Speaker 1: You're listening to I'm on a MIA podcast.
Speaker 2: Hello, and welcome to Unleashed, the podcast for gen X women.
Speaker 2: You need a laugh if you remember using a pencil
Speaker 2: to manually wind a cassette tape back together.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, welcome you found your people. So who
Speaker 3: is on the sofa this week?
Speaker 4: Hi, I'm Mary Cosas. I'm an actress rider.
Speaker 5: I'm Grace Bam Bam Lamb as Bruna Pepperoni you like
Speaker 5: to call me. I'm a fashion stylist.
Speaker 1: I'm Bruna Pepperoni or Pep Andrea as I'm more commonly known.
Speaker 1: I'm a film and TV producer.
Speaker 2: Hi. I'm Kath Mahoney or Mahoney as Grace Lamb likes
Speaker 2: to call me, and I'm a comedian.
Speaker 3: All right, wherever you're listening.
Speaker 2: I'm clench your jaw, now, clench your pelvic floor. Get
Speaker 2: ready to unleash. Okay, who's bursting at the seams?
Speaker 3: To start?
Speaker 6: Okay, first order of business today, I need to play
Speaker 6: something that came into our DMS because I think it's
Speaker 6: the best thing I have heard in ages.
Speaker 4: This is from Unleisha Jess.
Speaker 3: Hey, guys, I have a bit of a suggestion.
Speaker 7: My suggestion is that Kath should be the next Bachelorette.
Speaker 7: Not only would it be really good for her dating life,
Speaker 7: but we all agree, my girlfriends and I that Kath
Speaker 7: is one of the funniest women in Australia and would
Speaker 7: make for the best television.
Speaker 6: What do you think, Absolutely, you would be fantastic for
Speaker 6: many reasons. One, you're intelligent, to your heartfelt. Three you're
Speaker 6: not relying on your cleavage. So I think that that
Speaker 6: would be something that would be awesome.
Speaker 2: How do you feel about that, Kath going on national
Speaker 2: TV to find love to be crushed?
Speaker 3: I mean, look to find love? What have we got
Speaker 3: to lose?
Speaker 2: We've got some context Channel Night. I guess we'd have
Speaker 2: good content.
Speaker 1: Else great content. I feel very optimistic about this plan.
Speaker 1: I love what Jess is suggesting.
Speaker 3: Do you think okay? I did okay? What do you think, Grace?
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't watch TV, but if you're on
Speaker 5: I watch it?
Speaker 3: You would watch it? Wouldn't You could come? You be
Speaker 3: my stylist? Show would be? Would it be the Golden Bachelorette?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Well, I was a lady of a certain age. Those
Speaker 2: young peeps, look, I mean, why not?
Speaker 3: Why not? For the show for the good of the show.
Speaker 2: Let's do it, all right, Bruner, I mean you are
Speaker 2: your producer extraordinary?
Speaker 3: Would you put call in?
Speaker 1: I am one putting a call in?
Speaker 3: Really, let's go, cav go.
Speaker 2: All right, ladies. Something has been irritating me all week.
Speaker 2: But stay with me.
Speaker 3: I promise you. I'm not a bad mother.
Speaker 2: It's my son, My son, my beautiful son, really gave
Speaker 2: me the shits last week.
Speaker 1: What happened?
Speaker 3: He's been sick, home sick. Okay, we're gen X.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I grew up my brother and my sister in a
Speaker 2: household that, unless you legit had been hit by a
Speaker 2: car and had body parts protruding through his stomach like
Speaker 2: an alien, you were not getting the day off now,
Speaker 2: you know, chicken parks, mumps and a push. We were
Speaker 2: allowed to stay, but we were still sent to school spotty.
Speaker 3: I remember that with.
Speaker 2: All over the pox and so. So that's just how
Speaker 2: we've grown up. So I have no sympathy at all
Speaker 2: really for illness. Lewis was I will say he was
Speaker 2: sick in a cold and coughing sort of scenario. Nothing temperatary,
Speaker 2: you know, hospital esque, not dying, not dying dot com.
Speaker 2: So the first night that he wakes me up, and
Speaker 2: I'm in pair, eat menopause, hell with my sleep at
Speaker 2: the moment.
Speaker 3: So that sucked me right off the fact.
Speaker 2: That he woke me when I was asleep to tell
Speaker 2: me he couldn't go to stay. It's like three in
Speaker 2: the morning, So I shoved some neurofen. I just give
Speaker 2: him the tiet roll. I give him the tilet roll
Speaker 2: I can. Then hear noises that just sound like clearing
Speaker 2: the throat, blowing the nose like a trumpet. I thought,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to teach him that after the third
Speaker 2: trumpet blow, if no snot's coming out, let it happen.
Speaker 3: Nothing's going on. So that first morning gave him a
Speaker 3: bit more medicine.
Speaker 2: Realized I had like a chicken soup that I bought
Speaker 2: in the fridge for my lunch. I was like, right
Speaker 2: to tick, that'll suffice for him, fine, But I realized,
Speaker 2: like I gave him the one day off, and then
Speaker 2: I could see that we were going for a few
Speaker 2: days in a row and I just had zero sympathy.
Speaker 3: I pretty much have I reckon, I've got about an hour's.
Speaker 2: Worth of sympathy in me, and then it just it
Speaker 2: just really annoys me, to the point that you also
Speaker 2: then have to you have to do sympathy, you have
Speaker 2: to do the nurse stuff, you have to pretend to
Speaker 2: be an interested and then I work from home, so
Speaker 2: having anyone else in my space it's a little flat,
Speaker 2: was annoying. So that first day I was barely sympathetic.
Speaker 2: By the next day and the next day, so we
Speaker 2: had three days at home.
Speaker 3: I was awful, Like, I was so awful. I was
Speaker 3: just like, what do you mean. There's no food in
Speaker 3: the house.
Speaker 2: There's like toasts, there's you know, we can have chicken
Speaker 2: soup again. Anyway, it just really annoyed me, and I
Speaker 2: realized speaking to other gen X mums who got kids
Speaker 2: at school, I'm not the only one.
