1 00:00:08,234 --> 00:00:15,634 Speaker 1: You're listening to a Mom with mea podcast. Hello, ubies, 2 00:00:15,714 --> 00:00:18,674 Speaker 1: it's Lee here and I wanted to drop this special 3 00:00:18,714 --> 00:00:21,154 Speaker 1: episode of Nothing to Wear into the U Bidy feed 4 00:00:21,233 --> 00:00:24,593 Speaker 1: because if you like makeup and skincare, you might like 5 00:00:24,714 --> 00:00:27,634 Speaker 1: fashion as well. And when I say fashion, I don't 6 00:00:27,674 --> 00:00:31,314 Speaker 1: mean blindly following trends or spending a fortune. It's just 7 00:00:31,354 --> 00:00:34,194 Speaker 1: some really great style advice. And I reckon you're gonna 8 00:00:34,234 --> 00:00:38,074 Speaker 1: like this one. Whoever said orange is a new pink 9 00:00:38,193 --> 00:00:39,794 Speaker 1: but seriously disturbed. 10 00:00:39,473 --> 00:00:41,873 Speaker 2: Laurels for spraying groundbreaking? 11 00:00:42,114 --> 00:00:44,434 Speaker 3: Oh my god, you have to do it. You live 12 00:00:44,513 --> 00:00:45,233 Speaker 3: for fashion. 13 00:00:46,714 --> 00:00:49,593 Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to Nothing to Wear, the podcast that 14 00:00:49,674 --> 00:00:53,394 Speaker 1: solves fashion problems and levels off your wardrobe. Now today 15 00:00:53,634 --> 00:00:56,273 Speaker 1: I have a guest called Jess Spaciona And if you 16 00:00:56,314 --> 00:00:59,674 Speaker 1: recognize that name, it's because she's on radio. She lives 17 00:00:59,674 --> 00:01:02,714 Speaker 1: in Newcastle and she is on regional New South Wales 18 00:01:02,794 --> 00:01:06,354 Speaker 1: Brecky radio show on the Hit Network. So you've probably 19 00:01:06,354 --> 00:01:08,034 Speaker 1: seen her there, well heard her that. You might have 20 00:01:08,074 --> 00:01:10,434 Speaker 1: seen her on social media, but that's not what I'm 21 00:01:10,474 --> 00:01:12,594 Speaker 1: here to talk to her about. A little over a 22 00:01:12,674 --> 00:01:16,194 Speaker 1: year ago, Jess set herself a challenge at the end 23 00:01:16,394 --> 00:01:20,914 Speaker 1: of twenty twenty four. One moment, actually one item, made 24 00:01:20,914 --> 00:01:23,914 Speaker 1: her decide that she was not allowed to buy one 25 00:01:24,034 --> 00:01:26,754 Speaker 1: single thing for her wardrobe for the whole of twenty 26 00:01:26,914 --> 00:01:31,354 Speaker 1: twenty five. We're talking clothes, We're talking shoes, We're talking accessories. 27 00:01:31,594 --> 00:01:32,674 Speaker 3: Are we talking underwear? 28 00:01:33,074 --> 00:01:35,914 Speaker 1: Did she do it? Did she fail? I'm going to 29 00:01:35,994 --> 00:01:39,114 Speaker 1: ask Jess absolutely everything about what it's like to not 30 00:01:39,154 --> 00:01:42,114 Speaker 1: buy anything for a whole year. The highs, the lows, 31 00:01:42,154 --> 00:01:46,674 Speaker 1: and how she went. It's fascinating. Let's get into it. Jess, 32 00:01:46,994 --> 00:01:50,594 Speaker 1: Welcome to Nothing to Wear. Before we get into the 33 00:01:50,594 --> 00:01:54,274 Speaker 1: topic of which I have so many questions, I'm sort 34 00:01:54,274 --> 00:01:57,274 Speaker 1: of inspired. I'm going to ask you some personal questions. First, 35 00:01:57,554 --> 00:01:59,914 Speaker 1: can you describe your style in three words? 36 00:02:00,394 --> 00:02:01,674 Speaker 2: I know we just met Lee, but can I have 37 00:02:01,674 --> 00:02:02,074 Speaker 2: a favor? 38 00:02:02,274 --> 00:02:02,474 Speaker 1: Yes? 39 00:02:02,514 --> 00:02:03,634 Speaker 2: Can I have four words? 40 00:02:04,234 --> 00:02:06,274 Speaker 3: Yes? Okay, I will allow it. Is there a hyphen? 41 00:02:06,434 --> 00:02:06,514 Speaker 1: No? 42 00:02:07,794 --> 00:02:11,114 Speaker 3: High school is probably two words, right? High school art teacher? 43 00:02:11,434 --> 00:02:12,874 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I love it. 44 00:02:12,874 --> 00:02:14,514 Speaker 3: It's a phrase. It is it is. 45 00:02:14,633 --> 00:02:15,314 Speaker 2: I could say. 46 00:02:15,114 --> 00:02:19,234 Speaker 3: Secondary art teacher, but yeah, I think it conveys the 47 00:02:19,234 --> 00:02:20,354 Speaker 3: point I'm trying to get across. 48 00:02:20,434 --> 00:02:22,194 Speaker 2: School school teacher. 49 00:02:22,234 --> 00:02:24,794 Speaker 3: I don't know. I I vibe at the high school Okay, 50 00:02:24,994 --> 00:02:27,954 Speaker 3: I'm not childish, but I am loud. 51 00:02:28,314 --> 00:02:31,314 Speaker 1: Okay, yes, okay. 52 00:02:30,954 --> 00:02:33,354 Speaker 2: And nothing goes together, but I don't care. 53 00:02:33,274 --> 00:02:35,514 Speaker 1: Because it was everyone's art teacher like that. 54 00:02:35,634 --> 00:02:38,194 Speaker 3: Well, the one I from high school is why I've 55 00:02:38,194 --> 00:02:39,154 Speaker 3: pigeonholed high. 56 00:02:38,954 --> 00:02:42,114 Speaker 1: School like bright colored like glass or beads. But she 57 00:02:42,194 --> 00:02:45,594 Speaker 1: wore a lot of black linen but like different, yes, 58 00:02:45,794 --> 00:02:48,034 Speaker 1: but then the accessories she had short like hair. 59 00:02:48,114 --> 00:02:50,434 Speaker 2: The image I have of high school art teacher. 60 00:02:50,474 --> 00:02:53,314 Speaker 3: And it's funny that description was actually bestowed upon me, 61 00:02:53,434 --> 00:02:56,754 Speaker 3: and I bristled against it when it was first given 62 00:02:56,754 --> 00:02:59,434 Speaker 3: to me by one of my producers, actually shy guy. 63 00:02:59,874 --> 00:03:02,793 Speaker 3: And I remember thinking, that's telling you what he thinks. No, 64 00:03:02,874 --> 00:03:07,634 Speaker 3: absolutely not, And I remember feeling insulted because it felt quirky, 65 00:03:07,674 --> 00:03:11,714 Speaker 3: it felt silly, it felt brazen, it felt eccentric. And 66 00:03:11,754 --> 00:03:14,314 Speaker 3: the way I dress, And when I reassessed my wardrobe 67 00:03:14,354 --> 00:03:17,314 Speaker 3: after he said that, I went, oh, it's just joy. Yeah, 68 00:03:17,354 --> 00:03:19,074 Speaker 3: it doesn't make sense to anyone but me, and I 69 00:03:19,114 --> 00:03:21,914 Speaker 3: don't really care. It's not following any rules. Yes I 70 00:03:21,994 --> 00:03:22,354 Speaker 3: am not. 71 00:03:22,554 --> 00:03:23,353 Speaker 1: It makes you happy. 72 00:03:23,394 --> 00:03:24,834 Speaker 3: I hope you don't kick me out after saying this. 73 00:03:24,914 --> 00:03:28,074 Speaker 3: I don't consider myself fashionable. I don't consider myself up 74 00:03:28,074 --> 00:03:30,474 Speaker 3: with the trends. I dress for myself. 75 00:03:30,674 --> 00:03:32,554 Speaker 1: I mean, I think that's what we all should be doing, right. 76 00:03:32,634 --> 00:03:34,874 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, and it's actually very liberating. 77 00:03:35,034 --> 00:03:38,314 Speaker 3: So I'm embracing high school art teacher just to mean 78 00:03:38,914 --> 00:03:42,674 Speaker 3: creative and quirky in lame following your heart. 79 00:03:42,834 --> 00:03:45,074 Speaker 2: Yes, as much as my personality love it. 80 00:03:45,114 --> 00:03:48,274 Speaker 1: That's my favorite so far. Now, look, I normally ask 81 00:03:49,154 --> 00:03:51,194 Speaker 1: every guest this question, but I feel like I might 82 00:03:51,234 --> 00:03:53,754 Speaker 1: skip it to the end. So it's the theory that 83 00:03:53,794 --> 00:03:55,834 Speaker 1: all women or most women have a wardrobe full of 84 00:03:55,834 --> 00:03:58,154 Speaker 1: clothes and they wear ten percent of what they've got 85 00:03:58,234 --> 00:04:00,674 Speaker 1: nine percent of the time. But that's a bit different here. 86 00:04:00,754 --> 00:04:04,674 Speaker 1: So we're going to revisit that. Sure, because last year 87 00:04:04,674 --> 00:04:09,274 Speaker 1: twenty twenty five, you embarked on quite the endeavor. You 88 00:04:09,354 --> 00:04:13,634 Speaker 1: decided to challenge yourself and not buy any new clothes 89 00:04:13,674 --> 00:04:14,634 Speaker 1: for the entire year. 90 00:04:14,754 --> 00:04:17,994 Speaker 3: Not just clothes, Lee, I also shoes and accessories. 91 00:04:17,514 --> 00:04:20,714 Speaker 1: But oay myself, anything wardrobe related that you place on 92 00:04:20,753 --> 00:04:21,193 Speaker 1: your body. 93 00:04:21,313 --> 00:04:22,393 Speaker 3: Correct why? 94 00:04:23,834 --> 00:04:27,193 Speaker 2: The reason can be explained by the dress I'm wearing. 95 00:04:26,993 --> 00:04:31,153 Speaker 3: Today for you? Okay, So in late twenty twenty yere No, 96 00:04:31,234 --> 00:04:32,033 Speaker 3: it's Leolin. 97 00:04:32,234 --> 00:04:32,993 Speaker 1: I love Leolin. 98 00:04:33,154 --> 00:04:35,273 Speaker 2: I love Leolin. 99 00:04:34,993 --> 00:04:37,953 Speaker 3: A little very fun, a little too much, okay, And 100 00:04:38,034 --> 00:04:40,274 Speaker 3: I found myself I think it might have been late. 101 00:04:40,993 --> 00:04:42,794 Speaker 2: It must have been late twenty twenty. 102 00:04:42,474 --> 00:04:46,714 Speaker 3: Four, yep. And I was scrolling on the Leolin website 103 00:04:46,714 --> 00:04:48,753 Speaker 3: as I was known to do, and I added three 104 00:04:48,794 --> 00:04:52,794 Speaker 3: things to come cheap, thank you, one of them being 105 00:04:52,873 --> 00:04:55,834 Speaker 3: this stress. And it arrived, and I'll be honest, I 106 00:04:55,873 --> 00:04:58,234 Speaker 3: loved it fabulous. When we talk about joy, when we 107 00:04:58,274 --> 00:05:01,354 Speaker 3: talk about eccentricity, when we talk about loud, we've got 108 00:05:01,393 --> 00:05:03,754 Speaker 3: the big frill, very synonymous with Leolin. 109 00:05:04,034 --> 00:05:06,393 Speaker 1: Everyone needs to watch on YouTube if they're only listening, 110 00:05:06,433 --> 00:05:08,354 Speaker 1: because Hello, this dress needs to be seen. 111 00:05:08,433 --> 00:05:08,794 Speaker 3: Thank you. 112 00:05:08,993 --> 00:05:10,113 Speaker 2: We've got a big faires wee. 113 00:05:10,193 --> 00:05:15,393 Speaker 3: We've got this beautiful color palette. It is so joyful. 114 00:05:15,873 --> 00:05:19,794 Speaker 3: I've worn it once and I crack that time. Yeah, 115 00:05:19,834 --> 00:05:21,793 Speaker 3: well I got it, and then I found a reason 116 00:05:21,834 --> 00:05:22,873 Speaker 3: to wear it with the girls. 117 00:05:22,873 --> 00:05:25,873 Speaker 2: And then months and months and months passed and I went, 118 00:05:26,714 --> 00:05:27,794 Speaker 2: why did I buy that? 119 00:05:28,193 --> 00:05:30,794 Speaker 3: This would have been five hundred. 120 00:05:30,914 --> 00:05:33,714 Speaker 2: Maybe five point fifty. Ye, it's a mini, that's why 121 00:05:33,714 --> 00:05:36,234 Speaker 2: it's not eight. But in that in that purchase of. 122 00:05:36,154 --> 00:05:38,354 Speaker 3: Three, I think one of them was yeah, and I 123 00:05:38,393 --> 00:05:40,593 Speaker 3: can justify things, and I used to be able to 124 00:05:40,594 --> 00:05:43,394 Speaker 3: do that really easily, but this was the dress that 125 00:05:43,674 --> 00:05:48,393 Speaker 3: just made me reassess my spending habits and my impulsiveness. 