WEBVTT - The Ultimate Christmas Gift Guide 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:03.080 We acknowledged the traditional custodians of the land. We're recording 0:00:03.120 --> 0:00:08.800 on today. Hello, and welcome back. 0:00:08.680 --> 0:00:11.680 To Eat, Sleep, Shit, Repeat, the Wildly Unhinged Podcast, all 0:00:11.720 --> 0:00:14.200 about the madness that is Anotherhood and everything in between. 0:00:15.640 --> 0:00:16.800 I'm starting to get breathlessly. 0:00:18.280 --> 0:00:21.759 I'm Kiri Cells, I'm Kelly McCarran. In today's episode is 0:00:21.800 --> 0:00:25.200 a little bit different than a regular I mean, is 0:00:25.200 --> 0:00:28.600 there really anything regular about us? But we thought that 0:00:28.640 --> 0:00:32.159 we would prep you ahead of this weekend's Black Friday 0:00:32.240 --> 0:00:37.280 sales with some epic gift recommendation. So however you celebrate. 0:00:37.640 --> 0:00:42.080 The holidays are coming up, yep, and you know we're 0:00:42.080 --> 0:00:43.480 in a cost of living crisis. 0:00:43.880 --> 0:00:46.880 Yeah, the first of season is going to be a 0:00:46.920 --> 0:00:48.320 little bit tricky to navigate. 0:00:48.680 --> 0:00:52.239 So my recommendation first up is have everything in your 0:00:52.240 --> 0:00:56.120 basket ready to go for the Black Friday sales because 0:00:56.240 --> 0:00:58.240 most things will be on site exactly. 0:00:58.280 --> 0:01:01.400 You don't want to pay full price for anything. Oh God, 0:01:01.560 --> 0:01:02.880 I'm up for picking pit this week. 0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:05.200 Ah, here I go, Here we go. 0:01:05.520 --> 0:01:05.920 Oh. 0:01:05.959 --> 0:01:06.880 I can't wait for this. 0:01:07.400 --> 0:01:08.680 So let's start with a pitch. 0:01:08.760 --> 0:01:10.720 Shall we insert photo? 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:13.560 Pretty much the one thing I've been dreading as a 0:01:13.600 --> 0:01:15.720 parent happened to me on Friday. 0:01:16.000 --> 0:01:18.319 Can anyone guess what it would be? No one would, 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:19.040 I don't think. 0:01:19.200 --> 0:01:20.040 I think maybe. 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:22.720 It's quite specific to me because of let me get 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:26.440 into it. So it was about four pm on Friday 0:01:26.480 --> 0:01:28.240 and I get a little ding dong on my phone 0:01:28.560 --> 0:01:31.000 and it's you know, the app that we use from daycare. 0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:35.039 The line was Happy Friday Parents, and I thought, oh. 0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:37.600 It's just going to be some cute pics of the background. 0:01:37.880 --> 0:01:40.160 And it was like, we have a confirmed case of 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:43.760 lice in the toddler room. Here's the attachment on how 0:01:43.760 --> 0:01:46.360 to deal with it. And instantly I was itching my 0:01:46.400 --> 0:01:49.080 head like, oh no, thinking back to when I had 0:01:49.120 --> 0:01:52.720 headlice as a kid and we had to do I 0:01:52.760 --> 0:01:55.000 reckon probably ten treatments to get it out of my hair. 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:57.600 Like if anyone doesn't know what you look like, would 0:01:57.640 --> 0:01:59.120 you please describe your hair? 0:01:59.400 --> 0:02:02.280 Yes, So, I'm mixed race. I'm black and white. My 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:07.160 hair is very coarse, very thick, very curly, very hard. 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:07.680 To get rid of. Black. 0:02:07.800 --> 0:02:10.400 Call the curls three B four B. 