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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Seize the Yay Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Busy and happy are not the same thing. We too

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Speaker 2: rarely question what makes the heart seeing.

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Speaker 1: We work, then we.

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Speaker 2: Rest, but rarely we play and often don't realize there's

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Speaker 2: more than one way. So this is a platform to

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Speaker 2: hear and explore the stories of those who found lives.

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Speaker 2: They adore, the good, bad and ugly, the best and

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Speaker 2: worst day will bear all the facets of Seizing your Yea.

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Speaker 2: I'm Sarah Davidson or a spoonful of Sarah, a lawyer

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Speaker 2: turned entrepreneur who swapped the suits and heels to co

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Speaker 2: found Matcha Maiden and matcha Milk Bar.

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Speaker 1: Sez the Ya is a series.

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Speaker 3: Of conversations on finding a life you love and exploring

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Speaker 3: the self doubt, challenge, joy and fulfillment along the way.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Ya's of Our Lives Valentine's Day edition with

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Speaker 1: my Valentine Ant foot.

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Speaker 4: Then and Nick gets the hosts us for an intimate

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Speaker 4: Q and A about our relationship.

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Speaker 3: This is just the first time all three of us

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Speaker 3: have been on this show. How how scause you never

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Speaker 3: invite Nick? Don't worry, I got you, Okay, dude?

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Speaker 1: He literally said, I'm just.

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Speaker 5: A token partner. That's the only time we're getting bitted.

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Speaker 1: But to make it look good, would you like to

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Speaker 1: come on Valentine's Day? That would be really cute?

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Speaker 3: And he said yes, And I'd also not mind coming

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Speaker 3: on for non tokenistic like just random occasions.

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Speaker 1: I agree.

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Speaker 2: I think.

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Speaker 5: Point. You know, Sarah wasn't funny before we met. I'm Sarah.

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Speaker 1: She also didn't like mushrooms.

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Speaker 5: Didn't She liked mushrooms, but only cut mushrooms until we

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Speaker 5: explain to her, once you bite a mushroom, it becomes cut.

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Speaker 1: I've come a long way, Gus, I'm not a long way.

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Speaker 1: Welcome Nikki.

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Speaker 3: We've had actually quite a lot of requests of the

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Speaker 3: last that's true, the last year of people being like,

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Speaker 3: by the way, have you nicked on an episode?

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Speaker 1: Also, people keep asking if we've done it.

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Speaker 5: Took a year for invite.

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Speaker 1: I just wasn't and houring about it. I haven't seen uk.

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Speaker 1: You've been busy. So many people have asked if we've

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Speaker 1: done an episode on our friendship. I'm like, guys, come

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Speaker 1: on with it.

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Speaker 3: No, But it has been a while since Nick's been on,

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Speaker 3: and lots of people have wanted to hear from you,

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Speaker 3: So thank you for your time.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back.

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Speaker 3: This is coming out on Valentine's Day, but today, on

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Speaker 3: the day of recording, it's actually and his birthday.

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Speaker 4: So I'm laughing because thank you. I look, he's gonna

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Speaker 4: right next week.

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Speaker 1: Can't look back.

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Speaker 5: I hurt my neck and my physio goes what happened

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Speaker 5: and I coughed. It's true that legit. I was sitting

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Speaker 5: in a cafe and I coughed.

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Speaker 1: Now Nick has to sit in the podcasting room on

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Speaker 3: So since your last appearance on the show, we have

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Speaker 3: aged significantly.

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Speaker 1: Basically the point of the conversation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're twenty six today that oh I'm like, you're

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Speaker 3: closing to thirty.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm not even like early twenties anymore.

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Speaker 1: Oh you're not You're not even Reai. It's actually quite

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Speaker 1: a bit late.

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Speaker 5: The terms over the hill.

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Speaker 1: Who invited him, You're off size already.

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Speaker 3: So for this very special occasion, since our last episode,

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Speaker 3: there has since been since there has since been the

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Speaker 3: invention of anonymous Q and as. So before we did

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Speaker 3: Q and A's emissions on Instagram, but now we got

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Speaker 3: all these questions sent to and so we haven't A

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Speaker 3: don't know who sent them, which means people can ask

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Speaker 3: why they actually.

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Speaker 1: Want to know, and B we haven't seen them.

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Speaker 3: And this is the first time we've done that too,

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Speaker 3: because usually I've like control free kind of you know.

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Speaker 4: I'm so excitedly pretty large to them a little bit,

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Speaker 4: so many good ones this last week I've.

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Speaker 1: Been looking at them being like, oh, I can't wait.

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Speaker 5: I thought your laugh was weird.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. Well that's where I get it wrong.

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Speaker 3: Quickly, before we go into questions, Nikki boy, what's been

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Speaker 5: I don't know what, seventeen years through puberty.

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Speaker 1: It's boy broke yesterday. Sorry, that's why I excel. Can

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Speaker 1: you tell the vibe of relations.

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Speaker 5: It's funny in the middle of the buffer.

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Speaker 1: Literally like at.

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Speaker 3: Least once a week and will be like when I

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Speaker 4: In the middle in the first parts of our friendship,

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Speaker 4: when you guys have in the car and like these

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Speaker 4: who would just have banter and then it will escalate

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Speaker 1: And then just breaks.

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Speaker 3: Now, No, you've had We've mentioned on the podcast a

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Speaker 3: little bit in a few episodes. You've had like a

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Speaker 5: And when the last time I was on Yeah, when

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Speaker 5: was it? There was a tape recorder I remember recording it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, cassette.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I had to pedal to make the thing work.

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Speaker 5: Flints Pelican trash can. Yeah, I had a tough few years. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: we haven't seen much of each other every cloud, but

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Speaker 5: for this couple's therapy. Yeah, it's been rough years. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: since we got married. No, I meant with my father. Wow.

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Speaker 1: We have actually spent a lot of time part over.

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Speaker 5: The last years.

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Speaker 3: But it's been I think the last couple of months

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Speaker 3: has been really lovely.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we've got strange questions up take.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've had a hard time since we've been married. Anyway.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, as the more specific question specific, you've had a

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Speaker 4: rough to use, but also you've like in that time,

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Speaker 1: You're riding your bike more, which is really nice.

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Speaker 4: You're boxing now, it's cool, and like, yeah, you've found

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Speaker 4: your way of managing all that stuff.

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Speaker 5: The rest of my answers today will be.

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Speaker 4: Directed to go through the spokes were speaking most code

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Speaker 4: and anyway, just giving Nick some credit for having done something.

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Speaker 1: Anyway.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, questions, questions, questions, All right, I'll start with

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Speaker 4: the easy ones. What's been the biggest challenge you've had

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Speaker 4: to face as a couple.

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Speaker 5: Wow, right, it's an easy one personality, but we're overcoming it.

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Speaker 1: People think we're actually dysfunctioned. Next puberty.

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Speaker 5: What's so? What was the question?

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Speaker 1: What's the biggest challenge you've had to face as a couple.

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Speaker 3: I actually think it's been the past two to three

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Speaker 3: all consuming and then finding ways when you're not physically together.

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Speaker 3: We just had lockdown. The world is like, you know,

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Speaker 3: coming just coming back into things. But we were sort

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Speaker 3: of finding ourselves apart for like a third of a

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Speaker 3: whole year, two years in a row, and trying to

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Speaker 3: find ways to Like we've been together fourteen years, We've

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Speaker 3: got pretty good strategies, and we've started businesses together. We've

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Speaker 3: been through so many chapters, so we've already worked out

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Speaker 3: a lot of communication and connection strategies that a lot

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Speaker 3: of couples haven't been forced to necessarily. But I think

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Speaker 3: go into quite a long stretch of more than the

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Speaker 3: normal level of uncertainty of like where Nick would be.

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Speaker 3: You know, I was traveling a lot separately. Our work

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Speaker 3: was kind of taking us in all weird places. Plus

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Speaker 3: coming off the back of the uncertainty of COVID, it

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Speaker 3: was Yeah, I think it was hard because we've never

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Speaker 5: Yes, I think COVID was easy. Yes, I mean because

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Speaker 5: we're very good friends as well as you know what

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Speaker 5: I mean, Like I spend more time giving your shit

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Speaker 5: than loving you, like you know what I mean, like

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Speaker 5: that banter, you know what I mean. So it's we're

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Speaker 5: always been very close. But I think the difficult part

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Speaker 5: was starting the business with you, And that wasn't my

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Speaker 5: And that was the most challenging for me because I

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Speaker 5: had been there before where I had an old business

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Speaker 5: to have ten good ideas. Nine of them were batshit crazy,

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Speaker 5: so I had to deal with all of those separating

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Speaker 5: So it was quite difficult where I'd go to bed

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Speaker 3: I'd be like, you said, my idea was shiit so

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Speaker 3: like and it probably was.

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 5: That was super difficult, but COVID was so easy. So

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Speaker 5: again it was nice actually, like as in we don't

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Speaker 3: I think what was really interesting as well is around

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Speaker 3: had so much more practice at working with people who

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Speaker 3: you had personal relationships within, like creating barriers. But also

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Speaker 3: our lives went from so independent.

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Speaker 1: Like the structure of our lives. It was really clear

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Speaker 3: I had like really clear routine, and then I was

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Speaker 3: and the year and everything changing at the same time.

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Speaker 1: So it was just so messy for us to suddenly

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Speaker 3: The same world and then like working from our house

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Speaker 3: as well, while we we'd never done that before. We

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Speaker 3: never like it was just so many things at once,

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Speaker 3: but I think we once I learned how to not

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Speaker 3: take everything in our work capacity personally, and also yeah,

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Speaker 3: once we figured out how to have boundaries between like

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Speaker 5: The other hard thing is we travel a lot, but

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Speaker 5: they generally work. And there was this whole it's just

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Speaker 5: like I'll be in Tazzy for serious family things, not

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Speaker 5: in Amsterdam working, yeah, but you're like, oh, he's on holiday.

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Speaker 5: You know what I mean. But I was, yeah, part

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Speaker 5: like I'm here working and your gallivanting cross like kicking

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Speaker 1: And I thought that was the most valuable in any relationship.

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Speaker 3: Situation, the most valuable thing I'd ever heard, because sometimes

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Speaker 1: And then but not, you know, don't take it personally.

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Speaker 5: The whatever whatever decision you make is probably going to

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Speaker 5: Go to think every situation is uniquely different.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but the thing that you guys do really well

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Speaker 4: so I just asked Sarah, knowing that like you just

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Speaker 1: It was just clear to you and that was helpful.

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Speaker 4: But I don't think many partners would be in tune

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Speaker 5: She had fourteen years to deal with it. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 5: actually it was. You're great, don't get wrong. But what

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Speaker 5: First time when we met, my dad was terminal. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think there are people who would actually find that

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Speaker 5: It's definitely not a sense of human Mine would be

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Speaker 1: Your boobies and my boobies cap my croft top. That's

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Speaker 3: Oh that's really lovely, yours would be your lateral thinking,

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Speaker 3: like there will be nine hundred and your laves know

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Speaker 5: And I'm just like, why don't we just do this?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: But no one else, Like there's been so many times

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Speaker 3: Little cheese girls, soft and hardly exploring. No, but that

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Speaker 3: because that's what she called the explorers done that, and

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Speaker 3: in scenarios, crack a funny joke, or you'll you'll be

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Speaker 1: That's like are you fucking joking?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Literally, at your dad's funeral, you were like cracking gags

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Speaker 5: Still telling this really serious eulogy. And my mom's four

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Speaker 3: All I saw your eyeballs go, oh my god, too

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Speaker 5: Like my sister said, you're going to bash.

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Speaker 4: If you watch your video back, like Sarah says it

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Speaker 5: Then everyone laughed, and I was like, yeah that like

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Speaker 3: And when I did first meet your dad, firstly, he

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Speaker 3: was born on April Fools Day. But when I first

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Speaker 3: went to your house in Tazzy, there's a sign that

446
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Speaker 3: says beware of the wife. So I was like, okay,

447
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Speaker 3: everything's making sense. And then the first story he told

448
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Speaker 3: me was how when Irene first got Facebook, she had

449
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Speaker 3: no friends obviously because like she hadn't added anyone yet,

450
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Speaker 3: and so he screenshotted Irene Davidson has zero friends and

451
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Speaker 3: like put it. They lived just the two of them,

452
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Speaker 3: they lived together. So the only other person in the

453
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Speaker 3: house who was going to see this, he printed, Irene

454
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Speaker 3: has no friends, like and put it on the fridge

455
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Speaker 3: and all over the house us and I was like

456
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Speaker 3: and they'd been married like forty seven years and you're

457
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Speaker 3: still doing that.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, it all makes sense.

