WEBVTT - The Most Honest Dating Questionnaire We've Ever Seen 0:00:03.000 --> 0:00:05.840 Hello, and welcome to Mama Mirror out Loud. I think 0:00:05.880 --> 0:00:07.960 you might find you may have already heard. I don't 0:00:08.000 --> 0:00:13.240 know that we are still the number one podcast in Australia. 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:16.400 Yeah, even with Hamish Nandy back, Hamish Sandy back. 0:00:16.520 --> 0:00:19.040 But the world is just churning and this is just 0:00:19.040 --> 0:00:21.800 a new place. Yes, just where we hang out these days. 0:00:21.840 --> 0:00:23.759 You might have We've probably bored you with it, but 0:00:23.840 --> 0:00:25.720 Emma hasn't been on the show, so no, I want 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:26.880 to get very, very excited. 0:00:26.880 --> 0:00:29.880 I mean, it is our thirty episodes versus therefore, but 0:00:31.280 --> 0:00:35.640 who's counting. It's a listeners, not episodes. Got it? Got it? 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:39.879 Got it? So we're winning. We're winning number one anyway. 0:00:39.960 --> 0:00:43.640 I'm Holly Wayne, right, I'm Claire Stevens, and I'm. 0:00:43.560 --> 0:00:46.440 M Vernon Claire Stephens. Is something you need to bring to. 0:00:46.400 --> 0:00:50.320 The group, there is, guys. I'm in my flop Era and. 0:00:50.280 --> 0:00:53.120 I just feel great for being in your flop era. 0:00:53.200 --> 0:00:55.560 Thank you so much. Em That actually means a lot. 0:00:57.120 --> 0:00:58.920 Someone the other day was like, you don't even look 0:00:58.960 --> 0:01:01.280 that pregnant. I was like, I really needed to hear that. 0:01:01.760 --> 0:01:03.120 How pregnant are we now? 0:01:03.520 --> 0:01:07.080 I'm twenty eight weeks okay, and yeah, twenty eight weeks. 0:01:08.480 --> 0:01:10.040 How many more there is to go? 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:13.600 At least another ten yeah, yeah, at least another three 0:01:13.680 --> 0:01:17.119 quarters of the way. Yeah, yeah, which which here's a question. 0:01:17.160 --> 0:01:18.280 Three quarters two thirds? 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:21.680 Yeah, you do? You do the maths about trimesters? Yeah, 0:01:21.840 --> 0:01:23.800 doesn't make sense. It doesn't make sense, doesn't mat up. 0:01:23.880 --> 0:01:25.520 I was explaining this to my partner the other day. 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:28.560 It's like, oh, first trimester is twelve weeks, okay, well 0:01:28.560 --> 0:01:31.199 maybe so, then second trimester would end it twenty four weeks. 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:33.800 So then third trimester would end it thirty six weeks. 0:01:33.840 --> 0:01:36.679 Why is there a month to go? Why this is 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:40.880 the thing? Pregnancy ain't ain't nine months, it's ten months. 0:01:41.720 --> 0:01:44.360 It's ten not fat. 0:01:44.120 --> 0:01:46.240 But my flop era. I just feel like I need 0:01:46.280 --> 0:01:49.840 to be open with the out louders because if they 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:52.080 see me out and about, they might notice I'm flopping. 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:54.400 She's not flopping anyway. We're just going to put the 0:01:54.520 --> 0:01:56.680 she's not flopping aside and let you flop go. 0:01:56.680 --> 0:01:59.560 Okay. Number one, I have a skin cancer on my notes. 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:03.040 I know that I need to get cut out and 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:06.120 the surgery to get it cut out, which I thought 0:02:06.120 --> 0:02:08.720 would be chill because I'm like, it's a b CC. 0:02:09.360 --> 0:02:12.840 I'm thirty five. No, they have to cut a huge 0:02:12.880 --> 0:02:15.320 hole in my face and do a skin grass. Oh 0:02:15.360 --> 0:02:17.720 my darling, And I just want to know any out louders. 