1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: Merry Christmas to everybody out there, and also happy New Year. 2 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:08,480 Speaker 1: I'll explain why I'm wishing you a merry Christmas like 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 1: three weeks early or happy New Year three weeks early. 4 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 1: Here in a second, bless us everyone, all of you, 5 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: thanks for being here at the New World, those whole 6 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:20,320 Speaker 1: podcast welcoming in my beautiful wife and her smurfit outfit 7 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 1: not very Christmas in mama. 8 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 2: Potato all over the shoulder. I realized that when I 9 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 2: sat down. 10 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: Little Shadow take care of that, no problem, and shout 11 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: that out. Don't you don't have the Christmas sweater on 12 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 1: this week. But if all of you will make note 13 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 1: of the back of our table here, you will see 14 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 1: that we have a Christmas tree. Darryl is also wearing 15 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: his Uh Santa hat, so the back of the table 16 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 1: is far more festive than mama is. 17 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 3: Christmas. Also, well, sometimes there's Hanukah. 18 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: What does that have to do with blue? Sure ye 19 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: shout shout out to all of our Jewish friends out there. 20 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 2: Not only when you go in the hobby lobby, there's 21 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 2: elf on a shelf, menh on a bench. 22 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:05,480 Speaker 3: There's like red and green, then there's the blue. 23 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: No fest of this poll I'm just saying, okay, okay. 24 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:12,040 Speaker 1: We had a Christmas party that we actually had the 25 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 1: honor of being invited to and that we attended last 26 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: night for CCC, the Childhood Cancer Coalition. So many of 27 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: you are out there are where the fact that we've 28 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,400 Speaker 1: been doing this fundraiser with them on an annual basis 29 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 1: over the last five years now, which is crazy. We 30 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:28,199 Speaker 1: had a really good time. What'd you make of the party? 31 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 3: It was good. 32 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:31,400 Speaker 2: It was nice to see the kids outside of their 33 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:35,040 Speaker 2: not their element, I mean, not that the hospital's their element, 34 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,040 Speaker 2: but it's such a great opportunity for the kids to 35 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 2: get out of their hospital beds or to get out 36 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 2: of their homes where they're kind of quarantined, and then 37 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 2: all be together. 38 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 3: There were little kiddos that were hooked. 39 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 2: Up to oxygen or in wagons or being carted around, 40 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 2: and then there's other kids that were in recovery. So 41 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 2: it was all different kinds of families that are at 42 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 2: different stages of this whole thing, and it's just really 43 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 2: nice that they are able to go. And there's gifts 44 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 2: and face painting and fun lunch and Santa Claus and. 45 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: Games and c three po. 46 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, a bunch of star adults, different characters. 47 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 1: And Johnny Johnny Depp dressed up as I wish it 48 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: was Johnny Depp Pirates of the Caribbean. Yeah, so it 49 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 1: was a lot of fun. We were honored to be invited. 50 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 1: Like I said, we don't get invited to a lot 51 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 1: of holiday parties. 52 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 2: We used to get invited to a lot of holiday 53 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 2: parties and then we just stand against the wall and 54 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:25,520 Speaker 2: not talk to anyone. 55 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 1: But the big part of it was, like you mentioned, 56 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 1: it was great to uh just see a lot of 57 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 1: these kids and interact with some of their families. We 58 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:32,799 Speaker 1: did a little bit of filming there, so you guys 59 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: will see that. We were trying not to be too 60 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 1: intrusive with the cameras though, because we had so many 61 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: kids there and other families and so that's something we 62 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: always try to be mindful and respectful of. But it 63 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: was great to be able to show up with our 64 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 1: massive check with a grand total which was record setting 65 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 1: this year without letting all of you know exactly how much. 66 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, that vlog is coming out on Saturday, so you 67 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 2: guys have to wait, but it was pretty exciting. 68 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I will say collectively, now we have raised over 69 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: a quarter of a million dollars for CCC, which is 70 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:08,119 Speaker 1: mind boggling. Yeah, and again I don't want to put 71 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 1: the total out here. You guys off the watch we're 72 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 1: on Good Simple Living to find out. But it was 73 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: just yet another just great reminder of the fact that 74 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:18,079 Speaker 1: the Internet isn't all bad. We have an amazing community. 75 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 1: Big thanks to all of you out there for supporting 76 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 1: us once again in these efforts, because it's all of 77 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: you who do this. 78 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys have it. 79 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 2: It's such a huge difference in so many lives, and 80 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 2: when you get to see the kids and the families. 81 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 2: I mean, there was like so many moms that I 82 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 2: went up to and just were speaking with and just 83 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 2: as soon as they start even talking. 84 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 3: Like there was one little girl and I was like, oh, 85 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 3: your hair looks so cute because their hair just started. 86 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 2: Kind of growing back, and Mom's like it's just been 87 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 2: so hard, and like they just start crying, like their 88 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 2: lives are so. 89 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: Impacting me challenging. 90 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 3: Right now, and the journey so long. 91 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 2: I mean, we've got friends who's daughters in recovery and 92 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 2: you know, she's been in recovery for over two years now, 93 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 2: and they're still just in a daily battle with all 94 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 2: of the health lingerings. 95 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 3: There's so many challenges that linger. 96 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 2: It's not like your child gets pediatric cancer and then 97 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 2: they do their treatment and they're better when they ring 98 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 2: that bell, like they have a whole journey ahead of them, 99 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:22,159 Speaker 2: and so CCC really just follows them and make sure 100 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 2: that they're held and cared for. And so it was 101 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 2: really nice to see so many of the families. 102 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 1: To see the families. There was a mountain of Lutos there, 103 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 1: and there was. 104 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 2: There was you guys donated so many maybe be Luto 105 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 2: books and stuffies, and they made a big Christmas tree 106 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 2: by Santa and they stuffed the stuffed animal Lutos in it, 107 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:44,480 Speaker 2: so he was the ornament on the tree. And then 108 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 2: every time that one of the children went out to 109 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 2: see Santa Claus, they got the book and Ludo, which 110 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 2: they kept calling a teddy bear. 111 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 1: I was like. 112 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:56,479 Speaker 3: The MC was like, get your teddy bears. I was 113 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 3: like dog. 114 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,119 Speaker 1: No. But it was so cool. We had a great time. 115 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 1: And again big thanks to all of you out there 116 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: for helping with these with the fundraising effort and then 117 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: supporting Melissa in the process, because this is the lifelong 118 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: dream of hers for this children's book. It's been so 119 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 1: cool to receive messages from a lot of you out 120 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 1: there actually handling the book. 121 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 2: I love the pictures. So many of you guys aren't 122 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 2: waiting for Christmas. There was so many that were like, oh, 123 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 2: it was supposed to be a Christmas gift, but I 124 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 2: gave it to her. 125 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 1: But raise reviews and a lot of people, you know, 126 