WEBVTT - Change your mindset: The truth within the lie - How to align with Universal principles to create the life you deserve 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:01.320 On seven o two. 0:00:01.880 --> 0:00:03.240 Change your Mindset. 0:00:05.800 --> 0:00:09.200 It's time now for your Change your Mindset feature right 0:00:09.240 --> 0:00:12.160 here on seven to twenty two minutes past ten. 0:00:12.480 --> 0:00:14.720 Good evening. If you've just joined us, where have you been. 0:00:14.760 --> 0:00:17.920 We've been having a fantastic time on the show and 0:00:18.280 --> 0:00:20.160 if you want to catch up on the conversations we've had, 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:23.200 please visit the Prime Media Plus app and they're all 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:26.400 up loaded on there for you to listen back to. 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:30.120 All right, it's time now for our next interview, right cha. 0:00:30.600 --> 0:00:32.720 This is still will be my song show. My name 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:35.640 is Kamoso Medca. I'm Infra bra Old this evening right 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:38.279 here on seven oh two and change your Mindset. This 0:00:38.320 --> 0:00:42.199 evening we talk about the truth that lies within the 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:45.640 truth within the lie. Yeah, you see, it's a time twister, 0:00:46.080 --> 0:00:49.040 the truth within the lie, how to align with universal 0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:53.040 principles to create the life you deserve. And it's really 0:00:53.159 --> 0:00:56.320 part of you know, the theme of tonight's show. And 0:00:56.360 --> 0:00:58.760 for that conversation we have, we're going to be joined 0:00:58.760 --> 0:01:02.760 by Dana Grant, an international masterlife and business coach, a 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:07.000 host of a global retreat, speaker and a co founder 0:01:07.120 --> 0:01:11.399 of a company called Calli Flower Foods. And you know, 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:14.119 we want to speak about how to attract good energy 0:01:14.200 --> 0:01:17.360 as you go through life. Often we're told to embrace 0:01:17.440 --> 0:01:22.280 your personal truth and then choose actions that reflect this truth. 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:24.840 But how do we go about doing all of this? 0:01:25.319 --> 0:01:28.080 And I think Dana's going to help us make sense 0:01:28.120 --> 0:01:30.880 of that. What are these universal principles that we can 0:01:30.920 --> 0:01:34.920 apply in our lives in order to better advance ourselves? 0:01:35.400 --> 0:01:37.959 And how do we go about applying them in our 0:01:38.000 --> 0:01:41.960 lives by being true to ourselves? We are getting Dana 0:01:42.000 --> 0:01:45.480 Grant on the line, and okay, I think we have Dana. 0:01:45.600 --> 0:01:47.360 You're ready to take that call. 0:01:47.640 --> 0:01:49.840 Danna. Good evening, Welcome to the show. 0:01:51.040 --> 0:01:52.960 Oh, thank you for having me. I'm so happy to 0:01:52.960 --> 0:01:53.320 be here. 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:55.800 It's lovely to have you on the show today. 0:01:55.840 --> 0:02:00.600 A really interesting conversation that we're having tonight around ligning 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:05.040 ourselves with universal principles in order to create the life 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:08.000 we deserve. And the first thing I thought initially was 0:02:08.639 --> 0:02:11.520 what are these universal principles that we use it in 0:02:11.720 --> 0:02:14.280 order to create this life that we think we deserve? 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:17.960 Well, you know, I think that's such a great question, 0:02:18.080 --> 0:02:20.919 but I want to really start with you know, we 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:22.120 were born worthy? 0:02:22.200 --> 0:02:23.520 That is that is your birthright. 