126 00:05:48,953 --> 00:05:50,953 Speaker 3: And it's funny because I heard an episode of Yours 127 00:05:50,953 --> 00:05:54,313 Speaker 3: from a little while back. You interviewed an astrologer talking 128 00:05:54,354 --> 00:05:58,354 Speaker 3: about how our shopping habits or our personal style can 129 00:05:58,393 --> 00:06:01,234 Speaker 3: be connected to our stars. I'm an air, I'm an 130 00:06:01,234 --> 00:06:06,313 Speaker 3: aries and your astrologist did say impulsive. And again it 131 00:06:06,393 --> 00:06:09,474 Speaker 3: was this way call of, oh my god, I am 132 00:06:09,513 --> 00:06:13,753 Speaker 3: not purchasing things to serve any purpose except to scratch 133 00:06:13,794 --> 00:06:18,594 Speaker 3: an itch. What a crappy reason to spend my hard 134 00:06:18,714 --> 00:06:19,393 Speaker 3: earned money. 135 00:06:19,393 --> 00:06:21,154 Speaker 1: And I feel like I'm having it before and augh 136 00:06:21,234 --> 00:06:22,993 Speaker 1: so like you're the after of what I could be 137 00:06:23,034 --> 00:06:23,873 Speaker 1: and I'm in the before. 138 00:06:24,034 --> 00:06:26,394 Speaker 3: Honestly, I hope you can walk away from this Chatley. 139 00:06:26,513 --> 00:06:28,553 Speaker 3: I know you're in the fashion world. I know that I. 140 00:06:28,553 --> 00:06:31,034 Speaker 2: Don't know what it would do for your brand or your. 141 00:06:30,914 --> 00:06:33,314 Speaker 3: Job, but I would love to see you try it, 142 00:06:34,234 --> 00:06:38,193 Speaker 3: because honestly, this was truly the garment that I went right, Jess, 143 00:06:38,834 --> 00:06:41,553 Speaker 3: wake up. I slapped myself across the face and went 144 00:06:41,834 --> 00:06:44,914 Speaker 3: it's unacceptable. I don't need this, and it made me 145 00:06:44,993 --> 00:06:46,113 Speaker 3: relook at everything going. 146 00:06:46,633 --> 00:06:47,513 Speaker 2: I've got heaps. 147 00:06:47,674 --> 00:06:50,474 Speaker 1: Okay, so I've got heaps, but then I'm not going 148 00:06:50,513 --> 00:06:53,113 Speaker 1: to buy anything for a year. That's quite a leap, 149 00:06:53,234 --> 00:06:56,113 Speaker 1: you know. So why didn't you just go Okay, no 150 00:06:56,313 --> 00:06:57,914 Speaker 1: fancy dresses or you know. 151 00:06:57,953 --> 00:06:59,033 Speaker 2: I can't do things by halves. 152 00:06:59,553 --> 00:07:02,113 Speaker 3: I knew if I gave myself an inch, I would 153 00:07:02,193 --> 00:07:04,553 Speaker 3: take a mile or so I have to go all 154 00:07:04,674 --> 00:07:08,113 Speaker 3: or nothing. I am a hard on the sleeve, asked. I 155 00:07:08,234 --> 00:07:11,034 Speaker 3: got my husband's initials tattooed on my hip after knowing 156 00:07:11,114 --> 00:07:11,913 Speaker 3: him for four months. 157 00:07:11,994 --> 00:07:12,874 Speaker 1: Leave you're still together? 158 00:07:13,074 --> 00:07:16,034 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's happily married. God a small child. I am 159 00:07:16,034 --> 00:07:17,154 Speaker 2: an all or nothing kind. 160 00:07:16,994 --> 00:07:18,634 Speaker 3: Of I do have seven tattoos. 161 00:07:18,674 --> 00:07:19,474 Speaker 1: So what I hate you? 162 00:07:21,474 --> 00:07:24,354 Speaker 3: I knew that if I gave myself a little bit 163 00:07:24,354 --> 00:07:27,353 Speaker 3: of leeway, I would constantly find loophole's and I would 164 00:07:27,434 --> 00:07:30,953 Speaker 3: just disintegrate the whole mission. So I said right as 165 00:07:30,953 --> 00:07:35,434 Speaker 3: of January one, twenty twenty five, no new clothes, shoes, 166 00:07:35,514 --> 00:07:37,754 Speaker 3: or accessories. Yeah, and I'm very proud to look you 167 00:07:37,794 --> 00:07:39,593 Speaker 3: in the eye and say I was able to achieve that. 168 00:07:39,754 --> 00:07:43,833 Speaker 1: You did it. So you've made this decision late twenty 169 00:07:43,953 --> 00:07:46,074 Speaker 1: twenty four. Yep, did you run out and do a 170 00:07:46,114 --> 00:07:49,354 Speaker 1: massive shop first? Did you do a wardrobe clean out? 171 00:07:49,434 --> 00:07:51,034 Speaker 1: Check what you do and don't have what you might 172 00:07:51,074 --> 00:07:51,634 Speaker 1: need more of? 173 00:07:52,074 --> 00:07:54,234 Speaker 3: That would have been the smart thing to do. No, 174 00:07:54,314 --> 00:07:56,314 Speaker 3: I just went and I looked my husband in the eye, 175 00:07:56,314 --> 00:07:58,274 Speaker 3: and I can't break promises to anger, So I said, 176 00:07:58,754 --> 00:08:01,754 Speaker 3: I am doing this. The one thing that probably was 177 00:08:01,794 --> 00:08:04,354 Speaker 3: a little bit of a rocky start was and he 178 00:08:04,393 --> 00:08:06,273 Speaker 3: had to pull me up on it. Maybe the third 179 00:08:06,314 --> 00:08:10,953 Speaker 3: week of jazz we'd had about I'm not exaggerating, fifteen 180 00:08:11,034 --> 00:08:14,194 Speaker 3: parcels arrived to the house. They were all for my daughter, 181 00:08:14,554 --> 00:08:17,474 Speaker 3: who would have been maybe one eighteen months at the time. 182 00:08:17,953 --> 00:08:19,754 Speaker 1: Redirected, he said, the dope. 183 00:08:19,914 --> 00:08:22,593 Speaker 3: I love that you want to challenge yourself with this. Hey, 184 00:08:22,634 --> 00:08:24,833 Speaker 3: it'd be great for the family bank balance. We had 185 00:08:24,874 --> 00:08:28,314 Speaker 3: a renovation coming up. This is wonderful. You can't just 186 00:08:28,434 --> 00:08:31,434 Speaker 3: redirect all the money you've saved for yourself to. 187 00:08:31,393 --> 00:08:33,794 Speaker 1: Lucia, especially when they grow so fast. 188 00:08:33,874 --> 00:08:35,714 Speaker 2: You can buying her eighty dollar jumper. 189 00:08:35,874 --> 00:08:37,834 Speaker 3: Oh my am I dumb, Like I'm dumb. 190 00:08:37,914 --> 00:08:39,634 Speaker 1: That's why I had. 191 00:08:39,474 --> 00:08:41,394 Speaker 3: To cut myself off at the knees. So then what 192 00:08:41,474 --> 00:08:42,154 Speaker 3: happened with her? 193 00:08:42,314 --> 00:08:43,714 Speaker 1: I mean, this is getting off, but you could just 194 00:08:43,754 --> 00:08:46,074 Speaker 1: get her like a limit or essential. 195 00:08:45,714 --> 00:08:49,474 Speaker 3: So they go exactly And just having him lay that 196 00:08:49,514 --> 00:08:53,074 Speaker 3: out nicely for me again it made me recalibrate, why 197 00:08:53,114 --> 00:08:54,354 Speaker 3: am I spending this money? 198 00:08:54,354 --> 00:08:57,194 Speaker 2: Why am I feeling this urge of retail therapy? 199 00:08:57,234 --> 00:09:00,354 Speaker 3: Am I Why am I seeking dopamine in this way? 200 00:09:00,434 --> 00:09:02,674 Speaker 3: So after he sort of pulled me up again, we 201 00:09:02,714 --> 00:09:05,154 Speaker 3: hadn't even cracked fair at that point, I was able 202 00:09:05,194 --> 00:09:08,234 Speaker 3: to just really take us second when I added anything 203 00:09:08,234 --> 00:09:10,114 Speaker 3: to college, quitting anything right. 204 00:09:10,154 --> 00:09:12,234 Speaker 1: I think the start is the hardest and you fall 205 00:09:12,274 --> 00:09:14,034 Speaker 1: and you get back up, and then once you keep 206 00:09:14,034 --> 00:09:15,474 Speaker 1: going the longer, you know, it's like when you get 207 00:09:15,554 --> 00:09:16,914 Speaker 1: back into the gym, it's like this sucks. 208 00:09:16,914 --> 00:09:19,874 Speaker 3: This sucks. Actually, I like it absolutely, And having any 209 00:09:19,914 --> 00:09:23,514 Speaker 3: external motivation is wonderful or external support is wonderful. It's 210 00:09:23,514 --> 00:09:25,994 Speaker 3: got to be driven from here, from you, because if 211 00:09:25,994 --> 00:09:27,674 Speaker 3: it's not, forget about it. 212 00:09:28,234 --> 00:09:31,114 Speaker 1: Okay, I feel we need to have a session offline assell. 213 00:09:31,514 --> 00:09:34,674 Speaker 1: So what were your boundaries? Were you allowed to shop secondhand? 214 00:09:34,754 --> 00:09:38,154 Speaker 1: Were you allowed to swap with friends? Were there restrictions? 215 00:09:38,394 --> 00:09:40,194 Speaker 1: Was there, you know, set guideline. 216 00:09:40,394 --> 00:09:44,754 Speaker 3: The only thing I gave myself leeway around was events. 217 00:09:44,914 --> 00:09:47,194 Speaker 2: I am a radio host, I amc a lot. 218 00:09:47,234 --> 00:09:50,074 Speaker 3: I'm also a civil marriage celebrant, which does require some 219 00:09:50,194 --> 00:09:52,794 Speaker 3: fancy things. You know, whatever might have been coming up. 220 00:09:52,834 --> 00:09:54,994 Speaker 3: There may have been events where I did not have 221 00:09:55,114 --> 00:09:58,434 Speaker 3: something that I felt great in. Let's be real, I 222 00:09:58,474 --> 00:10:00,434 Speaker 3: had closed, but maybe something I didn't feel great in. 223 00:10:01,034 --> 00:10:03,994 Speaker 3: I said to myself, I'm allowed to hire. Okay, we 224 00:10:04,074 --> 00:10:06,554 Speaker 3: are so lucky in Newcastle, one of my best girlfriends, 225 00:10:07,474 --> 00:10:09,954 Speaker 3: the first dress higher business we can go in and 226 00:10:09,994 --> 00:10:14,234 Speaker 3: try on. Oh that's so important. Absolutely, I'm a pretty 227 00:10:14,274 --> 00:10:16,674 Speaker 3: I think I'm a pretty standard ten twelve. 228 00:10:16,714 --> 00:10:19,194 Speaker 2: But I'm just saying that every brand is different. 229 00:10:19,554 --> 00:10:20,874 Speaker 3: Shoes side the. 230 00:10:20,874 --> 00:10:22,274 Speaker 1: Cart or you don't know if it's gonna go with 231 00:10:22,314 --> 00:10:23,794 Speaker 1: the shoes you've got in mind, like to try it 232 00:10:23,794 --> 00:10:25,314 Speaker 1: on in real life? Okay, hiring. 233 00:10:25,514 --> 00:10:27,514 Speaker 3: So hiring was the one thing I was allowed to do, 234 00:10:27,594 --> 00:10:31,794 Speaker 3: but other than that, there were no other loopholes or restrictions. 235 00:10:31,834 --> 00:10:33,874 Speaker 2: It was only to hire for special events. 236 00:10:33,914 --> 00:10:37,554 Speaker 1: Wow, I okay, So can I ask about underwear? We 237 00:10:37,634 --> 00:10:38,674 Speaker 1: were like to know you underwear? 238 00:10:38,954 --> 00:10:42,314 Speaker 3: No, and it's again, I've got a g string. I wore. 239 00:10:42,434 --> 00:10:44,754 Speaker 1: Sorry everyone, but like on Kintiquing when I was twenty one, 240 00:10:44,754 --> 00:10:45,474 Speaker 1: I'm forty three. 