WEBVTT - Medical Matters: Infertility Affects Millions: Don’t Delay - Early Action Can Make All the Difference

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<v Speaker 1>Medical Matters.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, it's time now for our Medical Matters feature,

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<v Speaker 2>and today we're speaking about something that's a you know,

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<v Speaker 2>can be a really sensitive matter for many, especially people

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<v Speaker 2>that are struggling with infertility. We speak about how infertility

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<v Speaker 2>affects millions globally and how more of us may be

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<v Speaker 2>at risk of being infertile or may be suffering from

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<v Speaker 2>infertility without even knowing it. Our guest on the show

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<v Speaker 2>this evening is doctor Lusanda Shiman gemss, a fertility specialist

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<v Speaker 2>and director at med fem Fertility Clinic.

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<v Speaker 1>Doctor Lusander, Good evening, and welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Good evening, and thanks so much for having me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, fantastic.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you know, I want to start with with

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<v Speaker 2>our conversation just on I've been reading about how quite frankly,

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<v Speaker 2>if you or the official definition of infertility is if

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<v Speaker 2>you do not pregnant quote unquote, and please rectify me

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<v Speaker 2>under trying for about twelve months.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not a lot of time of trying, is it.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's not. And you know, the definition is actually

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<v Speaker 3>really interesting and I personally don't particularly like it because

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's very prescriptive and once you tell someone

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<v Speaker 3>it's time to fall pregnant for a year, chances are

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<v Speaker 3>they're going to be so stressed that they might just

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<v Speaker 3>actually struggle to poll pregnant. So there is the textbook

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<v Speaker 3>definition of below the age of thirty five years twelve

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<v Speaker 3>of regular sexual intercourse, and then if you don't fall

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<v Speaker 3>pregnant within those twelve months with regular sexual intercourse, then

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<v Speaker 3>it's defined as infertility or above the age of thirty

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<v Speaker 3>five six months of regular sexual intercourse. So the reason

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<v Speaker 3>why I personally don't necessarily subscribe to it is that

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<v Speaker 3>if you tell someone that Okay, fine, go and like

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<v Speaker 3>I said, going for pregnant, you are above the age

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<v Speaker 3>of thirty five, you've got six months to fall pregnant.

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<v Speaker 3>That that's quite a stress and stresses is one of

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<v Speaker 3>the contributors to infertility. But do not incorrect in saying

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<v Speaker 3>that if you look it up, that's exactly what they'll

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<v Speaker 3>give you.

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<v Speaker 2>So I mean by that definition that would basically mean

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<v Speaker 2>a lot more of us are struggling with infertility issues

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<v Speaker 2>than we realize.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, this is the whole thing. If you can categorically say, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>on this date, right on the seventh of July, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to try and fall pregnant, and and I've got

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<v Speaker 3>I'm giving myself till next year July on the seventh

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<v Speaker 3>to fall pregnant. Then are you really infertile or is

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<v Speaker 3>there something physiological that's preventing you from falling pregnant? So

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<v Speaker 3>is it really infertility or are you struggling to fell

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<v Speaker 3>pregnant and therefore you need some assistance.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So I know that you don't like the textbook definition, Sophie,

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<v Speaker 2>give us your definition of infertility.

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<v Speaker 3>No, you know it's not even I mean, I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>going to go against the grain and say, oh gosh, no,

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<v Speaker 3>this is doctor she manuments also definition or something that

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<v Speaker 3>once you are of reproductive age and you know that

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<v Speaker 3>you want to conceive, and you know that you are

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<v Speaker 3>really conceived, there's nothing wrong with going to get checked

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<v Speaker 3>out to see that everything is in order, more than anything.

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<v Speaker 3>And if you see that it's not happening sooner rather

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<v Speaker 3>than later. And I'm just really saying this because we're

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<v Speaker 3>seeing a lot of couples above the age of thirty five,

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<v Speaker 3>above the age of forty who are coming to us

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<v Speaker 3>and they want for pregnant. And you know, there's a

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<v Speaker 3>concept of a variant agent, which really is a non

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<v Speaker 3>modifiable factor. So it's not to say that look, okay, fine,

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<v Speaker 3>put yourself within the definition. But I'm just saying, once

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<v Speaker 3>you know that you want to be a parent, it's imperative.

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<v Speaker 3>Or I'd highly suggest that you are in touch with

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<v Speaker 3>some sort of health practitioner who can at least guide

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<v Speaker 3>you in the right direction. Should you not feel pregnant,

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<v Speaker 3>and do I think it needs a year? I don't

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<v Speaker 3>think so. I think when you're ready, you're ready, And

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<v Speaker 3>you don't think that a lot of us are walking

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<v Speaker 3>around and we don't know if we've got something going

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<v Speaker 3>on or not. And I'm saying, just get assessed sooner

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<v Speaker 3>rather than later. A case example is they say someone

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<v Speaker 3>with polycystic ovarian syndrome, which which is a hormonal imbalance

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<v Speaker 3>that occurs a woman of reproductive age. If you don't

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<v Speaker 3>know that, you've already got that and now you are

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<v Speaker 3>going to go for a whole year to try and

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<v Speaker 3>fell pregnant and all we have to do is sort

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<v Speaker 3>that out. Wouldn't it be great if you find that

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<v Speaker 3>out when you decide to conceive, so that it can

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<v Speaker 3>actually happen and not take a whole year. Do you

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<v Speaker 3>know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>So, I mean, yeah, what are some of these factors

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<v Speaker 2>you know that affects or call they cause infertility? As

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<v Speaker 2>you've said it till I've heard it before. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>you're as told. Overthinking is a big problem.

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<v Speaker 3>So when we look at infertility and what really causes it,

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<v Speaker 3>we have to first of all, I just want to

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<v Speaker 3>say that it can be a female factor, and it

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<v Speaker 3>can be a male factor, but I really want us

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<v Speaker 3>to shift to the narrative of it's a couple issue

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<v Speaker 3>and not necessarily one or the other. That is really

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<v Speaker 3>important that we put that out there. And then going further,

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<v Speaker 3>we need to see is their medical problem, is the

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<v Speaker 3>genetic problem, is a lifestyle problem? Is it a hormonal problem?

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<v Speaker 3>And then more so is it a structural problem? So

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<v Speaker 3>just I'm expanding further on those different categories. So let's

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<v Speaker 3>just say if it's a structural problem, you do get

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<v Speaker 3>some women who are born without utresses, so they don't

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<v Speaker 3>have a wound, and they may not know that. So

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<v Speaker 3>that's important that we find that out sooner rather than later.

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<v Speaker 3>And then you may ask, but how would you know that?

