1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:02,400 Speaker 1: Seven two seven two. 2 00:00:02,880 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 2: What's gone Viral? 3 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:08,960 Speaker 3: Time? Now for the world of viral content, Cabazella, your 4 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:12,719 Speaker 3: first story of shame. Man, I've been tempted. I've got 5 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 3: to tell you, I've been tempted to do this once 6 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:20,159 Speaker 3: or twice. What do you do with gifts that you 7 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:21,919 Speaker 3: don't necessarily like? 8 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you know some people say, well, you 9 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 2: can never accept a gift and think, well, this is 10 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 2: not what I like or not my taste, because it's 11 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 2: the thought that counts. 12 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 3: But if you've got no use for it, what do 13 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:37,920 Speaker 3: you do with it? 14 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 4: Well? 15 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 2: Exactly exactly. So this video we are talking about sister, 16 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 2: two sisters were they were in a thrifting store and 17 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 2: they were browsing through the clothes on the racks, and 18 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 2: the next minute, this sister picks up this jacket that 19 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 2: she's she kind of recognizes, looks at it, turns it 20 00:00:56,080 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 2: around and on the back is this hand painted picture 21 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 2: that she had painted. And she had given this jacket 22 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 2: to a friend of hers. So now the friend clearly 23 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:12,400 Speaker 2: was like, I'm going to really wear this jacket, or 24 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 2: got grew tired of the jacket and sold it to 25 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 2: this thrifting store, donated it to the thrifting store and 26 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 2: the friend who gave it to her found it. So 27 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:26,959 Speaker 2: that's a big bustard story there, and she was very upset. 28 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 2: She was like, I could she give it away? You know? 29 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 2: Painted this hand painted by me? So yeah, shame. I 30 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 2: felt a bit sorry for her. But I mean, looking 31 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 2: at that jacket, yeah, I don't know, but anyway, I know, right, 32 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 2: So the question is Bongles and seven or two families. 33 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 2: When you've received a gift from somebody, it doesn't have 34 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 2: to be a birthday gift. It could be any gift. 35 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 2: Somebody has just thought of you and they've given you 36 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 2: a gift, and you've accepted and oh, thank you, Oh 37 00:01:57,240 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 2: that's very kind, thank you. I love it. I love it. 38 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 2: I love it right, And then you've got home and 39 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 2: you look at it and think, well, I don't really 40 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 2: have any need for this, so it's not my taste 41 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:11,359 Speaker 2: or I don't like it. Have you regifted it, sold it, 42 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 2: or donated it to somebody? What was the gift? And 43 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 2: were you ever busted? Like did they ever come back 44 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 2: to and say, well, listen, are you enjoying that gift 45 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 2: I gave you? 46 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 3: Sometimes sometimes it's your significant other who says, you're not 47 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 3: bringing that into this house. What do you do then? 48 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 3: What have you done with gifts that you didn't really 49 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:36,799 Speaker 3: want or that you didn't like or need? Have you 50 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 3: sold them, regifted them? And were you caught pill Connie? 51 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 3: What do you do with gifts that that I is 52 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 3: not make sure? 53 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 5: The first of all, people who do give me gifts 54 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 5: know mean well enough to give me the correct gifts. 55 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 5: So I always appreciated. However, if I were to receive 56 00:02:57,000 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 5: a gift that I might not like, use it because 57 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:03,799 Speaker 5: for me, it is really the thought that counts. If 58 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 5: you go out there and you take your time and 59 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 5: you purchase something for me, I will just accept it 60 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 5: because you took It's just a don't give it. 61 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 3: If it's say from a family member, you give it 62 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:19,080 Speaker 3: to Spisa Zulu because twain shall meet. 63 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 5: No. I would never do that. 64 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 2: Talk. We're listening. 65 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 3: What do you do with those not unwanted gifts? So 66 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 3: Cabazella's video, somebody makes a jacket for a friend, right 67 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 3: gifts them the jacket. Oh thank you. Then the maker 68 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 3: of the jacket the gift finds herself at a thrift 69 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 3: shop and there is the jacket she gifted being sold. 70 00:03:57,040 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 3: Clearly the recipient didn't want it. What do you do 71 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 3: with gifts you don't appreciate? And if you've passed them 72 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 3: on to someone else, have you been caught? 73 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: Two questions for you? 74 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 2: What did I do with what. 75 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: Was the gift? A skilled designer? 