1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:03,400 Speaker 1: This episode was brought to you by Ozzie wool Comfort. 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:08,799 Speaker 2: Being in this icky, uncomfortable space is unnerving at times, 3 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:10,959 Speaker 2: and I think we're always defined by an experience, by 4 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 2: the component of it, at least like our normal life, 5 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 2: but also we all bring to an experience of what 6 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:17,440 Speaker 2: is our particular strengths and assets. 7 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 3: What this trip taught me is that when I am myself, 8 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 3: there will be people who who love that. 9 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 4: And who will support me, and who I will give 10 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 4: back to and that is enough. 11 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 1: These are the yays of our lives. Busy and happy 12 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 1: are not the same thing. We too rarely question what 13 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: makes the heart seeing. We work, then we rest, but 14 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: rarely we play and often don't realize there's more than 15 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 1: one way. So this is a platform to hear and 16 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: explore the stories of those who found lives. They adore 17 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:49,520 Speaker 1: the good, bad and ugly. The best and worst day 18 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: will bear all the facets of seizing your Yeay. I'm 19 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: Sarah Davidson or Spoonful of Sarah, a lawyer turned fu 20 00:00:57,800 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 1: entrepreneur whos wapped the suits and heels to co found 21 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 1: matcha Maiden and Macha. Milkbar Cza is a series of 22 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:07,320 Speaker 1: conversations on finding a life you love and exploring the 23 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: self doubt, challenge, joy and fulfillment along the way. Hello, 24 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 1: lovely neighborhood. So excited to finally have our yeas of 25 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: our lives recap for you from our incredible trip to 26 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: the Northern Territory a few weeks back. You'll hear all 27 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 1: about it in the episode, although we could have spoken 28 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: for many hours longer about the experience, but to quickly 29 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 1: give you some background, eight amazing women and two fabulous 30 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:36,559 Speaker 1: men who were capturing photos and videos spent three days 31 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 1: hiking fifty five kilometers with twenty two hundred meters of 32 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 1: elevation across three of the twelve parts of the Larapinta Trail, 33 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: led by Larapinta Culture, the only Aboriginal owned and operated 34 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: touring company in the area. Jungla, the owner and an 35 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: elder in the region, and his grandson Perula, along with 36 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: Nick Fife, their mate, another legend who came to help 37 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: us out, gave us the most eye opening, immersive few 38 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 1: days camping in the red dirt, walking through the oldest 39 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:09,679 Speaker 1: land formations in the world. They're over seventy thousand years 40 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:13,920 Speaker 1: old and sleeping under the shooting stars I sat down 41 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 1: with now three times Seize the a guest Samantha Gash, 42 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 1: who organized this fabulous trip under the banner of her 43 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 1: new trail running and adventure group for women, Her Trails, 44 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:26,399 Speaker 1: along with her dear friend Joe Nevin, who is now 45 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 1: one of my dear friends after the drip. To give 46 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:32,839 Speaker 1: you a little insight into what it was like as 47 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: avid trail runners, these two are also heading back to 48 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 1: the Larabinter Trail in a few months to run all 49 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: twelve sections covering two hundred and fifty k's in a 50 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 1: row unassisted, so carrying everything they will need with them 51 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: the whole way. 52 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 2: Just to give you a. 53 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 1: Little idea of the powerhouses you're about to hear from. 54 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: They'll also chat about the return of relief run that 55 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: they're both working away on furiously for our Neighborhood Watch section. 56 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 1: You may remember that my husband Nick and Samantha pulled 57 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:02,679 Speaker 1: together a global virtual run last year to raise over 58 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 1: a million dollars for bushfire relief, and it's back again 59 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 1: this year to support the terrifying challenge faced by India 60 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 1: at the moment under the pressures of COVID nineteen. Samantha 61 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 1: just incidentally, as one of the many incredible things she's done, 62 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 1: has crossed the whole of India on foot, giving it 63 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:22,079 Speaker 1: a very special place in her heart. And we've set 64 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 1: up a Yeahborhood team which you can join from anywhere 65 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:28,680 Speaker 1: to run anytime between the eleventh and thirteenth of June. 66 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 1: You'll hear more about it soon and why it is 67 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 1: so important, and I'll pop links in the show notes. 68 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 1: I'd be so proud to have some of you on 69 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: board with us too. You hear more about that in 70 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 1: the episode. Anyway, enjoy the cackles and reflections. I hope 71 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: it brings some ya to your week. Hello you gorgeous humans. 72 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for. 73 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 4: Joining Ah, thanks for having us. This is fun. 74 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 2: That's all right, Sarah. It's delightful to be back on 75 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 2: the podcast. 76 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 4: Guys. 77 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: This is Sammy's third appearance on CZA. Our listeners probably 78 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 1: know you quite well by now, Sammy, and if you don't, 79 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: you can go back to episode forty seven, right back 80 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 1: in the early days to hear Sammy's story. But Joe 81 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 1: is new to the Yahborhood and I'm so so grateful 82 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 1: to have met you on our recent trip to the 83 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: Red Center. Which is what this episode is all about. 84 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 1: But before we jump in, Jojo, tell us a bit 85 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: about you. 86 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 3: Ah, thanks for having me on, Sarah. I'm a what 87 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 3: am I? I'm a mom of three. I'm a really 88 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:29,599 Speaker 3: passionate trial runner and ultra runner, which is how I 89 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 3: met Sammy and eventually led to meeting. 90 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:33,159 Speaker 4: You as well. 91 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 3: I also work full time in senior management in the 92 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 3: not for profit sector, and I'm currently I guess the 93 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 3: other big piece of my puzzlers, I'm currently studying my 94 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 3: MBA and leadership, so. 95 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 4: They're probably the big four things about me. 96 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: Just a few things on the go, like yeah, a 97 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 1: little easy. Well, as you guys know, the first section 98 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 1: of Yeas of Our Lives is Quote of the Yave, 99 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: where we discuss a quote that's been meaningful over the 100 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:01,479 Speaker 1: past week or week or so so, and I thought 101 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:05,599 Speaker 1: it would be apt to reflect on an Aboriginal proverb 102 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 1: and one that meant a lot to me, particularly during 103 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 1: our troop and in the few weeks that have followed 104 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 1: since then. The proverb is may as well be here 105 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 1: we are as where we are, And that's all about 106 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 1: being present, just being where you are when you are, 107 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:22,720 Speaker 1: and not rushing to the next moment, which is something 108 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 1: that we were very much forced into by the beautiful, 109 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 1: beautiful indigenous elders who led us through our trip, who 110 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:34,600 Speaker 1: explained that there is no concept for time in Aboriginal culture, 111 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 1: which I loved. So what did you guys think about 112 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 1: that whole concept and surrendering to having no schedule. 113 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 2: I kind of loved it, to be honest. I feel 114 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:46,600 Speaker 2: like I work phrenetically to have pockets of window where 115 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 2: I can surrender. Unfortunately, sometimes the intensity wraps right up 116 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:53,840 Speaker 2: before I can surrender, and I often think, what if 117 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:56,040 Speaker 2: I just balanced out and then maybe it was just 118 00:05:56,080 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 2: like at a slightly lower pulsating rate, tire of my time. 119 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:04,720 Speaker 2: But I actually like the differences between being like intensely 120 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 2: on structured and strategically focused and thinking ahead to then 121 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 2: having moments with the pendulum swings and I utterly get 122 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:16,720 Speaker 2: grounded to present, don't dwell and pass, don't fresh on 123 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:20,159 Speaker 2: wants to come, and just to accept what is the 124 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:22,160 Speaker 2: situation in front of me. So no, I loved it 125 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 2: like I loved not wearing a watch. And I led 126 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:27,480 Speaker 2: the expedition, you know, so you'd think that I needed 127 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 2: to know a few more things, But I was like, no, 128 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 2: now we're here, We're just gonna be in the moment. 129 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:36,040 Speaker 1: We kept pestering Sammy for information, like in the weeks ahead, 130 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 1: We're like, Okay, what's the schedule, what parts of the 131 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:40,160 Speaker 1: trailer we're doing on what day? And what do we need? 132 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 1: And it was on until we got there and actually 133 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 1: met flow erupinto Culture and the team that we were like, oh, 134 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: you don't answer any questions really, Like I thought you 135 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 1: were being annoying Sam But I was like, oh no, 136 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 1: they're just not giving you any information. 137 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 2: Oh you have no idea. I spend hours on the 138 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 2: phone like lining up that trip, and we never talked 139 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 2: about ructure or itinery. We just talked like. It was 140 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 2: kind of nice even in those moments in the preliminary 141 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 2: of that experience to surrender also and kind of go, 142 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 2: this is going to be different and we need different. 143 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 2: In fact, like the NT tourism campaign right now is 144 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 2: sick different, and I thought that embodied what we were 145 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 2: looking to experience as well. 146 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, what did you think, Jojo? 147 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I look, I'm a huge fan of trying to 148 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 3: embed myself in the moment. You know, I'm a yoga teacher. 149 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 3: I love being present. But how I opened earlier is 150 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 3: really indicative of my life. I've got a lot of 151 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 3: balls in the air, and I'm manning the managing schedules, 152 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 3: but loads of people and I have to work two 153 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 3: o'clock and I have to work to time. So when 154 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 3: I take myself out of those situations and like Sammy said, 155 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 3: can surrender, I experience things twofold, like being forced to 156 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 3: be present in a moment because you literally don't know 157 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 3: the time or know what's coming up. It turns the 158 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 3: volume up on everything you're experiencing because your mind isn't 159 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 3: flipping about to what's coming next or what just happened before, 160 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 3: And it turns the volume down on anxiety because I 161 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 3: think when you're running to a clock, that's such a 162 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 3: mechanism for your brain to fast forward constantly and worry 163 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 3: about what's next. 164 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 4: On the clock. 