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:26.280 We don't have to earn the worthiness in order to 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:29.480 call in what we want. So if we vibrate from 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:33.839 that frequency, and I believe everything is energy, and if 0:02:33.880 --> 0:02:38.560 we're born worthy, that means that we've already established that 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:40.600 the universe is abundant. 0:02:41.040 --> 0:02:42.800 You know, it's an abundant universe. 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:45.680 And it doesn't pick and choose who's abundant and who's not, 0:02:46.160 --> 0:02:48.520 contrary to what a lot of people think, you know. 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:52.480 So in that we need to understand that in this life, 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:56.800 usually before age seven, we hear stories, and we've created stories. 0:02:57.000 --> 0:03:00.320 We might have heard our parents say or our grandparents say, 0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:03.720 money doesn't grow on trees, and then we adapt these stories. 0:03:03.720 --> 0:03:06.320 That's just one of thousands, because. 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:09.400 Ninety five percent of our programming is stories and five 0:03:09.440 --> 0:03:13.080 percent we interject with something new. I believe that it 0:03:13.280 --> 0:03:16.639 only we only need one percent to change the beliefs. 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:18.880 The energy just has to be one percent greater than 0:03:18.919 --> 0:03:22.880 our past experience from a story we've created. And that's 0:03:22.919 --> 0:03:26.400 what I do. I shift stories with the truth and 0:03:26.800 --> 0:03:29.400 the lies that we've continued to tell ourselves that are 0:03:29.440 --> 0:03:29.959 not true. 0:03:30.120 --> 0:03:32.959 But we do create. We create because. 0:03:32.720 --> 0:03:34.840 They actually and then our ego comes in to protect 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:38.280 those stories because it feels safe within those walls that 0:03:38.320 --> 0:03:38.960 it's created. 0:03:40.240 --> 0:03:43.080 And what are some of those lies that we sometimes tell. 0:03:42.880 --> 0:03:48.080 Ourselves, Oh gosh, there are so many. I think that 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:52.000 it depends on the life you're living. Well, let's just 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:57.160 use a scenario of maybe a marriage and you feel 0:03:57.200 --> 0:03:59.600 safer in the marriage. Maybe someone let's just go all 0:03:59.600 --> 0:04:01.880 the way. Maybe they're being they're being abused, But the 0:04:01.920 --> 0:04:05.360 story they've told themselves is they cannot live without this 0:04:05.440 --> 0:04:07.760 person or they're not safe out in the world because 0:04:07.760 --> 0:04:09.480 they don't know what that looks like yet. 0:04:09.600 --> 0:04:11.080 So the terror barrier that. 0:04:11.120 --> 0:04:14.160 Is between them and a new life of freedom and 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:19.200 expansion is the fact that their body doesn't know the way, 0:04:19.480 --> 0:04:21.880 It doesn't know what that experience holds yet, so it 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:24.599 keeps them on the side of the terror barrier that 0:04:24.640 --> 0:04:27.160 repeats the cycle. And this is why we see this 0:04:27.240 --> 0:04:30.200 so often, because this is what they know, and they 0:04:30.279 --> 0:04:36.280 keep trying to recreate a different outcome to the same story. 0:04:36.560 --> 0:04:39.080 And I call that looping. We loop over here, and 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:41.479 I call it the maze. We're stuck in a maze, 0:04:41.520 --> 0:04:45.680 and we're always creating a different outcome for the same story, 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:49.520 which what it requires is a new playing field. It 0:04:49.640 --> 0:04:53.760 is something so uncomfortable because new is the most uncomfortable 0:04:54.720 --> 0:04:57.120 thing that we can do because we our body doesn't 0:04:57.120 --> 0:04:57.640 know it yet. 0:04:58.000 --> 0:04:59.599 Yeah, and why would once? 