0:02:17.760 --> 0:02:20.200 We've had stuff like cut out of your face. Any 0:02:20.200 --> 0:02:22.400 suggestions you have Are they're going to do this after 0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:23.280 you have the baby? 0:02:23.480 --> 0:02:23.760 Yeah? 0:02:23.800 --> 0:02:24.799 But not long after? 0:02:25.560 --> 0:02:27.320 Oh so you're going to be a new mum of 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:29.360 two with a big hole in your correct Oh that 0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:30.680 does not sound like fun. 0:02:30.760 --> 0:02:33.720 I can I go through your like nostril and pull 0:02:33.720 --> 0:02:37.200 it out from there? Already a hole there. 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:40.880 You should be a doctor. You should. 0:02:42.400 --> 0:02:43.360 In that briefing room. 0:02:43.600 --> 0:02:46.000 You should have heard my suggestions to the surgeon. He's like, 0:02:46.120 --> 0:02:48.440 you need to just I was like, I get nosebleeds 0:02:48.440 --> 0:02:50.120 sometimes and he's like that's unpleathed. 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:54.400 Like that's just the doctors like you should probably get 0:02:54.400 --> 0:02:54.679 that checked. 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:58.560 Yeah, Like that's another element of my flop ear that's unrelated. 0:02:59.040 --> 0:03:03.360 My other flop ear element is like my twin sister 0:03:03.440 --> 0:03:06.680 before me, I've been diagnosed with gestational diabetes. 0:03:06.840 --> 0:03:09.680 It's very creepy with it's always the ones who love 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:11.280 chocolate and. 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:14.040 If any if you know anything about me, and Jathy, 0:03:14.639 --> 0:03:18.200 it's that we love our chocolate, we love our snacks. 0:03:18.760 --> 0:03:21.000 I can hear out loud and shouting at you because 0:03:21.000 --> 0:03:22.440 they're going, it's not that. 0:03:23.360 --> 0:03:24.560 Don't blame yourself. 0:03:24.960 --> 0:03:27.360 And the doctor told me there's nothing I could have done. 0:03:27.360 --> 0:03:29.720 There you go, but it's really sad. 0:03:29.840 --> 0:03:31.000 Oh, I feel really sorry. 0:03:31.120 --> 0:03:33.760 I'm hungry and I'm confused and I don't understand food 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:36.080 and now I've turned into hollywayin right because everything has 0:03:36.120 --> 0:03:36.880 to be a protein. 0:03:36.960 --> 0:03:39.000 I've been through this sitting next to your sister. So 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:42.280 just ask me and I will just say cottage cheese 0:03:42.560 --> 0:03:42.960 all time. 0:03:43.000 --> 0:03:44.240 I don't like cottage cheese. 0:03:44.240 --> 0:03:48.320 That's a problem. Yeah, yeah, you know what, I will 0:03:48.400 --> 0:03:50.800 give you a tin of tuna from my stash. 0:03:52.040 --> 0:03:53.000 Really, that's. 0:03:54.400 --> 0:03:54.960 Oh, darling. 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:57.880 I'm just I'm just flopping all over the place. So 0:03:58.240 --> 0:04:01.280 if I you know, if you hear me say something 0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:04.080 on the podcast we think clear out sentence didn't make sense, 0:04:04.320 --> 0:04:06.839 you would be right, Oh, you would be right out 0:04:06.880 --> 0:04:10.640 louders and just thanks for I don't know, thanks for 0:04:10.680 --> 0:04:12.120 supporting me through my flop era. 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:13.240 Send her a bit of love. 0:04:13.800 --> 0:04:17.120 I really appreciate it. And if you're flopping, yeah, we 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:17.840 all share. 0:04:17.760 --> 0:04:22.279 Welcoming share, we will flop all flop together. Here is 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:26.520 what has made our agenda for today. Nicole Kidman has 0:04:26.600 --> 0:04:29.520 a new career plan and it's quite serious. 0:04:30.520 --> 0:04:34.520 Plus there's a new dating questionnaire that is answering all 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:37.120 the questions that I need to know. And I've never 0:04:37.200 --> 0:04:37.880 heard before. 