WEBVTT - Why Leigh Sales Really Quit

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot, you don't know about lee sales sure.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that she's possibly the most outstanding journalist of

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<v Speaker 1>her generation, but she's been hosting the abc's flagship news

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<v Speaker 1>and current affairs program 7 30 for 12 years where

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<v Speaker 1>she's interviewed five sitting prime ministers, several ex prime ministers

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<v Speaker 1>and every celebrity and sports person you've ever heard of.

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<v Speaker 1>You also probably know that she's Australia's most famous redhead

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<v Speaker 1>and that she's a podcast icon. Thanks to the show

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<v Speaker 1>that she co hosts with her friend Annabelle crab called

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<v Speaker 1>chat 10 Looks Three. You might also know that she's

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<v Speaker 1>written several best selling books, including any ordinary day. I

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<v Speaker 1>bought at least a dozen copies of that book to

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<v Speaker 1>give to people after they've experienced sudden tragedies because it

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<v Speaker 1>is one of the most brilliant and helpful books that

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever read. All that stuff. It's well and truly

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<v Speaker 1>on the public record.

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<v Speaker 1>But do you know that she's a single mother, that

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<v Speaker 1>she nearly died during childbirth, that she knows virtually nothing

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<v Speaker 1>about sport, but has had amusing text banter with everyone

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<v Speaker 1>from Shane warne to Justin Langer after she interviewed them

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<v Speaker 1>or that she nearly lost her mind with excitement when

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<v Speaker 1>she got to interview paul McCartney because you also probably

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know that she is a massive music nerd and

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<v Speaker 1>she loves nothing more than to open her piano at

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<v Speaker 1>home and bang out a show tune.

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<v Speaker 1>You probably didn't know that both john howard and Malcolm

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<v Speaker 1>Turnbull both called her to express their condolences after her

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<v Speaker 1>father died very suddenly a few years ago

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<v Speaker 1>And did you know that she didn't use serums until

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of weeks ago when I shamed her into

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<v Speaker 1>taking better care of her skin at age 48 and

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<v Speaker 1>demanded that she started using both vitamin C and retinol.

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<v Speaker 1>I know a lot about lee sales because after meeting

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<v Speaker 1>on twitter around a decade ago, she has become one

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<v Speaker 1>of my closest and most beloved friends. This is the

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<v Speaker 1>fourth time she's been a guest on no filter and

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<v Speaker 1>not even Glennon Doyle or Liz Gilbert has been on

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<v Speaker 1>that many times, which says a lot about how interestingly

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<v Speaker 1>sales is. So why again,

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<v Speaker 1>What everyone wants to know most about Lee sales right

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<v Speaker 1>now is why she's leaving the most high profile and

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<v Speaker 1>prestigious job in Australian journalism. Why is she walking away

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<v Speaker 1>from hosting 730 when she is in arguably on top

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<v Speaker 1>of her game. Is it the trolls, is it work

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<v Speaker 1>life balance? Was she canceled?

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<v Speaker 1>Is she in fact having extensive plastic surgery so that

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<v Speaker 1>she can retreat from the public eye for a life

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<v Speaker 1>of anonymity,

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<v Speaker 1>lee sales. The people have questions and I'm here to

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<v Speaker 1>ask them.

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<v Speaker 1>When did you find out that you were going to

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<v Speaker 1>be the host of 7 30? Do you remember the

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<v Speaker 1>day

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<v Speaker 2>I do? It was late 2010, I think it was

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<v Speaker 2>maybe late November 2010

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<v Speaker 2>and I had some talks with Mark's got the head

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<v Speaker 2>of the abc at the time and kate Tony who

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<v Speaker 2>was the head of news at the time and I

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't 100% sure that they wanted me to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>And then kate rang me to say we'd like you

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<v Speaker 2>to do it and we'd like to be the political editor.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was kind of a new broom coming through

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<v Speaker 2>and it was thrilling because you know, it's such a

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<v Speaker 2>big and key job, but it was also scary because

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<v Speaker 2>I was coming in behind Kerry O'brien who had been

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<v Speaker 2>doing it for a really, really long time and I

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<v Speaker 2>have such a different kind of vibe to carry. It

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<v Speaker 2>was like, okay, this is going to be hard. And

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<v Speaker 2>I remember saying to Mark and kate,

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<v Speaker 2>I need you to agree that you'll back me in

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<v Speaker 2>for three years because I think the audience will need

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<v Speaker 2>three years to adapt to having a new person there

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<v Speaker 2>because even, you know, when someone good is replaced by

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<v Speaker 2>somebody good change is hard for television audiences and so

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<v Speaker 2>they were great. So I started out with a three

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<v Speaker 2>year contract so that I had that assurance and it

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<v Speaker 2>was really good.

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<v Speaker 1>But what if you'd been a bit shit

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<v Speaker 2>then, I guess they would have found a way out

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<v Speaker 2>of

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<v Speaker 1>it.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it something that you had to audition for? Were

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<v Speaker 1>there a few people in the running for it? What

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<v Speaker 1>were you doing before you took that role?

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<v Speaker 2>So before I was doing it, I was hosting Late

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<v Speaker 2>Line and this was a show that used to go

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<v Speaker 2>to air at 10 30 at night and it was

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<v Speaker 2>shared between myself and Tony jones. He hosted Late Line

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<v Speaker 2>and Q and A. And I did the other days

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<v Speaker 2>of Late Line. And it was a program not dissimilar

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<v Speaker 2>to 7 30 but longer and it had longer interviews.

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<v Speaker 2>So the interviews would always be about 15 minutes,

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<v Speaker 2>which for 7 30 15 minutes is usually something really major.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I had the head of the reserve bank the

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<v Speaker 2>other day and that was 15 minutes late line, everyone,

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<v Speaker 2>15 minutes. So I was having a lot of practice

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<v Speaker 2>of doing the kinds of things that you do on

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<v Speaker 2>7 30 on late line. So I guess that was

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<v Speaker 2>just an on air, maybe an off broadway kind of audition.

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<v Speaker 2>They knew my work, so I didn't have to audition.

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<v Speaker 2>And usually I think when you get to this level,

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<v Speaker 2>you're only being looked at if you work very well

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<v Speaker 2>known already. And so it was just a case of

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<v Speaker 2>us talking through what I thought of the show at

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<v Speaker 2>the time and what I would like to do. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it kind of went from there. So it was just

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<v Speaker 2>a conversation really.

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<v Speaker 1>It was obviously a big commitment in terms of four

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<v Speaker 1>days a week. What are the hours of 7:30?

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<v Speaker 2>So it's kind of,

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<v Speaker 2>You know, like a lot of media jobs, it's 24/7 really?

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<v Speaker 2>So I wake up in the morning and I immediately

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<v Speaker 2>have to check what's in the news because the mornings

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<v Speaker 2>when you set up the day. So if you need

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<v Speaker 2>reporters on stories straight away or if you need to

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<v Speaker 2>get bids in for people, that's when you're doing.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's quite a busy time from about 66 30.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm looking at a lot of newspapers and making calls

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<v Speaker 2>and juggling that now with my kids. And then nine

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<v Speaker 2>am we have an editorial conference call where we're talking

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<v Speaker 2>about what might be on the show and what our

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<v Speaker 2>options are. And then between usually about 9 15 and

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<v Speaker 2>11 o'clock or so. And that's my kind of quiet

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<v Speaker 2>time where I can usually go to the GM or

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<v Speaker 2>do something, depends what I've got going on

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<v Speaker 2>and then things start changing. So, for example, I kept

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<v Speaker 2>you waiting because I was on the phone to the

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<v Speaker 2>executive producer because we just got word that one interview

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<v Speaker 2>we were going for is not happening. But another one is.

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<v Speaker 2>And so Clay, who's acting at the moment, wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>have a quick chat to me about what he thought

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<v Speaker 2>we should touch on the interview. And I was talking

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<v Speaker 2>about what I thought, so now that I know that

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<v Speaker 2>that's my interview, it'll be okay. Now I prep for

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<v Speaker 2>that and then I'm simultaneously prepping for an interview tomorrow

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<v Speaker 2>with Dylan Alcott? So trying to get that out of

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<v Speaker 2>the way

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<v Speaker 2>and then juggling whatever else is on the show and

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<v Speaker 2>then I'll have to make up about four my interviews

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<v Speaker 2>at 5 15 today. And then once I've done that interview,

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<v Speaker 2>then I have a look at the leads for the

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<v Speaker 2>other stories and any other content and we talk about

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<v Speaker 2>any other issues. You might have a quick chat about

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<v Speaker 2>what's coming up tomorrow and then you do the show

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<v Speaker 2>live and then off you go. But between now, 11

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<v Speaker 2>37 30 tonight, all of that could be completely out

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<v Speaker 2>the window because it's dictated by news events. So it's

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<v Speaker 2>a rolling, movable face, basically

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<v Speaker 1>when I prepped for our conversation today, my prep involved

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<v Speaker 1>asking in a group chat with you and two other

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<v Speaker 1>of our friends who are journalists, what should my first

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<v Speaker 1>question be?

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<v Speaker 1>How is that different to your process when you're say

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<v Speaker 1>interviewing anyone?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what I actually think what you did.

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<v Speaker 2>That is a great process because particularly if you talk

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<v Speaker 2>to people who, like, let's say for you, maybe what's

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<v Speaker 2>that group, you think, okay, women like that? That's the

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<v Speaker 2>audience for this podcast. So what they're interested in knowing

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<v Speaker 2>from lee is what my audience would be interested in knowing.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm doing this.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a very similar thing for 7 30 which is

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<v Speaker 2>I'm thinking, what would the average person sitting at home

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<v Speaker 2>who watches my show like me to ask if they're

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<v Speaker 2>in my position. So I say for example, I mentioned

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<v Speaker 2>earlier that I interviewed last week, the Governor of the

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<v Speaker 2>Reserve Bank feel though it's unprecedented basically for him to

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<v Speaker 2>do a Tv interview like that. So I was thinking okay,

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<v Speaker 2>what are people thinking about and how I inform myself

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<v Speaker 2>for that is I talk to my friends who are

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<v Speaker 2>in politics and the media, I have lots of conversations

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<v Speaker 2>with if I'm at the local cafe, the guy who's

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<v Speaker 2>working behind there are asking, how is business going? And

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<v Speaker 2>is he worried about interest rates or if I'm sitting

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<v Speaker 2>in a doctor's surgery or if I'm in a cab

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<v Speaker 2>or what,

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<v Speaker 2>I just talked to people all the time so that

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<v Speaker 2>I have a sense of what regular people think about,

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<v Speaker 2>not people like me who consume media all day every day.