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:03.679 I mean, I suppose it's identifying or knowing this life 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:07.320 that we that you deserve. You know, you conduct told it. 0:05:07.360 --> 0:05:11.160 If we haven't identified what it is, well. 0:05:10.960 --> 0:05:12.839 I think that when I started, I said, you know, 0:05:12.880 --> 0:05:15.359 we were born worthy, it's our birthright. I think we 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:18.279 have to question everything that we know to be true, 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:21.120 and we also have to identify are we living a 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:22.919 life that we want? 0:05:23.080 --> 0:05:24.200 Does it feel like love? 0:05:24.960 --> 0:05:27.480 Are are we living? You know? I mean a lot 0:05:27.520 --> 0:05:29.920 of times we can identify this is not the life 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:32.440 I signed up for, or this is not what I'm 0:05:32.440 --> 0:05:35.680 not happy, but we assess that we have to actually, 0:05:35.960 --> 0:05:38.880 you know, there's something called radical honesty. But we do 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:41.760 have to get radically honest with ourselves and we have 0:05:41.839 --> 0:05:45.200 to ask ourselves the difficult questions. Am I willing to 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:47.479 make the changes? Because you know, we can have a 0:05:47.520 --> 0:05:50.479 commitment to anything, but we have to be consistent to 0:05:50.560 --> 0:05:54.720 the commitment of change of the newness. And it's uncomfortable, 0:05:54.880 --> 0:05:57.840 and we have to get prepared to get very uncomfortable. 0:05:58.160 --> 0:06:02.920 But there is enormous wards in this growth, in this expansion, 0:06:03.000 --> 0:06:07.080 in identifying the truth within the lie, because the lie 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:09.520 will keep us in the maze the rest of our lives. 0:06:09.560 --> 0:06:10.919 I call it a no growth zone. 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:13.680 We just want the same story, we want a different outcome, 0:06:13.720 --> 0:06:17.560 so we just keep applying the same tools over here 0:06:17.680 --> 0:06:21.160 in the truth. It's the truth is. It's uncomfortable. Our 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:23.760 body doesn't know the way yet, it hasn't experienced it. 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:27.039 We haven't met that version of ourselves yet. So we 0:06:27.200 --> 0:06:30.520 have to be willing to trust. And I you know 0:06:30.880 --> 0:06:32.880 you can't see, but right in my office, right now 0:06:32.880 --> 0:06:35.640 behind me, it's illuminated. It says trust the process. We 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:40.120 must trust that we are guided, that we are not alone, 0:06:40.279 --> 0:06:43.120 and that we will call in what we need. But 0:06:43.400 --> 0:06:46.480 first comes the trust. Not let me see some changes 0:06:46.480 --> 0:06:49.080 and then I'll trust. Nope, we must trust first, and 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:52.240 then the way opens up. And that's a big ask 0:06:52.360 --> 0:06:53.080 for a lot of people. 0:06:53.200 --> 0:06:56.320 Yes, I was about to say, I mean usually it's 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:57.120 the other way around. 0:06:57.160 --> 0:07:01.320 No, right, it is, and there is where the matrix is. 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:03.880 We want to see evidence. We want evidence, and then 0:07:03.920 --> 0:07:06.880 we'll make the decision. Nope, we trust, and then the 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:10.680 way opens up, and this is where everyone gets hung up. 0:07:10.680 --> 0:07:12.960 And this is why so many this is why the 0:07:13.000 --> 0:07:15.840 subconscious is so powerful. You know, it runs ninety five 0:07:15.880 --> 0:07:18.360 percent of the show, and most of them are stories 0:07:18.360 --> 0:07:21.680 that not even we haven't even created. They're not even 0:07:21.720 --> 0:07:24.480 our stories, but we've picked them up and we identify 0:07:24.560 --> 0:07:26.840 with them, and then we create an identity around it. 