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:11.000 I'm for. 0:02:12.600 --> 0:02:14.679 Don't you love that? I know something you do. 0:02:14.800 --> 0:02:17.640 You've been listening and I've forgotten. So I was like, 0:02:17.760 --> 0:02:18.960 oh my god, what. 0:02:19.440 --> 0:02:20.280 Am I gonna do? 0:02:20.560 --> 0:02:24.480 This is really shit reads through the form. It was like, oh, 0:02:24.600 --> 0:02:27.840 just as I'd remembered it, you know, nothing's really stinky, stuffy, 0:02:28.080 --> 0:02:32.040 stinky stuff. So Charlie, bless him. He picked up some 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:35.160 stuff on the way home and I had a good 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:38.000 look through Rue's hair and I couldn't see anything, thank god. 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:40.040 But I was like, well, I'm not gonna not do 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:43.639 the treatment because what if there's something I've missed so. 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:45.960 That starts an infestation, doesn't it. 0:02:46.160 --> 0:02:48.600 I didn't stop itching from four two. I went to bed, 0:02:48.840 --> 0:02:51.560 you know, it was just too much. And then I 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:54.359 was just like this is so shit, Like this is 0:02:54.440 --> 0:02:58.200 just so shit, Like how did that little kid get 0:02:58.200 --> 0:02:59.840 headlines like it's all their fault? 0:03:00.320 --> 0:03:01.519 Well, how does anyone get handed? 0:03:02.080 --> 0:03:02.160 No? 0:03:02.280 --> 0:03:05.480 It just was seriously, actually, how do you even get it? 0:03:05.480 --> 0:03:07.240 It's head to head contact. 0:03:06.960 --> 0:03:09.120 Yeah, but how did the original person? 0:03:09.600 --> 0:03:12.079 It never ends, this is the thing. It never ends. 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:15.960 It just key going. Used to get it a lot 0:03:16.000 --> 0:03:17.280 when I was in primary school. 0:03:17.440 --> 0:03:19.440 Well, they say, because when you're a kid just all 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:21.760 over other kids, you know, so it makes sense like 0:03:21.840 --> 0:03:23.200 you're just constantly touching. 0:03:23.360 --> 0:03:26.880 And I hated the feeling of the stuff and the 0:03:27.160 --> 0:03:29.880 buzzy things so much so sometimes I just wouldn't tell 0:03:29.880 --> 0:03:32.160 my mum when my head was itchy. And she tells 0:03:32.160 --> 0:03:35.120 this story about she was at Sea World and she 0:03:35.200 --> 0:03:38.760 was sitting behind me on a roller coaster and she 0:03:38.920 --> 0:03:40.960 looked at me and my head was moving. 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:42.800 Oh, yuck, Kelly, don't. 0:03:42.880 --> 0:03:45.480 She was like, I've never seen so many lights. 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:47.200 Yuck, yuck, yuck, yuck. 0:03:47.720 --> 0:03:50.160 Kel I don't need to hear this right now. Okay, 0:03:50.480 --> 0:03:52.440 I've got to do another treatment on Friday. It's like 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:55.840 seven days, fourteen days, so I've still got two treatments left. 0:03:55.880 --> 0:03:56.360 Okay. 0:03:56.600 --> 0:03:58.000 Anyway, we did the treatment. 0:03:58.160 --> 0:04:01.120 The picture of her she just didn't really understand, and 0:04:01.160 --> 0:04:03.200 I was like, it's like the shampoo, but we put 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:04.560 it in your hair and then you have. 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:07.760 This cool green cap that you get to put on. 0:04:08.240 --> 0:04:10.320 And she was just like no, no, And I said 0:04:10.520 --> 0:04:13.680 play school and she said yes, does it still smell? 0:04:14.480 --> 0:04:14.720 Yeah? 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:16.360 We got so luckily. 