1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: Artificial intelligence is everywhere right now, and certainly I know 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: we are using it for everything from designing promotional ads 3 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:10,039 Speaker 1: to in my personal capacity, helping to plan travel itineraries 4 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 1: and the like. But while many of us adults are 5 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: still at the point of starting to figure it out 6 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: and learn what it can do and how to use 7 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: it as usual, many of our kids are way ahead 8 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 1: of us, already out there using AI and integrating it 9 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 1: into their daily lives. And in fact, there's very interesting 10 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 1: new research coming out of the organization Common Sense Media 11 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: talking about how our teens are using it. 12 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 2: That they are not merely using. 13 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 1: AI to help with their schoolwork or generate an introduction 14 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: for their essay. They're also turning to it for conversation, 15 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: for support, and for guidance. And some say in this 16 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:48,279 Speaker 1: feedback to the survey that they're not only chatting to 17 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:51,840 Speaker 1: it for practical advice, but that talking to AI can 18 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 1: feel as satisfying as talking to friends. And I'm sure 19 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: that is for some quite an unsettling prospect. I find 20 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: it a little bit scary that the thought of talking 21 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: to a computer bot can feel as satisfying as talking 22 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 1: to an actual human being. It's one that requires us 23 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:13,039 Speaker 1: to have some serious conversations around boundaries and privacy as 24 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: well as genuine emotional support and guidance. So we thought 25 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:18,959 Speaker 1: today we would spend some time looking at how parents 26 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 1: can support their families as we adapt to this rapidly 27 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: changing digital world, and how we do that when we 28 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:27,320 Speaker 1: ourselves are not even all fair with the platforms that 29 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: our kids are using now. To help us unpack what 30 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 1: we didn't know we didn't know, it's a pleasure to 31 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: welcome back to the social media attorney and digital parenting expert, 32 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:39,040 Speaker 1: Sarah Hoffman. She is the co founder of Clicked, which 33 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 1: helps parents and educators and young people to build safer, 34 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 1: healthier relationships with technology. 35 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 2: Sarah, it's great to have you on the show again. 36 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 3: Welcome back, Thank you Papa. So great to be here. 37 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 3: And I feel that since I was last on the show, 38 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 3: there's just been so many developments, so much to talk about. 39 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 3: Something I'm really excited to be on the show today. 40 00:01:57,680 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: So glad to have you back, and I think very 41 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 1: needed as well, because, as you rightly say, Sarah, the 42 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: technology is developing so rapidly that the minute you feel 43 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 1: like you've got on top of the one platform your 44 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 1: kids are using it's already in the dustbin and has 45 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 1: been replaced by something else, And particularly when it comes 46 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:15,800 Speaker 1: to AI, it's a space that many parents are feeling 47 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 1: uncomfortable in, whereas many of our kids seem to have 48 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 1: already made themselves at home and got quite comfy with it. 49 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 1: Do you want to start by sharing some examples with 50 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:27,079 Speaker 1: us of how youngsters are using AI in their everyday 51 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 1: lives right now? 52 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 3: Yes, for sure. And I just want to start off 53 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 3: this whole conversation saying that if you're a parent listening, 54 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 3: we fully understand that this has never been a harder 55 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 3: time to parents because we really all just navigating in 56 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 3: the dark hair. We can't ask our own parents, you know, well, 57 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 3: how did you decide when I was ready for chat, 58 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:47,959 Speaker 3: GPT or some chat or a smartphone or whatever. We 59 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 3: really just all figuring them out together. But how are 60 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,920 Speaker 3: our kids using it? So? I think I put it 61 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 3: in two main categories. Similarly to what you were describing 62 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 3: how you personally use it, I'd say there's the academic 63 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 3: school catching in the personal use in a school sort 64 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 3: of academic category, kids are using it from anything from 65 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 3: explaining