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Speaker 1: You're listening to a MoMA Mia podcast.

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Speaker 2: From Mamma Mia. Welcome to the Spill, your daily pop

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Speaker 2: culture fixed. I'm Laura Brednick and I haven't tena propos

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Speaker 2: and coming up today, it's a special time over of

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Speaker 2: the week that we all look forward to and or

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Speaker 2: dred depending on how you're taking the show.

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Speaker 3: We are talking about married at First Sight.

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Speaker 2: We're going to go through the highs, the lows, the fights,

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Speaker 2: the tears. We have some very intense opinions about what

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Speaker 2: happened this week, so buckle in for that.

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Speaker 1: Look.

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Speaker 2: Even if you haven't watched marrit at First Sight, you

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Speaker 2: don't need to to enjoy this segment because this is

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Speaker 2: about human emotion and I'm just gonna say dignity.

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Speaker 4: There's not a lot of it, but not a lot

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Speaker 4: of it, Okay, But first, you have a trailer that

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Speaker 4: you are so excited to talk about. So excited. I

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Speaker 4: thought to have this, you really did, I thought to

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Speaker 4: have this.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to pull back the curtain just a tiny,

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Speaker 2: tiny bit to explain why we're laughing. Otherwise he'll be like, oh,

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Speaker 2: these white, these girls hysterical? Is that in our planning

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Speaker 2: meeting today, Tina provis her big pitch was the new

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Speaker 2: June trailer and you were so keen to talk about it,

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Speaker 2: And I thought, wow, Tina is such a fan of

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Speaker 2: the June franchise. She's desperate to talk about it, and like,

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Speaker 2: this is a multi billion dollar franchise. People love these

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Speaker 2: And I was like, you take the floor, you explain it.

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Speaker 2: So Tina, please explain to us, first of all, what

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Speaker 2: happened in the first two movies, what the book is about,

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Speaker 2: the significance of this trailer, and maybe even like what

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Speaker 2: the character's names are.

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Speaker 1: So Zenda and Timothy schallameyer in it, and that's far.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited. And I also made a confession prior to

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Speaker 2: As we're about to jump in, I was like, you

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Speaker 2: take the floor, it's your favorite franchise, and she was like, oh, no,

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Speaker 2: I haven't seen it.

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Speaker 3: I just saw the trailer was out, so I.

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Speaker 1: Whispered into the microphone, yeah, I haven't seen it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So we're having this confrontation on air now apologize

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Speaker 2: to all the June fans that changed and being like, oh,

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Speaker 2: but it is the third and finaland storm Age June

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Speaker 2: Part three and I mean, do you want me to

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Speaker 2: take before. I'm not even a huge June fan, which

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Speaker 2: I find that people would find, yeah, very strange.

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Speaker 1: I think I will enjoy it. I don't know how

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Speaker 1: get down on it.

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Speaker 3: I know, but I've even seen movies one or two,

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how I've missed the past decade, the

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Speaker 4: decade of this franchise that everybody has been talking about.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's such big roles as well for

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Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, it's a gettle. It can't show stuff what

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Speaker 3: I liked.

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Speaker 2: I liked the original movie quite a lot. I liked

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Speaker 2: June Part one, the first one. I thought it was

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Speaker 2: quite fun. Freaking love a sandworm, let me tell you,

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Speaker 2: that was my favorite.

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Speaker 1: I know what a sandworm is.

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Speaker 3: It's a huge thing. I can put it together, but

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Speaker 3: it's not. It's not like a weird euphemism. It's a huge.

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Speaker 3: It's a huge.

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Speaker 2: It's a huge worm that moves under the sand, and

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Speaker 2: if it feels the vibrations on this planet they live on,

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Speaker 3: It'll get you. Oh no, it's actually incredible. After this,

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Speaker 3: I just so you're crying after this, Can I please

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go home and watch the sad I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: Can't wait for you at least one.

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Speaker 2: So it's just on your Instagram. Tonight put up a

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Speaker 3: So the first trailer for the third movie has come out.

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Speaker 3: Here's a little taste. If we have a girl, Oh

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Speaker 4: Co a name him letter.

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Speaker 1: So you would have to whistle of his grandfather.

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Speaker 2: The last three movie, we see Timothy Challomey and I'm

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Speaker 2: anyone is. Timothy Challomey and Zendaya's characters have come back

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Speaker 2: and Robert Pattinson is in there as a villain, which

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Speaker 2: is interesting because their premiere for the drama was this week. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and you see how she wore her Oscars dress from

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Speaker 1: I kind of love that.

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Speaker 2: I love an outfit because she said her in law

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Speaker 3: She's like, I'm theme dressing for everything. Now is day out.

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Speaker 2: They can't wait to see her kill her Jean Parts

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Speaker 2: she got called out for having dreadlocks.

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Speaker 3: Do you remember that?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I love that she's getting to re wear

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Speaker 2: and they also did June three. The other interesting thing

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Speaker 2: now is that it's just a reminder that Timothy Shallamy, yes,

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Speaker 2: but he's going to be fine because he's star with

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Speaker 4: Googles his age today and what do you think he was.

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Speaker 4: I'm at an age now where I'm either older or

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Speaker 4: But that still shocked me because whenever I see anyone

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Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, that's fucking crazy.

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Speaker 3: I know, why did I think that she was a

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Speaker 2: It looks so incredible, and he's obviously great in it.

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Speaker 2: So I think it is just like the Oscars drama

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Speaker 2: like a carpet. It'll always be brought up a little

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying that he's a pretty set lock. He's

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Speaker 1: He's locked in.

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Speaker 4: And because he's so young, I think not getting his

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Speaker 2: I think they probably would have given it to him

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Speaker 3: One or two. He'll be fine.

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Speaker 2: So June Part three is coming out in Cinema's December seventeen,

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Speaker 1: Not time to watch.

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Speaker 3: To do is don't watch.

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Speaker 2: One and two and just go to the movies and

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Speaker 2: watch three and see if you can figure out what's happening.

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Speaker 2: But just watch the Sandwam clips beforehand.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you'll show them to me.

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Speaker 2: And now it's the moment you've all been waiting for

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Speaker 2: or just going to tall weight, depending on how you

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Speaker 2: feel about this show. It's time to talk about merrit

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Speaker 4: Following a super explosive weekend away where all of our

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Speaker 4: a massive cliffhanger of these secret text messages. Now we're

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Speaker 4: entering feedback week, which always sounds like a good idea.

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Speaker 4: We've got a partner swap and we've got anonymous letters

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Speaker 2: Yes, I actually thought the partner swap was going to

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Speaker 4: Yes, after the fallout of finger bang gate last week

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you've missed out on a lot. We've never used

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it one more time for the road.

