WEBVTT - April Theory & A Brand New Kink

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to a MoMA Mia podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Mamma Mia acknowledges the traditional owners of land and waters

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<v Speaker 2>that this podcast is recorded on. Men tend to really

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<v Speaker 2>like practical jokes. If you think about the stories of

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<v Speaker 2>movie stars who play practical jokes on each other and

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<v Speaker 2>then they'd pressed to us that they'll be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>Clooney was such a joker on set. He always did this,

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<v Speaker 2>He always did that. It just makes everyone else look dumb. Hello,

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<v Speaker 2>and welcome to Mama Mia. Out loud. It's what women

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<v Speaker 2>are actually talking about on Wednesday, the second of April.

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<v Speaker 2>My name is Holly Waynwright.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm mea Friedman, and I'm mea Friedman.

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<v Speaker 3>That's no Forril Fool's joke.

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<v Speaker 1>That's funny. I do have something it's not an April

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<v Speaker 1>Fool's joke, which is that, in case you missed it,

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<v Speaker 1>we have merch.

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<v Speaker 3>Out louders, No, now it sounds like an April for

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<v Speaker 3>it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>We finally have merch and it would be very elaborate

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<v Speaker 1>April Fool's date because I'm wearing it now and we're

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<v Speaker 1>all wearing it. Eagle eyed out there might have noticed

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<v Speaker 1>if you saw the socials for Monday show or the

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<v Speaker 1>picture that we put in the out loud.

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<v Speaker 2>Who one day. We were so subtle, weren't we? We

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<v Speaker 2>were so subtle, all standing there in front of all

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<v Speaker 2>the merchants. Out louders in our Facebook group were like,

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<v Speaker 2>I see March and.

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<v Speaker 1>Then we're like, we're not telling you until Wednesday. We're

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<v Speaker 1>I see you.

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<v Speaker 2>Are we telling them about the TYPEO? Is that a

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<v Speaker 2>thing we can tell our Oh yeah, people are so.

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<v Speaker 1>If you order quickly, and if you've got eagle eyes,

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<v Speaker 1>you will spot in one of the T shirts. I

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<v Speaker 1>won't tell you which one. There is a typo that's

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<v Speaker 1>so us So we were like, Holly of course spotted it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was proper to it. After it was printed

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<v Speaker 1>and we went, oh dear, and then we went, well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just make a feature of our floor.

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<v Speaker 4>Yep.

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<v Speaker 3>We love to flearn here.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and you know if you get one of those,

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<v Speaker 1>because obviously when we print the next edition, we are

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<v Speaker 1>going to change it, but.

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<v Speaker 5>It'll be a collector item in It's true. I went

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<v Speaker 5>to the gym the other day with my out Louder

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<v Speaker 5>merch bag. Is it dicky to wear your own merch.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's funny because I wore out my Outlouder t

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<v Speaker 2>shirt and when I walked into the office somebody said

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<v Speaker 2>to me, oh, a fan of yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Like someone has to think of that.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, now I feel very self conscious. On today's show,

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<v Speaker 2>there are two types of people, and neither of them

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<v Speaker 2>think practical jokes are funny. We have feedback for eightful

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<v Speaker 2>the first also the stratispheric drama level of sharing custody

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<v Speaker 2>with the world's most powerful unhinged men, and kink are

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<v Speaker 2>having a moment in pop culture, and a confession on

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<v Speaker 2>Gwyneth's lay. This podcast left us with questions. But first, Mia, in.

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<v Speaker 1>Case you missed it, the Beatles are getting back together

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<v Speaker 1>in see that coming movie form, and it's not actually them,

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<v Speaker 1>which is why you probably didn't see it coming. I

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<v Speaker 1>think two of them have died. Director Sam Mend's former

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<v Speaker 1>husband of Kate Winslet, announced yesterday that he's making four

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<v Speaker 1>describe some members.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the most interesting fact I've learned today. I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>know that is.

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<v Speaker 2>An enormously successful and accomplished director, but hey.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it's out loud.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how we wrong. He is making four separate movies,

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<v Speaker 1>one focusing on each of the four band members through

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<v Speaker 1>their point of view, and they'll all be dropping in

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<v Speaker 1>cinemas in April twenty twenty eight in what is being

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<v Speaker 1>called the first bingeable theatrical experience.

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<v Speaker 5>I have I have a question for Holly because she's British,

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<v Speaker 5>so clearly she's the closest to the Beatles.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to know who's in it? Who's playing

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<v Speaker 1>the Beatles?

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<v Speaker 3>That's actually pretty it's a dreamcast.

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<v Speaker 1>It is Paul Mescal as Paul McCartney, Paul Mescal from

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<v Speaker 1>Normal People. Harris Dickinson is playing John Lennon. He was

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<v Speaker 1>most recently in Baby Girl.

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<v Speaker 3>I think he is so hot. I can't even that's

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<v Speaker 3>the role.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone wants. You want to be John?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to be Paul?

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<v Speaker 2>You want to be John?

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<v Speaker 5>Why?

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<v Speaker 2>Because well, are you a Paul or are you a John?

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<v Speaker 2>Is one of the world's longest running like poodle wolf situations,

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<v Speaker 2>and you want to be John because's the main character.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he's the main.

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<v Speaker 6>Character of the Beatles.

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<v Speaker 1>Joseph Quinn is George Harrison, I don't know who he is.

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<v Speaker 1>And Barry Kogan is Ringo Star. He had to.

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<v Speaker 2>Be because I didn't realize that each one of these

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<v Speaker 2>movies is told from their perspectives, and no one would

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<v Speaker 2>go and see the Ringo one, no dissing Ringo. But

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<v Speaker 2>he's the least interesting that so until you put Barry

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<v Speaker 2>keg and then everyone goes, oh, yeah, now I need

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<v Speaker 2>to see the Ringo version.

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<v Speaker 5>So if you're counting your pennies for that time in

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<v Speaker 5>a few years, the ones you're going to see number one,

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<v Speaker 5>you're going to see John a couple.

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<v Speaker 1>Of hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>This is actually genius, absolute genius. I'm not happy that

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<v Speaker 2>I have to wait three years. But everybody's talking about

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<v Speaker 2>cinema is dead. Cinema is dead except for the massive

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<v Speaker 2>stunt things, and they tend to be Marvel movies, those

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<v Speaker 2>kind of things. Baby, with the exception of Barbie, which

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<v Speaker 2>obviously is a brilliant movie. A lot of those movies

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<v Speaker 2>don't get a lot of credibility, Like they're not very good.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you know, very artistically. What's the word critical, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>they're seen as a bit cheap, even though they're the

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<v Speaker 2>most expensive things that have ever been made. This is

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<v Speaker 2>a great idea because it marries stunt with simultaneous release

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<v Speaker 2>of four movies, biggest stars in the world, blah blah blah,

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<v Speaker 2>with undoubted credibility. If you've got Sam Mendes directing and

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<v Speaker 2>those actors playing these movies are going to be brilliant.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you think they'll have a few per fore men?

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<v Speaker 5>Because the thing is, if this was if this was

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<v Speaker 5>a Spice Girl, then we'd cut five women. We would

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<v Speaker 5>be holding our breath. Because the feud on the press

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<v Speaker 5>tour is the new like, that's the biggest st.

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<v Speaker 1>John famously clashed, particularly when Yo came into the picture.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm popular opinion. I don't think I'll see any of them.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like the Beatles very much.

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<v Speaker 2>I will see them all, all of them in like

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<v Speaker 2>a very short period. Imagine the fuss about this. It's

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<v Speaker 2>going to be like set aside a day you're going

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<v Speaker 2>to be like, it's going to be a whole.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll see Paul and John, and I'll decide whether I'll

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<v Speaker 3>see the others.

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<v Speaker 5>Feedback is a gift from both the perspective of a

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<v Speaker 5>giver as well as the recipient. I have feedback for

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<v Speaker 5>April Full's Day, and I'm worried that I'm being a killjoy,

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<v Speaker 5>which is why I'm bringing it to the table today

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<v Speaker 5>to unpack it with my friends.

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<v Speaker 6>Because this did you get tricked yesterday?

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<v Speaker 1>Babe?

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't say I got tricked. I'm trying to be

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<v Speaker 3>self aware.

