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Speaker 1: Seven two seven or two?

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Speaker 2: What's gone viral with Cabazella cabo Zella?

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Speaker 3: Good morning, Hey, good morning Rey Ray Right, I love

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Speaker 3: this Jessica, where are you?

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Speaker 2: What's that all about? This one game? You a laugh?

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Speaker 4: So, I mean, if you if you think back to

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Speaker 4: when young Chloe was a toddler and she threw a tantrumy,

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Speaker 4: how did you used to deal with the tantrum?

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Speaker 2: I mean, would you pick her.

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Speaker 4: Up and say it's okay, it's okay, it's Okayine rockers

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Speaker 4: from side to side. Would you give it a strong,

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Speaker 4: stern talking to and say no, no, we don't carry

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Speaker 4: on like that. Or maybe like some of these parents

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Speaker 4: now they've caught on that saying Jessica, Jessica, where are you?

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Speaker 4: Stops the tantrums. So all these parents now of posting

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Speaker 4: videos of their kids having complete meltdowns and tantrums, and

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Speaker 4: then they'll.

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Speaker 2: Just say Jessica, where are you? Where are you?

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Speaker 4: And then the kid like looks at the mom and

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Speaker 4: she's like huh, and they stop crying and it works.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow.

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Speaker 4: So he has a little bit of the audio of

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Speaker 4: Jessica and the tantrums.

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Speaker 5: Jessica, Jessica, Jessica.

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Speaker 6: Jessica, Jessica.

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Speaker 5: Are you there, Jessica, Jessica, Jessica, Jessica, where are you, Jessica?

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Speaker 2: That is weird.

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Speaker 4: So you just what you confuse the child, Yeah, distract

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Speaker 4: him or whatever it may be at hard works. So

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Speaker 4: I mean, you know, next time, if you have a

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Speaker 4: little toddler and she's throwing a tantrum, just shut Jessica,

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Speaker 4: where are you Jessica and see if the works.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'll keep it in mind that might have fully grown,

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Speaker 3: including Chloe, but I'll keep it in mind.

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Speaker 2: It's just weird, all right.

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Speaker 4: So let's ask the question then, when your kids did

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Speaker 4: have tantrums or are having tantrums, if they're if they're

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Speaker 4: still small, how do you deal with it? What's your

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Speaker 4: your method of dealing with tantrums?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 2: I love that. I love that.

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Speaker 3: I was lucky enough with Chloe just to give her

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Speaker 3: the bad I and she would stop.

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Speaker 2: She was a very sensitive child, But other children not

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Speaker 2: so much love it? Did you? Did you not have

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Speaker 2: a method to deal with tantrums?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 2: And then a happy engagement?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so these this couple are sitting at a restaurant

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Speaker 4: and they you know, she's sitting there just having a

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Speaker 4: lovely meal with her husband and the two kids. But

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Speaker 4: he had other plans. He was planning a surprise engagement party.

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Speaker 4: And he had gone to the restaurant staff and he said,

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Speaker 4: let's and this is my plan. This is what I

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Speaker 4: want to do. I want to surprise the missus, and

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Speaker 4: you need to bring the sparklers and the bag with

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Speaker 4: the ring at a specific time. And they brought it

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Speaker 4: at the wrong time. They had brought the engagement ring

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Speaker 4: in the sparklers before he had even asked her if

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Speaker 4: they were engaged. And these waiters and waitresses rock up

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Speaker 4: at the at the at the table singing happy engagement

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Speaker 4: to you. She's completely confused, doesn't know what's going on,

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Speaker 4: and he's just you could see he's like, you know,

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Speaker 4: you've ruined it. You've ruined this magical moment. And she

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Speaker 4: even shouts but I'm not even engaged. And then eventually

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Speaker 4: he had to say, well, look, will you marry me?

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Speaker 4: It was the most best or the best way to

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Speaker 4: do it, relying on other people. But I suppose we

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Speaker 4: could look at that story, Ray Ray and say, surprises

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Speaker 4: have you have you tried to surprise somebody thrown a

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Speaker 4: surprise party, surprise engagement, surprise birthday parties, and it didn't

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Speaker 4: go wrong because somebody spoiled the surprise.

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Speaker 2: Oh I like that. I like yeah, Shay. I love

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Speaker 2: to hear this morning. Thank you.

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Speaker 3: Cabo Zella seven to seven two one seven o two.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure you've got a story this morning. But plod

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Speaker 3: I thought, She says that. Okay, and Bubbadilla, what are

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Speaker 3: you looking at this morning? You've been quite busy.

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Speaker 2: I've been watching you have been so busy.

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Speaker 6: But before that, I just want to say I love

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Speaker 6: the Jessica trend. I've been on that, I've been following,

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Speaker 6: just laughing. It's such a good way to get their

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Speaker 6: kids to come down.

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Speaker 2: Shut them.

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Speaker 6: Yes, it's like now they's not looking for Jessica who

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Speaker 6: they don't even know who that Jessica is.

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Speaker 3: Then Cabozella asking do you have a method to deal

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Speaker 3: with tantrums such a beautiful one? Jessica, where are you?

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Speaker 3: I mean, comoso's beautiful. You have this child who's crying

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Speaker 3: and the mom just asks us arbitry question, Jessica, where

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Speaker 3: are you? And this child is absolutely done.

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Speaker 6: Sounds like an imaginary friend of some sort of that Jessica,

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Speaker 6: We'll let you exactly.