0:04:16.520 --> 0:04:20.640 Charlie's sister, her partner, has two kids, and so George's 0:04:20.680 --> 0:04:25.000 like had to do some life treatments and she has 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:27.880 tested everything. She walked so we could run basically, and 0:04:28.000 --> 0:04:30.760 was like, this is the one that works. It's kind 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:34.200 of like the natural one. It's still chemical, but it's 0:04:34.200 --> 0:04:36.599 a bit natural, Like it smells really teat tree oily. 0:04:37.200 --> 0:04:39.279 But yeah, exactly that. You just put it in on 0:04:39.600 --> 0:04:41.960 dry hair, massage it and make it so it's like 0:04:42.000 --> 0:04:44.600 all wet all over. Chuck the cap on, wait ten minutes, 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:47.360 wash it out, condition hair as usual, and brush. 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:49.880 Look, we haven't had anything yet. 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:52.719 Touch wood, does me knocking on wood because I'm so 0:04:52.920 --> 0:04:53.960 bloody scared. 0:04:53.760 --> 0:04:55.200 It's not wood. Knock on that pole. 0:04:55.360 --> 0:04:58.960 Oh there we go, good girl, Thank you so much. 0:04:59.360 --> 0:05:02.000 But yeah, it just wasn't very good. Wasn't very good. 0:05:02.279 --> 0:05:04.600 I didn't really need that. I didn't really need that. 0:05:04.760 --> 0:05:06.200 It's just disgusting. 0:05:06.279 --> 0:05:08.480 And now I just find myself looking at her hair 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:09.280 all the time. 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:10.120 Waiting for it to move. 0:05:10.480 --> 0:05:10.880 Yeah. 0:05:10.920 --> 0:05:13.000 Yeah, And I have a sand put at school, so 0:05:13.040 --> 0:05:14.800 she often comes home with like sand in her hay, 0:05:14.880 --> 0:05:17.480 you know. So on Tuesday or whatever, and I picked 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:19.440 her up, I was like, oh my god, she's itching, 0:05:19.480 --> 0:05:22.279 And You're like, yeah, she'll just like randomly itch. And 0:05:22.320 --> 0:05:24.520 she does actually have a little bit of cerhicis on 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:25.039 her head. 0:05:25.440 --> 0:05:25.760 Yep. 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:27.000 It actually flared out. 0:05:26.880 --> 0:05:28.280 When we were in Europe, and I was like, what 0:05:28.360 --> 0:05:31.880 the hell, Like where'd this come from? But you get sorisis, Yeah, 0:05:31.920 --> 0:05:34.800 it's genetics. I was like, oh shit, So she often 0:05:34.839 --> 0:05:37.640 will itch, but now it's taken on a bit of 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:39.599 a bigger meaning, on new meaning. 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:41.320 I'm like, don't get in front of me. 0:05:41.720 --> 0:05:44.120 I actually it would be a nightmare trying to get 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:46.240 knits out of your hair, That's what I'm saying. 0:05:46.320 --> 0:05:50.240 And now I don't need that right now, right. 0:05:50.400 --> 0:05:52.840 But you know what was really interesting is like I 0:05:52.880 --> 0:05:55.360 get grossed out by things, and I was just like, 0:05:56.160 --> 0:05:56.960 I'm not going to want. 0:05:56.839 --> 0:05:59.559 To cuddle her because I don't want to get nits right. 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:03.640 And it really surprised myself because I just didn't care, 0:06:03.880 --> 0:06:05.320 Like when it came down to it, I was still 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:07.240 fucking snuggling at the shit out of her. 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:09.919 And all this because he treated her. Though Yeah, I 0:06:09.920 --> 0:06:11.320 mean I had done the treatment. Let me tell you, 0:06:11.360 --> 0:06:15.680 I was keeping my distance beforefore. But yeah, they say 0:06:15.680 --> 0:06:17.760 you've got to do it like three times to get the. 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:21.560 Life cycle of a MIT. So got two more weeks. 