1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 1: Seven oh two Weekend Breakfast and Parenting with Nicki Bush. 2 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:08,719 Speaker 2: Twelve minutes after eight o'clock. Time for us to talk 3 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 2: parenting for this week and this morning, we're talking about 4 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 2: cognitive development. We often hear about the things that can 5 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:20,079 Speaker 2: either encourage or impair cognitive development. Cell Phone screen time 6 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 2: over the last couple of years, over the last few decades, 7 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 2: has emerged is one of the things that's well unregulated 8 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 2: screen time has emerged as one of the things that's 9 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 2: impairing cognitive development of children. But why is cognitive development 10 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:38,239 Speaker 2: so important? Why should parents be concerned with cognitive development? 11 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 2: How can they help kids develop their cognitive skills? Maybe 12 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:44,319 Speaker 2: have a question, give us a call on on one one, 13 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:46,839 Speaker 2: eight three or seven oh two, send us an SMS 14 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 2: on three one seven oh two and your WhatsApps on 15 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 2: seven two, seven oh two one at seven oh two. 16 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 2: Joining us via zoom is our human potential and parenting expert, 17 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 2: Nikki Bush. 18 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 1: Nikki, A very good morning. 19 00:00:57,760 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 3: Too, morning dogs. 20 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 1: So this one we're talking. 21 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:04,640 Speaker 2: About cognitive development, something we hear quite a lot about, 22 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 2: particularly among younger children, about the importance of cognitive development 23 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:11,960 Speaker 2: that kids. You know, there are things that can either 24 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:16,679 Speaker 2: encourage or impair cognitive development. So let's start here. What 25 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 2: is cognitive development? Why is it so important? 26 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:26,400 Speaker 3: So it's about the thinking patterns helping our children develop 27 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 3: thinking patterns and intellectual behavior. So cognitive development in its 28 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,279 Speaker 3: own right, if you just think about that, term sounds 29 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:40,479 Speaker 3: pretty smart and pretty difficult, but it's actually about how 30 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 3: our children think. And these thinking skills should enable our 31 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 3: children to use thought processes learned in one situation in 32 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 3: another unrelated situation or a new context, so to be 33 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 3: able to adapt your thinking to different situations, just as 34 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 3: we do. You know, as adults, we problem solve all 35 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 3: day and we adapt our problem solving skills from context 36 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 3: to context. So our children must learn to apply what 37 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 3: they learn in any context throughout their lives. And this 38 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 3: is the higher order thinking. And it's about, in basic 39 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 3: laymen's terms, helping your child to make sense of what 40 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 3: he sees, what she hears, what they feel, what they taste, 41 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 3: touch and smell. So we talk about perceptual skills often, 42 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 3: especially in the early years, how children acquire perceptual skills, 43 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,799 Speaker 3: and that is all about how they process what they 44 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 3: experience in the world. Back to what I just said, 45 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 3: what they see here, feel, taste, touch, and smell through 46 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 3: their senses. So children are multi sensory learners and now 47 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 3: we're taking them up a few degrees to develop those 48 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:03,359 Speaker 3: thinking skills. 49 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 2: Right, And so it sounds as though that these skills 50 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 2: are being developed I guess from quite young, from when 51 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 2: they are quite little, and that by the time I 52 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:18,240 Speaker 2: guess they are, you know, talking, they are writing, they're 53 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 2: in preschool, primary school, that these skills have either been 54 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 2: I guess developed and nured or these skills are you know, 55 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:30,640 Speaker 2: not yet refined, depending on you know, the kind of 56 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 2: environments the child has been raised in. 57 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 3: To your point, we need to provide children with a 58 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 3: rich learning environment, a stimulating learning environment that really encourages 59 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 3: them to be curious about the world around them. And 60 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 3: these skills are certainly not all in place by the 61 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 3: time your child gets to school. This is something cognitive 62 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 3: development takes place on an ongoing basis at different levels 63 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 3: of difficulty, shall we say so the complexity of cognitive 64 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 3: development skills keeps increasing as your child moves through the 65 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 3: education system. Because if you think about university, what we 66 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:20,839 Speaker 3: say about engineers is that they are the best problem solvers, 67 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 3: which is why many young engineers coming straight out of 68 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 3: university are snapped up by the financial services sector. The 69 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 3: banks pick up engineers like crazy, and a lot of engineers. 