0:04:38.680 --> 0:04:42.919 And no one in Vogue has their nails done anymore. 0:04:43.080 --> 0:04:45.880 And I have a theory about what it means. But 0:04:46.040 --> 0:04:51.200 first class Stevens, there is absolutely no feeling like the 0:04:51.320 --> 0:04:54.360 sheene of ick that seems to have settled into your 0:04:54.440 --> 0:04:57.240 paws and your hair follicles after a full day in 0:04:57.279 --> 0:04:59.960 the office. And I've always thought this, and I've never 0:05:00.839 --> 0:05:02.800 I always thought it was just me. I remember it 0:05:02.839 --> 0:05:05.080 at school as well. By the end of a school day, 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:08.800 you'd be like, oh, why am I shiny? And I 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:13.840 agree seel icky, and I'd look at other people and think, no, 0:05:13.960 --> 0:05:15.240 they still look put together. 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:18.240 You know, it's interesting because you know, on Monday's show 0:05:18.240 --> 0:05:21.839 we talked about working from home. On yesterday's subscriber episode, 0:05:21.839 --> 0:05:23.119 Me and Me I had a bit of it about 0:05:23.160 --> 0:05:25.680 working from home. This could be one of the other 0:05:25.760 --> 0:05:28.760 things we could put in our requests for flexible working yeah, 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:30.800 we could say, don't you want me to look hot 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:33.520 at all time? Exactly and feel fresh by the end 0:05:33.520 --> 0:05:37.040 of the day. Why would somebody think of my hair because. 0:05:36.800 --> 0:05:40.000 I feel fresher if I've just been at home. And 0:05:40.240 --> 0:05:44.400 a content creator named Noah Donlin has gone viral on 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:47.800 Instagram and TikTok for sharing a term for this and 0:05:47.839 --> 0:05:52.000 it perfectly explains it. She calls it office air or 0:05:52.000 --> 0:05:56.000 the office air theory. So she works as a corporate girlie, 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:58.840 I think that's important. It just she's in an office, 0:05:59.080 --> 0:06:02.919 adult jobs, yep, fluorescent lighting, air conditioning, all of that. 0:06:03.480 --> 0:06:05.560 She's going for the corner office and agreed. 0:06:05.279 --> 0:06:09.320 With the proof exactly. And one of her most viral 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:12.400 videos has the caption, no, you're not ugly, and no, 0:06:12.520 --> 0:06:14.440 it's not just you. It's office air. 0:06:15.040 --> 0:06:16.960 And if you consider that, this is why you're in 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:17.560 your flop hair. 0:06:18.720 --> 0:06:22.520 It's the bloody office air. It is an office air 0:06:22.600 --> 0:06:25.839 probably as well is full of viruses. I'd like to 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:30.960 pull that out. But she has taken photos of herself. 0:06:30.960 --> 0:06:32.680 She'll take a photo or a video of herself. At 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:34.560 the beginning of the day she turns up for work. 0:06:34.720 --> 0:06:38.440 Her hair is blow dried to frame, her face, it's up. 0:06:38.760 --> 0:06:41.440 Her makeup is perfect, her I makeup is perfect. And 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:44.960 then she's like twelve pm and everything has melted like 0:06:45.200 --> 0:06:48.159 her like your face eats your makeup by that stage, 0:06:48.440 --> 0:06:53.520 and the hair is all like strandy and it's all oily. 0:06:54.000 --> 0:06:54.480 Yeah. 0:06:54.600 --> 0:06:56.360 And some of the comments were so good. They were 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:59.840 like bright red eyes for no reason. You look at yourself. 0:06:59.880 --> 0:07:02.839 You whoa, I have an eye infection? Or I look 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:06.239 like a sick Victorian child by lunch, very very true. 0:07:06.320 --> 0:07:10.440 Do you guys have office air issues? 