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:26.520 We had electric comb because the shampoos just stopped cutting it. 0:06:26.560 --> 0:06:28.280 We had it so much, so we had like an 0:06:28.320 --> 0:06:32.640 electric comb It was so gross and it would buzz them, 0:06:33.000 --> 0:06:36.440 kill them and also comb out all the eggs. 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:38.360 I just don't want to get to a point on 0:06:38.680 --> 0:06:39.640 I don't want to get I'm. 0:06:39.480 --> 0:06:42.080 Sorry, I really shouldn't be telling you life stories. 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:43.000 Can move on. 0:06:43.120 --> 0:06:44.479 Yeah, what's your peak? What's your peak? 0:06:44.640 --> 0:06:49.599 The peak is my body has been very sore and 0:06:49.640 --> 0:06:50.560 I can't have a peak. 0:06:51.640 --> 0:06:52.240 Sorry. 0:06:52.600 --> 0:06:57.039 I kind of reached my absolute maximum of pain. I'm 0:06:57.080 --> 0:07:00.279 just uncomfortable, and I've still got three bloody months left 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:02.680 of this pregnancy, so not at the end. 0:07:02.760 --> 0:07:03.560 I'm not at the end. 0:07:04.120 --> 0:07:08.039 So I decided basically to throw everything at it. So 0:07:08.640 --> 0:07:13.200 I booked my women's health physio, I booked this amazing 0:07:13.360 --> 0:07:16.840 remedial pregnancy massage, and I've got my Cairo next week. 0:07:17.400 --> 0:07:19.880 Kelly's laughing at me because it was the Kiro appointment 0:07:19.880 --> 0:07:23.520 that I said I couldn't possibly do anything else anything else. 0:07:23.600 --> 0:07:25.800 That and a lunch and then I record, no way, 0:07:26.640 --> 0:07:29.560 but yees. So I had my women's physio yesterday and 0:07:29.680 --> 0:07:32.320 the remedial massage in the afternoon, and I got my 0:07:32.440 --> 0:07:36.000 chuby grip. She gave me a massage. She was saying, yeah, 0:07:36.120 --> 0:07:39.040 I gave you exercises, share me exercises that I didn't 0:07:39.040 --> 0:07:41.320 do today, but I will do them tonight. But yeah, 0:07:41.320 --> 0:07:43.280 I've been having a lot of crotch pain, which I 0:07:43.320 --> 0:07:46.320 never had in the first pregnancy, and it's just down 0:07:46.360 --> 0:07:47.040 to I'm not as. 0:07:46.960 --> 0:07:49.040 Fit as I was. She says, you've got no glute 0:07:49.400 --> 0:07:50.080 muscle there. 0:07:50.240 --> 0:07:53.440 Thanks, thanks, I'm aware, and it just means that those 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:58.400 muscles in my like crotch are turning on and that's 0:07:58.440 --> 0:07:59.680 why they're aching so well. 0:07:59.760 --> 0:08:01.080 Yep, like encroutch. 0:08:01.600 --> 0:08:04.360 She's like, it will get to lightning crutch stage if 0:08:04.400 --> 0:08:07.960 we don't like even out the muscles that are like 0:08:08.080 --> 0:08:11.760 kicking in. So that was really good. Gave my tuber grip, 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:13.480 which is what I've been really wanting. You're just that 0:08:13.640 --> 0:08:15.920 like tight. I've got it on now, that kind of 0:08:15.960 --> 0:08:16.520 like tight. 0:08:17.040 --> 0:08:18.440 What I've never heard of that. 0:08:18.560 --> 0:08:19.200 It's like what you. 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:20.760 Put on your knee when you sprain your knee or 0:08:20.800 --> 0:08:23.160 your ankle, same kind of thing. And basically it's they 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:25.880 cut it. It's just like a big role. They actually 0:08:25.960 --> 0:08:28.320 charged me fifteen dollars. My other physio gave it to 0:08:28.320 --> 0:08:30.320 me for free. Anyway, nothing doesn't matter. 0:08:30.400 --> 0:08:32.240 I do like this girl. So it's fine, and then 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:34.080 you just put it over your head and pull it 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:35.280 down and it just holds you. 0:08:35.360 --> 0:08:37.760 It's just like a warm hug. So I sleep in 0:08:37.800 --> 0:08:38.400 it as well. 