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<v Speaker 3>So someone who's not going on the period has never

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<v Speaker 3>had a period, and has never had a period, and

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<v Speaker 3>therefore that person needs to be checked out because it's

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<v Speaker 3>not normal for a woman of reproductive age to not

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<v Speaker 3>have a period. And then if we go to things

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<v Speaker 3>like medical disorders, does this person have a thyroid problem

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<v Speaker 3>that we need to look at, and that is one

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<v Speaker 3>of the big things that smith is their genetic issue

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<v Speaker 3>or lifestyle. What type of lifestyle does this person need,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, in terms of work, do they have work stresses,

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<v Speaker 3>they don't exercise, they eat unhealthy, they are smokers, and

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<v Speaker 3>so forth. And then hormonal problems. One of the big

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<v Speaker 3>ones is the polycystic of wear in syndrome that I mentioned,

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<v Speaker 3>So that is just really like the woman. And then

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<v Speaker 3>it comes to the men, and the men we have

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<v Speaker 3>to check. First of all, you need sperm to fell pregnant,

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<v Speaker 3>So do they have a low sperm count? Do they

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<v Speaker 3>have abnormal looking sperm, or do they have sperm that

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<v Speaker 3>does not really move properly in other words, so that

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<v Speaker 3>it can go through the wounds into the tubes and

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<v Speaker 3>then fertilize their egg. Or is there a gland problems

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<v Speaker 3>such as your thyroid. Is there a structural problem there

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<v Speaker 3>is obstructions that does not allow the sperm to necessarily

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<v Speaker 3>go into the women's reproductive tract or are they impotence

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<v Speaker 3>Do these guys are they getting an erection, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>or if they do get an erection and they ejaculate,

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<v Speaker 3>are they actually producing sperm or not. So there are

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<v Speaker 3>various factors, and that's why I come back to I

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<v Speaker 3>think it's you know, when you've decided that you want

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<v Speaker 3>to have a child, is go and visit your healthcare

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<v Speaker 3>provider and just you know, you just made it, make

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<v Speaker 3>it known that you want to have a child. There's

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<v Speaker 3>a few simple blood tastes that need to be taken

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<v Speaker 3>and an examination just to see if there is something

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<v Speaker 3>that needs to be fixed or not.

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<v Speaker 2>Lussander, I mean, at what point should a couple say,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe we should get checked out? You know, having spoken

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<v Speaker 2>to and family who suspects that they may be struggling

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<v Speaker 2>with infertility issues, many of them will say, oh, just

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<v Speaker 2>keep try and relax, don't overthink it, don't stress.

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<v Speaker 1>It will come.

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<v Speaker 2>But at what point should one go maybe or maybe

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<v Speaker 2>the couple go, maybe we should get checked out.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, look, one of the things that we need to

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<v Speaker 3>look at is how old is the couple. So an

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<v Speaker 3>older couple. Definitely sooner rather than later. We cannot be

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<v Speaker 3>forty one forty two and we're just you know, trying

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<v Speaker 3>to relax and see what happens in our lives and

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<v Speaker 3>then if it doesn't happen, then we'll go. I want

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<v Speaker 3>to see that couple as in yesterday, because then I

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<v Speaker 3>can do investigations and I can have a frank conversation

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<v Speaker 3>with them as to what's possible, what's possible, what we

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<v Speaker 3>should look out for a younger couple. So let's just say,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what age people get married these days.

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<v Speaker 3>I've been married forever, so but let's just let's give

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<v Speaker 3>or take people get married. I want to without touching

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<v Speaker 3>any nerves at the age of twenty nine. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 3>they get married at the age of twenty nine, and

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<v Speaker 3>then they want to spend a year by themselves, and

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<v Speaker 3>then the following year they're going to try and for pregnant.

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<v Speaker 3>With that couple, we've got more time in order to

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<v Speaker 3>try and for pregnant, So that definition of a year

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<v Speaker 3>comes into play. But with that being said, when I

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<v Speaker 3>think of when we talk about the women, this woman

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<v Speaker 3>must be having regular mastrol cycles. You know, we can't

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<v Speaker 3>have someone who's having irregular metroal cycles and then they

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<v Speaker 3>are trying for a year. Once you have irregular metrol cycles,

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<v Speaker 3>something is wrong and you need to get seen. So

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<v Speaker 3>that couple, I would not give an extended period of time.

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<v Speaker 3>I would want them to get seen sooner rather than later.

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<v Speaker 3>Or if let's just say she was mestruating at some

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<v Speaker 3>point and then stopped menstruating, that person, I'd like to

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<v Speaker 3>see sooner rather than later. Or if they's now they're

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<v Speaker 3>starting to go a beard which they never had, or

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<v Speaker 3>they had been having a beard that they've been shaving off,

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<v Speaker 3>that person, i'd want to see sooner rather than later.

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<v Speaker 3>And then in terms of the guys, if they're having

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<v Speaker 3>premature ejaculation, obviously they're having pre mature ejaculation. By the

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<v Speaker 3>time there's penetration, you've already ejaculated, so you are going

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<v Speaker 3>to find it a bit difficult to for pregnant. So

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<v Speaker 3>I think where I would really come in is to say,

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<v Speaker 3>if you feel something is wrong or you feel you

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<v Speaker 3>need to consult, there's nothing wrong with having that first consultation,

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<v Speaker 3>having investigations done, getting assessed, and then you know where

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<v Speaker 3>your baseline is or where your standpoint is rather than no,

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<v Speaker 3>let's just wait, let's just wait because a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>couples actually put it off for it's longer they're necessary,

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<v Speaker 3>and then by the time you know, by the time

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<v Speaker 3>they come and see us, it's either now the old

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<v Speaker 3>or the egg reserve is low, or the sperm count

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<v Speaker 3>has been abnormal all this time and now we're only

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<v Speaker 3>discovering it. So I think once you think about it,

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<v Speaker 3>so if there are couples out there and they feel sure,

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<v Speaker 3>we've been at this for I don't know, six months,

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<v Speaker 3>they will take rather just go and see someone. Go

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<v Speaker 3>and see your Guyanese so that you know, you can

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<v Speaker 3>at least have the conversation, so you understand because I

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<v Speaker 3>only say people, it's actually quite difficult. We see a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of babies running around and so forth, but it's

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<v Speaker 3>not it's actually hard to feel pregnant, and it's even

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<v Speaker 3>harder when there is an issue. Sure.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I've been wondering whether it is infertility becoming

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<v Speaker 2>more prevalent, or is it the awareness and the speaking

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<v Speaker 2>about it that's making it seem like more and more

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<v Speaker 2>people are infertile.

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<v Speaker 3>I think there's a subset of I actually call it

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<v Speaker 3>a silence pandemic, and I think we're not vocal enough

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<v Speaker 3>about it. I mean, it's at takes one in six

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<v Speaker 3>couples globe. You know that that's quite that's quite a

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<v Speaker 3>big number. But how many people actually openly speak about,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, they're struggling to fall pregnant. Right now, there's

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<v Speaker 3>a whole global movement which is break the taboo, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's really break the taboo and speak about your infertility journey,

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<v Speaker 3>regardless of what it is. And I think it's not

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<v Speaker 3>necessarily that it's becoming you look that you can say

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<v Speaker 3>it's becoming more prevalent because lifestyle has changed, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>and and the job market has changed. Women are coming

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<v Speaker 3>up corporate ladders. You know, they're putting all falling pregnant

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<v Speaker 3>till they're much older. And that's where I'm like, okay, guys, now,

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<v Speaker 3>let's start social freezing. Then freeze your age when you're

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<v Speaker 3>younger so that you've got options later on in life.