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<v Speaker 2>So I guess it's the equivalent of like a WhatsApp

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<v Speaker 2>group chat, but just on a bigger kind of real

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<v Speaker 2>life scale,

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<v Speaker 1>you interview everyone from Prime Ministers to sports people to

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<v Speaker 1>the Beatles. You know, paul McCartney, there are some of

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<v Speaker 1>those topics that you know more about and some of

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<v Speaker 1>those that you know less about the sport. How do

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<v Speaker 1>you prep like, you know, on the day of the

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<v Speaker 1>Melbourne Cup, you usually have to interview the winner. How

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<v Speaker 1>do you prep for that? You know nothing about horse racing.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what's really embarrassing?

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<v Speaker 2>I reckon if you went back and watched all my

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<v Speaker 2>Melbourne Cup interviews over the years, it's probably about the

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<v Speaker 2>same four questions. It'll be like, what was going through

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<v Speaker 2>your mind in that final 100 m and? Well, it's

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<v Speaker 2>just such an amazing thing to win. I mean, you

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<v Speaker 2>must be so thrilled, but it's kind of like prepping

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<v Speaker 2>for anything in that everyone always has their own individual story. So,

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<v Speaker 2>with Melbourne Cup, it's always a real relief if you

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<v Speaker 2>discover that

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<v Speaker 2>the jockeys just come back from an accident or Michelle

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<v Speaker 2>Payne was the best ever because it was a female

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<v Speaker 2>jockey and her brother was this trapper and their dad

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<v Speaker 2>and their mom had died was a great story. So

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<v Speaker 2>you had a lot to work with where it's sport

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<v Speaker 2>is harder for me, if it's more technical about what

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<v Speaker 2>was involved in the race rather than the person's human story.

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<v Speaker 2>And usually I'm trying to pull it onto the human

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<v Speaker 2>terrain

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<v Speaker 2>and not everyone at home knows about the intricacies of

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<v Speaker 2>horse racing, they want to connect with the story as

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<v Speaker 2>a human being. And I think, you know, whether it's

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<v Speaker 2>the governor of the Reserve bank or the person who

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<v Speaker 2>run the Melbourne Cup, if you can find a way

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<v Speaker 2>to talk on a level that everyone else who's not

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<v Speaker 2>an expert in that field can relate to, then you're

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<v Speaker 2>on much better terrain. So for example, sometimes I'll send

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<v Speaker 2>back when I was more in news and occasionally I'm

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<v Speaker 2>feeling as a news reader,

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<v Speaker 2>I sometimes send back a lead to people in support

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<v Speaker 2>because I go, I can't even tell what sport this

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<v Speaker 2>is about because it would be the boomers smashed the

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<v Speaker 2>opals in a thrilling touchdown. What sport is this and

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<v Speaker 2>say there's so much jargon in sport and so much

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<v Speaker 2>knowledge and same with finance, like the footsie and hung

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<v Speaker 2>what like I don't know what that means.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's always about walking in the shoes of the

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<v Speaker 1>audience and not bringing assumed knowledge.

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<v Speaker 2>I think so or some things you can kind of

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<v Speaker 2>assume I guess like you can assume that people know

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<v Speaker 2>who Shane warne is maybe, but maybe you want to

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<v Speaker 2>try to explain why is Shane warne such a famous cricketer,

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<v Speaker 2>Like people who

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know about cricket, they might not quite understand

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<v Speaker 2>what made him different to a regular cricketer. So I

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<v Speaker 2>try really hard, particularly with subjects I know really well,

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<v Speaker 2>like say foreign policy or trashy television, try not assume

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<v Speaker 2>that everybody else knows. What do I know about it

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<v Speaker 1>when you're interviewing those people,

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<v Speaker 1>it's only politicians who are the ones that usually push back.

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<v Speaker 1>Although that's maybe not true. You've had to do some,

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<v Speaker 1>I won't say antagonistic, but usually when you're interviewing someone

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<v Speaker 1>they won't try and deliberately mislead, you divert you filibuster

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<v Speaker 1>you what are the specific approaches that you need to

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<v Speaker 1>take when you're interviewing a politician.

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<v Speaker 2>So a politician usually defers to a regular interviewee in that,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, that they're not going to engage in an

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<v Speaker 2>open kind of way, you know, they're not going to

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<v Speaker 2>let you in on everything that's going on behind the scenes,

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<v Speaker 2>they're going to have a message that they're going to

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<v Speaker 2>want to try to get out. And sometimes it's interesting

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<v Speaker 2>to know what their message is. So safe for exam,

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<v Speaker 2>Anthony Albanese is due to come on 7 30 next

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<v Speaker 2>week for his first interview as Prime Minister. And so

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't interviewed him before. He hasn't been in the

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<v Speaker 2>job long, so he doesn't have a record. So it

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<v Speaker 2>won't be an interview where it's not an accountability interview,

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<v Speaker 2>where he's not going to be under pressure. Like a

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<v Speaker 2>regular political interview, it'll be an interview where I'm trying

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<v Speaker 2>to actually hear what Anthony Albanese

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<v Speaker 2>messages and what his ambitions are for his term, because

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<v Speaker 2>if I were remaining as anchor of 7 30 I'd

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<v Speaker 2>be using that interview for the next three years as

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<v Speaker 2>my kind of flag poles in the ground interview to see, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>right at the start, you said that this is what

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<v Speaker 2>you wanted to do and what you wanted to achieve.

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<v Speaker 2>You are at point A and now we're at point

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<v Speaker 2>z how did you get so far off what you

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<v Speaker 2>said you were going to do, kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So sometimes you do want to hear what their message

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<v Speaker 2>is and what they're saying and then other times you

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<v Speaker 2>want to get to the bottom of a change in

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<v Speaker 2>policy or something that they've done wrong and so I'll

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<v Speaker 2>try to arm myself with facts to then rebut what

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<v Speaker 2>I think there's been, you know, might be, whereas with

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<v Speaker 2>a normal person say preferred politicians is not normal,

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<v Speaker 2>but like Dylan Alcott for example, I mentioned before that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm prepping for an interview tomorrow. Now Dylan Alcott is

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<v Speaker 2>a really great talker. He's very charismatic and charming. And

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<v Speaker 2>so I assume if I ask interesting, engaging questions that

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<v Speaker 2>perk up Dylan's interest and if we have nice rapport

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<v Speaker 2>that I'm not going to have to work very hard

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<v Speaker 2>as an interviewer, I'm just going to

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<v Speaker 2>have to give him a gentle steer in the right direction.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen to what he's saying and respond so that it

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<v Speaker 2>feels like a natural kind of conversation. So every interview

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<v Speaker 2>that I go into, I'm thinking, okay, what's the tone

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<v Speaker 2>I need with this? How do I make this person

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<v Speaker 2>feel at ease or how do I achieve? You know, again,

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<v Speaker 2>what the average person at home might want to see

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<v Speaker 2>out of this interview

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<v Speaker 1>when you went from being I guess a working journalist

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<v Speaker 1>to being more of a star journalist when you started

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<v Speaker 1>hosting 7 30 you were in people's lounge rooms four

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<v Speaker 1>nights a week plus on all the promo s plus

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<v Speaker 1>in the media everywhere and ads and all of those things,

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<v Speaker 1>When did you notice the transition between people? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I imagine you had a little bit of it when

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<v Speaker 1>you were hosting Late line, but it was really like

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<v Speaker 1>prime time a list. How did you notice the transition

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<v Speaker 1>about how you were perceived, how people interacted with you

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<v Speaker 1>becoming a famous person?

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<v Speaker 2>So the longer I've done it, the more this has

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<v Speaker 2>become notable to me. So now I would rarely leave

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<v Speaker 2>the house and not have somebody come up to me

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<v Speaker 2>and want to chat to me, I want to have

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<v Speaker 2>a selfie or whatever. So whereas the first few years

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<v Speaker 2>I felt kind of like I still could go out

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<v Speaker 2>and not be noticed, maybe I was kidding myself, because

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes what happens is I'll sit in a cafe and

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<v Speaker 2>no one will say something, and then on social media

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<v Speaker 2>later someone might go, oh I just saw you sitting

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<v Speaker 2>in a cafe and I didn't want to say anything,

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<v Speaker 2>but you know, blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 2>So maybe I was more noticed than I thought, but

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<v Speaker 2>I have become very conscious of it and it might

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<v Speaker 2>also be because I'm leaving. So now people are just

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<v Speaker 2>so lovely because they want to come up and they

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<v Speaker 2>want to go, I just want to say thank you

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<v Speaker 2>very much and you know that kind of thing, and

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<v Speaker 2>also just the range of people now who come up

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<v Speaker 2>to me like it can be quite young people in

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<v Speaker 2>their late teens or early twenties, it can be older

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<v Speaker 2>people that you perceive as more traditional abc viewers was

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<v Speaker 2>walking down George Street the other night on a friday

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<v Speaker 2>night at about 10 30

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<v Speaker 2>and there was this group of young guys, I would

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<v Speaker 2>have never thought they knew who I was, and one

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<v Speaker 2>of them yelled out, oh my God, lisa, I love you,

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<v Speaker 2>it was just like, wow, I so did not receive

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<v Speaker 2>you guys as my demographic at the low, jeez, it's

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<v Speaker 2>often really weird because you're mixing with all these other

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<v Speaker 2>famous people from other networks and so the people who

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes out themselves as major fans is really surprising to me.

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<v Speaker 2>So one leg is a few years ago I was

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<v Speaker 2>going to the toilet and I bumped into Gary sweet

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<v Speaker 2>and he stopped him

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<v Speaker 2>like oh my God, I am, I cannot believe I

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<v Speaker 2>bumped into you, oh my God, I'm your biggest fan

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<v Speaker 2>and he was really awkward. And then this loge, do

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<v Speaker 2>you know the actor James Stewart who is on the way?

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<v Speaker 2>So georgie parker, like Australian television royalty came up to

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<v Speaker 2>me and went, I'm really sorry to disturb you but

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<v Speaker 2>James is your biggest fan and could he please get

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<v Speaker 2>a photo with you, I'll take it,

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<v Speaker 2>that's just like that's completely fine, no problem. And so

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<v Speaker 2>we got lee, oh my God, it's so great to

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<v Speaker 2>meet you, it's embarrassing. So he was just like, awkward

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<v Speaker 2>fan going and then we kind of moved through and

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<v Speaker 2>ended up colliding again at the other end and I

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<v Speaker 2>said to him, I'm just always amazed that somebody like

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<v Speaker 2>you would even know who I am.