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Speaker 4: So Juliette caught it quits when she was confronted on

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Speaker 4: her actions by the experts. She just was overwhelmed, I think,

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Speaker 4: screenshots that she'd received from gr that Beck had sent

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Speaker 2: Too until I realized and obviously this has brought up

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Speaker 3: They were very underwhelming. I mean, it's not nice to

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Speaker 2: Rat man is like a thing now, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: be like, thank you. Also, I hate rats, but they're

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Speaker 1: Stuff they're selling me on a rat.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's because I hate rats so much that often

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Speaker 3: I assume people have them as pets. Start telling me

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Speaker 3: all they're good.

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Speaker 1: You don't want to offend, I don't.

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Speaker 2: Want friend the rat community. Just don't bring don't bring

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Speaker 2: And that's totally fine in a cage.

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Speaker 3: Yes.

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Speaker 2: So the way those texts were built up, and the

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Speaker 2: Wayless was crying, and she's like, I've never seen such language.

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Speaker 2: I think they've probably been physically together, but they're out

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Speaker 1: Like yeah, like the text were sent around by.

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00:17:33,114 --> 00:17:35,513
Speaker 3: Us, by us on the show who had them ready

441
00:17:35,554 --> 00:17:35,793
Speaker 3: to go.

442
00:17:36,194 --> 00:17:37,714
Speaker 2: The thing about that, though I know she was saying,

443
00:17:37,834 --> 00:17:39,914
Speaker 2: was two months ago, and I know she was saying

444
00:17:39,914 --> 00:17:41,073
Speaker 2: that I was just really upset.

445
00:17:41,114 --> 00:17:41,754
Speaker 3: But here's the thing.

446
00:17:41,754 --> 00:17:43,754
Speaker 2: I think whenever anyone gets called out for something they've

447
00:17:43,754 --> 00:17:45,634
Speaker 2: said in the past, is like, yes, you can change,

448
00:17:45,714 --> 00:17:47,194
Speaker 2: Yes you can say things in the heat of the moment.

449
00:17:47,314 --> 00:17:47,914
Speaker 3: Yes you can be.

450
00:17:47,874 --> 00:17:50,114
Speaker 2: Sorry, but you still have to have that in you

451
00:17:50,154 --> 00:17:52,313
Speaker 2: to have said it in the first place. And that

452
00:17:52,434 --> 00:17:54,194
Speaker 2: is what I think is the most troubling thing, because

453
00:17:54,194 --> 00:17:56,074
Speaker 2: even if other people had been upset, they wouldn't have

454
00:17:56,114 --> 00:17:56,994
Speaker 2: sent that level of.

455
00:17:57,354 --> 00:18:00,394
Speaker 1: No where one where does it come from? Too?

456
00:18:00,874 --> 00:18:03,994
Speaker 4: You actually haven't shown that much growth. Yes, you've been

457
00:18:03,994 --> 00:18:07,754
Speaker 4: in the hot seat continually, exactly, very weak. So yeah,

458
00:18:08,034 --> 00:18:10,554
Speaker 4: I think Beck has got some ways to go. Feel

459
00:18:10,594 --> 00:18:14,034
Speaker 4: like it's still in there, and she like fails repeatedly

460
00:18:14,074 --> 00:18:16,914
Speaker 4: to take any accountability because at the end of the

461
00:18:16,994 --> 00:18:19,474
Speaker 4: day she still is blaming Ja.

462
00:18:20,194 --> 00:18:23,154
Speaker 2: I know, she's like, it all comes back to Gea.

463
00:18:23,194 --> 00:18:24,394
Speaker 2: I'm like, girl, there's only ten of.

464
00:18:24,314 --> 00:18:26,394
Speaker 1: You, Like it comes back to you.

465
00:18:26,514 --> 00:18:29,154
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. There's other people who have not been here.

466
00:18:29,274 --> 00:18:31,033
Speaker 2: There's all people whose names I couldn't even tell you

467
00:18:31,074 --> 00:18:34,553
Speaker 2: because they have not been involved in any drama. Okay,

468
00:18:34,594 --> 00:18:36,793
Speaker 2: as we move to the dinner party, we have a

469
00:18:36,834 --> 00:18:38,553
Speaker 2: bit of a drama start in the car on the

470
00:18:38,554 --> 00:18:42,033
Speaker 2: way there. And that is our former Golden Couple. No,

471
00:18:42,154 --> 00:18:43,914
Speaker 2: not to quote Tyra Banks, because I know she's on

472
00:18:43,954 --> 00:18:45,273
Speaker 2: the outs, but we were rooting for you.

473
00:18:45,394 --> 00:18:49,033
Speaker 3: We were all rooting for you. I had Christ and Sam. Yeah,

474
00:18:49,314 --> 00:18:49,994
Speaker 3: I had hope.

475
00:18:50,154 --> 00:18:53,194
Speaker 4: I really liked them together. They just felt like they

476
00:18:53,194 --> 00:18:56,154
Speaker 4: were in a natural groove. I feel like Sam is

477
00:18:56,234 --> 00:18:58,474
Speaker 4: really great. Like I think I just like Sam.

478
00:18:58,794 --> 00:19:00,954
Speaker 3: You just want to marry Sam, to marry Sam. But

479
00:19:00,994 --> 00:19:02,874
Speaker 3: he's a very good looking man. They both are.

480
00:19:02,994 --> 00:19:04,034
Speaker 1: It's just not for me though.

481
00:19:05,074 --> 00:19:07,273
Speaker 2: But the thing is, I think why we attached so

482
00:19:07,354 --> 00:19:09,033
Speaker 2: much hope to them as that obviously they came in

483
00:19:09,074 --> 00:19:11,954
Speaker 2: as intruders, and we'd be burnt with so many terrible

484
00:19:12,034 --> 00:19:15,354
Speaker 2: men and terrible couples, and we'd seen so many people

485
00:19:15,634 --> 00:19:19,114
Speaker 2: get humiliated, like at their actual wedding ceremony and at

486
00:19:19,114 --> 00:19:21,514
Speaker 2: the reception and afterwards, and it was just like this

487
00:19:21,914 --> 00:19:24,434
Speaker 2: lesson and like punishment and humiliation over and over and

488
00:19:24,514 --> 00:19:26,714
Speaker 2: over again. And then Chris and Sam came in and

489
00:19:26,714 --> 00:19:29,354
Speaker 2: they seemed to have quite a very fun, lovely wedding day,

490
00:19:29,434 --> 00:19:30,914
Speaker 2: and they seemed to have such a good vibe on

491
00:19:30,954 --> 00:19:34,194
Speaker 2: their honeymoon. And then They had a huge obstacle right

492
00:19:34,234 --> 00:19:36,594
Speaker 2: at the gate, which is the fact that Chris then

493
00:19:36,634 --> 00:19:38,313
Speaker 2: had to sort of let him know that he was

494
00:19:38,714 --> 00:19:41,154
Speaker 2: expecting children. He had this whole other life sort of

495
00:19:41,194 --> 00:19:43,354
Speaker 2: going on, and Sam took it really well.

496
00:19:43,234 --> 00:19:45,874
Speaker 1: So well, was so nice, really mature.