concepts or maybe difficult writing systems. Maybe they put 66 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 3: in a paragraph that's written in ESNA improve this. Sometimes 67 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 3: they're asking chat, GBT or a large language model to 68 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 3: do a whole assignment or a whole ural and not 69 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 3: disclosing it. Sometimes they're completing projects. Sometimes they're asking it 70 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 3: for coding help. I mean, every second, there are such 71 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 3: drastic developments in this technology. They're often using it for 72 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 3: research now instead of Google. I don't know if you've 73 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 3: noticed when you now google something the first hit that 74 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 3: comes up is that it's not just a normal Google 75 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 3: hit from a new source or another source. So there 76 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 3: is a range. But I mean, the research that we're 77 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 3: seeing is that more than half of teenagers are ready 78 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 3: using air to help with their homework, and often without 79 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 3: their parents even realizing. And they kind of pretty charp 80 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 3: that they can have the time and God and do 81 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 3: whatever they were doing. But we do need to ask ourselves, 82 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 3: and I'm sure we'll get onto it. What are they 83 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 3: missing out on in shortcutting a lot of these important processes? 84 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: Yes, Okay, so that's the academic side what I think 85 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: a lot of parents find particularly scary because you can, 86 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:20,480 Speaker 1: to some extent manage the academic side, and. 87 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 2: Teachers can do plagiarism checks, etc. 88 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 1: But the personal stuff is what I think a lot 89 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 1: of people find very scary. The very idea of a 90 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: teenager turning to a chatbot for advice and guidance when 91 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 1: they're struggling with an emotional problem, for example, is pretty scary, 92 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 1: particularly given what we know about how often AI hallucinates 93 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: and gets things wrong. 94 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:44,160 Speaker 2: So that's pretty terrifying, sir, completely. 95 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:46,360 Speaker 3: And I have to tell you that this particular part 96 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 3: is something that really keeps me up at night. So 97 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 3: you know, we're seeing that teenagers and even tweens are 98 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 3: turning to AI chatbots to ask questions that maybe they 99 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 3: just don't feel like asking an adult, or maybe they 100 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:02,479 Speaker 3: feel uncomfortable, you know. And it's anything from how should 101 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 3: I ask this girl out on a date? To more 102 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 3: intense questions. And you know, sometimes there is an argument 103 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 3: to be made that if a child does not have 104 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 3: resources to a therapist or a social worker, even a parent, 105 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:19,839 Speaker 3: it could you know, sometimes the answers are really wonderful, 106 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:24,160 Speaker 3: but we really do need to proceed with caution. And 107 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 3: you know, I love this term purpose synthetic intimacy. It 108 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 3: is teaching our children this concept of synthetic intimacy at 109 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:35,039 Speaker 3: this critical critical point in their life when they need 110 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,599 Speaker 3: to be flexing the muscles of how do I look 111 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 3: someone in the eye and resolve a conflict, and how 112 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 3: do I ask a difficult question and push through that 113 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 3: situation and how do I you know, and they just 114 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:49,719 Speaker 3: turn into this track pot because it feels much easier. 115 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 3: And the tratbot is psychosantic. That means it's only going 116 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 3: to tell the child or the team what they want 117 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 3: to hear. It's not going to say, listen, it's time 118 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 3: to have some have love, buddy, you know, I need 119 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 3: to know this. It's really designed to be sycouthantic. And 120 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 3: you know, the more sinister risks are that there have 121 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:13,039 Speaker 3: been a number of court cases coming out now where 122 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 3: the chatbots are not sophisticated enough to flag children who 123 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 3: are really at risk. So we've seen cases. There was 124 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 3: a case just the last year where a boy in 125 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 3: the years he was sixteen years old, called Adam Rain 126 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:30,159 Speaker 3: his parents actually sued Open AI because he was feeling lonely, 127 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 3: was feeling depressed, he was feeling anxious, as many teenagers 128 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 3: do in the day and age. He turned to AI 129 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 