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Speaker 3: is Kamoso Medca. I'm Infra bra Old this evening right
Speaker 3: here on seven oh two and change your Mindset. This
Speaker 3: evening we talk about the truth that lies within the
Speaker 3: truth within the lie. Yeah, you see, it's a time twister,
Speaker 3: the truth within the lie, how to align with universal
Speaker 3: principles to create the life you deserve. And it's really
Speaker 3: part of you know, the theme of tonight's show. And
Speaker 3: for that conversation we have, we're going to be joined
Speaker 3: by Dana Grant, an international masterlife and business coach, a
Speaker 3: host of a global retreat, speaker and a co founder
Speaker 3: of a company called Calli Flower Foods. And you know,
Speaker 3: we want to speak about how to attract good energy
Speaker 3: as you go through life. Often we're told to embrace
Speaker 3: your personal truth and then choose actions that reflect this truth.
Speaker 3: But how do we go about doing all of this?
Speaker 3: And I think Dana's going to help us make sense
Speaker 3: of that. What are these universal principles that we can
Speaker 3: apply in our lives in order to better advance ourselves?
Speaker 3: And how do we go about applying them in our
Speaker 3: lives by being true to ourselves? We are getting Dana
Speaker 3: Grant on the line, and okay, I think we have Dana.
Speaker 3: You're ready to take that call.
Speaker 1: Danna. Good evening, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: Oh, thank you for having me. I'm so happy to
Speaker 4: be here.
Speaker 1: It's lovely to have you on the show today.
Speaker 3: A really interesting conversation that we're having tonight around ligning
Speaker 3: ourselves with universal principles in order to create the life
Speaker 3: we deserve. And the first thing I thought initially was
Speaker 3: what are these universal principles that we use it in
Speaker 3: order to create this life that we think we deserve?
Speaker 4: Well, you know, I think that's such a great question,
Speaker 4: but I want to really start with you know, we
Speaker 4: were born worthy?
Speaker 2: That is that is your birthright.
Speaker 4: We don't have to earn the worthiness in order to
Speaker 4: call in what we want. So if we vibrate from
Speaker 4: that frequency, and I believe everything is energy, and if
Speaker 4: we're born worthy, that means that we've already established that
Speaker 4: the universe is abundant.
Speaker 2: You know, it's an abundant universe.
Speaker 4: And it doesn't pick and choose who's abundant and who's not,
Speaker 4: contrary to what a lot of people think, you know.
Speaker 4: So in that we need to understand that in this life,
Speaker 4: usually before age seven, we hear stories, and we've created stories.
Speaker 4: We might have heard our parents say or our grandparents say,
Speaker 4: money doesn't grow on trees, and then we adapt these stories.
Speaker 2: That's just one of thousands, because.
Speaker 4: Ninety five percent of our programming is stories and five
Speaker 4: percent we interject with something new. I believe that it
Speaker 4: only we only need one percent to change the beliefs.
Speaker 4: The energy just has to be one percent greater than
Speaker 4: our past experience from a story we've created. And that's
Speaker 4: what I do. I shift stories with the truth and
Speaker 4: the lies that we've continued to tell ourselves that are
Speaker 4: not true.
Speaker 2: But we do create. We create because.
Speaker 4: They actually and then our ego comes in to protect
Speaker 4: those stories because it feels safe within those walls that
Speaker 4: it's created.
Speaker 1: And what are some of those lies that we sometimes tell.
Speaker 4: Ourselves, Oh gosh, there are so many. I think that
Speaker 4: it depends on the life you're living. Well, let's just
Speaker 4: use a scenario of maybe a marriage and you feel
Speaker 4: safer in the marriage. Maybe someone let's just go all
Speaker 4: the way. Maybe they're being they're being abused, But the
Speaker 4: story they've told themselves is they cannot live without this
Speaker 4: person or they're not safe out in the world because
Speaker 4: they don't know what that looks like yet.
Speaker 2: So the terror barrier that.
Speaker 4: Is between them and a new life of freedom and
Speaker 4: expansion is the fact that their body doesn't know the way,
Speaker 4: It doesn't know what that experience holds yet, so it
Speaker 4: keeps them on the side of the terror barrier that
Speaker 4: repeats the cycle. And this is why we see this
Speaker 4: so often, because this is what they know, and they
Speaker 4: keep trying to recreate a different outcome to the same story.
