1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:01,000 Speaker 1: Seven two. 2 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 2: What's gone viral now, Cobzella. Every Friday you say something, 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 2: but today is technically false Friday, so it's. 4 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 3: Always always good on a false Friday. 5 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 4: Thank you made my day? All right, let's get down 6 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:22,319 Speaker 4: to business. Did you not see the dress code? What 7 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 4: is that about? 8 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 5: Yeah? 9 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 3: I mean that's probably one of the dreaded things. Right, 10 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 3: you rock up to an event and you start looking 11 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 3: at her around and you notice people are, you know, 12 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 3: wearing very very fancy attire and you are very casual, 13 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 3: and perhaps you misplaced the invite and you didn't check properly, 14 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 3: and you're rocked up to this event under dressed. So 15 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 3: these people have put this video online where they're at 16 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 3: a wedding and. 17 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 5: It is very formal. There's a very very very formal wedding. 18 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 3: Nobody is dressed other than like a nice tux and 19 00:00:57,640 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 3: a very wonderful evening wear dresses and all that kind 20 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 3: of stuff. And these two people rocked up there in 21 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 3: very casual stuff blue light blue, sky blue, you know, outfits, 22 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 3: and they were so embarrassed and they took a video 23 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 3: of themselves basically laughing, and then panned around and you know, 24 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 3: you saw all the people in the formal attire and 25 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:22,120 Speaker 3: they were like, oh, they've totally got it wrong. So, 26 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 3: you know, dress codes. I wanted to talk to our 27 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 3: seven or two family about dress codes. When you get 28 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 3: invited somewhere and it says dress code is business casual 29 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 3: or smart casual or. 30 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 5: Formal or fancy dress? 31 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 3: Do you like it when people specify what the dress 32 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 3: code is if you've been invited to an event or 33 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 3: do you think you know what? I actually prefer just 34 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 3: to wear what I feel comfortable in. I don't want 35 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 3: to have to, you know, be fancy or dress up 36 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 3: as a superhero or whatever it may be. 37 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 5: So let's talk about that. 38 00:01:56,920 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 3: Do you like dress codes and being specified or stands? 39 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 5: Yeah? 40 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 2: It is so difficult because I do prefer it, and 41 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 2: it's nice if you go to you know, sometimes it's 42 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 2: a black tie event and Ray pitches up in his 43 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 2: black tie and everybody's got a tie on and I'm 44 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 2: the only guy walking around with the black tie. 45 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 4: That has happened so often and I'm so embarrassed. So 46 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 4: the answer is yes, please. 47 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 3: And then if you do rock up, do you prefer 48 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 3: being overdressed or underdressed compared to everybody else? So like 49 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 3: if you rock up in a black tie and people 50 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 3: are maybe just wearing a formal shirt, would you prefer 51 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 3: to be dressed formally overdressed? Or you know, if you 52 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 3: rock up and you're wearing maybe just a T shirt 53 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 3: and people are wearing, you know, suits and all that 54 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 3: kind of stuff, what's the what's the most what's the 55 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 3: least awkward? 56 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 4: Be overdressed? 57 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 2: And to pitch up in your pirate suits and it's 58 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:56,799 Speaker 2: not a fancy dress. That has happened too, all right? 59 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:58,799 Speaker 2: Travel for business? Tell us more. 60 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 3: This is one for the corporate travelers where you are 61 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 3: traveling always for business. So this guy is his TikTok 62 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 3: handle is the corporate bro. And he posts a video 63 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 3: online saying, coming back to your hotel room after a 64 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 3: full day of meetings and knowing you only have twenty 65 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 3: minutes before a mandatory team dinner is the true definition 66 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 3: of pain, and he just collapses on his bed. And 67 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:28,519 Speaker 3: people who travel for worker, I'd love to hear their stories. 68 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 5: Do you love it? 69 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:32,679 Speaker 3: Did you want to get into that job because you 70 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 3: realize that there was a lot of travel involved, or 71 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 3: do you know, like maybe years later feel like this 72 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 3: work corporate travel is so hectic. So what's the worst 73 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 3: thing about being a corporate traveler where you've got to 74 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 3: travel to different provinces or maybe you've got to go 75 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 3: overseas once a month. What's the worst thing? And what 76 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 3: are the positives about it as well? I mean a 77 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 3: lot of people will look at you and say, oh, 78 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 3: you're so lucky you get to travel here, there, everywhere. 79 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 5: But I'm sure it takes its toll as well. 80 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, it does. It most certainly does. 81 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 2: I love being on the plane to Cape Town for 82 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 2: two hours, two hours of Edmund and watching movies. It's 83 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 2: me time, So there's one positive there. Oh seven two 84 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 2: seven two one seven two. Talking about travel, also talking 85 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:21,159 Speaker 2: about those invites that state the dress code yes or no. Yeah, 86 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 2: you've had a very busy morning. 