3: for advice and the chatbot actually advised him on how 130 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:43,039 Speaker 3: to tie a noose, and there was no mechanism to 131 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 3: flag his parents. And something that I really want to 132 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 3: make your listeners aware of is that what app also 133 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 3: has a chatbot. Now for a lot of parents, what 134 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 3: app is the first sort of app that kids get 135 00:06:57,600 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 3: when they're going to get a device, because it's used 136 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:02,479 Speaker 3: What's groups, and it's you, it's for social arrangements and 137 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 3: often parents will communicate with their children on WhatsApp. And 138 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 3: if you look at your WhatsApp now, you'll see that 139 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 3: at the very top there is a meta AI chatbot 140 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 3: and you can't toggle it all. It's just standard with 141 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 3: any kind of WhatsApp that you have. And I was 142 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 3: actually testing it up the other day and I spoke 143 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 3: as if I was an eleven year old girl. So 144 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 3: I said, you know, so and so was horrible to 145 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 3: me at school and I had a bad day, and 146 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 3: it really gave me some solid advice and you know, 147 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 3: if we were calling, you have the nicknames by the 148 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 3: end of the conversation, and then I wanted to test 149 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 3: the platform, so I took it up a notch and 150 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 3: I said, this is just too much for me. I 151 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 3: think I want to end things. And while the chatbots 152 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 3: did send me sat X number and last six number, 153 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 3: and it did recommend that I, you know, speak to 154 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 3: a trusted adult, it didn't flag an adult because it's 155 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 3: not a program to do that. There's no parental controls. 156 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 3: And you know, I think the thing I really worry 157 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 3: about is that a lot of parents don't even realize 158 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 3: that the kids are having these conversations. Yeah, with this check, but. 159 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 1: I mean, Sarah, you've you've touched on so many things. 160 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 1: But the thing I'm coming back to is is something 161 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: you referenced a couple of minutes ago when you said, 162 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 1: it's not just about what they're getting access to on 163 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 1: the platforms, it's what they are not learning to master 164 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 1: in real life, what they're missing out on in real 165 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 1: life because they're turning to an artificial platform to offer this. 166 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:33,199 Speaker 1: And fair point, Brendan writes, getting advice has always been risky. 167 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 1: Lots of people and parents give bad advice too, and 168 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: point take and Brendan, it's a fair comment. 169 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 2: But the point is. 170 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 1: Here, Sarah, that there is no there's no buffer, there's 171 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 1: no sort of redirect, and there's also, as you said, 172 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: there's no filtering of this is actually something I'm not 173 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 1: qualified to speak to you about or offer advice on. 174 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 1: There's no sort of potential for a redirect to the 175 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 1: right person to get advice, which is quite scary. 176 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 2: Do you want to just elaborate a little bit. 177 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 1: On this issue of what they're missing out on, because, 178 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:07,679 Speaker 1: as you've said, I love that phrase. You use the flexing, 179 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:10,960 Speaker 1: the muscle of learning, the skill of looking someone in 180 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 1: the eye, of learning to dump somebody in person when 181 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 1: you're breaking up a relationship, for example, which is now 182 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 1: being done by WhatsApp. 183 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 2: Skills like that are essential. 184 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 1: Life skills that well, I'm going to say, I think 185 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 1: you absolutely essentially have to master in order to function 186 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:29,680 Speaker 1: in society. But maybe I'm thinking of society as I 187 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:31,680 Speaker 1: grew up in it, and not the society of the future. 188 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 2: Sarah. 189 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:35,160 Speaker 1: Maybe I'm being a little bit shortsighted there. 