165 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 3: But you take the clock away and you really disable 166 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 3: that mechanism of worry and thinking of what's coming up, 167 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 3: and so what you're going through is just so much 168 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 3: more colorful and taste and smell so much richer. 169 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 4: And I think. 170 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 3: That's why, Yeah, that experience is felt so deep, because 171 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 3: you have no choice but to experience so much more 172 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 3: fully when you're in it. 173 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 1: That's such a beautiful way to describe it, that it 174 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 1: turns the volume up on things, because I don't think 175 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: you even realize that your senses are being dulled by 176 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 1: white noise until you do kind of shut it all 177 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 1: off and think, oh, I'm actually only half smelling and 178 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: half hearing and half feeling most of the time because 179 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 1: I'm doing it all at the same time. Soamie, what 180 00:08:57,040 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: was your original plan out of the adventure? Is that 181 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 1: what you wanted to create for our soul to get 182 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:06,319 Speaker 1: sort of eight women who usually don't make that kind 183 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 1: of space together. How did you come up with the 184 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:14,199 Speaker 1: idea and what were your expectations versus how it actually unraveled. 185 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 2: Well, I've been liaising with larak Into Culture, which is 186 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 2: the guiding company that we worked with when we were 187 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:23,319 Speaker 2: on the Larapinto Trail. And for those who don't know 188 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 2: the lark Into Trail, it's just out of Alic Springs 189 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 2: in the Northern Territory. It's an incredible two hundred and 190 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 2: fifty kilometer point eight to point B trail amongst the 191 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 2: red dirt and like an incredible landscape in the heart 192 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 2: of Australia. But this organization is the only Indigenous owned 193 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 2: and operated guiding company that also incorporates cultural awareness programming 194 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 2: into their guiding experiences. And so, I mean, I've been hiking, 195 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 2: I've been try running for over a decade now, and 196 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 2: I could have just gone and guided all of you 197 00:09:56,640 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 2: out there, but it felt like that we defeat the 198 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 2: type we could have want anywhere in the world, and 199 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 2: that would have been we wouldn't connect to where we were. 200 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:07,679 Speaker 2: We would just be connecting to each other and we 201 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 2: would be operating in the same frequency in which we 202 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 2: always do. And so I wanted to really flip the 203 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 2: switch on everything that was kind of the origins of it. 204 00:10:18,800 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 2: But also like I wanted to support an indigenous organization, 205 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 2: particularly one that had had a really tough go during 206 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 2: COVID nineteen. I mean, we were the first tour that 207 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 2: went out with them in eighteen months. I think they 208 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 2: just renewed their insurances for our trip, and like I 209 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:42,000 Speaker 2: felt called to create that trip with them in partnership. 210 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 2: And I'll never forget when I first called Jungler and 211 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 2: we just had this like hour long conversation. We went 212 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:49,959 Speaker 2: to all these different directions the very very end of 213 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 2: the trip is like where did you go to school? 214 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 2: And I'm like, wow, I went to school in Ballerade 215 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 2: at Ballarat and Claren College, and then I went to 216 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 2: blah blah blah and he goes I went to baller 217 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:02,599 Speaker 2: and Claren College and I was like what from the 218 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 2: n And then like I only realized in a couple 219 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:08,199 Speaker 2: of conversations afterwards, he's a part of the Stolen Generation 220 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 2: and he was sent to Ballarat to live with another 221 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 2: family and he went to Ballerine Cutting College. Anyway, long 222 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 2: story short, I feel like we were collegiate buddies and 223 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 2: we were meant to work together and it was just 224 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 2: meant to be and we've formed this beautiful friendship out there. 225 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 2: But if I think of also the group of women 226 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 2: that I brought out, like all of you are my 227 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,559 Speaker 2: best mates, and a lot of you didn't know each other, 228 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 2: and so I actually I just wanted to gift us 229 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 2: and experience in time together and then I didn't have 230 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 2: any expectations of what it would look like or what 231 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 2: we would facilitate post. I just wanted to be in it. 232 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 2: And now it's come out of it as like more people, 233 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:47,320 Speaker 2: more women need this. 234 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: I think one of the really interesting things in the 235 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 1: week leading up to it was how many ties people 236 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 1: would be like, why are you going? 237 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:57,360 Speaker 3: Like what's it for? 238 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 1: And I'd be like, I don't really know, Like we 239 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:03,360 Speaker 1: all just Sam just kind of had this idea and 240 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:07,439 Speaker 1: we're all so trusting of any experience that you create 241 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:09,679 Speaker 1: that we were just like, I mean, she just went 242 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 1: fuck it, let's go, and we all went yeah. 243 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 4: And yeah, Sam told us too. Yeah. 244 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: It's like, you don't realize that you need an experience 245 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 1: like that until someone kind of facilitates it. And that's 246 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 1: one of your greatest gifts, Sammy, is that you do 247 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 1: create these incredible experiences for people and create an incredible 248 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 1: group for us to experience it with. But yeah, it's 249 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 1: funny to go into something when we are all as 250 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:34,200 Speaker 1: busy as we are, but to actually organize to not 251 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 1: be contactable for that long for something that you don't 252 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 1: know why you're there, it was actually amazing. 253 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 2: That was part of my gift, though. My part of 254 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:44,079 Speaker 2: my gift that I know that I received is all 255 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:46,959 Speaker 2: of you just said yes and I didn't even tell 256 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 2: you anything, like it was hartily because I didn't know, 257 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:54,080 Speaker 2: so I didn't want to give you incorrect information, and 258 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:57,079 Speaker 2: partially because I just didn't think it mattered. I mean, 259 00:12:57,200 --> 00:12:59,839 Speaker 2: I also think, you know, obviously where we were made 260 00:12:59,880 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 2: it so much more profound than what we realized. But 261 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 2: I also thought we could have been anywhere and had 262 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 2: a great experience. But it definitely was bigger than what 263 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 2: I thought it was in terms of how it cellularly 264 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 2: transformated our experience in that moment, and I think moving beyond, 265 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 2: but consider can you please tell the story where like 266 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 2: I was dodging your calls for a while, so. 267 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 1: I was actually going to bring that up next. So 268 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 1: basically Sam had this idea in what February, I think 269 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 1: pretty much, and of course Joe, you'll probably feel the 270 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: same now that you guys are going back to actually 271 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:39,440 Speaker 1: run the entire Larapinta trail. We only did like a 272 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 1: small part of it. But when Sam suggests something, particularly 273 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:43,439 Speaker 1: if there are going to be other amazing women there, 274 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 1: you just say yes and you figure it out later. 275 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 1: The problem with me is that the beautiful part of 276 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 1: our friendship is that usually what Sam suggests is like 277 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 1: the opposite of what I enjoy and I am good at, 278 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:58,199 Speaker 1: and that I'm comfortable doing, which is why our friendship 279 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 1: is so valuable, because you have extended my world so much. 280 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:05,560 Speaker 1: But that also means that from the moment I said yes, 281 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 1: I was like fuck, fuck fuck fuck, fuck, Like, what 282 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 1: is going to be a good enough excuse to get 283 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:12,440 Speaker 1: out of this? And she knows me so well that 284 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 1: she just went into my calls. And it's usually the 285 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: other way around, like Sam calls I text, so. 286 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 2: I don't make it seem hard to get she just 287 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 2: calls me all dialogue. 288 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 1: But you, like, I think you knew that, especially in 289 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:30,680 Speaker 1: the two weeks leading up to it, when I realized 290 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: it wasn't just going out into the Northern Territory, it 291 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 1: was hiking and camping and no phone signal. I think 292 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 1: you got the vibe that I was like, Oh, how 293 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 1: do I. 294 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 4: Get out of it? 295 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 2: Even messaged me a couple of days. It was like 296 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 2: almost like a light bulb switch had happened. And you're like, oh, 297 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 2: I said yes to this. 298 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 3: Do you know what it was? 299 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 1: It was when you said, so, the first day is 300 00:14:56,120 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 1: twenty seven kilometers of hiking, so you're gonna need hiking 301 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 1: boots and gay and I was like, like, I looked 302 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 1: at what gators were and I was like, where are 303 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 1: we going that we're gonna need gators? Like I don't 304 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 1: own those things. 305 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 2: Everyone else who is a lot more versed with hiking 306 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 2: and just being outdoors. The instructions that I gave to 307 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 2: each of you were unique to who you are, and 308 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 2: that's that beauty of knowing your friends. Joe, I'm like, 309 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:19,880 Speaker 2: she's good, Like she just needs to buy a hiking 310 00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 2: shirt because she's never had to wear a shirt because 311 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:23,640 Speaker 2: she just normally wears a similar type or a T shirt. 312 00:15:23,640 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 2: But Sarah, Sarah either needs me to give her everything 313 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 2: or she did which I did, or gave the boots 314 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 2: and the moxies. And I said to know, like we'd 315 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 2: organized an uber because we hadn't even seen each other, 316 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 2: I know, for over a year. We live in the 317 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 2: same city, although I live up on the hills, so 318 00:15:40,560 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 2: I'm kind of had become even more hermitized. 