Speaker 4: And I call that looping. We loop over here, and
Speaker 4: I call it the maze. We're stuck in a maze,
Speaker 4: and we're always creating a different outcome for the same story,
Speaker 4: which what it requires is a new playing field. It
Speaker 4: is something so uncomfortable because new is the most uncomfortable
Speaker 4: thing that we can do because we our body doesn't
Speaker 4: know it yet.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and why would once?
Speaker 3: I mean, I suppose it's identifying or knowing this life
Speaker 3: that we that you deserve. You know, you conduct told it.
Speaker 3: If we haven't identified what it is, well.
Speaker 4: I think that when I started, I said, you know,
Speaker 4: we were born worthy, it's our birthright. I think we
Speaker 4: have to question everything that we know to be true,
Speaker 4: and we also have to identify are we living a
Speaker 4: life that we want?
Speaker 2: Does it feel like love?
Speaker 4: Are are we living? You know? I mean a lot
Speaker 4: of times we can identify this is not the life
Speaker 4: I signed up for, or this is not what I'm
Speaker 4: not happy, but we assess that we have to actually,
Speaker 4: you know, there's something called radical honesty. But we do
Speaker 4: have to get radically honest with ourselves and we have
Speaker 4: to ask ourselves the difficult questions. Am I willing to
Speaker 4: make the changes? Because you know, we can have a
Speaker 4: commitment to anything, but we have to be consistent to
Speaker 4: the commitment of change of the newness. And it's uncomfortable,
Speaker 4: and we have to get prepared to get very uncomfortable.
Speaker 4: But there is enormous wards in this growth, in this expansion,
Speaker 4: in identifying the truth within the lie, because the lie
Speaker 4: will keep us in the maze the rest of our lives.
Speaker 2: I call it a no growth zone.
Speaker 4: We just want the same story, we want a different outcome,
Speaker 4: so we just keep applying the same tools over here
Speaker 4: in the truth. It's the truth is. It's uncomfortable. Our
Speaker 4: body doesn't know the way yet, it hasn't experienced it.
Speaker 4: We haven't met that version of ourselves yet. So we
Speaker 4: have to be willing to trust. And I you know
Speaker 4: you can't see, but right in my office, right now
Speaker 4: behind me, it's illuminated. It says trust the process. We
Speaker 4: must trust that we are guided, that we are not alone,
Speaker 4: and that we will call in what we need. But
Speaker 4: first comes the trust. Not let me see some changes
Speaker 4: and then I'll trust. Nope, we must trust first, and
Speaker 4: then the way opens up. And that's a big ask
Speaker 4: for a lot of people.
Speaker 3: Yes, I was about to say, I mean usually it's
Speaker 3: the other way around.
Speaker 4: No, right, it is, and there is where the matrix is.
Speaker 4: We want to see evidence. We want evidence, and then
Speaker 4: we'll make the decision. Nope, we trust, and then the
Speaker 4: way opens up, and this is where everyone gets hung up.
Speaker 4: And this is why so many this is why the
Speaker 4: subconscious is so powerful. You know, it runs ninety five
Speaker 4: percent of the show, and most of them are stories
Speaker 4: that not even we haven't even created. They're not even
Speaker 4: our stories, but we've picked them up and we identify
Speaker 4: with them, and then we create an identity around it.
Speaker 4: But if you want to live in this truth, it
Speaker 4: means really identifying where the ego. I mean, the ego's great.
Speaker 4: It shows up to protect us. But we don't want
Speaker 4: to kill the ego. We just want to quiet it
Speaker 4: down so the heart energy can expand the ego retracts, judges, divides, separates,
Speaker 4: the heart energy expands and holds space for all the
Speaker 4: things that the soul desires. In a kind of an
Speaker 4: esoteric way of explaining it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, how important is it then to kind of look
Speaker 3: in the mirror. You know, earlier on in the show,
Speaker 3: we were speaking about our finances, and you know, we
Speaker 3: were speaking about confronting our temperament in terms of about spending.
Speaker 3: How important isn't to take the time to look in
Speaker 3: the mirror and be honest with yourself about the position
Speaker 3: you in in order to identify what next.
Speaker 4: It is everything. I'm so glad you brought that up
Speaker 4: because I the first thing I do when I work
Speaker 4: with someone is I assign homework and they look in
Speaker 4: the mirror every day and they claim something. They put
Speaker 4: a stake in it. But they also are honest about that.
Speaker 4: You know, they claim something new other than what they've created.
