1 00:00:10,287 --> 00:00:13,047 Speaker 1: You're listening to Amma mea podcast. 2 00:00:13,727 --> 00:00:16,767 Speaker 2: Mamma Mia acknowledges the traditional owners of land and waters 3 00:00:16,807 --> 00:00:23,887 Speaker 2: that this podcast is recorded on Hello and welcome to 4 00:00:23,967 --> 00:00:26,687 Speaker 2: Momma Mia out loud. It's what women are actually talking 5 00:00:26,687 --> 00:00:28,807 Speaker 2: about on Monday, the twelfth of August. 6 00:00:28,927 --> 00:00:30,087 Speaker 1: I'm Holly Wayne Wright. 7 00:00:29,967 --> 00:00:32,447 Speaker 3: I'm mea Friedman, and I'm Jesse Stephen. 8 00:00:32,847 --> 00:00:35,767 Speaker 2: And on the show today, the Olympics is over and 9 00:00:35,807 --> 00:00:40,047 Speaker 2: we have a lot to unpack. Notably, the entire world 10 00:00:40,127 --> 00:00:43,447 Speaker 2: is talking, laughing and meaning about one Australian woman. 11 00:00:43,927 --> 00:00:46,327 Speaker 1: We decode the ray gun phenomenon. 12 00:00:46,727 --> 00:00:49,447 Speaker 2: Plus more athletes have asked their other halves to marry 13 00:00:49,487 --> 00:00:51,247 Speaker 2: them at this Olympics than ever before, and I have 14 00:00:51,367 --> 00:00:54,167 Speaker 2: questions for the marriage, about it all, the Tom Cruisners 15 00:00:54,167 --> 00:00:57,087 Speaker 2: of the closing ceremony and why we all care just 16 00:00:57,207 --> 00:01:01,007 Speaker 2: so damn much. Also, you can't turn around at the 17 00:01:01,047 --> 00:01:03,287 Speaker 2: moment without Blake Lively whipping you in the face with 18 00:01:03,367 --> 00:01:07,247 Speaker 2: that gorgeous hair. So what's all this about a rift derailing? 19 00:01:07,407 --> 00:01:11,087 Speaker 2: It ends with us, but first me a freedman. 20 00:01:11,487 --> 00:01:14,847 Speaker 1: In case you missed it, women are filming themselves getting 21 00:01:14,887 --> 00:01:18,807 Speaker 1: their IUDs inserted and removed and posting the videos to 22 00:01:18,847 --> 00:01:23,367 Speaker 1: social media to highlight how much it hurts. Now, we're 23 00:01:23,407 --> 00:01:25,847 Speaker 1: not going to play you anything because it's just women 24 00:01:25,927 --> 00:01:29,727 Speaker 1: basically screaming in it. Is it? Yes, it is for 25 00:01:29,807 --> 00:01:32,767 Speaker 1: though it's not familiar with what an iud actually is. 26 00:01:32,807 --> 00:01:35,927 Speaker 1: It's a type of contraception. It's about three centimeters long, 27 00:01:36,087 --> 00:01:40,047 Speaker 1: and it's a T shaped plastic device with a vertical 28 00:01:40,047 --> 00:01:43,727 Speaker 1: stem and two horizontal arms, and sometimes it has a 29 00:01:43,847 --> 00:01:48,487 Speaker 1: copper coil or a hormone sort of reservoir, and it's 30 00:01:48,567 --> 00:01:50,647 Speaker 1: got a thin string that hangs from the bottom of it. 31 00:01:50,887 --> 00:01:51,847 Speaker 3: It's like a fish hawk. 32 00:01:52,087 --> 00:01:56,647 Speaker 1: Thank you, it does. It's inserted inside your uterus, now, 33 00:01:56,967 --> 00:02:02,367 Speaker 1: not your vagina, your uterus, so female anatomy. There's the 34 00:02:02,407 --> 00:02:05,647 Speaker 1: opening bit, then there's the vagina, then there's the cervix, 35 00:02:06,087 --> 00:02:08,767 Speaker 1: and then all the way through the cervix, which is 36 00:02:08,887 --> 00:02:12,367 Speaker 1: usually closed quite tightly. Is the uterus. 37 00:02:12,527 --> 00:02:16,167 Speaker 3: Your cervix should be closed until better baby pat is 38 00:02:16,167 --> 00:02:16,567 Speaker 3: coming out. 39 00:02:17,487 --> 00:02:19,767 Speaker 1: Is very closed. It's got quite far to go. It's 40 00:02:19,767 --> 00:02:22,887 Speaker 1: got a long way. It's got a really really long way, 41 00:02:23,407 --> 00:02:25,207 Speaker 1: and then the string kind of hangs out the bottom 42 00:02:25,247 --> 00:02:28,447 Speaker 1: of your cervix. Now, most women aren't offered any form 43 00:02:28,487 --> 00:02:31,407 Speaker 1: of pain relief during the procedure, and are often shocked 44 00:02:31,407 --> 00:02:33,767 Speaker 1: and distressed by how much it hurts. I had been 45 00:02:33,847 --> 00:02:37,487 Speaker 1: forewarned before I got mine, about ten years ago or so, 46 00:02:38,407 --> 00:02:40,567 Speaker 1: and I had friends who said it was so painful 47 00:02:40,607 --> 00:02:43,887 Speaker 1: they actually vomited on themselves. It was more painful than childbirth. 48 00:02:44,007 --> 00:02:46,287 Speaker 3: I did a story from Mamma Maya about this, maybe 49 00:02:46,527 --> 00:02:48,447 Speaker 3: six or so years ago. There are a lot of 50 00:02:48,447 --> 00:02:51,647 Speaker 3: women who went to get it inserted and they caught 51 00:02:51,647 --> 00:02:53,927 Speaker 3: the bus and they walked out the appointment and they went, 52 00:02:53,967 --> 00:02:56,967 Speaker 3: I can't catch the bus home. I'm throwing up. Someone fainted, 53 00:02:57,007 --> 00:03:00,007 Speaker 3: like they really really found it painful. And with any 54 00:03:00,047 --> 00:03:04,287 Speaker 3: of this stuff, there's such variation in individual experience, in 55 00:03:04,847 --> 00:03:08,007 Speaker 3: your experience of pain. And also I've always had very 56 00:03:08,047 --> 00:03:12,007 Speaker 3: painful perhaps mere or cervical screenings because some people have 57 00:03:12,047 --> 00:03:13,807 Speaker 3: like a bit of a tilted uterus, So it hurts 58 00:03:13,807 --> 00:03:15,647 Speaker 3: some people more than others. 59 00:03:15,767 --> 00:03:19,327 Speaker 1: And some medical practitioners, bless them, are better at it 60 00:03:19,607 --> 00:03:22,567 Speaker 1: than others because an IUD is something that it sounds 61 00:03:22,647 --> 00:03:24,767 Speaker 1: quite full on, and it is full on. But you 62 00:03:24,887 --> 00:03:28,127 Speaker 1: GP can do it now. It's not something a GP 63 00:03:28,287 --> 00:03:31,447 Speaker 1: does every day, so they might be skilled at it. 64 00:03:31,607 --> 00:03:33,687 Speaker 1: They might not be skilled at Oh, you've had it 65 00:03:33,727 --> 00:03:35,807 Speaker 1: at the GP. I went and got it at the guy. No, no, 66 00:03:36,087 --> 00:03:37,527 Speaker 1: with a local anesthetic. 67 00:03:37,887 --> 00:03:40,167 Speaker 2: Lays just gone to the GP with all these things. 68 00:03:40,767 --> 00:03:43,967 Speaker 3: You've raw dogged, You've raw dogged your ig raw dogged. 69 00:03:44,567 --> 00:03:47,687 Speaker 1: Dee. Use about this story. I have to examine my 70 00:03:47,727 --> 00:03:52,047 Speaker 1: reaction to it, because you're very strong, be honest, you said, Maya, 71 00:03:52,527 --> 00:03:56,287 Speaker 1: you're a big fat was fact. But also I'm like, really, 72 00:03:56,327 --> 00:03:58,727 Speaker 1: women are all filming themselves while they're getting it done, 73 00:03:58,727 --> 00:04:00,447 Speaker 1: and then me, it was like I did that, Oh 74 00:04:00,607 --> 00:04:03,247 Speaker 1: my god. And the thing is is. 75 00:04:03,207 --> 00:04:05,167 Speaker 2: That I remember the first time I had an IUD 76 00:04:05,287 --> 00:04:07,567 Speaker 2: and said it, I went to my GP. Actually I 77 00:04:07,607 --> 00:04:10,207 Speaker 2: couldn't get into my GP, and so I went to 78 00:04:10,247 --> 00:04:13,887 Speaker 2: another GP in that practice. And he was a relatively 79 00:04:13,927 --> 00:04:17,687 Speaker 2: old dude, relatively close to retirement like and a lovely man, 80 00:04:18,327 --> 00:04:20,047 Speaker 2: very experienced. 81 00:04:19,607 --> 00:04:23,007 Speaker 1: But possibly a little shaky. Little Joe Biden was like 82 00:04:23,087 --> 00:04:26,047 Speaker 1: having IUD inserted by Joe Biden. And it took him 83 00:04:26,087 --> 00:04:28,727 Speaker 1: several goes and it was not fun. But here's the 84 00:04:28,807 --> 00:04:32,367 Speaker 1: interesting thing about this story and many many stories like it, 85 00:04:32,407 --> 00:04:35,327 Speaker 1: is I remember at the time just like it wasn't fun. 86 00:04:35,327 --> 00:04:37,047 Speaker 1: But I just went, well, that's it. 87 00:04:37,047 --> 00:04:39,287 Speaker 2: It made me think about all the experiences I've had, 88 00:04:39,287 --> 00:04:42,527 Speaker 2: whether it be cervical screenings, various kind of pelvic examinations, 89 00:04:42,567 --> 00:04:45,487 Speaker 2: all that kind of stuff. Internals when you're pregnant, it's 90 00:04:45,527 --> 00:04:48,527 Speaker 2: never fun, right, and sometimes it really hurts. Sometimes it doesn't. 91 00:04:48,527 --> 00:04:51,647 Speaker 2: And I think the thing is we've just been conditioned, 92 00:04:51,927 --> 00:04:55,447 Speaker 2: or certainly my generation is conditioned to like, it hurts, 93 00:04:55,527 --> 00:04:58,767 Speaker 2: it's not fun, get on with it. But now, which 94 00:04:58,807 --> 00:05:02,607 Speaker 2: is so good, as the medical profession is more and 95 00:05:02,647 --> 00:05:06,007 Speaker 2: more female informed, because also there are many, many more 96 00:05:06,087 --> 00:05:10,407 Speaker 2: female practitioners everywhere. They're like, ah, actually, why should everything 97 00:05:10,447 --> 00:05:11,807 Speaker 2: we do have to be. 98 00:05:11,767 --> 00:05:13,327 Speaker 1: Why should this offering pain? 99 00:05:13,727 --> 00:05:15,927 Speaker 3: It's not going to get a filling. It's not like, 100 00:05:16,007 --> 00:05:18,527 Speaker 3: all right, this is a terrible experience. Like dentists have 101 00:05:18,647 --> 00:05:21,527 Speaker 3: done a fantastic job at their rebranding, but. 102 00:05:21,447 --> 00:05:24,327 Speaker 1: No one would ever consider getting dental work. It's only 103 00:05:24,367 --> 00:05:27,567 Speaker 1: when it comes to the pain experienced by women that 104 00:05:27,767 --> 00:05:30,887 Speaker 1: we think that there's some nobility in it, or that 105 00:05:30,927 --> 00:05:34,927 Speaker 1: we decide that it's not worth pain medication. But medical 106 00:05:34,967 --> 00:05:38,287 Speaker 1: authorities in the US have actually this week released new 107 00:05:38,327 --> 00:05:42,007 Speaker 1: guidelines that say doctors must inform patients about pain management 108 00:05:42,047 --> 00:05:44,087 Speaker 1: options before they stick it up there. 109 00:05:44,167 --> 00:05:44,967 Speaker 3: That's really good. 110 00:05:45,247 --> 00:05:45,487 Speaker 4: Yeah. 111 00:05:45,647 --> 00:05:48,567 Speaker 1: So basically we are saying, if you are going to 112 00:05:48,607 --> 00:05:51,167 Speaker 1: get an AD, don't let this put you off having one, 113 00:05:51,247 --> 00:05:55,167 Speaker 1: because it doesn't hurt everybody, like also just most people, but. 114 00:05:55,167 --> 00:05:57,727 Speaker 2: On a scale, because as Jesse just said, like our 115 00:05:57,807 --> 00:06:00,887 Speaker 2: anatomies are all a bit different. Yeah, so some things 116 00:06:00,927 --> 00:06:03,967 Speaker 2: down there are more painful for some people than others, 117 00:06:03,967 --> 00:06:05,727 Speaker 2: and our pain thresholds are all different too. 118 00:06:05,967 --> 00:06:09,567 Speaker 1: But there's options, is the points. So just remember to 119 00:06:09,687 --> 00:06:12,207 Speaker 1: ask about those options, and if you've got a friend 120 00:06:12,367 --> 00:06:16,527 Speaker 1: getting an AD, just say, hey, maybe ask If I 121 00:06:16,567 --> 00:06:16,807 Speaker 1: was a. 122 00:06:16,767 --> 00:06:19,567 Speaker 2: Doctor, I don't think i'd love that. Everybody's filming everything now. 123 00:06:19,967 --> 00:06:22,687 Speaker 1: Well, when I wonder that when I was filming, I 124 00:06:22,887 --> 00:06:26,487 Speaker 1: didn't film her. I was filming it. She goes, are 125 00:06:26,527 --> 00:06:28,407 Speaker 1: you filming. 