Speaker 1: I think probably the same time I had two thirteen
Speaker 1: year olds home. All of the said, funnily enough, it
Speaker 1: was the last week of school. It's very interesting that
Speaker 1: they didn't have the cold the whole week when they
Speaker 1: started their holidays. They're out and about on their holidays,
Speaker 1: and it's so funny you say that. So I try
Speaker 1: and appear empathetic, and I did a pretty good job
Speaker 1: for the first few days, and then at one point
Speaker 1: I went, oh, come on, mate, like stop putting it on,
Speaker 1: and he looked at me like I stabbed him, like
Speaker 1: I was the worst mother in the world for the
Speaker 1: lack of sympathy. But I had that same thought, like
Speaker 1: I went to school, come hell or high water. Yeah,
Speaker 1: is because we had less to do at home. We
Speaker 1: wanted to go to school.
Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I did notice one thing, like if any of my
Speaker 2: friends my girlfriends are.
Speaker 3: Sick, I would be the first to check in, Can
Speaker 3: I do something? Can I come over? Can I bring
Speaker 3: you bought food?
Speaker 2: I'm not going to make you food, But I have
Speaker 2: like genuine compassion for my friends, which just evaporated within
Speaker 2: twenty four hours. My own kin, Grace Mary.
Speaker 1: What are we in like Outlander?
Speaker 2: My own kin from my own lines.
Speaker 6: I also think we could add there's a couple of
Speaker 6: layers to this. I think when we're looking at men
Speaker 6: or boys that try to play the I'm a man,
Speaker 6: i'm a boy, I'm tough on this, on that, and
Speaker 6: then they can't handle like a running nose or a cough,
Speaker 6: and then they're they're really dragging that out.
Speaker 4: I think that there's something about certainly.
Speaker 6: I know with males, older males, when they say things
Speaker 6: like I've got a saw tummy, Oh my god, I'm like,
Speaker 6: what are you going to start saying mummy and words
Speaker 6: like that too. I just I just think that there's
Speaker 6: more more impatience around males that perhaps are sick than females. Also,
Speaker 6: sometimes you feel like it's a manipulation, don't you Like
Speaker 6: we look at it cynically a lot of the time,
Speaker 6: especially with kids, when they say that they're unwell, you're going,
Speaker 6: but are you.
Speaker 5: My line to my boys and my husband and my
Speaker 5: son is like, try giving birth. Shut up, try cutting
Speaker 5: our stomach, copen like I did. Shut up, That's what
Speaker 5: I do. But my mum was fierce. Like the only
Speaker 5: two times that I was allowed to stay home was
Speaker 5: during primary school because high school went to UK boarding school,
Speaker 5: so she can't control. In primary school, I only missed
Speaker 5: school two times. One time I basically told her I
Speaker 5: was sick. She didn't believe me until I threw up
Speaker 5: in front of her and she goes, oh, that's serious.
Speaker 5: Because my mom will bait me and say to me,
Speaker 5: why don't you watch TV? And if I say yes,
Speaker 5: that means I'm faking it, right, the second incident. Second
Speaker 5: incident was I had a fucking boil on my ass
Speaker 5: and I was kept saying to my mom, something's oozing
Speaker 5: out of my butt.
Speaker 3: She looked at it.
Speaker 5: She's just like a huge fucking boil. She took me
Speaker 5: to the doctor and they cut me open. Three people
Speaker 5: hold me down because the doctor, the pedutrician, did not
Speaker 5: use anesthetic, so he cut me open.
Speaker 3: Three people holding me down.
Speaker 1: I mean, grace is the case for white children should
Speaker 1: be believed exactly.
Speaker 5: Meanwhile, my mom was holding me down my shoulder and
Speaker 5: then she found out I had knit at the same time.
Speaker 5: When it rains it paused.
Speaker 1: Three time.
Speaker 5: She'd let me stay at home and that was it.
Speaker 5: I don't remember getting sect that much. I just been kissing.
Speaker 5: These days are such woosies.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm with you.
Speaker 6: So something happened to a friend of mine this week
Speaker 6: and it's really got me thinking, if.
Speaker 4: Her husband is unwell, what do you need? What can
Speaker 4: I do for you? Let me go get that.
Speaker 6: So my friend she's unwell and the husband's great for
Speaker 6: about four hours first day, very very committed. After that, nothing,
Speaker 6: but she is bedridden for at least a week and
Speaker 6: cannot get up and do.
Speaker 1: What she normally confront him about the lack of continued love.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think she was more disappointed than in any
Speaker 6: place to confront him. I think she was like, what is.
Speaker 1: Going on here?
Speaker 4: Why is this not happening? In return?
Speaker 6: And she was justified, like she literally couldn't get out
Speaker 6: of bed. So she's telling me this, and I'm feeling
Speaker 6: for a right because she takes great care of her
Speaker 6: husband and her children and her home and their life.
Speaker 4: She's that person.
Speaker 6: Her love language in her marriage is to be the caregiver.
Speaker 4: She just does it naturally.
Speaker 6: So I said to her, obviously, you've got different love languages.
Speaker 6: You know, that's your way of giving love, showing love.
Speaker 4: Maybe that's not his language. Would that be fair to say?
Speaker 3: I think so. I love I love love languages.
Speaker 4: Yeah, what is your love language?
Speaker 2: Well, I went on a date last year and because
Speaker 2: everyone now on the date and you know, on the
Speaker 2: dating apps, talks about what their love.
Speaker 3: Language is, it's a thing. Yeah, it's a thing.
Speaker 2: Okay, So there's five love languages. First, one acts of
Speaker 2: service in the lawn, filling the color petrol, picking the
Speaker 2: kids up, words of affirmation, praise, I'm proud, of you.
Speaker 3: You're amazing.
Speaker 1: I love you.
Speaker 3: I love you. Physical touch fairly self explanatory.
Speaker 2: Receiving gifts also love that and quality time like no phones,
Speaker 2: one on one.
Speaker 3: You know, however, you sort of roll.
Speaker 2: This guy said to me, what are your love languages?
Speaker 2: And I said all five. We had two more dates
Speaker 2: after that. His love language was acts of service, and
Speaker 2: I was a bit like, oh, that's really lovely, but
Speaker 2: I'm going to need you to tell me that this
Speaker 2: and blah blah blah.
Speaker 3: So yeah, it's tricky.
Speaker 2: But I did have a partner who did a lot
Speaker 2: of big sort of gift stuff, spectacular stuff, and then
Speaker 2: kind of ghosted me and disappeared. So I am very
Speaker 2: sort of cautious of love bomb I think the.