76 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 6: First of all? 77 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 1: And secondly does it matter? Can we say maybe the 78 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 1: receiver believes so much in the jacket and the work 79 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 1: they thought the rest of the world should see. 80 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 3: You've got a future as a spriing doctor. If radio 81 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 3: and television don't work out. 82 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 7: Join us. 83 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 6: Let's walk the talk. 84 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 8: This is seven o two hey bombs. So speaking of 85 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 8: like gifts, you know, the challenge is when people give 86 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 8: you a gift that is alive or is a living thing, 87 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 8: right and now not plants. I remember I am terrified 88 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 8: of chicken, birds, anything. I guess I have afore of things. 89 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 8: Let have blood, feathers, wings, whatever. My aunt came, my 90 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 8: mother in law was visiting, and my aunt came and 91 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 8: gifted my mother in law in my house two live chicken. 92 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 8: And they just walked into the dining room with those 93 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 8: chicken and I was just like, you know what. And 94 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 8: now the family keeps saying I need to give my 95 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 8: kids puppies because my son looks like he's a year 96 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 8: and a half. 97 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 6: He looks like he likes dogs and so on, and 98 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 6: they say I need. 99 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 8: To give them puppies and I'm like, no, no o, God, 100 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:36,599 Speaker 8: I do not have the capacity right now. And they're like, 101 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 8: they're going to give it. 102 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:46,359 Speaker 7: Today our neighbor a portrait of Apple and give it 103 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 7: to my partner. And my partner liked so much and 104 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 7: he felt like something from them INTI or something I 105 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 7: don't know, and he was insisting that we hang it 106 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:02,279 Speaker 7: and then love me. That didn't happen because he got 107 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 7: job about out and he had to move from the province. 108 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:09,719 Speaker 7: So that's what under the bed the whole time, and 109 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 7: when doing moved, it just disappeared. 110 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 4: Good morning, Bongani and the team. If I receive a 111 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 4: gift that I do not like, it depends who I'm 112 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 4: receiving it from. If our relationship is close enough, I 113 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 4: communicate that my friend, you know, this is not really me, 114 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:31,719 Speaker 4: you know, you know from. But if it's someone that 115 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:36,119 Speaker 4: I cannot communicate that I really do not like this gift, 116 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 4: I'm going to keep it. It's going to be one 117 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 4: of those things that I will hoide in my house. 118 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 8: It will be there. 119 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 4: I will not be using it, but it will be 120 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 4: the I will not give it away. 121 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:52,599 Speaker 6: Too. I'm sure people love this or sorry all too well. 122 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 6: Someone gives you a gift, you then give it back 123 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 6: to them a few years later because never used it. 124 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 6: Most embarrassing things. I forget this anyways. Hope you what 125 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 6: have a good day And you say from the roads, take. 126 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 3: Care gifts that you don't necessarily appreciate. I mean the 127 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 3: lady who's child is being threatened with puppies, and you 128 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 3: know people feel that way about your kids, right you 129 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 3: say no and they think no, I will overwrite that 130 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 3: decision and give you huban. I would die chickens, live chickens. 131 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: If we gifted you a parrot or something like. 132 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 3: Birds, anything that flaps its wings we know that has 133 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 3: a sharp beak and things that look like claws. 134 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 1: What's that old English saying looking at gift horse in 135 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 1: the mouth. I don't think you'd tell someone that it's 136 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 1: not me. No, Then they're gonna keep buying you things 137 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 1: you don't want. You must just accept them every time. 138 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 5: It's a yeah, you can't say, but you know I 139 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 5: don't like this. 140 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 3: No, that's so mean, but you can the gift. Presumably 141 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 3: the gift is about me? Is it not right? My birthday? You? 142 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 7: No? 143 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 3: No, no, hold on, you're giving me a gift, so the 144 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 3: focus is on me. I'm telling you not this. Next time. 145 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 3: Thank you, appreciate the thought, but next time, I don't 146 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 3: want a puppy. 147 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 1: It will never be you that. 148 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 7: Yeah, that's fine. 149 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 3: Because I'm not gonna appreciate what you're gonna get me 150 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 3: the next time. Anyway, leave it. 151 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 8: And that's why it's important before a month before your birthday, 152 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 8: release that list that says this is what I want, 153 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:36,679 Speaker 8: this is what I expect. 154 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with doing that.