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<v Speaker 5>This is my tenth year in media, and maybe I've

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<v Speaker 5>become jaded, right, but I think I'm done with April

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<v Speaker 5>Full's Day. Yesterday my social media Walter April Fool's Day pranks,

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<v Speaker 5>and I didn't even understand half of them. Brands love

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<v Speaker 5>and April Fool's Day joke, and there were some were

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<v Speaker 5>there many decent ones. Dyson did the airbrow.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw that that was clever. I almost tried to buy.

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<v Speaker 3>See this is a problem.

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<v Speaker 2>Think of how many people did try and buy that.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like a little I don't even know what

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<v Speaker 1>it was, but it was like to dry and fluff

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<v Speaker 1>and shape your eyebrows, and it was like.

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<v Speaker 2>A teeny weeny little hair dry.

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<v Speaker 5>I love a little gadget, and Mac did a clear

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<v Speaker 5>foundation and I was like, may I would buy that

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<v Speaker 5>In an instant.

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<v Speaker 3>Jack sent us chocolate covered Jacks, which that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Clean funny about them.

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<v Speaker 6>They were just delicious.

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<v Speaker 5>They're seriously a fantastic product that now I can't buy,

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<v Speaker 5>so now I'm annoyed. Set Then there was the school

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<v Speaker 5>who played this prank on their students.

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<v Speaker 7>Morning, Year eleven. I hope we are all well this morning.

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<v Speaker 7>I have some really significant news. This new will affect

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<v Speaker 7>Woollongong High School of the Performing Arts this year was

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<v Speaker 7>selected to be a part of the twenty twenty five

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<v Speaker 7>April Fool's Day Joke.

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<v Speaker 6>Got Up I love.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually love that.

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<v Speaker 3>I like that one schools deserve more fun.

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<v Speaker 5>I think we can all agree. I think that's fun,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'll allow that broadly. The wall to wall pranks,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not into it. And it got me thinking about

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<v Speaker 5>how some people are prank people. They love a practical joke,

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<v Speaker 5>and then there are people like me who have absolutely

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<v Speaker 5>no patience for it.

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<v Speaker 3>Am I jaded? Or does April Fool's Day grind your

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<v Speaker 3>gears a bit?

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<v Speaker 6>Holly?

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<v Speaker 2>I can't stand them. I'm the same as you, absolutely

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<v Speaker 2>And I think it's because ultimately, there's always a bot

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<v Speaker 2>of the joke in practical jokes, right, And I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to generalize enormously. Men tend to really like practical jokes.

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<v Speaker 2>If you think about I always think about the stories

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<v Speaker 2>of movie stars who play practical jokes on each other

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<v Speaker 2>and in the press tours that will be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>Clooney was such a joker on set.

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<v Speaker 1>He always did this, he always did that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like lols if you George Clooney, but it just

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<v Speaker 2>makes everyone else look dumb. And I wonder if women

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<v Speaker 2>are kind of used to being belittled a bit in

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<v Speaker 2>a way that maybe men aren't so we're very sensitive

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm told to laugh. It's just a joke. Stop

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<v Speaker 2>taking this off.

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<v Speaker 5>So seriously, you know what, because I think the practical

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<v Speaker 5>joke famously Leonardo DiCaprio and Jonah Hill. There are all

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<v Speaker 5>these videos and they're quite funny the way that they

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<v Speaker 5>kind of paying each other and praying each other. But

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<v Speaker 5>practical jokes are about power, right, So if you're in

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<v Speaker 5>a workplace, you can't pull a practical joke on your boss.

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<v Speaker 3>You know you can't.

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<v Speaker 5>You can too, it's too risky. You can with maybe

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<v Speaker 5>a coworker. And I think that that's it. That it's

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<v Speaker 5>like the butt of the joke is the audience or

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<v Speaker 5>the person who's confused.

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<v Speaker 1>There is always a butt, isn't there.

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<v Speaker 5>There's always a butt, and it's not you. And the

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<v Speaker 5>other thing about April Fool's lie, that's not true.

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<v Speaker 1>So one time at Mum Maya, someone had the idea

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<v Speaker 1>of making an announcement or doing an article about how

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<v Speaker 1>I changed my name from me a freedman to me

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<v Speaker 1>a freed woman because my idea, but we published it.

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<v Speaker 1>So the butt of the joke was on me really

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<v Speaker 1>because it was like, oh maybe that with button the

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<v Speaker 1>joke was on people who believed it anyway, completely backfired

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<v Speaker 1>because six months later people were still saying to me, like,

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<v Speaker 1>my friends, did you really change your name? And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like no, because the problem is unless the payoff,

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<v Speaker 1>like in that video about the Department of Education, and

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<v Speaker 1>in that context, the payoff came immediately, so.

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<v Speaker 6>You saw it all together.

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<v Speaker 1>But even when I was flicking through Instagram last night

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<v Speaker 1>and I saw the dice in one I read the

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<v Speaker 1>caption because I thought, wait, is this and then I

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<v Speaker 1>had to go and look read all the comments to

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<v Speaker 1>check if it was in April Fool's Day joke. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't have that payoff straight away, it can

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<v Speaker 1>be a bit confusing.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder if practical jokes generally are a bit out

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<v Speaker 2>of fashion, right, because I mean those ones are not

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<v Speaker 2>they don't have a visual victim. But if you think

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<v Speaker 2>about the shows that were massive for a while, like

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<v Speaker 2>Punked and Candid Camera, which were all about tricking somebody

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<v Speaker 2>famous or not famous for quite a long period of

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<v Speaker 2>time and then revealing to them, and it was very cringey.

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<v Speaker 2>Like massive celebrities like Justin Timberlake and people like that

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<v Speaker 2>were disposed at their rawst by that because as we

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<v Speaker 2>discovered when we did a little prank this week at work,

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<v Speaker 2>that you will all find out about if you come

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<v Speaker 2>to the live show, you can't fake anything in that

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<v Speaker 2>moment way. And I wonder if now, with social media

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<v Speaker 2>being so prevalent, we say that's made us more authentic,

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<v Speaker 2>but actually it means we curate ourselves very carefully, and

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<v Speaker 2>also we know how easily weaponized any moment of embarrassment

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<v Speaker 2>is so like for a teenager, like a video, a

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<v Speaker 2>quick video of you tripping over something or whatever will

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<v Speaker 2>be sent around the school in a hot minute, and

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<v Speaker 2>you will be a massive butt of a joke that's

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<v Speaker 2>mortifying for you. You know, so in a way that

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<v Speaker 2>that didn't used to be the case.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think practical jokes are out of fashion. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>thinking about impractical jokers the show with the Inspired Unemployed

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<v Speaker 5>that recently was on Paramount and that had an audience.

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<v Speaker 5>I would say most of them were men est But

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<v Speaker 5>I reckon it's got something to do with the social

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<v Speaker 5>media element because the for fools Day jokes had been

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<v Speaker 5>co opted by brand since about the nineteen twenties, right,

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<v Speaker 5>But when we saw a billboard or when we saw

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<v Speaker 5>an ad for something, there was an innate sense of

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<v Speaker 5>trust and therefore it was a flip to then go oh,

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<v Speaker 5>I've been tricked, and it was a sign of brand

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<v Speaker 5>trust like car brands used to do it, that they

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<v Speaker 5>could be bold enough to on a day trick their audience.

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<v Speaker 5>Now we are always being tricked. I go on to

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<v Speaker 5>my social media and there is a no innate sense

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<v Speaker 5>of trust. I'm already on my guard. I'm already expecting

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<v Speaker 5>to be hoodwinked because of fake news, misinformation out of

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<v Speaker 5>those things.

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<v Speaker 1>But you mentioned that show on Paramount Plus cast your

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<v Speaker 1>mind back when they worked with those Australian feminists who

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<v Speaker 1>lured their audience there to come and watch this panel

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<v Speaker 1>or debate, and then it turned out to be a

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<v Speaker 1>joke and there was massive backlatch against those women and

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<v Speaker 1>the inspired on employed guys because the butt of the

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<v Speaker 1>joke was the audience. Yes, and they found massively betrayed.

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<v Speaker 1>Very sensitive to it because it can be weaponized in

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<v Speaker 1>a way. Your embarrassment can be weaponized in a way

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<v Speaker 1>that it couldn't be back then, right, So as I say,

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<v Speaker 1>your sort of embarrassed reaction to suddenly being revealed that

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<v Speaker 1>you've been tricked, can suddenly travel everywhere.

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<v Speaker 2>In a heartbeat in a way that it couldn't before.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think it's riskier, the stakes are much higher.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and I think too that we feel like we're

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<v Speaker 5>being tricked all the time. We almost feel like we're

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<v Speaker 5>living in an April Fool's Day prank, Like what's happening

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<v Speaker 5>in the US.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like every day feels like an.