241 00:10:45,674 --> 00:10:46,594 Speaker 2: You still have that. 242 00:10:47,434 --> 00:10:49,874 Speaker 3: You must be an absolute slave to the washbag. You 243 00:10:49,954 --> 00:10:50,434 Speaker 3: must love it. 244 00:10:50,354 --> 00:10:53,554 Speaker 1: It was helon Now it's just great. But it's just 245 00:10:53,594 --> 00:10:55,954 Speaker 1: such a good one to wear under like tight things anyway, 246 00:10:56,234 --> 00:10:57,754 Speaker 1: you can get through in a year. 247 00:10:58,114 --> 00:10:59,194 Speaker 2: So it's funny you say that. 248 00:10:59,274 --> 00:11:01,554 Speaker 3: I thought you might ask what's the first thing you're 249 00:11:01,674 --> 00:11:05,954 Speaker 3: gonna buy your break and underwear would be top of 250 00:11:05,954 --> 00:11:10,554 Speaker 3: the least because I only wear booty bamboo unders. I 251 00:11:10,594 --> 00:11:13,314 Speaker 3: threw away all the g's all the oh, I have 252 00:11:13,514 --> 00:11:15,634 Speaker 3: one seamless but. 253 00:11:15,594 --> 00:11:18,714 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was gonna take avoid stuff. You need different cuts. 254 00:11:18,714 --> 00:11:21,034 Speaker 2: I have dabbled in no underwear, and I just I'm 255 00:11:21,034 --> 00:11:24,434 Speaker 2: a little concerned about that. So there's one real situation. 256 00:11:25,154 --> 00:11:27,954 Speaker 3: Yeah, so no underwear again, Lee, I knew, give me 257 00:11:27,994 --> 00:11:30,514 Speaker 3: an inch, I'll take a mile. I bought some booty underwear. 258 00:11:30,594 --> 00:11:32,674 Speaker 3: I'd then go, oh, but that's single it, like I could. 259 00:11:32,754 --> 00:11:34,314 Speaker 1: I hope that's had like thirty pairs. 260 00:11:34,394 --> 00:11:36,674 Speaker 3: No, that's the thing, only about twelve. And if I 261 00:11:36,754 --> 00:11:38,994 Speaker 3: wasn't up to date with me wash cycle, I'm wearing 262 00:11:39,034 --> 00:11:41,754 Speaker 3: period undies. I'm wearing bikini bottoms. 263 00:11:41,034 --> 00:11:45,554 Speaker 2: It was challenging inside out. I liked the challenge. 264 00:11:45,554 --> 00:11:48,314 Speaker 3: I had this sick motivation to go, well, this is 265 00:11:48,314 --> 00:11:50,394 Speaker 3: your punishment for not being on top of it. Yes, 266 00:11:50,434 --> 00:11:52,514 Speaker 3: but good on you for finding a way around it 267 00:11:52,914 --> 00:11:53,794 Speaker 3: and not caving in. 268 00:11:53,914 --> 00:12:05,394 Speaker 1: Oh my gods, so true. You talked about you had 269 00:12:05,394 --> 00:12:07,354 Speaker 1: a lot of stuff, So what did your wardrobe look 270 00:12:07,394 --> 00:12:09,354 Speaker 1: like when you started this, Like, did you have a 271 00:12:09,394 --> 00:12:12,074 Speaker 1: lot of clothes? You have beautiful event dresses that you've 272 00:12:12,154 --> 00:12:14,754 Speaker 1: kind of mentioned. What did your wardrobe look like as 273 00:12:14,794 --> 00:12:16,953 Speaker 1: a whole in terms of what you had to work with? 274 00:12:17,314 --> 00:12:20,474 Speaker 3: So I think I probably tend more towards the casual 275 00:12:20,514 --> 00:12:23,314 Speaker 3: side or the really fancy dresses. I don't have a 276 00:12:23,474 --> 00:12:27,674 Speaker 3: huge scope of stuff, but I had such a quantity 277 00:12:27,874 --> 00:12:30,914 Speaker 3: that again the motivation to stop adding to that pile. 278 00:12:31,114 --> 00:12:33,234 Speaker 2: Yes, I love Gorman. 279 00:12:32,914 --> 00:12:35,114 Speaker 3: When we talk about loud, when we talk about fun 280 00:12:35,314 --> 00:12:36,634 Speaker 3: patent print texture. 281 00:12:36,714 --> 00:12:38,954 Speaker 1: But you weren't allowed to thrift? Well, because Gorman's everywhere 282 00:12:38,954 --> 00:12:39,394 Speaker 1: for thrifting. 283 00:12:39,554 --> 00:12:40,754 Speaker 2: Don't help me, don't. 284 00:12:40,554 --> 00:12:43,194 Speaker 3: Tell me you're allowed, now you know. I'm glad I 285 00:12:43,194 --> 00:12:44,834 Speaker 3: didn't know that because that would have been a temptation. 286 00:12:44,994 --> 00:12:47,994 Speaker 3: I probably wouldn't have been able to the New year. 287 00:12:48,034 --> 00:12:50,514 Speaker 1: If you're going to the sustainability element is you know, 288 00:12:50,514 --> 00:12:51,114 Speaker 1: a huge part. 289 00:12:51,434 --> 00:12:52,874 Speaker 3: Gorman is really good to three. 290 00:12:52,994 --> 00:12:53,994 Speaker 2: Thank you for the tip. 291 00:12:54,554 --> 00:12:58,114 Speaker 3: Similarly, I guess the issue with buying online marketplace your 292 00:12:58,154 --> 00:13:01,394 Speaker 3: d pops because I just feel like every brand different sizing. 293 00:13:01,834 --> 00:13:03,954 Speaker 3: So now that I know what I am in a Gorman, 294 00:13:04,034 --> 00:13:06,554 Speaker 3: I feel great in Mormon. So when I look at 295 00:13:06,554 --> 00:13:10,634 Speaker 3: my wardrobe as a whole, it looks like Joseph and 296 00:13:10,674 --> 00:13:14,034 Speaker 3: the Technic color Dreamt was cut up and then scattered 297 00:13:14,074 --> 00:13:15,514 Speaker 3: across a few different garments. 298 00:13:15,874 --> 00:13:19,074 Speaker 2: It is chaos and fun and drama. 299 00:13:19,194 --> 00:13:21,554 Speaker 1: Okay, I love it. So you knew you had enough 300 00:13:21,594 --> 00:13:25,474 Speaker 1: to play with? Did it get you creating more unique 301 00:13:25,514 --> 00:13:28,114 Speaker 1: combinations that you because for me, I mean I have 302 00:13:28,154 --> 00:13:30,554 Speaker 1: a lot of clothes as well, but I love when 303 00:13:30,594 --> 00:13:32,714 Speaker 1: I have the thought or the time to go, Oh, 304 00:13:32,754 --> 00:13:34,354 Speaker 1: I would never put those two together and it's a 305 00:13:34,354 --> 00:13:35,034 Speaker 1: whole new outfit. 306 00:13:35,074 --> 00:13:37,994 Speaker 3: But oftentimes I just go that top those bottoms. Yes, 307 00:13:38,034 --> 00:13:39,874 Speaker 3: and that's a trap I think I fell into. That's 308 00:13:39,954 --> 00:13:41,914 Speaker 3: why I felt like I need more stuff. I need 309 00:13:41,914 --> 00:13:42,434 Speaker 3: more stuff. 310 00:13:42,474 --> 00:13:43,834 Speaker 2: I don't have many things. 311 00:13:44,154 --> 00:13:46,874 Speaker 3: And again this challenge made me open my eyes a 312 00:13:46,874 --> 00:13:50,474 Speaker 3: little bit to getting more creative. I love color blocking, 313 00:13:50,554 --> 00:13:52,874 Speaker 3: so I love wearing a pink tea with a pink 314 00:13:52,914 --> 00:13:54,994 Speaker 3: pattern short, which I don't think I ever used to 315 00:13:55,034 --> 00:13:57,674 Speaker 3: do yes, because I just thought that was too much. 316 00:13:57,874 --> 00:13:58,954 Speaker 2: Now I embraced the. 317 00:13:58,994 --> 00:14:01,594 Speaker 1: Too much, and his style has changed because of it, 318 00:14:01,714 --> 00:14:02,194 Speaker 1: I think so. 319 00:14:02,354 --> 00:14:04,074 Speaker 3: And it's funny because I don't know if I would 320 00:14:04,074 --> 00:14:07,314 Speaker 3: have been able to articulate what the style was, but 321 00:14:07,394 --> 00:14:09,434 Speaker 3: in terms of now opening my eyes and feeling a 322 00:14:09,434 --> 00:14:12,474 Speaker 3: bit more liberated, feeling a bit more quirky, and also 323 00:14:12,634 --> 00:14:15,634 Speaker 3: not caring because well, the alternative is I wear something 324 00:14:15,634 --> 00:14:17,514 Speaker 3: I feel like I've worn a hundred times, so I'm 325 00:14:17,514 --> 00:14:17,994 Speaker 3: going to wear. 326 00:14:17,914 --> 00:14:19,954 Speaker 1: This or I break the rules or I break the 327 00:14:19,994 --> 00:14:22,874 Speaker 1: rule that was not an option. Did you tell everyone, 328 00:14:22,914 --> 00:14:25,434 Speaker 1: like your friends and your colleagues and stuff. Everyone knew. 329 00:14:25,594 --> 00:14:27,754 Speaker 3: Yes, I did it on air, and I if I 330 00:14:27,754 --> 00:14:29,994 Speaker 3: have some accountability, I did it on air. I did 331 00:14:29,994 --> 00:14:33,394 Speaker 3: it on my social media, which will probably lend itself 332 00:14:33,394 --> 00:14:36,834 Speaker 3: to the one loophole. I want you to maybe give 333 00:14:36,874 --> 00:14:37,954 Speaker 3: me a a. 334 00:14:37,794 --> 00:14:40,474 Speaker 1: Let's go there. I want to know what happened. 335 00:14:41,274 --> 00:14:46,274 Speaker 3: Would have been June, midway through the challenge, and I 336 00:14:46,514 --> 00:14:48,194 Speaker 3: was training with one of my best mates. 337 00:14:48,274 --> 00:14:49,154 Speaker 2: He's a pet. 338 00:14:49,554 --> 00:14:52,154 Speaker 3: I'd signed up for two classes a week with him 339 00:14:52,874 --> 00:14:54,474 Speaker 3: and for some of the activities we were doing. 340 00:14:54,514 --> 00:14:56,154 Speaker 2: He looked down at my runners. 341 00:14:56,354 --> 00:15:01,474 Speaker 3: They were new Balance, and he looked at them and 342 00:15:01,514 --> 00:15:03,834 Speaker 3: he said, Jesse, these are not great for training. 343 00:15:03,914 --> 00:15:06,114 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, they for like walking around a park 344 00:15:06,114 --> 00:15:08,274 Speaker 1: with the coffees. You can't have like acids. 345 00:15:08,314 --> 00:15:09,914 Speaker 2: It's like, funny you say that. 346 00:15:10,354 --> 00:15:12,634 Speaker 3: His exact words, he went, just what we're trying to do. 347 00:15:12,674 --> 00:15:14,834 Speaker 3: We're trying to build muscle, We're doing deep squats. 348 00:15:14,594 --> 00:15:16,394 Speaker 2: We're doing X y Z. I was, I'm really listening. 349 00:15:16,754 --> 00:15:19,354 Speaker 3: He was basically saying, these shoes are not good enough 350 00:15:19,354 --> 00:15:22,194 Speaker 3: for you. Okay, maybe we were trying to run, yeah, 351 00:15:22,194 --> 00:15:25,354 Speaker 3: whatever it might be. And he said, genuinely, you're going 352 00:15:25,394 --> 00:15:28,874 Speaker 3: to potentially do some structural damage to your body, let 353 00:15:28,914 --> 00:15:33,034 Speaker 3: alone your foot, let alone justification, I said to him, 354 00:15:33,074 --> 00:15:36,154 Speaker 3: kind of, I cannot. I am doing a no spend 355 00:15:36,274 --> 00:15:38,554 Speaker 3: challenge and I'm not breaking it on freaking runners, Like 356 00:15:38,754 --> 00:15:39,754 Speaker 3: I don't even like the gym. 357 00:15:39,794 --> 00:15:40,874 Speaker 2: Why would I break it. 358 00:15:40,794 --> 00:15:44,034 Speaker 1: On health product. It's like if my glass is broken. 359 00:15:44,074 --> 00:15:44,634 Speaker 1: I was doing it. 360 00:15:44,754 --> 00:15:46,674 Speaker 2: That's what he was trying to say. 361 00:15:46,754 --> 00:15:48,834 Speaker 3: But I said no, because if I go to the 362 00:15:48,874 --> 00:15:51,554 Speaker 3: shops and I try on a pair of new Runners, 363 00:15:51,594 --> 00:15:52,674 Speaker 3: I'm then going to go into. 364 00:15:52,474 --> 00:15:54,594 Speaker 2: The shop next door and the shop next door. 365 00:15:54,994 --> 00:15:57,394 Speaker 3: But I took it to Instagram and everyone was asking 366 00:15:57,434 --> 00:16:00,394 Speaker 3: to see a picture of the Runners. People were confusing 367 00:16:00,434 --> 00:16:02,274 Speaker 3: the fact they were beige that they were dirty, going 368 00:16:02,434 --> 00:16:05,034 Speaker 3: just put them in the wash. It's not the look 369 00:16:05,034 --> 00:16:05,274 Speaker 3: of them. 370 00:16:05,314 --> 00:16:06,874 Speaker 1: I'm going to break my ankle exactly. 