Speaker 4: But we also identify the stories that they've created and
Speaker 4: we challenge those. But you know, money is a pretty
Speaker 4: interesting thing. Everybody wants more abundance. Let's just attach money
Speaker 4: to that. Money is just an energy. So if we
Speaker 4: want to do that, we're going to have to change
Speaker 4: our frequency and we're going to need to raise our vibration.
Speaker 4: And we're talking about universal laws and money will follow authority.
Speaker 4: If you are not leading your life in you you
Speaker 4: must be your own authority. If you are out there
Speaker 4: and perhaps you feel like in you know, imposter syndrome,
Speaker 4: or you're your second guessing yourself, or you feel worthless,
Speaker 4: money is not going to follow you. You're going to
Speaker 4: have a high low, a limited you know, relationship with money,
Speaker 4: and you're never going to rise above your worthiness level.
Speaker 4: You're never going to make more than what you believe
Speaker 4: you're worthy of. So money following authority of money being
Speaker 4: just an energy and the universe being incredibly abundant. What
Speaker 4: I've done is we're just utilizing universal laws and we're
Speaker 4: matching it. We're vibrating where it is that we align
Speaker 4: with not I mean, we're not going to call something
Speaker 4: in if we're feeling, if we're feeling a low vibrational
Speaker 4: energy of not feeling worthy of our story. May be
Speaker 4: I'm not good with money. I've never earned anything. I
Speaker 4: always lose, you know, and perhaps we identify with some victimhood.
Speaker 4: You know, we all have stories that we've created, and
Speaker 4: I know my own stories that i've you know, not
Speaker 4: only this is why I wrote the book. I not
Speaker 4: only live through and created. There are enormous losses and
Speaker 4: enormous grief and enormous healing, and there is life outside
Speaker 4: of a lot of trauma. And you know, you don't
Speaker 4: have to be in a lot of trauma to heal.
Speaker 4: You can heal from stories that you've just created that
Speaker 4: can create a limit of belief that keep you stuck
Speaker 4: in a story of lack and scarcity.
Speaker 1: So what do you do?
Speaker 3: What do you do and where do you start? If
Speaker 3: you don't want to be tripped in the cycle. You know,
Speaker 3: someone may be listening on the radio thinking, Okay, this
Speaker 3: sounds old grace and it makes sense, but it's very abstract.
Speaker 1: What must I do?
Speaker 4: Yeah, it sounds abstract, but you know what I love.
Speaker 4: I love to keep it simple, and this is we
Speaker 4: meet ourselves where we are. We're honest about what we've
Speaker 4: created and perhaps the stories we're telling ourselves. If it
Speaker 4: is not creating the life you want, don't be afraid
Speaker 4: to shift and change your story. Find a mentor. Look
Speaker 4: around and see who has created a life that you
Speaker 4: want to live. If you're if you're surrounded by people
Speaker 4: that aren't creating a life that you want, I say, choose,
Speaker 4: choose some people that that that can mentor you. You You
Speaker 4: get a choice. Your greatest gift, your greatest power, is
Speaker 4: the right to choose your intake outtake is where all
Speaker 4: your power is in the present moment. So I would say,
Speaker 4: get very honest with yourself.
Speaker 2: Where are you? Where are you in?
Speaker 4: You know? In life? Are you where you want to be?
Speaker 4: Do you want more money? Do you want more abundance?
Speaker 4: Do you want more joy? Everything? Is a vibration, but
Speaker 4: we call that in and we start internally. We do
Speaker 4: not start externally. Most people attach externally. They're looking outside
Speaker 4: of themselves for the answers, and it is internally. It
Speaker 4: is the stories that we've created that we attract. I
Speaker 4: say it needs to come into It comes in and flows.
Speaker 4: It doesn't. We don't chase it, we don't work harder,
Speaker 4: but we pay very close attention to what it is
Speaker 4: we are attracting in our life.
Speaker 3: You know, as a as a as a business coach,
Speaker 3: and I'm sure you deal with a lot of people
Speaker 3: and you is it fit to assume that people don't
Speaker 3: want to know the truth about themselves, that they don't
Speaker 3: want to confront the truth about themselves because it scares
Speaker 3: them to to to to know and and and to
Speaker 3: almost you to come into contact with who they really are.