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<v Speaker 2>And so he was like, mom raised us, right? We

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<v Speaker 2>watched 7 30 so yeah, so that was a classic.

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<v Speaker 2>So sometimes you kind of surprised by it was a

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<v Speaker 2>big fan. I remember interviewing Guy Pearce in 2011 when

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<v Speaker 2>I was first in the show and because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I grew up in that neighbors era, you know, he

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<v Speaker 2>was such a heartthrob when we were kids. And when

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<v Speaker 2>I walked in, he clearly was a massive viewer and

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<v Speaker 2>fan of Late line and to the degree where he

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<v Speaker 2>was like, he was still married at the time he

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<v Speaker 2>was saying,

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<v Speaker 2>okay. And I noticed that you've changed your hair and

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<v Speaker 2>you used to have the short bob on late line,

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<v Speaker 2>They've grown longer and we're wondering why, because I looked

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<v Speaker 2>too much like Julia Gillard with the short red bob.

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<v Speaker 2>We sat around yapping for ages after the interview. And

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<v Speaker 2>then we caught up again in 2018, he's just a

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<v Speaker 2>religious viewer, 7 30

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<v Speaker 2>and then we stayed friends because we just hit it

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<v Speaker 2>off and we were buddies. So my mind, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my God, Guy Pearce is sitting on film sets

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<v Speaker 2>around the world watching, you know, 7 30 every opportunity candle.

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<v Speaker 2>Ben Mendelson is another person who one time we had

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<v Speaker 2>a story and this is lovely when this kind of

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<v Speaker 2>thing happens. Ben Mendelson was in the U. S. Shooting,

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<v Speaker 2>what was the show? Whether it was in the luxury

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<v Speaker 2>kind of hotel that the family runs and

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<v Speaker 2>oh the guy from friday night lights

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like swampy,

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<v Speaker 2>swampy, it's in florida blood,

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<v Speaker 1>something something blood

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<v Speaker 2>exactly bloodlines. And Ben Mendelsohn's the kind of way with Brother. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>we had this gorgeous story on the show about this

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<v Speaker 2>kind of disco that was being held for teenagers who

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<v Speaker 2>had disabilities, like all different kind of disabilities and it

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<v Speaker 2>was organized by one of the moms because she said

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<v Speaker 2>they're still teenagers, they still wanna meet somebody that they

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<v Speaker 2>might fancy and have a bit of romance in their

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<v Speaker 2>life but we can't let them go out like normal

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<v Speaker 2>teenagers to easily get taken advantage of and it's just

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<v Speaker 2>not safe. And so we created this disco for them,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a safe kind of space. And so they've got

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<v Speaker 2>a pager and a DJ and stuff. And the kids,

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<v Speaker 2>we had one of our producers Leslie Robinson follow these

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<v Speaker 2>kids through and it was just the most gorgeous story

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<v Speaker 2>and the kids were just so excited, it was just

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely adorable

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<v Speaker 2>and the mom, you know she only had money to

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<v Speaker 2>do one and then Ben Mendelson saw it watching in L. A.

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<v Speaker 2>And he got in contact with us and said I'll

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<v Speaker 2>pay for another one like just get it organized and

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<v Speaker 2>I'll pay for the whole thing. So they then have

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<v Speaker 2>a second one that Ben shouted, he did an interview

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<v Speaker 2>a few

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<v Speaker 2>years later about something and I actually asked him before

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<v Speaker 2>the interview can I ask you about that on camera?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I think it's a great message to send to

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<v Speaker 2>people of means if you see something on our show

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<v Speaker 2>and you can make a difference we'll just ring us

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<v Speaker 2>and you know you can. And so Ben talked about

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<v Speaker 2>how he watched it and he was really touched by

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<v Speaker 2>it and he just thought

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<v Speaker 2>I can spare 5000 bucks to do that. And he

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<v Speaker 2>said to other people they should, I won't name them

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<v Speaker 2>because I don't want to embarrass them. But there's a

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<v Speaker 2>well known quite well loved Australian businessman who often gets

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<v Speaker 2>in touch to say you know families who have lost

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<v Speaker 2>their homes or whatever, he'll pay their rent for six months.

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<v Speaker 2>And so that's really heartening when that kind of thing happens.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there anyone at the luggage that you were fan

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<v Speaker 1>girling

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<v Speaker 2>over? Um

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<v Speaker 2>Often it's the kids people that kids entertained because it

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<v Speaker 2>thrills my kids if they see me with. So I

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<v Speaker 2>had with him a legal and I was chatting to

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<v Speaker 2>Hamish blake, I didn't take a photo with Hamish but

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<v Speaker 2>they love lego masters. So I've said to Hamish you

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<v Speaker 2>know you have to come over for dinner sometime didn't

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<v Speaker 2>want the kids are going to basically monopolizing and hide

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<v Speaker 2>him in the bedroom the entire period to build, but

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<v Speaker 2>it probably would be fine with that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So it's usually the kids, people jimmy giggle. I've

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<v Speaker 2>got one here and I just text the photos for

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<v Speaker 2>the kids

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<v Speaker 1>when obviously people recognizing you in public, you're in a

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<v Speaker 1>cafe or whatever, it's fine. There's been some times when

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<v Speaker 1>you've been in very vulnerable situations like when you nearly

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<v Speaker 1>died giving birth,

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<v Speaker 1>what's that? Like? Do you have an awareness in situations

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<v Speaker 1>where you are really powerless or vulnerable or in a

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<v Speaker 1>really private situation that happens to be public is your

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<v Speaker 1>celebrity in the room?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And because I never assume that people know who

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<v Speaker 2>I am because I think that would just be up myself.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't want to say things like, oh look,

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<v Speaker 2>I need an extra level of privacy because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm famous. So I usually am hoping that someone else

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<v Speaker 2>might intervene on my behalf and say, you know, we

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<v Speaker 2>might prefer to be, you know, blah, blah, blah.

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<v Speaker 2>And people normally are very respectful. Like I was in

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<v Speaker 2>hospital one time with my son who was in hospital,

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<v Speaker 2>there was a family in the bed next to us,

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<v Speaker 2>a little boy who had a tumor and

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<v Speaker 2>the mother recognized me, but she didn't raise it with me.

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<v Speaker 2>She raised it with my son's father and she clearly

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<v Speaker 2>didn't want to kind of raise it. It kind of

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<v Speaker 2>made me feel a little bit awkward, but it also

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<v Speaker 2>made me feel good because she knew who I was,

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<v Speaker 2>because she was a fan of chat town, looks through

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<v Speaker 2>the podcast I do with Annabelle and she listened to that.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I got on the phone to Gwen, who

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<v Speaker 2>does our merchandise and said, oh there's this because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I've been hearing like a little boy was in a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of pain,

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<v Speaker 2>I said to Gwen, can you just quickly like bang

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<v Speaker 2>together a merchandise pack of chat 10 Kia that I

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<v Speaker 2>can give to the mom and say my ex husband

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<v Speaker 2>actually took it in and gave it to her and

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think I actually spoke to her after she

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<v Speaker 2>knew who I was, he said, oh she nearly cried,

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<v Speaker 2>like she was so happy about it. And so that

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<v Speaker 2>this stuff is really nice if you feel like, because

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<v Speaker 2>you just know that someone's having the bloody worst few

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<v Speaker 2>days of their life and so if you can sling

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<v Speaker 2>them a stupid apron with my ugly mug on it,

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<v Speaker 2>like that makes you feel kind of good. But then

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<v Speaker 2>other times, I remember once in the street, a woman

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<v Speaker 2>stopped me and she said,

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<v Speaker 2>oh it was a nurse and you know when you're

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<v Speaker 2>in intensive care and I remember, you know, you're asleep

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<v Speaker 2>and I said to another nurse, oh my God, it's

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<v Speaker 2>the sales and it was like, I felt like actually

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<v Speaker 2>kind of, but it was gigantically inappropriate,

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<v Speaker 1>you

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<v Speaker 2>Know, times out of 100 people are just really awesome

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<v Speaker 2>to me and they are very respectful and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not someone who pops up in the Gossip columns.

0:23:07.000 --> 0:23:11.680
<v Speaker 1>A million people watch 7, 34 nights a week, millions

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<v Speaker 1>of people watch you on big ticket items like the

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<v Speaker 1>election coverage.

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<v Speaker 1>You are one of the most recognizable faces in Australia

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<v Speaker 1>and yet you're not in the gossip columns.

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<v Speaker 1>Why not?

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<v Speaker 2>I think because I'm pretty boring and also I just

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<v Speaker 2>try to keep myself under the radar. So I do

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<v Speaker 2>go to, you know, the occasional opening night of things,

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't like for example, I don't go out

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<v Speaker 2>to cool places with dates, you know, like I go

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<v Speaker 2>to daddy suburban pubs and you know, things like that.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think that the kind of life I live

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't really invite, you know, I don't live in Bondi

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<v Speaker 2>for example. I don't, I'm not eating out at Potts

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<v Speaker 2>point all the time. Like I'm not in places very

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<v Speaker 2>often where you be seen.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I do go to pains to not have

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<v Speaker 2>details about my family and private life out there because

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's not fair on the people around me.

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<v Speaker 2>So I do work pretty hard to not be saying

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<v Speaker 2>with people and you know, to be honest, not that

0:24:15.440 --> 0:24:16.980
<v Speaker 2>I date an endless parade

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<v Speaker 2>of people, but I don't want my kids ever googling

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<v Speaker 2>oh there's one with that guy and there's one with

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<v Speaker 2>that guy, there's one with that guy, like I just

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<v Speaker 2>would rather keep all of my private business private. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I think I just keep it under the radar.

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<v Speaker 1>You got quietly divorced a few years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>no meal dramas there. How does someone date lee sales

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<v Speaker 1>like what sort of guy has the confidence to ask

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<v Speaker 1>you out?