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 1: showing their grandkids or their kids, or their nieces and 127 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 1: nephews saying a lot the book is great. It's really cool, 128 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 1: just full circle. And again, so proud of you for 129 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:41,279 Speaker 1: taking this opportunity to know and do something cool for 130 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:44,920 Speaker 1: yourself because this was a dream of Also forwarding all 131 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: of the proceeds to CCC. Yeah, big thanks again to 132 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:49,159 Speaker 1: all of you out there, and so hope for helping 133 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 1: out with all of this. 134 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I did not need Like making money off the 135 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 2: book was never a thing. I didn't want to do that. 136 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:56,839 Speaker 2: That's not why I wanted to write a book. I 137 00:05:56,880 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 2: just always wanted to write a book. I would have 138 00:05:58,480 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 2: paid to write a book. 139 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 3: Brave's like, wait what. 140 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:05,159 Speaker 2: So it was really nice to be able to do 141 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 2: something good with a lifelong dream and so you guys 142 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:10,720 Speaker 2: supported it. This never would have become a thing without you, 143 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 2: and so it was great. And I love doing it 144 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 2: with Brave because they're such an amazing, amazing group of 145 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:17,480 Speaker 2: people over there. 146 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 3: They've become like my friends. 147 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:23,720 Speaker 2: We share baby pictures and so it's just really great. 148 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 2: I'm gonna miss having our Monday calls with them, and 149 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 2: it's been so fun. I mean, it's not totally over yet. 150 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:31,359 Speaker 2: You can still you can order the book forever. Brave's 151 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 2: is always going to carry it. And but the plushies, 152 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 2: I think there's only like fifty left in existence, so 153 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 2: if you order by the twelfth, you can still get 154 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:43,159 Speaker 2: them in time for Christmas, but then it's over after that. 155 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 2: But you do have a couple extra days to join 156 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 2: their Book of the Month club, and I really really 157 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:50,840 Speaker 2: recommend that you guys do that because I'm being this, 158 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 2: I'm being kind of like a narc about like read 159 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 2: to your children, guys, Like let's go, like I want everyone. 160 00:06:58,080 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 3: To start reading again to their children. 161 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 2: Always read to our kids, and it's something that they 162 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 2: really remember now that they're older. 163 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 3: I hope they'll read to their children. 164 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 2: But we need to bring fun books back into our 165 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 2: homes And when I go to Target or something like 166 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 2: that and I'm looking through children's books, I always have 167 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 2: to scan them and make sure there's not there's so 168 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 2: many weird agendas and books nowadays, and you don't have 169 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 2: to worry about that ever. With Brave, they're always instilling 170 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 2: really great values like sanctity of life, liberty, humility. 171 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 1: Good life. 172 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, just everything that you want your kids to learn 173 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 2: and nothing that you don't want your kids to learn. 174 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 3: That you just don't have to worry. 175 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 2: And their books are really well made, and I love 176 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 2: that we get a new one every single month. And 177 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 2: then it's kind of this adventure that you go on. 178 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 2: You get this big map and then every time you 179 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 2: get a book, there's a little location sticker and all 180 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 2: of the characters it's this ongoing storyline. They all live 181 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 2: in this land, and then you put all the stickers on. 182 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 2: Eli's all into it. Eli loves his every time he 183 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 2: looks for the stickers and he gets his map out 184 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 2: and he sticks them on. So it's a fun journey. 185 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 2: And then every time a new book, it's another continuation 186 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 2: of the journey, and. 187 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 3: So it's really really cool. But the books are all. 188 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 2: I mean they're also like standalone books and I love them, 189 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 2: so I definitely think you guys should bring them into 190 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 2: your home. All you have to do is click car 191 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 2: link down below or go to Brave books dot com 192 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 2: slash gsl and you have until the fifteenth in order 193 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 2: to get the book one of the books in time 194 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 2: for Christmas, and then every month your child or grandchild 195 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 2: will get a book. Plus you're going to get a 196 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 2: free copy of Mad Bludo. Plus Brave is going to 197 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 2: donate twenty dollars for every single subscription to the Childhood 198 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 2: Cancer Coalition. They never stop giving. They just it's so amazing. 199 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 2: So they're such a great company to support this Christmas. 200 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, a great company. And we'll say that parts of 201 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 1: us even working with Brave Books, we were huge fans 202 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 1: of them, and yeah, they're very reputable in space and 203 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 1: which is why you were so honored to be approached 204 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 1: with the opportunity book with them. Also, they donated as well, so. 205 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:54,080 Speaker 3: They help huge, donated huge. 206 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: They contribute to our grand total which one over CCC, 207 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: so big. Thanks to Brave Books out there. If you're 208 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:02,079 Speaker 1: watching and we're listening, so I appreciate you guys. How 209 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 1: cool was it for us to walk back in the 210 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 1: house and you saw Eli actually reading me to just. 211 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 2: Walked in the house about an hour ago and Eli 212 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 2: was on the couch actually reading the. 213 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 1: Book and did a proud mom moment for you. 214 00:09:13,840 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. I know, well, I mean kind of because then 215 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 3: he was like, I haven't read it yet. What. 216 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:22,080 Speaker 1: But it's been so neat to see all of you 217 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 1: out there handling the book, reading the book, giving it 218 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 1: to positive reviews. Thank you for that. But that's where 219 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:28,839 Speaker 1: we are with the book and the Christmas party and 220 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:29,720 Speaker 1: everything with CCC. 221 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:33,359 Speaker 3: So yes, stay tuned on Saturday. It's really really. 222 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:35,080 Speaker 1: Good where we ended up at as far as the 223 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 1: fundraiser goes. Thank you so much once again for your 224 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:40,960 Speaker 1: continued support. All that out of the way. What's on 225 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 1: your mind, mama, what's happening? Oh man? 226 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:49,440 Speaker 2: Really, what's on my mind is just trying to focus 227 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:52,200 Speaker 2: on the holidays and the family and that's been a 228 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 2: little challenging to do with all of the I mean, 229 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:58,839 Speaker 2: this year, we have Micah, we wrote the book, which 230 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:01,559 Speaker 2: had a lot of you know, different things behind it, 231 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 2: and then as far as work, yeah, and then we're 232 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 2: doing the podcast and we're doing good simple living and 233 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 2: then I had all this health stuff pop up, which 234 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:11,960 Speaker 2: kind of slowed me down. 235 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 3: I really don't like the medication. It makes me feel 236 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:16,080 Speaker 3: really lucky. 237 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:16,959 Speaker 1: And that's act. 238 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 2: I feel like I was doing better before I started 239 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 2: the meds. The level curse, yeah, the level, And now 240 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 2: I'm actually struggling more with brain fog. Brain fog is 241 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 2: so bad right now podcasting when you can't put the 242 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:31,719 Speaker 2: words in the. 243 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 1: Sentences, so saying no excuses. 