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:29.840 But if you want to live in this truth, it 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:34.560 means really identifying where the ego. I mean, the ego's great. 0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:36.880 It shows up to protect us. But we don't want 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:38.800 to kill the ego. We just want to quiet it 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:44.080 down so the heart energy can expand the ego retracts, judges, divides, separates, 0:07:44.400 --> 0:07:47.640 the heart energy expands and holds space for all the 0:07:47.680 --> 0:07:51.280 things that the soul desires. In a kind of an 0:07:51.440 --> 0:07:52.880 esoteric way of explaining it. 0:07:52.840 --> 0:07:56.480 Yeah, how important is it then to kind of look 0:07:56.480 --> 0:07:58.120 in the mirror. You know, earlier on in the show, 0:07:58.120 --> 0:08:00.680 we were speaking about our finances, and you know, we 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:05.480 were speaking about confronting our temperament in terms of about spending. 0:08:05.800 --> 0:08:08.600 How important isn't to take the time to look in 0:08:08.640 --> 0:08:11.520 the mirror and be honest with yourself about the position 0:08:11.600 --> 0:08:15.160 you in in order to identify what next. 0:08:15.960 --> 0:08:18.400 It is everything. I'm so glad you brought that up 0:08:18.400 --> 0:08:20.640 because I the first thing I do when I work 0:08:20.680 --> 0:08:24.480 with someone is I assign homework and they look in 0:08:24.520 --> 0:08:27.800 the mirror every day and they claim something. They put 0:08:27.800 --> 0:08:30.040 a stake in it. But they also are honest about that. 0:08:30.160 --> 0:08:34.120 You know, they claim something new other than what they've created. 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:36.760 But we also identify the stories that they've created and 0:08:36.800 --> 0:08:39.800 we challenge those. But you know, money is a pretty 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:43.800 interesting thing. Everybody wants more abundance. Let's just attach money 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:46.360 to that. Money is just an energy. So if we 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:47.680 want to do that, we're going to have to change 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:51.640 our frequency and we're going to need to raise our vibration. 0:08:51.760 --> 0:08:55.600 And we're talking about universal laws and money will follow authority. 0:08:55.679 --> 0:08:58.640 If you are not leading your life in you you 0:08:58.720 --> 0:09:02.080 must be your own authority. If you are out there 0:09:02.400 --> 0:09:05.600 and perhaps you feel like in you know, imposter syndrome, 0:09:05.679 --> 0:09:09.199 or you're your second guessing yourself, or you feel worthless, 0:09:09.400 --> 0:09:11.560 money is not going to follow you. You're going to 0:09:11.600 --> 0:09:15.160 have a high low, a limited you know, relationship with money, 0:09:15.400 --> 0:09:18.080 and you're never going to rise above your worthiness level. 0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:20.240 You're never going to make more than what you believe 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:24.000 you're worthy of. So money following authority of money being 0:09:24.320 --> 0:09:28.679 just an energy and the universe being incredibly abundant. What 0:09:28.720 --> 0:09:32.280 I've done is we're just utilizing universal laws and we're 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:35.880 matching it. We're vibrating where it is that we align 0:09:35.960 --> 0:09:37.840 with not I mean, we're not going to call something 0:09:37.880 --> 0:09:40.800 in if we're feeling, if we're feeling a low vibrational 0:09:40.920 --> 0:09:44.240 energy of not feeling worthy of our story. May be 0:09:44.720 --> 0:09:47.560 I'm not good with money. I've never earned anything. I 0:09:47.640 --> 0:09:51.520 always lose, you know, and perhaps we identify with some victimhood. 