319 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 1: But the only things that I already owned were things 320 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:50,480 Speaker 1: from our last experience together in the Simpson and the 321 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 1: one before that in India. Like that's the only reason 322 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:53,400 Speaker 1: I own camping gear. 323 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 2: I know, it's because if you. 324 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 1: But that's why it was so beautiful that you know, 325 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 1: I did have that intense, like regret moment of like, 326 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 1: what the fuck did I say yes too? 327 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 2: What to get Joe at the airport? Can we touch 328 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 2: into that? 329 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, that's what I was leading into, is that 330 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 1: I think many of us had a bit of oh 331 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 1: my God, like, you say yes and it sounds like 332 00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 1: a good idea, but then in the moment of actually 333 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 1: having to create that space for yourself, particularly if it's uncomfortable, 334 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 1: you suddenly get like, how can I get about out 335 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 1: of it? But those are the best experiences, the ones 336 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 1: that you do have that kind of semi regret before. 337 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 3: I can relate so much to that that Yeah, see, 338 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 3: I would run through the bush or hike through the 339 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 3: bush for hours and days on end. Happily the opposite, 340 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 3: but get me around a bunch of people that I 341 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:38,800 Speaker 3: don't know, and I was coming up with every excuse 342 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 3: under the sun to bail out on that as well. 343 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 3: I was like, Oh, I think I'm sick. I think 344 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 3: work's really busy right now. 345 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going to be sick on Thursday, I think. 346 00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, I think that moment Sam referring to is 347 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:56,800 Speaker 3: I was sitting at the gate at the airport knowing 348 00:16:56,840 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 3: that all of you were about to arrive and we 349 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 3: were all about to get on this plane together, and 350 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 3: I was just looking at where I knew everyone would 351 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:06,640 Speaker 3: be walking from, and my heart was just racing. And 352 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 3: Sam was the only person of the six women, seven 353 00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:12,680 Speaker 3: women that would be walking towards me that I knew, 354 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:16,679 Speaker 3: and I was like, I can't do this. I'm absolutely 355 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 3: terrified right now, Like am I going to fit in? 356 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 3: Am I really different? Like this is my story, this 357 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:25,040 Speaker 3: is theirs. I'm not going to suit this group. And 358 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 3: it was a disabling feeling and I just had to 359 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 3: take a really deep breath and think of every self 360 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:34,200 Speaker 3: help book I've ever read, and I just like said 361 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 3: to myself, like I am brave, Like I run through 362 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 3: the bush, I do lots of badass things, and I 363 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 3: just you know, I can sure as hell hug a 364 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:44,320 Speaker 3: bunch of women I don't know and throw myself into 365 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:47,560 Speaker 3: deep end here and honestly, like it was. It sounds 366 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:49,720 Speaker 3: a bit wanky, but it was transformative for me to 367 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 3: do that, like as much as it was to travel 368 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 3: over country. It was, Yeah, that was epic. 369 00:17:54,920 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 1: You were amazing, Joe, and it was so interesting to 370 00:17:58,320 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 1: go through that experience together coming into it with the 371 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:05,200 Speaker 1: opposite like discomfort at extreme levels, but for the opposite reasons, 372 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:06,920 Speaker 1: because being plunked in the middle of a room with 373 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 1: strangers is like I thrive on that, But being pushed 374 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:14,000 Speaker 1: to a physical limit and being outside and sleeping under 375 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:15,919 Speaker 1: the stars and that stuff is like the opposite of 376 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:18,359 Speaker 1: my comfort zone. It was so interesting to watch us 377 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 1: both push through that in different ways together and to 378 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:24,119 Speaker 1: come together at certain times and reflect on like how 379 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 1: much you embrace and actually really enjoy when you have 380 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 1: done it and mastered it and stop and think, yeah, 381 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:32,800 Speaker 1: like yeah, I'm doing it totally. 382 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 3: And I think for me, like there was that element 383 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 3: of I have to network for work, and I've been 384 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 3: a coach myself, and I've been a presenter and run businesses, 385 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:44,200 Speaker 3: and there's that element of I can do that stuff, 386 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 3: but I'd always show up with someone else, you know. 387 00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:48,800 Speaker 3: I always mask who I am and I'm presenting. And 388 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,360 Speaker 3: I made this promise to myself that in this experience, 389 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:53,159 Speaker 3: I was going to show up at me and I 390 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:56,119 Speaker 3: was just going to be myself, which you all learnt 391 00:18:56,119 --> 00:19:00,120 Speaker 3: really quick is like a filthy mouth, like slightly clogan. 392 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 4: You know. 393 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:03,119 Speaker 3: And I was like, they can just take me as 394 00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:06,000 Speaker 3: I am, and if you know, let's see how that lands. 395 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:08,919 Speaker 3: And it was like this little self worth experiment for 396 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:10,400 Speaker 3: me to go, I'm going to own who I am 397 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:14,439 Speaker 3: this trip and I'm going to be uncomfortable and I 398 00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 3: don't know, like I felt so accepted by this amazing 399 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:20,000 Speaker 3: group of women for who I was, and I felt 400 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 3: really seen, and I think that gave me just benefits 401 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 3: on every level that you know you couldn't. You couldn't 402 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:30,639 Speaker 3: get that if you tried. There's no therapy session that 403 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:33,160 Speaker 3: can give you that other than just like getting uncomfortable, 404 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 3: like Jack, throwing yourself in and owning who you are totally. 405 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 2: But you know a lot of people in the discomfort 406 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:41,439 Speaker 2: will try and mask. As you've said before, it's very 407 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 2: hard to mask I think six days. But by you 408 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:48,160 Speaker 2: showing up immediately as who you were from the get go, 409 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 2: I feel definitely had a triggering effect on everyone up 410 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:55,360 Speaker 2: else to deliver that as well. It was this permissive 411 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 2: license going, here's someone just being incredibly real. Let's just 412 00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:02,360 Speaker 2: like I remember that all of our shit stinks, and 413 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 2: being in this icky, uncomfortable space is unnerving at times, 414 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:10,000 Speaker 2: and I think we're always defined by an experience, by 415 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:12,479 Speaker 2: the component of it that's least like our normal life. 416 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:14,679 Speaker 2: But also we all bring to an experience of what 417 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:17,680 Speaker 2: is our particular strengths and assets, and we also want 418 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 2: to magnify those in moments as well. So it's this 419 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:22,480 Speaker 2: beautiful balance of like, we've all got great things, we've 420 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 2: all got this other baggage and stories about ourselves. What 421 00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 2: if we just show it both? Like what if we 422 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 2: throw it all out onto the table right now? And 423 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:32,320 Speaker 2: I recently did a keynote of the Business Chicks event 424 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:35,000 Speaker 2: and I got off on the stage and someone's like, 425 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:37,239 Speaker 2: thank you for just being so real, And I was like, 426 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:40,919 Speaker 2: what an interesting piece of feedback to have, because I mean, 427 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 2: isn't that just what we're meant to be? Shouldn't we 428 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 2: just be that? And in fact, like when I am 429 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 2: saying being real, I think people say that when you 430 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 2: don't just show the glamorous sight, when you show like 431 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:52,880 Speaker 2: the in between, the mundane, like the challenge, the juggle, 432 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 2: which I think makes up the majority of our time 433 00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:57,719 Speaker 2: on this planet, and then like the gloss is like 434 00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:01,320 Speaker 2: the two percent, but sometimes we could magnify to two percent. 435 00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 2: And I just my response to this lady was if 436 00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:06,920 Speaker 2: you liked it by seeing it through me, there's a 437 00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:09,600 Speaker 2: responsibility for you to now show that, to show that 438 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 2: exact thing. 439 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's amazing totally. 440 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:16,600 Speaker 1: I think another really beautiful thing about this trip and 441 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:20,439 Speaker 1: that we don't often allow ourselves to do, is because 442 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 1: there was no purpose, Like we weren't actually there for work. 443 00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:28,440 Speaker 1: It meant that the networking wasn't to get anything from 444 00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:32,520 Speaker 1: each other or to like there was no objective even 445 00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 1: of learning, like we knew we would automatically learn things 446 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:39,240 Speaker 1: and have revelations. But because it wasn't like a retreat 447 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 1: for relaxing, it wasn't a retreat for working, it wasn't 448 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 1: a retreat for learning. I don't think you very often 449 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:47,359 Speaker 1: allow yourself to do stuff that doesn't have a purpose, 450 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 1: because it's got to be worth your time. But it 451 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:53,879 Speaker 1: meant that we all just made relationships, not through what 452 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:55,800 Speaker 1: we could do for each other. And I think that's 453 00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 1: really interesting as well, because usually it's formed through that 454 00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 1: kind of connection. But we were all just there and 455 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:03,239 Speaker 1: you know, coming back to that quote like may as 456 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,480 Speaker 1: well be here, it was like, well, once we got there, 457 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 1: we were like, let's just be where we are and 458 00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:10,480 Speaker 1: you know you mentioned you know, all of our shit stinks, 459 00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 1: like you guys actually got to witness that mine does, 460 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:19,200 Speaker 1: Like oh my gosh. 461 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:24,440 Speaker 2: I mean you know, movement is an incredible lubrication movement. Yeah, 462 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:27,160 Speaker 2: And also like the brain connection is like no joke, 463 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:30,320 Speaker 2: The gastro intestinal tract is incredibly sensitive to strong and 464 00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 2: new emotions as well as movement. So like anxiety, fear, anger, 465 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 2: nerds can all start to trigger responses in our stomachs. Now, 466 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 2: I think by this point, Sarah like was copeing fine, 467 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:43,440 Speaker 2: she just needed to go and do a big old 468 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:48,320 Speaker 2: pooh Sarah. And initially she says, it's middle of the 469 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,840 Speaker 2: hike and we're on this little summit, and I'm like, mate, like, 470 00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 2: I don't think the spirits are going to appreciate you 471 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:56,120 Speaker 2: on this particular point you do if you. 472 00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:59,000 Speaker 1: Do that, Sarah, such bad jojo. But I was like, guys, 473 00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,320 Speaker 1: I mean, like, it's got like what do I do? 474 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,399 Speaker 1: Like I can't help the spirits will understand it's my 475 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 1: moment of me. 476 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:07,920 Speaker 2: You can actually feel in the space when it's like no, no, 477 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,919 Speaker 2: like I've got a hold at this moment totally. But 478 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 2: then all of a sudden, like it gets to be 479 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 2: like an hour later, Sarah's like, I'm still holding somehow. 480 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:22,720 Speaker 2: She just like marches off ahead of everyone in this 481 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 2: single file, incredibly exposed, no trees, and she just goes up. 482 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:28,520 Speaker 2: She likes to go up, like the mountain. 