Speaker 3: Kids call it love bombing.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Now, so for me, it will probably the most
Speaker 1: important thing.
Speaker 3: No, it's not what it used to be. I mean,
Speaker 3: buy me great stuff, I think it is, which it's
Speaker 3: not for me, definitely not anymore.
Speaker 4: I'm not a big fan of receiving gifts.
Speaker 6: I just feel like I don't need it, Like I
Speaker 6: love the idea year behind it, but I don't really
Speaker 6: need any more things, and I don't want someone, you know,
Speaker 6: having to go to that expense. But I'll always take
Speaker 6: thoughtfulness above everything. And if someone's just like thinking about
Speaker 6: you know what matters to me and just a simple
Speaker 6: something that requires effort.
Speaker 4: I find a lot more impressive and thoughtful.
Speaker 5: I say, take the gifts and say thank you.
Speaker 1: Can either receipt.
Speaker 3: So you'll love language, We know what do you mean?
Speaker 1: Gift giving is yes, yes, I am a big gift giver.
Speaker 1: As one of my love languages, I would say, so,
Speaker 1: what's the one where you tell people how you feel?
Speaker 1: That's not my love words of relation, acts of service. Yes,
Speaker 1: I would say, I'm very much that person. But can
Speaker 1: I just say what I like to risceive? Yes, language
Speaker 1: like certainly for me, the things when people remember things
Speaker 1: that are specific to me. I love it. And actually
Speaker 1: I have very clear memories. I remember really clearly. I
Speaker 1: had really bad morning sickness with the twins and my husband.
Speaker 1: The only thing I could eat with cinnamon donuts from
Speaker 1: this one particular place, and every day he would go
Speaker 1: and wait for their place to open until they made
Speaker 1: those cinnamon donuts. And I just remember, like I still
Speaker 1: think about that. That to me is love.
Speaker 3: That's beautiful.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So that's like a very specific thing and I
Speaker 1: and you know he would do that for me today.
Speaker 1: But if he could remember exactly what I.
Speaker 3: Loved, you could just encourage him with the list. I think. Yeah, Grace,
Speaker 3: what about you? What's your love language?
Speaker 5: Everything? Yes, if I like you, I got order verhotypical ares.
Speaker 5: But at the same time, if you betray me your
Speaker 5: dad to me, yes, simple as that. Because I give
Speaker 5: so much and when someone's in trouble, I'm the first
Speaker 5: one to be there, and I'm kind of like Harveychai
Speaker 5: Tell from pop fiction. Yeah yeah, when people are in trouble,
Speaker 5: they call me, yeah, and I'm that straight away.
Speaker 3: What can I fix?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 5: But when people don't reciprocate, I don't understand why, because
Speaker 5: I I think when you're good to people, it doesn't
Speaker 5: mean that I'm asking for a return. I just thought
Speaker 5: they were on the same level of giving and taking.
Speaker 5: So when people don't give as much as I give,
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, I misunderstood where our friendship or relationship.
Speaker 1: But I don't think you did misunderstand. I think that
Speaker 1: goes to how different people kind of think about love,
Speaker 1: Like I'm the same as you, Like I'm always shocked
Speaker 1: when people don't behave in the same way I do,
Speaker 1: or don't reciprocate in the same way I do it,
Speaker 1: or don't show up in the same way I do.
Speaker 1: But some people just aren't built like that. They show
Speaker 1: love in different ways, and it's interesting. So yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: trying not to get angry about it, but I've had
Speaker 1: many a conversation like I just don't understand and also
Speaker 1: don't expect people to change who they are. No, they
Speaker 1: don't inherently change.
Speaker 5: In my experience, I actually lower my expectation now. The
Speaker 5: only people that I give so much too is Jason,
Speaker 5: my husband, and my son. Yeah, and before I was
Speaker 5: so thin with everyone. Now I realize, oh, it doesn't
Speaker 5: work both ways sometimes with some people. So I'm just like,
Speaker 5: you know what, fuck you.
Speaker 2: So so grace husband, Jason? How does he shaw love
Speaker 2: out of those things?
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know what I've done in my
Speaker 5: previous life to deserve him, because that guy is fucking
Speaker 5: amazing and I'm a lot I know, and he put
Speaker 5: up with a lot. But at the same time, I
Speaker 5: give him twenty four to seven entertainment. Hell, I'm just saying,
Speaker 5: he you know. On my fiftieth birthday. I mean, he's
Speaker 5: done so many things for me and vice versa. On
Speaker 5: my fiftieth birthday, he basically did a video of sixty
Speaker 5: of my closest friends and you know, people I love
Speaker 5: all around the world, and some of them he's never met.
Speaker 5: So he basically went down through my whole entire contact list,
Speaker 5: ask them, contact them to get to make me a
Speaker 5: video of like a few minutes whatever and stuff. It
Speaker 5: took him two months to and a half months. Yeah,
Speaker 5: and I couldn't believe he pulled it off because a
Speaker 5: lot of people he had, you know he hasn't met, ye,
Speaker 5: because I've got for all around the world. And when
Speaker 5: he sent me that video, I was just like, oh
Speaker 5: my god. There's a lot of work.
Speaker 1: And they're the things that people talk about doing but
Speaker 1: don't do because it is too much. Ever, my husband
Speaker 1: did a similar thing for me and it's something I
Speaker 1: still hold on to now. And I know how much
Speaker 1: effort went into that, how much time. That's significant.
Speaker 6: No, I love that well. Brunner is that person for
Speaker 6: our group. She's always the one that's organizing an event.
Speaker 6: Last year my birthday, she organized a weekend away for
Speaker 6: all the girls and the best bit was that, you know,
Speaker 6: we thought we'd peaked. We'd had breakfast that morning, we'd
Speaker 6: had a beautiful dinner that night, and then we went
Speaker 6: into this separate room and then they all went away.
Speaker 6: The cake arrived and I was like, where is everyone?
Speaker 6: And they all walked in with Effie wigs. It was hilarious,
Speaker 6: like it was just the best thing ever.
Speaker 4: Everyone looked ridiculous. We had such a laugh.
Speaker 6: But you're always the one that's doing the birthday videos,
Speaker 6: You're always the one that's organizing everything.
Speaker 4: I'm more the.