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Speaker 5: And I had a competition on their vegi. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And then your mum had like those broad beans that

461
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Speaker 1: just over a whole.

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Speaker 5: Bunch of extra beans sabotage.

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Speaker 1: Garden like that thing.

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Speaker 3: You have that too, And I think it's playful and

465
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Speaker 3: like so much fun like life will never.

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Speaker 4: Be is Shane. Shane's brilliant his jokes and they were

467
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Speaker 4: the only two laughing. I was like, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: When when you met Shane, you were like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: it all makes sense.

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Speaker 5: You had two jokes. One was we.

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Speaker 1: Would get canceled.

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Speaker 4: It was like snows coming out of his mouth and

473
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Speaker 4: like it's so funny, but it's so bad.

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Speaker 5: It's my favorite.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, sweet, we lightened the mood. Great, Here you go.

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Speaker 1: How do you guys manage your finances between you?

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Speaker 5: I don't, that's true, Transa, that's question. I'm very very

478
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Speaker 5: very good, always have been at making money.

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Speaker 4: Right, and but but you're actually pretty good at like

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Speaker 4: business budgeting.

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Speaker 5: When it comes to money.

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Speaker 1: Always the figure.

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Speaker 5: I have an extreme ability, even since as a kid

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Speaker 5: of making money.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're very and I.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely even better ability to spend.

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Speaker 1: It, like it's not it's not just you're not like.

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Speaker 3: You just don't monitor the overall budget, like you don't

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Speaker 3: watch the figures as much. So I think in any relationship,

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Speaker 3: you learn what your strengths and weaknesses are. And that's

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Speaker 3: what business was really good for us for because it

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Speaker 3: really quickly showed like what our strengths and what we

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Speaker 3: could learn from each other and what we could teach

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Speaker 3: each other. And very quickly it was like, he's not

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Speaker 3: great finances, so I will.

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Speaker 1: Take home those.

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Speaker 5: When it comes to personal, it comes in and I

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Speaker 5: don't even think about it. I just and also I

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Speaker 5: can't even log in. I didn't have any cash for

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Speaker 5: a long time when I was like yeah, yeah, so

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Speaker 5: I'd know exactly how many cents I had in my

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Speaker 5: bank account when I'd go to buy in the supermarket,

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Speaker 5: so I'd know I had like seventeen dollars forty one

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Speaker 5: and I'd be buying. Well, I know that was my limit.

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Speaker 5: And my goal was go to whenever I go to

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Speaker 5: supermarket and not have to think about how much cash

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Speaker 5: is in my bank account and just be able to

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Speaker 5: buy it and then I just went too far and.

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Speaker 3: I but what's really interesting is for the like management

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Speaker 3: of our money, like saving house deposits, all that kind

511
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Speaker 3: of stuff is more my role. But in the business

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Speaker 3: I had no idea about the figures like working out

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Speaker 3: cost of goods and margins and that kind of finances.

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Speaker 1: I was like, ugh, and you did it all and

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Speaker 1: you still do.

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Speaker 4: There's an extension of that question of more in depth.

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Speaker 4: Do you ever joint account?

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Speaker 5: Was it when you moved in together nine and a

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Speaker 5: half million bank.

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Speaker 1: Accounts and they all joined dollars?

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Speaker 5: I was like, no, it's crazy.

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Speaker 4: And do you do your own thing with money you earn,

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Speaker 4: including share portfolose, investment properties, et cetera. Was there actually

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Speaker 4: buying money goal all the two of you really equally creating?

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Speaker 5: Yes, but not because we're like protective of our own interests.

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Speaker 5: I like, what's mine is Sarah's, what's mine is yours,

527
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Speaker 5: and what's yours is yours.

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Speaker 1: I mean he's learning.

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Speaker 5: No, like we we have joint and shared, but it's

530
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Speaker 5: not because of anything. It's not because of any reason.

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Speaker 5: I dabbling weird ship.

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Speaker 1: That is such an odd thing to say on the record.

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Speaker 3: He does not dabbling in the way creatively created. No,

534
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Speaker 3: like you're more probably risk have big of risk appetites,

535
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Speaker 3: has like crypto and like all that's.

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Speaker 5: Very then there was. I mean, it's also like we

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Speaker 5: both got small ship medium sized share for polios. Yours

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Speaker 5: is very much Sarah Navidson couldn't be more blue chip secure.

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Speaker 5: I recently to share at six dollars forty that's now

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Speaker 5: worth twenty one cents.

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Speaker 1: Whoa amazing. But you also bought and stupidly sold so

542
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Speaker 1: much bitcoin early.

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Speaker 5: Do you remember, Yeah, yeah, of course I remember.

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Speaker 1: You know he's blanked out.

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Speaker 3: But I think we because of business, you get forced

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Speaker 3: to sort out your finances earlier, probably than most couples.

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Speaker 1: So we've had joint accounts for I.

548
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Speaker 5: Think it's healthy to have your own cash.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we've also had separate personal savings, but it's I.

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Speaker 5: Don't it's not a secret account or anything like that.

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Speaker 5: That one's separate.

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Speaker 1: It didn't happen.

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Speaker 3: You have a little bit more time answer as we

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Speaker 3: are both joint and separate, and I think that's healthy,

555
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Speaker 3: it's good. I also don't buy our gifts for each

556
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Speaker 3: other out of the joint It's like we can buy

557
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Speaker 3: presents for each other out of our own.

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Speaker 1: Because like the Valgan millennium whatever, whoa.

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Speaker 5: That right?

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Speaker 1: What's it called? Millennium falcon cloth.

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Speaker 4: I'm so happy about post production anyway. The next question,

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Speaker 4: this is the one who's actually really sweet. Aelready Nick

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Speaker 4: One's posted something along the lines of you don't need

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Speaker 4: to be passionate about what you do for work, as

565
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Speaker 4: long as you have a passion for life. We'd love

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Speaker 4: to hear more about this perspective and how he arrived

567
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Speaker 4: to it and whether he.

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Speaker 1: Expects to live by this forever.

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Speaker 4: In Capital's question mark question, my Christmas exclamation was that from.

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Speaker 3: You, just like, look at my amazing question.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know then that you wrote that question

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Speaker 1: to yourself. One Nick one.

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Speaker 4: Time posted having ripped abs is number one? Tell us

574
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Speaker 4: about that routinees are hard.

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Speaker 1: It's a nice question. It's a beautiful.

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Speaker 5: I learned that in Africa with Pat Hellahan and I

577
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Speaker 5: were talking about it. So he was working as a

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Speaker 5: town planner, but he would spend all his free time

579
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Speaker 5: working for this charity and he was just like he

580
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Speaker 5: was happy doing that at the time. He ended up

581
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Speaker 5: working full time to charity, so ruining his whole quote.

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Speaker 5: But the whole thing was you don't need to people

583
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Speaker 5: that go love what's that quote that's like, if you

584
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 5: love what, you love your job, you life And I'm like, yeah,

585
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 5: but then you end up hating your job because you

586
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Speaker 5: won't love it anymore. A lot of photographers get like this,

587
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:34,200
Speaker 5: and a lot of artists and stuff when they're commissioned

588
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Speaker 5: to draw Fredo frog jumping in a lake when they

589
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 5: all they wanted to do was draw cool shit and

590
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Speaker 5: frog jumping in the lake, jumping in a river. But

591
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Speaker 5: and so that whole thing where they lose the love

592
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Speaker 5: for it, and also like it makes people feel bad

593
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Speaker 5: that how many accountants would exist if you had to

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Speaker 5: live love your job or like stuff like that. You

595
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Speaker 5: don't need to be like the transport officers. Yes, so

596
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Speaker 5: you don't need to love you job. You need to

597
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Speaker 5: find passion in your life. And that passion could be

598
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Speaker 5: rescuing dogs, or it could be cycling, it could be.

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Speaker 1: A hobby or a play.

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Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, a plat No, it's good, it's cute. I

601
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Speaker 5: like it. I like your outlook.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, he's.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, and yes, I plan on living there. I've

604
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Speaker 5: just got to narrow down my passions to one.

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Speaker 1: You have so many you actually do love them all.

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Speaker 5: You just I've got weird ones. Like obviously woodworking is

607
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Speaker 5: quite important, yeah, but then I'm like a ran out

608
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Speaker 5: of things to work on. Then lego, and then there's

609
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Speaker 5: a finite amount of lego a guy can have before

610
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Speaker 5: it becomes super weird. And I've already crossed into the

611
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Speaker 5: weird realm.

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Speaker 1: And it's nothing like you are already there, mate, you

613
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Speaker 1: are already.

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Speaker 5: And then the same as like exercise, you get so jacked. No,

615
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Speaker 5: there's only so much exercise you can do. Right before

616
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Speaker 5: you hear your name.

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Speaker 4: And then you had like but you also when we

618
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Speaker 4: first met you, photography, you like, yeah, I loved cameras, Yeah, but.

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Speaker 1: The building of cameras photography.

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Speaker 5: I've got no shit close to one hundred cameras at home, Like,

621
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Speaker 5: but yeah, and I love photography, but I started to

622
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Speaker 5: hate it because I I did something but work, and

623
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Speaker 5: that's why I don't do any of it.

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Speaker 1: It's really interesting.

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Speaker 3: That conversation with Pat is something I quote all the

626
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Speaker 3: time as well. I reckon that helped me stay at

627
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Speaker 3: the law firm for ages because he was like, if

628
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Speaker 3: you're not one hundred percent passionate in what you do.

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Speaker 3: Just find the passion outside of it, Like you don't

630
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Speaker 3: have to be enamored with every day. But I think

631
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Speaker 3: you also teach me that a lot as well, that

632
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Speaker 3: you can find it. There are days when you're super

633
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Speaker 3: passionate about what you do and there are also months

634
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Speaker 3: where you're not.

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Speaker 5: I hate a lot of my jobs, like I don't

636
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Speaker 5: enjoy a lot of it, but I enjoy what it

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Speaker 5: allows me to do. So it allows me to help

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Speaker 5: a lot of people, and days sometimes I actually quite

639
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Speaker 5: enjoy specific tasks. But it also one it allows me

640
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Speaker 5: to help people and allows me to do things cheap

641
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 5: for people I want to help because I get paid

642
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 5: more from other people, and also allows me to live

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Speaker 5: a life that you know what I mean, Like I

644
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 5: earn enough money to do what I want to do

645
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 5: to an extent and all that type of thing there,

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Speaker 5: And I don't think there's anything to be shamed about

647
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Speaker 5: by doing it. Not loving your job.

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Speaker 1: Nice. That is very nice.

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00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 5: You're so smart sometimes sometimes.

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Speaker 4: One time, first time anyway today today, do you know

651
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Speaker 4: your attachment styles?

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Speaker 3: Oh, belcro what what does that mean?

653
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Speaker 1: Oh? So there are attachment styles.

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Speaker 4: It's a cycling there's like, yeah, yeah, there's also a

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Speaker 4: book that it's like the four main one, secure, avoidant, disorganized,

656
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Speaker 4: and anxious.

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Speaker 1: I actually don't know them in depth. Can we ccco

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Speaker 1: back to that question because I want to read that actually.

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Speaker 4: Is a really good one to know. While you're looking

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Speaker 4: at that, I'll do another one. Then I'll doing easy ones.

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Speaker 4: You to have to think about it too deeply. Favorite

662
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Speaker 4: place to go together, oh.

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Speaker 5: In separate directions.

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Speaker 1: Don't understand your favorite place to go?

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Speaker 5: Look, the supermarket used to be office work. Yeah, whenever

666
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Speaker 5: she was sad. Whenever she was sad, we'd go to

667
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 5: the supermarket, supermarket or twenty four hour came.

668
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 4: We did that once, did that much that one time

669
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 4: we were both sat, let's let's go to the grocery store.

670
00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 3: We were like, yay, it's the little Yeah, yeah, it's true,

671
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 3: it's true.

672
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 1: I reckon.