126 00:06:29,367 --> 00:06:30,367 Speaker 3: Out loud? 127 00:06:31,367 --> 00:06:33,087 Speaker 1: I'm filming me. I was filming. 128 00:06:33,327 --> 00:06:35,007 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I see it on TikTok like people in 129 00:06:35,007 --> 00:06:38,407 Speaker 3: the middle of a console and a very private context. 130 00:06:38,447 --> 00:06:40,887 Speaker 3: I fully support and endorse this. I know what they're 131 00:06:40,887 --> 00:06:43,287 Speaker 3: doing and they're making a really important statement, and good 132 00:06:43,327 --> 00:06:47,407 Speaker 3: on them for going This shouldn't hurt. But generally the filming, 133 00:06:47,487 --> 00:06:49,047 Speaker 3: like I see people do it all the time, and 134 00:06:49,087 --> 00:06:51,607 Speaker 3: I think if I was the doctor, I go focus 135 00:06:52,327 --> 00:06:53,007 Speaker 3: focus on me. 136 00:06:53,207 --> 00:06:54,087 Speaker 1: It's also true. 137 00:06:54,607 --> 00:06:59,247 Speaker 4: First, let me say, anyone on that stage is the 138 00:06:59,407 --> 00:07:06,567 Speaker 4: decision and responsibility of the governing body for a committee 139 00:07:07,047 --> 00:07:10,847 Speaker 4: from each country just to stand up and say, hey, 140 00:07:10,967 --> 00:07:15,967 Speaker 4: like this girl doesn't reach qualifications of someone who should 141 00:07:15,967 --> 00:07:19,567 Speaker 4: be performing on that level, protect hip hop culture. 142 00:07:19,767 --> 00:07:21,527 Speaker 1: I think today might have been the first time that 143 00:07:21,607 --> 00:07:28,127 Speaker 1: she breakdas no Olympics. She's like some own bios doing 144 00:07:28,127 --> 00:07:28,647 Speaker 1: her own thing. 145 00:07:28,767 --> 00:07:31,567 Speaker 3: This is a disrespect to order athletes who have come 146 00:07:31,607 --> 00:07:32,807 Speaker 3: to Olympics compete. 147 00:07:32,927 --> 00:07:36,167 Speaker 4: There is no way that there isn't a better breakdancer 148 00:07:36,407 --> 00:07:38,847 Speaker 4: that's on the street dancing right. 149 00:07:38,727 --> 00:07:39,447 Speaker 5: Now than her. 150 00:07:39,767 --> 00:07:43,887 Speaker 3: A viral performance, a cruel backlash, and a swift reclamation. 151 00:07:44,527 --> 00:07:48,047 Speaker 3: Big Girl raygun was the Olympic story no one saw coming. 152 00:07:48,727 --> 00:07:53,207 Speaker 3: Breakdancer and academic Rachel Gunn represented Australia at the first 153 00:07:53,407 --> 00:07:57,327 Speaker 3: and probably only competitive breaking event at the Olympics. Did 154 00:07:57,367 --> 00:07:59,927 Speaker 3: she win, No, Did she score a point? 155 00:08:00,287 --> 00:08:01,007 Speaker 1: Absolutely not. 156 00:08:01,527 --> 00:08:05,207 Speaker 3: Did she deliver the most iconic performance of the Games 157 00:08:05,527 --> 00:08:08,767 Speaker 3: without a doubt. If you haven't seen it, ray Gun 158 00:08:08,887 --> 00:08:12,807 Speaker 3: bat other bee girls pulling out a kangaroo hop, a 159 00:08:12,847 --> 00:08:16,687 Speaker 3: bit of a windmill maneuver, a backward summersault. It's impossible 160 00:08:16,727 --> 00:08:18,607 Speaker 3: to describe the rest, but it's fair to say it 161 00:08:18,647 --> 00:08:23,087 Speaker 3: wasn't what anyone expected. And the uniform also attracted some commentary. 162 00:08:23,407 --> 00:08:26,807 Speaker 3: It was a bit cricketer, it was a ball person. 163 00:08:26,927 --> 00:08:29,767 Speaker 1: Well, the other be girls didn't wear their national uniforms. 164 00:08:29,887 --> 00:08:31,927 Speaker 3: No, she didn't get the memo. And she had a 165 00:08:32,087 --> 00:08:34,607 Speaker 3: hat on and looked she look very sun safe, but 166 00:08:34,647 --> 00:08:37,407 Speaker 3: she didn't necessarily look like a breaker. I first saw 167 00:08:37,407 --> 00:08:40,607 Speaker 3: the performance on Saturday morning, and the commentary was ruthless. 168 00:08:40,727 --> 00:08:42,927 Speaker 3: People were saying, how did she get there? If any 169 00:08:42,967 --> 00:08:45,727 Speaker 3: of my taxpayer dollars went towards that performance, I'm angry. 170 00:08:45,887 --> 00:08:48,087 Speaker 1: Some people were angry, which I couldn't understand. 171 00:08:48,207 --> 00:08:49,607 Speaker 3: It was the initial It was not. 172 00:08:49,527 --> 00:08:51,407 Speaker 1: One of my feelings, but I sailed through. 173 00:08:51,607 --> 00:08:54,007 Speaker 3: There were theories that she was trying to make a statement. 174 00:08:55,087 --> 00:08:58,207 Speaker 3: Over the weekend she posted on Instagram, don't be afraid 175 00:08:58,247 --> 00:09:00,647 Speaker 3: to be different, Go out there and represent yourself. You 176 00:09:00,727 --> 00:09:02,367 Speaker 3: never know where that's going to take you. 177 00:09:02,567 --> 00:09:05,487 Speaker 1: Is it true that she has a PhD In breakdancing 178 00:09:05,607 --> 00:09:08,087 Speaker 1: and no, she has it in dance theory with a 179 00:09:08,167 --> 00:09:10,287 Speaker 1: specialism in breaking. 180 00:09:10,007 --> 00:09:12,567 Speaker 3: And cultural studies from Macora Uni, which is where I 181 00:09:12,607 --> 00:09:16,087 Speaker 3: got my masters. So me and Raygun were probably studying 182 00:09:16,087 --> 00:09:16,807 Speaker 3: at the same time. 183 00:09:17,127 --> 00:09:20,487 Speaker 1: I just when it went from breakdancing to just breaking. 184 00:09:21,127 --> 00:09:24,727 Speaker 3: Apparently that's what it originally was started there, and then 185 00:09:24,727 --> 00:09:27,487 Speaker 3: it became break dancing and then they were being very authentic. 186 00:09:28,607 --> 00:09:32,167 Speaker 3: But just as quickly as snarky opinion columns were churned out, 187 00:09:32,247 --> 00:09:33,807 Speaker 3: I was looking at them on Saturday. There was one 188 00:09:33,807 --> 00:09:36,327 Speaker 3: that argued that Raygun had no business being at the 189 00:09:36,367 --> 00:09:38,767 Speaker 3: Olympics and if this happened in any other sport there 190 00:09:38,807 --> 00:09:40,967 Speaker 3: would be a Royal commission into the selection process. 191 00:09:41,167 --> 00:09:43,167 Speaker 1: My goodness, definitely there should be. 192 00:09:46,047 --> 00:09:46,447 Speaker 3: But no. 193 00:09:47,927 --> 00:09:51,727 Speaker 1: Imagine getting that call we need you to do a job. 194 00:09:52,367 --> 00:09:54,607 Speaker 3: No sooner had that happened that the tide turned. Prime 195 00:09:54,607 --> 00:09:58,007 Speaker 3: Minister Albanezi said good on her and a big shout 196 00:09:58,007 --> 00:10:01,127 Speaker 3: out to her. That is in the Australian tradition of 197 00:10:01,167 --> 00:10:04,567 Speaker 3: people having a go. She had to go representing our country. 198 00:10:04,607 --> 00:10:07,407 Speaker 3: That's a good thing. The Olympics is about people participating 199 00:10:07,447 --> 00:10:10,247 Speaker 3: in sport. That's a good thing. Gun had a crack. 200 00:10:10,327 --> 00:10:11,607 Speaker 1: I agree with Albow. 201 00:10:12,167 --> 00:10:15,687 Speaker 3: Then there was Adele Adele had something to say. She 202 00:10:15,807 --> 00:10:18,847 Speaker 3: paused her concert because she was overcome by her feelings 203 00:10:18,887 --> 00:10:19,687 Speaker 3: regarding Ray Gun. 204 00:10:20,007 --> 00:10:21,807 Speaker 6: It's all that me and my friends have been talking 205 00:10:21,847 --> 00:10:24,887 Speaker 6: about last night, after the show and today, and I'm 206 00:10:24,887 --> 00:10:27,887 Speaker 6: not saying anything. I'm you know, I think it's taken out. 207 00:10:27,927 --> 00:10:30,167 Speaker 6: I think it's the best thing that's happened in the 208 00:10:30,167 --> 00:10:34,407 Speaker 6: Olympics the entire time. Did anyone see the breakdancing. 209 00:10:33,727 --> 00:10:36,967 Speaker 1: Lady, it's all from the Olympics. 210 00:10:38,767 --> 00:10:40,287 Speaker 6: Now. I didn't even go to break dancing with the 211 00:10:40,287 --> 00:10:43,087 Speaker 6: eve Olympics thought these days, I think that's fantastic. I 212 00:10:43,167 --> 00:10:45,327 Speaker 6: really really do. I knew that skateboarding had become an 213 00:10:45,327 --> 00:10:48,207 Speaker 6: Olympic one. I can't work out if it was, but 214 00:10:48,247 --> 00:10:50,887 Speaker 6: either way, it has made me very very happy, and 215 00:10:50,927 --> 00:10:54,367 Speaker 6: me and my friends have been ourselves laughing for nearly 216 00:10:54,447 --> 00:10:56,367 Speaker 6: twenty four hours. But I just wanted to know if 217 00:10:56,367 --> 00:10:59,167 Speaker 6: you've seen it. If you haven't seen it, please eat 218 00:10:59,207 --> 00:11:01,527 Speaker 6: the show and google it because it is flah It 219 00:11:01,607 --> 00:11:04,607 Speaker 6: is so funny. It's it's my favorite thing that's happened 220 00:11:05,527 --> 00:11:07,167 Speaker 6: in Olympics this whole whole time. 221 00:11:08,207 --> 00:11:11,247 Speaker 1: Adele just got engaged. She know I'm mad, She yeah 222 00:11:11,287 --> 00:11:16,047 Speaker 1: to her boyfriend he's a big agent. Ah, there's sports stars. 223 00:11:16,207 --> 00:11:19,487 Speaker 1: Maybe you're so reagun. Maybe now she's going to get 224 00:11:19,567 --> 00:11:23,087 Speaker 1: Imagine all the opportunities she will be flooded. 225 00:11:23,567 --> 00:11:26,807 Speaker 3: There's a video of Raygun being shown a guard of 226 00:11:26,847 --> 00:11:30,007 Speaker 3: honor by the Aussie athletes at the closing ceremony, and 227 00:11:30,047 --> 00:11:33,167 Speaker 3: even though she didn't score a point, she probably became 228 00:11:33,327 --> 00:11:37,207 Speaker 3: the most famous Olympian of them all. Holly over the weekend, 229 00:11:37,207 --> 00:11:40,727 Speaker 3: did we see the Internet at its best or it's worst? 230 00:11:40,927 --> 00:11:43,967 Speaker 1: It's so funny because both one hundred percent both, and 231 00:11:44,127 --> 00:11:47,447 Speaker 1: the emotions that I cycled through so quickly in those 232 00:11:47,527 --> 00:11:49,887 Speaker 1: hours trying to figure out how to react to Reygun 233 00:11:50,327 --> 00:11:52,367 Speaker 1: just say everything about the times we live in, right, 234 00:11:52,727 --> 00:11:57,567 Speaker 1: Because first of all, I was like, oh. 235 00:11:56,767 --> 00:12:01,487 Speaker 2: That's uncomfortable. There's like a white Australian woman apparently making 236 00:12:01,527 --> 00:12:06,247 Speaker 2: a hash out of an art form created by black 237 00:12:06,607 --> 00:12:09,007 Speaker 2: artists on the streets of New York City. 238 00:12:09,327 --> 00:12:11,847 Speaker 1: That felt weird for a start, right. Also being a 239 00:12:11,967 --> 00:12:13,407 Speaker 1: kangaroo and a goanna, But. 240 00:12:13,327 --> 00:12:15,127 Speaker 2: Even that I was a bit uncomfortable with because I've 241 00:12:15,167 --> 00:12:19,087 Speaker 2: seen lots of First Nations traditional dancing that references kangaroos 242 00:12:19,087 --> 00:12:21,367 Speaker 2: and go on, think of that and so there was 243 00:12:21,407 --> 00:12:22,687 Speaker 2: another bit of me that went, oh is. 244 00:12:22,687 --> 00:12:25,727 Speaker 1: It appropriation well or is that part of it? And 245 00:12:25,807 --> 00:12:26,927 Speaker 1: is that part of her heritage? 