0:07:10.760 --> 0:07:13.000 I always feel like I'm coming down with the cold 0:07:13.000 --> 0:07:15.360 at about three o'clock if I'm in the office or there, 0:07:15.400 --> 0:07:17.440 about three o'clock of a suddenly like, oh yeah, I'm 0:07:17.440 --> 0:07:20.400 definitely getting a cold. And then I leave and it 0:07:20.440 --> 0:07:22.600 wasn't a cold. Or you just have your third coffee 0:07:22.640 --> 0:07:24.680 and you're like, oh, so true, that's why I need 0:07:24.680 --> 0:07:25.360 that three people. 0:07:25.440 --> 0:07:27.960 You really go outside and you're like, oh exactly. 0:07:28.560 --> 0:07:29.760 It's like it's so nice. 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:31.840 Maybe I'm not getting a cold, but every day I 0:07:31.840 --> 0:07:32.600 think I'm getting a. 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:35.520 Cold about three. It sounds very similar to the boyfriend 0:07:35.600 --> 0:07:38.600 breath effect. I heard of this. No, so it was 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:41.520 these girls on TikTok, who were making these videos saying, 0:07:41.920 --> 0:07:44.200 why do I always look like crap after I spent 0:07:44.320 --> 0:07:48.000 the day with my boyfriend? And it's like these girls 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:50.560 who have been in new relationships with their partners and 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:53.200 then they video themselves with their boyfriend and it's like 0:07:53.280 --> 0:07:56.480 him like massaging their head and falling asleep on their 0:07:56.480 --> 0:07:58.800 shoulder and breathing on their neck, and then they just 0:07:58.880 --> 0:08:01.760 come away just feeling so gross and. 0:08:01.640 --> 0:08:04.560 Greasely letting other people into your physical. 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:09.240 Yeah, but you know who doesn't have office air and agreed. 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:11.960 Oh my gosh. And you know what my theory for 0:08:12.000 --> 0:08:14.640 that would be. She's not in the bloody office telling 0:08:14.680 --> 0:08:16.360 everybody else to be in the office. But she is 0:08:16.400 --> 0:08:18.400 doing a lot of podcasts. 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:23.960 Writer and artist Miranda July. She did All Four. 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:27.080 If you haven't listened to our book club episode about 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:27.720 All Fours. 0:08:27.800 --> 0:08:29.360 It was a massive book, like. 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:31.440 The year before last, and we did a book Club 0:08:31.480 --> 0:08:35.240 episode about it in December which was just chaotic. Yeah, 0:08:35.960 --> 0:08:40.360 it's a great book. She's just amazing. It's a fine book. Yeah, 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:43.160 you didn't like it. 0:08:42.920 --> 0:08:45.640 She's she's definitely out there. Yeah, she is. She is, 0:08:45.760 --> 0:08:48.240 and she has a substack and on her substack. She 0:08:48.280 --> 0:08:51.720 has started a dating service. So what she does is 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:54.520 she sends out a question air to all her readers, 0:08:54.800 --> 0:08:58.199 and if you're looking to date someone, you answer the questions, 0:08:58.480 --> 0:09:01.080 send it back to her, and she pub as a 0:09:01.160 --> 0:09:04.080 post so people can reach out to that person. Some 0:09:04.200 --> 0:09:06.640 of the questions are kind of similar to what I 0:09:06.679 --> 0:09:09.080 have seen on dating apps, like do you want kids? 0:09:09.240 --> 0:09:11.720 Do you have pets? How old are you? How would 0:09:11.720 --> 0:09:14.160 your best friend describe you? But then I saw some 0:09:14.280 --> 0:09:18.600 questions that completely blew my mind. What do you like 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:22.480 slash dislike about airports and flying? I love that question. 