371 00:16:07,394 --> 00:16:09,394 Speaker 3: Was really going at the look? I said, no, you're 372 00:16:09,394 --> 00:16:12,794 Speaker 3: not justifying it well enough. Yes, But about two weeks 373 00:16:12,834 --> 00:16:16,714 Speaker 3: after that, genuinely, the structure of the heel part of 374 00:16:17,394 --> 00:16:20,754 Speaker 3: the Runners, it had busted through the fabric, so gave 375 00:16:20,794 --> 00:16:24,274 Speaker 3: me a blister. It was rubbing raw, and I went, oh, no, 376 00:16:24,314 --> 00:16:27,394 Speaker 3: we're not putting up with blisters. That's where I justified 377 00:16:27,714 --> 00:16:30,274 Speaker 3: this is now okay health for a blister. 378 00:16:31,114 --> 00:16:31,754 Speaker 4: It's true. 379 00:16:31,914 --> 00:16:33,794 Speaker 1: But you know what I'm saying, I'm older than you, 380 00:16:33,834 --> 00:16:35,794 Speaker 1: and back in the day when private health insurance was 381 00:16:35,834 --> 00:16:37,594 Speaker 1: really good, your runners were covered. 382 00:16:37,834 --> 00:16:39,074 Speaker 2: I thought, you say blisters were covered. 383 00:16:39,554 --> 00:16:42,194 Speaker 1: Runners were covered, so that means it is medicine. 384 00:16:42,274 --> 00:16:46,394 Speaker 3: So I have held on to that lead, honestly, since 385 00:16:46,394 --> 00:16:47,314 Speaker 3: I finished the challenge. 386 00:16:47,354 --> 00:16:50,474 Speaker 2: I genuinely thought. Can I say I did it because. 387 00:16:50,274 --> 00:16:53,994 Speaker 1: I did it and I bought assex because the Lovely 388 00:16:54,314 --> 00:16:56,434 Speaker 1: House said that was I was going to say, someone 389 00:16:56,434 --> 00:16:58,714 Speaker 1: should have taken you blindfolded and just had you fitted 390 00:16:58,794 --> 00:17:00,594 Speaker 1: and paid for them and you weren't allowed to look 391 00:17:00,634 --> 00:17:01,234 Speaker 1: at any shops. 392 00:17:01,354 --> 00:17:04,954 Speaker 3: Oh see that, No, it was I think by that stage. 393 00:17:04,994 --> 00:17:06,513 Speaker 3: Now we're sort of towards the back end of the year. 394 00:17:06,513 --> 00:17:06,914 Speaker 3: It's July. 395 00:17:07,114 --> 00:17:08,674 Speaker 2: At this point, I. 396 00:17:08,594 --> 00:17:12,593 Speaker 3: Felt so good in I'm nearly I'm halfway, I'm over 397 00:17:12,594 --> 00:17:15,754 Speaker 3: the hump, I'm halfway through this. I'm more than halfway. 398 00:17:16,114 --> 00:17:17,874 Speaker 3: I can do runners and get out of here. 399 00:17:18,274 --> 00:17:20,833 Speaker 1: And I did, yes, and you didn't break it in 400 00:17:20,874 --> 00:17:21,714 Speaker 1: any other way. 401 00:17:21,914 --> 00:17:24,833 Speaker 3: So okay, this is another loopole and what your judgment 402 00:17:24,874 --> 00:17:27,234 Speaker 3: on We went to Italy for three. 403 00:17:27,114 --> 00:17:29,434 Speaker 1: Weeks holidays is different. 404 00:17:29,354 --> 00:17:31,954 Speaker 3: And people said to me, my husband included who was 405 00:17:31,954 --> 00:17:33,234 Speaker 3: my number one support person. 406 00:17:33,754 --> 00:17:34,994 Speaker 2: Oh, Italy doesn't count. 407 00:17:35,074 --> 00:17:37,394 Speaker 1: No, it doesn't by yourself, it's not your real life. 408 00:17:37,434 --> 00:17:38,154 Speaker 1: It's a souvenir. 409 00:17:38,474 --> 00:17:42,754 Speaker 3: And I said, no, angus, because life is I'm about 410 00:17:42,754 --> 00:17:46,394 Speaker 3: to get real life. Guriu philosophical on your way. Life's 411 00:17:46,394 --> 00:17:49,234 Speaker 3: going to throw your challenges just because it throws a curveball. 412 00:17:49,274 --> 00:17:51,354 Speaker 3: Your way doesn't mean you can make an excuse. 413 00:17:50,994 --> 00:17:52,274 Speaker 2: To veer off the past. 414 00:17:53,354 --> 00:17:57,354 Speaker 3: You are makes it okay. But we get to Florence. 415 00:17:58,114 --> 00:18:00,954 Speaker 3: We're walking along the pond of Eco. Oh my god, 416 00:18:01,154 --> 00:18:03,874 Speaker 3: Oh my god, I love a souvenir. And I said 417 00:18:03,874 --> 00:18:06,834 Speaker 3: to Angus, hey, does it count if you buy. 418 00:18:06,634 --> 00:18:07,314 Speaker 2: Me at press? 419 00:18:07,394 --> 00:18:08,754 Speaker 1: Oh my god, presidents are allowed. 420 00:18:08,794 --> 00:18:09,674 Speaker 3: So he brought me a ring. 421 00:18:10,114 --> 00:18:11,074 Speaker 2: Ah, that's allowed. 422 00:18:11,274 --> 00:18:12,073 Speaker 3: That's a loud. 423 00:18:12,714 --> 00:18:15,394 Speaker 1: It's a ring because it's not going to end up 424 00:18:15,434 --> 00:18:18,553 Speaker 1: in landfill because, like I know, it wasn't just the sustainability, 425 00:18:18,594 --> 00:18:20,314 Speaker 1: but you know it's the buying. 426 00:18:20,394 --> 00:18:22,554 Speaker 3: Don't don't wear a ring your west forever. It was 427 00:18:22,594 --> 00:18:25,154 Speaker 3: a gift. It is the most spectacular ring. I should 428 00:18:25,154 --> 00:18:27,234 Speaker 3: have worn it for you today. It's he's big green 429 00:18:28,314 --> 00:18:29,514 Speaker 3: they are It's so beautiful. 430 00:18:29,554 --> 00:18:31,154 Speaker 1: And she just turned around. Close your eyes and then 431 00:18:31,154 --> 00:18:32,354 Speaker 1: he's like, we're. 432 00:18:32,194 --> 00:18:35,194 Speaker 3: The most wonderful interaction with the woman. She was doting 433 00:18:35,234 --> 00:18:37,914 Speaker 3: over my daughter because her name's Lucias of the Italians 434 00:18:37,954 --> 00:18:39,954 Speaker 3: were nuts for her, so thank you. 435 00:18:39,994 --> 00:18:43,154 Speaker 1: They almost too bug bears that actually me in Florence, 436 00:18:43,194 --> 00:18:45,594 Speaker 1: I saw but I saw earrings. And then we walked 437 00:18:45,594 --> 00:18:48,234 Speaker 1: six hundred million kilometers. And then the next morning I 438 00:18:48,234 --> 00:18:49,513 Speaker 1: was like, I must have them, and my husband was 439 00:18:49,554 --> 00:18:51,314 Speaker 1: like no, and I dragged him. Couldn't remember where it was, 440 00:18:51,314 --> 00:18:52,674 Speaker 1: and then when we got there said I want them. 441 00:18:52,714 --> 00:18:55,074 Speaker 3: I see I reckon, that's a great little caveat to 442 00:18:55,114 --> 00:18:57,273 Speaker 3: give yourself if you are trying to maybe dip your 443 00:18:57,274 --> 00:18:59,954 Speaker 3: toe in this pool. Give yourself twenty four hours if 444 00:18:59,994 --> 00:19:01,754 Speaker 3: you are still thinking about it. 445 00:19:01,834 --> 00:19:03,513 Speaker 1: I found them. It was like in the Labyrinth anyway. 446 00:19:03,514 --> 00:19:04,834 Speaker 2: I love that justified. 447 00:19:04,994 --> 00:19:07,033 Speaker 1: Yeah, but he's he's the non spender. 448 00:19:07,234 --> 00:19:08,074 Speaker 3: It was absolutely not. 449 00:19:08,114 --> 00:19:11,914 Speaker 1: I'm like they cubixconias, buy them for me. Okay, So 450 00:19:13,034 --> 00:19:15,194 Speaker 1: what were your triggers before or what did you find 451 00:19:15,434 --> 00:19:20,154 Speaker 1: tempting you? Scrolling, stress, boredom, social pressure. You don't seem 452 00:19:20,154 --> 00:19:21,154 Speaker 1: like a social pressure kind. 453 00:19:20,994 --> 00:19:22,754 Speaker 3: Of again no to me. And I wonder if you 454 00:19:22,794 --> 00:19:24,553 Speaker 3: experienced this as well, Lee, because you would go to 455 00:19:24,594 --> 00:19:25,594 Speaker 3: so many events where. 456 00:19:25,474 --> 00:19:27,554 Speaker 2: You're expected to dress up or look. 457 00:19:27,314 --> 00:19:28,634 Speaker 3: A certain way, or you just want to feel a 458 00:19:28,634 --> 00:19:31,754 Speaker 3: certain way. I always was finding, you know, through my 459 00:19:31,794 --> 00:19:34,194 Speaker 3: twenties and early thirties, if an event was coming up 460 00:19:34,234 --> 00:19:36,634 Speaker 3: and I was shopping for the event, could never find anything. 461 00:19:36,834 --> 00:19:41,034 Speaker 3: Way When the event has the time pressure, couldn't find anything, yeap. 462 00:19:41,114 --> 00:19:43,674 Speaker 3: That's why I think hiring has just filled that gap beautif. 463 00:19:44,234 --> 00:19:46,793 Speaker 3: But up until that point, I just could never find anything. 464 00:19:46,874 --> 00:19:48,994 Speaker 3: My god, So I switched my brain into going, oh, well, 465 00:19:48,994 --> 00:19:51,034 Speaker 3: when I see something I like, I'll buy it, yes, 466 00:19:51,314 --> 00:19:53,634 Speaker 3: and have it in my wardrobe. That's how you end 467 00:19:53,674 --> 00:19:56,274 Speaker 3: up with three Leo liv dresses in one purchase. 468 00:19:56,434 --> 00:19:58,394 Speaker 2: That's me for no actual event coming up. 469 00:19:58,474 --> 00:20:02,194 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm like, ooh that's cute, that's different. I've 470 00:20:02,234 --> 00:20:03,594 Speaker 1: never seen it. Oh I'm not coming back here. I 471 00:20:03,674 --> 00:20:05,034 Speaker 1: never get together shop on my own. I've got a 472 00:20:05,074 --> 00:20:05,514 Speaker 1: little kid. 473 00:20:05,634 --> 00:20:08,154 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh fine, somewhere to wear at an event 474 00:20:08,154 --> 00:20:10,474 Speaker 3: will come around. But then you just end up accumulating 475 00:20:11,554 --> 00:20:14,634 Speaker 3: way I do. But then I had another like a 476 00:20:14,674 --> 00:20:18,114 Speaker 3: million other things exactly exactly, So yeah, I probably bought 477 00:20:18,154 --> 00:20:20,154 Speaker 3: them and social media as well, but just because I 478 00:20:20,154 --> 00:20:21,354 Speaker 3: would see so. 479 00:20:21,274 --> 00:20:23,273 Speaker 1: Many you know, yeah, did you really sit your algorithm? 480 00:20:23,314 --> 00:20:24,874 Speaker 3: How do you? I was going to say, your algorithm 481 00:20:24,914 --> 00:20:26,474 Speaker 3: starts knowing you so well, he'd only bout it up 482 00:20:26,514 --> 00:20:28,194 Speaker 3: Gorman Leon and these loud Bright. 483 00:20:28,394 --> 00:20:30,714 Speaker 1: Well, maybe at the start of twenty twenty five you couldn't. 484 00:20:30,714 --> 00:20:33,234 Speaker 1: But there's in settings. It's reset algorithm because I got 485 00:20:33,234 --> 00:20:36,674 Speaker 1: real deep in ADHD memes and also best friend things 486 00:20:36,714 --> 00:20:38,634 Speaker 1: because I haven't seen my friend anymore. And I was like, 487 00:20:38,634 --> 00:20:40,954 Speaker 1: this is great, but like now I'm in a funnel, so. 488 00:20:41,234 --> 00:20:44,273 Speaker 3: The co chamber, so what wipes are cleaned for you? 489 00:20:44,394 --> 00:20:47,274 Speaker 1: And then it's just like accounts you follow, but then 490 00:20:47,274 --> 00:20:49,434 Speaker 1: you need to start stopping. I'm like salad and like 491 00:20:49,794 --> 00:20:52,874 Speaker 1: I know things that you don't buy. Okay, okay, Oh 492 00:20:52,954 --> 00:20:54,714 Speaker 1: that would have been handy, Like that would. 