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:40.040 Oh, so it's supportive. 0:08:40.320 --> 0:08:40.880 It's supportive. 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:43.960 Yeah, it's like a belly bands, the original belly band 0:08:43.960 --> 0:08:45.959 before they like marketed it and made it like a 0:08:46.080 --> 0:08:49.520 standalone product. You just use tube grip pregnancy tuby grip 0:08:49.559 --> 0:08:51.840 that would be cut and depending on the size, you 0:08:51.840 --> 0:08:53.520 can like double it over, which gives you. 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:56.040 More of a firm support, which is really good. 0:08:56.280 --> 0:08:58.960 And honestly, it just feels like someone has lifted your 0:08:58.960 --> 0:09:00.800 belly up for you, holding you in. 0:09:00.960 --> 0:09:02.200 Isn't it a bit hot though? 0:09:02.480 --> 0:09:03.360 Yeah, it's really hot. 0:09:03.400 --> 0:09:06.120 When I was like at a show last night, I 0:09:06.160 --> 0:09:07.480 was all I wanted to do was take it off 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:11.160 because the aircorn wasn't sufficient, but I had it doubled over. 0:09:11.559 --> 0:09:13.680 So I've just said to myself, don't go too hard 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:15.040 to soon, just ease into it. 0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:16.360 So that's really helped. 0:09:16.360 --> 0:09:20.559 The remedial massage was wow. Like I was a recommendation 0:09:20.600 --> 0:09:22.760 from two girlfriends who also had been through their second 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:26.320 pregnancies and had also felt really sore in their bodies, 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:29.440 so I highly recommend if you are pregnant and you're 0:09:29.600 --> 0:09:35.720 really suffering physically to find a proper pregnancy remedial massuse. 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:39.560 Going to like one of those nice massage places. 0:09:39.640 --> 0:09:41.000 Yeah, if your body is sare. 0:09:41.120 --> 0:09:44.120 You need to Yeah, don't go to a relaxing one 0:09:44.200 --> 0:09:46.440 like do, but if you want to, like if you 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:48.800 want your body to recover and have a bit of 0:09:48.920 --> 0:09:51.560 like to get out some of those knots and stuff, 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:53.240 and also for them to give you tips on what 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:53.680 to do. 0:09:54.480 --> 0:09:54.520 Go. 0:09:54.920 --> 0:09:58.400 She was so good, like, yeah, at times it really hurt. 0:09:58.840 --> 0:10:02.880 But I left taller because my body had been stretched 0:10:04.400 --> 0:10:06.319 so a lot of like my muscles were so tense 0:10:06.360 --> 0:10:08.959 that I had like shortened on my side. So when 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:11.680 she did still do a special bed, yeah, so I 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:13.600 was on my side. I had like a little kind 0:10:13.600 --> 0:10:16.520 of butterfly pillow underneath my side so it supported my 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:19.760 belly and then wedged at my back. I had a 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:21.960 pillow for my head, but then something to hold, like 0:10:22.000 --> 0:10:24.480 they give me a little towel to hold and then 0:10:24.480 --> 0:10:27.679 a pillow in between my knees. So she worked on 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:29.679 one side and then I flipped and she's like, how 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:33.000 does outside feel? And it was amazing I said it, Wow, 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:36.440 it feels like I'm long. Like when I first lay down, 0:10:36.520 --> 0:10:41.120 I couldn't, Like everything was just so yeah, like you 0:10:41.160 --> 0:10:43.160 know those things, those instruments that. 0:10:43.120 --> 0:10:46.640 Are like accordion, accordion. 