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<v Speaker 1>April Foll's Day.

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<v Speaker 3>Mc donaldson. Yeah, all of that.

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<v Speaker 5>You just look at it and then someone makes another

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<v Speaker 5>joke and you're sort of like, can we not trust

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<v Speaker 5>anything anymore?

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<v Speaker 2>Can I imagine what the Trump White House might have

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<v Speaker 2>come up with for April Full's Day?

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<v Speaker 1>Every day is April Full's Day. It's like a MoMA mayor.

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<v Speaker 1>Every day's International Women's Day there every day.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, the strict rules of April Full's Day is

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<v Speaker 2>it only goes to the midday. You're only allowed to

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<v Speaker 2>make joke.

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<v Speaker 1>What is that?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, But the strict rules of it are

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<v Speaker 2>is it's a morning thing.

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<v Speaker 5>You know why because by the afternoon we're exp This

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<v Speaker 5>is the thing about human too.

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<v Speaker 2>Prise.

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<v Speaker 5>Humor relies on surprise. So now you get to kind

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<v Speaker 5>of April one. You go look at it and Australian's

0:15:18.462 --> 0:15:21.302
<v Speaker 5>theory Australians hate it more than everyone else because we

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<v Speaker 5>have two days of it because of time zions.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true.

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<v Speaker 5>We have it and we go no no, no, no no,

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<v Speaker 5>and then the US is like, we're releasing in you and.

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<v Speaker 3>We're like, oh, we've been dealing with this brown.

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<v Speaker 5>Practical jokes they used to used to be like a

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<v Speaker 5>real thing of radio right. Yeah, but they always make

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<v Speaker 5>the person look good or they're the butt of the

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<v Speaker 5>joke and im practical jokes. In their defense, they are

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<v Speaker 5>often the butt, So like, what's an example, Well, in

0:15:47.622 --> 0:15:50.182
<v Speaker 5>practical jokes, they're never cruel and they never humiliate people.

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<v Speaker 5>That's not their brand. No, Well, Hamish and Andy would

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<v Speaker 5>call someone one of their most viral videos saying, will

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<v Speaker 5>you be a reference for me?

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<v Speaker 3>I know, I don't know you.

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<v Speaker 5>James speaking?

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<v Speaker 2>OK?

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<v Speaker 3>Mate?

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry, my name's Tim. How are you mate? I wonder

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<v Speaker 4>if you can help me out of a slightly sticky situation.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just about to go into a job interview at

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<v Speaker 4>an accounting firm.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 4>I Just've written down a random number and I just

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<v Speaker 4>like to call it to see if it's a real thing.

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<v Speaker 4>It's your number. But then it's occurred to me they

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<v Speaker 4>might call it, but I doubt they will. But if

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<v Speaker 4>someone calls you and says, do you know Tim Barnard?

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<v Speaker 7>Can you.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going for a job at an accounting firm, but

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<v Speaker 4>just say that, I'm just going to put you down

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<v Speaker 4>as a personal reference.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, over my.

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<v Speaker 5>Back, blah blah blah, Okay, a river bike.

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<v Speaker 7>I've got your covered.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that all right?

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<v Speaker 5>And this guy went to great lengths to be a

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<v Speaker 5>reference for Hamish Nandy and was dubbed the nicest guy right,

0:16:45.022 --> 0:16:47.862
<v Speaker 5>dubbed the nicest guy in Australia. That you kind of go, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>this makes me feel good, Whereas when I see people

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<v Speaker 5>who have been humiliated, I just kind of I remember

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<v Speaker 5>being at school and there was a trick pulled on

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<v Speaker 5>one of our classes, I think for like a muck

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<v Speaker 5>update thing, and we were filmed and they said afterwards

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<v Speaker 5>they were.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, we should have seen your face.

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<v Speaker 5>You should have seen I hated that feeling. I just went,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't like nobody to that joke.

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<v Speaker 2>She so vulnerable.

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<v Speaker 1>The worst one is speaking of vulnerable is when people

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<v Speaker 1>scare you there's a certain type of person who likes

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<v Speaker 1>going to pop out, pop out. But do you also

0:17:20.782 --> 0:17:22.901
<v Speaker 1>remember when people used to come up behind you and

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<v Speaker 1>put their hands over your eyes, And I think it

0:17:26.022 --> 0:17:28.981
<v Speaker 1>took a lot of women getting very distressed by that.

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<v Speaker 1>People don't do that anymore, luckily, because I hate that.

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<v Speaker 1>I just even walk around my house and get startled

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<v Speaker 1>by members of my own family, even with them out

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<v Speaker 1>not trying to scare me.

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<v Speaker 2>While we're on April, a little bit more feedback, since

0:17:41.821 --> 0:17:45.061
<v Speaker 2>the month has only just been a few days ago.

0:17:45.182 --> 0:17:48.061
<v Speaker 2>I signed up for a ten day meditation challenge online.

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<v Speaker 2>I made it to day three, right, and then I

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<v Speaker 2>looked at the date and they went, ah, I'm right

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<v Speaker 2>on time. I'm having a little April moment, like that

0:17:57.621 --> 0:17:59.701
<v Speaker 2>moment of the year where you go, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>get everything sorted out because you've started in January. You

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<v Speaker 2>were like, we've got word of the year, We've set things.

0:18:04.782 --> 0:18:06.742
<v Speaker 2>Then you live for three months, everything goes to shit,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you reset your reset and it's a thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's a thing called April theory, and it's the

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<v Speaker 2>idea and it's you know, all over TikTok and everything

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<v Speaker 2>that April is actually the start of the new year

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<v Speaker 2>in a way, so it's the season shift for a start,

0:18:21.222 --> 0:18:23.702
<v Speaker 2>whichever hemisphere you're in, it's the season shift from one

0:18:23.702 --> 0:18:26.742
<v Speaker 2>of the main character seasons to one of the side

0:18:26.861 --> 0:18:30.622
<v Speaker 2>character seasons. There's something star shifting, you know. I never

0:18:30.702 --> 0:18:33.742
<v Speaker 2>understand that it's eight aries season.

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<v Speaker 5>Yep, So it's the end of Piscey season, and Piscey

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<v Speaker 5>season is all about purging, so you need to purge

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<v Speaker 5>things that are no longer serving you. And we move

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<v Speaker 5>into April, which is astrologically full of new and exciting thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, so apparently it's a time of lots of enthusiasm,

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<v Speaker 2>new projects, but also breakups and resets. Are you feeling April?

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<v Speaker 5>A you?

0:18:53.742 --> 0:18:53.941
<v Speaker 8>Is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Because do you think you start the beginning of the

0:18:55.861 --> 0:19:01.822
<v Speaker 1>year with that sort of new page optimism? And then yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Then you're like, it's April and I'm still the same

0:19:04.061 --> 0:19:05.582
<v Speaker 2>shitty mess I've always do you.

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<v Speaker 1>Do the same things in April? Is it just a

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<v Speaker 1>repeat of January? Sexually? But three months later?

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<v Speaker 2>For me? I think when I decided to sign up

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<v Speaker 2>for that meditation challenge and failed, I thought back and

0:19:17.581 --> 0:19:19.902
<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, it was this time last year

0:19:19.901 --> 0:19:24.501
<v Speaker 2>that I started seeing that therapist myself, I gave up.

0:19:24.661 --> 0:19:27.942
<v Speaker 2>I wandered off. I'm very wander offye on those things.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's like, clearly you said all these good intentions

0:19:31.061 --> 0:19:33.622
<v Speaker 2>in January. By April you've kind of gone, oh, same,

0:19:33.702 --> 0:19:35.462
<v Speaker 2>I'm still the same. You know, wherever you go there

0:19:35.502 --> 0:19:37.502
<v Speaker 2>you are that whole thing. And then you're in a

0:19:37.502 --> 0:19:39.901
<v Speaker 2>little crisis about it, so you reach out for something

0:19:39.982 --> 0:19:41.661
<v Speaker 2>to solve it and like try and start again.