493 00:20:54,474 --> 00:20:56,354 Speaker 3: Have been handed That's I've always wanted. It reminds me 494 00:20:56,394 --> 00:20:58,194 Speaker 3: of I used to one of my best mates. Kate 495 00:20:58,314 --> 00:21:01,714 Speaker 3: is a stylist, and oh you had time follow her well. 496 00:21:01,754 --> 00:21:03,434 Speaker 3: She was one of my biggest triggers because she would 497 00:21:03,434 --> 00:21:05,954 Speaker 3: find all the sales and she'd send me a twenty 498 00:21:05,994 --> 00:21:08,354 Speaker 3: five percent off Gorman's Please. 499 00:21:08,274 --> 00:21:09,234 Speaker 1: Shend them to you. 500 00:21:09,274 --> 00:21:11,074 Speaker 3: No, she would, but that's what I'm saying. I said 501 00:21:11,354 --> 00:21:13,033 Speaker 3: you to stop doing that, oh right before. So that 502 00:21:13,114 --> 00:21:15,234 Speaker 3: was again one of my triggers. She's finding all these 503 00:21:15,274 --> 00:21:18,234 Speaker 3: deals for me. I'm going, Kate, I'll talk to you 504 00:21:18,274 --> 00:21:18,594 Speaker 3: in a year. 505 00:21:18,754 --> 00:21:19,434 Speaker 2: Yes, but I've. 506 00:21:19,314 --> 00:21:21,994 Speaker 3: Wanted her sometimes to come over to my wardrobe. 507 00:21:21,634 --> 00:21:22,474 Speaker 2: To do a big reset. 508 00:21:22,474 --> 00:21:24,594 Speaker 3: I'm like, should we start from scratch? How fun would 509 00:21:24,594 --> 00:21:28,194 Speaker 3: that be to build from now? Yeah? No, but no 510 00:21:28,434 --> 00:21:31,194 Speaker 3: where we've come to a place of real acceptance and 511 00:21:31,434 --> 00:21:32,594 Speaker 3: to be honest, real happiness. 512 00:21:32,674 --> 00:21:35,394 Speaker 1: So I want to ask, did you handle any moments 513 00:21:35,474 --> 00:21:37,714 Speaker 1: where like, did you have anything tailored or repaired? Or 514 00:21:37,754 --> 00:21:39,074 Speaker 1: did you have enough to play with that you. 515 00:21:39,034 --> 00:21:41,513 Speaker 2: Were just like, Eh, funny you asked that again once. 516 00:21:41,554 --> 00:21:43,914 Speaker 3: I so I mentioned kin and the PT and I 517 00:21:44,034 --> 00:21:45,793 Speaker 3: just thought it was screwing him around too much. So 518 00:21:45,834 --> 00:21:49,273 Speaker 3: I had to rethink my attitude to exercise. I think 519 00:21:49,314 --> 00:21:51,834 Speaker 3: you're going to freak out at this, Lee, But I 520 00:21:51,874 --> 00:21:54,074 Speaker 3: started waking up at ten past four to go to 521 00:21:54,074 --> 00:21:56,234 Speaker 3: the gym before my radio show. 522 00:21:56,034 --> 00:21:58,034 Speaker 1: What time did you start on the radio at six am? 523 00:21:58,074 --> 00:22:00,033 Speaker 1: How was your child too? No? 524 00:22:00,114 --> 00:22:02,794 Speaker 3: But this is the thing I couldn't I couldn't find 525 00:22:02,834 --> 00:22:07,074 Speaker 3: time when I was in mum mode during the day. No, 526 00:22:07,154 --> 00:22:09,394 Speaker 3: that's why I don't exercise. It happened for six years. 527 00:22:09,474 --> 00:22:12,273 Speaker 3: I made too many excuses. I just kept finding a 528 00:22:12,274 --> 00:22:14,474 Speaker 3: reason not to train, not to exercise, not even to 529 00:22:14,474 --> 00:22:16,714 Speaker 3: bloody go for a walk. So I went the only 530 00:22:16,754 --> 00:22:19,553 Speaker 3: time of day I haven't tried is before the show, 531 00:22:20,074 --> 00:22:22,234 Speaker 3: and I'm a morning person, babe, so it has worked 532 00:22:22,274 --> 00:22:26,394 Speaker 3: beautifully so Unfortunately, though this sounds so gross to say, 533 00:22:26,474 --> 00:22:28,834 Speaker 3: one of the annoying side effects is I lost a 534 00:22:28,834 --> 00:22:30,914 Speaker 3: little bit of weight around the tummy, around the hibs, 535 00:22:31,394 --> 00:22:34,354 Speaker 3: my pants for sures, all these things. So yes, I 536 00:22:34,434 --> 00:22:38,194 Speaker 3: had to get very clever with finding Taylor's a belt 537 00:22:38,274 --> 00:22:41,593 Speaker 3: here are there? I hate a belt when you've got 538 00:22:41,674 --> 00:22:44,274 Speaker 3: ninety seconds to pee, when Sabrina car is running out 539 00:22:44,714 --> 00:22:46,674 Speaker 3: taking a belt on and off, I could not do 540 00:22:46,754 --> 00:22:47,674 Speaker 3: it challenging, but. 541 00:22:47,674 --> 00:22:49,394 Speaker 2: Yes, I had to get some things tailored. And it 542 00:22:49,434 --> 00:22:50,674 Speaker 2: makes you appreciate again. 543 00:22:50,754 --> 00:22:52,794 Speaker 3: It does these garments in a whole new way where 544 00:22:52,834 --> 00:22:54,874 Speaker 3: once I felt a bit lucky in them because yeah, 545 00:22:55,114 --> 00:22:56,194 Speaker 3: and they would have just sat there. 546 00:22:56,394 --> 00:22:59,273 Speaker 4: Well, I go, God, these pants and then they on 547 00:22:59,394 --> 00:23:03,394 Speaker 4: you exactly, Oh my gosh, I do I do finally 548 00:23:03,394 --> 00:23:06,194 Speaker 4: get things tailored now because I buy things and I go, eh, 549 00:23:06,274 --> 00:23:07,634 Speaker 4: they need to be taken off in and then they 550 00:23:07,674 --> 00:23:09,034 Speaker 4: sit in a pile for three years. 551 00:23:08,874 --> 00:23:11,114 Speaker 1: And now I go straight, they go in like a 552 00:23:11,194 --> 00:23:13,754 Speaker 1: little boxing it and I go probably not a lot 553 00:23:13,794 --> 00:23:14,954 Speaker 1: once every two months. 554 00:23:14,754 --> 00:23:16,674 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, and do a big yes. 555 00:23:17,034 --> 00:23:18,194 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's things. 556 00:23:18,234 --> 00:23:20,313 Speaker 3: Whatever really and when you find a good one, I've 557 00:23:20,394 --> 00:23:22,154 Speaker 3: just got a good one in my area. 558 00:23:22,234 --> 00:23:24,674 Speaker 1: She's so cheap, Okay, well mine is a friend of 559 00:23:24,714 --> 00:23:28,154 Speaker 1: a friend, so she's cheaper than her normal prices because 560 00:23:28,154 --> 00:23:31,474 Speaker 1: she's like actually like her, like she's a phenomenal dressmaker. 561 00:23:31,714 --> 00:23:32,674 Speaker 3: She's done a leather for me. 562 00:23:33,634 --> 00:23:36,074 Speaker 1: I didn't know you could day, I didn't need. 563 00:23:36,154 --> 00:23:39,314 Speaker 3: Oh my god, a great tailor can Okay. 564 00:23:39,634 --> 00:23:43,994 Speaker 1: So this came from over consumption and overspending. Where are 565 00:23:44,034 --> 00:23:49,194 Speaker 1: you now a year on with consumerism, sustainability and your 566 00:23:49,274 --> 00:23:50,074 Speaker 1: view from here? 567 00:23:50,914 --> 00:23:55,273 Speaker 3: It totally made me rethink my wardrobe. It made me 568 00:23:55,394 --> 00:23:59,234 Speaker 3: rethink my consumption and as I touched on before, you 569 00:23:59,314 --> 00:24:02,674 Speaker 3: might think a challenge like challenge like this is really constricting, 570 00:24:02,674 --> 00:24:06,114 Speaker 3: but I found it so liberating because without the option 571 00:24:06,554 --> 00:24:09,314 Speaker 3: of buying new things, yes, it just made me go, 572 00:24:09,754 --> 00:24:14,554 Speaker 3: so did you have time back energy massively? Massively, let 573 00:24:14,594 --> 00:24:17,514 Speaker 3: alone genuinely the bottom dollar Like, as I said, we've 574 00:24:17,514 --> 00:24:20,074 Speaker 3: got a little one. We're undertaking a renovation. Anyone who's 575 00:24:20,114 --> 00:24:22,354 Speaker 3: renovated will know those things blow out. I've got to 576 00:24:22,394 --> 00:24:25,194 Speaker 3: get to buy homewores now. Seriously, I went through my 577 00:24:25,434 --> 00:24:28,554 Speaker 3: transaction history because I wanted to bring you data. Unfortunately, 578 00:24:28,634 --> 00:24:30,833 Speaker 3: NAB wouldn't let me go back to the start of 579 00:24:30,954 --> 00:24:31,754 Speaker 3: twenty twenty five. 580 00:24:31,794 --> 00:24:33,394 Speaker 2: I can only do a financial year. 581 00:24:33,354 --> 00:24:35,074 Speaker 1: Probably because it's like you don't. 582 00:24:34,874 --> 00:24:37,154 Speaker 3: Want to know, don't know, But genuinely, I can hand 583 00:24:37,234 --> 00:24:38,874 Speaker 3: on heart just looking at what I did have and 584 00:24:38,914 --> 00:24:42,394 Speaker 3: then looking at my wardrobe. I was spending between four 585 00:24:42,474 --> 00:24:44,834 Speaker 3: hundred to one thousand dollars a month. Wow, and that 586 00:24:45,074 --> 00:24:49,314 Speaker 3: is now, you know, around ten twelve thousand dollars. Amazing. 587 00:24:49,314 --> 00:24:52,634 Speaker 3: It's amazing that I can actually put into experiences. I 588 00:24:52,714 --> 00:24:54,754 Speaker 3: love eating out. I will never skimp on food. I 589 00:24:54,794 --> 00:24:55,794 Speaker 3: would never do a challenge. 590 00:24:55,874 --> 00:24:58,234 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no way, I'm a lot. I mean, I 591 00:24:58,314 --> 00:25:00,274 Speaker 1: like shopping, but I'm mostly a bad experience totally. 592 00:25:00,314 --> 00:25:01,793 Speaker 2: I'd much rather do stuff like that. 593 00:25:01,874 --> 00:25:05,674 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, bench, I don't know the amount of 594 00:25:05,994 --> 00:25:07,994 Speaker 1: you know, renovations you're doing far as I l am. 595 00:25:08,154 --> 00:25:10,434 Speaker 3: Well, it's funny you say that. It made me almost 596 00:25:10,514 --> 00:25:13,994 Speaker 3: it trickled into other spending habits like I love homeworks. 597 00:25:14,274 --> 00:25:15,594 Speaker 2: I am a sucker for a vase. 598 00:25:16,034 --> 00:25:18,354 Speaker 1: Oh my, and the vase isn't gonna get me, you know, 599 00:25:18,434 --> 00:25:20,313 Speaker 1: fall apart after unshed because you know it's a. 600 00:25:20,354 --> 00:25:26,314 Speaker 3: Va true, but platters love a plotter like twelve thirteen platters. 601 00:25:27,234 --> 00:25:30,554 Speaker 1: And I don't really like entertaining because people in my Spain. 602 00:25:30,274 --> 00:25:31,914 Speaker 3: I serve everything on a plot up because we just 603 00:25:31,954 --> 00:25:34,314 Speaker 3: had so many. So now it made me go, do I. 604 00:25:34,274 --> 00:25:34,914 Speaker 2: Actually need that? 605 00:25:35,434 --> 00:25:36,754 Speaker 1: It stopped on that as well. 606 00:25:36,754 --> 00:25:39,474 Speaker 2: Truly, it filtered in, it trickled in its little it's 607 00:25:39,474 --> 00:25:40,314 Speaker 2: a little ripple. 