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:54.719 You know, we all have stories that we've created, and 0:09:55.120 --> 0:09:57.440 I know my own stories that i've you know, not 0:09:57.559 --> 0:09:59.440 only this is why I wrote the book. I not 0:09:59.520 --> 0:10:02.960 only live through and created. There are enormous losses and 0:10:03.400 --> 0:10:08.040 enormous grief and enormous healing, and there is life outside 0:10:08.160 --> 0:10:11.600 of a lot of trauma. And you know, you don't 0:10:11.600 --> 0:10:13.559 have to be in a lot of trauma to heal. 0:10:13.760 --> 0:10:16.080 You can heal from stories that you've just created that 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:18.920 can create a limit of belief that keep you stuck 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:23.000 in a story of lack and scarcity. 0:10:24.200 --> 0:10:24.840 So what do you do? 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:27.400 What do you do and where do you start? If 0:10:27.440 --> 0:10:29.320 you don't want to be tripped in the cycle. You know, 0:10:29.520 --> 0:10:32.000 someone may be listening on the radio thinking, Okay, this 0:10:32.080 --> 0:10:35.080 sounds old grace and it makes sense, but it's very abstract. 0:10:35.880 --> 0:10:36.880 What must I do? 0:10:38.400 --> 0:10:40.760 Yeah, it sounds abstract, but you know what I love. 0:10:41.120 --> 0:10:43.480 I love to keep it simple, and this is we 0:10:43.520 --> 0:10:46.640 meet ourselves where we are. We're honest about what we've 0:10:46.720 --> 0:10:50.160 created and perhaps the stories we're telling ourselves. If it 0:10:50.240 --> 0:10:53.680 is not creating the life you want, don't be afraid 0:10:53.679 --> 0:10:57.400 to shift and change your story. Find a mentor. Look 0:10:57.440 --> 0:10:59.959 around and see who has created a life that you 0:11:00.280 --> 0:11:03.280 want to live. If you're if you're surrounded by people 0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:07.320 that aren't creating a life that you want, I say, choose, 0:11:07.960 --> 0:11:12.240 choose some people that that that can mentor you. You You 0:11:12.280 --> 0:11:15.960 get a choice. Your greatest gift, your greatest power, is 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:19.280 the right to choose your intake outtake is where all 0:11:19.320 --> 0:11:22.880 your power is in the present moment. So I would say, 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:24.360 get very honest with yourself. 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:26.320 Where are you? Where are you in? 0:11:27.200 --> 0:11:29.640 You know? In life? Are you where you want to be? 0:11:30.080 --> 0:11:32.000 Do you want more money? Do you want more abundance? 0:11:32.040 --> 0:11:35.120 Do you want more joy? Everything? Is a vibration, but 0:11:35.200 --> 0:11:37.360 we call that in and we start internally. We do 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:41.600 not start externally. Most people attach externally. They're looking outside 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:44.880 of themselves for the answers, and it is internally. It 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:47.600 is the stories that we've created that we attract. I 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:49.960 say it needs to come into It comes in and flows. 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:52.640 It doesn't. We don't chase it, we don't work harder, 0:11:52.880 --> 0:11:55.160 but we pay very close attention to what it is 0:11:55.200 --> 0:11:57.160 we are attracting in our life. 0:11:57.800 --> 0:12:00.160 You know, as a as a as a business coach, 0:12:00.200 --> 0:12:03.040 and I'm sure you deal with a lot of people 0:12:03.080 --> 0:12:06.960 and you is it fit to assume that people don't 0:12:06.960 --> 0:12:09.400 want to know the truth about themselves, that they don't 0:12:09.400 --> 0:12:12.880 want to confront the truth about themselves because it scares 0:12:12.960 --> 0:12:16.480 them to to to to know and and and to 0:12:16.559 --> 0:12:20.440 almost you to come into contact with who they really are. 0:12:21.880 --> 0:12:24.120 Well, you know, I don't think so. This is why 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:27.320 we call it the terror barrier. That the terror barrier, 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:31.080 