244 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:34,679 Speaker 3: Coming, oh my gosh. 245 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 1: Yeah no, but it's caused us to where it's with 246 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 1: it being the end of the year and with us 247 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 1: taking this downtime. A big part of why it is 248 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: we're taking this additional downtime for the holidays is because 249 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 1: we just in having private discussions Melissa and I, we 250 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 1: we've really tried to We've reached a point where just 251 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 1: like we have maybe have to tweak our priorities and 252 00:10:57,240 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 1: make sure that we're watching after our family and making 253 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:03,560 Speaker 1: sure that we are establishing core memories with our kids. 254 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:07,319 Speaker 1: And so for that reason, there may be some slight adjustments. 255 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:10,320 Speaker 1: We're not like overhauling and revamping everything that we've done 256 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 1: that you guys have become so accustomed to. We're just 257 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 1: making sure that we're keeping God and family first. 258 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, when we first moved out here, So we've been 259 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,320 Speaker 2: on the platform almost six years now, and we first 260 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 2: moved out here, we didn't take a single week where 261 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 2: we didn't post for four years. I mean even when 262 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 2: we got COVID, when we still filmed the infuot of Logout, 263 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 2: because it was just something that we felt like, Okay, 264 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 2: we have to do this, we have. 265 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 3: To do this. 266 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 1: Can you explain some of your reasoning behind that? 267 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 2: Maybe I think it was just because we were trying 268 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 2: to build something, not. 269 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 1: Only the house, I'm gonna say desperation, the. 270 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:50,080 Speaker 2: Channel, and we were living in the tiny home. We 271 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 2: didn't have a toilet, like, we didn't have the luxury 272 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 2: of taking a week off. 273 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 3: Coming from a. 274 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 1: Place of desperation, it was like, this happens no matter what. 275 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, And now that we have been doing this for 276 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 2: so long, we've kind of been watching a lot of 277 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 2: people reflecting on their journey. 278 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 3: People that have been posting for five. 279 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 2: Years or seven years or ten years that are just disappearing. 280 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 2: They just they hit a wall, they burn out, and 281 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 2: then they're just like we're done right, and they just 282 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 2: shut it all down and I don't want that to 283 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 2: happen to us, and I don't want to ever get 284 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 2: to that point, but I see how people get there, 285 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:26,959 Speaker 2: and so I think it's just wise if we reevaluate 286 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:29,680 Speaker 2: everything and say, okay, we're going to really focus on 287 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 2: things that we're very passionate about, and we're going to 288 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 2: do like a little bit more family stuff, and if 289 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 2: we take a week off here or there, that's okay. 290 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 3: Like it's okay to take the week off. 291 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:45,960 Speaker 2: So in the past, I've posted the week of Christmas 292 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 2: on Goods Simple Living, and I was saying, this year, 293 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 2: let's just. 294 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:50,319 Speaker 3: Let's just watch movies. 295 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 1: Let's not do that. 296 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:53,840 Speaker 2: Let's just not because trying to get a video out 297 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 2: on Christmas Eve or something is kind of crazy. Plus 298 00:12:56,920 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 2: I think even the audience wants to be with their 299 00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 2: family and stuff. So let's just save it and we'll 300 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 2: start going again. So Good Simple Living we're going to 301 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 2: keep posting up until Christmas. We're gonna take the week 302 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 2: of Christmas off, but here on the podcast, we're gonna 303 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 2: take a little bit longer of a break, and then 304 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 2: we'll hit the ground going on New you know, with 305 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 2: New Year's But yeah, there's gonna be a week here 306 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 2: there next year where it's if we're going to go 307 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:22,559 Speaker 2: on a little trip or something that we don't want 308 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 2: to film, it's okay to take a break. 309 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 3: I'm gonna I'm gonna, yes. 310 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 2: I think even though like the biopsy and waiting on 311 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 2: pathology results and everything, even though it came back positive, 312 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:40,320 Speaker 2: it was like a harbing trip. 313 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:42,080 Speaker 3: Well, I mean, it. 314 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:47,680 Speaker 2: Came back with like a positive outcome. It was a 315 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:51,199 Speaker 2: wake up call to me that if it hadn't come 316 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:54,320 Speaker 2: back that way, because I mean I actually had people 317 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 2: where I was like, oh, praise Scott. It came back good, 318 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:57,560 Speaker 2: and they said, well, would you have praise Goot if 319 00:13:57,559 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 2: it didn't? And I thought that was a really interesting 320 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 2: question and a very fair question. And to that I 321 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 2: would say, like, geez, I don't know if I'd like, 322 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 2: you're supposed to praise God in the storms, you know, but. 323 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:11,559 Speaker 1: You are supposed to. Yeah, but it's a much more 324 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 1: challenging thing. 325 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 2: I think it would have been like, Okay, I know 326 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 2: you have a plan for this. I mean, I don't 327 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 2: know that I would be like excited about it, obviously, 328 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 2: but I would. 329 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 3: Believe that there was a plan for it, and I 330 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:24,000 Speaker 3: would trust him in it. 331 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 2: So, but it was a wake up call to start 332 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 2: living more intentionally and to arrest a little bit more 333 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 2: and take some downtime, because yeah. 334 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 1: It was a weird up and down year for us. 335 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 1: Michael's born in April. You had all of your health 336 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 1: struggles pretty much through the entirety of the fall, and 337 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 1: all of it just kind of made me personally reflect 338 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:53,120 Speaker 1: and analyze and evaluate and go, what the heck are 339 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 1: we doing here? 340 00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:58,240 Speaker 2: Well, it wasn't just me, like others like Nevella, she 341 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 2: has a more challenging diagnosis than me. I mean, hers 342 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 2: is really challenging. And then she found out that she's 343 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 2: got a bunch of other vitamin mineral deficiencies and she 344 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 2: can't absorb those things, so she has to do infusions now, 345 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 2: and she has to be really really careful about where 346 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 2: she eats, so it's very difficult to go places with her. 347 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 2: She has to travel for her work, and she just 348 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 2: struggles to be able to eat at any kind of 349 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 2: a restaurant because a cross contamination. She can literally end 350 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 2: up in the hospital if she gets gluten and it 351 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 2: can cause like all kinds of damage. And then we 352 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 2: also found out that my mother had skin cancer on 353 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 2: top of that, like all at the same time. And 354 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 2: then my mom got diagnosed with the same autoimmune disease 355 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 2: as me because I just saw the symptoms that she 356 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 2: was having that her doctor wasn't recognizing. And then when 357 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 2: I finally said, Mom, I think you have achimotives too, 358 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 2: she went and got tested and did. 359 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 1: So. 360 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 2: There we were just hit from a bunch of different 361 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 2: angles all in the same week. 362 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it makes you stop and think health struggles 363 00:15:58,840 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 1: will do that here or there are so many out 364 00:16:01,200 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 1: there that have experienced out yourself. But for us, like 365 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 1: I said, we came out here with the desperation of like, hey, 366 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 1: no matter what, no excuses make this happen. And that's 367 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 1: not necessarily the right mentality to maintain over an extended 368 