0:09:23.320 --> 0:09:28.480 That is such a good question, is insightful? Answer that question, friends, 0:09:28.520 --> 0:09:30.040 just so we can get to know you all better. 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:34.000 What I so? I love airports. I feel like I'm 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:36.559 already on holidays. I love just walking around and looking 0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:39.720 at things. Things I dislike is always going through security 0:09:39.760 --> 0:09:43.520 because I've never done the right thing with my liquids ever. 0:09:43.800 --> 0:09:44.120 Ever. 0:09:44.360 --> 0:09:45.680 What do you like about airport? 0:09:45.720 --> 0:09:49.839 I hate airports so much, so much, I have such 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:52.560 It's the only place in the whole world I have 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:57.120 so much like anxiety about getting in trouble. I never 0:09:57.160 --> 0:09:58.959 want to be in trouble. I never want to be late. 0:09:59.000 --> 0:10:01.040 I never want to be the last person on the plane. 0:10:01.400 --> 0:10:04.600 Traveling with you whole has been such a nightmare for me. 0:10:05.280 --> 0:10:07.560 See when Hole's like, do you want to share an 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:09.959 uber to the airport? No, I do not know, because 0:10:09.960 --> 0:10:12.319 we're catching that uber like twenty minutes before our fly 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:15.080 takes up. I want to be there an hour before. 0:10:15.160 --> 0:10:17.520 I have to put an extra time for security because 0:10:17.520 --> 0:10:21.120 I'm brown, and they're always like if we need a double. 0:10:20.920 --> 0:10:22.840 Check back, that's so cool. 0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:25.199 I don't like the food that always makes me constipated. 0:10:25.240 --> 0:10:28.680 There's so many things that's so funny. I really am 0:10:28.679 --> 0:10:29.040 with you. 0:10:29.160 --> 0:10:32.079 I really like airports, although when you travel a lot 0:10:32.080 --> 0:10:34.920 for work. Last year I traveled a lot for work, 0:10:35.000 --> 0:10:37.560 some of the shine comes off it. But I really 0:10:37.679 --> 0:10:40.800 like holiday airports, like when you're going away and then 0:10:40.800 --> 0:10:42.640 I don't mind getting there early because I want to 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:45.520 eat all the things. I want to buy unnecessary items. 0:10:45.520 --> 0:10:46.760 I want to just walk around. 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:49.040 Being like I'm out of here, like I believe in 0:10:49.559 --> 0:10:52.120 can't wait anyway. Sorry, we digress, We digress. So these 0:10:52.120 --> 0:10:54.559 are the kind of questions that she has very insightful. 0:10:55.040 --> 0:10:58.200 She also has some questions that make the person send 0:10:58.240 --> 0:11:02.120 in photos. So she's said, let's see a picture of 0:11:02.200 --> 0:11:05.600 you that you think is maximum flattering, and let's see 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:07.880 a nice picture of you that looks more like the 0:11:07.880 --> 0:11:10.839 way you usually look. I think that is genius. 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:13.640 Now I'm not on the apps, and it's a bit 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:16.240 of internet dating right back at the beginning of internet 0:11:16.320 --> 0:11:20.120 dating world. But do the traditional dating apps do many 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:23.560 of them have these kind of like tricksy interesting things 0:11:23.679 --> 0:11:26.360 or is it all pretty straightforward, like tell me your 0:11:26.360 --> 0:11:26.920 favorite color. 