190 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 3: I don't think so, Peper, because you know, actually we've 191 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 3: been talking to parents for years now about managing technology 192 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:46,599 Speaker 3: and obviously now managing AI and obviously from a parenting perspective, 193 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 3: and what we always say, the number one question I 194 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 3: get we did ask that clicked is to tell me 195 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 3: the magic number how much screen time should they be 196 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 3: allowed to tell me? And it doesn't matter if your 197 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 3: child is two years old and it's pepper peg or 198 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 3: they and they just want to scroll TikTok or snapchat 199 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 3: all day long. The question we have to ask is 200 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:08,679 Speaker 3: not how many hours it is, As I said, what 201 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 3: is the screen displacing? And what is that technology displacing? 202 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:16,839 Speaker 3: And as we said, what developmental skills? And you'll see 203 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 3: where I'm going with aar Now, what developmental skills that 204 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 3: my child needs to be gaining? Is this technology actually replacing? 205 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 3: And what worries me about AI is it's arrived in 206 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 3: a digital environment where our children are already struggling with 207 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 3: efforts and attention because they already have been watching YouTube 208 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 3: shorts and they're expecting constant simulation and constant reward, and 209 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 3: they already used to things happening so quickly and easily 210 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:49,199 Speaker 3: that their relationship with struggle is already compromised, their ability 211 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:53,200 Speaker 3: to have their ability to push through something hard and 212 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 3: come out the other side. And the problem with AI 213 00:10:57,000 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 3: now is it actually just takes that struggle out or together, 214 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 3: and that you know, I really believe that in an 215 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 3: age where computers and are automating so many things. The 216 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 3: real human skills we need, the real skills our children 217 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 3: need rather are those human skills are the ability to 218 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 3: look somebody in the eye, are the ability to manage conflict, 219 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:22,679 Speaker 3: and the ability to fail and push through and overcome 220 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:27,080 Speaker 3: to deal with something hard. And those you know, a 221 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 3: lot of their technology already, and this has just taken 222 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 3: up such a notch with air is removing that frustration 223 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 3: tolerance all together. And as we said, it's just preventing 224 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:41,200 Speaker 3: them from developing those muscles to do hard things. So 225 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:45,000 Speaker 3: it's becoming so hard to do hard things, and IRS 226 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 3: just up the anti tremendously in the space. 227 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 1: You know, we can see it in the workplace. But 228 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:52,960 Speaker 1: something as simple as the way people choose to communicate 229 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 1: with some of the newer, younger incoming colleagues, and no 230 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,840 Speaker 1: disrespect to any of them, but it is noticeable that 231 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 1: they will go to any length and whatsoever to avoid 232 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 1: making a phone call in person. 233 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 2: For example. 234 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:05,440 Speaker 1: Correct because they've got so used to doing everything by 235 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:07,839 Speaker 1: WhatsApp or you know, at a push email. But but 236 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 1: but WhatsApp and instant response and instant access, but do 237 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:15,199 Speaker 1: anything to avoid the personal conversation over an actual phone light, 238 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 1: and you know to your point that you know, maybe 239 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 1: they don't need it. Maybe they are going to work 240 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 1: in a workplace where WhatsApp does everything, and that's fine, 241 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 1: but there are other skills, human touch points that you've 242 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 1: got to learn to master if you get a function 243 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 1: in this world and function in community with other people. So, Sarah, 244 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 1: then the million dollar question is, I mean they're on 245 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 1: the platforms already. We as the adults are starting to 246 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 1: see the platforms and the use of AI enter our workspaces. 247 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:43,559 Speaker 1: We've got to learn to hop on board and master 248 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 1: what we are being asked to work with. What is 249 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:49,680 Speaker 1: your advice on how to set boundaries around you know, 250 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 1: saying we're not going to expect you to go and 251 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 1: live in a forest with no Wi Fi and no 252 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:54,680 Speaker 1: devices or no. 253 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:55,720 Speaker 2: Access to AI. 254 00:12:57,120 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 1: As much as it would be nice, that's not going 255 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 1: to happen. So what is your advice on parents on 256 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 1: how to say, well, this is what we've got to 257 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 1: learn to work with. Where do you start setting the 258 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 1: boundaries and putting safe parameters in place? 