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 1: period of time. Not only sustainable, it's not sustainable and 369 00:16:15,160 --> 00:16:18,360 Speaker 1: it's just not healthy. It's not keeping your priorities in 370 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 1: the right place. And it goes beyond like Michael being 371 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 1: born and you having these health struggles, like you know, 372 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 1: I told you in the house, like take a look 373 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 1: at the kids, and this is like a midlife crisis 374 00:16:29,280 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 1: type of thing I had that I think a lot 375 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 1: of people deal with but it's like the kids are 376 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:34,320 Speaker 1: getting older and the Vela is going to be a 377 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 1: full blown, like independent about I mean, she's going to 378 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 1: be twenty she's already operating that way. She's twenty years old. 379 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 1: We have this brand new baby, and the rest of 380 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 1: our kids are getting older seemingly out of like it's 381 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 1: it's mind boggling, like we're constantly playing catch up as 382 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 1: parents because I'm like, how are you turning sixteen? I 383 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 1: don't worry about you driving? Kira comes right after that. 384 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 1: They look different on like a monthly basis. At this point, 385 00:16:57,040 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 1: we have this group of we're gonna have a full 386 00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:02,120 Speaker 1: blown with the child and three teenagers here in the 387 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:06,320 Speaker 1: next couple of years. Time and a baby and a 388 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:08,440 Speaker 1: baby and just time is a really weird thing, and 389 00:17:08,640 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 1: you know, it's it's it's finite. We've pointed this out 390 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 1: here before. This isn't something that applies to just us. 391 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 1: But because of that, it's just it's kind of been 392 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:18,800 Speaker 1: like it's kind of been messing with me quite honestly, like, hey, 393 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: what are we what are we doing here? We need 394 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 1: a clearer vision for ourselves and our lives moving forward 395 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:27,359 Speaker 1: and making sure that we are prioritizing making memories with 396 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:29,159 Speaker 1: our kids, spending time with our kids, having these important 397 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:31,560 Speaker 1: conversations with our kids. So that's kind of where we're 398 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 1: at home. Yeah, what changes might be intolent moving forward here, 399 00:17:34,960 --> 00:17:36,120 Speaker 1: just for the sake of clarity. 400 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:38,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like, you should have that work hard, 401 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 2: play hard mentality. But we just worked hard and then 402 00:17:42,040 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 2: we played a couple times a year, but it wasn't enough. 403 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 1: That's something that like I've always kind of taken pride in. 404 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:49,119 Speaker 1: We're not supposed to be prideful, but it's something that like, 405 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:50,639 Speaker 1: you know, we're hard working people and that's great, but 406 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 1: it shouldn't mean that that things that should be of 407 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:56,720 Speaker 1: the most importance fall to the wayside. 408 00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. 409 00:17:57,160 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 2: So yeah, because you know, things can change and. 410 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 3: Then what was you know, what was it all for? 411 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 2: And so we're starting with this Christmas by just kind 412 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:11,159 Speaker 2: of taking some downtime. I think it's really good, and 413 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:14,119 Speaker 2: then we really want to reevaluate everything that we're doing. 414 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 3: And I think, like even. 415 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:21,920 Speaker 2: Here on the podcast, this has been such a fun project. 416 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:26,399 Speaker 2: One hundred episodes, one hundred episodes, one hundred episodes. We 417 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:30,600 Speaker 2: have talked to some incredible people, but then you know, 418 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 2: we don't just do this for us, Like we love 419 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,200 Speaker 2: sitting down with really interesting people. We've got to sit 420 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 2: down with some incredible, incredible people. I can't believe that 421 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:41,760 Speaker 2: we were able to sit across from and have conversations with. 422 00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:44,199 Speaker 2: But is this something that you guys, like, do you 423 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 2: enjoy the guest episodes? And I mean, if so, we'll 424 00:18:48,320 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 2: we'll keep doing guest episodes. But if it's something that 425 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 2: you guys don't really enjoy, we don't have. 426 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 1: So viewer input. We really value the input from all 427 00:18:57,600 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 1: of you because you're the ones that keep this thing, 428 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:03,840 Speaker 1: you know, up and running, so to speak. So let 429 00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 1: us know down in the comments what you think we're 430 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 1: literally asking for. 431 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:10,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, or if there's any guests, and I mean, let's 432 00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:12,960 Speaker 2: keep this reasonable. Sometimes people are like you need to 433 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 2: get j D bounce on. We're like, okay, we'll call 434 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:16,440 Speaker 2: them at home. 435 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 1: We love the podcast, we love doing this and it's 436 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:20,919 Speaker 1: been such an amazing experience and it just forwarded us 437 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 1: like like just incredible opportunities along the way as far 438 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 1: as guests go, Like we've had some of you express 439 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 1: that we don't enjoy the guest episodes, which is fine, 440 00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:31,720 Speaker 1: not to say that we won't do them, but we 441 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 1: might re evaluate who we have on how we go 442 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:38,399 Speaker 1: about it. It can't just always be listening and I 443 00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:42,920 Speaker 1: in here. It can be. It's just less I mean, honestly, 444 00:19:43,040 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 1: full transparency. That's just less interesting for us because we 445 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 1: do enjoy getting to know other people and having the 446 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:50,920 Speaker 1: opportunity to speak to Ben Carson. 447 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:52,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's so many interesting people. 448 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 2: So if there's somebody that you guys want to see, 449 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:56,879 Speaker 2: or there's a subject so you want us to tackle, 450 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:59,200 Speaker 2: let us know, because we can start compiling the list 451 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:00,719 Speaker 2: for next year, can start going out. 452 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:03,199 Speaker 1: Also, just the general format of the show. Again, we 453 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:05,119 Speaker 1: kind of do this for ourselves every year, but we 454 00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:08,120 Speaker 1: don't always wrap you guys into it as far as 455 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:11,159 Speaker 1: trying to implement new changes. But with anything, let us 456 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:13,040 Speaker 1: know down the conversation, whether it be just the general 457 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:15,760 Speaker 1: format of the show, the schedule of the show, what 458 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:17,880 Speaker 1: more we could be doing, what lest we should be doing, 459 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 1: should we be having guests on what types of topics 460 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:24,640 Speaker 1: should we be tackling? Let us know down the comments. 461 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then on good Simple Living, we'ds it's kind 462 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:31,320 Speaker 2: of a full circle moment for us. So we started 463 00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:33,560 Speaker 2: growing our own food and being self sustaining and all 464 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 2: of that, and then that kind of fell the wayside 465 00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 2: when we were building, and now I feel like we're 466 00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:41,119 Speaker 2: kind of going around and back to that, which I love. 467 00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:44,680 Speaker 2: But we've got some other builds that we have on 468 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:47,720 Speaker 2: the horizon. Also, it's just the middle of winter right now, 469 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 2: so we're going to be tackling a whole bunch of stuff. 470 00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 2: And then as soon as spring comes, we have some 471 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 2: really interesting things. 472 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 3: And then we've contemplated starting this. 473 00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:01,399 Speaker 2: Whole nother big build, but we haven't totally decided on 474 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:03,479 Speaker 2: it yet, so we have a lot of things up 475 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:03,880 Speaker 2: in the air. 476 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:07,120 Speaker 3: And it's just we've. 477 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 2: Always built this property to be what we want it 478 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 2: to be for the future, for our family, for our 479 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 2: family coming back to it. So it's kind of a 480 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:18,480 Speaker 2: legacy generational property, multi generation. 