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<v Speaker 5>I wonder I have a different theory, which is that January,

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<v Speaker 5>whether it's intentions or word or whatever, I think that

0:19:50.141 --> 0:19:52.781
<v Speaker 5>you do actually make some changes, right, and you might

0:19:52.821 --> 0:19:55.662
<v Speaker 5>make some big changes in that first kind of three

0:19:55.702 --> 0:19:58.142
<v Speaker 5>months of the year, And by April, I think there

0:19:58.222 --> 0:20:00.941
<v Speaker 5>might be a sense of newness or you ending a

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<v Speaker 5>new era. Maybe you're benefiting from some of the things

0:20:04.302 --> 0:20:05.302
<v Speaker 5>that you've more positive.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, in a moment, what's it like to be in

0:20:10.182 --> 0:20:13.861
<v Speaker 2>a custody battle with the richest, smartest, most volatile men

0:20:14.022 --> 0:20:19.302
<v Speaker 2>in the world. We're going to tell you celebrities they're

0:20:19.341 --> 0:20:22.661
<v Speaker 2>just like us, except that in the custody battles with

0:20:22.702 --> 0:20:26.542
<v Speaker 2>their exes, they're dealing with things like copyright claims over

0:20:26.581 --> 0:20:29.302
<v Speaker 2>the names of your kids, and your children may be

0:20:29.422 --> 0:20:31.581
<v Speaker 2>turning up in the office of the President of the

0:20:31.702 --> 0:20:33.941
<v Speaker 2>United States when you just thought they'd gone to the

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<v Speaker 2>zoo with their dad. I'm talking, of course, about two

0:20:37.141 --> 0:20:41.421
<v Speaker 2>very high profile divorced dads here, in particular, Kanye West

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<v Speaker 2>and Elon Musk. Now, when I was getting the information

0:20:46.262 --> 0:20:49.662
<v Speaker 2>together for this segment, it's a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>It's actually so distressing.

0:20:51.782 --> 0:20:53.782
<v Speaker 2>It is a lot. And also these two men who

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<v Speaker 2>are very dominant in our culture at the moment for

0:20:56.101 --> 0:20:57.621
<v Speaker 2>very different but sort.

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<v Speaker 1>Of related reasons, related but.

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<v Speaker 2>Also very distressing reasons in lots of ways. Also, being

0:21:03.702 --> 0:21:06.181
<v Speaker 2>in the middle of these sort of parental battles is

0:21:06.302 --> 0:21:08.262
<v Speaker 2>really a lot. So I'm just going to do a

0:21:08.341 --> 0:21:10.422
<v Speaker 2>couple of very top line things about what's been going

0:21:10.462 --> 0:21:12.421
<v Speaker 2>on lately and why you might have seen their names

0:21:12.422 --> 0:21:17.181
<v Speaker 2>around in headlines related to custody. So, Kanye, who is

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<v Speaker 2>in the middle of what appears to be a year's

0:21:19.262 --> 0:21:23.262
<v Speaker 2>long spiral into ever more alarming extremism on many fronts,

0:21:23.901 --> 0:21:26.701
<v Speaker 2>has been very vocal lately about how he'd like to

0:21:26.702 --> 0:21:28.901
<v Speaker 2>spend some more time and have more access to and

0:21:28.982 --> 0:21:31.302
<v Speaker 2>more rights over the names of his four children with

0:21:31.381 --> 0:21:33.381
<v Speaker 2>Kim Kardashian and now he was married to her for

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<v Speaker 2>eight years, officially divorcing in twenty twenty two, and they

0:21:36.462 --> 0:21:38.901
<v Speaker 2>had four kids. As we know, North is the oldest,

0:21:38.942 --> 0:21:41.621
<v Speaker 2>and she's the subject of most of this public back

0:21:41.702 --> 0:21:46.302
<v Speaker 2>and forth because he recently made a track in support

0:21:46.341 --> 0:21:49.661
<v Speaker 2>of Diddy, the infamous rapper and mogul who's in prison

0:21:49.821 --> 0:21:52.942
<v Speaker 2>on claims of sex trafficking and racketeering and many other

0:21:53.381 --> 0:21:57.581
<v Speaker 2>abuse claims, and Kim was furious about it, and then

0:21:57.742 --> 0:22:00.421
<v Speaker 2>Kanye leaked some of the messages between them in relation

0:22:00.542 --> 0:22:03.902
<v Speaker 2>to this, where it was revealed that Kim had trademarked

0:22:03.901 --> 0:22:06.581
<v Speaker 2>North's name and earned the rights to it. So she

0:22:06.702 --> 0:22:08.782
<v Speaker 2>said in one of the leak texts, I asked you

0:22:08.821 --> 0:22:10.981
<v Speaker 2>at the time if I can trademark her name. You

0:22:11.061 --> 0:22:14.341
<v Speaker 2>said yes, when she's eighteen, it goes to her, so stop.

0:22:14.901 --> 0:22:17.461
<v Speaker 2>I sent paperwork over so she wouldn't be in the

0:22:17.502 --> 0:22:21.462
<v Speaker 2>Diddy song to protect her, but he leaked the song anyway.

0:22:21.742 --> 0:22:25.061
<v Speaker 2>Kardashian then requested an emergency hearing with their lawyers and

0:22:25.141 --> 0:22:28.381
<v Speaker 2>a mediator and a judge because she also heard that

0:22:28.661 --> 0:22:31.542
<v Speaker 2>North was going to be present at West's house when

0:22:31.581 --> 0:22:35.341
<v Speaker 2>the Tate brothers, Andrew and Tristan Tate were visiting at

0:22:35.381 --> 0:22:38.022
<v Speaker 2>Kanye's house, and so she sent bodyguards over to get

0:22:38.101 --> 0:22:39.101
<v Speaker 2>North out of there.

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine that the.

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<v Speaker 2>Complexities of co parenting with a man like him evident

0:22:43.422 --> 0:22:47.221
<v Speaker 2>in that he is publicly threatening to destroy her in

0:22:47.222 --> 0:22:50.701
<v Speaker 2>this battle. So he has tweeted that neither of us

0:22:50.742 --> 0:22:53.061
<v Speaker 2>will recover from the public fallout if you go to

0:22:53.141 --> 0:22:55.181
<v Speaker 2>war over this. He said, You're going to have to

0:22:55.262 --> 0:22:59.621
<v Speaker 2>kill me. Meanwhile, over in Elon's world, the apparent father

0:22:59.702 --> 0:23:03.861
<v Speaker 2>of fourteen children is perpetually involved in custody disputes. He

0:23:03.901 --> 0:23:07.341
<v Speaker 2>apparently resolved one with Grimes over their three kids last year,

0:23:07.702 --> 0:23:10.741
<v Speaker 2>but that's been rocked by his distance on using one

0:23:10.782 --> 0:23:12.982
<v Speaker 2>of those kids X as a promotional tool. So we

0:23:13.302 --> 0:23:15.022
<v Speaker 2>talked about this a little bit, turning up at the

0:23:15.061 --> 0:23:18.061
<v Speaker 2>Oval office, taking him to events and wandering off and

0:23:18.141 --> 0:23:21.262
<v Speaker 2>leaving him alone. And Grimes has said she spent a

0:23:21.341 --> 0:23:24.022
<v Speaker 2>year locked in a battle with him, having my Instagram

0:23:24.022 --> 0:23:26.221
<v Speaker 2>posts and modeling used as reasons I shouldn't have my

0:23:26.302 --> 0:23:29.022
<v Speaker 2>kids and fighting and detaching from the love of my

0:23:29.141 --> 0:23:31.702
<v Speaker 2>life because they were actually in a relationship, which isn't

0:23:31.702 --> 0:23:34.142
<v Speaker 2>the case with some of Elon's mothers of his children,

0:23:34.621 --> 0:23:36.782
<v Speaker 2>detaching from the love of my life as he becomes

0:23:36.942 --> 0:23:40.661
<v Speaker 2>unrecognizable to me with a fraction of his resources, so

0:23:40.702 --> 0:23:43.381
<v Speaker 2>she means herself with a fraction of his resources or

0:23:43.462 --> 0:23:46.821
<v Speaker 2>IQ or strategy experience, all the while I didn't see

0:23:46.821 --> 0:23:50.422
<v Speaker 2>one of my babies for five months. Meanwhile, Elon's also

0:23:50.661 --> 0:23:52.661
<v Speaker 2>has been in a dispute with the mother of his

0:23:52.742 --> 0:23:54.982
<v Speaker 2>five children after their divorce in two thousand and eight,

0:23:55.022 --> 0:23:57.702
<v Speaker 2>and this week, the woman who's supposed to have had

0:23:57.702 --> 0:24:00.461
<v Speaker 2>his most recent child, who's five months old, is a

0:24:00.462 --> 0:24:03.302
<v Speaker 2>woman called Ashley Saint Clair. They've been in a public

0:24:03.422 --> 0:24:05.462
<v Speaker 2>back and forth that some of those tweets have now

0:24:05.462 --> 0:24:08.581
<v Speaker 2>been deleted. He denies paternity, even though he says he

0:24:08.621 --> 0:24:12.821
<v Speaker 2>gave lots of money. My god, Yeah, what is going

0:24:12.861 --> 0:24:13.621
<v Speaker 2>on here?