Speaker 4: Well, you know, I don't think so. This is why
Speaker 4: we call it the terror barrier. That the terror barrier,
Speaker 4: the truth and the unknown can be terrifying. But I
Speaker 4: don't think it's what they don't know. I think the
Speaker 4: power of not being powerless, but the untapped power that
Speaker 4: it's so powerful if people knew how much power they
Speaker 4: actually possessed. That could be terrifying because then they're then
Speaker 4: the stories come in. Would you So if you built
Speaker 4: all that how you and you're not good with money,
Speaker 4: how are you going to manage all that money? You're
Speaker 4: probably going to lose it? So see the story start again.
Speaker 4: And so what we want to do is address and
Speaker 4: call out. Every time a story starts, we stop and
Speaker 4: we're like, that's not true. I this is how I
Speaker 4: know it's not true because the future hasn't happened yet.
Speaker 4: And if I lean into my higher self, which is
Speaker 4: my future self who's leading the way in the unknown,
Speaker 4: because that version of me has not been created yet,
Speaker 4: I have to trust that everything that's unfolding is working
Speaker 4: for me, that everything I'm doing I you know, and
Speaker 4: for my own personal life, I look at everything as
Speaker 4: an abundant everything, even something that might be look like
Speaker 4: a loss of a company, I look at the abundance
Speaker 4: in it. What did I learn from this? And you know,
Speaker 4: I think that you know, I was, you know, I
Speaker 4: work with a lot of people all over the world,
Speaker 4: but I was interviewing a billionaire on my podcast show
Speaker 4: this last month, and you know, he said, you know, Dana,
Speaker 4: by the time, some of my competitors are are researching
Speaker 4: and doing and trying to figure out the answer. I've
Speaker 4: already fallen on my face three times, and I've already
Speaker 4: I've already hit the finish line.
Speaker 2: I'm already done here.
Speaker 4: And you know, I think people have to be willing
Speaker 4: to try. We're so frightened of making a mistake. There
Speaker 4: are no mistakes. What if we remove that There are
Speaker 4: no mistake, there's only lessons. And every time you're willing
Speaker 4: to take a risk, and every time you're willing to
Speaker 4: allow that lesson, there's growth. There's expansion. It's like, ah,
Speaker 4: now I know, now, I know. But if we're going
Speaker 4: to stay in this loop, in this maze and this
Speaker 4: story and recreating the stories, I call it a zero
Speaker 4: growth zone. So we have to call ourselves out and say,
Speaker 4: do I want more? Or am I willing to settle
Speaker 4: and stay here? Because I'm too frightened. And usually there's
Speaker 4: a core wound and a core fear of safety they want.
Speaker 4: Most people want to stay safe when it's an illusion
Speaker 4: that that's the lie. The truth is in order to
Speaker 4: really be safe, we find it internally and we find
Speaker 4: it out in the unknown that we haven't created yet.
Speaker 2: It's so expansive.
Speaker 4: And that's when we bring in universal laws, the law
Speaker 4: of abundance, the law of sacrifice. We have to sacrifice,
Speaker 4: we have to give up the old version of ourselves
Speaker 4: if we're willing to call in something new.
Speaker 3: You speak about the zero growth zone credibits, I mean,
Speaker 3: what is it?
Speaker 1: And how do you know that you are stuck in it? Well?
Speaker 4: You know, the best way, Like I said, I like
Speaker 4: to keep it simple, is it feels like Groundhog's day.
Speaker 4: It feels like every day you wake up and no
Speaker 4: matter who you meet, or you can change the people,
Speaker 4: or you can change the situation, but you're getting the
Speaker 4: same results that you're not getting the new results that
Speaker 4: you desire. And you know, and we see this over
Speaker 4: and over again. Someone gets a divorce and they don't
Speaker 4: they don't change anything about themselves, or their healing doesn't happen,
Speaker 4: or there's no self reflection.
Speaker 2: And I love mirror work. I love that you.
Speaker 4: Brought that up because everything is done internally and are
Speaker 4: the most intimate relationship you're ever going to have with
Speaker 4: yourself is with you, and those conversations need to be honest.
Speaker 4: But we lie to ourselves and because the lies create
Speaker 4: a form of safety, and perhaps we're not ready yet
Speaker 4: and there's no shame in this, and I think, but
Speaker 4: what we do is we avoid shame. The shadow work
Speaker 4: is the shame, and we don't want to address that.
Speaker 4: So the lies protect us, the ego protects us. And
Speaker 4: if we can just love and accept, you know, every
Speaker 4: version of me. I go back and I look at
Speaker 4: the most damaged, the most version, I mean, the one
Speaker 4: that tried the most, even the one that was you know,
Speaker 4: trauma driven, that set records on a federal level, did
Speaker 4: incredible things. But I look at her and I love
Speaker 4: her the most because I know she was hurting the most.