Speaker 6: Person, like I'm very good in every day scenarios. I'm
Speaker 6: the person that'll wash the dishes if I can. I'm
Speaker 6: the person that'll burnie your backyard prior to a party.
Speaker 4: I'll help you organize your house.
Speaker 3: You know, you pig.
Speaker 1: I'm a comport.
Speaker 3: Yeah, your love language, acts of service.
Speaker 1: It is.
Speaker 4: It's very action.
Speaker 6: But I'm also very verbal. I'm the always the person
Speaker 6: giving a speech. So I'm I'm a big fan and
Speaker 6: this was one of the benefits of being, you know,
Speaker 6: a child whose father was dying. I don't delay expressing
Speaker 6: how I feel about someone. I don't wait for a eulogy.
Speaker 6: I don't wait for an important birthday. I give those
Speaker 6: speeches every chance I get. There isn't a single person
Speaker 6: that I love that doesn't know why I love them.
Speaker 6: And I'm also a fan of bespoke love. I'm not
Speaker 6: generic about it. You will know exactly why I love you,
Speaker 6: what it is about your character that I love, because
Speaker 6: the last thing I want is anyone to not get
Speaker 6: a sense of how magnificent they are, because I think
Speaker 6: that's the ultimate you know, love language.
Speaker 5: Yeah, marriage, some your text and maybe like the second
Speaker 5: month after we met, and I like this and this
Speaker 5: about you, And I said to Jason, my husband, I'm like,
Speaker 5: is she a fucking lesbian?
Speaker 4: Possibly?
Speaker 2: So you would powerwash somebody's driveway, Mary, But how do
Speaker 2: you like to accept love?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 8: I like.
Speaker 6: My husband's really good at drawing, so he'll do little
Speaker 6: notes and do really cute like little pictures like animations
Speaker 6: and stuff for me, and I've collected them over the years.
Speaker 4: I love that.
Speaker 6: I don't want I get embarrassed at the idea of
Speaker 6: a candle lit dinner.
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god, that is so embarrassing. I'm
Speaker 4: gonna get dressed up.
Speaker 6: I mean, I'll do it, but not with any expectation
Speaker 6: that this is what romance should look like. I've found
Speaker 6: romance in the smallest things, not the biggest things, and
Speaker 6: I think most of us relate to that, right, I mean,
Speaker 6: I think we've all had I mean, I certainly have
Speaker 6: you know, the Five Pillars of Love. I've been in
Speaker 6: really good relationation ships, but physically it wasn't there. And
Speaker 6: that's just like, I mean, do we all not remember
Speaker 6: that feeling of like thinking every someone had everything and
Speaker 6: then physically you don't.
Speaker 1: Have a connection. Yeah, that's pretty kind of you know,
Speaker 1: I think that's pretty common and pretty jarring.
Speaker 6: Yeah, or it's physically there and there's there's no interest.
Speaker 6: I went out with such a great looking guy, I remember,
Speaker 6: and there was nothing, nothing exciting in the way that
Speaker 6: we you know, we had a great sense of humor,
Speaker 6: we laughed a lot, but there was no intellectual stimulation there.
Speaker 4: There was no thinking about anything outside.
Speaker 6: Of what was happening in that moment, you know, And
Speaker 6: as fun as it was, it was like an empty
Speaker 6: cab for me.
Speaker 4: So I didn't find that romantic or sexy.
Speaker 5: Speaking of romance guys, I watched Office Romance Oh Yeah
Speaker 5: on Netflix with Brat Gilstein and j Low and I
Speaker 5: loved it. Oh good really because it was so funny
Speaker 5: and I don't like two americanize shows. I love British
Speaker 5: sense of humor. Grew up in UK, and Brett Golsden does.
Speaker 4: It so well.
Speaker 5: He's he is amazing right, And it got me thinking
Speaker 5: how many office romances have we had? Because I had
Speaker 5: a few, and I love to hear your story, slag.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I can't. I'm not sure I
Speaker 1: can use the word office unless film sets count. Yes,
Speaker 1: I definitely, I would say the majority of my romances,
Speaker 1: and I'm putting inverted commas there, I probably met through
Speaker 1: work in some way, having dated many an actor or
Speaker 1: a filmmaker or a writer. I mean, I'd say my
Speaker 1: office romance started early. I lost my virginity on a
Speaker 1: film set. The very first film set I turned in.
Speaker 1: I lost my virginity to an actor on a film set,
Speaker 1: so on physically on the set, but I was interning
Speaker 1: on a movie. I did lose my virgincy to the
Speaker 1: lead actor. I'm a very big fan of the office romance,
Speaker 1: and we're in business with my husband now, so that
Speaker 1: might tell you something.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, this is gold can I ask where on
Speaker 3: the set?
Speaker 8: It was?
Speaker 1: Physically on the set? I think I was in his
Speaker 1: apartment that he was staying at. Not he wasn't his home.
Speaker 1: He was filming off site, so to speak.
Speaker 3: Did he know that he was your first?
Speaker 1: Yes? I think he luxuriated in that fact. I certainly
Speaker 1: wasn't his.
Speaker 5: How did it even happen?
Speaker 1: Well, I was like, I mean I was just so
Speaker 1: confident and you know, fun, and you know, I was
Speaker 1: like interning on this movie and I was this, you know,
Speaker 1: gorgeous young thing.
Speaker 4: And did you think did you or did he pursue?
Speaker 1: I think both? I think definitely both. Yeah. I mean
Speaker 1: I think I got a little bit enamored because you know,
Speaker 1: he was at the time quite a well known Australian actor,
Speaker 1: no names, and but I became a bit enamored and
Speaker 1: he kind of entertained it for a bit. We definitely
Speaker 1: saw each other a bit afterwards, but he was dating
Speaker 1: many other women at the same time, so that was
Speaker 1: probably my first heartbreak.
Speaker 2: We're thinking about what you're going to wear every day
Speaker 2: going onto sat Was it awkward after on set?
Speaker 3: Were now done it?
Speaker 1: I don't think I thought it. I mean I just
Speaker 1: always look good back then. You know, I was like
Speaker 1: eighteen and fun and like just in the world, like
Speaker 1: having the time of my life.