0:24:14.061 --> 0:24:17.302
<v Speaker 5>I was reading through all of these and I've had

0:24:17.341 --> 0:24:21.142
<v Speaker 5>some of Kannye's tweets pop up for me, and they

0:24:21.182 --> 0:24:24.901
<v Speaker 5>are so much worse than you could possibly imagine, from

0:24:25.061 --> 0:24:27.701
<v Speaker 5>racist to sexist to violent, outright violent.

0:24:27.821 --> 0:24:28.061
<v Speaker 1>Yep.

0:24:28.661 --> 0:24:31.261
<v Speaker 5>Look, that's the Kanye of it all. And it can

0:24:31.341 --> 0:24:35.262
<v Speaker 5>feel as though this is about celebrity and ridiculousness, but

0:24:35.381 --> 0:24:37.861
<v Speaker 5>there is some kernels in all of this that I

0:24:37.861 --> 0:24:41.181
<v Speaker 5>actually think would be relatable to some women who have

0:24:41.702 --> 0:24:45.381
<v Speaker 5>left toxic partners. What I keep thinking through all of

0:24:45.381 --> 0:24:48.302
<v Speaker 5>this that isn't being discussed and in a lot of

0:24:48.381 --> 0:24:50.782
<v Speaker 5>the articles and the analysis and the podcast and everything,

0:24:50.982 --> 0:24:53.741
<v Speaker 5>are the kids, Like the kids at the center of

0:24:53.782 --> 0:24:58.821
<v Speaker 5>this Northwest can read Northwest has two ears. Recently, doctor

0:24:58.861 --> 0:25:01.581
<v Speaker 5>Fiel did a podcast where he was saying, you know,

0:25:01.621 --> 0:25:04.262
<v Speaker 5>if Kanye keeps this up and Kim does this, both

0:25:04.262 --> 0:25:06.861
<v Speaker 5>of those parents are going to lose custody and basically

0:25:06.901 --> 0:25:09.142
<v Speaker 5>suggesting that these kids are going to go into foster care.

0:25:09.661 --> 0:25:13.502
<v Speaker 1>False equivalence in that, yes, so outrageous.

0:25:12.821 --> 0:25:15.821
<v Speaker 5>Because people are saying Kim isn't protecting those kids either,

0:25:16.262 --> 0:25:20.341
<v Speaker 5>And to that a woman and everyone knows, at least

0:25:20.341 --> 0:25:24.501
<v Speaker 5>one who has had to keep her mouth shut because

0:25:24.542 --> 0:25:28.222
<v Speaker 5>she knows that her child or children are being used

0:25:28.262 --> 0:25:30.142
<v Speaker 5>as a pawn by her ex partner.

0:25:30.422 --> 0:25:32.141
<v Speaker 1>There are but a weapon.

0:25:32.262 --> 0:25:35.262
<v Speaker 5>A weapon, Yeah, exactly right, And if you do something wrong,

0:25:35.262 --> 0:25:38.621
<v Speaker 5>they will punish either you or the children. And so

0:25:38.702 --> 0:25:41.581
<v Speaker 5>I think that Kim, even the copyright thing. I'm looking

0:25:41.581 --> 0:25:43.941
<v Speaker 5>at this going, Kim is doing everything in her power

0:25:43.982 --> 0:25:46.101
<v Speaker 5>to protect those children and that's why we're not hearing

0:25:46.101 --> 0:25:48.821
<v Speaker 5>from her, because she knows that that's what they need.

0:25:48.861 --> 0:25:52.621
<v Speaker 2>And even the also, she's probably going through an enormous

0:25:52.661 --> 0:25:55.662
<v Speaker 2>amount of legal proceedings at the moment that we don't

0:25:55.702 --> 0:25:57.581
<v Speaker 2>know about and that aren't made public, you know what

0:25:57.581 --> 0:26:00.502
<v Speaker 2>I mean. Like the things that we are learning, the

0:26:00.581 --> 0:26:03.381
<v Speaker 2>drip feeding that we are learning, sounds like she would

0:26:03.381 --> 0:26:05.542
<v Speaker 2>be in a world of pain trying to basically stop

0:26:05.542 --> 0:26:06.702
<v Speaker 2>the kids from seeing their death.

0:26:06.782 --> 0:26:07.861
<v Speaker 3>Yes, because Kanye and.

0:26:07.942 --> 0:26:11.222
<v Speaker 1>We don't know this, Yes, probably we don't know this,

0:26:11.821 --> 0:26:15.341
<v Speaker 1>but it does look that way. But from the outside,

0:26:15.341 --> 0:26:18.621
<v Speaker 1>you kind of go, why are they spending any time

0:26:18.661 --> 0:26:21.302
<v Speaker 1>with him, given how he's been over the last couple

0:26:21.302 --> 0:26:24.821
<v Speaker 1>of years and how he has been with Banka sensory

0:26:24.901 --> 0:26:27.222
<v Speaker 1>and all of that. You know, it's really disturbing.

0:26:27.262 --> 0:26:29.901
<v Speaker 5>But then I think Kim, and this is kind of

0:26:29.901 --> 0:26:31.381
<v Speaker 5>what some of the leaks are saying, she doesn't want

0:26:31.381 --> 0:26:34.302
<v Speaker 5>to agitate him, So I think that women. You know,

0:26:34.341 --> 0:26:36.622
<v Speaker 5>there's been cases like that where you sort of go,

0:26:37.302 --> 0:26:39.982
<v Speaker 5>when the court case is called, or when the DVO

0:26:40.222 --> 0:26:42.782
<v Speaker 5>is called in Australia, that's when it's a really dangerous

0:26:42.821 --> 0:26:45.141
<v Speaker 5>moment for a volatile man and so I have so

0:26:45.262 --> 0:26:48.981
<v Speaker 5>much empathy for particularly Kim Kardashian in that. But the

0:26:49.022 --> 0:26:52.181
<v Speaker 5>other thing Kanye said this week in an interview was

0:26:52.262 --> 0:26:55.542
<v Speaker 5>that those kids weren't wanted. He said he wanted, he

0:26:55.581 --> 0:26:58.302
<v Speaker 5>never wanted to have kids with Kim Kardashian, but that's

0:26:58.341 --> 0:27:01.542
<v Speaker 5>not how it went. Like if they don't read it now,

0:27:02.462 --> 0:27:07.141
<v Speaker 5>the trauma of those poor children or even I'm thinking

0:27:07.182 --> 0:27:11.222
<v Speaker 5>Elon's kid, who there is an argument going on on

0:27:11.302 --> 0:27:16.101
<v Speaker 5>Twitter between both his parents where he's alleged father is

0:27:16.222 --> 0:27:20.621
<v Speaker 5>denying paternity, like these are real human beings who are

0:27:20.661 --> 0:27:22.702
<v Speaker 5>going to have to get a lot of therapy one day.

0:27:22.982 --> 0:27:25.542
<v Speaker 2>Elon wanted to have all these children, right, because he's

0:27:25.661 --> 0:27:28.581
<v Speaker 2>what they call a pro natalist, So he believes.

0:27:28.141 --> 0:27:29.822
<v Speaker 1>That populate the world, Yeah.

0:27:29.661 --> 0:27:33.061
<v Speaker 2>People like him, you know, very smart blah blah blah,

0:27:33.061 --> 0:27:36.302
<v Speaker 2>should be the people who are breeding and that they're

0:27:36.302 --> 0:27:39.141
<v Speaker 2>not breeding enough. Because I think his broad worldview is

0:27:39.182 --> 0:27:41.702
<v Speaker 2>that we know that birth rates are declining, particularly among

0:27:41.821 --> 0:27:44.982
<v Speaker 2>educated people, so he's like, right, more babies will needs

0:27:44.982 --> 0:27:47.101
<v Speaker 2>more little Elons. I don't think that many people agree

0:27:47.141 --> 0:27:50.302
<v Speaker 2>with that point at this point anyway, But he clearly

0:27:50.782 --> 0:27:53.981
<v Speaker 2>doesn't necessarily want to be involved with any of these children,

0:27:53.982 --> 0:27:56.782
<v Speaker 2>and in fact, he doesn't. He has disowned his daughter

0:27:57.462 --> 0:28:00.381
<v Speaker 2>and said that she is dead to him because she

0:28:00.542 --> 0:28:04.581
<v Speaker 2>is transgender, and he says the word mind virus killed her.