481 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is what we do. It's what we're dedicated to. 482 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,440 Speaker 1: But to go back to our point, like I told Melissa, 483 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,480 Speaker 1: I'm all for taking on a really massive, like brand 484 00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:29,040 Speaker 1: new build so long as it falls into like our 485 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:31,359 Speaker 1: grander vision for what it is that we want to 486 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 1: shape this place into becoming eventually. But all of that 487 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:40,399 Speaker 1: needs to fall within this plan of making sure that 488 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:42,400 Speaker 1: we are keeping our priorities in check. Like I said, 489 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 1: so even with taking on new builds and new, big, 490 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 1: big projects, that doesn't mean that like taking the boys 491 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,480 Speaker 1: fishing can fall to the wayside, or going for a 492 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 1: hike or taking a family road trip somewhere along the way. 493 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 1: It's it's just a different mindset. And I'm a little 494 00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:58,280 Speaker 1: concerned with you when it comes to this because you 495 00:21:58,320 --> 00:21:59,399 Speaker 1: are a missus busybody. 496 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:01,880 Speaker 2: I like to be busy, but I think I could 497 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:05,320 Speaker 2: be busy with different things. So before I was always busy, 498 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:07,639 Speaker 2: before we even did any of this. With the garden, everything, 499 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 2: we had a pristine garden. I didn't let no weeds 500 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:13,199 Speaker 2: were safe when I was marching around in my boxer 501 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 2: shorts and my coffee. 502 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:16,919 Speaker 3: Cup, and because I had the time to do that 503 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:17,600 Speaker 3: kind of thing. 504 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 2: But then I feel like gardening became not as enjoyable 505 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:22,960 Speaker 2: over the last couple of years because it was always 506 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:25,560 Speaker 2: a mess because we were always building. We were always 507 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 2: working on the house, and then when I would finally 508 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 2: wander into the garden after three or four days, it 509 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:32,679 Speaker 2: was a disaster. And then it just wasn't this. The 510 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,639 Speaker 2: garden was like our church. We walked through there. I 511 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 2: mean it's literally like where we found God. It was 512 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:42,320 Speaker 2: our beautiful happy place, and it was so fun to 513 00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 2: go out there and the cool of the evening, yeah, 514 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:46,679 Speaker 2: and pick things and grab weeds. 515 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,359 Speaker 3: We'd see we'd be like, oh, you know, like mid conversation, our. 516 00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:52,119 Speaker 1: Fellow gardener's out there. You will understand. Our routine was 517 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,160 Speaker 1: a Melissa and I would wake up. I would remain 518 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:56,160 Speaker 1: in my underwear that I slept in, and I would 519 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,119 Speaker 1: grab my coffee and we would go out nature to 520 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 1: the garden and we would take our quote unquote your walks. 521 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:02,960 Speaker 1: I would keep my box of briefs on and I 522 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 1: have my cup of coffee, and we'd go around and 523 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:08,440 Speaker 1: we would just all and revel at like the change 524 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:09,119 Speaker 1: in the garden. 525 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,439 Speaker 2: We'll everything would grow. And then if if there was 526 00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:15,359 Speaker 2: like a single pee that didn't come up, I'd be like, 527 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 2: pee didn't come up, And then I would keep seeds 528 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 2: in my pocket and then i'd you know, replant. And 529 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:23,040 Speaker 2: then we just haven't had that since moving here, and 530 00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:25,240 Speaker 2: I miss it. So I'm excited to get back to 531 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 2: that kind of stuff and have time for it. 532 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,040 Speaker 1: Speaking of some of our ceilings, and the shit are 533 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:33,120 Speaker 1: currently struggling. We need to deal with that. 534 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:37,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, the growing is this has been We'll talk about it. 535 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:39,960 Speaker 2: It's been a living I'm sure this has been a 536 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:42,600 Speaker 2: bit of a challenge. It's a learning experience. 537 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, But we want to get back to I 538 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:46,800 Speaker 1: think I mentioned it on that video, like I want 539 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,080 Speaker 1: to find that love and passion that we had once 540 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 1: again for the things that we are genuinely passionate about, 541 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:55,640 Speaker 1: and I'll make sure that work doesn't necessarily infringe upon 542 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,119 Speaker 1: those things. 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Here, we went out after attending 585 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:41,640 Speaker 1: this Christmas party yesterday, and so we went out to dinner. 586 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:44,359 Speaker 1: We kind of did like our own little family Christmas outing, 587 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:48,199 Speaker 1: and the dinner wasn't that great, And that kind of 588 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,680 Speaker 1: brought about a discussion amongst Melissa and I about how 589 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:53,399 Speaker 1: everything in the world of quality wise, service wise, and 590 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:55,880 Speaker 1: quality wise just doesn't really seem to be up to par. 591 00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 1: And I don't know if this is just us because 592 00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,879 Speaker 1: we are such reclusive sort of people. 593 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:05,280 Speaker 3: I don't think it is. My mom loves loved the 594 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 3: olive garden and now she's like, you know, it's not 595 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 3: very good anymore. 596 00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:10,480 Speaker 1: The olive salad and bird steaks. 597 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:12,639 Speaker 3: So I mean, like, what's happening. 598 00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:15,119 Speaker 2: I don't know if I thought everything going out to 599 00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 2: eat used to be really special, and I remember it 600 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,119 Speaker 2: just being amazing. 601 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 1: It was always look forward to me. 602 00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:24,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you would get food that was just so 603 00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:27,639 Speaker 2: flavorful that you didn't get it home, and and it 604 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 2: was fun. 605 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,000 Speaker 3: And now when I go out to eat, I would 606 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 3: just rather eat it home. 607 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, the food. So you ordered like this, what did 608 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:34,919 Speaker 1: you get yesterday? 609 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:36,400 Speaker 3: I got some kind of. 610 00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:38,640 Speaker 2: I don't know, it was a steak, and Cure gout 611 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:41,040 Speaker 2: the same thing, some kind of like a restaurant steak. 612 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,159 Speaker 1: It was a steak. I mean it looked like a steak, 613 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:47,680 Speaker 1: but it was like Tony Roma's it. 614 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,600 Speaker 2: The x's on it and everything, but you could tell 615 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,240 Speaker 2: it came that way from the freezer. 616 00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:55,120 Speaker 3: And they both looked identical. 617 00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 2: They looked like Plato steaks, you know when you put 618 00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 2: the plato in the steak and then it or the 619 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:01,840 Speaker 2: and the little stake mold and then. 620 00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 1: It made it perfect real marks. Yeah, And I'm not 621 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to. I don't want to knock this 622 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 1: restaurant that we've gone on too, But this is the 623 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:10,160 Speaker 1: place that we actually really enjoyed when we first moved 624 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,120 Speaker 1: here to Idaho. If we were going to go out, 625 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,080 Speaker 1: this was one of the restaurants on the very short 626 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:17,680 Speaker 1: list of places that we enjoyed going out to eat at. 627 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:19,800 Speaker 1: And now the quality. 628 00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 2: Is just well, you can tell all the lettuce is 629 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:24,680 Speaker 2: bagged all of or like if it's sad. 630 00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:26,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, And was that always the case? I feel like 631 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 1: it was decent. 632 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:32,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know maybe, but and then Eli got 633 00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:35,320 Speaker 4: some kind of fish and it was definitely like you 634 00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,239 Speaker 4: could tell it was just like this frozen piece of 635 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:39,920 Speaker 4: afie that's rolled in the sesame seeds and just. 636 00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 3: Awful, Like it's just not good. 637 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 1: And then Blend. 