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<v Speaker 2>I think you've got to be reasonably confident to actually

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<v Speaker 2>do that. But I also think that most people, once

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<v Speaker 2>they meet me and kind of get to know me,

0:24:53.140 --> 0:24:57.620
<v Speaker 2>I think fairly rapidly, I'm not very intimidating. I think

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<v Speaker 2>what people find hard sometimes is the way other people

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<v Speaker 2>interact with them. So for example, I've been out with

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<v Speaker 2>men where people have said to them, wow, you must

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<v Speaker 2>have felt intimidated at asking lee out and so

0:25:11.650 --> 0:25:14.810
<v Speaker 2>the message that they're getting is you're punching above your

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<v Speaker 2>weight and I think that's a hard message for men

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<v Speaker 2>to get and so, you know, that's not the message

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<v Speaker 2>I give people that I'm in relationships with or dating,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think that they sometimes feel very heavily scrutinized

0:25:28.220 --> 0:25:31.880
<v Speaker 2>and I know even my husband things like checking somewhere

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<v Speaker 2>to be

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<v Speaker 2>Mr and mrs sales or whatever, which isn't his name.

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<v Speaker 2>So just this assumption that the person is kind of

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<v Speaker 2>just your add on and sometimes they're treated a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit like that. I think that can be kind of

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<v Speaker 2>confronting for people and just the level of people looking

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<v Speaker 2>you up. Like literally looking you up and down, like

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<v Speaker 2>spotting me and then looking the purse

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<v Speaker 2>up and down again. There's nothing you can really do

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<v Speaker 2>about its natural kind of human curiosity. But I often

0:26:00.110 --> 0:26:03.370
<v Speaker 2>feel sorry for people that I'm with in that situation.

0:26:03.370 --> 0:26:05.970
<v Speaker 2>And so for example, say red carpet events, I generally

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<v Speaker 2>would prefer to take a friend because I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to subject some poor bugger to that level of scrutiny.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you take a date to the Oscars?

0:26:17.890 --> 0:26:20.400
<v Speaker 2>No, you don't. You don't get to take a partner

0:26:20.400 --> 0:26:21.570
<v Speaker 2>to the ladies unless you're

0:26:23.870 --> 0:26:27.090
<v Speaker 1>I'm Mia Freedman and you're listening to no filter with

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<v Speaker 1>Leigh sales.

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<v Speaker 1>So the time that you've been hosting on 7:30, the

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<v Speaker 1>world's changed in terms of social media

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<v Speaker 1>and as a journalist and a working journalist,

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<v Speaker 1>how have you seen that change? How have you experienced

0:26:46.840 --> 0:26:49.490
<v Speaker 1>that change? Because back in the day it used to be,

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<v Speaker 1>if someone had a problem, they would, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>ring the abc or they would write a letter which

0:26:54.520 --> 0:26:56.830
<v Speaker 1>they would have to get a stamp for. And then

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<v Speaker 1>of course there was email. Now the whole performative side

0:27:01.180 --> 0:27:04.380
<v Speaker 1>of things has come in with social media, How have

0:27:04.380 --> 0:27:07.380
<v Speaker 1>you experienced that shift? Like when do you remember thinking,

0:27:07.380 --> 0:27:08.500
<v Speaker 1>oh this is different.

0:27:09.690 --> 0:27:12.370
<v Speaker 2>I definitely remember this is a long time ago back

0:27:12.370 --> 0:27:17.610
<v Speaker 2>in 2005 being just blown away by changing technology, I

0:27:17.610 --> 0:27:20.080
<v Speaker 2>was covering Hurricane Katrina and my producer at the time

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<v Speaker 2>was an American guy called Jason Rocky.

0:27:22.270 --> 0:27:25.770
<v Speaker 2>And we were at New Orleans airport and we went

0:27:25.770 --> 0:27:29.190
<v Speaker 2>outside onto like a kind of grassy area outside the

0:27:29.190 --> 0:27:31.890
<v Speaker 2>airport and he had you know what we would now

0:27:31.890 --> 0:27:34.440
<v Speaker 2>think it's just like a wireless total that he shoved

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<v Speaker 2>into the USB on the side of laptop and we

0:27:36.340 --> 0:27:39.100
<v Speaker 2>filed voice reports and we sent them from the field.

0:27:39.110 --> 0:27:40.900
<v Speaker 2>Now that was the first time ever that I hadn't

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<v Speaker 2>had to go back to find a phone line to

0:27:42.870 --> 0:27:46.200
<v Speaker 2>plug into to send audio material back.

0:27:46.410 --> 0:27:50.880
<v Speaker 2>And I remember thinking this is unbelievable, this is a

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<v Speaker 2>complete game changer.

0:27:53.030 --> 0:27:54.870
<v Speaker 2>And so that for me was a real moment of

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<v Speaker 2>thinking how much things changed I think then technology moved

0:27:58.480 --> 0:28:01.400
<v Speaker 2>really fast. But then of course during the pandemic when

0:28:01.400 --> 0:28:05.190
<v Speaker 2>we all had to adapt to using technology differently, even

0:28:05.190 --> 0:28:07.100
<v Speaker 2>the way you and I are doing this podcast now,

0:28:07.100 --> 0:28:09.820
<v Speaker 2>I'm sitting at my house, you're in your office, it's

0:28:09.820 --> 0:28:12.540
<v Speaker 2>all professionally recorded. Like we've all had to learn to

0:28:12.540 --> 0:28:15.010
<v Speaker 2>do that. I did 730 out of my bedroom down

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<v Speaker 2>the hallway. So that was another moment of thinking, wow,

0:28:19.120 --> 0:28:21.580
<v Speaker 2>this is an incredible update.

0:28:21.910 --> 0:28:25.200
<v Speaker 2>And then also of course there's been the rise of

0:28:25.210 --> 0:28:30.400
<v Speaker 2>social media and I think probably around it's definitely been

0:28:30.400 --> 0:28:34.510
<v Speaker 2>since my colleague Mark Coleman died, which was in 2017

0:28:34.520 --> 0:28:36.470
<v Speaker 2>because I remember when mark was alive, we were never

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<v Speaker 2>talking about Twitter being a nasty vicious kind of place

0:28:40.730 --> 0:28:43.530
<v Speaker 2>and that it wasn't hyper partisan and mark was like

0:28:43.530 --> 0:28:46.000
<v Speaker 2>a very very voracious user of Twitter.

0:28:46.230 --> 0:28:49.530
<v Speaker 2>And so it's definitely happened since then. So in my

0:28:49.530 --> 0:28:53.970
<v Speaker 2>head I think something's changed marc died where that platform

0:28:53.970 --> 0:28:58.190
<v Speaker 2>in particular has become just a kind of hate fueled

0:28:58.200 --> 0:29:00.810
<v Speaker 2>hyper partisan sort of place.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I think that what's happened is that platform

0:29:05.980 --> 0:29:08.970
<v Speaker 2>which really I don't know anyone on it other than

0:29:08.980 --> 0:29:12.250
<v Speaker 2>journals like in my world say for example, you know

0:29:12.260 --> 0:29:15.980
<v Speaker 2>I come from Brisbane, my friends range from teachers to

0:29:15.980 --> 0:29:19.960
<v Speaker 2>police officers, secretaries, university workers and so on. None of

0:29:19.960 --> 0:29:22.050
<v Speaker 2>them are on twitter and none of them were aware

0:29:22.050 --> 0:29:24.180
<v Speaker 2>for example, of the level of abuse that gets meted

0:29:24.180 --> 0:29:26.990
<v Speaker 2>out at female journalists on twitter just for doing their job.

0:29:27.240 --> 0:29:29.410
<v Speaker 2>And so the only people who ever raised with me

0:29:29.410 --> 0:29:32.620
<v Speaker 2>twitter or abuse on twitter, social media abuse are actually

0:29:32.620 --> 0:29:36.260
<v Speaker 2>other journals because so many journals are on twitter and

0:29:36.260 --> 0:29:39.270
<v Speaker 2>so their assumption is oh this represents the world, everyone's

0:29:39.270 --> 0:29:42.900
<v Speaker 2>on twitter. Whereas the abc actually we did some research

0:29:42.900 --> 0:29:43.860
<v Speaker 2>last year and I think we've

0:29:43.870 --> 0:29:47.320
<v Speaker 2>found something like nine out of 100 people used twitter regularly,

0:29:47.330 --> 0:29:50.340
<v Speaker 2>hardly anybody is on their, when you think about it

0:29:50.340 --> 0:29:52.440
<v Speaker 2>as well that people who are particularly active who can

0:29:52.440 --> 0:29:55.450
<v Speaker 2>sit on a social media platform all day and commentate

0:29:55.450 --> 0:29:58.980
<v Speaker 2>on what's on abc news breakfast or commentate all day

0:29:58.980 --> 0:30:02.100
<v Speaker 2>on somebody's newspaper column. I mean what do you do

0:30:02.100 --> 0:30:03.910
<v Speaker 2>for a job or what's going on in your life

0:30:03.910 --> 0:30:06.170
<v Speaker 2>that actually you have that much time that you can

0:30:06.170 --> 0:30:09.540
<v Speaker 2>devote to that? So by its nature it can't possibly

0:30:09.540 --> 0:30:10.890
<v Speaker 2>be representative.

0:30:11.180 --> 0:30:14.910
<v Speaker 2>A lot of that stuff that I think preoccupies journalists

0:30:14.920 --> 0:30:17.780
<v Speaker 2>around the importance of twitter and what's trending on twitter

0:30:17.780 --> 0:30:20.090
<v Speaker 2>and what people are saying on twitter is actually not

0:30:20.090 --> 0:30:23.340
<v Speaker 2>very important and it's afforded way too much power and

0:30:23.340 --> 0:30:26.130
<v Speaker 2>influence in the media in my view based on how

0:30:26.130 --> 0:30:27.890
<v Speaker 2>much real people actually use it.

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<v Speaker 1>There's been a lot of erroneous reports around the fact

0:30:31.560 --> 0:30:34.320
<v Speaker 1>that you're leaving 7 30 because of twitter trolling. It's

0:30:34.320 --> 0:30:39.920
<v Speaker 1>a pretty easy story, I've actually never heard you complain

0:30:39.920 --> 0:30:42.470
<v Speaker 1>or be worried or do anything other than eye roll

0:30:42.470 --> 0:30:45.620
<v Speaker 1>about twitter trolls. How do you think this has sort

0:30:45.620 --> 0:30:47.520
<v Speaker 1>of become the narrative?