0:28:05.101 --> 0:28:09.262
<v Speaker 2>And so why I just don't understand these models of fatherhood.

0:28:09.621 --> 0:28:11.621
<v Speaker 2>This is one of the things I think about. It's like,

0:28:12.182 --> 0:28:14.621
<v Speaker 2>you wanted these all these kids, and you're telling everyone

0:28:14.661 --> 0:28:17.542
<v Speaker 2>to have kids, but then your model of fatherhood seems

0:28:17.581 --> 0:28:19.222
<v Speaker 2>completely anticom.

0:28:19.381 --> 0:28:23.262
<v Speaker 5>And if it's IVF that's been recorded for some of

0:28:23.302 --> 0:28:25.542
<v Speaker 5>the children, that's how he had them. And if you

0:28:25.581 --> 0:28:28.821
<v Speaker 5>want to do this unconventional, not that IVF is unconventional,

0:28:28.861 --> 0:28:32.381
<v Speaker 5>but elon Musk having unconventional relationships with the mothers of

0:28:32.422 --> 0:28:35.621
<v Speaker 5>these children. If you want to do that, shouldn't you

0:28:35.702 --> 0:28:38.462
<v Speaker 5>have some sort of contract set in? So I think

0:28:38.902 --> 0:28:41.622
<v Speaker 5>you're a business guy. Don't you make deals for a living.

0:28:41.902 --> 0:28:43.862
<v Speaker 5>How is it that you now have a five month

0:28:43.902 --> 0:28:46.701
<v Speaker 5>old and you're feuding on Twitter about paternity like I

0:28:46.702 --> 0:28:47.942
<v Speaker 5>would imagine.

0:28:47.622 --> 0:28:50.181
<v Speaker 1>And payment that you've locked that down. Yeah, And there

0:28:50.222 --> 0:28:52.542
<v Speaker 1>was a video of Ashley Saint Clair, who is like

0:28:52.542 --> 0:28:57.142
<v Speaker 1>a MAGA influencer, selling her tesla because she said he's

0:28:57.182 --> 0:29:01.822
<v Speaker 1>cut her child support by sixty percent and she needs

0:29:01.822 --> 0:29:05.461
<v Speaker 1>the money. And then there's another mother of one of

0:29:05.462 --> 0:29:08.502
<v Speaker 1>his children who's saying on Twitter. I think it was Grimes, Actually,

0:29:08.542 --> 0:29:11.782
<v Speaker 1>I need your attention. One of our kids needs medical help.

0:29:11.822 --> 0:29:14.221
<v Speaker 1>IY need money. I mean, it's just but while you

0:29:14.302 --> 0:29:17.502
<v Speaker 1>said about what's the model of fatherhood, it's really just

0:29:17.622 --> 0:29:22.222
<v Speaker 1>seed spreading. Like it's literally just populist seed spreading. It's

0:29:22.262 --> 0:29:25.702
<v Speaker 1>not a father in any way that we would recognize

0:29:25.742 --> 0:29:28.142
<v Speaker 1>a father, except biologically, and that's all he wants. I mean,

0:29:28.222 --> 0:29:31.342
<v Speaker 1>people say that his child called X, one of his

0:29:31.422 --> 0:29:33.262
<v Speaker 1>children with crimes, who he had in the Oval office,

0:29:33.542 --> 0:29:36.902
<v Speaker 1>is his favorite, and he sort of doesn't really care

0:29:36.942 --> 0:29:39.782
<v Speaker 1>about all the others. And then there are claims by

0:29:40.062 --> 0:29:43.701
<v Speaker 1>his daughter that he only wants boys. He insists on

0:29:43.702 --> 0:29:46.102
<v Speaker 1>gender selection for all the children he fathers.

0:29:46.182 --> 0:29:50.342
<v Speaker 5>I mean, it's just interesting to note as well how

0:29:50.422 --> 0:29:52.262
<v Speaker 5>much we're hearing from the men and how little we're

0:29:52.262 --> 0:29:54.942
<v Speaker 5>hearing from the women, which is a to do with power, yeah,

0:29:54.982 --> 0:29:56.782
<v Speaker 5>and b I think to do with trying to protect

0:29:56.782 --> 0:29:57.142
<v Speaker 5>the kids.

0:29:57.142 --> 0:29:59.542
<v Speaker 2>But I think you're right Jesse in that although Kim

0:29:59.622 --> 0:30:02.462
<v Speaker 2>Kardashian is one of the least relatable humans on the planet,

0:30:02.902 --> 0:30:06.062
<v Speaker 2>there are a lot of women who know what it's

0:30:06.302 --> 0:30:09.221
<v Speaker 2>like to be locked in this kind of battle with

0:30:09.782 --> 0:30:13.542
<v Speaker 2>many fewer resources than Kim Kardashian has not access to

0:30:13.542 --> 0:30:16.862
<v Speaker 2>that kind of legal support in any way. A man

0:30:16.902 --> 0:30:20.142
<v Speaker 2>who might have something over them or believes that they do,

0:30:20.302 --> 0:30:22.622
<v Speaker 2>and we'll use it against them like this is actually

0:30:22.702 --> 0:30:26.142
<v Speaker 2>quite a familiar story playing out in a very unusual world.

0:30:26.382 --> 0:30:28.661
<v Speaker 3>But what's even more terrifying is that she does have

0:30:28.702 --> 0:30:31.262
<v Speaker 3>all of those resources and still she can't stop him.

0:30:31.462 --> 0:30:33.261
<v Speaker 2>If this conversation has brought up any thing for you,

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<v Speaker 2>resources for support will be listed in our show notes.

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<v Speaker 1>Comedian Nikki Glazer, who you may remember, hosted the Golden

0:31:10.382 --> 0:31:13.502
<v Speaker 1>Globes to Rave Reviews earlier this year. She was so good.

0:31:13.782 --> 0:31:16.342
<v Speaker 1>She's done an interview this week with Gwyneth Paltrow for

0:31:16.462 --> 0:31:17.742
<v Speaker 1>Gwinne's Goop podcast.

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<v Speaker 6>When Nikki talks about.

0:31:19.702 --> 0:31:22.982
<v Speaker 1>How during sex she likes her boyfriend to talk about

0:31:22.982 --> 0:31:24.421
<v Speaker 1>the other women that he's been with.

0:31:24.582 --> 0:31:27.422
<v Speaker 6>Here's what she said, And are you really non monogamous?

0:31:27.542 --> 0:31:31.222
<v Speaker 8>No, I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend were to fool

0:31:31.262 --> 0:31:32.182
<v Speaker 8>around with other.

0:31:32.142 --> 0:31:34.662
<v Speaker 6>Do you really think you wouldn't mind? Has he done it?

0:31:34.942 --> 0:31:35.382
<v Speaker 8>Yeah?

0:31:35.542 --> 0:31:36.262
<v Speaker 6>And you didn't mind?

0:31:36.342 --> 0:31:40.102
<v Speaker 8>Like years ago, there were like a couple times. I

0:31:40.182 --> 0:31:42.182
<v Speaker 8>don't mind as long as the girl knows that it's

0:31:42.182 --> 0:31:44.222
<v Speaker 8>not like cause you know, I think girls sometimes when

0:31:44.262 --> 0:31:46.582
<v Speaker 8>they can be convinced like he's gonna leave her for me,

0:31:46.622 --> 0:31:48.622
<v Speaker 8>it's like that's not gonna happen. So just know what

0:31:48.702 --> 0:31:51.702
<v Speaker 8>this is. I think it's definitely the competition thing of like, ooh,

0:31:51.982 --> 0:31:53.742
<v Speaker 8>maybe he will leave me for her, Okay, I gotta

0:31:53.742 --> 0:31:55.862
<v Speaker 8>step it up. Like I kind of like that, But

0:31:55.902 --> 0:31:58.982
<v Speaker 8>I also like, I think he's hot, and I kind

0:31:58.982 --> 0:32:01.342
<v Speaker 8>of am like try this out, like it's like lending

0:32:01.462 --> 0:32:04.302
<v Speaker 8>like my friend, like a hairdresser.