246 00:12:26,967 --> 00:12:28,767 Speaker 2: Like you know, all these things that go through your 247 00:12:28,767 --> 00:12:31,087 Speaker 2: mind of like what am I looking at here? 248 00:12:31,527 --> 00:12:34,087 Speaker 1: Is it okay? Basically this is what you're doing. You're like, 249 00:12:34,607 --> 00:12:37,327 Speaker 1: is it okay? What she's doing? I don't know if 250 00:12:37,327 --> 00:12:41,407 Speaker 1: it's okay. And then also you realize that the trolling 251 00:12:41,527 --> 00:12:43,847 Speaker 1: she would be getting would be unbearable, so you also 252 00:12:43,887 --> 00:12:46,327 Speaker 1: want to kind of lull and slightly disapprove for a while. 253 00:12:46,367 --> 00:12:47,767 Speaker 2: But then you're like, oh, no, that would be bad. 254 00:12:48,047 --> 00:12:50,527 Speaker 2: So no, good on, Raygun, good on you having a go. 255 00:12:52,327 --> 00:12:54,887 Speaker 2: And then you kind of want to see if she's 256 00:12:54,967 --> 00:12:57,367 Speaker 2: in on the joke or not, because then if she's 257 00:12:57,407 --> 00:12:58,927 Speaker 2: in on it, it's okay to laugh. 258 00:12:59,327 --> 00:13:00,367 Speaker 1: And then you saw. 259 00:13:00,167 --> 00:13:02,167 Speaker 2: Her at the closing ceremony, as you reference to this 260 00:13:02,287 --> 00:13:05,967 Speaker 2: morning Jesse, like on the shoulders of the athletes, loving it, sick, 261 00:13:06,127 --> 00:13:08,887 Speaker 2: doing her kangaroo moves, and she is clearly going to 262 00:13:08,927 --> 00:13:11,087 Speaker 2: be on every American talk show this week coming. 263 00:13:11,447 --> 00:13:14,527 Speaker 1: And so you're like, I didn't really know. I just 264 00:13:14,567 --> 00:13:17,487 Speaker 1: didn't say anything. I'm just not going to say anything. 265 00:13:17,567 --> 00:13:20,807 Speaker 2: Until the internet's worked out this is okay. But mostly 266 00:13:20,847 --> 00:13:24,047 Speaker 2: I think we all just so needed a laugh, and 267 00:13:24,087 --> 00:13:26,967 Speaker 2: once we were given permission to laugh at it, it 268 00:13:27,087 --> 00:13:27,607 Speaker 2: was okay. 269 00:13:28,087 --> 00:13:28,687 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? 270 00:13:28,767 --> 00:13:29,007 Speaker 4: Maya? 271 00:13:29,047 --> 00:13:29,647 Speaker 3: What was your take? 272 00:13:30,127 --> 00:13:33,127 Speaker 1: Was it as exhausting for you as it was for me? Yeah? 273 00:13:33,207 --> 00:13:36,687 Speaker 1: I cycled through all those emotions too, because I was like, 274 00:13:37,367 --> 00:13:40,167 Speaker 1: I want to share it, but then everybody was sharing it, 275 00:13:40,207 --> 00:13:44,847 Speaker 1: and then I thought, oh, I'm worried about her. Yeah, 276 00:13:44,887 --> 00:13:47,487 Speaker 1: and then I didn't want to share it, and then 277 00:13:47,687 --> 00:13:49,407 Speaker 1: there were people who were angry about it, which I 278 00:13:49,407 --> 00:13:52,687 Speaker 1: couldn't understand the anger, but yeah, you're right about the 279 00:13:52,687 --> 00:13:56,167 Speaker 1: taxpayers dollars or somehow making a mockery like people who've 280 00:13:56,207 --> 00:13:58,527 Speaker 1: really just sat on their ass watching the Olympics. Suddenly, 281 00:13:58,647 --> 00:14:00,487 Speaker 1: I mean, I know we're all experts on every sport, 282 00:14:00,527 --> 00:14:03,567 Speaker 1: but like, how is that even loud? Then I decided 283 00:14:03,607 --> 00:14:06,607 Speaker 1: to understand a little bit more about breaking because people 284 00:14:06,607 --> 00:14:08,407 Speaker 1: were like, why is it in the Olympics. And it's 285 00:14:08,447 --> 00:14:11,367 Speaker 1: in the Olympics because because the IOC has been trying 286 00:14:11,407 --> 00:14:14,207 Speaker 1: to make the Olympics more relevant to young people. So 287 00:14:14,247 --> 00:14:18,967 Speaker 1: that's why things like BMX and skateboarding and breaking is 288 00:14:19,087 --> 00:14:22,647 Speaker 1: in there. So all the sporting organizations try to get 289 00:14:22,647 --> 00:14:25,647 Speaker 1: their sport included in the Olympics because it's really beneficial 290 00:14:26,047 --> 00:14:28,847 Speaker 1: for the awareness about their sport and it can lead 291 00:14:28,887 --> 00:14:31,007 Speaker 1: to big sponsors and all of those kinds of things. 292 00:14:31,047 --> 00:14:34,647 Speaker 1: So everybody petitions to get their sports included. I've never 293 00:14:34,767 --> 00:14:37,167 Speaker 1: understood when netball's not there, but apparently not enough people 294 00:14:37,167 --> 00:14:37,527 Speaker 1: play it. 295 00:14:37,847 --> 00:14:39,447 Speaker 3: America doesn't play it exactly. 296 00:14:39,527 --> 00:14:41,407 Speaker 1: So there's a lot of politics about what sports are 297 00:14:41,407 --> 00:14:44,247 Speaker 1: included and what's not included, and some people can be 298 00:14:44,287 --> 00:14:46,487 Speaker 1: real purists about oh but how can that be in 299 00:14:46,527 --> 00:14:48,807 Speaker 1: the Olympics. Some people like that about skateboarding this year 300 00:14:48,807 --> 00:14:52,127 Speaker 1: as well. So what happened is that the International Dance 301 00:14:52,167 --> 00:14:56,327 Speaker 1: Federation was saying, we want a dance included, and we 302 00:14:56,367 --> 00:15:00,007 Speaker 1: think maybe ballroom might be good. Oh wow, and. 303 00:15:00,367 --> 00:15:01,727 Speaker 3: Ray gun is a ballroom dance. 304 00:15:01,807 --> 00:15:05,167 Speaker 1: Well, the IOC said, no, no, ballroom is not going 305 00:15:05,247 --> 00:15:08,967 Speaker 1: to help us with the gensds. We need a funky dance. 306 00:15:09,247 --> 00:15:13,127 Speaker 1: Should have had TikTok dances, maybe that'll be Yeah, we 307 00:15:13,167 --> 00:15:16,607 Speaker 1: need a more funky street dance, So bring us your 308 00:15:16,607 --> 00:15:20,367 Speaker 1: youth and bring us breaking and the breaking community were 309 00:15:20,367 --> 00:15:23,407 Speaker 1: a bit like, what really we don't know. And then 310 00:15:23,727 --> 00:15:25,847 Speaker 1: it's not like she just went I'll do it and 311 00:15:26,527 --> 00:15:29,207 Speaker 1: rocked up in Paris. So Adam he is, who's the 312 00:15:29,447 --> 00:15:32,447 Speaker 1: chef de Michau, basically the boss of all the Olympians 313 00:15:32,447 --> 00:15:34,127 Speaker 1: and the Olympic team said. 314 00:15:34,287 --> 00:15:38,007 Speaker 5: What I can say is that I love Rachel and 315 00:15:38,087 --> 00:15:44,007 Speaker 5: I think that what has occurred on social media with 316 00:15:44,167 --> 00:15:47,567 Speaker 5: trolls and keyboard warriors and taking those comments and giving 317 00:15:47,607 --> 00:15:51,887 Speaker 5: them airtime has been really disappointing. If you don't know 318 00:15:52,007 --> 00:15:54,607 Speaker 5: Rachel's story. In two thousand and eight, she was locked 319 00:15:54,647 --> 00:15:59,407 Speaker 5: in a room crying being involved in a male dominated 320 00:15:59,487 --> 00:16:03,407 Speaker 5: sport as the only woman, and it took great courage 321 00:16:03,447 --> 00:16:07,607 Speaker 5: for her to continue on and fight for her opportunity 322 00:16:07,647 --> 00:16:10,967 Speaker 5: to participate in a sport that she loved and that 323 00:16:11,047 --> 00:16:14,447 Speaker 5: got her to winning the Olympic qualifying event to be 324 00:16:14,607 --> 00:16:18,327 Speaker 5: here in Paris. She is the best breakdancer female that 325 00:16:18,407 --> 00:16:19,607 Speaker 5: we have for Australia. 326 00:16:19,687 --> 00:16:22,047 Speaker 1: I think that says it a lot. Really, she used 327 00:16:22,047 --> 00:16:24,327 Speaker 1: the best and so it's true wasn't just her idea. 328 00:16:24,447 --> 00:16:27,127 Speaker 2: But the thing that's interesting about this because yeah, I 329 00:16:27,167 --> 00:16:29,207 Speaker 2: went and watched a lot of the other breakers, right, 330 00:16:29,847 --> 00:16:32,927 Speaker 2: it is very strange to see an art form that 331 00:16:33,007 --> 00:16:37,367 Speaker 2: started on the streets in this arena, even the coolest 332 00:16:37,487 --> 00:16:40,367 Speaker 2: of the cool, and it's an American sport comes from 333 00:16:40,407 --> 00:16:43,247 Speaker 2: it literally was born in New York. Even the coolest 334 00:16:43,287 --> 00:16:45,807 Speaker 2: of the cool people that looked kind of daggy doing 335 00:16:45,807 --> 00:16:48,727 Speaker 2: it in that circumstance, you know what I mean. It's 336 00:16:48,767 --> 00:16:53,087 Speaker 2: a strange sort of transplant from there to there. But 337 00:16:53,367 --> 00:16:56,087 Speaker 2: I can see that a lot of the purest, as 338 00:16:56,127 --> 00:16:58,327 Speaker 2: you were saying, Mia, a lot of the purest of 339 00:16:58,367 --> 00:17:00,767 Speaker 2: breaking don't really approve of it being in this in 340 00:17:00,807 --> 00:17:04,647 Speaker 2: the Lames either. So I imagine because there are breaking competitions 341 00:17:04,687 --> 00:17:07,247 Speaker 2: all over the world, Red Bull of run one for decades, 342 00:17:07,287 --> 00:17:11,447 Speaker 2: and Australia has lots of semi professional and professional breaking cruise. 343 00:17:11,487 --> 00:17:14,247 Speaker 2: You'll see them breaking through breaking through all the time 344 00:17:14,287 --> 00:17:17,327 Speaker 2: on like talent shows or whatever. But I imagine that the 345 00:17:17,367 --> 00:17:19,607 Speaker 2: people who want to go and do this is a 346 00:17:19,647 --> 00:17:21,447 Speaker 2: relatively small group of breakers. 347 00:17:21,527 --> 00:17:23,727 Speaker 3: Yeah, and as you say, I think I've read that 348 00:17:23,807 --> 00:17:25,847 Speaker 3: when you're hosting, you get to choose a few, you 349 00:17:25,887 --> 00:17:27,487 Speaker 3: get to pull a bit of rank and go we're 350 00:17:27,487 --> 00:17:29,767 Speaker 3: going to do breaking this year. And so in LA 351 00:17:29,887 --> 00:17:34,087 Speaker 3: they're doing cricket, which Australia is very excited about Yeah. 352 00:17:34,087 --> 00:17:36,047 Speaker 3: A lot of people going why is they're breaking and 353 00:17:36,247 --> 00:17:38,687 Speaker 3: not netball? But I think that what made this so 354 00:17:38,807 --> 00:17:41,327 Speaker 3: funny was that I knew the breaking was on and 355 00:17:41,407 --> 00:17:44,687 Speaker 3: I didn't have high hopes for Australia. I went, this 356 00:17:44,847 --> 00:17:48,367 Speaker 3: is I don't think we have an enormous amount of context. 357 00:17:48,727 --> 00:17:51,127 Speaker 3: It's not like swimming that we have it, you know 358 00:17:51,207 --> 00:17:55,367 Speaker 3: as cannival at every school. But I read an article 359 00:17:55,447 --> 00:17:58,087 Speaker 3: by Peter fitz Simon in the Sydney Morning Herald and 360 00:17:58,127 --> 00:18:00,367 Speaker 3: it was called I am Reygun, You are Reygan, We 361 00:18:00,407 --> 00:18:04,327 Speaker 3: are all ray Gun and he basically argued that he 362 00:18:04,367 --> 00:18:07,367 Speaker 3: saw the memification and things getting cruel and whatever, but 363 00:18:07,487 --> 00:18:10,167 Speaker 3: he went in the context of the Olympics, which has 364 00:18:10,207 --> 00:18:15,247 Speaker 3: been about excellence and precision and high stakes, to have 365 00:18:15,367 --> 00:18:19,847 Speaker 3: Australia get behind someone who did her own thing, tried 366 00:18:19,887 --> 00:18:24,327 Speaker 3: her best, was an underdog, didn't win, has been actually 367 00:18:24,687 --> 00:18:27,887 Speaker 3: quite a uniquely Australian experience, Like we got very much 368 00:18:27,927 --> 00:18:31,767 Speaker 3: behind her quite quickly, and I really appreciated. 369 00:18:31,127 --> 00:18:32,727 Speaker 1: The vibe of Reygun. 370 00:18:32,527 --> 00:18:34,407 Speaker 3: Yeah, and that we could produce someone like that and 371 00:18:34,447 --> 00:18:36,447 Speaker 3: just as quickly be like, yeah, no, we stand behind 372 00:18:36,447 --> 00:18:37,047 Speaker 3: that performance. 