Speaker 6: Bruno, I've seen you over the years. I mean I think,
Speaker 6: you know, you flirt with furniture. I mean, I think
Speaker 6: when you're in a good moody, you're very vivacious and
Speaker 6: very you know, life affirming and out there in all.
Speaker 4: The best ways. Did you flirt with him?
Speaker 6: Because I've seen you at times just make a decision
Speaker 6: or I really like that that and then turn to
Speaker 6: me and say, I'll see you in twenty.
Speaker 1: Five, yeah, and off you've got. Yeah. Yeah, I was
Speaker 1: a very good flirt. I mean, I say not so
Speaker 1: much anymore because I don't need but I was really
Speaker 1: I was very flirtatious, and I probably was, you know,
Speaker 1: had a bit of Dutch courage. I was probably you know,
Speaker 1: drinking a lot back then. But yeah, I was a
Speaker 1: really good flirt. I was unafraid. My best line you
Speaker 1: probably remember this, Mary. I would go up to guys
Speaker 1: and just say, Hi, I'm Bruner, I'm your future ex girlfriend.
Speaker 4: Yeah. But you know what I loved about where your
Speaker 4: head was at.
Speaker 6: You weren't looking for love. You were looking for a
Speaker 6: good time. You weren't looking for approval. You were looking
Speaker 6: for a good time. You were looking to get off.
Speaker 6: You weren't looking to, you know, to get the attention.
Speaker 6: It was very almost you know now when you look
Speaker 6: back at it, it was almost like a male mentality. It
Speaker 6: wasn't that you were looking for approval. That's what I
Speaker 6: liked about how you went about it, because I.
Speaker 1: Was looking for more at times, and you know, had
Speaker 1: my heartbroken a few times. But I moved on very quickly.
Speaker 1: So who else has had an office ro now?
Speaker 6: The first professional acting job I got was for a
Speaker 6: theater company.
Speaker 4: I was a puppeteer for the first three years ago area. Yeah, puppets. Yeah,
Speaker 4: that's sexy stuff right there.
Speaker 6: And I got the job and there was a guy
Speaker 6: there who was not my style whatsoever. Here's the thing, ladies,
Speaker 6: Sometimes it's the ones you don't expect that are more
Speaker 6: fun than the obvious.
Speaker 4: You know, fantasy.
Speaker 6: So we had a great friendship, you know, like we're
Speaker 6: working together for maybe six months.
Speaker 1: What was his job, marry He was an actor as well.
Speaker 1: He was in the same it was also a puppeteer.
Speaker 3: He was a puppeteer.
Speaker 4: He was good with his hands. What can I say?
Speaker 6: It was texterrous. So you know, we didn't go public
Speaker 6: with it. We probably happened ten times and that was it.
Speaker 1: A puppeteering romance. Cath of you had any you worked
Speaker 1: in the music business, Have you ever had any office romance?
Speaker 3: I've had, yeah, few.
Speaker 2: I did have a funny on my first job from
Speaker 2: university where we were a publishers, so we would like
Speaker 2: review nightclubs. It was trade press, me travel the country
Speaker 2: for a free bar, et cetera. And there was a
Speaker 2: guy that used to do the lighting and a lot
Speaker 2: of these kind of nightclubs that we go to, and
Speaker 2: I really fancied him, and everyone I worked with knew that.
Speaker 3: And then we had like.
Speaker 2: A big kind of you know trade awards like night
Speaker 2: and he and I ended up like spending the night together.
Speaker 3: But all it was was tops only, Like so I.
Speaker 2: Kept my Charmy's on tops only, so just tops only.
Speaker 2: So I kept my Jarmy's on and he kept his
Speaker 2: boxes on. So it was a lot of kind of
Speaker 2: you know, like sex without sex.
Speaker 4: So when you were saying tops, you mean just your
Speaker 4: the shirt part.
Speaker 3: Of your es was off? Did you I had my
Speaker 3: pajama bottoms. My mark suspense is just the whole.
Speaker 2: Entire pajama was on, so everything was covered. And then
Speaker 2: I just got the shit taken out of me by
Speaker 2: the rest of the company. I went for this great
Speaker 2: company in Manchester. There was like twelve or thirteen of us,
Speaker 2: so I just kept going Tops Only.
Speaker 3: It was just Tops Only to everyone anyway.
Speaker 2: About eight months later I realized because we had no week,
Speaker 2: we had those phones, you know, like the old fashioned
Speaker 2: phones where the name.
Speaker 3: Would come up like internals.
Speaker 2: And about eight months later, when I sat at somebody
Speaker 2: else's desk, someone had called from my phone. I didn't realize,
Speaker 2: but they changed my name to tops Only. For eight months,
Speaker 2: whenever I called someone in the office, unbeknown to me,
Speaker 2: it was like tops Only. I think I was so
Speaker 2: worried about being like someone had a one light stand
Speaker 2: with somebody in our work environment. I pulled it right
Speaker 2: back so there was no hr and that that sort
Speaker 2: of Do.
Speaker 1: We think people are having office romances now? With like
Speaker 1: everywhere talk around it like, I feel like, you know,
Speaker 1: it's kind of taken the fun out of some of
Speaker 1: the romances, don't you so?
Speaker 5: Bruna on film set nowadays they must be so much
Speaker 5: more careful about you know, who's hooking up with who?
Speaker 1: Oh, No, we have to do like before any TV show.
Speaker 1: We have to do like an entire HR like workshop
Speaker 1: where they tell you all the rules, things you can
Speaker 1: and cannot say, things you can and cannot do like that,
Speaker 1: that shit is nailed down. And obviously I'm often, you know,
Speaker 1: in a position of leadership. So and obviously I'm married. Sorry,
Speaker 1: let's get to the most important fact. I wouldn't because
Speaker 1: I'm married. But even if I wasn't married, I would
Speaker 1: not have any kind of office romance.
Speaker 5: These what's the consequences well of the question.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's you know, I think, particularly in America,
Speaker 1: could get very litigious. You know, I think, you know,
Speaker 1: we live in that world. And look, I think where
Speaker 1: the power I balance has been abuse so many times,
Speaker 1: particularly in my business, that you have to be super
Speaker 1: careful or declare that you're in a relationship with someone,
Speaker 1: which is I think what people do now, they say,
Speaker 1: you know, they declare it to HR before they work together.
Speaker 4: I wanted to have an office romance.