497
00:19:46,514 --> 00:19:48,154
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you were just like, okay, So these guys

498
00:19:48,154 --> 00:19:50,674
Speaker 2: already had their big what the producers would have built

499
00:19:50,754 --> 00:19:52,154
Speaker 2: up as their big kind of like this will be

500
00:19:52,194 --> 00:19:54,874
Speaker 2: their drama. They got through it, and then they seem

501
00:19:54,914 --> 00:19:57,074
Speaker 2: to have some cute moments, so we were rooting for them,

502
00:19:57,154 --> 00:19:57,754
Speaker 2: and now.

503
00:19:58,034 --> 00:19:59,394
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is really interesting.

504
00:19:59,474 --> 00:20:02,354
Speaker 4: So obviously at the commitment ceremony they were asked, you know,

505
00:20:02,434 --> 00:20:05,194
Speaker 4: what's next for you guys, and Chris kind of took.

506
00:20:05,034 --> 00:20:08,034
Speaker 1: The reins and you know, laid up this plan for them.

507
00:20:07,994 --> 00:20:11,154
Speaker 4: They obviously hadn't discussed before. I think the plan itself

508
00:20:11,714 --> 00:20:14,354
Speaker 4: actually probably isn't too far from if they had had

509
00:20:14,394 --> 00:20:15,714
Speaker 4: a discussion before, where they.

510
00:20:15,594 --> 00:20:16,234
Speaker 1: Would have landed.

511
00:20:16,314 --> 00:20:18,674
Speaker 4: You know, he wants to stay on his farm, he's

512
00:20:18,714 --> 00:20:21,474
Speaker 4: happy to be a farm boy, and obviously Sam is

513
00:20:21,514 --> 00:20:23,273
Speaker 4: in the city, and they would kind of go between

514
00:20:23,274 --> 00:20:26,954
Speaker 4: both places, which honestly, I wouldn't have thought twice if

515
00:20:26,954 --> 00:20:28,674
Speaker 4: we hadn't seen Sam react in that way.

516
00:20:28,754 --> 00:20:30,194
Speaker 3: It sounded like what the plan would be.

517
00:20:30,354 --> 00:20:32,714
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, but I guess it should be a really

518
00:20:32,754 --> 00:20:35,833
Speaker 4: exciting part of your relationship to plan the next chapter.

519
00:20:36,354 --> 00:20:38,834
Speaker 4: So feeling left behind like you didn't have a say

520
00:20:38,874 --> 00:20:41,354
Speaker 4: on it. I can understand why you would be upset

521
00:20:41,394 --> 00:20:45,553
Speaker 4: to have someone speak on your behalf, But initially I

522
00:20:45,594 --> 00:20:48,914
Speaker 4: thought the reaction was maybe like disproportionate.

523
00:20:49,834 --> 00:20:52,034
Speaker 2: Yes, well I thought that too, So it did feel

524
00:20:52,074 --> 00:20:55,273
Speaker 2: like too much of an intense feedback session from Sam.

525
00:20:55,514 --> 00:20:57,914
Speaker 2: But I think some of that must come from because

526
00:20:58,234 --> 00:21:00,474
Speaker 2: the way he kept saying, and you're almost on Christ's side,

527
00:21:00,474 --> 00:21:02,674
Speaker 2: because Chris is like, Okay, I didn't mean it, and

528
00:21:02,674 --> 00:21:04,794
Speaker 2: I've said I'm sorry. Straight afterwards I said I'm sorry again.

529
00:21:04,834 --> 00:21:06,634
Speaker 2: I said I'm sorry this morning, Like how many times

530
00:21:07,194 --> 00:21:09,074
Speaker 2: are we going to have this conversation? And I thought

531
00:21:09,074 --> 00:21:10,954
Speaker 2: we were okay, And now you're telling me on the

532
00:21:10,994 --> 00:21:12,674
Speaker 2: way to the dinner party, which we know will be

533
00:21:12,714 --> 00:21:15,234
Speaker 2: a volatile, intensive end, that you're going to bring this

534
00:21:15,314 --> 00:21:17,914
Speaker 2: up in front of everyone with the sole purpose sort

535
00:21:17,954 --> 00:21:19,994
Speaker 2: of making me a group target. And in that moment,

536
00:21:20,034 --> 00:21:22,554
Speaker 2: you're kind of on Chris's side. But I think with Sam,

537
00:21:22,594 --> 00:21:24,874
Speaker 2: It's never the thing that people say they're angry about.

538
00:21:24,954 --> 00:21:27,074
Speaker 2: It's never the thing, Yeah, the thing. It must be

539
00:21:27,154 --> 00:21:30,154
Speaker 2: something else that's been happening, or something else, something else

540
00:21:30,194 --> 00:21:31,954
Speaker 2: he's feeling that he's latched onto this.

541
00:21:32,074 --> 00:21:32,274
Speaker 1: Yeah.

542
00:21:32,274 --> 00:21:35,513
Speaker 4: I think the way the conversation was managed was super

543
00:21:35,554 --> 00:21:38,834
Speaker 4: poor because it didn't feel like Chris was really hearing

544
00:21:38,914 --> 00:21:40,634
Speaker 4: him out and he was kind of willing to die

545
00:21:40,634 --> 00:21:43,354
Speaker 4: on that hill like that. He was just being logical,

546
00:21:43,394 --> 00:21:45,874
Speaker 4: like I'm sorry, but I still think I'm right, and

547
00:21:46,154 --> 00:21:48,033
Speaker 4: he wasn't able to just hear him out like it

548
00:21:48,074 --> 00:21:50,234
Speaker 4: could have come. It could have turned into a whole

549
00:21:50,314 --> 00:21:54,354
Speaker 4: other conversation where he asks Sam, well, what do you want?

550
00:21:54,434 --> 00:21:55,793
Speaker 1: What do you see? And it could have been a

551
00:21:55,794 --> 00:21:56,714
Speaker 1: really positive thing.

552
00:21:57,234 --> 00:22:00,074
Speaker 4: But I think because he was just so hard on

553
00:22:00,074 --> 00:22:03,234
Speaker 4: where he stood and speaking quite sharply to Sam. That

554
00:22:03,274 --> 00:22:04,914
Speaker 4: was something that he pointed out, It's like no one's

555
00:22:04,914 --> 00:22:07,914
Speaker 4: spoken to me like that sharply before, or that it

556
00:22:07,954 --> 00:22:12,394
Speaker 4: may just be like communication styles and how you manage conflict,

557
00:22:12,394 --> 00:22:15,074
Speaker 4: and I think that was the actual issue. And even

558
00:22:15,074 --> 00:22:17,553
Speaker 4: when they're at the dinner party later, Sam, you know,

559
00:22:17,714 --> 00:22:21,114
Speaker 4: Chris offers an apology and says these apologize heaps of

560
00:22:21,154 --> 00:22:23,154
Speaker 4: times with Sam said, no, it's the first time you've

561
00:22:23,194 --> 00:22:27,073
Speaker 4: apologized for being defensive. So it's the defensiveness that I

562
00:22:27,074 --> 00:22:28,514
Speaker 4: think really upset him.