373 00:18:37,087 --> 00:18:37,567 Speaker 1: We love it. 374 00:18:37,727 --> 00:18:39,407 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why I got annoyed with a lot of 375 00:18:39,447 --> 00:18:41,767 Speaker 3: the commentary and the snarky. There are a lot of 376 00:18:41,847 --> 00:18:44,367 Speaker 3: opinion columns that I went, oh, I know you wanted 377 00:18:44,407 --> 00:18:48,967 Speaker 3: to bash something out quickly, but like, I really liked that. 378 00:18:49,047 --> 00:18:51,167 Speaker 3: It was a moment of joy that kind of brought 379 00:18:51,247 --> 00:18:54,767 Speaker 3: everyone together, and once we knew that she was in 380 00:18:54,847 --> 00:18:57,487 Speaker 3: on it, Yeah, he gave us all permission to be like, 381 00:18:57,567 --> 00:18:58,687 Speaker 3: this is just a bit of fun. 382 00:18:58,767 --> 00:19:02,127 Speaker 1: There have been historically some of these kind of characters 383 00:19:02,127 --> 00:19:05,567 Speaker 1: that have broken through in other games. There was Eddie 384 00:19:05,607 --> 00:19:10,127 Speaker 1: the Eagle, the English skier who wasn't very good, And 385 00:19:10,167 --> 00:19:13,887 Speaker 1: there was Eric the Eel. He was from Equatorial Guinea 386 00:19:13,927 --> 00:19:18,527 Speaker 1: and he couldn't swim very well, and he became absolutely 387 00:19:18,727 --> 00:19:21,887 Speaker 1: iconic at the Sydney Games. I remember him so well, 388 00:19:22,527 --> 00:19:25,287 Speaker 1: and I just think sometimes when that happens, I love 389 00:19:25,447 --> 00:19:29,247 Speaker 1: being reminded that the Games is about trying. It's not 390 00:19:29,367 --> 00:19:32,087 Speaker 1: just about winning. And I know people say, but it's 391 00:19:32,087 --> 00:19:34,607 Speaker 1: also about the best in the world. She is the 392 00:19:34,607 --> 00:19:37,407 Speaker 1: best that we've got who wanted to go to the Olympics. 393 00:19:38,647 --> 00:19:41,767 Speaker 2: It's interesting too that actually America didn't win. The female 394 00:19:41,807 --> 00:19:47,127 Speaker 2: beagle was Japanese and the American male place bronze. So 395 00:19:47,287 --> 00:19:49,487 Speaker 2: you know, it may have originated their breaking, but it 396 00:19:49,527 --> 00:19:50,967 Speaker 2: has long since jumped. 397 00:19:50,687 --> 00:19:51,887 Speaker 1: The shark and gone all over the world. 398 00:19:52,087 --> 00:19:55,327 Speaker 2: It reminded me in the eighties when breakdancing was becoming 399 00:19:55,327 --> 00:19:58,207 Speaker 2: big in England. My brother, who is a skinny, ginger 400 00:19:58,367 --> 00:20:01,607 Speaker 2: white dude and has always been cooler than me, started 401 00:20:01,607 --> 00:20:04,927 Speaker 2: breaking seriously and he made my mom put a six 402 00:20:04,967 --> 00:20:07,287 Speaker 2: foot square of lino in the basement for him to 403 00:20:07,327 --> 00:20:07,887 Speaker 2: practice on. 404 00:20:08,207 --> 00:20:09,407 Speaker 1: What I remember the most that. 405 00:20:09,447 --> 00:20:11,647 Speaker 2: Is that when we took that line, I like years later, 406 00:20:11,687 --> 00:20:13,567 Speaker 2: there were two squashed frogs underneath. 407 00:20:14,087 --> 00:20:18,087 Speaker 1: My brother had spun on the frog. Do you remember 408 00:20:18,167 --> 00:20:20,407 Speaker 1: Cool Running, the movie that was made about a true 409 00:20:20,487 --> 00:20:24,247 Speaker 1: story of the Jamaican bobsled team. Now there's no snow 410 00:20:24,287 --> 00:20:27,087 Speaker 1: in Jamaica, so they had to like practice in like 411 00:20:27,207 --> 00:20:30,887 Speaker 1: shopping trolleys and again, like to me, that's what the 412 00:20:30,927 --> 00:20:32,247 Speaker 1: spirit of the Olympics is. 413 00:20:32,367 --> 00:20:35,247 Speaker 3: And there was something about Snoop Dogg's presence at the 414 00:20:35,327 --> 00:20:37,727 Speaker 3: event that just made it all the richer. 415 00:20:51,647 --> 00:20:56,367 Speaker 1: Oh good vibes, great? Why what a great time time 416 00:20:56,447 --> 00:21:00,687 Speaker 1: for more Olympic vibes, because this is our last Olympic roundup. 417 00:21:00,807 --> 00:21:03,527 Speaker 1: No doubt we'll have some things to talk about when 418 00:21:03,727 --> 00:21:09,167 Speaker 1: the Paralympic starts on August twenty eighth. But Australia finished 419 00:21:09,327 --> 00:21:11,727 Speaker 1: up at these games with an all time record of 420 00:21:11,807 --> 00:21:17,207 Speaker 1: eighteen goals and fifty three medals and fourth place overall 421 00:21:17,247 --> 00:21:20,447 Speaker 1: on the middle Telly, which is just extraordinary, best ever. 422 00:21:20,607 --> 00:21:23,287 Speaker 1: It's our best ever performance. A recap of what you 423 00:21:23,367 --> 00:21:26,407 Speaker 1: missed at the after party, which is the closing ceremony. 424 00:21:27,247 --> 00:21:29,647 Speaker 1: Ray Gun was the life of that party. If she 425 00:21:29,687 --> 00:21:31,287 Speaker 1: pulled out some of the moves, as you said, she 426 00:21:31,327 --> 00:21:33,567 Speaker 1: came in on the shoulders of a rower, there was 427 00:21:33,607 --> 00:21:34,687 Speaker 1: a guard of one and four. 428 00:21:34,767 --> 00:21:39,087 Speaker 2: They're also loose on the They're like blasting Taylor swift 429 00:21:39,207 --> 00:21:41,207 Speaker 2: and clearly seem a bit dry. 430 00:21:41,287 --> 00:21:43,247 Speaker 3: I wonder if Raygun was a few days earlier, if 431 00:21:43,247 --> 00:21:46,567 Speaker 3: she could have got a closing ceremony flag bearer looking I. 432 00:21:46,527 --> 00:21:51,807 Speaker 1: Think people would have been upset about that because the 433 00:21:51,807 --> 00:21:55,367 Speaker 1: people who did carry the Australian flag were gold medalists 434 00:21:55,727 --> 00:21:59,287 Speaker 1: Kaylie McEwan and Matt Werne. Then there was the Tom 435 00:21:59,327 --> 00:22:02,407 Speaker 1: Cruise of it all. Lake Snoop was at the Olympics 436 00:22:02,407 --> 00:22:04,407 Speaker 1: and fairly beiquld as Tom Cruise was a little bit 437 00:22:04,407 --> 00:22:07,207 Speaker 1: as well, and I couldn't quite work it out until 438 00:22:07,447 --> 00:22:10,927 Speaker 1: I saw him perform stunt. He loves stunts. You can't 439 00:22:10,967 --> 00:22:12,167 Speaker 1: stop him jumping off things. 440 00:22:12,207 --> 00:22:12,487 Speaker 3: That's all. 441 00:22:12,527 --> 00:22:15,287 Speaker 1: He's doing his own stunts. He just won't sit down 442 00:22:15,327 --> 00:22:17,687 Speaker 1: and think. He didn't feel young. He's sixty two now. 443 00:22:18,407 --> 00:22:22,887 Speaker 1: And he leaped from the roof of the stadium for 444 00:22:22,967 --> 00:22:26,807 Speaker 1: the ceremonial Olympic flag handover because I couldn't work out 445 00:22:27,007 --> 00:22:31,447 Speaker 1: what cultural relevance Tom Cruise had. But as you said, Jesse, 446 00:22:31,727 --> 00:22:34,647 Speaker 1: it's being handed over to La. So what happened is 447 00:22:34,687 --> 00:22:37,127 Speaker 1: that at the end of the ceremony, the people with 448 00:22:37,207 --> 00:22:39,207 Speaker 1: the flag have to hand it to the next people, 449 00:22:39,807 --> 00:22:43,967 Speaker 1: and so he took the Olympic flag and he attached 450 00:22:44,007 --> 00:22:45,887 Speaker 1: it to the back of a motorcycle because he's always 451 00:22:45,887 --> 00:22:48,647 Speaker 1: on it motorcycle after he jumps out of things, and 452 00:22:48,727 --> 00:22:51,007 Speaker 1: he sort of cruised through the crowd with the It 453 00:22:51,087 --> 00:22:53,567 Speaker 1: was very random and kind of I quite. 454 00:22:53,647 --> 00:22:56,687 Speaker 3: Very movie star, which is probably the theme of LA. 455 00:22:56,727 --> 00:23:00,007 Speaker 1: And then they flashed to LA because I'd also forgotten 456 00:23:00,007 --> 00:23:01,807 Speaker 1: about that. The people who get it next get a 457 00:23:01,807 --> 00:23:04,487 Speaker 1: little bit of time in the closing ceremony to sort 458 00:23:04,487 --> 00:23:07,967 Speaker 1: of do their thing and showcase their future weares and 459 00:23:08,087 --> 00:23:10,247 Speaker 1: that was just really it concept. It looked like it 460 00:23:10,287 --> 00:23:13,247 Speaker 1: was maybe at Venice Beach. Snoop was there, of course, 461 00:23:13,367 --> 00:23:16,367 Speaker 1: how did he care for me? Very quickly drop it 462 00:23:16,447 --> 00:23:16,927 Speaker 1: like it's hot. 463 00:23:16,967 --> 00:23:18,927 Speaker 3: He was there with Ray Gun and the next Name. 464 00:23:18,927 --> 00:23:22,007 Speaker 1: The Eilish was there, and also the Red Hot Chili 465 00:23:22,007 --> 00:23:23,767 Speaker 1: Peppers and Doctor Dre. 466 00:23:23,927 --> 00:23:26,287 Speaker 2: I've seen a lot of tiktoks from grumpy athletes. They 467 00:23:26,287 --> 00:23:29,127 Speaker 2: were like, we were told that Billie Eilish and the 468 00:23:29,127 --> 00:23:32,087 Speaker 2: Red Hot Chili Peppers were performing at the closing. 469 00:23:31,727 --> 00:23:33,607 Speaker 1: Ceremony and they were on a zoom call. 470 00:23:35,367 --> 00:23:37,847 Speaker 3: I got up this morning and just put on the 471 00:23:37,887 --> 00:23:41,247 Speaker 3: closing ceremony and suddenly I'm watching a Snoop dog concept 472 00:23:41,287 --> 00:23:42,007 Speaker 3: because they were. 473 00:23:41,887 --> 00:23:44,807 Speaker 1: Working from home. Yes, I was like, this is just 474 00:23:45,127 --> 00:23:47,767 Speaker 1: they weren't about them. They were like, we'll dial it in. 475 00:23:48,447 --> 00:23:50,887 Speaker 3: No, Snoop was so passionate about the Olympics. 476 00:23:52,047 --> 00:23:54,527 Speaker 2: He got paid a lot of money by NBC to go. 477 00:23:54,927 --> 00:23:55,847 Speaker 2: He really embraced it. 478 00:23:55,887 --> 00:23:59,567 Speaker 1: Though they got their money's worth, the outfits, the coordination to. 479 00:23:59,607 --> 00:24:02,927 Speaker 2: Martha Stewart of it all. Yeah, I have no idea, 480 00:24:02,967 --> 00:24:05,407 Speaker 2: but he really proved them right. I want to ask 481 00:24:05,447 --> 00:24:07,887 Speaker 2: you to something because another record that was broken at 482 00:24:07,887 --> 00:24:11,607 Speaker 2: the Olympics this year, which is very fitting for Paris 483 00:24:11,647 --> 00:24:16,007 Speaker 2: because it's the romantic place, right, was the number of proposals. 484 00:24:16,047 --> 00:24:20,527 Speaker 2: So seven different athletes got proposed to or proposed at 485 00:24:20,567 --> 00:24:23,367 Speaker 2: the Olympics, and so much so that it actually got 486 00:24:23,367 --> 00:24:27,447 Speaker 2: referenced in the closing ceremony by one of the French 487 00:24:27,447 --> 00:24:29,687 Speaker 2: officials saying, this is a record. We're very proud to 488 00:24:29,727 --> 00:24:31,887 Speaker 2: have more proposals than ever and you're like, well, I 489 00:24:31,967 --> 00:24:35,727 Speaker 2: don't know, that's what we were here for. But they 490 00:24:35,767 --> 00:24:39,527 Speaker 2: included French track and field athlete Alice Finot and she 491 00:24:39,807 --> 00:24:43,007 Speaker 2: proposed to her boyfriend by the track side, an American 492 00:24:43,047 --> 00:24:46,847 Speaker 2: shot putterer he proposed and American rower proposed in fact, 493 00:24:47,247 --> 00:24:50,047 Speaker 2: and this is another whole layer to this. This American 494 00:24:50,087 --> 00:24:53,807 Speaker 2: rower just invest proposed live on the Today Show to 495 00:24:53,967 --> 00:24:57,327 Speaker 2: his girlfriend in the presence of family members who were 496 00:24:57,327 --> 00:25:00,847 Speaker 2: holding two thousand, seven hundred and thirty eight yellow roses, 497 00:25:01,167 --> 00:25:03,607 Speaker 2: a symbol of every day the two have maintained their 498 00:25:03,647 --> 00:25:09,527 Speaker 2: snapchat streak. 