673
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 3: One of our favorite places is Alexandra, which is, as

674
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:57,239
Speaker 3: you guys know, where my mom grew up and we

675
00:33:57,280 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 3: still have the house that she grew up in, which

676
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 3: is really well designed and like exactly how it looked

677
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 3: in the fifties. It's our happy place. I think we

678
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:13,320
Speaker 3: go with Paul. Paul loves it his favorite place, puppy

679
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,760
Speaker 3: and we go every east and we've been going every since.

680
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:18,680
Speaker 5: I was born. The last time, one of the last

681
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:22,399
Speaker 5: times were there and there's a massive thunderstorm on. Oh

682
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:25,319
Speaker 5: my god, a huge thunderstorm and that power was off

683
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 5: and everything, and Paul was freaked down. He's jumped on

684
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:29,839
Speaker 5: top of the bed. As he's jumped on the bed,

685
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 5: thunder's gone off and the bed broke.

686
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 1: He was just like.

687
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 5: And he's just looked at me in the eyes and

688
00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 5: he's just going get the we're going on.

689
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 1: Definitely not his voice.

690
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:58,399
Speaker 3: We also love going to Tazzy together. Brunie has become

691
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 3: a new like that's a brand new place to go

692
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:04,319
Speaker 3: since your sister and then you play there, but that's

693
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:08,280
Speaker 3: a new happy place, I think. And then overseas, where's

694
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:08,800
Speaker 3: our favorite.

695
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 5: We love Italy traveling together stops a happy place I

696
00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:18,879
Speaker 5: think when it's special, when it's not work related. Yeah, okay, yeah,

697
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:20,799
Speaker 5: but Alexandra, I.

698
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 4: Guess next question is something that sounds like Nick's asked,

699
00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 4: have you guys ever tried tasting each other's snot?

700
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:30,840
Speaker 5: It's really.

701
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 1: Funny that it's a relevant question because.

702
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:37,879
Speaker 5: I tried again.

703
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 1: We have many snot stories.

704
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 3: So the same way that and is closely associated with

705
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:52,320
Speaker 3: barts Nick is associated with flicking snot at people.

706
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 5: It's true in people, not just random peoples.

707
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:04,280
Speaker 3: It has been a random before you have flinched on randoms.

708
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:08,880
Speaker 3: So he flipped it once in the car, just like,

709
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 3: not really in any direction, just like I was in

710
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 3: the car and he turned around and it was four

711
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 3: my lit it was on my lip. I was, it's

712
00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:27,440
Speaker 3: not a toilet, so yes, I have accidentally tasted side.

713
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:32,359
Speaker 1: He has not tasted mine. Oh that's when.

714
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 5: She couldn't taste her because it was all the wall.

715
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 3: So I also did the thing where I used to

716
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:41,400
Speaker 3: pick my nose and put it behind the bed frame,

717
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 3: thinking that somehow I thought it would just disappear or like,

718
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 3: I don't know, disintegrate.

719
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 1: And then we moved the bed.

720
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:47,400
Speaker 3: To replace it with a new bed, and that it

721
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 3: was like this, like of my not.

722
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:53,120
Speaker 5: Texture that, And she was just like she has two

723
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:55,239
Speaker 5: things she was unaware of back then. She don't aware that.

724
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:57,240
Speaker 5: I didn't notice when she burned and just went.

725
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,160
Speaker 1: You still do you still do that?

726
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 5: I would have noticed you, but if you didn't go

727
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 5: you're trying to clear a snorkel.

728
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 1: You still I don't wanted to go in your direction.

729
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 5: Definitely blue cans levels then by blowing them.

730
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:15,760
Speaker 1: And blows.

731
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 4: I remember the first time I got a book, a

732
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 4: book a snot you were like, you've made it literally.

733
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:27,919
Speaker 1: To have a circle of trust. Okay, next question, how

734
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:31,240
Speaker 1: do you keep your sex life spicy after all these years?

735
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 1: I've been with my planner for.

736
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 4: Fourteen years and we've done a lot of experimentation, but

737
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 4: it's definitely an effort.

738
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:38,840
Speaker 5: Now, how do we keep it spicy?

739
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 1: Tom Young, that's my tygering Curry, Like you just just

740
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:46,720
Speaker 1: hold it, Tiger and Curry.

741
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 5: That's not spicy. Though my mom listens to this.

742
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:57,960
Speaker 1: Your Sarah's Sarah's moms never listened to it.

743
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:01,359
Speaker 5: CC not only not listened to she's the other day

744
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 5: she comes in and goes, listen to this podcast. You

745
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 5: just okay.

746
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:10,880
Speaker 1: So how do you keep your sex life spicy?

747
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:15,799
Speaker 3: I think because we travel a lot. Hotels, yeah, hotels, Yeah,

748
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:18,879
Speaker 3: We're often in a new environment. It's hard when you're

749
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:20,839
Speaker 3: like in the same house, in the same bedroom, and

750
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 3: like for ages, we also worked in our bedroom which

751
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 3: was not dogs just like won't get out.

752
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:30,759
Speaker 5: So you have to consciously different. That wasn't me.

753
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 3: But you have to consciously be like come on, buddy,

754
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 3: and like get him out and like put some and

755
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:46,839
Speaker 3: then much. No, I think it COVID was really hard

756
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 3: because we were at home all the time. It was

757
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:51,880
Speaker 3: not a sexy time. But generally I think the proven.

758
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:53,959
Speaker 5: When we're in Alexandra, it's not a sexy time because

759
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:55,760
Speaker 5: Sarah showers once a week.

760
00:38:58,640 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 1: To Joe.

761
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:02,360
Speaker 3: But I think, yeah, the fact that we get to

762
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 3: change environments and have little date nights and little date

763
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 3: adventures really help. So even if you don't do that

764
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,840
Speaker 3: for work, I think if you can book a little

765
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 3: troop even at night, like do a stay ca and

766
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:16,400
Speaker 3: go out for dinner and have I think you do

767
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:18,839
Speaker 3: have to after fourteen years, you definitely have to make

768
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 3: an effort towards romance.

769
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:23,720
Speaker 5: It's not it needs to be an effort when it comes.

770
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:27,240
Speaker 5: It just needs to be you need see to find

771
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 5: that thing. Yeah, it kind of works, but yeah, on.

772
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 4: The back of that, then what strategies do you put

773
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 4: in place to keep that desire and attraction going. Do

774
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:37,279
Speaker 4: you think being apart from each other has helped keep

775
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:38,360
Speaker 4: that desire alive?

776
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 5: Certainly makes me like you more.

777
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 1: But I promise they love each other very much.

778
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 6: I know if people don't understand, we would message each

779
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 6: other consistently for fourteen years at least once every two hours. Yeah,

780
00:39:56,360 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 6: it is good that we have really independent lives as well.

781
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:04,360
Speaker 6: So I definitely find that because we get to travel separately,

782
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:07,720
Speaker 6: you do kind of you get to feel the feeling

783
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 6: of missing someone, and if you don't have that, I

784
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:10,280
Speaker 6: guess it's.

785
00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:12,319
Speaker 5: Hard to kind of created grop on.

786
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it does because we do have streategy.

787
00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:17,280
Speaker 5: The other thing that helps so is we both travel,

788
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:19,759
Speaker 5: so we both get it, you know what I mean.

789
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:21,799
Speaker 5: It was just like I remember during COVID, I did

790
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:25,440
Speaker 5: go to Tazzy a bunch of times and I quarantine

791
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 5: and stuff, and Sarah was lot in lockdown and she's like,

792
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 5: fall salty.

793
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 3: Because you're in a hotel and he's like yeah, in

794
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:35,720
Speaker 3: quarantine and I'm like yeah, but it's still a hotel

795
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 3: home and he's like yeah, I am like locked I'm

796
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 3: like okay, but you're like on a fak.

797
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 5: Just imagine people that like go for work and the

798
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:48,799
Speaker 5: other person doesn't travel work, then like that absence might

799
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 5: make you a bit saltier. But I think I think

800
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:55,319
Speaker 5: that does help, but I still probably prefer to be

801
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:56,920
Speaker 5: with you.

802
00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:00,200
Speaker 3: But I think the fact that we have our own like,

803
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 3: I think what keeps us really attracted to each other

804
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:05,800
Speaker 3: is also that we're proud of each other's separate things,

805
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 3: Like our identity isn't even when we're working on the

806
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,799
Speaker 3: same business, we still had other like different roles and

807
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 3: different things going on, and there's a sense of like,

808
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 3: when you're not so I meshed, that you're just one

809
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:20,640
Speaker 3: unit all the time, it's hard to be attracted to

810
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 3: the other person because you're so like, do you know

811
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 3: what I mean, your identity is a blurred Whereas when

812
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:27,800
Speaker 3: I get to watch him do his work or watch

813
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 3: him like flourish and something that's really.

814
00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 1: Attractive because it's like, oh, look over there.

815
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:34,440
Speaker 3: Like it's good to not be intimately in every detail

816
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 3: of each other's lives because then you can admire from

817
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 3: afar and kind of be like, oh, cute, cute.

818
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:45,720
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm just gonna stop it there.

819
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:47,240
Speaker 1: Till you agree.

820
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:55,320
Speaker 3: The fact also caps backwards helps spice caps forwards.

821
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 4: No kind of exact thing you that cap backward and

822
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:00,080
Speaker 4: Nicky's in the backyard doing his would.

823
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:02,879
Speaker 1: Oh my god, he's a chainsaw and the.

824
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 4: Top is off and he's getting sunburned on his back

825
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:07,400
Speaker 4: the other day.

826
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:09,759
Speaker 5: But when you forgot to flip a steak.

827
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:11,680
Speaker 1: That's what you looked like.

828
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:15,239
Speaker 4: Okay on the okay, I want to extend this. Well,

829
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:17,360
Speaker 4: we're building up and we're hyping Nick up. This is

830
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:19,760
Speaker 4: so great and I hope Nickton said it to himself.

831
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 4: Nick Davidson is so hot.

832
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:25,280
Speaker 5: Sarah calm.

833
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 1: Sarah is a lucky gal.

834
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:30,400
Speaker 4: What are his top three tips around eating to maintain

835
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 4: a ripped lean physique? Thanks from your favorite listener, You

836
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 4: ladies are killing it.

837
00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 1: That's not calm, that's Nick for sure.

838
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:41,759
Speaker 5: You ladies. I wouldn't be sounding and I wouldn't be

839
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:42,920
Speaker 5: giving diet advice.

840
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, Nick doesn't that when you break it down.

841
00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 5: I tracked my calories for the first time in my

842
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 5: life recently because Danny Kennedy asked me to, and that

843
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 5: was quite interesting. But what was it that my diet

844
00:42:59,640 --> 00:42:59,840
Speaker 5: was her?

845
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 4: Yeah? The top three tips around eating to maintain a

846
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 4: ripped lean physique.

847
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 1: You just forget to eat meals, isn't it? But then

848
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:07,920
Speaker 1: gorgeous night.

849
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 4: Genuinely, he's not purposely, he just forgets meals, and so

850
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 4: I was like, it's lunchtime.

851
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 1: You're like, oh, that's right, and then he'll be like,

852
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:17,239
Speaker 1: I haven't eaten it's breakfast. I'm my god at seven pm,

853
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: and I'm like, who are Yeah, just like you just

854
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 1: genuinely forget. I think a lot of it is you

855
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 1: train regularly. That's a big part.

856
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, I'm also not going to lie that it's

857
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 5: there's a lot of people that train the same matter

858
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 5: as me and eat similar to me, and they would

859
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 5: be morbidly obese because I eat some crap sometimes. But

860
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 5: having said that, I drink a lot of water and milk.

861
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 5: I drink a lot of a lot of protein. Yeah. Yeah,

862
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:45,760
Speaker 5: I drink a lot of a lot of water. I

863
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 5: enjoy eating shit food as well. No, no, but like,

864
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:51,319
Speaker 5: but I don't eat chip food all the time. Like

865
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 5: it's not like I ate an entire pack of barbecue

866
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 5: shapes last night, but without breathing once.

867
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 1: I wish this like false, it's also.

868
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:03,959
Speaker 5: True, literally, like cooking months to start.

869
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:07,359
Speaker 1: Like, but you don't even look at it. You're just like.

870
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 5: It's weird.

871
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:12,080
Speaker 1: Like I've seen like you know when he eats and

872
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 1: he's just.

873
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:16,360
Speaker 5: Like I find that my body knows what it wants,

874
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:18,239
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. So some days I'm just like,

875
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 5: why do I just want lollies? And I eat lollies.