the truth and the unknown can be terrifying. But I 0:12:31.120 --> 0:12:33.240 don't think it's what they don't know. I think the 0:12:33.320 --> 0:12:38.040 power of not being powerless, but the untapped power that 0:12:38.320 --> 0:12:42.319 it's so powerful if people knew how much power they 0:12:42.520 --> 0:12:46.079 actually possessed. That could be terrifying because then they're then 0:12:46.120 --> 0:12:48.600 the stories come in. Would you So if you built 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:50.600 all that how you and you're not good with money, 0:12:50.600 --> 0:12:52.760 how are you going to manage all that money? You're 0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:55.280 probably going to lose it? So see the story start again. 0:12:55.720 --> 0:12:57.840 And so what we want to do is address and 0:12:57.920 --> 0:13:01.000 call out. Every time a story starts, we stop and 0:13:01.040 --> 0:13:03.880 we're like, that's not true. I this is how I 0:13:03.920 --> 0:13:06.520 know it's not true because the future hasn't happened yet. 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:09.160 And if I lean into my higher self, which is 0:13:09.200 --> 0:13:12.640 my future self who's leading the way in the unknown, 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:15.160 because that version of me has not been created yet, 0:13:15.480 --> 0:13:19.520 I have to trust that everything that's unfolding is working 0:13:19.640 --> 0:13:22.839 for me, that everything I'm doing I you know, and 0:13:22.920 --> 0:13:26.080 for my own personal life, I look at everything as 0:13:26.240 --> 0:13:30.320 an abundant everything, even something that might be look like 0:13:30.640 --> 0:13:32.800 a loss of a company, I look at the abundance 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:35.400 in it. What did I learn from this? And you know, 0:13:35.559 --> 0:13:37.040 I think that you know, I was, you know, I 0:13:37.080 --> 0:13:39.000 work with a lot of people all over the world, 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:41.280 but I was interviewing a billionaire on my podcast show 0:13:41.760 --> 0:13:44.040 this last month, and you know, he said, you know, Dana, 0:13:44.040 --> 0:13:48.280 by the time, some of my competitors are are researching 0:13:48.400 --> 0:13:51.200 and doing and trying to figure out the answer. I've 0:13:51.240 --> 0:13:53.320 already fallen on my face three times, and I've already 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:54.679 I've already hit the finish line. 0:13:54.920 --> 0:13:55.920 I'm already done here. 0:13:56.360 --> 0:13:59.240 And you know, I think people have to be willing 0:13:59.320 --> 0:14:03.400 to try. We're so frightened of making a mistake. There 0:14:03.480 --> 0:14:06.240 are no mistakes. What if we remove that There are 0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:09.280 no mistake, there's only lessons. And every time you're willing 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:12.240 to take a risk, and every time you're willing to 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:16.480 allow that lesson, there's growth. There's expansion. It's like, ah, 0:14:16.640 --> 0:14:19.000 now I know, now, I know. But if we're going 0:14:19.080 --> 0:14:21.080 to stay in this loop, in this maze and this 0:14:21.520 --> 0:14:24.280 story and recreating the stories, I call it a zero 0:14:24.280 --> 0:14:26.920 growth zone. So we have to call ourselves out and say, 0:14:27.080 --> 0:14:29.200 do I want more? Or am I willing to settle 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:32.840 and stay here? Because I'm too frightened. And usually there's 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:35.440 a core wound and a core fear of safety they want. 0:14:35.680 --> 0:14:38.400 Most people want to stay safe when it's an illusion 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:41.000 that that's the lie. The truth is in order to 0:14:41.040 --> 0:14:43.720 really be safe, we find it internally and we find 0:14:43.760 --> 0:14:46.680 it out in the unknown that we haven't created yet. 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:48.440 It's so expansive. 