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<v Speaker 3>So in terms of prevalency is different factors. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>now women are working in the minds and there's there's

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<v Speaker 3>a concept called endocrime disruptors, so environmental factors that can

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<v Speaker 3>affect your fertility so there is different reasons why women

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<v Speaker 3>may becoming fertile. But I also think there is a

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<v Speaker 3>subset of women who are actually happy to speak about it.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, when I think about our fertility clinic, it's

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<v Speaker 3>been around for thirty years, you know, so it's been

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<v Speaker 3>a long time since people have been struggling to fell pregnant.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you speak about freezing eggs, But how accessible

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<v Speaker 2>is that doctor? Because I'm wondering, I can't even think

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<v Speaker 2>where I would start if something to deb that conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm so glad you're actually mentioning that. And that's

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<v Speaker 3>where the problem is, is that are we actually having

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<v Speaker 3>the conversation. Are we saying to someone who is twenty five,

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<v Speaker 3>has just gotten into the job market. Are we talking

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<v Speaker 3>about what are your aspirations in your job market? Are

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<v Speaker 3>you considering being a parent at some point? At what

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<v Speaker 3>point are you considering being a parent? And then you

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<v Speaker 3>start having the conversation about, you know, the older you get,

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<v Speaker 3>there's a concept of ovarian aging. This is a non

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<v Speaker 3>modifiable factor. You're are forty five, or your eggs are

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<v Speaker 3>thirty and so forth. So where would you start? And

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<v Speaker 3>it starts with the first point of contact with any

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<v Speaker 3>health care provider, and that's where we are really, that's

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<v Speaker 3>where the gap is. So even if you like, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know, just random, you're going to see your dentist,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, for your six month check up, but you

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<v Speaker 3>don't see any other doctor. The only person you see

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<v Speaker 3>is your dentists because you're so you know, intentional about

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<v Speaker 3>having dental health and it's for that dentist to say, listen,

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<v Speaker 3>actually i've been doing your teeth for quite a while.

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<v Speaker 3>What is happening with you in terms of you know,

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<v Speaker 3>fertility and so forth. Do you want to be a

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<v Speaker 3>parent And you're like, yes, actually I do, but not

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<v Speaker 3>right now. Maybe and I'm a bit older, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>that well, you know, there is maybe you should go

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<v Speaker 3>and see a guy, and you're going to see a

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<v Speaker 3>fertility specialist in terms of guest seeing what your options

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<v Speaker 3>are if you're going to put or falling pregnant, And

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<v Speaker 3>that's where the conversation begins. And we're not having those conversations.

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<v Speaker 3>We really just have them at dinner parties. If someone

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<v Speaker 3>just happens to mention that they say they went to

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<v Speaker 3>and made same fertility clinic, and they froze the eggs

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<v Speaker 3>and then everyone gets excited like, oh my gosh, so

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<v Speaker 3>what does it entail? What did you do? You know?

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<v Speaker 3>And I want us to start having all those conversations

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<v Speaker 3>because then I think it will sat out a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>It just gives you options. So it's not to say

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<v Speaker 3>when you're older you will struggle. You know, you won't

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<v Speaker 3>feel pregnant. It just means that in the events that

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<v Speaker 3>you do struggle, you've got these thirty year old eggs

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<v Speaker 3>which are sitting there waiting to be used.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. I'm actually thinking back to the first time

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<v Speaker 2>I became aware. Maybe I was aware, but the first

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<v Speaker 2>time I was actually confronted with the reality of freezing

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<v Speaker 2>eggs was through a TV show called Being Mary Jane.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you remember that show.

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<v Speaker 2>There was a show called and Mary Jane had decided

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<v Speaker 2>to do that because she was having so many issues,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, in terms of relationships and she wasn't finding

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<v Speaker 2>the one right then out of thinking in the South

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<v Speaker 2>African context, do people go to the guyany and what

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<v Speaker 2>does that process.

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<v Speaker 1>Even look like? Doctor?

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<v Speaker 3>So basically, once that thought is in your head, is

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<v Speaker 3>two on your Guyanese visits that you have or even

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<v Speaker 3>if you if they say you're doing your pap smears

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<v Speaker 3>at a GP, even that conversation can really begin there

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<v Speaker 3>to say, look at the moment, I'm a single person,

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<v Speaker 3>right and I'm working and so forth, and I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know if I have a prospective partner or not, and

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<v Speaker 3>what options do I have in terms of fertility preservation.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a very easy answer. It would be like, look,

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<v Speaker 3>consider freezing your eggs. Okay, so what does that entail. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>you'll need to go to a fertility specialist and basically

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<v Speaker 3>we do explain that to to to the patient. And

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<v Speaker 3>mind you, it's not just about freezing eggs. You can

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<v Speaker 3>free sperm as well, So the conversation really starts there.

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<v Speaker 3>And then in terms of what it entails, basically is

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<v Speaker 3>injections that we give which we basically we want to

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<v Speaker 3>get as many eggs as possible, so we grow the

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<v Speaker 3>follicles up to a certain size, and then after that,

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<v Speaker 3>once we track them via ultrasound, and we'll give you

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<v Speaker 3>other medication to stop you from augulating so that you

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<v Speaker 3>don't lose the eggs. And when we ready, then we

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<v Speaker 3>do what we call a trigger. So to always explain

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<v Speaker 3>it to my patients where I'm like, think of an egg,

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<v Speaker 3>like you know, a chicken egg that we make for breakfast.

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<v Speaker 3>So we want that egg to grow, and then at

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<v Speaker 3>a certain size, we give you an injection so that

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<v Speaker 3>we can go and so that we can soften the

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<v Speaker 3>egg shell so we can go and take out the

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<v Speaker 3>egg white and hopefully that egg white will find an

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<v Speaker 3>egg yolk and that's what we freeze. So it's quite

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<v Speaker 3>a simple process which takes around to give or take

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<v Speaker 3>two weeks. So it's something and a lot of women

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<v Speaker 3>are doing it. A lot of women are actually waking

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<v Speaker 3>up to the fact that, look, I'm not in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what my prospects are. But what I

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<v Speaker 3>really love about social freezing of eggs is that it

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<v Speaker 3>gives the woman reproductive freedom. It says, I'm not waiting

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<v Speaker 3>for mister Wright to come, because what happens if mister

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<v Speaker 3>Wright comes at forty five?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey?

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 3>So it gives that woman that reproductive freedom to decide

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<v Speaker 3>when she wants to parent and how she wants to parent.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're talking in fertility with doctor Lucander Shimange Masource,

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<v Speaker 2>who is a fertility specialist. This is our Medical Matters

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<v Speaker 2>feature that we have on a Monday. Really interesting conversation here.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to open up the lines and invite any

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<v Speaker 2>of our callers who are interested or I have questions

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<v Speaker 2>around fertility, whether they are personal questions, we want to

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<v Speaker 2>hear from you. There A double one double a three

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<v Speaker 2>seven two oh to one double four six five six seven.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So doctor, you spoke about lifestyle changes. How

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<v Speaker 2>important is diet when one is trying to feel pregnant?

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<v Speaker 3>That is important, and you know, and that's the one

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<v Speaker 3>I suppose that's the one part that's really overlooked because

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<v Speaker 3>we live in such a different world where you just

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<v Speaker 3>order your food online, it gets delivered to your door.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't know how it's cooked, you don't know who

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<v Speaker 3>cooked it, and so forth. And I think that's why,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, long time ago, women were really just having

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<v Speaker 3>It was not abnormal to say, you know, we hear

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<v Speaker 3>my grandmother had nine kids, you know, because they really

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<v Speaker 3>actually had an organic diet, they ate what they planted.

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<v Speaker 3>And now we are in a fast culture where it's

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<v Speaker 3>just a matter of just putting something in the microwave

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, and eating it, or in the a

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<v Speaker 3>fryer and eating it and we're not cooking our food anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't know what's actually going into our food, so

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<v Speaker 3>we have to look at you know, inflammation does play

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<v Speaker 3>a big part, and what are those inflammatory foods? You know,

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<v Speaker 3>so when you know your process, cover hydrates your process

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<v Speaker 3>and your processed foods and so forth. So diet does

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<v Speaker 3>play a big part. But it's not to say you

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<v Speaker 3>have an unhealthy diet. You can't fall pregnant, because someone

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<v Speaker 3>can easily phone now and say, look, I've been eating

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<v Speaker 3>McDonald's all my life, or I've been eating fast food

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<v Speaker 3>all my life and I've got four kids. That those

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<v Speaker 3>people are outliers. But for someone who really is struggling

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<v Speaker 3>to for pregnant, I will always gauge the diet aspect,

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<v Speaker 3>like what do you actually eat, you know, and how

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<v Speaker 3>is it affecting your body. But with that being said,

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<v Speaker 3>I think in general we all need to check ourselves

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<v Speaker 3>in terms of our lifestyles and what we're doing, because ultimately,

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<v Speaker 3>let's just say you do for pregnant with this unhealthy lifestyle,

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<v Speaker 3>you bring a child into the world, you really want

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<v Speaker 3>to die young and leave this child without a parent.