608 00:25:40,114 --> 00:25:40,674 Speaker 3: Of fair God. 609 00:25:40,714 --> 00:25:42,794 Speaker 1: You also wouldn't be tracking all your parcels because they've 610 00:25:42,794 --> 00:25:44,234 Speaker 1: lost them and then they've taken them to the post 611 00:25:44,234 --> 00:25:45,754 Speaker 1: office even though you're home, so then you've got to 612 00:25:45,754 --> 00:25:46,754 Speaker 1: go to the post office. 613 00:25:46,514 --> 00:25:49,234 Speaker 2: Like all the time, and stress lost that stress. 614 00:25:49,314 --> 00:25:52,674 Speaker 3: It was amazing what I thought this challenge would be 615 00:25:52,794 --> 00:25:57,034 Speaker 3: and how it is genuinely the tentacles into other parts 616 00:25:57,034 --> 00:26:00,634 Speaker 3: of my life, so positive, so freeing. Can I asked 617 00:26:00,674 --> 00:26:01,154 Speaker 3: you to. 618 00:26:01,034 --> 00:26:02,914 Speaker 1: Start though, because you said, you know, all those parcels 619 00:26:02,994 --> 00:26:05,354 Speaker 1: right for your daughter, so I'm guessing you're relatively frequent 620 00:26:05,394 --> 00:26:07,594 Speaker 1: online shop. But so was there like a come down? 621 00:26:07,674 --> 00:26:09,914 Speaker 1: Like was there like a at the start? Was there like, oh, 622 00:26:10,034 --> 00:26:12,554 Speaker 1: nothing's coming? It did feel like a fell off a cliff. 623 00:26:12,794 --> 00:26:14,634 Speaker 3: And it was funny. My husband actually said to the 624 00:26:14,674 --> 00:26:18,394 Speaker 3: other goes Ah, the postman who got very comfortable with 625 00:26:18,394 --> 00:26:21,034 Speaker 3: our house. He walked down the driveway literally yelling parcel 626 00:26:21,514 --> 00:26:22,754 Speaker 3: so we didn't have to knock on the door. 627 00:26:23,274 --> 00:26:24,634 Speaker 2: Because he's not seen. 628 00:26:24,474 --> 00:26:25,554 Speaker 3: Me for a year. 629 00:26:25,674 --> 00:26:27,513 Speaker 1: Maybe think something happened to you. It's funny because I 630 00:26:28,474 --> 00:26:30,594 Speaker 1: work from home a lot, and so all my work, 631 00:26:30,794 --> 00:26:32,434 Speaker 1: like pr stuff goes there as well. So I'll be 632 00:26:32,434 --> 00:26:34,434 Speaker 1: going to get my car and the garden will coming 633 00:26:34,434 --> 00:26:36,474 Speaker 1: down to me go lay stop, and then he just 634 00:26:36,514 --> 00:26:37,074 Speaker 1: chucks them. 635 00:26:36,914 --> 00:26:37,274 Speaker 3: In my boot. 636 00:26:38,474 --> 00:26:41,154 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm like, it's not all shopping, its work. 637 00:26:41,194 --> 00:26:45,674 Speaker 3: He's like, yes, absolutely, definitely. There was an adjustment period. 638 00:26:45,754 --> 00:26:47,674 Speaker 1: Yes, your husband should have like wrapped up your old 639 00:26:47,674 --> 00:26:48,994 Speaker 1: clothes and put a label on it, left at the 640 00:26:48,994 --> 00:26:51,754 Speaker 1: front door so he had something to open, something to open, like. 641 00:26:51,714 --> 00:26:53,114 Speaker 3: We intend to do for the little one, you know 642 00:26:53,154 --> 00:26:55,074 Speaker 3: around Christmas time. We just go, oh, she's not seen 643 00:26:55,114 --> 00:26:55,714 Speaker 3: that in a bob. 644 00:26:56,954 --> 00:27:00,674 Speaker 1: Just so the hardest part and then the best part, 645 00:27:00,714 --> 00:27:02,114 Speaker 1: tell me what was the hardest part. 646 00:27:02,354 --> 00:27:04,273 Speaker 3: I think the hardest part, as we touched on, was 647 00:27:04,274 --> 00:27:07,594 Speaker 3: those were those early days where I was redirecting that 648 00:27:07,754 --> 00:27:09,034 Speaker 3: dopeamine here the. 649 00:27:09,034 --> 00:27:11,194 Speaker 1: Shop domine from are you gonna say, exc no, you 650 00:27:11,234 --> 00:27:11,634 Speaker 1: know where. 651 00:27:11,474 --> 00:27:14,634 Speaker 3: I got my dopamine from feeling so good about my 652 00:27:14,714 --> 00:27:17,793 Speaker 3: lack of reaching a goal, genuinely reaching the goal. I 653 00:27:17,874 --> 00:27:21,314 Speaker 3: am such a holy I did karate for six weeks. 654 00:27:21,674 --> 00:27:24,954 Speaker 3: I did a juggling party I did I did an 655 00:27:24,954 --> 00:27:26,674 Speaker 3: Italian tuotoring session. 656 00:27:26,754 --> 00:27:28,513 Speaker 1: I started doing Sobby is Sobby is? 657 00:27:28,594 --> 00:27:29,634 Speaker 3: Or shop? What are they calling it? 658 00:27:29,714 --> 00:27:30,553 Speaker 2: The short hobbies? 659 00:27:30,634 --> 00:27:33,513 Speaker 1: Yeah, and also secret because then if I fail at it, I'm. 660 00:27:33,394 --> 00:27:34,314 Speaker 2: Like a secret hobby? 661 00:27:34,354 --> 00:27:34,513 Speaker 3: Is it? 662 00:27:34,594 --> 00:27:34,754 Speaker 1: Yes? 663 00:27:34,834 --> 00:27:37,394 Speaker 3: It's short and like shot, but I don't tell anyone. 664 00:27:37,514 --> 00:27:39,354 Speaker 2: I did so many things. 665 00:27:39,474 --> 00:27:42,194 Speaker 3: I burned bright, but I burn out fast and again 666 00:27:42,234 --> 00:27:44,274 Speaker 3: I talk about these things on air with my co host. 667 00:27:44,634 --> 00:27:46,234 Speaker 1: I just thought I was going to refurbish all our 668 00:27:46,234 --> 00:27:48,754 Speaker 1: outdoor teamer furniture, so I bought all this sandpaper, all. 669 00:27:48,634 --> 00:27:50,314 Speaker 3: These oils into craft. 670 00:27:50,954 --> 00:27:52,834 Speaker 1: No no, no, like I just want to like we've 671 00:27:52,834 --> 00:27:54,914 Speaker 1: got like teak furniture. That's all long gross, I don't 672 00:27:54,954 --> 00:27:56,714 Speaker 1: do it now. All the things came and I'm. 673 00:27:56,594 --> 00:27:59,314 Speaker 3: Like, oh, I signed up to a calligraphy class because 674 00:27:59,314 --> 00:28:01,834 Speaker 3: I wanted to get better penmanship, and I like didn't 675 00:28:01,834 --> 00:28:02,353 Speaker 3: even follow through. 676 00:28:02,354 --> 00:28:03,514 Speaker 2: I think I did once, like. 677 00:28:03,474 --> 00:28:06,034 Speaker 1: An reaching the goal, and a year is a long 678 00:28:06,074 --> 00:28:08,514 Speaker 1: time that was your truly new focus. 679 00:28:08,594 --> 00:28:10,994 Speaker 3: I think it's the first thing I've actually stuck to 680 00:28:11,154 --> 00:28:14,874 Speaker 3: beyond I don't know, my marriage and high school. 681 00:28:15,034 --> 00:28:17,154 Speaker 1: That was, you know, turning an income at some point. 682 00:28:17,514 --> 00:28:18,794 Speaker 1: I didn't even finish high school. 683 00:28:18,874 --> 00:28:21,594 Speaker 3: But yes, that was probably that was probably the best part. 684 00:28:22,394 --> 00:28:26,074 Speaker 3: But yeah, the challenging part was just that, just switching 685 00:28:26,114 --> 00:28:29,314 Speaker 3: that mindset and really appreciating that I don't need that 686 00:28:29,434 --> 00:28:30,234 Speaker 3: to satisfy me. 687 00:28:30,434 --> 00:28:31,674 Speaker 2: Yep, I've got enough. 688 00:28:31,994 --> 00:28:34,954 Speaker 1: Now we've just hit twenty twenty six. So congratulations, you've 689 00:28:34,994 --> 00:28:36,634 Speaker 1: officially accomplished it. 690 00:28:36,754 --> 00:28:38,874 Speaker 3: Well, you were my sort of final send off on 691 00:28:38,914 --> 00:28:41,594 Speaker 3: those two little gray areas that I've been holding onto and. 692 00:28:41,674 --> 00:28:44,794 Speaker 1: Got a lifted ring and sneakers for your health and 693 00:28:44,994 --> 00:28:49,034 Speaker 1: not buy so much a dress that was forty percent 694 00:28:49,034 --> 00:28:49,834 Speaker 1: off and it made a fasting. 695 00:28:49,914 --> 00:28:50,594 Speaker 2: Thank you so much. 696 00:28:50,834 --> 00:28:53,634 Speaker 1: So what does twenty twenty six look like for you 697 00:28:53,834 --> 00:28:54,914 Speaker 1: in this area? 698 00:28:55,034 --> 00:28:57,274 Speaker 3: As I said, when you give me an inch, take 699 00:28:57,274 --> 00:28:59,554 Speaker 3: a mile, so tr a, you're doing it in well 700 00:28:59,674 --> 00:29:02,354 Speaker 3: to Once the back end of the year, I said 701 00:29:02,354 --> 00:29:05,554 Speaker 3: to my husband, should I go again? And he was 702 00:29:05,554 --> 00:29:08,034 Speaker 3: the one to be like, look if you want to, 703 00:29:08,154 --> 00:29:11,154 Speaker 3: but you've achieved something, You've done it why don't you 704 00:29:11,354 --> 00:29:14,394 Speaker 3: just see now if this has actually affected your habits, 705 00:29:14,714 --> 00:29:18,074 Speaker 3: if you go back into buying three Leolin dresses in 706 00:29:18,074 --> 00:29:20,354 Speaker 3: one go. All right, maybe we need to sit down 707 00:29:20,394 --> 00:29:23,154 Speaker 3: and we need a mind I almost need. And my 708 00:29:23,234 --> 00:29:24,874 Speaker 3: dad will love me saying this because he's a financial 709 00:29:24,914 --> 00:29:26,674 Speaker 3: advisor and it's trying to get me to do one 710 00:29:27,194 --> 00:29:30,514 Speaker 3: since I was fifteen budget yeah, and literally be so 711 00:29:30,594 --> 00:29:32,274 Speaker 3: conscient screwed up. 712 00:29:32,314 --> 00:29:34,794 Speaker 1: You saw what I've tried that. So what you need 713 00:29:34,834 --> 00:29:36,754 Speaker 1: to do is have an account that's just your spending. 714 00:29:37,154 --> 00:29:39,234 Speaker 1: But even then you can move things around. I would 715 00:29:39,354 --> 00:29:41,634 Speaker 1: clear all your cases on your phone and your things 716 00:29:41,634 --> 00:29:43,394 Speaker 1: so it doesn't auto save your credit card. 717 00:29:43,874 --> 00:29:46,434 Speaker 3: Great one, it's way too easy on some of these sites, 718 00:29:46,474 --> 00:29:50,394 Speaker 3: isn't it over? Then? I used paper shopify is me? 719 00:29:50,594 --> 00:29:55,474 Speaker 1: Maybe you make yourself like limited edition periods, like you know, 720 00:29:55,514 --> 00:29:57,554 Speaker 1: I guess the boxing day sales are still going, Yeah, 721 00:29:57,714 --> 00:29:59,034 Speaker 1: do that, and then you've got like. 722 00:29:58,954 --> 00:30:00,674 Speaker 3: I don't know, there's March sales or something like, I 723 00:30:00,674 --> 00:30:03,074 Speaker 3: don't know. I actually really like one of my girlfriends 724 00:30:03,114 --> 00:30:05,954 Speaker 3: was talking about genuinely saving up like we did when 725 00:30:05,954 --> 00:30:06,914 Speaker 3: we were in here labor. 726 00:30:07,114 --> 00:30:08,234 Speaker 2: It's the part time job. 727 00:30:08,634 --> 00:30:11,234 Speaker 3: Genuinely seeing a garment and going, I'm saving for that. 728 00:30:11,314 --> 00:30:12,794 Speaker 2: So if it's fifty bucks a week. 729 00:30:12,714 --> 00:30:15,514 Speaker 1: Put one hundred and make sure you really need it. 730 00:30:15,114 --> 00:30:16,234 Speaker 1: No impulses. 