Speaker 4: And I go back to every version of me and
Speaker 4: I love and I forgive, and I say, you're the
Speaker 4: bravest and I'm so grateful you got me here. We
Speaker 4: have to go back to the versions of us that
Speaker 4: we're hiding and we're saying, oh, I'm never going to
Speaker 4: talk about that. Well, we don't need to publicly write
Speaker 4: a book, And of course I did because I think
Speaker 4: it can help a lot of people to address. They
Speaker 4: look at the success of I want them to see
Speaker 4: the path, the growth of what it took to get here,
Speaker 4: and in their own life it can mirror back.
Speaker 2: They're what they're willing and this is it?
Speaker 4: Really? What are you willing to look at and heal
Speaker 4: and love about yourself and and forgive forget I say
Speaker 4: love and compassion or the answer and it starts with
Speaker 4: you, you know again, that intimate relationship with you. Where can
Speaker 4: you go back and love the version of you, forgive
Speaker 4: the version of you, and pick that version of you
Speaker 4: up and say thank you so much, I'm so grateful
Speaker 4: you got me here.
Speaker 2: Because those versions of us do. There is no shame
Speaker 2: in our game.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Well, speaking to Dana Grant and international master line and
Speaker 3: business coach and the host of global retreats, but taking
Speaker 3: your calls on zero double one, double a three oh
Speaker 3: seven oh two, that's if you want to speak to Dana,
Speaker 3: and I'm sure she'd love to hear your questions as
Speaker 3: we speak about aligning with universal principles to create the
Speaker 3: life you deserve.
Speaker 1: Dana. You know, sometimes I think there's an element of fear.
Speaker 3: You know, for many of us, we almost have grown
Speaker 3: comfortable wherever we are. We're in the zero growth zone.
Speaker 3: We're okay, we're making we're just making it in life,
Speaker 3: and there's really no reason, you know, to push ourselves
Speaker 3: beyond what we're experiencing. And we've come to know to
Speaker 3: accept life as we know it. What do you think
Speaker 3: would be it would take for a person who's listening
Speaker 3: on the radio to kind of push themselves out of
Speaker 3: this this place of no growth, to kind of get
Speaker 3: out of it. What's that boost that it would take
Speaker 3: to move into growth.
Speaker 4: I think you need to make a different batch of chemicals.
Speaker 4: And if you think about it, there's a universe that
Speaker 4: lives inside of us. You know, we have, you know,
Speaker 4: all of this energy that we navigate from. And while
Speaker 4: we show up using about forty percent of our energy
Speaker 4: every day, and this is statistically proven. Every day we
Speaker 4: show up with forty percent of our energy, sixty percent
Speaker 4: is either going to recreate old stories in a different
Speaker 4: outcome or sixty percent is going into this evolution this
Speaker 4: and evolving forward and creating a life that might be terrifying.
Speaker 4: But to answer your question, what they can do is
Speaker 4: make one just one change today, Just make a commitment
Speaker 4: and stay consistent with that. Just one percent each day
Speaker 4: changes the memory that the body is holding in the stories.
Speaker 4: And if we're consistent with that. This is why there's
Speaker 4: mantras and meditations and prayer. All these things shift the
Speaker 4: vibration and the energy and our belief system.
Speaker 2: But your belief system has to be challenged, you know.
Speaker 4: And this is again is if you're living a life
Speaker 4: that isn't fulfilling, isn't giving you what you want. And
Speaker 4: even if you don't want quantum leaf changes, but you
Speaker 4: want some small changes. Perhaps you want to tract more money,
Speaker 4: let's dive into your money stories. You know, what were
Speaker 4: the stories that your grandparents told or your parents told.
Speaker 4: What do you believe about money? You know? What is
Speaker 4: your relationship to money? Because that that's where it starts.
Speaker 4: We cannot create and like I said before, our high
Speaker 4: low lives within the walls of our stories. And if
Speaker 4: we want abundance, we've got to create a new vibrational
Speaker 4: energy to attract. My money only follows authority. It's just
Speaker 4: it's just an energy. And I know it's difficult for
Speaker 4: a lot of people to say, how can money be energy?
Speaker 2: Well, let's do it a step further.