483 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 3: At this point, Sarah, you don't know, but where on 484 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,960 Speaker 3: a hill watching growing go down, go down the hill, 485 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:39,080 Speaker 3: and you're like marching like you're going onto a display screen. 486 00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 1: Oh my god, And like I could hear the drone 487 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,520 Speaker 1: also going around. I was like, oh my god. But 488 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:47,240 Speaker 1: I think the most liberating thing about the whole environment 489 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:49,760 Speaker 1: is when you are living in such close quarters with 490 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:53,560 Speaker 1: people without your normal stuff, you just get like you 491 00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 1: cannot hide who you are and what your body's doing. 492 00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:59,160 Speaker 1: And it's actually like I didn't even care by that moment, 493 00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 1: because I was like, eh, you know, we're all kind 494 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 1: of humans. And I think that was just one of 495 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 1: the coolest things of removing time, removing objectives, removing any 496 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:13,680 Speaker 1: kind of facade of work you or relationship you, and 497 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 1: all just being ourselves while we ate together every day, 498 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:19,800 Speaker 1: and we together every day and like you know, we're 499 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:21,960 Speaker 1: at the campfire looking at the stars every day and 500 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:25,640 Speaker 1: reflecting every day. It was just so special. 501 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 4: Watching the moon rise. 502 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 3: It was I was like, yeah, I think that was 503 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,560 Speaker 3: the moment that I really let my. 504 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,919 Speaker 4: Watching Sam and who was Hailey. 505 00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:46,240 Speaker 3: Hailey and Sarah. We're out outside our tents watching the 506 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:49,080 Speaker 3: moon rise and Sam heard me moving inside my tent, goes, Jojo, 507 00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:51,359 Speaker 3: come out, come out and watch the moon rise. And 508 00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 3: I walked out and now standing in arm I put 509 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:56,360 Speaker 3: my arm around Sam. She put her arm around me, and. 510 00:24:56,200 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 4: I went sh and she goes what and they poured. 511 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:01,719 Speaker 3: I was thinking that I was trying to steal this 512 00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 3: really like significant moment of peaceful time, and I just 513 00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:06,680 Speaker 3: dropped the biggest part. 514 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,000 Speaker 1: I literally thought that I was getting in trouble for 515 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:15,439 Speaker 1: interrupting the moment, Like I thought you were like shut up. 516 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:16,960 Speaker 2: Like yeah, the spirits shh. 517 00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 3: And I was like, now I have arrived, like no, 518 00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 3: you know me, you know, like once I've broken the space. 519 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:28,359 Speaker 2: So it was like the way you were describing before, Sarah, 520 00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 2: like one were just kept coming into my mind and 521 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:34,159 Speaker 2: it's like primal, You're going back to the root of 522 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 2: what humankind was kind of like here for besides the 523 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 2: fact the way we're forunicating with each other. Beside that 524 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:40,639 Speaker 2: part everything else. 525 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 1: I mean it was only five days though, I mean, 526 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 1: if you left us to our own devices, we would 527 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 1: have figured it out. 528 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, there was lots of tooks of my brains. 529 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,120 Speaker 1: But you know what else was really lovely was that 530 00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,640 Speaker 1: we were walking on land. It's like seventy thousand years old. 531 00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:59,840 Speaker 1: It's some of the oldest formations being guided by representatives 532 00:25:59,880 --> 00:26:03,840 Speaker 1: of the oldest culture of the world. And even like 533 00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 1: my body, you two are more used to it. My 534 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,560 Speaker 1: body is not used to walking that many k's a day, 535 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:14,160 Speaker 1: but just the sort of stillness of just repetitive motion. 536 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:18,400 Speaker 1: I've just walking. I can't even explain how much your 537 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 1: brain goes through while you're doing that. We went through 538 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:25,119 Speaker 1: periods of intense revelation to just like laughter, to just 539 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,040 Speaker 1: dead silence, like a couple of times in the day. 540 00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:30,399 Speaker 1: There were eight people, plus the two guys who were 541 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,480 Speaker 1: there who were awesome, who were videoing and taking photos, 542 00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:36,439 Speaker 1: but also part of the group. None of us talked 543 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 1: sometimes for hours at a time, and like you never 544 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:42,800 Speaker 1: get that stillness, but also while your body's moving, and 545 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:46,120 Speaker 1: I don't know, it was just amazing, Like I don't 546 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,200 Speaker 1: really have words that, like you said, Joe, don't sound 547 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:49,400 Speaker 1: lanky to describe it. 548 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 3: But it's like meditation though, Like it's a really cool 549 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:56,440 Speaker 3: experience where you get to you start chasing thoughts, and 550 00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 3: that magic moment is then when you notice what you're 551 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 3: doing and you become this kind of external viewer watching 552 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,359 Speaker 3: your brain bounce around filling this space that you so 553 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:09,159 Speaker 3: rarely have in day to day life, and you're just going, wow, 554 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 3: this is hilarious or you know, and then or you 555 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,639 Speaker 3: might get onto a really good thought that would happen 556 00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:17,639 Speaker 3: sometimes and it was like delicious and you'd just let 557 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,800 Speaker 3: yourself sink into that while you're hiking and yeah, just 558 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 3: like munching down on this amazing you know dream you're 559 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,159 Speaker 3: having and you're or like for me, I'm just solving the. 560 00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:28,119 Speaker 4: World's problems, like I'm saying, oh, I could do this 561 00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 4: or I could. 562 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,679 Speaker 3: Do that, you know, And it's like often you come 563 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 3: up with some of your great ideas in those moments. 564 00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:36,280 Speaker 3: And the opposite is when you hit the hard times 565 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:39,600 Speaker 3: And Sarah, I don't walk normally. I run a lot, 566 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:42,440 Speaker 3: so I actually found that physically challenging as well, having 567 00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,840 Speaker 3: a head. I'm sure Saantic too, having a heavy pack 568 00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 3: and hiking. My legs were tired and I was ready 569 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 3: to stop some days. And so then noticing my negative 570 00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 3: self talk and trying to work on that and trying 571 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:58,280 Speaker 3: to catch that and redirect it and reorient it and 572 00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 3: just neutralize it, you know, was really a great gift 573 00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:06,359 Speaker 3: because that's what we bring back. That's an application we 574 00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:10,439 Speaker 3: use in work and life and love as well. So I, 575 00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 3: you know, that's all stuff you get from silence. 576 00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:16,119 Speaker 1: I was about to say, silence, like it doesn't really 577 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,160 Speaker 1: play a very big role in our day to day 578 00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:21,400 Speaker 1: lives where it maybe should. Maybe one of the things 579 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:25,280 Speaker 1: that I took back was that obviously, being a podcaster 580 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:28,080 Speaker 1: and a host, like I talk all the time, and 581 00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:31,800 Speaker 1: then because I like to actualize experiences through talking, that 582 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 1: I'm talking in my personal life as well. But when 583 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:39,280 Speaker 1: you allow silence, beautiful things happen, and I think because 584 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 1: we often feel like we need to fill those silences. 585 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:45,960 Speaker 1: The other thing that I really loved learning about Indigenous 586 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,320 Speaker 1: culture was that there's a really big concept of it's 587 00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,360 Speaker 1: not your story to tell, which we kind of ended 588 00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:53,160 Speaker 1: up laughing about a little bit at the end. But 589 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,240 Speaker 1: you know, if it's not your story. You don't have 590 00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 1: to always be explaining things, and you don't have to 591 00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:01,320 Speaker 1: know everything about everything, and like, I'm sure we all 592 00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,520 Speaker 1: got frustrated a few times when we were like, tell 593 00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,920 Speaker 1: me about this land, and Perula, who was Jungla the 594 00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:10,400 Speaker 1: elder's grandson, he'd say, I can't. This is not my 595 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,680 Speaker 1: family's land. I can't speak about this, and we're sort 596 00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:14,040 Speaker 1: of like, well, we've come all the way out here 597 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,280 Speaker 1: and I want to know what this land is and 598 00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 1: I want to know the story, so tell me. But 599 00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:21,440 Speaker 1: I like that the discretion of, like, you don't have 600 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:25,000 Speaker 1: to talk about everything and understand everything was kind of nice. 601 00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:27,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was. I think the way Perula guided us 602 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 2: was why we were silent. I think if we were 603 00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 2: left to our own devices, we would have gone into 604 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:36,920 Speaker 2: our default settings of chattering through thinking that's a way 605 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:39,880 Speaker 2: of connecting. And I think he kind of made us 606 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,120 Speaker 2: reflect on the fact that when all you're doing is talking, 607 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 2: that's all you're hearing. And so that's why we went 608 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,200 Speaker 2: out with them. Like, I really feel like there were 609 00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 2: so many little life lessons that you may not incorporate 610 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:56,080 Speaker 2: every element into everyday life, but even recently I've been 611 00:29:56,160 --> 00:30:02,360 Speaker 2: saying either that's that's not my story to tell, or 612 00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,800 Speaker 2: if I do say it, I kind of definitely flag 613 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,280 Speaker 2: it by going, I'm going to share this part. I 614 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:10,880 Speaker 2: think in this context like I have permissioned to share it, 615 00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 2: because sometimes you do need to pass on bits of information, 616 00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:17,080 Speaker 2: but to kind of be aware that the message is 617 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 2: getting diluted every single time someone passes on a piece 618 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,160 Speaker 2: of that story and making sure that it never gets 619 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:24,560 Speaker 2: to a point where, like you telling someone else's story, 620 00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:27,720 Speaker 2: is you getting involved in gossip and bitch or negative 621 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 2: narrative for whatever reason. And I recently went through a 622 00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:33,920 Speaker 2: thing a while ago, and I was like, sometimes people 623 00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:35,880 Speaker 2: don't know the great things that other people do, so 624 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 2: I might share it, so like, you know, this person 625 00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:40,600 Speaker 2: said this, and I thought that that was really great 626 00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 2: because particularly when I did in the context of this 627 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,080 Speaker 2: person said a really beautiful thing about you the other day. 628 00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:48,200 Speaker 2: They might not have told you, but they told me, 629 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 2: and I can see how it would make the other 630 00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:52,600 Speaker 2: person feel. And now I'm just in my day to 631 00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 2: day life, I'm like, Okay, so is that mover stepping 632 00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:58,080 Speaker 2: a boundary? Yes? I had good intentions behind it, but 633 00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:03,120 Speaker 2: was that maybe not mine to tell I like the 634 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 2: thought of it now, Like that's what experiencing other