499 00:25:10,127 --> 00:25:16,687 Speaker 1: Wow, okay, that's so. The snapchat streak is considerable, But 500 00:25:17,407 --> 00:25:20,527 Speaker 1: do we love love the athletes taking this moment to 501 00:25:20,567 --> 00:25:22,407 Speaker 1: be all about their love or is it kind of 502 00:25:22,487 --> 00:25:25,327 Speaker 1: like jumping in on a big moment for them? What 503 00:25:25,407 --> 00:25:26,527 Speaker 1: do we think married people? 504 00:25:26,567 --> 00:25:30,607 Speaker 3: It's a city of love you've forgotten. And Olympic proposals 505 00:25:30,647 --> 00:25:33,847 Speaker 3: have been on the increase since about twenty sixteen, since 506 00:25:33,887 --> 00:25:37,887 Speaker 3: the phones and the phone the contest situation. I loved 507 00:25:37,927 --> 00:25:39,607 Speaker 3: the woman who did it. I thought that was really cool. 508 00:25:39,687 --> 00:25:42,527 Speaker 1: I didn't see a single proposal. Are these athletes proposing 509 00:25:42,527 --> 00:25:43,887 Speaker 1: to other athletes. 510 00:25:43,527 --> 00:25:44,807 Speaker 2: Or their partners in the crowd? 511 00:25:45,047 --> 00:25:48,527 Speaker 3: Some some are But the French athlete came fourth and 512 00:25:48,567 --> 00:25:50,287 Speaker 3: then she went up to her partner who was in 513 00:25:50,327 --> 00:25:52,727 Speaker 3: the crowd, and proposed and kind of got down on 514 00:25:52,727 --> 00:25:54,047 Speaker 3: one knee. It was really cool. 515 00:25:54,807 --> 00:25:57,727 Speaker 1: But I always get it. So not on podiums, no 516 00:25:57,727 --> 00:26:03,367 Speaker 1: one interruptedly, like often after their final thing, so whether 517 00:26:03,407 --> 00:26:06,487 Speaker 1: they won something or whether they didn't win something like 518 00:26:06,567 --> 00:26:08,847 Speaker 1: but you know, their girlfriend, boyfriend whatever is by the 519 00:26:08,847 --> 00:26:11,047 Speaker 1: side of the track and they run over and drop 520 00:26:11,087 --> 00:26:12,367 Speaker 1: to one and all the cameras are there. 521 00:26:12,407 --> 00:26:17,487 Speaker 3: Right, your body is probably coursing with endorphins and adrenaline. 522 00:26:17,927 --> 00:26:21,407 Speaker 3: You're in a foreign city, You've got cameras on you. 523 00:26:21,407 --> 00:26:22,687 Speaker 1: You want to do something memorable. 524 00:26:22,807 --> 00:26:25,327 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you've also like been in this training hole, 525 00:26:25,727 --> 00:26:29,847 Speaker 3: and I reckon that most people where there's like a proposal, 526 00:26:30,207 --> 00:26:33,367 Speaker 3: there's an understanding that you either were or weren't getting married, 527 00:26:33,567 --> 00:26:35,647 Speaker 3: Like it's probably been discussed, and there's a lot of 528 00:26:35,647 --> 00:26:37,567 Speaker 3: people who were like, oh, you put them on the spot. 529 00:26:37,607 --> 00:26:38,367 Speaker 3: They can't say no. 530 00:26:38,967 --> 00:26:40,287 Speaker 1: Did you have that understanding? 531 00:26:40,567 --> 00:26:43,687 Speaker 3: Yeah, like proposed, there's still like a surprise element of 532 00:26:43,727 --> 00:26:45,487 Speaker 3: I didn't think it was going to happen today. 533 00:26:45,327 --> 00:26:46,967 Speaker 1: When I was wearing these socks and shit. 534 00:26:47,047 --> 00:26:50,167 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, but this concern trolling of going, oh, that 535 00:26:50,287 --> 00:26:52,487 Speaker 3: poor woman, she can't say no. It's like I'm sure 536 00:26:52,607 --> 00:26:56,487 Speaker 3: her fiance knows her better than I do. Like if 537 00:26:56,487 --> 00:26:58,047 Speaker 3: that's it's not something I would. 538 00:26:57,967 --> 00:26:59,567 Speaker 1: Like policing people's proposals. 539 00:26:59,847 --> 00:27:02,007 Speaker 3: Policing proposals, So I don't mind it. 540 00:27:02,087 --> 00:27:04,447 Speaker 2: I'm not policing them, but this is my issue with it. 541 00:27:04,487 --> 00:27:05,647 Speaker 2: I like as many. 542 00:27:05,527 --> 00:27:06,847 Speaker 1: Little treats as possible. 543 00:27:07,047 --> 00:27:09,687 Speaker 2: So I'm like, would you not maybe want have the 544 00:27:09,727 --> 00:27:12,047 Speaker 2: moment of the I made it to the Olympics and 545 00:27:12,087 --> 00:27:14,727 Speaker 2: I've finished and that's something to celebrate, and then the 546 00:27:14,767 --> 00:27:17,287 Speaker 2: proposal is something to celebrate. But I think you've nailed 547 00:27:17,327 --> 00:27:20,527 Speaker 2: it Jesse. I think the adrenaline, the excitement, like you 548 00:27:20,647 --> 00:27:24,127 Speaker 2: probably have never loved them more. If they've been driving 549 00:27:24,167 --> 00:27:26,607 Speaker 2: you to the pool every day, or they've been cheering 550 00:27:26,647 --> 00:27:29,247 Speaker 2: you on at the sidelines all the time, or you know, 551 00:27:29,287 --> 00:27:31,727 Speaker 2: whatever it might be, you probably have never loved them more. 552 00:27:31,727 --> 00:27:33,527 Speaker 2: So you're just like, let's. 553 00:27:33,247 --> 00:27:35,527 Speaker 1: Do it, and let's make sure we've got two thy 554 00:27:35,647 --> 00:27:39,527 Speaker 1: seven hundred rose. I also think that you have to 555 00:27:39,567 --> 00:27:44,607 Speaker 1: be so single minded to be an athlete at that level, 556 00:27:45,167 --> 00:27:48,047 Speaker 1: that the sacrifices that your partner would have to make, 557 00:27:48,887 --> 00:27:52,767 Speaker 1: and how boring you would be for a really long time, 558 00:27:52,967 --> 00:27:54,567 Speaker 1: and the highs and the lows that they would have 559 00:27:54,607 --> 00:27:57,007 Speaker 1: to endure. So to me, it's almost like a thank 560 00:27:57,047 --> 00:28:01,447 Speaker 1: you and an acknowledgment. And also if it's the end 561 00:28:01,487 --> 00:28:04,127 Speaker 1: of your Olympic journey, it is a little treat. It's 562 00:28:04,167 --> 00:28:04,807 Speaker 1: a little treat. 563 00:28:05,207 --> 00:28:07,847 Speaker 3: I want to talk about the Olympics more broadly as 564 00:28:07,847 --> 00:28:09,687 Speaker 3: we come to a close. I mean said I had 565 00:28:09,687 --> 00:28:13,087 Speaker 3: it on this morning and hearing the Australian commentators all 566 00:28:13,127 --> 00:28:17,287 Speaker 3: say au Revoir was just particularly beautiful because none of 567 00:28:17,367 --> 00:28:20,127 Speaker 3: them could still say it, And did you see the 568 00:28:20,207 --> 00:28:22,847 Speaker 3: my Way performance The woman at themar she was singing 569 00:28:22,847 --> 00:28:24,327 Speaker 3: my Way, and I was thinking about Reagun and I 570 00:28:24,327 --> 00:28:28,167 Speaker 3: was like, this is the most did We still had 571 00:28:28,167 --> 00:28:30,847 Speaker 3: the Paralympics, as we say, and Australia is very good there. 572 00:28:31,127 --> 00:28:33,807 Speaker 3: So I highly recommend people watch because we're going to 573 00:28:33,847 --> 00:28:35,847 Speaker 3: win a lot of gold medals. But I wanted to 574 00:28:35,887 --> 00:28:39,287 Speaker 3: talk about the last two weeks because I was speaking 575 00:28:39,247 --> 00:28:41,127 Speaker 3: about this morning and she was saying, they're handing over 576 00:28:41,167 --> 00:28:44,607 Speaker 3: to la was Harris. There was someone there to kind. 577 00:28:44,367 --> 00:28:47,087 Speaker 1: Of a presidential receiving. 578 00:28:46,567 --> 00:28:49,567 Speaker 3: The same way Macron was there, and I was like, oh, 579 00:28:49,607 --> 00:28:53,567 Speaker 3: I'd forgotten that the US team, like the Simone Biles, 580 00:28:53,607 --> 00:28:56,887 Speaker 3: the US athletes, had any relationship to this presidential race 581 00:28:56,887 --> 00:28:58,687 Speaker 3: happening on the other side of the world. Like it 582 00:28:58,767 --> 00:29:00,647 Speaker 3: really took us out of that. 583 00:29:00,647 --> 00:29:03,727 Speaker 1: That's true, because it was we've come to see America 584 00:29:03,807 --> 00:29:07,527 Speaker 1: as being so divided for so long now, like ever 585 00:29:07,567 --> 00:29:10,287 Speaker 1: since Trump, which is what hundred years ago, it feels like, 586 00:29:10,687 --> 00:29:13,487 Speaker 1: and there was none of that. No, I know, you're 587 00:29:13,527 --> 00:29:15,567 Speaker 1: not allowed to wear a MAGA hat if you're competing, 588 00:29:15,567 --> 00:29:17,767 Speaker 1: you're not allowed to have any kind of political protest 589 00:29:17,807 --> 00:29:20,567 Speaker 1: or political statement at all. Yeah, it was almost like 590 00:29:20,567 --> 00:29:21,807 Speaker 1: this magic window. 591 00:29:21,927 --> 00:29:24,087 Speaker 3: The Olympics is also the US at their best, like 592 00:29:24,127 --> 00:29:27,047 Speaker 3: they really they just do such a good job. And 593 00:29:27,327 --> 00:29:29,807 Speaker 3: we talk about how divided we are, and you know, 594 00:29:29,927 --> 00:29:32,327 Speaker 3: seeing the worst in humanity at the moment projected on 595 00:29:32,367 --> 00:29:33,887 Speaker 3: the news. And there are the riots in the UK, 596 00:29:34,007 --> 00:29:36,927 Speaker 3: as you talked about last week, Hollie, an assassination attempt 597 00:29:36,967 --> 00:29:40,327 Speaker 3: in the US. It's easy to feel nihilistic and disillusioned, 598 00:29:41,207 --> 00:29:43,287 Speaker 3: but the Olympics pulled us all in one direction. 599 00:29:43,407 --> 00:29:43,807 Speaker 7: Do you know what? 600 00:29:43,847 --> 00:29:46,727 Speaker 1: It was a reminder of about the beauty of not 601 00:29:46,927 --> 00:29:51,167 Speaker 1: just a monoculture, like when the whole world experiences something, 602 00:29:51,167 --> 00:29:53,367 Speaker 1: and we had that in a negative way with COVID, 603 00:29:53,407 --> 00:29:57,327 Speaker 1: but in a positive way. And there's no division about 604 00:29:57,367 --> 00:30:00,647 Speaker 1: the Olympics apart from Rackham. And there's also no different 605 00:30:00,727 --> 00:30:03,847 Speaker 1: truths and different facts like when you look at true 606 00:30:03,967 --> 00:30:09,167 Speaker 1: other news stories, you've got in many cases two polarized 607 00:30:09,767 --> 00:30:14,247 Speaker 1: sides who don't even acknowledge that each other has any humanity, 608 00:30:14,367 --> 00:30:16,887 Speaker 1: that they're working with the same facts, but that all 609 00:30:16,927 --> 00:30:18,167 Speaker 1: gets swept away. 610 00:30:18,327 --> 00:30:21,127 Speaker 3: It's so simple being like let's say who can run 611 00:30:21,127 --> 00:30:23,287 Speaker 3: the fastest, and then you watch people run, and then 612 00:30:23,327 --> 00:30:26,207 Speaker 3: one finishes the fishline and you're like, oh, my brain 613 00:30:26,247 --> 00:30:26,887 Speaker 3: can comput. 