Speaker 4: more about this in the future. 1165 01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:47,800 Speaker 1: Would you mind talking to me more? 1166 01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:50,360 Speaker 4: And what you'll find is this is just a wonderful 1167 01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:55,040 Speaker 4: ministry opportunity because typically they haven't found anybody that wants 1168 01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:58,080 Speaker 4: to carry on a conversation about this, or you could say, 1169 01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:00,200 Speaker 4: you know, I need to study this more. Is I 1170 01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:03,160 Speaker 4: research and read more on it? Can I come back 1171 01:06:03,200 --> 01:06:05,400 Speaker 4: to you and talk to you about their experience? So 1172 01:06:05,560 --> 01:06:11,680 Speaker 4: often I've been shocked at people in my church that 1173 01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:14,040 Speaker 4: that I'll begin talking to about this and they'll say, oh, 1174 01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:15,880 Speaker 4: let me tell you about my experience. 1175 01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:18,240 Speaker 1: And I'll talk to them there. 1176 01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:21,520 Speaker 4: But then I'll write down some more thoughts about it 1177 01:06:21,560 --> 01:06:23,560 Speaker 4: that I want to ask, and I'll say, okay, well is. 1178 01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:25,800 Speaker 1: This like fairly real? 1179 01:06:26,040 --> 01:06:30,040 Speaker 4: Was this as real as you know, a vivid dream? 1180 01:06:30,320 --> 01:06:33,280 Speaker 4: What degree of reality was it? And They'll come back 1181 01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:34,200 Speaker 4: and say, oh, it was. 1182 01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:35,200 Speaker 1: It was real. 1183 01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:41,560 Speaker 4: It was just as us talking here today. And I 1184 01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:44,720 Speaker 4: asked them those questions, and it still to this day 1185 01:06:44,920 --> 01:06:47,640 Speaker 4: it just seems sends shivers down my spine when I 1186 01:06:47,680 --> 01:06:52,120 Speaker 4: have people I know and trust get them talking. Listen, 1187 01:06:52,200 --> 01:06:54,400 Speaker 4: We've got a lot to learn from these people, Steve. 1188 01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:56,640 Speaker 2: There's a lot of reasons why I enjoy having you 1189 01:06:56,680 --> 01:06:58,080 Speaker 2: on as a guests. One of the things you do 1190 01:06:58,200 --> 01:07:00,360 Speaker 2: is you go back through as many of the comments 1191 01:07:00,360 --> 01:07:03,200 Speaker 2: as you can, and you respond to skeptics as you 1192 01:07:03,240 --> 01:07:04,240 Speaker 2: can with questions. 1193 01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:06,680 Speaker 3: You hear people's stories, give them counsel. 1194 01:07:07,200 --> 01:07:09,320 Speaker 2: So, as I've said on some of the previous videos, 1195 01:07:09,360 --> 01:07:12,240 Speaker 2: if people listening had a near death experience, if you 1196 01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:16,600 Speaker 2: saw somebody have a deathbed experience, especially if you had 1197 01:07:16,640 --> 01:07:21,160 Speaker 2: one as a child, please share it here. Lie Strouble 1198 01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:24,920 Speaker 2: interviewed you for his book on Seeing the Supernatural, and 1199 01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:27,240 Speaker 2: one of his responses of looking through some of my 1200 01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:31,480 Speaker 2: videos interviewing you was he expected all this criticism and attack, 1201 01:07:31,520 --> 01:07:35,160 Speaker 2: and it was story after story after story of people 1202 01:07:35,240 --> 01:07:37,800 Speaker 2: sharing and in many cases saying, this is the first 1203 01:07:37,800 --> 01:07:40,640 Speaker 2: time I've shared. Thanks for listening, thanks for giving me 1204 01:07:40,680 --> 01:07:44,200 Speaker 2: a platform. So please comment with a story below. We 1205 01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:47,400 Speaker 2: would love to hear your account on this video. Now 1206 01:07:47,400 --> 01:07:49,360 Speaker 2: you and I are about to shift because we have 1207 01:07:49,840 --> 01:07:52,440 Speaker 2: about eight or ten students in studio that are in 1208 01:07:52,480 --> 01:07:56,040 Speaker 2: a class right now called after Life Apologetics that you 1209 01:07:56,080 --> 01:07:59,040 Speaker 2: are teaching with me here at Top School Theology. Now 1210 01:07:59,040 --> 01:08:02,600 Speaker 2: this will not be aired our interaction, so people listening 1211 01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:04,160 Speaker 2: to this are going, wait a minute, how do I 1212 01:08:04,200 --> 01:08:06,240 Speaker 2: get it in on this? And the answer is you 1213 01:08:06,440 --> 01:08:10,160 Speaker 2: join us in theme Apologize program here at Talbot School 1214 01:08:10,160 --> 01:08:13,760 Speaker 2: of Theology. This is a class we want to teach again. 1215 01:08:13,880 --> 01:08:17,040 Speaker 2: So if you're listening. You're fascinated by this, pick up 1216 01:08:17,080 --> 01:08:19,479 Speaker 2: Steve's books. That's a great place to start. I've actually 1217 01:08:19,560 --> 01:08:22,479 Speaker 2: just yesterday, as we're recording this, created a playlist that 1218 01:08:22,560 --> 01:08:25,920 Speaker 2: has all of our interviews on near death experiences, as 1219 01:08:25,920 --> 01:08:29,599 Speaker 2: well as Sabon and von Lamel and Jeffrey Long and 1220 01:08:29,720 --> 01:08:32,599 Speaker 2: John Burke, some of the leaders in this. For people 1221 01:08:32,600 --> 01:08:35,519 Speaker 2: who want to go back and study, we have crossed 1222 01:08:35,640 --> 01:08:37,800 Speaker 2: almost every t and dotted the eyes and if you 1223 01:08:37,800 --> 01:08:40,040 Speaker 2: have some ideas, wait a minute, somebody hasn't done this 1224 01:08:40,200 --> 01:08:43,200 Speaker 2: on near death experiences. Let us know and maybe we'll 1225 01:08:43,200 --> 01:08:44,800 Speaker 2: revisit it if we could do it in a way 1226 01:08:44,880 --> 01:08:48,799 Speaker 2: that would be helpful. Steve always enjoys gives your email 1227 01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:51,200 Speaker 2: one more time. For people who would want a PDF 1228 01:08:51,200 --> 01:08:51,879 Speaker 2: of your boss. 1229 01:08:51,720 --> 01:08:52,800 Speaker 1: Sure the letter J J. 1230 01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:57,200 Speaker 4: Steve Miller at gmail dot com and yeah, let me 1231 01:08:57,240 --> 01:08:59,200 Speaker 4: know if you need a copy. I send them out 1232 01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:03,640 Speaker 4: and appreciate your candid input. We have good conversations. 1233 01:09:03,880 --> 01:09:04,840 Speaker 3: You're awesome. 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