876
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 3: I think for the like average listener, you have a

877
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 3: lot of muscle memory from being an athlete your whole life,

878
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:34,279
Speaker 3: and a very good metabolism. But you also don't eat,

879
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:35,680
Speaker 3: like really badly.

880
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 5: I don't drink, and you.

881
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 1: Don't drink a lot and you train regularly.

882
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 5: Like I don't sit there every night and have a

883
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:43,240
Speaker 5: couple of beers or something like that, and I'll.

884
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:46,440
Speaker 1: Drink like once a quarter or something.

885
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:49,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe a little bit more. But like and we binge.

886
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 3: We're not regular drinkers. We just binge once every now

887
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:53,520
Speaker 3: and then.

888
00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:57,719
Speaker 4: Okay, next question, you guys would love this. What's the trashiest,

889
00:44:57,760 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 4: lowboil content that you watch together?

890
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:03,959
Speaker 5: Sorry, there's a lot.

891
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:08,840
Speaker 3: When we keep our relationship alive, we do joint activities

892
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 3: that make us happy.

893
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 5: We have set for a year pretty much because every

894
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 5: night would watch Lauren order s for you when we

895
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 5: went to bed and I was just.

896
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:21,479
Speaker 3: No, or We've got these like five pages that will

897
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 3: just go on for like two hours, Like okay, we're

898
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:25,160
Speaker 3: going to bed early and it's like ten thirty and

899
00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 3: then at three am we're still watching me.

900
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 4: Yeah you know you you watch compilation of TikTok videos

901
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 4: on YouTube.

902
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:33,239
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, because that's when it's on the big TV.

903
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 3: But we start with fever. We start with the getting hurt.

904
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:42,799
Speaker 3: We love girls getting hurt.

905
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 4: We love dogs, dogs shows love Oh yeah, Labrador Dance labyrind.

906
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:48,160
Speaker 1: Or Dance compilation.

907
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,839
Speaker 5: Crufts Crufts.

908
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 1: And you made me watch Crusts.

909
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 5: What are talking about? The best thing is? The best

910
00:45:56,960 --> 00:46:00,959
Speaker 5: Crufts is you've got like the dog like the dog

911
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 5: like obedience thing, right, you don't see it. You're like

912
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 5: all these different breeds doing it. Don't see a goldie.

913
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 5: It all like that's weird, no golden. And then you

914
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 5: go crust cold and trieve it the cross Golden retriever

915
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 5: it and then it is.

916
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 1: Only gold.

917
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 5: The twenty of them like being led by their leads

918
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:24,120
Speaker 5: around in this thing and then it's but it's the

919
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 5: the dad and I just let go the lead and

920
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 5: the dogs in there.

921
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:35,399
Speaker 3: Go you a diagonal and it's like, oh the jag.

922
00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:38,319
Speaker 3: The goldies are all looking different, the crowd and then.

923
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:42,879
Speaker 5: The owners are actually it's around.

924
00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:45,319
Speaker 3: So we have a lot of trashy shows that we

925
00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 3: like to watch, but we're not reality people, so we're

926
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:51,400
Speaker 3: more like Brooklyn ninet nine. We've watched every episode of

927
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:53,880
Speaker 3: Friends a thousand times. Same with Seinfeld, same with like

928
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:54,760
Speaker 3: Big Bang.

929
00:46:55,320 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 5: We once went from the first episode of Jack yeah

930
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:04,759
Speaker 5: with hum and rap and then into it because it

931
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:08,200
Speaker 5: has been off it all the way through like recently.

932
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:11,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, but the trashiest is like the vines.

933
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:13,320
Speaker 3: We just get on a meme roll and then we'll

934
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 3: just watch people falling over or the fart bomb, you know,

935
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:18,400
Speaker 3: the glitter bomb.

936
00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 5: But he's super smart, yeah, Marks, Yeah, he is so.

937
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:27,879
Speaker 3: But we get on tangents and also we also get

938
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 3: on tangents like anything animal that will watch pandas falling

939
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:32,360
Speaker 3: for like days, Oh.

940
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 5: What's the UK? Graham Norton, we get on.

941
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 1: And then bloopers. We'll watch anchormand Bluebers.

942
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, Riggs blueps are amazing because he just laughs like it.

943
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:47,800
Speaker 1: I really high brown content.

944
00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:49,799
Speaker 4: Only know that I knew that you're going to love

945
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,280
Speaker 4: that question because every time I come over, I sleep,

946
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 4: What is this? What I'm like, Okay, I'm going to

947
00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:56,839
Speaker 4: sleep and where are you leaving? The video is not

948
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 4: done it's like seventeen minutes. I'm like, oh, sit back

949
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 4: back on the it and.

950
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:03,439
Speaker 1: It's just memes the British British things. And you watched

951
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 1: it before, like it's like a third time. You're like,

952
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 1: this part's fine, the next one's coming out.

953
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:14,319
Speaker 4: What's some next question is actually this is a nice

954
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 4: This is just a compliment, no real question. You are

955
00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:19,359
Speaker 4: both such beautiful people, and I hope you get to

956
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:20,840
Speaker 4: have the life you dream of.

957
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:24,200
Speaker 1: So nice, I'm nick demply put that.

958
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:26,520
Speaker 4: In what is an experience you've had together you would

959
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 4: recommend everyone try?

960
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:34,400
Speaker 5: It's such an inappropriate it's really going to rain himself in.

961
00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 1: Don't know, Dora needs to go away.

962
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 4: Oh quick answer, we hate you.

963
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:47,400
Speaker 3: I feel like, very very we have done some awesome

964
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 3: things together, like we we will never in our life

965
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 3: look back and be able to say we didn't take

966
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:57,319
Speaker 3: every opportunity to adventure and try new things and go

967
00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 3: into business together and go to wild places and go

968
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 3: normal places. Like We've had some incredible adventures, but it's

969
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:07,120
Speaker 3: so hard to pick just one. Like I would say,

970
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:08,799
Speaker 3: go into business with your partner, but I feel like

971
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:13,839
Speaker 3: some couples would not survive. One's the best thing ever

972
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:16,440
Speaker 3: and then also the hardest thing ever Egypt. But if

973
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:19,000
Speaker 3: you're not an super adventurous couple like that might be

974
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 3: really out of your comfort zone.

975
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:25,839
Speaker 4: E What is an experience you've had together you would

976
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 4: recommend everyone try.

977
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:32,000
Speaker 5: I think what we didn't doesn't have to be in Italy.

978
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:33,319
Speaker 5: That thing we did oh.

979
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:35,480
Speaker 1: Ye yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, where you.

980
00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 5: Literally just pack your car up and just drive and

981
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:43,800
Speaker 5: find a spot to stay as you go, unplanned completely obviously,

982
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 5: you start and finish as planned. I think that is

983
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:49,400
Speaker 5: a brilliant way to just That was one of my

984
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:58,400
Speaker 5: first enjoy company over control. Freaky like you are you were.

985
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:02,720
Speaker 5: So the story was Sarah Finish Uni and we planned

986
00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:05,799
Speaker 5: quite a long trip and I said, look, I'll organize Italy.

987
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:07,680
Speaker 5: I used to live there and I'll do that. So

988
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 5: we get to Rome, spend two nights in Rome.

989
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:12,160
Speaker 3: And then wait, first we went to the Middle East,

990
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 3: and I planned like three minutes, which is kind of

991
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 3: necessary there, but like.

992
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 5: I had a schedule.

993
00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:19,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like, okay, you've got three minutes to

994
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 3: pooh and then we're going to.

995
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 1: Get on the bus.

996
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 5: Don't bring up pooing. Maybe anyway, So we got to Italy,

997
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:32,239
Speaker 5: and she's like, where are we staying night? And I

998
00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 5: booked two nights in Rome and then gone, we'll pick

999
00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:36,359
Speaker 5: up our higher car. We hot in the higher car

1000
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:38,680
Speaker 5: and then she goes, where are we going now? I'm like,

1001
00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 5: I don't know what.

1002
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 1: I lost it. I was like, you mean, we don't

1003
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 1: have the winnest.

1004
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:47,640
Speaker 5: Booked out of Sicily in a week, and we've got

1005
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 5: to get there, so we'll drive and see what we did.

1006
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:51,360
Speaker 5: And it was great. It was the best.

1007
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:53,960
Speaker 1: That's my favorite. It was the best. Yeah, it was

1008
00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:58,600
Speaker 1: so good. Okay, when he's a baby spoon nicky boy arriving,

1009
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:01,400
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's so cute.

1010
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:04,040
Speaker 3: So we've talked about this quite a few times on

1011
00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 3: the show that we were not not trying last year.

1012
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:09,480
Speaker 3: That was our first year of like, okay, we're not

1013
00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 3: not trying. We thought COVID was just a weird time

1014
00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:14,160
Speaker 3: for hospitals and everything, so we kind of weren't trying then.

1015
00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 3: But I came up the pill early last year, and

1016
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:19,880
Speaker 3: then because we were not in the same place, and

1017
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 3: then I had Antarctica when everything.

1018
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:28,280
Speaker 5: When I was mailing to Sarah, sorry, it was funny

1019
00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:28,840
Speaker 5: as hell.

1020
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:36,080
Speaker 1: And we were like, oh, understand. I was like, what

1021
00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:36,560
Speaker 1: do you mean?

1022
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:39,759
Speaker 3: But we weren't in the same place when I was

1023
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 3: ovulating more than once, so we were not Everyone's like, that's.

1024
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 1: Not really trying that. I was like, Nah, we weren't really.

1025
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:48,480
Speaker 1: We weren't really like on the clock having sex. Yeah

1026
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:50,760
Speaker 1: we were trying, Yeah, but like in all weird times,

1027
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 1: so not sure on the clock.

1028
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 3: Like we weren't doing the timing, like you know when

1029
00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 3: you're literally when you're younger, girls think they can sit

1030
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:01,920
Speaker 3: on the same time as a boy and get pregnant anytime, Like.

1031
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:02,680
Speaker 5: It's so easy.

1032
00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:07,360
Speaker 1: You can't. No, as a young like as a young.

1033
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 3: No, at school they ski so much and then you

1034
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 3: realize it's actually only like you have one chance cycle

1035
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:19,520
Speaker 3: which is twelve maximum, you know what I mean, Like,

1036
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:23,200
Speaker 3: it's not as easy. There are very clear timelines. So

1037
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 3: this year we are making more of an effort to

1038
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:29,240
Speaker 3: plan because we travel so much for work to plan

1039
00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:33,239
Speaker 3: better to Yeah, make a bigger effort, I would say,

1040
00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:35,360
Speaker 3: which is really exciting.

1041
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:39,839
Speaker 4: Next question for Nick, Nick, how did you know Sarah

1042
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:43,880
Speaker 4: was the one question mark X Did you put that in?

1043
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:44,680
Speaker 5: No?

1044
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 1: I would make.

1045
00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:54,919
Speaker 5: Wars answer, I don't know. It was pretty early. It's

1046
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 5: like probably doing our stupid conversations about like acrostic poems

1047
00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 5: and ship about random stupid things and Facebook Messenger.

1048
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, Nick did the two thousand and nine version of

1049
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:07,520
Speaker 3: sliding into my DMS.

1050
00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:10,880
Speaker 5: I still dispute the record on I reckon you just

1051
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 5: you slid into mine?

1052
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 1: Okay, But I didn't say, by the way, I've just

1053
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:23,920
Speaker 1: changed my room from so even if I can't even.

1054
00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:30,440
Speaker 3: So, I said, even if it was me, right, I

1055
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:32,880
Speaker 3: was just chilling right, like I was like, oh cute,

1056
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 3: Like we kind of knew of each other. We've been

1057
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 3: out before a couple of times, but we'd never really connected.

1058
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:41,759
Speaker 1: And I said, whoever initiated it? I asked like, what

1059
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:43,560
Speaker 1: are you up to? Like what have you been doing this week?

1060
00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:45,520
Speaker 5: And he goes, I think there's a winky face.

1061
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 3: I've just been moving my room around from a room

1062
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:52,360
Speaker 3: for two people to a room.

1063
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 1: For one person.

1064
00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 3: And I was like, as in, like, obviously I just

1065
00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:00,520
Speaker 3: had brought he'd just broken up with his what's up?