cultures 635 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 2: is all about. Like every time you go to a 636 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 2: professional development conference, Like it's not like you're going to 637 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,960 Speaker 2: come out of carbon copy of that particular experience or 638 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:17,480 Speaker 2: that culture or that set of thinking. But you go, Okay, well, 639 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 2: what in that works really well for my life? That 640 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,920 Speaker 2: allows me to create my own formula and my own 641 00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:25,240 Speaker 2: set of guidelines, but how I want to live my 642 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:29,360 Speaker 2: life connected to my values and my integrity. Yeah, and 643 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,880 Speaker 2: so that's what I like. I like being shaken up 644 00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:35,120 Speaker 2: to think differently. And it was so interesting when Perula 645 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:38,920 Speaker 2: first told us to shut the fuck up without using 646 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,640 Speaker 2: those words, but that's how my internals interpreted it, like 647 00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 2: I was being told off as a school kid. And 648 00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:46,360 Speaker 2: he even did like the mirroring action. He like pointed 649 00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:49,040 Speaker 2: to the eyes, pointed to the heart, and then did 650 00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:51,720 Speaker 2: a zip of the lips, and I did. I gutturally 651 00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:56,600 Speaker 2: felt like, oh I'm naughty. I shouldn't be talking now. 652 00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,200 Speaker 2: My inner side felt like I want to defend. I 653 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:02,480 Speaker 2: need a just and then I was like, sit with 654 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 2: that uncomfortableness, and that's okay, it's actually freaking okay. To 655 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,760 Speaker 2: be uncomfortable that maybe you said the wrong thing or 656 00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,200 Speaker 2: and you can hold space for it. And I went 657 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:14,320 Speaker 2: on a hiking trip to Tasmania earlier this year and 658 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:17,360 Speaker 2: I actually do like to hike in silence, particularly when 659 00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:19,600 Speaker 2: I'm in the hurt blocker, and I think a lot 660 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:24,480 Speaker 2: of people try and wipe away their pain through conversation, 661 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,320 Speaker 2: and whilst conversing is amazing, it's sometimes okay to be 662 00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:32,000 Speaker 2: with it and to like sit with struggle, sit with 663 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:36,400 Speaker 2: challenging emotions and to not always wipe them away straight away, 664 00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:38,800 Speaker 2: like we're quite capable and that's actually something that builds 665 00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,920 Speaker 2: up our resilience to kind of deal with it. And 666 00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,640 Speaker 2: so sometimes in that silent moment because we have Tom 667 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:46,280 Speaker 2: and I hiked, this is like, what do you love 668 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:48,720 Speaker 2: so much about hiking? And they're asking Aazilian questions and 669 00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:50,920 Speaker 2: I was like, sometimes the silence. 670 00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,800 Speaker 1: Just quickly interrupting today's episode to take you back to 671 00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 1: what you now know is my earliest hometown of Warrigal. 672 00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:06,000 Speaker 1: You may have seen our recent years of our lives 673 00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 1: trip there with women in Gippsland and one of the 674 00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:11,479 Speaker 1: incredible local businesses I had the privilege of meeting and 675 00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:15,280 Speaker 1: falling in love with was Ossie Wool Comfort. 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If you use the code Sarah forty 700 00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 1: at the checkout, do yourself a favor and jump online. 701 00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:38,800 Speaker 1: The link is in the show notes. 702 00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,640 Speaker 3: Everything you're saying remind like it's so yogic, you know. 703 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:49,880 Speaker 3: The Dalai Lama talks about enlightenment not being sitting on 704 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:53,880 Speaker 3: a mountaintop completely free of thought with this completely empty mind. 705 00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:59,279 Speaker 3: It's about being able to so constantly notice what your 706 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:02,120 Speaker 3: mind does and what you do. And when you're talking 707 00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:05,360 Speaker 3: about that, and when you're talking about how you noticed 708 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,920 Speaker 3: that you were angry and you were you know, your 709 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:10,080 Speaker 3: ego is kind of getting challenged when you felt naughty 710 00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:13,960 Speaker 3: and when you start to reflect in everyday life, Oh, 711 00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:15,520 Speaker 3: was that my story to tell? 712 00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 4: Should I think about that? 713 00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,920 Speaker 3: To me, we're just getting so much closer to becoming 714 00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:23,200 Speaker 3: enlightened people, you know, to traveling the earth in an 715 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:26,880 Speaker 3: enlightened way, which is simply in other words, self awareness, 716 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,399 Speaker 3: you know. And the more we embed ourselves in these 717 00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:35,440 Speaker 3: situations and allow ourselves to experience things in this surrendering way, 718 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,040 Speaker 3: the more enlightened we become, because the more we re 719 00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:41,000 Speaker 3: enter life and just start going, Oh, that kind of 720 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:44,239 Speaker 3: ties to something I felt on that trip, you know, like, 721 00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:46,200 Speaker 3: what does what does that Behave you do? Am I 722 00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:49,280 Speaker 3: telling that story? Why am I feeling my ego challenged 723 00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:52,359 Speaker 3: by this? And you know it helps us grow in 724 00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:54,040 Speaker 3: so many ways totally. 725 00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:57,399 Speaker 1: I think the quote that I used before, this quote 726 00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:00,520 Speaker 1: of the A obviously was a mindstre by a new 727 00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:03,400 Speaker 1: experience can never go back to its old dimensions. And 728 00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:06,840 Speaker 1: I love that because you really feel your brain actually 729 00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:09,480 Speaker 1: stretching as you see new ways of doing things and 730 00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:15,080 Speaker 1: think about like there's that sort of confronting, discomfort, processing, acceptance, 731 00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:17,560 Speaker 1: surrender process you could see us all going through each 732 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:21,080 Speaker 1: day at different points. Is there any way that you 733 00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:25,360 Speaker 1: found your mind stretched from this particular experience that you 734 00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:27,080 Speaker 1: will never be able to go back from. Like your 735 00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:29,920 Speaker 1: biggest takeaway of like, wow, I won't be the same 736 00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:30,560 Speaker 1: because of. 737 00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:32,640 Speaker 3: That, mom would be to touch on that when I 738 00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:36,239 Speaker 3: spoke about earlier of really having to sit in that 739 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:40,680 Speaker 3: uncomfortable place of deeply being myself around people I don't 740 00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:44,680 Speaker 3: know and wanting to get away from that. And I 741 00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:49,960 Speaker 3: have returned with a level of self assurance about owning 742 00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:53,640 Speaker 3: who I am in my circles and trusting that that 743 00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:57,240 Speaker 3: won't be for everybody, and you returning to that adage 744 00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,719 Speaker 3: you know, that's not my people, not for them, They're 745 00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:03,400 Speaker 3: not my people, and being okay with that, because what 746 00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:07,279 Speaker 3: this trip taught me is that when I am myself, 747 00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,600 Speaker 3: you know there will be people who who love that 748 00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:12,480 Speaker 3: and who will support me and who I will give 749 00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:16,759 Speaker 3: back to and that is enough. And I think I'm 750 00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:18,279 Speaker 3: never going to go backwards on that. I'm going to 751 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:19,960 Speaker 3: keep challenging. It's not going to be easy for me 752 00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:22,880 Speaker 3: because I've spent a lifetime of not doing that, but 753 00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:26,120 Speaker 3: I think that I'm very committed to showing up in 754 00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:29,879 Speaker 3: my leadership at work, you know, in every environment, when 755 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:33,200 Speaker 3: I'm presenting, when I'm teaching, when I'm raising my kids 756 00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,400 Speaker 3: at PTA meetings, like, I'm going to show up with 757 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:37,200 Speaker 3: me And I think. 758 00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:42,120 Speaker 1: Yeahs show that's so beautiful, You're so articulate. 759 00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:45,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, Except when I'm dropping the F bomb constantly. 760 00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:54,880 Speaker 3: Face You're welcome, Yeah, what about you, Sammy. 761 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:58,040 Speaker 2: I think there's a lot of juicy stuff out of it. 762 00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:03,080 Speaker 2: And I definitely I actually came out incredibly energized from 763 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,839 Speaker 2: an experience that sometimes people think that you might come 764 00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:09,600 Speaker 2: back exhausted. I didn't feel that way, Like I if 765 00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:11,200 Speaker 2: I hadn't have done that, I don't think i'd be 766 00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:13,160 Speaker 2: working on the projects that I'm working on now. That 767 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:16,719 Speaker 2: I think because I created space for myself, I could 768 00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:18,920 Speaker 2: start to see what was important, and so if I 769 00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:22,520 Speaker 2: was to distill that into what would I take moving forward? 770 00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:27,080 Speaker 2: Is the importance of crafting space. Yeah, crafting space with 771 00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:31,160 Speaker 2: maybe not a clear objective, crafting space with important people 772 00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:35,360 Speaker 2: on country, in environments and landscapes that make me feel 773 00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:37,760 Speaker 2: something different than what I do in my normal life. 774 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:40,600 Speaker 2: The power of that, and also just the recognition of like, 775 00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:44,760 Speaker 2: I have an incredible group of women in my life, 776 00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:49,920 Speaker 2: and I think sometimes we silo our friendships to you know, 777 00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:52,480 Speaker 2: like Sarah and I we've known each other for fourteen 778 00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:57,279 Speaker 2: years and we went through university. So I'll preserve and 779 00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:59,960 Speaker 2: protect and keep that relationship just to me. In Sad 780 00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:02,960 Speaker 2: and Joe is my running friend, and Kemmy is my 781 00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:07,160 Speaker 2: speaking friend, and Hailey I do female adventurers stuff with. 782 00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:10,799 Speaker 2: In fact, if all the women in your life come 783 00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:14,880 Speaker 2: from vast different backgrounds walks of life, but they hold 784 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:18,360 Speaker 2: similar values, bring that shit together. 785 00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:20,920 Speaker 4: Amen. 786 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:21,640 Speaker 1: Amen? 787 00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:24,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, because now I'm just it's so nice that I 788 00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:28,239 Speaker 2: have like eight of my girlfriends who I adore and love, 789 00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:30,719 Speaker 2: and they all adore and love and call upon and 790 00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:33,040 Speaker 2: love each other. And I think sometimes people can get 791 00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:36,719 Speaker 2: really protective of their relationships, professional or personal, and I 792 00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:39,759 Speaker 2: try not to do that. And this was an embodiment 793 00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:42,799 Speaker 2: of me going like, you know, utilize it. You know, 794 00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:45,440 Speaker 2: no one went in there with commercial objectives or personal 795 00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:49,080 Speaker 2: objectives really, but you know, use Karen for pr like 796 00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:52,720 Speaker 2: go and get training advice from Joe get on Sarah's 797 00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:55,080 Speaker 2: podcast Abundance that Up. 798 00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:59,360 Speaker 3: And I felt that gosh, I felt that I felt 799 00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,480 Speaker 3: like I walked away with seven new friends, like I 800 00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:05,239 Speaker 3: really I really did. Like it wasn't like, oh, we're 801 00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:07,640 Speaker 3: on holidays together and you know, have a good life. 802 00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:10,720 Speaker 3: I was like these and I felt that from you, Sammy. 