70 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 3: In fact, probably most qualified engineers don't land up in engineering, 71 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 3: and it's because of the quality of their problem solving ability. 72 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 3: This is cognitive thinking and it's a lifelong skill. So, 73 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 3: like with reading and writing, cognitive development thinking skills are 74 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 3: a gift that we give our children for life, but 75 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 3: they are they are skills that get refined over and 76 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 3: over again throughout our lives, because even you and I 77 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 3: are still refining our cognitive thinking every time we find 78 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 3: ourselves in a new situation. Every time we adapt our 79 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:18,280 Speaker 3: thinking skills and our problem solving skills to something else, 80 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 3: we've added a layer to what we can do. So 81 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 3: I think that's the amazing thing about cognitive skills is 82 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:31,279 Speaker 3: that they keep developing throughout our lives. But back to 83 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 3: your point, the environment is important, and cognitive skills are 84 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 3: not just developed at school. They are very much developed 85 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:42,159 Speaker 3: in the home setting as well. 86 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 2: And so then it sounds as though that as kids 87 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 2: become I guess more aware of their environments the people 88 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 2: around them. Often we'll speak about people say one of 89 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 2: the difficult times is when their kids learn the word why. 90 00:05:58,240 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 1: You know it's raining outside? Why is it? 91 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 2: Why can't I go outside? Why do I have to 92 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 2: wear issues? Why do I need to go to bed? 93 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 2: But that sounds as though that is an example, one 94 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 2: small example, a big example of cognitive development of your child, 95 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:18,239 Speaker 2: kind of learning about play and kind of questioning things. 96 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:21,679 Speaker 2: That that why phase, as tough as it is for parents, 97 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 2: sounds like a good a good cognitive development time. 98 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's probably really when when you become aware 99 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 3: that your child is starting to develop their thinking skills, 100 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 3: and that question why I can drive parents nutty. But 101 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 3: the more your child is asking why, the more you 102 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 3: know that they're actually engaging with their world, with their environment. 103 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:50,040 Speaker 3: They're being curious about why the sky is blue, why 104 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:54,039 Speaker 3: there's a traffic jam, why you know a fire creates heat? 105 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 3: For example. So Einstein said that all learning is experience. 106 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 3: Everything else is just information, and that's why we encourage 107 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 3: multisensory learning, concrete experience with the world. So you mentioned 108 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 3: at the beginning of this feature that cell phone use, 109 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 3: and I wouldn't say cell phone use specifically, but on 110 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 3: screen learning is taking away some of the interaction with 111 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 3: the real world for children, and so in the early years, 112 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 3: and when I say the early years, i'm talking right 113 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 3: up until the age of thirteen, when children finish primary school. 114 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 3: We really need to encourage more interaction with the real world, 115 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 3: with real toys, with real games, with real objects, with 116 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 3: outdoor play, physical interaction with the world as much as possible, 117 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 3: because this gives children an understanding of how they interact 118 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 3: with the world. Because they are ecocentric learners, everything starts 119 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 3: first with me, and that's how they create meaning. So 120 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 3: we have three stages of learning. The first is concrete, 121 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 3: which was interacting with the real world, say, for example, 122 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 3: a real apple or a real a real glass. You know, 123 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 3: parents are always saying don't, don't, don't drop the glass. 