1066
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:05,399
Speaker 1: But I was like, I was like, who says that,

1067
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:08,320
Speaker 1: you know? What's finished? Moving my room around in the

1068
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 1: room but two people one person? And then I was like, Okay,

1069
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:17,399
Speaker 1: I'm coming. I went to his house, Like true, that's true,

1070
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:19,879
Speaker 1: and you tell me that you turned up.

1071
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 3: Oh god, but then you pretty much proposed like two

1072
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:24,120
Speaker 3: days later.

1073
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:28,799
Speaker 4: You know what's up? Okay, your next question, this is

1074
00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:32,320
Speaker 4: obviously talking about me. Do you have any couple of

1075
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:36,200
Speaker 4: friends who aren't ridiculously good looking? Or are they all influences?

1076
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 4: Real question, and it's about me.

1077
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:46,400
Speaker 5: I'm so really unattractive.

1078
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:52,399
Speaker 1: It's so weird. Once you like people, I don't even

1079
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:53,320
Speaker 1: know if people.

1080
00:54:53,640 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 5: Or not like ridiculously. It's awful.

1081
00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 3: I mean, obviously we have a lot of friends who

1082
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:06,440
Speaker 3: are in the same industry, yes, but we also have

1083
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:09,040
Speaker 3: so many I mean at our wedding you can see

1084
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:12,839
Speaker 3: they were actually all disgusting. They were found they were

1085
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:15,000
Speaker 3: all not in the industry. Like so many of our

1086
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 3: friends have no idea, they're just like so like.

1087
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 1: And I'll keep us.

1088
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:24,399
Speaker 5: Whenever I post something influency on Instagram, I know I'm

1089
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 5: going to get so much stick for it.

1090
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 1: We do have.

1091
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:31,960
Speaker 5: I get said, I'll get send the photo the sins

1092
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:35,600
Speaker 5: on my insights. My mates send them to us with

1093
00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:37,400
Speaker 5: alternate captions.

1094
00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:43,120
Speaker 1: Or like photoshopped. We have very beautiful friends. We're very lucky.

1095
00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:44,440
Speaker 1: I don't know, that's such a weird thing.

1096
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 3: But yes, I think all our friends are beautiful, but

1097
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:49,399
Speaker 3: not all of them are in the industry. In fact,

1098
00:55:49,440 --> 00:55:51,840
Speaker 3: most of them, like we're all still we're friends with

1099
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 3: our school friends, we're friends with like I still have

1100
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:55,840
Speaker 3: lots of work.

1101
00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 1: Friends, Korean club, my Kareem club, my friends were adopted with.

1102
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 5: Two of my groomsmen were from when I was living

1103
00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:07,720
Speaker 5: in England, like well before, yeah, all of my before

1104
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 5: Instagram and Facebook nineteen thirty.

1105
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:14,640
Speaker 1: Yeah one, Yeah, that's really cute that you think our

1106
00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:15,560
Speaker 1: friends are really beautiful.

1107
00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 4: Oh god, Okay, a few more questions and then that's

1108
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:26,600
Speaker 4: pretty much it. But how is it for unique? When

1109
00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:29,239
Speaker 4: Sarah was away in Antarctica and off grid.

1110
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:32,919
Speaker 5: It was actually really difficult, Like I just the main

1111
00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:35,480
Speaker 5: reason is Sarah would do this thing where instead of

1112
00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:37,839
Speaker 5: just going, okay, we're going to go down it's really

1113
00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:42,680
Speaker 5: rough weather, I'm feeling so sick, but am I is

1114
00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 5: she alive or what? So that part was stressful because

1115
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, because Sarah's Sarah. I wasn't worried about

1116
00:56:52,600 --> 00:56:56,120
Speaker 5: her safety. I was worried about her happiness on it

1117
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:59,440
Speaker 5: because she's very she hates being sick, Like I'm like,

1118
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:03,560
Speaker 5: she's got she's like Jerry Seinfeld and then whole she's

1119
00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:05,320
Speaker 5: phobic vomiting.

1120
00:57:05,600 --> 00:57:07,880
Speaker 3: It's called a metaphobia. I found out recently. I was like,

1121
00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:09,560
Speaker 3: it's a thing and it's common. I was like, I

1122
00:57:09,640 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 3: found my people. I'm actually you know, I'm like so

1123
00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:14,719
Speaker 3: scared of it. And I had food poisoning when I

1124
00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:15,759
Speaker 3: got on the boat.

1125
00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 5: That it was difficult and not being able to be

1126
00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:22,080
Speaker 5: and also because we messaged so much just about like

1127
00:57:22,280 --> 00:57:25,400
Speaker 5: random things, it was kind of yeah, but it was

1128
00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 5: kind of weird to like have like no contact. But

1129
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:31,920
Speaker 5: the second time when so she went across and then

1130
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:33,560
Speaker 5: I heard from her for a bit, and then when

1131
00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:35,360
Speaker 5: she was in Drake Spasty and I didn't hear from her.

1132
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:38,240
Speaker 5: But that time on KNW she was fine, So it

1133
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 5: was much easier. It's just when I knew that she

1134
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 5: wasn't fine, it was easy. I mean, I'm secure enough

1135
00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 5: in my relationship to be out of contact. I'm sorry, sorry,

1136
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:53,080
Speaker 5: is Pingu.

1137
00:57:56,200 --> 00:57:59,200
Speaker 3: I found it really hard just because we've had this

1138
00:57:59,200 --> 00:58:01,080
Speaker 3: thing and you've talked about this a lot. If Nick

1139
00:58:01,200 --> 00:58:02,840
Speaker 3: is there, and we've had this quite a few times.

1140
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:06,240
Speaker 3: When I got in really extreme situations out of my

1141
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 3: comfort zone that are real growth opportunity. Is if he's there,

1142
00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 3: I don't do it. I'm like, oh, I've got my

1143
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 3: you know, security blanket, I've got my safe space, like

1144
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:16,040
Speaker 3: I won't do it. But when we're in India one

1145
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:18,760
Speaker 3: day we had this crazy hike that was I'd never

1146
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:21,320
Speaker 3: really hiked before. I was by myself for like hours

1147
00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:23,120
Speaker 3: in the middle of the Himalayas with these walking sticks.

1148
00:58:23,120 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 3: I didn't know how to use them. And he had

1149
00:58:25,680 --> 00:58:28,600
Speaker 3: food poisoning ironically that day and couldn't come. And because

1150
00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:30,560
Speaker 3: when he's not there, I'm fine, I'm like, I don't

1151
00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:32,440
Speaker 3: have the choice. I have to like suck it up

1152
00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:34,880
Speaker 3: and do this thing and like get over the fear.

1153
00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:37,240
Speaker 3: And I'm totally fine when he's there and I lose it.

1154
00:58:37,280 --> 00:58:40,520
Speaker 3: So sometimes he's on purpose like go to it yourself,

1155
00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 3: like you'll be fine. But with this I think it

1156
00:58:42,760 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 3: was like he knew I would be fine as soon.

1157
00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:47,480
Speaker 5: As I couldn't talk to me so much because I

1158
00:58:47,520 --> 00:58:49,680
Speaker 5: know way more to this story about what happened on

1159
00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:50,560
Speaker 5: that hike that can.

1160
00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:54,600
Speaker 1: Never go to you can say it halfway through.

1161
00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:59,680
Speaker 3: I've been really constipated from the Indian food. And I

1162
00:58:59,840 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 3: was like by myself in the middle of nowhere, and

1163
00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:06,360
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I really need to pooh, and

1164
00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:11,600
Speaker 3: there were no ches anywhere. And then I found some

1165
00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 3: sheirpers and they were like, you can go there, and

1166
00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 3: I went behind this tent and then I turned around

1167
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:17,800
Speaker 3: and like there were eight thousand cows just watching me

1168
00:59:18,200 --> 00:59:21,520
Speaker 3: and they me and I was at that point I

1169
00:59:21,560 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 3: was just like crying, and I was like.

1170
00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:24,080
Speaker 5: I just go.

1171
00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:28,400
Speaker 1: And then I had to hide all the way back.

1172
00:59:29,160 --> 00:59:31,440
Speaker 3: And the minute Nick opened the door, He's like, are

1173
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:33,320
Speaker 3: you cares?

1174
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:35,080
Speaker 1: But all day I was fine.

1175
00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:37,680
Speaker 5: The funny thing about it was the reason I got

1176
00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:41,200
Speaker 5: sick was I was at this temple up in like

1177
00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:47,920
Speaker 5: up Archie was anyway, it's some random place in monastery,

1178
00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 5: and I grabbed a april clot up the tree. Monk

1179
00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:54,240
Speaker 5: came up and goes, oh, no, I'll grab it, and

1180
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:56,680
Speaker 5: he just washed it that me and my friend and

1181
00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 5: he just washed it in this dirty bucket of water,

1182
00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:03,000
Speaker 5: and I'm like, because would be fine off the tree anyway,

1183
01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:04,320
Speaker 5: So I've just rubbed it on my jump. It took

1184
01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:05,600
Speaker 5: a little bite and then was looking through it out

1185
01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 5: my shoulder. Yeah, I was sick, but when she went

1186
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:12,640
Speaker 5: on this hike, I really want to go. And by

1187
01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 5: the way, we all me and Jim suddenly felt better

1188
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:19,320
Speaker 5: and we were just sipping lattes and like just sitting sitting,

1189
01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:20,480
Speaker 5: just enjoying.

1190
01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:27,600
Speaker 3: The But like we said before, with that whole you know,

1191
01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 3: how do you keep a good relationship that being out

1192
01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:33,120
Speaker 3: of my comfort zone and an experience that was totally

1193
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:35,760
Speaker 3: by myself, I actually had to remember who I was

1194
01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:38,760
Speaker 3: when I can't validate my feelings or ventilate them with

1195
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 3: Nick and out of all of those daily habits and stuff.

1196
01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:44,880
Speaker 3: It was really interesting to see, like who you are.

1197
01:00:44,880 --> 01:00:47,240
Speaker 5: When you and I'm super internal and like I mean

1198
01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:49,040
Speaker 5: like I don't think you've being with me or you're

1199
01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:51,720
Speaker 5: not being with me. It doesn't like it doesn't you

1200
01:00:51,760 --> 01:00:53,040
Speaker 5: know what I mean, A.

1201
01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:57,520
Speaker 3: Big external like bouncer off of emotions, whereas I'm like

1202
01:00:58,280 --> 01:01:01,080
Speaker 3: I can't validate I don't feel like I fully felt

1203
01:01:01,120 --> 01:01:04,480
Speaker 3: something until I've shared it, which is yeah, sometimes you're

1204
01:01:04,520 --> 01:01:05,920
Speaker 3: like shut up at three am.

1205
01:01:06,120 --> 01:01:08,280
Speaker 5: Oh cool, it's.

1206
01:01:08,160 --> 01:01:09,280
Speaker 1: My favorite thinking time.

1207
01:01:10,960 --> 01:01:13,720
Speaker 4: Tell us about how love language rock to your world

1208
01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:17,160
Speaker 4: when you learned about them from Chi my cousin oh

1209
01:01:17,320 --> 01:01:20,760
Speaker 4: Chee literally wrote, she goes, is this legit anonymous cheat

1210
01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:21,280
Speaker 4: your cousin?

1211
01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:26,280
Speaker 1: Tell us about this cheat your cousin? I love che Yeah.

1212
01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:31,160
Speaker 3: It definitely made our relationship and communication. And I think

1213
01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:33,080
Speaker 3: I learned about the love languages around the time we

1214
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:37,440
Speaker 3: went into business and realized that Nick's love language for

1215
01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:40,400
Speaker 3: me is if I have a problem, it's immediately helping

1216
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:41,000
Speaker 3: me solve it.

1217
01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:43,640
Speaker 1: But I was like, I would tell.

1218
01:01:43,520 --> 01:01:45,200
Speaker 3: It, pitch him an idea, and he'd say, oh, well,

1219
01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:46,680
Speaker 3: you've got to fix this, this, this is this, and

1220
01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:47,080
Speaker 3: then in.

1221
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:50,160
Speaker 1: For ages that would be so hurt because I was like, you're.