803 00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:13,879 Speaker 3: I felt that openness and it felt fresh, like it's 804 00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,600 Speaker 3: like this is this is a thing we need to 805 00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:19,520 Speaker 3: build on as a womanhood. You know this, You know 806 00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:22,160 Speaker 3: there is abundance, There is lots of seats at the table, 807 00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:26,520 Speaker 3: and yeah, I think it's you really got a ball rolling. 808 00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:28,839 Speaker 1: And you can see that from like how many women 809 00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:30,759 Speaker 1: reached out being like how can we do this? 810 00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:31,720 Speaker 2: When can we come? 811 00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:35,320 Speaker 1: And it's so exciting say that her trails is turning 812 00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:38,000 Speaker 1: into something, which kind of leads into the next section 813 00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:41,280 Speaker 1: of yighborhood. Watch really cool things that are happen happening 814 00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:44,560 Speaker 1: out in the neighborhood, three of which are related to you, Sam, 815 00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:47,359 Speaker 1: which is no great surprise really once anyone knows Sam 816 00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:49,280 Speaker 1: that you usually all the cool things in the neighborhood 817 00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:51,359 Speaker 1: are related to you somehow of it. 818 00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:54,520 Speaker 4: So talk us. 819 00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:57,640 Speaker 1: Through a how you know people in the future might 820 00:40:57,640 --> 00:40:59,759 Speaker 1: be able to get involved in these kinds of experiences. 821 00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:03,880 Speaker 1: Be what you two in particular are going back to 822 00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:07,319 Speaker 1: do and see the third incredible thing that you have 823 00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:09,960 Speaker 1: both been working on that we can all get involved 824 00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:11,400 Speaker 1: in in the next couple of weeks. 825 00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:15,200 Speaker 2: I definitely think one of my strengths is corrolling people 826 00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:20,520 Speaker 2: in my life to move in a certain direction. But 827 00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:23,200 Speaker 2: again it's all values driven. You know, like I think 828 00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:27,720 Speaker 2: even a broader level, I think people want to have space, 829 00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,200 Speaker 2: they want to have a solution to something, they want 830 00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:32,000 Speaker 2: to have a way to be involved. They just don't 831 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:34,839 Speaker 2: not always know how to do it. So I guess, 832 00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:36,719 Speaker 2: first one, are we going to be doing more of 833 00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:39,520 Speaker 2: these experiences? Well, as I said, it wasn't like the 834 00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:42,680 Speaker 2: intention to necessarily do that, But afterwards I was like, ah, 835 00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:46,040 Speaker 2: we have got We've like, we've got the most incredible supplies, 836 00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:50,759 Speaker 2: we know, the best accommodations. This has to be experienced 837 00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:53,040 Speaker 2: again for people to create their own formula of how 838 00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:56,560 Speaker 2: this looks, so, you know, like Joe and I do. 839 00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:59,640 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, okay, we'll call the last Opportunity 840 00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:02,560 Speaker 2: in the Sea and it would be August before it 841 00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,400 Speaker 2: goes too hot in Laalara, Pintera. So yeah, we're hosting 842 00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:09,480 Speaker 2: another retreat for her Trails, basically the exact same thing, 843 00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:14,000 Speaker 2: you know, two nights at a place called Aramone Romina Homestead, 844 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,560 Speaker 2: which is a six hundred acre property thirty kilometers away 845 00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:20,120 Speaker 2: from Alice, where we'll be sleeping in glamping tents and 846 00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:25,080 Speaker 2: having incredible food and moving our bodies and you know, 847 00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:29,200 Speaker 2: and then sunrise hikes and sunrise you know, sunset hikes 848 00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,600 Speaker 2: as well, and then getting on country for three days 849 00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:33,759 Speaker 2: with Larapina Culture and then finishing out the Hilton and 850 00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:37,040 Speaker 2: doing a hot air ballooning. So that's in August. I 851 00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:40,279 Speaker 2: think it's the seventeenth of August, is that right, Joe? Yeah, yeah, 852 00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:42,239 Speaker 2: Joe actually to take time off work because she's co 853 00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:43,719 Speaker 2: facilitating with me. 854 00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:47,960 Speaker 1: And unfortunately, guys, there are actually no places because we're 855 00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:48,960 Speaker 1: all coming back to day. 856 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:54,160 Speaker 2: I want to preface it because you know, if there 857 00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:56,239 Speaker 2: are people who reach out to her straight away, I 858 00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:59,480 Speaker 2: want to say it's an aspirational trip because you know, 859 00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,640 Speaker 2: the price of working with all these different operators there 860 00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:04,560 Speaker 2: is a There is a price, and I definitely didn't 861 00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:07,919 Speaker 2: want to discount working with an indigenous guiding group. And 862 00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:11,560 Speaker 2: you know, our accommodation is beautiful and you're nourished celluarly 863 00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:14,279 Speaker 2: with your food, with your rest, with the you know, 864 00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:17,720 Speaker 2: the experiences that you have. The fee for the seven 865 00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:20,799 Speaker 2: days is seven thousand dollars, and I want to say 866 00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:23,359 Speaker 2: that upfront because I just want to put it out 867 00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:26,560 Speaker 2: there and it is an investment in not just you, 868 00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:28,800 Speaker 2: It's an investment in the connections that you're going to 869 00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:30,840 Speaker 2: make the people that will come out in your lives 870 00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:33,560 Speaker 2: and also just the opportunities that will flow from it. 871 00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:35,760 Speaker 2: So it's like the MBA of adventure. 872 00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:40,160 Speaker 4: Why didn't we put that on the flyer? 873 00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:45,120 Speaker 2: I like, well, yeah, I mean I just made it 874 00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:49,520 Speaker 2: up then, But I have because like this Her Trails, 875 00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,319 Speaker 2: you organization that you know you've been speaking about Sarah, 876 00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:54,680 Speaker 2: which this retreat is run out of. I really have 877 00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:57,200 Speaker 2: been feeling that three tenants out of Her Trails is 878 00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:01,320 Speaker 2: allowing women to feel opportunity where they can be self reliant, 879 00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:06,040 Speaker 2: develop and harness their existing resilience and building from it, 880 00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:09,000 Speaker 2: and then also finding the lightness, which is where like 881 00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:10,640 Speaker 2: that joy is sreum where I feel like you've been 882 00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:12,920 Speaker 2: so incredible in my life, are reminding like joy has 883 00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:16,359 Speaker 2: to underpin every single thing that you do in order 884 00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:18,000 Speaker 2: for us to not walk away at the end of 885 00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:20,080 Speaker 2: our days on this planet and go. I just didn't 886 00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:23,600 Speaker 2: allow myself to be happy, which is the fifth common 887 00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,200 Speaker 2: regret that people have on their deathbed, written by a 888 00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:28,520 Speaker 2: book of Bronnie Ware, the Five Common Regrets of the dying. 889 00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:31,160 Speaker 2: Who wants her to speak the other day and I 890 00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:33,920 Speaker 2: adore that woman and like the you know her story 891 00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:36,320 Speaker 2: that she told through that book. But the first regret 892 00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:39,480 Speaker 2: was I wish I didn't let other people basically determine 893 00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:42,440 Speaker 2: how I would my life. And then the fifth one, yay, 894 00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:44,680 Speaker 2: whish I let myself be happier. And so so often 895 00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:47,160 Speaker 2: I'm like, all these things are based on choice, Like 896 00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:49,439 Speaker 2: do I choose to have this experience? Do I choose 897 00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:51,439 Speaker 2: to craft time for myself? Do I choose to see 898 00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:54,239 Speaker 2: the lightness in this? It's your choice. Everything that we do, 899 00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:58,120 Speaker 2: and particularly in the privileged lives that we live in here, 900 00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:01,720 Speaker 2: we can definitely say that. So if anyone is interested 901 00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:04,759 Speaker 2: in doing this treat, obviously short turn around time, but 902 00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:07,520 Speaker 2: you will be nourished on every level. And we have 903 00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:09,879 Speaker 2: probably the coolest swag that you're want to come out 904 00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:12,960 Speaker 2: of this troop. But I don't even tell you that 905 00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:13,520 Speaker 2: because it's a. 906 00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:16,880 Speaker 1: Surprise, because you don't need to know everything in advance. 907 00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, we've already had a bunch of women who've signed 908 00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:22,880 Speaker 2: up for it. There's a maximum ten on it, so 909 00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:26,399 Speaker 2: it's like it's small and it's intimate, very one on one. 910 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:29,680 Speaker 2: You know, we co create the experience in the moment 911 00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:34,040 Speaker 2: as well, so the women on, like Erica Kramer from 912 00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:37,920 Speaker 2: you know, the Confidence Queen Tina Towers. I just want 913 00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:40,719 Speaker 2: to say her name twenty times, Tina Towers, Tina Towers her, 914 00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:44,520 Speaker 2: He's amazing be a singer. Yeah, Oh my gosh, I 915 00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:47,200 Speaker 2: just want to go Tinternitya Towers. 916 00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:52,840 Speaker 4: Don't do that. I do that, Okay. 917 00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:55,360 Speaker 2: I saw her face looking I'm like, oh, okay, this 918 00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:56,799 Speaker 2: is one of those moments of being judge. But I'm 919 00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:58,000 Speaker 2: going to keep rolling with it. 920 00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:00,400 Speaker 4: That's true love. 921 00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,080 Speaker 2: But you know, coming out of that, I was just 922 00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:05,760 Speaker 2: you know, a bit of context to Joe's and my friendship, 923 00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:09,279 Speaker 2: telling a part of her story to. 924 00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:11,720 Speaker 4: Tell Sam stop, I'm giving it to you. 925 00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:15,319 Speaker 2: But that's not true. But years ago, Joe created an 926 00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:20,120 Speaker 2: organization called Summit Sisters, and I was close friend to 927 00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:22,399 Speaker 2: Joe back in the day when she did that, but 928 00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:25,520 Speaker 2: it closed down for whatever reason and Joe never spoke 929 00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:27,920 Speaker 2: about it again, and so I when I was creating 930 00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:30,480 Speaker 2: her trails, I kind of totally forgot that so much 931 00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:33,520 Speaker 2: sisters that had ever been in existence until as I'm 932 00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:35,759 Speaker 2: like crafting the project and she goes, I've got all 933 00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:37,600 Speaker 2: this material, and I'm like, why do you have all 934 00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:40,080 Speaker 2: this material, like why have you written documents and documents 935 00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:43,480 Speaker 2: and documents you know, summut sisters, And I'm like, oh 936 00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:47,600 Speaker 2: my gosh, there are people in your close community that 937 00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:51,680 Speaker 2: offer so much more depth of resource and wisdom. You 938 00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,120 Speaker 2: don't have to reinvent the wheel. Like we can stand 939 00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:56,359 Speaker 2: on the shoulders of giants, and our giants are our 940 00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:59,200 Speaker 2: friends and our people that we choose to be aligned with. Uh, 941 00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:03,160 Speaker 2: and we cut time dramatically and like get shit done. 942 00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:05,840 Speaker 1: Absolutely, which both of you have been doing as well 943 00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:08,320 Speaker 1: with the experience at kind of the other end of 944 00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:11,000 Speaker 1: the spectrum. So one is quite intimate and curated, and 945 00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:13,239 Speaker 1: the next one is like as many people around the 946 00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:15,640 Speaker 1: world as we can get on board, talk us through that. 947 00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:17,920 Speaker 2: Hit it, Joe, you know what we're talking about. 