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<v Speaker 3>And that the part that we actually don't think about

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<v Speaker 3>you know, we've all got bragging rights about how it

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<v Speaker 3>felt pregnant, drinking every day and I've been smoking since

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<v Speaker 3>our sixteen and eating false food. But then what does

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<v Speaker 3>your lifespan look like and what happens to that child?

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<v Speaker 3>So definitely, lifestyle diet definitely does play.

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<v Speaker 1>Impact for both men and women.

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<v Speaker 3>It definitely for both men and women. Definitely definitely, because ultimately, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>a man will produce sperm, but what is the quality

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<v Speaker 3>of that sperm. Does it have a potential to fertilize

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<v Speaker 3>an egg because we look at we have to look

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<v Speaker 3>at how you know, well, like I said to the number,

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<v Speaker 3>how it moves, how it looks, does it have binding capacity?

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<v Speaker 3>So it's definitely both men and women. And that's why,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, what I always say is that this is

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<v Speaker 3>a couple things. It's not either all. So if one

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<v Speaker 3>is going to be on a healthy lifestyle chain, both

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<v Speaker 3>of you must be on that train.

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<v Speaker 2>And just you know, I think that there's an element

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<v Speaker 2>also around shame when it comes to fertility, where couples

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<v Speaker 2>come to you as a last resort, but oftentimes you know,

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<v Speaker 2>or sometimes you know, one partner may may have a

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<v Speaker 2>bit of shame, you know, around not being able to conceive.

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<v Speaker 2>How does one go about addressing that, particularly when you

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<v Speaker 2>come into contact with couples that are desperate to hoole

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<v Speaker 2>pregnant but really don't want to be there in your office.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I think I have the fortune of having

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<v Speaker 3>worked to people most of my adult life just by

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<v Speaker 3>virtue of the job that I do. So you tend

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<v Speaker 3>to you know, you talk, you see the couple, You

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<v Speaker 3>talk to the couple, and you can see when someone's uneasy.

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<v Speaker 3>And this is where a reproductive psychologist comes in. So

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<v Speaker 3>in our clinic, we've actually got a psychologist, and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>the first person to say, look, I can see you

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<v Speaker 3>very uncomfortable with the results that I've given you, or

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<v Speaker 3>you're uncomfortable with being here, and I get it. I

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<v Speaker 3>get it in that you know, the ones that you've

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<v Speaker 3>probably succeeded in everything that you've done in your life,

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<v Speaker 3>and the one thing that it's just supposed to happen

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<v Speaker 3>naturally is not happening, and you may be struggling to,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, to deal with this. So we refer, we

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<v Speaker 3>do refer to a psychologist who will unpack everything. By

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<v Speaker 3>the time people come into the facility, clinics. They've conceded

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<v Speaker 3>to the fact that we are struggling and we need help.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, once you step into that door, then

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<v Speaker 3>it's one of those where okay, guys, now we're going

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<v Speaker 3>to be open with each other and we are going

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<v Speaker 3>to work together in all this. Very rarely you will

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<v Speaker 3>get people who will say, I really don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>be here. My wife has forced me to be here,

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<v Speaker 3>you know. I think way it becomes a bit of

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<v Speaker 3>a challenge is once you get to a fertility clinic,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, by virtue of what we do, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>with assisting couples, and it's a lot to say they

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<v Speaker 3>can't for pregnant spontaneously. But is when there's an insistent that, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>we want your help, but we don't want iva for

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<v Speaker 3>anything like that. We want for pregnant spontaneously. That's really

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<v Speaker 3>where the challenge comes because it limits us in terms

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<v Speaker 3>of what we can actually do as fertility specialists. But

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<v Speaker 3>once they walk in, they've decided that okay, we need

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<v Speaker 3>help and we are here.

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<v Speaker 2>Zara double one, double eight, three seven two, that's the

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<v Speaker 2>number to dial if you have questions for doctor Lussanda Shimange.

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<v Speaker 1>Must all say.

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<v Speaker 2>Who's talking us through infertility and fertility issues. She's helping

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<v Speaker 2>us make sense of you know, infertility and what a

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<v Speaker 2>difference early action or early detection can make. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I want to invite you to be part of that conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to hear from people who have struggled with

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<v Speaker 2>fertility or are currently struggling, or if you think that

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<v Speaker 2>you may you know, you may be having issues, or

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<v Speaker 2>you could have issues. I really want to hear from you.

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<v Speaker 2>We've got doctor Shermange here to help us make sense

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<v Speaker 2>of your questions and give you the answers that you

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<v Speaker 2>may need to please get in touch in touch with us,

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<v Speaker 2>and our callers have the tendency of calling towards the

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<v Speaker 2>end of the hour and they're not getting the answers

0:25:33.200 --> 0:25:36.160
<v Speaker 2>that they require. You'll find people calling at fifty five,

0:25:36.320 --> 0:25:40.120
<v Speaker 2>at fifty three, or you know, seven minutes to the hour.

0:25:40.280 --> 0:25:42.920
<v Speaker 2>So I want to encourage you to call now if

0:25:42.920 --> 0:25:45.640
<v Speaker 2>you have a question so that we can address it

0:25:45.840 --> 0:25:51.359
<v Speaker 2>with doctor Shimangem. Maybe my next question that doctor Missander is,

0:25:51.640 --> 0:25:55.399
<v Speaker 2>I mean, how much of a bearing does the psychological

0:25:55.440 --> 0:25:59.760
<v Speaker 2>aspect have on fertility issues? You know, you often hear

0:25:59.760 --> 0:26:04.960
<v Speaker 2>people saying you're overthinking it, You're overthinking the whole thing.

0:26:05.240 --> 0:26:07.280
<v Speaker 1>But is it really start.

0:26:07.440 --> 0:26:10.320
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I can imagine stress, as you said, and

0:26:10.680 --> 0:26:13.440
<v Speaker 2>but does I have as much a bearing on fertility

0:26:13.480 --> 0:26:15.600
<v Speaker 2>when people overthink conception.