1222
01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:53,120
Speaker 3: Fucking what You're like, I'm here dealing with myself doubt

1223
01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:55,000
Speaker 3: and you're just knock him down and telling me what's

1224
01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:57,960
Speaker 3: wrong with it. And now you know, love language has

1225
01:01:57,960 --> 01:02:00,680
Speaker 3: helped me see like that's his way of saying, I

1226
01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:02,840
Speaker 3: believe you can do this, but to make it work,

1227
01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:06,160
Speaker 3: my support for you is like helping show you what

1228
01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:06,840
Speaker 3: you need to fix.

1229
01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:09,200
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure that's not one of the five l No,

1230
01:02:09,360 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 1: it's not one of five one languages.

1231
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:16,080
Speaker 3: But learning about the idea that we both show love

1232
01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:18,400
Speaker 3: and affection in different ways and we receive it in

1233
01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:20,479
Speaker 3: different ways, like I need someone to be like, that's

1234
01:02:20,520 --> 01:02:23,200
Speaker 3: the best idea, it's so possible. Let's not poke any

1235
01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:25,960
Speaker 3: holes on the plan. First like that was when it

1236
01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:29,080
Speaker 3: started to be really revolutionary. And then when I learned

1237
01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:30,600
Speaker 3: what the actual.

1238
01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 1: Five love languages were.

1239
01:02:31,520 --> 01:02:36,120
Speaker 3: Five, right, it's gifts, acts of service, quality time, physical touch,

1240
01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:37,000
Speaker 3: and affirmations.

1241
01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:38,439
Speaker 1: We both like to give.

1242
01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:42,960
Speaker 4: What is Sarah's love languages that she likes to receive

1243
01:02:44,320 --> 01:02:46,880
Speaker 4: affirmations in order of the five.

1244
01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:49,960
Speaker 5: I'm not coming backwards to the gifts.

1245
01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:52,120
Speaker 1: I'm not big on gifts.

1246
01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:53,960
Speaker 5: No, it's the only other one I remembered.

1247
01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:59,560
Speaker 1: Definitely affirmations. I like it when he says things, Yeah,

1248
01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:03,600
Speaker 1: gives acts of service, physical touch, quality.

1249
01:03:03,160 --> 01:03:10,080
Speaker 5: Time, probably affirmations first. Obviously probably acts of service, physical touch,

1250
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:12,320
Speaker 5: and gifts would be last.

1251
01:03:13,360 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 1: You're the same, gifts would be last. And what does

1252
01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 1: it like to receive? I think, well, Nick definitely likes

1253
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:21,000
Speaker 1: to give acts of service. He will go kind of

1254
01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:23,640
Speaker 1: a sense of the can testify her. Yeah, for not

1255
01:03:23,680 --> 01:03:27,280
Speaker 1: to do, but as important to Nick, that's a really

1256
01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:29,520
Speaker 1: interesting one. I think you like acts of service as

1257
01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:30,680
Speaker 1: well as number one.

1258
01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:33,120
Speaker 5: You think the problems act of services. I don't like

1259
01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 5: it when I could do it better, and that sounds

1260
01:03:35,040 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 5: bade going to go and redo itation.

1261
01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 3: You really appreciate gestures, Vicky, Oh my god, so much?

1262
01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:49,440
Speaker 5: Ya next door?

1263
01:03:49,520 --> 01:03:51,560
Speaker 3: Yeah a little yeah, yeah, I love her. So I

1264
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:53,439
Speaker 3: don't know what the other order is really, I think

1265
01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:56,640
Speaker 3: I think in between they're all kind of like definitely gifts.

1266
01:03:56,480 --> 01:03:59,680
Speaker 1: Last physical touch is pretty high. Yeah, but he's also

1267
01:03:59,800 --> 01:04:07,160
Speaker 1: like general although you do like ws aformation and quality time,

1268
01:04:07,360 --> 01:04:09,000
Speaker 1: do you know what yours are that you're like to sy?

1269
01:04:09,960 --> 01:04:14,880
Speaker 3: That's why it's hard for me, but it definitely I

1270
01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:17,920
Speaker 3: think even in my friendships, I think understanding the way

1271
01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:20,880
Speaker 3: we all give differently and receive differently and matching that

1272
01:04:20,960 --> 01:04:23,680
Speaker 3: up and then everyone's not the same. It's a revolutionary concept.

1273
01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:26,439
Speaker 3: I think, same as that mem I was talking about before.

1274
01:04:26,440 --> 01:04:28,040
Speaker 3: It's really deep, meaningful.

1275
01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:35,000
Speaker 4: Okay, meaningful, yeah, okay. Second and last question, how do

1276
01:04:35,040 --> 01:04:36,920
Speaker 4: you prioritize the relationship when you're really busy?

1277
01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:38,919
Speaker 5: We don't.

1278
01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:43,920
Speaker 3: We're pretty good at calendar appointments, like we'll know, okay,

1279
01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:45,320
Speaker 3: we've got a really busy time, so.

1280
01:04:45,840 --> 01:04:48,360
Speaker 5: Like we're also really bad at it. If Sarah goes this,

1281
01:04:48,440 --> 01:04:50,200
Speaker 5: I'm like, it's not in my calendar.

1282
01:04:50,360 --> 01:04:50,880
Speaker 1: It's true.

1283
01:04:51,120 --> 01:04:54,560
Speaker 4: That's true because like is in my calendar. You're like, yes,

1284
01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:57,080
Speaker 4: it's it's that You're like, damn it, or I'm like

1285
01:04:57,480 --> 01:04:58,080
Speaker 4: check again.

1286
01:04:58,400 --> 01:05:01,440
Speaker 1: But it gives. It gives. Like you guys go like

1287
01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:03,360
Speaker 1: that's a rule. You both If nix like it was

1288
01:05:03,400 --> 01:05:05,720
Speaker 1: in my calendar, You're like, that is fair, then you

1289
01:05:05,720 --> 01:05:06,200
Speaker 1: don't have to.

1290
01:05:06,120 --> 01:05:13,120
Speaker 7: Attend yeah, yeah, regions as well, Like, because of the

1291
01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 7: international nature of my businesses, I have a lot of

1292
01:05:15,920 --> 01:05:20,160
Speaker 7: meetings at between seven and nine pm or five and

1293
01:05:20,440 --> 01:05:24,520
Speaker 7: five and nine am, right, so if we're going for dinner,

1294
01:05:25,520 --> 01:05:27,640
Speaker 7: I can't just move a meeting to.

1295
01:05:27,760 --> 01:05:32,360
Speaker 5: Like later on because everyone else three different time zone

1296
01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:34,920
Speaker 5: is quite up into it too. So that's why the

1297
01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:37,680
Speaker 5: calendar is important. And also I try my weekends are

1298
01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:40,040
Speaker 5: important at the moment because I'm exhausted.

1299
01:05:40,360 --> 01:05:42,840
Speaker 3: But we're pretty good at Like when we were going

1300
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:45,560
Speaker 3: to Perth for you know, the jet start job, and

1301
01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:47,720
Speaker 3: then we tacked on two days, like we'll often tack

1302
01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:51,160
Speaker 3: on two days of just us time. And then Nick

1303
01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:53,200
Speaker 3: was like, by the way, I've got to cancel because

1304
01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:54,160
Speaker 3: my best friend's here from.

1305
01:05:54,040 --> 01:05:55,400
Speaker 1: The UK, which I was fully four.

1306
01:05:55,440 --> 01:05:57,240
Speaker 3: I was like, you never get to see him, but

1307
01:05:57,440 --> 01:05:58,960
Speaker 3: you made a really big effort to be like, but

1308
01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:01,439
Speaker 3: that means in dead we have to book in some

1309
01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:06,120
Speaker 3: other two day thing that's us in the calendar somewhere.

1310
01:06:06,560 --> 01:06:09,200
Speaker 3: So we're pretty good at like, Okay, we don't have

1311
01:06:09,280 --> 01:06:11,960
Speaker 3: any us time in the next three weeks, so let's book.

1312
01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:15,640
Speaker 1: A hotel that our work.

1313
01:06:15,640 --> 01:06:19,520
Speaker 5: Also, we spend a lot of time together incidentally, like, yeah,

1314
01:06:19,680 --> 01:06:22,440
Speaker 5: I work from home ninety percent of the time, and

1315
01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:23,200
Speaker 5: so do you.

1316
01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:25,280
Speaker 3: So and every night we have time where like the

1317
01:06:25,320 --> 01:06:27,360
Speaker 3: laptops a shot and we'll watch an episode of something

1318
01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:28,360
Speaker 3: like We're pretty good like that.

1319
01:06:28,440 --> 01:06:33,560
Speaker 4: Okay, last question, it's chupata three biggest X each other

1320
01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:36,120
Speaker 4: and then three things you love the most.

1321
01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:38,600
Speaker 1: About each other. Oh, that's a cute underfinished ones.

1322
01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:44,040
Speaker 4: First you have to say that with poor three biggest X,

1323
01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:46,160
Speaker 4: you can't say, oh yeah.

1324
01:06:46,000 --> 01:06:49,200
Speaker 3: Okay, we does have three now three Beigause, Dix, Monday, Dick,

1325
01:06:53,000 --> 01:06:54,400
Speaker 3: and Princess.

1326
01:06:57,480 --> 01:07:02,200
Speaker 1: Oh I don't have that many X. Oh okay, he

1327
01:07:02,240 --> 01:07:04,120
Speaker 1: does this one definitely.

1328
01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:06,520
Speaker 3: It's not an ick so much of something that like

1329
01:07:06,520 --> 01:07:09,120
Speaker 3: makes me want to divorce him, Like right now, he does.

1330
01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:14,720
Speaker 5: This and I do it because so much. And she's

1331
01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:15,840
Speaker 5: real hype on in the morning.

1332
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:20,120
Speaker 3: It so much so he obviously, as you guys can hear,

1333
01:07:20,440 --> 01:07:24,080
Speaker 3: Nick's love language is practical jokes, like he is serious,

1334
01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:28,040
Speaker 3: not that often, but sometimes we'll say the words about affirmation,

1335
01:07:28,080 --> 01:07:32,120
Speaker 3: which is lovely, but the practical joke rarely goes too

1336
01:07:32,120 --> 01:07:34,000
Speaker 3: far where I'm like, don't fucking do that.

1337
01:07:34,280 --> 01:07:36,480
Speaker 1: But there's one thing that he drives to do all

1338
01:07:36,520 --> 01:07:39,520
Speaker 1: the time is just suck my nose. And he would

1339
01:07:39,640 --> 01:07:41,680
Speaker 1: do it.

1340
01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:43,960
Speaker 3: It's like as then he would jump on me and

1341
01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:46,600
Speaker 3: hold me down and then like put his whole mouth over.

1342
01:07:46,440 --> 01:07:49,240
Speaker 5: My nose suck. I just put it because.

1343
01:07:51,040 --> 01:07:53,400
Speaker 3: Because he does it before he brushes his teeth and

1344
01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:56,600
Speaker 3: then my nose and I was like fucking spitch for

1345
01:07:56,880 --> 01:07:59,880
Speaker 3: hours and it just feels gross and I hate it

1346
01:08:00,120 --> 01:08:00,720
Speaker 3: so much.

1347
01:08:02,960 --> 01:08:05,960
Speaker 1: So mad joke you ever did that video you said

1348
01:08:06,280 --> 01:08:11,240
Speaker 1: you got the milk the cookie, You've got milk in

1349
01:08:11,280 --> 01:08:13,120
Speaker 1: your bag on your body.

1350
01:08:13,840 --> 01:08:14,480
Speaker 5: I hate it.

1351
01:08:14,520 --> 01:08:18,320
Speaker 3: But the nose I hate so much. I never get mad,

1352
01:08:18,360 --> 01:08:20,400
Speaker 3: but I'm like, oh God, it makes me so mad.

1353
01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:22,280
Speaker 3: One thing that gives me the ick is when he

1354
01:08:22,880 --> 01:08:24,360
Speaker 3: like it's kind of cool, but it's kind of not.

1355
01:08:24,560 --> 01:08:29,040
Speaker 3: When he gets annoyed with like bad customer service or

1356
01:08:29,080 --> 01:08:31,439
Speaker 3: something coming out wrong at a cafe or something, and

1357
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:33,800
Speaker 3: I get really like even if I'm allergic, I'm like,

1358
01:08:33,840 --> 01:08:36,760
Speaker 3: don't worry, it's fine. I love it, like no confrontation.