124 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 3: Don't drop the glass. Why thinks the child, Why should 125 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 3: I not drop the glass? And it's only when they 126 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 3: see a glass actually breaking, whether they dropped it or 127 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 3: somebody else did that they realize that this glass can 128 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 3: break into a thousand pieces. If they've never seen it 129 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:41,320 Speaker 3: or experienced it, they'll never understand why their parents say 130 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 3: don't drop the glass. And then we move into the 131 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 3: semi concrete, which is the picture of the glass that's 132 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:54,080 Speaker 3: full of milk or orange juice. And then we move 133 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 3: into the abstract, and the abstract would be the word 134 00:08:57,040 --> 00:09:03,079 Speaker 3: glass or the letter G or a dot or a one, 135 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 3: because there's one glass or ten for ten glasses. So 136 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:13,319 Speaker 3: that's how the brain learns from real two more abstract. 137 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 3: But if they don't have the example of the real, 138 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 3: it's very hard to imagine what reel is if they've 139 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:24,559 Speaker 3: only ever heard the word glass. What is a glass? 140 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 3: A glass can be filled and emptied, a glass you 141 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 3: can pour from a glass, you can drink from a glass. 142 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 3: You could put your your toothbrushes and the toothpaste on 143 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 3: the basin. And a glass can be round, and it 144 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 3: can be tall, it can be short. A glass is 145 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:47,080 Speaker 3: generally cold, and a glass can break. So look at 146 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:50,960 Speaker 3: all the qualities and the properties of a glass. And 147 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 3: then we need to talk our children clever. Going back 148 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 3: to what you said about about questions and the question one. 149 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 3: Children develop concepts by doing so when they're little, a 150 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:11,559 Speaker 3: lot of touching, a lot of exploring, a lot of investigating, experimenting. 151 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 3: Even in primary school, a teacher will take the children 152 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 3: out into the playground under the trees and they will 153 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 3: have to go and find five different kinds of leaves 154 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 3: and point out things that they see. So observing the world, 155 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 3: investigating and observing. Giving children a magnifying glass so that 156 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 3: they can see really tiny things with you know, magnified. 157 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 1: So then we. 158 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 3: Take them on a journey of naming the things they 159 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 3: see and describing them and then comparing things. So in 160 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 3: the early years, playing with shape and color and quantity 161 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 3: games where there's a whole lot of plastic shapes, for example, 162 00:11:00,720 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 3: and you've got squares and rectangles and diamonds and triangles 163 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 3: and circles, but they're all of different colors. So we 164 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 3: tell our child to sort and classify. So find me 165 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 3: all the circles, Find me all the squares, Find me 166 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 3: all the green shapes, Find me all the blue shapes. 167 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 3: So now your child is comparing things to each other 168 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 3: and according to properties, they are classifying them into groups. 169 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:29,360 Speaker 3: Then we'll move into things like once. They can do 170 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:33,839 Speaker 3: numbers and shapes exactly the same things. So find all 171 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 3: the a's, find me all the consonants, find me all 172 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:41,199 Speaker 3: the vowels. Can they group them according to those properties, 173 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 3: So sorting, classifying, grouping, analyzing, those are thinking skills, and 174 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 3: it's critical thinking skills comparison. And then what we want 175 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 3: is for our child to be able to communicate what 176 00:11:57,240 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 3: they've learned. So thattion is then transferring the information that 177 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 3: they've learned in different ways, and they do that by 178 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 3: suggesting and questioning and evaluating. What is a science experiment. 179 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:17,720 Speaker 3: If it is not evaluation, then they have to interpret 180 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 3: the results, and then they have to predict what might happen, 181 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 3: and then they have to explain. So, you know, we 182 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 3: could we could have a really simple way of you know, 183 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 3: talking about different groups of things. So take for example, 184 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 3: domestic animals. So farm animals and wild animals, why are 185 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:46,280 Speaker 3: they different? And so you start having conversations with your 186 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:49,960 Speaker 3: child about the differences between those two groups of animals 187 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 3: and the animals you find on a farm very much. 188 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 3: You know, they eat grass and they drink water, and 189 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:04,680 Speaker 3: we often drink their milk for example, or the meat 190 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 3: and the chicken, et cetera. So there's a whole process 191 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:12,080 Speaker 3: of thinking around farm animals. And then what's the difference 192 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 3: between a farm animal and a wild animal. Well, we 193 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 3: don't feed wild animals. The wild animals go and find 194 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:24,119 Speaker 3: their own food and they're either grazers or their hunters. 