0:30:47.540 --> 0:30:50.830
<v Speaker 2>Well, I just think that again, because Jonah is on

0:30:50.830 --> 0:30:54.150
<v Speaker 2>twitter all the time and they would see, you know

0:30:54.150 --> 0:30:56.130
<v Speaker 2>the level of abuse that I get, they think that

0:30:56.140 --> 0:31:00.010
<v Speaker 2>oh it must be because you know, she's getting abused,

0:31:00.020 --> 0:31:02.870
<v Speaker 2>Hamish blake when I announced I was leaving, sent me

0:31:02.870 --> 0:31:06.760
<v Speaker 2>this really interesting and lovely text message and he said,

0:31:07.330 --> 0:31:10.610
<v Speaker 2>people often have a really hard time understanding when somebody's

0:31:10.610 --> 0:31:13.260
<v Speaker 2>choosing to leave a great job at the top of

0:31:13.260 --> 0:31:17.270
<v Speaker 2>their game of their own choosing. And he said, they

0:31:17.270 --> 0:31:19.400
<v Speaker 2>assume that there must be a secret reason, like you

0:31:19.400 --> 0:31:21.730
<v Speaker 2>must have a new job or a secret thing lined

0:31:21.730 --> 0:31:23.650
<v Speaker 2>up or there must be something secretly

0:31:23.660 --> 0:31:26.120
<v Speaker 2>going on in your life that nobody knows about or

0:31:26.120 --> 0:31:28.260
<v Speaker 2>you must be getting pushed. And he said, but when

0:31:28.260 --> 0:31:30.820
<v Speaker 2>I see someone announced what you've just announced, I feel

0:31:30.820 --> 0:31:33.650
<v Speaker 2>nothing but excitement for them, that they have taken control

0:31:33.650 --> 0:31:37.890
<v Speaker 2>of that situation, they've made an empowered decision. And now

0:31:37.900 --> 0:31:39.980
<v Speaker 2>there's fresh fields ahead and something to do.

0:31:40.330 --> 0:31:42.760
<v Speaker 2>And when I got it, I thought because my text

0:31:42.760 --> 0:31:45.410
<v Speaker 2>messages were just full of people going, oh my God, wow,

0:31:45.420 --> 0:31:50.440
<v Speaker 2>that's huge. And Hamish actually, I thought, yes, he 100%

0:31:50.450 --> 0:31:53.930
<v Speaker 2>gets it. He totally gets why I'm going. And so

0:31:53.930 --> 0:31:56.570
<v Speaker 2>I think a lot of people have been casting around

0:31:56.570 --> 0:31:59.140
<v Speaker 2>looking for what's the real reason because who could possibly

0:31:59.140 --> 0:32:02.260
<v Speaker 2>give up this job in the position she's in now,

0:32:02.270 --> 0:32:04.170
<v Speaker 2>but the reality is that I do

0:32:04.180 --> 0:32:06.460
<v Speaker 2>enjoy the job and I do really like it. But

0:32:06.460 --> 0:32:08.670
<v Speaker 2>I said to kate and Mark right at the start,

0:32:08.670 --> 0:32:11.270
<v Speaker 2>but I thought it was about a 10 year job

0:32:11.280 --> 0:32:13.190
<v Speaker 2>and I've been doing it now for coming up to

0:32:13.190 --> 0:32:17.970
<v Speaker 2>12 11.5. And so I never have wanted to be

0:32:17.970 --> 0:32:21.900
<v Speaker 2>somebody who waits till they're kind of stale and people

0:32:21.900 --> 0:32:24.460
<v Speaker 2>want them to go, I wanted to go when I

0:32:24.460 --> 0:32:28.030
<v Speaker 2>felt like I was at a really good position

0:32:28.210 --> 0:32:31.940
<v Speaker 2>and you know, I was incredibly grateful when I told

0:32:31.950 --> 0:32:34.760
<v Speaker 2>the head of the abc David Anderson and Justin Stephens

0:32:34.760 --> 0:32:36.750
<v Speaker 2>who was at the time that 7:30 p.m. Is now

0:32:36.750 --> 0:32:38.770
<v Speaker 2>the head of news and Gavin Fang, who was the

0:32:38.770 --> 0:32:41.910
<v Speaker 2>acting head of news, they all said variations of

0:32:42.420 --> 0:32:45.040
<v Speaker 2>is there anything we can say to change your mind? Like,

0:32:45.050 --> 0:32:46.630
<v Speaker 2>you know, we would love you to keep doing it,

0:32:46.640 --> 0:32:48.900
<v Speaker 2>but we assume that you've thought it through a lot

0:32:48.910 --> 0:32:52.540
<v Speaker 2>if you've come to us. And I really, really appreciated

0:32:52.540 --> 0:32:55.520
<v Speaker 2>that that was the response that I got. And that

0:32:55.530 --> 0:32:59.450
<v Speaker 2>actually helped me understand I've judged this right because what

0:32:59.450 --> 0:33:02.640
<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to ever go and then to go, great,

0:33:02.640 --> 0:33:05.520
<v Speaker 2>thank you so much because you know, they've wanted me

0:33:05.520 --> 0:33:10.060
<v Speaker 2>to disappear. And so honestly people keep asking me all

0:33:10.060 --> 0:33:11.320
<v Speaker 2>the time, you know,

0:33:11.410 --> 0:33:13.110
<v Speaker 2>what are you going to, what do you want to do?

0:33:13.110 --> 0:33:14.690
<v Speaker 2>And when I say, I don't know, I want to

0:33:14.690 --> 0:33:16.010
<v Speaker 2>have a break. I want to have a rest and

0:33:16.010 --> 0:33:19.490
<v Speaker 2>see what grows up. People have a hard time believing that.

0:33:19.490 --> 0:33:22.620
<v Speaker 2>So I keep reading this erroneous speculation as well about

0:33:22.620 --> 0:33:23.720
<v Speaker 2>what I'm going to do that. I'm going to do

0:33:23.720 --> 0:33:27.160
<v Speaker 2>a talk show. I've never pitched that the abc has

0:33:27.160 --> 0:33:29.870
<v Speaker 2>never offered it. There's been no discussion about it. I

0:33:29.870 --> 0:33:32.180
<v Speaker 2>actually think a show of that nature would not work

0:33:32.180 --> 0:33:36.060
<v Speaker 2>in Australia. So I'm not doing that the twitter stuff

0:33:36.060 --> 0:33:39.270
<v Speaker 2>like you know the Daily Telegraph on the weekend and

0:33:39.270 --> 0:33:40.390
<v Speaker 2>the herald sun

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<v Speaker 2>ran this story that was with a headline that was

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<v Speaker 2>an utter fabrication and it was in direct quotes saying

0:33:46.990 --> 0:33:50.030
<v Speaker 2>trolls forced me out of the job. I love it

0:33:50.030 --> 0:33:53.720
<v Speaker 2>is the literal exact opposite to what I said in

0:33:53.720 --> 0:33:55.830
<v Speaker 2>the actual interview to Sarah Lamarche

0:33:55.930 --> 0:33:59.710
<v Speaker 2>in Stella, which is that I ignore trolls. They don't

0:33:59.710 --> 0:34:01.820
<v Speaker 2>have any bearing on my real life. I care about

0:34:01.820 --> 0:34:03.910
<v Speaker 2>the opinions of people who matter to me and who

0:34:03.910 --> 0:34:07.350
<v Speaker 2>are important when I say that again, people find a

0:34:07.350 --> 0:34:09.570
<v Speaker 2>hard time believing that I get the level of abuse

0:34:09.570 --> 0:34:12.530
<v Speaker 2>I do and not care about. I really don't give

0:34:12.530 --> 0:34:17.900
<v Speaker 2>a stuff what some anonymous moron thinks about me online.

0:34:17.910 --> 0:34:21.950
<v Speaker 2>I just don't actually care and I'm not saying that

0:34:21.950 --> 0:34:23.660
<v Speaker 2>to try to put a

0:34:24.050 --> 0:34:28.320
<v Speaker 2>nice blush on it. However, I literally don't actually care.

0:34:28.330 --> 0:34:32.930
<v Speaker 2>So I think sometimes people have a hard time kind

0:34:32.930 --> 0:34:37.450
<v Speaker 2>of processing all of that. But the reality is I

0:34:37.450 --> 0:34:42.900
<v Speaker 2>am leaving because time's limited in life, right? I'm 49.

0:34:42.910 --> 0:34:45.350
<v Speaker 2>I have so many ideas all the time about things

0:34:45.350 --> 0:34:48.390
<v Speaker 2>I'd like to do. 7 30 is a massive job.

0:34:48.400 --> 0:34:50.700
<v Speaker 2>There's limited time to do those things and I mean

0:34:50.700 --> 0:34:52.790
<v Speaker 2>personal life things as well as work things

0:34:53.030 --> 0:34:55.990
<v Speaker 2>and so you know the clocks tick tick tick tick

0:34:55.990 --> 0:34:57.620
<v Speaker 2>ticking away all the time and I'm going to run

0:34:57.620 --> 0:35:00.020
<v Speaker 2>out of time to do everything I want to do.

0:35:00.030 --> 0:35:02.480
<v Speaker 2>And so it just feels like at the end of

0:35:02.480 --> 0:35:04.700
<v Speaker 2>an election cycle and after I've been doing it so

0:35:04.700 --> 0:35:07.670
<v Speaker 2>long and where I'm in this position where people still

0:35:07.680 --> 0:35:11.230
<v Speaker 2>respect me doing it, it feels like a great moment

0:35:11.230 --> 0:35:14.480
<v Speaker 2>to go, yes, I've done everything I can do there

0:35:14.490 --> 0:35:16.700
<v Speaker 2>and it's time to move on to a new challenge

0:35:16.700 --> 0:35:19.850
<v Speaker 2>and it literally is as simple as that.

0:35:20.280 --> 0:35:23.490
<v Speaker 1>The other narrative that people like whenever a powerful and

0:35:23.490 --> 0:35:24.770
<v Speaker 1>successful woman

0:35:24.780 --> 0:35:25.530
<v Speaker 2>decides

0:35:25.530 --> 0:35:27.460
<v Speaker 1>to make a change in her career is that you

0:35:27.460 --> 0:35:30.530
<v Speaker 1>can't have it all, feminism's failed

0:35:30.980 --> 0:35:31.340
<v Speaker 2>and

0:35:31.340 --> 0:35:34.790
<v Speaker 1>that it's not compatible having a high powered job with

0:35:34.790 --> 0:35:37.620
<v Speaker 1>a young family, can you speak to that?