0:14:48.600 --> 0:14:50.840 And that's when we bring in universal laws, the law 0:14:50.840 --> 0:14:53.600 of abundance, the law of sacrifice. We have to sacrifice, 0:14:53.720 --> 0:14:56.240 we have to give up the old version of ourselves 0:14:56.440 --> 0:14:58.480 if we're willing to call in something new. 0:15:00.160 --> 0:15:03.040 You speak about the zero growth zone credibits, I mean, 0:15:03.120 --> 0:15:03.680 what is it? 0:15:04.040 --> 0:15:08.920 And how do you know that you are stuck in it? Well? 0:15:08.960 --> 0:15:10.920 You know, the best way, Like I said, I like 0:15:10.960 --> 0:15:13.840 to keep it simple, is it feels like Groundhog's day. 0:15:13.920 --> 0:15:16.280 It feels like every day you wake up and no 0:15:16.360 --> 0:15:18.880 matter who you meet, or you can change the people, 0:15:19.120 --> 0:15:22.640 or you can change the situation, but you're getting the 0:15:22.720 --> 0:15:25.560 same results that you're not getting the new results that 0:15:25.600 --> 0:15:28.920 you desire. And you know, and we see this over 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:31.240 and over again. Someone gets a divorce and they don't 0:15:31.400 --> 0:15:34.560 they don't change anything about themselves, or their healing doesn't happen, 0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:36.800 or there's no self reflection. 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:38.560 And I love mirror work. I love that you. 0:15:38.520 --> 0:15:41.880 Brought that up because everything is done internally and are 0:15:42.200 --> 0:15:44.840 the most intimate relationship you're ever going to have with 0:15:44.880 --> 0:15:49.520 yourself is with you, and those conversations need to be honest. 0:15:49.840 --> 0:15:54.480 But we lie to ourselves and because the lies create 0:15:54.560 --> 0:15:58.240 a form of safety, and perhaps we're not ready yet 0:15:58.560 --> 0:16:00.040 and there's no shame in this, and I think, but 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:03.360 what we do is we avoid shame. The shadow work 0:16:03.520 --> 0:16:06.040 is the shame, and we don't want to address that. 0:16:06.160 --> 0:16:09.920 So the lies protect us, the ego protects us. And 0:16:09.960 --> 0:16:13.920 if we can just love and accept, you know, every 0:16:14.080 --> 0:16:17.280 version of me. I go back and I look at 0:16:17.280 --> 0:16:20.800 the most damaged, the most version, I mean, the one 0:16:20.800 --> 0:16:23.200 that tried the most, even the one that was you know, 0:16:23.280 --> 0:16:26.240 trauma driven, that set records on a federal level, did 0:16:26.280 --> 0:16:28.720 incredible things. But I look at her and I love 0:16:28.720 --> 0:16:30.840 her the most because I know she was hurting the most. 0:16:31.000 --> 0:16:33.480 And I go back to every version of me and 0:16:33.520 --> 0:16:36.040 I love and I forgive, and I say, you're the 0:16:36.080 --> 0:16:39.120 bravest and I'm so grateful you got me here. We 0:16:39.240 --> 0:16:41.080 have to go back to the versions of us that 0:16:41.120 --> 0:16:43.720 we're hiding and we're saying, oh, I'm never going to 0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:46.480 talk about that. Well, we don't need to publicly write 0:16:46.480 --> 0:16:49.040 a book, And of course I did because I think 0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:51.600 it can help a lot of people to address. They 0:16:51.680 --> 0:16:54.160 look at the success of I want them to see 0:16:54.280 --> 0:16:57.320 the path, the growth of what it took to get here, 0:16:57.680 --> 0:16:59.720 and in their own life it can mirror back. 0:17:00.320 --> 0:17:02.760 They're what they're willing and this is it? 0:17:02.880 --> 0:17:06.080 Really? What are you willing to look at and heal 0:17:06.240 --> 0:17:10.720 and love about yourself and and forgive forget I say 0:17:10.760 --> 0:17:13.439 love and compassion or the answer and it starts with 0:17:13.520 --> 0:17:16.560 you, you know again, that intimate relationship with you. Where can 0:17:16.560 --> 0:17:19.000 you go back and love the version of you, forgive 0:17:19.040 --> 0:17:21.679 the version of you, and pick that version of you 0:17:21.800 --> 0:17:25.320 up and say thank you so much, I'm so grateful 0:17:25.359 --> 0:17:26.240 you got me here. 0:17:27.320 --> 0:17:29.880 Because those versions