948 00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:21,200 Speaker 3: Okay, so this is really I feel like Sam should 949 00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:21,799 Speaker 3: be talking to this. 950 00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:25,640 Speaker 4: So I'll briefly introduce Sam, but let me introduce Sam, 951 00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:26,279 Speaker 4: like she needs that. 952 00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:29,839 Speaker 2: Yeah. 953 00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:32,640 Speaker 3: So late last year, if anyone was under a rock, 954 00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:38,200 Speaker 3: Sam and Nick Davidson, who I think you know, Sarah, 955 00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:38,640 Speaker 3: I might. 956 00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:39,360 Speaker 1: Have met him before. 957 00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:45,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, they founded the relief run Like in it felt 958 00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:48,560 Speaker 3: like thirty seconds to rush to the aid of the 959 00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:51,839 Speaker 3: Australian bushfire victims who were really struggling and raised one 960 00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:54,839 Speaker 3: point one something million dollars to the astrone Red Cross 961 00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:59,719 Speaker 3: bush Fire Appeal. And then obviously Sam has huge ties 962 00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:03,920 Speaker 3: in year after her run India project and has always 963 00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:06,080 Speaker 3: had her heart there ever since. I think you've been 964 00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:10,239 Speaker 3: there like six times, Sammy, and so we're all watching 965 00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:12,919 Speaker 3: India really suffer at the moment, like in a way 966 00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:16,480 Speaker 3: that is quite I don't have language for it. All 967 00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:19,560 Speaker 3: I do is cry when I see it, and it's 968 00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:21,240 Speaker 3: and I know Sam and I have been in tears 969 00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:26,080 Speaker 3: looking at stuff together recently. It's genuinely heartbreaking. And so 970 00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:29,200 Speaker 3: Sam's just called it and gone, we're bringing back the 971 00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:32,120 Speaker 3: relief runt. And she called me and said I want 972 00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:32,600 Speaker 3: to do this. 973 00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:33,520 Speaker 4: I need help. 974 00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:37,200 Speaker 3: And so I called my people and said, Sam wants 975 00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:39,840 Speaker 3: to do this, she needs help. And we've pulled together 976 00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:43,800 Speaker 3: a cracking little team and yeah, I'll hand over to you, Sammy. 977 00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:46,480 Speaker 2: Oh. I mean, this is why we're in partnership, and 978 00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:48,640 Speaker 2: this is where an example of like together we can 979 00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:52,080 Speaker 2: tell the story because we all have different elements that 980 00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:56,000 Speaker 2: bring it together. And I think India is in the 981 00:48:56,040 --> 00:49:00,120 Speaker 2: groups of just a crisis that they can't overcome on 982 00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:03,239 Speaker 2: its own. And that's not kind of being this white 983 00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:06,200 Speaker 2: savior complex. It's actually like a community is going through 984 00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:09,520 Speaker 2: significant suffering right now, and Australia and particularly a lot 985 00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:11,120 Speaker 2: of other countries in the world are not in that 986 00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:14,920 Speaker 2: depth of crisis, and we can all them support to 987 00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:17,040 Speaker 2: each other, you know what we're seeing on the media, 988 00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:18,799 Speaker 2: Like I feel like, if you're not paying attention, you 989 00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:21,040 Speaker 2: won't even know. And probably all you're hearing about is 990 00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:23,520 Speaker 2: the you know, Australian who are in India and need 991 00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:25,920 Speaker 2: to get home, which obviously is an issue, but what 992 00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:28,359 Speaker 2: about the people who can't get out, who are caught 993 00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:31,880 Speaker 2: in that situation day in, day out, And so like 994 00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:35,440 Speaker 2: for anyone who's kind of like data oriented. They have 995 00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:39,120 Speaker 2: officially listed that over twenty six million cases of COVID 996 00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:41,759 Speaker 2: i've been recorded in India, which is the more than 997 00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:46,040 Speaker 2: the population of Australia, and four thousand people minimum have 998 00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:49,000 Speaker 2: died every single day over the past three weeks. And 999 00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:52,520 Speaker 2: it's said to be a gross underestimate. And there's a 1000 00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:54,920 Speaker 2: whole lot of reasons why that's a gross underestimate, from 1001 00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:57,400 Speaker 2: the fact that they don't have COVID testing. In the 1002 00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:01,080 Speaker 2: rural communities, they don't have hospitals, they don't have facilities, 1003 00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:04,000 Speaker 2: people are on the census. There's so many reasons why 1004 00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:05,879 Speaker 2: that's not right. We're also going to have a whole 1005 00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:08,680 Speaker 2: generation of children that are orphaned, and it's not just 1006 00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:11,239 Speaker 2: the elderly like it was in Australia. You know, I 1007 00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:13,680 Speaker 2: expect to a friend today who's in an Australian Indian. 1008 00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:15,600 Speaker 2: She was born in India and she said, in the 1009 00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:17,600 Speaker 2: last month four of her family members have died in 1010 00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:20,560 Speaker 2: India and two of them are in their fifties. When 1011 00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:24,400 Speaker 2: the resources medically are already stretched across the border in India, 1012 00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:28,200 Speaker 2: but even far more stretched in rural communities when something 1013 00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:30,960 Speaker 2: like this happens, like they just can't cope. It hurts 1014 00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:33,359 Speaker 2: my heart that we're not seeing this more. Because when 1015 00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:35,840 Speaker 2: Australia was going through a crisis, and it was of 1016 00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:39,480 Speaker 2: course the Bushbye crisis was huge, and not to compare 1017 00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:42,040 Speaker 2: the two, but it was all over the news, not 1018 00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:45,520 Speaker 2: just in Australia but everywhere. Like we had so many 1019 00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:47,840 Speaker 2: Americans who came on board to the relief front because 1020 00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:51,879 Speaker 2: their New Cycle twenty four seven was the Australian bushfire crisis. 1021 00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:54,640 Speaker 2: We're not seeing that here. And like my question too, 1022 00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:57,799 Speaker 2: and anyone in media is listening to this, why is that? 1023 00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:01,360 Speaker 2: Why can one community have sorry, I'm getting my soapbox 1024 00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:04,600 Speaker 2: like in one community, like we hear I'm take it 1025 00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:11,239 Speaker 2: a bit lighters the age, No, but like, why is that? 1026 00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:14,000 Speaker 2: Are we to sensitized because we need to to be 1027 00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:16,200 Speaker 2: able to cope with the fact that it's so unfair 1028 00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:20,200 Speaker 2: what's happening? Or did we see so many like poverty 1029 00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:23,319 Speaker 2: stricken photos of Indian children when we were younger through 1030 00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:26,759 Speaker 2: a lot of you know, child sponsorship campaigns that to 1031 00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:29,440 Speaker 2: cope with those images, we just kind of say, oh, 1032 00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:31,319 Speaker 2: that's what happens in India and it's too big a 1033 00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:34,359 Speaker 2: problem and it's not my problem. But I'll put it 1034 00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:36,640 Speaker 2: forward to people that India accounts for one six of 1035 00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:39,880 Speaker 2: the world's population. And if you're not getting some invoices 1036 00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:41,919 Speaker 2: paid right now, I'll tell you probably because the teams 1037 00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:45,160 Speaker 2: are in India. We are so inextricably linked to India, 1038 00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:50,080 Speaker 2: if not professionally, definitely personally. And so whether you jump 1039 00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:52,120 Speaker 2: on board with a relief front, I just which I 1040 00:51:52,160 --> 00:51:54,840 Speaker 2: would love you to do think in your life who 1041 00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:56,920 Speaker 2: may be connected to India, and if they're based in India, 1042 00:51:57,000 --> 00:52:00,279 Speaker 2: reach out to them, because there's nothing worse when you 1043 00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:03,280 Speaker 2: feel like you're going through crisis and overwhelmed both personally 1044 00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:06,160 Speaker 2: and medically economically, to feel alone. 1045 00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:07,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's it. 1046 00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:10,919 Speaker 3: I don't know a more apt way of saying, but 1047 00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,480 Speaker 3: for the grace of God, go I in this. You know, 1048 00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:16,359 Speaker 3: we are so fortunate to be where we are and 1049 00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:18,840 Speaker 3: to be born into the place that we are born into. 1050 00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:23,080 Speaker 3: These people did nothing to deserve what they're going through, 1051 00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:27,080 Speaker 3: and there's nothing about us that's better than them, you know, 1052 00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:29,440 Speaker 3: like that could be them, and if we were, then 1053 00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:32,319 Speaker 3: we would expect and pray and hope that someone would 1054 00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:35,359 Speaker 3: come to our aid. And I really think COVID's taught 1055 00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:37,960 Speaker 3: us one thing. It's that, you know, we are really 1056 00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:41,040 Speaker 3: one global family. We've got all these ridiculous borders that 1057 00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:43,319 Speaker 3: we put up in our world and say here's the line, 1058 00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:45,480 Speaker 3: this is ours, this is yours, But we are one 1059 00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:47,920 Speaker 3: human kind. And I know it sounds cliche, but I 1060 00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:50,640 Speaker 3: think COVID's taught us that more than anything. And we 1061 00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:53,920 Speaker 3: really do need to stop turning to the media for 1062 00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:56,640 Speaker 3: what matters most, and I feel like we've got a 1063 00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:59,960 Speaker 3: responsibility to educate ourselves on that. And we all put 1064 00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:02,640 Speaker 3: blinkers on, and I'm so guilty of this as well, 1065 00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:04,840 Speaker 3: of just looking at what's directly in front of us 1066 00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:06,600 Speaker 3: as we all over schedule and put one foot in 1067 00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:08,879 Speaker 3: front of the other. And so a big ask here 1068 00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:11,680 Speaker 3: is just to take the blinkers off, look at this 1069 00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:14,400 Speaker 3: Like it's hard to look at but it's the least 1070 00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:17,000 Speaker 3: we can do is to look at it and then 1071 00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:19,719 Speaker 3: think like, how can I help this in one way? 1072 00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:23,920 Speaker 3: Because it is those microactions for mass change, and this 1073 00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:26,239 Speaker 3: is going to be the only way this gets done. 1074 00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:29,600 Speaker 1: And I think that is so important, the microactions thing, 1075 00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:34,799 Speaker 1: because what it can be, really what can be a 1076 00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:37,600 Speaker 1: big obstacle to people actually doing something. I think Relief 1077 00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:41,120 Speaker 1: Run last year showed all of us how willing people 1078 00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:44,040 Speaker 1: are to do something to help. It's just that often 1079 00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:46,480 Speaker 1: they're so overwhelmed about which vehicle is going to be 1080 00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:48,680 Speaker 1: the right way to do it. It either is like 1081 00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:51,320 Speaker 1: if my donation isn't massive, it's not going to have 1082 00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:54,440 Speaker 1: an impact, or who do donate to or whe's it 1083 00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:55,840 Speaker 1: going to go and all those kinds of things, And 1084 00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:58,239 Speaker 1: I think Relief Run made it really simple. It makes 1085 00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:01,960 Speaker 1: it really simple to jump on board and do what 1086 00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:04,200 Speaker 1: you can with what you have. Where you are, anywhere 1087 00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:06,560 Speaker 1: in the world. You can go for a run, you 1088 00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:08,640 Speaker 1: can go for a walk like it's just it really 1089 00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:11,919 Speaker 1: simplifies something that's really overwhelming. But the willingness I think 1090 00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:16,400 Speaker 1: is there much more than you would expect. It's just 1091 00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:18,400 Speaker 1: giving people a way to show that. And so my 1092 00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:22,360 Speaker 1: recommendation for this week is sign up, sign up. The 1093 00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:25,480 Speaker 1: website is live. It's the longer weeken so the eleventh 1094 00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:28,320 Speaker 1: to the thirteenth of June, so a couple of weeks away, 1095 00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:32,600 Speaker 1: and there is really no excuse not to because you 1096 00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:34,520 Speaker 1: don't have to be in a particular place, like explain 1097 00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:35,960 Speaker 1: the actual logistics of it, Sammy. 