0:35:37.790 --> 0:35:40.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're so right, that is the other thing that

0:35:40.320 --> 0:35:43.900
<v Speaker 2>people immediately reach for. It is hard to have a

0:35:43.900 --> 0:35:47.520
<v Speaker 2>high powered career and a family, it is difficult and

0:35:47.530 --> 0:35:50.400
<v Speaker 2>I think, you know, when people say you can have

0:35:50.400 --> 0:35:51.870
<v Speaker 2>it all, but you can't have it all at once,

0:35:51.880 --> 0:35:55.760
<v Speaker 2>you can, it just takes an enormous amount of juggling

0:35:55.760 --> 0:35:59.100
<v Speaker 2>and it takes an enormous amount of assistance and other

0:35:59.100 --> 0:35:59.200
<v Speaker 2>p

0:35:59.210 --> 0:36:03.250
<v Speaker 2>people kind of chipping in to help. So, for example,

0:36:03.260 --> 0:36:06.220
<v Speaker 2>my boy's father is really good at chipping in and

0:36:06.220 --> 0:36:09.140
<v Speaker 2>doing what's needed to help care for the boys or

0:36:09.150 --> 0:36:11.450
<v Speaker 2>suddenly being called on to have to change his plans

0:36:11.450 --> 0:36:13.090
<v Speaker 2>because a major story is broken and I have to

0:36:13.090 --> 0:36:15.920
<v Speaker 2>go to work, I've had the same nanny for almost

0:36:15.920 --> 0:36:20.630
<v Speaker 2>their entire lives who is just the most extraordinary person

0:36:20.810 --> 0:36:23.080
<v Speaker 2>and you know, I can leave the kids with her

0:36:23.080 --> 0:36:25.690
<v Speaker 2>and I feel as assured as if they're with me,

0:36:25.700 --> 0:36:29.380
<v Speaker 2>my great close friends, Annabelle crab and Gwen and Miranda

0:36:29.380 --> 0:36:30.140
<v Speaker 2>Murphy and

0:36:30.520 --> 0:36:34.040
<v Speaker 2>people like that who have been around to help me

0:36:34.050 --> 0:36:37.840
<v Speaker 2>when something unexpected happens and I can't keep all of

0:36:37.840 --> 0:36:39.650
<v Speaker 2>the balls in the air and they swoop in to

0:36:39.660 --> 0:36:42.440
<v Speaker 2>assist with a kid or do whatever. Or my friend

0:36:42.440 --> 0:36:44.140
<v Speaker 2>Nick who drove around on short notice the other day

0:36:44.140 --> 0:36:46.290
<v Speaker 2>because my car wouldn't start, the battery was flat and

0:36:46.300 --> 0:36:48.250
<v Speaker 2>you know, whatever he was doing, he just put aside

0:36:48.250 --> 0:36:50.690
<v Speaker 2>to replace my car battery two days after the bloody

0:36:50.690 --> 0:36:51.610
<v Speaker 2>federal election.

0:36:51.620 --> 0:36:54.160
<v Speaker 2>So it takes all of that you have to have,

0:36:54.160 --> 0:36:55.900
<v Speaker 2>you can't just have plan a, you've got to have

0:36:55.900 --> 0:36:58.400
<v Speaker 2>three or that plan h especially when you're a single

0:36:58.400 --> 0:37:02.220
<v Speaker 2>mother and so you know, that is difficult, but you

0:37:02.220 --> 0:37:04.360
<v Speaker 2>can do it. But I think what you have to

0:37:04.360 --> 0:37:06.210
<v Speaker 2>think about is and I've spent a lot of time

0:37:06.210 --> 0:37:09.090
<v Speaker 2>in the past 18 months thinking about is what do

0:37:09.090 --> 0:37:12.730
<v Speaker 2>you want your life to look like? And

0:37:12.920 --> 0:37:15.780
<v Speaker 2>what I don't want my life to look like is

0:37:15.780 --> 0:37:18.770
<v Speaker 2>the level of stress that it's had for the past

0:37:18.780 --> 0:37:22.680
<v Speaker 2>decade really, while I've had the kids, which is I

0:37:22.680 --> 0:37:24.340
<v Speaker 2>wake up every morning. I feel like I'm in a

0:37:24.340 --> 0:37:27.780
<v Speaker 2>hurry constantly. I wonder what I'm forgetting stuff falls out

0:37:27.780 --> 0:37:30.300
<v Speaker 2>of my brain all the time. I'm not fast at

0:37:30.300 --> 0:37:33.020
<v Speaker 2>responding to my friends text messages. I don't see enough

0:37:33.020 --> 0:37:35.500
<v Speaker 2>of my friends. I want to, I get home from work,

0:37:35.510 --> 0:37:37.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm tired. The kids are now at an age where

0:37:37.240 --> 0:37:38.920
<v Speaker 2>they want to talk when I get home from work,

0:37:38.930 --> 0:37:41.140
<v Speaker 2>they get the dregs of me because I get home

0:37:41.140 --> 0:37:44.890
<v Speaker 2>late and so I'm knackered and so I don't want

0:37:44.890 --> 0:37:48.660
<v Speaker 2>to operate like that anymore. I've been able to do

0:37:48.660 --> 0:37:51.410
<v Speaker 2>it and I could keep doing it, but I actually

0:37:51.410 --> 0:37:54.950
<v Speaker 2>don't want to do that anymore. So it's that thing

0:37:54.950 --> 0:37:58.170
<v Speaker 2>of identifying, you know, what's important to you, what do

0:37:58.170 --> 0:38:00.270
<v Speaker 2>you want your life to look like? This is of

0:38:00.270 --> 0:38:03.230
<v Speaker 2>course a luxurious position to be in because some people

0:38:03.370 --> 0:38:04.900
<v Speaker 2>I need to earn this amount of,

0:38:05.040 --> 0:38:07.130
<v Speaker 2>because I have to put food on the table for

0:38:07.130 --> 0:38:10.070
<v Speaker 2>my kids and those are calculations, I have to make

0:38:10.070 --> 0:38:13.870
<v Speaker 2>two again because I'm a single mother, I can't just go, oh,

0:38:13.870 --> 0:38:16.010
<v Speaker 2>I'd like to just step away and have a suite

0:38:16.010 --> 0:38:18.580
<v Speaker 2>of projects. Like I kind of need a salary job.

0:38:18.580 --> 0:38:22.100
<v Speaker 2>So I know what I'm doing. I can't take huge risks.

0:38:22.110 --> 0:38:23.800
<v Speaker 2>You know, I can't kind of go out and just

0:38:23.800 --> 0:38:27.600
<v Speaker 2>make look three my thing. The other point I make around,

0:38:27.600 --> 0:38:30.950
<v Speaker 2>they're having it all kind of thing is that

0:38:31.360 --> 0:38:34.160
<v Speaker 2>most women, I know we have conversations a lot about

0:38:34.160 --> 0:38:38.100
<v Speaker 2>getting women into more senior roles in workplaces. Most women

0:38:38.100 --> 0:38:40.840
<v Speaker 2>I know feel like we barely have our heads above

0:38:40.840 --> 0:38:44.790
<v Speaker 2>water juggling all of our existing responsibilities. And so the

0:38:44.790 --> 0:38:47.670
<v Speaker 2>last thing we want is to take on more responsibility

0:38:47.670 --> 0:38:49.870
<v Speaker 2>at work and that's because it's really

0:38:49.880 --> 0:38:52.600
<v Speaker 2>hard to juggle that with our home responsibilities. There was

0:38:52.600 --> 0:38:55.200
<v Speaker 2>an amazing piece last week in the paper that had

0:38:55.200 --> 0:38:59.490
<v Speaker 2>some research around the way that home responsibilities have altered

0:38:59.490 --> 0:39:01.720
<v Speaker 2>and when you looked at was broken down into two things,

0:39:01.720 --> 0:39:05.680
<v Speaker 2>one was caring for the Children and amazingly that had

0:39:05.690 --> 0:39:08.390
<v Speaker 2>almost equalized between men and women.

0:39:08.700 --> 0:39:14.080
<v Speaker 2>What was still unbelievably disproportionate on women was mental load

0:39:14.090 --> 0:39:18.780
<v Speaker 2>of running the house and organizing children's activities. So, and

0:39:18.780 --> 0:39:20.590
<v Speaker 2>you know, I think a lot of people would relate

0:39:20.590 --> 0:39:23.480
<v Speaker 2>to this that your partner or your husband will be

0:39:23.490 --> 0:39:25.590
<v Speaker 2>awesome at taking the kids to network or whatever as

0:39:25.590 --> 0:39:27.180
<v Speaker 2>long as you tell them and you have enrolled the

0:39:27.180 --> 0:39:31.310
<v Speaker 2>kids in netball, so you just have to still run everything.

0:39:31.320 --> 0:39:33.900
<v Speaker 2>And so that was, I think it was something like 80%

0:39:33.900 --> 0:39:34.080
<v Speaker 2>of the

0:39:34.090 --> 0:39:38.530
<v Speaker 2>shitloads still fell predominantly on two and any women listening

0:39:38.530 --> 0:39:43.000
<v Speaker 2>to this will know how full on and draining and

0:39:43.000 --> 0:39:46.750
<v Speaker 2>exhausting that is like I was sitting at the logistics

0:39:46.750 --> 0:39:48.710
<v Speaker 2>and I actually mentioned it to Justin my boss was

0:39:48.710 --> 0:39:50.960
<v Speaker 2>sitting next to me, I was sitting at my table

0:39:50.960 --> 0:39:54.200
<v Speaker 2>at the logistics, texting my nanny to the grocery list

0:39:54.200 --> 0:39:55.860
<v Speaker 2>of what could I get to pick up the next

0:39:55.860 --> 0:39:58.500
<v Speaker 2>day and giving her the plan for the morning for

0:39:58.500 --> 0:39:59.470
<v Speaker 2>school drop

0:39:59.770 --> 0:40:02.330
<v Speaker 2>as I'm sitting at the login because that was the

0:40:02.330 --> 0:40:05.580
<v Speaker 2>first window I had to actually do that. I think

0:40:05.580 --> 0:40:08.400
<v Speaker 2>that's you know the kind of thing that women relate

0:40:08.400 --> 0:40:11.700
<v Speaker 2>to that that's your brain is ticking the entire time

0:40:11.700 --> 0:40:14.600
<v Speaker 2>about okay what have I got to do to do that?

0:40:14.600 --> 0:40:16.630
<v Speaker 2>And it's really exhausting.

0:40:16.640 --> 0:40:21.020
<v Speaker 1>My favorite stories from women are the ones where worlds collide.