Speaker 4: Every time I do this exercise with my clients, every
Speaker 4: time I say I don't have enough money, or I
Speaker 4: don't have the money for that, I say, plug in
Speaker 4: for a month. Let's use the word energy. I don't
Speaker 4: have any energy for that. I don't have any energy,
Speaker 4: which is not true. It's a lie. And money is
Speaker 4: just energy. So you can see by flipping that you
Speaker 4: have a better idea of where that where you're holding
Speaker 4: that energy in your body, where it lands.
Speaker 2: I always ask them where do you feel that in
Speaker 2: your body?
Speaker 4: We always feel it in our body, you know, It's
Speaker 4: usually in our solar plex or our gut. And I'm
Speaker 4: like people will say often, hey, you know what, I
Speaker 4: trust my gut, and I'm like, I'm going to challenge that.
Speaker 4: You know, we want to trust intuition. Being a born intuitive,
Speaker 4: I trust my intuition. My gut is I'm guided by
Speaker 4: it because it's attached to the spleen and that's where
Speaker 4: all my fear is processed. So to trust my gut
Speaker 4: means I'm gonna trust every bit of fear that shows
Speaker 4: up in my life. And unless a lion is chasing me,
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna trust it. You know, it's it's there
Speaker 4: to keep me again. And I sometimes I think we're rigged,
Speaker 4: like it's geared against us because we have ninety five
Speaker 4: percent of our subconscious is running the show, which is
Speaker 4: stories we've created.
Speaker 2: To protect us. And I call it a note growth zone.
Speaker 3: And then you know, speak to fulfilling one's purpose. You
Speaker 3: know at what point? Then you know, does does does
Speaker 3: fulfilling your purpose come into play?
Speaker 4: Well? I think that everyone's got Fulfilling your purpose is
Speaker 4: a personal relationship to what it is you desire. And
Speaker 4: I think that on the playing field of abundance, you
Speaker 4: have to put a stake in it.
Speaker 2: What do you really desire?
Speaker 1: Are you?
Speaker 2: Have you ever said it out loud? This is what
Speaker 2: I want?
Speaker 4: You know? So many times we don't think it's important
Speaker 4: to speak our life into existence. But I can guarantee
Speaker 4: you every thought you have about money, relationships, life, it's
Speaker 4: leading your life, whether you speak it into existence or not.
Speaker 4: The thoughts that you're carrying is And I would suggest
Speaker 4: that people set an alarm and maybe every hour, let
Speaker 4: the alarm go off, and then immediately drop into what
Speaker 4: you're thinking. And your most dominant thought is what you're
Speaker 4: going to be creating three to six months from now.
Speaker 4: If you want to plant new spiritual seeds, you have
Speaker 4: to change your thoughts.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want us to speak to planning for the
Speaker 3: rest of the year and what it's going to take
Speaker 3: really to change our habits in order to achieve what
Speaker 3: we're trying to achieve in that life. But we're speaking
Speaker 3: to Dana Grant, an international master life and business coach.
Speaker 3: She's a Canote speaker and co founder of Calli Flower Foods.
Speaker 3: She's joining us now live on the line. We're speaking
Speaker 3: to changing your mindset, how to align with universal principles
Speaker 3: in order to create the life you deserve. Give us
Speaker 3: a call on zero double one double eight three oh
Speaker 3: seven oh two. That's zero double one double eight three
Speaker 3: oh seven oh two. All right, Dana, I'm a client.
Speaker 3: I come see you, and I say it is July.
Speaker 3: The second half of the year has started, and I
Speaker 3: want to see changes as I move towards the end
Speaker 3: of the year. I want to see growth. I want
Speaker 3: to see abundance. I want to live a fulfilling life.
Speaker 3: What should I do well.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna number one, meet you where you are and
Speaker 4: ask questions about your life, about what choices you're making
Speaker 4: and what and where your growth. Where I mean growth
Speaker 4: is is that's I don't want to say it's generic
Speaker 4: but everybody has something more specific, So I would go
Speaker 4: deeper and I would really stretch on what you want.
Speaker 4: And you know, sometimes people play small, they think they
Speaker 4: So once again, I'm back in the high low. You
Speaker 4: may think that this is what you want, but by
Speaker 4: the time I'm done within six months what they started
Speaker 4: out asking for, they've wanted so much more, but they're
Speaker 4: afraid to claim it because they don't think they can
Speaker 4: have it. So I'm going to celebrate you know, right
Speaker 4: where you are right now, and I'm going to build
Speaker 4: on that because it's one thread at a time, and
Speaker 4: believe it or not, once again, the quantumly everybody wants
Speaker 4: to change their night, their life overnight, but it takes
Speaker 4: time to unpack. You unpack your stories. You don't pick
Speaker 4: up all the pieces, but the ones that no longer
Speaker 4: fit and no longer serve you you let go of.