638 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:48,560 Speaker 2: The prices have skyrocketed everywhere, all the restaurants and hotels 639 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:48,960 Speaker 2: and everything. 640 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:49,960 Speaker 3: Prices are way up. 641 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:51,679 Speaker 1: Over to quality. 642 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 2: Well, there's so many of us, but then quality goes down. 643 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:57,800 Speaker 2: So we were out about and we were like, we 644 00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:00,560 Speaker 2: need to find a place to eat, and everyone was calling, Oh, 645 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,679 Speaker 2: like nobody wanted to go out and eat because it's 646 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 2: just not that good anymore. 647 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 3: When was the last time you went to a restaurant 648 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:08,280 Speaker 3: went this was excellent? 649 00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:13,399 Speaker 1: Beverly, Yeah, a long spot here, But we're wondering if 650 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:16,159 Speaker 1: this is maybe just us like did we miss something. 651 00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,280 Speaker 1: For those of you who go out to do things 652 00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:22,800 Speaker 1: or a regular basis, have you noticed this or again, 653 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:24,679 Speaker 1: is it just us? Because this is such a rarity 654 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,280 Speaker 1: in our lives. It's not just restaurants, it's not. 655 00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:29,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, like when you go to a hotel or an airbnb, 656 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:33,520 Speaker 2: Like hotels used to be clean, remember, like it was like, oh, 657 00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:36,760 Speaker 2: luxury hotel, pillows and clean, and now I feel like 658 00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:38,000 Speaker 2: hotels are just kind of. 659 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 1: Gross and still getting over the Houston experience. 660 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:43,800 Speaker 2: Like keep your shoes on, kids, don't fit your feet, 661 00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 2: like it should not be like that in a hotel, 662 00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:47,320 Speaker 2: they're just not cleaned very well. 663 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:49,240 Speaker 3: Or air travel, air. 664 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 1: Travel, but anything service oriented. We were also talking like 665 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 1: we can reflect upon the time where air travel used 666 00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:57,160 Speaker 1: to be. It was like you, at least for myself 667 00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 1: and my family, we got dressed up to go on, 668 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 1: the plane would come down, they'd give you the hot 669 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 1: towel and this is a domestic flight granite it was 670 00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,120 Speaker 1: from Hawaii, but you were treated. 671 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 3: So well as a little tongs. 672 00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:09,960 Speaker 1: The dessert tray would come out, You got to make 673 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 1: your selection, and everybody just now there's queue to each other, 674 00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:18,760 Speaker 1: including the staff. Why is it that you as a customer, 675 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 1: are now viewed as being a burden of some kind 676 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 1: of inconvenience. 677 00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 3: It's like that pretty much everywhere you go. 678 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 2: If you went to a department store in the eighties 679 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 2: and you had a return or something and you didn't 680 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:30,640 Speaker 2: have the receipt, they'd be. 681 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:32,200 Speaker 3: Like, yes, ma'am, we'll take. 682 00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:35,040 Speaker 2: Care of it, you know, And now it's just not 683 00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:38,239 Speaker 2: like that. If you, I feel like shopping used to 684 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 2: be an event. You would go into the department stores 685 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:43,720 Speaker 2: and there'd be a live pianist playing, remember. 686 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:47,000 Speaker 3: That, Yeah, And there'd be live piano music. 687 00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:48,920 Speaker 2: Can you imagine going to a mall now and they're 688 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,760 Speaker 2: being live piano music And then everyone was very It 689 00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,840 Speaker 2: was it was an experience to go school shopping and 690 00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 2: they ma'am, what. 691 00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:58,959 Speaker 3: Size shoe do you wear? And oh, we have this 692 00:29:59,040 --> 00:29:59,800 Speaker 3: in blue too. 693 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:03,320 Speaker 2: They would be showing it to you. Everything was I know, 694 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,360 Speaker 2: but it was just different. There was customer service and 695 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 2: they even they treated even children. Yeah, with a certain 696 00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:12,360 Speaker 2: level of. 697 00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 1: Because I feel like it's gotten worse, But then I'm 698 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:17,280 Speaker 1: like questioning, is. 699 00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:20,000 Speaker 3: It just us no customer service? 700 00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,040 Speaker 1: Am I missing something now? 701 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:23,600 Speaker 3: And the phones. 702 00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,400 Speaker 1: That made it worse because literally, you don't even have 703 00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:28,600 Speaker 1: to contact an employee at a sort and appear as 704 00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:30,840 Speaker 1: though you maybe have a question about something, and you're like, 705 00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:32,840 Speaker 1: I'm going to try to ignore you, and if you 706 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:34,960 Speaker 1: manage to get to me in the like in the 707 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:36,840 Speaker 1: middle of me making this effort to ignore you, I'm 708 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:40,560 Speaker 1: going to act so incredibly inconvenience. It's it's amazing just 709 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:43,240 Speaker 1: the way people react and respond to you. It's it's 710 00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:45,440 Speaker 1: the opposite of what it is that I once recall 711 00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:46,520 Speaker 1: as being the norm. 712 00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:49,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, even I mean the grocery store is hit and 713 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 2: miss like that. You've always got the amazing, really friendly, 714 00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,280 Speaker 2: nice checkers, and then you have the other ones that 715 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 2: are like. 716 00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:57,400 Speaker 3: Why do you have so much stuff? 717 00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 1: So if they're on their smartphone, you just broke their 718 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:04,920 Speaker 1: dopamine rush, and so they're very irritated with you. Also, 719 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,520 Speaker 1: ironically enough, it's the holidays right now. I feel like 720 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 1: the holidays also amplifies all of this and makes it worse. 721 00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 1: I always hate to go into work, but I was 722 00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 1: a police officer, so i'd see like really bad, ugly 723 00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:16,480 Speaker 1: software in the holidays. But I feel like even your 724 00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:20,640 Speaker 1: retailers remember the word this time. They're so just irate 725 00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:24,760 Speaker 1: and inconvenienced by your very presence while shopping at. 726 00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:27,400 Speaker 2: Their Yeah, well, I mean I think the holidays can 727 00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:29,320 Speaker 2: bring out the worst in people. It's supposed to bring 728 00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 2: out the best in people, but I think people feel pressure, 729 00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:36,600 Speaker 2: the financial woes, the having the shop for people that 730 00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 2: you don't even really like, but you know they're probably 731 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:41,160 Speaker 2: buying you something, so then you have to reciprocate and 732 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:42,080 Speaker 2: buy them something. 733 00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,520 Speaker 3: And there's just so much pressure. 734 00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:46,920 Speaker 1: Has your holiday spirit been crushed because I feel like 735 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:47,560 Speaker 1: in looking. 736 00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:50,960 Speaker 2: At people's spaces, mine hasn't been because I stay out 737 00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 2: of public. 738 00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:54,600 Speaker 1: Looking at others, nobody has this same like it's a 739 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 1: special time of year. Everyone looks like down and depressed. 740 00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:01,000 Speaker 2: That's because we put so much dame pressure on ourselves 741 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:04,760 Speaker 2: to make the holidays perse and all the shopping, and yeah, 742 00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 2: it kind of is. I mean it started when we 743 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:12,160 Speaker 2: were kids. But Christmas is supposed to be families getting together. 744 00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:15,280 Speaker 2: The presence shouldn't matter, the gifts and all that. It's 745 00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:18,720 Speaker 2: like my sister and I decided a long time ago 746 00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:20,320 Speaker 2: she's not gonna buy for me and I'm not going 747 00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:22,920 Speaker 2: to buy for her. And we're very very merry about that, 748 00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,960 Speaker 2: and it's just kind of nice, Like I feel like 749 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:27,800 Speaker 2: Christmas gifts and stuff were for children. 