0:26:17.040 --> 0:26:19.280
<v Speaker 3>It's interesting that you say that, and I was hoping

0:26:19.320 --> 0:26:22.440
<v Speaker 3>we're really going to address this. So when I think

0:26:22.560 --> 0:26:26.160
<v Speaker 3>about my journey, so I didn't have any fertility treatment

0:26:26.320 --> 0:26:28.840
<v Speaker 3>to anything like that, I just want to say that,

0:26:29.359 --> 0:26:32.600
<v Speaker 3>you know, I had all my kids spontaneously, but I'm

0:26:32.600 --> 0:26:35.240
<v Speaker 3>thinking back to when we're trying for our first child,

0:26:35.920 --> 0:26:38.880
<v Speaker 3>and you know, based on your question, I think there

0:26:38.960 --> 0:26:41.840
<v Speaker 3>was an element of overthinking and it just was not happening,

0:26:42.200 --> 0:26:44.199
<v Speaker 3>you know, first man, second month, and I'm like, what

0:26:44.359 --> 0:26:47.280
<v Speaker 3>is wrong? So I was so I was ready to

0:26:47.320 --> 0:26:50.720
<v Speaker 3>go and see a fertility spacialist by man five. You know,

0:26:50.920 --> 0:26:53.440
<v Speaker 3>not because of anything, but I'm like, but because it

0:26:53.480 --> 0:26:56.560
<v Speaker 3>was just that expectation that is going to happen. And

0:26:56.640 --> 0:27:00.000
<v Speaker 3>then when I stopped, you know, because this is exact

0:27:00.280 --> 0:27:02.159
<v Speaker 3>and so forth, and you know, sat down with my

0:27:02.240 --> 0:27:04.040
<v Speaker 3>husband and I was like, oh my gosh, you know,

0:27:04.119 --> 0:27:06.960
<v Speaker 3>we get pregnant. Now you know what's going to happen

0:27:07.000 --> 0:27:09.240
<v Speaker 3>with exams and all that, so maybe we should just

0:27:09.359 --> 0:27:11.920
<v Speaker 3>like shelve it for now and we'll start it going.

0:27:11.960 --> 0:27:15.800
<v Speaker 3>So we literally just like stopped overthinking, and then we

0:27:15.880 --> 0:27:19.400
<v Speaker 3>felt pregnant, you know. So there isn't because it does

0:27:19.440 --> 0:27:23.080
<v Speaker 3>get technical. It really does be technical, because now you'll

0:27:23.119 --> 0:27:24.920
<v Speaker 3>have a woman's like, no, no, no, we can't have sex

0:27:24.960 --> 0:27:27.800
<v Speaker 3>now because I'm not ovulating, you know, I'll there, you know.

0:27:27.920 --> 0:27:30.640
<v Speaker 3>And then the poor guy's straight now he's supposed to perform,

0:27:31.000 --> 0:27:33.520
<v Speaker 3>and then he has performance anxiety. So there is an

0:27:33.560 --> 0:27:37.360
<v Speaker 3>element of that. But what I really want to stress

0:27:37.440 --> 0:27:41.320
<v Speaker 3>upon is the mental part or the psychological part, which

0:27:41.359 --> 0:27:46.439
<v Speaker 3>is really the silent cost to infertility, were either a

0:27:46.480 --> 0:27:49.720
<v Speaker 3>couple can't talk about the challenges that they have so

0:27:49.760 --> 0:27:52.480
<v Speaker 3>they're basically suffering in silence, or the couple can't go

0:27:52.560 --> 0:27:55.000
<v Speaker 3>and talk to someone and they don't know what to do.

0:27:55.119 --> 0:27:57.679
<v Speaker 3>And and almost like there's a shame in that we

0:27:57.720 --> 0:28:01.760
<v Speaker 3>are struggling to feel pregnant, you know, and and and

0:28:01.760 --> 0:28:04.520
<v Speaker 3>and that is the part which I really wish we

0:28:04.560 --> 0:28:08.639
<v Speaker 3>could just get over that. It's okay, it's okay if

0:28:08.680 --> 0:28:12.359
<v Speaker 3>you're struggling to fell pregnant, because you can actually get help.

0:28:12.920 --> 0:28:15.760
<v Speaker 3>So there is there is that one part where a

0:28:15.800 --> 0:28:18.439
<v Speaker 3>couple start overthinking it and then you've got all the

0:28:18.560 --> 0:28:22.639
<v Speaker 3>apps and you've got all the ovulations and you're just

0:28:22.760 --> 0:28:26.159
<v Speaker 3>you're doing a lot, and you know, then you're not

0:28:26.240 --> 0:28:27.360
<v Speaker 3>even lovers anymore.

0:28:27.440 --> 0:28:29.399
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it takes your fun out of sexy.

0:28:29.080 --> 0:28:34.840
<v Speaker 3>Time exactly missions to get pregnant, you know. And we

0:28:34.920 --> 0:28:37.119
<v Speaker 3>see that often. We see that often, and I do

0:28:37.240 --> 0:28:40.040
<v Speaker 3>say to my couples, I'm like, listen, while we're working

0:28:40.160 --> 0:28:42.760
<v Speaker 3>on you guys falling pregnant, don't forget why you felt

0:28:42.800 --> 0:28:45.560
<v Speaker 3>you got together in the first place. Don't forget that

0:28:45.600 --> 0:28:47.640
<v Speaker 3>you are still lovers. You're still a couple. So it's

0:28:47.960 --> 0:28:50.200
<v Speaker 3>you're still a couple, So it's okay to just actually

0:28:50.760 --> 0:28:54.480
<v Speaker 3>enjoy being with each other, you know. And I think

0:28:54.520 --> 0:28:58.040
<v Speaker 3>that is so important because it's I think it's just

0:28:58.160 --> 0:29:00.720
<v Speaker 3>kind of like as an element of it doesn't have

0:29:00.800 --> 0:29:03.600
<v Speaker 3>to be a job, you know, it does not have

0:29:03.720 --> 0:29:05.520
<v Speaker 3>to be a job. And I think it and it

0:29:05.600 --> 0:29:08.480
<v Speaker 3>happens without you even realizing that. It's just that you know,

0:29:08.560 --> 0:29:11.480
<v Speaker 3>we can I mean, jeez, you can. You can definitely

0:29:11.960 --> 0:29:16.480
<v Speaker 3>depict it, you know, from the consultation. So there is

0:29:16.520 --> 0:29:20.280
<v Speaker 3>definitely a psychological aspect to it. But there's also the

0:29:20.320 --> 0:29:23.680
<v Speaker 3>other side, because couples do break up trying to feel

0:29:23.680 --> 0:29:27.160
<v Speaker 3>pregnant and it doesn't happen, you know, couples do get

0:29:27.160 --> 0:29:31.400
<v Speaker 3>depressed and do get anxious. So that is the one

0:29:31.440 --> 0:29:33.920
<v Speaker 3>part that we really always need to address. And I

0:29:34.040 --> 0:29:36.400
<v Speaker 3>always ask, like, you know, so how are you doing?

0:29:37.000 --> 0:29:39.440
<v Speaker 3>You know, how are actually how are you dealing with this?

0:29:39.640 --> 0:29:43.040
<v Speaker 3>And especially when you know the guys sometimes struggle to

0:29:43.080 --> 0:29:46.720
<v Speaker 3>open up. Eventually they do because they realize, look, there

0:29:46.760 --> 0:29:49.800
<v Speaker 3>is no judgment here. We just want to help you.

0:29:51.080 --> 0:29:54.760
<v Speaker 2>Sure, let's take some calls. Gaylee, you're in Pretoria and

0:29:54.800 --> 0:29:56.760
<v Speaker 2>you've got a question on freezing eggs.

0:29:56.920 --> 0:29:57.680
<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show.

0:29:59.600 --> 0:30:01.720
<v Speaker 3>I a listening commodore and the.

0:30:01.720 --> 0:30:05.080
<v Speaker 5>Doctor Hi, go ahead.

0:30:06.360 --> 0:30:11.200
<v Speaker 6>Yes, thank you so much for insight for and yeah,

0:30:11.560 --> 0:30:17.240
<v Speaker 6>very important topic. So I just I've got actually one

0:30:17.320 --> 0:30:23.160
<v Speaker 6>question for the doctor. So I'm forty three this year, okay,

0:30:23.280 --> 0:30:27.880
<v Speaker 6>and what I wanted to know One can I still

0:30:27.960 --> 0:30:30.960
<v Speaker 6>freeze my eggs at forty three or are they too old?