563
00:22:29,034 --> 00:22:30,874
Speaker 3: These people need to sit with not those so called

564
00:22:30,874 --> 00:22:33,914
Speaker 3: TV experts, in some real experts and like get.

565
00:22:33,834 --> 00:22:37,593
Speaker 4: Some happens in arguments when your a relationship, though, like

566
00:22:37,634 --> 00:22:40,154
Speaker 4: you repeat it back out loud and you're like, what.

567
00:22:39,794 --> 00:22:41,034
Speaker 3: Was I know that thing?

568
00:22:41,034 --> 00:22:43,034
Speaker 2: It's never about what the argument is. It's always some

569
00:22:43,074 --> 00:22:46,074
Speaker 2: sort of thing that you are bubbling underneath. So then

570
00:22:46,114 --> 00:22:49,514
Speaker 2: we get to our dinner party, which I don't understand

571
00:22:49,514 --> 00:22:51,354
Speaker 2: how those people sit down and eat a full dinner.

572
00:22:51,554 --> 00:22:52,434
Speaker 1: Do you reckon they eating?

573
00:22:52,554 --> 00:22:54,714
Speaker 3: No, they're eating, especially in this one, I was noticing it.

574
00:22:54,754 --> 00:22:57,074
Speaker 2: They are eating so much, which any other time I'd

575
00:22:57,074 --> 00:22:59,154
Speaker 2: be like, absolutely, eat is much food, and that food

576
00:22:59,314 --> 00:23:02,834
Speaker 2: is delicious. I would just be so tense and upset

577
00:23:03,354 --> 00:23:05,634
Speaker 2: unless I'm like Stella and Philip and like, no one's

578
00:23:05,674 --> 00:23:07,114
Speaker 2: talking to me, no one knows my name, no one's

579
00:23:07,194 --> 00:23:08,874
Speaker 2: looked at me, and I can sit in the corner

580
00:23:08,874 --> 00:23:11,314
Speaker 2: and eat my beef with raspberry jewel whatever they were eating.

581
00:23:11,394 --> 00:23:13,514
Speaker 1: The happier you are, the more you get to eat.

582
00:23:13,794 --> 00:23:16,154
Speaker 2: Yeah, and the less screen time you get, the better

583
00:23:16,354 --> 00:23:18,674
Speaker 2: your appetite is. No, I just't understand how they're going

584
00:23:18,674 --> 00:23:20,394
Speaker 2: and have a full dinner, knowing that they're all about

585
00:23:20,434 --> 00:23:22,994
Speaker 2: to scream at each other, they're about to cry, they're

586
00:23:23,034 --> 00:23:24,994
Speaker 2: about to be called out for things, all in the

587
00:23:25,074 --> 00:23:27,474
Speaker 2: name of television, and we only see a tiny moment

588
00:23:27,514 --> 00:23:27,714
Speaker 2: of it.

589
00:23:27,754 --> 00:23:29,714
Speaker 3: But it's filmed for hours and hours now as hours.

590
00:23:29,674 --> 00:23:30,514
Speaker 1: The middle of the night.

591
00:23:30,514 --> 00:23:32,194
Speaker 2: I would be sitting there with just like one glass

592
00:23:32,234 --> 00:23:34,114
Speaker 2: of water in my hands, shaking and be like, Okay,

593
00:23:34,154 --> 00:23:34,714
Speaker 2: let's do this.

594
00:23:35,034 --> 00:23:37,074
Speaker 1: No, you'd be on the lines for sure.

595
00:23:37,834 --> 00:23:38,034
Speaker 4: Yeah.

596
00:23:38,714 --> 00:23:40,474
Speaker 3: No, after my first inner party, they'd be like, let's

597
00:23:40,474 --> 00:23:41,194
Speaker 3: get that winde off her.

598
00:23:41,274 --> 00:23:44,634
Speaker 1: Yeah, take that off. I don't think they would know exactly.

599
00:23:44,754 --> 00:23:46,754
Speaker 2: Don't put me on married at first sight. I'd be

600
00:23:46,834 --> 00:23:49,954
Speaker 2: canceled so quickly. So they're all sitting there chatting away.

601
00:23:50,114 --> 00:23:52,634
Speaker 2: We have a really I don't know. I can't find

602
00:23:52,634 --> 00:23:55,553
Speaker 2: this couple sweet. Everyone finds them sweet. I'm so worried

603
00:23:55,554 --> 00:23:56,754
Speaker 2: for them, Rachel and Stephen.

604
00:23:57,594 --> 00:24:00,514
Speaker 1: I don't find them. Sorry, you find them sweet? He literally,

605
00:24:00,674 --> 00:24:01,313
Speaker 1: I don't find them.

606
00:24:01,514 --> 00:24:02,994
Speaker 3: Well, no, I know it makes the wrong word.

607
00:24:03,074 --> 00:24:05,594
Speaker 1: He went to treat her this week he's taking a

608
00:24:05,594 --> 00:24:08,394
Speaker 1: little lead. It's going to treat his woman. He brings

609
00:24:08,394 --> 00:24:08,834
Speaker 1: out a.

610
00:24:08,754 --> 00:24:12,154
Speaker 4: Plate of plain corn chips ha ha yeah, with a

611
00:24:12,274 --> 00:24:15,033
Speaker 4: block of tasty cheese melted on top, and he's like,

612
00:24:15,074 --> 00:24:15,434
Speaker 4: for you.

613
00:24:15,354 --> 00:24:15,834
Speaker 1: My lady.

614
00:24:15,954 --> 00:24:18,074
Speaker 2: That was Yeah, that was the best moment. I love

615
00:24:18,154 --> 00:24:20,114
Speaker 2: Rachel's you know, I like I like her. I think

616
00:24:20,114 --> 00:24:20,674
Speaker 2: that's what it is.

617
00:24:20,714 --> 00:24:23,834
Speaker 3: I like her. Can I feel bad for him? She's

618
00:24:23,914 --> 00:24:27,194
Speaker 3: carrying that. She's so sweet, But it could go either way.

619
00:24:27,354 --> 00:24:30,434
Speaker 1: I am doing bunny quotes.

620
00:24:30,634 --> 00:24:30,954
Speaker 4: Happened?

621
00:24:31,114 --> 00:24:34,474
Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, he's sweet with a promac layer around him

622
00:24:34,514 --> 00:24:36,594
Speaker 2: of like, this could go very bad because obviously he

623
00:24:36,634 --> 00:24:38,914
Speaker 2: shouldn't be on this show, is what I think. He's

624
00:24:39,034 --> 00:24:40,794
Speaker 2: so out of his comfort zone. I feel like he

625
00:24:40,834 --> 00:24:42,674
Speaker 2: doesn't want to be there. He's there because everyone in

626
00:24:42,714 --> 00:24:44,634
Speaker 2: his life has told him he needs to have a girlfriend,

627
00:24:44,674 --> 00:24:47,194
Speaker 2: he needs to date, and he has felt that so intensely.