Speaker 6: I was working at the Hilton, and it was a
Speaker 6: housemaid at the Hilton, and I wore a canary yellow
Speaker 6: uniform with a white hat, sexy with a bit of
Speaker 6: lace on the apron that matched the lace on the hat.
Speaker 6: And it was definitely on the lowest in the hierarchy
Speaker 6: were the housemaids.
Speaker 4: And if you want to lose.
Speaker 6: Weight quickly, I suggest you go be a housemaid and
Speaker 6: do eighteen.
Speaker 4: Rooms on your own and go in there and.
Speaker 6: See all of people's literally dirty business and have to
Speaker 6: clean it up. My god, And sometimes they'd be generous
Speaker 6: enough to leave some coins in the sheets as a tip.
Speaker 1: Did you have a crash on the manager or something?
Speaker 4: Mini bar manager? It was hot and.
Speaker 6: Literally I could hear him coming down the corridor with
Speaker 6: his drinks trolley and all the little alcohol bottles would
Speaker 6: hit up against each other, and then I would get
Speaker 6: all tingly in my downstairs and I would hope that
Speaker 6: he would like meet me in the Manchester cupboard and
Speaker 6: we could get some business on. He never made eye contact,
Speaker 6: the manager with a mullet.
Speaker 1: Guys, you know what, I've been thinking a lot about
Speaker 1: friendship and cutting off friendships. Recently, I had someone contact
Speaker 1: me on Instagram because they saw I was in the
Speaker 1: country that they lived in, and I'd been there a
Speaker 1: few times, and they'd reached out and I had not
Speaker 1: made contact because that was just someone that was kind
Speaker 1: of from my and I love them at that time,
Speaker 1: but I just didn't feel like, you know, I hadn't
Speaker 1: seen them in years. And I stayed in contact with
Speaker 1: the people I wanted to. But they called me on it,
Speaker 1: and they said, what happened? What did I do? Why
Speaker 1: did you suddenly kind of cut off contact with me?
Speaker 1: And I tried to be as honest as I could.
Speaker 1: I basically said, you know, my life's been very different
Speaker 1: for the last fifteen years. I went away, I moved
Speaker 1: all over the world. I had twins, I have Loopers.
Speaker 4: Loopers.
Speaker 1: A Sloopers is always a good one when in doubt,
Speaker 1: don't have much time. I'm too busy dealing with my Loopers,
Speaker 1: and I've got a husband and I'm busy. I'm juggling
Speaker 1: a lot of things. But the truth is I've just
Speaker 1: grown apart from that person. They were an amazing friend
Speaker 1: to me at a particular time in my life, but
Speaker 1: it wasn't necessarily someone that I wanted in my present.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and was it just like, oh, you know, it'd
Speaker 6: be great to stay in touch did it come from
Speaker 6: a positive place or were they guilting you up for not.
Speaker 1: How No, it was like full on accusation. It was
Speaker 1: very accusatory and very confronting.
Speaker 5: I think it's kind of weird when people ask you
Speaker 5: questions like that. I'm always like, it's not always about you,
Speaker 5: because life happens and different age, different friends, basically, right,
Speaker 5: So for this person to ask you, what did I
Speaker 5: do it? It's not about you, mate, for got's sake,
Speaker 5: But you do.
Speaker 1: Feel like I definitely I really feel guilty. And sometimes
Speaker 1: I'll look back at old photos of people that I
Speaker 1: was so close with and had this like there was
Speaker 1: such a part of a specific time my life, and
Speaker 1: I will always feel a little bit guilty. But I
Speaker 1: totally understand why they're not my life anymore. But I
Speaker 1: do feel guilty because they were an important part of
Speaker 1: my past.
Speaker 6: But it's not funny that you don't think like that
Speaker 6: about it. You wouldn't send that same message to that person.
Speaker 6: So I often think, though it's a specific type of
Speaker 6: personality trait, I don't like jealousy. I just think it's
Speaker 6: a game you can't win, you know, like, if you're
Speaker 6: going to be jealous I have lots of friends that
Speaker 6: I'm really really close to, and I love all of them.
Speaker 6: But if you can't play nice, if you have to
Speaker 6: make it about you all the time, that it's not
Speaker 6: going to work. Because we're so time poor, that often
Speaker 6: will be in a group and if you don't, if
Speaker 6: you have issue with people in that group, then then
Speaker 6: you won't be part of that group. So that's one
Speaker 6: thing I don't like. I don't like people that bring
Speaker 6: a problem to every situation that you have.
Speaker 4: I had someone I used to know very very well.
Speaker 6: Every time we'd be somewhere happy, they would come in
Speaker 6: with a problem and make it about them and it
Speaker 6: would just ruin kill the vibe. The thing was that
Speaker 6: person always had a problem. That's how that person got attention.
Speaker 6: So I think that you know, friendship particularly, I think
Speaker 6: because it lasts for so long. If you if you've
Speaker 6: got the right friends, you know, you need to be
Speaker 6: able to grow together and evolve together.
Speaker 4: If you're still trying to have the friendship.
Speaker 6: You had back when you were partying or you know,
Speaker 6: two or three decades ago, that's not going to be
Speaker 6: where it's at anymore. Because life, you know, takes us
Speaker 6: in different directions and in the opposite way. I've got friends,
Speaker 6: and I'd be curious if you guys do who I
Speaker 6: might see once every two years and it's like I
Speaker 6: saw them yesterday to beause there's not this expectation.
Speaker 1: You just kind of revert. And there are some friends
Speaker 1: who aren't proprietorial over you, right, like you're not proprietory
Speaker 1: love your friends. Like I was just telling Cath earlier that,
Speaker 1: like she met our really good friend Molly from the US,
Speaker 1: and I just saw Molly and she was like, I
Speaker 1: love Kath. We've been communicating. I have friends that would
Speaker 1: be jealous about that because they're so proprietory about like
Speaker 1: their group of friends. I do not roll like that.
Speaker 4: Now.
Speaker 2: That freaks me out when somebody measures friendship on I
Speaker 2: called you more, I texted you more. You know I
Speaker 2: haven't seen you. That just sort of gives me I
Speaker 2: just want to back away very quickly with the truck noise.