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Speaker 2: That to get the attention away. So asking the question,

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Speaker 2: do you.

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Speaker 3: Have a way to deal with tantrums now, Daddy Matteo,

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Speaker 3: I'm sure you get that quite a bit in the household.

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Speaker 2: How do you deal with tantrums?

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Speaker 1: The look great, it's always the look you want.

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Speaker 8: You never want to shout or challenge a child at

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Speaker 8: the shopping aisles or when you're out, I think if

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Speaker 8: and I know like children can be quite difficult sometimes

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Speaker 8: you never know what you're gonna get. But for me,

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Speaker 8: what's always worked is always the look. They know, the

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Speaker 8: look of what that tells them you shouldn't be doing

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Speaker 8: that right now, and they listen, get it together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, luckily they'll always do. But most of the time, yeah.

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Speaker 3: I always feel so sorry for that mommy who's got

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Speaker 3: a little child who's screaming and throwing that temp potentium

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Speaker 3: and there's nothing she can do, so she ignores the

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Speaker 3: child and this kid just goes on screaming. It's shocking,

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Speaker 3: It's horrible stuff for a mummy. So what what remedies

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Speaker 3: do you have for for tantrums? That's what cover Zella

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Speaker 3: is asking this morning. And have you ever planned a surprise,

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Speaker 3: it was spoilt by accidents. You had the surprise and

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Speaker 3: and something happened. So love to hear from me this

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Speaker 3: morning seven to seven o two one seven o two.

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Speaker 7: I'll take you throw terms of the little ones. That

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Speaker 7: seems very easy and used to happen, just very ture

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Speaker 7: of that. And then I remember my son used to

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Speaker 7: do it. And then there was this old man our neigby.

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Speaker 7: And then you'll be passing there on the street and

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Speaker 7: they'll be like, oh, is that what was claying now?

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Speaker 7: And it will be yes, and my Dada is claying

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Speaker 7: now it's kind of you will say yes, I'll come

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Speaker 7: there and put him on the sick and then it required,

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Speaker 7: it will require every time when he studied the strength

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Speaker 7: times and klaying, and they will yeah, I will quit

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Speaker 7: the madalla and come in and throw you on the

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Speaker 7: sec and then he comes completely quiet and then everything stops.

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Speaker 7: Are everywhere when he started times would say yeah, I'm

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Speaker 7: gonna call my dadada is playing that game, and then

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Speaker 7: he will stop.

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Speaker 1: Your your, your, your kids. Nowadays it's easy.

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Speaker 8: I remember backing my days when I would throw a

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Speaker 8: drum over nothing.

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Speaker 1: My mother would actually give me something to cry about.

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Speaker 2: Cab Zilla, thank you for that. I'm going to deal

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Speaker 2: with this tantrum of my thirty six year old in

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Speaker 2: exactly the same way. Jessica, where are.

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Speaker 3: You thirty six year old? MTUs try that. Let's try

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Speaker 3: that with my wife. Maybe it's gonna who no, results

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Speaker 3: may vary. I wouldn't do that.

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Speaker 2: Not call it Jessica either.

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Speaker 1: I mean it's.

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Speaker 8: Different ways of handling, like a child that's having a tantrum, right,

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Speaker 8: People using scare tactics. Some say, well Santa won't won't

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Speaker 8: give you a gift the end of this year, whatever

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Speaker 8: matters to them. I find parents use that to try

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Speaker 8: and scare them. If it's the mother that they're scared of,

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Speaker 8: you say, well, I'm calling your mother right now, calling

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Speaker 8: and things change.

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Speaker 2: I'm calling your mother. No, no, please, don't.

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Speaker 3: Did you ever use scare tactics? So have you ever

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Speaker 3: used because you've got you got young ands? Like I

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Speaker 3: used to use the candy Man and he was this guy,

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Speaker 3: he had this film that's horrible.

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Speaker 2: It's my daughter.

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Speaker 3: If you don't behave I'm gonna call the candy Man

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Speaker 3: And it worked.

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Speaker 1: That really show your daughter doesn't like.

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Speaker 3: The Yeah, exactly, and I think she's quite traumatized about

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Speaker 3: it as well. Seven or two Land, is that a

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Speaker 3: bad thing to let us know? Seven to seven or

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Speaker 3: two one? Seven oh two Supermanda. Let's let's take a

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Speaker 3: called Supermanda hind good morning, Hi, Ray, how is it

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Speaker 3: good about the Jessica issue?

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Speaker 9: So, Ray, I've got twins. They's six years old now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 9: So one day we visited my mother's house. So there

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Speaker 9: used to be like some sort of like a doll,

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Speaker 9: very dark doll, dressed in a traditional attire. Yeah, and

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Speaker 9: my kids saw that door. They were so scared of

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Speaker 9: that doll in sat way that whenever there was a tenchwum,

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Speaker 9: I would say, I am going to call gock. They

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Speaker 9: knew that I'm going to call that a doll. It's

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Speaker 9: a very small doll. They were so scared of it

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Speaker 9: that that's how discipline was formed in the house. That

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Speaker 9: stage was to call the police. I am calling the police,

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Speaker 9: and I would be so lucky if there's a police

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Speaker 9: car passing by, the whole day, everybody will behaved.

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Speaker 1: The police.

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Speaker 9: You call the police. Perfect the naughty kids, you call

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Speaker 9: the police. Trust me, It works all the time, even

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Speaker 9: right now. Call the police. You are a SA come here.

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Speaker 2: Others. Brilliant, absolutely brilliant,