628
00:24:47,234 --> 00:24:48,353
Speaker 3: And also maybe he does want to date.

629
00:24:48,354 --> 00:24:50,474
Speaker 2: He doesn't know how to do it, but at the

630
00:24:50,554 --> 00:24:53,074
Speaker 2: first sight wasn't the time to do it. And now

631
00:24:53,114 --> 00:24:55,194
Speaker 2: he's so in his head and so stressed out, and

632
00:24:55,234 --> 00:24:58,074
Speaker 2: so it could just kind of erupt in a bad way.

633
00:24:58,474 --> 00:24:58,674
Speaker 5: Yeah.

634
00:24:58,714 --> 00:25:00,634
Speaker 2: The funniest one of that whole nachos thing. He's like

635
00:25:00,674 --> 00:25:01,994
Speaker 2: he was so proud of himself.

636
00:25:01,754 --> 00:25:04,234
Speaker 3: Which is kind of cute. And he was like to Rachel, see,

637
00:25:04,434 --> 00:25:06,674
Speaker 3: no one makes nanchos like me. No one disliked me.

638
00:25:06,714 --> 00:25:09,273
Speaker 2: And she's like that's probably a good thing because and

639
00:25:09,314 --> 00:25:10,754
Speaker 2: then the camera plans to the play.

640
00:25:10,794 --> 00:25:12,234
Speaker 3: You're like, no one can eat that. You know what?

641
00:25:12,274 --> 00:25:14,194
Speaker 1: I think Margot Robbie makes not just like that.

642
00:25:14,354 --> 00:25:16,434
Speaker 3: Oh really, have you seen Margot Robbie's nose.

643
00:25:16,594 --> 00:25:18,874
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure she just like melts chase someone else.

644
00:25:18,754 --> 00:25:21,394
Speaker 3: On corn chips. Yeah, yeah, that doesn't sound good.

645
00:25:21,594 --> 00:25:22,674
Speaker 1: I think she can get over that.

646
00:25:22,874 --> 00:25:25,074
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love how she does. Everyone's like it's so fun,

647
00:25:25,234 --> 00:25:27,353
Speaker 2: so so chic. When he did it, you're like, well,

648
00:25:27,354 --> 00:25:28,634
Speaker 2: the thing is he did on a date.

649
00:25:28,954 --> 00:25:31,354
Speaker 4: He also thought a mac lipstick was a vibrator, so

650
00:25:31,354 --> 00:25:32,474
Speaker 4: I'm just very concerned.

651
00:25:32,554 --> 00:25:33,514
Speaker 3: Oh that bit.

652
00:25:33,754 --> 00:25:34,754
Speaker 1: Yes, Oh my god.

653
00:25:34,794 --> 00:25:37,874
Speaker 3: I guess our libraries are tiny, right, I don't know

654
00:25:38,274 --> 00:25:38,834
Speaker 3: there would be.

655
00:25:38,914 --> 00:25:40,834
Speaker 1: But he just picks it up like so soon a

656
00:25:40,874 --> 00:25:43,074
Speaker 1: stud she opens it. She's like, it's a lipstock.

657
00:25:43,394 --> 00:25:45,154
Speaker 3: But also I would have been bad if it was

658
00:25:45,154 --> 00:25:45,754
Speaker 3: a vibrator.

659
00:25:46,154 --> 00:25:48,754
Speaker 4: He's like, I've never he didn't say that, but it

660
00:25:48,754 --> 00:25:50,234
Speaker 4: looks like he'd never seen one before.

661
00:25:50,394 --> 00:25:51,794
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is what I mean.

662
00:25:52,154 --> 00:25:54,074
Speaker 2: He's so out of his comfort zone, which isn't a

663
00:25:54,074 --> 00:25:56,074
Speaker 2: bad thing. It's just a bad thing to put someone

664
00:25:56,114 --> 00:25:59,674
Speaker 2: like that in a TV show and then and also

665
00:25:59,674 --> 00:26:01,474
Speaker 2: to put her in the situation where she's having to

666
00:26:01,514 --> 00:26:04,353
Speaker 2: tiptoe around him. So anyway, they have their moment at

667
00:26:04,354 --> 00:26:07,434
Speaker 2: dinner party where they're constantly being asked if they have sex,

668
00:26:07,434 --> 00:26:10,594
Speaker 2: if they're going to have sex, And I so understand

669
00:26:10,794 --> 00:26:13,513
Speaker 2: his point when he's like, every time we almost go

670
00:26:13,674 --> 00:26:16,314
Speaker 2: to have sex, oh my god, we have this intense

671
00:26:16,514 --> 00:26:17,914
Speaker 2: you know how, like you just leave something too long

672
00:26:17,954 --> 00:26:20,274
Speaker 2: and then the build up is too much, whether it's

673
00:26:20,354 --> 00:26:22,554
Speaker 2: like an article you've got to write or a person

674
00:26:22,634 --> 00:26:24,234
Speaker 2: you just or your fake husband you've got to have

675
00:26:24,274 --> 00:26:24,554
Speaker 2: sex with.

676
00:26:24,994 --> 00:26:26,634
Speaker 3: Once you let it build up too much, that's it.

677
00:26:26,674 --> 00:26:28,954
Speaker 3: You can't do it. The stakes feel too high pressure.

678
00:26:29,034 --> 00:26:31,994
Speaker 2: And so I understand when he says, every time we

679
00:26:32,034 --> 00:26:33,874
Speaker 2: go to have sex, we both get in our head

680
00:26:33,874 --> 00:26:36,313
Speaker 2: because we're like, do we want to have sex or

681
00:26:36,354 --> 00:26:38,234
Speaker 2: are we just doing it because the expectation is there.

682
00:26:38,554 --> 00:26:39,474
Speaker 3: I have an answer to that.

683
00:26:39,714 --> 00:26:41,914
Speaker 2: If you're thinking that, if you're thinking that as you

684
00:26:41,994 --> 00:26:43,394
Speaker 2: might to have sex and you don't want to have sex.

685
00:26:43,474 --> 00:26:45,954
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't think you're should thinking you should be

686
00:26:45,954 --> 00:26:47,194
Speaker 4: in your head that much.

687
00:26:47,194 --> 00:26:49,434
Speaker 1: And obviously there's no cameras at that point.

688
00:26:49,474 --> 00:26:52,074
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, have time where they are alone, there's so

689
00:26:52,194 --> 00:26:53,034
Speaker 4: much opportunity.

690
00:26:53,354 --> 00:26:55,833
Speaker 1: I do think he has genuine feelings.

691
00:26:55,354 --> 00:26:59,234
Speaker 4: For her, but I'm not exactly sure whether they're beyond platonic.