0:11:26.960 --> 0:11:31.000 I don't know so much about you, because I think, for. 0:11:30.960 --> 0:11:34.640 Example, that that trick about the photos is excellent because 0:11:34.640 --> 0:11:37.280 we all want to post the really flattering picture of ourselves, 0:11:37.840 --> 0:11:40.840 but we also don't want to turn up. I've got 0:11:41.400 --> 0:11:44.000 feedback from people in my world that like, you don't 0:11:44.000 --> 0:11:45.480 want to turn up at a date and the first 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:48.400 thing you see on their face be like a flicker of. 0:11:48.640 --> 0:11:52.600 You don't want to you don't want to catfish, but 0:11:52.679 --> 0:11:55.120 you want to be able to show them that you 0:11:55.240 --> 0:11:58.040 have the potential to look for the really hot given 0:11:58.080 --> 0:11:58.880 the right conditions. 0:11:59.000 --> 0:12:05.240 I can healer would say, as I'm starting here with 0:12:05.360 --> 0:12:07.800 the messy barn, and they're like, but that I can 0:12:07.880 --> 0:12:10.440 get to here, but I'll be back down here again. 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:14.160 I want you to be upset about that. I think 0:12:14.200 --> 0:12:17.480 that's genius. Dating apps do have a lot of questions 0:12:17.480 --> 0:12:20.920 like that, where you now can upload photos and videos 0:12:21.080 --> 0:12:23.480 and voice notes, which are very important because I find 0:12:23.520 --> 0:12:24.560 voices very attracted. 0:12:24.640 --> 0:12:27.920 They say in their voice, is everyone just trying. 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:29.920 To I'm also so sorry that I sound like that 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:32.400 auntie who's like, tell me about what it's like. 0:12:32.679 --> 0:12:35.240 The most men just use it to show off their 0:12:35.320 --> 0:12:40.960 Robert de Niro impression, and they're always so bad. It's 0:12:41.080 --> 0:12:43.640 so funny. That just reminds me of Barbie and them 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:47.960 all singing that song. Literally, do you want to push you? 0:12:49.200 --> 0:12:52.920 The issues with dating apps questions is that there's hundreds 0:12:52.920 --> 0:12:56.000 and hundreds of questions to choose from, so unlike this 0:12:56.160 --> 0:12:58.719 questionnaire where you have to answer all of her questions, 0:12:58.960 --> 0:13:01.080 these ones you just pick a choose the ones you like, 0:13:01.160 --> 0:13:03.360 so you always end up with the profile that is 0:13:03.400 --> 0:13:05.840 best fitted, that you think is the best version of yourself. 0:13:06.080 --> 0:13:09.439 The one that men always choose that I hate and 0:13:09.520 --> 0:13:11.920 no woman ever wants to answer is the two truths 0:13:11.920 --> 0:13:13.880 and a lie, Oh, because I just want to tell 0:13:13.880 --> 0:13:16.839 you stories about their crazy lifestyle. So the two truths, 0:13:16.840 --> 0:13:18.840 and a lie will be like I fought a gorilla, 0:13:19.240 --> 0:13:22.760 I fought an alligator, I fought a shark, And then 0:13:22.800 --> 0:13:24.960 the lie would be like, oh, I nearly thought a shark, 0:13:25.000 --> 0:13:28.600 but I didn't actually, Oh. 0:13:27.559 --> 0:13:31.360 Mad annoying me to Miranda's You Lie World exactly. She 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:34.520 also asked them to show a picture of their bed. 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:38.040 Yes, Oh, beds are really important. I have actually a 0:13:38.120 --> 0:13:41.440 list of questions that I would ask the guys that 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:44.560 I at least I would say, okay, number one, do 0:13:44.600 --> 0:13:45.720 you have navy sheets? 0:13:46.720 --> 0:13:47.080 Okay? 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:50.520 Is navy sheets a bad bad? Maybe sheets are always 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:53.760 bad because navy sheets are the sheets that they just 0:13:53.800 --> 0:13:58.280 took from their childhood bedroom. Because as they're growing up 0:13:58.320 --> 0:14:01.080 and become teenagers, their moms are like, okay, you're becoming 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:04.040 a big boy. Now let's remove the cars. Here's some 0:14:04.160 --> 0:14:07.120 navy sheets, so everyone knows you're still a boy, but 0:14:07.240 --> 0:14:10.000 you're also becoming a man. And then that guy's like, 0:14:10.120 --> 0:14:12.480 hell yeah, mom, sheets were life. 0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:16.600 And then taking the navy she wear a flat pillow. 