Speaker 4: You use. This is where the universal laws come in.
Speaker 4: We use the universal laws sacrifice. We're we're willing to
Speaker 4: sacrifice that version of us that no longer fits.
Speaker 2: So we're looking at what is it I want would it?
Speaker 4: And we make a list and we start executing what
Speaker 4: would it take to build that life? What are you
Speaker 4: willing to do. I mean, if you're if you want
Speaker 4: a life and you want to make a million dollars
Speaker 4: this year, and someone comes to me and they do.
Speaker 4: They come to me and they're like, this is what
Speaker 4: I want to do. This is how I'm going to
Speaker 4: do it. And the structure and the foundation and the
Speaker 4: seeds are not in place. You know, tell me what
Speaker 4: you're doing right now, and I'm going to tell you
Speaker 4: where you're at. I don't even need to be a psychic,
Speaker 4: you know, born a psychic. I don't even need to
Speaker 4: be one. In this three to six months from now,
Speaker 4: I'm going to tell you exactly where you are. Being
Speaker 4: born with who I am just allows me to ask
Speaker 4: better questions. You know, giving people the golden ticket never works,
Speaker 4: but leading them into the direction that I know they desire.
Speaker 4: Because people are always going to play small, They're never
Speaker 4: going to ask for the amount that they want. I
Speaker 4: have found that over and over again that we're going
Speaker 4: to build on abundance again. I'm going to lean into
Speaker 4: abundance and I'm going to look at where their lack
Speaker 4: and scarcity are. I'm going to listen to their stories.
Speaker 4: Listening is a huge part, you know, how they speak
Speaker 4: about their life are what are their current relationships look like,
Speaker 4: you know they are they complaining about their full life
Speaker 4: or are they already making changes that they desire.
Speaker 1: Dan, let's go into.
Speaker 3: The law of CAUs an effect and how one convist
Speaker 3: apply that in you know, sometimes we act and we
Speaker 3: forget that what we give out is what we are
Speaker 3: going to receive.
Speaker 4: Oh, I love this one. In fact, you know, it's
Speaker 4: so crazy that this is one of my favorite laws
Speaker 4: because people don't realize that cause and effect is for
Speaker 4: every action, there's a reaction for everything we do. There's
Speaker 4: a consequence everything that I do now in maybe two
Speaker 4: years from now, but it's going to come back to me.
Speaker 2: It just does.
Speaker 4: It's very rare that we do something without a response
Speaker 4: back from the universe, God, divine, whatever they can, whatever
Speaker 4: anyone connects to. But the energy is real and we
Speaker 4: have to realize that we are first cause, which means
Speaker 4: you come first. And a lot of times people are like, oh,
Speaker 4: and as women, women believe they've got to sacrifice and
Speaker 4: serve and they would never put themselves first. But by
Speaker 4: depleting themselves, they they're really not of service to anyone.
Speaker 4: They're not at their highest level of service. And if
Speaker 4: we desire service, it just just that if I desire
Speaker 4: to serve the world, guess what I'm going to do.
Speaker 4: I'm going to utilize boundaries and perimeters and take care
Speaker 4: of myself first, say no when it's applicable, say and
Speaker 4: you know what, and navigate this energy. And if I'm first,
Speaker 4: cause it means that everything I do comes first at first.
Speaker 4: When I did this years ago, I'm like, oh, that's
Speaker 4: so selfish, And that just showed me that And I
Speaker 4: really did have messy boundaries, and I think boundaries are
Speaker 4: so important putting up the parameters to protect our energy.
Speaker 4: But also know that and cause and effect were first,
Speaker 4: cause we've got to come first. Everything is a reaction
Speaker 4: or reactory after.
Speaker 1: That, and we call it.
Speaker 3: All in yes, And that low links very closely to
Speaker 3: the law vibration because again, the vibrations that you give,
Speaker 3: other vibrations that you attect.