0:10:46.760 --> 0:10:49.920 Yeah, it felt like yeah, I was like all in 0:10:50.080 --> 0:10:52.160 like that. And then after she'd finished, it felt. 0:10:51.920 --> 0:10:53.440 Like my stretched down. 0:10:53.520 --> 0:10:56.720 Yeah, it felt like there was a lot of room there, 0:10:56.800 --> 0:10:59.200 like she'd given me some length, like the muscles had 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:02.240 been lengthen. But like, I mean, is she in Bonde. 0:11:02.320 --> 0:11:04.640 She's in Randwick actually, So if you're in the East, 0:11:04.840 --> 0:11:07.280 just send me a DM and I'll give you their details. 0:11:07.320 --> 0:11:09.960 If you're in Sydney's East or in Sydney and you 0:11:10.160 --> 0:11:12.080 want to go see her, I'll give you her details. 0:11:12.400 --> 0:11:12.840 Really great. 0:11:12.880 --> 0:11:14.520 She was like it was one hundred and twenty five 0:11:14.600 --> 0:11:16.720 and if you have private health you can claim it 0:11:16.760 --> 0:11:17.320 because it's. 0:11:17.280 --> 0:11:22.360 Media that's cheaper than the fancy massages. 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:23.679 Yeah. Well she actually cares. 0:11:23.720 --> 0:11:25.640 And she was giving me good tips and saying like, oh, 0:11:25.679 --> 0:11:26.760 you're pelvis because. 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:28.200 My pelvis was tilted backwards. 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:30.640 So she told me just all these things. And I 0:11:30.640 --> 0:11:34.160 think it's really helpful just to be mindful of your body. 0:11:34.679 --> 0:11:36.720 I think to help you so nice, because we often 0:11:36.840 --> 0:11:39.160 don't care for our bodies when we're pregnant. 0:11:40.320 --> 0:11:41.480 And I think when it's your. 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:45.319 First pregnancy, depending on how bad your pregnancy is, it's 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:48.880 a bit easier because it's so much more gradual the 0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:52.000 growth that you're experiencing, whereas in the second everything is 0:11:52.040 --> 0:11:53.480 so much looser. 0:11:53.200 --> 0:11:54.720 And just alsop so quickly. 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:59.800 Exactly, So I think, throw money. I know money's type, 0:11:59.800 --> 0:12:01.559 but just throw it at it, like if you can, 0:12:01.920 --> 0:12:05.920 if you can. Because boy, even though I didn't have 0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:08.000 a big sleep last night because I was out on 0:12:08.040 --> 0:12:11.120 the town, honey, like, it felt like a nice sleep, 0:12:11.160 --> 0:12:14.600 Like I woke up not as sore and not as. 0:12:14.480 --> 0:12:16.000 Like, have you got a pregnancy pillow yet? 0:12:16.440 --> 0:12:17.520 I actually got a new one. 0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:21.120 I love pregnancy pillows. Yeah, so I kept in mind 0:12:21.160 --> 0:12:22.720 for an embarrassing amount of time. 0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:23.480 Oh, I think that's good. 0:12:23.559 --> 0:12:25.760 I had one for rue, but it was so big 0:12:26.160 --> 0:12:29.280 it was like one of those life size one, which 0:12:29.720 --> 0:12:31.480 wasn't really my vibe. I figured out that I just 0:12:31.520 --> 0:12:33.480 want a pillow between my knees, and then I want 0:12:33.480 --> 0:12:35.800 a butterfly pillow, so the one that goes that you 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:37.600 just kind of sleep on on your side and wedges 0:12:37.640 --> 0:12:39.640 you in your tummy, wereges you in your back? That 0:12:39.760 --> 0:12:41.640 is what I need because I feel a lot of 