614 00:30:27,047 --> 00:30:30,047 Speaker 2: I want to agree with you so badly because I 615 00:30:30,087 --> 00:30:33,607 Speaker 2: agree that's not entirely true. I saw a lot of 616 00:30:33,767 --> 00:30:37,367 Speaker 2: headlines on the weekend, including in The Australian when Amani 617 00:30:37,447 --> 00:30:40,807 Speaker 2: Khaliff won the boxing gold medals, saying that the Olympics 618 00:30:40,887 --> 00:30:43,927 Speaker 2: was a joke over this gender stuff, and there's been 619 00:30:43,967 --> 00:30:45,847 Speaker 2: a bit of it bubbling away. I don't think you 620 00:30:45,847 --> 00:30:50,127 Speaker 2: can entirely escape the culture wars. Interestingly, Simone Biles no 621 00:30:50,207 --> 00:30:53,127 Speaker 2: political statements allowed, but she donated a million dollars for 622 00:30:53,167 --> 00:30:56,007 Speaker 2: each of her gold medals to Kamala Harris's campaign, So 623 00:30:56,087 --> 00:30:59,447 Speaker 2: she just waved million dollars to Kamala. One of the 624 00:30:59,447 --> 00:31:03,407 Speaker 2: things that's wonderful about the Olympics is it's optimism pushes 625 00:31:03,487 --> 00:31:08,527 Speaker 2: through all our snaky, very online informed pessimism. And I 626 00:31:08,567 --> 00:31:10,047 Speaker 2: think it happened every time. 627 00:31:10,247 --> 00:31:10,847 Speaker 1: I remember. 628 00:31:11,247 --> 00:31:13,687 Speaker 2: London was the same, Sydney was the same. Even when 629 00:31:14,087 --> 00:31:16,727 Speaker 2: people are all going wood, it's really expensive to have 630 00:31:16,807 --> 00:31:19,287 Speaker 2: it and it's so inconvenient for everyone who lives there, 631 00:31:19,527 --> 00:31:22,007 Speaker 2: and the IOC is really corrupt, and there's this and 632 00:31:22,007 --> 00:31:23,647 Speaker 2: there's that, and dah dah, da da dah. But then 633 00:31:23,727 --> 00:31:27,047 Speaker 2: when it happens for those two weeks, it's almost as 634 00:31:27,087 --> 00:31:29,407 Speaker 2: long as nothing terrible goes wrong, of course, and this 635 00:31:29,527 --> 00:31:31,567 Speaker 2: was also true the last one, Tokyo was very different 636 00:31:31,567 --> 00:31:33,647 Speaker 2: because of COVID, but a lot of people were watching 637 00:31:33,687 --> 00:31:36,127 Speaker 2: it in lockdown, so that gave it another meaning. And 638 00:31:36,167 --> 00:31:40,367 Speaker 2: it's like our sort of optimism, immunity like pushes through 639 00:31:40,927 --> 00:31:44,447 Speaker 2: all that sort of snark and pessimism for just a 640 00:31:44,487 --> 00:31:46,727 Speaker 2: week or so, and it's it is lovely. 641 00:31:47,087 --> 00:31:50,407 Speaker 1: It felt fun and it felt relevant. You're right. I 642 00:31:50,447 --> 00:31:53,847 Speaker 1: barely even remember the Tokyo games. They were very different games. 643 00:31:53,887 --> 00:31:56,647 Speaker 1: There were no spectators. Everyone had to wear masks so 644 00:31:56,687 --> 00:32:00,087 Speaker 1: you couldn't see people's faces a lot, and the humanity 645 00:32:00,167 --> 00:32:03,727 Speaker 1: and everyone was living in their own bubbles quite literally. 646 00:32:04,247 --> 00:32:08,567 Speaker 1: But this just felt incredibly joyous and you could talk 647 00:32:08,607 --> 00:32:11,247 Speaker 1: to anyone about it. It was lovely to not have 648 00:32:11,327 --> 00:32:14,247 Speaker 1: a sense of dread when you went on a news 649 00:32:14,247 --> 00:32:17,167 Speaker 1: site in the morning and to just think, oh, I 650 00:32:17,207 --> 00:32:19,647 Speaker 1: wonder how many medals we want overnight? It was very simple. 651 00:32:19,727 --> 00:32:22,127 Speaker 3: I wonder, you know, Adele getting up and talking about Reagun. 652 00:32:22,247 --> 00:32:22,687 Speaker 1: Yeah. 653 00:32:22,807 --> 00:32:26,727 Speaker 3: Other than literally a story of assassination or COVID, what 654 00:32:27,007 --> 00:32:30,367 Speaker 3: story could anyone talk about on stage that is light, 655 00:32:31,007 --> 00:32:34,087 Speaker 3: that is fun, that's unifying, that everyone would know, that 656 00:32:34,127 --> 00:32:36,407 Speaker 3: everyone would reference. I mean, Taylor Swift is probably the 657 00:32:36,447 --> 00:32:40,807 Speaker 3: only other example of something that brings everyone together that yeah, 658 00:32:40,927 --> 00:32:43,887 Speaker 3: isn't depressing devastating News. 659 00:32:44,687 --> 00:32:48,447 Speaker 2: One unlimited out loud access. We drop episodes every Tuesday 660 00:32:48,487 --> 00:32:51,607 Speaker 2: and Thursday exclusively for Mamma Mia subscribers. 661 00:32:51,967 --> 00:32:53,487 Speaker 1: Follow the link at the show notes. 662 00:32:53,287 --> 00:32:55,527 Speaker 2: To get us in your ears five days a week. 663 00:32:55,807 --> 00:32:59,127 Speaker 2: And a huge thank you to all our current subscribers. 664 00:33:07,047 --> 00:33:09,247 Speaker 1: We all have an idea of what life can be. 665 00:33:09,847 --> 00:33:12,247 Speaker 1: I want to see you again. Now you see me. 666 00:33:12,887 --> 00:33:17,087 Speaker 1: You know what I mean, that special connection you feel 667 00:33:17,967 --> 00:33:29,167 Speaker 1: that first kiss for fifteen seconds. That's how it teakes. 668 00:33:30,927 --> 00:33:32,487 Speaker 6: To completely change everything. 669 00:33:33,727 --> 00:33:38,247 Speaker 2: Rift, feud Fight, three words that guarantee clicks and views 670 00:33:38,287 --> 00:33:40,527 Speaker 2: if they're put next to a famous woman's name. 671 00:33:40,847 --> 00:33:41,647 Speaker 1: And here we go. 672 00:33:42,367 --> 00:33:46,807 Speaker 2: Welcome to the latest Blake Lively headlines accompanying the unavoidable 673 00:33:46,847 --> 00:33:49,887 Speaker 2: promotional onslaught that the release of It Ends with Us, 674 00:33:49,927 --> 00:33:53,207 Speaker 2: which came out this weekend, has been enjoying. By the way, 675 00:33:53,607 --> 00:33:56,047 Speaker 2: the sound you can hear right now is Ryan Reynolds 676 00:33:56,047 --> 00:33:59,087 Speaker 2: and Blake Lively just popping bottles and burning mountains of 677 00:33:59,087 --> 00:34:01,287 Speaker 2: money for good times in the backyard of their New 678 00:34:01,367 --> 00:34:06,007 Speaker 2: York State mansion. Because that couple owns the mainstream culture 679 00:34:06,407 --> 00:34:11,167 Speaker 2: right now. His movie, his Deadpool sequel, Deadpool Versus Wolverine, 680 00:34:11,687 --> 00:34:14,967 Speaker 2: has broken more than a billion dollars, is a huge 681 00:34:15,207 --> 00:34:18,927 Speaker 2: hit and is everywhere you look. And her movie It 682 00:34:19,007 --> 00:34:21,887 Speaker 2: Ends with Us, which is the adaptation of Colin Hoover's 683 00:34:21,887 --> 00:34:24,487 Speaker 2: best selling book, is number two in the box office. 684 00:34:24,567 --> 00:34:26,727 Speaker 2: It pulled more than fifty million over the weekend, and 685 00:34:26,767 --> 00:34:29,367 Speaker 2: considering the movie only cost twenty five million to make, 686 00:34:29,887 --> 00:34:32,927 Speaker 2: it is considered a bona fide gold star smash. 687 00:34:33,047 --> 00:34:38,687 Speaker 1: We haven't had Hollywood royal couple like this since Brad 688 00:34:38,687 --> 00:34:42,967 Speaker 1: and Angelina, really have we Also, Angelina wasn't box office. 689 00:34:43,247 --> 00:34:48,727 Speaker 7: They were very famous, and they were so you can't 690 00:34:48,727 --> 00:34:54,407 Speaker 7: even remember his office John Kraginskysnski. 691 00:34:54,967 --> 00:34:55,527 Speaker 1: But they're not. 692 00:34:55,967 --> 00:34:56,247 Speaker 3: They're not. 693 00:34:56,567 --> 00:34:58,967 Speaker 2: And the thing is one of the things that marks 694 00:34:58,967 --> 00:35:01,967 Speaker 2: out Reynolds and Lively, and we're going to get to 695 00:35:02,007 --> 00:35:04,327 Speaker 2: this with what the gossip is here is that they 696 00:35:04,367 --> 00:35:07,047 Speaker 2: also own everything, so they're not just movie stars. Like 697 00:35:07,127 --> 00:35:11,007 Speaker 2: Reynolds is an ep on Deadpool. It's made him so 698 00:35:11,327 --> 00:35:13,727 Speaker 2: much money the three movies that have already been made 699 00:35:13,727 --> 00:35:16,087 Speaker 2: because he's got a massive back end deal. He also 700 00:35:16,127 --> 00:35:20,087 Speaker 2: controls production like it's his it's his thing, right, so 701 00:35:20,727 --> 00:35:24,767 Speaker 2: he's also the business person behind that franchise. Blake Lively 702 00:35:25,047 --> 00:35:27,727 Speaker 2: was a producer on this right, So they've got a 703 00:35:27,727 --> 00:35:30,447 Speaker 2: lot of class and so and so it seems was 704 00:35:30,607 --> 00:35:34,287 Speaker 2: Reynolds by stealth. Ryan Reynolds also owns lots of businesses, 705 00:35:34,367 --> 00:35:39,007 Speaker 2: owns a football team like he is an absolute empire. 706 00:35:39,087 --> 00:35:43,087 Speaker 2: Now he's a mogul and yet his persona online. They're 707 00:35:43,207 --> 00:35:44,967 Speaker 2: very very good promoter as a pair of them. He 708 00:35:44,967 --> 00:35:49,567 Speaker 2: in particular is very funny self deprecating all that stuff anyway, 709 00:35:49,687 --> 00:35:51,607 Speaker 2: bit daggy dad, bit daggy dad. 710 00:35:51,607 --> 00:35:53,647 Speaker 1: But also hot because they've got four kids together. 711 00:35:54,007 --> 00:35:56,807 Speaker 2: I didn't realize four kids, and the most recent of 712 00:35:56,847 --> 00:35:59,127 Speaker 2: them is quite young. And they're also as you would 713 00:35:59,167 --> 00:36:03,047 Speaker 2: definitely know in the tailor verse. Anyway, back to the feud. 714 00:36:03,207 --> 00:36:06,567 Speaker 2: So if you've been paying attention to any celeb news lately, 715 00:36:06,607 --> 00:36:09,487 Speaker 2: you would have seen Lively selling the hell out of 716 00:36:09,527 --> 00:36:13,127 Speaker 2: this film by wearing fancy floral dresses that get ever 717 00:36:13,207 --> 00:36:16,087 Speaker 2: more glamorous than floral as the promotional campaign has gone 718 00:36:16,127 --> 00:36:18,807 Speaker 2: along because the character she plays, it's called Lily Bloom, 719 00:36:18,807 --> 00:36:21,447 Speaker 2: and she's a florist, so yeah, seem dressing. 720 00:36:21,687 --> 00:36:22,527 Speaker 1: Is it a comedy? 721 00:36:22,887 --> 00:36:22,927 Speaker 7: No? 722 00:36:23,167 --> 00:36:23,567 Speaker 1: God no. 723 00:36:23,927 --> 00:36:26,487 Speaker 2: So here's another thing that's interesting about this. It Ends 724 00:36:26,527 --> 00:36:30,607 Speaker 2: with Us is a story of domestic violence, so it 725 00:36:30,687 --> 00:36:33,927 Speaker 2: follows Lily Bloom. Colin Hoover wrote this book based on 726 00:36:33,967 --> 00:36:37,527 Speaker 2: her own parents' marriage and relationship, and it became this 727 00:36:37,767 --> 00:36:40,127 Speaker 2: massive bestseller, and then she wrote sequels and it sold 728 00:36:40,207 --> 00:36:41,167 Speaker 2: more than eight million copies. 729 00:36:41,327 --> 00:36:42,207 Speaker 1: Is a good moment. 730 00:36:42,567 --> 00:36:44,887 Speaker 2: It depends what kind of things you like. But it's 731 00:36:44,927 --> 00:36:47,647 Speaker 2: a very very very popular book that was diplomatic. 732 00:36:48,807 --> 00:36:50,847 Speaker 3: I'm going to say, but I don't think have any 733 00:36:50,847 --> 00:36:51,487 Speaker 3: of us read it. 734 00:36:51,527 --> 00:36:53,847 Speaker 2: I have not read it, but I actually feel embarrassed 735 00:36:53,847 --> 00:36:57,887 Speaker 2: that I haven't read it because it's so it's culturally dominant. 736 00:36:58,207 --> 00:37:00,287 Speaker 2: I should have read it, but I just haven't. 737 00:37:00,527 --> 00:37:02,607 Speaker 1: In the same way that Fifty Shades of Gray was 738 00:37:02,887 --> 00:37:05,927 Speaker 1: the last book that was just so yeah. Back to that, 739 00:37:06,127 --> 00:37:06,967 Speaker 1: she's written of the. 740 00:37:06,887 --> 00:37:10,127 Speaker 2: Books and she's self published and she's a ma sive deal, right, 741 00:37:10,567 --> 00:37:13,247 Speaker 2: And so Colleen Hoover sold the rights to It Ends 742 00:37:13,247 --> 00:37:15,687 Speaker 2: with Us to this guy, well sold them to him, 743 00:37:15,687 --> 00:37:18,407 Speaker 2: but he optioned them to a guy called Justin Baldoni. 