750 00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,960 Speaker 1: That's fine, but there should still be this baseline level 751 00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:35,360 Speaker 1: of gratefulness that we all have for sure. 752 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:37,320 Speaker 2: But it's hard to be I feel like it's hard 753 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 2: to be grateful when you're feeling stressed, especially financially stressed. 754 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:44,960 Speaker 2: A lot of people can't afford the standard that is 755 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:45,560 Speaker 2: the holidays. 756 00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 1: Nowaday, I get it, but we mentioned on here that 757 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:49,720 Speaker 1: are somewhere Christmas is sucked as kids. Did you ever 758 00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 1: feel like that put a damper on your holiday spirit? 759 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:53,040 Speaker 3: Because it wasn't about that. 760 00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:55,280 Speaker 2: We had movies that we watched, We went and saw 761 00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:58,000 Speaker 2: my grandma, all my cousins were there. 762 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,560 Speaker 1: It was a feel right, That's what I'm saying that 763 00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,440 Speaker 1: no longer exists. It seems like and it's a real 764 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 1: bummer it is. It's even even for our kids. I 765 00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:08,920 Speaker 1: feel like they pick up on it too, Like they 766 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:11,400 Speaker 1: watched these holiday movies and it sets an expectation that 767 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:15,440 Speaker 1: is completely unreasonable. But when they venture out in the public, 768 00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:17,000 Speaker 1: even some of the feedback. I don't want to say 769 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,520 Speaker 1: which kid, but one of our kids is like, I 770 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,280 Speaker 1: don't even want to leave the house anymore because everything's 771 00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:22,920 Speaker 1: such a letdown. 772 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:24,680 Speaker 3: It was like, I think I'm just going to stay 773 00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:26,960 Speaker 3: home till after the New Year. 774 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:30,600 Speaker 1: And I was I was like totally bummed out by 775 00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 1: nothing living up to the hype. 776 00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:34,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, so he was like really excited to go do 777 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,800 Speaker 2: some Christmas stuff, and then he didn't really seem like 778 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:38,160 Speaker 2: he was having that bunch of fun. And then he 779 00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,400 Speaker 2: went ice skating and he fell and he was like, 780 00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 2: I pose my whole had and then he was all 781 00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:45,480 Speaker 2: like and then on the car right home, he's like, 782 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:46,960 Speaker 2: I think I'm just going to stay home till after 783 00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 2: the holidays. 784 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:49,360 Speaker 1: So even last night we were leaving, we went ice 785 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:54,240 Speaker 1: skating after our mediocre dinner, and then a bunch like 786 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 1: droves of people were showing up for holiday lights and 787 00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:01,160 Speaker 1: the like. Everyone had this law face on, like they 788 00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:03,280 Speaker 1: were stressed out and miserable. I'm like, this isn't what 789 00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:03,960 Speaker 1: it's supposed to be. 790 00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:06,040 Speaker 3: They're just checking stuff off the holiday list. 791 00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:08,080 Speaker 1: And I don't either either. I totally missed it when 792 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:10,040 Speaker 1: I was a child, like in the eighties and nineties, 793 00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:11,279 Speaker 1: where it was a magical time. 794 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:12,879 Speaker 3: Maybe it was just me and I I thought it's 795 00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 3: more magical when you were a kid. I don't know. 796 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:16,279 Speaker 3: My dad was always in kind of a bad mood. 797 00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:19,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe so. And I mean, the holidays can't be 798 00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:21,239 Speaker 1: a bummer as an adult, but it just doesn't. I 799 00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:23,120 Speaker 1: don't know. It makes me sad that it is stressful 800 00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:25,520 Speaker 1: for all it's not. It's so rampant, though, And I 801 00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 1: feel like it was the exception when we were kids. 802 00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:28,759 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe I'm wrong on that. 803 00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:31,160 Speaker 2: I feel like Christmas was probably better one hundred years 804 00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:33,680 Speaker 2: ago when people just got the you know, like back 805 00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:36,040 Speaker 2: in the Scrooge days, when little kids got a pair 806 00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:38,399 Speaker 2: of handmade mittens and a hat that their mom made them. 807 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:39,759 Speaker 1: And I guess that's what I'm saying. That's my thing, 808 00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:42,120 Speaker 1: Like I get that people aren't feeling necessarily the best 809 00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:44,160 Speaker 1: during the holidays, But what's the reasoning behind that? Is 810 00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:47,480 Speaker 1: it because we are just so much abundance. We're blessed 811 00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:50,480 Speaker 1: with an overabundance of everything all the time. 812 00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:53,719 Speaker 2: Cress people that just buy themselves, Like that's the number 813 00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 2: one complaint is I don't know what to get them 814 00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:57,520 Speaker 2: because they just buy. 815 00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:58,399 Speaker 3: Themselves whatever they want. 816 00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:01,680 Speaker 2: Or these kids just at whatever they want all year long, 817 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:05,000 Speaker 2: so they're not impressed by getting a couple new gifts. 818 00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:07,680 Speaker 2: You know, if you're a grandma and grandpa and you 819 00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:10,400 Speaker 2: come over with one gift and then they just have 820 00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:13,279 Speaker 2: this massive room full of stuff. Or some kids are 821 00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:16,720 Speaker 2: only just smartphone kids, like they're just literally just playing games. 822 00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,680 Speaker 1: I guess I'm like the thing that confused me yesterday, 823 00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:21,560 Speaker 1: Like I'm referencing all these people that were stringing up 824 00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:24,880 Speaker 1: to the holiday holiday light thing looking just miserable and 825 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:26,040 Speaker 1: sad and kind of bummed out. 826 00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:27,040 Speaker 3: It was kind of cold out. 827 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:29,799 Speaker 1: The contrast between that and seeing these kids and the 828 00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:33,040 Speaker 1: families of the holiday party yesterday, like it's it's there's 829 00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:36,799 Speaker 1: an element of just baseline gratefulness. 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I don't know, it's 899 00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:19,040 Speaker 3: just it's us. 900 00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:22,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's I think that we put too much pressure 901 00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:25,480 Speaker 2: on ourselves to go do all the holiday things, to 902 00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:27,799 Speaker 2: attend all the parties, to go to all the little 903 00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:28,520 Speaker 2: kid things. 904 00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:30,080 Speaker 3: I mean, people are bringing their. 905 00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:33,920 Speaker 2: Little tiny babies to experience holiday stuff, and it's like 906 00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,160 Speaker 2: baby doesn't care, Like, just you know what your. 907 00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:38,279 Speaker 3: Baby wants to do. They want to sleep on your 908 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:39,200 Speaker 3: chest while you watch. 909 00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:41,319 Speaker 1: A Christmas The pressure and obligation, Yeah, we have a 910 00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:43,879 Speaker 1: lot to put ourselves, like we burden ourselves with get 911 00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,080 Speaker 1: the photo. Yeah, Like there's this checklist of things, and 912 00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:48,280 Speaker 1: if you don't manage to check every box on that list, 913 00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:50,040 Speaker 1: and I guess everything's all let down. 914 00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:52,239 Speaker 2: I kind of like Eli's idea of like, let's just 915 00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:54,080 Speaker 2: stay home till after the holiday. 916 00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:55,160 Speaker 1: For it, like, don't tempt me. 917 00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:58,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's He's like, I just want to wear pajamas 918 00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:01,239 Speaker 2: and watch movies and make pop corn. And I'm like 919 00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:04,640 Speaker 2: that sounds really nice. We don't have to go out 920 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:08,600 Speaker 2: and find Christmas because the spirit of Christmas and what 921 00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:12,560 Speaker 2: Christmas is all about is family and faith in God. 922 00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:15,440 Speaker 2: And we could stay home and we could dive into, 923 00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:18,440 Speaker 2: you know, doing a Bible study and watch some sweet 924 00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:20,920 Speaker 2: Christmas movies and eat some good food, and that's going 925 00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:24,440 Speaker 2: to feel so much cozier and more christmas y and 926 00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:26,399 Speaker 2: less fluey. 927 00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:30,640 Speaker 3: There's so many people coughing and sneezing yesterday. 928 00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:34,239 Speaker 2: It was like, you know, that's what ruins That's that's 929 00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:35,920 Speaker 2: what dampers my Christmas spirit. 