692
00:26:59,274 --> 00:27:00,994
Speaker 4: I think he cares about her, and I think that's

693
00:27:01,074 --> 00:27:03,274
Speaker 4: like the only reason he is still there.

694
00:27:03,714 --> 00:27:05,834
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that they get along, they feel safe

695
00:27:05,874 --> 00:27:07,994
Speaker 3: for each other. I don't think that they're in love

696
00:27:08,034 --> 00:27:09,634
Speaker 3: at all. I don't even think they have the spark

697
00:27:09,674 --> 00:27:10,354
Speaker 3: of being in love.

698
00:27:10,434 --> 00:27:12,074
Speaker 1: Do you think she cares at this point or she

699
00:27:12,194 --> 00:27:13,154
Speaker 1: is just going through the motion.

700
00:27:13,514 --> 00:27:16,274
Speaker 2: Maybe she's going through the motions to get I mean, look,

701
00:27:16,314 --> 00:27:18,914
Speaker 2: I hopefully look. If I'm wrong, please do invite me

702
00:27:18,954 --> 00:27:20,553
Speaker 2: to the wedding. I'd be so happy to come and

703
00:27:20,594 --> 00:27:22,994
Speaker 2: celebrate your I would love to be wrong about this.

704
00:27:23,194 --> 00:27:28,114
Speaker 1: They're serving yeah, so good at the wedding. Well at theTimes,

705
00:27:28,114 --> 00:27:29,874
Speaker 1: it's a huge table.

706
00:27:29,594 --> 00:27:31,234
Speaker 3: That would be that would be very shak of them

707
00:27:31,274 --> 00:27:31,594
Speaker 3: to do that.

708
00:27:31,914 --> 00:27:34,034
Speaker 2: I hope I'm wrong, but I just feel like, at

709
00:27:34,034 --> 00:27:36,274
Speaker 2: this point, if you're still having to talk yourselves into

710
00:27:36,314 --> 00:27:39,354
Speaker 2: having sex, and I understand the implications of like everyone

711
00:27:39,394 --> 00:27:39,754
Speaker 2: being like.

712
00:27:39,754 --> 00:27:40,994
Speaker 3: Tell us, tell us, tell us.

713
00:27:41,194 --> 00:27:43,434
Speaker 2: When they said will, they're like at the dinner party

714
00:27:43,434 --> 00:27:45,154
Speaker 2: to all those crazy people, like you'll be the first

715
00:27:45,194 --> 00:27:47,914
Speaker 2: to know. I was like, don't tell them, just have

716
00:27:48,074 --> 00:27:49,794
Speaker 2: sex and don't tell anyone about it.

717
00:27:50,074 --> 00:27:51,794
Speaker 4: I thought the whole speech was like, we want to

718
00:27:51,994 --> 00:27:53,714
Speaker 4: frive ae, leave us alone.

719
00:27:53,754 --> 00:27:55,154
Speaker 1: And then he's like, but we'll tell you.

720
00:27:55,074 --> 00:27:57,234
Speaker 3: Guys, we'll set the fireworks from the balcony.

721
00:27:57,354 --> 00:28:00,074
Speaker 1: So might not really well last week? Yeah, I told

722
00:28:00,114 --> 00:28:01,994
Speaker 1: you guys, so let's do it again.

723
00:28:03,514 --> 00:28:05,834
Speaker 2: So I worry for those poor sweet children, like I

724
00:28:05,874 --> 00:28:08,194
Speaker 2: worry for everyone else. So that part, you can see,

725
00:28:08,274 --> 00:28:11,553
Speaker 2: everyone was just waiting for the main event, which was

726
00:28:11,674 --> 00:28:14,194
Speaker 2: going to be between Alissa and Beck.

727
00:28:14,754 --> 00:28:15,754
Speaker 1: Yes, it was interesting.

728
00:28:15,754 --> 00:28:18,714
Speaker 4: When Melissa and David arrived at the dinner party, it

729
00:28:18,834 --> 00:28:21,194
Speaker 4: looked super tense. I was like, surely they're not going

730
00:28:21,234 --> 00:28:22,634
Speaker 4: to hug it out, Like, surely they're not going to

731
00:28:22,674 --> 00:28:25,434
Speaker 4: have this friendly interaction. But Beck and Alyssa have this

732
00:28:25,514 --> 00:28:27,954
Speaker 4: hug at first, and then I don't get straight into it.

733
00:28:27,954 --> 00:28:31,354
Speaker 2: And sometimes for because when they first starts, I think

734
00:28:31,354 --> 00:28:33,234
Speaker 2: it feels like a formal event. It's such a big thing.

735
00:28:33,634 --> 00:28:35,434
Speaker 2: They've all dressed up. Do you think I have to

736
00:28:35,434 --> 00:28:36,474
Speaker 2: bring their own clothes that married?

737
00:28:36,474 --> 00:28:36,954
Speaker 3: At first?

738
00:28:36,994 --> 00:28:37,234
Speaker 1: I do?

739
00:28:37,394 --> 00:28:38,314
Speaker 3: They do? Okay, they do.

740
00:28:38,554 --> 00:28:40,274
Speaker 2: And my only person we've thought about that as I've

741
00:28:40,274 --> 00:28:42,154
Speaker 2: watched them, always like, do you bring your own clothes?

742
00:28:42,154 --> 00:28:43,634
Speaker 3: They get the clothes.

743
00:28:43,834 --> 00:28:46,474
Speaker 4: No, so they they buy their own clothes or they

744
00:28:46,834 --> 00:28:50,234
Speaker 4: work with like somewhere to hire, but they bring all

745
00:28:50,274 --> 00:28:51,674
Speaker 4: of their outfits, which is a lot.

746
00:28:52,074 --> 00:28:55,354
Speaker 2: Well, I just thought watching this event, especially all of

747
00:28:55,354 --> 00:28:56,834
Speaker 2: the girls who came in like ten out of ten

748
00:28:56,874 --> 00:28:59,154
Speaker 2: in all their dresses, Rachel and the green, and beck

749
00:28:59,154 --> 00:29:01,194
Speaker 2: in the red, and then Alissa had that floral outfit on.

750
00:29:01,434 --> 00:29:02,314
Speaker 3: This is where I'm at now.

751
00:29:02,354 --> 00:29:04,434
Speaker 2: I'm just like wanting to turn the sound off and

752
00:29:04,514 --> 00:29:06,234
Speaker 2: just look at all the pretty dresses and makeup and

753
00:29:06,274 --> 00:29:08,754
Speaker 2: just feel like it is like a red carpet. And

754
00:29:08,794 --> 00:29:10,994
Speaker 2: that is actually to bring my point full circle, that

755
00:29:11,114 --> 00:29:13,114
Speaker 2: is actually why I think they act so formal when

756
00:29:13,154 --> 00:29:15,754
Speaker 2: they first see each other, is that they're on a set.