731 00:30:16,354 --> 00:30:19,154 Speaker 3: The twenty four hour thing that is mandatory for me 732 00:30:19,194 --> 00:30:20,914 Speaker 3: from now on, I pretty much and I feel like 733 00:30:20,954 --> 00:30:23,674 Speaker 3: I piss off a lot of shop assistance and please 734 00:30:23,914 --> 00:30:26,674 Speaker 3: comment or DM me. Is it okay that I go 735 00:30:26,794 --> 00:30:29,114 Speaker 3: in and try a bunch of staff, take photos and 736 00:30:29,154 --> 00:30:31,514 Speaker 3: then send it to my mum to buy for my birthday? 737 00:30:31,554 --> 00:30:33,554 Speaker 1: Everybody does? It could be used to work in retail, 738 00:30:33,594 --> 00:30:36,114 Speaker 1: everybody okay? And I always say because I get weird, 739 00:30:36,154 --> 00:30:37,194 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I'm going to come back. 740 00:30:37,234 --> 00:30:38,994 Speaker 3: I'm thinking about it, even when I make up such 741 00:30:38,994 --> 00:30:41,514 Speaker 3: a literally like just around Christmas, was saying, oh, I'm 742 00:30:41,554 --> 00:30:42,674 Speaker 3: just making a list for my husband. 743 00:30:42,714 --> 00:30:44,274 Speaker 1: When but when I worked at David Jones and I'd 744 00:30:44,274 --> 00:30:45,914 Speaker 1: be like, I don't care, like, try it on, I 745 00:30:45,954 --> 00:30:48,474 Speaker 1: hang it out like that's right, Hey, No, okay, okay, good. 746 00:30:48,474 --> 00:30:50,034 Speaker 2: I just felt like I'm mucking up your clothes. 747 00:30:50,434 --> 00:30:52,314 Speaker 1: We'll hang them back up. I'll just leave them on 748 00:30:52,314 --> 00:30:53,474 Speaker 1: the floor of the chain room. 749 00:30:53,834 --> 00:30:55,674 Speaker 3: But you know, sometimes I get sweaty and stinky, and 750 00:30:55,674 --> 00:30:57,034 Speaker 3: I'm like oh I'm ruining the garment. 751 00:30:57,234 --> 00:30:59,474 Speaker 1: Okay, No, you can't try and clothes when you're sweat instincts. Okay, 752 00:31:00,154 --> 00:31:04,194 Speaker 1: very straight from your session. I hope you washed your 753 00:31:04,234 --> 00:31:06,634 Speaker 1: clothes while you wore them all year. I did. I 754 00:31:06,674 --> 00:31:10,034 Speaker 1: had to get for anyone that's thinking of doing this 755 00:31:10,154 --> 00:31:12,994 Speaker 1: challenge is similar. Now you know it's only a couple 756 00:31:13,034 --> 00:31:15,754 Speaker 1: of week days into twenty twenty six. What's your biggest advice? 757 00:31:16,034 --> 00:31:16,634 Speaker 2: Go all in? 758 00:31:16,994 --> 00:31:20,754 Speaker 3: Okay, I know you kept talking about caveats, maybe ground rules, 759 00:31:20,794 --> 00:31:23,514 Speaker 3: maybe a bit of leeway if you're anything like. 760 00:31:23,554 --> 00:31:26,714 Speaker 2: If you're anything like me, don't give yourself an injury. 761 00:31:26,794 --> 00:31:29,074 Speaker 1: I could do it with secondhand and thrifting. I could 762 00:31:29,074 --> 00:31:30,634 Speaker 1: do it with no new codes. 763 00:31:30,514 --> 00:31:32,834 Speaker 3: Easy, and you know what, you've got to know yourself 764 00:31:32,874 --> 00:31:34,874 Speaker 3: as well. Yeah, so that is actually and what a 765 00:31:34,914 --> 00:31:37,954 Speaker 3: beautiful when we talk about sustained abstainability, we thought about 766 00:31:38,114 --> 00:31:41,074 Speaker 3: over consumption, when we talk about fast from individuality, it's 767 00:31:41,114 --> 00:31:44,514 Speaker 3: so you absolutely and it's such a better story and 768 00:31:44,514 --> 00:31:46,514 Speaker 3: it's so much fun. Like I know, the shoes you're 769 00:31:46,554 --> 00:31:48,394 Speaker 3: wearing right now, they would have a great story. 770 00:31:48,514 --> 00:31:51,794 Speaker 1: They were from Vinnie's. There were forty five dollars brand 771 00:31:51,794 --> 00:31:53,994 Speaker 1: new Italian lather, don't know the brand and at forty 772 00:31:53,994 --> 00:31:55,314 Speaker 1: five dollars a vinie, so I was like oh. And 773 00:31:55,354 --> 00:31:57,914 Speaker 1: then I was like hang on, hello, like you wouldn't 774 00:31:57,954 --> 00:31:59,394 Speaker 1: get there on sale at Berlini and you wone get 775 00:31:59,394 --> 00:32:00,794 Speaker 1: it at Bollini anyway one percent? 776 00:32:00,834 --> 00:32:01,994 Speaker 3: And you know what, I thought they might have been 777 00:32:02,034 --> 00:32:04,114 Speaker 3: a travel thing and they're the ones that we pull 778 00:32:04,234 --> 00:32:06,194 Speaker 3: out of our wardrobes again and you got and. 779 00:32:06,234 --> 00:32:08,434 Speaker 1: Then everyone go and you're like, oh, it's vintage, even 780 00:32:08,434 --> 00:32:10,314 Speaker 1: though not vintage like whatever. 781 00:32:10,154 --> 00:32:12,114 Speaker 2: Walk guns Walkouts has vintage secondhand. 782 00:32:12,234 --> 00:32:14,594 Speaker 3: Ye. I think we don't know how long they were 783 00:32:14,594 --> 00:32:15,994 Speaker 3: sitting there for, let's say ten years. 784 00:32:16,874 --> 00:32:17,514 Speaker 2: I found a top. 785 00:32:17,554 --> 00:32:19,234 Speaker 3: I know you mentioned your g string from back when 786 00:32:19,234 --> 00:32:21,754 Speaker 3: you're your twenties. I found a top my mum had 787 00:32:21,754 --> 00:32:25,114 Speaker 3: bought me from twenty sixteen. It was my first radio 788 00:32:25,314 --> 00:32:28,314 Speaker 3: promo shoot. She took me shopping and I remember her 789 00:32:28,354 --> 00:32:29,314 Speaker 3: being so thrilled about it. 790 00:32:29,314 --> 00:32:30,394 Speaker 2: Went to Dion Lee. 791 00:32:30,594 --> 00:32:32,874 Speaker 3: So it was such an exciting Yes, it was such 792 00:32:32,874 --> 00:32:35,114 Speaker 3: an exciting She went all out for me and I 793 00:32:35,194 --> 00:32:37,514 Speaker 3: pulled it out of my wardrobe went oh hell. 794 00:32:37,354 --> 00:32:39,794 Speaker 2: Love, did you wear it? Absolutely? It became so much 795 00:32:39,874 --> 00:32:40,434 Speaker 2: more part of. 796 00:32:40,354 --> 00:32:43,314 Speaker 1: My rotations and new like it doesn't have to be 797 00:32:43,394 --> 00:32:45,994 Speaker 1: new to be exciting, like something old can be exciting again. 798 00:32:46,074 --> 00:32:48,794 Speaker 3: And that's actually one other piece of advice. I used 799 00:32:48,834 --> 00:32:52,514 Speaker 3: to be a slave to a color coded wardrobe. I loved, 800 00:32:52,554 --> 00:32:54,514 Speaker 3: you know, all my white on the far left, and 801 00:32:54,514 --> 00:32:56,554 Speaker 3: then it would go cream yellow, orange. 802 00:32:56,594 --> 00:32:58,394 Speaker 1: But even if you're mixing dresses and pants. 803 00:32:58,194 --> 00:33:02,074 Speaker 3: And tops, ah, pretty much. I liked coloredly. I liked 804 00:33:02,394 --> 00:33:06,074 Speaker 3: like a rainbow gradient. What I did, though, to really 805 00:33:06,154 --> 00:33:08,994 Speaker 3: shake things up was it's not very sexy. But I 806 00:33:08,994 --> 00:33:11,394 Speaker 3: guess I enacted a bit of a deli counter situation 807 00:33:11,754 --> 00:33:14,154 Speaker 3: and I would just wear what was on the far right, 808 00:33:14,674 --> 00:33:16,754 Speaker 3: and that's what I'm wearing today, and then i'd return 809 00:33:16,794 --> 00:33:19,274 Speaker 3: it to the far left, and literally the next day 810 00:33:19,354 --> 00:33:20,354 Speaker 3: goes Who's next in? 811 00:33:20,634 --> 00:33:22,874 Speaker 1: You wore a ball gown to like pol pick up? 812 00:33:23,194 --> 00:33:25,514 Speaker 3: I don't you know what I mean. There was some lever. 813 00:33:26,274 --> 00:33:27,354 Speaker 2: It genuinely made me. 814 00:33:27,434 --> 00:33:30,394 Speaker 3: Rea says, unless it I don't realize the weather. But 815 00:33:30,474 --> 00:33:32,474 Speaker 3: unless I knew it forty five degrees and it was 816 00:33:32,474 --> 00:33:32,914 Speaker 3: a jumper. 817 00:33:33,074 --> 00:33:35,274 Speaker 1: I have a little rack that's from Bunnings, and when 818 00:33:35,274 --> 00:33:36,474 Speaker 1: I go through my wadroom, I'm like, oh, I haven't 819 00:33:36,474 --> 00:33:37,874 Speaker 1: warn you in a while. I really want to wear you, 820 00:33:37,914 --> 00:33:39,114 Speaker 1: and I've got like ten things on it that I 821 00:33:39,114 --> 00:33:40,714 Speaker 1: want to wear soon as a challenge. 822 00:33:40,754 --> 00:33:43,274 Speaker 3: I love that it's just putting it in front of you, 823 00:33:43,314 --> 00:33:46,354 Speaker 3: because otherwise I feel like we fall back into what's safe, 824 00:33:46,434 --> 00:33:49,274 Speaker 3: what's comfortable, what we know on the clean pile exact. 825 00:33:49,274 --> 00:33:51,154 Speaker 2: Whereas this made me go, oh, I haven't seen you 826 00:33:51,154 --> 00:33:53,034 Speaker 2: in a while. You're of today, sweetheart. 827 00:34:03,434 --> 00:34:10,274 Speaker 3: It's very expensive. How wondre the five which sends and budget? 828 00:34:10,314 --> 00:34:12,194 Speaker 1: So this is a bit of a different topic to 829 00:34:12,234 --> 00:34:15,114 Speaker 1: do it on. I'm bringing some too. I'm bringing two 830 00:34:15,194 --> 00:34:17,154 Speaker 1: things I would have to have in my wardrobe that 831 00:34:17,194 --> 00:34:19,393 Speaker 1: I wear a lot to get the year. 832 00:34:19,474 --> 00:34:20,634 Speaker 2: But how's you one budget? 833 00:34:20,714 --> 00:34:22,314 Speaker 3: Yeah? What are you going to do? So for me? 834 00:34:22,474 --> 00:34:25,554 Speaker 3: And again thinking about those gaps in my wardrobe and 835 00:34:25,594 --> 00:34:29,394 Speaker 3: realizing there's not many. The one thing that I haven't 836 00:34:29,394 --> 00:34:31,354 Speaker 3: purchased it yet, but I was like, all right on 837 00:34:31,634 --> 00:34:36,434 Speaker 3: the those bendies over Andy swim a Malfy one piece, 838 00:34:37,034 --> 00:34:40,913 Speaker 3: all my specific I love very specific swimmers have been 839 00:34:40,954 --> 00:34:43,874 Speaker 3: one of those things. Since having the baby, since starting 840 00:34:43,874 --> 00:34:46,194 Speaker 3: a bit of a better gym routine, my body has 841 00:34:46,194 --> 00:34:48,953 Speaker 3: been all over the shop. I had one pair of 842 00:34:49,314 --> 00:34:52,914 Speaker 3: cotton on swimmers that were great for a little bit. Unfortunately, 843 00:34:53,274 --> 00:34:54,594 Speaker 3: I think they're a little too big for me. 844 00:34:54,634 --> 00:34:57,794 Speaker 1: Now, say you only had one pair of swimmers? 845 00:34:58,354 --> 00:35:01,873 Speaker 3: Wow? Yeah, okay, yes, it's one hundred and eighty nine, 846 00:35:02,274 --> 00:35:04,554 Speaker 3: which is funny to think. You know, I've spent a 847 00:35:04,554 --> 00:35:07,433 Speaker 3: lot more in my youth on things. One hundred eighty 848 00:35:07,554 --> 00:35:11,873 Speaker 3: nine feels like a lot now, so even my just relationship. 