0:30:31.880 --> 0:30:37.320
<v Speaker 6>And number two, what would be the cost for for

0:30:37.320 --> 0:30:41.040
<v Speaker 6>for yeah, for for for freezing eggs, like just a

0:30:41.120 --> 0:30:43.680
<v Speaker 6>rough estimate of how much I would be looking at?

0:30:45.160 --> 0:30:49.120
<v Speaker 6>Thank you and listen online doctor the signer.

0:30:50.440 --> 0:30:54.000
<v Speaker 3>Thank you Gailen for that very important question and the

0:30:54.040 --> 0:30:57.200
<v Speaker 3>one thing I mean, I'll discuss the custo and so forth,

0:30:57.560 --> 0:31:01.000
<v Speaker 3>but the one thing that you mentioned is I'm forty three.

0:31:01.960 --> 0:31:05.240
<v Speaker 3>Should I still freeze my eggs? Or am I too old?

0:31:06.160 --> 0:31:09.320
<v Speaker 3>And you know, I think gone are the times where

0:31:09.360 --> 0:31:13.520
<v Speaker 3>doctors make decisions for patients. It's a conversation that you

0:31:13.600 --> 0:31:16.680
<v Speaker 3>need to have. So how would it would go with me?

0:31:17.400 --> 0:31:20.520
<v Speaker 3>Let's just say I'm like, okay, listen you forty three.

0:31:20.800 --> 0:31:23.680
<v Speaker 3>And obviously our gauge the ovarian aging, which is a

0:31:23.720 --> 0:31:26.960
<v Speaker 3>big thing. Age is a non modifiable factor, and I

0:31:26.960 --> 0:31:30.160
<v Speaker 3>would have done all the investigations. But I'll also ask

0:31:30.440 --> 0:31:33.360
<v Speaker 3>why are we freezing? Why aren't we having a baby?

0:31:33.400 --> 0:31:35.240
<v Speaker 3>So I would want to know the reasons for that,

0:31:35.800 --> 0:31:38.400
<v Speaker 3>and would also talk about the quality of the eggs,

0:31:38.760 --> 0:31:41.880
<v Speaker 3>you know, to say, do you want to freeze eggs?

0:31:41.880 --> 0:31:44.560
<v Speaker 3>Obviously there will be investigations that will be laid with,

0:31:44.880 --> 0:31:48.040
<v Speaker 3>but ultimately the quality of the eggs would be a

0:31:48.080 --> 0:31:53.160
<v Speaker 3>big thing in this situation as to let's just say

0:31:53.200 --> 0:31:55.680
<v Speaker 3>we go and we freeze your eggs. We are not

0:31:55.760 --> 0:31:59.080
<v Speaker 3>going to freeze twenty eggs. We may be lucky if

0:31:59.080 --> 0:32:03.120
<v Speaker 3>we freeze one or two eggs, and then once we

0:32:03.240 --> 0:32:06.400
<v Speaker 3>freeze those eggs, they still need to be fertilized by

0:32:06.560 --> 0:32:10.960
<v Speaker 3>sperm at some point, and when they get fertilized, they

0:32:11.000 --> 0:32:14.120
<v Speaker 3>need to get to what we call a blastocyst stage,

0:32:14.160 --> 0:32:16.280
<v Speaker 3>so a day five. So we need to actually create

0:32:16.320 --> 0:32:21.200
<v Speaker 3>a baby with these eggs, you know, And this right

0:32:21.240 --> 0:32:25.680
<v Speaker 3>now the success rate is actually quite low. So it's

0:32:25.680 --> 0:32:28.480
<v Speaker 3>a matter of you've got this information, what do you need?

0:32:28.720 --> 0:32:31.000
<v Speaker 3>What do you want to do? A lot of our

0:32:31.080 --> 0:32:35.920
<v Speaker 3>patients over the age of forty so forty three forty

0:32:35.960 --> 0:32:41.400
<v Speaker 3>two actually end up using donut eggs, which are younger eggs,

0:32:41.800 --> 0:32:46.880
<v Speaker 3>which has a better chance of success. So to answer

0:32:46.960 --> 0:32:49.920
<v Speaker 3>her question, should she freeze eggs at forty three, I'm

0:32:49.960 --> 0:32:52.360
<v Speaker 3>saying at forty three, please have a baby? Can we

0:32:52.440 --> 0:32:54.400
<v Speaker 3>help you have a baby at forty three, not help

0:32:54.440 --> 0:32:55.760
<v Speaker 3>you freeze eggs?

0:32:56.200 --> 0:32:56.479
<v Speaker 4>You know?

0:32:56.760 --> 0:32:59.960
<v Speaker 3>And that's what I say because remember also the older

0:33:00.160 --> 0:33:06.000
<v Speaker 3>you get, you've also got increased risks of congenital abnormality,

0:33:06.120 --> 0:33:10.440
<v Speaker 3>So having abnormalities worth the babies. So I think that

0:33:10.560 --> 0:33:13.720
<v Speaker 3>is really just a frank conversation to have. Is it

0:33:13.800 --> 0:33:16.240
<v Speaker 3>worth freezing eggs at the age of forty three. I

0:33:16.280 --> 0:33:19.400
<v Speaker 3>wouldn't entirely recommend it, but there are some patients who

0:33:19.480 --> 0:33:21.640
<v Speaker 3>insist on it. But as long as they have their

0:33:21.680 --> 0:33:26.840
<v Speaker 3>information and they make an informed decision, then you know.

0:33:26.920 --> 0:33:31.600
<v Speaker 3>There's a point of departure in terms of cost with

0:33:31.800 --> 0:33:35.880
<v Speaker 3>freezing eggs. And let me just say we are freezing

0:33:36.320 --> 0:33:40.040
<v Speaker 3>and not necessarily going to fertilize, just really keeping them there.

0:33:40.400 --> 0:33:43.760
<v Speaker 3>There is a cost permans. It differs from clinic to clinic,

0:33:43.880 --> 0:33:47.520
<v Speaker 3>and I'll be lying if I give you absolute values,

0:33:47.520 --> 0:33:51.240
<v Speaker 3>but rough estimate it's about two thousand rand per month

0:33:51.360 --> 0:33:55.200
<v Speaker 3>to keep them frozen. But for the actual process we're

0:33:55.240 --> 0:33:57.920
<v Speaker 3>looking at about plus minners. I want to say about

0:33:57.960 --> 0:34:00.640
<v Speaker 3>sixty to seventy k but I'm speaking under corrections. But

0:34:00.720 --> 0:34:04.760
<v Speaker 3>you're welcome to phone our clinic and they will definitely

0:34:04.800 --> 0:34:10.479
<v Speaker 3>give you the correct values, the correct amounts, all.

0:34:10.440 --> 0:34:13.160
<v Speaker 2>Right, So I hope that helps you kill it and

0:34:13.920 --> 0:34:17.480
<v Speaker 2>you'll be able to make a decision asap. Going forward,

0:34:17.840 --> 0:34:22.000
<v Speaker 2>let's take a call from anonymous you're in Davidton, Grievening,

0:34:22.120 --> 0:34:22.480
<v Speaker 2>and go.