1359
01:08:36,960 --> 01:08:39,559
Speaker 3: And it gets like like he'll stand up for himself,

1360
01:08:39,600 --> 01:08:42,680
Speaker 3: which is good, it's a good quality. But I get like,

1361
01:08:42,680 --> 01:08:46,080
Speaker 3: like I go into my skin and I'm like like

1362
01:08:46,120 --> 01:08:48,000
Speaker 3: if he sends something, oh my god, oh die, Like

1363
01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:50,680
Speaker 3: I'm like ill, I can't ill ill. Or if he's

1364
01:08:50,680 --> 01:08:53,160
Speaker 3: on the phone, like if he's been double charge for

1365
01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:57,400
Speaker 3: something and he gets even a tiny amount serious or

1366
01:08:57,439 --> 01:08:59,160
Speaker 3: like angry, that's your mom.

1367
01:08:59,080 --> 01:09:01,599
Speaker 1: Firm, I'm like, run out somewhere, run out of the house.

1368
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:04,920
Speaker 5: I'm like my classic line is I'm not angry at

1369
01:09:04,960 --> 01:09:06,880
Speaker 5: you personally the situation.

1370
01:09:07,240 --> 01:09:10,040
Speaker 1: I have to leave. No, I can't do it.

1371
01:09:10,320 --> 01:09:10,360
Speaker 5: No.

1372
01:09:11,200 --> 01:09:12,559
Speaker 1: I think your second one.

1373
01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:15,519
Speaker 5: Is pretty high.

1374
01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:21,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, but so it's kind of like thinks she's

1375
01:09:21,040 --> 01:09:23,599
Speaker 1: been quite Like I was like, he makes that mouth?

1376
01:09:23,880 --> 01:09:24,559
Speaker 1: Who makes that?

1377
01:09:24,680 --> 01:09:26,720
Speaker 5: Who makes worst?

1378
01:09:26,720 --> 01:09:27,120
Speaker 1: You'd go.

1379
01:09:30,200 --> 01:09:31,800
Speaker 5: She didn't think anyone knowed it?

1380
01:09:32,120 --> 01:09:38,759
Speaker 1: Now like who even what is happening?

1381
01:09:41,200 --> 01:09:44,720
Speaker 4: It's great, okay, last one, last dick. Yeah, you think

1382
01:09:44,760 --> 01:09:46,240
Speaker 4: you appreciate the book of flicking.

1383
01:09:46,560 --> 01:09:48,960
Speaker 3: It's not an x though, it's just fucking annoying, but

1384
01:09:48,960 --> 01:09:51,920
Speaker 3: there's definitely other eggs.

1385
01:09:52,280 --> 01:09:55,519
Speaker 1: The how's the pick up? Nick drives like g force?

1386
01:09:55,680 --> 01:09:58,479
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, when he drives like a maniac, do

1387
01:09:58,600 --> 01:10:01,719
Speaker 3: not drive he thinks he doesn't drive like a man yet.

1388
01:10:01,600 --> 01:10:03,120
Speaker 1: No, because the pickup is so fast.

1389
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:07,880
Speaker 3: Because no, you know what really gave me the the

1390
01:10:07,920 --> 01:10:10,000
Speaker 3: first time when he wore lycra.

1391
01:10:10,600 --> 01:10:15,599
Speaker 1: No, and I was like, nos, that you look good

1392
01:10:15,600 --> 01:10:18,160
Speaker 1: in it. It just was like there's a lot of

1393
01:10:18,200 --> 01:10:19,200
Speaker 1: gold going on.

1394
01:10:19,520 --> 01:10:26,080
Speaker 5: There's not there's that much chemy there. When you re record.

1395
01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:29,240
Speaker 1: I know you're going to say that you stories.

1396
01:10:32,880 --> 01:10:36,280
Speaker 5: What's worse. What's worse is when she re records with

1397
01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:37,840
Speaker 5: the same enthusiasm.

1398
01:10:40,160 --> 01:10:42,480
Speaker 1: And then you get to an appointment.

1399
01:10:44,120 --> 01:10:50,760
Speaker 5: At night. It right, oh good, over and over again

1400
01:10:50,920 --> 01:10:51,880
Speaker 5: like video.

1401
01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:57,240
Speaker 4: It's so true, but also you used to it's so

1402
01:10:57,280 --> 01:10:59,720
Speaker 4: annoyed at me because like it'd be the sixth time and.

1403
01:10:59,680 --> 01:11:04,920
Speaker 1: He gooo, and you'd be like as if you hadn't

1404
01:11:04,920 --> 01:11:05,559
Speaker 1: done it already.

1405
01:11:05,800 --> 01:11:08,040
Speaker 5: The best bit is when you do it when she's

1406
01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:09,920
Speaker 5: got the mic set up in the headphones because she

1407
01:11:09,960 --> 01:11:12,559
Speaker 5: can't hear you do it, so she would be recording

1408
01:11:12,560 --> 01:11:15,760
Speaker 5: some years ago, poo pooh the background, and then she'll

1409
01:11:15,800 --> 01:11:17,760
Speaker 5: be like put her stuff away and she'll be editing,

1410
01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:19,080
Speaker 5: and she would just go are you.

1411
01:11:20,600 --> 01:11:23,120
Speaker 1: Like hours later, you can't.

1412
01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:24,479
Speaker 5: Hear it when she's recording, You're going to hear it

1413
01:11:24,520 --> 01:11:25,080
Speaker 5: when she's like.

1414
01:11:25,520 --> 01:11:27,160
Speaker 4: It was more because when you needed to do those

1415
01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:30,720
Speaker 4: quote of the days, and then it always like high

1416
01:11:30,760 --> 01:11:34,439
Speaker 4: beautiful baby, Hi beautiful people.

1417
01:11:36,600 --> 01:11:38,439
Speaker 1: Oh my only other equals niggers.

1418
01:11:38,479 --> 01:11:41,680
Speaker 3: When he's this thing when he's on a business call

1419
01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:44,439
Speaker 3: and like being really friendly with someone and they tell

1420
01:11:44,439 --> 01:11:46,320
Speaker 3: a joke and he's going to be really plain, he goes.

1421
01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:51,000
Speaker 1: He does this like fake laugh, you know, the laugh

1422
01:11:51,040 --> 01:11:51,439
Speaker 1: that you do.

1423
01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:52,280
Speaker 5: It was like.

1424
01:11:54,720 --> 01:11:58,240
Speaker 1: And I'm like, you would never laugh like that ever.

1425
01:11:58,560 --> 01:12:01,040
Speaker 5: So it's friend the chance the work.

1426
01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:06,120
Speaker 3: Club, which she's like, you only do it on work

1427
01:12:06,120 --> 01:12:07,800
Speaker 3: calls when you're at the end of the call and

1428
01:12:07,840 --> 01:12:10,679
Speaker 3: you're like, yeah, mate, that's finny, let's go, and I'm.

1429
01:12:10,880 --> 01:12:15,120
Speaker 1: Like, I've never heard that before. Wait. Next other thing

1430
01:12:15,200 --> 01:12:19,920
Speaker 1: is he flicks his toenails. That's my big.

1431
01:12:21,800 --> 01:12:22,120
Speaker 5: Nine.

1432
01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:34,760
Speaker 1: They're Jesus, I'm I'm here anyway. Now it's now it's

1433
01:12:34,800 --> 01:12:37,479
Speaker 1: a loving ending. Some things you love about each other.

1434
01:12:38,360 --> 01:12:44,320
Speaker 3: I love how it's not easy to have two really

1435
01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:48,960
Speaker 3: big careers and personalities in one relationship, especially when mine

1436
01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:51,759
Speaker 3: involve was like, bye, I'm going to Antarctica for a month,

1437
01:12:52,479 --> 01:12:55,240
Speaker 3: like and I won't have my phone and I have

1438
01:12:55,560 --> 01:12:58,040
Speaker 3: never in my like I lived in I was also like, bye,

1439
01:12:58,040 --> 01:13:00,240
Speaker 3: I'm living in Hong Kong for a year, i am

1440
01:13:00,280 --> 01:13:02,840
Speaker 3: living in Paris. Like the theme of our relationship with

1441
01:13:03,000 --> 01:13:05,840
Speaker 3: me being just bucking off of my career. And I've

1442
01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:12,000
Speaker 3: never ever felt like it was hard or I owed

1443
01:13:12,160 --> 01:13:16,400
Speaker 3: him something or that, like I think a.

1444
01:13:16,320 --> 01:13:19,720
Speaker 5: Lot of people would hold no.

1445
01:13:19,800 --> 01:13:21,240
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people would.

1446
01:13:21,120 --> 01:13:23,559
Speaker 3: Hold that over you, or you feel like, okay, well

1447
01:13:23,560 --> 01:13:25,479
Speaker 3: and now it's my turn to live overseas for a year,

1448
01:13:25,600 --> 01:13:28,000
Speaker 3: or it put straight on your relationship to do things

1449
01:13:28,040 --> 01:13:34,559
Speaker 3: like that, And I always feel incredibly supported, free to

1450
01:13:34,920 --> 01:13:38,519
Speaker 3: pursue any Like it's I feel so supported as a

1451
01:13:38,560 --> 01:13:41,640
Speaker 3: woman in a career, like I've never felt constrained. And

1452
01:13:41,680 --> 01:13:44,280
Speaker 3: if anything, You've done everything to make my career and

1453
01:13:44,400 --> 01:13:47,479
Speaker 3: life better and bigger, and you celebrate everything.

1454
01:13:47,520 --> 01:13:49,960
Speaker 1: And I think that's but I think it's you know,

1455
01:13:50,040 --> 01:13:51,559
Speaker 1: not always the case.

1456
01:13:51,680 --> 01:13:54,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, Well, I mean mine's Mine's almost same thing with

1457
01:13:54,360 --> 01:13:59,680
Speaker 5: regards to I love what where you just take these

1458
01:13:59,760 --> 01:14:02,320
Speaker 5: channel and do them like that's a really important thing

1459
01:14:02,400 --> 01:14:06,640
Speaker 5: because a lot of people with your education, and I

1460
01:14:06,640 --> 01:14:09,120
Speaker 5: mean people don't realize your education. A lot of people

1461
01:14:09,479 --> 01:14:11,840
Speaker 5: like how high you finished in the honor roll, like

1462
01:14:11,960 --> 01:14:14,880
Speaker 5: your score and your like you know what, mcrubby, she's

1463
01:14:14,920 --> 01:14:18,080
Speaker 5: like a she's got a portrait on the wall literally

1464
01:14:19,160 --> 01:14:24,760
Speaker 5: and was ducks of mcgroth higher and like languages all

1465
01:14:24,760 --> 01:14:27,280
Speaker 5: these other things. Most people would go, oh, well, I

1466
01:14:27,280 --> 01:14:29,599
Speaker 5: can know you're going to have a really successful, easy

1467
01:14:29,800 --> 01:14:33,640
Speaker 5: money career as a lawyer, but you chose not to.

1468
01:14:33,760 --> 01:14:36,720
Speaker 5: You chose to do something quite risky and now obviously

1469
01:14:36,760 --> 01:14:40,320
Speaker 5: there's years when it pays off, but there's obviously so

1470
01:14:40,520 --> 01:14:43,880
Speaker 5: much uncertainty in it. So I've always loved that you

1471
01:14:43,920 --> 01:14:47,120
Speaker 5: would take those risks. And this social media success you

1472
01:14:47,160 --> 01:14:51,000
Speaker 5: have now is a byproduct of you being a good

1473
01:14:51,080 --> 01:14:53,720
Speaker 5: person while doing it. That's what makes you likable. It's

1474
01:14:53,760 --> 01:14:56,040
Speaker 5: not like you just got your tits out in the

1475
01:14:56,080 --> 01:14:56,920
Speaker 5: beach style thing.

1476
01:14:57,000 --> 01:14:58,920
Speaker 1: You know what, I didn't have act vibes. You know

1477
01:14:58,960 --> 01:14:59,920
Speaker 1: that this is so.

1478
01:15:02,439 --> 01:15:04,960
Speaker 5: So it's almost the inverse of that, Like I love

1479
01:15:05,080 --> 01:15:07,120
Speaker 5: supporting you doing these wild things.

1480
01:15:08,320 --> 01:15:08,880
Speaker 1: That's nice.

1481
01:15:09,280 --> 01:15:12,920
Speaker 3: I know I was waiting for the like. The other

1482
01:15:12,960 --> 01:15:15,559
Speaker 3: thing I love about you is how much you care

1483
01:15:15,600 --> 01:15:17,880
Speaker 3: for your friends and people that you love. You don't

1484
01:15:18,000 --> 01:15:21,800
Speaker 3: ever half ass anything. You use your full ass.