744 00:37:18,767 --> 00:37:20,927 Speaker 2: Now he has made it ends with us as the 745 00:37:21,007 --> 00:37:24,767 Speaker 2: director and one of the producers, and he co stars 746 00:37:24,767 --> 00:37:26,927 Speaker 2: in it with Blake. So I've never heard of him. 747 00:37:27,287 --> 00:37:29,807 Speaker 3: You know his faith if you've ever watched Jane the Virgin. 748 00:37:29,887 --> 00:37:32,087 Speaker 3: So I watched Jane the Virgin. He was the sexy 749 00:37:32,087 --> 00:37:32,367 Speaker 3: guy and. 750 00:37:32,407 --> 00:37:36,287 Speaker 2: That so Blake's the female lead, the florist Lily, and 751 00:37:36,367 --> 00:37:41,127 Speaker 2: he's the male lead, the bad guy in a neurosurgeon Ryle. Right, 752 00:37:41,487 --> 00:37:45,687 Speaker 2: so they're playing this couple in this abusive relationship in 753 00:37:45,727 --> 00:37:49,967 Speaker 2: the movie. Now, usually, especially if the male actor involved 754 00:37:50,007 --> 00:37:52,047 Speaker 2: is very involved in the production. He's the director, for 755 00:37:52,087 --> 00:37:54,207 Speaker 2: God's sake, the two of them would be on every 756 00:37:54,207 --> 00:37:56,647 Speaker 2: red carpet together, right, You would see them everywhere together. 757 00:37:56,687 --> 00:37:59,247 Speaker 2: Think of like Ryan Gosling and Emily Blunt when they're 758 00:37:59,247 --> 00:38:01,647 Speaker 2: promoting The hit Man. Think of pretty much any you know, 759 00:38:02,047 --> 00:38:04,647 Speaker 2: like our mate Glenn Powell and Daisy Egga Jones have 760 00:38:04,687 --> 00:38:05,447 Speaker 2: been everywhere. 761 00:38:05,127 --> 00:38:08,567 Speaker 1: To Queenie Julia rob There. 762 00:38:08,607 --> 00:38:10,727 Speaker 2: You know the two if you are normally read carpet 763 00:38:10,967 --> 00:38:15,927 Speaker 2: banter interviews, have not done one piece of joint promotion. 764 00:38:16,487 --> 00:38:18,287 Speaker 2: They have gone out of their way to not be 765 00:38:18,327 --> 00:38:22,527 Speaker 2: photographed together. Ever, at the big premiere last week, none 766 00:38:22,567 --> 00:38:24,847 Speaker 2: of the rest of the cast was photographed with Baldoni. 767 00:38:25,327 --> 00:38:27,847 Speaker 2: None of the rest of the cast now, including Colleen Hoover, 768 00:38:27,847 --> 00:38:31,567 Speaker 2: who's the creator, is following Baldoni on Instagram anymore. 769 00:38:31,647 --> 00:38:33,487 Speaker 3: I went on Instagram to double check this because I 770 00:38:33,527 --> 00:38:37,247 Speaker 3: check my facts, and Colleen Hoover, Blake, Lively, Ryan Reynolds none, 771 00:38:37,327 --> 00:38:40,367 Speaker 3: and they follow people. They do not follow Baldon. 772 00:38:40,207 --> 00:38:42,207 Speaker 2: And they at the beginning of all this, she was 773 00:38:42,287 --> 00:38:44,727 Speaker 2: posing for lots of selfies with Baldoni on set with 774 00:38:44,767 --> 00:38:48,247 Speaker 2: the headphones in the camera. So the theories go, and 775 00:38:48,287 --> 00:38:49,687 Speaker 2: this is all room and rumor room. 776 00:38:50,087 --> 00:38:50,927 Speaker 1: But one of the. 777 00:38:50,767 --> 00:38:53,967 Speaker 2: Theories go that our Hollywood power couple Reynolds and Lively 778 00:38:54,567 --> 00:38:56,767 Speaker 2: were getting a bit too interfery in it, right, So 779 00:38:56,887 --> 00:39:00,727 Speaker 2: Reynolds apparently rewrote some of Lively's scenes, which Blake has 780 00:39:00,767 --> 00:39:03,527 Speaker 2: said herself, she said, oh, he really helped me with 781 00:39:03,607 --> 00:39:05,767 Speaker 2: this scene. He writes some things for me, I write 782 00:39:05,767 --> 00:39:07,247 Speaker 2: on things for him, or a team we work on 783 00:39:07,287 --> 00:39:09,207 Speaker 2: everything together, which is lovely but probably a bit annoy 784 00:39:09,407 --> 00:39:10,047 Speaker 2: for the people who. 785 00:39:10,167 --> 00:39:10,727 Speaker 1: Oh. 786 00:39:11,047 --> 00:39:14,447 Speaker 3: Actually, screen writer found that out about an hour before 787 00:39:14,447 --> 00:39:17,847 Speaker 3: they told the press, and she did not know, not thrilled. 788 00:39:18,007 --> 00:39:21,687 Speaker 2: And also the rumor goes that Lively had her own 789 00:39:21,847 --> 00:39:25,487 Speaker 2: cut of the movie made after shooting had stopped. Now 790 00:39:25,567 --> 00:39:29,287 Speaker 2: apparently that's not that unusual, although it sounds terrible. And 791 00:39:29,327 --> 00:39:32,567 Speaker 2: then they have gone with Baldoni's cut, but he presumably 792 00:39:32,567 --> 00:39:33,647 Speaker 2: did not love that. 793 00:39:33,647 --> 00:39:35,727 Speaker 1: That makes sense of an interview I read with him 794 00:39:35,727 --> 00:39:39,247 Speaker 1: in the Hollywood Reporter where he was asked if he 795 00:39:39,287 --> 00:39:42,007 Speaker 1: would direct the sequel, because there's a sequel to this, 796 00:39:42,647 --> 00:39:47,367 Speaker 1: and he said, no, not my jam I think Blake 797 00:39:47,487 --> 00:39:52,367 Speaker 1: should direct. She's ready to direct. And now I understand 798 00:39:52,407 --> 00:39:54,567 Speaker 1: the subtext of that, which is very passag as you 799 00:39:54,567 --> 00:39:57,567 Speaker 1: would say whole and that is very She was trying 800 00:39:57,607 --> 00:39:59,807 Speaker 1: to direct this film and I was actually meant to 801 00:39:59,807 --> 00:40:00,487 Speaker 1: be the director. 802 00:40:00,727 --> 00:40:04,487 Speaker 2: Reynolds and Lively have started the pr machine just a 803 00:40:04,527 --> 00:40:08,207 Speaker 2: little bit slightly like a little sort of backgrounding pass 804 00:40:08,247 --> 00:40:11,527 Speaker 2: agnes with rumors saying, and this may be why some 805 00:40:11,567 --> 00:40:14,287 Speaker 2: of the other cast have unfollowed him, that Baldoni made 806 00:40:14,287 --> 00:40:16,487 Speaker 2: Blake feel very uncomfortable on set. 807 00:40:18,127 --> 00:40:20,127 Speaker 1: That's all you need to say in twenty twenty four, 808 00:40:20,167 --> 00:40:22,127 Speaker 1: isn't it. So it's a little bit like, I want 809 00:40:22,127 --> 00:40:24,487 Speaker 1: to ask you wholly about the strategy behind this, if 810 00:40:24,527 --> 00:40:28,647 Speaker 1: there is one, And I'm always more believing of it's 811 00:40:28,647 --> 00:40:31,007 Speaker 1: a fuck up, not a conspiracy, because when everyone goes, oh, 812 00:40:31,007 --> 00:40:33,287 Speaker 1: they're doing this on purpose to get people talking about 813 00:40:33,287 --> 00:40:35,127 Speaker 1: the movie, and look, yes we are, so I guess 814 00:40:35,167 --> 00:40:38,647 Speaker 1: it worked. But I want to ask about the last 815 00:40:38,687 --> 00:40:41,327 Speaker 1: time we can remember this happening was with Don't Worry Darling, 816 00:40:41,487 --> 00:40:45,247 Speaker 1: the movie that Olivia Wilde directed and Florence Pugh and 817 00:40:45,447 --> 00:40:48,607 Speaker 1: Harry Stiles was in. And do you remember Spitgate? It 818 00:40:48,887 --> 00:40:50,007 Speaker 1: can when. 819 00:40:50,367 --> 00:40:55,047 Speaker 3: Someone Harry, Yeah, he didn't, but that was what he. 820 00:40:55,087 --> 00:40:58,447 Speaker 1: Thought anyway, So that I still haven't ever watched the movie, 821 00:40:58,887 --> 00:41:02,327 Speaker 1: but certainly everybody was talking about it. Is this a 822 00:41:02,447 --> 00:41:05,047 Speaker 1: marketing thing? Like would would the marketers of this movie 823 00:41:05,087 --> 00:41:07,167 Speaker 1: be going, oh, this is good for us or this 824 00:41:07,247 --> 00:41:08,167 Speaker 1: is bad for us? 825 00:41:08,327 --> 00:41:10,647 Speaker 2: I'd love to know Jesse thinks about that, because a 826 00:41:10,687 --> 00:41:13,167 Speaker 2: lot of these rumors have blown up on TikTok. Right, 827 00:41:13,207 --> 00:41:16,647 Speaker 2: So there is the indisputable fact that they are not 828 00:41:16,767 --> 00:41:18,767 Speaker 2: promoting it in a conventional way. 829 00:41:19,287 --> 00:41:22,847 Speaker 1: You could argue generous read why is it not conventional? 830 00:41:22,927 --> 00:41:25,487 Speaker 2: Well, because normally they'd be together, Oh and so the 831 00:41:25,527 --> 00:41:28,007 Speaker 2: red carpet, all the things they'd be together. He's the director, 832 00:41:28,007 --> 00:41:31,567 Speaker 2: he's her star that you know, but generous read is well, 833 00:41:31,607 --> 00:41:33,927 Speaker 2: Blake Lively's the star, she's the drawer, and she's the 834 00:41:33,967 --> 00:41:36,527 Speaker 2: only face on the poster. And he does play an 835 00:41:36,527 --> 00:41:39,927 Speaker 2: abusive man in this movie. So you could argue, no, 836 00:41:40,087 --> 00:41:42,767 Speaker 2: it's a Blake Lively vehicle. We focus entirely on her. 837 00:41:43,127 --> 00:41:45,647 Speaker 2: But what I'd love to know from my TikTok expert 838 00:41:45,767 --> 00:41:50,207 Speaker 2: Jesse Stevens, because everybody's analyzing everything to the nth degree 839 00:41:50,247 --> 00:41:55,487 Speaker 2: for content, Now, do we need intrigue plot, you know, 840 00:41:55,727 --> 00:41:59,687 Speaker 2: scheming strategy to keep the momentum going of this movie 841 00:42:00,007 --> 00:42:00,887 Speaker 2: to an extent. 842 00:42:01,087 --> 00:42:04,487 Speaker 3: But then Blake Lively in Floral's was also a story, 843 00:42:04,607 --> 00:42:06,087 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. It's not like there was 844 00:42:06,127 --> 00:42:09,687 Speaker 3: a shortage of publicity. There's what's happening on Tick and 845 00:42:09,687 --> 00:42:12,567 Speaker 3: then there's what's happening with sources in the Hollywood Reporter. 846 00:42:12,887 --> 00:42:15,007 Speaker 3: According to quite reliable sources. 847 00:42:14,687 --> 00:42:16,407 Speaker 1: Are the sources TikTok No. 848 00:42:16,887 --> 00:42:20,167 Speaker 2: They said the Hollywood Reporter is a very reputable publication. 849 00:42:20,327 --> 00:42:22,887 Speaker 3: I was reading that at the premiere. They didn't even 850 00:42:22,887 --> 00:42:25,407 Speaker 3: sit in the same theater they're in separate theaters watching 851 00:42:25,447 --> 00:42:28,687 Speaker 3: with like family and friends or whatever. What TikTok can't 852 00:42:28,687 --> 00:42:32,807 Speaker 3: stop talking about is they feel like Ryan Reynolds came 853 00:42:32,847 --> 00:42:35,287 Speaker 3: on and has done more press for this movie than 854 00:42:35,527 --> 00:42:38,767 Speaker 3: Baldoni has, even though he's not in it. He's not 855 00:42:38,807 --> 00:42:41,447 Speaker 3: a producer, he's not a director. And what they're trying 856 00:42:41,487 --> 00:42:46,167 Speaker 3: to do is a Barbie Heimer thing with Wolverine with Wolverine, 857 00:42:46,327 --> 00:42:49,327 Speaker 3: and they're trying to basically get all of this, which 858 00:42:49,447 --> 00:42:53,167 Speaker 3: is probably partly true. The other creative difference that TikTok 859 00:42:53,247 --> 00:42:56,207 Speaker 3: sleuths think they've noticed, which I think there might be 860 00:42:56,487 --> 00:42:59,647 Speaker 3: some truth too, is that the movie that Lively is 861 00:42:59,687 --> 00:43:02,447 Speaker 3: promoting and the movie that Baldoni is promoting are two 862 00:43:02,487 --> 00:43:08,087 Speaker 3: different films. So Baldoni always wanted to do a really deep, 863 00:43:08,367 --> 00:43:11,527 Speaker 3: complex story about domestic violence, and that was something that 864 00:43:11,567 --> 00:43:13,567 Speaker 3: really spoke to him. And when you see him interviewed, 865 00:43:13,607 --> 00:43:17,447 Speaker 3: he's very serious and he's saying he's like in tears 866 00:43:17,527 --> 00:43:19,767 Speaker 3: talking about what it took from him having to act 867 00:43:19,807 --> 00:43:21,527 Speaker 3: like that and how he made sure there was an 868 00:43:21,567 --> 00:43:24,967 Speaker 3: intimacy coordinator, and what he's actually said has been he's 869 00:43:24,967 --> 00:43:30,047 Speaker 3: getting very good advice Lively. I think her pr brain 870 00:43:30,767 --> 00:43:33,447 Speaker 3: has gone, we need to sell this as a rom com, yea, 871 00:43:34,727 --> 00:43:37,807 Speaker 3: and people aren't going to see it. And in Lively's defense, 872 00:43:37,807 --> 00:43:40,647 Speaker 3: I'm not critical of that because Hoover did the same thing, 873 00:43:40,847 --> 00:43:43,167 Speaker 3: and in fact, that's part of what the text is about. 