930 00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:37,520 Speaker 1: We were in our booths and I was eating, and 931 00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,520 Speaker 1: the wages walk by and like ripped out a coffee 932 00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:42,560 Speaker 1: when she was taking a bite, and I was like, 933 00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:44,840 Speaker 1: oh no, I'm surprised you didn't pick up on that. 934 00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:46,960 Speaker 3: Kira saided that our server was sick. 935 00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:47,520 Speaker 1: Good. 936 00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,680 Speaker 3: I love that our kids noticed, Like, who's sniffling? She's 937 00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:53,280 Speaker 3: like she was a mighty sniffily. 938 00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:56,279 Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, being so exclusive has made 939 00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:58,400 Speaker 1: us a family full of weirdos. 940 00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 2: I know, we're definitely introverts, all of us. Like Nevella 941 00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:07,040 Speaker 2: was our social butterfly. As a little kid, she was 942 00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:09,160 Speaker 2: social and now she's not. 943 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:10,359 Speaker 1: She's come around. 944 00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,800 Speaker 3: She's now that she's an adult. 945 00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:15,360 Speaker 2: She went to the sleepover. Like when she got a 946 00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:17,040 Speaker 2: little older, we allowed her to go to sleepovers. We 947 00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:19,880 Speaker 2: don't do little kids sleepovers. But once she was sixteen seventeen, 948 00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:22,160 Speaker 2: she did a couple sleepovers with some girls. 949 00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:25,719 Speaker 3: And she didn't have fun. One time she really wanted to. 950 00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:29,480 Speaker 2: Call us to come pick her up stun but I 951 00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:30,759 Speaker 2: was like, you should have just called, it would have 952 00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:31,760 Speaker 2: gone and got cha. 953 00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:34,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a really weird thing. I'm always forced to 954 00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:37,160 Speaker 1: ask myself whether or not this is just us, given 955 00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:37,560 Speaker 1: how we are. 956 00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:38,040 Speaker 3: I don't know. 957 00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:40,399 Speaker 2: I think that I think it's fifty to fifty. I think, yes, 958 00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:43,680 Speaker 2: we are us and we're very introverted. But at the 959 00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,600 Speaker 2: same time, if everyone would just get on board, they 960 00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:50,080 Speaker 2: would realize that home is very happy and germ free 961 00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:54,040 Speaker 2: and cozy, christmasy, festive place you can find Christmas in 962 00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:54,600 Speaker 2: your own home. 963 00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:57,480 Speaker 1: I completely agree with you. It was just an interesting 964 00:40:57,480 --> 00:40:59,359 Speaker 1: observation that you know, it was just like I said, 965 00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:01,040 Speaker 1: it was some like a very star contrast in our 966 00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:03,840 Speaker 1: day yesterday between attending that Christmas party and seeing some 967 00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:06,920 Speaker 1: of the happy families, like genuinely grateful, happy families, and 968 00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:09,720 Speaker 1: then leaving and finding people that are again, does blessed 969 00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:13,279 Speaker 1: in abundance be so miserable the fact that they're having 970 00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:15,000 Speaker 1: to attrag their families and kids around to go see 971 00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:17,719 Speaker 1: some Christmas lights don't have to when the reality of 972 00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:20,160 Speaker 1: is is like, you know, you're so incredibly fortunate to 973 00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:22,279 Speaker 1: have the opportunity to do this, and you not have 974 00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:25,440 Speaker 1: you don't have anything serious to sweat in the meantime. 975 00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:28,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's just standards standards, and consumerism has 976 00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:30,920 Speaker 2: just gotten worse and worse and worse every year. And 977 00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:34,440 Speaker 2: now media the yeah, social media the standard of Christmas 978 00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:36,239 Speaker 2: and when you get on Instagram and everyone has these 979 00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:40,000 Speaker 2: perfect little Christmas reels and everything, and you're like, ah, shoot, 980 00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:41,600 Speaker 2: I'm dropping the ball with my kids, Like we have 981 00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,160 Speaker 2: to go do this, and we have to go see this, 982 00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:46,400 Speaker 2: and we need to go find every single twinkly Christmas 983 00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:49,480 Speaker 2: light that exists, and you don't have to do that. 984 00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:51,160 Speaker 3: We all grew up in. 985 00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:54,160 Speaker 2: You know, the eighties, and we didn't do all of 986 00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:56,239 Speaker 2: those things, but we did load up in the car 987 00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:57,920 Speaker 2: and go look at Christmas lights. But we stayed in 988 00:41:57,960 --> 00:41:59,600 Speaker 2: the car and we love doing that. 989 00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:04,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, so's time. Maybe it's just childhood, I suppose. 990 00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:06,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe, But I just think that the free stuff 991 00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:09,280 Speaker 2: is so much more special than the expensive. 992 00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:12,000 Speaker 1: Simpler times. If you keep it simple and you don't, 993 00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:15,080 Speaker 1: you don't have this this comparison with social media or 994 00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:17,560 Speaker 1: like just media in general making you feel like you 995 00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:19,640 Speaker 1: need to do X, Y and Z to have a 996 00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:21,000 Speaker 1: successful holiday season. 997 00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:22,960 Speaker 2: Then I don't even think it's the kids. I don't 998 00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:25,319 Speaker 2: think it's the kids that have this standard. It's the 999 00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:28,040 Speaker 2: parents that think they that their kids have the standard. 1000 00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:31,680 Speaker 2: But if it were up to the kids, or if 1001 00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:34,040 Speaker 2: you just made a point out of keeping it simple 1002 00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,880 Speaker 2: and keeping it at home special, I don't mean don't 1003 00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:39,879 Speaker 2: do Christmas and don't do all that stuff, but keep 1004 00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:43,320 Speaker 2: it special and more home based. It's going to be 1005 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:44,840 Speaker 2: a lot cheaper and your kids are going to have 1006 00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:48,840 Speaker 2: way more fun and you're not going to feel stressed because. 1007 00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:52,040 Speaker 3: You don't even have to put a brawn to do that. Okay, 1008 00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:54,040 Speaker 3: I'm just saying when you're at home. 1009 00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:56,560 Speaker 1: I wasn't planning on it, but yeah, sure you don't 1010 00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:59,479 Speaker 1: have to do jeremmy On that note, hope you guys 1011 00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:03,799 Speaker 1: have a grand and holiday season yea Christmas. Yeah you know. 1012 00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:05,840 Speaker 3: I'm a relaxing one. 1013 00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:08,880 Speaker 1: Grateful, be grateful for what you got. Hope you have 1014 00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:11,600 Speaker 1: your friends and family around. We are going to make 1015 00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:13,480 Speaker 1: sure that we keep our priorities and check moving forward. 1016 00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:15,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna hold you to this no matter how we'll 1017 00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:20,000 Speaker 1: stressed out you get in the process of trying to 1018 00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:21,320 Speaker 1: take some time off, I'm. 1019 00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:21,879 Speaker 3: Going to do good. 1020 00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:22,879 Speaker 1: I'm going to hold you to it. 1021 00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:24,879 Speaker 3: Just put on the Christmas movie, give me. 1022 00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:29,360 Speaker 1: A baby, move beyond that though. Moving forward, yes, I 1023 00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:34,279 Speaker 1: don't believe you do it all right. God bless you guys. 1024 00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:36,200 Speaker 1: Thank you for being here once again, Like once again, 1025 00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:40,600 Speaker 1: let us know just your input. We value it tremendously. 1026 00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:42,520 Speaker 1: Let us know where you're at on many suggestions you 1027 00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:43,280 Speaker 1: have for us. 1028 00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:48,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, on to anything Saturday, very special video. 1029 00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:52,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll catch you guys over there, and then for 1030 00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:54,960 Speaker 1: the podcast. We'll be back in twenty twenty six. Yes, 1031 00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:56,520 Speaker 1: crazy as that sounds. 1032 00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:57,600 Speaker 3: Thanks guys. 1033 00:43:57,640 --> 00:43:59,200 Speaker 1: All right, we'll see that you guys. 1034 00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:05,680 Speaker 2: Take care even then the New World with and how so. 1035 00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:11,280 Speaker 3: The Richmond knows, the Richmond Lord knows. 1036 00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:12,080 Speaker 1: How do