1098 00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:40,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, this time we've added a few more flavors to 1099 00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:44,239 Speaker 2: the offering. We have a three K kids run, we 1100 00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:46,759 Speaker 2: have a five K, ten K and twenty one point 1101 00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:49,680 Speaker 2: one kilometer, and then you can also be about ass 1102 00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:54,000 Speaker 2: and do what we call the trifecta, which is Joe's Inclusion. 1103 00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:56,879 Speaker 3: Which is just for Joe, just for Joe. 1104 00:54:57,080 --> 00:54:58,920 Speaker 2: You can do the five, ten and twenty one kilometer 1105 00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:03,200 Speaker 2: over the entire week nd, and that's the trifecta, and 1106 00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:06,279 Speaker 2: that's a pretty amazing challenge to kind of get that 1107 00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:10,240 Speaker 2: all in over the weekend. But as Sarah said, anywhere, anytime, 1108 00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:14,520 Speaker 2: and what made this so big last time is that 1109 00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:17,600 Speaker 2: a lot of group runs happened, and so like people said, Okay, 1110 00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:19,640 Speaker 2: how I'm going to meet you at Saturday AM at 1111 00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:22,640 Speaker 2: Albert Park ten am. Let's go and do a half 1112 00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:24,960 Speaker 2: marathon or a ten k, and then they shed it 1113 00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:26,879 Speaker 2: with their communities and more and more, and we had 1114 00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:30,320 Speaker 2: community events all over the world and we've definitely had 1115 00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:32,120 Speaker 2: a lot of teams set up and we do that 1116 00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:34,399 Speaker 2: through the back end and then people can align their 1117 00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:38,279 Speaker 2: individual registration to that team in a drop down menu 1118 00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:40,960 Speaker 2: and it allows you then once you get the results, 1119 00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:43,400 Speaker 2: to kind of go, okay, well where's the CZA team 1120 00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:47,239 Speaker 2: And you can actually go the c'sa community collectively did 1121 00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:51,000 Speaker 2: X amount of kilometers and we raise X amount of dollars, 1122 00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:54,719 Speaker 2: like that's what our communities like impact was, And then 1123 00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:56,600 Speaker 2: we can also give you the data of like, so 1124 00:55:56,719 --> 00:55:58,520 Speaker 2: x amount of dollars, that's how far it goes into 1125 00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:02,920 Speaker 2: this circumstance, so it's fifty dollars. He pays a registration 1126 00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:05,040 Speaker 2: fee and then the relief front gives it as all 1127 00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:07,600 Speaker 2: of it, all of it to a donation to World 1128 00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:11,360 Speaker 2: Visioned Australia's India COVID nineteen a PL. And because I 1129 00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:14,080 Speaker 2: have run across India and worked in partnership with World Vision, 1130 00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:16,719 Speaker 2: I think I'm in a position to say, hand on 1131 00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:19,120 Speaker 2: hard that money goes to the people on the ground. 1132 00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:22,440 Speaker 2: You know, world Vision have had one of the longest 1133 00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:26,680 Speaker 2: standing imprints within India and working with the community. In fact, 1134 00:56:26,680 --> 00:56:30,840 Speaker 2: when they fund a community, they stay there typically twenty years, 1135 00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:34,160 Speaker 2: and at the beginning, like they're heavily involved and they 1136 00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:36,840 Speaker 2: hire staff members from their area, they train them, they 1137 00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:39,160 Speaker 2: skill them. By the end of the twenty year cycle, 1138 00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:41,680 Speaker 2: like the community is completely running it, calling all the shots, 1139 00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:43,600 Speaker 2: and it might just be like they get, you know, 1140 00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:46,040 Speaker 2: the financial contribution and a little bit of guidance or 1141 00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:48,200 Speaker 2: expertise where they need it, and then they run it 1142 00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:50,520 Speaker 2: on their own, so they're there for the long haul, 1143 00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:53,360 Speaker 2: not just in these moments of crisis. I've spoken to 1144 00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:54,879 Speaker 2: a lot of my friends who work for World Vision 1145 00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:59,439 Speaker 2: India on the ground, and that's what's also like I'm 1146 00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:03,040 Speaker 2: holding onto too because they're sick or their family members 1147 00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:05,600 Speaker 2: are sick, and they're still working, like trying to do 1148 00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:08,640 Speaker 2: something for their broader community. You know, it's a lot, 1149 00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:11,680 Speaker 2: but I can also say, like fifty dollars goes such 1150 00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:14,080 Speaker 2: a long way in these communities. If anyone has a 1151 00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:16,960 Speaker 2: corporate organization that wants to get on board, because we're 1152 00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:20,520 Speaker 2: a nimble, small team, we can facilitate for you to 1153 00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:23,320 Speaker 2: make it a tax seductible donation. We'll set up a 1154 00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:25,240 Speaker 2: promo code in the back end that allows you to 1155 00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:29,440 Speaker 2: then register your individual participants. It might work for the 1156 00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:32,520 Speaker 2: corporate group. So you know, quantas smart wanting know a 1157 00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:35,040 Speaker 2: in Z you know George Bank. 1158 00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:38,560 Speaker 1: I don't want to name names, but I'm going to. 1159 00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:42,280 Speaker 2: Well, I'm to name names, and I think we should 1160 00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:46,160 Speaker 2: applaud businesses that move really quickly because often bureaucracy gets 1161 00:57:46,200 --> 00:57:50,160 Speaker 2: in the way of swift movement. AI Australia has like 1162 00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:55,640 Speaker 2: totally just dominated this they I sent the CEO, Damon Damien, 1163 00:57:55,760 --> 00:57:59,120 Speaker 2: a text message at seven or eight pm on a 1164 00:57:59,120 --> 00:58:01,680 Speaker 2: Friday night, going, hey, I'm going to create the relief run. 1165 00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:05,440 Speaker 2: I know you've got team members in India, no pressure, 1166 00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:07,960 Speaker 2: but let me know if you want any affiliation. I 1167 00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:10,720 Speaker 2: got a text message at seven am on Saturday morning 1168 00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:13,640 Speaker 2: and he's like, we're in let's chat, and so off 1169 00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:16,160 Speaker 2: the weekend. We chatted on the Monday morning. He's like, 1170 00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:17,800 Speaker 2: I've just got got you to have a meeting with 1171 00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:20,760 Speaker 2: a few people, and I'm eating my bolonnaise over like 1172 00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:23,000 Speaker 2: a zoom session. All of sudden realized it's like the 1173 00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:25,720 Speaker 2: heads of all like the countries. I'm like, hey, Bolinnai 1174 00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:30,320 Speaker 2: Bolonne is sitting away and they were just like, okay, 1175 00:58:30,400 --> 00:58:32,800 Speaker 2: what can we do? Like I think careers gone on 1176 00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:35,560 Speaker 2: board Samsung. I think like they might have got their 1177 00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:42,720 Speaker 2: global ambassador on board, mister Beckham. But we'll see. Mic 1178 00:58:42,840 --> 00:58:46,480 Speaker 2: Drop may have been writing some cooking notes to him 1179 00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:47,920 Speaker 2: the other night, wasn't. 1180 00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:52,040 Speaker 4: It's not my story to tell, So it's. 1181 00:58:54,080 --> 00:59:02,720 Speaker 2: It's total by the long story short, like we all 1182 00:59:02,720 --> 00:59:05,280 Speaker 2: can play a little part, and it's also really fun 1183 00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:08,760 Speaker 2: to move together. It's actually you'll benefit from going out 1184 00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:10,400 Speaker 2: for a five k run on a Saturday knowing that 1185 00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:12,080 Speaker 2: it's going to a good place and you're a part 1186 00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:15,680 Speaker 2: of something that's bigger than yourself. So get on board 1187 00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:16,240 Speaker 2: and listen. 1188 00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:20,720 Speaker 1: You've become a singer this episode. 1189 00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:22,560 Speaker 2: I know, I just wouldn't to tell me up again. 1190 00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:23,520 Speaker 2: It kind of feels nice. 1191 00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:27,040 Speaker 4: Can't be good at everything? 1192 00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:27,280 Speaker 1: Girl? 1193 00:59:29,200 --> 00:59:30,480 Speaker 2: Do you know that I was the leader of the 1194 00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:33,160 Speaker 2: sopranos and I was at high school. It wasn't a 1195 00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:35,240 Speaker 2: year level of forty nine, so they might have been 1196 00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:36,920 Speaker 2: like scraping at the barrel. 1197 00:59:39,440 --> 00:59:42,600 Speaker 1: Oh well, you guys are absolutely amazing. Thank you so 1198 00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:45,640 Speaker 1: so much for joining and sharing so much wisdom and 1199 00:59:45,760 --> 00:59:50,240 Speaker 1: laughter and joy and everyone in the neighborhood. It would 1200 00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:52,800 Speaker 1: just be so wonderful if you could rally around relief 1201 00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:56,600 Speaker 1: run and show your support and also have an amazing 1202 00:59:56,680 --> 00:59:59,440 Speaker 1: time like who you meet such great people. Last year 1203 00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:02,160 Speaker 1: we had so so many new friends come and join 1204 01:00:02,200 --> 01:00:05,800 Speaker 1: at the Lake. And we'll include details across our socials 1205 01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:07,160 Speaker 1: of how you can get involved in some of the 1206 01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:09,640 Speaker 1: community runs that you can maybe tack onto as well. 1207 01:00:09,920 --> 01:00:12,840 Speaker 2: I can already tell you one because even though I 1208 01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:16,720 Speaker 2: didn't ask for permission, I credit SEZ THEA as a 1209 01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:21,560 Speaker 2: group that you can find up hearing this through the podcast. 1210 01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:23,080 Speaker 2: Feel free to sign up through to SEEZ the A. 1211 01:00:24,080 --> 01:00:25,600 Speaker 4: Yeah you're right, I did it. You're a group. 1212 01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:28,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, thing. You just do what we can and 1213 01:00:28,360 --> 01:00:30,440 Speaker 2: have a lot of fun, like it's just such a 1214 01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:32,760 Speaker 2: nice excuse to see people amazing. 1215 01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:35,280 Speaker 1: Thank you so much, my loves, we'll chat soon. 1216 01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:36,760 Speaker 4: Thanks for having us. 1217 01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:40,320 Speaker 1: I'm actually quite surprised that we fitted that into an hour, 1218 01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:41,760 Speaker 1: even though it was meant to be half an hour. 1219 01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:44,400 Speaker 1: We could have gone for days if we've been able to. 1220 01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:48,440 Speaker 1: Maybe lucky for you guys that we didn't. Such incredible women. 1221 01:00:48,520 --> 01:00:50,520 Speaker 1: I feel so lucky to call them friends. And I'm 1222 01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:53,280 Speaker 1: sure you can imagine how amazing the other five women 1223 01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:55,240 Speaker 1: on our trip were. I mean, we barely touched on 1224 01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:57,760 Speaker 1: them for all our guest bagging. But you'll actually hear 1225 01:00:57,760 --> 01:00:59,840 Speaker 1: from a few of them as well in the coming 1226 01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:03,080 Speaker 1: One of them you've already heard from Keminik Fapil, who's 1227 01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:07,000 Speaker 1: also been a guest before. Please do consider registering for 1228 01:01:07,200 --> 01:01:10,560 Speaker 1: Relief Run. You can walk, run, or even do nothing 1229 01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:12,640 Speaker 1: at all with us on the weekend of the eleventh 1230 01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:15,960 Speaker 1: to thirteenth of June, but your registration alone can make 1231 01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:19,040 Speaker 1: such a huge impact, and I've popped some practical information 1232 01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:21,720 Speaker 1: breaking down what that fifty dollars can do in the 1233 01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:25,240 Speaker 1: show notes along with the registration link. We'll be doing 1234 01:01:25,320 --> 01:01:28,200 Speaker 1: a community run in person in Melbourne again like we 1235 01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:30,880 Speaker 1: did last year, that I would love to see some 1236 01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:33,160 Speaker 1: of you at and we'll share in the Facebook group 1237 01:01:33,280 --> 01:01:36,480 Speaker 1: when details are finalized. In the meantime, I hope you're 1238 01:01:36,520 --> 01:01:39,200 Speaker 1: having a wonderful week and are seizing your Yay