757
00:29:16,194 --> 00:29:18,434
Speaker 2: They are all dressed up like crazy in a way

758
00:29:18,434 --> 00:29:20,394
Speaker 2: they aren't during the week they've been held in all

759
00:29:20,434 --> 00:29:22,234
Speaker 2: their cars outside for production to.

760
00:29:22,234 --> 00:29:22,754
Speaker 3: Bring them in.

761
00:29:22,834 --> 00:29:25,154
Speaker 2: It is like filming a big thing. So I think

762
00:29:25,194 --> 00:29:27,434
Speaker 2: when they come in, and also, haven't you haven't you

763
00:29:27,474 --> 00:29:28,274
Speaker 2: ever hugged.

764
00:29:27,994 --> 00:29:29,154
Speaker 3: An enemy at a formal event?

765
00:29:29,194 --> 00:29:31,154
Speaker 1: And I hate doing that me too, because I'm like,

766
00:29:31,194 --> 00:29:31,674
Speaker 1: I'm fak.

767
00:29:31,954 --> 00:29:39,754
Speaker 2: I actually, oh Sydney Media, well, mate, sometimes like but

768
00:29:39,834 --> 00:29:41,914
Speaker 2: you just don't make sure let your cheek touch their

769
00:29:41,954 --> 00:29:44,194
Speaker 2: cheek and then you're like and then you're going to

770
00:29:44,274 --> 00:29:46,074
Speaker 2: go off for me, it's time we've all been there

771
00:29:46,394 --> 00:29:50,074
Speaker 2: at any industry area. So I understand that's why they hugged.

772
00:29:50,114 --> 00:29:51,754
Speaker 2: But it was the most tense hug ever, and I

773
00:29:51,754 --> 00:29:53,674
Speaker 2: think it really set the scene for what was to come.

774
00:29:53,994 --> 00:29:57,034
Speaker 4: So when the experts are observing Alissa's entrance and when

775
00:29:57,074 --> 00:29:59,194
Speaker 4: she said it a dinner table, John is like, she's

776
00:29:59,234 --> 00:30:02,674
Speaker 4: got a different vibe tonight. Do you think maybe she's

777
00:30:02,834 --> 00:30:05,634
Speaker 4: mad at Beck? Because of the text. I'm like, obviously,

778
00:30:06,474 --> 00:30:06,754
Speaker 4: are you.

779
00:30:06,674 --> 00:30:07,914
Speaker 1: Talking ab for the whole week?

780
00:30:08,354 --> 00:30:10,354
Speaker 3: The job, sir, you have one job. How are you

781
00:30:10,474 --> 00:30:11,354
Speaker 3: across what's happening?

782
00:30:12,354 --> 00:30:12,914
Speaker 1: Literally?

783
00:30:13,274 --> 00:30:15,994
Speaker 4: But I think it was really nice to see Alissa

784
00:30:16,394 --> 00:30:19,074
Speaker 4: confront Beck, and I think she was really firm.

785
00:30:19,154 --> 00:30:20,954
Speaker 1: I would just cry. I think if I was.

786
00:30:20,954 --> 00:30:22,874
Speaker 2: In a position this is the other reason I can't

787
00:30:22,874 --> 00:30:24,394
Speaker 2: go on this show, is like I cry at the

788
00:30:24,474 --> 00:30:24,994
Speaker 2: drop of her hat.

789
00:30:25,154 --> 00:30:28,234
Speaker 3: I'm angry. I will just cry the entire time, and

790
00:30:28,274 --> 00:30:29,434
Speaker 3: I'm like frustrated.

791
00:30:29,714 --> 00:30:32,154
Speaker 1: So yeah, so it's really hard to get a good

792
00:30:32,234 --> 00:30:32,834
Speaker 1: pond across.

793
00:30:32,874 --> 00:30:35,914
Speaker 4: But yeah, I'd be really angry, but not firm exactly.

794
00:30:36,434 --> 00:30:39,314
Speaker 2: I actually thought Alyssa, if it was anyone else, it

795
00:30:39,354 --> 00:30:41,554
Speaker 2: would have been a much more intense fight. But I

796
00:30:41,554 --> 00:30:43,514
Speaker 2: think when she says like I'm more of a kind

797
00:30:43,674 --> 00:30:44,874
Speaker 2: calmer person.

798
00:30:44,834 --> 00:30:46,194
Speaker 3: I actually kind of do believe that.

799
00:30:46,314 --> 00:30:50,194
Speaker 2: Yeah, because she was obviously, producers and other people in

800
00:30:50,194 --> 00:30:52,354
Speaker 2: the show had set her up to be like this

801
00:30:52,434 --> 00:30:55,114
Speaker 2: big catalyst of like I'm going to throw down, I'm

802
00:30:55,114 --> 00:30:57,714
Speaker 2: going to confront her, and she tried. God bless her heart,

803
00:30:57,914 --> 00:31:00,594
Speaker 2: she tried, and I also think she was genuinely hurt,

804
00:31:00,634 --> 00:31:03,354
Speaker 2: but because she couldn't sort of articulate, and beck is

805
00:31:03,394 --> 00:31:07,314
Speaker 2: so much better of a public fighter, kept like looking

806
00:31:07,354 --> 00:31:10,114
Speaker 2: over her, turning the conversation around, and you could see

807
00:31:10,154 --> 00:31:12,874
Speaker 2: like Alissa wanted to confront her and she's upset, but

808
00:31:12,914 --> 00:31:15,274
Speaker 2: her heart I think just wasn't inputting on a performance

809
00:31:15,274 --> 00:31:17,554
Speaker 2: of a fight. She just sort of wanted to put

810
00:31:17,554 --> 00:31:20,074
Speaker 2: her point out there, and then Beck kept deflecting. And

811
00:31:20,114 --> 00:31:21,914
Speaker 2: what I thought was the kind of more interesting thing

812
00:31:22,034 --> 00:31:23,474
Speaker 2: is like watching it, I was like, we're never getting

813
00:31:23,514 --> 00:31:25,794
Speaker 2: a resolution between these two women because Alyssa's never going

814
00:31:25,834 --> 00:31:28,474
Speaker 2: to go past saying I'm hurt and I'm upset and

815
00:31:28,514 --> 00:31:30,914
Speaker 2: don't use me for your fight to other people, and

816
00:31:30,954 --> 00:31:33,874
Speaker 2: Beck is never going to go past Well, it's Gea's faults,

817
00:31:33,954 --> 00:31:36,994
Speaker 2: this person's fault. I said it months ago. I actually

818
00:31:36,994 --> 00:31:39,994
Speaker 2: thought them kind of more interesting thing was the reaction

819
00:31:40,114 --> 00:31:41,394
Speaker 2: between Beck and Danny.

820
00:31:41,634 --> 00:31:44,674
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, I think this is like is this the

821
00:31:44,674 --> 00:31:47,154
Speaker 4: straw that breaks the camel's back, because I've been waiting

822
00:31:47,154 --> 00:31:49,474
Speaker 4: for Danny to kind of put his foot down, because

823
00:31:49,474 --> 00:31:52,354
Speaker 4: he has been standing by with her.