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:44.679 pulling on my stomach when I'm laying on my side. 0:12:44.720 --> 0:12:46.600 I just don't like the sensation. It's kind of like 0:12:46.640 --> 0:12:52.120 a tingly, ripping feeling, which is apparently the really thin 0:12:52.200 --> 0:12:54.760 bit of skin from your ribs. You've got your abs 0:12:54.840 --> 0:12:57.240 kind of coming in towards where your belly button is. 0:12:57.480 --> 0:13:01.240 But then there's this really thin layer of skin epidemus 0:13:01.280 --> 0:13:04.560 maybe something like that that actually is different in men 0:13:04.600 --> 0:13:07.440 than is a woman. So men's is really thick because 0:13:08.040 --> 0:13:10.719 they're not made to stretch. Ours is really thin. So 0:13:10.760 --> 0:13:13.400 that's usually what you can feel. The sensation is that's 0:13:13.800 --> 0:13:15.760 really thin skin stretching. 0:13:16.080 --> 0:13:16.240 Ya. 0:13:16.920 --> 0:13:18.960 It's disgusting and I always get it when I'm laying 0:13:19.000 --> 0:13:21.920 down and it makes me really nauseous because it's just like, 0:13:23.000 --> 0:13:25.000 but that butterfly pillow is so good. A Lincoln in 0:13:25.040 --> 0:13:27.800 the show notes it just like, you know, wedges under 0:13:27.800 --> 0:13:30.720 your belly, so your belly isn't being pushed as far down, 0:13:31.400 --> 0:13:36.000 okay AnyWho, So I'm just feeling good. Body's feeling atle 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:39.160 bit better, and it's just even the drive over here 0:13:39.200 --> 0:13:40.880 because the drive from my house to your house is 0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:43.040 about it. It can be from thirty minutes to an 0:13:43.080 --> 0:13:45.240 hour depending on traffic, depending on what time I leave, 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:48.640 if I leave on time. But in the two weeks 0:13:48.880 --> 0:13:52.120 that i've come here before, obviously this week I've been 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:55.040 really struggling on that drive home. My body is just 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:59.600 so so sore and obviously home, but the drive over 0:13:59.640 --> 0:14:02.400 the small was like, I felt fine, like and usually 0:14:02.480 --> 0:14:02.800 I can. 0:14:02.720 --> 0:14:05.880 Feel myself starting to get yep from sitting down. 0:14:06.200 --> 0:14:07.840 So that's I so glad. 0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:09.760 Yeah, a little bit of self reminder. 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:11.640 Yeah, that self care is very important. 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:13.800 It is. You need to do it. You deserve it. 0:14:13.880 --> 0:14:14.760 You're growing a human. 0:14:14.920 --> 0:14:18.000 You're running a fucking marathon every single day for nine months, 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:18.800 ten months. 0:14:18.840 --> 0:14:28.680 Really better get into today's episodes. 0:14:29.120 --> 0:14:32.760 Gift Guide twenty twenty four. Key happens to be an 0:14:32.800 --> 0:14:34.240 incredible gift giver. 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:38.000 I just love that you have validated that for me 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:40.800 because it's something that I know to be true and believe. 0:14:41.320 --> 0:14:42.480 But to hear you say that. 0:14:42.400 --> 0:14:47.840 No, you really are. I am a good thought person, 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:49.280 like I will think of. 