195 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 3: And then you've got the whole ecosystem of which animal 196 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 3: eats what and how. That's the circle of life. So 197 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:41,320 Speaker 3: conversation is key to all of this learning and questioning 198 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:45,560 Speaker 3: is that technique to promote these thinking skills? And I'm 199 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 3: sure you learned about the five w's, the four w now, 200 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:55,959 Speaker 3: the five w's and the H at school gigs, So 201 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 3: can you remember what that was? 202 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:04,440 Speaker 1: Gosh? The turn scores through who, what, when, where? And how? 203 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 3: That's correct? So who, what, when? Where? 204 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 1: How? 205 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:14,080 Speaker 3: And why is the other the other one? And the why? 206 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:18,679 Speaker 3: So questions beginning with what and who helped the child 207 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 3: to classify things into groups, and questions beginning with where 208 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 3: help children to locate things in the correct place? Questions 209 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 3: beginning with when help your child to grasp the concept 210 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 3: of time and sequence. Questions beginning with why help your 211 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 3: child to understand the meaning of cause and effect? And 212 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 3: then how helps your child to identify problems and sort 213 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:56,520 Speaker 3: out important details? And those questions are questions that we 214 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:59,240 Speaker 3: use for the rest of our life. 215 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 2: So encouraging your child's curiosity, why is it like this? 216 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 2: How is it like this? When is it like this 217 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 2: all of those questions seem to be one of the 218 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 2: crucial ways to develop your child's cognitive ability. So encouraging 219 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 2: them to be curious, to be inquisitive, wanting to find 220 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 2: things out, and then also allowing them to find them 221 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 2: out in a quite a tactical way. So instead of 222 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 2: you know, asking AI, you're googling it. 223 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 1: What if you do an experiment? 224 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 2: What if you put your hand out and see if 225 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 2: it is raining and whether it is hailing. So kind 226 00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 2: of engaging. Allowing your kids a to be inquisitive and 227 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 2: then allowing them to experience the world with all of 228 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 2: their senses seems crucial for this cognitive development. 229 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 3: Absolutely, And I'm glad you raised AI because it is 230 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 3: so easy once you can read and write, to just 231 00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:59,000 Speaker 3: punch a question into AI and get an amazingly sophisticated answer. 232 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 3: But you don't understand cognitive or think. If you don't 233 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 3: have the thinking skills and the problem solving skills before 234 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 3: you start using AI, you're going to stunt your child's 235 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 3: cognitive development will be stunted. So that's one of the 236 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 3: reasons why we really need those first twelve to thirteen 237 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 3: years of life to be filled with very concrete learning 238 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 3: activities where your child gets to really understand through their 239 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 3: own exchange with the world, how the world works, how 240 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:37,400 Speaker 3: they can impact on the world, and how they can 241 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 3: solve problems. And let's take it down and not from 242 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:46,400 Speaker 3: AI just to exams and tests. So your child's cognitive 243 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 3: thinking needs to be developed to a point where they 244 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 3: read an exam question and they can self reflect and 245 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 3: say what are they asking me to do? So they 246 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 3: read the question and then and say what are they 247 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:05,880 Speaker 3: asking me to do? Because that's when they can answer themselves, Ah, 248 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:08,600 Speaker 3: this is what they need me to do. Because often 249 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:14,119 Speaker 3: what happens with children if their cognitive development is not 250 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 3: as well developed as it should be, they can't ask 251 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:20,480 Speaker 3: that question, and then they get completely bamboozled in tests 252 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 3: and exams and freaked out and anxious because they can't 253 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 3: do that almost like stepping back reflecting on what are 254 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:31,600 Speaker 3: they asking me to do? And I just want to 255 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 3: end with a story. I was watching my son in 256 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 3: the kitchen this past week. He likes to prepare his 257 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:40,919 Speaker 3: meals up front in the week because he's building muscle 258 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:45,480 Speaker 3: and he's preparing for an iron man, etc. And he 259 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:47,919 Speaker 3: put he did all the prep the way I was 260 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 3: taught to do prep in home economics. He prepped every 261 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:54,359 Speaker 3: single ingredient, put it in a separate bowl, and was 262 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 3: ready to cook with everything at hand without having to 263 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:59,960 Speaker 3: go to the capital the fridge before he even began. 