824
00:31:52,274 --> 00:31:54,194
Speaker 1: While he woun't necessarily defend her.

825
00:31:54,674 --> 00:31:56,674
Speaker 4: I think in the past couple of weeks he has

826
00:31:57,074 --> 00:32:00,434
Speaker 4: definitely been a support for her, but he does now

827
00:32:00,754 --> 00:32:03,914
Speaker 4: finally kind of call her out on her behavior. Yeah,

828
00:32:04,034 --> 00:32:05,954
Speaker 4: I just don't know how he's standing by it.

829
00:32:05,954 --> 00:32:08,194
Speaker 3: Still welling he supports her like.

830
00:32:08,154 --> 00:32:11,914
Speaker 2: A colleague, not a not a fiance slash wife slush girlfriend.

831
00:32:12,634 --> 00:32:13,954
Speaker 3: He doesn't want to like a girlfriend.

832
00:32:13,954 --> 00:32:16,114
Speaker 2: He supports her like a colleague of being like, oh,

833
00:32:16,154 --> 00:32:17,514
Speaker 2: you know, yeah, I've got your like someone on your

834
00:32:17,514 --> 00:32:19,434
Speaker 2: team does something stupid, be like oh, we work together,

835
00:32:19,554 --> 00:32:19,914
Speaker 2: so we have.

836
00:32:19,874 --> 00:32:22,474
Speaker 3: To be like yeah or yeah or a team sport.

837
00:32:22,714 --> 00:32:24,874
Speaker 2: I can't relate to that, but you know, being like, oh,

838
00:32:24,954 --> 00:32:26,954
Speaker 2: like frustrating, but like I've got your back and I'm

839
00:32:26,994 --> 00:32:28,594
Speaker 2: going to talk. The way he talks her through it

840
00:32:28,634 --> 00:32:31,314
Speaker 2: is nice, but he's always very removed. It's not the

841
00:32:31,314 --> 00:32:33,914
Speaker 2: way a partner talks to another partner. And I also

842
00:32:33,954 --> 00:32:36,194
Speaker 2: think the worst thing that a partner can say that

843
00:32:36,514 --> 00:32:39,754
Speaker 2: you when you're having a disagreement is something that he

844
00:32:39,834 --> 00:32:41,514
Speaker 2: said in this moment. I don't know how you come

845
00:32:41,554 --> 00:32:43,714
Speaker 2: back from it. When Danny said of Beck, I'm so

846
00:32:43,794 --> 00:32:44,634
Speaker 2: ashamed of you.

847
00:32:44,874 --> 00:32:45,434
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

848
00:32:45,514 --> 00:32:48,034
Speaker 2: Ashamed, I feel like is something that's very hard to

849
00:32:48,034 --> 00:32:51,354
Speaker 2: come back from from both people, because angry is another

850
00:32:51,434 --> 00:32:53,794
Speaker 2: human emotion, and anger is linked to passion, which is

851
00:32:53,834 --> 00:32:57,474
Speaker 2: linked to love, disappointment. I think you can overcome all

852
00:32:57,514 --> 00:33:01,434
Speaker 2: these things, but shame is a pretty bad one. Yeah,

853
00:33:01,674 --> 00:33:03,594
Speaker 2: to be ashamed of someone's behavior, and.

854
00:33:03,594 --> 00:33:06,114
Speaker 4: I think it's something she is already concerned about in

855
00:33:06,154 --> 00:33:11,354
Speaker 4: their relationship. The whole way through, like from the very start. So, yeah,

856
00:33:11,354 --> 00:33:12,154
Speaker 4: I don't know what to say.

857
00:33:12,194 --> 00:33:14,474
Speaker 2: It's weird because the dynamic between Danny and Beck has

858
00:33:14,474 --> 00:33:17,914
Speaker 2: always been very imbalanced, where it's almost like he sets

859
00:33:17,954 --> 00:33:20,394
Speaker 2: her these like tasks of like I'm looking for you

860
00:33:20,434 --> 00:33:22,474
Speaker 2: to be like this, to act like this, to win

861
00:33:22,594 --> 00:33:24,594
Speaker 2: me over, and every week she's trying to do all

862
00:33:24,634 --> 00:33:27,034
Speaker 2: these things, and then her temper and anger gets the

863
00:33:27,074 --> 00:33:29,234
Speaker 2: better of her and she blows up and then they

864
00:33:29,234 --> 00:33:32,314
Speaker 2: have to start again, and it's just it just looks exhausting.

865
00:33:32,394 --> 00:33:35,194
Speaker 4: Yeah. No, it's definitely messy, and I feel like she's

866
00:33:35,354 --> 00:33:37,354
Speaker 4: this a goalpost she's never going to reach because they're

867
00:33:37,394 --> 00:33:38,514
Speaker 4: not a match because.

868
00:33:38,274 --> 00:33:39,794
Speaker 2: He doesn't want to be in a relationship with her

869
00:33:40,034 --> 00:33:41,914
Speaker 2: and so but he's going through the motions.

870
00:33:42,114 --> 00:33:45,674
Speaker 4: Yeah, I really didn't like that he accepted being like

871
00:33:45,754 --> 00:33:46,634
Speaker 4: girlfriend boyfriend.

872
00:33:46,674 --> 00:33:48,354
Speaker 1: I feel like that's kind of cruel.

873
00:33:48,354 --> 00:33:50,114
Speaker 3: When he obviously doesn't feel that no.

874
00:33:50,194 --> 00:33:51,834
Speaker 4: And you're just going to take it away like you're

875
00:33:51,874 --> 00:33:54,514
Speaker 4: not really acting like a partner, And honestly, she shouldn't

876
00:33:54,514 --> 00:33:57,314
Speaker 4: have said yes or even accepted that, because you're not

877
00:33:57,354 --> 00:33:58,074
Speaker 4: even there yet.

878
00:33:58,234 --> 00:34:00,554
Speaker 3: No, and then she stormed out, and I was like

879
00:34:00,594 --> 00:34:01,554
Speaker 3: almost like Jesus Christ.

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Speaker 2: Fair enough, I'd leave too. If it was happening, I

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Speaker 2: would have run Marzo. So that's where we left. As

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Speaker 2: we move into another volatile week of married at first Sight,

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Speaker 2: we're getting to the pointy end of it now, so things.

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Speaker 3: Are only going to get in.

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Speaker 1: Thanks so much for listening to the Spill today.

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Speaker 4: you guys the best content. And we have your weekend

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Speaker 4: six am. The Spill is produced by Minitia O Swearin

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Speaker 4: with audio production by Scott Stronik.

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Speaker 5: Bye Bye, Mamma Mia acknowledges the traditional owners of the land.

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Speaker 2: We have recorded this podcast on the Gatigor people of

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Speaker 2: the Orination. We pay our respects to their elders past

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Speaker 2: and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and

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Speaker 2: Torres Strait Islander cultures.