259 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 3: Sure? So, I think I actually want to answer that 260 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:15,040 Speaker 3: question in two parts because I think schools have a 261 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:17,680 Speaker 3: big role to play as well as parents. So I 262 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:21,679 Speaker 3: think from a school perspective, as we said, kids are 263 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 3: using AAR whether we like it or not, they are 264 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 3: using it to generate homework, they're using it to deliver 265 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 3: fool are Also, schools really need to urgently put boundaries 266 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:34,080 Speaker 3: and guidelines in place around how, when and where are 267 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 3: may be used and because it's happening whether they like 268 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:40,720 Speaker 3: it or not. And my great concern for schools is 269 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 3: they if this isn't regulated, there's a huge opportunity cost 270 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 3: in terms of critical thinking that you know our children, 271 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:51,560 Speaker 3: you know, it's kind of like saying you can read 272 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:53,840 Speaker 3: the number eight, you can be the number eight. Now 273 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:55,679 Speaker 3: you can use a calculator. For the rest of maths, 274 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 3: the rest of school, they're not going to develop those 275 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 3: critical critical skills. So I think there's a huge and 276 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 3: very urgent responsibility on schools to put policies in place, 277 00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:08,199 Speaker 3: and we do have a very comprehensive school policy at 278 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 3: CLICKT that helps schools put those policies in place around how, 279 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 3: when and where air should be used, at what age 280 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 3: it should start, what that looks like, et cetera. How 281 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 3: assessment can take place to make sure that students haven't 282 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 3: used AI, how it's disclosed and so on. And then 283 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 3: from a parenting perspective, as with any technology, I think 284 00:14:28,120 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 3: as parents we have to be open and not judgmental 285 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 3: around these conversations. They need to be It's not one conversation, 286 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 3: it's hundreds of conversations. We need to ask us our 287 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 3: children in a nonjudgmental way, how they're using it, are 288 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 3: their friends using it? Use it together sometime and life. 289 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:49,320 Speaker 3: With any technology, there are skills that our students do 290 00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:54,200 Speaker 3: need to learn to use this platform effectively. Our children 291 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 3: need to know that AI can get it wrong and 292 00:14:56,400 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 3: that the information needs to be verified. You know. Example 293 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 3: I love using is if you have two students who 294 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:06,840 Speaker 3: one just for example, one the Man United fan and 295 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 3: one is a Liverpool fan. And the Man United fan 296 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 3: says to the chatbot, who's the best soccer team in 297 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 3: the world, The Chatbot's going to say Man United. And 298 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:17,480 Speaker 3: if the Liverpool fan says who's the best soccer team 299 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 3: in the world the Liverpool, that chatbot is going to 300 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 3: say Liverpool. Because they designed to give the answers that 301 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 3: you want to be hearing. So we have to teach 302 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 3: our children critical thinking and to cross examine and to 303 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:33,680 Speaker 3: verify and skills like recognizing how to tell if an 304 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 3: image is deep sake generated. We haven't even spoken about 305 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 3: the risks of deep sake images being distributed, you know, 306 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 3: the legal consequences. That's a whole other category of use 307 00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 3: that our students are also using AAR four in a 308 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 3: not so positive way. 309 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, Sarah and I think we need to schedule the 310 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 1: fun up conversation on that topic alone. 311 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 2: For now, we do have to wrap there. 312 00:15:53,320 --> 00:15:56,800 Speaker 1: But thank you as always incredibly insightful and practical in 313 00:15:57,520 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 1: your help. We appreciate your time and to listen who 314 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 1: are enjoying this conversation and would like to read up 315 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:04,400 Speaker 1: more and get the kind of help that Sarah is 316 00:16:04,560 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 1: saying telling you is available, please check out the website 317 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:10,400 Speaker 1: of Clicked, which is k l I k D dot 318 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 1: co dot zed a Sarah Hoffman. It's definitely a two 319 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 1: B continued conversation. Thank you for your time. 320 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:17,960 Speaker 2: The second though, keep well, have a great there you too,