0:34:22.440 --> 0:34:29.799
<v Speaker 5>Ahead, high doctor. I'm telling fully four this year and

0:34:30.520 --> 0:34:33.320
<v Speaker 5>I did try a I v in one of the

0:34:33.320 --> 0:34:38.440
<v Speaker 5>government hospital, and I think I tried twice and the

0:34:38.440 --> 0:34:41.080
<v Speaker 5>first one it was failed, and then the second one

0:34:41.160 --> 0:34:45.360
<v Speaker 5>it went to a chemical pregnity that it didn't last

0:34:45.960 --> 0:34:49.360
<v Speaker 5>for a month. So now that i'm telling for the

0:34:49.480 --> 0:34:54.319
<v Speaker 5>two years, for the four three, what must I do

0:34:54.560 --> 0:34:57.520
<v Speaker 5>to boot both my eggs is to try for the

0:34:57.600 --> 0:35:01.360
<v Speaker 5>last time because in the pri in the government hospital,

0:35:01.440 --> 0:35:04.560
<v Speaker 5>they told me that I must look for it now,

0:35:06.320 --> 0:35:08.960
<v Speaker 5>so of course is my age anymore?

0:35:10.719 --> 0:35:16.359
<v Speaker 3>Thank you for that question. So just to let you know, well,

0:35:16.360 --> 0:35:18.439
<v Speaker 3>the questions I would have to ask is that when

0:35:18.440 --> 0:35:21.120
<v Speaker 3>you did the first IV, it's how old were you?

0:35:22.320 --> 0:35:22.680
<v Speaker 3>That is.

0:35:24.360 --> 0:35:27.000
<v Speaker 5>Around thirty eight or thirty seven?

0:35:28.200 --> 0:35:32.720
<v Speaker 3>Okay, foes, but now can you see what we're talking

0:35:32.760 --> 0:35:35.719
<v Speaker 3>about is that that's thirty seven and thirty eight there's

0:35:35.760 --> 0:35:37.759
<v Speaker 3>still a chance and you went for it, and well

0:35:37.880 --> 0:35:40.000
<v Speaker 3>done for going for it, and I'm sorry that it

0:35:40.040 --> 0:35:43.160
<v Speaker 3>did not work out into a live birth. But now

0:35:43.560 --> 0:35:48.200
<v Speaker 3>you're forty four, so that is definitely I mean that

0:35:48.200 --> 0:35:50.839
<v Speaker 3>that age group. That is the age group that yes,

0:35:51.120 --> 0:35:53.480
<v Speaker 3>and I know you're coaching in the government hospital. They

0:35:53.480 --> 0:35:56.560
<v Speaker 3>say you must use a donut, but in the private

0:35:56.560 --> 0:35:59.920
<v Speaker 3>space as well, and it goes back to the first caller,

0:36:00.120 --> 0:36:02.799
<v Speaker 3>should she freeze the eggs at forty three? Can I

0:36:02.920 --> 0:36:05.400
<v Speaker 3>use your eggs at fourty four. I'm not saying that

0:36:06.080 --> 0:36:10.480
<v Speaker 3>you can't, but knowing what you know, the prognosis is

0:36:10.520 --> 0:36:14.279
<v Speaker 3>not that great, you know, because we know that there

0:36:14.400 --> 0:36:18.080
<v Speaker 3>is a decline in terms of your life births the

0:36:18.200 --> 0:36:21.520
<v Speaker 3>older you get, and it starts going down at the

0:36:21.560 --> 0:36:26.040
<v Speaker 3>age of thirty five, whereas with the donor eggs, and

0:36:26.320 --> 0:36:31.760
<v Speaker 3>which is not a bad option, your chances actually remain high.

0:36:32.280 --> 0:36:35.399
<v Speaker 3>So to answer your question is what should you do?

0:36:35.960 --> 0:36:39.279
<v Speaker 3>I think you need to get hold of, you know,

0:36:39.360 --> 0:36:41.880
<v Speaker 3>get in touch with a faculty specialist and just really

0:36:41.880 --> 0:36:44.760
<v Speaker 3>see what your options are because there's also be blood

0:36:44.800 --> 0:36:50.319
<v Speaker 3>work involved. But from a cost effective point of view,

0:36:50.800 --> 0:36:54.560
<v Speaker 3>I would recommend donor eggs. But like I said, we

0:36:54.640 --> 0:36:56.560
<v Speaker 3>do get patients, so like, look, I just want to

0:36:56.560 --> 0:36:58.839
<v Speaker 3>try my eggs and if that doesn't work, then I'll

0:36:58.880 --> 0:37:02.120
<v Speaker 3>go to donor. You know, but at the age of

0:37:02.160 --> 0:37:05.239
<v Speaker 3>forty four most definitely me and you are the same

0:37:05.280 --> 0:37:06.040
<v Speaker 3>age mates.

0:37:05.840 --> 0:37:13.359
<v Speaker 7>By the way, Yeah, yeah, And the reason why I'm

0:37:13.400 --> 0:37:16.520
<v Speaker 7>saying that because I've got a period that's playing hide

0:37:16.560 --> 0:37:19.640
<v Speaker 7>and seek, and it just goes to say actually it

0:37:20.160 --> 0:37:23.080
<v Speaker 7>goes to show what actually happens to your eggs.

0:37:23.080 --> 0:37:23.759
<v Speaker 3>The older you.

0:37:23.760 --> 0:37:28.759
<v Speaker 7>Get, yes, yes, and they low reserve.

0:37:28.560 --> 0:37:32.640
<v Speaker 3>Now exactly so you understand that language of your age.

0:37:33.160 --> 0:37:36.880
<v Speaker 3>And I'm sure it's like zero point four or something,

0:37:37.520 --> 0:37:39.719
<v Speaker 3>and you know what that means. So I think, I think,

0:37:39.760 --> 0:37:41.000
<v Speaker 3>secretly you know the answer.

0:37:43.840 --> 0:37:43.880
<v Speaker 4>No.

0:37:44.280 --> 0:37:49.960
<v Speaker 5>I thought maybe going at the root of because they're saying, okay,

0:37:49.680 --> 0:37:52.240
<v Speaker 5>it's on the internet. They say, okay, if you can

0:37:52.960 --> 0:37:55.560
<v Speaker 5>both the egg maybe like three to six months and

0:37:55.560 --> 0:37:59.160
<v Speaker 5>then maybe you can able to to to get more eggs.

0:37:59.360 --> 0:38:01.719
<v Speaker 5>But then with in eight I think the don't one,

0:38:01.880 --> 0:38:04.360
<v Speaker 5>as you said, it will be the best option.

0:38:04.760 --> 0:38:07.160
<v Speaker 3>And you know, and you think a very important thing.

0:38:07.239 --> 0:38:09.080
<v Speaker 3>I love the fact that you went back to the

0:38:09.120 --> 0:38:11.959
<v Speaker 3>internet because we know they're listening and the algorithm just

0:38:12.160 --> 0:38:16.439
<v Speaker 3>follows you. Yes, so the one thing about boosting your eggs. Yes,

0:38:16.480 --> 0:38:19.360
<v Speaker 3>we may go and get five eggs, but what is

0:38:19.400 --> 0:38:22.040
<v Speaker 3>the quality of those eggs? There are still forty four

0:38:22.120 --> 0:38:22.600
<v Speaker 3>years old?

0:38:24.160 --> 0:38:24.680
<v Speaker 4>They are not.

0:38:26.120 --> 0:38:30.600
<v Speaker 3>And that's where everyone misses it is that you know, yes,

0:38:30.719 --> 0:38:34.240
<v Speaker 3>number is a big thing, but also age of the eggs,

0:38:34.360 --> 0:38:37.200
<v Speaker 3>quality of the eggs is a massive thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, all right, Anonymous at home. That was helpful and

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<v Speaker 2>I wish you all the best on your journey.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>All right then, anonymous.

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<v Speaker 2>In Davidton, I think let's take a voice note now

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<v Speaker 2>and hear what more you have to say.