874 00:43:43,567 --> 00:43:46,287 Speaker 3: That dv's stories begin as a rom com like they 875 00:43:46,327 --> 00:43:47,527 Speaker 3: begin with. 876 00:43:47,687 --> 00:43:49,407 Speaker 1: Course, they don't begin as DV story. 877 00:43:49,767 --> 00:43:53,007 Speaker 3: They begin with like incredible sex and what you think 878 00:43:53,087 --> 00:43:56,767 Speaker 3: is a romance. And from the perspective of the protagonist, 879 00:43:56,807 --> 00:43:59,687 Speaker 3: as I understand it, she only realizes part way through 880 00:44:00,087 --> 00:44:01,647 Speaker 3: what she's got herself into. 881 00:44:01,527 --> 00:44:03,807 Speaker 2: And that she's in this abusive cycle, which is why 882 00:44:03,847 --> 00:44:05,527 Speaker 2: it's called it sentence with Us because of her parents. 883 00:44:05,887 --> 00:44:08,007 Speaker 2: And the thing is that might also be interesting from 884 00:44:08,047 --> 00:44:11,087 Speaker 2: a marketing perspective in this moment we just talked about 885 00:44:11,087 --> 00:44:14,447 Speaker 2: how much everybody wanted Joy in the Olympics. If you, 886 00:44:14,727 --> 00:44:17,287 Speaker 2: in this moment, were deciding how to market a movie 887 00:44:17,367 --> 00:44:21,127 Speaker 2: that is unquestionably about domestic violence, and anyone who's read 888 00:44:21,127 --> 00:44:23,047 Speaker 2: the book knows that, and eight million people have read 889 00:44:23,087 --> 00:44:26,887 Speaker 2: the book, would you go with nobody's going to come 890 00:44:26,967 --> 00:44:30,847 Speaker 2: if we make it look like a dark, grim movie, 891 00:44:31,247 --> 00:44:33,247 Speaker 2: or but if we put Blake Lively in a whole 892 00:44:33,287 --> 00:44:35,807 Speaker 2: lot of flowers, and we keep focusing on this lovely, 893 00:44:35,847 --> 00:44:39,847 Speaker 2: wonderful relationship she has in real life with her power husband. 894 00:44:40,447 --> 00:44:43,687 Speaker 2: Then people will come as a marketing strategy that seems 895 00:44:43,727 --> 00:44:45,287 Speaker 2: to be clever, wouldn't you say? 896 00:44:45,487 --> 00:44:49,647 Speaker 1: I do? And Blake Lively famously doesn't have a stylist. 897 00:44:49,687 --> 00:44:52,567 Speaker 1: I actually forgot that she was an actor. And it's interesting. 898 00:44:52,607 --> 00:44:54,887 Speaker 1: She's on the cover of the September issue of Vogue, 899 00:44:54,887 --> 00:44:57,767 Speaker 1: which tends to be a big deal, well not so 900 00:44:57,847 --> 00:44:59,807 Speaker 1: much anymore, but is the most big deal cover of 901 00:44:59,847 --> 00:45:03,207 Speaker 1: the year, and it is very strange. Shoot, it's with 902 00:45:03,327 --> 00:45:06,407 Speaker 1: her and Hugh Jackman in these characters inspired by To 903 00:45:06,447 --> 00:45:10,527 Speaker 1: Catch a Thief, and it's directed by bas Lerman. You 904 00:45:10,567 --> 00:45:13,327 Speaker 1: know what, when I saw that, because it's like there 905 00:45:13,327 --> 00:45:16,127 Speaker 1: are pages and pages, I was like, I thought, there's 906 00:45:16,207 --> 00:45:17,727 Speaker 1: no money in magazines anymore. 907 00:45:17,807 --> 00:45:19,847 Speaker 2: Well, and here we are with bazz Lerman and ten 908 00:45:19,927 --> 00:45:22,887 Speaker 2: million dollars worth of diamonds and Lively and Hugh Jackman. 909 00:45:23,047 --> 00:45:27,367 Speaker 1: The thing is whole sidebar. It was not filmed on location. 910 00:45:27,647 --> 00:45:29,767 Speaker 1: It was filmed with just a big pretty much on 911 00:45:29,847 --> 00:45:33,047 Speaker 1: green screen because you know, nobody could afford to fly 912 00:45:33,127 --> 00:45:36,567 Speaker 1: anywhere anymore because of these budgets. And also Hugh Jackman, 913 00:45:36,607 --> 00:45:38,887 Speaker 1: Black Lively and bas are all very good friends of 914 00:45:38,927 --> 00:45:42,767 Speaker 1: any Winters, so mate's rights. But yeah, I think it's interesting. 915 00:45:42,887 --> 00:45:47,887 Speaker 1: She's obviously stepping into that frame of being a movie star. 916 00:45:48,887 --> 00:45:51,407 Speaker 1: But I couldn't tell you one movie she's been in. 917 00:45:51,527 --> 00:45:53,887 Speaker 3: She was a simple Favor, she was in that great 918 00:45:53,967 --> 00:45:56,767 Speaker 3: one movie. She was in Sisterhood of the Trust. 919 00:45:56,887 --> 00:45:59,407 Speaker 1: She was in the Town with Ben Affleck that was great. 920 00:45:59,567 --> 00:46:00,407 Speaker 1: I don't know any of those. 921 00:46:00,767 --> 00:46:03,047 Speaker 2: She hasn't made these pages because she's been having all 922 00:46:03,047 --> 00:46:03,527 Speaker 2: the babies. 923 00:46:03,767 --> 00:46:04,647 Speaker 1: Of course she's got fun. 924 00:46:04,847 --> 00:46:07,247 Speaker 2: She also because she her and Ryan Reynolds are the 925 00:46:07,247 --> 00:46:09,687 Speaker 2: power couple. She also in the middle of the promo 926 00:46:09,767 --> 00:46:10,807 Speaker 2: for this launched around. 927 00:46:10,567 --> 00:46:12,607 Speaker 1: Hair care brand. Yes, and she's like Brown. 928 00:46:12,767 --> 00:46:15,367 Speaker 2: She has a drink label too, Betty's Buzz, so she's 929 00:46:15,487 --> 00:46:19,207 Speaker 2: like they are. They're very savvy taking which is great 930 00:46:19,407 --> 00:46:19,887 Speaker 2: the world. 931 00:46:20,007 --> 00:46:23,327 Speaker 3: And the similarity between this and Don't Worry Darling is 932 00:46:23,367 --> 00:46:27,127 Speaker 3: that the actors aren't just actors. So I think that's 933 00:46:27,167 --> 00:46:30,767 Speaker 3: when things get complicated. So Olivia Wild it wasn't that 934 00:46:30,767 --> 00:46:32,807 Speaker 3: they were all on set together, it was that one 935 00:46:33,487 --> 00:46:35,807 Speaker 3: had more power than the others, and so you see 936 00:46:35,847 --> 00:46:39,287 Speaker 3: the power dynamics and the creative differences leak out into 937 00:46:39,327 --> 00:46:42,727 Speaker 3: the press tour, because this is really about different visions, 938 00:46:42,807 --> 00:46:45,767 Speaker 3: and where a director sits and a producer sits is. 939 00:46:45,807 --> 00:46:48,247 Speaker 1: Just workplace politics, right. Well, I mean there was a 940 00:46:48,407 --> 00:46:52,727 Speaker 1: story about me being unhappy with strife the first season, 941 00:46:53,007 --> 00:46:55,207 Speaker 1: but it didn't really go anywhere. I mean, I do 942 00:46:55,407 --> 00:46:58,487 Speaker 1: plan for season two, let's have a few yeah. So 943 00:46:59,207 --> 00:47:02,767 Speaker 1: I remember reading it and going really like, really, but 944 00:47:03,167 --> 00:47:05,567 Speaker 1: you know, maybe we need to lean into that Jesse 945 00:47:05,887 --> 00:47:06,287 Speaker 1: and just. 946 00:47:06,487 --> 00:47:09,047 Speaker 2: Yeah, you too should definitely have a feud for season two. 947 00:47:09,687 --> 00:47:11,487 Speaker 2: Although you know, I was thinking that the don't worry 948 00:47:11,567 --> 00:47:13,767 Speaker 2: Darling thing didn't really work for the movie, as in 949 00:47:13,807 --> 00:47:17,127 Speaker 2: that movie was considered a flop, whereas this is working 950 00:47:17,207 --> 00:47:19,567 Speaker 2: for this movie. I mean, not just this, but it's 951 00:47:19,607 --> 00:47:21,767 Speaker 2: going to keep the momentum going for a few more 952 00:47:21,807 --> 00:47:23,167 Speaker 2: weeks and it's considered a hit. 953 00:47:23,287 --> 00:47:26,047 Speaker 3: So what I don't want is for this film that's 954 00:47:26,247 --> 00:47:29,887 Speaker 3: got a very powerful message about DV to become about 955 00:47:30,247 --> 00:47:32,407 Speaker 3: two bitches being mean to a man. I would rather 956 00:47:32,447 --> 00:47:34,767 Speaker 3: that not be the story, because he's being framed as 957 00:47:34,767 --> 00:47:35,407 Speaker 3: a bit of a victor. 958 00:47:35,487 --> 00:47:38,447 Speaker 2: Maybe he's not a nice guy. It used to be 959 00:47:38,487 --> 00:47:39,687 Speaker 2: the suggest Colin Hoover. 960 00:47:39,807 --> 00:47:42,967 Speaker 3: So this is what TikTok will tell you. That Colin 961 00:47:43,047 --> 00:47:45,927 Speaker 3: Hoover wants her other books made into movies, right, so 962 00:47:46,007 --> 00:47:48,887 Speaker 3: she's looking at who's got more money to make them. 963 00:47:48,967 --> 00:47:52,247 Speaker 3: If there's creative differences between Blake Lively and Baldonie hitching 964 00:47:52,287 --> 00:47:54,407 Speaker 3: your wagon, then I'm going to hitch my wagon too, Lively. 965 00:47:54,727 --> 00:47:58,847 Speaker 3: And so these creasy, little bitchy women are over here, 966 00:47:58,927 --> 00:48:01,767 Speaker 3: and poor Baldoni just wanted to make a very serious 967 00:48:01,807 --> 00:48:04,767 Speaker 3: film about DV And look at Blake Lively with her hair. 968 00:48:04,927 --> 00:48:05,927 Speaker 3: That's how the story goes. 969 00:48:05,967 --> 00:48:10,607 Speaker 1: Okay, out Louders, you might have someone in your household 970 00:48:10,647 --> 00:48:13,687 Speaker 1: that was at a Bucks weekend over the weekend, because 971 00:48:13,687 --> 00:48:17,727 Speaker 1: that's what Bucks weekends are. They're not nights anymore, they're weekends. 972 00:48:18,407 --> 00:48:23,327 Speaker 1: We answered a dilemma about a particular Bucks weekend and 973 00:48:23,447 --> 00:48:27,767 Speaker 1: an escort and a text message, and it's quite juicy. 974 00:48:27,967 --> 00:48:30,647 Speaker 1: We gave our thoughts. To listen to that episode, you 975 00:48:30,647 --> 00:48:32,367 Speaker 1: can follow the link in the show notes. 976 00:48:32,847 --> 00:48:35,447 Speaker 2: A massive thank you to all of you out louders 977 00:48:35,447 --> 00:48:38,207 Speaker 2: for being with us through this exciting journey through Paris. 978 00:48:38,447 --> 00:48:42,887 Speaker 2: Our non expert journey through Paris, just pointing at stuff 979 00:48:42,887 --> 00:48:44,447 Speaker 2: and going that was weird, wasn't it. 980 00:48:44,847 --> 00:48:47,327 Speaker 1: Oh we like that anyway. Thank you for. 981 00:48:47,247 --> 00:48:49,367 Speaker 2: Being here with us as always, and thank you to 982 00:48:49,407 --> 00:48:51,647 Speaker 2: our fabulous team for helping us put the show together. 983 00:48:51,927 --> 00:48:54,047 Speaker 1: We will be back in your ears tomorrow. 984 00:48:54,087 --> 00:48:55,207 Speaker 3: Bye bye. 985 00:48:55,727 --> 00:48:58,887 Speaker 1: Shout out to any Mum and Maya subscribers listening. If 986 00:48:58,927 --> 00:49:01,527 Speaker 1: you love the show and want to support us as well, 987 00:49:01,687 --> 00:49:04,207 Speaker 1: subscribing to MoMA Miya is the very best way to 988 00:49:04,247 --> 00:49:06,647 Speaker 1: do so. There is a link in the episode description.