87 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 6: THISTNG has been busy, and I can't wait to hear 88 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 6: the reactions on the dress code and traveling for work. 89 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:31,039 Speaker 6: I'm not a fan of dress code events because I 90 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:33,600 Speaker 6: never have the colors or the outfit. Now I need 91 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 6: to spend extra because I also need to buy a gift. 92 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:38,480 Speaker 6: But if I do have the color and it's a 93 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 6: fun themed one, I enjoyed. But it's just the spending 94 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 6: extra that. 95 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 4: I'm just not act what happens if you pitch up there? 96 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 2: Like I said, I once pitched up as a pirate 97 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 2: and nobody else is dressed. 98 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 4: Up and I'm like left alone. Yeah, I'd lovely. Do 99 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:54,039 Speaker 4: you have more reactions to that cover? 100 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 2: Zella asking what are your thoughts on invites that stage 101 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 2: dress code? Do you prefer to be told what the 102 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 2: dress code is? And have you ever got it wrong? 103 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 2: We'll get you shortly. And what's the thing you love 104 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 2: or hate about long distance traveling? 105 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 4: This is for work? 106 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 2: So oh seven to seven or two wants seven from soveto? 107 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 5: You know? 108 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 4: The dress code thing? 109 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 7: If people want to have a dress code and then 110 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:26,599 Speaker 7: still expect presents, it's just bizarre. So choose one have 111 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 7: a dress code, don't expect presents, have people come as 112 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 7: they want. Then we're happy to buy presents. Because now 113 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 7: if I don't have your Kaylas, I must search half 114 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 7: of Joe Big for this color for an outfit and 115 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 7: then get a present and then drive to their venue. 116 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 5: Eyebo. 117 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 4: But it isn't it nice to dress up? 118 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:49,280 Speaker 2: I mean I like to dress up every once in 119 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:52,359 Speaker 2: a while, Like, really, dress up looks smart because you know, 120 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 2: my standard is jeans and a T shirt. Matero, who 121 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 2: is smiling at me. 122 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: It's great when you're Mechine at a party and all 123 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: wakes out. But I agree with that particular cola. You 124 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 1: can't expect us to match to your theme. And also 125 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,720 Speaker 1: I get you gifts because we're definitely going to be 126 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:13,159 Speaker 1: spending on those clothes because I don't have a mauv 127 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 1: T shirt or whatever. 128 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 4: The shirt. 129 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: You know, though, particular color that you earthy colors that 130 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 1: has been such a popular thing these days. 131 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 5: I'm or you had. 132 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 2: I won't call it a fashion failure because it wasn't 133 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 2: your fault whatsoever. 134 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 8: I mean, I looked, I looked beautiful, You look beautiful. 135 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 4: Thank you, radiant at what happened. 136 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:34,840 Speaker 8: So I recently got an invite to a baby shower 137 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:37,119 Speaker 8: and I was so happy about this baby shower because 138 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 8: it was it's my best friend who is expecting a 139 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 8: little one, and you know, there's there's an invite that 140 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 8: went out. But I realized that the invite didn't specify 141 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 8: on the theme. So I went to art and I asked, Hey, 142 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:50,840 Speaker 8: what are we supposed to wear? There was no answer. 143 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 8: They like none, So I thought maybe there's no theme, right, 144 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:56,480 Speaker 8: because sometimes people do, Like when I have a party 145 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 8: or an event, I don't want to put up a theme. 146 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 8: People can come dress. 147 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 4: As they want. 148 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 8: It's my birthday, it's my party, so I don't want 149 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 8: to put pressure on people, you see. So I thought 150 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 8: maybe that was the case with the baby shower. I 151 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 8: you know, I rock up to the baby shower and 152 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 8: everybody's wearing cream, nude colors, earthy colors, as Moto saying, 153 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 8: because it's the in thing right now. And I just 154 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 8: I was taken aback. 155 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 4: You were jeans and a shirt. 156 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:26,239 Speaker 8: I was in a beautiful jean and in a beautiful shirt. 157 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 2: Let's just tell you, I did look at the picture. 158 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 2: You were the rose between the well dressed thorns. Yes, 159 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 2: because now it makes you look. 160 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 1: Like you were the organizer or the event planner. It 161 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 1: doesn't look like you're there with everyone else. 162 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 4: So it makes you look like you're just don't care. 163 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 1: You saw that. 164 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:51,000 Speaker 4: Did you get some catering complaints or something. I'm so sorry. 165 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 4: I'm just asking for a friend.