0:40:21.030 --> 0:40:23.880
<v Speaker 1>I know there's a story about when you were pregnant

0:40:23.890 --> 0:40:26.280
<v Speaker 1>and interviewing Penny wong.

0:40:26.920 --> 0:40:27.900
<v Speaker 2>Oh

0:40:28.600 --> 0:40:31.170
<v Speaker 2>so actually I had two funny things with Penny both

0:40:31.170 --> 0:40:32.940
<v Speaker 2>times when I've been pregnant. So the first time I

0:40:32.940 --> 0:40:36.290
<v Speaker 2>was pregnant I was at the midwinter ball in camera.

0:40:36.290 --> 0:40:38.910
<v Speaker 2>Parliament House hadn't announced it publicly yet. And I was

0:40:38.910 --> 0:40:41.010
<v Speaker 2>sitting next to Penny and her partner was sitting on

0:40:41.010 --> 0:40:41.980
<v Speaker 2>her other side.

0:40:42.260 --> 0:40:44.220
<v Speaker 2>And when I announced a few weeks later that I

0:40:44.220 --> 0:40:46.260
<v Speaker 2>was pregnant, Penny rang me and she said I knew

0:40:46.260 --> 0:40:49.430
<v Speaker 2>that you were pregnant because you and Sophie were pushing

0:40:49.430 --> 0:40:53.190
<v Speaker 2>away identical food on your plate and she was expecting

0:40:53.190 --> 0:40:55.690
<v Speaker 2>her first child as well. And she said I looked

0:40:55.690 --> 0:40:57.440
<v Speaker 2>at what Sophie and it was also a secret. So

0:40:57.440 --> 0:40:59.340
<v Speaker 2>I looked at Sophie was doing what you were doing

0:40:59.340 --> 0:41:02.370
<v Speaker 2>and I thought she's pregnant and she said I didn't

0:41:02.370 --> 0:41:05.350
<v Speaker 2>say anything because I didn't want to breach your privacy

0:41:05.350 --> 0:41:08.110
<v Speaker 2>but I knew it. Anyway then when I was pregnant

0:41:08.120 --> 0:41:10.550
<v Speaker 2>with James. So a couple of years later,

0:41:10.960 --> 0:41:13.920
<v Speaker 2>I interviewed Penny and I forget who her counterpart was

0:41:13.920 --> 0:41:15.980
<v Speaker 2>at the time, she was in government at the time,

0:41:15.990 --> 0:41:18.460
<v Speaker 2>and the start of the interview slightly delayed because I

0:41:18.460 --> 0:41:20.440
<v Speaker 2>felt sick and then I had to do the interview

0:41:20.440 --> 0:41:22.330
<v Speaker 2>with a bucket in the studio next to me, I

0:41:22.330 --> 0:41:24.950
<v Speaker 2>felt like I was going to be sick, and Penny

0:41:24.950 --> 0:41:29.000
<v Speaker 2>rang me afterwards and she said, you know, and I

0:41:29.000 --> 0:41:30.850
<v Speaker 2>know that you're pregnant again.

0:41:33.560 --> 0:41:36.710
<v Speaker 2>I was catching myself, I was going, Penny literally both

0:41:36.710 --> 0:41:41.920
<v Speaker 2>times that I've been pregnant mother because

0:41:41.920 --> 0:41:45.180
<v Speaker 1>didn't you have to say to Penny, look if the

0:41:45.180 --> 0:41:47.810
<v Speaker 1>vision cuts out, keep talking,

0:41:47.980 --> 0:41:49.910
<v Speaker 1>I'm just having to have a little vomit.

0:41:49.920 --> 0:41:52.070
<v Speaker 2>I was like you guys have to just keep it

0:41:52.070 --> 0:41:55.750
<v Speaker 2>going and you'll see me disappear, they'll kill my mic

0:41:55.760 --> 0:41:57.430
<v Speaker 2>and then I'll come back in that you're going to

0:41:57.430 --> 0:41:59.690
<v Speaker 2>have to just keep it kind of going, you know,

0:41:59.690 --> 0:42:01.450
<v Speaker 2>the perils of live television,

0:42:01.460 --> 0:42:03.360
<v Speaker 1>Did you ever have to do that?

0:42:03.370 --> 0:42:06.800
<v Speaker 2>No, I haven't ever thrown up on air. It's a

0:42:06.800 --> 0:42:08.160
<v Speaker 2>constant terror actually with

0:42:08.180 --> 0:42:10.820
<v Speaker 2>the kids because you know, young kids always have gastro

0:42:10.820 --> 0:42:13.050
<v Speaker 2>and stuff. I remember one time, you know how many

0:42:13.050 --> 0:42:15.350
<v Speaker 2>kids are young and they have gastro, I hope I'm

0:42:15.350 --> 0:42:17.190
<v Speaker 2>not the only evil person that thinks this, but I'll

0:42:17.190 --> 0:42:20.160
<v Speaker 2>often think when they're being sick, I'll be like feeling

0:42:20.160 --> 0:42:22.090
<v Speaker 2>the pits of despair thinking God I'm going to have

0:42:22.090 --> 0:42:24.050
<v Speaker 2>this in 12 hours and it's just

0:42:24.060 --> 0:42:25.520
<v Speaker 1>like you know you're

0:42:25.520 --> 0:42:28.370
<v Speaker 2>Getting it definitely. So I remember one

0:42:28.580 --> 0:42:30.760
<v Speaker 2>the kids both had gastro and so I was like

0:42:30.770 --> 0:42:33.800
<v Speaker 2>well this is going to be striking any moment, right?

0:42:33.810 --> 0:42:36.540
<v Speaker 2>So you're always worried live television if you know there's

0:42:36.540 --> 0:42:38.920
<v Speaker 2>about a gastro looming. Anyway, I got home at about

0:42:38.920 --> 0:42:41.200
<v Speaker 2>9 15, I started feeling really sick and then I

0:42:41.200 --> 0:42:44.930
<v Speaker 2>was really crook. I remembered I texted Justin and said

0:42:44.930 --> 0:42:47.390
<v Speaker 2>yeah I've got it but it's 9 15

0:42:49.660 --> 0:42:50.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm out the other

0:42:50.600 --> 0:42:55.480
<v Speaker 2>side, so to speak. It's going to be such a

0:42:55.480 --> 0:42:58.070
<v Speaker 2>pleasure to kind of be able to live my life

0:42:58.070 --> 0:42:59.950
<v Speaker 2>and not be worried that I'm going to throw up

0:42:59.950 --> 0:43:02.830
<v Speaker 2>on live tv it's going to be good in

0:43:02.830 --> 0:43:05.720
<v Speaker 1>terms of the demands of the way things have changed,

0:43:05.730 --> 0:43:09.160
<v Speaker 1>not just with twitter but with people not tolerating other

0:43:09.160 --> 0:43:11.350
<v Speaker 1>points of view because that's a new thing

0:43:11.550 --> 0:43:14.130
<v Speaker 1>it used to be, I disagree with you now I

0:43:14.130 --> 0:43:16.960
<v Speaker 1>disagree with you, you must apologize and take it down

0:43:16.960 --> 0:43:20.190
<v Speaker 1>or delete it from the public record.

0:43:20.640 --> 0:43:23.590
<v Speaker 1>Have you noticed a big shift in that we're just

0:43:23.590 --> 0:43:26.790
<v Speaker 1>not able to tolerate opinions, we don't agree with any more.

0:43:26.800 --> 0:43:31.420
<v Speaker 2>Yeah and I find it fundamentally disturbing and because I

0:43:31.420 --> 0:43:35.120
<v Speaker 2>believe in free speech, I think it's really, really concerning

0:43:35.120 --> 0:43:37.360
<v Speaker 2>that you can't just go well I disagree with that

0:43:37.370 --> 0:43:41.650
<v Speaker 2>but whatever or even hateful opinions that you wouldn't just

0:43:41.650 --> 0:43:43.260
<v Speaker 2>go well I disagree with that and

0:43:43.440 --> 0:43:46.100
<v Speaker 2>your head, but you're right to believe whatever nonsense you

0:43:46.100 --> 0:43:49.160
<v Speaker 2>want to believe. The other thing I find really disturbing

0:43:49.160 --> 0:43:52.730
<v Speaker 2>is so we have a very, when I say we

0:43:52.750 --> 0:43:54.650
<v Speaker 2>really what we're talking about again is the kind of

0:43:54.650 --> 0:43:58.200
<v Speaker 2>cancel culture mob on twitter. There's a very low bar

0:43:58.200 --> 0:44:03.070
<v Speaker 2>for mistakes. So you misspeak you word something awkwardly, you

0:44:03.070 --> 0:44:05.840
<v Speaker 2>can find yourself at the end of a gigantic pile

0:44:05.840 --> 0:44:06.250
<v Speaker 2>on

0:44:06.400 --> 0:44:09.180
<v Speaker 2>and that can happen like that. There can be real

0:44:09.180 --> 0:44:11.680
<v Speaker 2>world consequences for that. We've seen it over and over again.

0:44:11.680 --> 0:44:14.720
<v Speaker 2>Universities accept people or magazines have sacked people. It doesn't

0:44:14.720 --> 0:44:17.390
<v Speaker 2>matter what their record is, they could have an immaculate record,

0:44:17.390 --> 0:44:20.350
<v Speaker 2>but one misstep you're out the door. So

0:44:20.610 --> 0:44:23.970
<v Speaker 2>even when people apologize now we don't, forgiveness is very

0:44:23.970 --> 0:44:27.750
<v Speaker 2>hard one. So it's a low bar for being canceled.