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:52.000 Nice, really thoughtful. Actually you are, Oh. 0:14:52.120 --> 0:14:54.320 I just meant like, I'll think of nice gifts, but 0:14:54.360 --> 0:14:57.520 I'm very unorganized. Oh yeah, I am the person that 0:14:57.600 --> 0:15:02.280 asked you last week when my wedding addiverse three was whoopsie, Daisy, whoopsie, 0:15:02.320 --> 0:15:05.760 whoopsie Daisy. He who are you buying for this year? 0:15:06.000 --> 0:15:10.280 So Charlie and Rue for sure. Then we've got Pop 0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:13.640 so Charlie's dad, and then we have the cousins. So 0:15:13.680 --> 0:15:14.680 there's about eight of them. 0:15:14.960 --> 0:15:17.360 Oh god, so they've got a kids, not many adults. 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:19.960 Yeah, and my godparents who live overseas, so I have 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:22.000 to get crafty with their gifts because I've got to 0:15:22.040 --> 0:15:23.080 post it toasts. 0:15:23.400 --> 0:15:25.240 So yeah, not too many. 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:29.520 We are families, like reasonably sized, but we don't do 0:15:29.600 --> 0:15:30.880 Charlie's siblings and their partners. 0:15:30.920 --> 0:15:32.400 It's only presents for the kids. 0:15:32.600 --> 0:15:36.400 Yeah. Adults no, yeah, yeah yeah. We used to do 0:15:36.640 --> 0:15:38.280 everyone I know. 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:40.640 So this is just the first year that you haven't. No. 0:15:40.640 --> 0:15:42.680 No, last year was the first year and I was 0:15:42.720 --> 0:15:45.240 off it to be honest, I love gifts. 0:15:45.320 --> 0:15:46.600 Do you do Secret Santa? 0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:49.920 Yes? Yeah, but like it was offensive how many presents 0:15:49.960 --> 0:15:52.560 were under the tree before I. 0:15:52.560 --> 0:15:54.440 Did notice that about you, Like you guys would have 0:15:55.400 --> 0:15:56.360 so many. 0:15:56.280 --> 0:16:02.320 It was so fun. I like stuff. Yeah, you doing 0:16:02.440 --> 0:16:05.640 Christmas presents. I find it really fine. So but Mum 0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:08.200 was like, now that there's kids, you know, Christmas is 0:16:08.240 --> 0:16:12.800 about them. So we do Secret Santa for the grown 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:15.320 ups and we only get to shop from one person. 0:16:15.760 --> 0:16:16.760 Do you know who you've got? 0:16:17.240 --> 0:16:19.720 I've got my sister so she's so easy and she 0:16:19.840 --> 0:16:23.440 was like, yes, oh, so you know who each other gets. No, 0:16:23.480 --> 0:16:25.920 you're not supposed to, but you do. And my sister 0:16:25.960 --> 0:16:29.560 in law has got me, and she potentially is going 0:16:29.600 --> 0:16:34.520 to be like she's absolutely the loveliest, slightly hippie person 0:16:34.560 --> 0:16:37.040 that you will meet. She potentially is gonna be like 0:16:37.080 --> 0:16:39.240 Kelly has too much stuff and she'll just bloody donate. 0:16:39.760 --> 0:16:43.120 Oh tell I'm going to tell her not to do that. 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:46.280 I'll be like, I want something, ye tell her, I'll donate. 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:48.120 Just tell who the present? 0:16:48.320 --> 0:16:50.960 You don't the present to me, donate to me. 0:16:51.560 --> 0:16:53.520 So yeah, so we do Secret Santa and then for 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:57.560 all of the kids, and then I'll get something for Loua. 0:16:57.640 --> 0:16:59.680 Sometimes I do like little things for friends if I 0:16:59.720 --> 0:17:01.400 see them, I will as. 0:17:01.320 --> 0:17:04.080 Well, but I haven't really included that. Like often it 0:17:04.119 --> 0:17:05.359 would just be, oh, do you know what I do? 0:17:05.440 --> 0:17:08.679 Actually in my apartment building. I buy cookies, but I 0:17:08.680 --> 0:17:09.520 put them in jars. 0:17:09.800 --> 0:17:12.760 Oh so they think you made them. That is just 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:14.080 really good. 0:17:14.480 --> 0:17:17.359 Marry Christmas from us. Yeah, it's pretty funny. 0:17:17.520 --> 0:17:19.520 For daycare, I did it last year and I'll do 0:17:19.600 --> 0:17:20.040