0:32:04.422 --> 0:32:06.342
<v Speaker 6>I like really, I don't know, Like I'm just like

0:32:06.782 --> 0:32:09.382
<v Speaker 6>have a good time and like I seck, like is

0:32:09.382 --> 0:32:10.862
<v Speaker 6>that a sexual fetish?

0:32:10.942 --> 0:32:11.102
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:32:11.102 --> 0:32:11.902
<v Speaker 6>I think it's a fetish.

0:32:11.942 --> 0:32:14.302
<v Speaker 8>It's called hot husband. So there's like a hot wife

0:32:14.302 --> 0:32:17.661
<v Speaker 8>fetish that's way more prolific of like men who want

0:32:17.702 --> 0:32:20.062
<v Speaker 8>their wives to be it's not cuckholding, and they're not

0:32:20.102 --> 0:32:22.902
<v Speaker 8>in the corner like what are you doing, or like,

0:32:22.942 --> 0:32:25.022
<v Speaker 8>they're just kind of like they either hear about it

0:32:25.102 --> 0:32:27.582
<v Speaker 8>or they kind of like orchestrate it. And I don't

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<v Speaker 8>want to be a part of it. I think he

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<v Speaker 8>would like me to be a part of a thing

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<v Speaker 8>with someone else, but I don't really I'd rather just

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<v Speaker 8>hear about it later.

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<v Speaker 1>It's actually not the first time she's talked about it.

0:32:38.062 --> 0:32:40.502
<v Speaker 1>Back in twenty twenty two, she said in another interview,

0:32:40.542 --> 0:32:42.421
<v Speaker 1>I'm a wido and I like my boyfriend to at

0:32:42.502 --> 0:32:45.342
<v Speaker 1>least entertain the idea of being with other women or

0:32:45.382 --> 0:32:47.902
<v Speaker 1>be with them. I think it's about like I want

0:32:47.902 --> 0:32:51.062
<v Speaker 1>things that other people want. So now you know, that's

0:32:51.062 --> 0:32:55.582
<v Speaker 1>called hot husband syndrome. And it's funny that she describes

0:32:55.582 --> 0:32:58.982
<v Speaker 1>it as being a weirdo and she says it's a fetish.

0:32:59.542 --> 0:33:02.182
<v Speaker 1>It's also described as a kink, and kinks are really

0:33:02.262 --> 0:33:05.422
<v Speaker 1>having a moment in White Lotus this season. Creator Mike

0:33:05.462 --> 0:33:10.262
<v Speaker 1>White has been exploring some fairly unconventional kinks, which we

0:33:10.342 --> 0:33:13.701
<v Speaker 1>will go into in our subscriber episode tomorrow. Particularly in

0:33:13.742 --> 0:33:15.742
<v Speaker 1>the last couple of episodes, there's been a lot of

0:33:16.142 --> 0:33:20.262
<v Speaker 1>kinks explored. This week, there was also a pretty out

0:33:20.302 --> 0:33:24.941
<v Speaker 1>there description of one kink that involved someone accidentally seeing

0:33:24.982 --> 0:33:27.862
<v Speaker 1>his parents having sex and wanting to recreate that with

0:33:27.942 --> 0:33:30.022
<v Speaker 1>his girlfriend and another man.

0:33:30.542 --> 0:33:34.862
<v Speaker 5>There's also been the sort of incest storyline, and there's

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<v Speaker 5>also been, of course, Sam Rockwell talking about cours monologue

0:33:40.742 --> 0:33:46.542
<v Speaker 5>where he talked about the most creative kink, desiring something

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<v Speaker 5>so much that you want to be it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Jesse, do you think it's a good thing that

0:33:51.102 --> 0:33:52.982
<v Speaker 1>people are sharing their kinks publicly?

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<v Speaker 5>Look, I find it fascinating, and I think that the

0:33:55.582 --> 0:33:58.822
<v Speaker 5>way Mike White has done it in The White Lotus

0:33:58.942 --> 0:34:03.262
<v Speaker 5>is very engrossing because the undercurrent to what he is

0:34:03.302 --> 0:34:06.262
<v Speaker 5>saying is that kinks aren't only about sex. I don't

0:34:06.262 --> 0:34:08.782
<v Speaker 5>think that he's doing it to be gratuitous or to

0:34:08.822 --> 0:34:13.222
<v Speaker 5>be a rousing, but to explore power and relationships in

0:34:13.302 --> 0:34:17.302
<v Speaker 5>a fresh way. But I do think that Mike White's job,

0:34:17.502 --> 0:34:20.742
<v Speaker 5>especially this season on The White Lotus, has become harder

0:34:21.261 --> 0:34:24.502
<v Speaker 5>because to present an audience with a kink they haven't

0:34:24.542 --> 0:34:26.982
<v Speaker 5>heard of is near impossible.

0:34:27.622 --> 0:34:30.781
<v Speaker 3>I mean obviously this season. Yeah, Yeah, that's what I mean.

0:34:30.942 --> 0:34:34.982
<v Speaker 5>It's like the proliferation of pornography means that all of

0:34:35.022 --> 0:34:38.302
<v Speaker 5>these things we could never have imagined, or maybe people

0:34:38.422 --> 0:34:41.102
<v Speaker 5>were imagining, but they just didn't have a word for.

0:34:41.342 --> 0:34:44.941
<v Speaker 5>Like the subculture of sex means that you can now

0:34:45.062 --> 0:34:47.142
<v Speaker 5>find certain communities.

0:34:47.302 --> 0:34:49.301
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and they're in a drop down menu. So it's

0:34:49.382 --> 0:34:52.181
<v Speaker 2>like if you can easily go into a place and

0:34:52.261 --> 0:34:55.181
<v Speaker 2>type in what you're interested in, and then there's a

0:34:55.181 --> 0:34:57.542
<v Speaker 2>whole list of a whole lot of other things. It's

0:34:57.622 --> 0:34:59.542
<v Speaker 2>kind of opening your mind in a way that that

0:34:59.622 --> 0:35:00.741
<v Speaker 2>wasn't really possible before.

0:35:00.741 --> 0:35:02.102
<v Speaker 1>And then you discover what turns.

0:35:02.422 --> 0:35:05.542
<v Speaker 5>And then what happened does, of course, is it normalizes it.

0:35:05.741 --> 0:35:08.181
<v Speaker 5>And once something becomes normalized, it's no longer a kink,

0:35:08.462 --> 0:35:11.542
<v Speaker 5>which is why I think that kinks can become wilder

0:35:11.542 --> 0:35:14.301
<v Speaker 5>and wilder, like this sort of it didn't begin with it,

0:35:14.342 --> 0:35:18.062
<v Speaker 5>but I think it popularized. Kink culture was fifty shades

0:35:18.102 --> 0:35:20.821
<v Speaker 5>of gray, and now we imagine that being remade and

0:35:20.862 --> 0:35:24.502
<v Speaker 5>parts of that are no longer subversive because it's like, oh,

0:35:24.582 --> 0:35:28.421
<v Speaker 5>that's just become mainstream talking about kinks. I always find

0:35:28.462 --> 0:35:31.502
<v Speaker 5>it really funny because podcasts have done this increasingly. I

0:35:31.502 --> 0:35:34.301
<v Speaker 5>think it can be a really good thing. I think

0:35:34.302 --> 0:35:37.861
<v Speaker 5>that probably same sex marriage and a revolution when it

0:35:37.902 --> 0:35:41.861
<v Speaker 5>came to LGBT sexuality means that what sex means and

0:35:41.862 --> 0:35:45.981
<v Speaker 5>what sex acts looks like has widened. But podcasts you'll

0:35:45.982 --> 0:35:48.782
<v Speaker 5>hear people talk about kinks, and I always think kinks

0:35:49.382 --> 0:35:52.221
<v Speaker 5>require a sexually arousing context, and for people who aren't

0:35:52.221 --> 0:35:55.742
<v Speaker 5>sexually aroused by you in this moment, this just sounds

0:35:55.781 --> 0:35:56.261
<v Speaker 5>kind of weird.

0:35:56.462 --> 0:35:59.661
<v Speaker 1>But even on on White Lotus, yeah, it was being described,

0:35:59.822 --> 0:36:01.622
<v Speaker 1>and even the person that was being described to who

0:36:01.661 --> 0:36:05.782
<v Speaker 1>was being invited to participate, was like, no.

0:36:05.102 --> 0:36:06.341
<v Speaker 3>No, yeah, yeah.