0:14:16.760 --> 0:14:19.040 This is why a picture of the bed is really taste, 0:14:19.080 --> 0:14:21.960 because you can't like, you want to see linen, you 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:24.240 want to see some white, some textures I want to 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:29.360 say to the guy, no pillows, just pillowcases, just pillowcases. 0:14:30.280 --> 0:14:32.000 Just you know, when I met Brent, he did have 0:14:32.040 --> 0:14:36.360 a futon, like it's basically a mattress on the floor, 0:14:37.120 --> 0:14:40.880 and I remember walking into his bedroom and being like, 0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:43.960 I could choose for this to me. 0:14:44.920 --> 0:14:47.760 Not grown up yet, even though you are nearly. 0:14:47.480 --> 0:14:52.320 Forty, or I could choose it to mean traveler, easy going, 0:14:52.480 --> 0:14:56.000 hasn't invested in settling down. Like yeah, so I think 0:14:56.040 --> 0:14:59.800 that all these photos they're not necessarily negative positive. 0:14:59.800 --> 0:15:02.880 They just tell you something important about them, don't they. 0:15:03.680 --> 0:15:05.720 I think she also says, show me the inside of 0:15:05.760 --> 0:15:08.720 your fridge. 0:15:08.840 --> 0:15:10.200 I would hate to show people. 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:11.200 What would I learn about you? 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:14.120 Actually, Lukey used to do that to you, and you 0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:16.880 and Jesse used to share a house, and when Luca 0:15:16.960 --> 0:15:20.120 first started dating Jesse, he had a brief social media 0:15:20.200 --> 0:15:23.000 content series of showing people the inside of your. 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:26.400 Fridge, like empty. 0:15:27.480 --> 0:15:28.160 And then there'd be. 0:15:28.120 --> 0:15:33.280 A wilted, one green, wilted thing in the crisper drawers. 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:36.000 And that is just you know, when you just at 0:15:36.000 --> 0:15:40.120 that phase. As asforementioned flop Era, every time I open 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:45.080 my fridge, I'm like, something smells. 0:15:43.280 --> 0:15:45.440 My fridge is always smelling and I don't know what 0:15:45.520 --> 0:15:51.400 it is. Something's gone somewhere. Are only truly clean when 0:15:51.400 --> 0:15:51.800 they're new. 0:15:52.880 --> 0:15:55.560 If has that fresh place you imagined you didn't care 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:57.720 care about the world, you'd just be like every month, 0:15:57.760 --> 0:15:58.120 you'd be like. 0:15:58.200 --> 0:16:01.480 Screw it, this's but that would be interesting. Actually, I'd 0:16:01.520 --> 0:16:02.880 like to take a photo of my fridge, send it 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:04.560 to someone and be like, can you tell me what's 0:16:04.640 --> 0:16:06.400 mol something? 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:11.440 You find it app You're like, can you sort out 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:14.280 my fridge problem for me? I think we could add 0:16:14.320 --> 0:16:16.840 a photo. And I know this might be more female skewing, 0:16:16.840 --> 0:16:18.320 but let's remember we just want to get to know 0:16:18.400 --> 0:16:21.040 people and who knows what you're into. But a photo 0:16:21.080 --> 0:16:25.360 of your hair brush is very telling. Oh I'm dating 0:16:25.360 --> 0:16:26.240 a guy who's bored. 0:16:26.440 --> 0:16:27.880 Yeah, so that would. 0:16:27.640 --> 0:16:30.520 Be a silly question for him, but like I would be. 