of us do. There is no shame 0:17:29.920 --> 0:17:30.360 in our game. 0:17:30.600 --> 0:17:31.240 Yeah. 0:17:31.600 --> 0:17:34.440 Well, speaking to Dana Grant and international master line and 0:17:34.520 --> 0:17:37.440 business coach and the host of global retreats, but taking 0:17:37.440 --> 0:17:40.000 your calls on zero double one, double a three oh 0:17:40.040 --> 0:17:42.320 seven oh two, that's if you want to speak to Dana, 0:17:42.680 --> 0:17:45.840 and I'm sure she'd love to hear your questions as 0:17:45.840 --> 0:17:50.080 we speak about aligning with universal principles to create the 0:17:50.160 --> 0:17:51.480 life you deserve. 0:17:52.200 --> 0:17:55.359 Dana. You know, sometimes I think there's an element of fear. 0:17:55.800 --> 0:17:58.720 You know, for many of us, we almost have grown 0:17:58.840 --> 0:18:02.760 comfortable wherever we are. We're in the zero growth zone. 0:18:02.800 --> 0:18:05.800 We're okay, we're making we're just making it in life, 0:18:06.240 --> 0:18:10.600 and there's really no reason, you know, to push ourselves 0:18:10.640 --> 0:18:13.679 beyond what we're experiencing. And we've come to know to 0:18:13.760 --> 0:18:17.560 accept life as we know it. What do you think 0:18:18.040 --> 0:18:21.359 would be it would take for a person who's listening 0:18:21.359 --> 0:18:24.280 on the radio to kind of push themselves out of 0:18:24.320 --> 0:18:27.840 this this place of no growth, to kind of get 0:18:27.880 --> 0:18:30.960 out of it. What's that boost that it would take 0:18:31.359 --> 0:18:32.920 to move into growth. 0:18:34.720 --> 0:18:37.040 I think you need to make a different batch of chemicals. 0:18:37.080 --> 0:18:39.000 And if you think about it, there's a universe that 0:18:39.000 --> 0:18:42.120 lives inside of us. You know, we have, you know, 0:18:42.400 --> 0:18:46.320 all of this energy that we navigate from. And while 0:18:46.359 --> 0:18:49.399 we show up using about forty percent of our energy 0:18:49.480 --> 0:18:52.119 every day, and this is statistically proven. Every day we 0:18:52.160 --> 0:18:54.399 show up with forty percent of our energy, sixty percent 0:18:54.480 --> 0:18:57.520 is either going to recreate old stories in a different 0:18:57.560 --> 0:19:00.960 outcome or sixty percent is going into this evolution this 0:19:01.160 --> 0:19:05.760 and evolving forward and creating a life that might be terrifying. 0:19:06.200 --> 0:19:09.280 But to answer your question, what they can do is 0:19:09.359 --> 0:19:14.320 make one just one change today, Just make a commitment 0:19:14.520 --> 0:19:19.480 and stay consistent with that. Just one percent each day 0:19:20.240 --> 0:19:24.040 changes the memory that the body is holding in the stories. 0:19:24.240 --> 0:19:26.760 And if we're consistent with that. This is why there's 0:19:26.800 --> 0:19:31.879 mantras and meditations and prayer. All these things shift the 0:19:32.000 --> 0:19:35.040 vibration and the energy and our belief system. 0:19:35.480 --> 0:19:38.399 But your belief system has to be challenged, you know. 0:19:38.840 --> 0:19:41.000 And this is again is if you're living a life 0:19:41.040 --> 0:19:44.159 that isn't fulfilling, isn't giving you what you want. And 0:19:44.240 --> 0:19:46.960 even if you don't want quantum leaf changes, but you 0:19:47.000 --> 0:19:50.040 want some small changes. Perhaps you want to tract more money, 0:19:50.600 --> 0:19:53.360 let's dive into your money stories. You know, what were 0:19:53.359 --> 0:19:55.880 the stories that your grandparents told or your parents told. 0:19:56.080 --> 0:19:58.119 What do you believe about money? You know? What is 0:19:58.160 --> 0:20:00.879 your relationship to money? Because that that's where it starts. 0:20:01.000 --> 0:20:04.880 We cannot create and like I said before, our high 0:20:04.920 --> 0:20:07.480 low lives within the walls of our stories. And if 0:20:07.480 --> 0:20:10.840 we want abundance, we've got to create a new vibrational 0:20:10.920 --> 0:20:14.800 energy to attract. My money only follows authority. It's just 0:20:15.160 --> 0:20:17.960 it's just an energy. And I know it's difficult for 0:20:18.000 --> 0:20:20.000 a lot of people to say, how can money be energy? 0:20:20.119 --> 0:20:21.440 Well, let's do it a step further. 0:20:21.800 --> 0:20:25.000