Speaker 2: That just freaks me out because then I just feel
Speaker 2: like the pressure. It's not friendship, you know, they want
Speaker 2: something in exchange for something for me. I've never kind
Speaker 2: of had a friendship breakup, but when my marriage ended,
Speaker 2: I did lose friends, yes, And that's really difficult because
Speaker 2: because you know, you also know that if you know,
Speaker 2: you've met your husband and he brings his friends, and
Speaker 2: then his friends get married, and then your friends with
Speaker 2: the wives and stuff, that when everything goes wrong, it
Speaker 2: is sort of their side and your side. But it
Speaker 2: is really difficult, you know, letting those people go. But
Speaker 2: you have to.
Speaker 5: I've cut up one of my closest, closest friends of
Speaker 5: thirty five years two years ago because we give each
Speaker 5: other so much. Then I found out from a mutual
Speaker 5: friend that he's been bitching about me for about a year,
Speaker 5: which I had no idea. Can you imagine. I flew
Speaker 5: him to Purf to visit us. I was always there
Speaker 5: and also vice further to be fair to him, but
Speaker 5: I was not expecting that. I was so shocked to
Speaker 5: the point that and then I found out some more
Speaker 5: information about him, which I wasn't happy about, and I thought, wow,
Speaker 5: and it kind of what my vision of how I
Speaker 5: see him.
Speaker 1: But did you confront him about it?
Speaker 5: I cut him cold.
Speaker 1: Well, that's how I roll was broken.
Speaker 5: Weirdly enough, not really, I mean, they don't call me
Speaker 5: Queen of China tone for nothing. I mean, if I
Speaker 5: cut you off, your dad to me, when you.
Speaker 3: Cut someone off, how do you do that cold?
Speaker 5: Literally block blod Actually, you know what, It's kind of
Speaker 5: scary sometimes that I'm able to do that. But at
Speaker 5: the same time, we've made up before, you know, we
Speaker 5: had a huge fight before, and I'm you know, made
Speaker 5: up with him. I apologize to him. I don't know,
Speaker 5: It's just one of those weird things that I and
Speaker 5: then I believe, you know what. I'm at that stage
Speaker 5: of my life. People come in and out of your life,
Speaker 5: and I accept that.
Speaker 4: Bernie. Do you ever feel like you've been cut off?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've had It's kind of all connected to work,
Speaker 1: but I've definitely had business with people that I've been
Speaker 1: very close to and years and years of what I
Speaker 1: thought was a real friendship and then nothing. And I
Speaker 1: definitely think about that. I'm always a bit battled when
Speaker 1: people like cut someone off cold that they've had really
Speaker 1: long term relationships with.
Speaker 2: I spoke to my therapist about this once when I
Speaker 2: was kind of in a place with the friendship where
Speaker 2: I was like, this is draining a bit bit, Like
Speaker 2: you know, you said, with your friend's it's draining, and
Speaker 2: sometimes as a solo mum and a solo person, you're
Speaker 2: just keeping yourself above water. And certain friends like energy
Speaker 2: vampires you call that, you know. Yeah, and I sort
Speaker 2: of I spoke to my therapist about what do I do?
Speaker 2: Should I say blah blah blah and you know, make
Speaker 2: a big statement.
Speaker 3: I'm not that person.
Speaker 2: I'm not very comfortable with confrontation, and she just sort
Speaker 2: of we did some you know, make we did some
Speaker 2: energy work to kind of cut it, and she said,
Speaker 2: you'll just stop reaching out. She'll just stop, you know,
Speaker 2: like it just it kind of ebbed and it was
Speaker 2: a bit like that, I can't catch up this time. Sorry,
Speaker 2: you know a few of them, yes, and then there's
Speaker 2: not a big moment that anyone needs to kind of,
Speaker 2: I guess heal from it, just subsided.
Speaker 1: I've definitely had big moments with people where I didn't
Speaker 1: speak to people for a couple of years. Really, yeah,
Speaker 1: come back together. Yeah, Like I'm all more, I'm not
Speaker 1: passive aggressive. I'd rather have the fight and kind of
Speaker 1: deal with the ramifications. Then, like, no one say anything,
Speaker 1: I'd rather have the fight. What about you, mah, I maybe.
Speaker 6: Avoid the fight because at some point you've got to
Speaker 6: understand that someone's not going to change. And there's nothing
Speaker 6: more disappointing than hoping someone's going to be able to
Speaker 6: see your point of view or change their ways or adapt,
Speaker 6: and so I find that really hard. Sometimes I want
Speaker 6: to be the person that wants to have the conversation.
Speaker 6: At the same time, I'm thinking, okay, so you have it,
Speaker 6: and then what, it's not going to change anything, So
Speaker 6: why I avoid it? So there's part of me that
Speaker 6: fantasizes being really you know, transparent, saying, hey, this doesn't
Speaker 6: sit right with me?
Speaker 4: What's that person going to do?
Speaker 1: Agree with me?
Speaker 4: So I don't know. I don't know what the best
Speaker 4: way is.
Speaker 6: But I also know that things have got to use
Speaker 6: by date, you know, like some things are just certain
Speaker 6: moments in time. Some people come in and play an
Speaker 6: important role at a certain point in your life, and
Speaker 6: you hopefully do it back for them, and then you
Speaker 6: all move on and if it was significant, next time
Speaker 6: you see each other, you know it's still there hopefully,
Speaker 6: and if it's not, then you move on.
Speaker 5: With any relationship, it's about trust, right and if the
Speaker 5: trust is gone for whatever reason, then to me it's
Speaker 5: not solid enough.
Speaker 1: It's gone Yeah, the emotional trust is very important. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I've been trying to get rid of Mary for thirty
Speaker 1: love it, and I cannot get rid of it no
Speaker 1: matter how hard I tried.
Speaker 3: All right, blast from the past.
Speaker 2: Okay, let's go back to a time where there was
Speaker 2: no social media, before streaming, before anyone knew where you
Speaker 2: were until you told them. Okay, So I gave you
Speaker 2: guys some homework. I wanted you to bring a line
Speaker 2: from one of your favorite movies from the eighties or nineties. Okay, ladies,
Speaker 2: this is how it's going to work. You say it first,
Speaker 2: and however, whichever tone you want to bring it to
Speaker 2: the table, we will try and guess the movie, and
Speaker 2: then we'll put the headphone on and we will listen
Speaker 2: to the actor saying the line.
Speaker 3: How does that sound? That sounds good?