0:36:06.462 --> 0:36:09.542
<v Speaker 1>And that's interesting because there's also a thing called kinkshape,

0:36:09.822 --> 0:36:12.422
<v Speaker 1>which is when someone tells you their kink that you

0:36:12.462 --> 0:36:15.301
<v Speaker 1>go ooh, yuck. But there was that app that we

0:36:15.342 --> 0:36:21.341
<v Speaker 1>spoke about on the show where you can put all

0:36:21.382 --> 0:36:24.341
<v Speaker 1>your kinks in and then your partner puts all their

0:36:24.422 --> 0:36:26.822
<v Speaker 1>kinks in and it only shows the ones that match,

0:36:27.502 --> 0:36:28.982
<v Speaker 1>or all the things that you're willing.

0:36:28.741 --> 0:36:31.181
<v Speaker 2>To try, which is the important part, right because the

0:36:31.302 --> 0:36:34.382
<v Speaker 2>unspoken part about this is the sort of mixin creep

0:36:34.582 --> 0:36:37.262
<v Speaker 2>as it were, that can easily tip into more dangerous territory.

0:36:37.342 --> 0:36:40.422
<v Speaker 2>But back for a second to Niki Glazer. I loved

0:36:40.502 --> 0:36:41.901
<v Speaker 2>hearing her talk about that.

0:36:42.022 --> 0:36:42.181
<v Speaker 1>Right.

0:36:42.302 --> 0:36:45.262
<v Speaker 2>That interview is all kinds of strange in lots of ways,

0:36:45.302 --> 0:36:48.102
<v Speaker 2>but that part of it was so interesting. So honest,

0:36:48.181 --> 0:36:52.622
<v Speaker 2>I love hearing women subvert the stereotypes about jealousy and

0:36:52.661 --> 0:36:55.462
<v Speaker 2>all those things. And she went on to explain that

0:36:56.142 --> 0:36:57.821
<v Speaker 2>one of the things she thinks she loves about it

0:36:57.862 --> 0:36:59.661
<v Speaker 2>is that when you've been in a long term relationship,

0:36:59.701 --> 0:37:01.342
<v Speaker 2>and she's been with this guy for lots of years,

0:37:01.781 --> 0:37:03.542
<v Speaker 2>one of the things you miss and you mourn is

0:37:03.542 --> 0:37:06.582
<v Speaker 2>that frizon of first meeting someone and being attracted that

0:37:06.661 --> 0:37:08.781
<v Speaker 2>she describes it as like, oh, is he really put

0:37:09.221 --> 0:37:11.181
<v Speaker 2>my very close to his leg under the table, and

0:37:11.181 --> 0:37:13.502
<v Speaker 2>how exciting that is, and how you'll never have that

0:37:13.542 --> 0:37:17.142
<v Speaker 2>again if you're signing up for vanilla monogamy, that is

0:37:17.181 --> 0:37:19.381
<v Speaker 2>a feeling you will never experience again, and she wants

0:37:19.462 --> 0:37:23.502
<v Speaker 2>to recreate it via him. I found that so interesting.

0:37:23.982 --> 0:37:26.741
<v Speaker 2>But on the other side of it, I had to

0:37:26.741 --> 0:37:29.741
<v Speaker 2>think about our friend Armie Hammer on the Louis Theroux podcast,

0:37:29.942 --> 0:37:31.062
<v Speaker 2>which you guys talked.

0:37:30.862 --> 0:37:32.021
<v Speaker 1>About a couple of weeks ago.

0:37:32.781 --> 0:37:35.942
<v Speaker 2>His broad defense against the abuse allegations against him is

0:37:35.982 --> 0:37:40.022
<v Speaker 2>that this was very consensual kinks like kink dating, almost

0:37:40.142 --> 0:37:42.301
<v Speaker 2>that this was a world he was part of and

0:37:42.382 --> 0:37:44.741
<v Speaker 2>everybody was on the same page. And that may well

0:37:44.781 --> 0:37:47.862
<v Speaker 2>be true, but it also might not be true, which

0:37:47.902 --> 0:37:50.781
<v Speaker 2>is why it's kind of It can be a convenient

0:37:50.862 --> 0:37:54.022
<v Speaker 2>coverall if you are too much in the oh, this

0:37:54.142 --> 0:37:56.142
<v Speaker 2>is just a kink and you're totally into it, it

0:37:56.181 --> 0:38:00.382
<v Speaker 2>can be a convenient coverall for more yea more toxic behaviortion.

0:38:00.741 --> 0:38:03.062
<v Speaker 5>But I reckon that's a good point, because I think

0:38:03.102 --> 0:38:07.022
<v Speaker 5>that dating apps have given way to an explosion in

0:38:07.142 --> 0:38:11.742
<v Speaker 5>kink culture because it is far easier to express something

0:38:11.822 --> 0:38:15.542
<v Speaker 5>you're into over a phone, perhaps with a stranger, than

0:38:15.582 --> 0:38:17.781
<v Speaker 5>it is with a romantic partner looking them in the.

0:38:17.741 --> 0:38:19.902
<v Speaker 2>Eye and worried about feeling judged.

0:38:19.942 --> 0:38:22.821
<v Speaker 5>And yes, I also I was reading that gen Z

0:38:23.181 --> 0:38:27.062
<v Speaker 5>are the kinkiest because of their exposure to pornography. It's

0:38:27.062 --> 0:38:30.542
<v Speaker 5>like their from Yes, there was a great quote from it,

0:38:30.622 --> 0:38:34.902
<v Speaker 5>a gen Z person who said vanilla is the new frigid.

0:38:35.422 --> 0:38:36.661
<v Speaker 3>So if you're someone.

0:38:37.902 --> 0:38:39.422
<v Speaker 1>So what about vanilla shaming?

0:38:39.462 --> 0:38:40.181
<v Speaker 6>That sucks.

0:38:41.382 --> 0:38:45.221
<v Speaker 1>But back to Nicki Glazer and the White Lotus. The

0:38:45.261 --> 0:38:47.062
<v Speaker 1>other thing that they have in common is that there's

0:38:47.062 --> 0:38:51.542
<v Speaker 1>a thing called nemdic desire, which is being turned on

0:38:52.622 --> 0:38:59.302
<v Speaker 1>by someone else wanting the person, and so Mike Whites

0:38:59.342 --> 0:39:02.302
<v Speaker 1>explored this in every single season. So in the first

0:39:02.382 --> 0:39:05.902
<v Speaker 1>season there were the two girlfriends and the one played

0:39:05.902 --> 0:39:09.341
<v Speaker 1>by Sidney Sweeney went and cracked onto the boyfriend of

0:39:09.382 --> 0:39:12.181
<v Speaker 1>her friend, and then the same thing happened between the

0:39:12.422 --> 0:39:16.341
<v Speaker 1>married couples in season two, and now in season three

0:39:16.422 --> 0:39:20.062
<v Speaker 1>it's played out with the three friends and Jacqueline and Valentine,

0:39:20.102 --> 0:39:22.701
<v Speaker 1>and she encourages her friend to go for this other

0:39:22.741 --> 0:39:24.582
<v Speaker 1>guy and then she sleeps with the other guy. And

0:39:24.622 --> 0:39:26.422
<v Speaker 1>that's what Niki Glaze was talking about as well, And

0:39:26.462 --> 0:39:29.261
<v Speaker 1>she says that early on, for the first few years

0:39:29.261 --> 0:39:30.942
<v Speaker 1>in their relationship, because I've been together on and off

0:39:30.942 --> 0:39:34.422
<v Speaker 1>for thirteen years, she would just get him to describe

0:39:35.022 --> 0:39:37.861
<v Speaker 1>having sex with other women. But then she said, he

0:39:37.982 --> 0:39:40.942
<v Speaker 1>ran out of stories to tell me, so then I

0:39:40.982 --> 0:39:42.502
<v Speaker 1>had to say to him, go out and get some

0:39:42.542 --> 0:39:45.341
<v Speaker 1>more stories and bring them back to the cave. She

0:39:45.502 --> 0:39:48.701
<v Speaker 1>was saying, that's her kink, is being turned on by

0:39:48.781 --> 0:39:53.942
<v Speaker 1>other women having the hots for her partner. Well, gosh,

0:39:53.942 --> 0:39:55.582
<v Speaker 1>we've really covered a lot in this show.

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<v Speaker 2>It's all weird.

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<v Speaker 1>And a cup of tea and I lie down.

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