1485
01:15:22,320 --> 01:15:25,080
Speaker 5: Both butt cheeks, both butt cheeks, which is interesting because

1486
01:15:25,120 --> 01:15:27,280
Speaker 5: the exothe theologists are same not use my glutes.

1487
01:15:27,360 --> 01:15:29,040
Speaker 1: Yeah no.

1488
01:15:29,160 --> 01:15:31,680
Speaker 3: But Nick will like fly to the other side of

1489
01:15:31,680 --> 01:15:34,920
Speaker 3: the earth to be there for someone and often not

1490
01:15:35,920 --> 01:15:37,600
Speaker 3: mention it, like you kind of don't really make a

1491
01:15:37,640 --> 01:15:40,680
Speaker 3: fuss about those things. You just you'll quietly come in

1492
01:15:40,720 --> 01:15:43,160
Speaker 3: and help remove obstacles from people's lives or make their

1493
01:15:43,160 --> 01:15:45,559
Speaker 3: life better in some way. And you never just support

1494
01:15:45,600 --> 01:15:46,519
Speaker 3: from afar like you.

1495
01:15:46,520 --> 01:15:48,000
Speaker 1: Always are hands on.

1496
01:15:48,040 --> 01:15:50,559
Speaker 3: How can I help when shit is hard and when

1497
01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:53,280
Speaker 3: it's easy, like both times, you'll not shy away to

1498
01:15:53,600 --> 01:15:55,240
Speaker 3: I don't think any of your friends can say you

1499
01:15:55,240 --> 01:15:56,600
Speaker 3: wouldn't like take a bullet.

1500
01:15:56,320 --> 01:15:57,400
Speaker 1: For them, like testify.

1501
01:15:57,600 --> 01:15:59,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, likes he doesn't just love you in a really

1502
01:16:00,040 --> 01:16:02,400
Speaker 3: easy way. He's like when it's hard or when like

1503
01:16:02,560 --> 01:16:04,960
Speaker 3: the first week you guys are friends, he's like, I.

1504
01:16:04,880 --> 01:16:07,400
Speaker 1: Had a ride with you from Adelaide Ye would I

1505
01:16:07,520 --> 01:16:07,880
Speaker 1: like that?

1506
01:16:08,400 --> 01:16:10,840
Speaker 5: Yeah? You thought there could be a car following you

1507
01:16:10,920 --> 01:16:12,439
Speaker 5: as soon as I saw the map on you wasn't

1508
01:16:12,439 --> 01:16:12,920
Speaker 5: going to happen.

1509
01:16:13,120 --> 01:16:15,960
Speaker 4: No, and Nick did it out of like genuine protection

1510
01:16:16,040 --> 01:16:17,760
Speaker 4: out of it, which I didn't know any time. He

1511
01:16:17,840 --> 01:16:20,200
Speaker 4: was like I've done this before, and no he didn't

1512
01:16:20,200 --> 01:16:21,360
Speaker 4: like exactly you said.

1513
01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:24,200
Speaker 1: Nick doesn't make it a big deal even mentions it.

1514
01:16:24,200 --> 01:16:26,120
Speaker 4: It just does it, and then after the fact you're like, oh,

1515
01:16:26,120 --> 01:16:27,720
Speaker 4: he actually didn't do it to ride next to me.

1516
01:16:27,840 --> 01:16:30,160
Speaker 4: Did it to make sure that it was mentally supported

1517
01:16:30,240 --> 01:16:32,400
Speaker 4: throughout the whole thing, which is much more than just

1518
01:16:32,400 --> 01:16:33,920
Speaker 4: being like, oh, I want to come on a front trip.

1519
01:16:34,080 --> 01:16:37,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, And you don't often say things like I'm there

1520
01:16:37,880 --> 01:16:38,639
Speaker 1: for you or whatever.

1521
01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:39,360
Speaker 6: You just do it.

1522
01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:40,720
Speaker 1: You'll just be you just turn up.

1523
01:16:40,680 --> 01:16:42,680
Speaker 3: And you're there for them, and then like years later

1524
01:16:42,720 --> 01:16:44,000
Speaker 3: they'll be like, oh my god, you're the only one

1525
01:16:44,000 --> 01:16:45,280
Speaker 3: who came and knew.

1526
01:16:45,080 --> 01:16:46,480
Speaker 1: That I just needed blah.

1527
01:16:46,520 --> 01:16:49,000
Speaker 3: And I feel like I've obviously been around you and

1528
01:16:49,040 --> 01:16:52,559
Speaker 3: your friends enough to have heard them say that many times, and.

1529
01:16:52,520 --> 01:16:54,960
Speaker 5: That makes me really happy. The whole idea of paying

1530
01:16:55,040 --> 01:16:57,240
Speaker 5: it forward with that though, like it's a case of

1531
01:16:57,360 --> 01:16:59,400
Speaker 5: I think that most of the people that I've done

1532
01:16:59,439 --> 01:17:02,559
Speaker 5: that for I've done a lot of it. It's all

1533
01:17:02,560 --> 01:17:05,639
Speaker 5: about if you can make them do it for someone else.

1534
01:17:05,800 --> 01:17:08,320
Speaker 5: And that's the thing because I was helped a lot

1535
01:17:08,360 --> 01:17:10,320
Speaker 5: when I was younger, and I'm often helped a lot

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Speaker 5: in I was given opportunities because people took a risk

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Speaker 5: I was. I had a lot of people that were

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01:17:19,479 --> 01:17:21,479
Speaker 5: older than me that helped me out a lot of things.

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Speaker 5: And I mean I traveled the world for sport on

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01:17:25,120 --> 01:17:27,000
Speaker 5: other people's dimes a lot of the time because I

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01:17:27,000 --> 01:17:30,880
Speaker 5: couldn't afford it. Yeah, So then I look at some

1542
01:17:30,960 --> 01:17:32,800
Speaker 5: of my friends and I see that that I helped,

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01:17:32,800 --> 01:17:34,559
Speaker 5: and I see them paying it forward, and I'm like,

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01:17:34,600 --> 01:17:41,920
Speaker 5: that's all the matter anyway. The second second, I think

1545
01:17:41,920 --> 01:17:47,880
Speaker 5: it's just how you like, what's that make hay? Why

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01:17:47,920 --> 01:17:50,719
Speaker 5: the sunshine? You know what I mean? Like that whole

1547
01:17:51,000 --> 01:17:52,880
Speaker 5: you would just go, you know what I'm going to

1548
01:17:52,960 --> 01:17:54,519
Speaker 5: do is I'm going to do all of this and

1549
01:17:54,640 --> 01:17:57,120
Speaker 5: like okay, sure, like you know when you just take

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01:17:57,200 --> 01:18:00,680
Speaker 5: full advantage of everything and without that sounding like you

1551
01:18:00,760 --> 01:18:06,200
Speaker 5: go you'll sit there and you just if you've got

1552
01:18:06,200 --> 01:18:09,000
Speaker 5: this little opportunity, you just make maximize everything you can

1553
01:18:09,040 --> 01:18:13,599
Speaker 5: out of it. And without not in a extrinsic way,

1554
01:18:13,680 --> 01:18:15,800
Speaker 5: more of an intrinsic way, like I want to get

1555
01:18:15,840 --> 01:18:17,599
Speaker 5: as much as I can out of this and help

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01:18:18,040 --> 01:18:20,560
Speaker 5: and young and for both. So people in the podcast,

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01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:23,400
Speaker 5: most of the people on the podcast, they're getting out

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01:18:23,720 --> 01:18:25,880
Speaker 5: just as much out of the talking and stuff like

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01:18:25,920 --> 01:18:27,320
Speaker 5: that than you are, Like you know what I mean,

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01:18:27,360 --> 01:18:30,400
Speaker 5: Like they're actually it's quite cathartic for a lot of

1561
01:18:30,439 --> 01:18:32,800
Speaker 5: people to actually feel like their voice is being heard

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01:18:32,840 --> 01:18:34,000
Speaker 5: as well. So I love that.

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Speaker 1: My last one would be.

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Speaker 3: I think that you've always been like so keen for

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01:18:42,439 --> 01:18:44,920
Speaker 3: an adventure, Like even when you're you've been at your

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01:18:44,960 --> 01:18:47,240
Speaker 3: most serious and your most like work is demanding this

1567
01:18:47,280 --> 01:18:50,120
Speaker 3: and this and this is me you'll just go fuck it,

1568
01:18:50,200 --> 01:18:55,280
Speaker 3: let's go to Egypt, like anymore. Yeah, but you'll embrace

1569
01:18:55,320 --> 01:18:59,720
Speaker 3: an adventure always and be like like, one of the

1570
01:18:59,720 --> 01:19:02,240
Speaker 3: things I think is the most important in terms of

1571
01:19:02,280 --> 01:19:05,680
Speaker 3: compatibility of someone is of two people, is there how

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01:19:05,720 --> 01:19:08,639
Speaker 3: they prioritize what you spend your money on in life,

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01:19:08,880 --> 01:19:11,679
Speaker 3: whether it's like experiences or things or houses or whatever.

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01:19:11,720 --> 01:19:14,240
Speaker 3: And we've never I've never had to convince you of

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01:19:14,280 --> 01:19:17,960
Speaker 3: the value of experiences together, We've both been like, while

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01:19:17,960 --> 01:19:20,040
Speaker 3: we're young and we could do this, Let's go to Africa,

1577
01:19:20,280 --> 01:19:23,559
Speaker 3: Let's go to Egypt, Like, let's you know, we've foregone

1578
01:19:23,800 --> 01:19:26,120
Speaker 3: other things that other couples might have prioritized, but we've

1579
01:19:26,160 --> 01:19:28,599
Speaker 3: never not had an adventure, We've never not made memories,

1580
01:19:28,640 --> 01:19:30,879
Speaker 3: and I've never had to convince you that that was valuable.

1581
01:19:31,680 --> 01:19:35,639
Speaker 3: And because of that, we've just seen so much cool

1582
01:19:35,640 --> 01:19:38,479
Speaker 3: stuff together and I think we will continue to always

1583
01:19:38,479 --> 01:19:40,120
Speaker 3: do that. And I think that's yeah, I love that

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Speaker 3: about you.

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Speaker 1: Last one, you bum cute, You're ass.

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Speaker 5: They're getting there and they're not there at the moment.

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01:19:51,640 --> 01:19:54,360
Speaker 1: They are always they are always there. Oh my god,

1588
01:19:54,600 --> 01:19:57,679
Speaker 1: this okay, we finishing on your bum.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm like, I'm happy with that.

1590
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Speaker 1: Happy Valentine's Day. Love all the people who you love,

1591
01:20:10,439 --> 01:20:11,120
Speaker 1: love them hard.

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Speaker 3: We've got a really really exciting what Oh my god,

1593
01:20:20,280 --> 01:20:24,040
Speaker 3: what is the support that I'm getting over here? Love

1594
01:20:24,840 --> 01:20:26,120
Speaker 3: in Like, you don't just have to be in a

1595
01:20:26,160 --> 01:20:28,879
Speaker 3: relationship to enjoy Valentine's Day.

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01:20:28,880 --> 01:20:29,960
Speaker 5: Love all your loved ones.

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Speaker 1: So that wasn't fun. That was very nice. So I

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Speaker 1: think when Nick just everything.

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Speaker 3: We are so excited to be having our first Valentine's Day,

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Speaker 3: Pinot and Bikasa and Pals event this week. I think

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Speaker 3: it will be on the same day as this episode

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01:20:45,800 --> 01:20:49,920
Speaker 3: comes out. No, yeah, on Thursday. Yeah, we're so excited

1603
01:20:50,200 --> 01:20:52,040
Speaker 3: and that sold out so quickly, so we're definitely going

1604
01:20:52,080 --> 01:20:53,719
Speaker 3: to come to all the other states at some point

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01:20:53,760 --> 01:20:56,960
Speaker 3: during the year. And hope you guys are all season

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01:20:57,000 --> 01:20:59,080
Speaker 3: your yay. Thanks Nikki for coming on, and thanks for

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Speaker 3: modi yea.

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Speaker 5: What Eating Eating, Hay Birthday and.

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Speaker 1: Everyone every day

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Speaker 5: M hm