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, ladies, let's see if you can guess where
Speaker 1: this line is from. Life moves pretty fast. If you
Speaker 1: don't stop and look around once in a while, you
Speaker 1: could miss it.
Speaker 2: I think she knows, yes, can is it Ferris Buhler's Yes, Yes,
Speaker 2: Dell's day Off.
Speaker 3: Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around
Speaker 3: once in a while.
Speaker 1: You could miss it.
Speaker 3: I got goosies.
Speaker 4: Well done.
Speaker 1: Talk about a movie that has has never dated, Like
Speaker 1: I rewatched that movie, My kids rewatch that movie. I mean,
Speaker 1: the core themes of just like living your life and
Speaker 1: taking the day off and lines, it's so relevant and
Speaker 1: resonant and like Matthew Broderick is like everything in that movie. Yes,
Speaker 1: I mean that is just like one of the great
Speaker 1: Like you just feel a when you hear that line.
Speaker 4: Yes, Kat, what about you?
Speaker 2: Well, look, if we were doing favorite movies, I would
Speaker 2: obviously hit you with a nobody puts baby in the corner. Yes,
Speaker 2: because that is too easy. Know the words and I'm
Speaker 2: sure you'll know. All right, guess where this is from.
Speaker 2: They're just noodles, Michael.
Speaker 3: Oh, I like that? Oh, I don't know.
Speaker 1: They just I know. I can't. I'm like thinking and thinking,
Speaker 1: is it back to the future?
Speaker 3: No, shall we hear it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's hear it.
Speaker 2: They're only noodles.
Speaker 8: Michael Blade Runner, eat Michael, Michael, Michael, Michael, Hot Michael,
Speaker 8: They're only noodles.
Speaker 1: I'm stumped.
Speaker 4: Only Hot Michael. I knew was in the Godfather al Pacino.
Speaker 4: What is it?
Speaker 3: The Lost Boys? Oh?
Speaker 4: Wait, I don't remember that.
Speaker 2: One of my core memories, The Lost Boys, was that
Speaker 2: not like a massive.
Speaker 1: No I did. I'm sure I saw it, but I
Speaker 1: don't remember that line.
Speaker 2: I remember that's when so Lost Boys about vampires, Keifer
Speaker 2: Sutherland's Vampire Michael Jason Patrick.
Speaker 3: And the best soundtrack ever Doom.
Speaker 1: I've ever seen it.
Speaker 3: My god, The Lost Boys, we need to watch it together.
Speaker 1: Again is so good.
Speaker 4: It was huge.
Speaker 1: The Unleashed Retreat will do that. Oh my god, Mary,
Speaker 1: what have you got? Mine is so uninteresting compared to that?
Speaker 1: You know, does anyone remember this line?
Speaker 4: Well? Aren't I the popular one?
Speaker 1: Are you a woman or a man?
Speaker 4: I'm a man?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 1: Is it the Breakfast Club?
Speaker 8: No?
Speaker 1: Okay, let's hear it.
Speaker 6: The popular one?
Speaker 1: What is that film?
Speaker 8: Is that?
Speaker 3: Jim Carrey?
Speaker 5: It is?
Speaker 6: It's ace Ventura when nature calls. The reason why I
Speaker 6: love that line is a.
Speaker 4: Number of reasons.
Speaker 6: He's obviously gone to see a tribal elder. He's gone
Speaker 6: into this in Africa, right, and he's gone.
Speaker 4: Into this tent and they said, if he likes you,
Speaker 4: he'll spit on you.
Speaker 6: And then he comes out and he's got like almost
Speaker 6: it's dripping from his face. Obviously the elder liked him
Speaker 6: because he had saliva dripping like stalek tights from his
Speaker 6: chin all over.
Speaker 1: His adventure of ped Detective.
Speaker 6: Don't know the second one, I like the Africa one,
Speaker 6: And he comes out he says, well, aren't I the
Speaker 6: popular one?
Speaker 4: And for me? Because Greeks spit on children and in
Speaker 4: order to stop the evil Eye, I'm glad.
Speaker 3: I'm not great.
Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, so you sped, not directly. You don't put
Speaker 6: flemer into the spit and then attach it to the
Speaker 6: person that you're trying to stop from.
Speaker 4: Getting the evil Eye. But I love that.
Speaker 6: I love Jim Carey when I was growing up, and
Speaker 6: he was so hilarious and Ace Ventura was one of
Speaker 6: the best characters ever.
Speaker 4: And I don't really watch that many comedies, but for
Speaker 4: some reason, Jim Carrey was just the ultimate nor Saw
Speaker 4: the nineties.
Speaker 1: I think it was the nineties quite as iconic as
Speaker 1: I expect from exactly.
Speaker 6: I didn't go romance, I didn't go nostalgic. I just
Speaker 6: went blatant comedy.
Speaker 3: Grace, what about you?
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm just going to act this up. I want
Speaker 5: to guess where this is from.
Speaker 1: Okay, Just when I thought I.
Speaker 3: Was out, they pulled me back in.
Speaker 4: I know, I know. This is The Godfather three.
Speaker 6: Yes, yes, yeah, that is al Pacina in the Godfather's frame.
Speaker 1: Yes.
Speaker 4: I wish they'd pulled us out.
Speaker 6: Of watching that film because that was a disaster compared
Speaker 6: to the first two.
Speaker 2: Which one is Sail to My Little Friend Scarface, Yes.
Speaker 5: This one and Sophia Coppler. Yes, she wasn't very good
Speaker 5: as an a listen, let's have a listen.
Speaker 2: Just when I thought I was out, they pulled me
Speaker 2: back in.
Speaker 5: So good.
Speaker 3: We knew it was you afraid of what a mixed
Speaker 3: bag Blockbusters Nights Together would be.
Speaker 1: Why do you love that one, Grace.
Speaker 5: Because I just I'm just hardcore. I love that kind
Speaker 5: of gangster movie, like Italian Mafioso. You know, it just
Speaker 5: goes well, it goes so well.
Speaker 4: She's very gangster.
Speaker 1: Very compliments.
Speaker 5: Have we done good?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: That is a nine out of ten for all three
Speaker 2: of you. And when we finished today, I'm going to
Speaker 2: make you watch Lost Boys and you were going to
Speaker 2: like Jason Patrick just as much as I did when
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