264 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:03,080 Speaker 3: And I was just thinking that that is that is 265 00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 3: all about cognitive thinking. It's planning, it's organizing, and it's 266 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 3: preparing for success, and it's problem solving by by you know, 267 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:15,439 Speaker 3: what are the elements that are required to solve the 268 00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:18,760 Speaker 3: problem of this recipe. Yeah, so even down to cooking, 269 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 3: it's problem solving. 270 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 1: We've touched on this before. 271 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:24,840 Speaker 2: The importance of also letting your kids is not quite 272 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:27,680 Speaker 2: related to the point of kind of the meal pap. 273 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:30,360 Speaker 2: But I was just thinking, as we're speaking, part of 274 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 2: what I guess is also important for cognitive development is 275 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 2: allowing kids to struggle with the thing that seems to 276 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 2: be part of the I guess the problem solving is, Yes. 277 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 1: How do I how do I figure this out? 278 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 2: How does this? 279 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,159 Speaker 1: How does this work? How do I get to announce it? 280 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:44,879 Speaker 1: Whatever it is? 281 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:48,359 Speaker 2: And that allowing your kids just a little bit of 282 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 2: kind of that tension, a bit of struggle is good 283 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 2: for them. It actually aids them in developing. It's the 284 00:18:56,640 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 2: kind of thing that is also useful for you for 285 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 2: the for the rest of your life, because there will 286 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:03,480 Speaker 2: be times where you don't figure things out on the 287 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 2: first try, and you'll just have to keep trying to 288 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 2: figure it out. And it's a great thing for kids 289 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:08,720 Speaker 2: to learn. 290 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:13,359 Speaker 3: Yes, And so that that effort and struggle definitely pushes 291 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:15,639 Speaker 3: the boundaries. And I just want to pick up something 292 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:17,600 Speaker 3: that you said before the show. You were saying that 293 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 3: Netflix is asking our creators to restate the plot throughout 294 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:22,960 Speaker 3: the show. 295 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:25,440 Speaker 2: Yes, because it was so distracted and looking at our 296 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:26,679 Speaker 2: phone how we do stuff. 297 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:29,679 Speaker 3: Now, this is problematic when it comes to problem solving, 298 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:33,880 Speaker 3: because you should be problem solving throughout a show by 299 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 3: holding the plot in your in your mind from the 300 00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 3: beginning to the end and trying to connect the dots 301 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:44,200 Speaker 3: and filling the fill in the gaps without the director 302 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 3: having to tell you. It's such a case in point 303 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:51,160 Speaker 3: in terms of cognitive thinking. And I am I heard 304 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:53,560 Speaker 3: this about two months ago that this is happening with 305 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:58,399 Speaker 3: TV series and it made me livid because it is 306 00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 3: going to reduce the struggle and the need to hold 307 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 3: things in your working memory while you are working something out, 308 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 3: So it's going to reduce the level of sophisticated thinking. 309 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:15,320 Speaker 2: Nicki. As always, it is a great pleasure having you 310 00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 2: on the show. Thank you so much for your time. 311 00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 3: Thanks dogs, have a great day. 312 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:21,360 Speaker 1: Thank you very much. That's our residence. 313 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:25,520 Speaker 2: Human potential and parenting expert Nicki Bush joining us this morning. 314 00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 2: Coming up, we talk about what's happening in seven oh 315 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:32,200 Speaker 2: two Land. We'll start with Secret Sunrise, which I first 316 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 2: heard about in Cape Town. It is in joe Burgh 317 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:39,680 Speaker 2: now it is a silent guided dance community session. We'll 318 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:43,320 Speaker 2: speak to the owner of Secret Sunrise, Johannesburg. Cheryl Hudson 319 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,640 Speaker 2: will join us to tell us about Secret Sunrise. Then 320 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:49,120 Speaker 2: we'll talk jazz with DJ Bob. He's one of South 321 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:54,200 Speaker 2: Africa's most respected jazz selectors and vinyl curators. He has 322 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:59,119 Speaker 2: a show coming up at Nyrox at the Lawn Pavilion Lounge. 323 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 2: He's going to tell about it a little bit later on, 324 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:04,679 Speaker 2: but first Temperest to check in with you. Later's Eye 325 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,679 Speaker 2: Witness Use Sport with Antherny to Shada