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<v Speaker 4>Is calieah, I just want to find out you're saying

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<v Speaker 4>you can also freeze sperms. How much does it cost

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<v Speaker 4>roughly to freeze sperms? Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>Listen on the lady Lisander the freezing of sperms? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you hear that?

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<v Speaker 3>I heard that question and thank you for it. And

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<v Speaker 3>I'll be honest, I do not know how much it

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<v Speaker 3>actually costs to free sperm, but definitely a lot less

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<v Speaker 3>than freezing eggs, only because of what it entails. So

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<v Speaker 3>with freezing eggs there is medication involved to stimulate the eggs,

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<v Speaker 3>for us to remove the eggs for them to be frozen.

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<v Speaker 3>But in terms of freezing sperm, it just really needs

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<v Speaker 3>a man to ejaculate by a masturbation and then that

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<v Speaker 3>sperm is processed and then it's frozen. So you can see,

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<v Speaker 3>it does not require any form of medication unless there

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<v Speaker 3>is something clinically wrong with the male who is freezing sperm,

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<v Speaker 3>who may need medication but definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, well at least okay, we've got a sense,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm sure the listener will then be able to

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<v Speaker 2>go and do a bit more research and consult. That's

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm hoping this interview does. It gets people to

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<v Speaker 2>want to consult. Let me read somewapped messages, someone asking,

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<v Speaker 2>good evening, I just want to know if excessive alcohol

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<v Speaker 2>intake can affect female fertility. We've heard it. I've heard

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<v Speaker 2>my mom speak about it before. Is that true, doctor Lusander?

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<v Speaker 3>It's I always laugh at this question because you know,

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<v Speaker 3>we alway speak up outsiuthe Africa and the issues with drinking. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, but yes everyone is falling pregnant. Yes, Look,

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<v Speaker 3>I think the one thing we need to really realize

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<v Speaker 3>is that this is not a blanket statement, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>more of an individual statement. You know, It's not uncommon

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<v Speaker 3>to get someone to say I don't drink, I don't smoke,

0:40:57.960 --> 0:41:00.759
<v Speaker 3>I go to gym five times the week, I eat

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<v Speaker 3>healthy and so forth. But I'm I'm struggling for pregnant.

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<v Speaker 3>And you just get those people who are just they're

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<v Speaker 3>for pregnant easy. You know, they're made to full pregnant

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<v Speaker 3>So to answer the question about alcohol, definitely it does

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<v Speaker 3>play a part. It is a toxin at the end

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<v Speaker 3>of the day, and you don't know how your body

0:41:18.760 --> 0:41:21.560
<v Speaker 3>is going to react to it. You know, you don't

0:41:21.600 --> 0:41:24.120
<v Speaker 3>know if it's going to have an adverse effect or not.

0:41:24.800 --> 0:41:27.839
<v Speaker 3>So for me, for anyone trying to fall pregnant, I'll

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<v Speaker 3>definitely lean towards a more healthy lifestyle. And when I

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<v Speaker 3>say that, I mean if you have a glass of

0:41:33.120 --> 0:41:35.279
<v Speaker 3>wine every now and then, then you know it is

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<v Speaker 3>what it is. But also, don't stop living because you're

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<v Speaker 3>just trying to fell pregnant. There's life at the end

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<v Speaker 3>of the day, you know. And I think that it's

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<v Speaker 3>very important that I say that, because you can't spend

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<v Speaker 3>your whole life living a certain way because you are

0:41:48.560 --> 0:41:50.600
<v Speaker 3>trying to fall pregnant and then it doesn't and then

0:41:50.640 --> 0:41:53.799
<v Speaker 3>it comes it has other ripple effects. So alcohol, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>does play It does play a certain role, especially because

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<v Speaker 3>of equality. You know, everything goes back to equality, s

0:42:02.400 --> 0:42:05.040
<v Speaker 3>film quality at the end of the day, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>So it does. But I also say, don't stop living.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't stop living. Just rather, I'd rather had someone to

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<v Speaker 3>come and see me then to stop alcohol and try

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<v Speaker 3>and fall pregnant for five years.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Another listener here saying, I'm forty one year I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>forty forty one year old female. I'm on chronic medication.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there any risk of getting pregnant? I've never been

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<v Speaker 2>pregnant before, but now I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks.

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<v Speaker 3>It would be first of all we'd want. So she asked,

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<v Speaker 3>if there's any risk of falling prety?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think maybe that might be framed. I think

0:42:43.480 --> 0:42:46.040
<v Speaker 2>what she means is she wants to fall pregnant. She's

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<v Speaker 2>she's never been and she thinks she's ready now.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So you know that's also one of those where

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<v Speaker 3>it will take a full consultation because you'd want to

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<v Speaker 3>know what chronic medication is she on, first of all,

0:42:59.239 --> 0:43:03.000
<v Speaker 3>because there is medication which can prevent women from having

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<v Speaker 3>regular menstrum cycles and therefore struggling for pregnant. And then

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<v Speaker 3>so that would be the first thing, and then the

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<v Speaker 3>second thing. At forty one, she has ever tried falling

0:43:13.920 --> 0:43:17.520
<v Speaker 3>pregnant before, so obviously you'd want to know is she

0:43:17.719 --> 0:43:20.640
<v Speaker 3>in a relationship? Is she doing this by herself? And

0:43:20.680 --> 0:43:22.960
<v Speaker 3>if she's in a relationship, is to assess the guy

0:43:23.080 --> 0:43:26.080
<v Speaker 3>as well, and then for her to just basically assess

0:43:26.120 --> 0:43:29.000
<v Speaker 3>the medications that she's got and to have a physical

0:43:29.080 --> 0:43:33.359
<v Speaker 3>examination with an ultrasound scanned and then from there then

0:43:33.400 --> 0:43:36.560
<v Speaker 3>we can have the conversation about okay, call, you can

0:43:36.719 --> 0:43:40.240
<v Speaker 3>go and you know you can try and for pregnant,

0:43:40.400 --> 0:43:43.279
<v Speaker 3>but we and we need to take agent. I know,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll always keep going back into age. How does she

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<v Speaker 3>want for pregnant, that you want to be assisted, that

0:43:48.400 --> 0:43:50.640
<v Speaker 3>you want to susue the own and so there's a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of evaluations that really and I think a lot

0:43:53.280 --> 0:43:55.760
<v Speaker 3>of people are going to call to say what should

0:43:55.760 --> 0:43:59.400
<v Speaker 3>they do? And ultimately is you actually need to see

0:43:59.440 --> 0:44:02.200
<v Speaker 3>someone so that you can you can have a full

0:44:02.280 --> 0:44:09.640
<v Speaker 3>comprehensive examination, consultation, worth investigations to really know where you

0:44:09.719 --> 0:44:11.600
<v Speaker 3>are sitting because it's easy for me. So of course

0:44:11.640 --> 0:44:13.600
<v Speaker 3>you can feel pregnant at the age of forty one

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<v Speaker 3>and next thing you've got block tubes. Yeah, then it

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<v Speaker 3>completely nullifies everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, definitely sad that we are going to have to

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<v Speaker 2>let you go and leave this conversation. There's sort a

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<v Speaker 2>fruitful one really quickly. Where do people where can they

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<v Speaker 2>find you if they want to get in touch?

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm based at made Same Fertility Clinic. It's in Brianston.

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<v Speaker 3>It's corner Peter Place and a nursery lane. Or you

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<v Speaker 3>can just really go to our website made Fame, Madfam,

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<v Speaker 3>dotzo dot zta and you can see all the information

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<v Speaker 3>that's say and you can book an appointment through the website.