Speaker 4: Yeah, everything vibrates. You know, I'm holding a pen right now,
Speaker 4: it's vibrating. Everything vibrates at a certain frequency, and there
Speaker 4: is frequencies that are higher than others. This is where
Speaker 4: I say gratitude. Gratitude is one of the highest vibrations
Speaker 4: that in as short of enlightenment, We've got gratitude, then love, compassion.
Speaker 4: If we show up and we are utilizing these on
Speaker 4: the daily, not one and done, but we're showing up
Speaker 4: and we are loving, and we are compassionate, and we
Speaker 4: are relationship with our self changes. It's first cause remember
Speaker 4: it starts with us first. We must go back to
Speaker 4: what I said prior to those versions of us and
Speaker 4: love and have compassion instead of shaming ourselves and saying
Speaker 4: why didn't you do better? And if you just did this,
Speaker 4: or if I only had done that, and full of
Speaker 4: regret and shame and you know, but utilizing love and
Speaker 4: compassion there so we're able to evolve, and then we
Speaker 4: show secondary we show up in the world. The cause
Speaker 4: and effect is we start with our own personal relationship
Speaker 4: and then we start showing up in the world, and
Speaker 4: then we start seeing life shifting as calling in different vibrations.
Speaker 4: All of a sudden things start showing up and we're like, wow,
Speaker 4: I didn't even ask for that, and here it is. Well,
Speaker 4: imagine that flow. You know, we never want to chase.
Speaker 4: We wanted to flow towards us. And it is possible.
Speaker 4: I've not only built a million dollar business on this.
Speaker 4: I've done it multiple times with clients and it works.
Speaker 4: It's tried and true. But boy, the reprogramming, I'm not
Speaker 4: going to say it's easy. Sometimes we are embedded in
Speaker 4: protection in our stories, and I know this one. You know,
Speaker 4: when we've had betraying. You know the world may have
Speaker 4: not given us the evidence to trust. We may we made.
Speaker 4: We might have been betrayed over and over again. And
Speaker 4: I was betrayed over and over again. But I am
Speaker 4: in trust what it what it taught me. The abundance
Speaker 4: is in this is I no longer put my trust
Speaker 4: in the exterior. I put my trust within me. So
Speaker 4: now I don't second guess. I can utilize my gifts.
Speaker 4: I can show up because I'm first. Cause if I'm
Speaker 4: trusting me, everything that comes to me, I'm neither learned,
Speaker 4: meaning from or evolving too. It's all growth. It's all
Speaker 4: growth related, and it's all a growth curve. And money
Speaker 4: just follows that money. When people focus on money, money
Speaker 4: just follows our growth and our vibration, the law vibration
Speaker 4: and the law of you know, attraction. That's what they're
Speaker 4: all intertwined. And that's why I incorporated fourteen of my
Speaker 4: favorite laws into this so people could utilize those and
Speaker 4: different modalities. So something out there, you know, would speak
Speaker 4: to them about how they're showing up and what can
Speaker 4: they use that's simple and easy, because no one's going
Speaker 4: to do complicated and they might already know complicated either.
Speaker 4: You know, there's an easy way to do things in
Speaker 4: a hard way, and a lot of times we know
Speaker 4: the hard way, and so guess what we're going to
Speaker 4: choose over and over again, the hard way. I want
Speaker 4: to introduce a simple way, an easy way, and I
Speaker 4: do that repetitively, and so I deconstruct. If you came
Speaker 4: to me, we would tear it, tear it down, and
Speaker 4: then we'd read old.
Speaker 2: An easier way, an easier way for.
Speaker 4: You to attract flow and build the life that you
Speaker 4: truly desire, not the one you think you can have,
Speaker 4: but the one that you really really desire.
Speaker 2: And it does take a while to get to that.
Speaker 4: Sometimes people aren't even aware that they've created stories around
Speaker 4: their protection that they don't even know what they want.
Speaker 4: Most of the time they're like, I don't even know
Speaker 4: what I want. That doesn't surprise me at.
Speaker 1: All, Dana.
Speaker 3: Unfortunately, we have right out of time. Please give us
Speaker 3: your contact details. How do people find you and your socials?
Speaker 3: Way can they get in touch with you?
Speaker 4: Well, you can find me at datagrant dot com. That's
Speaker 4: I love Instagram. I answer all my own messages. It's
Speaker 4: important to me, you know. To be of service means
Speaker 4: I want to help as many people as I can.
Speaker 4: And you can find me at the real Data Grant
Speaker 4: on Instagram. You can find me on LinkedIn, Facebook. I'm
Speaker 4: out there.