0:44:27.750 --> 0:44:30.600
<v Speaker 2>It's a high bar to be forgiven. And for people

0:44:30.600 --> 0:44:32.950
<v Speaker 2>to give like I sometimes wonder whatever happened that's saying

0:44:32.950 --> 0:44:36.140
<v Speaker 2>the benefit of the doubt. Like, oh yes, you know me,

0:44:36.140 --> 0:44:38.200
<v Speaker 2>you said something a bit clumsy or lee said something

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<v Speaker 2>a bit clumsy. Generally speaking, we know her to be

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<v Speaker 2>a person of good character who's done a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>good in the world and so therefore we give her

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<v Speaker 2>the

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<v Speaker 2>benefit of the doubt, whereas now it's like, no, sorry

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<v Speaker 2>you are a sexist or you are a racist or

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<v Speaker 2>you are a bigot or whatever it is that gets

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<v Speaker 2>directed at you. So I feel like if we're going

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<v Speaker 2>to have these very stringent standards that we hold people to,

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<v Speaker 2>surely we have to have a willingness to forgive people

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<v Speaker 2>and give people space to be human. Because what it's

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<v Speaker 2>going to do is it's going to discourage people from

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<v Speaker 2>doing jobs like mine because

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<v Speaker 2>when you're on live television or even doing an interview

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<v Speaker 2>like this, you and I have been talking off the

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<v Speaker 2>top of our head for the best part of 45

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<v Speaker 2>minutes as a human being, you can't be certain in

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<v Speaker 2>that period of time that you're not going to say

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<v Speaker 2>something that offends somebody or that you're not actually going

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<v Speaker 2>to say something offensive, you might actually make a mistake

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<v Speaker 2>and say something wrong. So if we get to the

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<v Speaker 2>point where society is so censorious of people that were

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<v Speaker 2>we're all scared to even say a word for fear

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<v Speaker 2>of offending somebody, we're going to be in a very

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<v Speaker 2>bad place. And so I'm hoping somehow that we're going

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<v Speaker 2>to have some kind of correction to some of the

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<v Speaker 2>stuff we've seen happen of course some of the stuff

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<v Speaker 2>we've seen happen is valuable because you want to call

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<v Speaker 2>out sexism and racism and all kinds of stuff, what

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<v Speaker 2>we don't want to do is

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<v Speaker 2>have these just gigantic bullying episodes of people that do

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<v Speaker 2>incredible harm. I recommend everyone read Jon ronson's book. So

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<v Speaker 2>you've been publicly shamed, which talks about the consequences on

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<v Speaker 2>people who even when they've done stupid things. Find themselves

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<v Speaker 2>with lynch mobs after online. It's really disturbing and it's

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<v Speaker 2>a sad trend

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<v Speaker 1>just finally because I know you have to go and

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<v Speaker 1>do your day job, I know you're working on a

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<v Speaker 1>speech about the things you've learned about human nature, off

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<v Speaker 1>the top of your head. What have been some of

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<v Speaker 1>the more unexpected things that you've learned?

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<v Speaker 2>I think that humans are unbelievably adaptable and the things

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<v Speaker 2>that you think if that happened to me, I'd never

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<v Speaker 2>survive that I wouldn't be I'd rather be dead than

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<v Speaker 2>that happened to me. Almost everyone that you talked to

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<v Speaker 2>who's experienced something that you yourself in your head would

0:46:46.160 --> 0:46:49.430
<v Speaker 2>think that that's not how people feel when it actually

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<v Speaker 2>happens to them. Humans are unbelievably adaptable and resilient.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of truisms that actually aren't true, like

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<v Speaker 2>for example, hard work pays off. There's many examples in

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<v Speaker 2>life where people have worked incredibly hard and just because

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<v Speaker 2>of luck or happenstance or wrong timing, the hard work

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<v Speaker 2>hasn't paid off. So the thing that's coming to my

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<v Speaker 2>mind is Hillary Clinton, she runs in o a it's

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<v Speaker 2>Barack Obama once in a lifetime amazing candidates. So she's

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<v Speaker 2>an amazing candidate. She's worked really hard, it just didn't

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<v Speaker 2>pay off happens all the time in politics as well,

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<v Speaker 2>where you might have,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, everyone on both sides, the winning and the

0:47:22.800 --> 0:47:25.940
<v Speaker 2>losing side is working incredibly hard, but one side is

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<v Speaker 2>still going to be the losing side and then Hillary

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<v Speaker 2>clinton again of course with donald trump. So

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<v Speaker 2>there's that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger? I

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<v Speaker 2>don't actually necessarily believe that to be true. I think

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes people are permanently weakened by things that happen to

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<v Speaker 2>them and just profoundly changed by the burdens that life

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<v Speaker 2>kind of puts on them. I think it makes you

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<v Speaker 2>different I think rather than stronger. So I think they

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<v Speaker 2>would be the probably most unexpected things. There's probably

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<v Speaker 2>some, I mean I don't know that this is unexpected,

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<v Speaker 2>but just things like if you want to achieve highly

0:48:04.010 --> 0:48:06.980
<v Speaker 2>and reach goals, we all know that that's going to

0:48:06.980 --> 0:48:09.720
<v Speaker 2>involve probably failure. Like you have to be prepared to

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<v Speaker 2>embrace failure.

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<v Speaker 2>But I also think working at your capacity means you

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<v Speaker 2>have to be prepared that most of the time you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to be operating in a space that makes you

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<v Speaker 2>uncomfortable because you're always at the limits of what you're

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<v Speaker 2>capable of doing and that's not a very comfortable place

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<v Speaker 2>to operate so many times in my job, I feel uncomfortable,

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<v Speaker 2>like anxious, scared, fearful because I'm operating right at the

0:48:32.670 --> 0:48:33.380
<v Speaker 2>limits of what I'm

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<v Speaker 2>capable of doing and so I think you have to

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<v Speaker 2>be prepared to embrace that and understand that this is

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<v Speaker 2>going to come with feeling uncomfortable, but the feeling at

0:48:42.580 --> 0:48:45.010
<v Speaker 2>the other side of having done it is great because

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<v Speaker 2>partly relief because you get away from the feeling of discomfort,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's also that sense of accomplishment that I pushed

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<v Speaker 2>through those kind of hard feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have a catheter in on election night?

0:48:55.620 --> 0:48:58.450
<v Speaker 2>I did not have a catheter in but I wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>drinking water from about 1:00. The only way to get

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<v Speaker 2>through it, I'm afraid

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<v Speaker 2>because you're on for so long, you know, it was

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<v Speaker 2>about six hours this time. It's been six hours every

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<v Speaker 2>time I've hosted it and it just seems we can't

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<v Speaker 2>have a quick election these days. And so Annabelle and

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<v Speaker 2>I often talk about limiting, literally limiting our fluid intake

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<v Speaker 1>like bodybuilders,

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<v Speaker 2>Bodybuilders. Exactly, We look really buff by the end of

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<v Speaker 2>election night, me and Annabelle

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<v Speaker 1>really good muscle definition, that's why you do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you, I thank you. And if twitter's done

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<v Speaker 1>one thing in its life, it's introduced me to you,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how we became friends. So

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly, yeah. And you know, it did in the early days, twitter,

0:49:42.450 --> 0:49:45.100
<v Speaker 2>it was wonderful for all the kind of eclectic people

0:49:45.100 --> 0:49:47.200
<v Speaker 2>that you met that you wouldn't have come across, you know,

0:49:47.200 --> 0:49:49.790
<v Speaker 2>and so yeah, I'll always be grateful for that too.

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<v Speaker 2>I made some beautiful friends out of twitter. You chief

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<v Speaker 2>among

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<v Speaker 1>them. I love you, I

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<v Speaker 2>love you.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you love that? That's lee sales. Ladies and gentlemen,

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<v Speaker 1>one of my favorite lee stories is that after she

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<v Speaker 1>interviewed Shane warne, I don't know if you saw that interview.

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<v Speaker 1>It was replayed just after he died recently and she

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<v Speaker 1>knows nothing about sports. But still she really found him

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<v Speaker 1>to be so engaging. They got on really, really well.

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<v Speaker 1>And you can see that through the interview. Like he's

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<v Speaker 1>a bit

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<v Speaker 1>reticent at first, like he's kind of like, what does

0:50:23.560 --> 0:50:25.570
<v Speaker 1>she want to talk to me about? But part of

0:50:25.570 --> 0:50:29.040
<v Speaker 1>her skill as an interviewer is immediately putting people at

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<v Speaker 1>ease whether they're Shane warne or a prime Minister during

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<v Speaker 1>an election campaign or a treasurer on budget night or

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<v Speaker 1>someone who's just experienced an enormous tragedy.

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<v Speaker 1>So this report, she develops with her subjects often carries

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<v Speaker 1>on and she tells the funniest story about how she

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<v Speaker 1>and Shane, I think they were both promoting books at

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<v Speaker 1>the same time. She was promoting any ordinary day and

0:50:53.900 --> 0:50:56.740
<v Speaker 1>Shane was promoting, I don't know, he'd probably written an

0:50:56.750 --> 0:50:57.700
<v Speaker 1>autobiography

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<v Speaker 1>and so they would have these text banters about who

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<v Speaker 1>could sign the most amount of books in the shortest

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<v Speaker 1>amount of time and they have to do these book

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<v Speaker 1>signings and they'd just be like trying to beat each

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<v Speaker 1>other because lee is also very, very competitive. I hope

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<v Speaker 1>you enjoyed that. You know where to find lee she's

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<v Speaker 1>on the television, she's on a podcast. Please buy that

0:51:17.410 --> 0:51:19.460
<v Speaker 1>book if you haven't already. Please buy that book for

0:51:19.460 --> 0:51:21.740
<v Speaker 1>someone who might have suddenly experienced

0:51:22.010 --> 0:51:25.770
<v Speaker 1>a tragedy or a sudden change in their life. I

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<v Speaker 1>was sort of dreading reading it because it sounded really

0:51:29.210 --> 0:51:33.260
<v Speaker 1>grim interviewing people like walter macaque after he lost his

0:51:33.260 --> 0:51:36.310
<v Speaker 1>wife and his Children at Port Arthur or people who

0:51:36.310 --> 0:51:40.280
<v Speaker 1>had suddenly lost loved ones in awful circumstances. But it

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<v Speaker 1>was actually

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<v Speaker 1>I had to read it obviously because she was my friend.

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<v Speaker 1>But then I just loved it. It was so engaging,

0:51:47.050 --> 0:51:51.530
<v Speaker 1>it was so conversational and you saw a side of

0:51:51.530 --> 0:51:54.320
<v Speaker 1>lee that most people don't see. But also she just

0:51:54.320 --> 0:51:58.070
<v Speaker 1>brought such humanity and nuance and context to these stories.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just a beautiful, beautiful book.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, no filter is produced by lots of people at

0:52:06.070 --> 0:52:08.910
<v Speaker 1>the moment because Liz Ratliff, who is the executive producer

0:52:08.910 --> 0:52:12.090
<v Speaker 1>is away. So it's been a cast of thousands involved

0:52:12.090 --> 0:52:14.470
<v Speaker 1>in this one and I'm grateful to every single one

0:52:14.470 --> 0:52:14.950
<v Speaker 1>of them.

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