849 00:35:11,354 --> 00:35:13,994 Speaker 1: With money a cotton on swimsuit as well. But true, swim, 850 00:35:13,994 --> 00:35:16,674 Speaker 1: you get what you pay for exactly. Okay, So andy swim, 851 00:35:16,714 --> 00:35:18,114 Speaker 1: I'm really excited to purchase that. 852 00:35:18,194 --> 00:35:21,433 Speaker 3: Hate And what's your other one? My budget? Again, I 853 00:35:21,474 --> 00:35:25,674 Speaker 3: had banned myself on accessories. I had a pair of sunglasses. 854 00:35:25,794 --> 00:35:27,594 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, there are also a health product. 855 00:35:27,834 --> 00:35:31,274 Speaker 3: I hate sunglasses. I have never found a pair. 856 00:35:31,474 --> 00:35:33,274 Speaker 1: I don't think I hang on, you started this with 857 00:35:33,314 --> 00:35:33,914 Speaker 1: one pair. 858 00:35:34,074 --> 00:35:37,194 Speaker 2: So I had three. I hate them all. 859 00:35:37,394 --> 00:35:39,434 Speaker 3: Okay, I don't think I have that wide of a face. 860 00:35:39,834 --> 00:35:42,393 Speaker 3: Every pair of sunglasses sunglass face. 861 00:35:42,754 --> 00:35:43,474 Speaker 2: I disagree. 862 00:35:43,554 --> 00:35:46,314 Speaker 3: I've not found one pair that I think looks good. Okay, 863 00:35:46,354 --> 00:35:48,034 Speaker 3: but that doesn't squish my temples. 864 00:35:48,074 --> 00:35:48,634 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, thank you. 865 00:35:48,714 --> 00:35:49,354 Speaker 3: They're a headache. 866 00:35:49,394 --> 00:35:51,873 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're sunglasses meant to be uncomfortable. 867 00:35:51,914 --> 00:35:55,194 Speaker 1: No, okay, I'll take your shopping so the But do 868 00:35:55,194 --> 00:35:56,274 Speaker 1: you have cataracts by now? 869 00:35:56,474 --> 00:35:59,114 Speaker 3: Like, well, that's my issue. I'm walking the dog out 870 00:35:59,194 --> 00:36:03,074 Speaker 3: of the beach and it's squinted city population jairs. I 871 00:36:03,234 --> 00:36:04,634 Speaker 3: just I literally hear a hat. 872 00:36:04,874 --> 00:36:06,074 Speaker 2: I wear a hat and. 873 00:36:06,034 --> 00:36:09,074 Speaker 3: I always s would shout out to that, but my eyes. 874 00:36:09,434 --> 00:36:11,114 Speaker 3: I just had a moment where I was trying to 875 00:36:11,114 --> 00:36:14,314 Speaker 3: look at something, going, this can't be good for my health. 876 00:36:14,434 --> 00:36:17,033 Speaker 1: I'm a worried now of your volume of things to mine. 877 00:36:17,074 --> 00:36:20,074 Speaker 1: If you only had two swimsuits and three sunglasses and. 878 00:36:20,034 --> 00:36:21,873 Speaker 3: I felt like I had a problem. Yeah no, but 879 00:36:21,954 --> 00:36:24,354 Speaker 3: I had lots of tops and dress yeah okay, and shoes, 880 00:36:24,634 --> 00:36:27,274 Speaker 3: but yeah, sunglasses. But because I don't really care about Sunny's, 881 00:36:27,274 --> 00:36:29,473 Speaker 3: I'm happy with a twenty dollar pair from sports Girls 882 00:36:29,634 --> 00:36:30,194 Speaker 3: Gone Key. 883 00:36:30,434 --> 00:36:33,274 Speaker 1: You know that izy man Quay. They stalked it like 884 00:36:33,314 --> 00:36:35,953 Speaker 1: a David Jones maybe a mile work there. But they've 885 00:36:35,954 --> 00:36:37,514 Speaker 1: got a really great website and they've. 886 00:36:37,314 --> 00:36:39,754 Speaker 3: Don't you know, everything about all fashions. 887 00:36:39,314 --> 00:36:41,794 Speaker 1: But they have a try on virtual thing. They are 888 00:36:41,834 --> 00:36:44,114 Speaker 1: stopped somewhere, but you want to go online because especially 889 00:36:44,114 --> 00:36:45,674 Speaker 1: now they probably have a sale, they have great sales, 890 00:36:45,674 --> 00:36:46,274 Speaker 1: and what are yours? 891 00:36:46,274 --> 00:36:46,953 Speaker 2: Tell me what are yours? 892 00:36:46,994 --> 00:36:48,873 Speaker 1: Okay, So my things I could not live without. That 893 00:36:48,914 --> 00:36:52,594 Speaker 1: I wear frequently. My Levi's ribcage jeans. 894 00:36:52,834 --> 00:36:53,794 Speaker 2: Is that the bougie. 895 00:36:53,874 --> 00:36:54,594 Speaker 3: That's my bougie. 896 00:36:54,634 --> 00:36:57,834 Speaker 1: They're normally one fifty nine ninety five, although they will 897 00:36:57,834 --> 00:36:59,994 Speaker 1: probably be on sale at the moment. Everywhere sells them. 898 00:36:59,994 --> 00:37:02,754 Speaker 1: There's different cuts. But I like this straight seven eighths 899 00:37:02,794 --> 00:37:04,874 Speaker 1: because I'm quite short, so it just sits there. 900 00:37:04,834 --> 00:37:07,114 Speaker 3: Nicely on the angle IM cage literally up to their 901 00:37:07,154 --> 00:37:07,794 Speaker 3: But I. 902 00:37:07,754 --> 00:37:09,514 Speaker 2: Love that's if that's next level highwaist. 903 00:37:09,554 --> 00:37:12,314 Speaker 1: Oh my god, they're so good. That's what I callage 904 00:37:12,514 --> 00:37:16,034 Speaker 1: fair enough. I have light, lightish blue, dark blue, and white, 905 00:37:16,114 --> 00:37:18,314 Speaker 1: and I live in them. I know, I'm only like, well, 906 00:37:18,354 --> 00:37:20,594 Speaker 1: I guess I've already got them. But they can be 907 00:37:20,674 --> 00:37:23,634 Speaker 1: dress up, dressed down, blazer, cami, thongs, whatever. 908 00:37:23,834 --> 00:37:25,794 Speaker 2: Yes, we love a dress up and a dressed down. 909 00:37:25,794 --> 00:37:27,754 Speaker 3: Well, we have to. I mean, we're got to get versatile. 910 00:37:27,794 --> 00:37:29,314 Speaker 3: If we're not going to buy anything for the whole 911 00:37:29,314 --> 00:37:31,234 Speaker 3: of twenty twenty six, Lee, We're gonna have to get. 912 00:37:31,114 --> 00:37:33,913 Speaker 1: Versatile back and then maybe do thrifting, and my budget 913 00:37:34,714 --> 00:37:37,594 Speaker 1: is the T shirt that I own probably six of 914 00:37:38,034 --> 00:37:41,114 Speaker 1: in white. It's the Uni Globe one hundred cotton crew 915 00:37:41,554 --> 00:37:43,554 Speaker 1: white neck T shirt. It's twenty dollars. 916 00:37:43,874 --> 00:37:45,953 Speaker 2: Sorry, Can I just clarify some music? Your own? 917 00:37:46,034 --> 00:37:49,674 Speaker 3: Six white like they're all the same color of just 918 00:37:49,794 --> 00:37:50,274 Speaker 3: that tea? 919 00:37:50,474 --> 00:37:51,634 Speaker 2: Yeah, but they're all white. 920 00:37:51,674 --> 00:37:52,954 Speaker 3: Yes, one in six white ones. 921 00:37:53,034 --> 00:37:54,714 Speaker 1: I love a white There's seven days in a week. 922 00:37:54,754 --> 00:37:55,714 Speaker 2: Why do you need you wear. 923 00:37:55,634 --> 00:37:58,074 Speaker 3: Six days a week, six days of the week. I 924 00:37:58,514 --> 00:38:02,794 Speaker 3: know twenty dollars. You are doing no spend and they 925 00:38:03,194 --> 00:38:07,474 Speaker 3: know sex and your husbands share them no than me. 926 00:38:08,154 --> 00:38:09,194 Speaker 3: He likes them tighter. 927 00:38:10,394 --> 00:38:13,514 Speaker 1: I'm just okay. Well, I guess I don't know six 928 00:38:13,594 --> 00:38:15,393 Speaker 1: white chess. This is not about me. 929 00:38:15,554 --> 00:38:17,354 Speaker 3: I don't own one white T shirt. 930 00:38:18,594 --> 00:38:20,433 Speaker 1: Or true you would look at my wardrobe and go, 931 00:38:20,514 --> 00:38:21,873 Speaker 1: oh my god, did fun come to die? 932 00:38:21,954 --> 00:38:23,714 Speaker 3: Well, that's why I'm excited about your shoes too. 933 00:38:25,474 --> 00:38:28,194 Speaker 1: So like these nappy sand really well, because I just 934 00:38:28,234 --> 00:38:29,714 Speaker 1: get everything dirty. I have to be able to bleed 935 00:38:29,754 --> 00:38:32,074 Speaker 1: you nappy sand things. Yep, they come out brand new. 936 00:38:32,394 --> 00:38:34,714 Speaker 1: And it's that thick crew neck that looks really expensive. 937 00:38:34,754 --> 00:38:37,354 Speaker 1: It's the unisex one it's twenty dollars. Sometimes it's some 938 00:38:37,474 --> 00:38:38,154 Speaker 1: olf for fifteen. 939 00:38:38,194 --> 00:38:40,034 Speaker 3: I think that's why I did you buy them all 940 00:38:40,074 --> 00:38:43,913 Speaker 3: at once? Sometimes I can't find it. 941 00:38:44,114 --> 00:38:46,394 Speaker 2: Wash, Well, what made your brain go? I need another 942 00:38:46,394 --> 00:38:46,873 Speaker 2: one of those? 943 00:38:48,274 --> 00:38:49,794 Speaker 3: You always need more than one? 944 00:38:50,434 --> 00:38:52,674 Speaker 1: What do you mean this has turned into a mine? 945 00:38:52,954 --> 00:38:53,354 Speaker 3: Me think? 946 00:38:54,034 --> 00:38:55,914 Speaker 2: Well, so you brought up the six T shirts? 947 00:38:55,914 --> 00:38:58,754 Speaker 3: Man, normal white T shirts, have like four of them 948 00:38:58,794 --> 00:38:59,194 Speaker 3: in black. 949 00:38:59,874 --> 00:39:02,433 Speaker 1: Okay, Jess, it was so nice for you to join me. 950 00:39:02,474 --> 00:39:03,234 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. 951 00:39:03,314 --> 00:39:04,634 Speaker 1: I think I have to go and think about my 952 00:39:04,674 --> 00:39:05,314 Speaker 1: life choice. 953 00:39:05,954 --> 00:39:09,194 Speaker 3: I've enjoyed this so my name, I really have. 954 00:39:09,314 --> 00:39:11,514 Speaker 1: You have opened my eyes. I don't know if for 955 00:39:11,554 --> 00:39:13,594 Speaker 1: better or worse. I'm trying to think what Boxing day 956 00:39:13,674 --> 00:39:15,554 Speaker 1: or deliveries are still on their way to make it. 957 00:39:15,634 --> 00:39:18,594 Speaker 3: Okay, that's your last. That's it, and then I think 958 00:39:18,634 --> 00:39:20,954 Speaker 3: you need to say farewell to your postman so you're. 959 00:39:20,794 --> 00:39:21,834 Speaker 2: Not going to see me for a while. 960 00:39:21,834 --> 00:39:22,834 Speaker 3: I'll still bring work stuff. 961 00:39:23,314 --> 00:39:25,314 Speaker 2: Okay. Oh you've got too many loopholes, man, We're going. 962 00:39:25,314 --> 00:39:27,514 Speaker 3: To do this. Spend the money, okay. 963 00:39:27,314 --> 00:39:29,234 Speaker 2: In another twelve months and I'm going to ask. 964 00:39:29,114 --> 00:39:31,514 Speaker 3: You for all your loopholes. Yess, it's been lovely to 965 00:39:31,554 --> 00:39:31,834 Speaker 3: have you. 966 00:39:31,874 --> 00:39:34,194 Speaker 1: This has been fantastic. I feel like we're twins, but 967 00:39:34,314 --> 00:39:36,473 Speaker 1: you have gone through a course that I need to go. 968 00:39:37,034 --> 00:39:39,393 Speaker 3: Thank you, Thank you so much for having Mely You're 969 00:39:39,394 --> 00:39:39,794 Speaker 3: the best. 970 00:39:41,554 --> 00:39:43,913 Speaker 1: That's all we have time for today. Thank you so 971 00:39:44,074 --> 00:39:46,553 Speaker 1: much for listening to Nothing to Air Now. Don't forget 972 00:39:46,554 --> 00:39:48,834 Speaker 1: there's a wonderful newsletter that goes with this show. You 973 00:39:48,874 --> 00:39:50,954 Speaker 1: can sign up by the link in the show notes, 974 00:39:51,234 --> 00:39:53,314 Speaker 1: and of course you're on YouTube. 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