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:34.080 My hair brush is often just full of my managed 0:16:34.120 --> 0:16:37.080 hair is gross, and when I've cleaned it and pulled 0:16:37.080 --> 0:16:39.640 that out stuff, I feel like that woman we talked 0:16:39.640 --> 0:16:40.680 about last week who has. 0:16:40.600 --> 0:16:43.840 That shit together. If my hair brush is clean, I'm 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:45.960 feeling good. I feel like for a whole for you, 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:48.360 I would ask show me the lap of the person 0:16:48.400 --> 0:16:50.000 sitting next to you on the train. It's just full 0:16:50.000 --> 0:16:54.760 of your hair. Oh my god, I thought about you, Sidebar. 0:16:54.880 --> 0:16:58.840 Sidebar doesn't approve of the fact that when I come 0:16:58.920 --> 0:17:01.520 up on the train, I put my makeup on on 0:17:01.560 --> 0:17:03.800 the train, which I always do. But she said, you 0:17:03.840 --> 0:17:05.840 do draw the line at hair brushing, don't you, And 0:17:05.880 --> 0:17:06.400 I was like. 0:17:07.920 --> 0:17:12.159 Yeah, so long, you're like elbowing people out of But 0:17:12.280 --> 0:17:14.680 on Monday morning this week, I was on the early 0:17:14.720 --> 0:17:17.399 train and I was doing my makeup that I was 0:17:17.720 --> 0:17:19.080 just pulled my hairbrush. 0:17:18.680 --> 0:17:21.320 Out of my back and then I'm like no, I 0:17:21.359 --> 0:17:23.760 would say, no, I can wait till I get to 0:17:23.840 --> 0:17:28.440 the office. So I'm growing personating. 0:17:29.320 --> 0:17:33.840 I came up with a few questions because I agree 0:17:33.880 --> 0:17:37.040 am I think that there are some really personalized things 0:17:37.080 --> 0:17:39.840 that you can ask someone to get a sense of 0:17:40.960 --> 0:17:45.240 are we compatible And it's very much they like they've 0:17:45.240 --> 0:17:49.720 got to be tailored to what you value. So what 0:17:49.800 --> 0:17:55.720 I find hard about meeting new people is I can't 0:17:55.880 --> 0:17:57.480 ask you if you're funny. 0:17:58.080 --> 0:18:01.120 Like or because everyone would say yes. 0:18:01.000 --> 0:18:04.840 Yeah, and it's and you need to kind of test 0:18:04.920 --> 0:18:08.800 the waters. So I think, what do you find funny? 0:18:09.600 --> 0:18:14.160 Because it's a compilation of people falling over Then don't worry, 0:18:14.400 --> 0:18:18.040 don't You're so right, We're done. The other one is 0:18:18.160 --> 0:18:20.920 who is your favorite family member? Who is your least 0:18:20.960 --> 0:18:25.040 favorite and why? Because I want to hear the weirdness 0:18:25.040 --> 0:18:28.040 of your family. I need to know how you see 0:18:28.080 --> 0:18:32.320 other people that even your least favorite family member, that 0:18:32.440 --> 0:18:35.960 you see some humor in that and your favorite family member, 0:18:36.119 --> 0:18:39.040 like why are they? Are they the rogus person in 0:18:39.040 --> 0:18:43.520 your family? I need some details. Also, what's your take 0:18:43.520 --> 0:18:44.760 on the Beckham family fuse? 0:18:45.720 --> 0:18:47.959 Like, take me a long time to unpack that? 0:18:48.760 --> 0:18:54.280 Where do you sit? Explain who you were in kindergarten? Yeah? 0:18:54.359 --> 0:18:56.879 I actually thought that one of the good photos to 0:18:56.960 --> 0:19:00.480 send would be the official an official school primary photos, 0:19:01.160 --> 0:19:04.639 because you can you can learn a lot about somebody 0:19:04.680 --> 0:19:05.680 just by looking at that, and. 0:19:05.640 --> 0:19:07.560 You can judge what your future kids might look like. 0:19:07.680 --> 0:19:10.040 Yeah, I think that's actually I think that's a good one. 0:19:10.160 --> 0:19:11.879 I reckon, send me a picture of you in the 0:19:12.240 --> 0:19:13.240 from primary school. 0:19:13.400 --> 0:19:17.960 And I have always thought that the older you get, 0:19:18.400 --> 0:19:20.639 the older you get, I reckon, you get closer to 0:19:20.640 --> 0:19:23.119 who you were in kindergarten. Maybe, so if you're like, 0:19:23.400 --> 0:19:26.280 describe who you were in kindergarten. I want the person 0:19:26.320 --> 0:19:28.560